REAL AF with Andy Frisella - September 09, 2018


SUNDAY SERMON： Beer, Bulldogs, Burt Reynolds, & Becoming a Better, More Balanced Person, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO263

Topics
balance in leadership balance of leadership
Hosted by
Andy Frisella
Mentioned
Rudy Dude Michelob Oscar Lila Bush Chris DeBrock Von Jovi Kasha Tyler Drew Ryan Cannonball Run Carmela Gosler Burt Reynolds Adam Sandler Carly Damuth Tom Reichert Von Diesel Von Halen and 8 more
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Misogyny

22

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Toxicity

234

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24

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On this episode of the MFCEO Project, DJ God and Andy talk about the passing of Burt Reynolds, Coors Light, and the fact that we're getting old. Also, we talk about a bunch of other stuff.

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00:00:00.280 If you want to make your dream become reality, the people that are running after their dream know they're going to have hard times.
00:00:06.860 They keep on running because they're saying within themselves, I'm the one. I'm the one.
00:00:12.080 No matter how bad it is or how bad it gets, I'm going to make it.
00:00:17.380 What is up, guys? You're listening to the MFCEO Project. I'm Andy. I'm your host.
00:00:22.060 And I am here for the Sunday sermon.
00:00:25.400 Cue the effing church music. I'm just saying.
00:00:28.880 As always, I'm joined by my co-host who is massively, and I mean massively, important to the Sunday sermon episodes and all the other episodes, besides the ones he's not on, of the MFCEO Project.
00:00:45.960 The pastor of Disaster, DJ DJ God.
00:00:52.120 What's going on?
00:00:53.540 John, what is it?
00:00:55.700 Von Jovi.
00:00:56.760 Von Jovi.
00:00:57.460 Von Halen.
00:00:58.880 Von Diesel.
00:01:00.300 The man of many names.
00:01:01.900 Yeah.
00:01:02.480 That's what I'm going to start calling you. The man of many names.
00:01:04.560 The man of many names.
00:01:05.940 So, the man of many names. What's going on with you, dude?
00:01:10.460 Things are busy. Exciting.
00:01:14.840 We've got some pretty exciting things coming up here in your life and mine, right?
00:01:18.380 Yeah, yeah. For sure.
00:01:19.320 Getting ready to fly to Idaho to do our first Arte Syndicate Summit, which is our highest level business group that we run with Ed Milet.
00:01:31.740 We're excited to do this first summit. I'm really excited to get to know everybody and meet everybody, and I'm really excited to see what's going to come out of it.
00:01:40.260 Yeah. Did you hear the bad news today? The sad news?
00:01:43.060 Dude, Burt Reynolds.
00:01:44.140 Yeah. 1.00
00:01:44.560 What the fuck? 1.00
00:01:45.260 Yeah. 1.00
00:01:45.940 Dude, I knew what you were talking about because it bummed me out.
00:01:48.220 The young bucks aren't going to know.
00:01:49.360 No, man. It's fucking Smokey and the Bandit. 1.00
00:01:52.300 Right. 0.99
00:01:52.580 You know, dude, that was like one of the shows that got me into cars.
00:01:58.220 Well, I wondered if you were also a fan of Cannonball Run.
00:02:00.820 Yeah, dude. And then what else was he in? He was in...
00:02:03.680 Best Little Whorehouse in Texas, which I never saw. 1.00
00:02:06.420 No, no, no. I didn't watch that.
00:02:07.300 Yeah.
00:02:07.800 Come on now.
00:02:08.420 Yeah.
00:02:09.300 I know you watched it, though.
00:02:10.660 The Longest Yard.
00:02:11.560 The Longest Yard. That's a recent movie he was in.
00:02:13.540 Well, remember that was a remake?
00:02:15.180 Yeah, but he was in the remake, too.
00:02:16.580 He was in the remake, too.
00:02:17.540 Yeah, yeah, yeah. With Adam Sandler.
00:02:19.540 Dude, that guy...
00:02:20.080 He's OG.
00:02:20.700 He's iconic, man.
00:02:21.580 Yeah.
00:02:21.920 That's kind of sad.
00:02:22.800 He's got the mustache and the iconic 70s hair. 0.97
00:02:25.400 Yeah, and I usually don't say, like, damn, dude, that guy's dying when it's a celebrity, 1.00
00:02:29.880 but, like, fuck, damn, man. 1.00
00:02:31.260 Yeah. That's a big deal. 1.00
00:02:32.980 For Reynolds.
00:02:34.320 I mean, you're not as old as I am, but for guys that are even remotely close, he's kind
00:02:38.820 of OG.
00:02:39.460 Dude, I want to...
00:02:40.500 He's been dying is the realization that, oh, wow.
00:02:42.640 We're getting old.
00:02:43.320 We're getting a little old.
00:02:44.020 Dude, I want to get a semi-truck like the one he had in Smoking the Bandit with the mural
00:02:50.240 on the side.
00:02:50.860 Dude, you know what they were hauling in that movie, right?
00:02:55.260 No.
00:02:55.380 Coors Light.
00:02:56.040 Oh, Coors Light.
00:02:56.740 Coors Light, which happens to be my beer of choice.
00:02:58.740 So youngins out there... 0.99
00:03:00.380 And now all these fucking snobs that listen right now are like, oh, Andy, that's not a 1.00
00:03:03.780 real fucking beer. 1.00
00:03:04.740 Right. 1.00
00:03:04.920 Like, all these motherfuckers, they yell at me anytime I post a Coors Light like I'm some 1.00
00:03:10.440 sort of peasant. 1.00
00:03:11.240 Well, you know what? 1.00
00:03:11.940 I am a fucking peasant. 1.00
00:03:13.300 And I like Coors Light. 1.00
00:03:14.480 And if you've got to go drink a fucking craft beer to feel cool, then you ain't my fucking 1.00
00:03:19.840 kind of people. 1.00
00:03:20.480 Right.
00:03:20.900 Well, we're also in...
00:03:22.100 No.
00:03:22.420 Yeah.
00:03:23.960 True confessions.
00:03:25.060 I've literally never in my life had a Coors Light.
00:03:27.480 Well, we're going to have to change that.
00:03:28.940 Or a Bush.
00:03:30.220 Bush is not good.
00:03:31.240 Bush is like a...
00:03:31.840 Really?
00:03:32.340 Like a syrupy, corny taste in beer.
00:03:34.340 I don't like it.
00:03:34.720 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:03:35.180 What about Michelob?
00:03:37.060 What about Michelob?
00:03:38.400 Yeah.
00:03:39.240 Michelob, I think, is like golf beer.
00:03:41.360 Like, that's what I think of.
00:03:42.280 Like, when you go golfing, you're going to drink Michelob.
00:03:44.460 Well, I lost a bit...
00:03:45.380 It's funny.
00:03:45.800 This is a funny conversation.
00:03:47.100 Like, what do you think of...
00:03:47.800 Like, Tyler, what do you think of whenever you hear, like, Michelob?
00:03:51.260 Girls.
00:03:51.840 It's a very easy, smooth beer, so I like...
00:03:54.460 Not Michelob Ultra.
00:03:55.480 I'm just talking about Michelob.
00:03:56.380 Oh, Michelob.
00:03:57.980 I don't really see it being drank that much.
00:04:00.020 I see it...
00:04:00.500 You've seen, like, Country Club with my...
00:04:02.420 Yeah, it's like a golf beer.
00:04:03.320 Yeah, it is a very golf...
00:04:04.320 Like, it's got the weird bottle shape.
00:04:04.840 Yeah.
00:04:05.020 Like, does it still have that weird bottle shape?
00:04:06.700 I couldn't tell you.
00:04:07.400 Well, I lost a bet to Drew, and he wanted a couple cases of Michelob gold...
00:04:11.560 Yeah, but then you bought him two six-packs.
00:04:13.060 Yeah, he called them cases again.
00:04:15.720 Fun fact, everybody.
00:04:17.120 Vaughn does not know what a case of beer is. 0.99
00:04:19.840 Vaughn tells Drew that he buys him two cases of beer, and it's two fucking six-packs. 0.97
00:04:25.360 And we're like, where's the rest of it? 0.98
00:04:27.600 He's like, what are you talking about?
00:04:28.720 Those two cases right there.
00:04:30.020 There's like two little handles of six-packs.
00:04:32.200 So, for everyone listening, Vaughn is such a good guy.
00:04:36.580 He doesn't even know what a case of beer is.
00:04:37.980 Do you know, I went to a school that was so conservative that we jokingly had a root
00:04:41.560 beer keg party, but nobody knew how to open the keg. 0.98
00:04:44.880 Shut up, dude. 0.99
00:04:45.380 No, that's true. 1.00
00:04:46.480 Shut up. 1.00
00:04:46.820 It's actually true. 1.00
00:04:47.480 You're making that up.
00:04:48.120 No, I'm not.
00:04:48.720 Yeah, that's one of your dad jokes.
00:04:50.100 But back to Smokey and the Bandit, would you agree that those who have not seen that movie
00:04:53.560 who are too young need to go and get a hold of that movie?
00:04:55.800 Dude, that's when movies were movies.
00:04:57.240 Yeah, it was classic.
00:04:58.460 I mean, now it's like, oh, you know, how many special effects can I make and this and
00:05:02.420 that, and that's cool.
00:05:03.900 Cannonball Run's pretty darn good, too.
00:05:04.880 I feel like the storylines of older movies are better than now.
00:05:08.460 Oh, yeah.
00:05:08.960 Like, now it's-
00:05:10.880 Now it's you rely on CGI.
00:05:12.160 Dude, yeah, it's CGI, it's weak stories, you know, it's high sarcasm humor.
00:05:18.720 Which is like, you know, like, look at the commercials nowadays.
00:05:23.000 Like, how cheesy the sarcasm humor they try to go with.
00:05:25.720 Right.
00:05:26.020 Like, they're trying to be sarcastic and funny and, like, witty, but it's not funny.
00:05:30.460 Yep.
00:05:30.920 Like, I don't know.
00:05:33.560 I just feel like it was, like, it was, they had better stories then.
00:05:38.140 Yeah, I agree.
00:05:39.540 I agree.
00:05:40.540 So, what are we talking about?
00:05:41.520 Dude, so, I figured, what, I don't know.
00:05:47.320 Like, we don't really have an agenda today.
00:05:48.880 We could keep talking about smoking a bandit.
00:05:51.240 We could.
00:05:52.140 Yeah.
00:05:52.660 I think-
00:05:53.140 I don't know if we need to do it on this one, but people wanted me to tell the story about
00:05:56.220 how my dog saved my-
00:05:57.540 I think that's a great story.
00:05:59.160 Okay.
00:05:59.620 Yeah, tell it.
00:06:00.040 You know what we could talk about?
00:06:00.800 We could talk about how dogs teach us everything we need to know about being good people.
00:06:05.120 Well, you know what?
00:06:05.580 The one thing I was going to ask you was, like, out of all your years in the ministry
00:06:10.620 and what you did and, like, you've been around it your whole life, basically, you know, you
00:06:15.880 met a lot of good people, right?
00:06:17.920 Yeah.
00:06:18.140 And a lot of people that weren't so good.
00:06:19.860 Yeah.
00:06:20.380 And I was curious.
00:06:22.500 I'm just curious.
00:06:23.340 Like, when you-
00:06:27.300 Where do you rank on those people?
00:06:28.920 I don't, I'm not worried about that.
00:06:30.740 Dude, I don't answer to you or anybody else.
00:06:32.320 No, you don't.
00:06:32.860 Yeah, so I answer to God himself.
00:06:35.400 That's right.
00:06:35.800 And I'm okay with who I'm living.
00:06:38.040 I don't look for validation from other people.
00:06:40.600 No, I get it.
00:06:40.940 But, like, and you know I don't.
00:06:42.360 Yeah, yeah.
00:06:42.620 No, I know.
00:06:43.220 Like, and I think, I mean, I think it's an extremely valuable asset to have, honestly.
00:06:49.100 Yeah, it is.
00:06:49.720 It is.
00:06:50.180 And I actually, because you know that I struggle with that, you know?
00:06:54.100 So I like being around somebody who doesn't really care at all what people think about
00:06:58.860 them.
00:06:59.140 Yeah.
00:06:59.360 I mean, in a good way.
00:07:00.040 You know, you've talked about there's a good sense-
00:07:01.800 It makes you effective.
00:07:02.380 In a good sense, if, we should care insofar as we should want a good reputation.
00:07:08.100 Oh, no, for sure.
00:07:09.400 Yeah.
00:07:09.500 You care on the large scale.
00:07:11.420 Yeah.
00:07:11.540 You know, like, on the big scale, in the big scheme of things, you absolutely care.
00:07:17.340 Yeah. 0.99
00:07:17.480 But if I go on stage and say something stupid or mess up or, you know, or I curse too much 1.00
00:07:24.840 or whatever, I don't, I do not dwell on that shit. 1.00
00:07:27.960 No. 0.99
00:07:28.260 Like, it's just not something that bothers me.
00:07:30.560 It would be interesting to explore that topic a little bit, but I'll tell you something that
00:07:33.720 you might be surprised about.
00:07:34.780 So today, I was on the phone with Sprint, who's just the worst.
00:07:40.540 You know, I'm not going to lie.
00:07:41.720 I've had horrible, horrible experience with Sprint, you know?
00:07:44.980 And I was just getting the runaround for literally, like, close to an hour.
00:07:48.560 And we've got a lot going on.
00:07:50.540 And this very seldom happens, but, like, I lost it.
00:07:54.740 Like, I started literally- 0.98
00:07:56.260 You said, gosh darn it. 0.96
00:07:57.220 No, no. 0.98
00:07:58.300 I'm tired of waiting on this phone call.
00:08:00.240 Honestly, I lost it.
00:08:01.040 Like, I went off on this guy and I-
00:08:02.760 What's your going off?
00:08:04.200 Oh, I had a string of-
00:08:05.820 I used the F word a couple times.
00:08:07.160 No, you did not.
00:08:07.780 I did.
00:08:08.220 You did not.
00:08:08.840 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:08:09.060 I was actually-
00:08:09.840 Which one, food?
00:08:10.500 No.
00:08:11.540 Which one, Frank?
00:08:13.620 Fun?
00:08:14.180 For unlawful, carnal knowledge.
00:08:15.860 Yeah.
00:08:16.320 Yes.
00:08:16.740 And I used that and I used a host of other ones and I was really angry because I really
00:08:21.040 felt like I was getting the runaround. 0.73
00:08:22.180 Did you say, gosh darn it? 0.97
00:08:23.280 No. 0.98
00:08:23.780 Yes, you did.
00:08:24.280 No. 0.75
00:08:24.640 I didn't say Jesus or gosh darn it or anything like that.
00:08:26.940 I just, I was just very, very angry. 0.79
00:08:28.720 I just blew up.
00:08:29.860 But, uh, I got it done.
00:08:33.140 You know, and I got what I wanted done and I did feel bad and I apologize for getting
00:08:39.200 angry with him, but it took a lot and it is true. 0.63
00:08:42.720 Like, when you care about what other people think, sometimes you have legitimate rights
00:08:48.580 and legitimate things that you need to get done that you think, that sometimes you do
00:08:53.920 need to get harsh and sometimes you do need to get mean. 0.98
00:08:55.960 Sometimes you gotta fucking force it. 0.96
00:08:57.520 Yeah, and I don't think people understand that. 0.98
00:08:59.460 Well, no.
00:08:59.720 We're always told to think about other people.
00:09:01.820 After words, that's okay.
00:09:03.320 Apologize.
00:09:03.720 Yeah, yeah.
00:09:04.120 And say, hey bro, I'm sorry I said that, but here's the deal. 0.98
00:09:07.340 I gotta get this shit done. 0.98
00:09:08.580 Like, this is not a game. 0.99
00:09:09.780 Yeah.
00:09:10.000 You know, and I have other things I need to do and they're important and you guys kept
00:09:13.840 me on hold for an hour.
00:09:15.020 Right.
00:09:15.200 I didn't mean to personally insult you.
00:09:16.800 I'm more mad at the entire system here.
00:09:19.160 That's kind of what I said, basically.
00:09:20.140 You know, and that's it and I appreciate you getting it done for me.
00:09:22.820 Yeah.
00:09:23.000 But isn't it interesting that we assume we're taught so much to consider other people, which
00:09:28.180 is a good, obviously we've done that on this, on this podcast, but we've, we're taught so
00:09:32.960 much about serving other people that we sometimes forget that, you know what?
00:09:38.000 All of us have legitimate rights and we have legitimate things that expectations and it's
00:09:44.160 not wrong to know if those expectations are getting unjustly trampled on to stand up for
00:09:49.800 ourselves.
00:09:50.260 Dude.
00:09:50.440 And you know what?
00:09:51.640 That, that's like a balance, right?
00:09:53.600 Like right now I'm reading a really good book, dude, uh, by Jocko who we're going to get to
00:09:57.440 see next week.
00:09:58.140 That's awesome.
00:09:58.580 Uh, he's coming in on Wednesday, uh, which is, I am really excited about because I don't
00:10:02.740 really look up to people, um, you know, but he's a guy that I truly like genuinely respect.
00:10:10.600 You know what I mean?
00:10:11.600 And it's not a surprise that he's, he's someone that has served our country and that's why
00:10:16.460 you respect him so much.
00:10:17.920 Yeah.
00:10:18.440 But he's also, yes, I do.
00:10:19.940 And I respect anybody who's done that, but there's the guy understands leadership, right?
00:10:26.980 And he talks about, and I'm reading his new book.
00:10:28.720 He sent me a, a review copy and signed it, which I thought was totally cool.
00:10:32.740 Cause he didn't have to do that.
00:10:33.660 Yeah.
00:10:33.800 Yeah.
00:10:34.180 Uh, and I'm reading it and he talks about the dichotomy of leadership, how leadership
00:10:39.340 is like a balance, right?
00:10:40.700 Like you're, for example, you don't want to be too friendly with your employees so that
00:10:49.280 they take advantage of you.
00:10:50.620 We just talked about this today so that they take advantage of you and you don't want to 0.98
00:10:54.280 be too distant that they think you don't fucking care. 0.98
00:10:56.480 Right. 0.99
00:10:56.880 Right.
00:10:57.380 And, and leadership is not something that you can like set and just walk away from, you
00:11:02.120 know, like a lot of things in business are systematic and you can like set it there and
00:11:06.420 then walk away from it.
00:11:07.380 Leadership is something that takes constant observation and tweaking on a, on a day by
00:11:12.320 day basis to get in the right.
00:11:14.800 And then even when you get it right, if you let it go, it'll go bad again.
00:11:18.080 Right.
00:11:18.440 So, um, a lot of people think they suck at leadership when in reality they're just not
00:11:21.780 doing it right.
00:11:22.600 Right.
00:11:22.800 But what I was getting to, um, was that balance has to be the hardest thing.
00:11:28.760 That's right.
00:11:29.460 The hardest thing in the world.
00:11:30.660 Oh dude, it's, but you've got to be so aware to be aware of what's happening and not everybody
00:11:35.560 is that aware.
00:11:36.400 They're just not.
00:11:37.220 So your goal is to help people become aware and understand the process of leadership.
00:11:42.540 You know, I figured out all that and I know we're changing subjects.
00:11:45.640 No, it's fine.
00:11:46.220 This is good.
00:11:46.680 Um, I, I figured that out over, like I text Jocko and I said, I read like I'm like halfway
00:11:51.700 through the book and I tech, by the way, I do not wholeheartedly endorse books. 0.60
00:11:57.620 Like if my, my friends have a book, I'll put it up and fucking say swipe up. 0.99
00:12:01.200 This is a book that you have to fucking buy. 0.99
00:12:03.300 Right. 0.99
00:12:03.640 This is a book that you must read. 0.99
00:12:05.280 And if I had had this book, I believe 20 years ago, I would be a fucking billionaire 0.99
00:12:09.180 by now. 0.99
00:12:09.880 The dichotomy of leadership.
00:12:11.080 Yeah.
00:12:11.340 Because dude, it's, it's, I've learned what he's saying and I text him this and I've
00:12:16.560 learned what he's saying, but I've never seen it written down.
00:12:19.920 Like it's something that I've learned through experience the hard way, but I've never seen
00:12:25.700 it written down.
00:12:26.580 And like my mind's like, it's like a confirmation for me.
00:12:30.200 Like I'm reading it and I'm like, dude, exactly.
00:12:33.960 Like that's exactly how it is.
00:12:35.500 You know what I mean?
00:12:36.120 Right.
00:12:36.340 But I never, I never had it taught to me.
00:12:39.640 I had to learn it the hard way.
00:12:41.760 And you know, I'm so excited that he wrote this book because I think it's going to really
00:12:45.580 help a lot of people.
00:12:46.380 Yeah.
00:12:46.500 That's awesome. 0.54
00:12:47.040 You know, um, I don't know where the fuck I even got off on that.
00:12:49.860 We were talking about something. 0.97
00:12:50.600 What were we talking about?
00:12:51.320 Well, I'm not exactly sure, but what I was talking about, I was going to get into the
00:12:54.900 balance of something.
00:12:56.240 Well, I mean, this is the thought that went through my mind is just, you know, I know
00:13:00.340 this is on the Sunday sermon, but I do think this has applications both to being a good
00:13:04.080 person, but also success and everything.
00:13:05.580 And that is that, you know, you talked about that balance between being nice and being present,
00:13:10.020 but also being a person of authority, like for leadership.
00:13:12.800 Oh, I know what I was going to say.
00:13:14.280 I was going to say, you know, just like that balance of leadership, that balance of standing
00:13:20.560 up for yourself is something that people have a hard time understanding.
00:13:23.940 A lot of people aren't aware enough to know when they should stand up and when they should 0.99
00:13:28.900 sit the fuck down and shut up. 0.99
00:13:30.400 You know what I mean? 1.00
00:13:31.440 And dude, that could cost you a lot over your life.
00:13:33.540 I'm not, you know, I'm not talking about just like, you know, standing up for yourself
00:13:37.040 because you got bad customer service.
00:13:38.840 But let's say you're in a company and, you know, you say, oh, I'm standing up for myself.
00:13:45.200 And in reality, the, whatever just made you say that was something that had nothing to
00:13:49.800 do with you.
00:13:50.420 Right.
00:13:51.000 Right.
00:13:51.340 Right.
00:13:51.600 And now you stand up and make this, like, I'm standing up for myself. 1.00
00:13:55.700 And then your superiors look at you like, this guy's kind of fucking dumb. 1.00
00:13:59.020 Like he doesn't really get it. 1.00
00:14:00.300 Right.
00:14:00.620 You know, and that could take you down a notch.
00:14:02.240 So you have to be real careful about that balance when the time is and when the time isn't,
00:14:07.820 you know what I mean? 0.97
00:14:08.460 And, you know, you go to any, you know, any, uh, you know, redneck fucking bar in the 0.94
00:14:16.020 country and you're going to find a bunch of dudes to stand up for themselves all the 1.00
00:14:18.980 time. 0.99
00:14:19.520 Fucking stand up for everything I fucking believe. 1.00
00:14:21.660 Blah, blah, blah. 1.00
00:14:22.340 Guess what those people are? 0.99
00:14:23.820 Broke.
00:14:24.380 Yeah.
00:14:25.080 Right.
00:14:25.480 Right. 1.00
00:14:25.620 There's a time to say shit and there's a time to not. 1.00
00:14:28.020 Absolutely. 0.98
00:14:28.380 And being situationally aware of when those times are is something that a lot of people never
00:14:33.140 take into account.
00:14:34.320 Right.
00:14:34.600 You know what I mean?
00:14:35.280 Absolutely.
00:14:35.820 That's what I was going to say.
00:14:36.420 No, it makes sense.
00:14:37.100 And, and kind of a different tweak on that.
00:14:38.760 And I know we're hitting a lot of different subjects, but by the way, I like redneck
00:14:41.580 bars. 1.00
00:14:41.980 I'm just saying that when you fucking talk too much shit, you don't get very far in 1.00
00:14:46.120 business. 1.00
00:14:46.500 Right.
00:14:46.860 Like if I had to choose the bar I go to, I'm going to a hole in the wall bar with country 1.00
00:14:49.700 music and sitting there and drink a beer with fucking dudes who probably fucking do construction 0.99
00:14:54.880 because there's a salt of the earth people. 0.99
00:14:56.580 Those are the people I love.
00:14:57.780 Those are the people I grew up around.
00:14:59.080 And that's honestly the kind of person I am.
00:15:01.340 Yeah.
00:15:01.640 You know, so I'm not dog.
00:15:02.700 I didn't want to sound that as a dog.
00:15:03.980 I'm just saying those people have a lot of trouble.
00:15:06.620 They create a lot of problems for themselves for doing that.
00:15:09.060 And I know that because I'm around them.
00:15:10.840 Right.
00:15:11.360 No, a hundred percent.
00:15:12.600 No, I was just going to say for what it's worth.
00:15:14.540 I mean, you're talking about the balance of leadership.
00:15:15.900 We're talking about this balance of recognizing that our purpose is to serve other people,
00:15:20.200 but also to realize that we, we have to serve ourselves on some level.
00:15:23.480 So there's, there's that tension, but I was just going to throw this out there since
00:15:26.240 we're covering a lot of topics.
00:15:27.300 And I think it's kind of relevant to what we're talking about right now.
00:15:29.640 And that is that it's more and more evident to me that the vast majority of human beings
00:15:36.080 on this planet think that everything in life is an either or.
00:15:39.660 So as an example, my wife in our circles, she can take some heat from, and it depends on 1.00
00:15:45.240 the two extremes.
00:15:46.500 So she's a great mom and she's also someone who's, who has a career.
00:15:50.060 And so from the people who are super hyper conservative, who think that women should
00:15:53.880 only be home, uh, in the family as, as, uh, wives and mothers, they're kind of judging
00:16:00.100 her for, you know, having a career. 1.00
00:16:01.540 But then you have the super career people that are over there saying, well, why don't you
00:16:05.340 just dedicate more of yourself to your career and, and, uh, you know, get, get another nanny
00:16:11.200 and whatever.
00:16:11.840 And it just seems like the average person doesn't, doesn't realize that we don't have to choose
00:16:17.960 either or she can choose to be a wife and mother and she can choose to be a career woman
00:16:23.020 and she can excel at both of those.
00:16:24.700 And I, and I, I, I, I know this doesn't immediately connect with what we're talking about, but the
00:16:29.540 whole balance of, because it comes, it does connect because we're talking about the lack
00:16:34.140 of awareness, right?
00:16:35.240 Because most people, including a lot of the people listening, will look at other people
00:16:39.600 doing things a different way than they're doing them and say, that's wrong.
00:16:42.900 Right.
00:16:43.500 Which that's, or those, or they'll look at it and say, oh, well, that balance is so impossible
00:16:47.780 that you're never going to get it.
00:16:48.960 So don't even try.
00:16:50.160 Whereas I just feel like, how do they know how you, how you see balance?
00:16:54.480 Right.
00:16:54.840 You know what I'm saying?
00:16:55.460 Like, that's something I've struggled with.
00:16:56.780 I would be honest with, um, you know, I used to really look at other people and say, dude, 0.96
00:17:01.480 you're fucking it up, you know? 0.97
00:17:03.140 Right. 0.99
00:17:03.600 Um, and now I just try to look at people and, and give them, um, the benefit of the doubt
00:17:08.220 and say, you know, well, maybe they look at life a little bit differently than I look
00:17:11.520 because we all look at life through different glasses, right?
00:17:13.780 What's important to me is probably not important, uh, to you.
00:17:17.780 I mean, I'm just saying you as, as an example.
00:17:20.860 Um, but you know, the, the problem comes in is when people who you care about and who you
00:17:29.400 love and who you respect don't have the awareness to understand what I'm talking about.
00:17:35.040 And then they look at us and they say, well, dude, you're totally screwing up your life.
00:17:39.400 I mean, I can't tell you how many times I was told that by my friends, by girlfriends,
00:17:44.880 by people close to me, by people that were related to me, you know, and, and things weren't
00:17:52.420 going well when I was told that.
00:17:53.860 So what did I believe? 0.99
00:17:54.780 I believe, yeah, fuck, I, maybe, maybe I am, you know? 1.00
00:17:57.600 Right. 0.99
00:17:58.160 And, uh, really what it is, is I was just doing things differently.
00:18:02.100 And I think that our life becomes a lot less stressful and a lot less frustrating when
00:18:08.800 we can just look at people and just realize that they see things different than us and
00:18:13.360 just accept it.
00:18:14.280 Yeah.
00:18:14.800 You know, and I think that's something that, um, especially when you're competitive and
00:18:20.280 especially when you're an entrepreneur type aim, you know, competitive person, it's real
00:18:26.280 easy to get caught up in judging other people.
00:18:28.560 You know what I mean?
00:18:29.420 Right.
00:18:29.720 Because you feel superior. 1.00
00:18:30.940 You're like, I'm a winner, I do this, I do that, you know, and they're fucking losers. 1.00
00:18:35.900 And that's not the case. 0.99
00:18:37.620 The case is, is that, um, other people, other people put their priorities onto us.
00:18:45.340 And so when we do everything different, we feel like we're losers or we're doing something
00:18:50.240 wrong.
00:18:50.680 You see what I'm saying?
00:18:51.680 Yeah. 0.97
00:18:52.000 And those people, like somebody might be completely fucking happy. 0.91
00:18:57.800 Like maybe they, you know, their work at construction and they're home at every day at four o'clock 0.92
00:19:03.220 and they're up every day early and they get to have coffee with their wife and spend time
00:19:07.600 with their kids.
00:19:08.280 Dude, there's nothing wrong with that.
00:19:10.000 Right. 0.99
00:19:10.340 That's fucking respectable. 0.99
00:19:11.960 You know what I mean? 0.98
00:19:12.620 I respect that.
00:19:15.740 It's just not my thing.
00:19:17.080 It's not my thing.
00:19:17.900 Right.
00:19:18.260 You know what I mean?
00:19:18.800 Like I like the life I live.
00:19:20.620 I like it control being controlled chaos, you know?
00:19:24.540 And if it wasn't like that, I'd be bored.
00:19:26.300 Right.
00:19:26.500 You know, the nights I do go home and when I'm chilling it, you know, on the couch by seven 0.98
00:19:30.880 o'clock, I'm fucking bored. 0.97
00:19:32.720 I'm bored. 0.99
00:19:33.540 Right.
00:19:33.880 You know what I'm saying?
00:19:34.600 Like, and it's just a different kind of person that appreciates different things.
00:19:40.900 Yeah.
00:19:41.200 And I think a lot of people's negativity that they have in life comes from them, not the
00:19:48.660 other people.
00:19:49.160 It comes from them judging other people for what it is they're doing that they feel it
00:19:53.220 might be wrong and being frustrated about it and then getting mad about it when it really
00:19:58.540 has nothing to do with them.
00:19:59.700 Right.
00:20:00.180 You know, it's just something I observed. 0.99
00:20:02.960 Like, you know, when people say these blank statements about how society is completely fucked. 0.94
00:20:08.100 Well, I would agree that there's things about society that could be improved, but to say 0.99
00:20:13.400 it's completely fucked. 0.99
00:20:14.680 Right. 1.00
00:20:15.320 That's not true.
00:20:15.940 There's a lot of really good things going on in the world.
00:20:17.980 Yeah.
00:20:18.920 Yeah, for sure.
00:20:19.660 And when you start to see people and appreciate what they're doing differently than you, well,
00:20:26.800 then instead of being frustrated all the time, you can actually be grateful and say, dude,
00:20:30.860 I'm glad he does that.
00:20:31.780 And I'm happy that he's happy.
00:20:33.200 Yeah.
00:20:33.480 You know what I mean? 0.96
00:20:34.000 Like you see a carpenter who's a fucking great carpenter and he does amazing, you know, 0.99
00:20:38.980 artistic carpentry and he's fucking happy. 0.99
00:20:41.860 Dude, you could appreciate that. 0.99
00:20:43.560 You don't have to say, oh, this guy could be running a fucking huge construction company 0.99
00:20:47.860 that does this, this, this, and he's so dumb because he doesn't realize it. 0.99
00:20:51.300 Maybe he doesn't want that. 0.98
00:20:53.140 You know what I mean?
00:20:53.700 Yeah, absolutely.
00:20:54.540 I think there's a real freedom that comes when you come to a point of maturity and you can
00:20:59.180 just really enjoy this where not only do you not feel the need to judge anybody else based
00:21:04.420 on how you do things, but you also, if somebody says to you, well, that's just not my thing.
00:21:11.620 That's not the way that I do things.
00:21:13.480 You personally don't feel judged, you know?
00:21:16.980 So it's, it's, it's, uh, and that's a maturity process.
00:21:32.240 And I would also say that that's kind of dynamic.
00:21:34.000 I would say that sometimes you can come to a certain point of maturity, but then you kind
00:21:37.840 of let yourself degenerate a little bit.
00:21:39.480 Um, I don't think it's like you suddenly get to that point of maturity where you're so
00:21:43.720 secure that you're never, you never feel judged.
00:21:46.060 You never judge anybody else.
00:21:47.140 I think we have to constantly kind of renew our commitment to that.
00:21:49.060 I had a guy come up to me about a week ago, maybe two weeks ago, and I was driving one 0.96
00:21:53.240 of my cars and he goes, how many car, he goes, and he said it like this, how many fucking 0.98
00:21:58.540 cars do you have? 0.98
00:21:59.540 And I'm like, I'm looking at him and I'm like, I got a few. 0.98
00:22:04.780 And he goes, at least I know where my fucking money's going and walked off. 0.99
00:22:10.060 Wow. 0.99
00:22:10.540 All right.
00:22:10.920 So like 10 years ago, right.
00:22:13.440 I would have probably like physically confronted that guy and got out of the car and been like, 1.00
00:22:18.160 dude, you're a fucking prick. 1.00
00:22:19.280 Fuck you. 1.00
00:22:20.240 You know what I did? 1.00
00:22:21.400 I fucking laughed it off. 0.99
00:22:22.980 And I said, dude, that guy's having a bad fucking day. 1.00
00:22:26.160 Right. 0.99
00:22:26.440 You know what I'm saying?
00:22:27.500 Like I didn't get like 10, you know, 10 years ago, legitimately, there was a chance I might
00:22:32.980 have like fought that guy.
00:22:34.440 You know what I mean?
00:22:35.320 Or got out and felt the need to explain it and be like, dude, I own seven other companies.
00:22:40.680 I travel all over the world.
00:22:42.400 I do this and this and this and this and explain that you're buying for me over here at my supplement 0.98
00:22:48.280 company is actually very little of what I fucking do. 0.96
00:22:52.020 You know what I mean? 0.97
00:22:52.740 Yeah.
00:22:52.960 Oh, absolutely.
00:22:54.260 I didn't do that.
00:22:55.020 I just laughed and I said, dude, he's having a bad day.
00:22:57.540 Yeah.
00:22:57.920 You know what I mean?
00:22:58.520 And that's all you could do.
00:22:59.560 That's what you're talking about by growing through it.
00:23:01.440 Absolutely.
00:23:01.720 You know what I mean?
00:23:02.480 100%.
00:23:02.760 So we've covered a lot of territory.
00:23:06.140 Have we?
00:23:07.140 I feel like we have. 0.97
00:23:08.220 I feel like you're just in a hurry to get the fuck out of here because it's 345. 0.72
00:23:11.380 Well, actually, I was going to ask you a question. 0.63
00:23:13.860 Oh.
00:23:14.540 I was going to ask you a question.
00:23:15.920 I was going to ask you one.
00:23:19.280 That's racist.
00:23:21.480 Why did you assume it had anything to do with race?
00:23:24.280 Obviously, because I'm racist, too.
00:23:25.640 You are.
00:23:26.320 Yeah.
00:23:26.420 No, I was just referring to your ex story.
00:23:29.360 No.
00:23:29.640 But I actually want to know, and this is a little cheesy, but since I know you like dogs, and
00:23:35.260 since I want you to ask me the same question, because I like dogs, you talk about Oscar,
00:23:40.680 right?
00:23:43.640 Seriously, what did he teach you?
00:23:46.320 What was the lesson of his life for you?
00:23:50.080 Oscar is Andy's dog that he had for eight years.
00:23:53.240 Eight years during the years that you were really building it, right?
00:23:56.380 Yeah.
00:23:56.860 You hadn't kind of arrived, had you?
00:23:59.040 No. 1.00
00:23:59.560 Fuck no. 1.00
00:24:00.040 Okay. 1.00
00:24:00.380 I was struggling.
00:24:01.200 He went to work with me every day.
00:24:02.580 Yeah.
00:24:03.320 And he's a bulldog?
00:24:04.400 American bulldog. 0.90
00:24:05.140 American bulldog.
00:24:05.800 Yeah.
00:24:06.000 Um, the biggest thing that I've been able to learn from just, not just him, but any dog
00:24:12.440 is that everything's going to be all right.
00:24:14.920 Yeah.
00:24:15.100 You know what I mean?
00:24:15.560 Like you, you could come home, you could be frustrated, you could be mad, you could be
00:24:18.920 angry, but your dog's still going to be happy to see you.
00:24:22.160 Right.
00:24:22.540 And you know, the sun's going to come up tomorrow. 0.94
00:24:24.940 Everything's going to fucking, it just, it's something I think turns the volume down on the 0.92
00:24:30.500 rest of life. 0.95
00:24:31.120 You know what I mean?
00:24:31.580 I think so too.
00:24:32.220 I love dogs.
00:24:32.860 They have an amazing capacity just to have a, you know, chill attitude and loyalty and
00:24:38.460 love.
00:24:38.880 They know when you're stressed and when you're upset and they do extra to make you happy.
00:24:43.020 When, when, when Kasha broke our engagement, like I lived by myself, I was completely alone.
00:24:47.820 Rudy jumped up on the, on the couch, put his head on my shoulder.
00:24:51.200 He knew exactly what was going on.
00:24:52.960 Like not on my shoulder.
00:24:54.280 He put my head, his head on my lap, but, uh, just, you know, they had, they're super empathetic,
00:24:58.480 but one time, one time in college I had was dating this girl and then I was kind of dating
00:25:06.120 two girls.
00:25:06.700 Let's be real about it.
00:25:07.920 All right. 0.97
00:25:09.960 So I fucking, uh, one of them was staying at my house and, uh, like six 30 in the morning. 1.00
00:25:17.980 The other one, like St. Patrick's day, I'll never fucking forget this shit. 0.99
00:25:21.560 So the other one shows up at my, at my house and is beating on my window at like six 30 1.00
00:25:28.520 in the morning, like with fucking these big ass green glasses and a fucking leprechaun 1.00
00:25:33.500 hat and shit. 1.00
00:25:34.920 And I'm like laying in and I had a roommate and I'm like, what the fuck? 1.00
00:25:38.060 I go, Ryan must be locked out. 0.98
00:25:40.200 And I told the other girl, I said, and I'm not gonna name any names cause I don't want
00:25:44.080 to embarrass anybody.
00:25:44.840 But it was, uh, I said, I said, I think Ryan's locked out.
00:25:48.240 Will you go let him in?
00:25:49.940 Dude. 0.99
00:25:50.640 And it was the other girl that I was fucking talking to. 0.99
00:25:53.840 And like, dude, they both blew up on me. 0.99
00:25:57.720 Like fucking like, like literally I thought I'm like, I might get hurt. 0.99
00:26:01.880 Like for real. 1.00
00:26:02.660 Cause they were like fucking, they were together and they were like motherfucking me. 1.00
00:26:06.960 Like fatal attraction. 1.00
00:26:07.900 Yeah. 1.00
00:26:08.120 They fucking teamed up on me and I'm like, holy shit, what do I got to do? 0.99
00:26:11.760 So I made the one leave and then I had to take the other one home and the whole ride 1.00
00:26:16.540 home, dude, the fucking other one was holding a pen in her hand. 1.00
00:26:20.760 And I like thought like a gripping at heart and like fucking legit thought I was going to 1.00
00:26:25.040 get stabbed with the pen across the fucking seat. 0.99
00:26:28.320 So like I got her out of the car, I went home and I didn't know what to do cause like 1.00
00:26:32.420 I had never had that happen before.
00:26:33.940 Like I basically got caught like, you know, caught two timing.
00:26:36.900 Yeah. 0.89
00:26:37.400 So, uh, so I called my dad, my dad, I was like, dad, you're never going to fucking believe 0.98
00:26:43.940 what the fuck happened. 0.98
00:26:44.840 And I told him the whole story. 1.00
00:26:46.080 He's laughing his ass off cause my dad, that's happened to my dad a lot of times.
00:26:49.620 All right.
00:26:50.100 That's kind of, that's kind of dude my dad is.
00:26:51.800 Right.
00:26:52.280 Um, and he goes, well, it's a good thing you got Oscar.
00:26:59.380 I'm like, I'm like, yep, that's true.
00:27:01.900 Yeah, dude.
00:27:02.380 It's so true. 0.84
00:27:02.980 And Oscar's sitting over in the corner.
00:27:04.220 I can remember him being on the phone. 1.00
00:27:05.240 I look over at him and he's smiling as shit. 0.98
00:27:07.300 And I'm like, come on over here, dude. 1.00
00:27:09.180 We went to the fucking park and hung out. 0.99
00:27:10.720 That's awesome. 1.00
00:27:11.260 It fucking made it all go away. 0.93
00:27:12.800 Yeah. 0.99
00:27:13.100 So I, so I'm married with three little girls under four.
00:27:15.700 And I tell you, there are times I just open up my, open up my phone, look at the picture
00:27:20.640 of Rudy and say, bud, I wish you were here with all this, with all this estrogen.
00:27:24.820 Yeah.
00:27:25.080 It's nice to have, uh, to have him around, but no, I'll tell the story.
00:27:28.720 So, um, a little back backstory.
00:27:30.980 So my dog was supposed to be a rescue dog, but he flunked because he has hip dysplasia
00:27:36.360 because, uh, a lot of yellow Labradors have hip dysplasia, which basically just means they
00:27:41.020 have bad hips.
00:27:41.980 And, um, so he ran a little funny, but so he's supposed to be a rescue dog.
00:27:46.660 And over the course of my life, there were different things that I think would, would
00:27:49.660 qualify as that.
00:27:50.620 Um, I was once, uh, almost beat up by a skinhead and it was the only time that's your own type. 0.99
00:27:58.880 What's that?
00:27:59.400 That's your own type of people.
00:28:00.560 Your own people are going to beat you up?
00:28:01.880 Yeah. 0.97
00:28:02.040 This guy was a little bit of a Nazi skinhead, but, uh, he, he was going to beat me up and 0.82
00:28:05.580 it was the only time really in 13 years of having Rudy that my dog showed a side of 0.93
00:28:11.020 himself that I've never seen before.
00:28:12.460 Wait, wait, wait, let's go back to the getting beat up story.
00:28:15.780 What did you do?
00:28:17.320 You did something.
00:28:18.280 No, well, basically I lived in a residential area with a, you know, had a lot of kids
00:28:24.400 and grandmothers and all that kind of thing. 1.00
00:28:25.880 And this guy talking to his girl or something.
00:28:27.420 No, no, no, no.
00:28:28.920 And this guy like, you were trying to, you were trying to ghostwriter a book.
00:28:31.320 Oh, you're ruining the story.
00:28:32.620 No.
00:28:33.140 So this guy, he's like driving down our street and, and, uh, and he's just going super loud
00:28:38.500 with his music blaring and everything.
00:28:41.300 And so I yelled out at him.
00:28:42.800 I'm like, slow down.
00:28:44.900 No, you didn't.
00:28:45.600 No, I did.
00:28:46.100 I did. 1.00
00:28:46.680 And I, cause I was, I thought he was stupid for driving that fast down a residential street. 0.98
00:28:51.240 Well, he stops and my dog's, you know, looking at flowers or whatever, you know, sniffing 0.95
00:28:57.620 and just enjoying the, enjoying the foliage.
00:29:00.080 And this guy stops, pulls back, gets out and says, what? 0.98
00:29:05.880 And I'm thinking, oh crap. 0.94
00:29:07.580 So he gets out. 0.99
00:29:10.420 He's like this skinhead looking guy.
00:29:11.820 He starts walking around, walking over to me.
00:29:14.140 And I didn't know.
00:29:14.900 And I was like, listen, dude, I'm not trying to, I wasn't trying to be disrespectful.
00:29:18.420 There's just lots of kids around here.
00:29:19.740 You're driving too fast.
00:29:20.700 And, uh, you just need to slow down.
00:29:22.940 And he goes, oh, hell no.
00:29:24.520 And he starts like walking toward me and I'm thinking, I'm okay. 0.67
00:29:27.840 I'm going to get beat up.
00:29:28.720 There's going to be, you know, local pastor in the hospital because beaten up by skinhead. 0.99
00:29:33.420 And all of a sudden it was just like a switch flipped.
00:29:38.420 And I've never seen my dog ever in 13 years respond this way.
00:29:42.920 He became the most vicious, snarling, attack dog looking guy I've ever seen in my life.
00:29:48.960 And, and this guy like stops because he's kind of taken back by it.
00:29:52.400 And Rudy's just like, you know, and he's going to, and like, I rolled with it.
00:29:56.560 I was like, hold, you know, and that's funny.
00:30:01.540 Yeah.
00:30:02.440 So, uh, and so I looked at him and this is true.
00:30:05.400 I actually said this and I go, dude, this doesn't have to get messy. 0.99
00:30:08.760 Shut the fuck up. 1.00
00:30:09.620 I did. 1.00
00:30:10.220 I said it.
00:30:11.160 No, I said it.
00:30:12.020 Tyler, true or not true?
00:30:13.380 No, it's true.
00:30:14.860 You know, it's true because it's cheesy.
00:30:18.780 That's a good point.
00:30:20.080 But, uh, but anyway, he took off and then the minute he left.
00:30:22.260 I wish we could Instagram pull this right now.
00:30:24.440 True or not true?
00:30:25.660 The hashtag.
00:30:26.900 Yeah.
00:30:28.020 But the minute he, uh, the minute he left, Rudy was back to normal.
00:30:30.460 Yeah.
00:30:30.740 So, uh, but anyway, so fast forward, I get married.
00:30:33.560 We have our first kid.
00:30:34.880 We, uh, our, our first, our oldest Lila is on the bed.
00:30:38.660 She's an infant.
00:30:39.420 She's kind of at that, at that stage when you're an infant where you're, it's a, it's
00:30:43.740 been a couple months now.
00:30:44.800 You have a little bit of strength.
00:30:45.920 You can move around, but you're not going to, you're not really going to move.
00:30:48.880 Like you're not going to start walking or anything.
00:30:51.020 So we thought that she would be fine.
00:30:52.800 Um, we thought that she would be fine taking a nap on the, on our, on our bed.
00:30:58.480 And so Kasha was gone and I, I was, uh, going to clean up. 0.87
00:31:03.640 So I was going to go downstairs and my dog, Rudy did something kind of funny whenever he
00:31:08.340 wanted to go out.
00:31:08.960 He almost like started tap dancing and it was kind of weird.
00:31:11.800 He always did this kind of weird tap dance.
00:31:13.460 But anyway, so I had just taken him out.
00:31:16.140 I went downstairs about five minutes later, he starts doing his tap dancing thing again.
00:31:22.080 And, and I, and he was making noise and I yelled up and I was like, dude, quiet down.
00:31:27.000 Baby's trying to sleep.
00:31:28.320 And he keeps on doing it and it's really pissing me off.
00:31:31.180 And I'm like, Rudy, stop it.
00:31:32.940 And he goes, and he starts barking.
00:31:34.780 I'm like, okay, I guess he has to go again.
00:31:37.280 So I walk up and he runs over, like as I walk up, he starts running into the room where
00:31:43.380 where the baby is, where Lila is.
00:31:45.020 And I walk in there and I noticed that she is actually shifted her weight to where, I
00:31:50.720 don't know if you know what these things are, but sometimes, sometimes there's this thing
00:31:53.740 you can buy and it's like a little, I don't know, it's like a little rail to keep basically
00:31:59.600 that you hook to your bed to keep kids from falling off basically.
00:32:03.720 Well, she had, she had shifted in a really weird way to where her, her neck was propped 0.74
00:32:09.500 up on a part of that rail and it was, it was constricting her airflow.
00:32:12.760 And she was literally like, like she couldn't breathe.
00:32:16.240 And so I ran in there and she, even as an infant, Lila wasn't much of a crier.
00:32:20.460 She's not a real cuddly girl. 0.98
00:32:22.140 She's very strong willed.
00:32:23.240 But anyway, so I sweep her up, pick her up and she just bursts into tears and literally 0.60
00:32:29.160 just like holds me for about 10 minutes, finally calms down.
00:32:34.440 And I'm so involved in this whole thing that I didn't realize what happened, but I walk
00:32:39.400 out and Rudy's sitting down and I was like, all right, dude, you need to go out, you need
00:32:44.100 to go to the bathroom. 0.97
00:32:45.120 And all of a sudden that's when it dawned on me like, oh crap. 0.99
00:32:47.620 He was telling you. 0.99
00:32:48.300 He was telling me.
00:32:49.080 He was telling me about, about Lila.
00:32:51.060 So it was really cool.
00:32:52.060 And, uh, and they had kind of a special bond before he died.
00:32:55.640 And you know, it's for me that I know it's kind of cheesy, but for me, the lesson that
00:33:00.460 I think is relevant to my life and relevant to everybody's is that he was supposed, he
00:33:04.460 was quote unquote meant to be a rescue dog.
00:33:06.440 He flunked, but he still did what he was meant to do.
00:33:08.840 So I always tell people like, you know, be like a dog, love your family, only be violent
00:33:13.640 when you have to, and always be there to serve and you'll do what you're meant to do
00:33:17.520 regardless, like regardless of whatever happens in your life.
00:33:20.080 It's great advice, man.
00:33:21.360 That's a good story.
00:33:22.140 I like hearing that story.
00:33:22.940 Thanks.
00:33:23.280 Yeah.
00:33:23.500 I appreciate it.
00:33:24.140 So you're going to get another dog anytime, uh, not for anytime soon.
00:33:27.600 Cause my, my wife wants to get dogs that don't shed. 1.00
00:33:29.980 And the only dogs that don't shed are like foo-foo dogs where they like cross breed them
00:33:34.320 with poodles and stuff.
00:33:35.440 That's not a real dog.
00:33:36.420 That's not a man's dog. 0.62
00:33:37.360 No.
00:33:37.740 So you're a real man.
00:33:39.240 I am.
00:33:39.560 You need a real man's dog. 0.99
00:33:40.060 I am.
00:33:40.240 I need a real man's dog. 1.00
00:33:41.720 Kicking a skinhead's ass and shit. 1.00
00:33:43.580 Hey, you know what? 1.00
00:33:43.800 We need to announce our winners.
00:33:46.180 Well, dude, you're the real man. 1.00
00:33:47.840 You better take this fucking task. 1.00
00:33:48.620 Okay. 1.00
00:33:48.820 I better do it.
00:33:49.380 Well, now I, since you have the final word on everything, you have to decide.
00:33:52.360 We said three, right?
00:33:53.260 I don't know. 0.97
00:33:54.820 I, I don't fucking remember. 0.94
00:33:56.660 Okay. 0.79
00:33:56.960 Well, we, uh, here's, you need to decide this.
00:33:59.280 So it's either, I, you either need to tell me to pick two women and one man or two man 0.97
00:34:04.360 and one woman or two men and two women.
00:34:06.940 Uh, we'll do two and two.
00:34:08.520 Okay.
00:34:09.060 All right.
00:34:09.900 The winners are Tom Retcher.
00:34:12.660 It might be wrecker.
00:34:13.500 I don't know.
00:34:14.100 He's an audiologist and an entrepreneur.
00:34:17.900 Chris DeBrock is, uh, he runs CD.
00:34:23.260 Um, Carly Damuth, Damuth, works for the government, wants to start her own clothing line and I
00:34:33.380 guess is doing that.
00:34:34.260 She works for the government? 0.98
00:34:35.240 Uh, like a government contractor or something.
00:34:36.980 Yeah, she can't come then.
00:34:37.540 Oh.
00:34:37.640 So, and then Carmela Gosler, who is, uh, who is a, um, I think she runs like a, she wants 1.00
00:34:45.900 to build a salon, like a, like a hair empire.
00:34:49.840 Okay.
00:34:50.220 I guess.
00:34:50.760 So.
00:34:51.200 How are you going to help her with that?
00:34:52.200 You got no hair.
00:34:53.040 That's true.
00:34:53.880 But if she could grow my hair, then she. 0.98
00:34:55.340 But see, the good thing is, is I have sexy, beautiful hair.
00:34:58.480 That's true.
00:34:58.800 And I'll be able to help her.
00:35:00.260 Tyler's got beautiful man, man mane.
00:35:02.820 Yeah.
00:35:03.020 We'll be able to help her figure out her hair stuff. 0.98
00:35:04.940 So Tom, Chris, Carly, and Carmela, uh, congratulations.
00:35:08.160 And I, we don't know when we're flying them out yet.
00:35:10.540 Is that correct?
00:35:11.280 No.
00:35:11.380 Okay.
00:35:11.720 Probably November.
00:35:13.460 Probably November.
00:35:14.140 Yeah.
00:35:14.420 All right, guys.
00:35:15.640 So.
00:35:16.480 Good, good story, dude.
00:35:17.620 Thanks, man.
00:35:18.020 I like that, man.
00:35:18.440 It makes you feel good.
00:35:19.400 Yeah.
00:35:19.760 Well, dogs make you feel good, you know? 1.00
00:35:21.040 Fuck yeah. 1.00
00:35:21.640 Yeah. 1.00
00:35:21.860 Honestly, people think that I'm psycho for this, but I mean, the day my dad died was pretty
00:35:27.780 much the worst day of my life, but a very, very close second would be the day my dad died.
00:35:32.500 Oh, there's no question that that was the worst day I've ever had.
00:35:35.140 Yeah, yeah.
00:35:35.400 Oscar died in my arms.
00:35:36.520 Yeah. 0.99
00:35:36.660 So it was fucking horrible. 0.99
00:35:37.620 Ugh. 1.00
00:35:38.420 Sex. 0.97
00:35:39.160 I remember saying this to you, and I was really surprised.
00:35:42.860 Dude, I couldn't even look at people for, I came to work like three or four days later, 0.97
00:35:47.180 I couldn't even fucking look at anybody. 0.92
00:35:48.840 Like, if they even said anything to me about it, I would get upset. 0.98
00:35:51.260 Oh, yeah.
00:35:52.120 I remember saying this to you when we first met, and I remember saying, somebody asked
00:35:57.320 me one time, I don't care how much you love Rudy, if somebody gave you a million dollars, 0.73
00:36:01.560 if you took a baseball bat to bash his brains in, you'd do it. 1.00
00:36:04.460 I'm like, what are you nuts? 1.00
00:36:05.740 Like, there's no way. 1.00
00:36:06.840 People are so fucking stupid. 1.00
00:36:07.640 It could literally be a billion dollars, and I wouldn't do that. 1.00
00:36:11.100 Dude, people are so fucking stupid. 1.00
00:36:11.600 They're so stupid. 1.00
00:36:12.720 They don't get it. 1.00
00:36:13.700 They don't know.
00:36:14.240 They don't get it. 1.00
00:36:14.540 I have people that say shit like that all the time. 1.00
00:36:16.820 Dude, I would trade every fucking thing I have. 1.00
00:36:19.180 Yeah. 1.00
00:36:19.340 I would trade every fucking thing that I have and own and have accomplished for that dog 1.00
00:36:23.580 to still be alive. 1.00
00:36:24.300 Yep.
00:36:24.800 I hate it. 1.00
00:36:24.960 And that's the fucking truth. 1.00
00:36:25.800 That's, that's... 0.99
00:36:26.800 I would start over from fucking day one. 0.98
00:36:28.860 There's a reason they call it man's best friend. 0.99
00:36:30.040 Yeah.
00:36:30.220 I would start over from day one, and not even, it would not even be a, it wouldn't even be
00:36:35.480 a decision.
00:36:36.500 Agreed.
00:36:36.940 Yeah.
00:36:37.380 Yep.
00:36:37.740 They're good.
00:36:38.340 So, anyway, thanks, dude.
00:36:40.940 This turned out to be pretty good. 0.99
00:36:41.660 So, what we learned here on Sunday Sermon is, don't fuck with Vaughn. 1.00
00:36:45.540 That's right. 1.00
00:36:46.240 Especially if you're a skinhead. 1.00
00:36:47.420 He'll fuck you up. 1.00
00:36:48.300 Or if you're a Sprint customer service agent. 0.99
00:36:50.280 Yeah. 0.99
00:36:50.840 He will fucking take that phone and jam it right up your... 1.00
00:36:53.220 We'll fuck you up your... 1.00
00:36:54.220 We'll fuck you up your... 1.00