SUNDAY SERMON： Beer, Bulldogs, Burt Reynolds, & Becoming a Better, More Balanced Person, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO263
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On this episode of the MFCEO Project, DJ God and Andy talk about the passing of Burt Reynolds, Coors Light, and the fact that we're getting old. Also, we talk about a bunch of other stuff.
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If you want to make your dream become reality, the people that are running after their dream know they're going to have hard times.
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They keep on running because they're saying within themselves, I'm the one. I'm the one.
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No matter how bad it is or how bad it gets, I'm going to make it.
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What is up, guys? You're listening to the MFCEO Project. I'm Andy. I'm your host.
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As always, I'm joined by my co-host who is massively, and I mean massively, important to the Sunday sermon episodes and all the other episodes, besides the ones he's not on, of the MFCEO Project.
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That's what I'm going to start calling you. The man of many names.
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So, the man of many names. What's going on with you, dude?
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We've got some pretty exciting things coming up here in your life and mine, right?
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Getting ready to fly to Idaho to do our first Arte Syndicate Summit, which is our highest level business group that we run with Ed Milet.
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We're excited to do this first summit. I'm really excited to get to know everybody and meet everybody, and I'm really excited to see what's going to come out of it.
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Yeah. Did you hear the bad news today? The sad news?
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Dude, I knew what you were talking about because it bummed me out.
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You know, dude, that was like one of the shows that got me into cars.
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Well, I wondered if you were also a fan of Cannonball Run.
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Yeah, dude. And then what else was he in? He was in...
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Best Little Whorehouse in Texas, which I never saw.
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The Longest Yard. That's a recent movie he was in.
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Yeah, and I usually don't say, like, damn, dude, that guy's dying when it's a celebrity,
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I mean, you're not as old as I am, but for guys that are even remotely close, he's kind
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He's been dying is the realization that, oh, wow.
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Dude, I want to get a semi-truck like the one he had in Smoking the Bandit with the mural
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Dude, you know what they were hauling in that movie, right?
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Coors Light, which happens to be my beer of choice.
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And now all these fucking snobs that listen right now are like, oh, Andy, that's not a
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Like, all these motherfuckers, they yell at me anytime I post a Coors Light like I'm some
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And if you've got to go drink a fucking craft beer to feel cool, then you ain't my fucking
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I've literally never in my life had a Coors Light.
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Like, when you go golfing, you're going to drink Michelob.
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Like, Tyler, what do you think of whenever you hear, like, Michelob?
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Like, does it still have that weird bottle shape?
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Well, I lost a bet to Drew, and he wanted a couple cases of Michelob gold...
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Vaughn tells Drew that he buys him two cases of beer, and it's two fucking six-packs.
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So, for everyone listening, Vaughn is such a good guy.
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Do you know, I went to a school that was so conservative that we jokingly had a root
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beer keg party, but nobody knew how to open the keg.
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But back to Smokey and the Bandit, would you agree that those who have not seen that movie
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who are too young need to go and get a hold of that movie?
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I mean, now it's like, oh, you know, how many special effects can I make and this and
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I feel like the storylines of older movies are better than now.
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Dude, yeah, it's CGI, it's weak stories, you know, it's high sarcasm humor.
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Which is like, you know, like, look at the commercials nowadays.
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Like, how cheesy the sarcasm humor they try to go with.
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Like, they're trying to be sarcastic and funny and, like, witty, but it's not funny.
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I just feel like it was, like, it was, they had better stories then.
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I don't know if we need to do it on this one, but people wanted me to tell the story about
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We could talk about how dogs teach us everything we need to know about being good people.
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The one thing I was going to ask you was, like, out of all your years in the ministry
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and what you did and, like, you've been around it your whole life, basically, you know, you
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Like, and I think, I mean, I think it's an extremely valuable asset to have, honestly.
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And I actually, because you know that I struggle with that, you know?
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So I like being around somebody who doesn't really care at all what people think about
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You know, you've talked about there's a good sense-
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In a good sense, if, we should care insofar as we should want a good reputation.
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You know, like, on the big scale, in the big scheme of things, you absolutely care.
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But if I go on stage and say something stupid or mess up or, you know, or I curse too much
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or whatever, I don't, I do not dwell on that shit.
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It would be interesting to explore that topic a little bit, but I'll tell you something that
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So today, I was on the phone with Sprint, who's just the worst.
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I've had horrible, horrible experience with Sprint, you know?
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And I was just getting the runaround for literally, like, close to an hour.
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And this very seldom happens, but, like, I lost it.
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And I used that and I used a host of other ones and I was really angry because I really
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I didn't say Jesus or gosh darn it or anything like that.
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You know, and I got what I wanted done and I did feel bad and I apologize for getting
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angry with him, but it took a lot and it is true.
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Like, when you care about what other people think, sometimes you have legitimate rights
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and legitimate things that you need to get done that you think, that sometimes you do
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need to get harsh and sometimes you do need to get mean.
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Yeah, and I don't think people understand that.
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And say, hey bro, I'm sorry I said that, but here's the deal.
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You know, and I have other things I need to do and they're important and you guys kept
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You know, and that's it and I appreciate you getting it done for me.
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But isn't it interesting that we assume we're taught so much to consider other people, which
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is a good, obviously we've done that on this, on this podcast, but we've, we're taught so
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much about serving other people that we sometimes forget that, you know what?
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All of us have legitimate rights and we have legitimate things that expectations and it's
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not wrong to know if those expectations are getting unjustly trampled on to stand up for
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Like right now I'm reading a really good book, dude, uh, by Jocko who we're going to get to
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Uh, he's coming in on Wednesday, uh, which is, I am really excited about because I don't
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really look up to people, um, you know, but he's a guy that I truly like genuinely respect.
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And it's not a surprise that he's, he's someone that has served our country and that's why
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And I respect anybody who's done that, but there's the guy understands leadership, right?
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And he talks about, and I'm reading his new book.
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He sent me a, a review copy and signed it, which I thought was totally cool.
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Uh, and I'm reading it and he talks about the dichotomy of leadership, how leadership
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Like you're, for example, you don't want to be too friendly with your employees so that
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We just talked about this today so that they take advantage of you and you don't want to
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be too distant that they think you don't fucking care.
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And, and leadership is not something that you can like set and just walk away from, you
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know, like a lot of things in business are systematic and you can like set it there and
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Leadership is something that takes constant observation and tweaking on a, on a day by
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And then even when you get it right, if you let it go, it'll go bad again.
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So, um, a lot of people think they suck at leadership when in reality they're just not
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But what I was getting to, um, was that balance has to be the hardest thing.
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Oh dude, it's, but you've got to be so aware to be aware of what's happening and not everybody
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So your goal is to help people become aware and understand the process of leadership.
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You know, I figured out all that and I know we're changing subjects.
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Um, I, I figured that out over, like I text Jocko and I said, I read like I'm like halfway
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through the book and I tech, by the way, I do not wholeheartedly endorse books.
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Like if my, my friends have a book, I'll put it up and fucking say swipe up.
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And if I had had this book, I believe 20 years ago, I would be a fucking billionaire
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Because dude, it's, it's, I've learned what he's saying and I text him this and I've
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learned what he's saying, but I've never seen it written down.
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Like it's something that I've learned through experience the hard way, but I've never seen
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And like my mind's like, it's like a confirmation for me.
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Like I'm reading it and I'm like, dude, exactly.
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And you know, I'm so excited that he wrote this book because I think it's going to really
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You know, um, I don't know where the fuck I even got off on that.
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Well, I'm not exactly sure, but what I was talking about, I was going to get into the
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Well, I mean, this is the thought that went through my mind is just, you know, I know
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this is on the Sunday sermon, but I do think this has applications both to being a good
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And that is that, you know, you talked about that balance between being nice and being present,
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but also being a person of authority, like for leadership.
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I was going to say, you know, just like that balance of leadership, that balance of standing
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up for yourself is something that people have a hard time understanding.
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A lot of people aren't aware enough to know when they should stand up and when they should
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And dude, that could cost you a lot over your life.
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I'm not, you know, I'm not talking about just like, you know, standing up for yourself
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But let's say you're in a company and, you know, you say, oh, I'm standing up for myself.
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And in reality, the, whatever just made you say that was something that had nothing to
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And now you stand up and make this, like, I'm standing up for myself.
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And then your superiors look at you like, this guy's kind of fucking dumb.
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You know, and that could take you down a notch.
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So you have to be real careful about that balance when the time is and when the time isn't,
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And, you know, you go to any, you know, any, uh, you know, redneck fucking bar in the
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country and you're going to find a bunch of dudes to stand up for themselves all the
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Fucking stand up for everything I fucking believe.
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There's a time to say shit and there's a time to not.
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And being situationally aware of when those times are is something that a lot of people never
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And I know we're hitting a lot of different subjects, but by the way, I like redneck
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I'm just saying that when you fucking talk too much shit, you don't get very far in
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Like if I had to choose the bar I go to, I'm going to a hole in the wall bar with country
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music and sitting there and drink a beer with fucking dudes who probably fucking do construction
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I'm just saying those people have a lot of trouble.
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They create a lot of problems for themselves for doing that.
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No, I was just going to say for what it's worth.
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I mean, you're talking about the balance of leadership.
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We're talking about this balance of recognizing that our purpose is to serve other people,
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but also to realize that we, we have to serve ourselves on some level.
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So there's, there's that tension, but I was just going to throw this out there since
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And I think it's kind of relevant to what we're talking about right now.
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And that is that it's more and more evident to me that the vast majority of human beings
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on this planet think that everything in life is an either or.
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So as an example, my wife in our circles, she can take some heat from, and it depends on
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So she's a great mom and she's also someone who's, who has a career.
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And so from the people who are super hyper conservative, who think that women should
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only be home, uh, in the family as, as, uh, wives and mothers, they're kind of judging
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But then you have the super career people that are over there saying, well, why don't you
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just dedicate more of yourself to your career and, and, uh, you know, get, get another nanny
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And it just seems like the average person doesn't, doesn't realize that we don't have to choose
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either or she can choose to be a wife and mother and she can choose to be a career woman
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And I, and I, I, I, I know this doesn't immediately connect with what we're talking about, but the
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whole balance of, because it comes, it does connect because we're talking about the lack
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Because most people, including a lot of the people listening, will look at other people
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doing things a different way than they're doing them and say, that's wrong.
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Which that's, or those, or they'll look at it and say, oh, well, that balance is so impossible
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Whereas I just feel like, how do they know how you, how you see balance?
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I would be honest with, um, you know, I used to really look at other people and say, dude,
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Um, and now I just try to look at people and, and give them, um, the benefit of the doubt
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and say, you know, well, maybe they look at life a little bit differently than I look
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because we all look at life through different glasses, right?
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What's important to me is probably not important, uh, to you.
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Um, but you know, the, the problem comes in is when people who you care about and who you
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love and who you respect don't have the awareness to understand what I'm talking about.
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And then they look at us and they say, well, dude, you're totally screwing up your life.
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I mean, I can't tell you how many times I was told that by my friends, by girlfriends,
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by people close to me, by people that were related to me, you know, and, and things weren't
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I believe, yeah, fuck, I, maybe, maybe I am, you know?
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And, uh, really what it is, is I was just doing things differently.
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And I think that our life becomes a lot less stressful and a lot less frustrating when
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we can just look at people and just realize that they see things different than us and
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You know, and I think that's something that, um, especially when you're competitive and
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especially when you're an entrepreneur type aim, you know, competitive person, it's real
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You're like, I'm a winner, I do this, I do that, you know, and they're fucking losers.
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The case is, is that, um, other people, other people put their priorities onto us.
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And so when we do everything different, we feel like we're losers or we're doing something
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And those people, like somebody might be completely fucking happy.
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Like maybe they, you know, their work at construction and they're home at every day at four o'clock
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and they're up every day early and they get to have coffee with their wife and spend time
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I like it control being controlled chaos, you know?
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You know, the nights I do go home and when I'm chilling it, you know, on the couch by seven
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Like, and it's just a different kind of person that appreciates different things.
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And I think a lot of people's negativity that they have in life comes from them, not the
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It comes from them judging other people for what it is they're doing that they feel it
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might be wrong and being frustrated about it and then getting mad about it when it really
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Like, you know, when people say these blank statements about how society is completely fucked.
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Well, I would agree that there's things about society that could be improved, but to say
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There's a lot of really good things going on in the world.
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And when you start to see people and appreciate what they're doing differently than you, well,
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then instead of being frustrated all the time, you can actually be grateful and say, dude,
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Like you see a carpenter who's a fucking great carpenter and he does amazing, you know,
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You don't have to say, oh, this guy could be running a fucking huge construction company
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that does this, this, this, and he's so dumb because he doesn't realize it.
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I think there's a real freedom that comes when you come to a point of maturity and you can
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just really enjoy this where not only do you not feel the need to judge anybody else based
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on how you do things, but you also, if somebody says to you, well, that's just not my thing.
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So it's, it's, it's, uh, and that's a maturity process.
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And I would also say that that's kind of dynamic.
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I would say that sometimes you can come to a certain point of maturity, but then you kind
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Um, I don't think it's like you suddenly get to that point of maturity where you're so
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secure that you're never, you never feel judged.
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I think we have to constantly kind of renew our commitment to that.
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I had a guy come up to me about a week ago, maybe two weeks ago, and I was driving one
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of my cars and he goes, how many car, he goes, and he said it like this, how many fucking
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And I'm like, I'm looking at him and I'm like, I got a few.
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And he goes, at least I know where my fucking money's going and walked off.
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I would have probably like physically confronted that guy and got out of the car and been like,
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And I said, dude, that guy's having a bad fucking day.
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Like I didn't get like 10, you know, 10 years ago, legitimately, there was a chance I might
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Or got out and felt the need to explain it and be like, dude, I own seven other companies.
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I do this and this and this and this and explain that you're buying for me over here at my supplement
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company is actually very little of what I fucking do.
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I just laughed and I said, dude, he's having a bad day.
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That's what you're talking about by growing through it.
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I feel like you're just in a hurry to get the fuck out of here because it's 345.
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Well, actually, I was going to ask you a question.
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Why did you assume it had anything to do with race?
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But I actually want to know, and this is a little cheesy, but since I know you like dogs, and
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since I want you to ask me the same question, because I like dogs, you talk about Oscar,
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Oscar is Andy's dog that he had for eight years.
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Eight years during the years that you were really building it, right?
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Um, the biggest thing that I've been able to learn from just, not just him, but any dog
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Like you, you could come home, you could be frustrated, you could be mad, you could be
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angry, but your dog's still going to be happy to see you.
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And you know, the sun's going to come up tomorrow.
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Everything's going to fucking, it just, it's something I think turns the volume down on the
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They have an amazing capacity just to have a, you know, chill attitude and loyalty and
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They know when you're stressed and when you're upset and they do extra to make you happy.
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When, when, when Kasha broke our engagement, like I lived by myself, I was completely alone.
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Rudy jumped up on the, on the couch, put his head on my shoulder.
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He put my head, his head on my lap, but, uh, just, you know, they had, they're super empathetic,
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but one time, one time in college I had was dating this girl and then I was kind of dating
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So I fucking, uh, one of them was staying at my house and, uh, like six 30 in the morning.
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The other one, like St. Patrick's day, I'll never fucking forget this shit.
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So the other one shows up at my, at my house and is beating on my window at like six 30
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in the morning, like with fucking these big ass green glasses and a fucking leprechaun
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And I'm like laying in and I had a roommate and I'm like, what the fuck?
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And I told the other girl, I said, and I'm not gonna name any names cause I don't want
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But it was, uh, I said, I said, I think Ryan's locked out.
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And it was the other girl that I was fucking talking to.
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Like fucking like, like literally I thought I'm like, I might get hurt.
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Cause they were like fucking, they were together and they were like motherfucking me.
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They fucking teamed up on me and I'm like, holy shit, what do I got to do?
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So I made the one leave and then I had to take the other one home and the whole ride
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home, dude, the fucking other one was holding a pen in her hand.
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And I like thought like a gripping at heart and like fucking legit thought I was going to
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get stabbed with the pen across the fucking seat.
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So like I got her out of the car, I went home and I didn't know what to do cause like
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Like I basically got caught like, you know, caught two timing.
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So, uh, so I called my dad, my dad, I was like, dad, you're never going to fucking believe
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He's laughing his ass off cause my dad, that's happened to my dad a lot of times.
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Um, and he goes, well, it's a good thing you got Oscar.
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So I, so I'm married with three little girls under four.
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And I tell you, there are times I just open up my, open up my phone, look at the picture
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of Rudy and say, bud, I wish you were here with all this, with all this estrogen.
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It's nice to have, uh, to have him around, but no, I'll tell the story.
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So my dog was supposed to be a rescue dog, but he flunked because he has hip dysplasia
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because, uh, a lot of yellow Labradors have hip dysplasia, which basically just means they
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And, um, so he ran a little funny, but so he's supposed to be a rescue dog.
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And over the course of my life, there were different things that I think would, would
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Um, I was once, uh, almost beat up by a skinhead and it was the only time that's your own type.
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This guy was a little bit of a Nazi skinhead, but, uh, he, he was going to beat me up and
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it was the only time really in 13 years of having Rudy that my dog showed a side of
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Wait, wait, wait, let's go back to the getting beat up story.
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No, well, basically I lived in a residential area with a, you know, had a lot of kids
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And this guy like, you were trying to, you were trying to ghostwriter a book.
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So this guy, he's like driving down our street and, and, uh, and he's just going super loud
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And I, cause I was, I thought he was stupid for driving that fast down a residential street.
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Well, he stops and my dog's, you know, looking at flowers or whatever, you know, sniffing
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And this guy stops, pulls back, gets out and says, what?
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And I was like, listen, dude, I'm not trying to, I wasn't trying to be disrespectful.
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And he starts like walking toward me and I'm thinking, I'm okay.
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There's going to be, you know, local pastor in the hospital because beaten up by skinhead.
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And all of a sudden it was just like a switch flipped.
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And I've never seen my dog ever in 13 years respond this way.
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He became the most vicious, snarling, attack dog looking guy I've ever seen in my life.
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And, and this guy like stops because he's kind of taken back by it.
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And Rudy's just like, you know, and he's going to, and like, I rolled with it.
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So, uh, and so I looked at him and this is true.
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I actually said this and I go, dude, this doesn't have to get messy.
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But, uh, but anyway, he took off and then the minute he left.
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But the minute he, uh, the minute he left, Rudy was back to normal.
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So, uh, but anyway, so fast forward, I get married.
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We, uh, our, our first, our oldest Lila is on the bed.
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She's kind of at that, at that stage when you're an infant where you're, it's a, it's
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You can move around, but you're not going to, you're not really going to move.
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Like you're not going to start walking or anything.
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Um, we thought that she would be fine taking a nap on the, on our, on our bed.
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And so Kasha was gone and I, I was, uh, going to clean up.
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So I was going to go downstairs and my dog, Rudy did something kind of funny whenever he
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He almost like started tap dancing and it was kind of weird.
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I went downstairs about five minutes later, he starts doing his tap dancing thing again.
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And, and I, and he was making noise and I yelled up and I was like, dude, quiet down.
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And he keeps on doing it and it's really pissing me off.
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So I walk up and he runs over, like as I walk up, he starts running into the room where
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And I walk in there and I noticed that she is actually shifted her weight to where, I
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don't know if you know what these things are, but sometimes, sometimes there's this thing
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you can buy and it's like a little, I don't know, it's like a little rail to keep basically
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that you hook to your bed to keep kids from falling off basically.
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Well, she had, she had shifted in a really weird way to where her, her neck was propped
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up on a part of that rail and it was, it was constricting her airflow.
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And she was literally like, like she couldn't breathe.
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And so I ran in there and she, even as an infant, Lila wasn't much of a crier.
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But anyway, so I sweep her up, pick her up and she just bursts into tears and literally
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just like holds me for about 10 minutes, finally calms down.
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And I'm so involved in this whole thing that I didn't realize what happened, but I walk
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out and Rudy's sitting down and I was like, all right, dude, you need to go out, you need
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And all of a sudden that's when it dawned on me like, oh crap.
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And, uh, and they had kind of a special bond before he died.
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And you know, it's for me that I know it's kind of cheesy, but for me, the lesson that
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I think is relevant to my life and relevant to everybody's is that he was supposed, he
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He flunked, but he still did what he was meant to do.
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So I always tell people like, you know, be like a dog, love your family, only be violent
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when you have to, and always be there to serve and you'll do what you're meant to do
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regardless, like regardless of whatever happens in your life.
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So you're going to get another dog anytime, uh, not for anytime soon.
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Cause my, my wife wants to get dogs that don't shed.
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And the only dogs that don't shed are like foo-foo dogs where they like cross breed them
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Well, now I, since you have the final word on everything, you have to decide.
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So it's either, I, you either need to tell me to pick two women and one man or two man
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Um, Carly Damuth, Damuth, works for the government, wants to start her own clothing line and I
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So, and then Carmela Gosler, who is, uh, who is a, um, I think she runs like a, she wants
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But see, the good thing is, is I have sexy, beautiful hair.
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We'll be able to help her figure out her hair stuff.
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So Tom, Chris, Carly, and Carmela, uh, congratulations.
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And I, we don't know when we're flying them out yet.
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Honestly, people think that I'm psycho for this, but I mean, the day my dad died was pretty
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much the worst day of my life, but a very, very close second would be the day my dad died.
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Oh, there's no question that that was the worst day I've ever had.
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I remember saying this to you, and I was really surprised.
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Dude, I couldn't even look at people for, I came to work like three or four days later,
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Like, if they even said anything to me about it, I would get upset.
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I remember saying this to you when we first met, and I remember saying, somebody asked
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me one time, I don't care how much you love Rudy, if somebody gave you a million dollars,
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if you took a baseball bat to bash his brains in, you'd do it.
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It could literally be a billion dollars, and I wouldn't do that.
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I have people that say shit like that all the time.
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Dude, I would trade every fucking thing I have.
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I would trade every fucking thing that I have and own and have accomplished for that dog
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There's a reason they call it man's best friend.
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I would start over from day one, and not even, it would not even be a, it wouldn't even be
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So, what we learned here on Sunday Sermon is, don't fuck with Vaughn.
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He will fucking take that phone and jam it right up your...