REAL AF with Andy Frisella - May 31, 2018


The #1 Daily Habit of Those Who Dominate, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO240

Topics
success techniques fulfilling true potential mastering the monotonous mastering the monotonous
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Andy Frisella
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20 minutes

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3,270

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260

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In this episode of Thursday Thunder, I talk about why you have what it takes to be successful in any area of your life, and why it's not because you were born with the silver spoon. It's because you don't need it.

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00:00:00.420 I can stack them hundreds to the roof. I ain't stopping till they stack to the moon.
00:00:04.900 Without me, my family wouldn't have food. Anybody go against me gotta lose.
00:00:12.580 What is up, guys? You're listening to the MFCEO Project. I'm Andy. I'm your host,
00:00:17.100 and I am the motherfucking CEO, and this is Thursday Thunder. If you know what Thursday 0.98
00:00:23.100 Thunder is, you know what that is. If you're new, you fucking don't. All right? On Tuesdays, 1.00
00:00:27.040 we have longer podcasts. On Thursdays, we have Thursday Thunder, which, as I mentioned,
00:00:32.220 is what I'm about to get into. Now, if you're new, first off, welcome, as long as you're not a pussy. 1.00
00:00:41.440 Now that we got that out of the way, we are an entrepreneurship, success, personal development 0.99
00:00:47.920 podcast. We are in the business category of iTunes, but what we talk about encompasses far more
00:00:56.820 than just business, okay? Will the information that you learn here help you make more money?
00:01:02.280 Fuck yes. Will the information here help you become more confident, more successful, 0.99
00:01:07.840 and feel better about your entire life, including more fulfilled in every single area? Absolutely.
00:01:15.180 So to say that we are a business podcast would be slightly, no, massively misleading,
00:01:23.000 because the truth is to be successful, it's not just about money, but to be successful,
00:01:31.860 it is about money. So we're going to talk about a lot of different things, mostly in the context
00:01:37.900 of making fucking money, but you will be able to extrapolate these skills and techniques and ideas 0.93
00:01:48.240 and put them into other areas of life, okay? Most of you are great at something in life and you're 0.99
00:01:55.600 confused when you look around at other areas of your life as to why I suck at this. Like you might be
00:02:03.460 in great fucking shape, but you might have 27 bucks in your bank account. Well, the reason that you have 0.99
00:02:10.120 27 bucks in your bank account is because you haven't been able to apply the techniques that have made you
00:02:17.380 successful in the area of fitness over to business, all right? We talk a lot about this, but the point of me
00:02:26.340 bringing this up to you is that all of you have what it takes to succeed. It is not a magical thing, okay?
00:02:34.420 If you're good at something, if you've ever been good at something, you have what it takes to be
00:02:42.000 successful in any area, all right? Now, one thing that's different about this podcast is that we
00:02:52.020 don't run ads, all right? I could make easily seven figures running ads on this podcast for the first 10
00:02:58.620 minutes and make you guys fucking listen, but I don't because I make a lot of fucking money doing other 0.99
00:03:04.320 shit. I'm actually successful. I'm not pretend successful when it comes to finances, um, like 0.99
00:03:10.680 most of Instagram, but here's the thing. I do this because I was lucky in one area of my life,
00:03:21.140 very lucky. And I don't use luck very often, but the area that I was lucky in was the fact that I was
00:03:27.480 born to a father who was an entrepreneur and understood how to instill and teach and show me
00:03:38.060 things from a very young age. Okay. Now, was I given the silver spoon? Absolutely not. Was, did I have my
00:03:47.900 dad give me a bunch of money? No, he didn't give me shit, but he did give me advice. And that advice 0.99
00:03:54.380 has helped me become tremendously successful in business. And my goal with this podcast is to help
00:04:02.520 you guys, because I know you weren't all as fortunate as I was to learn the things that make up success in
00:04:12.220 reality, not in the idealistic society, which our parents, our teachers, our news, um, and all the
00:04:21.800 do-gooders at society are trying to tell everybody, which are things like this. Everybody should get
00:04:26.220 a trophy. Uh, everybody's special. The world really cares about you. The world thinks you're
00:04:31.880 great. Okay. I don't give a fuck if you think you're great. The world doesn't give a fuck if you
00:04:37.400 think you're great. Should you think you're great? I don't know. Have you done great shit? Okay. So 0.99
00:04:43.300 we're going to talk about a lot of different things, but the mission of this podcast and the reason
00:04:46.880 that it's called a project is because it is my mission to help reverse two decades of bad parenting
00:04:53.540 strategies and help young adults realize what it takes to be successful. I'm committed to this
00:04:59.140 cause. I have a set of children's books that you can purchase on Amazon or my website, Andy for
00:05:04.520 seller.com that will help you start your children out the right way. And no, they don't say fuck and 0.98
00:05:11.000 motherfucker and all this other language in them. Even though I know some of you wish they did, 1.00
00:05:15.800 they don't, we were talking about coming out with a special edition of a actual cursing edition of
00:05:21.680 the children's books that you could read to them when they were like too young to understand what
00:05:26.500 it meant, but whatever, maybe that's coming down the road. But the point is, is I'm committed to
00:05:31.480 this mission. And that's why I don't fucking have a bunch of ads that jammed down your throat. 0.99
00:05:35.480 And I'm not constantly selling bullshit programs, uh, about how to get rich. All right. So my fee for 0.99
00:05:42.420 you in trade for the information that I give you is that you tell somebody about our podcast.
00:05:48.440 You could do that through a post. You could do it in person. I don't care. We're an organic
00:05:51.800 movement and I rely on your guys's word of mouth. And I greatly appreciate that. If you get something
00:06:00.040 out of an episode that you tell somebody about that episode and ask them to subscribe to the podcast.
00:06:04.780 And if you love an episode, I would also ask that you review it on iTunes and give me that five star
00:06:09.440 rating. So with that being said, like I said, today is Thursday thunder and I have a very important
00:06:16.720 concept. We talk a lot about winning and success and how success comes about. And most people look at
00:06:26.700 success as this magical thing. They look at success as this thing that happens to some people and doesn't
00:06:34.540 happen to other people. And they find excuses in society, in their thinking, in their day-to-day life
00:06:43.500 that are evidence of this thinking. When they look at someone who is wealthy, they say, well, he must've
00:06:51.760 got lucky or his parents must've gave him money or he must've had a rich uncle in Nigeria that gave him
00:06:59.080 $3 million. Okay. We tell ourselves all these stories. He was in the right place at the right
00:07:05.080 time. Blah, blah, blah. We make up these stories that lend credibility to what we already think that
00:07:12.220 it's magical, but it's not magical. And I've dedicated a big portion of my life, not just building my own
00:07:21.040 success, but becoming a student of the process. And it's something I'm very passionate about. It's
00:07:27.060 something that I really love about being able to do this podcast is to share with you guys
00:07:32.520 what I've been able to dissect, not just in my own life, but from knowing all these other successful
00:07:39.900 people. Okay. So when we talk about success, a lot of people talk about money. A lot of people talk
00:07:46.420 about, um, you know, uh, cars and boats and fucking hoes and all this other shit, right? They talk about 1.00
00:07:53.280 all this crazy rapper shit. And you know what, if that's what motivates you, that's okay. But that's 1.00
00:07:58.340 not success. I define success very specifically. And how I define success is this. It's the pursuit
00:08:07.880 of fulfillment of your own true potential. What does that mean? That means that it's a constantly
00:08:15.480 moving target. That means that as you approach your goal, you are resetting your goal to a higher
00:08:22.700 standard because during the process of achieving your first goal, you have learned new skills.
00:08:30.540 Your, your, your Swiss army knife of skills to win has added a few new tools. When, what does that
00:08:37.620 mean? That means that your potential has now expanded, which means the goal that was your goal a year ago,
00:08:44.540 because you're, you're 90% there now is now further down the road. And so many people miss that point.
00:08:54.380 And so when you commit to fulfilling your own true potential, you are in fact saying, I will never
00:09:01.200 fulfill my own true potential, but you're also accepting the fact that you're going to live your
00:09:08.320 most fulfilled life because you're utilizing the potential you're creating through the process.
00:09:14.740 All right. So we talk about fulfilling your own true potential. It sounds cool. You know,
00:09:21.220 it sounds bad-ass. It sounds morally right. Like it sounds a lot cooler than like, Oh, I want to make
00:09:27.360 a billion dollars or, Oh, I want to drive a fucking Lambo. You know, it sounds, it sounds moral. Like, 0.98
00:09:33.360 Oh, I want to fulfill my own true potential. It sounds like something somebody would say. It's
00:09:37.860 some boring fucking success summit. All right. Why wouldn't someone want to go all in on that? 1.00
00:09:44.060 Why wouldn't someone want to jump in on that? Why wouldn't someone want to want to do everything
00:09:48.060 they could to fulfill their own true potential? I'll tell you why, because the actual pursuit of
00:09:55.240 success begins with a principle that is so uncool and so unsexy, but so absolutely indispensable
00:10:04.560 that people don't believe it's the actual key to success. It sounds absurd. Every time I talk about
00:10:12.000 this, everybody's like, yeah, Andy, but what's, what's the real success? So brace yourself for this
00:10:19.680 life-changing idea. Here it is. You have to master the monotonous. What is the monotonous?
00:10:30.480 It's the boring shit. It's the everyday shit. It's the regular shit. It's the shit that you do every 1.00
00:10:39.260 day that 99% of you motherfuckers think doesn't matter. You've got to master the monotonous in order 1.00
00:10:46.560 to become the ruler of your routine. It's the people who rule their routine, who lock in day in and day
00:10:53.860 out and do everything they can with pride and do everything they can with care and do everything
00:10:59.960 they can to the best of their abilities. Not the whiny cry baby. I'm doing my best. I mean, maximizing
00:11:07.360 their best. Those are the people who become successful. And guess what? That's hard because
00:11:14.280 it's not always fun and it is boring. And because it's boring, it causes us to lose
00:11:20.620 the focus that we need to win the fucking day. There's no other proven process for producing 0.98
00:11:30.060 exceptional results. And guess what? This process is guaranteed. You want a guarantee to success?
00:11:38.320 This is the only fucking way there is. Okay. You have to master the day today. Okay. And we talk about 0.99
00:11:47.560 this on episode 107. If you want a more in-depth understanding of the technique, listen to 107
00:11:54.340 after you listen to this. All right. But here's the thing. Most people, 99% of the world, all the
00:12:01.600 average motherfuckers, they think of success like this. They think of it like a movie montage. All right. 0.98
00:12:08.860 And you know what a montage is? You probably don't. All right. But it's a series of quick scenes.
00:12:13.100 You've seen it a million times that are in a movie that are meant to sum up a huge span of time. All
00:12:18.760 right. Like everybody here seeing Rocky four for the most part, if you haven't seen Rocky four
00:12:22.980 fucking unsubscribe from, from my podcast. Cause I don't even fucking want you. All right. It's an 0.98
00:12:27.800 awesome movie, but it's not reality. What do they show? They show Rocky taking a fight. They show Rocky
00:12:35.000 flying to Russia. They show Rocky running in the snow and all the while this amazing motivational music's
00:12:41.400 playing. Right. It's an iconic scene. They show them in the shed, like lifted some fucking rocks
00:12:46.140 and like bench pressing sheep over his fucking head and all kinds of crazy shit running around 1.00
00:12:51.540 in these furry boots, you know, looking all manly with the fucking beard. And then they show him 1.00
00:12:55.220 and he's got a beard. Right. And why do they show the beard? Because they're trying to show
00:12:59.840 that he's doing this shit every day. But most people don't look at success like that. They don't say, 0.99
00:13:06.120 Oh, look, Rocky was training day in and day out for two fucking months. And he grew a beard. 0.99
00:13:10.360 They missed that point. They look at it. Like he went out one day and trained once ran once
00:13:16.340 bench, press the fucking sheep. Once ate some motherfucking food by the fire, talk some shit 1.00
00:13:22.600 with his coach and went out and beat the shit out of fucking Drago, which isn't the case. 1.00
00:13:27.900 It's never the case, but that's how people look at success. They look at it. Like you do a few 0.99
00:13:33.580 things. I fucking ate right for three days. Why am I not a fucking fitness model? I did my tasks 0.99
00:13:39.440 that I needed to do. I sent five emails. I, I called 10 people. Why am I not running a $10
00:13:44.700 million company? Because they don't understand what mastering the monotonous means. It means
00:13:52.620 doing the shit that most people are too fucking undisciplined to do day in and day out with 1.00
00:14:01.440 perfection, doing it better than everybody else, doing it to the best of your ability 1.00
00:14:07.000 and continuously expanding that ability so that you could continuously do a better job.
00:14:15.240 So what does it really mean to master the monotonous? Here's what it means. I'm going
00:14:20.120 to give you three fucking points that you need to do to master the monotonous. All right. And this 0.99
00:14:25.700 will help you because dude, I know this shit is boring. I know that everyday regular shit 1.00
00:14:30.180 sucks. I know that I get tired of doing the same fucking thing every day, but you know 1.00
00:14:35.820 what? When I do the same fucking thing every day, I still do a perfection regardless of how 0.99
00:14:40.460 I feel. And that's discipline. That's not motivation. By the way, I'm disciplined because 0.99
00:14:46.200 I know what the fuck it's going to mean to me down the road. All right. And that's the first 0.98
00:14:51.120 point. You have to literally visualize the connection between what you're doing on a day
00:14:58.400 by day basis, AKA the monotonous with what you're wanting. What do you want yourself to look like
00:15:05.880 10 years from now? What do you want your bank account to look like? What do you want to look
00:15:10.020 like physically six months from now or a year from now? You have to connect the dots. You have to
00:15:17.520 remind yourself that these little things that you do are going to lead to the big things. Are you
00:15:24.680 going to put that extra bite of fucking peanut butter in your mouth or are you not? Are you going 1.00
00:15:29.920 to do your workout or are you not? Are you going to do your cardio or are you not? And you need to learn
00:15:35.580 to tie these things into where you want to be. All right. So visualize the connection between what
00:15:41.760 you're doing with what you're wanting. All right. Point number two, this is a huge deal. You need to
00:15:50.740 make it an issue of pride and competition for you. All these little things that you do during the day.
00:15:57.560 I don't care what you do. You have to make it an opportunity to win and not just win, but dominate.
00:16:05.980 And that doesn't mean that what you're doing on a daily basis doesn't matter. It means it matters a lot.
00:16:13.400 Like if you have to go clean the fucking bathrooms and there's three guys in your company that clean 0.99
00:16:18.200 the bathrooms, your goal should be to dominate them at cleaning the bathrooms. And you're thinking right 0.99
00:16:24.740 now, oh, well, the cleaning that bathroom doesn't fucking matter is why you're cleaning bathrooms in the 0.99
00:16:28.920 fucking first place. Because I'm going to tell you something. Developing the habit of doing the best 0.99
00:16:36.620 that you can day in and day out and dominating everybody at everything you fucking do, including 0.98
00:16:43.600 cleaning the bathroom is going to lead to a habit of doing the best that you fucking can at everything. 0.96
00:16:51.640 And guess what's going to happen with that habit? It doesn't matter how smart you are. It doesn't 0.98
00:16:56.340 matter what position you are. It doesn't matter what company you work for. It doesn't matter what
00:17:01.460 you do or who the fuck you are. There is a place for people that dominate everything they do 1.00
00:17:09.400 in a high earner income bracket. You will find your way if you cultivate that habit. So make it an issue
00:17:18.540 of pride. If I'm going to do this, I'm going to do it better than anyone. If I have to sweep the floor,
00:17:24.820 I'm going to be able to eat off the motherfucker after I sweep it. If I'm going to clean the 0.99
00:17:29.680 bathroom, I'm going to make the other guys look like they didn't even fucking do it. That's how 0.99
00:17:33.460 clean it's going to be. All right. So the second point, make it an issue of pride and competition
00:17:39.820 with yourself. All right. And the third point is this, take a look back every now and then and see
00:17:47.760 where all the little monotonous things that you have done over the course of the last six months,
00:17:55.120 three months, year to five years have gotten you. If you've lost 40 fucking pounds in six months 0.99
00:18:03.180 by cleaning up and taking pride in your diet and your workout and your routine with that, 0.99
00:18:10.040 and you've mastered the monotony of not wanting to get up every day and fucking work out, but doing it 0.90
00:18:15.640 anyway and doing it great, guess what? You're going to understand what mastering the monotonous 0.96
00:18:21.760 can do for you. All right. So you've got to pay attention to the results it's creating, because
00:18:26.780 if you don't pay attention, the results is creating, guess what you're going to think? You're going to
00:18:31.800 think like every other motherfucker out there that thinks it's fucking magic. All right. This is about 1.00
00:18:36.900 you winning your fucking day and mastering the shit that most people think doesn't matter. 1.00
00:18:44.020 All right. And also it's about retraining your brain to understand that this is not magic. This 1.00
00:18:53.620 is a fucking process that we learn of discipline and execution and pride and competition with ourselves. 1.00
00:19:02.000 That's what success really is. And if you want to fulfill your own true potential and make a billion 0.99
00:19:09.540 fucking dollars or a hundred thousand dollars or $10,000, whatever it is, if you want to go out and 0.95
00:19:16.640 build whatever kind of life you want, okay, you're going to have to master the monotonous. If you don't 0.99
00:19:26.500 want your life dictated to you, if you want your life dictated to you, guess what? There's plenty
00:19:32.740 of opportunity for that too. And if that's you, this isn't the fucking show for you. This isn't the 0.99
00:19:38.580 place for you. This isn't the fucking movement for you. But if you want to dictate the life on your 1.00
00:19:44.460 terms, if you want to dictate the success that you're going to create, and if you're ambitious to
00:19:50.140 the point where you're not satisfied with living the status quo bullshit that most of America lives, 0.99
00:19:56.820 you've got to learn to master the shit that everybody else thinks is irrelevant. 1.00
00:20:20.140 Yeah. 1.00