REAL AF with Andy Frisella


THE 24-HOUR RULE OF BRAGGING： Why It's Essential To Your Success, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO301


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In this episode of the MFCEO Project, I talk about a rule you should live by all the time. It's a rule that will change your life and help you be more successful in business and life in general.

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00:00:00.460 I can stack them hundreds to the roof. I ain't stopping till they stack to the moon.
00:00:04.940 Without me, my family wouldn't have food. Anybody go against me gotta lose.
00:00:12.520 What is up, guys? You're listening to the MFCEO Project. I'm Andy. I'm your host. I am the motherfucking CEO.
00:00:18.680 You've heard this 4,000 million fucking times, so I'm just going to be real quick.
00:00:21.840 Today is Thursday Thunder, and I'm going to get into it right now.
00:00:26.260 That was weird. I kind of like it, though. Something different.
00:00:30.000 Yeah, it's impressive. It's impressive. Guys, what is up?
00:00:33.600 Look, like I said when I was being the Micro Machine Man a second ago,
00:00:38.900 today is Thursday Thunder, and I do have something to talk to you about.
00:00:42.260 Actually, it's a concept. It's a rule that you should live by all the time.
00:00:48.880 I'm going to talk about it in just a second.
00:00:50.940 Before I do, a lot of you guys might be here for the first time,
00:00:55.300 and you're wondering, what is an MFCEO?
00:00:57.820 Believe it or not, even though we've been the number one business podcast
00:01:02.840 pretty much for the last, I don't know, four or five years consistently,
00:01:08.340 people still don't understand what MFCEO means, so let me lay it out.
00:01:12.420 It means motherfucking CEO, all right?
00:01:16.080 And CEO, I'm not sure what that stands for.
00:01:18.260 One of you guys can let me know, but I just like the first part, okay?
00:01:21.320 The truth is, guys, this is a business, personal development, sometimes humorous podcast
00:01:30.400 where we talk about all the things that you need to do to really succeed in life,
00:01:35.820 not the shit that you're going to hear from people in school or online
00:01:41.160 who are trying to make a living selling you information about being successful.
00:01:46.020 I've actually built a few companies, and I'm really proud of that.
00:01:51.100 Some very successful, quote-unquote, companies that I've spent the last 20 years of my life
00:02:00.420 basically living, breathing, eating, sleeping, and shitting this entire business world.
00:02:06.200 And I'm one of the few guys out there who has built a company
00:02:09.360 and been successful pre-social media and post-social media.
00:02:13.640 And we talk about how to do these things.
00:02:16.020 Now, guys, I'll be the first one to tell you I'm not perfect.
00:02:18.060 There's a lot of shit I don't know.
00:02:19.680 But the things I do know and the things I share, I know very fucking well, all right?
00:02:24.680 And today is one of those days that I'm going to share something that will change your life,
00:02:29.680 so bear with me.
00:02:30.640 Now, I give away all this valuable content.
00:02:33.740 Vaughn, what episode is this?
00:02:34.820 301?
00:02:35.580 I think it's 301.
00:02:36.560 301, 301 episodes down.
00:02:40.680 You know what that means?
00:02:41.880 It means I give away a lot of free shit.
00:02:43.960 And you know what else it means?
00:02:45.420 It means that you guys are listening.
00:02:47.260 And you know what else it means?
00:02:48.580 It means I appreciate you a lot, which is why I don't run ads,
00:02:53.560 why I don't take money from advertisers.
00:02:56.400 And I could be making an extra seven figures just running ads based on our podcast ranking,
00:03:00.320 but I don't because I don't want to clutter up all the bullshit like everybody else does.
00:03:05.400 And I want to cut straight to the cheddar.
00:03:08.560 The cheddar, cheddar, cheddar.
00:03:10.880 Cheddar, cheddar, cheddar.
00:03:12.360 I feel a song coming on about the cheddar.
00:03:15.160 Going to get some cheddar cheese.
00:03:16.660 Going to put it on my sandwich.
00:03:18.320 Wait.
00:03:19.680 No, I'm not because I'm on 75 hard.
00:03:21.480 But anyway, the fee here, guys, is this.
00:03:23.920 I do have a fee.
00:03:25.140 The fee is this.
00:03:26.400 If you enjoy the podcast, if you get value, which today you will for sure,
00:03:31.100 and pretty much every day, you will for sure,
00:03:34.900 I ask that you share it.
00:03:38.360 You know, make a post.
00:03:41.520 Tell a friend.
00:03:42.880 Bring me one person, man.
00:03:44.580 You know, one person who's like-minded, who's trying to kick ass, who's trying to dominate,
00:03:48.960 and who doesn't necessarily know where to get the right info from.
00:03:53.560 You know, when that conversation comes up, you know, I'm grinding, I'm trying to work,
00:03:56.960 I'm trying to do business, trying to be more successful.
00:03:59.180 Dude, hook them up with the MFCEO project.
00:04:02.940 You're doing them a favor.
00:04:03.820 You're doing me a favor.
00:04:05.040 I do this for free for y'all.
00:04:06.760 And I think that's the least I could ask.
00:04:08.620 So I ask for that fee.
00:04:09.800 And so if you could do that, I would really greatly appreciate it.
00:04:12.360 I know a lot of you do this consistently.
00:04:15.440 Just to clarify, the fee is per episode.
00:04:17.740 It's not like, listen to 300 episodes, refer one friend.
00:04:20.980 Today's episode, a friend.
00:04:23.040 Next episode, a friend.
00:04:25.380 47 episodes, 47 friends.
00:04:27.320 I think that's a fair deal, don't you?
00:04:28.840 Especially because the information is going to make you money.
00:04:32.820 So that's what I ask.
00:04:34.220 And I think it's fair.
00:04:35.320 And I appreciate that you guys do that.
00:04:36.940 So now, enough of the rambling.
00:04:43.860 Dude, have you guys, and I know you have.
00:04:47.220 I don't even know why I'm saying have you guys.
00:04:49.140 But you know that one person, guys, that you know in your life?
00:04:52.980 The guy or the girl who is constantly talking about what they used to be.
00:04:58.800 The dude who's out of shape and whose life is a complete shit show.
00:05:03.500 And he's talking about how he threw the touchdown pass to win the high school game.
00:05:07.620 Okay?
00:05:08.300 The chick who is an assistant manager at some rundown department store at the mall. 0.86
00:05:12.700 And she's out of shape. 0.78
00:05:14.060 She's miserable.
00:05:14.780 She spends all her free time keeping up with the Kardashians, quote unquote.
00:05:19.740 And she always likes to remind people that she was the homecoming queen. 0.95
00:05:24.320 You know these people, don't you?
00:05:25.980 We know a lot of them.
00:05:27.280 In fact, that's most people.
00:05:29.360 The car sales guy who displays the sales award that he got in 1978.
00:05:34.220 The lady who tells everybody she got the district teacher of the year in 2004. 0.81
00:05:38.880 But she's fucking sucked ever since. 1.00
00:05:42.000 The actor who won the Academy Award in the first movie they ever made and hasn't done shit since that.
00:05:48.360 You know those kind of people because that's most people.
00:05:52.560 And then there's people that are different.
00:05:55.860 There's people like my brother Sal.
00:05:58.060 Okay?
00:05:58.340 A lot of you guys know him.
00:05:59.320 He's at Mr. Frisella on Instagram.
00:06:02.120 Guys, you guys see, follow me.
00:06:04.540 You know we make fun of each other a lot.
00:06:06.460 We tease each other.
00:06:07.400 And I'm pretty hard on him.
00:06:09.180 And he's pretty hard on me back.
00:06:10.800 That's what brothers do.
00:06:12.400 To be completely honest, you guys are lucky that you haven't seen us beat the shit out of each other.
00:06:17.260 Because that happens about every 60 days.
00:06:19.520 All right?
00:06:20.280 But that's how we roll.
00:06:22.280 That's what Frisellas are like. 1.00
00:06:23.960 And if we rip on you, we make fun of you, we like you.
00:06:27.260 All right?
00:06:27.580 And that's our way of showing affection.
00:06:29.620 But I want to tell you a couple things about my brother.
00:06:33.040 Because while I do make fun of him a lot, there's some things that I think you need to know.
00:06:37.820 And I think it sets an amazing example for what you should be doing as well.
00:06:43.180 And some things that you don't know about him because he will not talk about them.
00:06:48.060 All right?
00:06:49.000 Sal was an amazing athlete.
00:06:51.260 Amazing athlete.
00:06:52.100 I'm talking world-class athlete.
00:06:54.500 You guys don't understand that.
00:06:56.420 You guys know he's competitive.
00:06:57.940 You know he's tough.
00:06:59.120 You know he's strong.
00:07:00.280 You know he's fast.
00:07:01.400 But I don't think you ever understand how good he really was.
00:07:05.580 Every single sport that he ever played, he fucking dominated everyone.
00:07:12.020 Okay?
00:07:12.820 But he doesn't talk about it.
00:07:14.440 He was the starter on his baseball team in college.
00:07:18.760 But he doesn't talk about it.
00:07:20.620 In fact, he was an All-American baseball player in college.
00:07:25.440 But he doesn't talk about it.
00:07:27.580 He would have for sure been a Major League Baseball player if he hadn't have broken his leg in a game.
00:07:34.940 And if you don't believe me, go to YouTube, type in Sal Fursella home plate collision and watch the video.
00:07:41.740 And I think you'll understand why he had to stop playing.
00:07:45.060 But he doesn't talk about it.
00:07:47.220 Okay?
00:07:47.480 He was the number one salesperson at Johnson & Johnson Ethicon in the world.
00:07:53.400 In the world.
00:07:55.200 But he doesn't talk about it.
00:07:58.000 Why doesn't he talk about this shit?
00:08:00.080 Because it happened years ago.
00:08:02.620 Years ago.
00:08:03.820 But you know what?
00:08:04.900 It wouldn't have mattered if it happened months ago.
00:08:07.240 It wouldn't have mattered if it happened weeks ago.
00:08:10.000 It wouldn't have mattered if it happened yesterday.
00:08:11.960 Because truly successful people know and understand there's a statue of limitations on talking about the glory days.
00:08:22.320 They follow this rule.
00:08:24.380 And this rule will change your life.
00:08:27.740 Okay?
00:08:28.180 I call it the 24-hour rule of bragging.
00:08:32.120 You can talk about what success you have today.
00:08:34.680 But tomorrow, it's over.
00:08:38.040 It's history.
00:08:39.000 It's irrelevant.
00:08:40.380 Average people like to talk about what they did in 1980 fucking 3. 0.73
00:08:45.720 Successful people don't talk about what happened in 1980 fucking 3 or even yesterday. 0.87
00:08:52.040 In fact, most successful people have a hard time even remembering the accomplishments that they made in the past.
00:09:00.420 They think of success in terms of present tense.
00:09:04.680 They think of it in terms of today.
00:09:07.180 They think of it in terms of right now.
00:09:09.560 Not, I used to dominate.
00:09:11.780 I used to be good.
00:09:13.320 I used to be great.
00:09:14.980 It's, I am dominating.
00:09:17.240 I am great.
00:09:19.000 Right now.
00:09:20.380 Average people use past success to feel good about themselves so they can let up on the gas and half-ass their way through the rest of their life.
00:09:28.460 And guys, that is no way to live.
00:09:32.620 Now, I need to clarify something.
00:09:36.040 Yes, it does help if you have a history of winning.
00:09:39.540 It does help if you have a history of dominating.
00:09:42.260 It gives you the confidence that you'll be able to do it again and again and again.
00:09:47.480 It gives you the confidence and the belief that you're capable of anything.
00:09:52.080 But the only thing successful people really use from the past is momentum.
00:09:58.700 They've strung together a series of victories and they are going to keep that streak going no matter what.
00:10:05.420 And momentum, guys, is a powerful thing.
00:10:07.740 Because as long as you focus on succeeding now, you're going to be able to keep that momentum,
00:10:13.020 which is going to continue to push you further down the path that you're trying to go today.
00:10:18.260 And like I said, guys, that's what truly successful people do.
00:10:23.460 That's how they think and that's how they operate.
00:10:25.860 They put the focus on today that defines success in the present tense.
00:10:30.280 They have 24 hours to beat their chest and say, yeah, I'm fucking great.
00:10:35.300 But after that, dude, they don't talk about it.
00:10:37.440 They aren't going to rest easy because of their past successes, because they were in Forbes one time,
00:10:42.940 or they made $1 million, or they made $100,000 last year.
00:10:47.920 They don't talk about that shit.
00:10:49.980 Oh, and by the way, there's another benefit to this mindset.
00:10:53.580 Suppose you made a shit show of your life.
00:10:56.520 Suppose you fucked up your high school years.
00:10:59.620 Suppose you made a wreck of the large portion of your life that has happened up until this point.
00:11:05.820 Guess what?
00:11:06.460 Who the fuck cares?
00:11:09.420 That was yesterday.
00:11:10.940 Today is what matters.
00:11:13.240 Who you were yesterday, who you were the last 30 years or 20 years or 10 years or 40 years or 80 years
00:11:20.480 is not who you are now.
00:11:24.880 That was yesterday.
00:11:26.640 Failures are past tense.
00:11:28.700 Past successes are past tense.
00:11:31.280 There is no different.
00:11:32.340 Both are irrelevant other than the case of what momentum they create.
00:11:37.820 Now, if you have lost for the last 30, 40, 70 years, you're going to have to switch the momentum,
00:11:44.300 which is why I created the 75 Hard program, believe it or not.
00:11:50.200 A lot of you guys keep saying, oh, it's fitness.
00:11:52.820 No, it's not fucking fitness.
00:11:54.240 This is a momentum changer.
00:11:56.360 This is about changing from who you were to who you want to be in 75 fucking days. 0.88
00:12:02.800 And if you want to learn more about that, you can go listen to the podcast.
00:12:05.200 But guys, the point is this.
00:12:07.920 Domination's about today.
00:12:09.900 You got 24 hours to enjoy your win.
00:12:12.680 24 hours to feel great about yourself.
00:12:15.000 But tomorrow, you've got to earn it all over again.
00:12:19.380 And when you adopt the 24-hour bragging rule, okay, and a lot of you guys sitting there right now,
00:12:26.720 you're saying, oh, well, I'm not a bragger.
00:12:28.700 Well, fuck, dude.
00:12:29.660 Then don't brag.
00:12:30.720 I don't give a fuck.
00:12:31.620 But just don't talk about it at all.
00:12:33.680 Let your actions speak.
00:12:35.240 I don't care.
00:12:36.000 I like to talk shit.
00:12:37.260 I like to rub it in people's face a little bit.
00:12:39.360 That's me.
00:12:40.140 Maybe that's not your style, but I can tell you this.
00:12:42.500 I used to have the style that you have, and it wasn't as fun as the style of rubbing it in people's face for 24 fucking hours.
00:12:48.220 That's just me being real, all right?
00:12:50.500 Everybody else is going to say, oh, do it for yourself and blah, blah, blah.
00:12:53.440 Fuck that, dude.
00:12:54.300 Hey, everybody, look at me.
00:12:55.260 I'm winning.
00:12:55.660 Fuck you.
00:12:56.200 That's what I think, okay?
00:12:58.060 Especially the motherfuckers that used to make fun of me and pick on me and trash me and this and that. 1.00
00:13:02.660 And you could say that's insecure.
00:13:03.900 You could say that's petty.
00:13:04.960 I don't give a fuck.
00:13:06.260 I'm happy to be both because I'm having a great fucking time, all right?
00:13:09.780 Here's the reality, guys.
00:13:11.460 Stop hanging your hat on the fucking high school football game, on the homecoming queen, on that hundred pounds you lost five years ago but then gained it all back.
00:13:24.840 Nobody fucking cares, and it's irrelevant.
00:13:27.520 Start focusing on today.
00:13:29.400 Hey, if you have a big win, post about it.
00:13:32.760 I want to see it.
00:13:34.000 Tag me in that motherfucking post.
00:13:35.900 I'll support you.
00:13:37.260 I'm happy for people that win.
00:13:39.700 But I don't want to see you posting about it every fucking throwback Thursday for the next seven fucking years.
00:13:46.020 If you do that shit, I just block you for being a loser, okay?
00:13:50.580 We are here to win.
00:13:51.960 We are here to progress.
00:13:53.460 We are here to fucking dominate.
00:13:54.980 And the only way you can do that is by letting go of who you were and becoming who the fuck you were meant to be.
00:14:02.640 We are here to win.
00:14:03.820 We are here to win.
00:14:06.900 Bye.
00:14:08.480 Bye.
00:14:09.180 Bye.
00:14:09.640 Bye.
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00:14:14.860 Bye.
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