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Miss Understood No. 23 — Why Libs Have Mental Health Issues


Summary

In this episode, we talk about parenting in the age of social media, why it seems like liberals are more likely to be diagnosed with a mental disorder, and why we should all be worried about what we're doing with our kids.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Hello and welcome to Misunderstood, the show for the culturally and politically misunderstood
00:00:23.700 lady or gent. We are your hosts. I'm Nat. And I'm Kat. Today we're going to talk about parenting in the age of social media, why it seems liberals are more likely to be diagnosed with a mental disorder. That's true. And Barbie! Barbie! Yay! But first, a culture shock moment of the week. Take it away, Nat. Yeah, so y'all, moms who went through COVID breakups say solo parenting is much easier. For some reason, though, it feels
00:00:53.700 like a cheat. Maybe because you cheated on your husband during COVID? Yeah, with yourself. Yeah. Like, maybe you just put all your needs and wants before your family's? Hmm. I don't know. It does actually say something in the article about, um, yeah, I wrote it. I didn't write it down. It says something about, like, self-care is easier. Yeah, I don't understand how. Well, because I'll tell you that. You can lay in the tub with cucumbers over your eyes while a babysitter raises your child and your child
00:01:23.680 grows up to have, um, relationship and commitment issues because of their divorced parents. Right. Well, it's good for you and your cucumbers. Well, it must be nice. And I think, okay, I think moms are amazing. Moms need breaks. They deserve breaks. Yes. But during the pandemic, like, that would have been hard on everyone. It would have been hard on your husband, would have been hard on you, your children, depending on your financial situation, depending on everything. So, like, I don't like this, like, victim status that moms are trying to claim during the pandemic
00:01:53.680 Yeah. Also, the pandemic, it was long, but it was only two years. Yeah. Like, of a marriage. Yeah. Marriage is supposed to be a lifelong commitment. Yeah. It's not a casual, like, haven't you been married for most of the pandemic? Yeah. Well, I've been married three years now. And it's funny because they talk about, like, stresses on the marriage that are, like, undeniable. And it's like, but what about for better, for worse? You know, for richer, for poorer? Like, okay, your spouse lost their job? Well, tough love. You signed up to be with that person regardless of those sorts of,
00:02:23.660 strains that you face in a marriage. Yeah. Just really selfish and, like, it is. I don't know. And it's weird that, I think this is from Insider, how they're totally glamorizing divorce and, like, in the picture. And being a single mom. And being a single mom. And the picture on the article is, like, a drawing of a woman holding her baby and they're, like, smiling and then the dad's, like, packing up his car in the background. I just want to read, yeah, it's very, like, I want to read a small quote from it. I know this is just a culture shock, so we shouldn't get too much into it, but it's shocking to me. It is. Yeah. Anyways, it says,
00:02:51.720 The variety of pandemic-related stressors on marriages has been undeniable, including financial stress due to job loss, which you mentioned, additional child care burdens, and inescapable together time.
00:03:02.580 So, like, they list three things. Two of them are actually better with a partner. Like, financial stress due to job loss. Yeah. Better with a partner. Additional child care burdens. Better with a partner. Yeah.
00:03:14.840 And inescapable together time. Again, like, yeah, it's tough being locked in the room with somebody, but, like, ideally, your spouse is someone you can tolerate.
00:03:22.100 Or, you know, go for a walk. Yeah. You know, there are ways. In some places, that was illegal. Sure. That's true. But, you know, just break the law. You're willing to break up your family, but you're not willing to break the law.
00:03:31.940 Yeah. Seriously. Seriously. You know? It's sad. It is sad. It's sad. Anyway, so, um, it's all part of the great reason.
00:03:38.720 It's true. They want you to have nothing, including a family. Yeah. Okay. Great. Okay. Let's move on. So, uh, Hollywood parents. Okay. Let's end some boundaries with kids. Get into maybe a little bit of that.
00:03:49.900 And social media. Like, it's, it's about, a lot of these articles are about Hollywood people. Yeah. But they apply to the average person who posts their kid on the internet.
00:03:57.840 A thousand percent. Yeah. So, this is an article from Vice, and obviously, they tend to lean a little bit more left. But I thought a lot of the stuff they shared was pretty factual. Like, I didn't think it would.
00:04:08.300 It really leaned one way or the other, which is nice. It's refreshing. So, why you need to be more careful about turning your family into content.
00:04:15.960 So, basically, in summary, guys, it's never been easier for people to steal your identity. And guess what? They can start with your baby.
00:04:25.000 They can steal your baby's identity. Yeah. That's, that was the most shocking part to me. Because it's like, so, the dangers that they mention here are specifically identity theft.
00:04:33.060 And then also setting your kid up to be stalked or abused or kidnapped. Yeah. If you're posting too much personal information.
00:04:39.240 But I never thought about, like, setting your kid up to have their identity stolen when they're grown up. Yeah.
00:04:46.140 Like, by posting their birthday and their favorite, like, what was the, that's often the questions.
00:04:50.060 Like a code for a bank account. Exactly. Like, what are your secret questions? Like, oh, what was the name of your first school?
00:04:54.180 What was the name of your first childhood best friend? The street you lived on. Exactly.
00:04:56.780 Your first vacation. Exactly. So, you're posting those things for all the world to see. And it's, and some of these things are talking about how teachers will post private information about your kid.
00:05:07.020 Yeah. Like, teachers do not post anything about someone else's child on the internet. My goodness. Yeah. My goodness gracious.
00:05:13.180 Well, and I think, like, obviously, social media is a wonderful tool that connects people together, especially, you know, during the pandemic where we live out of province, away from our family and friends and stuff.
00:05:21.800 It's nice to see their little babies online. Yeah. But one thing I think is important to note, too, like, your kids can't consent to this at all.
00:05:28.480 Like, your little baby that you're sharing the photo of doesn't know what the heck's going on.
00:05:32.280 And one day they may grow up and be like, hey, that's not, I'd feel a bit, like, invaded. Yeah. A little bit, you know?
00:05:37.860 Especially if you're an influencer and you're monetizing it. Yeah. Like, it's exploitative.
00:05:41.920 Yeah. One of the people here, it's like this lifestyle influencer said that she's often asked to include her young son on marketing campaigns and she's learning to say no. Wow.
00:05:50.880 I mean, the fact that she's saying I'm learning to say no means you know it's wrong.
00:05:54.460 Yeah. You know it's wrong, but you've done it in the past so much that you're only now learning to say no.
00:05:58.240 And she's like, whenever I post a picture of my child, I always make sure that, like, a family member's in the picture with them.
00:06:04.580 I don't see how that changes anything. Yeah. I don't really either.
00:06:07.320 How does that, like, a pervert can crop you out no problem.
00:06:10.240 Right. That's the thing. And when you're sharing a photo and you're on a public domain, like, literally the whole world has access to that.
00:06:16.620 And you cannot filter those people out. No. And you can't get it out. Exactly.
00:06:19.500 And you can't get it back. Yeah. We know that. Exactly.
00:06:21.760 And, like, we've talked about, like, toxic mommy culture on the show before, too.
00:06:24.460 And a lot of times we see moms will post for likes just to get, like, but it'll be at the expense of their own child.
00:06:30.860 And it's like, we've talked about this already, but, like, when your child grows up and they see that you're calling them an asshole for doing nothing wrong.
00:06:36.480 Like, one of the articles that we talk about is, like, that TikTok trend where they trick their kid into thinking that they're going to go fight another parent.
00:06:43.760 Like, I need you to come with me. I need backup because we're going to go fight this other mom and the kid.
00:06:48.060 And they're like, oh, like, she's a ride or die. It's like, you're traumatizing your child.
00:06:52.680 First of all, you're lying to their face. And you're scaring them.
00:06:55.460 You're scaring them. You're teaching them. If they don't understand it's a joke because they're so young, you're teaching them that violence is that way to resolve conflict.
00:07:02.320 Yeah. And you're doing it all for likes. Yeah. Or money.
00:07:05.960 Yeah. It's kind of gross. It's horrible.
00:07:06.900 And, like, what do you really get from getting a million likes on your Instagram posts?
00:07:10.620 Nothing of value, really.
00:07:12.240 You know, even if it is your job. I just don't see why kids need to be, you know, the unconsenting subjects of this.
00:07:19.520 We need t-shirts that say that.
00:07:20.880 Yeah.
00:07:21.260 Oh, my gosh.
00:07:21.740 Although I didn't coin that term, but we can steal it anyway.
00:07:24.100 Who cares?
00:07:24.320 We'll steal it.
00:07:25.880 And then apparently, guys, you know, there's a variety of smart toys that can also be hacked.
00:07:30.260 And I've always thought this.
00:07:31.500 I had no idea.
00:07:32.900 Oh, really?
00:07:33.420 I had no idea this was a thing.
00:07:34.660 Oh, that's so scary.
00:07:35.340 So, guys, throw away your Alexas.
00:07:37.200 Not your Alexa Lavoie.
00:07:38.240 She's great.
00:07:38.680 No, she's amazing.
00:07:38.940 But throw away your, like, smart home stuff because they can be hacked.
00:07:43.160 And then guess what?
00:07:43.720 People not only can...
00:07:44.700 Well, that I kind of knew, but I didn't think about children's toys.
00:07:47.480 Yeah, children's toys.
00:07:48.200 Yeah, I know.
00:07:48.800 And so that's scary.
00:07:49.740 So your kid's playing in their little room with this little camera bear and the perverts watching them play.
00:07:54.560 There's actually a Family Guy episode on the newest season about that exact thing.
00:07:57.400 Really?
00:07:57.520 It's like a bear made in China.
00:07:58.940 And it's like the bear dances when you tell it your mom's credit card number and your sin number.
00:08:04.020 Exactly.
00:08:04.580 It's so funny.
00:08:05.340 They knew.
00:08:06.160 Yeah.
00:08:06.520 They knew.
00:08:07.400 Yeah.
00:08:08.780 So I think, like, obviously, it's up to your discretion to share.
00:08:13.140 But I think it's important to note that, like, everyone is watching and people can build a case against you.
00:08:18.440 That will result in something detrimental.
00:08:20.180 This could impact your child's whole future if their identity's stolen before they're, like, 18.
00:08:24.860 I've heard that's a real bitch.
00:08:26.840 Having your identity stolen.
00:08:27.960 Yeah.
00:08:28.400 Because then it's really hard to prove because your identity's been stolen.
00:08:32.000 Exactly.
00:08:32.480 And then good luck buying a house.
00:08:34.180 I guess, you know, maybe this is all part of the great reset, too.
00:08:36.900 I don't know.
00:08:37.860 You will owe nothing because I stole your identity when you were eight.
00:08:41.140 Yeah.
00:08:41.320 What are your personal thoughts on sharing?
00:08:43.680 I don't know.
00:08:44.720 Like, I...
00:08:45.160 It's a tough one.
00:08:45.740 It is a tough one because, like I said, I like to see my friends have kids and they live far away.
00:08:51.300 I like to see their little babies, like, growing up and being hilarious and stuff like that.
00:08:55.700 But I don't know.
00:08:57.100 I think that they should...
00:08:58.280 Their personal boundaries should also be respected because they don't understand what a parent is doing when they post a photo.
00:09:04.740 I don't know.
00:09:05.480 And is there any difference, do you think, when it comes to making your account private?
00:09:09.960 Because I feel like it's still on the Internet somehow.
00:09:12.100 Yeah, you're right.
00:09:13.160 Like, you could make it private, but then one bad actor who follows you can screenshot it and do whatever they want with it.
00:09:18.860 I was thinking, you know how you can post stories and make it for close friends only?
00:09:22.540 Right.
00:09:22.820 Or you could keep your list.
00:09:26.280 Like, you could block anyone who you think is a creep.
00:09:29.260 Or have a separate Instagram that's literally just, like, grandparents, like, best friends.
00:09:34.780 And know that, like, none of those people are going to do anything nefarious with your photos.
00:09:38.420 Yes.
00:09:38.820 Because I know people who have had kids in the, like, recently, and they were like, I'm not going to share any photos with them.
00:09:43.740 And that literally went out the window in the first, like, two months.
00:09:45.900 Yeah, because their kid's adorable.
00:09:47.540 Yeah, exactly.
00:09:47.880 Like, I want the world to see.
00:09:48.700 Yeah, I get that.
00:09:49.200 You know, it's tough.
00:09:49.820 I don't really, I don't have super strong convictions about it, but I think, like, I don't know, once it's on the Internet, it's there forever.
00:09:55.720 And someone, some creep might take advantage of that.
00:09:58.920 So I just think it's something to keep in mind.
00:10:00.460 And especially when it comes to posting, like, photos of your kids in, like, swimsuits.
00:10:04.880 Yeah.
00:10:05.700 Naked photos.
00:10:06.580 Oh.
00:10:06.940 Stuff like that.
00:10:07.780 Or anything embarrassing.
00:10:09.120 Yeah.
00:10:09.480 Like, we all have our moms go through our family photo albums.
00:10:13.800 And you're like, aw, mom, why do you?
00:10:15.540 It's horrifying.
00:10:15.820 Like, you have that picture of me in the bathtub, but it's like, it's in a little book, closed.
00:10:19.460 Yeah.
00:10:19.700 And it only comes out once every seven years.
00:10:21.660 Like, okay, fine.
00:10:22.780 To humble you.
00:10:23.580 It is, yes.
00:10:24.280 And it does.
00:10:25.140 And it does.
00:10:25.640 Yeah.
00:10:25.780 But it's different when you're posting, like, one of the things in this article is, like, nannies will, this one woman worked for a nanny agency.
00:10:34.520 And she said, we have very strict rules about, like, you can't post anything about day trips.
00:10:39.400 First of all, I don't understand why you're posting about your client's kids anyways.
00:10:42.400 It's kind of weird.
00:10:42.940 It's kind of weird.
00:10:43.540 But if, and I do the same thing with myself because I've been stalked.
00:10:47.000 So I don't post where I am.
00:10:49.120 I'm super famous.
00:10:50.040 Yes, never post your location.
00:10:51.240 Never post where you are at the time.
00:10:52.740 If you want later on when you're safe at wherever you are and you live or whatever.
00:10:57.440 But you can be like, oh, I was at this place.
00:11:00.400 Yeah.
00:11:00.700 Don't give times.
00:11:01.540 Don't give dates.
00:11:02.140 And if you want a location tag, don't do it when you're there.
00:11:04.720 Especially not even just children, though.
00:11:06.360 Like, human traffickers can use that.
00:11:08.000 When you're in Bali and you're posting bikini photos on the beach, they know exactly where you are and they can come find you.
00:11:13.100 Or they can break into your house.
00:11:14.480 Exactly.
00:11:15.020 So I think it's important.
00:11:16.460 Privacy should be something that our culture tries to embrace a little bit more, I think.
00:11:20.700 And I think this is a good segue into our next article, maybe, because it's about respecting another kid's privacy.
00:11:28.400 We all love the Kardashians on this show.
00:11:31.100 Just kidding.
00:11:32.600 Yeah, this is gross.
00:11:33.820 So Kim Kardashian is making light of Northwest discomfort at the paparazzi.
00:11:39.340 And that sparked a conversation around respecting kids' boundaries and growing up in the spotlight.
00:11:45.180 Sure.
00:11:45.740 So they were in Paris at, I don't know exactly which fashion show it was.
00:11:50.400 I think it was, like, Fashion Week, right?
00:11:51.940 I don't know.
00:11:52.420 It doesn't really matter.
00:11:52.760 It was something bougie.
00:11:53.900 She's sitting next to Anna Wintour.
00:11:56.160 Kim brought North, who actually looks so much better than Kim in every outfit.
00:12:00.880 Yeah, she's so cool.
00:12:01.540 Her outfits are so much better.
00:12:02.680 She's intimidatingly cool.
00:12:04.000 She's so much cooler than her mom.
00:12:05.960 Yes.
00:12:06.200 It's embarrassing.
00:12:07.180 She's little Kanye.
00:12:08.040 Anyways.
00:12:08.300 She is.
00:12:09.560 And North was upset with all the paparazzi following them.
00:12:13.680 There's two instances.
00:12:14.560 One is when they're at the fashion show in the front row.
00:12:16.580 And she holds up a sign that she wrote stop on it.
00:12:19.900 And Kim on her IG posted the following.
00:12:23.800 She said, for anyone who knows North, sorry, for anyone who knows North knows how funny she is.
00:12:30.700 Oh, my God.
00:12:31.280 I can't read.
00:12:31.840 For anyone who knows North knows how funny she finds this video.
00:12:35.380 So, North, I guess, had it with the people taking pictures of her.
00:12:39.520 You guess.
00:12:39.620 So, she wrote on her invite stop and held it up and wanted them to just focus on the show.
00:12:45.060 I think I'm bad at reading, but I also think she's bad at writing.
00:12:48.320 I think that's a double whammy there.
00:12:49.520 She's bad at being a mom, I guess, too.
00:12:52.260 No, I'm just kidding.
00:12:52.920 So, your kid is in the front row.
00:12:54.660 Yeah.
00:12:54.860 And you're like, I guess.
00:12:56.140 I guess she was uncomfortable.
00:12:58.280 Well, exactly.
00:12:59.120 And apparently, this has been an ongoing thing for North.
00:13:01.960 When North was two years old, she was filmed yelling no pictures to a bunch of photographers.
00:13:06.140 So, that was in 2015.
00:13:07.680 So, she's had a lifelong, you know, journey with this.
00:13:12.020 And she hates being photographed.
00:13:13.660 And her mom knows and doesn't care.
00:13:16.320 Like, that's what it.
00:13:16.880 But that's how it translates to me.
00:13:18.380 Yeah, but, like, think about who raised Kim Kardashian.
00:13:20.500 Yeah.
00:13:20.740 She was exploited by her mother, Kris Jenner.
00:13:24.180 Sure, but if your child is literally telling you, hey.
00:13:27.320 And they're a child.
00:13:28.180 And they're a child.
00:13:28.880 And they're like, I don't like this.
00:13:30.420 You should try to respect that.
00:13:31.840 Because they didn't sign up to grow up in the spotlight.
00:13:34.940 Obviously, that's going to afford them a bunch of wonderful privileges.
00:13:38.060 And I'm excited for you, North.
00:13:40.000 But, like, I don't think I would want to be bombarded by creepy men telling me I'm cool.
00:13:44.560 No.
00:13:44.820 And stuff like that.
00:13:45.280 Like, we love you, North.
00:13:46.000 Yeah, we're here for you.
00:13:47.180 It's super creepy.
00:13:47.300 You know?
00:13:47.760 Like, it's very inappropriate.
00:13:48.860 Adults who lose their minds at it.
00:13:50.920 Yeah, exactly.
00:13:51.860 And, like, kids don't have, they can't navigate this.
00:13:54.380 They don't understand it fully.
00:13:55.700 So, I just think.
00:13:56.020 I mean, even, like, sorry.
00:13:57.220 No, go, go.
00:13:57.880 But, like, even Princess Di.
00:13:59.700 Like, many people believe that was a cause of her death.
00:14:03.800 I think that's what it, I think that's, I mean, some people believe it was.
00:14:08.500 But, but I think the commonly held belief is that the paparazzi were following her.
00:14:13.340 They were so obsessed with her.
00:14:14.740 They built her up into such an icon.
00:14:17.120 Yeah.
00:14:17.200 That they, that paparazzo was, like, following on the motorcycle and they went in the tunnel and then the car crashed.
00:14:21.700 It's like, you could hurt the child.
00:14:24.980 Yeah.
00:14:25.180 And Kim's just, and I think someone on the internet, because, you know, the internet, they said that the custody hearing is, like, next month between her and Kanye.
00:14:33.080 So, that's why she's bringing North and the kids out so much more than she used to.
00:14:36.740 Because, like, she used to just walk around with her skimpy outfits alone.
00:14:40.300 But now she's doing it with her kids.
00:14:41.580 But now she always has her kids as her props.
00:14:42.540 Yeah.
00:14:42.700 And it's like, oh, see?
00:14:43.700 Because she's such a great mom.
00:14:44.560 She always has her kids with her.
00:14:45.400 It's like, your kids are not having a fun time.
00:14:47.400 And you're using them as a prop.
00:14:49.260 And you're putting them in the front row of this fashion show.
00:14:53.000 Well, and it's like, you should be shielding your kids from this kind of life.
00:14:56.760 Like, you should want them to grow up as normal as possible.
00:14:59.220 She doesn't want that.
00:14:59.920 Well, and obviously, you know, they're public figures.
00:15:01.840 They're going to be recognized.
00:15:02.660 But so many other celebrities are pretty good at managing that, you know, healthy balance.
00:15:08.320 And setting boundaries between the paparazzi and their kids.
00:15:10.540 Like, Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis or some of them.
00:15:12.600 I have no idea what their kids look like.
00:15:13.960 Yeah, exactly.
00:15:14.400 There's so many celebrities who have kids.
00:15:15.940 I'm like, they could be in this office.
00:15:17.940 I'd have no idea.
00:15:18.860 Yeah.
00:15:19.140 Apparently, somewhere in the article, it talked about even Beyonce.
00:15:23.100 And how her kid Ivy is, like, way older now.
00:15:25.820 And people didn't even recognize her because they've never seen photos of her until recently.
00:15:29.640 So, it's like, I don't know.
00:15:31.080 You can do it, Kim.
00:15:32.080 You should respect your kid.
00:15:33.560 I get you're, like, a camera whore.
00:15:35.500 That's fine.
00:15:36.200 You do you.
00:15:36.860 But, like, you shouldn't do that at the expense of your child.
00:15:39.700 Like, your underage child.
00:15:41.000 Yeah, and especially when you can't even pretend, like, it's an infant.
00:15:44.060 Where you're like, I don't know.
00:15:44.740 Maybe she likes it.
00:15:45.540 She doesn't.
00:15:46.300 She doesn't.
00:15:47.700 Yeah.
00:15:48.040 And also, like, I just also have a problem, I think, with paparazzi taking photos of children in general.
00:15:52.800 Yeah, it's super creepy.
00:15:53.340 Like, go and harass adults.
00:15:55.040 I don't really care.
00:15:55.940 They all secretly like it, I think.
00:15:57.580 But, like, not kids.
00:15:58.820 Like, you're a creep.
00:15:59.780 And I bet you have children.
00:16:01.000 Would you want your own children to be?
00:16:02.860 Yeah.
00:16:03.260 You know.
00:16:03.640 It's everyone's fault.
00:16:04.780 It's everyone's fault.
00:16:05.520 And it's the people who share the photos' fault.
00:16:07.460 Yes.
00:16:08.160 Like, including us.
00:16:09.560 Yeah.
00:16:10.260 It's our fault.
00:16:10.780 Also, I don't have, I'll try and find the link, but I think I sent it to you.
00:16:16.720 There's examples of Kim Kardashian photoshopping her kids in Instagram.
00:16:21.400 Sure, that won't mess them up when they grow up.
00:16:23.640 She'll photo, she'll literally make their stomachs flatter.
00:16:26.560 Like, they're little kids.
00:16:27.500 They have little kid bellies.
00:16:28.960 And she'll make them flatter, and she'll make their noses smaller, and their eyes bigger, and their lips bigger.
00:16:33.240 And, like, that's, like, abuse.
00:16:36.340 Isn't that abuse?
00:16:37.120 That is psychological abuse.
00:16:37.920 That's literally, like, the same.
00:16:39.240 It's the same as locking your kid up in a closet and telling them to come out when they're prettier.
00:16:42.780 Like, it's, like, that's, like, some Carrie stuff.
00:16:44.860 Like, don't project your weird insecurities onto your kids.
00:16:48.520 They're going to grow up, and that's going to screw them up.
00:16:50.900 That is so egregious.
00:16:51.500 Yeah, they're going to look at photos on your Instagram and be like, oh, my God, my nose is so much bigger in real life.
00:16:55.900 Like, I'm going to have a nose job.
00:16:56.820 And they'll be like, okay, sweetheart.
00:16:58.420 Well, we already have a doctor lined up for you.
00:16:59.920 It's like, they should look into that.
00:17:02.660 Yeah.
00:17:02.900 I hope it comes up in their custody.
00:17:04.440 Me too.
00:17:04.980 That's just.
00:17:05.540 Maybe, because Kanye's been really quiet lately.
00:17:07.380 Yeah, he has been.
00:17:08.300 Maybe he's just, like, I hope.
00:17:10.160 Let the crazy run free.
00:17:11.800 Let her Photoshop my children.
00:17:13.160 Let her bring them out, and let them have meltdowns in public, and then I'll say my piece.
00:17:16.940 I hope.
00:17:17.460 Yeah.
00:17:18.000 Let's pray for them.
00:17:18.700 We'll pray for them.
00:17:19.260 You too, guys.
00:17:20.060 Yeah.
00:17:20.160 Okay, great.
00:17:21.820 Speaking of.
00:17:22.360 Great.
00:17:22.760 Speaking of parents who actually have a bit of a different approach to this, Cardi B actually is trying to raise her kids to understand their privilege, and she explains in this article why she never hired a nanny.
00:17:33.380 I didn't know she was so kind of down to earth.
00:17:36.420 Yeah, I had no idea.
00:17:37.800 It's interesting.
00:17:38.480 This article is very eye-opening.
00:17:39.600 Yeah, it really is.
00:17:40.600 So she's a four-year-old daughter named Culture and a 10-month-old son named Wave with Offset, and she basically said she didn't.
00:17:50.160 She didn't even think about getting a nanny because she doesn't want other people besides her family around her kid.
00:17:54.680 Pretty fair.
00:17:55.260 I think it's so base.
00:17:56.500 But she probably is like, sometimes people who take care of your kids can't be trusted, so I'm going to protect my children at all costs.
00:18:04.040 And...
00:18:04.360 Yeah, because who your child spends the most time with is who's influencing them.
00:18:07.280 Yeah, even if they're not a creepy perv, they're still like, don't you want to raise your kid?
00:18:12.440 Yeah.
00:18:13.060 Like, I would hope so.
00:18:14.780 That's why you had a child.
00:18:15.780 Yeah.
00:18:16.020 And one of the things I really appreciate is she talks about how she doesn't want to burden her mother either.
00:18:21.000 Even though, like, grandmas love babies, it's like, no, it's still my kid, my responsibility.
00:18:26.140 They've already raised kids.
00:18:27.740 It's time for me to, you know, give my mom a break.
00:18:31.660 Yeah, that's what she said.
00:18:32.480 She's like, she's lived her life.
00:18:33.620 She's older.
00:18:34.720 I respect that.
00:18:35.380 Yeah, and she said she's never had so much respect for her mother than after having her own kids, which is really cool.
00:18:40.560 Yeah, and it's cool that this very famous, very busy person is prioritizing her kids.
00:18:45.980 And she's doing both, though.
00:18:47.440 She's working, but she's making sure that her kids are coming first.
00:18:50.440 And I think women can do it all.
00:18:52.840 Seriously.
00:18:53.340 We can do it all.
00:18:54.040 She proves it.
00:18:54.760 Yeah.
00:18:55.200 And she's only 29.
00:18:56.520 Yeah.
00:18:57.240 So, good on you, Cardi.
00:18:59.100 Yeah.
00:18:59.680 Good on you.
00:19:00.160 That's awesome.
00:19:02.360 Should we move on?
00:19:03.360 Yeah, this is a fun little article.
00:19:05.400 I mean, it's kind of silly, but it's, this article is called, No One's Jeans Work Harder Than Reese Witherspoon's.
00:19:11.760 And it's, like, kind of just a fluff piece.
00:19:14.360 It's mostly about how her daughter is her twin.
00:19:18.620 But I think it's, like, Reese.
00:19:20.860 It's mostly Reese saying that.
00:19:22.280 Like, look, we're twins.
00:19:23.100 It's like, okay, your daughter's like, you're 100, so shut up.
00:19:25.620 No, I'm just kidding.
00:19:26.280 They're both beautiful, but it's like, okay, Reese.
00:19:28.780 Um, but basically, Reese Witherspoon talks about how she didn't grow up rich or famous,
00:19:34.860 so she's having an interesting time navigating raising her kids to be super wealthy, and she
00:19:41.820 has friends in Hollywood who are helping her figure that out.
00:19:44.760 And it kind of leads into the next story, which is Tom Brady says rich and famous life,
00:19:48.840 uh, says rich and famous lifestyle is the hardest thing about raising his kids.
00:19:52.020 Yeah, and, okay, he's, like, one of the things he says in this article is we have people that
00:19:56.760 clean for us, um, who's, and he's made over $300 million in NFL contracts alone, and he
00:20:01.960 says we have people.
00:20:02.480 And his wife is one of the most famous models ever, yeah.
00:20:05.160 And he says we have people who make our food.
00:20:06.520 We have people who drive us to the airport.
00:20:08.100 Um, we get off the plane, and there's people there waiting for us.
00:20:10.420 It's like, okay, yes, you have all this money, but you don't actually have to do all of
00:20:13.500 those things.
00:20:14.000 Like, if you really wanted, you could cook for yourself.
00:20:16.420 Like, rich people do do that.
00:20:18.100 Like, rich people do drive their own cars.
00:20:20.500 Rich people can fly however they want.
00:20:23.580 So, it's like, you could shield your kids a little bit.
00:20:26.440 Like, it's kind of a silly thing for him to say.
00:20:29.040 Yeah.
00:20:29.700 Honestly.
00:20:30.560 Yeah.
00:20:31.000 I mean, I think it's interesting that people, like, freaked out at him saying that.
00:20:34.500 Like, oh, he's saying being rich is, like, so hard.
00:20:37.740 But then I think if he had said being rich makes parenting super easy, people would be
00:20:41.280 like, oh, my God.
00:20:42.100 Yeah, it's true.
00:20:42.620 Like, you can't win when you're Tom Brady unless it's a Super Bowl, you know?
00:20:45.840 Yeah.
00:20:46.060 I just think, like, if he really wanted his kids to grow up normally, he's rich enough
00:20:50.960 that he can make it happen.
00:20:51.600 You're right.
00:20:52.140 You're right.
00:20:52.560 He could, where, I don't know where they live, but it's probably, what team is he on?
00:20:56.960 Oh, New England.
00:20:57.540 So, maybe they, maybe they don't live in L.A.
00:20:59.200 Maybe they live in the Northeast.
00:21:01.360 Yeah.
00:21:01.380 Who knows?
00:21:01.680 Yeah.
00:21:01.860 I don't know where he lives.
00:21:02.620 But he probably lives in a place where people know who he is.
00:21:06.440 Like, they could move to Montana and live in the woods.
00:21:09.020 In the boonies, yeah.
00:21:09.840 And have their kids raise sheep if they wanted to.
00:21:11.840 They have so much money.
00:21:12.500 Like you said, they could literally just be like, I'm good.
00:21:14.940 Yeah.
00:21:15.260 And, I mean, just because your kids grow up with wealth doesn't mean they can't be
00:21:19.080 grateful or know the value of a dollar or what it means to work hard.
00:21:22.200 I mean, you, both of them as parents have worked hard to get to where they are.
00:21:25.900 So, why can't you teach those, instill those values in your kids?
00:21:29.160 I feel like you still can.
00:21:31.000 Maybe.
00:21:31.360 Maybe he's too busy, like, because he's still working.
00:21:34.540 Yeah.
00:21:35.020 Maybe.
00:21:35.400 Has he retired?
00:21:36.000 I don't even know.
00:21:37.040 I think he's still.
00:21:37.760 He flip-flops.
00:21:38.240 So, we'll see.
00:21:38.640 Yeah, I think he retired and then came back.
00:21:39.900 Yeah.
00:21:40.100 I don't know what she's doing.
00:21:41.520 But, yeah, you definitely can.
00:21:43.020 Yeah.
00:21:43.380 I think so.
00:21:43.860 But imagine being their kid.
00:21:45.060 Yeah, it'd be so nice.
00:21:46.180 If you have so much money to spare and you want a little less, e-transfer.
00:21:51.520 If the money's a problem for you.
00:21:53.540 We'll take some.
00:21:54.500 We will take some.
00:21:55.220 So, you can send us an e-transfer at misunderstood at rebelnews.com.
00:21:58.580 Password, hot.
00:22:00.540 Thank you.
00:22:02.020 Great.
00:22:02.680 I love that.
00:22:03.680 Let's end this parenting segment with a little bit of wise, a few wise words from the very
00:22:09.060 late Abraham Lincoln, who was a rock star dad, and he has some timeless parenting advice.
00:22:14.840 And the article didn't have that much parenting advice in it.
00:22:17.460 No.
00:22:18.000 I was like, where's the advice?
00:22:19.240 But I picked out two little crumbs.
00:22:21.080 Yes.
00:22:21.360 Let's hear it.
00:22:21.900 So, one, these are quotes that other people have said about him and his parenting style.
00:22:26.680 But apparently, like, just some background, he was super, super poor.
00:22:30.600 And then his mother, whom he loved very much, died.
00:22:33.740 And then his dad raised him.
00:22:34.760 And his dad was not the nicest guy.
00:22:35.980 So, Abraham Lincoln, like, broke the cycle by being, like, super empathic and kind to
00:22:41.880 his children, but also having strict boundaries.
00:22:43.780 Basically the opposite of his dad.
00:22:45.160 Yes, exactly.
00:22:45.800 Yeah.
00:22:45.940 And you can break the cycle if you have, like, an abusive childhood.
00:22:48.480 Like, it makes it a lot harder.
00:22:50.920 Yeah.
00:22:51.360 Like, my parents are divorced.
00:22:52.460 I wasn't abused at all.
00:22:53.380 I had a great childhood.
00:22:54.180 But I'm trying to break that cycle by not having divorce in my life.
00:22:58.000 So, that's, like, you know.
00:22:59.660 Yeah.
00:22:59.920 You can break the cycle.
00:23:00.560 Yeah, for sure.
00:23:01.120 You're not doomed to repeat what your family does is the point.
00:23:03.440 You're not your parents.
00:23:04.220 No.
00:23:04.560 So, here is the little nuggets.
00:23:07.300 This one says, where his father was harsh and punitive, Abraham was gentle and understanding.
00:23:11.700 Where his father rejected his interests, Abraham embraced what his children loved.
00:23:16.740 So, that was something I took away.
00:23:17.920 It's apparently he said he loved what his children loved and he hated what his children hated,
00:23:20.900 which I thought was super cute.
00:23:22.520 I didn't even, I never thought about that.
00:23:24.200 But, like, when your kid has a deep interest in something or a fear, a legitimate fear
00:23:29.440 or concern about something, you don't just, like, wave it off.
00:23:33.700 You try to understand it.
00:23:34.720 Yeah, understand where it's coming from because they're their own little individuals.
00:23:37.400 Yeah.
00:23:37.680 They learn things and they have real thoughts and, like, it's super sweet.
00:23:40.580 And maybe their fears are irrational.
00:23:43.480 So, listen to them and try and, like, work through it.
00:23:45.520 Work through them.
00:23:45.980 Exactly.
00:23:46.400 Yeah.
00:23:46.980 And the other one is, Mr. Lincoln's fondness for his children knew no bounds.
00:23:50.620 It, uh, it well nigh broke his heart to use his paternal authority in correcting their
00:23:55.580 occasional displays of temper or insubordination.
00:23:58.160 But when occasion required the sacrifice, he showed great firmness in teaching them the
00:24:02.420 strictest obedience.
00:24:03.540 And I like how they use this.
00:24:05.060 I think it was his, like, bodyguard or something.
00:24:07.100 One of his comrades.
00:24:08.620 Yeah.
00:24:08.780 Yeah.
00:24:09.100 I like how they use the word when occasion required the sacrifice.
00:24:13.100 So, it's like, he didn't want to, like, use the iron, whatever they call it.
00:24:20.320 Yeah.
00:24:20.580 Exactly.
00:24:20.940 On his children.
00:24:21.500 It wasn't like he, he got any joy out of the authority and being like, I'm the mad.
00:24:26.040 What I say goes.
00:24:27.120 But when it was required, he sacrificed what he wanted to do, which is be sweet and kind.
00:24:31.540 And he used his, his great firmness in showing them how to be obedient and tender.
00:24:37.640 Yeah.
00:24:37.760 Yeah, exactly.
00:24:38.540 Yeah.
00:24:38.960 Well, and I just think it speaks to the fact that, like, all of these, like, new parenting
00:24:43.340 styles are not necessary.
00:24:45.420 Yeah.
00:24:45.540 This, like, this, he was a parent hundreds and hundreds of years ago.
00:24:49.220 And I don't think, I think for some reason, like, although we should adapt to the times
00:24:52.860 with social media and stuff and, like, combat different things.
00:24:55.100 Like, you know, your kids, all, all the kids these days want to change their gender, stuff
00:24:59.200 like that.
00:24:59.480 There are new, you know, things that we face.
00:25:01.480 But I think when it comes down to it, you know, that firmness and tenderness and that
00:25:05.000 unconditional love with respect, like, that is the foundation of being a good parent.
00:25:09.100 And that's, that's held true forever.
00:25:12.920 And so, like, we don't need to become new age parents.
00:25:15.960 I think we just stick to the basics and your kids will grow up and they won't be
00:25:18.680 psychos.
00:25:19.200 Yeah.
00:25:19.580 And a lot of that goes back to, like, Christian values.
00:25:21.620 Yeah.
00:25:21.840 Like, the things that they teach us in church, they wrote those thousands of years ago.
00:25:26.080 Yeah.
00:25:26.580 So, a lot of, the reason that these, and the stories and the lessons are still so
00:25:32.140 relevant and relevant is because they're so true and they can be used over and over and
00:25:36.560 over again.
00:25:36.920 And times change, but these principles do not.
00:25:40.240 Yeah, exactly.
00:25:41.380 And so, I thought that was interesting.
00:25:43.780 Yeah, it was a sweet little.
00:25:44.640 So, put down your weird new age parenting books, guys, and just open up the old test
00:25:48.660 And don't use your children for Instagram fodder.
00:25:51.560 Yeah.
00:25:51.860 It's creepy.
00:25:52.660 Great.
00:25:53.000 Should we move on to our next section here?
00:25:54.660 Yeah.
00:25:55.380 All right, y'all.
00:25:56.480 So, over 50% of liberal white women under 30 have a mental health issue.
00:26:02.620 Are we worried yet?
00:26:03.820 I sure am.
00:26:04.660 I'm worried.
00:26:05.480 I'm concerned.
00:26:05.780 Especially following the overturning of Roe v. Wade.
00:26:07.800 I think we saw a lot of their mental illnesses really shine through.
00:26:12.060 And it's sad.
00:26:13.260 It's sad.
00:26:13.600 Yeah, it's sad.
00:26:15.560 So, a 2020 Pew Research study reveals that over half of white liberal women have been
00:26:19.640 diagnosed with a mental health condition at some point.
00:26:22.500 Apparently, women are 40% more likely to develop depression than men due to lower levels of
00:26:26.980 serotonin.
00:26:27.940 And we're also more likely to have anxiety and depression because of that deficiency.
00:26:32.520 So, obviously, like, hormones in biology are something that, you know, play into our mental
00:26:39.080 state and stuff.
00:26:39.680 Women and men are different.
00:26:40.780 Right.
00:26:41.040 Exactly.
00:26:41.920 Yeah.
00:26:42.600 Don't say that.
00:26:43.940 But this article touches on, like, but are the choices that we actively engage in and
00:26:49.420 the behaviors we indulge in, do those also influence our mental health?
00:26:52.960 And I would say, yes.
00:26:54.060 Obviously.
00:26:55.000 Yes.
00:26:55.920 Yeah, you know.
00:26:56.740 And progressivism is such a religion, right?
00:27:00.940 And, like, as we talked about last week, I think it was, like, there's no grace for you
00:27:05.020 in this religion, though.
00:27:05.820 Like, it's either, like, you make one wrong move and you're...
00:27:09.760 You're done, son.
00:27:10.460 You're toast, right?
00:27:11.140 So, when you're constantly walking on eggshells and you're fighting for such a multitude of
00:27:15.660 social justice, you know, initiatives, you're never going to be able to accomplish what
00:27:20.400 you really want to.
00:27:21.280 And that must be stressful, exhausting, and, like, really, you know, just defeating.
00:27:26.320 Like, you know?
00:27:28.460 Yeah.
00:27:29.100 Like, we've seen this with so many celebrities, and we talked about it last week, like you
00:27:32.360 mentioned, with Bette Midler, who towed the line for years and years and then said
00:27:37.140 one thing that the woke left didn't like, and then she was a thought.
00:27:40.680 Yeah.
00:27:40.820 Or, sorry, not a thought.
00:27:42.160 A turf.
00:27:42.720 A turd.
00:27:43.280 Yeah.
00:27:43.500 Just kidding.
00:27:43.840 A turf.
00:27:45.300 She's a turd and a turp.
00:27:46.340 She's a turp.
00:27:47.580 Yeah.
00:27:48.040 I found another article, because, like, it's a pretty out there thing to say, like, oh,
00:27:52.960 most people with mental health issues are liberals.
00:27:56.000 Like, it sounds like we're just pointing fingers.
00:27:58.860 Pointing fingers and talking trash.
00:27:59.980 But there is data to back it up.
00:28:02.360 Yeah.
00:28:02.580 And, like, Nat already mentioned, the Pew study, but there's another article that references
00:28:06.320 the same study.
00:28:07.460 And it says 62% of whites, it's kind of a weird term.
00:28:11.080 Anyways, 62% of whites who classify themselves as very liberal or liberal have been told by
00:28:17.000 a doctor they have a mental health condition as compared to 26% of conservatives and 20% of
00:28:23.160 moderates.
00:28:23.660 So that's, like, almost double.
00:28:27.200 62%.
00:28:27.680 Oh, no, it's more than double.
00:28:28.740 Yeah.
00:28:29.900 Of liberals.
00:28:30.880 And my theory, well, there's actually a, it's interesting, it's actually a study that
00:28:36.700 came out of the University of Toronto with three people, one of which people will probably
00:28:40.660 recognize.
00:28:41.180 There's a person named Jacob Hirsch, Megan Wahlberg, and Jordan Peterson.
00:28:44.340 They did a study, and they found that the more religious a person is, the more conservative
00:28:48.520 he is.
00:28:49.140 And this relationship is strongly mediated by the value placed on tradition, respect for
00:28:53.560 customs, and institutions.
00:28:54.860 Right.
00:28:54.960 Because this whole thing got me thinking, like, is it more likely that you're actually
00:28:59.540 mentally ill if you're liberal?
00:29:00.780 Probably not.
00:29:01.940 Like, we all deal with stress.
00:29:03.400 We all have trauma, whatever.
00:29:04.800 But the way that you go about living your life and seeking help for that differs between
00:29:11.160 liberals and conservatives.
00:29:12.200 Liberals are more likely to seek help from a mental health professional and get a diagnosis.
00:29:16.120 We could all be diagnosed with something.
00:29:17.600 Yeah.
00:29:18.000 We're all crazy.
00:29:18.520 And conservatives are more likely to, when they have stress and they have depression,
00:29:22.980 like all humans do, they go to church.
00:29:25.200 And I think that's the difference.
00:29:26.340 Like, me personally, I had depression and anxiety for many years of my life.
00:29:30.900 And then I started going to church.
00:29:32.080 And literally, for me, not mental health advice, this is not health advice for anyone,
00:29:35.640 but for me, it just completely disappeared.
00:29:38.620 I feel like a totally new person.
00:29:40.480 And that's just my story.
00:29:41.880 But, like, I feel like a lot of people can relate.
00:29:45.160 It's because, like, when you don't have something to believe in, you start to turn to the world.
00:29:49.520 And then that becomes your idol.
00:29:51.240 And when something's your idol, you start to root your identity in it.
00:29:54.100 And you can't, like, progressives root their identity in what?
00:29:57.640 Like, abortion rights.
00:29:59.680 Like, LGBTQ activism.
00:30:03.500 Gender equality.
00:30:05.120 Feminism.
00:30:05.580 Like, all those things are very heavy and burdensome to, and especially if you're trying
00:30:11.180 to care about all of them.
00:30:12.200 Especially, you know, let's even use the example of the environment.
00:30:15.160 Like, the world's going to end.
00:30:16.760 Like, how stressful is it to actually believe that the world's going to be over because
00:30:20.840 of climate change?
00:30:21.720 Like, you have no hope.
00:30:23.120 And when you have no hope, you have no peace.
00:30:25.260 So, I think, like, that really is a huge part of it.
00:30:28.340 And I think, like, as, yeah, I think it just must be exhausting to walk on eggshells all
00:30:34.000 the time when the mob is always watching your every move.
00:30:37.220 Yeah.
00:30:37.440 And I think just, even if you're on the fence about the beliefs in, like, whatever religion,
00:30:45.080 like, we are Christians, but whatever religion speaks to you, like, maybe you're still on
00:30:49.220 the fence about whether you want to dive in with your faith or not.
00:30:51.660 Like, you're still skeptical, whatever.
00:30:53.500 But just going to a place of worship.
00:30:55.740 Try it.
00:30:56.320 Try it.
00:30:56.720 Because, like, for me, I was on the fence.
00:30:59.040 Well, I just started going because I was, like, I was depressed.
00:31:00.760 And I was like, my dad's going.
00:31:01.620 I'll go with him.
00:31:02.060 And seeing people there and seeing, first of all, people have a lot worse than you do.
00:31:07.720 Yeah.
00:31:07.840 My God, some of the things, like, all the charities that we do in other countries and, like, the
00:31:12.160 people that live literally don't have any food and they have cancer and they have children
00:31:17.300 to feed and it's horrible.
00:31:18.440 But they still believe in God and they have faith and they have love.
00:31:20.740 They have peace.
00:31:21.160 They have peace and they're happy somehow.
00:31:23.140 And we help them and they're so grateful.
00:31:24.860 And then there's also the fact that there's people who come with, like, five children to church
00:31:29.240 and they're, like, singing and you're, like, so is the world ending or are we okay?
00:31:33.960 Yeah.
00:31:34.140 Because these kids are going to grow up happy and well-adjusted and have children of their
00:31:37.520 own and the world is going to continue even though this group of people thinks it's over.
00:31:41.000 It's all over.
00:31:41.880 Yeah.
00:31:41.980 Like, it really gives me faith in humanity.
00:31:44.540 Like, it just must be exhausting.
00:31:46.100 Yeah.
00:31:46.560 Being that bitter all the time.
00:31:48.060 Yeah.
00:31:48.240 And, like, we've said this before on the show, but, like, the Bible says that Jesus' yoke
00:31:52.120 is easy and his burden is light.
00:31:53.680 I don't know about y'all, but I don't want to be burdened.
00:31:56.480 I want my life to be light.
00:31:57.940 Yeah.
00:31:58.060 So...
00:31:58.780 And yokey.
00:31:59.620 And yokey because everyone loves a good egg.
00:32:01.480 I do.
00:32:02.060 All right.
00:32:02.520 Well, I think we nailed that.
00:32:03.880 Nailed it.
00:32:04.480 Let's quickly talk about Barbie.
00:32:06.560 Barbie.
00:32:08.060 Barbie.
00:32:08.800 Nat and I are wearing our best Barbiecore outfits.
00:32:11.300 I don't own a lot of pink, which I really regret at this moment in my life.
00:32:16.440 We have had to reassess things here because of this week.
00:32:19.620 I'm going to go shopping.
00:32:20.780 Yes.
00:32:21.200 Yeah.
00:32:21.600 Me too.
00:32:22.020 If you would like to buy us clothes.
00:32:23.600 No, I'm just kidding.
00:32:24.620 All right.
00:32:25.000 So, Barbiecore, guys.
00:32:26.520 Barbiecore is the new hot thing.
00:32:29.540 I'm pretty sure we started this trend with Misunderstood.
00:32:32.380 I'm pretty sure.
00:32:32.980 I'm pretty sure we invented the color pink.
00:32:35.220 Yes.
00:32:35.880 I think.
00:32:36.240 Facts.
00:32:36.800 Facts.
00:32:37.580 It's been debunked.
00:32:38.360 Yeah.
00:32:38.580 It's been debunked.
00:32:38.860 Anyway, so we wanted to talk about this because there's a movie coming out starring Ryan Gosling
00:32:43.300 and Margot Robbie, which is set to come out next summer.
00:32:46.480 And it looks amazing.
00:32:48.460 Why so long from now?
00:32:49.700 I don't know.
00:32:50.580 Probably because so much beautiful work is going to go into it.
00:32:53.120 Yeah, it's going to be so bright.
00:32:54.740 Like, just look at this photo of Margot Robbie as Barbie.
00:32:58.720 She's just so breathtaking and beautiful.
00:33:00.320 Yeah, she is.
00:33:01.100 Unbelievable.
00:33:01.480 They couldn't have cast someone better.
00:33:02.740 No.
00:33:02.840 Apparently, she replaced Amy Schumer, y'all, so let's thank Margot.
00:33:05.420 It's a different film.
00:33:06.540 Let's thank Margot for that.
00:33:07.460 It was going to be a different movie.
00:33:08.440 Yeah.
00:33:09.320 And I don't know.
00:33:10.360 I'm just so excited to see more of, you know, Ryan Gosling's Kennergy.
00:33:13.920 Yeah.
00:33:14.180 As he talks about.
00:33:14.540 I will say he looks so much hotter in real life than he does with that bleach blonde hair.
00:33:18.740 The hair's not great.
00:33:19.520 The abs, though.
00:33:19.600 I don't think Ken had hair that color.
00:33:21.980 No, he didn't.
00:33:22.540 Pretty sure he was like a brunette or like a light, like dirty blonde.
00:33:25.920 Anyways, that's fine.
00:33:27.720 But yeah, his abs are amazing.
00:33:29.500 That's not the point, though.
00:33:30.320 Barbie core is like, I was describing it.
00:33:33.400 I was like, it's like norm core, but Barbie.
00:33:35.060 And people are like, what's norm core?
00:33:36.460 Yeah.
00:33:36.700 And I was like, oh.
00:33:37.560 You're too intellectual for that.
00:33:38.660 I'm so sorry, you guys.
00:33:39.820 Yeah.
00:33:40.600 So we want to look at some of their clothes.
00:33:42.240 Yeah.
00:33:43.020 Yay.
00:33:44.120 Thank you.
00:33:44.420 Everyone stops watching now.
00:33:47.260 Goodbye, half the audience.
00:33:48.420 Hello, fans.
00:33:49.960 Okay.
00:33:51.140 All right.
00:33:51.540 There we go.
00:33:51.800 Yeah.
00:33:52.120 So here we have Anne Hathaway.
00:33:54.440 Looking gorge.
00:33:55.880 Let's look at her shoes, though.
00:33:57.140 It's the shoes.
00:33:57.720 Yeah.
00:33:58.420 Like, this is wonderful.
00:33:59.460 She's just so gorgeous.
00:34:00.920 Look at that.
00:34:01.200 This is such a Nat outfit.
00:34:02.300 Bam!
00:34:02.900 Like, I could see Nat wearing this on a regular Monday to work.
00:34:05.840 I think I'm going to.
00:34:06.680 Just like, and she's just like, what?
00:34:08.320 I just walked Pepe.
00:34:09.340 Yeah.
00:34:09.880 It's just a regular day.
00:34:11.240 You're welcome.
00:34:11.980 It's not even like a big deal.
00:34:13.420 And this is Reese Witherspoon?
00:34:14.620 Yeah.
00:34:14.920 Reese Witherspoon.
00:34:16.540 Just the shade of pink.
00:34:18.440 It's gorgeous.
00:34:19.160 Like, this is the pinkest thing I own, and it's not even, it doesn't even touch that.
00:34:22.820 Yeah.
00:34:23.100 It's so hot.
00:34:23.720 That is so delicious.
00:34:24.740 It's just.
00:34:25.660 Ugh.
00:34:26.800 She also kind of invented pink.
00:34:28.780 Yeah, that's true.
00:34:29.480 With Legally Blonde.
00:34:29.960 With Legally Blonde, yeah.
00:34:30.500 That's true.
00:34:31.360 All right.
00:34:31.720 Fine.
00:34:32.340 Well, that's cute.
00:34:33.180 We'll love it.
00:34:33.280 That is so cute.
00:34:33.940 She also has the same.
00:34:35.160 Is this Lupita?
00:34:37.440 Let's go down a bit.
00:34:38.980 I still put them shoes in the name.
00:34:40.540 See, these are basically the same.
00:34:41.720 Oh, this is Ariana DeVos.
00:34:43.480 Oh.
00:34:43.920 Sierra.
00:34:44.560 Oh, damn.
00:34:45.580 She looks so good.
00:34:46.500 Look at the gloves.
00:34:47.500 I know.
00:34:47.840 The gloves are just perfect.
00:34:49.320 She looks nice, even though, you know.
00:34:51.600 It's a crazy outfit.
00:34:53.060 Yeah.
00:34:53.280 But it's pink, and it's gorgeous.
00:34:54.900 Like, honestly.
00:34:55.380 And the gloves are pink, and the purse is pink.
00:34:57.000 You can make anything pink look hot.
00:34:58.840 Yeah, like, if that was just other colors.
00:35:00.620 Imagine if it was, like, black and gold.
00:35:01.900 It looks so stupid.
00:35:02.680 It would be horrible, and I would hate it.
00:35:03.420 Yeah.
00:35:03.740 Yeah.
00:35:04.020 Me too.
00:35:04.380 No.
00:35:05.140 Well, she just looks fan-flippantastic.
00:35:07.340 Yeah.
00:35:08.060 Love her.
00:35:08.780 She's so hot.
00:35:09.760 Yeah.
00:35:09.980 Yeah.
00:35:10.180 She looks amazing.
00:35:11.080 Look at that color.
00:35:11.600 I want to be her when I grow up.
00:35:12.760 Yes, I will marry a Beckham.
00:35:14.640 Oh, this is great.
00:35:16.320 She looks beautiful.
00:35:17.280 She's amazing.
00:35:18.060 Yeah, she's so talented.
00:35:18.900 Yeah.
00:35:19.320 And this is a gorgeous dress.
00:35:20.600 Yeah, it's gorgeous.
00:35:21.280 I'm a big fan.
00:35:21.940 She has boots that come up to her, like, private area.
00:35:25.640 That's the coolest thing I've ever heard.
00:35:26.880 Also, look at the texture of that dress.
00:35:28.420 I know.
00:35:28.820 It's like curtains at my grandma's house.
00:35:30.600 It's so cool.
00:35:31.220 In a good way.
00:35:31.780 Yeah.
00:35:32.040 My grandma was cool.
00:35:34.320 Yeah.
00:35:34.840 She's amazing.
00:35:35.620 And, of course, Zendaya.
00:35:36.960 She always looks the best of anyone.
00:35:38.580 She invented pink, too.
00:35:39.340 She maybe invented pink.
00:35:40.580 Gosh.
00:35:40.880 And in fashion, maybe.
00:35:42.160 Yeah.
00:35:43.060 Oh, she's so cute.
00:35:43.860 Look at the texture on the pants and the jacket.
00:35:46.100 I know.
00:35:46.360 I know.
00:35:46.420 It's stunning.
00:35:47.000 Oh, she just looks...
00:35:48.040 I've said this before.
00:35:49.080 If I could trade bodies with one person for a day, it would be her.
00:35:51.620 I think, like, a year ever.
00:35:53.740 Forever.
00:35:54.120 Well, you know, she probably has her own problems.
00:35:56.000 I got stuff to do.
00:35:56.920 You know what?
00:35:57.220 More money, more problems.
00:35:58.380 Yeah.
00:35:58.540 Well, she looks wonderful.
00:35:59.720 That's amazing.
00:36:00.040 It's beautiful.
00:36:00.640 Yeah.
00:36:00.900 And I love it.
00:36:01.560 It's flattering.
00:36:02.940 Shows off her curves.
00:36:03.800 Yeah.
00:36:04.200 Beautiful.
00:36:04.860 Yeah.
00:36:05.220 Looks great.
00:36:05.880 Look at that.
00:36:06.500 She looks sweet.
00:36:07.680 She does look sweet.
00:36:08.680 It's cool.
00:36:09.200 I would never wear it.
00:36:10.000 I would wear it with a top.
00:36:11.120 I would...
00:36:11.560 Yeah.
00:36:11.680 I'd wear that skirt.
00:36:12.600 I would never wear the top part.
00:36:13.860 No, no.
00:36:14.360 I'd wear that skirt with, like, a blouse.
00:36:16.520 Yeah.
00:36:16.840 I think so, too.
00:36:17.540 A hot pink blouse.
00:36:18.140 Yeah.
00:36:18.320 Like yours.
00:36:19.000 Yes.
00:36:19.660 Perfect.
00:36:19.880 Or just, like, a shirt.
00:36:20.900 This is Kim Kardashian.
00:36:22.600 Yeah, you know, love it.
00:36:24.160 I love the silver purse, too.
00:36:25.980 Yeah.
00:36:26.160 It's wonderful.
00:36:27.480 Yeah.
00:36:28.220 Yeah.
00:36:28.460 She looks good.
00:36:28.860 It's a better one of her looks.
00:36:30.100 And I like the pointy shoulders.
00:36:31.280 Because she has been struggling since her divorce.
00:36:33.260 She's been struggling a lot.
00:36:34.120 She's been wearing those boot, those feet things.
00:36:36.460 She looks bad.
00:36:37.160 She looks so bad.
00:36:38.180 Yeah.
00:36:38.280 Like, she looks good.
00:36:39.760 But she looks bad.
00:36:40.380 But she looks bad.
00:36:40.960 Her clothes are bad.
00:36:41.760 Yeah.
00:36:42.160 I'm sorry.
00:36:43.240 This is...
00:36:43.920 What's her name?
00:36:44.880 Yeah, the actress.
00:36:46.260 Tracy Ellis Ross.
00:36:47.280 Alice Ross.
00:36:47.880 She looks so cool.
00:36:48.700 Yeah, that's amazing.
00:36:49.520 It's fantastic.
00:36:50.380 Yeah.
00:36:50.920 Love it.
00:36:51.440 Because without the belt, it'd be like, ah!
00:36:53.580 But then she cinches that in.
00:36:54.960 Yeah, she looks amazing.
00:36:55.960 It's a good length, too.
00:36:56.960 I'm a big fan.
00:36:57.760 So classy.
00:36:58.480 Yeah, it's so good.
00:36:58.900 I'm going to wear that at my daughter's wedding.
00:37:00.080 This might be the best one.
00:37:01.080 It's the best look.
00:37:01.680 This is the best one.
00:37:02.380 I don't know who this is.
00:37:03.000 This is Kacey Musgraves.
00:37:04.040 She's a country singer.
00:37:04.800 There you go.
00:37:05.280 And she won the Met Gala.
00:37:07.160 Yeah, we didn't even see her.
00:37:08.540 She wasn't...
00:37:09.020 I guess because she was...
00:37:09.700 I think this was a couple years ago.
00:37:10.440 Oh, right, right, right.
00:37:11.100 2019.
00:37:11.460 Yeah.
00:37:11.720 You're right.
00:37:11.920 We talked about this.
00:37:13.020 I wasn't born yet.
00:37:14.580 I will say one look that's missing from this is Carrie Mulligan's Met Gala dress as well,
00:37:19.560 which I think was the same year as this.
00:37:21.380 Yeah.
00:37:21.620 Because that was called Revenge Barbie.
00:37:23.100 Or it was 2020.
00:37:24.320 Maybe, yeah.
00:37:24.920 Anyway.
00:37:25.120 But that last one, it's a leather jacket gown with a hair dryer purse.
00:37:31.320 It's way too perfect.
00:37:32.580 And a pink stole.
00:37:34.540 No one will ever win.
00:37:35.660 No one will ever beat that.
00:37:36.900 And...
00:37:37.300 It's the winner.
00:37:38.300 I want one.
00:37:39.180 I will have one.
00:37:40.220 Anyway, I think that's the Shure.
00:37:41.620 I think that's the Shure, you guys.
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