Red Ice TV - December 23, 2022


An Update On Our Daughter Sigrid & Gratitude For Community

Topics
community and support give John Kay
Hosted by
Henrik Palmgren Lana Lokteff
Mentioned
Hail Sigrid Henrik Stan
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9 minutes

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1,948

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135

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Misogyny

6

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Toxicity

4

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5

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In this episode, we talk about the birth of our daughter, Sigrid, and what it was like being in the hospital during her birth. We also talk about how our community has been supportive throughout this whole process and how we managed to stay strong through it all.

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00:00:00.000 Yeah, village, community, building those strong friendships.
00:00:04.400 I have to share that after having Sigrid, and I'll get into the story,
00:00:09.380 but it was a very, very difficult two weeks because she came a month early.
00:00:14.420 And so she had to be in Nikki for 12 days, and it was heartbreaking and just.
00:00:21.900 I just know, I mean, everything is fine.
00:00:24.700 Everyone's fine now, so it's not, you know, nothing went wrong, you know.
00:00:29.380 No, but she had to be in Nikki for 12 days, and you know how the medical establishment is. 0.99
00:00:34.480 She was born early.
00:00:36.580 Nothing was wrong, but they had her in there monitoring her oxygen, her body temperature,
00:00:43.400 and making sure that she was eating, and it was just very heartbreaking seeing her, you know,
00:00:48.040 in this incubator and, like, being surrounded by these other babies that were just so tiny.
00:00:52.120 It's just so heartbreaking, you know.
00:00:53.860 And then battling the medical establishment of all these ridiculous, unnecessary things
00:00:59.760 and procedures that they wanted to do, and from the bad creams to bad formulas and, you
00:01:06.200 know, shots right away.
00:01:07.880 And I was just constantly on guard, you know, keeping these medical zombies away from my
00:01:13.240 daughter.
00:01:13.780 And, of course, you know, no kids were allowed in NICU, so Henrik had to be taking care of
00:01:18.240 the boys during this.
00:01:19.180 Yeah, couldn't be in there.
00:01:20.120 Taking care of the boys the whole period.
00:01:22.820 I wasn't sleeping.
00:01:23.760 I wasn't eating.
00:01:24.720 I was just in distress.
00:01:25.920 I bonded with another mom that was in there going through a similar experience, and it
00:01:31.100 was like, I felt like at one point it was like a medical prison.
00:01:34.260 Like, just give me my baby.
00:01:36.220 Let me take her home and, you know, feed her, and she will be okay, right?
00:01:40.720 And it's like, no, we need her to gain more ounces. 1.00
00:01:42.440 We need her to gain more. 0.99
00:01:43.020 And, you know, what happened, as soon as she got out of there, thank the gods, was able
00:01:47.000 to put pressure on, she started gaining weight and doing, you know, and she was already doing 0.83
00:01:51.180 well, but gaining weight, stress-free at home, away from these beeping monitors and this
00:01:56.140 stressful environment.
00:01:57.100 It was just really hard.
00:01:58.440 I mean, one of the hardest things I've been through.
00:01:59.880 And women with masks, but not all, but do you remember that?
00:02:01.400 Many of them have masks on, too, so she can't, like, see their face properly.
00:02:03.900 Masks, can't see their facial expressions and stuff, and then, you know, and the bill's
00:02:09.000 like $400,000 or something crazy like that.
00:02:12.060 But what I wanted to say before I mentioned that stuff was that when I came home, you
00:02:18.080 know, we have this amazing community of people, and people brought food, they plowed our driveway,
00:02:25.940 you know, they just, they really helped out.
00:02:29.500 Yep, definitely.
00:02:30.620 I'm just really thankful.
00:02:31.560 Yeah, it's been amazing.
00:02:33.420 And all of this kind of just, not this, around this, but, you know, not around the birth of
00:02:38.940 secret, but I'm saying what we had going on up here is this kind of, it just organically
00:02:43.620 just happened, right?
00:02:44.420 It wasn't like we planned it, you know what I mean?
00:02:46.180 It was just like a bunch of good people.
00:02:46.540 There's all these amazing people who have, like, been bringing meals and trying to make
00:02:51.180 things easy for us and checking up on us.
00:02:54.100 Yep.
00:02:54.460 You know, it's like our friend, our old man, Stan, and I'm getting emotional.
00:02:59.040 I'm usually a strong woman here.
00:03:00.080 But he said, when you're crying about people in some, in a situation like this, and you
00:03:07.200 know that you have built something special when you're crying, you know, tears of joy.
00:03:12.320 Yep, exactly.
00:03:13.580 Yeah, no, absolutely.
00:03:14.680 100% true.
00:03:15.860 And I just know that that can and will happen in many other areas too, you know what I mean?
00:03:21.460 And there's people that stay connected with other groups, and you might not be able to
00:03:25.440 be there personally, but you still, you know, you have a tie to that and stuff like that.
00:03:28.500 Again, I sincerely believe that the wave of the future is going to be to find your people, 0.88
00:03:33.780 seek them out, and go, if you can, go to that area and move there, you know what I mean?
00:03:39.180 And, you know, in some cases, you might at least temporarily live under, you know, different
00:03:44.320 conditions, or it might not be ideal for what you do, but man, is it worth it?
00:03:47.680 I mean, I'd rather live in a trailer around good people in a good area versus having,
00:03:53.180 you know, oh, this, you know, my house is great here or something like that.
00:03:57.180 It's just none of that matters.
00:03:58.300 Don't say like, oh, Coeur d'Alene or Northern Idaho, it's hard, it's expensive, and it's
00:04:02.320 a trade-off.
00:04:03.060 Would you rather have a community and good friends and support, and by the way, prices
00:04:07.420 will change, or have your beautiful house in this place that's surrounded by diversity
00:04:12.780 and bad politics?
00:04:14.300 I mean, having community is a game changer.
00:04:17.000 And having like a bunch of women that help rally around another woman after she's had a 1.00
00:04:22.300 baby or need support or if someone's sick or if they're old, we have that.
00:04:26.680 We have built that, and it is something really special and powerful, and I want other people
00:04:31.520 to be able to have that.
00:04:32.480 Absolutely.
00:04:33.040 Yeah, exactly.
00:04:33.880 Yeah, so we've talked about that before, and I'll get on that.
00:04:38.360 I'll be more disciplined on that of actually trying to reach out to our viewers and listeners
00:04:45.200 out there, depending on what area they're in, and just start, you know, dropping one place
00:04:50.360 essentially.
00:04:50.660 Hey, there's people in this area.
00:04:52.160 Are you there?
00:04:52.780 You know, contact them.
00:04:53.560 You might be able to, you know, you have things in common.
00:04:55.560 It might work out for you guys.
00:04:57.100 I'm not going to be like overseeing any of that, but I might be able to be a link in
00:05:00.160 connecting them.
00:05:00.920 And then we'll go to another area, another, you know, town or another, you know, county
00:05:05.080 or whatever you want to call it, right?
00:05:06.640 And you can do that.
00:05:07.280 We can do that all over the place, over Europe, America, Canada, you know, even in Australia,
00:05:12.000 we can help out and things like that.
00:05:13.300 So that's something we have kind of on the back burner, something we want to do of trying
00:05:16.640 to have this achieved, but in other areas, right?
00:05:20.260 So we decentralize that.
00:05:22.160 And, you know, we have some tips, too.
00:05:24.180 We've learned some things, you know, along the way that we can share with those people.
00:05:27.280 And this is what villages used to do, right?
00:05:28.640 Like you were saying, this is what churches do.
00:05:30.700 And we have to essentially—
00:05:31.300 I was going to say religious.
00:05:32.140 Mormons used to do this, right? 1.00
00:05:33.080 We have to be our own church.
00:05:35.120 You know, it doesn't matter.
00:05:36.000 We've got all kinds of Christian friends, you know, pagan friends, people that don't really
00:05:40.860 believe in the other stuff, but we all rally around each other because we're racial family,
00:05:47.480 right?
00:05:47.900 And we have the same values and the same goals at the end of the day.
00:05:51.400 And it's very special.
00:05:53.000 And we need to have that model in a lot of different places moving forward so that we're
00:05:57.280 basically a nation within a nation, right?
00:06:00.960 We've seen other religions do this, but it's high time that we start doing that. 0.98
00:06:05.780 We have to.
00:06:06.800 I think it's the only survival strategy.
00:06:09.140 I mean, I can't say, oh, it's going to all fall apart tomorrow.
00:06:12.380 And I know there's a lot of people in this with this type of thinking that's like they're
00:06:16.560 kind of putting faith in the collapse.
00:06:18.540 When the collapse happens, it's going to get better.
00:06:20.880 I'm not one of those.
00:06:22.260 I think it's going to get harder and worse in a way.
00:06:24.700 But I just don't see how this could continue on like this for any extended period of time,
00:06:31.160 to be honest.
00:06:31.920 It's so sick.
00:06:33.020 It's so backwards. 0.95
00:06:34.020 It's so absurd. 0.96
00:06:35.220 And you have the most lunatic people in charge of many of these systems now and our legal 1.00
00:06:41.360 system and the banking and all of this stuff. 0.91
00:06:44.180 And it's been going on for decades, of course.
00:06:45.820 But it's like it's becoming more and more obvious of how sick and infested it is.
00:06:50.740 And I'm just like, you know what?
00:06:52.620 We'll just we can't even amputate.
00:06:54.060 We just have to like find a new we have to create a new organism, essentially, that can
00:06:58.120 like live on outside of that because it's just not going to work.
00:07:00.560 And it's a process that doesn't happen overnight, but that process is beginning and you don't
00:07:04.820 form tribe by just moving into somewhere.
00:07:07.120 OK, where's my trap?
00:07:08.060 But those relationships form over time and you find those that you really gel with and
00:07:13.560 bind with.
00:07:14.340 But it's possible.
00:07:15.920 Yep.
00:07:16.980 And I know a lot of people have been asking about Cigrid and how to help because the NICU
00:07:23.260 bill is just like insane.
00:07:25.240 It's just like it's criminal, you know, four hundred thousand dollars for 12 days.
00:07:29.740 I remember it was like after the first two days, they're like, oh, here's where you're
00:07:32.520 at, forty four thousand dollars.
00:07:34.380 I'm just like, how is this even possible?
00:07:37.780 And these liberals who are like health care is God and hospitals and insurance is God.
00:07:43.820 And it's just like, no, it doesn't even pay for anything anymore.
00:07:47.780 It's worse now that liberals are involved.
00:07:50.380 And, you know, we have a super high deductible about a policy for this.
00:07:54.640 But there's there's a lot, a lot of bills.
00:07:56.480 So I did start a give, send, go.
00:07:59.540 And I will share that because people said that they wanted to help pitch in.
00:08:02.580 Oh, by the way, thank you.
00:08:04.300 There are people out there even before we even asked this, you know, and it's no shame in
00:08:09.680 asking for help and all that stuff.
00:08:11.240 That's that's that's good.
00:08:12.200 You know, there's some people out there that they want they want to help out there.
00:08:15.620 They're generous.
00:08:16.180 They're kind.
00:08:16.660 And they're thinking of other people and, you know, they want to help and stuff like
00:08:20.480 that.
00:08:20.600 But anyway, there are some people that already before we even had asked about this, who would
00:08:25.000 just like, you know, send a donation, basically.
00:08:26.860 Hey, here's the secret.
00:08:28.020 They probably they probably know what the preemie thing is all about.
00:08:32.040 So thank you.
00:08:32.860 If I haven't reached out and thank you or either of us have thanked you personally, we're going
00:08:37.580 to do that.
00:08:38.180 It's been very, you know, just compressed time compressed since we got home.
00:08:42.240 Not much sleep.
00:08:43.060 We're still trying to, you know, do everything and do the show and stuff.
00:08:45.160 So a little bit less on the on the email front and reaching out to people.
00:08:48.060 But we'll get there anyway.
00:08:49.680 Thank you.
00:08:50.040 So if you're watching this and if you've sent a donation, thank you so much.
00:08:52.560 We appreciate that.
00:08:53.380 We don't expect it of anybody, obviously, but those who have helped out.
00:08:56.260 Thank you so much.
00:08:56.800 We sincerely appreciate it.
00:08:58.160 Thank you.
00:08:58.460 And she's doing awesome and healthy and thriving.
00:09:00.820 And she's a beautiful little girl.
00:09:02.380 She just came a little early. 1.00
00:09:04.920 Just eager beaver.
00:09:06.360 So we did start a give send go and I can share that detail there.
00:09:11.060 It's givesendgo.com slash Sigrid.
00:09:14.340 So if you'd like.
00:09:14.880 Oh, cool.
00:09:15.200 You got that.
00:09:16.240 I stuck the URL for it.
00:09:18.060 I did.
00:09:19.340 Hail Sigrid. 0.68
00:09:20.240 There you go.