Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey - June 12, 2024


Ep 1018 | Former IVF Doctor Blows the Whistle | Guest: Dr. Lauren Rubal


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Summary

Dr. Lauren Rubal spent years as a reproductive endocrinologist and infertility physician working with patients through the IVF process. Eventually, she woke up to the ethical and moral issues with IVF and she opened her own practice that helps couples from a holistic standpoint get pregnant naturally.


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00:00:00.660 Dr. Lauren Rubal is a double board certified integrative medicine doctor in OBGYN.
00:00:07.120 She spent years as a reproductive endocrinology and infertility physician working with patients
00:00:14.140 through the IVF process.
00:00:17.500 Eventually, she woke up to the ethical and moral issues with IVF and she opened up her
00:00:24.320 own practice that helps couples from a holistic standpoint get pregnant naturally.
00:00:33.080 And today she is going to tell us all of the scientific medical ins and outs of the IVF
00:00:39.220 process.
00:00:39.980 She is going to tell us things that you probably did not know goes into the entire procedure,
00:00:47.800 the risks associated with it.
00:00:50.120 There is a lot that she told me that I did not know about this whole process.
00:00:53.800 And what we should be thinking about when it comes to fertility and pregnancy.
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00:01:16.040 Dr. Rubal, thanks so much for taking the time to join us.
00:01:19.220 If you could just tell everyone who you are and what you do.
00:01:23.040 Absolutely.
00:01:23.440 Thank you for having me.
00:01:24.640 I am an OBGYN who did a fellowship in reproductive endocrinology and infertility, which is a three
00:01:31.780 year subspecialty after the four years of OBGYN residency, practiced as a full scope
00:01:36.820 REI for a number of years.
00:01:39.340 And as I tell everyone, my biggest career achievement was leaving all of that behind, opening my own
00:01:46.040 practice dedicated to a more restorative reproductive medicine model and also in the meanwhile, completing my
00:01:54.780 integrative medicine two-year fellowship.
00:01:57.140 So I'm now double board certified in that plus OBGYN.
00:01:59.240 Yes.
00:02:00.480 And your story is so fascinating.
00:02:02.520 We talk a lot about IVF on this podcast, and that's because it's in the news really more
00:02:09.260 than ever.
00:02:09.900 I feel like a lot of Christians are thinking about reproductive technology in a way that
00:02:15.340 we didn't really think about even five years ago.
00:02:18.980 Surrogacy, IVF, the ethics behind this.
00:02:22.540 And so I'm so excited to get to talk to you, someone who is such an expert in this, but you
00:02:27.400 worked in the IVF industry, if you will, or specialty for a long time.
00:02:34.680 And of course, then you didn't have any qualms with it.
00:02:37.640 And so tell us what that was like and what your thinking was then.
00:02:42.200 Yeah, that's a great question.
00:02:44.140 I mean, I think that it goes without being said that infertility is a profound and unique
00:02:49.420 suffering.
00:02:49.900 And the couples who are undergoing it, I just have so much empathy for.
00:02:55.260 So I think that first and foremost is so important to always remember.
00:02:59.920 With that being said, I know from my experience, I was so focused at the beginning on just trying
00:03:05.300 to help those in that suffering, help those who were trying to conceive or were having
00:03:10.760 recurrent miscarriages, for example.
00:03:12.800 And I was also focused on the end goal, which was the child.
00:03:16.480 But as I practiced the tasks of my profession, I really began to question a number of things.
00:03:26.820 But the first part of this was, well, is this really the best approach?
00:03:30.580 Is this the panacea that we've all been told it is?
00:03:36.200 Number one.
00:03:37.260 Number two, are we actually getting to the root cause?
00:03:40.420 So I felt like I was just starting to treat women as though they were just, I was really
00:03:47.020 only treating them as ovaries in a vacuum.
00:03:49.280 And I wasn't focused on the whole person, body, mind, soul.
00:03:53.460 And so I felt there was this incompleteness in my approach to identifying what was going
00:03:59.780 on and healing it.
00:04:00.760 OK, so that was the second part.
00:04:02.160 And then the third part was really seeing the sequelae of what couples and women went
00:04:07.600 through as they went through all of these aggressive procedures.
00:04:11.060 And there are many layers to this.
00:04:13.100 There's obviously a moral and ethical component, but there's also the physical.
00:04:17.940 It's very difficult to be injecting yourself with multiple medications daily, on average for
00:04:24.320 weeks.
00:04:24.880 There's an emotional component, obviously.
00:04:27.920 There are side effects that you're battling against and procedures that you're undergoing.
00:04:31.900 And then, of course, the continued waiting game of infertility.
00:04:34.320 And so all of these factors really coalesced into, again, my decision to stop and have a more
00:04:42.880 holistic approach.
00:04:44.160 And I think that also speaks to women's health in general.
00:04:48.420 So much of women's health, we're told our fertility needs to be suppressed, that we need to
00:04:54.780 be on pharmaceuticals for a myriad of different conditions that all have one very similar
00:05:01.240 Band-Aid.
00:05:02.480 And so I questioned why I was doing that.
00:05:05.880 It didn't feel like it was as tailored as it should be.
00:05:09.240 And before we get into your kind of like awakening and transition professionally, I want you to
00:05:15.800 answer some just basic medical questions that a lot of people have about IVF, because what
00:05:20.860 I found and what was true for me is that there is a lot of ignorance and not to try to use
00:05:25.920 a pejorative term, but there's just a lack of knowledge about what IVF actually is.
00:05:30.240 And when we think about it big picture, without thinking about it too hard, it's easy to just
00:05:34.880 be supportive of it in every case, because having a baby is great.
00:05:39.200 Where I'm pro-life, and so I'm pro-baby.
00:05:42.000 I understand the desire to have a child.
00:05:44.520 And I want someone who desires to have a child to be able to do that.
00:05:49.180 And if IVF is the means by which they get to have a child, then I think it's easy for
00:05:54.180 people to celebrate.
00:05:56.240 But not everyone knows everything that goes into the in vitro fertilization process.
00:06:02.720 So I want to start from the beginning.
00:06:05.500 A 32-year-old married woman walks into your office, or not anymore.
00:06:10.860 But back when it was just this kind of IVF approach, or the old fertility methods that
00:06:18.000 you were focused on until more recently.
00:06:22.120 And she said, OK, you know, we've been trying to have a baby for two years.
00:06:25.880 We can't do it.
00:06:27.100 We want to go through IVF.
00:06:28.740 Like, what does that process look like from there?
00:06:32.260 Yes, absolutely.
00:06:33.160 And so the conventional process would be, of course, to try to diagnose the reason why
00:06:40.160 they were unable to conceive to that point.
00:06:42.260 And so that couple will undergo a slew of testing, which, of course, they still perform,
00:06:47.220 whereby we're looking at both the factors within the woman's body, such as issues regarding
00:06:53.480 her eggs, whether they're being released from the ovary, the number of eggs, the hormone
00:06:59.820 balances that exist within her body, such as thyroid, for example.
00:07:04.340 We'd also look at the structural components of her reproductive tract, which include the
00:07:10.140 uterus, the fallopian tubes, which are where the sperm and the egg meet within to form
00:07:16.620 baby.
00:07:17.380 And then finally, we'd look at the male partner, and we'd assess his sperm through a semen analysis.
00:07:24.500 And so that would be the very standard infertility workup that a couple would first undergo.
00:07:30.620 Again, knowing now what I know with the breadth of further knowledge that I've gleaned in these
00:07:39.400 last several years, I would say that, at least for myself, I can only speak for myself, that
00:07:46.400 I overlooked a lot of factors that may still contribute to infertility, which is why this
00:07:54.660 is unexplained diagnosis, meaning the woman's ovulating, at least one tube's open, the sperm
00:07:59.960 overall look normal.
00:08:01.820 We give that couple, okay, well, this is unexplained.
00:08:05.720 That diagnosis ranges from anywhere between 10 to almost 50% of the time, depending on what
00:08:13.920 study you're looking at.
00:08:15.360 And it's interesting looking now, when we actually get to the root cause of this, we can get that
00:08:21.160 diagnosis down to certainly less than 5%.
00:08:23.580 So that's just one example of why conventional treatment versus this restorative reproductive
00:08:28.440 approach is quite different.
00:08:29.880 Okay, so when someone walks in, and basically everything kind of looks good, and it looks
00:08:35.620 normal, that's when they're given unexplained infertility, because I've heard that a lot.
00:08:40.200 You even see it in the Instagram bios of some people who are chronicling their IVF process.
00:08:45.180 They'll say they have unexplained infertility.
00:08:47.960 So that's basically what they mean, that for whatever reason, they can't make a baby,
00:08:51.860 but the doctors can't pinpoint why.
00:08:54.320 And is that typically the diagnosis that someone is given before IVF is recommended to them?
00:09:01.960 Well, there's a variety of different diagnoses, which makes sense, because there are a couple
00:09:08.140 involved.
00:09:09.200 A third of the time, it's based on what we call a female factor.
00:09:12.480 There's something going on within the woman's body.
00:09:15.360 A third of the time, it's a male factor, even up to half, it's both.
00:09:19.660 There are several diagnoses that we're making.
00:09:23.620 So there is a variety of reasons.
00:09:26.900 Common reasons why people go to IVF immediately include issues with the sperm, issues with the
00:09:32.980 tube, such as the tube being closed, or low number of eggs, which is called diminished
00:09:39.280 ovarian reserve.
00:09:40.020 Okay, gotcha.
00:09:42.280 And then say that woman who walks into your office, she falls into one of those categories.
00:09:49.620 And so they move forward with IVF.
00:09:51.880 What does it look like from there?
00:09:54.080 Yes.
00:09:54.820 So from that point, what would happen is a woman typically starts an IVF cycle with her
00:10:00.280 period with that bleed, although many times women will also be given birth control pills
00:10:07.080 for varying reasons or be given injections before that projected start date of the IVF
00:10:13.660 cycle for even a couple of weeks in order for the physician to, in a way, become the exogenous
00:10:20.300 brain is the way that I kind of think of it.
00:10:22.220 Because typically what happens in our endocrine system, which is just our hormones talking
00:10:26.960 to each other, our endocrine system is comprised of hormone messengers so that the brain can
00:10:31.700 talk to whatever organ it needs to, and the organ can talk back.
00:10:34.900 Okay.
00:10:35.740 And in a woman's natural cycle, there is what I think of as a race to ovulation every month,
00:10:43.160 meaning there's a group of eggs that lines up, but only one egg at the end of the month,
00:10:51.560 the end of the cycle can be released, can be the winner of that race.
00:10:55.540 Okay.
00:10:55.800 It can be ovulated in IVF.
00:10:58.360 The goals are different in IVF.
00:11:00.300 Every, everyone's a winner.
00:11:01.940 So every follicle that's contains an egg is, is, uh, ideally will become a mature egg.
00:11:11.920 Okay.
00:11:12.380 And so how does that happen?
00:11:13.660 How it happens is that a woman's given daily injections for on average, a couple of weeks
00:11:19.000 in order to cause those eggs to mature.
00:11:23.060 But before those eggs can be released again, a couple of weeks later, they'll undergo a procedure
00:11:28.700 called an egg retrieval.
00:11:30.660 Okay.
00:11:31.160 This comes after multiple visits every other day, almost on average four to five visits
00:11:36.180 with the fertility doctor, at which point she's going to undergo a vaginal ultrasound to
00:11:41.840 measure the size of the follicles.
00:11:43.560 Because as the follicle grows in size, the egg inside is maturing.
00:11:47.540 And so we're, that's being monitored very closely.
00:11:49.960 The lining of the uterus is being monitored.
00:11:52.080 And then finally, the day of that egg retrieval comes, the woman is, um, typically given conscious
00:11:58.560 sedation, meaning medicines through an IV.
00:12:00.400 So she has a twilight sleep.
00:12:03.880 And then while she's asleep, there is a needle that's placed through the vagina under ultrasound
00:12:09.960 guidance and into each of those eggs and the, um, the, into each of the follicles, which
00:12:15.980 is where the eggs are contained.
00:12:17.120 And then the eggs are suctioned out and that's done with every egg in both ovaries.
00:12:22.040 The eggs are then handed off to an embryologist in a lab.
00:12:27.480 And then the embryologist looks at the eggs, determines that they're mature.
00:12:32.060 And at that point, they'll place the egg in a dish, either surrounded by a lot of sperm,
00:12:37.520 or they will take a sperm.
00:12:40.560 They'll select a sperm that ideally is moving forward, that ideally is normally shaped.
00:12:45.640 And they'll physically place that sperm into the egg in a process called ICSI or intracytoplasmic
00:12:51.340 sperm injection.
00:12:52.640 And so then they leave those dishes overnight.
00:12:56.800 And the next day, the dishes are checked again.
00:13:00.020 And 80% of the time on average, they'll then contain an embryo, a fertilized egg.
00:13:06.680 Okay.
00:13:07.080 Gotcha.
00:13:07.480 And, and can I ask, this is, um, an uncomfortable question that we have actually never talked
00:13:13.580 about.
00:13:13.860 So we hear, okay, the sperm, they, you use the sperm and you put it in the dish or you
00:13:19.980 put it on the egg.
00:13:21.820 Um, but something that is overlooked is how you actually get the sperm.
00:13:26.680 I feel like we don't really think about that or talk about that, but that has its own like
00:13:30.680 ethical questions, right?
00:13:33.280 So are you able to talk about that?
00:13:35.240 Like, how does the father then give his sperm to then fertilize the egg?
00:13:40.520 How is that collected?
00:13:41.480 Well, the vast majority of the time it's done through masturbation.
00:13:46.440 And so, um, I think that I've certainly talked to a lot of male patients who, who have said
00:13:52.240 what a uncomfortable and embarrassing process that is because there are specific collection
00:13:57.400 rooms whereby they'll go and collect and then hand off the sample to the embryology lab.
00:14:04.640 And is pornography a part of that?
00:14:08.700 Yes.
00:14:09.960 Okay.
00:14:10.380 So a man very often is watching or looking at porn in order to masturbate, to give the
00:14:16.880 sperm to then that is used in IVF.
00:14:19.600 And you would say that's the majority of cases of IVF?
00:14:22.360 I would say that's the vast majority.
00:14:25.660 I mean, I think the other way of collecting would be to do it through the process of intercourse.
00:14:32.120 Um, and I know for, certainly for some of my couples who don't want to interrupt that
00:14:35.940 unitive and procreative act, you can use a perforated condom.
00:14:40.100 So that way that act is still, um, less set in that regard.
00:14:45.320 Um, but that is not the majority, that is absolutely the minority of the time.
00:14:49.740 Okay.
00:14:50.260 So you said that after the, which by the way, just to like pause there, I feel like that
00:14:56.120 is not talked about very much at all when it, when it comes to the ethics and the morality
00:15:01.280 of this.
00:15:02.720 But so I just want everyone to kind of like take that in if they didn't already know that
00:15:07.060 that was part of the process.
00:15:08.140 But once that egg is fertilized, you said that there is an 80% chance that after waiting,
00:15:15.260 once they're in the Petri dish, that there will be an embryo.
00:15:19.240 Um, how, well, how many eggs are typically collected, would you say in a typical egg retrieval?
00:15:24.800 You know, it depends, Allie.
00:15:26.680 It depends on the woman's egg number and it depends on the type of stimulation that's employed.
00:15:33.500 Okay.
00:15:33.760 So I'll give you a range.
00:15:34.940 Okay.
00:15:35.260 Um, what we would call a good prognosis patient would typically have eight to 10 follicles,
00:15:41.720 each of which would contain an egg in each ovary.
00:15:44.800 Okay.
00:15:45.280 And so the average number for good prognosis would be anywhere from about 20 follicles being
00:15:52.080 seen on ultrasound and measured.
00:15:53.680 I would say from those, maybe perhaps there'd be about 15 mature eggs retrieved out of those.
00:15:59.700 If we assume an 80% chance of fertilization, that's 12 embryos.
00:16:03.660 Okay.
00:16:04.660 Um, and we contrast that to someone who has something like, for example, polycystic ovary
00:16:09.840 syndrome, which is a condition whereby women have an imbalance in their male and female
00:16:14.380 hormones and they also have irregular cycles, irregular ovulation, but those women may have
00:16:22.020 many more follicles.
00:16:23.680 So I can, uh, remember, uh, reading or hearing about even up to 50 plus eggs being retrieved
00:16:34.780 in women such as a PCOS patient.
00:16:38.680 On the flip side of women who has that low egg number, they may be get, uh, there may be
00:16:45.740 only three eggs retrieved in that, in that case.
00:16:48.880 Okay.
00:16:49.200 So there's, there's a, there's a wide range.
00:16:51.740 Okay.
00:16:52.120 So say a woman has a dozen eggs that are retrieved.
00:16:55.760 All of those eggs are then fertilized.
00:17:00.760 Great question.
00:17:01.720 I would say the, again, the majority of the time, yes, all those eggs, all those mature
00:17:09.300 eggs would be attempted to be fertilized.
00:17:13.320 Correct.
00:17:13.600 There are cases, especially with higher egg number, whereby the eggs themselves could be
00:17:21.680 frozen in order not to create so many excess embryos.
00:17:27.820 Um, but that is not necessarily performed.
00:17:32.640 I mean, again, I don't know if there's a statistic on that, but I would say the majority of the
00:17:37.580 time that those would be attempted to be fertilized.
00:17:40.720 Yes.
00:17:41.240 Okay.
00:17:41.540 Um, and then you said, I know I'm kind of bouncing around a little bit as the questions
00:17:46.640 come to my mind, but then you said there's an 80% chance that an embryo will form from
00:17:50.900 those fertilized eggs.
00:17:52.620 And so then what happens from there?
00:17:55.840 So then that embryo has one of three fates at that point.
00:18:00.320 The first is for, well, I mean, regardless, let me, let me actually back up because what
00:18:06.320 happens from there, even before the determination of what happens ultimately with the embryo is
00:18:11.460 that the embryos are then watched.
00:18:13.940 They're kept in those dishes for a period of days and in an incubator in order to simulate
00:18:20.100 the temperature, the humidity, all the conditions whereby they would naturally be within the
00:18:26.480 mother's tubes, fallopian tubes.
00:18:29.180 And we watch as those embryos grow and divide.
00:18:35.780 And it's actually remarkable.
00:18:37.720 They're dividing so rapidly.
00:18:40.040 They go from one cell to hundreds of cells just days later.
00:18:44.320 And we can watch that process happen.
00:18:46.620 They, they, they actually mature.
00:18:48.820 And the process of maturation means they actually, the embryo forms an inner cell mass.
00:18:53.100 So they're beginning to grow and develop into again, what becomes the baby and then what
00:18:59.180 becomes the placenta.
00:19:00.360 And this is all happening naturally in the fallopian tube or in these dishes.
00:19:05.720 Okay.
00:19:06.060 And so they may be graded at this point.
00:19:08.180 And so an embryologist is checking on them throughout this process.
00:19:11.000 They're being potentially manipulated because in the case of, for example, embryo biopsy,
00:19:19.620 they would, an embryologist would actually place a needle into the embryo, suction out
00:19:25.260 some of the cells, and then send that off to a lab to screen the chromosomes within those
00:19:31.120 cells.
00:19:31.780 Okay.
00:19:32.260 They may undergo.
00:19:33.700 Yeah.
00:19:33.900 So there's a lot of potential options, but that brings us to, again, the one of three
00:19:38.420 fates.
00:19:38.860 One fate is that a few days after their life, they will be transferred back into a woman's
00:19:46.620 uterus in order to see if implantation, if pregnancy occurs.
00:19:52.920 Okay.
00:19:53.180 That's one.
00:19:53.960 The second fate is that they will be biopsied, as I mentioned, in order to undergo chromosome
00:19:59.020 screening.
00:19:59.940 The third fate is that they will be frozen.
00:20:02.820 And they will be frozen in liquid nitrogen-containing canisters as well.
00:20:08.140 They'll be stored.
00:20:09.540 Okay.
00:20:09.940 And you said that the embryos are graded.
00:20:13.080 Are all the embryos graded?
00:20:14.820 And what does that mean?
00:20:17.720 So what it means is there's, well, what does grading mean?
00:20:22.280 There are different ways for the embryologist to determine the morphology of the embryo.
00:20:32.720 So that's a, let me unpack that.
00:20:34.420 What that means is an embryologist knows that there's a very typically precise set of growth
00:20:41.420 and symmetry of the cells, for example, lack of debris within the embryo, him or herself.
00:20:49.760 And those will correspond to certain grades that have been spelled out in different systems that
00:20:56.100 have been validated.
00:20:56.820 But the ultimate reason for grading is because there's been data supporting the fact that
00:21:05.600 embryos that look more symmetric, that achieve a certain number of cells or a certain stage
00:21:11.100 in development at the time that they should, may have a higher chance of leading to a live-born
00:21:18.840 baby.
00:21:19.680 Right.
00:21:20.260 Okay.
00:21:21.060 And you said that there's the biopsy possibility.
00:21:25.520 Do all parents choose to get that kind of testing?
00:21:29.300 Because you said that that looks at the chromosomes.
00:21:31.520 Does that, is that how gender is determined or, or what is being looked at there?
00:21:37.260 Yes, that is how gender may be determined.
00:21:39.880 And the reason for that is because all chromosomes are screened.
00:21:43.040 And so they'd be called either euploid, which means screened chromosomally normal.
00:21:47.760 So a 46XX, 46XY, okay.
00:21:51.880 They can be checked for specific genetic disorders.
00:21:57.680 The majority of the time though, again, it's, the embryos are screened for just chromosome
00:22:04.560 number, right?
00:22:06.580 And so again, that 46XX, 46XY would be typically looked at very commonly.
00:22:12.640 And to answer your question about how common that is, I would say the most recent data nationwide
00:22:18.700 of IVF clinics in 2021, it was the last year that they've been able to publish that data
00:22:25.000 show that at least half of all cycles are PGT, which is pre-implantation genetic testing,
00:22:33.560 which is what that biopsy is, or PGT cycle.
00:22:36.880 So it's very common now and the number has increased.
00:22:39.020 Well, because I hear very often, especially when it comes to say like two men that are
00:22:45.860 using an egg cellar and then also a surrogate is that, and even with Paris Hilton, like Paris
00:22:52.820 Hilton used a surrogate and she knew the gender of all of the embryos that she had on ice.
00:22:59.260 She was like, I have like 12 boys and I'm still trying for a girl, whatever it is.
00:23:04.000 So I guess I thought that all IVF patients know the gender of the baby before it's even
00:23:11.180 transferred, but I guess that's not, that's not the case.
00:23:14.940 They'd have to undergo that biopsy process in order to get the chromosomes from that embryo
00:23:20.420 because that embryo has a unique set of chromosomes, right?
00:23:24.520 From the mother, the father.
00:23:27.620 And so therefore that embryo would him or herself have to be biopsied in order to understand what
00:23:33.740 that embryos chromosomes reveal.
00:23:48.680 How often would you say, um, there might not be an exact statistic on this, but for those
00:23:54.920 who do undergo or their embryos undergo that genetic testing, how many then decide, okay,
00:24:03.640 if that baby has down syndrome, for example, that's a chromosomal disorder, do they decide,
00:24:09.240 okay, we're not going to move forward with transferring that embryo.
00:24:12.600 We're going to try again for a healthier embryo.
00:24:15.020 Like how often are decisions made based on any kind of chromosomal signs of some kind of
00:24:21.800 disability or disorder?
00:24:24.520 Very often, Allie.
00:24:25.780 I mean, the, the standard typically is that if that embryo is deemed, screened, chromosomally
00:24:33.760 abnormal, that embryo will not be transferred back into the uterus.
00:24:40.100 There has been, um, a move more and more towards some centers being open to attempting that transfer.
00:24:51.540 And I'll tell you the reason why that is.
00:24:54.400 It's because again, no technology is perfect.
00:24:58.200 And that also goes for pre-implantation genetic testing for the screening process.
00:25:04.360 And so these embryos, it's very interesting.
00:25:08.480 I liken it almost to, uh, this embryo is almost like a, a lots of different cells, almost like
00:25:13.680 a soccer ball, if you will, sometimes that there are, um, white areas of abnormal cells,
00:25:20.460 but also black areas of normal cells, for example.
00:25:24.200 And if you biopsy the wrong area, you might erroneously conclude that that embryo is not
00:25:32.060 chromosomally euploid and therefore would not have that embryo eligible to be transferred.
00:25:39.040 Again, the data is very new in this regard, but there is, there are case reports in, in
00:25:48.200 the literature showing that some of these embryos that then, you know, of course, informed
00:25:53.700 consents obtained, everyone agrees that we're going to go ahead and transfer this embryo in,
00:25:58.900 into the uterus.
00:25:59.820 And there have been reports of chromosomally normal babies born, um, to these, uh, abnormal,
00:26:07.960 uh, allegedly screened, um, embryos.
00:26:11.060 So.
00:26:12.100 Okay.
00:26:12.600 So do parents even have, cause you said you, you mentioned or alluded to the fact that some
00:26:18.240 centers won't even consider transferring a chromosomally abnormal embryo.
00:26:24.960 And that could mean like a baby with Down syndrome.
00:26:27.520 And of course we know that people with Down syndrome can have like fulfilled and very joyful
00:26:32.400 lives, but that could be like the kind of baby that we're talking about that they deem
00:26:37.700 almost, I don't want to, you didn't use the term incompatible with life, but it seems like
00:26:42.280 that is almost the judgment being made by saying, okay, this embryo is going to be discarded.
00:26:46.820 Like, do the parents in that case, do they have the choice?
00:26:50.280 Are they ever told, Hey, we, this baby has Down syndrome.
00:26:53.380 Um, what do you want to do or are they not even informed about what happens to those embryos
00:27:01.060 that the doctor decides are not healthy?
00:27:04.480 I would say that typically I, I can only speak for myself.
00:27:12.500 Okay.
00:27:12.960 And so I will tell you that in my prior practice, you know, there, I had such a blindness, Ali,
00:27:20.160 um, that, and there's a lot of reasons for that.
00:27:23.520 But with that being said, you kind of just think, okay, this is a aneuploid and you, it's
00:27:30.480 true.
00:27:31.260 There are plenty of situations, not just Down syndrome.
00:27:33.880 I think trisomy 18 is another one that there are children with trisomy 18.
00:27:38.740 I personally know of one that are able to lead lives that are, it's not, it is compatible
00:27:47.340 with life, this diagnosis.
00:27:48.800 There are plenty of others like Turner syndrome and, um, but there's this blanket thought
00:27:53.440 that, oh, aneuploid means not transferable.
00:27:57.240 Yeah.
00:27:58.580 Okay.
00:27:59.120 So for the embryos that are deemed healthy or the ones who don't go through genetic testing,
00:28:06.180 um, well, how many, how many healthy embryos would you say someone typically ends up with?
00:28:12.120 I know there's so many factors that go into that, as you've already explained with the number
00:28:15.540 of eggs and the age and all of that, but what is like the average number of embryos created
00:28:21.240 in the IVF process?
00:28:23.700 So let's use that, um, kind of middle of the road, good prognosis patient example again,
00:28:28.800 right?
00:28:29.300 And so remember we, there were 12 embryos that were created, right?
00:28:33.600 Out of those, they'll be watched.
00:28:35.700 Not every one of them will continue to mature.
00:28:39.140 And so about six embryos, I would say on average, will make it to blastocyst stage, which is
00:28:45.440 typically day five of their life and is what we consider a mature embryo.
00:28:51.380 And so again, out of those, if that, um, couple chooses to have chromosome screening performed,
00:28:58.800 perhaps about half of those will yield euploid chromosome screen, normal embryos.
00:29:05.500 Okay.
00:29:06.640 Um, and so that would be then three embryos if biopsy was done.
00:29:12.260 If it's not, then there would be about six embryos, um, of which depending on the woman's
00:29:19.220 age, anywhere from one to even potentially up to three or more would be transferred back
00:29:25.560 at a time.
00:29:26.380 Okay.
00:29:27.000 So at a time.
00:29:28.340 Um, so she could have three of those embryos transferred simultaneously.
00:29:37.060 Potentially.
00:29:37.700 And that has their set of criteria depending on the woman's age and different prognostic
00:29:42.520 variables.
00:29:43.340 But what's interesting is that they actually published again in this most recent CDC report
00:29:48.300 of us clinics, the average number of retrievals of egg retrievals needed to achieve a live born
00:29:53.940 baby and Allie, even in the best prognosis age group, which we consider less than 35 years
00:29:59.480 of age, the average number of egg retrievals, remember all that whole process that, that,
00:30:03.940 that couple and that woman have to undergo the average is two.
00:30:07.700 And in a woman who's over 40, the average is, I believe over nine and perhaps even 12,
00:30:13.860 but definitely over nine, which is just, just, you think about these women, um, really it,
00:30:21.680 it, it, again, it takes, it can take a toll on many, um, couples and women as they're undergoing
00:30:26.860 this, um, for many reasons.
00:30:28.660 On the woman's side of this, you said before the egg retrieval, she has to inject herself
00:30:45.960 with, what is it that she's injecting herself with?
00:30:49.300 There's different type of, first of all, hormones that are used.
00:30:53.160 Okay.
00:30:54.120 As well as other injections designed to prevent premature ovulation.
00:30:59.700 And then, um, so those are the main type of injections used.
00:31:03.260 Okay.
00:31:03.700 So she's injecting herself typically at home with these shots.
00:31:07.200 And I've seen pictures and videos of that.
00:31:09.120 As you said, she's got the multiple doctor's appointments to make sure that the eggs are
00:31:13.580 maturing.
00:31:14.380 She goes through the egg retrieval and she's kind of put under, like you said, a twilight sleep
00:31:19.080 for that.
00:31:20.060 Um, there was that, I don't know if you saw that.
00:31:21.840 I think it was New York times podcast, this horrible story of these women who were being
00:31:28.020 told that they were being put under or being told that they were given fentanyl and they
00:31:32.040 actually weren't.
00:31:33.340 And the nurse was stealing the fentanyl and putting something else in there.
00:31:36.580 And they were completely awake for all the egg retrievals.
00:31:38.900 So that was like a whole big story.
00:31:41.100 There's just so much that happens in this reproductive industry that a lot of people don't know.
00:31:45.660 But anyway, so they get the egg retrievals, then they start the, uh, fertilization processes.
00:31:51.220 You just explained, but what does the woman do while that fertilization process, that growing
00:31:57.560 process into the blastocyst is happening?
00:32:01.820 Yes.
00:32:02.300 It depends again on what the plan is.
00:32:05.100 If there is a, what we call a fresh embryo transfer to be performed, meaning five days
00:32:10.860 later, for example, the embryo is going to be placed back into that woman's uterus.
00:32:15.180 Then the woman will undergo, uh, just preparation of her uterus is what it's called.
00:32:21.580 And that's by giving hormones as well in different ways.
00:32:26.560 And so that might include more injections that will include pills, um, as, as well as potentially
00:32:32.660 antibiotics.
00:32:33.320 So that would be her preparation and then more, um, scans, uh, to make sure that the uterus is
00:32:40.700 prepared to receive the embryo.
00:32:42.640 Okay.
00:32:43.260 So, yeah, getting the uterus ready to receive that embryo so that it's hospitable for the
00:32:50.260 embryo to implant, for the placenta to grow and all of that.
00:32:53.780 And what is the transfer process like both for this, uh, embryo and for the woman?
00:33:01.440 And so the transfer process, I'll start with the embryo.
00:33:07.960 So what will happen is it depends as well.
00:33:10.780 Again, if embryo, if the transfer is happening with a embryo that has not been frozen, then
00:33:17.700 what will happen is the embryologist will take the embryo and what we, that's what it's called
00:33:22.600 is load, place that embryo into a long transfer catheter.
00:33:27.040 And then at the same time, what the woman is experiencing is that she'll be, um, on a table,
00:33:34.760 there will be typically an ultrasound on her abdomen in order to watch as, um, the, the catheter
00:33:42.340 is placed through the vagina, through the cervix and into the uterine cavity.
00:33:46.420 Um, and then, um, you actually can see the air bubbles surrounding the embryo being placed
00:33:54.920 into the uterine cavity.
00:33:56.860 Afterwards, the embryologist will then take the catheter to ensure that the embryo was indeed
00:34:01.780 placed, um, within the cavity or is no longer in the catheter.
00:34:06.200 Um, but typically that transfer process is done while the woman's awake, the, the couple
00:34:12.960 is together in the room, um, and is, is quite comfortable typically.
00:34:18.200 Okay.
00:34:18.600 Not always the case.
00:34:19.840 Sometimes if it's difficult to enter the uterus, um, then it can be uncomfortable for that woman.
00:34:26.980 But I would not say that the cervix, so the cervix doesn't have to be dilated at all.
00:34:32.260 It just not, not typically, but sometimes yes.
00:34:37.140 And in those cases that, that could be very uncomfortable.
00:34:39.580 It could be uncomfortable.
00:34:40.440 Okay.
00:34:41.000 So at that point though, she doesn't really know if she, yes, the, there is a living embryo,
00:34:46.240 which as you've already said is scientifically its own individual that is inside her uterus,
00:34:51.600 but we haven't gone to implantation yet.
00:34:55.040 Correct.
00:34:55.600 That's just the transfer.
00:34:56.620 So she wouldn't necessarily get a positive read on a pregnancy test yet, right?
00:35:02.160 No, she wouldn't at all because, um, yes, you're correct.
00:35:05.880 Implantation still has to happen.
00:35:07.820 And during that process of implantation, that's when the embryo actually, um, and the, the placenta
00:35:13.740 and the uterus, it's actually quite beautiful because there's a very specific window of implantation
00:35:22.600 that occurs whereby there are these special called peanut pods.
00:35:25.680 They're almost these suction cups that, um, from the endometrium and there's a crosstalk
00:35:30.320 between the embryo and the endometrium in any time, you know, spontaneous or through this
00:35:36.880 process.
00:35:37.200 And that the embryo, the embryo is then drawn up into the endometrium and this starts the process
00:35:41.800 of implantation.
00:35:42.580 And then after that, the hormone HCG or human chorionic gonadotropin begins to be produced.
00:35:49.600 And that's the pregnancy hormone that you can measure in the urine or in the blood.
00:35:53.860 Yeah.
00:35:53.980 As you're explaining all of this, it's, it just makes me like wonder at God about how
00:35:59.160 he created the human body and the female body, really like pregnancy and natural conception
00:36:08.260 and childbirth is all such a miracle.
00:36:10.720 Like all of the mechanisms and all of the effort that has to go into, if you're doing it through
00:36:16.360 this process to create a child, it's really just the fact that anyone is here is really
00:36:22.320 just beautiful and miraculous and speaks to God's design.
00:36:25.320 Go ahead.
00:36:26.400 Yes.
00:36:26.640 I have to tell you one other part that I just love hearing because it just always makes me
00:36:30.820 think of, of, of God as well.
00:36:33.420 It's so interesting when couples are having intercourse and the woman's almost going to
00:36:39.880 ovulate.
00:36:40.380 Okay.
00:36:40.620 And so she's a few days before ovulation.
00:36:42.540 In fact, there's only a six day period of time where a woman can become pregnant that cycle,
00:36:47.920 whereby men are always fertile.
00:36:49.880 Women are not necessarily always fertile, even within that month.
00:36:54.100 But anyway, when they're having intercourse during the time of her fertile window, they've
00:37:00.260 done these very interesting studies looking at labeled particles that get deposited into
00:37:07.020 the upper vagina.
00:37:08.380 And they'll see that like sperm within minutes, within two minutes, those particles along with
00:37:15.900 the sperm are in the fallopian tube already after ejaculation.
00:37:20.420 And it's so interesting is that they're on the side that the egg is on.
00:37:26.160 Wow.
00:37:26.240 And so there's like, isn't that funny?
00:37:28.480 Yes.
00:37:28.840 I know.
00:37:29.800 Yes.
00:37:30.220 There's a, there's a lot of chemotactic signaling.
00:37:32.180 There's a crosstalk going on though.
00:37:33.640 You know, it's just so amazing.
00:37:35.800 Yes.
00:37:36.140 So amazing.
00:37:37.240 And okay.
00:37:37.900 So back to the transfer process.
00:37:41.260 Um, how, what, what is the percentage?
00:37:44.760 I forget the number.
00:37:46.160 I'm pretty sure it was lower than I realized.
00:37:48.400 What is the percentage of transfers that will end in a successful implantation?
00:37:57.400 Well, okay.
00:37:58.140 So let, I just want to set the stage for this because I think that it's hard to parse apart
00:38:04.360 the numbers.
00:38:06.060 And the reason for that is because, um, there's several factors.
00:38:10.360 The first part of this is just to understand what is the baseline chance of pregnancy per
00:38:15.200 cycle, right?
00:38:16.060 And that's kind of the baseline we should be comparing things to regardless.
00:38:19.140 And so when we think about couples in their twenties, do you think of as almost like best
00:38:22.900 prognosis, right?
00:38:24.500 Um, high egg quality and quantity, um, no fertility issues, just trying for the first time.
00:38:30.860 Their average chance of pregnancy per cycle is about 25 to 30%.
00:38:34.480 So just FYI, that's just important to kind of set that stage.
00:38:38.040 Okay.
00:38:38.960 Um, with that being said, the way that, um, the data is presented, uh, that I think is
00:38:46.100 helpful to understand it better is how many of intended retrievals are going to yield a
00:38:53.000 live birth?
00:38:53.560 Because that's actually what we care about is the baby, um, you know, being born and,
00:38:59.240 um, not born ideally.
00:39:00.600 Right.
00:39:00.960 And so, um, when we think about best, again, best prognosis, um, there are even all comers,
00:39:08.820 let's just talk about all comers, all comers.
00:39:10.840 It's about a 37% chance of live birth.
00:39:14.600 And so, again, it's not quite as high.
00:39:17.260 I know that that can feel surprising, right?
00:39:20.460 Um, so, so that's just the live birth rate.
00:39:25.860 When we compare that to just, there's different ways of looking at the data, but you can compare
00:39:30.940 it to, again, some restorative reproductive medicine measures.
00:39:35.180 There's an interesting study looking at couples who, um, were by all accounts, what we would
00:39:42.100 call, um, hate using these terms in some ways, but poor prognosis, meaning the woman was advanced
00:39:47.960 maternal age.
00:39:48.580 I think the average age was 37 years of age.
00:39:50.740 They've been trying for over five years.
00:39:53.160 Um, and when they looked at a series of a thousand couples who then went into, again, this deeper
00:40:01.420 dive by these restorative reproductive medicine approaches, they found that the, um, cumulative
00:40:09.780 live birth rate was over 15%, which is pretty amazing.
00:40:14.540 So, again, there, there's other options available.
00:40:18.540 But to answer your question, that's a look at some of the numbers.
00:40:21.560 I think that people assume that IVF is like the guarantee that you're going to have the
00:40:39.740 baby, that that's just what you do if you're 37 or you're 45, even that you just go through
00:40:45.700 IVF and you're guaranteed to have a live birth out of that.
00:40:48.820 And that's just not the case.
00:40:50.640 There are some embryos that don't, they don't survive the transfer process.
00:40:54.520 Of course, there are some embryos that won't implant.
00:40:57.000 And that's true in natural conception too.
00:40:59.520 And then of course, there is the risk of, um, a miscarriage, which again is also a risk,
00:41:05.180 whether you naturally conceive, um, is the risk of miscarriage higher in the IVF process?
00:41:14.280 Well, you're asking compared to spontaneous conceptions is what I'm assuming, right?
00:41:22.280 I would say that's a hard, that's a little bit hard to evaluate.
00:41:25.760 And the reason for that is because we think of women who it's a different population is
00:41:30.140 the kind of term we use, meaning that those women who are experiencing difficulty consumer,
00:41:35.920 that couple may have different risk factors that might change that risk of miscarriage.
00:41:40.560 Okay.
00:41:40.860 That's the first part.
00:41:42.380 Um, and so the second part is, is that if they, uh, do proceed with pre-implantation genetic
00:41:49.540 testing with that chromosome screening, you can imagine that that's going to, again, decrease
00:41:54.400 the number of embryos.
00:41:56.780 Like I said to you, that will even be used or, or tried, you know, attempted to be transferred,
00:42:02.580 but then it does, uh, have a decrease in miscarriage rate is what the studies show, which makes sense
00:42:10.500 because the vast majority of first trimester miscarriages are due to just random chromosome
00:42:16.000 errors on the part of, of the embryo.
00:42:18.660 Okay.
00:42:19.480 Gotcha.
00:42:20.600 Um, is it true that this is common?
00:42:24.820 I know that this happens.
00:42:26.080 I just don't know if it's common that I've talked to women who really wanted to go about
00:42:31.580 IVF in a way that is more ethical in the sense that they only wanted to create the number of
00:42:39.200 embryos that they knew they were willing to implant or transfer rather.
00:42:44.220 Um, and that some doctors are very hesitant to do that, to only create like fertilized three
00:42:52.500 eggs, for example, just because the chances of then a successful life birth from that can
00:42:58.360 be lower.
00:42:58.900 If you had say, you know, fertilized six eggs, like, is that, have you seen that at all?
00:43:05.280 Like, is that the case that some doctors are hesitant to fertilize a lower number of eggs?
00:43:11.820 Yes.
00:43:12.260 I mean, I think that there are certain, what I've heard is that there are certain centers
00:43:16.700 who, for example, won't even consider, um, moving forward with fertility treatments if
00:43:24.700 the, a PGT, if that chromosome screening isn't performed, for example.
00:43:29.300 And so I've certainly heard of that.
00:43:31.760 Yeah.
00:43:32.780 And I also have listeners, cause I talk about this a lot.
00:43:36.440 And so I get a lot of stories from a lot of moms who have gone through IVF.
00:43:40.040 They have regrets about it.
00:43:40.920 They love their children, but they realize, wow, there was just so much I just didn't know.
00:43:45.040 And then some who went through IVF, they didn't actually end up getting pregnant that way.
00:43:50.120 They got pregnant later.
00:43:51.060 They adopted later.
00:43:52.200 So many different stories, even on this podcast that I've had.
00:43:55.600 Um, and one story that I've gotten is a woman who got pregnant with triplets and she was
00:44:01.340 encouraged by her doctor, um, this was after the IVF process to reduce.
00:44:07.020 Um, it does seem like it's more likely to be pregnant with multiples in the IVF process because
00:44:12.440 you could be transferring more than one embryo at once.
00:44:15.780 Um, is that something that happens that you have heard of, of doctors saying, Hey, if you
00:44:20.720 get pregnant with twins or get pregnant with multiples, we can always do a selective reduction,
00:44:25.480 which is aborting one of the babies, um, in the hopes that it will lower the risk to the mom.
00:44:31.220 Yes, Allie.
00:44:33.680 So I think that, um, the reason why is because in IVF, remember the baseline chance of twins,
00:44:40.820 for example, in the general population is about 2%.
00:44:43.920 Okay.
00:44:44.500 In IVF, there's about a 30% chance of multiple pregnancies.
00:44:48.280 Okay.
00:44:49.260 If this is another reason why there's such a push for that chromosome screening, uh, is
00:44:55.260 because with chromosome screening, one embryo is transferred back at a time, thus decreasing
00:44:59.840 number of, um, multiple or just chance of multiple pregnancies.
00:45:05.340 Okay.
00:45:05.920 But in those patients who do have triplets or more, the standard would be absolutely to say
00:45:13.480 that due to the risks of the risk to the mother and to the, and to the children, which
00:45:20.940 I know sounds very ironic that selective reduction would be recommended.
00:45:25.880 I think that's something that a lot of people just don't think about.
00:45:29.640 I've actually seen, I saw recently an Instagram post from someone saying that she did this,
00:45:35.080 that she went through selective reduction and that it was something that she was happy about
00:45:40.620 that, you know, she said kind of like that it saved her life, but also saved the life
00:45:45.600 of her other children potentially.
00:45:47.320 And you just kind of choose the baby that's easiest to get to and then abort the baby that
00:45:54.260 way.
00:45:54.800 And that is also, uh, sometimes an unforeseen consequence of purposely transferring multiple
00:46:01.480 embryos at once is that you could end up with triplets or, I mean, oh, it's not probably
00:46:07.280 often, but you could end up with quadruplets or something like that, and then have further
00:46:12.260 pressure after that.
00:46:13.660 Um, and so there's just a lot there.
00:46:15.660 Go ahead.
00:46:16.140 No, I agree.
00:46:18.340 And I think that's, what's so hard is that couples are then faced with these excruciating
00:46:23.240 choices.
00:46:23.940 Maybe not for everyone, as you mentioned, but I would say for, uh, for, for many couples
00:46:29.400 that either at that moment or even in the future, right after it's already occurred.
00:46:35.620 And I think another common one that many couples are dealing with these days are when they've
00:46:41.060 completed their family, right?
00:46:42.760 But they still have embryos frozen.
00:46:45.400 Yes.
00:46:45.660 There's over 1 million embryos estimated to be frozen in the United States right now,
00:46:49.860 indefinitely, potentially.
00:46:51.860 And, um, they, I think they, these couples struggle so much with what to do with these
00:47:00.280 embryos.
00:47:01.120 And I think that's because inherently in, for me, I think that it's because they inherently
00:47:06.980 realize that this is my child.
00:47:08.820 And so I don't know if I feel comfortable, uh, you know, giving away this embryo for adoption,
00:47:13.580 for example, or donating this embryo to research where the embryo will be destroyed or just
00:47:22.260 undergoing Frank destruction.
00:47:23.520 It's a lot of very profound and difficult moral and ethical situations that people are
00:47:30.660 placed in.
00:47:31.140 And we just aren't talking about it enough.
00:47:33.220 Yes.
00:47:33.760 So I imagine that all of these questions played a role in you quitting, um, your IVF practice.
00:47:40.220 So can you talk about that transition?
00:47:43.760 Oh, absolutely.
00:47:44.880 I mean, for me, yes, like I said to you, I, I love what I do.
00:47:49.020 I think it's such a honor to, to be able to walk alongside the couples that I, that I care
00:47:57.160 for.
00:47:57.920 I, I always knew I wanted to be a doctor.
00:48:00.240 It was kind of one of those callings.
00:48:02.360 And so I just love my job.
00:48:06.340 Um, with that being said, once my eyes were opened, once I finally started again, I was
00:48:14.200 so involved in everything.
00:48:15.740 And I said to myself, like, this is, I'm dreading going back into work.
00:48:19.380 I, I was dreading going into work.
00:48:21.280 And that's why I decided, um, again, to stop, to leave it all behind.
00:48:27.800 I just felt like for me, my soul was at stake.
00:48:31.160 And I say that, like your eyes were opened kind of in what way?
00:48:36.640 That this embryo is a human being and that human being deserve, has inherent dignity and
00:48:46.460 should be protected as the most vulnerable of all.
00:48:53.280 Again, this is, it makes sense.
00:48:55.780 It just makes sense scientifically.
00:48:57.440 There's, there's no question about that.
00:48:58.960 Um, number one, number two is that all of these technologies, just because we can do
00:49:06.160 something doesn't mean we should.
00:49:07.900 And what's the ultimate, we're seeing this now almost, it just feels like the, it's
00:49:12.580 snowballing more and more is the fertility industry.
00:49:16.760 Again, there's a lot, there's just not a lot of regulation compared to, for example,
00:49:22.680 the adoption, um, industry where you really have to undergo a very rigorous screening process
00:49:30.300 to understandably become the parents of this, of this child.
00:49:35.340 And I don't think that that's present.
00:49:37.660 And I also think that this is starting to be used in ways, again, that, uh, are, have
00:49:45.120 significant ethical and moral, um, questions surrounding them.
00:49:51.840 So that was one big part of it for me.
00:49:54.720 And then, um, I would say also that I just felt, as I told you before, that we're putting
00:50:01.680 these very expensive band-aids on these issues that are going to persist.
00:50:05.380 And is that actually the best way to do medicine?
00:50:07.880 Shouldn't we instead try to identify the root cause and heal it?
00:50:11.960 And then we're going to be having healthier mothers with healthier babies and helping them
00:50:17.720 in the long run so they can have the longest life possible to care for their family.
00:50:22.880 And we haven't even touched upon that, but there are risks to moms and children that are
00:50:28.800 conceived with IVF.
00:50:30.820 And thankfully in the overall scheme of things, these risks are rare, but there are relative
00:50:35.180 increases in risks that, that again, I don't know if there's enough attention put on those.
00:50:40.040 And in my opinion, oh, um, yeah.
00:50:43.580 So for moms, uh, the maternal risks include an increased risk of 26% of preterm birth, which
00:50:51.680 is, can be devastating because if the babies are born early, they can have problems with
00:50:56.320 every organ system, including cerebral palsy or even death.
00:50:59.280 It includes, um, uh, over doubling of the risk of hypertensive issues in pregnancy, as well
00:51:06.140 as what we call severe maternal morbidity, which is basically a condition that's where
00:51:11.260 the woman gets, the mom gets so sick, she may die.
00:51:14.680 She's close to death.
00:51:15.640 And that could be life-threatening hemorrhage or what's called preeclampsia, which is high
00:51:20.100 blood pressure of pregnancy, where they can even have a, uh, eclamptic seizures or sepsis,
00:51:25.460 which is a back, which is an infection of the body.
00:51:28.280 Um, these things can increase significantly.
00:51:31.020 There's an over five times increased risk of placental problems again, which can lead
00:51:35.480 to life-threatening hemorrhage at delivery.
00:51:38.180 That's the mom.
00:51:39.280 For the babies, there is an up to 40% increase in non-chromosomal birth defects that may be present.
00:51:48.140 There is an increase in autism as well as a four-time increased risk of stillbirth.
00:51:54.060 I mean, that is awful.
00:51:55.460 Again, thankfully, these numbers are overall low, but I do believe that that may play a
00:52:01.200 role in couples deciding what to do.
00:52:03.620 And like I said, my personal opinion is that part of that is because we need to do a better
00:52:09.320 job, again, understanding the reasons why people are struggling with this, um, and healing
00:52:17.400 that.
00:52:17.840 And like you said, it's a very expensive, costly in more ways than one, as you just said,
00:52:24.440 costly financially, but also can be costly for your health, can be costly for the child's
00:52:29.780 health.
00:52:30.680 Um, there are women who go through rounds and rounds of IVF.
00:52:34.380 I mean, that can really wear on your body and on your emotional state.
00:52:40.020 I mean, what you described for IVF, it's very invasive.
00:52:43.620 I've had three kids myself and even just like the, like ultrasound and then, uh, then when
00:52:52.120 you deliver like the cervical check process, like all of that is invasive and like leaves
00:52:57.920 a mark on your brain that you're like, that was not fun.
00:53:01.560 So glad I had this baby, but that was not fun.
00:53:03.580 I would love to never have another cervical check in my life.
00:53:06.740 Like, and so, but you, I listened to IVF and I'm like, well, that's a lot of that.
00:53:10.960 Like, that's a lot of very invasive stuff that someone is going through potentially many
00:53:17.660 months in a row.
00:53:18.640 That's not nothing that can really wear on your body and mind and, and your heart too.
00:53:25.940 Absolutely.
00:53:26.900 Yes.
00:53:27.320 And even for like, again, the finances, there was an interesting study that showed that
00:53:31.320 the average cost to have a live born baby, um, was anywhere from 60 to $72,000 with IVF
00:53:38.140 or the higher end was with donor egg.
00:53:40.500 So this is, uh, it's just, um, it's a, it's a crazy, exhaustive process in so many levels.
00:53:48.740 So for you, these revelations, these realizations about, you know, everything that wasn't being
00:54:08.240 talked about and was kind of just like pushed to the side as far as the ethics and morality
00:54:13.000 of how we treat these women and how we treat these little children, the earliest stages
00:54:19.240 of their life.
00:54:20.660 I'm guessing your, your faith had something to do with this kind of awakening, right?
00:54:27.780 Yes, absolutely.
00:54:29.020 It did.
00:54:29.500 I like to, I like to talk about it in both ways, because again, I think there's a clear
00:54:33.940 medical and scientific argument for this, but for me as well, personally, of course, I, um,
00:54:39.300 the Holy spirit for me, just, he, God is so good.
00:54:42.960 Thanks be to God that he did not give up on me.
00:54:45.600 And I felt best his call more and more and more.
00:54:50.100 And to me, I really, it was, it was, I talked about being blind and anything sin blinds, your
00:54:56.700 heart gets so hardened and to have that, um, my heart really just broke open.
00:55:02.680 And, and the, you know, I always think of that verse of, of being washed away and realizing
00:55:09.200 what I was involved in.
00:55:11.900 So, um, yes, I, I'm so grateful to God for his mercy.
00:55:17.120 Um, absolutely.
00:55:18.640 That goes without being said.
00:55:20.020 Yeah.
00:55:20.400 And now talk about, I, you already have a little bit, but more about what you do now, this holistic
00:55:26.840 approach to fertility is someone who, for whatever reason, it took three to four months for us
00:55:33.600 to get pregnant.
00:55:34.220 Every time we didn't have any kind of medical intervention or health, but I remember the
00:55:38.040 first time I was 20, 26 when I got pregnant, I guess we probably started trying when I was
00:55:43.340 25.
00:55:44.860 Um, and I remember my doctor telling me, oh, if you don't get pregnant, you know, y'all are
00:55:50.420 in your twenties, you're healthy.
00:55:51.780 If you don't get pregnant within six months, then we probably need to see about getting you
00:55:55.700 some kind of, you know, just seeing what's going on.
00:55:58.500 I don't know if you would agree with that or not, but that kind of scared me.
00:56:01.440 I remember thinking, oh my gosh, if I don't get pregnant in six months, something's wrong
00:56:05.040 with me.
00:56:05.500 And we did, we did get pregnant within six months, but I have friends who it took them
00:56:11.280 longer than six months and they didn't really have anything wrong with them.
00:56:14.680 It just, I don't know, whatever it is.
00:56:17.000 I think people don't realize there's not, you can't get pregnant every single day of the
00:56:20.860 month.
00:56:21.220 Um, and so there's just a lot of misunderstandings and a lot of scary.
00:56:25.700 We talk, um, when it comes to trying to get pregnant.
00:56:28.440 And I think some people think that if they don't get pregnant the first time, because
00:56:32.280 everyone also has a friend like that who gets pregnant as soon as they have unprotected
00:56:35.720 sex, um, you think there's something wrong with you.
00:56:38.220 And that's just not always the case, right?
00:56:41.140 Not at all.
00:56:42.040 I know.
00:56:42.320 I always kind of say that the people who get pregnant the first time are the only ones
00:56:45.120 that talk about it very openly.
00:56:46.860 It seems like, but, um, you know, first of all, I would say that knowledge is power.
00:56:54.200 It's one of my mantras.
00:56:55.480 And so if you're concerned, whether you've been trying for three months or certainly the
00:57:01.880 technical definition of, of subfertility is trying to conceive without being able to for
00:57:07.940 12 months.
00:57:09.220 Um, it can be earlier with risk factors, but I always tell my patients, if there is something
00:57:15.660 that you are concerned about, what it's always an opportunity to go in and speak to a professional
00:57:23.080 because they may have some insights to be able to do some testing, whatever you want
00:57:28.200 and feel comfortable with.
00:57:28.980 And you decide together that will allow you to optimize your health.
00:57:32.620 Okay.
00:57:32.760 So that's very first and foremost.
00:57:34.060 The second point I would say, um, which kind of speaks to the misconceptions is that goodness,
00:57:40.600 we just aren't taught.
00:57:41.520 We aren't taught about our bodies.
00:57:43.100 I feel like I would have no idea about any of this, um, unless I did what I did.
00:57:48.160 And I'll tell you, Ali, as the purported expert in women's health, I realized after I started
00:57:54.760 digging deeper into fertility awareness-based methods that I was learning some things for
00:58:01.260 the first time.
00:58:03.480 And this is actually supported by literature.
00:58:05.700 In fact, only, I believe about 6% of OBGYNs and family medicine physicians, um, were able
00:58:12.400 to answer correctly regarding fertility awareness-based methods and their efficacy in both achieving
00:58:18.420 pregnancy and avoiding this.
00:58:19.880 And so even though patients are clamoring for a more natural and empowered approach to understanding
00:58:27.100 their own bodies, their own fertility as a couple as well, um, you know, again, I think
00:58:32.560 the data shows that anywhere from 23 to 60% of patients want to use a more natural approach.
00:58:39.140 These fertility awareness-based methods to either achieve or avoid pregnancy, only 1% end up
00:58:45.820 doing so because they didn't feel like they understood it well enough or received proper
00:58:49.560 counseling to do so from their, um, medical providers.
00:58:52.960 And so there is a gap right now.
00:58:56.740 And I think that there are gaps on multiple levels, but that's exciting because that means
00:59:00.420 we can address this, right?
00:59:02.600 And so what it means to me is that a basic education, um, of again, in middle, middle schools,
00:59:09.500 right?
00:59:09.720 I feel like the system, when we think about sex ed, there could be of, uh, in my opinion,
00:59:18.640 a much more comprehensive way of understanding what a woman's body is doing and why, and that
00:59:26.420 it all makes sense.
00:59:27.700 And it's part of this beautiful, again, miracle and in complexity that works so perfectly.
00:59:34.100 And if it's not working, you can seek help for that.
00:59:36.320 And it'll give you again, the empowerment to understand that that's one level.
00:59:39.820 The second level is educating those of us who care for others.
00:59:44.960 And so, uh, facts about fertility is a wonderful program, um, by my dear friend, Dr. Marguerite
00:59:51.520 Duane, who seeks to help medical students and residents nationwide to understand different
00:59:58.160 fertility awareness-based methods and their efficacy.
01:00:01.020 And then finally, I think that, you know, there needs to be continued calls from patients
01:00:09.240 themselves.
01:00:09.780 And so I always tell my patients, I love when they're proactive.
01:00:13.620 I love when they come.
01:00:14.360 Someone was telling me the other day, she said, oh, I don't want to come with the big
01:00:16.740 notebook.
01:00:17.020 And I said, no way.
01:00:17.900 I love it.
01:00:18.920 I have learned so much from my patients, quite honestly, because people do great research
01:00:22.960 and that's how you should be.
01:00:24.320 You should be proactive, be your own best advocate.
01:00:26.920 It is so important.
01:00:28.060 Speak up.
01:00:29.080 If there's something you don't understand or something else you want to consider, make sure
01:00:33.540 that this is your life, right?
01:00:35.140 It's how I always tell people you have to be able to feel at ease and comfortable and at
01:00:40.480 peace with the path that you are going on.
01:00:43.340 Mm-hmm.
01:00:44.160 And that alone, I think, sets you apart as a doctor because so many of us have had that
01:00:48.980 experience with the doctor who just makes you feel like you can't ask questions.
01:00:52.340 And if you do ask questions or you question their authority at all, or if you say, I did
01:00:56.340 research, then they look at you like you're an idiot.
01:00:58.420 And then you're like, okay, well, I guess I'll just do whatever you say.
01:01:01.080 So even a doctor saying, no, I want you to come in with your questions and with your
01:01:05.660 research, I think that's great.
01:01:08.000 And because you're right, like it took me probably until my third pregnancy and third
01:01:13.400 birth to realize, no, I can speak up.
01:01:17.120 And like I, at this point, I feel kind of confident that I know what I'm talking about,
01:01:21.400 not about everything, but when it comes to my own body.
01:01:24.420 Um, and so, yes, I totally encourage women to feel confident in that.
01:01:30.480 So you help women with normalized cycles, optimized fertility and miscarriage prevention,
01:01:37.420 hormone transition, uh, integrative, integrative tools, um, that a lot of people just don't
01:01:43.980 think about, including like mood issues, heart health, like the body really just works
01:01:49.960 together and everything affects something else.
01:01:53.640 And so often we, we, we have such an isolated approach to medicine today that we just don't
01:01:58.840 realize how all of these little things work together.
01:02:02.560 Right.
01:02:03.920 That's exactly right.
01:02:05.760 And that's part of the principles of the integrative fertility that I am honored to be able to
01:02:10.420 practice is that we are whole people, right?
01:02:13.560 As I mentioned before, um, their mental, emotional, physical, and, um, spiritual parts of
01:02:19.880 us and that we're, it's a whole systems approach.
01:02:22.780 And so the interconnectedness of organs, exactly the importance of our microbiomes, for example,
01:02:28.460 the importance of lifestyle changes and how that can truly make an impact.
01:02:33.140 And this has been well studied as well as the role of inflammation.
01:02:36.920 Um, and, and again, seeking to understand those hormone balances and correcting them.
01:02:42.160 I've seen just, it's been so fulfilling.
01:02:44.960 Um, and again, my career has been very fulfilling in different ways throughout its 20 year course
01:02:50.820 or whatnot, but, um, this current chapter has been really exciting because I truly feel
01:02:58.440 again, that I'm healing, helping heal these issues and women are reporting, um, just such
01:03:04.200 market improvements and how they're feeling.
01:03:06.040 And then of course we see the fruit of that.
01:03:08.440 It's very, it's just wonderful.
01:03:10.100 Yes.
01:03:11.040 And praise God.
01:03:12.340 And it's just, I mean, God created our body so perfect purposely and with such intention
01:03:19.780 and there's so much that we can learn about them.
01:03:22.540 And I love it.
01:03:23.800 Like, I'm so fascinated by everything that you do and everything that you've talked about
01:03:27.980 today.
01:03:28.600 Even as someone who opposes IVF, I'm fascinated by that process because, you know, like we already
01:03:34.920 mentioned, it just shows how intricate the design of our reproductive systems is, um, and how
01:03:42.380 miraculous bringing life into the world is.
01:03:45.480 And so the fact that you are giving couples that power and that knowledge and also just
01:03:51.260 helping us get healthy in the process really is amazing.
01:03:54.220 Um, yes, absolutely.
01:03:57.600 Um, is there a place where people can, maybe they're in your area, but where they can hear
01:04:03.760 more from you or learn more about what you do?
01:04:06.360 Where would, where would they go?
01:04:08.600 I think the best place right now would be at my website, which is laurenrubalmd.com.
01:04:15.680 And so that is a great way to reach out to me.
01:04:19.200 There's a contact page there.
01:04:21.480 Perfect.
01:04:22.000 Um, gosh, there's just, there's so much more, even I could ask you, there's so much
01:04:27.680 more that we could talk about.
01:04:28.900 We'll have to have you back on, but I just so appreciate you.
01:04:31.680 Thank you for using your testimony for good.
01:04:34.020 Yes, all glory to God, but I love how he uses people's callings, people's passions, people's
01:04:39.360 own revelations about medicine, the body, the ethics of it all for his glory and to help
01:04:45.460 other people.
01:04:46.020 So thank you so much, Dr. Rubal.
01:04:47.980 I really appreciate you.
01:04:49.520 Oh, thank you, Allie, for having me.
01:04:51.260 And I appreciate you and your hard work as well.
01:04:53.700 It's just, again, all for God's glory, but it's good to be an instrument of his will.
01:04:58.220 Yes.
01:04:58.600 And amen.
01:04:59.300 Thank you so much.
01:05:00.800 You're welcome.