00:21:43.520While in the state of Vermont, they've reversed their decision because of the incredible tireless work of Alliance Defending Freedom.
00:21:51.580These families in Vermont had taken in siblings and even focused on caring for kids specifically with struggles like fetal alcohol syndrome.
00:21:58.820But these parents lost their foster licenses because they refused to compromise their faith by participating in the lie of radical gender ideology.
00:41:52.540for the poor. And so it seems like they want to base our laws on the Bible until they read the
00:42:00.000words of Jesus. Welcome the stranger, liberate the oppressed, put away your sword, sell all
00:42:06.260your possessions and give the money to the poor. I mean, I'm not exactly sure a Christian nation
00:42:11.660is really what these people want. Okay. So again, the hypocrisy there is just so obvious.
00:42:17.860He wants a Christian nation, apparently, and he believes that all of those things in the Bible should dictate our laws.
00:42:24.700But if I have a different interpretation of the Bible, I cannot use that interpretation to inform my belief about public policy, because if I do, it's fascism or Christian nationalism or theocracy.
00:42:35.440He just wants his version of theocracy.
00:42:37.120By the way, Jesus did not say, welcome the foreigner and liberate the oppressed.
00:51:08.380And then in 1973, conservatives left the Presbyterian Church of the United States, which would later merge with PCUSA, that other liberal denomination that is the denomination of Tallarico.
00:51:22.000And then the PCUSA has become more and more progressive over time, highlighted in the views that you've seen from Tallarico.
00:51:30.540They affirm the full inclusion of LGBTQ plus people they have since the 2010s.
00:51:37.520Also emphasizes advocacy for the quote unquote marginalized groups, so-called racial justice, immigration reform, opposition to war, economic equity.
00:51:47.460These are all euphemisms for communism.
00:51:49.860Basically, the PCUSA is now the largest Presbyterian denomination in the U.S., so it's much bigger than the PCA, which includes churches that are faithful to scripture.
00:52:00.540But it's in decline. The denomination had about 2.7 million members in 1994, but only about 1 million in 2024. So that's a huge decline. And in contrast, the PCA, which is the second largest U.S. Presbyterian denomination, has seen robust growth, outpacing population increases, up 1.84% in 2024.
00:52:22.220And so what's really interesting is that if you look at all of the mainline Protestant denominations that espouse the kind of progressive beliefs that James Tallarico has, they are all in decline.
00:52:35.100People are realizing that if you're just going to hear from church all of the same things that you're hearing from social media and your favorite liberal activist, there is no real reason to go to church.
00:52:44.900You can get community from your friends.
00:52:47.300You can go to brunch instead of taking communion.
00:52:51.000You can basically just scroll through TikTok and you can hear what's equivalent to a liberal
00:52:57.060sermon every day without ever having to leave your house.
00:53:00.580And so if you're not getting the truth of the gospel, if you're not getting a faithful
00:53:05.020exegesis of God's word, if you're not getting true accountability and confession of sin
00:53:10.660that is supposed to occur in the body of Christ, and there's no point in going to church.
00:53:15.400That's why these mainline denominations are declining. What's interesting is that the
00:53:20.520popularity and culture of so-called liberal Christianity is increasing, and that is because,
00:53:26.620again, James Tallarico's form of Christianity is the atheist's favorite form of Christianity.
00:53:32.080It is Satan's favorite form of Christianity. Remember, Ephesians 2 tells us that Satan is
00:53:37.780the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience
00:53:42.720among whom we all once walked in the passions of our flesh. And so that is what is going on.
00:53:49.220Of course, the culture, the sons of disobedience, the prince of the power of the air want the
00:53:54.440popularization of this kind of Christianity because it's not Christianity, because it's
00:54:00.280not a belief in Christ. It's not a belief in the gospel, and it's sending people to hell.
00:54:04.380And so again, we as Christians, we've got the responsibility to push back against this with
00:54:08.940everything we can, both because the policies end in destruction for people's bodies. It ends in
00:54:14.800economic destruction. It ends in unrest. It ends in chaos. It ends in borderlessness, which is a
00:54:20.300form of chaos. It is anti-Christ, anti-Bible, anti-order, anti-loving our neighbor in every
00:54:27.320single way. It just sounds palatable and that's not enough. It just feels good and that's not
00:54:32.480enough. But again, also because it is a false gospel that if people believe it will lead them
00:54:37.520to hell. And we have to love our neighbor more than allowing them to believe James Tallarico.
00:54:42.860Okay. So this is a spiritual battle that we're in far more than it is a political battle. The
00:54:48.980political battle is up here. What we see, the spiritual battle is what we don't see. But we
00:54:53.300as Christians who have been given this insight and this vision by the Holy Spirit to see the
00:54:58.460spiritual battle that's waging, as Ephesians 6 tells us, we have a responsibility to speak up
00:55:03.420against this, even if that means you lose friends, even if that means people unfollow you, even if
00:55:08.380that makes you unpopular, even if you get pushed back, even if that divides. Truth divides. Truth
00:55:13.720divides. And this is not just about politics. This is about what is true, what is eternally true,
00:55:19.880not just politically true. All right. We're going to shift gears just a little bit. We've got a new
00:55:26.160segment for you. And I know that we're going to still try to finish under an hour, maybe right
00:55:31.500over an hour. But the reason that we're going to shift gears into this lighthearted segment for
00:55:37.360today is because we have an incredible short little video for you. So I had a vision a couple
00:55:45.020weeks ago after Hillary Clinton wrote the hit piece on Yours Truly in the Atlantic. And she
00:55:51.800said that some of my work has to do with politics and theology, I guess, but she said the rest of
00:55:58.500it is just lifestyle pitter-patter. I still to this day have no idea what she's talking about
00:56:04.300because if you follow me, you know that I don't really talk about any of that. I mean, I talk
00:56:09.160about motherhood. Sometimes we do talk about bread and food and things like that. I guess that's what
00:56:14.300lifestyle pitter-patter is. And I said, I want to see Hillary Clinton and me cooking and baking
00:56:21.080together for a lifestyle pitter-patter segment. So that's what we're about to do. But before we
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00:57:35.020Welcome to our new branded segment, Lifestyle Pitter Pattern. Maybe one day I can actually
00:57:40.740have Hillary Clinton on, the Secretary of State, to, I don't know, do a cooking segment or something
00:57:46.900like that. I feel like we would have a lot to talk about. But today, unfortunately, she's not
00:57:51.720here. And so we're going to talk about another form of lifestyle pitter-patter, and that is
00:57:55.900dating. I'm very concerned about not only Gen Z, but also millennial Christian women and men who
00:58:03.840seem to be unable to find their match. Part of that is because of a mismatch in values between
00:58:11.780Gen Z men and women on dating and kids. The interesting thing, this is according to Vox,
00:58:17.240is that Gen Z men want kids and Gen Z women have some questions. Vox journalist Anna North found
00:58:24.820that young men across the political spectrum really want to be dads more than you'd expect.
00:58:31.220A 2023 Pew poll showed that 57% of men aged 18 to 34 said they want children someday compared to
00:58:38.380only 45% of women, which is a pretty big gap that surprised researchers. This journalist noted that
00:58:44.380male Trump voters actually rated having children as number one among life priorities, while none
00:58:50.000of the women, no matter how they voted, ranked it that high. Women, what is going on? Gen Z men
00:58:55.920often see fatherhood as a capstone or just a really important part of a full life. This article
00:59:01.200says, on the other hand, many young women express hesitancy because it's never been more costly
00:59:06.280for women to have a child. I just don't think that's true. Never been more costly? Not even
00:59:12.580in the Great Depression? It wasn't more costly then? Of course. I think it's just because women
00:59:19.240have more career opportunities than they have before. And so if you're calculating it that way,
00:59:24.560that you're missing out on an amount of income because of a marketing career that you could
00:59:30.200have, then you could say, okay, well, I'm losing out on a million dollars or something.
00:59:33.840And that was more than someone was losing out in the Great Depression.
00:59:36.580But it certainly doesn't cost more to have a child if you are just having a child and
00:59:41.560focusing on having a child than it used to.
00:59:44.280And it certainly doesn't cost more for our bodies or for our health.
00:59:46.900So women worry that their partners are not going to pull their weight since even with
00:59:51.500progress childcare is not 50-50. The truth is, is that childcare women is not going to be 50-50
00:59:58.640because you are the mother and your child wants you. Your child needs you more, especially in
01:00:05.820those early years than the dad is needed. Now, I think a lot of us millennials have been extremely
01:00:11.200blessed with present dads and involved dads. Certainly that is different than generations
01:00:15.780past when there were like baby boomer men who had never changed a diaper, who had never woken
01:00:20.720up in the middle of the night. And that dynamic, I think for most millennial women has shifted.
01:00:25.500And so you certainly want to find a man, women who want to step up, who want to step in,
01:00:32.540who want to be involved, who honor you and want you to rest and want to pitch in as much as they
01:00:38.560can, who want to use their strength to protect you and to provide for you and to be there with
01:00:42.960your child, who loves being a father, who you know will be compassionate when you're going
01:00:47.500through birth and postpartum and all of those things for sure. But don't go into marriage
01:00:51.720thinking it's going to be this exact 50-50 thing because there are going to be periods of time in
01:00:57.100your marriage where it's 100% you and your husband, for whatever reason, he's studying for the LSAT or
01:01:02.180he's going through a really hard time at work. He's not going to be as involved as you want him
01:01:05.480to be. There are going to be times because you're postpartum, you're going through something that
01:01:09.140your husband is basically doing 100% of everything and you're not able to do other things. So don't
01:01:14.480look for someone who's going to do 50-50. Look for someone who's willing to do 100-0 or 0-100
01:01:20.900in either direction and who loves you and cherishes you and wants to lead you and to
01:01:26.440protect you in that way. And no one is perfect and no marriage is perfect. And you learn so many
01:01:31.640things along the way. But this idea that marriage is some kind of contract where you agree to a
01:01:36.600perfect 50-50%, that's just not life. And if you see marriage not as something just like a goal
01:01:43.660to attain, but something that God has called us to as Christians, something that yes, requires
01:01:48.300sacrifice, but because of that sanctifies us and makes us better. It also is a lot of fun and also
01:01:54.380provides you with a lot of love and camaraderie. Then that's better than seeing it as what it
01:01:59.080seems like a lot of Gen Z women see it as is some kind of transaction. And also just seeing kids in
01:02:06.220the same way is like something that exists to fulfill you rather than just people made in the
01:02:11.180image of God that, yes, will make you better, but are also just people that you can channel your love
01:02:16.860into. It's really hard to explain if you don't have kids just how much joy and love your children
01:02:22.320bring you. And they just make you a better person. Not that people without kids aren't good people,
01:02:27.280but it just does. It just makes you more responsible. It makes you wiser. It makes
01:02:30.840you smarter. It makes you a better manager. It makes you more compassionate. It makes you more
01:02:36.400self-controlled. It makes you more patient because you realize that so much of parenting actually
01:02:41.660requires self-discipline on your part. Now, here's just like one thing that I would say. I know that
01:02:47.360we've got disparate values when it comes to men and women, and men can get lots of advice, but not
01:02:53.780from me, and that's why I target a lot of my advice towards women. But for the Christian women out
01:02:59.440there especially who are like, I can't find a man and I can't find a guy that I want to marry, this
01:03:04.840is what I ask all of my single friends. Where are you working out? Where are you going on the
01:03:09.740weekends? Where are you going on the evenings? What church are you going to? How involved are
01:03:14.560you in your church? And yes, God can do anything through anyone and any place, but you're probably
01:03:20.360not going to find your husband at Pure Bar. He's probably not at Pilates. He might not be at hot
01:03:26.600yoga. You might just need to go where the Christian men are. You might need to change
01:03:33.560churches. If you're not attracted to a guy in skinny jeans and you're going to a church where
01:03:40.260there's only hipsters, unless it is the only solid church in the area, because that's most
01:03:46.020important, you might want to consider changing churches. Not to say there's anything inherently
01:03:52.020wrong with skinny jeans objectively necessarily. I'm just saying, put yourself in a position where
01:03:58.440you are around Christian men that you find attractive. And I've encouraged a lot of women
01:04:04.960to try to find some sort of Christian CrossFit gem. That's where I met my husband. It worked
01:04:10.600out very well. We had that shared hobby and shared values right away. And so that was a great
01:04:17.780foundation for us. But that is my piece of advice to you. Women, first of all, change how you think
01:04:23.580about marriage. Change how you think about children. Nothing in your career is going to
01:04:27.840give you fulfillment like those things. And then also like go where the Christian men are. Can I
01:04:33.880tell a story really fast of my friend who went to a golf store the other day to see if there would
01:04:40.180be a guy there who would come up and talk to her and ask her on a date? It literally worked. She
01:04:45.000went to a golf store, walked around, and a guy came up to her, started talking to her, and they
01:04:49.340went on a couple of dates. So I'm just saying maybe stroll the aisles of Home Depot or Golf
01:04:55.680galaxy or somewhere where you know the men are academy i don't know where guys go honestly
01:05:01.280go somewhere where the men are and just i don't know see what happens so
01:05:06.080that's my lifestyle pitter patter for today we will be back here on wednesday