Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey - Ep 173 ｜ Questions + Things We Just Don't Get

00:00:00.000 Hey guys, welcome to Relatable. Happy Friday. I hope everyone has had a great week so far.

00:00:06.220 I think I say the same exact opening every single time on my podcast. This is funny.

00:00:13.160 So I was looking on Twitter. I don't even know how I found this because they didn't tag me.

00:00:19.780 But I was looking, I guess, on the hashtag talking about why saying guys is not correct.

00:00:27.240 It's not politically correct. You're not supposed to say, hey guys, because it excludes a certain

00:00:31.540 gender or whatever. I think it was a Now This video. Now This is propaganda, if you didn't

00:00:36.560 already know that. And someone responded, I think, to the tweet. It was like, if Hey Guys is wrong,

00:00:43.160 then every Allie Beth Stuckey relatable podcast is wrong because she starts every single one of her 1.00

00:00:49.220 podcasts with, hey guys, I don't know why I do that because I think I typically say y'all rather

00:00:54.220 than guys. I'm from Texas. I don't know why you say guys, but just kind of started out that way.

00:00:59.980 If you want a new opening, let me know. If you are feeling excluded and offended by me saying guys,

00:01:06.000 let me know. I probably won't change it based on that. But hey, you never know. Today, we're not

00:01:10.760 doing an interview. We are going to do things I just don't get. Actually, it's going to be things

00:01:17.200 that you guys just don't get slash questions. I am excited about this episode because I got a ton

00:01:23.860 of really good questions. And I know if one person asked me this, it is likely that others of you

00:01:31.980 have the same question. And so hopefully this will be a good, productive, insightful, and fun episode

00:01:38.880 for you guys. So I'm going to do some things that you guys don't get and some questions at the same time.

00:01:45.080 Um, so the first question then I, that I got is how do you learn to trust God again? Well,

00:01:54.840 you learn to trust God again by reading his word. God is trustworthy. We don't have to trust him for

00:02:00.480 him to be trustworthy. He just is. God is self-existent. He is self-defining. He is self-reliant.

00:02:06.900 He doesn't need our faith. He doesn't need our trust to do the things that he is going to do,

00:02:11.920 but he tells us to trust him because he is trustworthy. So whenever we are experiencing

00:02:16.980 seasons of doubt or seasons of, of questioning and saying, okay, is God really good? Uh, or as

00:02:24.200 Satan asked Eve in the garden, did God really say, when we start, uh, finding ourselves kind of giving

00:02:30.320 into those questions and spiraling down into this, uh, never ending tornado of doubt, we need to not

00:02:38.140 move away from God's word and start asking people outside. Okay. What do you think about God? What

00:02:43.900 do you think about God? But going into God's word and saying, what does God's word actually say? What

00:02:49.680 does the inerrant, the all-sufficient word of God say about who he is? We need to read stories of the

00:02:56.940 Bible in the Bible of God's faithfulness. We need to read the letters to the church where, uh, Paul

00:03:03.740 exhorts people and encourages people to persevere, to stay strong in their faith, to test themselves,

00:03:09.880 to discern what is right from wrong. That is what you're struggling with right now. Um, in addition

00:03:15.880 to wondering how, you know, to trust God, you were struggling with all kinds of questions and the

00:03:21.440 desire to persevere, but not knowing how or what that looks like. And my advice for you is to go deeper

00:03:28.020 into the word of God, not away from it. What I see so often, we've seen so many, uh, stories of people

00:03:33.280 lately falling away or saying, um, that they no longer think that the word of God is sufficient

00:03:40.000 or exclusively true. They start adding in their own philosophies and all of a sudden their entire

00:03:44.100 worldview crumbles. Well, that's because instead of going to the source of all wisdom and knowledge

00:03:49.540 for truth, they have started to look at outside secular pagan sources. You're not going to find real

00:03:55.320 wisdom there. You're just going to get confused, but God is a God of peace, not a God of confusion.

00:04:01.340 And so if you want peace, if you want knowledge, if you want wisdom, the Bible says that the fear of

00:04:06.020 the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. Then you need to go to the source of all of these things,

00:04:10.320 the alpha, the omega, the beginning and the end, you need to go to his word. That's how you learn

00:04:15.360 to trust God again. And of course, prayer, pray without ceasing a pray for strength, pray for, uh,

00:04:21.180 the grace of God to, uh, allow you to stay strong and to work out your salvation with fear and

00:04:28.180 trembling. Um, another question. So this is completely different. This is kind of how the

00:04:34.260 questions are going to be there. Some going to be religious and some going to be, uh, political and

00:04:39.200 I'm not going in any particular order. Someone said Hillary running for president. Yeah. Apparently

00:04:43.680 that's a thing that happened. Okay. I'm going to play you this little clip until you'll know what

00:04:47.700 I'm talking about. Nothing has been more examined and looked at than my emails. We all know that.

00:04:54.180 So he's either lying or delusional or both. There was no subpoena as he, uh, says in a tweet this

00:04:59.980 morning. Um, so maybe there does need to be a rematch. I mean, obviously I can beat him again.

00:05:05.320 So that was strange, right? That was strange. Like she said again, because she didn't beat

00:05:10.740 president Trump the first time. And so we're just like, what? Well, it's been a question over the

00:05:16.580 past few years, whether or not Hillary Clinton is living in an alternative universe. I think she thinks

00:05:22.120 that there is more support for her potential presidency than there actually is. Now there are

00:05:27.220 Hillary stands. Like there are people who love Hillary Clinton, but I don't know how many of

00:05:32.600 those people, I would say a very small percentage of those people actually want her to become

00:05:37.200 president. Um, now, and there would also be fear that she would just rig the election again so that 1.00

00:05:43.360 whoever really is going to be the nominee won't become the nominee and that she will become the

00:05:47.540 nominee because she runs the democratic party probably somewhere behind the scenes. Uh, 0.59

00:05:53.800 that would be great for president Trump. That would be great for president Trump because not

00:05:57.960 only was she a terrible candidate. I mean, I'm sorry. I know that a lot of you love Donald Trump

00:06:03.040 out there. You had to have a really terrible candidate in order, uh, in order to not beat Donald

00:06:11.460 Trump just because he was so out there and so crazy. Now I understand that she won the popular

00:06:15.500 vote. There were three more, uh, 3 million more people who voted for her than voted for Donald

00:06:21.660 Trump, but Donald Trump won the electoral vote. That's why, by the way, Democrats want to get rid

00:06:26.380 of the electoral college, but that's a whole other thing to talk about. Um, but still he won, he won.

00:06:32.880 And in order for Donald Trump, someone as far out as that is someone who so many people did not like

00:06:41.100 for him to win, you had to have a really bad democratic candidate. And she was a really bad 1.00

00:06:46.080 democratic candidate. And I know this is a lot of people think this is a sexist thing to say.

00:06:51.180 It's not a sexist thing to say. Cause I say it about men too. She was just unlikable. She was 1.00

00:06:56.400 unrelatable. She just didn't have any kind of charisma whatsoever. And Donald Trump like him or not,

00:07:02.760 he has a ton of charisma and he is very likable to the people that like him. He is very relatable to

00:07:08.980 the people, um, that he is relating to. I know that kind of sounds a little repetitive,

00:07:13.960 but you understand what I'm saying. There are just not a lot of people that relate at all to

00:07:17.620 Hillary Clinton. And plus they're so resentful against her for, uh, snubbing Bernie Sanders.

00:07:23.500 I think it would be great for Donald Trump. Like it would be pathetic of her to enter into the race.

00:07:28.480 And so she's got that part against her. Not a whole lot of people really like her enough to

00:07:34.080 allow her to run for president. I don't think people really want her presidency. She's not 1.00

00:07:38.220 woke enough quite frankly, for the direction that the Democrats are going in, which is kind of crazy

00:07:43.400 when you think about it. But again, I think it would be great for president Trump. I don't think

00:07:48.420 that she'll do it. I think hopefully there will be enough people in her life to say, look,

00:07:54.260 it's just not, it's not for you girl. It's not in the cards for you. You've had your political

00:07:59.180 career. It's just not in the cards for you. That would be, that would be crazy. Now that would be

00:08:03.660 a turn that I didn't expect. Um, why Christians are still sending their kids to the government 1.00

00:08:12.380 for education. So I guess this is someone saying that she just doesn't understand that, which I

00:08:17.540 totally understand that concern. If you listen to a conversation that I had with, uh, Gabe Rinch

00:08:23.440 over the summer, that is a, an interview that I had. It was a great interview. He's super insightful

00:08:28.920 into biblical issues and really the intersection between, uh, the Bible and family and culture

00:08:34.620 and politics and all of that. So you can go listen to my interview with Gabe Rinch, but he talks about

00:08:39.020 the danger in parents sending their kids to public school. Now I know a lot of godly and Christian

00:08:44.840 parents, uh, who have sent their kids to public school and they have done a really good job and

00:08:50.040 their kids have turned out wonderfully and awesome and strong in their faith and very, uh, very equipped

00:08:56.020 to deal with the outside world that we obviously are going to have to deal with and to walk through

00:09:01.360 and to work in and all of that. So I just can't say wholesale that every single parent who sends

00:09:07.520 their kid to public school, because that's the only option that they have is doing a bad thing.

00:09:12.760 Now, do I think that you have to take extra steps to teach your kids while they're at home to make

00:09:19.780 sure that you implement the right values to instill them with the word of God? Yeah, you probably do.

00:09:24.920 I think that parents need to be doing that anyway, whether their kids go to private or a public

00:09:28.560 school, but there are probably going to be values that they will learn at a non-Christian school 0.98

00:09:32.980 that you are more opposed to than if you sent them to a Christian school. It would be awesome if every

00:09:38.920 single parent had the option to send their kids to a small private school, uh, a Christian school

00:09:43.580 where they knew that they were going to be, uh, taught God's word on a daily basis. That's simply not

00:09:48.800 an option for everyone. And I also know a lot of teachers in public schools who are great,

00:09:53.360 who are wonderful teachers and who are godly teachers and who are doing their best to teach

00:09:58.400 their kids as, as well as they possibly can. Now, I do think that, uh, public education has

00:10:05.780 been overtaken by the left, has been overtaken by bureaucrats, and therefore it is failing our

00:10:11.900 children. I do think that there is a systemic problem with public schooling and that unfortunately

00:10:18.540 Christians kind of ceded that ground, that Christians kind of surrendered the realm of 0.99

00:10:23.760 public education to the left. And maybe it's not all of our fault. Maybe there are some things that

00:10:28.320 we could have not, we, maybe there are some things that we could have done differently. And maybe there

00:10:33.420 are some things that we couldn't have done any differently. We did the best that we could in some

00:10:36.820 arenas, but we totally ceded and surrendered that ground. And now systemically and in general,

00:10:42.380 public education is monopolized by the left. And because of that, it is very difficult for parents

00:10:47.900 who want to raise their kids in a Christian and conservative, uh, worldview. It is very difficult

00:10:53.360 because they're learning something during the day. They're learning something different at home.

00:10:57.180 And, um, that can be hard. That can present another challenge. But I know for a lot of parents,

00:11:01.700 that's the only option that they have. And a lot of teachers do do a really good job. So I just want

00:11:06.780 to be careful there not to make too many generalizations to say that everyone who is involved in the

00:11:11.820 public education is wrong and bad and doing the wrong thing. Um, I think it's the most important

00:11:18.240 thing, no matter what, no matter where your kids go is to teach them in the Lord and to cultivate

00:11:26.000 their faith as much as you can to steward this gift of children that God has given you in a

00:11:31.300 responsible way so that, uh, they know the truth. And that might be more difficult if your kids are

00:11:37.500 going to public school. Uh, but that is true for all of us, no matter where our kids go or whether

00:11:43.720 they're homeschooled, which I think is also an awesome option. Um, a lot of you, I've gotten a

00:11:48.720 few questions about the Ellen DeGeneres, George Bush thing. They were sitting together and apparently

00:11:54.120 some people got mad. I will say it was only people on the left who got mad. No conservatives were like,

00:11:59.480 why is George Bush sitting with Ellen DeGeneres? I don't think any conservative thought of that. I think

00:12:03.980 they probably thought it was cool, but leftists got mad because George Bush, he's a so-called war

00:12:09.000 criminal, whatever. They're more mad. People on the left are more mad, madder, whatever, at George

00:12:16.360 Bush, uh, because of the war and because of the events surrounding 9-11 than they are with Saddam 0.70

00:12:23.940 Hussein. That is true. There are people I would say on the left and the right who are more mad at, uh,

00:12:29.860 George Bush than they are with Saddam Hussein. That's crazy to think about. Um, okay, let me 0.80

00:12:34.560 play you this clip from the Ellen show. So, uh, this weekend I went to Dallas, uh, for the Cowboys

00:12:39.780 game, but during the game, they showed a shot of George and me laughing together. And, uh, so

00:12:45.140 people were upset. They thought, why is a gay Hollywood liberal sitting next to a conservative

00:12:50.680 Republican president? Didn't even notice I'm holding the brand new iPhone 11. And, um,

00:12:55.560 I was aware that I was going to be surrounded with people from very different views and beliefs.

00:13:02.260 And I'm not talking about politics. I was rooting for the Packers. And, uh, get this,

00:13:06.460 everybody in the Cowboys suite was rooting for the Cowboys. And so I had to hide my cheese hat in

00:13:11.360 Porsche's purse. Here's the thing. I'm friends with George Bush. In fact, I'm friends with a lot of

00:13:15.440 people who don't share the same beliefs that I have. We're all different, and I think that we've

00:13:19.280 forgotten that that's okay that we're all different. But just because I don't agree with someone on

00:13:23.300 everything doesn't mean that I'm not going to be friends with them. When I say be kind to one

00:13:26.780 another, I don't mean only the people that think the same way that you do. I mean, be kind to

00:13:31.200 everyone. Doesn't matter. So I would say good for her. Obviously, obviously Ellen DeGeneres and I 0.99

00:13:40.120 are diametrically opposed on a lot of values on how we see the world. But I really respect,

00:13:49.040 I really respect that she did this. Now, what's a little bit funny, not really ha ha funny,

00:13:55.000 but it says something about our culture that the fact that she had to go up there and say,

00:14:00.100 hey guys, I'm going to be kind to people that I disagree with. And yeah, I'm going to be friends

00:14:05.400 with people who are on the other side of the political aisle. And that was hailed as this like

00:14:09.180 great heroic act that everyone applauded for. And I mean, I did like I shared it. I'm like,

00:14:14.840 this is such a big deal. This is so awesome. Other people need to be like this. 10 years ago,

00:14:19.820 first of all, I don't think anyone would have complained five years ago. I'm not sure as many

00:14:23.220 people would have complained. And it wouldn't have been a big deal as as big of a deal as it is now.

00:14:29.180 And her saying, hey, I'm going to be kind to everyone wouldn't have been applauded as this

00:14:33.060 heroic act. But because we are so tribalized and we are so divided and we are so outraged all the time,

00:14:38.900 this was like a stunning act of bravery. Really? It's just common decency. OK, she's a nice and

00:14:45.520 polite person. We should all be nice and polite people. We should all be able to set our differences

00:14:49.760 aside and say, you know what? You're a human being and I am going to see the best in you.

00:14:54.660 Now, there are some things that some people brought up about, OK, she's not kind to President Trump.

00:15:02.180 She hasn't had President Trump on her show. I understand that concern is someone who voted for

00:15:07.740 Donald Trump, who is someone who is obviously a conservative. I understand what you're saying,

00:15:12.960 but I don't think I don't think that makes her unkind. I think that you can dislike a politician.

00:15:19.220 She obviously believes not saying she's right, but she obviously believes that Donald Trump is a bad

00:15:24.760 person, that he is a bigot and that he is not just someone who disagrees with her, but someone whose

00:15:30.620 values she just doesn't align with at all. I don't think it's wrong for her or a hypocritic. I don't

00:15:36.280 think it's hypocritical of her to say, hey, be kind to everyone and still disagree with President

00:15:40.340 Trump and not have him on her show. I don't think that's hypocritical. I don't think in order for her

00:15:45.140 to be a kind person, she has to have every single politician that she doesn't agree with on her 0.99

00:15:49.380 show. Now, she really never has Republicans on her show, not just Donald Trump. So that might be a

00:15:56.220 little point of contention that, OK, if you're it's not just you shouldn't just be kind and welcoming

00:16:01.100 to George Bush. Maybe there are some other Republicans that you don't hate as much as Donald Trump

00:16:04.680 that you can at least be kind to. I think that's fair to point out. But just because she doesn't

00:16:09.160 like President Trump, I don't think that necessarily makes her hypocritical. OK, next question.

00:16:19.160 I don't get people. OK, this is not a question. I don't get people who don't like naps or who wash

00:16:23.900 their hair every day. OK, yes, I don't wash my hair every day. I haven't washed my hair every day since

00:16:30.580 ever. Have I ever washed my hair every day? Because I remember in high school that my friends

00:16:36.420 and I literally this is gross and this is just what teenagers do, had a competition to see who

00:16:41.780 could go the longest without washing their hair. I don't think I won that. I don't think I won that

00:16:45.880 competition. But that just goes to show that we obviously didn't care about washing our hair

00:16:51.240 every day. It's not good to wash your hair every day. If you know that my parents still don't believe

00:16:54.760 me on this and they don't get it, that it's actually not good to wash your hair every day,

00:16:59.020 that you should let your hair rest and collect oil and all that good stuff.

00:17:03.820 So but I can't say that I don't get people that don't wash their hair every day because

00:17:08.380 I do get it because some people's hair just gets greasy and they don't want to deal with it.

00:17:13.180 It gets itchy and all that. Sorry, this is kind of a gross subject, but I just wanted to address

00:17:17.440 this person's concern that I'm on the same page as you, but I kind of get why people do it.

00:17:21.660 And then the other thing that you don't get people who don't like naps. I don't like naps.

00:17:25.620 Yes. I so I guess you just don't get me. So let me try to explain this to you. I feel like I'm

00:17:32.140 losing time and I don't like I like sleep, but I don't like our need for sleep. Like I wish that

00:17:40.520 I didn't need as much sleep as I do in order to function and to be productive. And I don't like

00:17:46.620 naps. I'm not good at taking naps because as soon as I lay down, I'm thinking about a million things

00:17:51.060 and it makes me feel worse afterwards. I think maybe napping is something like an art that you

00:17:57.880 kind of have to perfect. And I haven't perfected that art because I lay there for 20 minutes. And

00:18:04.140 by the way, this is like I'm talking about before I had a baby. I don't I can't nap at all now. But

00:18:10.420 I guess if I ever tried to nap before I have a baby, I lay there for 20 minutes thinking about

00:18:15.720 something or on my phone or something like that. And then if I do finally fall asleep,

00:18:21.480 unless I wake up at the exact right time in my sleep cycle, I am really groggy for the rest of

00:18:28.340 the day. So that's why I don't like naps. So I hope that provided you some insight.

00:18:34.620 What is your favorite thing that your daughter does so far? I love talking about her. She's so cute. I

00:18:40.320 know I don't show pictures, but she is. I mean, just like objectively speaking, I know I'm biased,

00:18:47.060 objectively speaking, like she's just so cute. My favorite thing that she does, I think I might

00:18:53.440 have answered this on the last Q&A, actually. It's really hard to pick a favorite. I mean,

00:18:58.200 I love when she smiles. She has smiled since she was like literally two weeks years, two weeks,

00:19:04.300 two weeks years old, two weeks years old, two weeks old. I know that in the beginning, it's kind

00:19:10.800 of just like a reflex that they have. It's not like a genuine reaction to something, but it did

00:19:14.720 seem like it. Like she would look us in our eyes and smile really early on. So I love when she smiles.

00:19:20.200 She hasn't quite gotten a laugh yet, but I love when she reacts to something that we do or she tries

00:19:26.620 to kind of like mimic our facial expressions. One thing that I think is funny that she does is that

00:19:31.260 she has very different emotional reactions to different songs. So if there's like a happy,

00:19:36.040 upbeat song, she'll be happy. She likes that. But if you change to a song that she doesn't like,

00:19:41.520 it is like, I don't know what it is, but she will just erupt in tears, which I just think is

00:19:48.080 very emotionally mature of her, very emotionally sensitive of her to know that there is some songs

00:19:54.620 that she just doesn't like or too sad for her. If like there's some kind of, if there's some kind

00:20:00.560 of tune that she thinks is a little bit sadder, it seems like her emotions change. I love that.

00:20:05.480 I love when she wakes up in the morning. I love that she likes, she really likes to sit up,

00:20:11.240 even though she can't sit up. She would like us to hold her in a seated position for as long as 0.96

00:20:15.640 possible. Oh, one thing that I really love that she does, she loves to watch football. I think it's

00:20:21.360 because of like the movement and the colors. And so she will sit with my husband on the couch and

00:20:26.060 intently, intensely watch football. And it's so cute. She looks like she's like really focused

00:20:33.180 and like she really wants to know if her team is going to win. So I don't know. She just does a

00:20:37.000 lot of cute things. I mean, not everyone can be as cute and as great as baby girl.

00:20:42.900 One thing this person doesn't get is why nickels are bigger than dimes. I don't know. That's so weird.

00:20:48.360 Who decided that? And so were pennies. Pennies are bigger than dimes too. I think that's weird as well.

00:20:53.540 I think we should probably, we should probably hold whoever runs for president on the democratic

00:20:59.320 side or whoever the nominee is and president Trump, we should hold them both accountable when

00:21:04.600 it comes to that. We should ask them that tough question at the debates. That should be the

00:21:08.700 question that we should submit. They need to tell us the reasoning for this. And if they're not willing

00:21:13.100 to change that, are they really capable of changing anything? So I think that's a great,

00:21:17.560 great question. Enneagram. Enneagram. Okay. I get asked this a lot. This is another

00:21:23.380 one. This, I need to add this to my list actually of things to talk about is dedicating an entire

00:21:28.740 podcast episode to personality tests. This is actually something that I'm going to talk about

00:21:33.060 in my book, which is coming out April, 2020, by the way, you guys are going to love it. I can't wait

00:21:37.440 to like share the cover with you and exactly what it is. Once I share the title, you guys are going to

00:21:42.460 be so excited. I'm so excited. But I talk about the Enneagram, um, in my book and

00:21:47.980 it's its origins and why it is so easy to idolize personality tests and to use your personality

00:21:57.040 type, whether it's the Enneagram or Myers-Briggs or whatever, as an excuse to send, oh, well, I'm just,

00:22:02.780 you know, I'm just an isolated person or I'm just an unfriendly person or I'm just an overthinker.

00:22:08.400 I'm just a worrier because I'm an Enneagram one, two, five, seven, nine. And by the way,

00:22:14.600 I pretty recently, I would say like a year ago, didn't see anything wrong with the Enneagram.

00:22:20.360 I didn't know about it. I just kind of assumed it was another personality test. I was even told

00:22:24.560 in college that it was a Christian personality test, that it was used by the church. Well,

00:22:28.800 that's not true. It actually has origins in the occults, which I will, I can talk about

00:22:33.640 in more depth at some point. And it was used by mystics. It was introduced to the Catholic

00:22:39.180 church in like the 1970s and they've tried to like reappropriate it, but it doesn't have

00:22:43.620 Christian origins. And it's really not something to base your life on or to try to understand your

00:22:51.500 behavior through the lens of. I think it gives people some sense of comfort to try to understand

00:22:56.980 themselves or to feel like they are understood by an objective standard of a personality test.

00:23:01.800 But the fact is, is that the Bible calls us all to be holy, not to know ourselves better.

00:23:05.800 And I would be wary in general of too much introspection. I do think it's important to test

00:23:10.880 ourselves and to understand what our sin temptations are. But I think that we are able to do that

00:23:18.500 through the word of God and through the Holy Spirit and not through obsessing over personality

00:23:22.800 tests. I understand a lot of people feel like they've been liberated by personality tests. You

00:23:27.420 haven't. You've been liberated, if you have been, by the blood of Christ. A lot of people feel like

00:23:32.460 they've been helped by the Enneagram. A lot of people think that it has helped them love other

00:23:38.220 people. And I understand that. I do. I'm not saying that it hasn't. I can't, you know, argue with you

00:23:43.540 on that. If you feel like it's been helpful to you in some way, there are a lot of pagan things that

00:23:48.660 probably people feel like they have been helped by. People probably think that they have been helped

00:23:53.820 by a zodiac sign. But the Enneagram really is not much different than that, is what I've realized.

00:23:59.420 And I've just done my own research and learning this stuff. And so I'm telling you that as someone

00:24:03.640 who did believe in the truth in them and the helpfulness of them pretty recently, until I

00:24:11.660 started researching for myself and realizing that it's become this idol almost in the church of all

00:24:18.300 these Christians talking about, well, I'm a nine, I'm a one. I don't think that should be our identity. 0.98

00:24:24.420 I think that we are bought with a price. We become ambassadors of Christ when we are made

00:24:30.800 new creations. And that is who we are. Yes, we all have different personalities. We have different

00:24:36.260 quirks. We have different preferences. And that's wonderful. That's beautiful. We are all different

00:24:40.420 members, different parts of the body of Christ. And God did create us that way. And that is great.

00:24:45.560 But I think it becomes a problem when we see ourselves as a certain personality type or number

00:24:50.940 and not as who we are in Christ. We are all called to the same standard of holiness because of what

00:24:56.500 Christ did for us. Okay, next question. Okay, someone asked me about drag queen story hour. I am going

00:25:07.980 to play you and this. So you have to be watching this in order to know what's going on. So I encourage

00:25:15.580 you to watch this part on YouTube or on Facebook. But I am going to play you drag queen story hour 1.00

00:25:23.100 that happened at a real library for children. This is drag queen story hour. It's your classic 0.99

00:25:29.920 children's reading program with a twist. The day's literary leader is a larger than life drag queen. 0.96

00:25:36.320 Drag queens are just here to entertain. We can read. We're intelligent. Like we are harmless. And I 1.00

00:25:45.120 just hope that, you know, moving forward, it kind of just like stretches those imaginations a little

00:25:49.740 bit more to continue normalizing it and, you know, give people a little bit more like fearlessness to

00:25:55.440 take home with them. So obviously, this is extremely disturbing. This is perverted. It's disgusting.

00:26:03.100 It's dark. It's demonic. It's satanic. It's whatever you want to call it. There is a real push,

00:26:10.020 a real push to sexualize children and to see children as or to treat children as viable,

00:26:22.180 as viable participants, as legitimate participants in any kind of sexuality, sexual acts. And that is why

00:26:31.980 we are going to see the normalization of pedophilia. And so we talked about public schooling. This is

00:26:38.520 another thing to think about when we are when you are considering public schooling. This is something

00:26:42.980 that is going to be normalized in the public education system because the left controls the

00:26:47.600 public education system. So that is something to think about. It's just another reason for parents

00:26:53.500 to be vigilant. We cannot be apathetic with our kids' education. We cannot be apathetic with our

00:26:58.440 kids' worldview. There was probably a time where parents could be more than they can be now where

00:27:04.440 they could maybe trust even public schools and their teachers to teach them good godly values that

00:27:10.020 you didn't really have to worry about. Okay, they were going to teach them, you know, 19 different

00:27:15.520 genders and that marriage isn't really between a man and a woman, that they were going to teach them 0.58

00:27:20.540 things that really opposed the Bible. I mean, of course, there was a big scandal when they started

00:27:25.320 teaching evolution in public schools and that has definitely gone downhill from there and when

00:27:31.540 prayer was pulled out of public schools. But in general, it has been a lot better in the public

00:27:37.920 sphere than it is now. And so parents just have to be vigilant. They have to be vigilant. There is a whole

00:27:42.980 Instagram account that I shared the other day about talking to your kids about kinks and fetishes

00:27:49.900 and different sexual desires and things like that because they think that this is going to be

00:27:54.180 liberating and freeing for kids. No, there is a reason why there are stages in development. Our mind

00:28:00.180 isn't even fully formed until the age that we're 25. Kids don't have any capacity to understand those

00:28:05.700 things. They don't have a desire for those things. They might be curious at a certain age about anatomy

00:28:13.040 and things like that, but there is a reason why we protect a child's innocence as much as possible.

00:28:18.560 And the outside world will tell you that is cultivating shame. No, it's not. It's actually

00:28:22.780 cultivating honor. A book that I highly recommend is Love Thy Body by Nancy Piercy. I actually

00:28:29.560 interviewed Nancy Piercy a few weeks ago. It talks about how the Christian ethic is actually more

00:28:36.000 honoring to the body than the secular ethic and why that is. And so I highly recommend Love Thy Body

00:28:42.000 by Nancy Piercy. I also recommend the episode that I did with her, the interview that I did with her

00:28:47.160 a few weeks ago. Nancy Piercy, definitely go check that out. Next question. Have I ever done an episode

00:28:56.480 on election? Yes, I have. There is an episode from the summer titled Predestination. I would go check

00:29:02.900 that out if you are interested. Someone said they don't understand fingerless gloves. Me neither.

00:29:08.820 Maybe your palm gets cold. But I would say that when you are cold, it's your digits that get cold,

00:29:15.300 right? So and especially now they have that technology where you can like actually use your

00:29:20.600 phone when you are when you have gloves on. So what is the point of fingerless gloves? If someone

00:29:27.320 in the comments or someone out there could tell me the point of fingerless gloves, I always think of

00:29:31.140 like the burglars in Home Alone when I think of fingerless gloves. So I don't know. Does anyone else

00:29:35.760 use fingerless gloves out there besides the burglars in Home Alone that I'm sure is watching? They're

00:29:39.620 right now. Someone says that I don't get people who like Pepsi. Pepsi is good. And I'm talking as

00:29:46.340 someone who likes Coca-Cola. Pepsi is good. It just is. I like when people hate on Pepsi. I just like

00:29:52.660 don't really say anything. But secretly, I'm like, Pepsi is pretty good. Like I'm okay if a restaurant

00:29:57.860 doesn't have Coke and they want to give me Pepsi. I don't I don't get people who don't get people who

00:30:03.960 like Pepsi. Is Pepsi really bad? Or is it just like this thing? Is there just a stigma surrounding

00:30:09.820 Pepsi? Maybe we need to destigmatize Pepsi. That's another thing that we need to hold our presidential 0.99

00:30:14.880 candidates to. People who say supposedly is something that you don't understand or all of

00:30:20.540 the sudden. Oh, I might be guilty of all of the sudden. I think someone's corrected me on this

00:30:26.600 before. All of the sudden. Is it all of a sudden? All of a sudden? Uh, is that is that just wrong?

00:30:35.020 I also say, um, what do I say? Whole nother, a whole nother thing, which is not a phrase at all.

00:30:42.400 And I'm someone who really cares. I mean, I care about grammar. I shouldn't say I really care about

00:30:46.420 grammar. Some of you, I feel bad because you'll send me a message, you know, like, sorry, my grammar

00:30:50.420 is bad. I'm like, oh, gosh, I hope I have not seen as that person who's like correcting people's

00:30:55.580 grammar because I'm not. I don't really care. But I do care when people are writing articles or

00:31:01.080 when something is formal and they don't know how to like use a comma or something. That does kind

00:31:05.460 of irk me a little bit. Or when people are trying to sound smart and they use too many commas, that

00:31:09.500 does bother me. But people who say supposedly, you know what? I don't say supposedly, but I think my

00:31:14.980 dad says supposedly. And I hope he's listening to this right now because he makes fun of me for how I

00:31:20.380 say important. Because apparently I say important. My mom says it's because we listen, young people

00:31:26.860 listen to rap. And that's why we say important. But you know what? Someone else said when she was

00:31:30.960 on my podcast that she says important the way that I do. I don't know why. I don't know why we say

00:31:35.560 important. But a lot of people have told me that I don't say it correctly. Whoa, correctly. When I was

00:31:43.060 filming my PragerU video, I've told the story before. I had to say the word important. And they made me

00:31:49.780 say it over and over again. I had never heard until that point that I said important wrong.

00:31:54.980 But I had to say important. And I felt so weird saying that. Do you say important? Does everyone

00:32:01.460 say important when they talk important? Important? I think I can do that. It's spelled like D-E-N-T.

00:32:09.320 Okay, might as well end on a controversial one. Now, everyone who listens to my podcast who is

00:32:15.920 Catholic? I love you. We have very different views. And you guys know that I actually get

00:32:19.920 messages all the time from Catholics being like, you know, we disagree on a lot. But I really like 0.97

00:32:25.820 your theology podcast. And I like your takes. And so I'm so glad that we can unite on the things that

00:32:30.280 we do agree with. But you guys know that I am a Protestant that I don't think about being a

00:32:36.240 Protestant. Like, it's not the same as Catholics saying I'm Catholic. We don't go around saying like,

00:32:40.640 I'm Protestant. We just say I'm a Christian. But I am a Protestant. I am Reformed. And so I have very

00:32:45.980 different views from my Catholic friends on a lot of things. But someone asked me my thoughts on

00:32:51.300 Catholic confession to a priest. And so guys, Catholics who are listening to this, please don't 1.00

00:32:56.840 be angry at me. You know that we disagree. So you're going to disagree with me. I wouldn't be

00:33:00.460 angry with you for disagreeing with me. But I am going to share my opinion on this. So the Bible

00:33:06.960 does tell us to confess our sins to one another. And so I think that's important. We are to confess

00:33:12.100 our sins to fellow believers. I don't think that the act of confessing your sin to a priest in itself

00:33:19.500 isn't unbiblical. But the thought that that priest can absolve you from any sin, or that he can give you

00:33:26.020 a prescription to absolve yourself from sin is wrong. And the thought that you have to confess your

00:33:33.760 sins to a priest in order to be forgiven is unbiblical. The only intercessor, the true intercessor 1.00

00:33:41.440 that grants you any access to God is Jesus Christ himself. He is our intercessor. So confessing your

00:33:49.280 sins to a priest isn't wrong. But to say you have to confess your sins to a priest in order to be

00:33:54.780 forgiven, in order to truly repent, in order to absolve yourself from any guilt or sin, that is

00:33:59.400 unbiblical. It's not found in the Bible at all. So while I don't think it's a bad practice, I do think 0.97

00:34:05.420 the obligation to do so or the rule to do so, it's just not found in the Bible now. That is just one

00:34:10.900 contention that I have with Catholic doctrine. And again, I love, I have very many Catholic friends

00:34:19.100 that I love and are awesome. And we have great conversations about this stuff. And you and I,

00:34:24.480 who are Catholic, we agree on a lot. But there are also just a lot of doctrinal differences,

00:34:29.200 very serious doctrinal differences that we disagree on. So that's where I would say that's

00:34:34.580 where I land on the confessing to the priest. I just kind of wanted to end this on a very

00:34:40.140 controversial note. I got tons and tons and tons of questions, tons of questions. I could probably

00:34:45.620 spend two more hours answering. But I won't. I won't. I'll save them for later. Because you guys

00:34:53.100 always have really good thought provoking questions. Some of them take longer than me

00:34:56.980 just thinking off the top of my head to answer. And so I'll have to do that again in the future.

00:35:01.600 Love you guys. Happy Friday. I will see you back here on Monday. On Monday, we are going to be talking

00:35:07.600 about why Christians should not be dating or in any kind of romantic relationship with an unbeliever. 0.90

00:35:17.460 So just all over this controversial stuff. I will see you guys back here then. Have a great weekend.

00:35:23.100 Bye.

00:35:23.600 Bye.

00:35:24.100 Bye.

00:35:24.600 Bye.

Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey - October 11, 2019

Ep 173 ｜ Questions + Things We Just Don't Get

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