Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey - July 24, 2018


Ep 22 | Trump, The View & Tattoos


Episode Stats

Length

28 minutes

Words per Minute

179.15952

Word Count

5,150

Sentence Count

326

Misogynist Sentences

9

Hate Speech Sentences

18


Summary

In this episode of Relatable, we discuss the latest in the latest news involving President Trump and Iran, the release of the Carter Page FISA warrant, and the controversy surrounding Judge Jeanine Vissers' appearance on CNN. We also discuss a semi-theological question.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 What's up, guys? Welcome to episode 22 of CRTV's Relatable, where we approach culture and politics
00:00:08.100 from a biblical and conservative perspective. Sometimes we talk about theology. Sometimes
00:00:14.500 we talk about politics. Sometimes we talk about social issues. Sometimes we talk about cats. It
00:00:19.080 just kind of depends on what's going on. And of course, what you as a listener would like to talk
00:00:23.720 about. My goal is that we're all fairly well-rounded in the knowledge that we glean from this
00:00:29.860 podcast and the knowledge that we have. So today we're going to talk about everything. We are going
00:00:35.540 to start with some of the major news stories. Then we're going to touch on a couple cultural things
00:00:40.340 that I'm interested in talking about. And then we will do one semi-theological question. So all kinds
00:00:46.640 of fun on this Tuesday. For news, we are going to talk about Trump's back and forth with Iran on
00:00:53.800 Twitter and the released Carter Page FISA warrant. I know that we're a few days late on those things,
00:00:59.020 but they're still the big topics for culture. We're going to talk about unearthing old tweets
00:01:04.920 to ruin someone's life, as well as Trump derangement syndrome on the left as displayed with the
00:01:10.960 conflict on the view with Judge Jeanine. And lastly, for theology, I'm just going to briefly discuss what
00:01:16.840 I've already written about, and that is the crazy viral blog post titled Men Want Debt-Free
00:01:22.860 Virgins Without Tattoos. So first, if you didn't know, like if you actually have a life and you
00:01:29.860 don't spend all day on Twitter, which I'm sure is most of you, Trump sent out a tweet in all caps
00:01:35.260 to Iran on Sunday, and he said to Iranian President Rouhani, never, ever threaten the United States
00:01:43.240 again or you will suffer consequences, the likes of which few throughout history have ever suffered
00:01:49.480 before. We are no longer a country that will stand for your demented words of violence and death.
00:01:57.900 Be cautious! Exclamation mark. And I yelled all of that because, like I said, it was in all caps,
00:02:05.060 which I really love. It just reminds me exactly of how any 70-year-old grandparent would send a text
00:02:11.180 to someone when they're upset. The only thing that's missing in this tweet is scare quotes,
00:02:16.140 which is something else that President Trump really likes. And more exclamation marks, I think
00:02:20.440 we could have appreciated that. But this is great. And I'm actually being serious. I kind of like this.
00:02:25.360 I know it's not the most diplomatic thing in the world. And I've never been a huge fan personally of
00:02:30.700 the president's tweets. But you have to admit that it feels good to be stood up for. It feels good to
00:02:36.200 have a president that's like, hey, if you're going to mess with us, then we're going to completely
00:02:40.860 annihilate you. Like just FYI. And I actually think that he means that. But let's back up for a second.
00:02:47.700 So I saw this tweet on Sunday and I was like, OK, this this probably isn't out of nowhere. So what's
00:02:54.380 going on? So according to The Wall Street Journal, the administration's remarks appeared to refer
00:02:59.640 to comments by Mr. Rouhani reported by the semi-official state news agency warning the Trump
00:03:05.900 administration against continuing hardline policies against Iran. America. This is what he said.
00:03:11.600 America should know that peace with Iran is the mother of all peace and war with Iran is the mother
00:03:16.140 of all wars. And Mohsen Rizé, I don't know how to say his name, a former commander of the Iranian
00:03:22.140 Revolutionary Guard Corps on Twitter, warned Mr. Trump that 50,000 U.S. troops are in range of Iranian
00:03:30.340 weapons. I mean, that kind of sounds like a threat to me. But of course, some reporters are accusing
00:03:38.160 Trump of inciting conflict. But Sarah Sanders has rightly noted that if anyone is inciting conflict
00:03:44.520 with their rhetoric, it's Iran, not us. Sure, President Trump probably could not respond publicly
00:03:51.460 and then let his actions do the talking. But that's not really how he works. That's not his style.
00:03:56.200 He is always working double duty, which kind of makes him good at what he does. Honestly,
00:04:01.560 he's not just intimidating a foreign power to intimidate a foreign power. He is also intimidating
00:04:07.580 a foreign power. So everyone will know that he's intimidating a foreign power, a.k.a. keeping
00:04:12.740 America first, which is what so many of us elected him to do. Some people are saying that this is a PR
00:04:19.200 stunt after he was accused of not putting America first during the press conference with Putin.
00:04:23.540 And yeah, maybe. But who cares? That's politics. That doesn't make his words or his actions
00:04:29.860 necessarily wrong. All politicians have multiple motives, and I'm sure the president does, too.
00:04:36.440 But I I don't really see why that makes any real difference in any of this. Wall Street Journal said
00:04:42.820 on Monday that the U.S. hadn't changed their military position towards Iran yet, and the rhetoric
00:04:47.700 hadn't prompted any new sort of urgency. More context for this is that Trump recently withdrew
00:04:55.280 from the Iran nuclear deal, which most on the left were mad about and most on the right were happy
00:05:00.540 about. The deal was done by the Obama administration in 2015, and it basically said, hey, we will lift all
00:05:07.580 of these horrible sanctions on you, Iran, that are currently stopping you from being able to trade and sell
00:05:12.980 oil and keeping you from accessing about 100 billion dollars that was frozen because of sanctions
00:05:18.700 and in sanctions on Iranian bank accounts overseas. They said that we'll lift all of those things if
00:05:25.980 you guys agree to allow us to limit your nuclear capabilities. Iran said, OK, and the sanctions were
00:05:32.840 lifted and Iran was able to access all their money. So when you hear conservatives say that Obama
00:05:38.120 shipped pallets of cash to the Iranians, the number one state sponsor of terror, by the way,
00:05:43.200 this is what they're talking about. You can see why people had a problem with this deal.
00:05:48.140 So Trump said, no, that's that's not the deal we're going to keep going. It's a bad deal. It's
00:05:53.820 one sided. No more. So the Trump administration withdrew from the deal in May and issued their
00:05:58.560 requirements for a new deal, which basically demand that Iran completely change their military
00:06:04.700 posture in the Middle East. And if Iran turns them down, which it seems like they probably are,
00:06:09.500 then the U.S. is going to reenact serious sanctions, which will come back into play August 6th.
00:06:15.360 These are sanctions on trade, banking, etc., which are going to seriously hurt Iran's already strained
00:06:20.960 economy. So that's that for now. I'm not sure. I mean, sure, is Iran a threat? Yes. But do they
00:06:28.600 actually have the power to annihilate the United States? No, absolutely not. I'm sure there will
00:06:35.020 be further updates to come. Interesting diplomatic days in which we're living, if you can even call
00:06:41.180 them that. OK, now for something a little bit closer to home. You guys all know at this point,
00:06:47.720 at least something about the Russian collusion story deal narrative thing that's been going on.
00:06:53.380 And if you haven't been following every single detail, that's OK. Honestly, neither have I. Who
00:06:59.880 the heck has the time when there are other things going on that actually affect your everyday life?
00:07:06.260 Nevertheless, I try to follow at least as much of this as I can so I can relay an overview to you
00:07:11.920 guys so you can feel adequately in the know. There's really no reason for you to know every detail.
00:07:16.680 But the latest in this drama series is the heavily redacted release of the Carter Page FISA warrant.
00:07:22.240 OK, what in the world does all of that mean? Who is Carter Page? What is a FISA? And why do you need
00:07:28.660 a warrant? So if the FBI wants to surveil someone, they have to get a warrant. They can get a warrant
00:07:35.180 under the Foreign Intelligence Surveillance Act, a.k.a. FISA, at a FISA court. They are at the FISA court.
00:07:42.640 They present their case to the FISA court, say, hey, here's why we think we should surveil this
00:07:47.760 person. And the FISA court will decide whether or not the surveillance is justified. And the case
00:07:51.980 of Carter Page, the court's answer was, yeah, sure, go for it. Carter Page was a low level aide on the
00:07:57.740 Trump campaign, and it was thought that he might be in cahoots with Russian intelligence to help Trump
00:08:02.840 win the election. The FBI became interested in Page when they began investigating into Russian collusion
00:08:09.840 with Trump's campaign in 2016, when they found out that another campaign aide of Trump, George
00:08:15.580 Papadopoulos, had been offered by Russian agents dirt on Hillary Clinton. A few months later, the FBI
00:08:21.680 started paying attention to Page, or they shifted their attention to Page, and the FISA court granted
00:08:26.700 the FBI's request to surveil him. But the question has been in all of this, on what grounds did the FBI
00:08:34.240 and the FISA court agree that Page should be surveilled? What evidence did they have to support Page
00:08:40.180 was working with the Russians? Was the warrant granted based on the infamous and unverified dossier
00:08:46.760 that we all know about? A Democratic-funded dossier by Christopher Steele that alleged a number of
00:08:51.560 things related to Trump and Russia, most infamously that he had Russian hookers pee on him, aka the
00:08:59.200 golden showers. I'm sure you've heard about all of that. So Republicans and Trump have wanted to know
00:09:04.640 if the FBI is violating Page's rights by surveilling him based on extremely thin partisan unverified
00:09:11.580 evidence. If so, that would be a problem because we already know that members of the FBI, like Peter
00:09:17.280 Strzok, we talked about him last week, have shown serious bias towards the president. So a lot of
00:09:22.460 people on the right are, and maybe rightfully so, worried that this is all part of a partisan scheme
00:09:28.100 to tear down Trump. But all along, the FBI and the DOJ have claimed that they have had ample reason
00:09:37.260 to believe Page is actually guilty, might even be a Russian agent. But in order to know whether or not
00:09:44.240 the FBI and the DOJ is actually telling the truth, we need to see the warrant granted to the FBI by the
00:09:50.420 FISA court that would demonstrate the court's reasoning. And that's what was released over the
00:09:56.080 weekend. So the version we saw of the warrant was heavily redacted, which means that a bunch of
00:10:01.380 parts were taken out because of the classified nature of some of the material. But we still
00:10:06.080 learned of some of the motivations behind the warrant, some being the key word. What we learned
00:10:12.260 is that the salacious P-tape dossier paid for by the Clinton campaign and compiled by spy Christopher
00:10:19.180 Steele was used at least in a large part to obtain the warrant. But what we are still not sure
00:10:25.980 about, and this is what makes the big difference, I think, and why there's still such a debate,
00:10:30.280 is what other facts about Page were used to corroborate the dossier. If there were other
00:10:36.780 facts that made Page a justified target of surveillance, then fine. But if not, if the
00:10:42.660 dossier was basically all they used and they didn't verify the facts using some other legitimate
00:10:47.720 source, then yeah, that's a problem. And it would make it look like the whole thing is politicized.
00:10:53.360 But so much of the information is redacted that we don't really know. The FBI believed Page,
00:10:59.480 like I said, to be a Russian spy, and so they wanted him surveilled. There isn't much evidence
00:11:04.100 that that was a partisan attack. But the fact that the salacious Steele dossier was so central
00:11:10.820 to obtaining the warrant might give some confidence to the people on the right that say that this is
00:11:17.580 all a deep state plan to stop Trump. OK, now moving on. So to our cultural stories, the unearthing of
00:11:26.700 the tweets to ruin people's lives. So director James Gunn was fired from Gardens of the Galaxy 3.
00:11:31.940 I have never seen the first and second one. Didn't even know what those were. Whatever.
00:11:35.640 After some offensive tweets from a long from a really long time ago, like 10 years ago or something
00:11:41.820 like that, I think, resurfaced. And yeah, they were really bad jokes, really, really in bad taste
00:11:48.260 jokes about pedophilia, rape, 9-11, the Holocaust, like things that you don't really need to be joking
00:11:53.200 about. Really bad. Gunn was and is a really big critic of Donald Trump and of Republicans. So he was
00:12:00.440 targeted by conservatives for these really distasteful jokes. People on Twitter asking, you know,
00:12:05.780 why does this guy still have a job? There's obviously a double standard here. And I get it
00:12:11.020 that that's a kind of a legitimate question. Like Roseanne got fired for what was perceived
00:12:16.120 as a racist tweet immediately. But people on the left don't get fired for saying disgusting things.
00:12:22.420 Why the double standard? Plus, there's just so much hypocrisy from people on the left who fancy
00:12:28.840 themselves so much more virtuous than conservatives, when in reality, some of them are immoral and
00:12:34.860 disgusting. So I don't exactly blame those on the right who went after a gun in order to point out
00:12:40.480 the blatant double standard that exists in Hollywood and in media and his own hypocrisy. But I do worry
00:12:47.460 still that this is a battle that ultimately no side wins, that really just everyone gets hurt.
00:12:52.340 A 22-year-old pitcher for the Brewers, Josh Hader, he's been in the spotlight for tweets that he put out
00:12:59.620 when he tweeted things about white powers and the derogatory towards gay people.
00:13:04.240 Now, these are kind of different than Gunn's tweets because Gunn was presumably kidding and
00:13:09.960 Hader probably wasn't. But the question still stands. Do we not only judge people personally
00:13:17.700 by what they said in the past, but do we seek to also ruin them professionally? And see, I just I
00:13:23.340 don't know. On the one hand, people should understand by now that what you put on the internet lives
00:13:28.380 forever. However, even I, knowing this fact, have probably said things I regret and maybe
00:13:34.360 now would correct. It happens. We learn, we grow, we move on. We don't always delete every single
00:13:41.040 tweet or post that we regret. I think it's the posture now that matters a little bit more than
00:13:46.520 things that we said 10, 15 years ago. And even though everyone has the right to judge someone's
00:13:51.700 character as they see fit, I don't see what good it does to seek to ruin someone's entire life based
00:13:59.660 on something they tweeted 10 years ago. Would any of us like to be held accountable for what we said
00:14:05.000 10 years ago? No. I just think that this creates a dangerous trend. People aren't going to even talk
00:14:11.700 anymore for fear of the Twitter mob ruining their entire careers. I've kind of experienced something
00:14:18.380 like this. I've almost been the Twitter mob. A few months ago, there was this guy who was on the
00:14:24.460 board at Georgetown, followed me on Twitter. He always was tweeting me this rude and just really
00:14:30.640 mean stuff. And I saw that he tweeted other conservative women, similar stuff, just always
00:14:37.060 extremely biting, like spiteful, but whatever. It's the internet. Like if you can't stand the heat,
00:14:42.980 get out of the kitchen. I'm used to it at this point. But one day he told me, he said something
00:14:48.260 like wishing you a me too moment. Maybe then you won't be so heartless or something like that, which
00:14:52.800 is an absurd thing to say. I have never been heartless towards victims of sexual assault.
00:14:57.920 He just assumed that because I'm a Republican that I am. And even if I was heartless, wishing me a me
00:15:04.100 too moment or that I would get sexually assaulted doesn't really help anything. So I screenshot it.
00:15:09.900 I tweeted it and it ended up really blowing up. People contacted Georgetown, his employer,
00:15:16.060 and he actually got fired and was asked to resign from the board. And even though that guy was in
00:15:23.480 the wrong, even though a grown man should never say that to a woman, I still really regret how I
00:15:30.800 handle that situation. I think about it all the time. I think about how that guy's life was ruined
00:15:36.480 for saying something stupid on the internet. And even though he shouldn't have said it, he shouldn't
00:15:40.900 have said it. And maybe, maybe it even the fact that he got fired, stopped him or the fact that
00:15:46.640 he deleted his Twitter, stopped him from harassing other people. Maybe he was a serious creep who
00:15:52.040 needed to be fired from his job. Who knows? I still, I still think that I could have handled that
00:15:57.540 situation with more grace rather than getting caught up in the moment and letting my anger get the best
00:16:02.200 of me. Um, so that said, I worry about this trend. Should people be more careful about what they say
00:16:08.420 on the internet? Yes. Is it ever appropriate to make pedophile jokes and jokes about raping your
00:16:15.440 friend or tweeting out white power? No, not in my opinion. So maybe in these two cases, their
00:16:24.180 punishment is somewhat justifiable, but I worry about when the Twitter mob is completely subjective
00:16:30.300 in their judgment yet still gets their way. Like when Laura Ingram called David Hogg a bully and
00:16:36.280 advertisers pulled their ads from her show, she probably shouldn't have called David Hogg a bully,
00:16:41.540 but she realized that and she apologized. Was this worth losing advertisers over and people trying to
00:16:47.800 get her fired? No. So what happens when the liberal Twitter mob is mad at me, for example, because one
00:16:55.360 time I tweeted that Jesus is the only way to heaven, making me seem like a bigot or wanting me to look
00:17:00.820 like a bigot. Are they going to be successful in ruining my future career? Are they going to spend
00:17:05.320 something I said 10 years ago, something else I said 10 years ago to make it look like I'm racist?
00:17:10.180 Are they going to win? See, this just doesn't indwell for people. I don't have really a solution or all
00:17:18.060 of the answers because maybe some people deserve to be called out, but I'm just not sure this back and
00:17:23.140 forth of who can dig up the worst, oldest tweets and try to ruin the other person's life more serves
00:17:28.960 any good purpose. OK, next thing in crazy culture news, Judge Jeanine. She is a Fox News host, as most
00:17:38.760 of you know, who has been highly supportive of President Trump. I know I'm kind of late to discuss
00:17:44.480 this. It happened last week, but this is the first time I'm doing a podcast since it happened. So we're
00:17:48.760 going to talk about it. She went on The View last week and she got in a tip with Whoopi Goldberg,
00:17:54.080 who most of you know, loathes Donald Trump. And here's what happened.
00:17:59.140 Listen, I don't have Trump derangement. Let me tell you what I have. I have a lot of I'm tired
00:18:04.460 of people starting a conversation with Mexicans or liars and rapists. I'm tired of people starting a
00:18:12.500 conversation about this country. Listen, I'm 62 years old. There have been a lot of people in office
00:18:19.240 that I didn't agree with. But I have never, ever seen anything like this. I've never seen anybody
00:18:26.100 whip up such hate. I've never seen anybody be so dismissive. And I and clearly you don't watch the
00:18:35.800 show. So you don't know that I don't suffer from that. What I suffer from is the inability to figure
00:18:42.180 out how to fix this. That's my issue. But one of the things that you talk about a lot and I'm curious
00:18:47.480 about it is the deep state. How long has the deep state been there and who's running it?
00:18:52.580 Well, I want to answer your question because you get your opening statement, which is how horrible.
00:18:59.900 It is that Donald Trump is talking about. You said, you know, you said that when it was going to be here
00:19:09.140 or end up murdering the children of American citizens. You know what's hard? What's hard when
00:19:13.180 the president of the United States whips up people to beat the hell out of people. Say goodbye.
00:19:20.240 But apparently that was not all. They went backstage and more went down. Here's what
00:19:28.140 Judge Jeanine told Sean Hannity last week about what occurred backstage.
00:19:33.300 It didn't end there, Sean. What happened was I realized the segment was over. I got up and I just
00:19:42.520 started. I left the stage going downstairs and I saw her and I had to walk by her. And I said,
00:19:49.480 Whoopi, I fought for victims my whole life, something like that. And she started cursing at me.
00:19:55.340 What did she say? Tell everybody what she said without saying it.
00:19:58.400 She said, blank you, F you, F you. And I said, Whoopi, did you just say F you? I mean,
00:20:06.800 I was, she was right here. And then she said, get the F out of this building. And she yelled at me
00:20:13.460 again, get the F out of this building. And I, I felt like I was less than dirt.
00:20:19.460 Now, since then, Whoopi has said that Judge Jeanine is lying, that this isn't what happened,
00:20:24.360 that Judge Jeanine actually called everyone backstage a name that she couldn't even repeat
00:20:28.900 on television, that Judge Jeanine was rude to Anna Navarro, who was taking the place of Joy
00:20:34.160 Behar that day. And then it was actually Judge Jeanine that was causing all of this conflict
00:20:39.540 and this chaos. Who's telling the truth? We'll never know for sure. Uh, it's a game of she said,
00:20:45.820 she said at this point, all we know is what we heard in the clip from the view. And from that clip,
00:20:50.680 it definitely seems like Whoopi was the one who was losing her temper. She wouldn't even let Judge
00:20:56.040 Jeanine talk, who was a guest on the show. So she invited her on the show and then wouldn't even
00:21:01.000 let her defend her own position. And Whoopi did admit to telling Judge Jeanine to get the F out of
00:21:06.540 there. And she didn't even feel bad about that. And see, here's the thing. Here's, here's my problem
00:21:12.160 with all of this. It's not just that they got into a fight on television, whatever that's going to
00:21:16.560 happen. People like drama. Um, what bothers me is that people on the left don't feel badly about
00:21:23.040 being mean to Trump supporters or conservatives because it's justified to them because they lump
00:21:28.440 all Trump supporters and conservatives into the same category. And that is racist Nazis. It's okay
00:21:34.640 to be mean to racists. It's acceptable to be mean to a Nazi. No one cares about civility or politeness
00:21:40.600 toward a racist Nazi. In fact, the less civil and polite you are, the braver you are. You stood up to
00:21:46.320 a Nazi. You're a hero. You're sticking up for justice against these evil racist bigots. Uh,
00:21:51.900 when you consider your political opponents to be morally depraved for their political positions,
00:21:57.180 you automatically become a vigilante, a virtuous, noble person above reproach in every regard.
00:22:03.020 And when you fancy the other side, the heartless enemy and yourself a vigilante,
00:22:07.460 all forms of fighting are justified and are even expected. The more harsh, the more crass,
00:22:13.340 the more mean you are towards the enemy, the more courageous and heroic you'll be.
00:22:17.680 The problem with that is that's not an accurate portrayal of reality. Your political opponents
00:22:23.140 are not morally bad because of their political opinions. They might be bad people, but their
00:22:28.780 politics don't necessarily indicate that they're completely immoral human beings. So painting the
00:22:33.920 other side categorically as a villain and you as a hero, is it real? It's not true. And because it's
00:22:40.920 not an accurate reading on reality, it only exacerbates division. So when everyone starts
00:22:46.900 living in their own imaginary bubbles of reality with other people who share the same imaginary
00:22:53.520 interpretation of reality, you have echo chambers and you have tribes and you have identity politics.
00:22:59.920 All of this is made by and made worse by this crazy idea that if you disagree with me politically,
00:23:07.500 you're not just wrong, you're a bad person. This is how Whoopi Goldberg feels. This is how the woman
00:23:15.440 who threw out Sarah Sanders at the Red Hen restaurant felt. That is how these miscreants who show up at
00:23:22.000 Mitch McConnell's house feel. This is how Michelle Wolf feels when she compares ICE to ISIS. This is how
00:23:27.960 all of Hollywood feels when they make horrific jokes and comments about Trump and his supporters.
00:23:33.220 Their incivility is justified because everyone who disagrees with them is trash and it's okay to kick
00:23:39.100 around trash. So that's that's my take on that and what is creating this crazy culture of tribalism that
00:23:47.080 we all seem to be getting sucked into and it's not good. Okay, I have time for one more thing and I've
00:23:55.460 already addressed this in a blog post, but I just wanted to touch on it here just in case some of you
00:24:00.540 didn't read read my post that I posted a couple days ago and that is the subject of this viral blog post by
00:24:08.360 the transformed wife that went around last week. I was kind of late to even hearing about this, but the blog
00:24:15.340 post was titled men want debt-free virgins without tattoos. Wow, like that's a lot. That's a really bold
00:24:22.040 claim. First of all, let me just say that this random blog post I've never even heard of this blog before this
00:24:28.120 ran a blog post didn't provide any data or any evidence that men actually want this. So we don't
00:24:33.600 actually know if this is true or not, but this woman whoever she is decided yes, I'm going to make
00:24:39.240 this statement and I'm just going to say it's true because I want it to be true. I have heard various
00:24:44.700 Christian takes on this. Some people are down with it. They're like yeah, what's wrong with having
00:24:49.200 standards? Other people are half okay with it. Other people like me just are not down with it at all.
00:24:56.260 And here's why I am not okay with this article. And you guys know me. I am not one of those
00:25:02.380 Christians who's like, oh yeah, do whatever you want to do because grace. I'm not that type of
00:25:08.000 person. So you can just get that out of your head if you're thinking that I am trying to promote some
00:25:13.320 kind of free for all for sin because of grace. The reason I have a problem with this article is
00:25:19.240 because being a debt-free virgin without tattoos does not make you holy. It does not make you godly.
00:25:26.260 It does not make you righteous. So if these are your qualifications for a spouse, I would tell you
00:25:33.700 to look a little deeper. There are Jesus-loving women who had sex at one point, who have sleeves
00:25:40.240 of tattoos and who have $100,000 of student loan debt. And there are women who have never had sex,
00:25:46.420 who don't have tattoos, and who are debt-free and yet are not sold out to Jesus. So if as a Christian
00:25:52.960 man who is following Jesus, which I guess that would go together, you would choose the second
00:25:58.440 woman, the woman who looks perfect on paper but doesn't have a heart for Jesus, then I would say
00:26:03.740 that that's a problem. Being a tattoo or debt or sex-free doesn't make someone holy. Jesus does.
00:26:11.360 The person who is a believer yet has debt, has had sex, and has tattoos is clothed in a righteousness
00:26:16.800 and a purity that the person with none of those things yet is not a believer does not have.
00:26:22.220 Therefore, being tattoo or debt or sex-free doesn't make someone more worthy than anyone else,
00:26:28.260 at least not in the eyes of God. And I'm not sure if any of us, people who are dead in our sins apart
00:26:35.400 from Christ, have the right to view someone differently than God sees them. Now, I'm not saying it's bad to
00:26:41.460 have preferences and things you're attracted to. Sure, maybe you're completely unattractive to
00:26:45.460 tattoos. That's fine. Maybe you just prefer not to deal with debt. Okay, maybe you would really like
00:26:53.160 it if the girl or guy you married is a virgin. Whatever. I guess those are all acceptable
00:26:57.620 preferences to have. Sure. But they are not priorities for the person who is following Jesus.
00:27:02.540 The only priority a Christian should have is that they find someone who is seeking Christ right now.
00:27:07.800 And every other preference is subject to that priority. Yes, the Bible calls us to sexual purity
00:27:14.900 and financial responsibility. It does. But these things aren't good because they make us more
00:27:19.840 attractive to a potential spouse. They're good because they give God glory. So it is not our goal
00:27:26.000 to be pure or financially responsible out of debt or not get tattoos just because we want to make
00:27:31.780 ourselves attractive to someone else. We are obedient because it gives glory to God. And I will also
00:27:37.640 just note that the New Testament doesn't say anything about not getting tattoos. And so a lot of people
00:27:42.920 after I posted this blog post were really confused about that. They wanted me to clarify. No, most
00:27:48.300 Christians are actually okay with tattoos. And while God does call you to sexual purity and financial
00:27:56.580 responsibility, again, the focus there is not on making yourself more appealing or alleviating the burden
00:28:03.460 for a future spouse. The goal there is to actually glorify God. So my concern with a blog post like
00:28:09.560 this and with people who are promoting ideas like this is that you're going to have all of these
00:28:13.760 insecure girls who are running around trying to be something just for a guy who may or may not exist.
00:28:20.240 By the way, I think it's important to know that God doesn't guarantee that you're ever going to get
00:28:23.700 married. So why would you waste your time trying to create a persona that's going to be attractive
00:28:28.740 to someone that may not exist when you could spend your time seeking after Jesus first, which is what
00:28:33.320 we are called to do. Okay, that's it for today. I hope that you guys have an excellent Tuesday and I will
00:28:41.860 see you here on Thursday. Thanks for tuning in.