Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey - September 11, 2020


Ep 299 | The Fight Against Sex Trafficking | Guest: Jaco Booyens


Episode Stats

Length

43 minutes

Words per Minute

173.73845

Word Count

7,485

Sentence Count

576

Misogynist Sentences

17

Hate Speech Sentences

12


Summary

Yako Buyans is a South African immigrant living in the United States, who has dedicated his life to fighting against sex trafficking. In this episode of Relatable, Yako shares what sex trafficking looks like, what to look for, and what to do about it.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Hey guys, welcome to Relatable. Today I am talking to Yako Buyans. A lot of you guys
00:00:15.360 follow him on Instagram. You support his organization or maybe you have heard him speak at an event
00:00:21.240 before, but he is on the front lines against sex trafficking. And so today he is going to
00:00:27.940 tell us what sex trafficking looks like. There are parts of it that just aren't as obvious and
00:00:33.920 aren't as publicized as you and I might know. So he's going to give us information on that and give
00:00:39.640 us an inside look into what the fight against it actually looks like, what kinds of things
00:00:45.420 we need to be looking for and how we can help protect victims, how we can fight against it
00:00:52.040 ourselves, the kinds of initiatives and the kinds of politicians that we should be supporting. I am
00:00:58.880 so excited for you to listen to this conversation. He is so helpful and so insightful and so strong
00:01:05.260 in this fight. So without further ado, here is Yako Buyans.
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00:02:08.700 know that and make sure that you are in the know and that you are cutting through all the noise with
00:02:13.600 us. Thank you so much for being here. Appreciate it, Ali. Very, very happy to be here. Yes, I think
00:02:24.820 that everyone listening probably follows you as well. But in case there are a few people out there who
00:02:30.200 don't know you, can you tell them who you are and what you do? Yeah, Yaku Boyens, born and raised
00:02:34.600 South Africa, proud legal immigrant to the United States. For the last 17 years I've been a citizen
00:02:39.660 and we fight for life, Ali. We fight for life in and out of the womb, but really we fight against
00:02:46.440 child sex trafficking and have for 26 years because my sister was trafficked for six years.
00:02:52.400 Oh, wow.
00:02:52.780 So our organization is called Share Together Now, meaning we share the responsibility of raising our
00:02:59.940 kids in this country, of raising them right and protecting them. And unfortunately, evil is real
00:03:06.140 and there are some who wish to harm the little ones. Yeah. How did you get into this industry? I know
00:03:14.020 that you said that your sister was trafficked, but when and how did you decide, okay, I want to start
00:03:18.720 doing something about this. Yeah, because not everybody whose family goes to that experience
00:03:22.640 then becomes a 26-year life mission, you know? So honestly, you know, with Ilanka, I was a senior
00:03:28.580 in high school, six years older than my sister. She was trafficked at 13. Wow. So for six years it was,
00:03:35.040 and we didn't know that it was trafficking at the time until she returned home and then you realize
00:03:40.140 it's disastrous, right? But somewhere in the process from us leaving South Africa right when she was
00:03:46.820 rescued, which was always the plan, to come to the States and arriving in the United States within
00:03:51.820 three months, God just laid on my heart and said, not another one. His heart is that not one more,
00:03:58.080 you know, not another child should be sexually abused or trafficked. I had no expectation or idea
00:04:04.720 that trafficking was going to be prevalent in the United States. We thought it's a land of the free,
00:04:09.920 the home of the brave. This is no milk and honey. It's not going to happen here. And then,
00:04:13.140 and this is 2001. Right. I saw it for the first time in Chattanooga, Tennessee, because we lived
00:04:18.180 in Nashville and the penny dropped and it's like, and then of course, now we know today we're the
00:04:23.200 most prevalent nation on earth, trafficking children. So it's been, but it was somewhere
00:04:28.440 in there was just, God just said, not another one, you know? And so, and so it's just a, it's a,
00:04:33.560 it's a mad mission for us. So with your sister, you said that you didn't realize at the time
00:04:38.520 that it was trafficking. How, how did it happen? Ilonka won a competition,
00:04:43.880 South African Idol, like American Idol. She's an incredible singer today, very healthy in Nashville,
00:04:50.120 Tennessee. She has her own ministry. She's a recording artist, a worship artist, but she's
00:04:55.580 had that gift. So she won this competition as a 13 year old, right? Against adults, legitimately.
00:05:01.240 Wow.
00:05:01.320 The record label courted the family for a year. We got to know them well, big label. They built
00:05:08.080 trust. We traveled with them. And then the president of that label and the manager that
00:05:13.220 was assigned to her first started with a rape, which is what they normally do. And then they
00:05:19.600 trafficked her. So she was trafficked unconventionally through what people would think through a corporate
00:05:25.500 setting. It's not always snatch and grab or always the runaway child. And then the police at that
00:05:30.040 time then said, well, she's a runaway. And he said, no, we're a very tight family. We're
00:05:34.500 raised by a single mom. My, my mind on mothers is next level. Moms are, they're everything.
00:05:43.160 I mean, so we were very close and we knew faith is our foundation. So there's no way she was
00:05:48.360 a runaway. This is a high functioning girl, field hockey player, singer. I mean, and all
00:05:53.500 of a sudden, you know, she's gone. So, so, but still nobody called the trafficking or anything
00:05:58.580 else. They just, and the police, honestly, about three months in, it's like, you know,
00:06:03.040 what it's a runaway, you know, ironically, she was, she was rescued by an undercover cop
00:06:08.380 who had worked the case previously. So that, that process, but throughout the process, my mom just
00:06:13.620 always, and as an 18 year old, and I had to go do military service at that time because
00:06:17.540 transitioned from high school. And so it was just a crazy, a crazy time, you know, but we always vowed
00:06:23.140 when she, when she was back, we didn't know what that meant because physically back doesn't mean
00:06:29.180 back, by the way, you know, she physically came back, but it took a decade in the United States
00:06:36.100 to really have my sister back, just her having herself back, you know, and that's what I think
00:06:43.860 so much of social media today, just go rescue the children. And I, yes, please. We need to rescue
00:06:49.860 those, but it's, it's the starting gun on a, on a marathon. Yeah. Yeah. So you came to the United
00:06:57.540 States, you saw an incident in Chattanooga, and then I'm guessing you started digging in to try to
00:07:04.240 see how big this problem was in the United States. And we know that it's a big problem, but in those
00:07:09.580 first days of your research, what did you discover that surprised you about trafficking here?
00:07:15.100 It was a bizarre situation because I'm real time learning from my sister. Imagine this,
00:07:21.820 there's one day we don't know because still she didn't talk because victims don't identify as
00:07:27.020 victims. There's massive manipulation and confusion going on. So one day she said, she called a family
00:07:32.880 meeting in Nashville and five of us sit and she goes, starts for like a five hour process and doesn't
00:07:40.880 stop. And no one says a word. And she starts first account of a guy abusing her second account,
00:07:46.700 third account in, in grotesque detail. And you're sitting there, I'm sitting there. I'm the oldest
00:07:53.320 brother, quote unquote, dad in the house. And now you come with guilt. It happened on my watch. And you
00:07:59.140 just, you're processing these emotions at the same time. I'll be honest. A hatred almost builds up.
00:08:06.680 You want to go back to South Africa and just get everybody, but then your heart's broken for your
00:08:11.340 sister. You can't, there's no way to make sense. So that's how I learned what trafficking was through
00:08:17.420 Ilanka's experiences, but at the same time, also witnessing it in the U S and saying, but I'm seeing
00:08:23.400 everything you're telling me I'm seeing. So learn how to profile, right? And there are good reasons to
00:08:30.520 profile. I learned how to profile through Ilanka's eyes, but then I also saw her just, there was two
00:08:36.600 attempted suicides in rehab. I mean, this is massive, right? So that, so it was this world of
00:08:42.180 living it, trying to put a family back together and then seeing it at the same time in the world.
00:08:49.000 And nobody sees it. It's like blind. Nobody said, like, can you people not see, you know? So from
00:08:54.060 2001, I, and so then it became, okay, start looking for it. What I learned to look for now,
00:09:01.480 go look for it. Right. And then see more and more of it and learn. There's no help. Yeah. And so
00:09:07.440 progress that through 2000 and really only 2014 where legislation woke up and said, Oh, we got to
00:09:16.620 change the laws because it's really not okay. You know, to call a 10 year old, 12 year old sex
00:09:23.180 traffic victim, a prostitute. Right. And have them have a rap sheet for the rest of their life. But
00:09:27.700 that's 2014, that's 13 years in the U S of just seeing almost nothing happen. Right. Now, great
00:09:34.760 organizations fighting, but few and far between. Right. So it was a weird balance of I'm learning
00:09:41.780 firsthand how they do it, what they say, what the manipulation, watching her go through rehab,
00:09:48.400 literally watching a human being. That's my sister, but it's, but the person's not there.
00:09:53.140 As far as the personality, this is a singer, you know, artists, they've, they're out there
00:09:58.680 framboyant and completely in a shell, all of a sudden withdrawn, can't communicate. I mean,
00:10:03.920 like what in the world? Yeah. So it was bizarre. Yeah. Yeah. Of learning. Right. But it was also,
00:10:10.140 I think what's put me in a very unique position and look, it's all God's. It's all his, we're here to
00:10:16.180 serve, but it's put me in a unique position in this fight because I, I, I, I learned about this
00:10:23.140 fight, not just through a family member, but real time. And now we're fighting and we were fighting
00:10:27.660 it as well. So we, we started the organization to proactively then go and say, okay, what's our role
00:10:33.720 in this fight? Identify, highlight, and then it morphed into this huge thing that it is today, you know?
00:10:52.440 You've implied that trafficking isn't always what we think. I think a lot of times we think about,
00:10:59.100 or I think about the Southern border drug cartels, human traffickers that way, something that is
00:11:04.940 very kind of obvious and violent or yeah, violent and targetable and kind of visible. But what you're
00:11:12.940 describing, I don't think most people would have called trafficking. You probably wouldn't have
00:11:18.440 called it trafficking in the beginning. So what does it look like? Not just in the entertainment
00:11:23.560 industry, but in general, what should people kind of look out for with their kids or with their
00:11:28.840 sister? What is it? Such a massively important question, right? Because first let's differentiate
00:11:35.140 human trafficking, child sexual exploitation, sex trafficking, different universes, right? So
00:11:40.640 let's, we're talking about sex here. We're talking about forced, forced sexual behavior, either for
00:11:47.220 gifts, for goods, for money, for protection, not to harm family or all of the above. And in the longest
00:11:53.720 case, it was all of the above. The conventional wisdom, you see the white van snatching a kid from a
00:11:58.480 playground and it's a cartel and it's MS-13. Yes. Does that happen today? A hundred percent. Are the
00:12:04.940 cartels trafficking kids? Absolutely. So everything people think it is, it is, but it's what they don't
00:12:10.780 know that has made our country so vulnerable. It's that they don't know that this is a mist that is
00:12:16.400 blown into suburbs and neighborhoods and it's in broad daylight. A kid goes to school, plays on the
00:12:23.820 volleyball team and is literally being trafficked for sex. The fastest rising form and there's 25
00:12:30.460 different forms of trafficking children, right? And adults, it's not just children. The fastest
00:12:37.700 rising form is what's called familial trafficking, family members trafficking their own children. Now
00:12:43.300 that is a very, very hard thing to detect when the victim does not identify as a victim.
00:12:50.740 When the victim doesn't say, help me please. It's so hard to detect, Ali, you know, and then to
00:12:58.040 prosecute, it's a nightmare almost. And so it's hidden in plain sight because the level of mind
00:13:05.080 manipulation, and this is not conspiracy stuff. There's not a single human being. I start my TED talk
00:13:10.380 with saying there's not a human being I meet and there's not none. I don't care if you're the toughest
00:13:14.840 Navy SEAL that cannot be manipulated, not one. If I know your greatest desire in life, like really in
00:13:22.520 your gut, the thing that you're most hungry for, and it may for you be your child or your job or an
00:13:29.200 ambition, right? And your biggest fear, those two things. And I, and I then start investing time into
00:13:35.820 you, dismantling you like a project. There's not a human being that cannot be manipulated. If you throw
00:13:42.280 in force, if you throw in sexual abuse, if you throw in manipulation, threats, threatening family
00:13:50.100 members, if you throw in fraud, right? Or debt bondage, there's no human being you can't. And
00:13:57.320 do people say, well, why do women, why do we hear a woman says 30 years ago, I was raped and I never told
00:14:02.960 anybody that's ridiculous. No, it's not. Right. No, it's not. It is not. God made us, you know,
00:14:10.040 I was, I use birth for the same reason. If women could truly remember the moment of birth
00:14:17.500 in its full capacity, you've done this once. Okay. My wife, you're a champion, mama, right? If they
00:14:24.120 would remember, they would never give birth again. They would never just take that. Right. That's not,
00:14:29.480 that's, that's willing, right? That's not even, you know, trauma. Now go rape a child, physically
00:14:35.640 abuse them, manipulate them, threaten their family, alter their identity. All of them will go,
00:14:40.820 you did this. You made me do this. I'm a good guy. You pulled the evil out of me. You made me do this.
00:14:49.100 Do you remember when you said this and this on your Instagram? That's the post that made me come
00:14:53.720 after you and not that girl. This is how they talk to the kids. Wow. So it's like you lose yourself.
00:14:59.680 So now ask yourself, why is it that in the United States, the average age of children being groomed
00:15:04.540 in traffic is 12 and tell you why go back to when you were 12 between 12 and 15, what happened to
00:15:11.200 your body? You didn't even know yourself, right? Hormones through the roof. Can't talk to your dad.
00:15:17.240 Don't know who to talk to. Most parents just give you a book. Mom's here. It's secret. If you had
00:15:22.160 brothers, why is she in the bathroom the whole time? What's happening? There's this, there's you,
00:15:25.760 you, you noticing boys, your hormones fire up, you becoming fertile, right? You noticing at your
00:15:32.800 age of 12, boys, my age are idiots. I like older boys. This is every girl. So the predator understands
00:15:40.420 that period of that child's life and said, I'm just looking now. All the girls are going through this
00:15:45.980 beautiful for them. Okay. Sick. Now I'm looking for the one with a father wound. I'm looking for the one
00:15:52.240 that needs attention. I'm looking for the one that's very poor. I'm looking for the one that's
00:15:56.320 left alone. Looking for a crack, a vulnerability, and they take time. They will invest time. I always
00:16:03.780 say this. I wish Christians would invest as much time into redeeming people as bad guys will invest
00:16:10.880 time into robbing their youth. Absolutely. Yeah. And how does social media play into this? TikTok,
00:16:17.680 Instagram, Snapchat, does that play a really big role in grooming these kids?
00:16:22.160 It's taken a really big problem and it's made it the number one problem of our time.
00:16:38.640 So you have a pimp and you have a buyer. They call them Johns. I don't like that because there are good
00:16:44.640 people named John. Right. But a pimp and a buyer and in between you've got victims and then there's
00:16:49.780 scouts and Ghislaine Maxwell, for instance, was a groomer. Okay. Epstein Maxwell, she's a bottom
00:16:55.020 girl. She's called the bottom girl. She should be tried as a trafficker, by the way. But it's removed
00:17:01.320 the middle ground where the buyer can directly talk to the child. And now you have children self-trafficking.
00:17:08.760 Right.
00:17:09.260 There's no pimp involved even. Right.
00:17:10.600 Well, where's the pimp? It's the child. Well, why? Because she's sexting with a guy online
00:17:16.940 who looks kind or she's engaging directly with the buyer. Now there's normally still a pimp
00:17:22.960 somewhere will come in, but it's opened up the Komodo. There's not a single tech platform and
00:17:29.440 these guys can't stand me and that's okay. I'm just calling facts. There's not a single tech platform
00:17:34.260 on earth that's not being used to traffic children. I'm not saying by the corporation. I'm not saying
00:17:39.300 Facebook as a corporate entity, but Facebook is a platform every minute of the day. Predators are
00:17:46.080 using Facebook to profile and traffic children. TikTok, it's out of control. I'm so happy we're
00:17:52.200 going after TikTok, right? My cry on these organizations is you've got a section that's
00:17:57.660 protecting you. You go do something internally. You make it an internal mission, Facebook, to say
00:18:04.720 children will not be profiled on our platform. They're not doing it, but they can. And my pet
00:18:11.020 peeve with these tech platforms is I need to see them take initiative. Not because of some federal
00:18:16.160 regulation. This is free market. Just from your own moral compass, do something. But it's being used.
00:18:24.840 So the internet has, and then it just took all the, you used to have to go to a certain part of town,
00:18:31.140 know a certain area to get a connection, to get to a girl, right? We can sit here right now on a laptop,
00:18:38.600 no joke. And within 15 to 25 minutes, I'll tell you, we'll have north of a hundred men
00:18:44.160 that'll say, I'm ready to buy a child. And we, and I can find you maybe 50 kids within a four or five
00:18:51.340 mile radius where we're sitting. Wow. This is in every zip code in the United States.
00:18:57.980 This is not what people think. And so how do you fight this fight? Top down. I was sitting in the
00:19:03.040 White House with the president when he signed the executive order. He's a champion for saying
00:19:06.840 children will not be trafficked, right? I got one of the pens he signed it with. That's great.
00:19:11.820 We will not stop this unless it's fought in the home. Yeah. Parents taking ownership again of
00:19:17.580 their children. Fathers stepping up. Yeah. And what does that, what does that look like for parents
00:19:23.540 who maybe they're like, you know, my kid is 15 and they've had a phone since they were 12 and I don't
00:19:29.100 know how to restate my authority over their social media and their cell phones and they want to give
00:19:37.240 their kids freedom. So what's your recommendation for those parents? You have to let your child see.
00:19:43.000 Your child's not going to hear you if you now want to recalibrate order in the house. Hey,
00:19:48.720 what are you watching? Mom, you never ask me what I'm watching. Who are you talking to?
00:19:52.840 You're going to look like a helicopter parent, which you should be. Yeah. Right. How do you do that?
00:19:56.780 You take your teenager, you sit them down, you watch the movie Eight Days that we produced,
00:20:02.500 right? And your teenager will look at you and say, if that's real, then I'm doing that. Yeah.
00:20:10.640 Now I'm doing that. Help, you know, and then he may not ask for help or she may, but then when you
00:20:17.220 come as a parent and say, now do you understand? Because when you just, you know, highlight the
00:20:21.500 issue for them and I'd go as young as 10, but parental discretion on how you talk. And it's a
00:20:26.480 way my five-year-old doesn't know the word sex trafficking. But if you ask my five-year-old right
00:20:31.440 now, what does your dad do? She'll say he hunts bad guys and we protect girls. Well, what does that
00:20:37.500 look like? And she'll tell you, there are some men that want to hurt little girls. She doesn't
00:20:42.720 need to know the grotesque stuff, but she knows this is private space. These words, these things,
00:20:48.520 if this happens, we need to teach our children what flags are. Children are being trafficked
00:20:52.880 through Xbox games, online talking community. So when you highlight these issues to your children
00:20:59.200 and then come and parent and say, hey, I need to know who your friends are. Look at your
00:21:04.860 child's behavior. People don't change. It takes a massive event in someone's life to change
00:21:10.460 personality. Near-death experience, being saved if you're a believer, but it takes something huge.
00:21:16.440 Or sexual abuse, rape, bullying. So when a child's behavior changed, regardless of age,
00:21:23.340 something happened, an event happened. Does it mean it's trafficking? I don't know. Maybe. But you need
00:21:29.260 to start, so parents need to equip themselves with what is situational awareness? What does it look
00:21:34.840 like? You know, language changing, gifts and goods, peer groups changing, you know? Kids don't get
00:21:41.160 tattoos, but we read tattoos a lot. A child just being withdrawn all of a sudden, absent-minded for
00:21:45.940 the teachers. A kid falls asleep in the classroom. We chalked so much in this country up to, oh, it's
00:21:51.500 bullying. When it was actually trafficking. When it was actually sexual abuse. You know, so we need to
00:22:00.080 really just get parents equipped to take ownership of their home, then their street, their school.
00:22:05.580 Yeah. And not be afraid, even if, you know, obviously I'm not speaking of someone as someone
00:22:10.960 who is a mom of a teenager, so I can't speak from experience in that area. But I know some parents,
00:22:17.260 maybe they feel awkward because so far in their home, they haven't taken authority over their
00:22:21.900 children. And so they think, my kid is 15, they're going to be out in a few years, it's too late.
00:22:27.700 I'm sure that you would encourage them that it's never too late. Even if you feel awkward, even if
00:22:32.600 you feel like maybe you don't have the best relationship with your child, it's not too late to take those
00:22:37.580 steps to show them who is in charge and how much you care about them, right? Never. I'll give you an
00:22:41.640 example. Let's call this girl Susie. It's not her name. She's 27. We rescue her, right?
00:22:47.260 She was trafficked at 13. That's 14 years of trafficking. She's a mother. Never seen her
00:22:52.100 child because the pimp took the child. You know, the number one key to restore Susie's life was
00:22:57.980 bring her mother back and her father back in her life at 27. It's never too late. Exactly. Never.
00:23:04.600 Okay. You invest. You keep bending that tree in the right direction because the world wants to go in
00:23:10.280 the opposite direction. And today I did a special with Glenn, you know, today we've got a massive attack
00:23:15.900 on our children in the classroom, comprehensive sex ed in the classroom. The children are being
00:23:20.220 groomed in the classroom. This is a shocking thing to realize as an American to go, wait a minute. Are
00:23:25.080 there really people out there who want children to be sexually abused? Yes. We want to normalize
00:23:31.100 pedophilia in this country. It's all flying under the LBGTQ banner, which by the way, that group of
00:23:38.100 people, the gay and lesbian group, they don't endorse this. I've asked them. They go, we don't see
00:23:42.560 children exploited, but it's a way to get funding into the schools. And so they groom and normalize
00:23:48.220 sexual behavior with children. And sexual language and talking about things like masturbation at a
00:23:54.520 really young age, right? Four. Yeah. World Health Organization. And UNICEF and Planned Parenthood,
00:24:01.240 right? UNICEF, Planned Parenthood, UNESCO. The curriculum is being voted into Texas now. It's in 27 states. This is a
00:24:08.580 fact. And there's an outcry. They're desensitizing. And you can't change culture without changing
00:24:13.660 language. So it's not prostitution. It's sex work. No, it's not sex work. There's abuse. No,
00:24:20.800 there's prostitution. But the second you change that, now I can defend it. Well, a woman should be
00:24:24.980 allowed to work. And an employee, he should be allowed to employ her. He's an employer. He's giving
00:24:29.620 her a job. No, he's coercing, defrauding and manipulating, you know? So you change language,
00:24:35.040 right? It's man-boy love. It's not pedophilia. You know, man-boy organization. It's man-boy love.
00:24:42.160 Or a minor attracted person or whatever. Minor attracted. This is how they do it. And it's
00:24:46.600 in the school system. And so if you're a parent listening today and you have, catch yourself,
00:24:51.840 adopted to, yeah, I kind of was okay with the language changing. You can't be. You can't be.
00:24:58.040 And then for the fathers listening, and I got to do this, pornography is the entry drug
00:25:03.900 to child sex trafficking. Am I saying every guy who watches porn will one day physically put their
00:25:09.820 hands on a kid? No. But you're on that track. And now other life circumstances happen and you
00:25:16.600 accelerate the track. If you use drugs, right, and you think you can manage it, and all of a sudden you
00:25:22.240 go through a divorce, you're going to spiral. If you drink, it's just don't be on that track.
00:25:30.040 And if you're on the track, you're creating demand. And the only way we eradicate child
00:25:36.280 sex trafficking in this country is you've got to curb demand. You can arrest every El Chapo
00:25:40.660 in the world. You're not going to stop drug trafficking. Taking the kingpin away just gives
00:25:46.940 room for another kingpin to stand up. You need to stop demand. And unfortunately, the American male
00:25:53.120 is the buyer. 96% of the buyers are men. Okay. The majority on average of the men buying are north
00:26:01.500 of $100,000 a year and has two children. Wow. Let that sink in for a second. It's not what you think.
00:26:08.280 It's not the 18-year-old in his mom's basement, typically. These are high-functioning fathers.
00:26:15.400 Wow. Who will go pay for sex with children. That's deception. It's massive deception. And
00:26:23.260 we, in a culture now, it's got such deception. If we look at people saying, well, I want justice,
00:26:28.620 so I'm going to burn this building down. Yeah. You want law, but you operate in lawlessness?
00:26:34.300 That's deception. Right. Right. A person was killed, so we're going to go kill 10 people.
00:26:39.420 That's deception. That never produces fruit. It's impossible. Yeah. Impossible. So we
00:26:45.180 have to wake up and take ownership back. You're doing it here as a mom, but I've done this
00:26:52.460 for 26 years. This show you're doing right now. I want you to really hear me here. I
00:26:59.000 want to pour into you on air. Okay. We'll save lives. We'll restore families. We'll protect
00:27:06.560 girls and boys from not being trafficked. There's a girl right now that's going to learn about
00:27:11.540 this through her mom, who's currently engaging with a guy. How do you know, Yaku? Because
00:27:15.600 it floods in. I wake up in the morning. I mean, this morning I wake up and Dan Foncarcio
00:27:22.500 says, did you see from last night's segment what flooded in this morning? Parents saying,
00:27:28.040 my kid is in this right now. We've got to fight this right now. This show, you don't even
00:27:33.360 have an idea what you're doing here. It's God's work. So thank you for doing it, Ali. It's
00:27:40.040 important. Yeah. Well, one more thing I want to ask you about, you have talked about how defunding
00:27:44.920 the police or even just directing funds away from the local police has disastrous effects
00:27:51.500 on the fight against sex trafficking. You've talked about all the different facets that go
00:27:56.940 into just busting one ring or saving one child. Can you briefly just talk about that? Why local law
00:28:04.240 enforcement and supporting our local law enforcement is so important in this fight?
00:28:07.820 It's impossible. Not difficult. It's impossible to rescue children without law enforcement
00:28:13.880 because we have a law in this country. I'm 26 years in it. I know what I'm doing. Okay. We
00:28:20.480 profile can build cases. I can go tonight through a motel door and go rescue a child. Not being
00:28:26.360 egotistical, but the method of how I'll go to jail. If I enter that door without a warrant,
00:28:31.720 I have to work with local law enforcement. And what if we miss her by 10 minutes, which happens
00:28:38.200 almost every time. Wow. And now she's no longer in that county or that state. Now you better have
00:28:44.920 law enforcement pass on intel to law enforcement in another county, in another state. Defunding the
00:28:52.760 police is catastrophic in our fight because they always, always defund what? Special units first.
00:29:01.240 And these are special child trafficking task forces, which by the way, over 50% of our states don't have
00:29:08.540 one task force. And then 90% of the task forces is a crew of one to three people defending a whole
00:29:15.340 state. Wow. Come on. They're so strapped for cash. The regular police officer, you can't ask him to
00:29:22.320 fight child sex trafficking. He's overworked. We're 500 officers short in Dallas, Texas, permanently
00:29:27.820 pre-COVID and pre-the BLM movement. They are burdened, overworked, and not trained, by the way.
00:29:35.000 We train law enforcement. We train the FBI on how to profile. So the notion that we can,
00:29:42.100 and then you'll hear the same people, oh, I'm against child sex trafficking. Defund the police.
00:29:46.000 You don't have a clue, even how it works, right? And so it is a, it is an army of non-government
00:29:54.500 organizations, nurses, critical care, victim services, long-term facilities, law enforcement,
00:30:00.500 judges, district attorneys, lawyers, to rescue one child. Because when you rescue that child,
00:30:06.040 it's not over. There's a trial. There's police evidence. There's forensics. There's doctor's
00:30:12.420 reports. I mean, it's, it is a laughable notion that you can have a society without law enforcement,
00:30:19.520 right? But in this fight, yeah, it's, and, and unfortunately, the pimps have been running
00:30:25.200 rampant. They are literally going to the cities where law enforcement are being defunded.
00:30:30.820 LA County is a third world country disaster zone right now for trafficking because they defund police.
00:30:39.200 Wow. The pimps go, they're going to go to the path of least resistance.
00:30:42.720 Of course. Of course. Criminals always do. And you said that Donald Trump has been
00:30:46.360 a big help in, in fighting against this. Is that correct?
00:30:50.040 First in history, first president of any country in the history of the world to number one, say,
00:30:55.880 I recognize child sex trafficking is a thing and it's in my country. Most deny it, right? And this is
00:31:02.300 as good as Ronald Reagan was. He had a, you know, mandate against child porn, but nobody until Trump,
00:31:08.640 not Obama, not Bush. And I fought this under three U.S. presidents. Okay. Trust me. I tried.
00:31:14.080 I tried with, with, with President Bush, President Obama, zero, zero top down support,
00:31:21.000 meaning an executive order got signed by President Trump and he's, and I was there,
00:31:26.200 instructed the FBI, you will hunt traffickers. Not just, we don't stand for it. I'm going to fund
00:31:32.260 the FBI. We're going to set up task forces. The U.S. Marshal Service has never fought child
00:31:37.020 trafficking. They just did three huge things. Why? The president empowered them with an authority,
00:31:43.900 form a task force, funded it and said, go find the kids. That's never happened before. So that alone,
00:31:50.520 in my eyes alone, forget about anything else, politics in this fight we're in. And by the way,
00:31:56.200 two weeks before that, I stood with him at a March for Life where he was the first president to show up
00:31:59.900 at the March for Life, right? That alone is a champion for me because we, we, we've been craving
00:32:08.200 that kind of support top down with, with the authorities as well forever.
00:32:14.520 Can you tell everyone how they can support you, where they can follow you, how they can help your
00:32:19.900 organization?
00:32:20.860 We have a show on Instagram that we use solely for this, right? So this is, we just pump out
00:32:25.680 information.
00:32:26.420 Great. It's so informative, by the way.
00:32:28.200 Thank you very much. Thank you. Um, so their Instagram, uh, yaku.boyence and Instagram,
00:32:33.120 and in our organization is share together now, share together now.org. Their parents can learn how to
00:32:39.940 profile, how to talk to their kids. They can watch the film eight days that we produced for this purpose.
00:32:46.380 We produced it for the community. Say this, this is in your neighborhood, you know? And so, um,
00:32:52.300 first realize it's real. It is in your neighborhood. It's in your kid's school. You know, it's in your
00:32:58.040 kid's school in the curriculum, but there's children in your kid's school that are being
00:33:01.360 sexually exploited. And so we need to take ownership of our communities back.
00:33:06.220 Yeah. Yeah. Well, thank you so much. I really appreciate everything that you and your family do.
00:33:10.680 And thank you for taking the time to come on this show. I do encourage everyone to follow you on
00:33:16.160 Instagram and support your organization however they can. There are a lot of people who have been asking me
00:33:21.240 to talk about this, who are so curious and want to protect their kids and protect their family. So
00:33:25.680 again, thank you so much guys. I could have talked to Yako for four more hours. There were so many
00:33:32.900 questions that I wanted to ask him. So please go support him and follow him. He has so much
00:33:38.840 information, but I want to reemphasize something that he talked about the importance of fighting this
00:33:45.220 in our homes and making sure that we are paying attention to the warning signs that don't
00:33:50.640 necessarily say this is child trafficking or this is grooming your child. And one of those things
00:33:56.720 is what's going on in our public school system as far as sex education goes. So he talked about there
00:34:04.120 are several organizations, the WHO, which we have talked about on this podcast. Go back and listen
00:34:09.340 to an episode from a few months ago called Who is WHO? Where we talk about the leadership there,
00:34:17.580 the initiatives there, why it is such a corrupt organization, why it is so good that President
00:34:23.040 Trump a couple months after I recorded that podcast, not due to the podcast, but it just happened to be
00:34:28.480 after I recorded the podcast that he decided that we were going to get out of the WHO. We were going to
00:34:34.540 stop funding the WHO. That was a good decision because of what the WHO supports. They work together
00:34:41.340 with organizations like Planned Parenthood with UNESCO and they have come together to create this sexual
00:34:48.440 education curriculum for our children starting at the age of four that talks about sexually explicit
00:34:55.820 subjects that are inappropriate for children that put ideas and put images in children's mind
00:35:03.260 for the purpose. They would not admit this, but for the purpose of sexualizing kids and making them
00:35:10.100 comfortable with sexual conversations and comfortable with sexual topics, sexual experiences, sexual
00:35:16.220 relationships at an age where they need to be protected from that kind of information, protected from that
00:35:21.840 kind of conversation instead of brought into it by teachers and by administrators who do not know
00:35:27.820 your children and do not care about your children in the same way that you do. So it is incumbent upon
00:35:32.760 parents to make sure that your kids are not in a system where they are being indoctrinated with this kind of
00:35:38.520 stuff. You guys know I talk about so often on this podcast the importance, I believe, of taking your
00:35:43.980 kids out of the public school system. And I know I get a lot of messages from wonderful, wonderful public
00:35:50.100 school teachers who say that you disagree with that or from parents who love their public school in their
00:35:56.180 area. And I understand there are lots of great public schools. There are lots of great public school
00:36:01.400 teachers. That is absolutely true. And if your child goes to a public school, do I think that they are
00:36:06.400 going to, they are going to end up horribly and that their life is going to be ruined? Not at all. Of course, I
00:36:12.500 believe God is totally sovereign and can work in anything. However, as Votie Bauckham says, you cannot send
00:36:18.560 your child to Caesar and be surprised when they come back Romans. When we send our child to the state to get
00:36:25.680 their values, to get their sex education, to get their moral education, even to get their history, rather than
00:36:32.400 learning those things primarily in the home or learning those things from a school where the parents
00:36:37.740 actually have a say in what their child learns, we are putting them at the whim of the state. We are
00:36:45.600 putting them basically in a position of being vulnerable to whatever the state wants to indoctrinate
00:36:52.200 them with. And we know because of the public school unions, because of the people that are behind the
00:36:57.440 public education system, that it is going to be a left-wing worldview. And the left-wing worldview
00:37:03.100 looks to separate the parent and the child by replacing the authority of the parent in the
00:37:10.680 authority of the family with the authority of the state, which is, in the case of a child, the public
00:37:17.560 school system. And they would like to make it to where a child is sexually autonomous at a very
00:37:26.380 young age. This is the left-wing communistic worldview. If you read someone like, for example,
00:37:33.920 Sophie Lewis, who is a self-proclaimed communist, and she has written several books, she talks about
00:37:41.060 the importance of kids not belonging to families, not belonging to their mother and father, but
00:37:46.480 quote, belonging to themselves. The inevitable consequence of that is going to be children put in
00:37:53.600 mature and even sexual situations in which they should actually be protected from by their parents
00:38:00.540 rather than placed into by the state or by the public school system. So it's so important, parents,
00:38:08.080 that if you cannot take your kids out of public school, which is my first recommendation, is homeschool
00:38:13.000 or private school or charter school. That, again, is why school choice, something that exclusively
00:38:18.380 Republicans and conservatives support. That is why school choice is so important, so that a child's safety
00:38:24.400 and future in education is not dictated by their zip code. But if you cannot take your child out of the
00:38:31.840 public school that they are assigned to because of their zip code, then be as involved as you possibly can,
00:38:37.340 whether you are a public school teacher, whether you are a parent, push back against the union, push back
00:38:42.360 against the sexual education that is being rammed down your child's throat, that is completely inappropriate
00:38:47.740 for their age, that should be coming from you and not from their teachers. Make sure that you make the other
00:38:54.520 parents that are in your group or are in your child's class aware of the things that are going on, push back
00:39:00.700 against any kind of curriculum that does not align with the values that you want your child learning.
00:39:06.740 Speak up. Don't be afraid to say something to the school board. Don't be afraid to push back against
00:39:13.240 the teachers union, public school teacher. Don't be afraid to push back against these institutions that
00:39:19.380 are actually working against your child in so many ways. So as Jaco said, this starts at home. This starts
00:39:27.900 in the places where children spend a lot of their times and parents, a lot of their time and parents do not
00:39:33.400 be afraid to take authority over your child. God gave you the responsibility of being their parent
00:39:39.400 for a reason. You are the best teacher. Parents, I told this to a mom the other day who was struggling
00:39:44.560 with virtual learning with her child who has a special needs, who is on the autism spectrum. I said
00:39:49.820 this to her and I mean it. And I'm saying this to all of you. You are the best teacher that your child
00:39:55.420 will ever have. It does not matter if you have no teaching experience. It doesn't matter if you have
00:39:59.980 your education degree. It doesn't matter whether or not you fully understand the math material or
00:40:06.160 whatever it is that they are learning. You are the best teacher that your child will ever have because
00:40:11.820 you care about them more than any teacher ever will. You brought them home from the hospital or
00:40:17.640 you adopted them or you got them out of the foster care system. However, you became their parent.
00:40:23.060 You put a lot of effort into bringing that child into the world and you have given everything,
00:40:26.940 sacrificed everything to make sure that they have a good life. And no other person on earth
00:40:32.620 has ever done that. You care about, you know your child better than anyone else. It is your
00:40:37.180 responsibility to teach them, to care for them, to instill them with the values that you want to
00:40:41.760 instill them with. God will equip you to do that. You are fully prepared to do that. And God has chosen
00:40:47.540 this generation for such a time as this to be the generation that he wants them to be. And he has made
00:40:54.340 you and me their parents. And he has given us the ability to do that. You have all the equipment
00:41:00.880 that you need in his word. You have all the equipment that you need in the church. You have
00:41:04.800 all the equipment that you need in the God-given wisdom that he has given you. So take that
00:41:10.960 responsibility seriously. It starts at home. It starts in the school. It starts in the conversations
00:41:16.220 that you have with your kid. It starts in taking away their phone, making sure they're not on social
00:41:21.140 media or checking in on their social media. It starts with being a parent to our kids.
00:41:28.240 So that's just what I wanted to end with. This is so important. This is why policy matters also. Not
00:41:34.060 just parenting, but also policy. This is why policy matters in who is on your school board. This is why
00:41:40.600 your local representatives matter. This is why your city council matters. This is why your mayors matter.
00:41:45.600 Not only do they have an influence over what goes on in your schools, but they also have an influence
00:41:51.480 over what goes on in the police force. Funding the police, more funding for the police is going to
00:41:57.740 also be something that keeps you and your family safe, your children safe. Pushing back against these
00:42:04.940 technology companies that put more effort into fighting opinions that they don't like than
00:42:12.120 fighting against child exploiters. So just ensure that your energy and your time and your focus is
00:42:19.220 going in the right direction for the glory of God and for the protection of your kids. That is our
00:42:24.440 responsibility. And God has equipped us and called us to do that. Okay. Just wanted to end there. Thank
00:42:30.140 you guys so much for listening. I hope this was an encouragement to you. I will see you back here on Monday.
00:42:34.940 I will see you back here on Monday.