Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey - Ep 64 ｜ This Is Disturbing

00:00:00.000 Hey guys, what's up? This is Relatable. I am Allie Stuckey. Thank you for listening.

00:00:05.640 Today we're going to talk about stupid stories of the week. You guys really liked that episode

00:00:10.560 a couple of weeks ago. I think it was called The Height of Absurdity. We're going to touch

00:00:14.660 on just a couple of stories. I might be able to get to a few of the questions that you guys

00:00:19.580 sent me on Instagram. At the end of this, it just depends on how much time we have.

00:00:24.580 I am first going to answer a question that I got a few questions actually regarding

00:00:30.340 the announcement that I made on Tuesday that I am pregnant. The question that I have been

00:00:35.960 asked is, how did you find out that you were pregnant and all of that? I don't want to go

00:00:40.080 into super detail because I don't want to take up too much time and I don't want to bore you

00:00:44.440 guys who are like, you said that you weren't going to talk about your pregnancy every episode

00:00:48.740 because I'm not going to. But I do want to answer this initial question. So I actually

00:00:54.120 found out that I was pregnant by going to the doctor. So maybe this is TMI, but I don't

00:00:59.880 know. Maybe we don't have TMI on this podcast and in this Relatable family. I go to an endocrinologist

00:01:05.860 because I have a thyroid condition. And so they were like, you know, let's just do a pregnancy

00:01:11.240 test. I was like, oh no, we don't need to do a pregnancy test. I'm not pregnant. And they're 0.92

00:01:16.020 like, let's, let's just do one, you know, just in case, because, you know, if you happen

00:01:20.180 to be pregnant, we'll need to adjust your medicine. And I was like, okay, I didn't want 0.99

00:01:25.100 them to, to do a test because even though I didn't think that I was pregnant, I didn't

00:01:29.760 want to be, you know, kind of disappointed if I wasn't. So anyway, I didn't think I was

00:01:35.660 pregnant. I didn't really think anything of it. And of course, as it turns out, I was

00:01:39.160 pregnant and I was absolutely shocked. I could not believe it. Um, I surprised my husband,

00:01:45.440 my husband, I found out in the morning and then my husband, he works pretty late. And

00:01:49.840 so I was waiting eight hours. I was begging him to come home early. I was like, I don't

00:01:55.460 feel good. Will you please come home early from work? And he was like, I can't. Uh, and

00:02:00.480 so he got home and it was a little bit after his birthday. And so I wrote him like a birthday

00:02:06.840 card. I was like, oh my gosh, I forgot to give you your birthday card on your birthday. Here's

00:02:11.100 your card. And he was like, why are you so insistent upon me opening this and reading

00:02:16.760 this right now? It's like, it's just, it's just really important to me. So he opened it

00:02:21.760 and it was just, you know, saying nice things. And then at the end, it said something about

00:02:25.340 him being a dad and he was like, what? Uh, and so that was really fun. Of course, I wanted

00:02:30.720 to tell everyone right, right away. I have been dying to tell you guys I have been, I think

00:02:36.820 I've been kind of dropping hints here and there about how tired I am, how I never want

00:02:40.600 to do anything. I don't want to work out. And of course you guys see my Instagram stories

00:02:44.820 where I am eating Chick-fil-A probably three times a week. I love Chick-fil-A whether I'm

00:02:49.720 pregnant or not, but that has been my number one craving. Like I had Chick-fil-A today again.

00:02:55.420 I think it was probably the second time this week. I just started indulging in Chick-fil-A breakfast.

00:03:00.760 It's typically Chick-fil-A lunch. Um, because what happens is I don't feel good in the morning

00:03:05.740 and then by like one o'clock I'm starving. And so what do I want? I want waffle fries

00:03:10.400 and Chick-fil-A sauce and, uh, usually a grilled chicken sandwich. That's my go-to. Sometimes

00:03:16.340 I get, uh, what is it? Southwest or tortilla soup. Sorry. That was dumb. Tortilla soup,

00:03:23.680 Southwest chicken salad, and then like some nuggets or some fries on the side. I don't typically

00:03:30.000 eat all of it. I probably could, but I don't, I just need some of that fried carb goodness.

00:03:35.600 So that's been my number one craving. If I can even call it that, it might just be a

00:03:39.800 complete lack of discipline. Uh, but now that I'm in my second trimester, I'm starting to

00:03:44.160 feel a little bit better. Like I actually want to exercise. So I've been exercising a

00:03:49.480 little bit. Like I don't want to eat absolutely terrible every single meal of the day. And so

00:03:55.440 we're, we're moving in the right direction. I'm not quite as tired as I used to be. Although

00:04:00.080 I do sleep like nine hours a night. And if I lay down right now, I could probably take a nap,

00:04:04.400 but it was way, way worse during my first trimester. Uh, anyway, so it was really exciting. It was

00:04:10.400 exciting to tell my close friends when we told them. And then of course it was great being

00:04:15.260 able to tell you guys on social media. Like I said, I was dying to do that. The response

00:04:19.500 has been so sweet. You never know what people are going to say on the internet. Uh, you just

00:04:25.580 never know. I was really nervous, especially to put it on Twitter because people on Twitter

00:04:29.500 are so mean, the things that they say are so disgusting and just crazy that I was like,

00:04:36.480 I don't think that I'm a mentally and emotionally prepared for all of this, but actually, I mean,

00:04:41.220 I haven't read through every single comment, but people have been really sweet and really kind

00:04:44.980 and really excited for me. So thank you guys so much for being so supportive. Uh, if you haven't

00:04:50.720 listened to Tuesday's episode, I really encourage you to do that. I got a ton of messages from you guys,

00:04:55.860 people who are struggling with infertility, who went through a miscarriage and, or, uh, you know,

00:05:02.160 pregnancy just for whatever reason is not in the cards for you. I got a lot of messages from you

00:05:07.620 guys saying that Tuesday's podcast, that it, that it meant something to you. And that means a lot to

00:05:13.160 me because I wanted it to, I wanted you to know that even though I'm, I'm pregnant and I'm excited

00:05:17.520 about that, that I empathize with, or I at least sympathize with people that are in every stage of,

00:05:25.860 life, every stage of motherhood and potential motherhood. And yeah, you guys are a part of

00:05:33.120 this community and I love you. So anyway, I guess that's my, I guess that's my entire story. We don't

00:05:39.200 know the gender. Someone on Instagram told me to not find out the gender. We're going to find out

00:05:43.740 the gender. I think it's totally respectable when people don't maybe on our next child, we won't find 0.98

00:05:49.620 out until it's born. But on this one, I just want to know the hard thing is right now is that

00:05:55.820 my sister-in-law knows the gender. I had her like pick up an envelope. We're not doing some like huge 1.00

00:06:01.280 big gender reveal or anything like that, but we are going to open it in front of my parents. But we

00:06:06.220 already decided that that day was going to be on the 29th and we actually have to do it on the 29th

00:06:11.060 for some scheduling reasons. And I'm dying to know. So it's going to be like a week and a half until I

00:06:16.820 can find out. And knowing that someone knows besides the doctor, that if my child is a girl

00:06:21.940 or a boy, it's just, it's really eating me up inside. I want to know so badly. So speaking of

00:06:28.360 gender, that's going to segue us into, into this podcast. So speaking of gender, I want to talk

00:06:35.160 about our first absolutely absurd story. And really it's not just an absurd story. The episode that we

00:06:41.460 did a couple of weeks ago, when we talked about all of these crazy loony stories out there,

00:06:47.800 those were really just, those were kind of lighthearted. We talked about the Lutheran

00:06:52.860 woman pastor that was burning purity rings into an anatomical golden statue. Ridiculous. We talked 0.99

00:06:59.820 about this, these students saying that veggie tales, vegetable tales were racist. Okay. That's just

00:07:06.340 insane. These are a little bit more sad. And I know that either last week or the week before we

00:07:12.060 talked about this whole gender fluidity movement and what's behind it and the, uh, and the danger 1.00

00:07:16.860 of it and the myths that are behind this whole idea that gender and sex are independent. So I don't

00:07:22.880 want to rehash all of that, but there are, uh, some stories that I want us to look at because I think

00:07:28.860 this is an increasingly important topic. We hear about it so much, particularly from the left. It's

00:07:35.060 shoved down our throats every day that if we do not accept this whole transgender movement, 1.00

00:07:39.980 this whole idea that sex and gender are completely independent from one another, then we are wrong. 0.95

00:07:44.440 We are bigots. We are bad. We are behind the times. I think it's perfectly logical and perfectly okay,

00:07:49.980 not just as Christians, but as a common sense people in general to ask ourselves if that is the way that

00:07:56.140 we want to go as society, uh, as a society to deny science and to deny reality simply because of a tiny

00:08:03.180 group of people's feelings. So this article is so disturbing, but I think it reveals, uh, a really,

00:08:11.040 especially scary part of this entire movement. So this was reported when I read it, uh, by the

00:08:17.860 daily wire. The, the headline is 11 year old Desmond, the amazing performed in drag at a gay bar

00:08:24.520 in New York city. Uh, actually, I don't think that was a headline that must've just been a line from it.

00:08:28.640 Sorry. So this 11 year old little boy, he dresses in drag. I've heard of Desmond, the amazing before,

00:08:33.800 maybe some from some online video. He is like a celebrity in the child drag world. There is a 0.93

00:08:39.940 world of children dressing in drag, especially little boys dressing like girls. And of course, 0.79

00:08:46.300 I believe that this is the sexualization of boys in particular. If these little boys were girls 0.78

00:08:52.380 dressing up in these skimpy outfits, wearing all of this heavy makeup and strutting in a sexual way

00:08:58.880 on a runway or on a bar or whatever it is, we would be saying, well, that's weird. That seems like

00:09:04.560 pedophilia. But for some reason, when a boy does it, when a boy dresses like a girl, when a boy acts

00:09:09.820 in a sexualized manner and wears makeup and wears these skimpy outfits, we're supposed to celebrate 0.95

00:09:13.660 it as progress. And that's exactly what happened at this bar. So this bar called $3 bill, it's a gay 1.00

00:09:19.720 bar. Desmond, the amazing, I guess, was hired to dance on stage, dressed up in drag. He was dressed 0.81

00:09:26.620 as Gwen Stefani. Of course, he had his makeup on. He was dancing to some kind of song. And here's the

00:09:31.880 really sick part. The patrons at this bar, these gay men, I'm guessing they were at a gay bar, 1.00

00:09:38.540 they were throwing $1 bills at him. One patron actually walked out and reportedly said, that was 0.74

00:09:43.880 really disturbing. And I don't know what to think of it. Yeah, because you're like a normal person.

00:09:49.600 And you don't, you're not a pedophile. This is pedophilia. This is the glorification of

00:09:55.280 pedophilia. Conservatives have been warning about this for a long time, that this whole

00:09:59.800 gender fluidity movement, starting as young as five and six years old, we have parents 0.61

00:10:05.820 saying, oh, my child identifies as a boy, even though she is biologically a girl. My

00:10:11.700 child identifies as the opposite sex. I'm going to let my child choose their gender. And we're 1.00

00:10:17.420 even going to go into gender blocking therapy or whatever it is. We are going to allow this 0.99

00:10:24.460 child to transition because they identify as something different. Well, conservatives have

00:10:28.400 posed the question. I posed it the other day on Twitter. I'm not the first person to ask this

00:10:32.260 question. If a child, if a child like poor little 11-year-old Desmond or any other child

00:10:40.020 has the mental capacity, has the autonomy, has the control to say, I am not a bi, I might

00:10:47.940 be a biological boy, but I identify as a girl and I'm going to dress like a girl. If they 0.96

00:10:51.980 have the ability and the authority to choose their gender, then why don't they have the authority 0.95

00:11:00.280 to make other very significant life-changing or life-altering, I guess that's the same thing.

00:11:07.240 I was trying to look for a different word and I couldn't think of it. Life-altering sexual

00:11:11.440 decisions. So why couldn't they, for example, why couldn't Desmond say, I'm in love with this

00:11:17.820 40-year-old man. Love is love. I feel this way. I have the capacity. I have the ability

00:11:24.760 to choose who I want to love. So I'm going to love this person. Why isn't he allowed to say that,

00:11:29.780 but he is allowed to say, well, my gender doesn't correspond with my sex. Both are very significant

00:11:35.860 decisions. And of course, people on the left would say, well, gender identity and expressing your

00:11:40.840 true self through your gender isn't the same thing as choosing to sleep with a man. I'm not saying it's

00:11:46.720 the exact same thing. I'm saying they are both big decisions that are sexual in nature that I think

00:11:52.520 take a level of maturity and a level of forethought, both of them, to be able to make in any kind of

00:11:59.100 logical way whatsoever. And yet we are okay with saying yes to the fact that this little kid can

00:12:05.680 dance on a bar and dress and drag and say that he is a girl, but we're not okay with him sleeping with

00:12:11.700 a 40-year-old man. My question is why? And my assertion is that it is going to slide in that

00:12:18.760 direction, that we are not going to be able to any longer logically contend that a child can choose

00:12:25.320 their gender, but they cannot choose who they want to love no matter what age the person is that they

00:12:32.140 want to love. We're just not going to be able to do it anymore. There is a push for the normalization

00:12:37.720 and even the glorification of pedophilia in this child drag transgender movement. And here's how the 0.99

00:12:45.980 logic goes. So if you believe that gender is independent from sex, so gender is something that we

00:12:52.780 choose. Gender is just a social construct and I can decide, even though I am a biological girl, that I

00:12:57.980 want to be a man. And if I identify as a man, it's just how I feel. Then I am a man. So if we buy into

00:13:05.560 that, if we believe that gender and sex are completely independent, that they vary independently, that they

00:13:09.980 really have no correlation whatsoever, then of course we believe that a child can choose their gender.

00:13:15.720 Why not? If they're completely independent, then why wouldn't we say, of course, a five-year-old can

00:13:21.140 choose their gender? It doesn't matter what their anatomy is. They can choose their gender as young

00:13:24.940 as they want to because those things are completely independent. And if a child can choose their gender,

00:13:30.260 why can't they choose other things? Why can't they also choose who they want to love? Why can't they

00:13:34.560 also choose to be with an older man or an older woman? Why can't they choose to be with anyone that

00:13:40.540 they want to be? That's the line of reasoning that we're seeing. It's already happening. So when leftists

00:13:47.240 say that there's no correlation whatsoever, that that's completely absurd, that that's a slippery

00:13:51.780 slope fallacy, all they're doing is diverting away from the logical connection that these two

00:13:58.120 things have. No one is actually willing to answer that question. That if they have the capacity to do

00:14:03.840 that, why don't they have the capacity to do this? And we're already seeing through this horrible story

00:14:08.680 through Desmond the Amazing that that is exactly what is happening. The sexualization of little

00:14:15.900 boys, that is not something to applaud. That is not something to say. Yay. That's cute. That's

00:14:20.980 awesome. These parents, these parents of this poor 11 year old boy should be thrown into jail for child

00:14:26.600 endangerment. They should. This is child abuse. He is an 11 year old boy. He has not even gone through

00:14:32.880 puberty yet. His mind isn't even close to being fully developed and he is being exploited. He is being

00:14:38.520 objectified by his parents who want to make money from his disorder. He has gender dysphoria and his

00:14:44.880 parents are exploiting his sickness. They should be locked up for that. I feel terrible for this boy. 0.96

00:14:51.780 I feel absolutely terribly. He should be in counseling. He should be getting help and he will

00:14:57.580 probably never recover from this. He will be haunted from this. I don't care if you were a girl or a boy

00:15:02.760 being objectified in this way. Someone, older men throwing dollar bills at you while you dance around

00:15:10.020 scantily clad at a bar when you are not even a preteen yet, that's traumatizing. That's not okay

00:15:17.820 for anyone. I don't understand how these parents are safe from law enforcement. I just don't understand.

00:15:24.660 And yet we, we are the ones who are bigots. We are the ones who are wrong for bringing this up and for

00:15:30.700 asking these questions. We are the ones who are crazy. Never mind the fact, never mind the fact that 0.90

00:15:35.960 there is no solid science whatsoever behind this theory that gender and sex are independent from

00:15:43.040 each other. But, but we're the bigots for even bringing any of that up. Um, Miss Spain, I think

00:15:52.320 that's who it is. I don't even remember her name. She was competing in Miss Universe. She is the first

00:15:56.400 ever transgender contestant and she didn't win. She was in an interview. I'm not going to play it for you 1.00

00:16:03.300 because it's in Spanish and most of you are just listening to this. So, and you're not watching,

00:16:07.340 so it's not going to help. So I'll summarize what she said. Uh, she was asked by the interviewer. I

00:16:13.360 actually don't even know exactly what she was asked, but she was saying that, uh, she is a woman 0.99

00:16:18.180 that she actually said, she said, you don't have to have a vagina to be a woman. And her, she said, 0.99

00:16:23.320 having a vagina doesn't make me a woman. I am a woman up here. And she pointed to her brain. She said 1.00

00:16:27.160 she was a woman before she was even born, um, because she feels like a woman. She thinks like a woman. 0.52

00:16:31.980 And that is what makes her a woman. And we are supposed to applaud this. You had people all over

00:16:36.640 Twitter saying, yes, girl, yes, this is so good. This is what we need. This is equality. This is

00:16:43.320 progress. And I just want to know how validating insanity is progress. How is that loving? How is

00:16:50.180 that kind? How is that compassionate to feed into this kind of delusion? Like I said, there's no science

00:16:55.460 behind it whatsoever. People want to say that there is, but as I said on this podcast before, a really good

00:17:00.600 way to figure out if something is universally true is to see if it has been true throughout time and

00:17:06.700 throughout varying cultures, the inherent difference between men and women, um, the idea that biology

00:17:13.440 actually affects behavior, actually affects preferences, actually affects how, uh, you act

00:17:19.880 and the things that you want to do, the things that you are inclined to do that has been seen in every

00:17:26.660 single culture throughout history for all of time. The differences between men and women are not just

00:17:34.400 biological. They are inherent. They are behavioral. And that has always been seen. This is how I know

00:17:40.400 this. There has never been a matriarchy. Never. A matriarchy has never existed. Not in the East, 0.95

00:17:48.380 not in the West. Now you would think if gender, as they say, is just a social construct. If the way that

00:17:54.160 women act now, uh, compared to how men act now, it's just a social construct that it's not inherent 0.99

00:18:01.120 at all, then we would be able to find somewhere throughout history where women ruled, where women 1.00

00:18:06.900 were the more aggressive ones, where women were going out and hunting, where women were laying their 1.00

00:18:10.760 lives on the line for their territory, where they were going out and conquering and men were staying

00:18:15.340 at home and taking care of the families that has never happened. Never happened. You cannot find a

00:18:21.140 legitimate anthropologist who would say that there was any kind of stable or real matriarchy to speak 1.00

00:18:27.100 of. Now there was this movement, uh, in second wave feminism that said that there were matriarchies, 1.00

00:18:32.760 but that's been completely discounted now. So here is an excerpt and this is from Wikipedia. So you can

00:18:38.820 take it as you will, but they have sources in this. So it's not just complete jargon. Um, so just listen

00:18:45.700 to this, but know that it's from Wikipedia. Know that I'm not reading from an anthropology book.

00:18:50.300 Take it as you will. So this is an excerpt. Um, and they are, like I said, there's sources to all

00:18:54.820 of this. Most anthropologists hold that there are no known societies that are unambiguously

00:18:59.740 matriarchal. According to J.M. Adovazio, Olga Soffer, and Jake Page, no true matriarchy is known

00:19:07.240 actually to have existed. Anthropologist Joan Bamberger argued that the historical record contains

00:19:12.140 no primary sources on any society in which women dominated. Anthropologist Donald Brown's list of

00:19:19.000 human cultural universals includes men being the dominant element in public political affairs, 0.50

00:19:25.280 which he asserts is, uh, is the contemporary opinion of mainstream anthropology. There are some

00:19:31.200 disagreements and possible exceptions. A belief that women's rule preceded men's rule was according to

00:19:36.800 Paviland held by many 19th century intellectuals. The hypothesis survived into the 20th century and

00:19:43.500 was notably advanced in the context of feminism and especially second wave feminism. But, but the 0.73

00:19:50.640 hypothesis is mostly discredited today. Most experts saying that it was never true, never true. And these

00:19:59.600 are not some conservative activists. Matriarchies have never exist. If they even tried to exist, 1.00

00:20:05.840 they would fail. So the fact, the fact that men have always dominated, that they have always done

00:20:13.180 what they are still doing. They have always laid their lives on the line. They have always sacrificed

00:20:16.740 for their family, sacrificed for their society. They've always had some kind of drive in them to

00:20:21.260 start wars, to be the aggressor, to protect, uh, their own. And women have been the caretakers. 1.00

00:20:26.820 They have been the nurturers. They have been the nourishers. They have been the gardeners. They have been

00:20:30.440 the gathers, the caretakers. That means that there is something inherently different between men and

00:20:36.920 women. We've talked about the extremely egalitarian society, at least legally of Sweden, in which there

00:20:42.820 are extremely generous, uh, uh, parental leave systems there. And so men and women have equal parental

00:20:50.660 leave. And so they see that as, you know, a huge win for egalitarianism and gender equality there.

00:20:58.720 Well, there is still a huge disparity between how much men make and how much women make in Sweden.

00:21:04.740 And that is because women tend to stay at home in Sweden. 75% of the parental leave that is taken

00:21:10.500 is by women in Sweden. Uh, so you can't tell me that this is a social construct that is exclusive 0.98

00:21:17.020 to America and exclusive to our sexist system. That's just not true. Men and women choose different

00:21:22.960 things. And so when people try to push this idea on you, which is really just the beginning of the

00:21:27.840 entire avalanche of this whole gender mess, they try to push this idea on you that just agree, 1.00

00:21:34.460 just agree with us. They say that gender and sex are independent, that they're not the same thing, 0.95

00:21:38.300 that a gender is something completely different from sex. Say, no, that's not true. That, that is 0.92

00:21:44.000 not true throughout time and throughout culture. That's just not true that, that sex and gender,

00:21:50.640 uh, vary independently. It's just not true. So no, gender and sex are very closely connected.

00:21:57.300 They are basically synonymous. They might have different technical definitions,

00:22:01.740 but they attach to each other in almost every single case. And yet we are, uh, rewriting our

00:22:09.440 entire moral landscape. We are rewriting our language based on this tiny percentage of people 1.00

00:22:15.420 who unfortunately suffer from gender dysphoria. They deserve our compassion. They deserve our

00:22:21.200 respect. They are made in God's image. They are valuable people that deserve, um, all of our love

00:22:27.660 and our attention. And we, uh, need to give them the help that they need. They need to be seen. They need,

00:22:33.240 uh, to be heard. And yet we don't need to validate this, uh, dysphoria that they suffer from. And we

00:22:39.780 certainly don't need to rearrange our entire, uh, morality and all of our principles based on their

00:22:46.340 dysphoria. It just doesn't make any sense whatsoever. But of course this is transphobic.

00:22:50.220 People are getting kicked off Twitter for saying that men are men and women are women because it

00:22:54.820 completely dismantles, uh, their whole idea. And I, as I've talked about in the past, this is what

00:23:02.260 they think is going to even the playing field. This is what they think is going to make society

00:23:06.600 egalitarian that if men are more like women and women are more like men, then there won't be any

00:23:11.420 disparity. There won't be any abuse. There won't be any discrimination, but we're all just be this

00:23:15.960 amorphous blob of nothingness and gender will no longer matter. Well, that's not going to happen 0.99

00:23:22.480 because biology doesn't change and science doesn't change. Um, so those are two of my absurd stories.

00:23:31.140 I think I have one more absurd story, but I didn't write it down. So I don't remember what it is.

00:23:36.120 Instead, I am going to explain something. I'm going to answer one of your questions that I have

00:23:42.540 or that I've gotten, and I've gotten it a few times. Now, most of you know the answer to this

00:23:47.280 question. This has nothing to do with what you're talking about, by the way. This is just a question

00:23:50.380 that I've gotten. Um, most of you know this because you message me all the time about being a trash 0.98

00:23:55.520 person. Um, I say that I'm a trash person. A lot of you say that you're part of my trash family. 0.99

00:24:02.360 One of you messaged me about my trash baby, which I'm not like totally down with saying that yet. 0.99

00:24:08.460 I'll probably get there. And, but people have asked me, what is a trash person? Some people are 0.98

00:24:13.400 like, I'm offended by that. I'm offended that you call yourself a trash person. I don't want to call 1.00

00:24:16.960 myself a trash person. Um, I totally understand. You might not be a trash person. I am a trash person

00:24:22.220 and it's not a pejorative. It's not a bad thing. It's actually a good thing. I think in my opinion, 0.96

00:24:27.500 now a trash person is the kind of person that's going to go to the grocery store and sweatpants 0.89

00:24:34.700 and cat socks, tennis shoes, and an unmatching pullover with your hair on top of your head and 0.99

00:24:42.600 no makeup. That's a trash person. A trash person is someone who like just doesn't care. It's not 1.00

00:24:49.220 literal garbage. Like it's not literal like dumpster diving. My, it's not like my house is disgusting.

00:24:55.800 I'm a trash person. And then I just like, I just like don't care about things. I don't really care 0.85

00:25:01.320 about the finer things. I wouldn't call myself sophisticated in that way. I'm just a trash

00:25:07.680 person. It's kind of hard to explain. Like I did this whole segment on an episode once about my 0.98

00:25:13.420 college dorm room and how my college dorm room was just like a trash person dorm room. Like I,

00:25:19.700 well, I don't know. We didn't care what bedding we had. We didn't care what was decorated. I'm also

00:25:23.420 just really bad at decorating. That's definitely a sign of a trash person. Um, and how today people 0.99

00:25:30.680 spend like thousands of dollars hiring a designer to design their freshman dorm room. And that's

00:25:37.500 the opposite of trash person, fashion bloggers, opposite of trash people, organized people, 1.00

00:25:43.080 opposite of trash people. So you might not be a trash person and that's totally fine. 0.99

00:25:47.000 I just am a trash person. It really comes down to just like not caring about things. Does that make 0.94

00:25:54.140 sense? You just don't care about the little stuff and you don't really care about what people think.

00:26:00.540 That's what being a trash person is. So I have a trash person t-shirt that I am selling and I think 0.98

00:26:06.540 it's shopify.com slash Allie on CRTV, LOL. That was before the merger. I think that's what it is,

00:26:13.500 but it's actually in my LinkedIn profile and my, um, in my Instagram profile. So you should go,

00:26:19.340 if you want a trash person t-shirt, I'm thinking about making like a trash person mug, but you guys 0.94

00:26:23.400 use the term trash person so much. My question or someone asked me like where I got this. I don't

00:26:28.700 know. I don't even think I came up with it. Like it's different than a garbage human. Does that make

00:26:33.820 sense? A garbage human is a bad person, just like a morally bad person. Chelsea Handler is a garbage 1.00

00:26:39.740 human. You know, Kamala Harris, garbage human. Trash person is endearing. I hope that makes 1.00

00:26:48.740 sense to you. So if you want a trash person t-shirt, you should go to the link in my profile

00:26:52.300 that is on Instagram. You should get yourself a trash person t-shirt and then we can all wear it 0.92

00:26:57.900 together. Maybe I'll even have like a meet and greet one day and we all wear our trash person t-shirts. 0.94

00:27:02.040 It'll be really fun. Also, if you are going to SAS in Palm Beach, Turning Point USA, I will be there

00:27:09.080 tomorrow speaking at 9 a.m. I'm not going to be there for very long. I am coming right back home

00:27:15.700 after that. So if you are there on Thursday night, if you are there early Friday morning,

00:27:23.300 come say hi to me. I would love to meet you. Love to get a picture with you. I'm really excited to

00:27:27.260 see you guys. If you're not going, that's totally fine, too. As always, if you want to invite me

00:27:31.740 anywhere that you are. So if you are part of a Republican group in a certain city, if you speak

00:27:38.140 or if you are on college campus and you're part of a Republican group there, the head of the group

00:27:43.120 can reach out to me and can invite me to come speak and we'll work out the logistics with all

00:27:48.760 of that. People always say, come to my city. I have to actually be formally invited. It's this whole

00:27:53.640 thing. I wish it wasn't, but it is. So anyway, I hope that you guys have an awesome Christmas. I will

00:28:00.560 be here next week, but not until Thursday. So there won't be a podcast on Christmas. There will be one

00:28:07.040 on Thursday. And I hope that you guys have a wonderful weekend and a wonderful time with

00:28:13.480 your families. Try not to get into any, you know, political disagreements or anything like that.

00:28:18.620 It's just not worth it. Just love each other. Okay. Merry Christmas. Love you guys. See you next week.

00:28:23.520 Bye-bye.

00:28:24.980 Bye-bye.

Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey - December 20, 2018

Ep 64 ｜ This Is Disturbing

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