Ep 64 ｜ This Is Disturbing
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Summary
In this episode, Allie talks about how she found out she was pregnant with her second baby, and the dumbest thing she did to surprise her husband with a birthday card that said something about him being a dad.
Transcript
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Hey guys, what's up? This is Relatable. I am Allie Stuckey. Thank you for listening.
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Today we're going to talk about stupid stories of the week. You guys really liked that episode
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a couple of weeks ago. I think it was called The Height of Absurdity. We're going to touch
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on just a couple of stories. I might be able to get to a few of the questions that you guys
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sent me on Instagram. At the end of this, it just depends on how much time we have.
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I am first going to answer a question that I got a few questions actually regarding
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the announcement that I made on Tuesday that I am pregnant. The question that I have been
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asked is, how did you find out that you were pregnant and all of that? I don't want to go
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into super detail because I don't want to take up too much time and I don't want to bore you
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guys who are like, you said that you weren't going to talk about your pregnancy every episode
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because I'm not going to. But I do want to answer this initial question. So I actually
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found out that I was pregnant by going to the doctor. So maybe this is TMI, but I don't
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know. Maybe we don't have TMI on this podcast and in this Relatable family. I go to an endocrinologist
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because I have a thyroid condition. And so they were like, you know, let's just do a pregnancy
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test. I was like, oh no, we don't need to do a pregnancy test. I'm not pregnant. And they're
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like, let's, let's just do one, you know, just in case, because, you know, if you happen
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to be pregnant, we'll need to adjust your medicine. And I was like, okay, I didn't want
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them to, to do a test because even though I didn't think that I was pregnant, I didn't
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want to be, you know, kind of disappointed if I wasn't. So anyway, I didn't think I was
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pregnant. I didn't really think anything of it. And of course, as it turns out, I was
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pregnant and I was absolutely shocked. I could not believe it. Um, I surprised my husband,
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my husband, I found out in the morning and then my husband, he works pretty late. And
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so I was waiting eight hours. I was begging him to come home early. I was like, I don't
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feel good. Will you please come home early from work? And he was like, I can't. Uh, and
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so he got home and it was a little bit after his birthday. And so I wrote him like a birthday
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card. I was like, oh my gosh, I forgot to give you your birthday card on your birthday. Here's
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your card. And he was like, why are you so insistent upon me opening this and reading
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this right now? It's like, it's just, it's just really important to me. So he opened it
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and it was just, you know, saying nice things. And then at the end, it said something about
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him being a dad and he was like, what? Uh, and so that was really fun. Of course, I wanted
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to tell everyone right, right away. I have been dying to tell you guys I have been, I think
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I've been kind of dropping hints here and there about how tired I am, how I never want
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to do anything. I don't want to work out. And of course you guys see my Instagram stories
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where I am eating Chick-fil-A probably three times a week. I love Chick-fil-A whether I'm
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pregnant or not, but that has been my number one craving. Like I had Chick-fil-A today again.
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I think it was probably the second time this week. I just started indulging in Chick-fil-A breakfast.
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It's typically Chick-fil-A lunch. Um, because what happens is I don't feel good in the morning
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and then by like one o'clock I'm starving. And so what do I want? I want waffle fries
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and Chick-fil-A sauce and, uh, usually a grilled chicken sandwich. That's my go-to. Sometimes
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I get, uh, what is it? Southwest or tortilla soup. Sorry. That was dumb. Tortilla soup,
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Southwest chicken salad, and then like some nuggets or some fries on the side. I don't typically
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eat all of it. I probably could, but I don't, I just need some of that fried carb goodness.
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So that's been my number one craving. If I can even call it that, it might just be a
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complete lack of discipline. Uh, but now that I'm in my second trimester, I'm starting to
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feel a little bit better. Like I actually want to exercise. So I've been exercising a
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little bit. Like I don't want to eat absolutely terrible every single meal of the day. And so
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we're, we're moving in the right direction. I'm not quite as tired as I used to be. Although
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I do sleep like nine hours a night. And if I lay down right now, I could probably take a nap,
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but it was way, way worse during my first trimester. Uh, anyway, so it was really exciting. It was
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exciting to tell my close friends when we told them. And then of course it was great being
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able to tell you guys on social media. Like I said, I was dying to do that. The response
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has been so sweet. You never know what people are going to say on the internet. Uh, you just
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never know. I was really nervous, especially to put it on Twitter because people on Twitter
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are so mean, the things that they say are so disgusting and just crazy that I was like,
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I don't think that I'm a mentally and emotionally prepared for all of this, but actually, I mean,
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I haven't read through every single comment, but people have been really sweet and really kind
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and really excited for me. So thank you guys so much for being so supportive. Uh, if you haven't
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listened to Tuesday's episode, I really encourage you to do that. I got a ton of messages from you guys,
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people who are struggling with infertility, who went through a miscarriage and, or, uh, you know,
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pregnancy just for whatever reason is not in the cards for you. I got a lot of messages from you
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guys saying that Tuesday's podcast, that it, that it meant something to you. And that means a lot to
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me because I wanted it to, I wanted you to know that even though I'm, I'm pregnant and I'm excited
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about that, that I empathize with, or I at least sympathize with people that are in every stage of,
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life, every stage of motherhood and potential motherhood. And yeah, you guys are a part of
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this community and I love you. So anyway, I guess that's my, I guess that's my entire story. We don't
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know the gender. Someone on Instagram told me to not find out the gender. We're going to find out
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the gender. I think it's totally respectable when people don't maybe on our next child, we won't find
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out until it's born. But on this one, I just want to know the hard thing is right now is that
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my sister-in-law knows the gender. I had her like pick up an envelope. We're not doing some like huge
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big gender reveal or anything like that, but we are going to open it in front of my parents. But we
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already decided that that day was going to be on the 29th and we actually have to do it on the 29th
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for some scheduling reasons. And I'm dying to know. So it's going to be like a week and a half until I
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can find out. And knowing that someone knows besides the doctor, that if my child is a girl
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or a boy, it's just, it's really eating me up inside. I want to know so badly. So speaking of
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gender, that's going to segue us into, into this podcast. So speaking of gender, I want to talk
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about our first absolutely absurd story. And really it's not just an absurd story. The episode that we
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did a couple of weeks ago, when we talked about all of these crazy loony stories out there,
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those were really just, those were kind of lighthearted. We talked about the Lutheran
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woman pastor that was burning purity rings into an anatomical golden statue. Ridiculous. We talked
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about this, these students saying that veggie tales, vegetable tales were racist. Okay. That's just
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insane. These are a little bit more sad. And I know that either last week or the week before we
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talked about this whole gender fluidity movement and what's behind it and the, uh, and the danger
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of it and the myths that are behind this whole idea that gender and sex are independent. So I don't
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want to rehash all of that, but there are, uh, some stories that I want us to look at because I think
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this is an increasingly important topic. We hear about it so much, particularly from the left. It's
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shoved down our throats every day that if we do not accept this whole transgender movement,
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this whole idea that sex and gender are completely independent from one another, then we are wrong.
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We are bigots. We are bad. We are behind the times. I think it's perfectly logical and perfectly okay,
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not just as Christians, but as a common sense people in general to ask ourselves if that is the way that
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we want to go as society, uh, as a society to deny science and to deny reality simply because of a tiny
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group of people's feelings. So this article is so disturbing, but I think it reveals, uh, a really,
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especially scary part of this entire movement. So this was reported when I read it, uh, by the
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daily wire. The, the headline is 11 year old Desmond, the amazing performed in drag at a gay bar
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in New York city. Uh, actually, I don't think that was a headline that must've just been a line from it.
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Sorry. So this 11 year old little boy, he dresses in drag. I've heard of Desmond, the amazing before,
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maybe some from some online video. He is like a celebrity in the child drag world. There is a
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world of children dressing in drag, especially little boys dressing like girls. And of course,
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I believe that this is the sexualization of boys in particular. If these little boys were girls
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dressing up in these skimpy outfits, wearing all of this heavy makeup and strutting in a sexual way
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on a runway or on a bar or whatever it is, we would be saying, well, that's weird. That seems like
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pedophilia. But for some reason, when a boy does it, when a boy dresses like a girl, when a boy acts
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in a sexualized manner and wears makeup and wears these skimpy outfits, we're supposed to celebrate
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it as progress. And that's exactly what happened at this bar. So this bar called $3 bill, it's a gay
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bar. Desmond, the amazing, I guess, was hired to dance on stage, dressed up in drag. He was dressed
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as Gwen Stefani. Of course, he had his makeup on. He was dancing to some kind of song. And here's the
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really sick part. The patrons at this bar, these gay men, I'm guessing they were at a gay bar,
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they were throwing $1 bills at him. One patron actually walked out and reportedly said, that was
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really disturbing. And I don't know what to think of it. Yeah, because you're like a normal person.
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And you don't, you're not a pedophile. This is pedophilia. This is the glorification of
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pedophilia. Conservatives have been warning about this for a long time, that this whole
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gender fluidity movement, starting as young as five and six years old, we have parents
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saying, oh, my child identifies as a boy, even though she is biologically a girl. My
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child identifies as the opposite sex. I'm going to let my child choose their gender. And we're
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even going to go into gender blocking therapy or whatever it is. We are going to allow this
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child to transition because they identify as something different. Well, conservatives have
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posed the question. I posed it the other day on Twitter. I'm not the first person to ask this
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question. If a child, if a child like poor little 11-year-old Desmond or any other child
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has the mental capacity, has the autonomy, has the control to say, I am not a bi, I might
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be a biological boy, but I identify as a girl and I'm going to dress like a girl. If they
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have the ability and the authority to choose their gender, then why don't they have the authority
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to make other very significant life-changing or life-altering, I guess that's the same thing.
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I was trying to look for a different word and I couldn't think of it. Life-altering sexual
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decisions. So why couldn't they, for example, why couldn't Desmond say, I'm in love with this
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40-year-old man. Love is love. I feel this way. I have the capacity. I have the ability
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to choose who I want to love. So I'm going to love this person. Why isn't he allowed to say that,
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but he is allowed to say, well, my gender doesn't correspond with my sex. Both are very significant
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decisions. And of course, people on the left would say, well, gender identity and expressing your
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true self through your gender isn't the same thing as choosing to sleep with a man. I'm not saying it's
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the exact same thing. I'm saying they are both big decisions that are sexual in nature that I think
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take a level of maturity and a level of forethought, both of them, to be able to make in any kind of
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logical way whatsoever. And yet we are okay with saying yes to the fact that this little kid can
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dance on a bar and dress and drag and say that he is a girl, but we're not okay with him sleeping with
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a 40-year-old man. My question is why? And my assertion is that it is going to slide in that
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direction, that we are not going to be able to any longer logically contend that a child can choose
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their gender, but they cannot choose who they want to love no matter what age the person is that they
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want to love. We're just not going to be able to do it anymore. There is a push for the normalization
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and even the glorification of pedophilia in this child drag transgender movement. And here's how the
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logic goes. So if you believe that gender is independent from sex, so gender is something that we
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choose. Gender is just a social construct and I can decide, even though I am a biological girl, that I
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want to be a man. And if I identify as a man, it's just how I feel. Then I am a man. So if we buy into
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that, if we believe that gender and sex are completely independent, that they vary independently, that they
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really have no correlation whatsoever, then of course we believe that a child can choose their gender.
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Why not? If they're completely independent, then why wouldn't we say, of course, a five-year-old can
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choose their gender? It doesn't matter what their anatomy is. They can choose their gender as young
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as they want to because those things are completely independent. And if a child can choose their gender,
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why can't they choose other things? Why can't they also choose who they want to love? Why can't they
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also choose to be with an older man or an older woman? Why can't they choose to be with anyone that
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they want to be? That's the line of reasoning that we're seeing. It's already happening. So when leftists
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say that there's no correlation whatsoever, that that's completely absurd, that that's a slippery
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slope fallacy, all they're doing is diverting away from the logical connection that these two
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things have. No one is actually willing to answer that question. That if they have the capacity to do
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that, why don't they have the capacity to do this? And we're already seeing through this horrible story
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through Desmond the Amazing that that is exactly what is happening. The sexualization of little
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boys, that is not something to applaud. That is not something to say. Yay. That's cute. That's
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awesome. These parents, these parents of this poor 11 year old boy should be thrown into jail for child
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endangerment. They should. This is child abuse. He is an 11 year old boy. He has not even gone through
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puberty yet. His mind isn't even close to being fully developed and he is being exploited. He is being
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objectified by his parents who want to make money from his disorder. He has gender dysphoria and his
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parents are exploiting his sickness. They should be locked up for that. I feel terrible for this boy.
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I feel absolutely terribly. He should be in counseling. He should be getting help and he will
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probably never recover from this. He will be haunted from this. I don't care if you were a girl or a boy
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being objectified in this way. Someone, older men throwing dollar bills at you while you dance around
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scantily clad at a bar when you are not even a preteen yet, that's traumatizing. That's not okay
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for anyone. I don't understand how these parents are safe from law enforcement. I just don't understand.
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And yet we, we are the ones who are bigots. We are the ones who are wrong for bringing this up and for
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asking these questions. We are the ones who are crazy. Never mind the fact, never mind the fact that
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there is no solid science whatsoever behind this theory that gender and sex are independent from
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each other. But, but we're the bigots for even bringing any of that up. Um, Miss Spain, I think
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that's who it is. I don't even remember her name. She was competing in Miss Universe. She is the first
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ever transgender contestant and she didn't win. She was in an interview. I'm not going to play it for you
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because it's in Spanish and most of you are just listening to this. So, and you're not watching,
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so it's not going to help. So I'll summarize what she said. Uh, she was asked by the interviewer. I
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actually don't even know exactly what she was asked, but she was saying that, uh, she is a woman
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that she actually said, she said, you don't have to have a vagina to be a woman. And her, she said,
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having a vagina doesn't make me a woman. I am a woman up here. And she pointed to her brain. She said
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she was a woman before she was even born, um, because she feels like a woman. She thinks like a woman.
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And that is what makes her a woman. And we are supposed to applaud this. You had people all over
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Twitter saying, yes, girl, yes, this is so good. This is what we need. This is equality. This is
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progress. And I just want to know how validating insanity is progress. How is that loving? How is
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that kind? How is that compassionate to feed into this kind of delusion? Like I said, there's no science
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behind it whatsoever. People want to say that there is, but as I said on this podcast before, a really good
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way to figure out if something is universally true is to see if it has been true throughout time and
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throughout varying cultures, the inherent difference between men and women, um, the idea that biology
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actually affects behavior, actually affects preferences, actually affects how, uh, you act
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and the things that you want to do, the things that you are inclined to do that has been seen in every
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single culture throughout history for all of time. The differences between men and women are not just
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biological. They are inherent. They are behavioral. And that has always been seen. This is how I know
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this. There has never been a matriarchy. Never. A matriarchy has never existed. Not in the East,
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not in the West. Now you would think if gender, as they say, is just a social construct. If the way that
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women act now, uh, compared to how men act now, it's just a social construct that it's not inherent
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at all, then we would be able to find somewhere throughout history where women ruled, where women
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were the more aggressive ones, where women were going out and hunting, where women were laying their
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lives on the line for their territory, where they were going out and conquering and men were staying
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at home and taking care of the families that has never happened. Never happened. You cannot find a
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legitimate anthropologist who would say that there was any kind of stable or real matriarchy to speak
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of. Now there was this movement, uh, in second wave feminism that said that there were matriarchies,
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but that's been completely discounted now. So here is an excerpt and this is from Wikipedia. So you can
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take it as you will, but they have sources in this. So it's not just complete jargon. Um, so just listen
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to this, but know that it's from Wikipedia. Know that I'm not reading from an anthropology book.
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Take it as you will. So this is an excerpt. Um, and they are, like I said, there's sources to all
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of this. Most anthropologists hold that there are no known societies that are unambiguously
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matriarchal. According to J.M. Adovazio, Olga Soffer, and Jake Page, no true matriarchy is known
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actually to have existed. Anthropologist Joan Bamberger argued that the historical record contains
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no primary sources on any society in which women dominated. Anthropologist Donald Brown's list of
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human cultural universals includes men being the dominant element in public political affairs,
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which he asserts is, uh, is the contemporary opinion of mainstream anthropology. There are some
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disagreements and possible exceptions. A belief that women's rule preceded men's rule was according to
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Paviland held by many 19th century intellectuals. The hypothesis survived into the 20th century and
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was notably advanced in the context of feminism and especially second wave feminism. But, but the
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hypothesis is mostly discredited today. Most experts saying that it was never true, never true. And these
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are not some conservative activists. Matriarchies have never exist. If they even tried to exist,
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they would fail. So the fact, the fact that men have always dominated, that they have always done
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what they are still doing. They have always laid their lives on the line. They have always sacrificed
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for their family, sacrificed for their society. They've always had some kind of drive in them to
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start wars, to be the aggressor, to protect, uh, their own. And women have been the caretakers.
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They have been the nurturers. They have been the nourishers. They have been the gardeners. They have been
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the gathers, the caretakers. That means that there is something inherently different between men and
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women. We've talked about the extremely egalitarian society, at least legally of Sweden, in which there
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are extremely generous, uh, uh, parental leave systems there. And so men and women have equal parental
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leave. And so they see that as, you know, a huge win for egalitarianism and gender equality there.
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Well, there is still a huge disparity between how much men make and how much women make in Sweden.
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And that is because women tend to stay at home in Sweden. 75% of the parental leave that is taken
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is by women in Sweden. Uh, so you can't tell me that this is a social construct that is exclusive
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to America and exclusive to our sexist system. That's just not true. Men and women choose different
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things. And so when people try to push this idea on you, which is really just the beginning of the
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entire avalanche of this whole gender mess, they try to push this idea on you that just agree,
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just agree with us. They say that gender and sex are independent, that they're not the same thing,
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that a gender is something completely different from sex. Say, no, that's not true. That, that is
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not true throughout time and throughout culture. That's just not true that, that sex and gender,
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uh, vary independently. It's just not true. So no, gender and sex are very closely connected.
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They are basically synonymous. They might have different technical definitions,
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but they attach to each other in almost every single case. And yet we are, uh, rewriting our
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entire moral landscape. We are rewriting our language based on this tiny percentage of people
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who unfortunately suffer from gender dysphoria. They deserve our compassion. They deserve our
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respect. They are made in God's image. They are valuable people that deserve, um, all of our love
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and our attention. And we, uh, need to give them the help that they need. They need to be seen. They need,
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uh, to be heard. And yet we don't need to validate this, uh, dysphoria that they suffer from. And we
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certainly don't need to rearrange our entire, uh, morality and all of our principles based on their
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dysphoria. It just doesn't make any sense whatsoever. But of course this is transphobic.
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People are getting kicked off Twitter for saying that men are men and women are women because it
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completely dismantles, uh, their whole idea. And I, as I've talked about in the past, this is what
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they think is going to even the playing field. This is what they think is going to make society
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egalitarian that if men are more like women and women are more like men, then there won't be any
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disparity. There won't be any abuse. There won't be any discrimination, but we're all just be this
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amorphous blob of nothingness and gender will no longer matter. Well, that's not going to happen
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because biology doesn't change and science doesn't change. Um, so those are two of my absurd stories.
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I think I have one more absurd story, but I didn't write it down. So I don't remember what it is.
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Instead, I am going to explain something. I'm going to answer one of your questions that I have
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or that I've gotten, and I've gotten it a few times. Now, most of you know the answer to this
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question. This has nothing to do with what you're talking about, by the way. This is just a question
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that I've gotten. Um, most of you know this because you message me all the time about being a trash
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person. Um, I say that I'm a trash person. A lot of you say that you're part of my trash family.
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One of you messaged me about my trash baby, which I'm not like totally down with saying that yet.
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I'll probably get there. And, but people have asked me, what is a trash person? Some people are
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like, I'm offended by that. I'm offended that you call yourself a trash person. I don't want to call
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myself a trash person. Um, I totally understand. You might not be a trash person. I am a trash person
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and it's not a pejorative. It's not a bad thing. It's actually a good thing. I think in my opinion,
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now a trash person is the kind of person that's going to go to the grocery store and sweatpants
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and cat socks, tennis shoes, and an unmatching pullover with your hair on top of your head and
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no makeup. That's a trash person. A trash person is someone who like just doesn't care. It's not
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literal garbage. Like it's not literal like dumpster diving. My, it's not like my house is disgusting.
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I'm a trash person. And then I just like, I just like don't care about things. I don't really care
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about the finer things. I wouldn't call myself sophisticated in that way. I'm just a trash
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person. It's kind of hard to explain. Like I did this whole segment on an episode once about my
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college dorm room and how my college dorm room was just like a trash person dorm room. Like I,
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well, I don't know. We didn't care what bedding we had. We didn't care what was decorated. I'm also
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just really bad at decorating. That's definitely a sign of a trash person. Um, and how today people
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spend like thousands of dollars hiring a designer to design their freshman dorm room. And that's
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the opposite of trash person, fashion bloggers, opposite of trash people, organized people,
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opposite of trash people. So you might not be a trash person and that's totally fine.
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I just am a trash person. It really comes down to just like not caring about things. Does that make
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sense? You just don't care about the little stuff and you don't really care about what people think.
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That's what being a trash person is. So I have a trash person t-shirt that I am selling and I think
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it's shopify.com slash Allie on CRTV, LOL. That was before the merger. I think that's what it is,
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but it's actually in my LinkedIn profile and my, um, in my Instagram profile. So you should go,
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if you want a trash person t-shirt, I'm thinking about making like a trash person mug, but you guys
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use the term trash person so much. My question or someone asked me like where I got this. I don't
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know. I don't even think I came up with it. Like it's different than a garbage human. Does that make
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sense? A garbage human is a bad person, just like a morally bad person. Chelsea Handler is a garbage
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human. You know, Kamala Harris, garbage human. Trash person is endearing. I hope that makes
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sense to you. So if you want a trash person t-shirt, you should go to the link in my profile
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that is on Instagram. You should get yourself a trash person t-shirt and then we can all wear it
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together. Maybe I'll even have like a meet and greet one day and we all wear our trash person t-shirts.
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It'll be really fun. Also, if you are going to SAS in Palm Beach, Turning Point USA, I will be there
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tomorrow speaking at 9 a.m. I'm not going to be there for very long. I am coming right back home
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after that. So if you are there on Thursday night, if you are there early Friday morning,
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come say hi to me. I would love to meet you. Love to get a picture with you. I'm really excited to
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see you guys. If you're not going, that's totally fine, too. As always, if you want to invite me
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anywhere that you are. So if you are part of a Republican group in a certain city, if you speak
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or if you are on college campus and you're part of a Republican group there, the head of the group
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can reach out to me and can invite me to come speak and we'll work out the logistics with all
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of that. People always say, come to my city. I have to actually be formally invited. It's this whole
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thing. I wish it wasn't, but it is. So anyway, I hope that you guys have an awesome Christmas. I will
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be here next week, but not until Thursday. So there won't be a podcast on Christmas. There will be one
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on Thursday. And I hope that you guys have a wonderful weekend and a wonderful time with
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your families. Try not to get into any, you know, political disagreements or anything like that.
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It's just not worth it. Just love each other. Okay. Merry Christmas. Love you guys. See you next week.