Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey - September 05, 2022


Ep 672 | Should Catholics & Protestants Get Married? | Q&A


Episode Stats

Length

31 minutes

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168.95872

Word Count

5,287

Sentence Count

370

Misogynist Sentences

7

Hate Speech Sentences

19


Summary

In this episode of Relatable, Allie answers some of the most popular questions sent in by you, the listeners! What would I change about my upbringing if I could? Should Catholics and Protestants get married? How do I get through first trimester morning sickness? What are the consequences of legal euthanasia? And do Christians have to vote Republican to be Christian? We are going to be answering all of these questions and many more on today s episode of RELatable, which is brought to you by Good Ranchers.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 What would I change about my upbringing if I could? Should Catholics and Protestants get
00:00:06.200 married? How do you get through first trimester morning sickness? What are the consequences
00:00:12.560 long-term of legal euthanasia? And do Christians have to vote Republican to be Christian? We are
00:00:19.620 going to be answering all of these questions and many more on today's episode of Relatable,
00:00:23.880 which is brought to you by our friends at Good Ranchers. Go to goodranchers.com slash Allie.
00:00:28.160 That's goodranchers.com slash Allie. Hey, y'all. Welcome to Relatable. I am going to answer some
00:00:43.020 of the questions that you all sent me on Instagram. You sent me a lot of interesting ones per usual.
00:00:50.380 I will try to give a concise answer to each one. I could typically, you guys send me such good
00:00:57.480 questions that I could go off on one answer for the entirety of the episode. I will try not to do
00:01:03.360 that so I can answer as many questions as possible. So the first question, it's at the very top of my
00:01:08.900 list on Instagram that I thought was interesting. I have not been asked before. If you could change
00:01:13.660 something about how you grew up, would you and why? So I'm sure that everyone has different things that
00:01:20.960 they wish maybe were different. It could have nothing to do with anything that your parents
00:01:25.100 chose. Maybe it's like where you lived geographically, the kind of school that you went
00:01:30.580 to. I'm sure there are things that if I sat down to think about it, I could change or I would want
00:01:36.300 to change. But the first thing that comes to my mind is that I wish that I had had a sibling
00:01:40.920 that was closer in age to me. I have two older brothers, 10 and 7, 10 and a half and seven years
00:01:49.840 older than me. And my parents got married young. They started having kids young and then they just
00:01:54.500 waited a little while to have their final child, moi. And so love my brothers. But I think it's a
00:02:01.880 different dynamic when you have a sibling that's close in age and that you can just experience life
00:02:09.760 with that can just kind of like help you through those formative years. I want that for my kids.
00:02:18.160 My husband also has two sisters that are eight and six years older than him. So he was kind of in the
00:02:24.540 same situation. I didn't have a sister. He didn't have a brother and we didn't have any siblings that
00:02:29.060 were very close in age. Now it's different because we're all adults. And so we're kind of all in a
00:02:34.960 similar life stage. But growing up, I mean, I was, I think, eight years old when my oldest brother
00:02:40.380 left for college. And so I wish I had had, I wish I had had a sister that was closer in age to me.
00:02:47.960 Although I, you know, I love having, I loved having brothers. I think that would have just been fun.
00:02:52.860 All right. Here's another question. This time it's for advice. Sister is getting married, ungodly couple.
00:02:58.480 I'm a bridesmaid help. So that's difficult. I think it's probably good that they are
00:03:04.240 getting married. The union of a man and a woman and holy matrimony is a good thing.
00:03:10.580 It would be much better if they were Christians and recognize that their marriage is a reflection
00:03:15.420 of Christ, the bridegroom, and the church, the bride, that there is eternal and holy,
00:03:22.320 heavenly significance to the union that they are entering into. But you as a Christian, you know that.
00:03:27.860 And so you can celebrate that and you can pray that they would come to the recognition of that.
00:03:32.760 Maybe, I don't know, the kind of relationship that you have with your sister. I don't know if she
00:03:37.980 would be open to a conversation before her wedding or a letter, maybe just saying, you know,
00:03:45.800 hey, I love you. I'm excited for you, if that is true. And here is just something that I want you
00:03:52.820 to know. I want you to know that, you know, God made you fearfully and wonderfully. I want you to
00:03:57.240 know that God knew that you were going to get married on this day. I want you to know that,
00:04:02.400 you know, that God sent his son to die for you. Share the gospel with her and just continue to pray
00:04:08.540 for her and to be the person that comes to her mind first when she thinks, wow, I think I've lost
00:04:13.860 my way. Or I think I want to know truth. I think I want to know joy. I think I want to know freedom.
00:04:19.240 May you be the first person that comes to her mind to talk to, and may you be open to that
00:04:25.520 conversation. Since it seems to be a union of a man or a woman, I don't think there's any moral
00:04:31.140 qualms in you going to the wedding, being a part of the wedding, supporting the wedding. But yes,
00:04:38.400 I would do everything that you can to encourage, to pray, to lead by example, and to share the gospel.
00:04:46.260 Well, someone asked, does anyone check the emails on your website? Yes, I do have an assistant that
00:04:52.960 checks the emails on my website, but we have a high volume of emails. So not everyone gets a
00:04:58.060 response. We try our best to respond to everything that we can, but not everything and everyone gets
00:05:04.640 a response. We just kind of have to filter things out. I also try to answer messages on Instagram.
00:05:10.780 I don't answer as many as I wish that I could. I just don't have the capacity to do that. But I am
00:05:20.820 a pretty responsive. I'm a pretty responsive person on those things. So if I did miss your email or your
00:05:26.520 message, I am sorry about that. Someone asks, opinions on paternity leave? Ha ha. That's a good
00:05:36.700 question. I think paternity leave is great. I think the company should offer paternity leave. Now,
00:05:42.300 me thinking that companies should offer paternity leave versus thinking that the government should
00:05:47.060 force companies to offer paternity leave. Those are two different things. I do think that companies
00:05:53.400 should. That widely varies. I am so thankful that when I had both of our kids that my husband had six
00:06:01.220 weeks of paternity leave, that is very generous. I understand not all companies can afford that and
00:06:07.140 can give that. And then I think maternity leave was like three months for the moms who had babies. I
00:06:14.000 mean, they had all kinds of things like that. And so he could actually take them in like two week
00:06:19.080 chunks. So I think he took like two weeks when the babies were born and then like they all have to be
00:06:24.660 taken though within the year after birth. And so that was great. Like we could use that for
00:06:30.360 vacations and things like that. And so that was awesome. And I don't know what I would have done
00:06:37.600 if he hadn't had paternity leave. I mean, I have, as most of you know, two C-sections and their recovery
00:06:43.540 can be absolutely brutal. And we have other family in the area that I'm very thankful for. My mom was
00:06:48.500 super helpful. But I mean, your husband is the one that is next to you in bed, who is helping you
00:06:54.140 get up when you can't, like helping bathe you when you can't after surgery and like going to like get
00:07:00.480 the baby when you can't lean over to like make sure that you can nurse the baby in the middle of the
00:07:06.040 night. And so I cannot imagine my husband not having any paternity leave. I think absolutely every
00:07:13.100 company that can offer paternity leave should. It's not just so that he can have time off,
00:07:19.500 although I think that's fine and bond with the baby, but it's also so he can help the mom,
00:07:23.340 whether she had a C-section or not. There's a lot of recovery there and she needs help. She just does.
00:07:28.580 So I am all for generous paternity leave. Someone asked, how will Jesus have time with everyone in
00:07:38.540 heaven? So I think your question is, how will Jesus like have time to talk to everyone? Because
00:07:43.940 everyone will be asking him questions. Well, we will all be in one way or another worshiping
00:07:48.800 Christ. And you have to remember that heaven exists outside of time and space. And so it is not
00:07:56.420 tracking along our finite understanding of linear time. You know, one day is a thousand years.
00:08:05.260 And so, you know, figuratively speaking. And so it's not going to be the same time lapse situation
00:08:14.460 in heaven as it is here. We're not going to be counting the seconds looking at our clock saying,
00:08:20.280 oh, it's been one year, it's been two years. I'm guessing. And so because we'll be in eternity
00:08:26.320 and because Jesus is infinite, we don't have to worry about like time running out or him not having
00:08:30.720 enough time. I don't know exactly what that interaction will look like, but I'm not worried
00:08:35.820 about time running out for the God of the universe. All right. Let's see some other questions.
00:08:47.260 Thoughts on being a Protestant married to a Catholic. So I think that that would be difficult. I think that
00:08:53.360 would be difficult. Not impossible, obviously, because there are Protestants who are married to
00:08:57.920 Catholics. It depends on how firm you are and the doctrines of your faith. I would say that probably
00:09:05.600 most Catholics and Protestants that marry one or the other is not very sure or probably not very firm
00:09:16.540 in the doctrines of their faith that are in opposition to like Protestants or Catholics' faith.
00:09:23.780 I mean, I would guess that that is usually the case because if you are very passionate that salvation
00:09:30.720 is by grace through faith alone and that that is the differentiator between Catholicism and
00:09:38.760 Protestantism and you are like very firmly against infant baptism, you are very firmly against the
00:09:45.780 papacy and the structure of the Catholic Church, which like a very reformed, passionate Protestant would
00:09:51.560 be. It would be hard for me to believe that you would, you know, marry a Catholic and vice versa for
00:09:58.220 Catholics. So I would say that when it happens, there is probably some compromise on someone's part
00:10:07.540 there. I think it would be difficult for those theological reasons. You got a lot of questions to
00:10:14.420 answer about how you're going to raise your kids, what kind of church you're going to go to,
00:10:18.600 those big theological differences that you are going to implement into your kids. Infant baptism versus
00:10:25.260 believers' baptism, all kinds of things. And so those are conversations that you need to have. I think it's
00:10:33.860 much better when you don't have to agree on everything, of course, with your spouse. There are going to be
00:10:40.260 things even theologically that you disagree on. I think, though, you should agree on some of the big
00:10:47.220 things. You should agree on what kind of church you're going to go to and what kind of theology
00:10:51.680 you're going to raise your kids in and what kind of school you want them to go to. Because marriage
00:10:56.280 is already filled with disagreements. You're different people. You're bringing different sins
00:11:00.340 in. You're bringing different perspectives and experiences in. All of those things have to work
00:11:05.300 them out, have to work themselves out through, you know, relationship building. I would rather not have
00:11:13.060 to work through the big fundamental theological spiritual things in addition to all the other
00:11:19.360 natural stuff that you have to work through as a married couple. Next question, how to survive
00:11:26.280 first trimester all-day sickness dying here? Well, I'm so sorry that you're not feeling well.
00:11:32.400 It's been there, girl. I have been there. Congratulations. I don't know if this is your first or fifth
00:11:37.060 baby, but congrats on carrying life inside the womb. So I will say, and I know that this part isn't
00:11:45.120 helpful. I'll get to the helpful part. I wasn't super, super sick with either of my pregnancies.
00:11:51.300 I wasn't like throwing up or like couldn't function. There were like periods of time where I didn't want
00:11:57.480 coffee, where I didn't want certain foods. The only thing that sounded good was a Chick-fil-A chicken
00:12:01.500 biscuit. And so I would just say like, eat what you can. Don't worry too much. Of course, you want
00:12:07.800 to eat healthy. I know you want good sustenance and good nutrition for you and the baby. I'm not
00:12:12.060 saying that's not important, but it's also important that you eat. Like it's also important that you have
00:12:16.660 calories. And if the only thing that sounds good is a piece of toast or a biscuit, if that's the only
00:12:22.820 thing that you can keep down right now or some crackers, make sure you do that. Don't not eat. Make sure
00:12:28.400 that you're staying hydrated. I have used a lot of pink stork products. They're not like a sponsor
00:12:34.020 or anything. I found that they work pretty well. I had like this morning sickness tea that I took by
00:12:39.920 them that I liked. I took their labor prep tea too. And so, and they're a Christian company. So that's
00:12:47.300 pretty cool. Their stuff is made in America. I'm just giving them some free advertising. So maybe,
00:12:52.640 maybe some tools can help. Some people recommended, and I did this, I think, I think that I did this
00:13:00.500 towards the end of my pregnancy because I dealt with nausea. Then please double check and do your
00:13:04.780 own research on this because I don't entirely remember. But there was a time that I was nauseous.
00:13:11.860 And so I diffused like peppermint oil and that can help with nausea. I did that during labor too.
00:13:20.080 Um, and so that's maybe something to consider, but please do your research on that and make sure
00:13:25.480 that you are doing it safely and that it's safe for you. Also remember it's temporary. It's temporary
00:13:30.460 unless you have like permanent nausea throughout your pregnancy, which some people do, but you will
00:13:36.160 probably start feeling better if not around week 12, around week 16. That's what it was for me from
00:13:42.480 week 16 to like week 32. That was my sweet spot. Before that didn't feel great. After that, I just
00:13:50.260 get huge and my hips hurt and I can't sleep. But 16 to 32 weeks, especially if you haven't been
00:13:56.220 pregnant before and you don't know about like the second trimester sweet spot, it's coming. So just
00:14:00.940 hang on. Um, all right, let's see. Someone asks infant baptism or says infant baptism wants me to talk
00:14:08.840 about that. I cover that on a recent episode. We'll link it in the description of this episode
00:14:16.260 because I can't remember the number. Um, let's see. What do I think about horror movies? Don't love
00:14:24.000 them. I don't, I mean, I don't think that they're the most edifying thing. I can take a little bit of
00:14:29.720 fear. I can take suspense. I, you know, I'll get in like the, the mood for those kinds of movies and
00:14:35.860 those kinds of shows. I'm okay with that, but terrifying horror movies with like exorcism and
00:14:41.500 satanic activity. There's a lot of actually like real scary things that go on in the world that
00:14:47.360 already make me sad and burdened. I don't really want to spend my like leisure entertainment time
00:14:52.860 also just like weighing down my brain with things that are going to make me more anxious than the
00:14:58.100 world already does. Um, my, I want my wife and I to move away. Someone says she wants to stay local.
00:15:06.300 What's your advice? My husband and I were also in this situation. Um, 2016, we lived in Athens, Georgia
00:15:15.520 and he wanted to move to a bigger city and I did not. I was happy doing what I was doing. I wasn't doing
00:15:23.880 this. I knew I wanted to do something like this one day and I was just kind of starting to like
00:15:28.340 write a blog and do videos, but I figured I can do all of that from home. I don't need,
00:15:32.840 I don't need to move anywhere. Well, he wanted to move to a different place. I did not want to. I was
00:15:39.500 like very sure I was set on it. I had like my plan of how the next two years would go. I told him,
00:15:46.400 okay, I think maybe we can reconsider this in a couple of years. And, um, he just continued to
00:15:54.420 pray about it and we continued to talk about it. And this was probably like the first big,
00:15:58.980 cause we got married in 2015. So this is probably like the first big thing,
00:16:02.620 major thing that I was like, okay, this is what it's going to look like to follow him as the leader
00:16:09.420 of our family. Um, and if he is saying that he thinks that it's best for us and best for his job
00:16:16.340 for us to move, then I need to trust him on that. So after a lot of prayer and a lot of talking,
00:16:20.840 it just kind of hit me at the beginning of 2017 that, okay, this is right. He's right. He ended up
00:16:27.900 getting the job and we moved and wow, that was like the best decision for our family that we could
00:16:35.360 have made. I mean, it was the exactly right thing for our family, our jobs, and, uh, for our future
00:16:42.520 children. We didn't have kids yet at the time. And so I guess my advice is to keep praying,
00:16:48.780 keep talking about it. You don't let this drive a wedge between you guys. Don't let this like,
00:16:54.900 don't allow this to, um, be used by Satan to start harboring resentment or bitterness against her.
00:17:03.080 And I hope that your wife doesn't allow that to faster against you because Satan can use this to
00:17:09.560 divide. Remember that Satan hates marriage. He hates the unity of a married man and a woman. He
00:17:15.100 hates the family because it is a representation of Christ in the church, his arch nemesis. Um,
00:17:20.340 and so he will use anything, any kind of disagreement to try to drive you apart and to damage your
00:17:26.440 relationship and to make you less loving and gentle towards one another. And so examine your own heart,
00:17:32.780 make sure that you are listening to the Lord, that you have been praying about this, that you have
00:17:37.520 thought about this practically, that you are making the right decision with the right motivations.
00:17:43.060 Talk to some other godly people in your life. Make sure that you're plugged into a church.
00:17:47.260 Listen to your wife's concerns. Her concerns may be totally legit and she may be making better points,
00:17:54.340 but if you feel convicted by the facts, uh, the facts at hand and by the power of the Holy Spirit that you
00:18:02.920 need to move, then you need to pray, pray, um, that the Lord would change your wife's heart. Even if she
00:18:10.720 doesn't want to move, that she would realize that in godly and loving submission to the good and loving
00:18:17.900 leadership of her husband, um, that she should support, um, this decision. That is how it is to go.
00:18:28.320 So a lot of prayer, a lot of conversation. Um, let's see. Next question. View on euthanasia,
00:18:39.560 10,000 plus Canadians chose to use in 2021. Will it be an option in the USA? Well, the death cult,
00:18:47.460 um, that exists in the USA, uh, would absolutely love this. They call it dying with dignity,
00:18:53.920 just like abortion. Dying with dignity is a euphemism. It's a euphemism for, uh, assisted
00:19:01.120 suicide, which I think is a form at least of manslaughter. Again, this goes back to, as we've
00:19:09.240 talked about before, like when consent is the bare, when consent is the only standard for morality,
00:19:17.280 and decency and virtue, rather than just like the bare minimum standard, then you get things like
00:19:24.040 assisted suicide. Just because someone consents to something, just because someone chooses something
00:19:30.660 doesn't mean that it should be legal. Doesn't mean that it's none of our business. Doesn't mean that
00:19:35.120 it's right. This not only will lead to sick people, to weak people, to people who are too much of a burden
00:19:43.160 on the system, especially socialized system in Canada, being convinced by doctors, by family members,
00:19:50.700 that they just need to die. This is not going to be one of those situations where totally autonomous
00:19:56.720 people, and even if it were, like it would still be wrong, but it's not going to be one of those
00:20:00.440 situations where totally autonomous people are taking matters into their own hands. No, what it's going
00:20:05.500 to turn into is people who are too weighty on the system and are not productive or valuable enough
00:20:12.840 to society being killed. And they will coerce and convince and manipulate them to sign the dotted line
00:20:20.920 and to agree to be euthanized. That's what's going to happen. And it just comes from our disregard for
00:20:30.280 human life, which is downstream from our disregard for God as the creator of the heavens and the earth,
00:20:37.540 as the creator of human beings, as the ascriber and the giver of value and worth. It is downstream
00:20:45.140 assisted suicide, abortion, the genital mutilation of kids is all downstream from secular humanism,
00:20:52.520 which views us all as arbitrary blobs of matter, as accidental clumps of cells.
00:20:59.500 The Christian worldview, which is the only rational and moral worldview, says that no,
00:21:06.820 no, no, the body is good. The body is and can be the dwelling place for the Holy Spirit. No,
00:21:13.580 the body was made male or female in God's image. The body matters so much that Jesus took on flesh.
00:21:21.200 God took on flesh to dwell among us. The body matters so much that we are told in Scripture that
00:21:26.060 there will be a resurrection of the bodies. And so the Christian worldview cares about lives. We care
00:21:33.820 about the vulnerable people. We care about the sick. We care about the orphan. We care about the
00:21:40.120 victims. That is why almost every organization that helps the poor, that feeds the hungry, that heals the
00:21:50.240 sick. Hospitals, non-profit organizations, refugee organizations, all have a Christian name and
00:21:57.880 were founded by Christians. That is what Christians do. So Christians should oppose this. It creates and
00:22:04.080 further exacerbates the culture of death that has already been waged by abortion activists and those
00:22:13.580 who do not care about the body, who do not believe in a soul. Of course, the ghouls at the World Economic
00:22:19.300 Forum who think that our biggest problem is overpopulation, their Malthusian dread of running
00:22:25.780 out of resources because of too many people, leads them, which again is downstream from not believing in
00:22:32.420 God, leads them to push for absolutely atrocious and morally bankrupt policies like abortion and like
00:22:40.420 assisted suicide. We absolutely must oppose it. And it doesn't surprise me at all that Canada has
00:22:46.260 embraced it. Their morality is completely inverted, completely upside down. Let's see. Someone
00:22:55.180 asked me. So there's lots of questions and I'm just scrolling through it.
00:23:04.260 Um, do I really think, this probably doesn't come from a friendly, do you really think all good
00:23:11.760 Christians vote Republican? No, I don't. I think that some Christians vote third party. I think some
00:23:17.380 Christians don't vote at all. I think they're, I mean, yes, I think that there are genuine Christians
00:23:23.700 who vote Democrat. I think they're wrong. I think that Christians, true Christians who vote Democrat,
00:23:29.160 I mean, Christians make mistakes all the time. Christians have wrong beliefs. Christians do wrong things.
00:23:33.900 So for me to say that you cannot be a Christian and vote Democrat would be to say that you can't
00:23:39.560 make a mistake and you can't sin and still go to heaven. Now, do I think that you can simultaneously
00:23:46.020 hold, um, the, all the beliefs of the Democratic party, all the beliefs of progressivism and be
00:23:55.160 a true Christian? Not for very long. Like eventually you're going to get, have to get sanctified out of
00:24:02.720 those things. I'm not saying all of them are deal breakers, but if you are, um, pro LGBTQ,
00:24:11.580 if you are pro abortion, uh, then that something's got to give at some point, it would be really
00:24:21.920 difficult for you to follow the God of the universe, for you to be denying yourself, taking up your cross
00:24:27.580 and following Christ and therefore believing what his word says is authoritative and believe all of the
00:24:36.520 major and, um, main points of the progressive Democrat platform. That would just be really difficult. I'm not
00:24:46.420 saying, because thankfully I'm not the arbiter of this, that you can't go to heaven. I'm not saying that you have to
00:24:51.800 vote Republican. There are plenty of ungodly Republicans out there, but when I'm looking at what
00:24:58.120 the Bible says and looking at which kind of like earthly philosophy and earthly system best aligns
00:25:07.040 with human flourishing and human thriving, and also allows me to abide by God's word. I mean, of course,
00:25:14.620 that's why I have this podcast, because I do think conservatism best flows out of a biblical worldview. Of course
00:25:22.060 I do. Um, and so that does not mean that everyone votes the same way, but when it comes to the platforms, when it
00:25:31.320 comes to the points, when it comes to the values, yeah, it's going to be really hard for you to abide in God's word
00:25:39.000 and support the platform of the current Democratic Party. You either do not understand the current
00:25:47.260 platform of the Democratic Party. You don't understand the effects of their policies on
00:25:51.520 people's lives. You don't, you don't understand the value system and the morality that they represent.
00:25:57.740 You don't know the consequences of their policy, whether it's economic policy or social policy. You're just
00:26:03.480 totally ignorant of those things and you've believed, oh yeah, it's just compassionate, tolerant,
00:26:07.260 and, and right to vote Democrat. And Jesus calls us to be compassionate and tolerant and loving. So that must
00:26:13.740 be right. Or, you know, all of the points of the Democratic Party and progressivism, and you don't know your
00:26:21.000 Bible. It would be, you'd be hard pressed to really fully understand those things and then successfully reconcile
00:26:28.000 them. That said, once again, lots and lots of Republicans, a lot of people who are conservatives who think that
00:26:36.560 being a Christian just means saying that you believe in God and going to church sometimes. And so I'm not
00:26:42.980 at all saying that conservatism or Republicanism is salvific in any way. There's a lot of just not
00:26:50.800 Christians on the right, of course. But when I'm looking at the thoughts or like the philosophy, the
00:26:56.260 ideas, the points of conservatism versus progressivism and weigh them against the Bible,
00:27:01.440 it's no contest. It's no contest. Um, uh, let's see.
00:27:12.800 Have I watched? Oh, this is a good question. Have I watched Uncle Tom 2 yet? I've been meaning to talk
00:27:18.400 about this. Yes, I have. Everyone should go watch Uncle Tom 2. Um, I watched it. I watched it at the
00:27:24.580 premiere with my husband and it was really good, like very compelling, very well made. Our, our man, Votie
00:27:32.700 Bauckham is in it. Our, uh, peeps, Daryl Harrison, Virgil Walker are in it. I mean, I love those guys so much
00:27:42.180 and I'm very thankful that they were given a voice. So definitely go watch Uncle Tom 2. It's really
00:27:49.380 interesting. Like there were so many different pieces of it that could have just been like their
00:27:52.920 own documentary. You will definitely learn a lot. Do I think that there will be a red wave in November?
00:28:00.500 I think that it, I think that the, that Republicans will take over the House. I don't know about the
00:28:06.640 Senate. I don't think it's going to be a huge red wave. I do think that as other conservative
00:28:11.080 commentators are saying that Republicans are losing momentum. I do think that the abortion issue
00:28:17.080 actually is, is a bigger deal than Republicans thought it would be mostly because of lies from
00:28:24.120 the media saying, Oh, you know, this has caused women with miscarriages to not be able to get
00:28:28.780 abortions. So people are scared. Um, so I think that it will be like a red trickle. I do think that
00:28:36.780 definitely Republicans will win some seats. Do I think it's going to be a tidal wave? No, I don't think
00:28:41.320 so. Ever been to Scotland. It's home for me now, but I live in, or it's home for me, but I live in
00:28:46.700 Missouri now. I miss it, but not since 2020. I know it's gotten so crazy. Yes, I have been to
00:28:51.540 Scotland. Um, I studied abroad there when I was in college from, for, I don't know, five or so months.
00:28:57.520 We lived in Edinburgh and lived in an apartment on Queen street. I was actually just talking to my
00:29:02.140 husband about this last night, how looking back, it was pretty small apartment, but I don't know.
00:29:07.420 It was probably considered nice for European standards. Speaking of European standards,
00:29:12.800 they, we had like our, the washing machine situation was just a washing machine in the kitchen
00:29:19.640 and the dryer was just like spinning it really fast after it got done washing. Oh my goodness,
00:29:30.760 guys. Like we are very, very fortunate and privileged in the U S of a, I saw, um, Sagar and
00:29:38.900 Jenny, we've had him on before. And he was like doing this whole thread a few months ago about how
00:29:43.760 Europe is just terrible. And I don't totally agree with that. Although I would not want to live there
00:29:49.180 for several reasons. And, uh, he, I think he was talking about like washer and dryers or something
00:29:54.380 like that. And someone responded was like, whatever, like I can wash and dry my jeans in all in all in
00:30:03.940 one machine. And they are completely dry by the next day. L O L, you know, that our jeans are like
00:30:10.800 dry in like 30 minutes, bro. Come on. Um, but I do love Scotland, loved Scotland. I would, I want to go
00:30:18.740 back. I know it's crazy, but I really, I, you know, politically and all that over there, but I loved
00:30:25.120 it. I would love to go when it was warmer. It was really cold while I was there. And really like,
00:30:29.580 I just wasn't there long enough for it to even warm up. So it was really rainy, all that. But, um,
00:30:35.520 wow, it was beautiful. Edinburgh is beautiful. I did not have a great time in Glasgow. It's Glasgow,
00:30:40.980 right? Cause it was so rainy. Um, but yeah, that was fun. That was fun studying abroad. I got to go to
00:30:47.000 Paris. I got to go to London. I got to go to Rome and Naples, uh, Barcelona. I'm trying to think,
00:30:54.960 uh, the, uh, Amsterdam. That was super fun. That was maybe one of like my favorite places that I
00:30:59.800 went, even though it was also very cold and rainy, had huge pancakes, went to Anne Frank's house,
00:31:05.200 saw all kinds of like architecture and stuff. So that was super fun. Uh, okay. I think that's all I
00:31:11.300 have time for, uh, as far as questions go. Anyway, hope you enjoyed this. We will see you
00:31:16.620 back here soon.