Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey - December 08, 2022


Ep 721 | Covid Jab or Death, Drag Queens or Bust | Guests: Kirk Cameron, Chrissy & Lee Hicks


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39 minutes

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175.38077

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7,005

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496

Misogynist Sentences

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10


Summary

A 14-year-old girl in North Carolina is being denied a life-saving kidney transplant at Duke Durham Medical Center because of her parents' refusal to give her the COID vaccine. After talking to the Hicks family, we will talk to Kurt Cameron, who is here to discuss getting barred from at least 50 children s libraries for his new book, The Fruit of the Spirit.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 A 14-year-old girl in North Carolina is being denied a life-saving kidney transplant at Duke
00:00:06.200 Durham Medical Center because of her parents' refusal to give her the COVID vaccine.
00:00:11.720 Chrissy and Lee Hicks say Dr. Dan Chang and Dr. Eileen Cy Chambers, as well as a committee at
00:00:18.460 the hospital, are telling them that their child must get a vaccine that she does not want or need,
00:00:24.800 or that they will not perform a surgery to save her little life. Chrissy and Lee are Christians.
00:00:33.280 They're an army family. They adopted Yulia and her brother from Ukraine early last year.
00:00:39.280 They love her as their own flesh and blood, and they are begging for help for their daughter.
00:00:46.140 They are with me today to tell their whole story. It is emotional. It is unbelievable. But we have
00:00:53.380 the power right now to raise a respectful ruckus and to rally around them as the body of Christ and
00:00:59.200 help as much as we can. Also, after talking to the Hicks family, we will talk to Kurt Cameron.
00:01:04.820 He is here to discuss getting barred from at least 50 children's libraries for their story hour.
00:01:10.660 They all denied his request to read his new book at a story hour, which is about the fruit of the
00:01:15.660 spirit. And of course, this must be because Kurt Cameron made the mistake of wearing men's clothing
00:01:21.860 while reading rather than putting on makeup and fishnets. We will also discuss his new movie about
00:01:29.060 adoption. So two conversations to do with adoption today, and both conversations in their own different
00:01:35.720 ways remind us that this world is not our home, that the hope that we have does not rest here,
00:01:42.260 and that we have a lot of work to do to shine light in the darkness while we are still on earth.
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00:02:36.880 Chrissy Lee, thank you so much for joining us. If one of you could tell us a little bit before we
00:02:49.380 even get into the story about your daughter, if you could just tell us a little bit about who you
00:02:54.080 are. Chrissy, you can answer that. Well, my husband's retired military. We've been a military
00:03:00.920 family living all over the country and the world. We have 11 children. Three of them are adopted for
00:03:06.860 eight of them are biological children. And we're a homeschooling family. We're into swimming and
00:03:13.420 football. Yeah. And you have found yourself now embroiled in a new story, a controversy with a
00:03:21.440 hospital, Durham Duke Hospital Medical Center. And it is about your 14-year-old daughter, Yulia. Is that
00:03:29.940 how you pronounce her name? Yes. And she has a genetic kidney disorder. She needs surgery.
00:03:36.860 And the hospital is saying she cannot get this surgery without getting the COVID vaccine. Is that
00:03:42.180 correct, Lee? That is correct. And in fact, the hospital actually plays semantics with us.
00:03:49.160 We probed them on the requirement to have the vaccine shot. They said it's not a requirement. It's
00:03:54.780 actually a recommendation. But if you don't follow their recommendation, then we won't get the
00:03:59.680 kidney transplant. So that makes it a requirement. But they just keep playing semantics with us on that
00:04:06.460 topic. So tell us about what this process has been like. When did you guys find out that she needed a
00:04:13.320 kidney transplant for this disorder? So we got Yulia and her brother, Vanya, in January of 2021. They had
00:04:22.720 been through two other families in America. We had three-hour notice to pick them up from the airport.
00:04:29.620 And we brought them to our house because we knew of them. We knew Yulia had a kidney disorder. But
00:04:35.980 they kind of fell off our radar. We adopted another girl from the Ukraine. That's how we knew who they
00:04:40.900 were. So we took them to Duke immediately because I didn't know how long it had been since she'd been
00:04:46.000 seen. And then we started being seen by Duke in January of 2021. And how quickly did they tell you,
00:04:55.360 all right, she's going to have to have this kidney transplant? We already knew she needed one. What the
00:05:01.700 issue was is dialysis. So she needed to go on dialysis basically immediately. Her kidneys, I think, were at
00:05:07.480 like 13% function or something when we got her. So but they would not do the dialysis port until she had
00:05:15.860 a stable social environment. And so we had kind of felt that God was tugging us anyways to adopt these
00:05:21.840 two children. And so we were able to get the adoption through in 90 days, which is miraculous in
00:05:27.080 and of itself. All right. And so this was beginning towards the middle of 2021, correct? Correct. So her
00:05:36.240 port was actually put in July of 2021. We adopted her in April. She had the surgery to place the port in
00:05:42.100 July of 2021 and then started dialysis at home in August of 2021. So the majority of her care is
00:05:49.100 done at home. I do her treatment at night, every night. And at that point in 2021, when you brought
00:05:56.620 them to Durham Duke Hospital, did they say anything about her or you guys needing a COVID vaccine?
00:06:04.400 At that time, it was not. I don't think they even had it for children yet until maybe March or April
00:06:11.820 of 2021. So as soon as it became available, I was at an appointment and the nurse practitioner said,
00:06:17.900 OK, it's available now. Let's give her the shot. And I said, no, we're not going to take it right now.
00:06:23.080 We don't feel comfortable. And so she said, OK, but you just remember no vaccine, no transplant. And I
00:06:29.320 said, well, we'll cross that bridge when we get to it. Wow. And so through the next 16 months,
00:06:33.420 occasionally they would bring it up to us like, you know, you need to get the vaccine. And I said,
00:06:37.440 well, we'll talk about it when we get to transplant. Right. And so that was the only
00:06:43.420 response. But at that point, I'm sure that you guys were troubled by this, knowing the prospect
00:06:49.940 that, I mean, she would be getting a transplant or needing a transplant sometime soon. And so what were
00:06:56.840 the kind of behind the scenes conversations like, Lee, did you talk about, OK, are we going to have to
00:07:03.400 move or what were you thinking kind of the process would be?
00:07:07.820 No, I thought. So at that point, we were in up until about a few weeks ago, we were hopeful that
00:07:15.140 the doctors would not we would go and do a transplant without it. We understood that there
00:07:20.120 were other patients that had received a kidney without the vaccine, the COVID-19 vaccine. So we
00:07:26.180 were hopeful that the doctors would see would allow us to go ahead and go through the surgery
00:07:33.500 without the vaccine. And it wasn't until just a few weeks ago that when we had our final
00:07:37.960 workup for a unit to get her surgery, that the doctors then at that point in time said,
00:07:46.260 hey, you're going to have to have the vaccine in order to get to hit the kidney.
00:07:50.760 And that was that was a doctor lead. That was the director of the program.
00:07:55.720 And so we talked to her. We also talked to infectious disease doctor, and he said it was
00:07:59.820 not a requirement. It was it was just a recommendation and that he wished he could
00:08:04.200 make a requirement, but it couldn't. And so we were hopeful at that point in time that we would
00:08:08.440 still be able to get the kidney without the vaccine. And what did they say when they're telling
00:08:14.540 you this? And obviously you're saying, no, we're not going to do this. What what did they say to try
00:08:20.220 to persuade you? What did they say their reasoning is why this child needs a vaccine in order to get
00:08:27.740 a life saving surgery? So the other thing I want to just add real quick before I answer that question
00:08:34.460 is that Yulia already had COVID and she recovered from it in I believe it was January of 2022. It was a
00:08:40.880 24 hour. She had a little bit of a cough, sniffles and a fever. She did test positive for COVID,
00:08:48.020 but she got over in 24 hours. She was completely 100 percent. A lot of kids do. Right. Right. And so
00:08:54.620 when they were telling us that we needed to get the vaccine, I said, well, can we test her titers to
00:08:59.380 even see what her natural antibody level is? But of course, we were shut down that they're not going
00:09:05.020 to do that. Dr. Chang said, I don't know if you've heard the call that national file recorded and put
00:09:09.900 out said that it was it's better to have natural immunity with the vaccine immunity, which has been
00:09:17.220 proven false also. But they're trying to tell us that they want to boost her immunity as high as
00:09:21.960 possible before she gets the transplant. But what we've been saying is like, well, before kids could
00:09:27.260 get the vaccine and they got transplants, what did you do if they got COVID? And they said, well,
00:09:32.040 we had treatments. And I'm thinking, why can't we just do the same thing? Like we're choosing to not
00:09:37.320 take this vaccine. If she gets COVID, why can't we still use those same treatments?
00:09:53.320 And so when they are met with a question like that, what is their response just kind of to shut
00:10:01.160 you down? You have to have the vaccine. Yes. So they just repeat the same line. They're not even
00:10:06.040 really trying to reason with you. Did you feel like these doctors, Dr. Dan Chang, he's a pediatric
00:10:12.860 infectious disease specialist. And then Dr. Chambers, did you feel like they were being kind
00:10:18.040 and understanding to your concerns? Or do you, did you feel like they were just dismissive?
00:10:25.000 Very dismissive. Very, I will say draconian about the whole thing. And that's basically what they said.
00:10:30.840 If you're not going to follow our recommendation, uh, then you're not going to get a kidney.
00:10:35.400 In fact, uh, in the appointment with Dr. Chang, I broke down in tears because I said,
00:10:39.780 what you're doing is horrible. You've put us in a terrible position.
00:10:44.800 Yeah. And so in his, the other baffling thing to us is that we have been totally, uh, compliant with
00:10:53.740 what they've asked us to do all the way through this point. So she's been the model patient. She's
00:10:59.120 not had any issues at all. In fact, they always tell us that she has, she is a great patient. She
00:11:04.940 has been doing everything we've asked, they've asked us to do. And she looks great. She looks
00:11:09.380 healthy. She looks, uh, except for her kidneys are failing. And now we're at the point where we need
00:11:14.300 a transplant because her kidneys are failing. And now they're denying the kidney.
00:11:18.280 And Chrissy, I know that it's emotional. I can see you holding back tears and I just
00:11:24.900 want you to know that it's, I mean, it's okay. It's okay to cry. We've got thousands and thousands
00:11:31.200 of moms listening right now who can at least imagine what you are feeling as parents. And can you,
00:11:39.900 I know it might be difficult. I know it's so difficult to talk when you're feeling this much
00:11:43.800 understandable emotion, but can you just tell us both of you, like, what have the feelings
00:11:48.940 been as you have tried to navigate this? And as you are facing a choice between giving her a vaccine
00:11:56.740 that she does not need and this surgery, which is necessary to save her life.
00:12:05.880 It's been stressful. Um, we we've always, it's kind of always been looming. So every time we would go to
00:12:12.080 another appointment, you know, I would really have to steady myself like, okay, it's coming.
00:12:16.280 Just be prepared for them to ask for it again. But after our big meeting where they told us like
00:12:21.280 it was mandatory, I just stopped going to appointments and they sent my husband because
00:12:24.860 the stress level was just too much. Because they would tend to bully Chrissy, uh, to get the vaccine
00:12:31.380 and continue to press and press and press. But when I go, they don't ever, they don't really impress me
00:12:35.600 at all about it. I just tell them, Hey, no, we're not going to do it. And they don't say anything else
00:12:40.140 to me. So yeah, it's just, it's just stressful situation all the way around because here we are,
00:12:46.840 this child has been, has been her and her brother. There's so much lately in the last few years. I
00:12:52.100 mean, we got a family that adopted him in 2018 and that didn't work out after about a year. They
00:12:56.380 sent the boy back to Ukraine, uh, to just go away. And then it sent her to Arizona, to another family
00:13:03.200 to kind of go away. And then that family kept her for about four months and then sent her back
00:13:07.760 after they got her brother back and, uh, after about a month. And then, so then we got, like,
00:13:14.380 so Chrissy said earlier, we got a phone call because I, uh, from someone else from the Dodge
00:13:18.180 station that I met in Ukraine, um, knew we were close to Raleigh and said, Hey, can you go pick
00:13:24.660 these two up? Cause they're going to be arriving in about three hours and no one's going to come to
00:13:28.500 get them except for the police. So sure. We, I said, absolutely. We'll go get them. Um, and so
00:13:34.460 we did, and we were just going to keep it for the weekend, try to figure out what's going
00:13:38.240 to happen. So we rearranged our lives a little bit to kind of help rectify the situation that
00:13:43.380 they were under. And now when we, of course we adopted them, uh, without hesitation really,
00:13:49.380 because we said, Hey, this is what God wants us to do. So we're going to do it. And now we're at
00:13:53.840 this point of getting a kidney where she needs it. And it's doctors are saying no, because you won't
00:13:59.060 get this, this, uh, vaccine, which has been known to hurt children. In fact, I've had some people
00:14:04.920 reach out to either myself or friends that have said, well, my child is being seen at Duke and
00:14:10.040 they haven't told me I need a COVID vaccine. And I said, well, have you been through the
00:14:13.180 committee yet? And they said, no. And I said, well, that's where they'll get you. You have
00:14:16.900 to sit before, not us, but our, her packet will sit before committee. And then they'll decide
00:14:21.800 from the criteria, whether or not she can be activated or the child can be activated onto
00:14:25.780 the, um, kidney transplant list. And that's when we were rejected solely for the COVID vaccine.
00:14:31.300 Okay. So let's see, I have a little bit of this. So October 7th, you had an eight hour
00:14:36.900 appointment at Duke to talk to these doctors. Dr. Eileen Sidechambers, the pediatric kidney
00:14:41.780 specialist was the one pushing the vaccine. Dr. Dan Chang, pediatric infectious disease specialist
00:14:47.140 said he highly recommended it, but that it was not mandatory. Correct. And that families had
00:14:53.080 gotten transplants without it. Um, but when it, so then, but on November 9th, so you were hopeful,
00:14:59.960 but on November 9th, you got an email from Catherine Thomas, a wellness coordinator stating that
00:15:04.060 what vaccines Yulia needed, the first email was what they recommended. Then in a second email,
00:15:09.040 the verbiage changed to what she must have or what was required. Then November 10th, as you were just
00:15:14.700 saying, Chrissy, Yulia was presented to the committee. Her packet was presented to the committee
00:15:19.820 and then denied because of, uh, the lack of the vaccine. So are they essentially saying that it's
00:15:27.900 better for her to die from kidney failure? I mean, I don't want to put words in their mouth,
00:15:34.060 but they're denying us a kidney because we won't get the vaccine. That is supposedly not a requirement,
00:15:38.980 just a recommendation. And HPV. Yeah. They also want her to have the HPV, which we haven't really
00:15:43.960 talked about that one much, but that's completely unnecessary. Totally unnecessary. And also has
00:15:48.660 potential side effects. So for the people who say, well, gosh, why don't you just get it? Obviously
00:15:55.220 it's a matter of life and death for your daughter. Why not just get the vaccine and just comply? What
00:16:01.780 do you say to those people? I can't, I can't in good conscience. No, it's, it's, it's, it's
00:16:09.040 uncomfortable. Actually, the whole thing is just, if we don't have the right to choose what we decide
00:16:15.620 is, is injected into our body, then I think we've lost all of our rights. We're no longer
00:16:21.420 in charge of our own body. Now it's up to the government to decide what, or the medical community,
00:16:25.740 what's, what's going to be injected in our body. We have no choice of it anymore. And said that this,
00:16:31.140 I don't understand. And this is what frustrates me the most. And I don't understand.
00:16:34.180 You know, we looked at it, we said, this is a risk that we're willing to accept. And I even told that
00:16:39.620 to the Dr. Chamberlain, I said, this is a risk we're willing to accept. Why can we not have the,
00:16:44.240 the, the kidney? And she basically said, because we're putting her staff at risk,
00:16:49.520 but I'm not sure how that's possible if they've got the vaccine.
00:16:51.980 And boosted. Exactly. Right. So they're vaccinated, their staff is vaccinated and boosted,
00:16:58.160 but apparently that is not enough because your daughter who has already had COVID might potentially
00:17:05.100 maybe be infected with COVID at the exact same time that she is having her transplant. And then maybe
00:17:12.340 give it to the staff there who not only have been vaccinated and boosted, but are wearing the masks,
00:17:17.740 which we've been told a million times are so protective. They're completely foolproof.
00:17:22.480 So none of that is enough. We have to put your daughter at risk who is already at risk in a lot
00:17:27.440 of ways because of her low kidney function. We have to give her this risky vaccine because
00:17:33.120 all of the adults in the room apparently aren't willing to take the risk of potentially getting a
00:17:39.100 cold. That's what's going on. Exactly. Exactly. Yeah. And I just, in good conscience,
00:17:44.340 I'm sorry, I broke down earlier. We can't, we can't give her this vaccine. I know
00:17:47.540 that God will make a way for us. There will be someplace else in this country that says,
00:17:51.320 come here, we will give your daughter a vaccine. I mean, give your daughter the transplant and it
00:17:55.620 will be harder on our family. It will be logistically a lot harder, but we're willing to take that,
00:18:00.440 take it on to not be forced to give her a vaccine. Yes. Well, I just have to believe that it is
00:18:07.720 the providence of God that she, that Yulia was passed around, unfortunately just
00:18:14.200 breaks my heart that she was given to one family, sent back, given to another family,
00:18:20.740 sent back. She's given to you all. You all didn't even plan this. God planned it. And he knew that
00:18:27.480 you were the exact parents that were going to protect her, that were going to show her what the
00:18:34.380 gospel is. I mean, we are adopted by God when we did nothing to deserve that. And God keeps us even
00:18:41.020 when it is difficult. He protects us and leads us beside still waters, even when we want to go
00:18:48.860 astray. And in a similar way, you are with your daughter through difficult times to when people are
00:18:55.800 trying to pull her in different directions and give her, and you are trying to give her that which is
00:19:01.340 good. So this is a picture of the gospel. And I have to believe that God is using something so evil
00:19:07.980 for his glory and to show people what the love of Christ looks like through adoption.
00:19:16.060 Amen. Can you tell us? And if you, I hope one day somebody that you all get to meet Yulia,
00:19:22.320 she's the happiest child. Like you would never guess that she's been through what she's been through
00:19:26.440 because she just keeps going with a smile on her face. She doesn't just keep going. She's happy
00:19:32.120 and joyful all the time. Right. Amen. She's an amazing, amazing child. I'm so thankful for that.
00:19:38.660 And I do believe that she is going to have an incredible testimony and that possibly God can
00:19:43.540 use this story to make a change across the country because I'm sure Yulia is not the only one
00:19:48.680 who is facing this kind of ultimatum. So I know people can obviously pray for you. They can try
00:19:55.940 to follow your story. But if you're looking at other hospitals to get this surgery, it's probably
00:20:02.520 going to be expensive. And as you said, it's going to be logistically harder. You guys have 11 children.
00:20:08.420 So tell people how they can support you. I know people are just looking for ways to kind of buoy you
00:20:15.800 during this time. So we had a friend set up a give, send, go for us. It's give, send, go.com
00:20:22.180 backslash kidney for Yulia. It's with a Y Y U L I A. And we were advised to, you know, increase the
00:20:29.420 amount that we're looking for because we do have, we are, we have retained a lawyer. So we're going to
00:20:34.260 have legal expenses on top of all the travel. And we have vowed that whatever money is left over,
00:20:39.140 we will help another family in our same situation. Yes. Well, thank you so much for being willing
00:20:45.360 to tell this story. As you know, it's hard. It's difficult to do. It's very emotional.
00:20:51.340 You're talking about your daughter facing death. And, um, I can't imagine. I just can't. It's a,
00:20:57.740 it's a parent's worst nightmare. And I hope that this wakes people up, but I know that there are
00:21:04.880 going to be millions of people praying for you. Um, thank you so much. We can feel the prayers
00:21:09.740 already. I feel like, um, we just know that there's a way, like it's hard, but we just know that
00:21:14.600 there's a way forward. Yes. And I believe that too. And I'm going to be praying so hard for you
00:21:19.120 all. And I hope that we can stay in touch and I can stay updated on this. Um, thank you guys for
00:21:24.980 taking the time. Thank you so much.
00:21:39.660 Guys, evil is among us. I mean, if we didn't already know that the medical industrial complex
00:21:46.940 and the power that it has, I mean, it would only get worse by the way, with government run healthcare,
00:21:54.820 you think this is bad. It would only get worse with that man. Systemic changes need to be made,
00:22:01.020 but right now we just need to focus on this family. So please try to help them as much as
00:22:05.120 you can. I know that we're going to try to help them as much as we can in my family too. We're
00:22:09.320 talking about a life here and just the emotions that were behind their words, how much they truly
00:22:15.860 love their daughter. It's such, again, just a beautiful picture of how much God loves us and
00:22:22.380 he has adopted us Gentiles. And so it is the perfect depiction of our redemption, um, as Christians as
00:22:29.380 well. And here to talk to us about the beauty of adoption, the importance of adopt, uh, adoption
00:22:36.320 and the redemption that is inherent in that, um, is our friend, Kurt Cameron. We're also going to
00:22:42.340 talk about this story that has blown up over the past couple of days that he was a denied entrance
00:22:49.280 into the story hour. I mean, I guess not entrance, but his request was denied by 50 libraries across
00:22:55.620 the country when he said, Hey, I would like to read my book about love, joy, peace, and patience,
00:23:01.500 you know, things like that. And they said, of course not, you're not a drag queen. So he's
00:23:06.220 going to talk to all of us, uh, about that. He's going to talk about all of that to us today.
00:23:12.240 And so without further ado, here is our friend, Kurt Cameron.
00:23:17.660 Kurt, thanks so much for joining us again. Um, first let's just talk about your movie came out
00:23:23.520 in August life, Mark. What is this movie about? Why'd you make it?
00:23:28.200 Well, thank you again for having me on the program. I'm glad I passed the test the first time
00:23:31.620 and I got, uh, I got another invite. Yeah. It's barely, just barely.
00:23:36.780 Well, thank you. And thanks for highlighting life, Mark. This is a true story. It actually
00:23:42.660 is based on a story of a young 18 year old girl who changed her mind on the abortion table.
00:23:48.740 Uh, she was experiencing, um, that moment of panic, not knowing what to do with this unplanned
00:23:54.860 pregnancy. And so she and her boyfriend, um, did the only thing they thought they could do.
00:23:59.240 They hid the pregnancy. They went to the clinic. She changed her mind. And then she actually gave
00:24:04.600 birth to this baby boy, placed him for adoption, thinking she'd never see him again. 19 years later,
00:24:10.240 she has a chance to reconnect with him. She thinks he probably hates her for abandoning him,
00:24:15.260 but the opposite is true. He gives her this big hug and says, thank you for the loving choice that you
00:24:21.260 made. I love my family. I've got this great life. And, uh, the story just takes off from there. I play
00:24:27.200 the adoptive father in the movie, which is really cool for me being an adoptive dad.
00:24:32.500 And it was in theaters this summer, right after the Supreme court ruling came down,
00:24:39.600 which essentially overturned Roe versus Wade. So what are the chances first that Roe v. Wade gets
00:24:44.860 overturned, but then that a movie comes into the theaters, championing the value of life in the womb
00:24:49.980 and the beauty of adoption. That is really incredible timing that after the Dobbs decision
00:24:55.780 and a lot of people were talking about who were angry about that, well, Christians, um, aren't doing
00:25:01.800 enough. Why aren't all Christians adopting when really there are millions of Christians, not just
00:25:07.700 to adopt, but who are waiting to adopt, who would love to adopt. Yes. Yes. And that's something that I
00:25:14.680 really am excited about life Mark doing is it's, um, recapturing the beauty and the magic of adoption.
00:25:21.480 Many people don't even think of the adoption option in birth mothers often, um, sadly would
00:25:27.040 rather statistically speaking, um, abort their child, then place their child for adoption. They
00:25:32.380 think that adoption is the morally worst choice. It makes them feel like a bad mom. Like I abandoned my
00:25:38.060 baby. But what life Mark does is it shows the beautiful side of what happens. Uh, if you choose
00:25:44.580 life, there are literally lines of adoptive parents who are praying for an opportunity to raise a little
00:25:53.120 boy or a little girl. And, uh, adoption is this loving choice that not only helps a birth mother in a
00:26:02.180 difficult situation, it saves the life of a human being like my four adopted children and my adopted
00:26:08.060 wife. And it answers the prayers of these couples who are longing for children and are not able to
00:26:14.560 have them. So I just am thrilled that life Mark is, uh, now coming out on DVD. Uh, it's streaming on
00:26:22.260 pure flicks and just in time for Christmas. It's a great movie for everybody to watch.
00:26:26.500 And it's such a beautiful depiction of the gospel too. Obviously there are so many physical and
00:26:31.040 tangible benefits to adoption. And then when we think about, well, we have also been adopted,
00:26:37.780 we have also been taken in. We didn't do anything to earn our adoption. There was nothing that we
00:26:42.440 could do, but God, because of his love for us decided to redeem us and adopt us. I mean, I don't
00:26:47.780 know if there's a better earthly picture, maybe besides marriage for what the gospel is.
00:26:54.340 I loved it. It's so great to hear you say that. Um, wow. What more beautiful thing than to be
00:27:01.840 unconditionally loved and chosen by the creator of the universe? Yes. I mean, this speaks of
00:27:08.900 forgiveness. This speaks of reconciliation. This speaks of new beginnings. Yes. And that's what
00:27:14.720 life Mark is modeling as well. You know, Ali, when I think about adoption, it's crazy. You know,
00:27:21.080 sometimes like once something's on your mind, you start to see it everywhere. Like, you know,
00:27:24.920 I'm looking for a red pickup truck and all of a sudden you see hundreds of red pickup trucks on the
00:27:28.840 church. I think of the scriptures and adoption, as you pointed out is so central. It's even central
00:27:35.960 to the Christmas story. Think about a young girl who woke up one morning and found herself with an
00:27:42.480 unplanned pregnancy from Mary's human perspective. And then Joseph full of faith, love for God and for
00:27:51.120 the mother and the child adopts that baby and raises him as his own son. And as a result,
00:27:57.760 salvation, reconciliation, and a new beginning comes to the entire world. Uh, adoption is huge.
00:28:07.640 Yeah. And I'm really hoping that people grasp these themes when they watch the film.
00:28:11.900 Yes. And you know, a lot of people, a lot of Christians, pro-life Christians, after the Dobbs
00:28:16.540 decision came out, were very discouraged by the anger that they saw and some of the misinformation
00:28:23.280 that they saw about pro-life laws and the media coverage and just felt like, oh my, oh my goodness,
00:28:29.680 the darkness is much louder than we thought. And people who are now just even more outright than
00:28:34.520 ever saying that they are pro-abortion, even that they are against adoption. Can you just give
00:28:41.000 Christians some encouragement who just feel kind of the weight of the world, maybe more than ever,
00:28:46.520 now that there is even more vitriol against pro-lifers, um, because of the changes in laws and
00:28:54.420 because of the Dobbs decision, like what kind of encouragement and maybe advice for these pro-life
00:29:00.440 Christians do you have? The encouragement is these are exciting times. We don't have the misfortune of
00:29:09.980 living in boring times. Uh, you know, this is the very wake up call that the family of faith needs
00:29:17.880 that people who love God and love their family and love this country need. We've been asleep for
00:29:23.820 decades, culturally speaking. Sometimes our, our, our mind gets, it wanders off to this land of heaven
00:29:30.740 where everything's going to be okay. And there's no more problems, uh, forgetting that we're here to be
00:29:36.620 conduits that bring heaven to earth. And culturally we need to re-engage. So I see this as the very
00:29:42.820 pressure needed to awaken the heroes of our generation. We speak of them in the past. We
00:29:50.620 tell stories about them. We write songs about them. Uh, and we need them in our generation.
00:29:56.020 So much is at stake. We have so much on the line. We have children, we have grandbabies.
00:30:00.000 And, uh, just like coal requires tremendous amounts of pressure before the diamond is formed.
00:30:09.620 I believe that, uh, people who love God and their family and biblical values and this country
00:30:16.160 are now experiencing the pressure that we can thank God for because it's waking us up and it could be
00:30:23.800 the shining moment that we need. Uh, so I'm hoping that this is culturally transforming stuff, not just
00:30:32.200 for public schools and, uh, you know, government halls, but for the hearts and minds of people to
00:30:41.320 say, we have a rare and precious gift in this nation and we will lose it if we don't engage. So I think
00:30:48.600 God's waking us up. Mm-hmm. And the light shines most brightly in the darkness. And if we look at
00:30:54.240 the history of the church, the history of the church is not smooth sailing. It's not ease. It's
00:30:59.580 not, um, enjoying special privileges and special favor typically from government. It's very often
00:31:07.300 hostility. It's very often being on the margins, going against the grain, pushing back against the
00:31:13.280 powers that be in the cultural zeitgeist of the time. And we are simply today as Christians carrying
00:31:19.740 the torch that Christians have been carrying for thousands of years. Yes, in the advocacy of the
00:31:25.020 most vulnerable, which Christians have always done, but also in standing against the immorality and the
00:31:30.240 darkness of the day and just saying no and looking at the ways that we can put a stop to it. So I know
00:31:37.420 it's easy to think like, oh my gosh, things are worse than they have ever been. I just kind of want to
00:31:42.040 sit on my hands until Jesus comes back or just to pretend like all this darkness isn't there because
00:31:46.840 you know, we're going to heaven one day. And we forget that one of our roles as Christians
00:31:52.400 is to advance God's kingdom here on earth. And God has placed us here, not accidentally or just,
00:31:59.600 you know, arbitrarily, but because he's going to equip us to face the exact obstacles that we are
00:32:06.200 facing today. And he can do that just as much as he has done for the past 2000 years.
00:32:11.220 Oh, so well said, beautifully said. I agree with you. And the truth is, for those who say,
00:32:18.620 oh, you know, the end is near, the end is near, it's getting so bad. It's just getting worse and
00:32:22.660 worse. Well, you know, the truth is, if you were to go back 1000 years, you wouldn't have wanted to
00:32:28.520 live as a Christian back there in Europe, you wouldn't have wanted to go back 1500 years,
00:32:32.760 you know what they were doing to the people of faith back then? They were burning them at stakes,
00:32:36.840 they were sawing them in half, they were feeding them to lions, they were hiding in caves, they were
00:32:40.680 being drowned. All of these things are horrifying to us, but it was normal back then. Things are
00:32:48.480 actually much better now than they were 1000 1500 years ago for people of Christian faith. And that's
00:32:56.800 because the gospel has flourished because God is faithful. Covenant keepers win, covenant breakers lose.
00:33:03.560 Every time, you just have to stick around long enough to see the end of the story. And you can see that
00:33:09.220 with St. Patrick and how he transformed pagan Ireland. You can see that with John Knox in Scotland, Luther
00:33:15.380 in Germany, you can see that with Calvin, you can see that with the Puritans and the pilgrims, and the
00:33:20.700 formation of the greatest, freest nation the world has ever known, built on biblical principles here. So if those
00:33:26.940 people could do that in far darker times than what we're experiencing in America today, why can't we
00:33:34.660 see a great revival, a great awakening, with all the resources we have with all the churches that we
00:33:41.020 have with all the great teaching, we can, we just have to stop sitting on our hands and get involved. And
00:33:47.580 Ali, that's why I appreciate you so much because you speak to cultural issues, and you are involved. And
00:33:53.100 this is the wake-up call that I think we need.
00:34:06.920 Well, thank you so much, and I appreciate you as well. And that pushback that, you know, Christians
00:34:12.480 are engaging in is not going to be, it doesn't go over easily when you're talking about some of the
00:34:22.340 entities and institutions that absolutely don't want to see these kinds of values that we're
00:34:27.500 talking about flourish. And there was a Fox News story that I saw. And you said that you just heard
00:34:33.600 about it. I woke up to it this morning, and I didn't even have my first cup of coffee yet. I was
00:34:37.740 not ready for this. Yes, Kurt Cameron gets denied story hour slot for new kids book. Kurt Cameron has
00:34:44.500 called out this is Fox or, oh, wait, hang on. All right, I guess I don't have the article. So I don't
00:34:53.480 know, as you grow your book, you were passed up because of the, you were passed up for the story
00:35:01.640 hour, because this is a Christian book, I guess. Oh, I see. I see the article. I see the article now. So
00:35:07.980 it is San Diego library system. They host like drag queen story hour and things like that. But they
00:35:14.820 didn't want you to read your book. Interesting. So if you read the whole article, you'll find that
00:35:21.640 there's over 50 public libraries that denied us the ability to read my children's book about biblical
00:35:31.720 wisdom and the fruit of the spirit, love, joy, patience, kindness. Right. And yet these are the
00:35:38.380 same public libraries that claim to be inclusive and want to be about diversity. They have drag queen
00:35:44.760 story hours at these same libraries, along with name change clinics for children who want to change
00:35:51.300 their gender. But at Christmas time, we can't talk about love and joy and kindness. In fact,
00:35:56.380 I believe that public libraries ought to be safe spaces for free speech and should allow the
00:36:06.580 communities to hear ideas from all different points of view, including the ones that made this country
00:36:14.520 so unique and special. So in fact, we're getting so many emails from not only parents within those
00:36:21.920 communities, but librarians in those communities who want to host their own story hours with my book
00:36:28.540 and other books from the publisher that are championing these values that are pro-God and pro-America
00:36:35.420 in their public library. So we're sending them free books and they're hosting their own public story
00:36:43.300 hours. So we're hoping that this starts a whole movement of people to say, look, this is the stuff we
00:36:49.460 want. Stop silencing part of the public in the public square. Right. There are millions, millions
00:36:55.120 of parents. I guarantee there are far more parents who want their kids to learn about God and love and
00:37:01.580 peace, the fruit of the Spirit, than they do to watch a man dressed up as a scantily clad woman
00:37:07.280 reading to them about things that they don't even need to know about. And yet one is censored and one
00:37:13.020 is not. So that just shows the spirit of the age and what we are up against. But thankfully,
00:37:17.760 Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever, as Hebrews 13 says, and that is the God
00:37:24.660 that we serve. So we have to continue to be joyful warriors for what is good and right and true.
00:37:30.180 And you are a wonderful representation of that. I'm so thankful. I'm so thankful for how you do
00:37:34.740 engage in the culture and you create things that are God-glorifying rather than only complaining about
00:37:41.100 the things, as many of us do, that are not God-glorifying. So thank you. Thank you for
00:37:47.520 that. I really appreciate it. Well, that's a great encouragement to me because I don't want to be
00:37:52.280 that guy. I think that's one of the things that's made me lean into my faith and the transforming
00:37:59.320 biblical truths in the scriptures even more now than ever before, because I'm finally seeing that
00:38:05.920 as good as conservative politics are, they're advancing ideas. The truth is those ideas,
00:38:14.820 if they are not connected to the root of eternal truth and the authority of the word of God,
00:38:22.420 it ultimately is not going to get enough traction to transform society. So I want to lean into the
00:38:28.760 very root that our founders and our forefathers and mothers said was indispensable if we want to
00:38:34.740 continue to be a free republic. And that is faith in God and true morality, which we find in the
00:38:41.820 ancient Mosaic code that's worked for 4,000 years and produced human flourishing, not this woke
00:38:49.160 garbage that some are trying to replace good values with. Yep, absolutely. Well, thank you so much. And
00:38:57.500 tell everyone where they can find Lifemark. Oh, Lifemark. All right. So Lifemark, it looks like
00:39:05.360 this. It's now available on DVD and Blu-ray and you can go to lifemarkmovie.com. It's on social
00:39:13.000 media as well at lifemarkmovie, but lifemarkmovie.com. And you can pick it up pretty much anywhere
00:39:17.680 starting December 13th, Amazon and everything else. And your book that is being refused by these
00:39:25.720 libraries. And what's that called? That's called As You Grow by Brave Books, the great publisher.
00:39:32.280 Yeah, As You Grow by Brave Books. And you can just go to bravebooks.com and you can find my book
00:39:41.440 and a whole bunch of other books that are about courage and leadership and all the kinds of values
00:39:46.320 and fruits of the spirit that we talked about. I love it. Well, thank you so much. I really
00:39:50.040 appreciate you taking the time to come on. Appreciate you as well. God bless you. Keep
00:39:55.320 up the great work. Thank you. You too.