Jessa Duggar-Seawald suffered a miscarriage recently, and yet she s being accused by online trolls of being a hypocrite because of her pro-life views. We ll break all of that down and respond. Paris Hilton confesses she hired a surrogate to birth her child in part because of a previous abortion, and Woody Harrelson says what we re not supposed to say out loud about the COVID vaccine in his SNL monologue.
00:00:00.000Jessa Duggar-Seawald suffered a miscarriage recently, and yet she's being accused by online trolls, a.k.a. journalists, of being a hypocrite because of her pro-life views.
00:00:10.820We'll break all of that down and respond.
00:00:13.300Paris Hilton confesses she hired a surrogate to birth her child in part because of a previous abortion.
00:00:18.680And Woody Harrelson says what we're not supposed to say out loud about the COVID vaccine in his SNL monologue.
00:00:25.760This episode is brought to you by our friends at Good Ranchers.
00:00:49.180If you haven't listened to yesterday's episode about the Gospel Coalition public school versus Christian education debate, go do that.
00:00:56.580I've gotten a lot of good feedback from y'all that those of you who have chosen Christian education in some way, whether that be homeschool, hybrid, or private school, that you were really encouraged by yesterday's episode.
00:01:09.340A couple messages from those of you who have chosen public school.
00:01:13.940The only ones that I got that were pushing back in a way that was bothersome were people who decided to respond to my post pointing to the podcast about the subject without actually listening to or watching the episode.
00:01:33.580And so they don't realize what I threatened with yesterday in my preamble, that I will call your mother and I will tell her that she responded to something without actually listening and that she raised you better than that.
00:01:50.220And you will go in, I don't know, that you'll go in the chokey like in Matilda if you do that again.
00:01:58.120I was kind in my response to you guys who did that, but please don't do that again.
00:02:03.720Just listen to it, watch it, and then if you still want to come back with your disagreements that you can.
00:02:07.860But I do appreciate all of the support, encouragement, and then also the respectful disagreement that you guys sent me.
00:02:13.420So go listen to that episode or you can watch it on YouTube as well.
00:02:17.240Today I want to start talking about this Jessa Duggar Seawald story.
00:02:21.860A lot of you sent me her video announcing that she had recently had a miscarriage and then the aftermath of that, which is all of these influencers, all these people on Twitter, Instagram, Reddit, talking about what a hypocrite, apparently, Jessa Seawald is because she's pro-life and yet in a conservative state that has heavily restricted abortion after the overturning of Roe v. Wade.
00:03:06.400People are exploiting her pain, her tragedy, her vulnerability to try to push a political agenda that is centered on the glorification of death.
00:03:17.880And I'm not sure there is anything really more wicked than that.
00:03:35.860I didn't hear about this until the backlash started.
00:03:39.940So let me play you a little bit of the story that she shared on YouTube.
00:03:43.600When we were there at the hospital and I knew that I was about to have this DNC, it was about to happen.
00:03:50.860And I had gone, I'd been prepped for everything.
00:03:54.860And but right as they were reeling me back, I just wanted to ask, like, please, can I please have one more ultrasound?
00:03:59.840Like, just please, somebody check, make sure I was, like, having all these fears that maybe they got something wrong.
00:04:08.200And like, you know, it's irrational, but you just feel like you just feel scared.
00:04:14.100Probably the most devastating moment was waking up after the procedure was over and just having this hollow feeling inside because you know that the life that was in you is no longer there.
00:04:30.860Oh, I'm tearing up trying to hold it together so I can keep talking.
00:04:35.580But I just feel I feel so much for her.
00:04:51.200You've seen and maybe even heard the heartbeat.
00:04:53.360Obviously, you would have gotten a positive pregnancy test, which is such an exciting time.
00:04:57.800And so at this point, she had probably known that she was pregnant since, you know, she was four weeks along.
00:05:04.120So this is several weeks of being excited and being and planning with her husband and maybe even sharing with her other children and her siblings and the close friends in her life.
00:05:15.260And then she finds when she's almost done with her first trimester that she had actually lost the baby.
00:05:21.900And so this is a summary of what happened of the video of the story that she shared on YouTube from Fox News and Daily Mail.
00:05:30.040So she experienced a brief period of spotting when she was 11 weeks along.
00:05:35.460So she and her husband, Ben, went for an ultrasound right before Christmas.
00:05:39.160And the technician that was performing the sonogram said, well, the sack looks good, but the baby does not.
00:05:45.640Honestly, she said nothing could have prepared me for the weight of those words in that moment.
00:05:49.800And gosh, I can imagine as a mother of two who has, I have not gone through a miscarriage, but who has gone through pregnancies.
00:05:58.960I mean, there's a little bit of nerves in every sonogram that you have, no matter how far along you are, because it can be difficult not seeing the child, especially, you know, early on.
00:06:09.040You can't feel the child and you're just hoping and praying that everything is OK.
00:06:12.580And when something starts going a little bit awry in your own body, the first thought is, oh, my gosh, is this child that we have created OK?
00:06:22.160It says after she lost the baby, she had to go to the hospital for a surgical procedure where the doctor removes an already deceased baby from a womb.
00:06:33.640And she said the most devastating part was waking up after the procedure and having that hollow feeling inside.
00:06:39.460You heard her say that they had told their four children, a few others about the pregnancy.
00:06:44.040And so everyone, not just her, is still processing this miscarriage.
00:06:50.060And now abortion activists are claiming that she had an abortion and is lying about it, that she's not being totally honest about everything that happened.
00:07:02.820But I talked to Jessa yesterday, as you can imagine, she's going through a lot.
00:07:08.500She shared something that was extremely traumatic, extremely tragic for her and her family.
00:07:14.660She shared it with the hope that she would help other women who have gone through a miscarriage or are going through a miscarriage.
00:07:23.320I mean, you share something that is so vulnerable, knowing that it's possible for someone to use it against you and hurt you.
00:07:30.940That's what vulnerability means, but hoping that there is more help directed towards people who need it than harm directed towards you.
00:07:40.600And at first, it was a positive reaction.
00:07:42.460There were a lot of people giving her support and encouragement.
00:07:45.220And then it was like overnight, a couple of days after the video came out, I mean, the knives were turned towards her calling her a hypocrite, calling her a liar,
00:07:54.860claimed that she actually had an abortion that is banned by the very laws that she as a pro-life person would support, in particular in the state of Arkansas.
00:08:04.380So let me give you some examples of what's being said about her.
00:08:08.040This is from the online magazine Jezebel.
00:08:10.880They consider themselves, of course, a feminist outlet.
00:08:16.500And this is an article written by Caitlin Cruz.
00:08:18.720And the title is, Jessa Duggar Seawald had an abortion, even if she won't say the word.
00:08:22.980I mean, just the evil of this is just, it gives me a pit in my stomach.
00:08:27.680People magazine and other outlets accepted Duggar's framing of the experience as a quote-unquote miscarriage,
00:08:33.140which would be fine, except that an anti-abortion celebrity literally having an abortion is probably something that's worth discussing honestly.
00:08:39.860It's commendable that Duggar Seawald is sharing her experience for procedural abortion.
00:08:43.880Duggar Seawald's story is proof that abortion treatment is needed and wanted by even the most anti-abortion among us.
00:08:50.760And abortion is how a miscarriage is treated, to make sure a patient's uterus is completely evacuated.
00:08:55.800That way, no further complications like sepsis ensue.
00:09:08.120Some women have abortions and then have to get a DNC.
00:09:10.880Some women have miscarriages and then have a DNC.
00:09:14.860A DNC doesn't actually kill the child.
00:09:17.540A DNC removes the child from the womb.
00:09:20.400And by the way, people have DNCs for all kinds of reasons.
00:09:23.840They don't just have a DNC because they're pregnant.
00:09:26.780They might have a DNC to remove something from their uterus.
00:09:31.780And so a DNC in itself, no, is not an abortion.
00:09:35.180Now, it is true that medical coding says induced abortion, which is you purposely kill the child inside the womb, which is what all anti-abortion pro-life activists are against.
00:09:46.840And then there is a spontaneous abortion.
00:10:09.340But that is the same difference as it is between someone being murdered outside of the womb and someone dying naturally outside of the womb.
00:10:19.100Like, do we have to explain this any more slowly or any more clearly?
00:10:23.480Like, even if you want to say, okay, this was a spontaneous abortion and then she got a DNC for the spontaneous abortion, she did not do anything that any pro-life advocate has ever said that we are against.
00:10:39.500Her child's heart stopped beating, the doctor told her, three weeks before she got the DNC.
00:11:02.160Like, I know that y'all, I mean, I'm actually giving you the benefit of the doubt, people who are writing articles like this, that you're just plain dumb.
00:11:09.820So, I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt there, because you are apparently able to read and you're apparently able to write words and complete a full sentence, I am going to guess that you are just plain like you're ignorant and you actually know the difference between homicide and natural death.
00:11:29.360That's the difference between a miscarriage and an induced abortion, an induced abortion and a so-called spontaneous abortion.
00:11:35.980Taking care of a miscarriage, taking care of what the medical coding calls a spontaneous abortion, is not banned in any state that has passed these pro-life laws since the Dobbs decision or the overturning of Roe v. Wade, as I will get into specifically in just one second.
00:11:59.020How does that differ from other abortion procedures?
00:12:01.100This article details different types of abortion, citing the DNC as an abortion that occurs in the first trimester, but conveniently makes no mention in this article that her baby had already passed away.
00:12:13.600I know I'm really intense about this, and there are some people who are going to be like, you should be nicer.
00:12:19.040You should be nicer to the people who are advocating for the legal dismemberment of babies and who are exploiting someone's tragedy in order to push an agenda that legalizes and glorifies the dismemberment of babies.
00:12:32.320And like those of you out there, like you would criticize someone having a mean tone towards Satan.
00:12:37.460OK, I'm not interested in that tone policing.
00:13:39.560Used in abortion care and done for those who suffered a miscarriage or with unexplained bleeding in between menstrual periods.
00:13:47.620At least they admit in this article that the baby is already gone.
00:13:52.220So here's some tweets out there from the Tennessee hauler, a left-wing rag.
00:13:56.520In case you missed it, Jessa Duggar of the famously anti-abortion Duggar family had an abortion due to risks of complications, which is now illegal in Tennessee, thanks to folks like her.
00:15:03.380And by the way, like I said, I talked to her yesterday and I asked, like, is it okay for me to talk about this stuff?
00:15:09.180I don't want it to seem, I don't want it to seem like I'm making this worse as you are going through this pain.
00:15:16.840So I didn't want you to think that I am, you know, making, I didn't want you guys to think that I am making this worse without having talked about, you know, how she is dealing with all of this.
00:15:27.460I think it's so important that we are clear on this and that we are calling out their lies.
00:15:32.160So this is the Arkansas abortion law in the state where she lives.
00:15:35.580On June 24th, 2022, Arkansas began enforcing its trigger ban, prohibiting abortions at all stages of pregnancy following the U.S. Supreme Court's decision to overturn Roe v. Wade.
00:15:47.360Section 1, Arkansas Code Title 5, Chapter 61, Subchapter 4.
00:15:51.980Abortion means the act of using, prescribing, administering, procuring, or selling of any instrument, medicine, drug, or any other substance, device, or means with the purpose to terminate the pregnancy of a woman with knowledge that the termination by any of those means will with reasonable likelihood cause the death of the unborn child.
00:16:16.040An act under subdivision 1A of the section is not an abortion if the act is performed with the purpose to, one, save the life or preserve the health of the unborn child.
00:16:26.800Two, remove a dead unborn child caused by spontaneous abortion, a.k.a. miscarriage, or remove an ectopic pregnancy.
00:16:35.940There is also a document that was published by an attorney and by a doctor on lifenews.com that explains the summary of the different abortion bans that have been passed in 23 states.
00:16:52.200The article starts like this, again, by an MD and a lawyer studied these laws, studied the medical implications of these laws.
00:16:58.780It said, in the 23 states with one or more strong abortion bans that were unenforceable before the DOPS decision, state officials are now either enforcing or working towards beginning enforcement.
00:17:09.460Each of these states permits abortion in those rare and heartbreaking circumstances when it is necessary to save the life of a pregnant woman.
00:17:17.000Now, we can talk about, you know, that some people even have an issue with that kind of language.
00:17:22.000Physicians can make this determination based on their, quote unquote, reasonable medical judgment, a standard very common in the medical profession and used for any case involving malpractice litigation.
00:17:32.020Now, that's not what happened in this case with Jessa.
00:17:34.660I mean, she did not get an abortion to save her life.
00:17:37.760She got a DNC, which is not in itself an abortion, to remove the child that had already naturally died.
00:17:44.480But because this is another talking point that is being pushed by these pro-abortion, pro-death activists, I think it's important to just specify that in all of these conservative states, there is an exception.
00:17:57.560Let's look specifically, get at the state of Arkansas and just see what this article says.
00:18:01.300We'll link this article, by the way, in the description on the YouTube video and in the description if you're listening.
00:18:06.380So you can click on it and you can share it yourself.
00:18:08.420So this is the summary, according to the article of the Arkansas law, where Jessa lives.
00:18:13.980Arkansas bans abortion unless it is necessary to save a mother's life.
00:18:19.420The law excludes from the definition of abortion acts to preserve the life or the health of the unborn baby, to remove an unborn baby who is miscarried or to treat an ectopic pregnancy.
00:18:27.560Women upon whom abortions are performed may not be prosecuted.
00:18:33.440A person shall not purposely perform or attempt to perform an abortion except to save the life of a pregnant woman in a medical emergency.
00:18:41.080Medical emergency means a condition in which an abortion is necessary to preserve the life of a pregnant woman whose life is endangered by a physical disorder, physical illness or physical injury, including a life endangering physical condition caused by or arising from the pregnancy itself.
00:18:54.460The law does not prohibit the sale, use, prescription or administration of a contraceptive measure, drug or chemical if the contraceptive measure, drug or chemical is administered before the time when a pregnancy could be determined through conventional medical testing.
00:19:06.820And if the contraceptive measure, drug or chemical is sold, used, prescribed or administered in accordance with manufacturer instructions.
00:19:12.960So again, and I guess I don't have to read this because I don't want to be too repetitive, but it defines specifically what an abortion is.
00:19:22.320An abortion is a procedure or a drug given to purposely terminate the life of the baby inside the womb.
00:19:30.100So here's one thing that you will never see from these people who are launching these kinds of accusations.
00:19:37.440They will never show you the line in the law that restricts or bans miscarriage care.
00:20:23.540What they'll do is they'll send you an article saying, well, this woman almost died because of this abortion restriction or this woman didn't get the care that she needed because of this abortion restriction.
00:20:32.500Very many times, like Tennessee, Texas, I've seen a lot of articles saying this.
00:20:37.520There's not a whole lot of facts about that.
00:20:40.160Like, it's really hard to actually determine, OK, what prohibited this woman or inhibited this woman and getting the care that she needed when it came to managing her miscarriage.
00:20:49.600Like, there's no evidence that it had anything to do with the laws at all.
00:20:53.100Like, maybe she just had incompetent doctors.
00:20:55.560But really, again, if you go and you look at all of the laws and you see that it excludes treatment for miscarriages, what people want to call spontaneous abortions, you see that, if anything, the doctors at best are confused and at worst are malicious for political and activist reasons.
00:21:14.740And this article that I'm reading from on LifeNews.com by this lawyer and by this doctor.
00:21:19.920They say that, look, we need hospital boards.
00:21:24.440We need state boards of pharmacy, hospital quality committees and hospital attorneys to provide more detailed guidance to doctors on how to reach determination that abortion is necessary based on the laws on the books.
00:21:37.720Look, let's not act like all of these doctors and all of these hospitals really are just so befuddled and so held back by these new pro-life laws.
00:21:46.340There's always been some kind of restriction on these procedures.
00:21:50.480There's always been some kind of restriction in these states on when you can perform an abortion and how you can perform an abortion.
00:21:57.760And apparently the doctors in the hospitals were able to comprehend it before then.
00:22:02.080But now you're telling me that they're like, I don't know.
00:22:04.600I have no idea how to abide by the law anymore.
00:22:24.560They want the other side to believe that women aren't being treated for miscarriages because they believe that it helps change the law to be more pro-abortion, which is evil.
00:22:35.520Why would that not be your first priority if you cared about the well-being of your female patients, your pregnant patients, to say, OK, the law has changed.
00:22:43.700Let's update our policies and make it really crystal clear for our doctors what can actually be performed and when.
00:22:50.500And just let everyone know, hey, miscarriage care, saving the life of the mother has not been touched by these laws.
00:23:25.700She did not do anything or receive anything that every other woman in the state of Arkansas who has access to any kind of health care or can walk into an emergency room cannot have.
00:23:36.980And the fact that you guys are lying in order to, again, push an agenda of death just shows who you are exploiting her tragedy, exploiting her pain, exploiting the death of her child who was made in the image of God shows not her hypocrisy, but your wickedness.
00:24:00.240I'm just reminded is when I was reading these tweets and reading the story, it just made me so sad for Jessa and what she must be going through to have the pain of losing your child compounded with this and feeling like you have to explain yourself.
00:24:14.300I was thinking of this verse, John 8, 44, when Jesus is chastising the Pharisees.
00:24:20.420He says you are of your father, the devil, and your will is to do your father's desires.
00:24:25.640He was a murderer from the beginning and does not stand in the truth because there is no truth in him.
00:24:31.960When he lies, he speaks out of his own character, for he is a liar and the father of lies.
00:24:36.160And people who follow the father of lies are going to be pro-deceit and pro-murder.
00:24:43.320And I don't expect people who follow the father of lies to be able to hear me and to see any clarity whatsoever, save the power of the Holy Spirit.
00:24:56.600The father of lies who has been a murderer since the beginning has authored the chaos and the confusion and the lies surrounding not just this story, but abortion in general.
00:25:06.060Jessa did respond and she said something that I thought was really good and very true.
00:25:11.020Um, she commented this on her YouTube video after she started getting some backlash.
00:25:16.440She said, women have DNCs for many reasons, not all of which involve killing a living human being.
00:25:20.560The ultrasound revealed that I had missed, that I had a missed miscarriage.
00:25:25.040My baby's heart had stopped beating three weeks before I had a DNC.
00:25:41.020It is to remove something from your uterus or sometimes someone, sometimes after an induced abortion, sometimes after a miscarriage, sometimes when there's something in there that needs to be removed.
00:25:50.400Each person is created in the image of God.