Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey - May 01, 2023


Ep 797 | Can Women Teach the Bible ... at All?


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Length

56 minutes

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170.06201

Word Count

9,689

Sentence Count

598

Misogynist Sentences

55

Hate Speech Sentences

36


Summary

In this episode of Relatable, I discuss the debate of whether or not women should be allowed to teach the Bible in public, speak publicly about doctrine, write theological books, or even have this podcast? This is the debate that is roaring on Christian social media right now, and we will dive into it.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 What are women allowed to talk about publicly? Are we allowed to talk about doctrine? Are we
00:00:07.040 allowed to teach Bible studies? Are we allowed to write theological books? Should I even have
00:00:13.160 this podcast? This is the debate that is roaring right now on Christian social media, and we will
00:00:19.120 dive into it, looking at all of the different views of gender roles within the church, preaching
00:00:25.440 versus pastoring, all that good stuff. It's going to be fun. This episode is brought to you by our
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00:00:45.720 Hey, guys. Welcome to Relatable. Happy Monday. Hope everyone had a wonderful weekend. Hopefully,
00:00:51.580 spring has sprung wherever you are, and you are finally getting some consistent warmth. That's
00:00:58.400 what I'm hoping over where we are. All right. We're going to dive right into this debate. Some of you
00:01:04.100 are familiar with it. Some of you are not, but I think for everyone, hopefully, this will be
00:01:08.420 encouraging. Now, before I get started, I am having this internal debate and have been having this
00:01:14.460 internal debate about how specific I want to get on who is saying what. This person's arguing this.
00:01:21.520 That person is arguing that. And I've decided to stay away from naming names because I think it
00:01:30.480 contributes to a spirit of controversy and drama that I'm really not trying to get into. And at the
00:01:39.100 same time, I want you to know that as I'm giving examples of the different positions of this debate,
00:01:44.880 that I am talking about specific, real people and articulated perspectives. I'm not just,
00:01:50.640 you know, drawing examples out of thin air or imagining someone said something. There have
00:01:55.900 been pastors and authors, Twitter theologians, some of them, Twitter users, if you will, who fancy
00:02:02.800 themselves, you know, authoritative on this issue, who have been discussing this and debating
00:02:09.900 and debating this. Some names you probably know, some names you don't. So I just wanted to offer
00:02:15.940 my perspective on all of it because it does kind of have to do with me. Not fully, but I do think
00:02:24.640 some people kind of throw me into this debate simply because I am a female podcaster who talks
00:02:30.360 about theology. I talk about Christian things. And I'm also a conservative and I have conservative views
00:02:36.380 on gender roles and all of that. So where do I fall into it? What's my take on all of it?
00:02:40.760 So the debate right now, the kind of niche debate is about whether women can teach the Bible,
00:02:48.140 not just preach the Bible from the pulpit, but whether they can teach the Bible at all.
00:02:54.360 Like, should women be leading Bible studies? Should they be writing theological books,
00:02:59.060 publicly discussing doctrine, leading Bible studies, hosting podcasts that have anything to do with
00:03:04.920 theology or doctrine at all? And these might seem like, I'm guessing to most of you, bizarre questions.
00:03:10.880 Like most of you are probably thinking, if I know my audience and I think I do, you're thinking that's
00:03:16.660 ridiculous. Of course, women can teach the gospel or explain the scriptures. Most of you in this
00:03:24.240 audience also don't believe, just as I don't believe, that women should be pastors. Now, there may be
00:03:31.780 some of you who believe out there, because, you know, every audience has some diversity in it.
00:03:37.980 You might believe that, yes, women can and should teach the Bible. Like, you consider yourself a
00:03:42.820 conservative in a lot of ways, but you also believe that women can preach from the pulpit and be pastors.
00:03:50.160 So not just teach and preach the Bible, but also can be in the pulpit, can exercise that kind of
00:03:56.140 authority, and can maybe even pastor a church. Believe it or not, among political conservatives,
00:04:01.780 there are definitely people who hold that position. And even among people who would consider themselves
00:04:07.960 theologically conservative, there are some variations of that that some Christians adhere to.
00:04:15.980 And so here are the names for the different positions about gender roles, particularly
00:04:20.360 gender roles within the church. So the first one is egalitarianism, which holds that men and women
00:04:29.220 are of equal value. All of these positions posit that, that men and women are of equal innate value.
00:04:35.300 We are equally made in the image of God. And egalitarianism also says that men and women are
00:04:42.060 equally equipped for any role in the church, can hold any office within the church. They can be pastors,
00:04:47.580 they can be deacons, they can be elders, they can be anything. So they are egalitarian. They are equal,
00:04:53.180 not just in worth, but they can also be equal in role. There's no problem, according to this view
00:04:57.900 of a woman exercising authority over a man in any realm, including in the church. And then there's
00:05:04.720 complementarianism, which holds that men and women are of equal value, but that they, according to
00:05:10.180 scripture, are not called to the same roles. So for example, within this view, only men can be pastors
00:05:17.200 of a church. Only men can shepherd a congregation. And then there are soft complementarians and strict
00:05:23.340 complementarians. There are soft complementarians who may agree that according to scripture, men can
00:05:30.660 be pastors of a church. Only men can hold that position. But they would say women can still preach
00:05:36.860 from the pulpit from time to time, as long as they are ultimately under the authority of a male head
00:05:43.720 at the church. Strict complementarians would say no. Women cannot preach from the pulpit in church.
00:05:51.520 And then there would probably be some disagreement, even within that camp, even among strict
00:05:55.560 complementarians, about whether this applies to women preaching from a pulpit outside the church,
00:06:02.800 like at a Christian conference, in which both men and women are in the audience, or if that
00:06:09.040 prohibition only applies to women, like inside the local church on Sunday morning. So there are some
00:06:17.420 disagreements within that view. There are probably some disagreements within all of these views. I'm giving
00:06:21.500 you a general definition of them. Of course, there are going to be exceptions and variations and nuances
00:06:29.320 depending on where you are within that view. And then there is the patriarchal view, in which men and
00:06:38.120 women are of equal innate value. But the woman's role, according to this view, is exclusively centered
00:06:45.140 on homekeeping and child rearing. And while most who hold this view, most, most, wouldn't say that
00:06:54.340 women are incapable of understanding or even explaining the Bible. And I say most because there's some,
00:07:00.420 I've seen it on Twitter, who would say like, they're not. They're not capable the way that men are of
00:07:05.180 explaining or understanding the Bible. But most would say, yes, they have the capability, but that's
00:07:10.740 simply not their role. They would argue that women teaching the word is exercising inherently an
00:07:16.640 authority that has not been delegated to them. There are some other tenets of this view. Again,
00:07:22.020 variation among the individuals and congregations that hold this view. But many believe that women
00:07:26.680 should never exercise any authority anywhere over a man, whether it's government, whether it's at work
00:07:33.080 at all. Daughters are to remain home, typically within this view, under their dad's authority until
00:07:38.580 they get married. So if they get married at 45, they're under their dad's authority at home until
00:07:42.980 45. A lot of people who hold this view believe that. So there are different parts of it. Those are
00:07:49.480 some aspects, some tenets of this kind of patriarchal view, which we'll get into a little bit more in a
00:07:55.680 second. But that's kind of the main thrust of it. So most of us are familiar with complementarianism
00:08:03.300 and egalitarianism. Most of us are not really familiar, at least today, with the patriarchal
00:08:09.160 view. And the reason we're even talking about this, as I said at the beginning, and particularly
00:08:14.500 this last view, is because there is a debate that many of you have seen circulating on Twitter and
00:08:20.420 Instagram. As I like to say, you guys ultimately are my executive producers. So when I put up an
00:08:25.940 Instagram story yesterday and said, what do you want me to talk about? There's always a split. I
00:08:30.560 said, we can talk about these state bills that are happening, which are very important. We'll talk about
00:08:34.220 them this week. Or we can talk about this contentious issue about women preaching and teaching. And most of
00:08:39.800 you said this one. So that's how we landed here. By the way, I have done a women in the church
00:08:46.120 episode, I think back in 2019. And we'll link that. So I have talked about this issue in depth of
00:08:52.980 whether or not women should be preaching and pastoring. There have been some clips and quotes
00:08:57.540 circulating, arguing that women should not be teaching anything academic theologically, even to
00:09:06.520 women, and really that they shouldn't be learning this stuff from other people other than their
00:09:13.940 husbands. And by academic theology, I mean more complex theological issues. Eschatology, which is
00:09:23.040 the study of the end times, maybe included in academic theology would be Arminianism versus
00:09:28.440 Calvinism, the issue of predestination. And the idea that is being put forth here is that women
00:09:34.700 shouldn't be teaching these things at all, shouldn't really even be discussing them publicly, shouldn't
00:09:40.440 try to influence other people's opinions on them publicly, shouldn't be learning them unless they
00:09:48.300 are under the authority of a man, preferably their husband, or if single, their father or pastor.
00:09:55.540 So many in this patriarchal camp would also say that women should not be expositing the Bible,
00:10:14.240 even to women. So meaning preaching and interpreting the Bible, which means even at a women's conference
00:10:19.880 or at a women's Bible study, women should not be explaining passages or explaining theological concepts
00:10:25.380 to other women. So here is a quote explaining this by someone who holds this position.
00:10:31.880 Quote, when a woman teaches another woman devotional or academic theology without the direct oversight of
00:10:37.120 her spiritual head, that woman is essentially usurping the authority of that woman's father, husband,
00:10:44.040 or pastor. The only exception to this, they would argue, is the specification that is listed in Titus 2
00:10:54.660 through 5. Most of us are familiar with this passage. Quote, older women likewise are to be reverent in
00:11:01.580 behavior, not slanders or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good. And so train the young
00:11:08.020 women to love their husbands and children to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind,
00:11:15.080 and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled. There's a lot of good
00:11:22.480 stuff in there. But the patriarchal position posits that if women are teaching other women,
00:11:28.960 which obviously, biblically, there is a place for that, but it must be, they say, within these bounds,
00:11:35.000 it must focus, all teaching by women must focus on child rearing and home making. They would go so
00:11:42.840 far as to say that a woman should not even learn theology from a man or a woman out from under the
00:11:49.900 authority of her spiritual head, namely her father or her husband. And here is a quote from a sermon
00:11:56.040 recently saying as much that you guys have probably seen going around. This pastor says,
00:12:02.040 and I'm not trying to decontextualize this. I'm not trying to make this sound worse than it is. I
00:12:07.780 think that this gives all the proper context here. I think this is a fair, I mean, this is just a
00:12:13.440 transcription, but I think it's fair to give as much context as we are. Quote, there are certain books
00:12:18.020 that I just had to say. This pastor says, hey, I don't know if this is a bad book, but I don't have
00:12:22.620 time to read it. So you're not going to read it either. We'll read it together. He's talking about
00:12:26.780 speaking to his wife. He says, I remember recently my wife had a book and I saw her reading it on the
00:12:32.120 couch. It was about paedo-baptism. And I said, no, we're not doing that yet. We will become paedo-baptists
00:12:37.100 when I'm ready. Paedo-baptist is infant baptism. But my wife's not going to be a paedo-baptist
00:12:42.700 for three years before I am. And I don't have time to read it right now. I know the arguments
00:12:47.520 will be great. I will agree and disagree. I'm not sure what arguments will be better. But for the
00:12:51.320 time being, this is one I'm persuaded of and you are not going to outpace me. This husband says to
00:12:59.860 his wife. All right. Okay. So I think that I've pretty fairly summarized. I mean, we could spend an
00:13:07.560 entire series looking at the different aspects of this. Let me give you just like my personal take,
00:13:15.460 okay, my personal perspective on this. And then we'll talk about what the Bible says. I'll look
00:13:20.120 to specifically a lot of the work that John Piper has done on this. He and Wayne Grudem, who I also
00:13:24.500 really appreciate. I always recommend Wayne Grudem's Systematic Theology. They wrote a book on biblical
00:13:29.220 manhood and womanhood. They've got a lot of great material out there about this. He's not the only one
00:13:34.620 who has written authoritatively and persuasively about this, but he has a lot of resources on his
00:13:39.360 Desiring God website. So we will go to those. But let me give you my just like personal perspective
00:13:44.940 because this is called Relatable. And I want to relate to those of you who, like me, are strong
00:13:52.960 willed women. This audience is mostly women. You're mostly moms. There's a lot of very smart,
00:14:01.120 very theologically adept, and very influential in a lot of ways, women who listen to this podcast.
00:14:14.800 And so I already know, I know your reaction. I know your reaction to what I just described. And
00:14:20.520 so let me just relate to you and tell you my personal perspective. If you've been listening
00:14:25.980 to this podcast for any amount of time, this doesn't come as a surprise to you, but I am also
00:14:30.160 a strong-willed person. I have, since toddlerhood, been opinionated. And not just opinionated,
00:14:37.200 but if I can say this, and I think I can persuasively opinionated, in that I'm not just
00:14:43.320 content with telling you what I think. Like, I want to persuade you of my position. In the second grade,
00:14:48.600 everyone got these character equality awards. I went to a Christian school. So everyone's character
00:14:52.260 equality awards at the end of the year had to do with the fruit of the spirit. Oh, you know,
00:14:56.400 Lauren is so loving. Katie is so friendly. Or maybe someone got like an organized or kind or
00:15:02.540 something like that. Or this person is gentle-spirited, generous, whatever. I got persuasive.
00:15:08.560 And my teacher told me that I should be an attorney. So that was the characteristic that I guess
00:15:15.900 stuck out for my second grade teacher, that I was persuasive. And I did. I like to persuade people.
00:15:21.880 I still do. I could read and talk and argue and wanted to from a very early age. I had a desire
00:15:29.740 to lead at a very early age. I questioned authority at a very early age. Until high school, I had a very
00:15:35.500 fraught relationship with my teachers because I questioned everything that I was taught. And even
00:15:41.580 in high school, I wasn't some troublemaker, some rebel or anything like that. Although I did use box
00:15:47.740 dye on my hair to dye a black one time, that's a different story. I just didn't like authority.
00:15:53.600 My mother and my grandmother were both teachers. My grandmother lived with us. I learned more
00:15:58.940 honestly about the fundamentals of words, of phonics, of reading, of writing, of communicating,
00:16:02.940 of memorizing from them than I did in my early years in school. So school was hard for me for
00:16:07.520 many years because in some areas, I just knew too much as a kid for my own good. And in other areas
00:16:13.480 like math or science, nothing came naturally. So I just didn't care. I didn't even try.
00:16:17.920 So school was a difficult time for me, mostly because of the authority structure and the
00:16:22.980 requirements that were there. I was much older in my mind than I actually was. My dad always said
00:16:29.600 that I was six going on 26. I'm the youngest of three. My brothers are 11 and seven years older than
00:16:34.880 me. My parents always took us with them to different business conferences, seminars, meetings.
00:16:39.420 So I spent a lot of time around adults. So adult authority for someone who thinks that they already
00:16:47.120 are an adult or that they reason like an adult because they spend so much time around people
00:16:51.720 older than them. In many ways, it's really difficult. Having a boss in my first couple
00:16:56.520 jobs out of college, really hard for me. I don't want to paint this picture like I always had some
00:17:01.840 horrible attitude or like I didn't have a good work ethic or I was never humble or never teachable
00:17:06.640 because that's not true. I really love learning and I love learning how to become good at something.
00:17:13.080 I enjoy and seek out ways to learn from people who know more than I do on something or are better
00:17:19.060 at something than I am. However, being taught and guided, which I've always really loved and helped,
00:17:25.560 is different than being managed. And I don't like to be managed. So a lot of you feel the same way
00:17:32.420 that I do, which makes it even more difficult to, I think, talk about this without like a
00:17:39.800 like physical reaction or aversion to the things that we're reading. I have always very much valued
00:17:45.780 independence, freedom, autonomy. I always knew that long term, I wouldn't have a desk job. Not that
00:17:51.660 there's anything wrong with that. I just knew that I wouldn't. I knew I would pursue something like what
00:17:56.040 I'm doing today in some way through, whether it was through ministry or even just a hobby or
00:18:00.800 an actual job. My parents knew it. They encouraged it. We didn't know what it would look like,
00:18:06.960 but we just knew that I would be doing something like this where I'm communicating to people,
00:18:11.860 trying to persuade people, trying to encourage people. That's who I have always been. I've never
00:18:16.900 been afraid of that. I've never been afraid of being in front of people. I've never been afraid of saying
00:18:20.900 my opinion. I've been very confident in those things for a very long time. At the same time,
00:18:28.040 growing up, I've always wanted to be a wife and mom. Always. There was no part of me that wanted
00:18:33.280 to chase some career or anything and put off marriage and motherhood until later in life,
00:18:38.600 until I was a certain level of success. That's not what I wanted to do. And I got married right out of
00:18:42.920 almost right out of college, 23 years old. And that's that's what I wanted to do. I always had that
00:18:48.220 desire to. Also, beginning in college and later in high school, my faith became real to me. I was
00:18:57.160 raised in a Christian home, attended a Christian school, always went to church, which I am immeasurably
00:19:01.660 thankful for. But Christ captured my heart and mind in my later teenage years, early 20s. And I
00:19:08.320 understood that all parts of me were to be shaped for his glory rather than my own. My sin, my pride,
00:19:19.820 all of it had to be killed. My heart had to be made new. My strengths and weaknesses all used according
00:19:26.280 to his will, his purposes, and not my own. It meant submission to his authority rather than my own
00:19:33.820 autonomy, which also meant and still means submitting to hierarchies that he has put in place for our
00:19:41.760 good. And a couple of those hierarchies that we see clearly in scripture are within marriage and
00:19:47.140 within the church. In marriage, as we read in Ephesians 5, the husband is to be the head of the
00:19:52.080 wife and wives are to submit to their husbands as to the Lord. In the church, I'm not to be a pastor.
00:19:59.000 I am not to exercise authority over men. And these are things I always knew and would say I agreed
00:20:05.280 with. I mean, I was raised in a conservative home and church where these hierarchies were represented
00:20:09.380 for me. But that doesn't mean that they were going to be easy for me. My personality, like many of your
00:20:16.320 personalities, it tells me, lead, get up, say it, persuade, decide, tell people where to go. But if this
00:20:25.860 personality that God gave me, these strengths that God gave me and so clearly demonstrated through me
00:20:31.200 from childhood are to glorify him, they must fall within his bounds. They don't need to be squashed
00:20:39.100 or belittled, but they must fall within the proper context. I believe for my good and also for his glory.
00:20:46.640 So that means that even if we are able, women, to lead our husbands, so to be the final decision maker,
00:20:53.820 to be the one who dictates where we move, how we spend, what church we go to, the spiritual formation
00:21:00.740 of the family, that that is ultimately not up to us. Now, because we are one flesh with our husbands,
00:21:06.840 these decisions are made together. But the ultimate responsibility, the final say for the well-being
00:21:13.500 of the family falls on the husbands. Now, just a caveat, I know not all husbands are Christians and
00:21:19.200 the Christian wife, according to 1 Peter 3, want us to try to win him over by living a godly life
00:21:24.380 herself. But we are called to submit to our husbands as wives insofar as doing so does not cause us to
00:21:32.880 sin in any way. So that means, and forgive me if this sounds like braggadocious in any way, because
00:21:41.100 that's not my intent. It's actually trying to express like how submission to God and his will
00:21:48.860 looks for different people. Like, even if we feel a certain way very strongly, even if we feel like
00:21:54.740 we have what it takes to do something that falls outside of his bounds. So all of this means that
00:21:59.660 even though, even though I know I am mentally and physically capable, mentally and physically capable
00:22:06.880 of stepping to a pulpit on Sunday morning and delivering a more biblically sound, exegetically
00:22:12.560 exquisite, persuasive, and dynamic sermon than many male pastors in America today, I can't do it.
00:22:20.120 Because that is not the realm to which God has called me as a woman. And you know what? Like,
00:22:28.060 of course, pride would have a struggle with that. Pride would have us want that. One of the parts of the
00:22:33.200 curse is that, Eve, your desire will be for your husband, but he will rule over you. The hierarchy
00:22:41.120 is not a part of the fall, but our desire to usert that authority and to exercise our own authority,
00:22:48.420 that is a part of sin. That is a part of the fall. But ultimately, because I know that God is wiser and
00:22:56.540 infinitely better than I am, I am thankful that even though I am physically and mentally capable,
00:23:01.140 physically and mentally capable of doing some things, that I'm not called to doing all of those
00:23:06.400 things, even if it is just because of the gender that God providentially gave me, because I don't
00:23:12.100 actually want all of the authority and the responsibility that comes from being the ultimate
00:23:17.620 say-so for my family, being the shepherd for my family, being a shepherd for an entire congregation.
00:23:23.560 Like, I don't want those responsibilities and roles, even though maybe I'm capable in a lot of
00:23:29.980 ways to exercise them. So if you're someone who just struggles in general, not just with that
00:23:35.440 patriarchal view that I listed, which again, I'm going to get into my issues with that, but just
00:23:40.640 the issue of different roles, the issues of hierarchies, the issues of, you know, gender differences
00:23:47.840 within the church. Like, I feel you. I totally, totally understand where you are coming from.
00:23:55.460 But as we will explain a little bit further, God's way is better. So let's talk specifically a little
00:24:02.340 bit more about this patriarchal position and where I think it falls short, where I think that there are
00:24:08.340 some contradictions within it. All right. So I don't want the authority and the responsibility that
00:24:26.040 comes from leadership, even if some of the capabilities, not all, but some of the capabilities
00:24:31.640 are there. Even if I feel like, wow, God made me this way. I have to lead in all of these realms. Look,
00:24:38.060 God has given us a lot of different skills that are always called when we become Christians to be
00:24:43.820 placed in the proper and most God glorifying ways. Like you might be, or contacts rather,
00:24:51.820 like if you might be an amazing, I don't know, see, this is one of the realms that God hasn't gifted
00:24:57.920 me. And you might be great with computers. Okay. And God has given you that gift to use that gift.
00:25:03.640 But that doesn't mean that just because someone gives you an offer of $5 million to do something
00:25:09.400 illegal with your gifts or something unethical with that gift that you're supposed to like hack
00:25:13.980 into some server and steal a bunch of money for that. I don't know how computers work,
00:25:18.320 but we all have proper context and responsibilities for the gifts that we have been given. But I do believe
00:25:25.880 all of us have particular gifts. All of us have particular strengths. All of us have particular
00:25:30.720 weaknesses. And I do use, obviously you're listening to this or watching this, my strengths
00:25:37.120 of communication in the public domain specifically to help women. Now, there are related bros who listen
00:25:45.620 to this podcast. I know that. There are men who listen to this podcast. There are men who have read my
00:25:51.800 book. There are men who attend the women's conferences that I speak at. And even though my audience is
00:25:59.460 majority women, even though my messages are tailored to women, even though I say specifically like this
00:26:07.080 is a show that is going to be relatable for women, I say that that's my passion to help educate and
00:26:15.580 empower the women who are already on my side and try to persuade the ones who are not to show women
00:26:22.120 like why politics matter, but also how theology affects our politics. And so that means that,
00:26:30.520 yes, I will be talking about the Bible because Genesis 1-1 can't be separated from what I think
00:26:38.180 about politics or what I think about culture. If I believe that God created the heavens and the earth
00:26:43.980 and he's the authority over all of it, then that means that he is the sole arbiter of what is and what
00:26:48.960 isn't, what's right and what's wrong, what's good and what's bad, what's true and what's false,
00:26:52.620 that is going to affect what I think about gender, what I think about abortion, even what I think
00:26:57.880 about immigration, what I think about gun laws, what I think about the people that we elect.
00:27:03.060 And so that is going to mean that we wade into some, yes, academic theology at times.
00:27:09.720 That, yes, because you know what? Eschatology has to do with my politics.
00:27:14.280 So understanding or believing what I do about the end times, which I've done episodes on that
00:27:20.200 before, I mean, that will affect my politics. What I think about gender roles, which could be
00:27:26.180 considered an academically theological subject, like that's going to affect my politics. That's
00:27:31.660 going to affect culture. Now, maybe the patriarchal position is that women don't need to be talking
00:27:36.360 about politics and culture. I think that that is, that's a position. You can have that position.
00:27:42.160 That's fine. But if you hold that position, do not ask to come on my podcast. Okay. That's the thing
00:27:48.020 is that a lot of these people who say this, they're like, oh, women really shouldn't be talking about
00:27:52.000 these things. Women really shouldn't be bringing these like complex issues to the table. Fine.
00:27:56.920 Don't ask to come on my podcast. Don't ask me to read your book. Like don't ask for, don't,
00:28:03.300 don't ask for those things. I'm not talking about anyone specifically. I'm just saying there are a lot
00:28:07.120 of Theo bros online that would say, you know, Allie Stuckey shouldn't, because she's a woman,
00:28:12.660 she shouldn't be talking about these things. That's fine. Don't you dare retweet me. Don't ask
00:28:18.720 for a retweet. Don't ask for my platform. If you think that my platform is inherently unbiblical.
00:28:25.820 Because where I fall is in the complementarian realm. I don't believe that women should be
00:28:32.080 preaching at church on Sundays at all, whether you're a pastor or not. I don't believe that
00:28:36.500 you should be exercising that authority over men. I certainly don't think that you should be
00:28:40.160 a pastor or a co-pastor of a church. Look, I have been offered a lot of money from some of these very
00:28:47.120 wealthy MAGA churches to come speak there. And then I look into their church's theology. I look into
00:28:54.620 their church's hierarchy and I see that they have female co-pastors. And I have to say no. And I have
00:29:00.960 done that many times. As I said, believe it or not, there are many conservatives who are okay with
00:29:07.180 women exercising authority. I've been asked to speak places Sunday morning by myself. And I've
00:29:13.560 had to say no. Look, I'll do a Q&A. I'll do an interview. I'll do something like that on stage
00:29:18.540 if you want that to be a segment of your Sunday. But I'm not going to speak by myself on Sunday
00:29:24.840 morning if it's a mixed audience. I can't speak at your church. I'm sorry if you have a female
00:29:29.300 pastor. That's been difficult. I've had to cut off opportunities and cut ties because of those
00:29:34.980 things. But I don't see biblical support for the idea that women can't be talking about academic
00:29:42.840 subjects, theology, doctrine publicly. Now, I take my doctrine in theology from almost exclusively,
00:29:53.240 I would say, male theologians. I can't even really tell you a female theologian that I am like,
00:29:59.300 inspired by. Well, actually, I don't even know if I would call them theologians. But there are women,
00:30:06.720 however, that I am inspired by, that I get content from, that I cite very often. And I just wonder if
00:30:12.920 they fall into, according to those who hold this patriarchal view, I'm wondering if women that I am
00:30:19.360 inspired by, like Elizabeth Elliott, like Amy Carmichael, like Susan Heck. I mean, there's so many
00:30:25.920 different women who speak about things, who write about things, who teach about things that are not
00:30:32.720 limited to homemaking. Now, everything, again, I think goes back to that. You have to know theology,
00:30:38.420 even, yes, academic theology, in order to live a life that we are called to live and teach the things
00:30:44.640 that we are called to teach in Titus 2, about living pure lives, about conducting ourselves in
00:30:51.600 a way that is godly, leading up our children. Like, look, if I'm discipling my kids, I need to know
00:30:59.000 and I need to be able to teach, not just to my kids, but if I'm an older woman to younger women,
00:31:05.220 like, what does the Bible say about predestination and salvation? You'd be surprised,
00:31:09.240 but that comes up really early in motherhood. Like, what do you believe the gospel actually is?
00:31:14.220 What do you believe the end times are? All of these things, in one way or another, have to do
00:31:19.360 with motherhood. And so, even if we are only called as women to teach what Titus 2 tells us to teach,
00:31:26.320 we need to be able to understand these very heady, very complicated theological issues,
00:31:31.560 and yes, repackage them for women. Because I just, I'm not really sure if there's any theological
00:31:38.480 topic, no matter how complex, no matter how academic, that will not affect how someone lives
00:31:45.940 and therefore how someone mothers. And so, I simply don't see that much of a distinction there.
00:31:53.920 And by the way, a lot of these women who are repeating this idea that women can only talk about
00:31:59.200 child rearing, women can only talk about, like, keeping a home, which are all wonderful things
00:32:03.660 that I think we should focus on and we should talk about and we should be taught about. There should
00:32:07.320 be more mentorship in the church about those things, 100%. But a lot of the women who are
00:32:12.860 saying, yes, women shouldn't be talking about theology. You shouldn't be even talking about
00:32:16.580 politics. You shouldn't be talking about worldview and all that. They chime in in the gender debates.
00:32:22.240 I see your tweets. You got something to say about President Biden. You got something to say about
00:32:27.040 Trump. You got something to say about guns. You got something to say about a lot of these
00:32:31.920 political topics. But what would you say to the women who say this? You say, well, they're really
00:32:37.720 biblical topics. Yeah, that's my argument, too. That's my argument, too. I talk about the things
00:32:42.540 that I do because I think that they have not just political and cultural significance, but they have
00:32:46.620 theological, spiritual, and eternal significance. And I do see, I mean, I do believe that men and women
00:32:54.440 as Christians are called to those things. And I say this also as someone who is really skeptical
00:33:04.100 of Bible studies that are written by women. Like, I'll just be honest. Like, I'm really skeptical
00:33:10.040 when I, like, I'm really skeptical of those things. My propensity, as someone who considers myself,
00:33:16.660 like, I'm a gal's gal, okay? Like, I love my female friendships. I've always had strong female
00:33:22.960 friendships. I've never been someone that's like, I'm just different. I only have guy friends. I've
00:33:27.620 never been that kind of person. Sorry, Brie laughed in the background that made me laugh.
00:33:33.460 So I'm, like, I'm a gal's gal. And I think women are awesome and, like, so smart and so capable.
00:33:39.420 And yet, I'll just be honest. Like, I am skeptical when I hear, when, like, teaching comes from a woman.
00:33:46.040 I'm not saying that's right of me to always be skeptical of that. But I do gravitate, definitely.
00:33:52.960 Towards theological works and towards biblical books that are written by men. Not always. Again,
00:33:58.400 there are definitely exceptions. But usually, especially the academic books. So I have no
00:34:03.560 problem saying that most academic theological work that we have that is trustworthy has been
00:34:10.080 written by men. That's, I'm fine with saying that. But again, when I think of someone like Nancy
00:34:16.540 Piercy, who I don't think she was, she wouldn't call herself a theologian, but who has written
00:34:20.320 amazing theological books, like Total Truth, like Love Thy Body. I mean, those have been so
00:34:28.440 instrumental in my understanding of these very complex topics from an academic, but more important,
00:34:36.260 biblical perspective. Like, I think that there would be a void left if Nancy Piercy didn't write books.
00:34:41.620 What about Rosaria Butterfield? If you haven't listened to her interview, go back to Thursday.
00:34:46.900 If she wasn't out there sharing her testimony, I mean, we talked theology on Thursday.
00:34:53.420 We talked some political and cultural stuff that's really just biblical.
00:34:57.100 We didn't really talk that much about motherhood, although she is a homeschooling mom. I'm sure she
00:35:01.060 has a lot to say about that. But she talks about a lot of things. And wow, people, by the grace of God,
00:35:06.940 through Rosaria Butterfield, have repented of their sins, even sexual sins, because they have
00:35:12.300 realized just the power of the gospel worked out through her. Should she be silent? Should she
00:35:19.900 reserve the things that she has to say about biblical doctrine, about theology, about her own testimony,
00:35:26.420 to the privacy of her own journals, and simply allow her husband to speak up about these things?
00:35:31.040 Look, I've also seen people say that it's a problem if a woman's husband is not as famous
00:35:40.860 as her or isn't as well known as her. Why? That's you measuring someone's value by whether
00:35:47.800 they are public or private. God isn't. I don't think that I'm more important to the body of Christ
00:35:53.280 than someone who is never behind a microphone or only influences the five people in her home versus
00:36:00.160 the number of people that I influence. I don't think that person is less valuable or less
00:36:04.300 instrumental. I don't think that the man who just happens to not have a public platform is somehow
00:36:09.600 weak or somehow not leading or is somehow not influential or somehow not fulfilling his God-given
00:36:15.320 role of leadership versus a woman who is public. I don't think God measures our obedience or usefulness
00:36:21.840 or value by whether we are private or public with our platforms. It just depends on the strengths
00:36:28.380 and the opportunities and the platforms that he has given us, and it's our opportunity and our
00:36:33.060 responsibility, rather, to steward those things responsibly and for his glory, right?
00:36:38.960 And I think, again, about Elizabeth Elliot. Sure, you know Jim Elliot, but her second husband,
00:36:44.660 do you know his name? He died. Her third husband, do you know his name? I know their names, but that's
00:36:49.820 just because I'm an Elizabeth Elliot stan. Not because her husbands were famous, besides, again,
00:36:56.820 Jim Elliot and her last husband, Lars, traveled with her. Yes, he was her spiritual head. He was
00:37:03.720 the leader of the family, but he also helped her a lot. He made sure all the logistics were taken care
00:37:09.760 of, even that the audio was secure and put in place and everything like that. She was the one
00:37:15.120 going around and teaching. Was she teaching women? Yes, she was teaching women. She also had a radio
00:37:19.880 program in which I'm sure there were men who tuned in. And Elizabeth Elliot, just like me,
00:37:25.540 can't control that. I can't control that. It's not my job. And I don't have the capability of
00:37:32.340 being able to filter out who listens to me publicly. But I think that not that I'm comparing
00:37:38.040 myself to Elizabeth Elliot at all. I'm just saying public platforms, like you just do the best you can
00:37:43.520 and you speak to the subjects that you can with as much, you know, grace and God-given power as
00:37:49.480 possible. And so when I just see this view, when I just compare this view to reality and I look at
00:37:58.160 the faithful, theologically conservative, biblically solid women who have written beautifully exegetical
00:38:07.980 and beautifully sound Bible studies because they exist out there. Again, I mean, I do think women
00:38:14.840 tend to be more emotional. And so sometimes I do think the Bible studies are more me-centered and
00:38:20.380 I don't always enjoy that. And so, and because I don't think it's biblical, but there are women
00:38:24.640 who have written amazing Bible studies, who have written amazingly biblical sound books. You don't
00:38:30.100 know the names of their husbands. Maybe they've made a lot of money from these platforms too. And
00:38:35.820 their husband has, you know, a different kind of job. And I have benefited so much from these
00:38:42.060 women's testimonies, from their smarts, from their words, from the gifts that God has given them.
00:38:47.960 And they would agree that they're not the head of their family, that they're not a head of the church,
00:38:53.720 but that they see their humble and obedient use of God's gifts as simply serving him.
00:39:03.440 Here's another question that I have for this. Like, are women called to discipleship?
00:39:07.240 Are they called to discipleship? Are they called to share the gospel? Are they called to reach out
00:39:13.520 to the lost in their own lives? You would say yes, right? No matter what your view is on gender roles,
00:39:20.800 you would say yes. Yeah, I would too. I would too. And you know what is required in discipleship?
00:39:28.520 A grasp of and an ability to communicate some of these more academic and theologically complex
00:39:36.980 topics. I'm not saying that you have to be a master theologian. Most men aren't master theologians
00:39:41.700 either. But look, if a young woman, young college woman comes to me, she's not married, she's, you
00:39:48.620 know, she's single, shouldn't have kids. And she says, will you please like disciple me? Help me
00:39:54.340 understand like what Christianity is about. Yeah, I might not get into eschatology right away,
00:40:00.400 but it's eventually going to come up. So am I only supposed to teach this young woman what it means
00:40:07.540 to be a wife and mom, which I think is, would be a really important part of a discipleship and
00:40:11.740 mentorship relationship to be able to give that example for her? Absolutely. But when she comes
00:40:17.340 with these really complex questions, these theological questions about sin, about salvation
00:40:22.720 and about sanctification, am I supposed to pass the baton to someone else, even though I am fully
00:40:28.100 equipped to be able to answer those questions for her? I want to know genuinely, like are women
00:40:34.780 called to a limited form of discipleship in which we have to then pass the torch to a man? Like,
00:40:42.080 do I call my husband and say, hey, you know, Sally's got a question about theology. I do know the answer,
00:40:49.440 but if I could just put you on speakerphone and you could answer it, that would be great.
00:40:53.220 I'm not sure that that is what is required of us in Titus 2. Yes, women are supposed to teach those
00:41:00.060 things. I'm not sure that Titus 2 means that we are supposed to only teach those things. Yes,
00:41:07.000 I don't believe that women are supposed to be pastors in a church. I don't believe that means
00:41:10.200 that we are never in any context able to exegete scripture. Okay, so John Piper is what I would
00:41:30.140 also consider myself a complementarianist and a complementarian. Now, just to say, I don't agree
00:41:37.380 with John Piper on everything. I don't. Like, I'm not looking to him as like the sole authority
00:41:41.880 on this. But when it comes to a variety of things, like when it comes to eschatology,
00:41:47.600 when it comes to biblical manhood and womanhood, I do think that I align most with John Piper
00:41:55.520 and those in his camp. Now, he said some like political things we've talked about on here that
00:42:00.780 I totally disagree with. I actually theologically disagree with some of those political statements.
00:42:05.200 But that doesn't mean that I don't appreciate him in a lot of ways. So let me tell you a little
00:42:11.240 bit about what he said as a complementarian on biblical manhood and womanhood. So in response to
00:42:19.600 the idea that men and women can have equal roles, that they can both do anything that they want to
00:42:25.280 do, he says, sin did not bring diversified complementary roles into existence. God did.
00:42:30.980 So this means that before the fall, God ordained and fitted Adam to be a loving,
00:42:35.180 caring, strong leader for his wife, Eve. God ordained and fitted Eve to be a partner who
00:42:39.960 supports and honors that leadership and helps carry it through. Again, like I would say,
00:42:44.960 and I think he would say, this doesn't mean that she is only always in a servant type role. But when
00:42:50.840 it comes to marriage, there is headship, there is submission. And in Ephesians 5, he says,
00:42:57.160 Paul reiterates this creation order when he talks about husbands leaving their wives, being the head
00:43:03.620 of the wives as Christ is the head of the church, wives being submissive to your husbands as to the
00:43:10.180 Lord. Now, I always like to say this because, again, if you're a strong-willed gal like me,
00:43:14.440 that might rub you the wrong way, the idea of submitting to your husband. But this is a woman
00:43:18.960 protective passage. What would have been radical at the time that this was written was not the command
00:43:23.760 for husbands to be the head of their wives or not. It wouldn't have been scandalous to say,
00:43:29.400 wives, you should submit to their husbands. What would have been scandalous at the time
00:43:34.260 was the command for husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for
00:43:41.720 her. Because the rampant idea at the time, which has been rampant in different parts of history,
00:43:47.200 is that wives are basically receptacles for their husbands. The husbands can do whatever they want to.
00:43:53.240 They can have affairs. They can have mistresses. They can do what they want with their slaves.
00:43:58.760 They have all the power. I've talked about this many times before that women during this time were
00:44:03.560 really not seen or treated as full persons. And so they were subjugated in a lot of ways. So this
00:44:10.660 passage would have been so offensive to the time, not because there were so many feminists running
00:44:15.680 around and saying, what? I thought that wives should be leading their husbands. No. It was obvious that
00:44:20.560 men at the time had more power over women, including husbands over their wives. What would have been
00:44:24.560 radical would have been the call to husbands to lay down their very lives for their wives. There are
00:44:31.840 other parts of the New Testament that calls them to fidelity, exclusivity, monogamy, mutual submission
00:44:40.500 in a lot of ways. And like mutual, even like a sexual fulfillment, as we've talked about before in a lot
00:44:48.820 of ways. And so these commands that I think a lot of feminists or a lot of people see today as,
00:44:53.780 you know, anti-woman actually, as they were written, would have been so radical in the sense that they
00:44:59.880 are commanding men to act so differently than the other husbands at the time would have acted in a way
00:45:06.320 that was humble and sacrificial and loving to the point of even death, just as Christ died for the
00:45:13.620 sanctity, for the love of the church. Now, John Piper says the real task of whether we have grasped
00:45:19.620 Paul's depiction in Ephesians 5 is whether we apply it to life in the church. So he cites 1 Timothy 2,
00:45:30.460 11 through 14, let a woman learn in silence with all submissiveness. I permit no woman to teach or have
00:45:35.540 authority over men. She has to keep silent. For, and this goes back to creation order, Adam was formed
00:45:41.800 first, then Eve. Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor. So we
00:45:49.300 do have to look at the context. In all verses, we look at the context. We use scripture to interpret
00:45:54.400 scripture. We look at the original translation and we don't just say, I don't like that. So I'm going to
00:45:59.900 try to find some commentary that agrees with my dislike of it so I can dismiss it. We just try to
00:46:04.800 understand it better. And we say, wow, God's word, God's way is better than mine. So let me understand
00:46:09.480 what this says. So John Piper says that the word for silence here is Hesuia. I don't know if I
00:46:16.460 pronounced that correctly. Hesuia probably is used early in verse 2, referring to the quiet life which
00:46:25.960 all godly people should lead. Pray that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life, godly and respectful in
00:46:33.680 every way. If you look at the context and the original word, it doesn't mean absolute silence.
00:46:39.640 It's more what we would call quietness. Piper says that quietness means not speaking in a way that
00:46:45.800 compromises that authority which God has set up within the church. So it doesn't mean that a woman
00:46:52.260 can't give morning announcements. It doesn't mean that a woman can't sing. It doesn't mean that a woman
00:46:56.960 can say absolutely nothing during a church service. It is talking about a particular kind of
00:47:03.020 reverence that people are called to. And if you look at the passage in its totality, the concern
00:47:10.940 is the orderly nature of the meetings, the orderly nature of the church, as well as the hierarchy.
00:47:18.040 We know that God is a God of order. We see that from the beginning all the way to the end of
00:47:22.720 Scripture. And so there was a disorder that was happening, not just in authority, but also just
00:47:27.620 in behavior in these early congregations that Paul, using the authority of Scripture and citing
00:47:33.940 the creation, was trying to rectify. It was less about saying that women cannot open their mouths
00:47:39.240 and more to saying, look, there's an order to church, just as there was an order to creation.
00:47:45.880 And he says that we can look, Piper says, we can look at other places where Paul and others talk
00:47:50.780 about women teaching. Titus 2, of course, says that older women are to teach the younger women.
00:47:55.580 2 Timothy 3.14 is where Paul tells Timothy to remember from whom he learned the Scriptures,
00:48:00.580 his mother and grandmother. And then Acts 8.18.26 tells us when Priscilla and Achilla heard
00:48:08.680 Apollos, they took him and expounded to him the way of God more accurately. So every kind of teaching
00:48:14.240 is not forbidden to women. There are examples of them teaching younger women, teaching children,
00:48:17.880 in some way, teaming up with their husbands to give private instruction. And so he says that it's
00:48:25.280 probably safest, based on interpretation and context, to mean that a certain kind of teaching
00:48:30.040 that relates to authority within the church is not permitted for women. And then he goes on to explain,
00:48:38.620 like, what does authority actually mean? It refers to the divine calling of spiritual gifted men
00:48:45.120 to take primary responsibility as elders for Christ-like servant leadership and teaching
00:48:50.460 in the church. And submission refers to the divine calling of the rest of the church, both men and
00:48:55.300 women, to honor and affirm the leadership of the elders and to be equipped by it for the hundreds
00:48:59.620 and hundreds of various ministries available to men and women in the service of Christ. He makes
00:49:05.460 these points. According to Scripture, God intends for the entire church to be mobilized in ministry,
00:49:10.400 male and female. God intends to equip and mobilize the saints through a company of spiritual men who
00:49:15.040 take primary responsibility for leadership and teaching in the church. Piper concludes by
00:49:20.860 commending this to you for your belief and for your behavior, because this is the way the scriptures
00:49:24.800 teach us to order the church. And God inspired the scriptures and God is good. There are some other
00:49:31.980 questions. We don't have time to answer all of them, but there are some other questions that Piper
00:49:38.000 answered about whether or not a woman could preach in the church at all. And he says she may be under
00:49:45.700 the authority of the elders, but she is not under the authority of the New Testament, and neither would
00:49:49.940 they be for putting her in that situation. So he would say, no, a woman can't preach behind the pulpit,
00:49:56.300 even if someone says, you know, she's under my authority, she's under the head of the pastor.
00:50:03.880 So he also answers the question about whether men and women can be employed in different types of
00:50:12.280 ministry. Of course, he says, yes, women are. Women are called to share the gospel. Women are called to
00:50:17.540 teach in a variety of ways. But again, it comes back to the authority and the order and the structure of
00:50:23.100 the church. And yes, even the family. There are other things that he answers. He talks about women
00:50:30.000 in seminary, whether they can be teachers there. What I don't think is answered, and I guess is still
00:50:35.640 up for debate. What I don't see explicitly in scripture is whether women can talk about these
00:50:41.740 things at all. I don't see any biblical prohibition or even inhibition to women to be able to talk about
00:50:49.700 things of biblical importance, even academic level importance, theologically complex topics. Yes, we do
00:50:59.100 typically rely on very wise and strong men for these things. But I don't see any exclusion of women when it
00:51:07.080 comes to talking about the Bible, even expositing the Bible in some ways and in some contexts, or talking
00:51:16.920 about issues of cultural and political import. It seems that God has both gifted women with this and
00:51:26.560 called some women to this. Now, does that mean that there should be a dereliction of duty if we are wives
00:51:32.200 and moms, that we should be prioritizing whatever other pursuits that we have before our priority
00:51:37.860 of the home? No, but all of us in one way or another are focusing on a variety of things. Of course,
00:51:46.380 it is a matter, once again, when it comes to our lives as women, as moms, as wives, of order, of
00:51:52.660 ordering, of understanding our primary responsibilities, our primary roles, and ensuring that we are
00:51:58.720 stewarding all of the time, all of the gifts, all the resources that God has given us for his glory
00:52:04.200 within their proper biblical context. I take issue with different parts of the patriarchal view that
00:52:10.000 women have to stay at home until they get married, that they are not able to talk about doctrine or
00:52:17.080 teach doctrine to other women. I just don't see biblical support for it. And again, I think it's
00:52:22.240 logically inconsistent if we believe that all women are called to share the gospel, all women are called
00:52:27.280 to discipleship, all women are called to think and speak biblically. And look, I don't use this as,
00:52:35.280 I don't use this as a way to say, well, this is how we know that, you know, someone is justified in
00:52:42.760 doing what they do. But I am very thankful that by the grace of God, by the grace of God, that I
00:52:50.260 received messages from women saying, I didn't know the gospel until this podcast, or I wasn't pro-life,
00:52:57.660 or I was considering having an abortion, or I was considering putting off having kids,
00:53:01.620 maybe forever because I was scared of the future or because I just wanted to do my job or whatever
00:53:07.720 it was, by the complete power of God that he has used this podcast, thankfully and graciously to
00:53:14.920 bring people to himself and to change minds and hearts on things that I think have spiritual and
00:53:20.300 eternal impact. And there may come a day where he calls me away from this, where this is no longer
00:53:28.020 my responsibility or no longer my role anymore. And I am open, of course, to correction on all of
00:53:36.600 these things. But I have to say, like, it's difficult for me to get the messages that I do
00:53:42.120 and to receive the feedback that I do and to see the fruit that God has, again, graciously and
00:53:47.560 mercifully given to this podcast and what we talk about. And meet those of you who come up to me with
00:53:55.680 hands shaking and tears in your eyes and you telling me your testimony and how God has, like,
00:54:00.120 used this book or this podcast or whatever to teach you something. It's really difficult for me to say,
00:54:04.700 you know what? Like, this area is just not for any women. I don't know. I don't know. It's hard for me
00:54:14.820 knowing what I know, not just about scripture, but also about some women, some women who are in
00:54:20.340 ministry, some women who are writing books, some women who are doing the things that they do, again,
00:54:27.640 within the biblical context of their authority and abilities, and to see the fruit and the products
00:54:34.120 of that and to think, no, that's not for them. Again, primarily and most importantly, I'm not sure
00:54:40.040 that the Bible supports excluding women from all of those roles. But also, I think that their fruit
00:54:46.980 also indicates that God is doing really, really incredible things through them.
00:55:04.120 All right. This is not an announcement. All I was going to say is that Mother's Day is coming up.
00:55:09.520 And if there are some related bros out there, I hope you didn't feel, I hope you didn't feel like I was
00:55:14.440 exercising too much authority over you. But I'm going to tell you what to do now. And I think it's
00:55:19.000 within my realm of authority. And that is that you should get your wife relatable gear. You should.
00:55:26.360 And even if she doesn't listen to this podcast, which she probably does, but even if she doesn't,
00:55:31.400 like, you should get her relatable gear and then she'll start listening to it. Be like,
00:55:35.520 I bought you this. You need to start listening to relatable. Get her corduroy hat. Get her crew
00:55:41.320 neck sweatshirt. I mean, it's about to be kind of hot, but she can wear it in the fall. We have a
00:55:44.420 lot of cute fall colors. We've got a lot of t-shirts. We've got a lot of totes. I use my tote
00:55:48.280 all the time. You can get a sticker, but you can use MOM10 for 10% off. MOM10. That's promo code
00:55:55.480 at AllieMerch.com. We'll put it in the description of this episode. You can click on it. AllieMerch.com.
00:56:03.520 Use code MOM10 for 10% off. Mother's Day is coming up. Related bros. Get the Related belt in your life.
00:56:10.260 Some relatable gear. All right. Do I have any more announcements for you? I don't think that I do.
00:56:16.100 Go back and listen to Rosario's episode if you haven't done that yet. She's amazing. And it's a
00:56:21.060 super, super encouraging episode. Okay. We've got a lot to talk about this week. Send me the stuff that
00:56:25.700 you want me to talk about if you haven't done that already. And I'll see you back here tomorrow.
00:56:28.420 We'll see you back here tomorrow.