Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey - May 02, 2023


Ep 798 | America’s Sacrificing Orphans on the Altar of Transgenderism | Guests: Jessica Bates & Christiana Kiefer


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34 minutes

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172.26831

Word Count

6,002

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469

Misogynist Sentences

16

Hate Speech Sentences

10


Summary

A Christian single mom of five in Oregon is trying to adopt through the state s adoption process, but she has been rejected by the state because she will not go along with gender ideology. Now she is suing the state of Oregon, claiming that they are discriminating against her for her faith.


Transcript

00:00:00.480 A Christian single mom of five in Oregon is trying to adopt through the state's adoption
00:00:08.540 process, but she has been rejected by the state because she will not go along with gender
00:00:14.940 ideology.
00:00:15.820 Now she is suing the state of Oregon, claiming that they are discriminating against her for
00:00:20.820 her faith.
00:00:21.700 This is such an important story.
00:00:23.960 I've got Jessica, the mom here, as well as her representation, Christiana from Alliance
00:00:29.520 Defending Freedom here today.
00:00:31.120 We are going to get into this and talk about why this matters and also the amazing things
00:00:35.420 that God is already doing through her story.
00:00:38.540 And then we're going to have a little bit of fun at the end of this.
00:00:41.040 We're going to look at the ridiculousness at the Met Gala last night.
00:00:44.160 We don't really care about it, but also it's just fun to make fun of these crazy people.
00:00:48.400 All right.
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00:00:59.520 Jessica, Christiana, thanks so much for joining me.
00:01:07.980 Jessica, we'll start with you.
00:01:09.680 You're suing the state of Oregon for denying you the opportunity to adopt children because
00:01:14.300 you're not planning on complying with the state's policy to respect preferred pronouns
00:01:20.520 and things like that.
00:01:21.380 Obviously, it's contrary to your faith.
00:01:23.180 It's contrary to my faith.
00:01:24.580 But I want to back up.
00:01:26.840 Tell us how you started adopting children and how you started taking care of children
00:01:33.280 who needed a home and needed love in the state of Oregon.
00:01:36.840 Well, I haven't yet, but that's the goal.
00:01:41.120 A couple years ago, I was listening to a focus on the family broadcast as I was driving into
00:01:46.660 work, and it was a single dad who had adopted a son out of foster care, and I kind of thought,
00:01:53.760 oh, that's really awesome that he did that.
00:01:56.920 And then it was not an audible voice, but it was really clear four words in my spirit just
00:02:03.960 saying, those are my children.
00:02:06.240 And, you know, trying not to crash, got into work and just kind of thinking about this and
00:02:13.360 praying and felt like God was leading me to look into adopting.
00:02:19.620 And that was a little over two years ago, I want to say.
00:02:23.320 It's definitely been a little bit of a journey, but ended up looking into the state of Oregon.
00:02:28.580 I had started, for whatever reason, looking internationally.
00:02:33.120 And I have five children, and my husband was killed in a head-on collision about six years
00:02:39.880 ago.
00:02:40.760 And so I kind of started just an open dialogue with the kids, see how they felt about it,
00:02:44.820 and we're praying about it.
00:02:46.520 And we felt like we would like to take in a sibling pair.
00:02:50.320 So not just one child, but we felt like we could help two out.
00:02:53.400 And this Columbia basically is kind of like, we can't really guarantee that we would adopt
00:03:01.120 a sibling pair to a single mom.
00:03:03.400 And it was going to be, you know, pretty expensive to get started through the agency I was looking
00:03:08.060 at.
00:03:08.260 And I think just to adopt internationally, it costs a fair amount.
00:03:12.320 And so then I just kind of felt like, okay, maybe I just need to look right here in Oregon
00:03:17.940 and go through the state system.
00:03:19.960 There's kids right here who need a family.
00:03:21.980 So in March of last year, of 2022, that's when I started looking into the states and starting
00:03:30.720 their process and started applying and, you know, getting references and getting fingerprinted
00:03:36.020 and going through some of their training and everything.
00:03:40.020 And you're a single mother, correct?
00:03:43.220 Right.
00:03:44.340 And several years ago, you lost your husband in a tragic accident, right?
00:03:49.740 Yes.
00:03:52.000 Yeah.
00:03:52.400 I was so blessed with such a wonderful husband.
00:03:56.080 And it's kind of funny because, you know, you look in hindsight, he and I, we had kind
00:04:00.080 of talked about adopting a little bit, but just felt like, no, God's not really leading
00:04:04.360 us to do that right now.
00:04:06.020 And I'm just with the history of losing him and all of that and just walking through that
00:04:10.800 with our biological children.
00:04:12.340 And I'm thankful because I felt like that was kind of God's mercy and just his timing.
00:04:17.100 He knows when it's the right time for everything.
00:04:20.660 And yeah, David was killed.
00:04:23.080 We had record snowfall out here.
00:04:25.200 It was crazy.
00:04:26.000 And he was the manager of the radiology department where I work at in Ontario, where we both
00:04:31.340 worked.
00:04:32.460 And he could work from home.
00:04:34.020 And so he was going to work at home that morning.
00:04:36.760 And I had to be in for the early shift at 7 a.m.
00:04:40.140 And so I kind of remember asking him, you know, which vehicle do you want me to drive?
00:04:44.360 Which one should I take in?
00:04:45.520 And he just, without hesitation, was like, I'm going to drive you into work.
00:04:49.740 I'm going to get you there so make sure you get you there safe.
00:04:51.860 Yeah.
00:04:52.660 And this man who had just brutally murdered his ex-wife was fleeing police and chose to
00:05:02.400 run into us head on at like 80 miles an hour.
00:05:05.680 And David veered to the right, right before impact.
00:05:09.680 And so he ended up taking the brunt of it and was killed immediately.
00:05:14.100 I'm so sorry.
00:05:15.500 And you both have five biological children, right?
00:05:20.720 Right.
00:05:21.100 Five biological children, you're left as a single mother.
00:05:25.560 And I know maybe this doesn't seem like part of the story that's making the news, but just
00:05:32.160 I mean, on this podcast, we love to see how God orchestrates people's testimonies, whether
00:05:36.740 it's through tragedy or through loss or through hardship or through mistakes or whatever it
00:05:40.880 is.
00:05:41.200 And so tell us a little bit about just after that happened.
00:05:44.960 Obviously, it was devastating, shocking.
00:05:47.140 I can't even imagine how you tell your young children something like that.
00:05:50.960 But tell us a little bit what life was like after that.
00:05:55.880 And then getting to the point of saying, I think I want to adopt more children.
00:05:59.660 I mean, there's a lot that God would have had to do in that interim period.
00:06:05.380 Right.
00:06:05.820 Well, definitely something like that will test your faith.
00:06:10.660 It'll test what you believe to be true.
00:06:12.520 Do you really believe it?
00:06:13.580 And I love one of the analogies that my youth pastor used one Sunday sometime after Dave's
00:06:20.860 passing was this story that there was a mom who was dying of cancer and she went out to
00:06:26.380 eat with her family.
00:06:28.000 And after the meal, they said, hang on to your fork because the best is yet to come.
00:06:32.680 And just clinging to what the Bible promises us and what God says.
00:06:39.260 And I have to confess, too, for that first year, a couple of years, I really got into apologetics.
00:06:46.680 And that really encouraged me just to show how much evidence there is out there that what
00:06:53.660 Jesus did wasn't done in a corner.
00:06:55.920 And it's not cleverly devised myths that we're following.
00:06:58.740 Like, it's true history.
00:07:00.960 And God has definitely been the one who has seen me through.
00:07:05.400 I just know His grace has been around me.
00:07:09.720 And it does feel, when you have a loss like that, it does feel just like this void or this,
00:07:15.540 you know, this surreal, kind of like a dream where you're waiting to wake up and it's really
00:07:20.920 hard to believe it's real, probably for the first year or two even.
00:07:24.880 But God has definitely been there.
00:07:28.140 And watching your children go through that, you know, I have two loving parents that I
00:07:34.080 still have.
00:07:35.600 So my heart still aches for my kids not having their earthly dad here, but also just encouraging
00:07:42.580 them in their faith that, you know, Jesus told us to pray, Father, He wants us to have
00:07:47.520 that intimate relationship with God where He's the ultimate good Father.
00:07:51.880 So really encouraging them in that.
00:07:53.560 And then it's like, when He spoke those words to me, those are my children, it was in that
00:08:00.580 protective dad voice.
00:08:02.480 Like, I love them.
00:08:04.340 And it's like, He let me just catch just the smallest glimpse of His heart for these kids
00:08:08.960 and seeing my kids not have their dad.
00:08:12.340 And then thinking about these children that don't have really either parent or because
00:08:18.440 of, you know, drug abuse or other issues, they can't have that healthy, solid, grounding
00:08:24.540 family relationship with their parents.
00:08:26.920 It really makes you want to do something because even though we don't have a physical dad in
00:08:34.580 this house right now, I feel like we have a really loving family.
00:08:38.180 And I think the kids and I could give a family to some children who need it.
00:08:43.360 It just goes to show God's power, His ability to make beauty out of the ashes, to redeem any
00:09:02.280 kind of lost or devastating situation.
00:09:05.680 I mean, if you think about not just that your husband tragically died, but how he died, there's
00:09:10.040 an opportunity there for bitterness, for resentment, for anger, for unforgiveness, for that man
00:09:15.380 who made an avoidable, I mean, choice to, you know, make a decision that then ended in the
00:09:24.120 murder of the father of your children and your husband.
00:09:27.300 And not only have you, I don't want to say moved on from that, but you have begun to heal
00:09:33.460 from that by the power of God and then use your faith to then redeem the lives of other
00:09:39.360 people, hopefully, through adoption.
00:09:42.140 And so I guess about, it was four years after your husband died, I think if I have the math
00:09:46.820 correct here, that you kind of, that you were listening to Focus on the Family and you were like,
00:09:50.380 wow, I want to take part of that.
00:09:52.520 And then through the process realized you were going to go through the state of Oregon.
00:09:56.360 Did you assume at that point when you were going to try to adopt a child or be a part of the foster
00:10:02.440 care system that it would be pretty straightforward?
00:10:04.400 Like you would just kind of apply and then you would be a part of the process?
00:10:10.200 Yeah.
00:10:10.900 You know, I thought it would be pretty straightforward and I kind of thought that the biggest challenge
00:10:16.360 would be like making sure I have all the carbon monoxide detectors and good grates across
00:10:21.860 the window wells.
00:10:22.820 Like I thought it would be more stuff to like make sure the house is up to exact standards
00:10:27.400 that they want.
00:10:28.180 But I, I never would have dreamed it was going to go down this road.
00:10:33.500 Right.
00:10:34.040 Yeah.
00:10:34.440 Yeah.
00:10:34.900 So tell us, tell us a little bit about the first speed bump.
00:10:38.060 So you tried to become, was it a foster parent or adopt a specific child?
00:10:43.520 Basically adopting not a specific child or anything.
00:10:46.140 We hadn't met any siblings or anything just to adopt through the foster care system.
00:10:51.400 Okay.
00:10:51.680 So that was the first thing that you were trying to do.
00:10:54.220 Tell me about the first speed bump when you realized, oh, this is not going to be smooth sailing.
00:10:59.120 Well, so they have you take what's called a resource and adoptive families training, their
00:11:04.440 raft training.
00:11:05.560 And I took that back in June and definitely in July.
00:11:10.520 And one of the topics that's basically a full unit in that training is what they call SOGI,
00:11:17.120 which is sexual orientation and gender identity.
00:11:20.100 And they emphasize that you have to respect, accept, and then support children if they don't
00:11:28.580 have, um, if, if like, if a young man wants to transition and become a female, you're expected
00:11:35.560 to take him for cross-sex hormone injections or for surgeries or for whatever step they're
00:11:41.260 at or whatever thing it is that they're wanting to do.
00:11:43.280 Um, you would be expected to take children to like gay pride parades or post certain flags
00:11:49.220 or signs in your yard.
00:11:50.440 You would have to, so you would have to not just call this like boy by his preferred pronouns
00:11:57.040 so-called if he wanted to be a girl, but you would actually have to completely affirm and
00:12:01.940 then go out of your way to celebrate this, you know, identity.
00:12:06.700 Yeah, that's the thing that, and that's where I finished the training and then I emailed my
00:12:13.880 certifier, um, in the beginning of August and let her know, Hey, you know, the training
00:12:19.220 had a lot of really wonderful things that I'm using with my biological children right now,
00:12:24.180 but this SOGI thing conflicts with my faith and I have very different views and convictions
00:12:32.240 than this ideology that the state of Oregon is requiring, requiring me to do and to accept.
00:12:40.860 And it took a while to hear back, but that was basically the first speed bump is getting
00:12:44.760 through the training and then letting them know, Hey, I have conflict of conscience here.
00:12:49.100 And what was their response when you said that?
00:12:51.920 Well, it took about two months for them to respond.
00:12:54.840 And my certifier ended up calling me and, um, kind of just walking through hypothetical
00:13:02.560 situations.
00:13:03.300 And the one that she specifically brought up was, okay, well, you have a child in your care
00:13:08.480 who would like to transition and needs to go have hormone shots.
00:13:12.760 Will you drive this child to their hormone appointments?
00:13:15.620 And I told her, no, I, I believe that our gender is something sacred.
00:13:20.480 And not only that, I think I said, I, I think that's child abuse that it's just, yeah, you're
00:13:26.680 not affirming a person for who they really are basically.
00:13:30.480 And she basically said, well, we're basically going to pull your application and put it on
00:13:35.820 pause.
00:13:36.540 If you change your mind, then we can put it back into circulation.
00:13:40.700 And I, and I even said, so in the whole state of Oregon, you're telling me there's not
00:13:45.640 a sibling pair that doesn't have gender confusion issues or gender dysphoria that we could take
00:13:51.640 into our home.
00:13:52.660 And she said, well, that's, that's not really the point because even if we did allow that
00:13:58.140 years down the road, they could change their mind and, and develop these issues.
00:14:02.320 And you're not going to be supportive in, you know, taking them to these appointments and
00:14:07.960 things.
00:14:08.980 So, so she basically let me know that it was basically going to be pulled and everything.
00:14:12.940 And then about two months after that phone call, I got the official letter of denial from
00:14:18.520 the state.
00:14:19.340 So you couldn't, they said, basically you don't qualify to adopt anyone, whether they're
00:14:26.360 newborns, whether they're toddlers, whether they're 16 years old, you are not qualified
00:14:33.420 because you don't agree with the state's radical view on this, on this idea that you can change
00:14:40.920 your gender through hormone therapy or whatever it is.
00:14:43.940 And you won't go to gay pride parades, right?
00:14:47.640 Right.
00:14:48.200 Yeah.
00:14:48.500 That's what it came down to.
00:14:50.320 And, you know, they kind of make themselves sound like they're really inclusive.
00:14:54.320 They're really diverse and they want everybody to be involved and have fair access, but not
00:15:00.760 if you don't agree with their ideology.
00:15:02.240 And if you won't, you know, in my case, if you won't violate your conscience to uphold the
00:15:06.780 things they want you to uphold.
00:15:08.160 So a lot of people in your situation, I mean, you've been through a lot.
00:15:25.100 You have a lot on your plate just as a mom of five children, a single mom of five children.
00:15:30.760 So the fact that you not only wanted to adopt, but you wanted to adopt a sibling pair.
00:15:35.740 So more than one.
00:15:38.160 But after this, I think a lot of people in your situation would have just said, thrown
00:15:42.800 up their hands and just kind of given up.
00:15:46.660 But you decided to keep pursuing this, right?
00:15:49.120 Like, when did you decide, OK, this is not right.
00:15:51.960 I'm going to figure out how to fight back against this rejection.
00:15:55.820 Yeah, pretty much after the well, after the phone call, I did ask for an explanation in
00:16:03.840 print, you know, please of why I'm being denied.
00:16:06.000 And I kind of started looking for help, basically, and ended up coming across the ADF and the
00:16:12.900 Alliance Defending Freedom.
00:16:14.920 And once I contacted them through just their online form, I want to say it was like a week
00:16:20.360 or less.
00:16:20.840 They got right back to me and then they said, we're interested.
00:16:24.560 And so I started, you know, giving them all the information and emails.
00:16:28.160 And it was kind of funny because I'd been praying, you know, you're just troubled about
00:16:33.940 something like that.
00:16:34.760 And it doesn't sit well.
00:16:36.120 I had a mentor kind of tell me she's adopted several children.
00:16:40.480 And she kind of said, well, sometimes, you know, it's just tell them what they want to
00:16:44.880 hear so that you can get kids out of the system, which I can understand.
00:16:48.620 And like, the ultimate goal, yes, that's noble.
00:16:51.240 But it just, I was just so upset, I guess, about it feeling it was so unjust that I didn't
00:16:59.540 want to do that.
00:17:00.000 I wanted to fight it.
00:17:01.540 And I had been just praying for a sign of God's favor in all of this.
00:17:07.400 And then that's shortly after I had started really praying that prayer.
00:17:10.840 That's when ADF contacted me and started, you know, the process and saying, we're interested
00:17:16.080 in representing you.
00:17:16.980 Okay, so you had kind of made this public or you had reached out to them, you said?
00:17:22.540 Yeah, I reached out to them, basically.
00:17:24.900 Okay.
00:17:25.260 Okay.
00:17:25.820 And then, Christiana, tell me about this lawsuit.
00:17:29.180 Does the state not have the right to say, okay, you can't adopt if you don't align with
00:17:34.160 our values?
00:17:36.320 Well, the state of Oregon here is using an ideological litmus test, as Jessica explained.
00:17:41.160 They basically welcome people from all cultural and religious backgrounds to adopt and to
00:17:46.600 be able to adopt a child, be a welcoming and loving home for a child who is a good fit for
00:17:52.860 that family, unless you disagree with the state's gender ideology.
00:17:56.780 And they're barring incredible parents like Jessica out the door, simply because of her
00:18:02.700 religious beliefs about marriage and about the human body.
00:18:05.840 And that's wrong.
00:18:07.220 It violates the First Amendment.
00:18:09.220 And so Alliance Defending Freedom is just privileged to represent Jessica.
00:18:13.040 And we filed a federal lawsuit against the state of Oregon.
00:18:15.680 And we've asked them to allow her to move forward with the adoption process while the
00:18:21.120 case moves forward, because what they're doing here is just a clear violation of her First
00:18:25.100 Amendment right to not only speak her religious convictions and to say true things, but also
00:18:30.200 to live according to her faith.
00:18:32.960 And so the lawsuit alleges that this is a violation of the First Amendment.
00:18:38.300 And where are you in this process right now?
00:18:42.660 So we're still very early on in the process.
00:18:44.740 Just recently filed a federal lawsuit.
00:18:46.820 And we're still waiting on the state of Oregon to respond.
00:18:50.420 OK, so you're still very early on in this.
00:18:53.460 And what do you do during this waiting period?
00:18:55.760 Is there anything that ADF tries to do to, like, speed things up, to get things going?
00:19:01.460 Like, do you just repeatedly contact them or kind of what goes on?
00:19:06.220 Yeah, so we filed a motion for what's called a preliminary injunction, which is basically saying
00:19:11.580 the state of Oregon, what you're doing here is wrong.
00:19:13.540 It's clearly wrong.
00:19:14.740 And you're hurting not just Jessica, but vulnerable children who need a forever home.
00:19:19.220 Right now, there's an average of 8,000 children in Oregon's foster system who need a forever
00:19:25.280 home.
00:19:26.120 And so we're asking the court to put a pause on Oregon's unconstitutional policies while
00:19:31.300 the lawsuit moves forward.
00:19:32.780 But I think the second big thing we're doing is just trying to amplify Jessica's voice.
00:19:36.700 I mean, you can hear she's an incredible mom.
00:19:38.700 And she would make an incredible safe and loving home for a child in the state of Oregon.
00:19:42.980 Unfortunately, what's happened to her is happening to other Christian families across the country.
00:19:48.320 We're hearing more and more stories of families from other states who are experiencing similar
00:19:53.060 discrimination from their state organizations and barring them at the door from even being able to foster
00:19:59.600 or adopt a child who agrees with their religious convictions.
00:20:02.860 So this is an increasing problem.
00:20:04.420 We want to raise awareness about this and help Christian families recognize that what's happening
00:20:09.660 to them violates the First Amendment.
00:20:11.800 And there are solutions.
00:20:14.320 Wow.
00:20:14.660 And it's just fundamentally anti-truth as well as anti-First Amendment.
00:20:19.940 I mean, the entire idea that a child can even change their gender or that that's a good thing
00:20:25.660 or that that is so important to a child's well-being that it's actually better for them to stay in the
00:20:31.720 foster care system than it would be for them to have a loving, secure and stable home where someone
00:20:37.420 is taking care of them.
00:20:38.760 And if that family simply says, you know what, God put you in the body that he wanted you to be in,
00:20:45.400 and I'm going to affirm that.
00:20:46.760 I'm going to love that.
00:20:47.860 And I'm going to celebrate that.
00:20:49.220 They actually want the opposite.
00:20:51.360 They want someone who says, no, I'm going to approve of maiming this body in the name of an
00:20:56.980 ideology that maybe I don't even agree with.
00:20:59.900 It's it's it's really, really sad, even beyond just the constitutional problems with it,
00:21:05.380 just the fundamentally moral and truth problems with it.
00:21:09.380 But you're right.
00:21:10.160 There are several states that enact this kind of policy, and it probably goes unchallenged in a lot
00:21:16.980 of cases, maybe because of what you said, Jessica, that some parents are just like, I'm just going to say
00:21:21.780 what I need to say.
00:21:23.020 I'm going to lie, which I agree with your reasoning that that's just not the route to go.
00:21:26.900 Or they just after they're rejected, they just say, well, I guess there's nothing I can do.
00:21:32.980 And they don't even realize that there is an avenue to push back on this because they don't
00:21:37.980 realize it's a violation of the First Amendment.
00:21:40.580 Christiana, what is the kind of euphemistic language that these more progressive states
00:21:46.000 are using to justify their policy?
00:21:48.020 Are they saying it's like pro safety, anti-discrimination?
00:21:51.320 Or how are they kind of casting their position?
00:21:53.740 Well, the state of Oregon is casting it as supporting or accepting a child
00:21:58.560 in their gender identity and gender dysphoria.
00:22:01.660 But I think you made such an important point earlier.
00:22:04.380 This transgender ideology is not only wrong and false, but it's dangerous.
00:22:09.900 And it's harmful to children.
00:22:11.780 What the state of Oregon is demanding that Jessica agree to ahead of time before any child is in the
00:22:16.820 picture is that she would take them to receive dangerous puberty blockers and cross-sex
00:22:21.880 hormones, potentially even life-altering surgeries, which just would, it's tragic what they're
00:22:28.740 doing to these young children.
00:22:30.600 And so the ideology is not only wrong and false, but it is dangerous.
00:22:35.200 And so that's why it's so important to have Christian families like Jessica and her children
00:22:40.140 standing up and wanting to speak truth and love and accept a child for who they are and
00:22:45.300 help them see the reality that they're created in God's image and that their biological sex is
00:22:49.660 a gift to be stewarded.
00:22:51.880 I mean, it's pretty incredible when you stop to think about what this story really represents,
00:23:08.140 that there is a state in the United States of America in which faithful Christians cannot
00:23:13.920 adopt because they will not agree to potentially one day allowing their adopted son or daughter
00:23:21.560 to either be chemically castrated or to get a double mastectomy in the name of gender
00:23:27.500 confusion.
00:23:28.420 Like that ideology is so important to the people in charge.
00:23:32.500 They're literally willing to risk a child's and adolescent's well-being on the altar of
00:23:38.780 it.
00:23:39.040 It's really sad.
00:23:40.940 What can just the average person do?
00:23:43.580 Okay.
00:23:43.840 So they're incensed right now.
00:23:45.340 They're like, I can't believe this is happening.
00:23:46.840 Whether they live in the state of Oregon or they live somewhere else.
00:23:49.460 Is there anything that like my audience members can do to push this case along, to push back
00:23:55.540 against policies like this?
00:23:58.240 Well, first, I encourage you to share Jessica's story.
00:24:00.780 You know, being aware that these types of cases exist and that there is an avenue to legally
00:24:05.400 push back against government overreach and state forced ideology is the first step.
00:24:10.980 Secondly, if you're aware of other Christian families or believers who have been discriminated
00:24:17.200 against by state governments because they won't bow down to the government's gender
00:24:22.060 ideology, contact Alliance Defending Freedom.
00:24:24.660 Let us know.
00:24:25.160 We would love to have a conversation with you.
00:24:27.180 Jessica, I'm so thankful that you are sharing your testimony.
00:24:31.300 I mean, there's a, you know, Philippians 4.13 is very often overused and sometimes misused,
00:24:36.760 that I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
00:24:38.940 It's kind of something we grew up saying like before soccer games or something, but it's
00:24:42.720 a real verse that has real power.
00:24:44.520 And I think that you and the way that the Lord has worked through you and worked through
00:24:49.320 your perseverance is a real testimony to the truth of that verse, that looking at your
00:24:54.140 adverse circumstances, anyone would have said, you know what?
00:24:57.300 You just need to sit everything else out.
00:24:59.620 You just kind of need to chill.
00:25:01.620 You don't need to worry about what God may be calling you to do or extra steps you need
00:25:05.840 to take.
00:25:06.220 And yet through the power of Christ, you have persisted.
00:25:08.800 And there are many, many reasons, many reasons, seen and unseen, known and unknown, why God
00:25:14.040 preserved your life that night.
00:25:15.420 But I have to think that this is one of them, that God, the God of redemption is bringing
00:25:21.240 such beauty and such purpose out of a devastating situation that Satan meant exclusively for evil.
00:25:28.220 So I just want to thank you for persisting and for using your testimony in a powerful way.
00:25:33.380 Like we do not know how God is going to even use your beginning efforts right now to save
00:25:40.120 and preserve the lives of other people, to bring people to himself.
00:25:44.160 And so even if it seems like things are stalled or even if it seems like things aren't going
00:25:49.140 your way right now, like I am very confident that the Lord is using this for his glory.
00:25:53.800 And also ADF, Christiana, like I really believe y'all are doing the Lord's work by representing
00:25:58.400 cases like Jessica's.
00:25:59.840 So just God bless both of you.
00:26:02.140 And Jessica, if there's anything else that you want to say that you want to end on, please
00:26:06.160 say it.
00:26:09.080 Oh, wow.
00:26:11.060 Well, it's funny because when you live through something like, you know, after losing Dave
00:26:15.480 and everything, part of you sometimes questions, you know, do I really have to be here, God?
00:26:20.060 Like I'm ready to go home too.
00:26:21.600 But that's been the prayer of my heart is, God, if you can still use me to help people
00:26:26.920 to wake up to you and to know you and to come to salvation, okay, I'm all in.
00:26:32.940 And one of the verses, I'm going to forget, I think it's Psalm 126 or 26 at the end, and
00:26:38.980 I believe it's David.
00:26:40.440 But he says, I'm confident of this, that I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land
00:26:45.760 of the living.
00:26:46.340 Be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.
00:26:50.440 And so I feel like that's a piece of scripture that's been really meaningful, and I'm just
00:26:55.600 trusting him.
00:26:57.480 Yes, yes.
00:26:58.260 Well, thank you so much for your faith.
00:26:59.780 It's a testimony for all of us.
00:27:01.460 And Christiana, thank you so much too.
00:27:03.340 I do encourage people to support ADF and to, if you've got a story similar to Jessica's,
00:27:09.840 to reach out to ADF too.
00:27:11.200 Thank you so much, Christiana.
00:27:12.440 And thank you both for taking the time to come on.
00:27:14.300 I really appreciate it.
00:27:15.240 Thank you.
00:27:29.040 Okay, we're just going to quickly go through some of these outfits from the Met Gala last
00:27:34.360 night.
00:27:35.100 Brie, I don't even know what the Met Gala is, to be honest.
00:27:37.980 What do they do after they walk the carpet and then go inside?
00:27:41.460 I think it's like a fundraising event.
00:27:44.160 For the Met.
00:27:45.360 For the Met, I think.
00:27:48.240 Okay.
00:27:48.960 So they go inside and look at art?
00:27:51.060 Yeah, I think there's like a whole display of like the, I don't know, the outfits from
00:27:56.360 the theme or something.
00:27:57.880 It's...
00:27:58.120 Okay.
00:27:58.600 I don't know.
00:27:59.120 What was the theme of last night?
00:28:00.580 So last night's theme was Karl Lagerfeld.
00:28:03.400 No idea.
00:28:04.160 He was the creative director of Chanel.
00:28:06.840 And he died, I guess, pretty recently.
00:28:09.760 Okay.
00:28:10.020 And so it was just like honoring his fashion.
00:28:14.020 Okay.
00:28:14.300 Yeah.
00:28:14.780 All right.
00:28:15.320 So let's look at some of them.
00:28:17.540 First, let's look at the first picture.
00:28:19.720 So we've got Kim K and her servant in the background.
00:28:23.320 Mm-hmm.
00:28:24.320 Um, all right.
00:28:26.940 So we've got some beads, some beading.
00:28:30.480 Yeah.
00:28:31.000 A nice little corset there.
00:28:32.920 A nice little corset.
00:28:34.100 I remember people were so mad because she was wearing Marilyn Monroe's dress like a few
00:28:38.060 years ago and like ripped it, which is so disrespectful.
00:28:42.940 Um, okay.
00:28:43.940 From a, I mean, Met Gala is not about necessarily looking just like beautiful.
00:28:48.500 It's about like meeting the theme and looking a little weird.
00:28:51.680 Yep.
00:28:52.040 So, and I have no idea who this director was.
00:28:54.420 So I have no idea if this is like an accurate representation.
00:28:57.160 Just think Chanel.
00:28:57.820 What you know of Chanel, I think.
00:28:59.760 Which is like nothing.
00:29:01.160 Maybe the perfume.
00:29:02.720 Yeah.
00:29:02.980 Okay.
00:29:03.240 Rating one through 10.
00:29:05.000 This is definitely not the worst I've seen her in.
00:29:06.660 10 being the best.
00:29:07.720 I would maybe go with like a seven.
00:29:09.460 She looks pretty.
00:29:11.160 I'd say five.
00:29:12.480 Five?
00:29:13.060 Yeah.
00:29:13.700 I was too generous.
00:29:15.240 Okay.
00:29:15.600 Let's look at Emma Chamberlain.
00:29:16.960 This is like a, this is a YouTuber who has become insanely famous.
00:29:22.060 Okay.
00:29:23.360 Sure.
00:29:24.080 I don't know.
00:29:25.160 Is socks with heels.
00:29:26.560 That's a thing right now.
00:29:27.700 I've seen that.
00:29:29.080 You've seen that?
00:29:29.940 Yeah.
00:29:30.140 I've seen that.
00:29:31.300 I hate this, but.
00:29:33.540 You hate it.
00:29:34.600 Okay.
00:29:34.940 And I, okay.
00:29:36.080 So I like this color on her.
00:29:37.540 I actually love this color in general.
00:29:39.420 Her makeup is really dark compared to the light blue.
00:29:43.920 Yeah, that's true.
00:29:45.880 But I do like the color also.
00:29:47.820 Yeah.
00:29:48.340 Okay.
00:29:48.800 I'll rate this.
00:29:51.820 A four and a half.
00:29:53.320 What would you say?
00:29:54.680 I'd say three.
00:29:56.840 Okay.
00:29:57.140 Well, no, that's, I'll say four.
00:29:58.980 Cause there's worse.
00:30:00.120 There's worse.
00:30:00.720 Okay.
00:30:00.920 Let's see.
00:30:01.600 Pedro Pascal.
00:30:04.960 Hate.
00:30:06.140 Hate.
00:30:07.880 Hate.
00:30:08.740 He looks like a 12 year old Satan.
00:30:14.140 He's wearing shorts, which no man should ever do.
00:30:17.240 If you're not at the beach or pool after the age of 12.
00:30:19.440 No, you're right.
00:30:21.420 And someone, someone told him this would be a good idea.
00:30:23.680 And that offends me.
00:30:25.260 Yes.
00:30:25.700 So for those of you who are listening, he's wearing a red and black combo, which again
00:30:29.920 is like really only appropriate in certain cases.
00:30:32.840 If you are Beelzebub is one of the circumstances, but he's wearing like crew socks, weird dress
00:30:39.780 shoes, a red trench coat, black, like trouser shorts that are, I don't know, seven inches
00:30:47.140 above his knee, red shirt, black tie, slicked back hair.
00:30:51.360 I mean, he's a very, if I, if I can say just objectively speaking, a very attractive man,
00:30:56.200 but this looks awful.
00:30:58.560 Yeah.
00:30:59.740 No, agreed.
00:31:00.780 It's not good, but everyone loves him.
00:31:02.540 So he can get away with it.
00:31:03.620 I guess 1.9 for me.
00:31:06.880 Specific.
00:31:07.400 I'll go to, Oh, I'll round it up.
00:31:09.660 Okay.
00:31:10.560 I might have to skip some.
00:31:12.420 What looking at the list?
00:31:13.660 What do you think is most important to look at?
00:31:15.160 Who's this?
00:31:15.740 This is bad bunny, which look bad bunny.
00:31:18.060 I thought bad bunny was a woman.
00:31:20.460 No, you're probably mixing that up with someone else.
00:31:22.680 This is bad bunny.
00:31:23.700 But Kayla show the other picture because this looks normal until, until, until you see the
00:31:28.700 back.
00:31:29.660 Oh, disgusting.
00:31:31.320 Okay.
00:31:31.680 Again, this is like womanly.
00:31:34.060 Yeah.
00:31:34.580 He's got, he's wearing like a backwards necklace and like the back of his outfit is cut out.
00:31:39.140 Okay.
00:31:40.100 Okay.
00:31:40.780 Maybe I was thinking of Doja Cat.
00:31:43.020 Maybe.
00:31:43.420 Is Doja Cat a woman?
00:31:44.680 Yes.
00:31:45.100 Doja Cat's a woman.
00:31:45.960 Doja Cat.
00:31:46.480 Oh, wait.
00:31:46.960 Let me rate that.
00:31:48.100 The front is better than Pedro's.
00:31:49.980 So two, it's in the two because the cut out in the back is so disgusting.
00:31:55.980 I would say 2.7.
00:31:57.400 Okay.
00:31:57.820 I'll do three.
00:31:58.640 Okay.
00:32:00.180 Okay.
00:32:00.680 I guess I was thinking of Doja Cat, bad bunny, same kind of deal.
00:32:03.800 Um, okay.
00:32:06.980 Yeah.
00:32:07.220 Is there another picture?
00:32:08.300 You're going to want to look close up at this one.
00:32:10.880 She's wearing cat ears for those listening.
00:32:12.820 Oh, no.
00:32:14.980 So she has, okay, this, she got the same makeup artist that they use for Jumanji when the little
00:32:21.180 boy turns into a monkey.
00:32:22.720 The monkey.
00:32:23.060 You know what I'm talking about?
00:32:24.260 Yeah.
00:32:24.440 It's the same deal.
00:32:25.680 So they like put on, I don't know, prosthetic nose and, and like upper lip so that she actually
00:32:30.440 looks like a cat.
00:32:31.300 She's wearing cat ears, but they also made her face look like a cat.
00:32:34.500 I don't know what she looks like.
00:32:35.880 And I'll, I'll explain why.
00:32:37.800 Karl Lagerfeld has a cat named Choupette and he left 1.3 million pounds in inheritance
00:32:45.640 to the cat.
00:32:46.780 Okay.
00:32:47.240 Who now lives in Paris and has a full-time housekeeper.
00:32:50.100 Just for the cat.
00:32:51.260 Just the cat.
00:32:51.780 Just the cat.
00:32:52.360 So that's why she's dressed like that.
00:32:53.500 Really weird.
00:32:54.420 Okay.
00:32:54.780 Anne Hathaway.
00:32:56.260 Um, I have not seen Anne Hathaway in years.
00:32:59.940 I can't even really see this.
00:33:02.340 Um, do we just have one photo of her?
00:33:04.880 Okay.
00:33:05.240 Tell me what's going on.
00:33:06.300 You can see it a little better.
00:33:07.380 It's kind of like, um, fabric put together with like expensive, um, safety pins.
00:33:13.800 Yes.
00:33:14.260 Is the black a part of her dress or is that someone else's dress behind her?
00:33:17.600 Oh, that's a good, no, I think that's someone else behind her.
00:33:20.420 I could be wrong, but I think she looks amazing.
00:33:22.900 I mean, she, she does.
00:33:24.120 She looks like she has not aged one day.
00:33:26.740 Yeah.
00:33:26.880 That's rude.
00:33:28.260 Um, okay.
00:33:31.660 I mean, I don't like the safety pins, but I'll probably say a six just because she herself
00:33:37.660 looks great.
00:33:38.740 Yeah.
00:33:39.000 I'd give it a seven.
00:33:40.300 Okay.
00:33:41.100 Last one.
00:33:41.940 Last one.
00:33:42.340 Jared Leto.
00:33:42.600 What?
00:33:45.540 Is this Photoshop?
00:33:47.000 No, it's not.
00:33:48.460 Is he the, is he being the cat that inherited the 1.3 million?
00:33:52.360 He's being Chupette the cat.
00:33:54.300 Okay.
00:33:54.620 So that's what Chupette looks like.
00:33:56.340 Okay.
00:33:57.000 Oh, okay.
00:33:57.760 He's literally just wearing a bodysuit.
00:34:00.060 Yeah.
00:34:00.820 Furries everywhere.
00:34:01.840 So excited.
00:34:02.480 Um, he's wearing like a bodysuit of a white cat.
00:34:06.420 It looks, it looks like someone, like a sticker on the screen.
00:34:11.300 Like it looks Photoshopped.
00:34:13.160 Wow.
00:34:13.980 Yeah.
00:34:14.220 Okay.
00:34:14.480 And then he takes off the head of the suit and he gets a picture of himself.
00:34:20.400 He's got a lot of eyeshadow on.
00:34:21.800 I kind of respect it because it's like low effort, you know?
00:34:25.160 Low effort.
00:34:26.700 And maybe he's like kind of making a mockery of the whole thing.
00:34:29.220 I don't know.
00:34:29.780 Um, I mean, sure.
00:34:31.540 You know what?
00:34:32.020 10.
00:34:32.540 10.
00:34:33.360 Agreed.
00:34:34.060 10.
00:34:34.520 10.
00:34:35.380 Um, all right.
00:34:36.660 That's all we've got time for today.
00:34:38.640 Lots of nonsense to put punctuation on our very serious and important episode.
00:34:43.480 Just some unimportant things for your viewing, listening pleasure.
00:34:48.160 All right.
00:34:48.700 We will be back here tomorrow.
00:34:49.880 See you guys then.