Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey - April 02, 2024


Ep 978 ｜ ‘Transgender Day of Visibility’ Trumps Easter


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Easter is a day of trans visibility and President Joe Biden proclaimed that it was also a Transgender Day of Visibility. What does that have to do with our president? And why does that make him a monster? Allie answers these questions and more in this episode of Relatable Tuesday.

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00:00:00.000 President Biden proclaimed that Easter Sunday this year was also Transgender Day of Visibility.
00:00:09.120 We will talk all about that, break that down.
00:00:12.680 What in the heck?
00:00:14.380 What in the heck?
00:00:15.160 And also, I've got some relationship advice at the end of this episode.
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00:00:30.000 Hey guys, welcome to Relatable.
00:00:36.740 Happy Tuesday.
00:00:37.900 Hope everyone is having a wonderful week so far.
00:00:41.000 Yesterday, we talked a little bit about apologetics, some of the apologetics questions that you guys have,
00:00:47.000 how to defend the faith and answer some of the most pressing and fundamental questions about God's Word,
00:00:54.300 about Christianity, about the resurrection.
00:00:56.840 So make sure that you go back and listen to that episode.
00:01:00.980 If you haven't already, I hope everyone had a wonderful Trans Day of Visibility weekend
00:01:06.940 and that you celebrated that with your families.
00:01:11.440 It's just, you know, it's a wholesome day of acknowledging the wide spectrum of gender identity that exists out there in the world.
00:01:20.500 And, oh, oh, it also happened to be Oyster Sunday.
00:01:26.080 Here is our fearless leader, President Biden, wishing us a happy oyster.
00:01:33.140 And I'm coming down to do that Easter egg roll just a minute.
00:01:36.840 Thank you all so very, very much.
00:01:39.620 Thanks, everybody.
00:01:40.660 And by the way, say hello to oyster bunnies.
00:01:43.600 Come on up, bunnies. 0.98
00:01:44.560 Get up here so they can see you.
00:01:45.800 Come on, get in there. 1.00
00:01:49.380 Pretty big bunny, huh?
00:01:51.940 The oyster bunnies.
00:01:53.600 The oyster bunnies.
00:01:54.620 That's real.
00:01:55.460 That's real, by the way.
00:01:57.300 And, of course, that was our president just doing his absolute best job that he could to say the word Easter.
00:02:04.520 But he could not.
00:02:05.520 You know, I was thinking about this this morning with President Biden, whom we are going to talk a lot about today.
00:02:11.340 He's almost 82 years old.
00:02:12.820 He'll be 82 right after the election in November.
00:02:17.740 And I was thinking about all the people that I know and have known that are that old.
00:02:23.540 Some, like grandparents, have died right around that age.
00:02:28.000 Other older people that I know are in nursing homes at that age.
00:02:32.660 And, of course, our president of the United States is that age.
00:02:35.840 And, like, I do just want to give him credit in all seriousness, compared to other 81-and-a-half-year-olds, just in general, he's doing great.
00:02:47.140 Like, if you were to go visit him in a nursing home, if you were to go visit him as your grandparent or great-grandparent at his house in Delaware, you would say,
00:02:56.880 my granddad is doing awesome, like, he's still riding a bike.
00:03:00.740 Not very well, but he's still riding it.
00:03:03.380 He's only fallen once that we know in the past few years as he's been riding his bike.
00:03:07.980 Like, that is pretty good.
00:03:09.900 So, compared to other 81-and-a-half-year-olds, he is doing great.
00:03:15.620 I mean, how many 81-and-a-half-year-olds do you know who haven't said Oyster Sunday or Oyster Bunnies?
00:03:26.120 I would say that's probably, like, a very common mistake among that demographic.
00:03:31.200 The problem is not that he's not doing well in general.
00:03:35.480 I think he is doing very well in general.
00:03:37.580 The problem is that he is the president of the United States.
00:03:41.100 And it's not just that he is decrepit in a lot of ways.
00:03:44.380 It's not just that he is on the decline as far as his physical strength and, of course, his mental strength goes.
00:03:53.140 It is also that when you combine decrepit with depraved, a decrepit mind with a depraved agenda,
00:04:03.540 you get something that is very dangerous.
00:04:07.040 You get something that is very, very dark.
00:04:09.500 And that, of course, is what we saw this weekend.
00:04:11.480 So as we have this shell of a man who is wishing everyone happy Oyster Sunday, behind that, we also have a very evil agenda.
00:04:21.480 And that is acknowledging and celebrating and proclaiming this so-called Trans Day of Visibility.
00:04:29.480 So if you have no idea what I'm talking about, you might have been a little put off by how I started this episode.
00:04:35.600 But most of you probably saw it because it was everywhere.
00:04:38.560 All of these proclamations and celebrations and announcements that Easter Sunday, that March 31st, was the Trans Day of Visibility.
00:04:48.160 Now, I and many others said this is wicked, this is evil, this is awful that President Biden is making this announcement that he is proclaiming this day to be the Trans Day of Visibility.
00:05:03.420 He said, I am proud to have appointed transgender leaders to my administration and have ended the ban on transgender Americans serving openly in our military.
00:05:12.980 He also said extremists are proposing hundreds of hateful laws that target and terrify transgender kids and their families, silencing teachers, banning books, even threatening parents.
00:05:22.560 Of course, none of that is actually true.
00:05:24.420 It's a very disgusting, evil lie.
00:05:27.700 He says the DOJ has taken action to push back against extremism and un-American state laws targeting transgender youth and their families.
00:05:35.400 And the DOJ is partnering with law enforcement and community groups to combat hate and violence.
00:05:40.940 I continue to call on Congress to pass the Equality Act to codify civil rights protections for all LGBTQI plus Americans.
00:05:47.500 We've done episodes on that and what an absolutely devastating effect the Equality Act would have on particularly religious freedoms and also freedom of speech.
00:05:56.620 And then he says, I do hereby proclaim March 31st, 2024 as Transgender Day of Visibility in the year of our Lord 2024.
00:06:10.200 So that, of course, coincided with Easter Sunday.
00:06:13.920 And again, I and many others said that this announcement, this proclamation, especially coinciding with Easter Sunday, is wicked, it's evil, it's awful.
00:06:24.280 And then you had the well-actuallys jump in.
00:06:28.100 The well-actually people who are, I mean, they're conservative.
00:06:32.280 A lot of them are.
00:06:33.380 And they're trying to make sure that the facts are correct.
00:06:36.420 And I appreciate that.
00:06:38.600 I'm not even talking about the people who are just fact-checking.
00:06:40.920 And I'm talking about the people who tried to fact-check this to undermine anyone who was calling this evil by saying, well, Transgender Day of Visibility has always been March 31st.
00:06:53.560 It's been March 31st for 15 years since 2009, which can we just talk about for a second that 2009 was 15 years ago?
00:07:00.060 That's impossible.
00:07:01.420 That is impossible.
00:07:02.380 And I don't even want to think about that.
00:07:04.120 But apparently, this has been Transgender Day of Visibility since 2009.
00:07:08.500 And so they're like, oh, just calm down.
00:07:10.760 It's not Joe Biden purposely putting this on Easter Sunday.
00:07:14.820 Obviously, Easter Sunday is a different day every year, a different Sunday every year.
00:07:21.060 Sometimes it's the end of March.
00:07:22.320 The latest it can be is the end of April.
00:07:24.540 And so this is not evil.
00:07:26.580 It's not nefarious at all.
00:07:28.260 But first of all, first of all, what I will say to that is that acknowledging this day, having a so-called Trans Day of Visibility that celebrates the butchering of people's bodies, that celebrates and affirms a lie that you can switch your gender, that is evil in and of itself. 0.99
00:07:45.720 That it is coinciding with Easter, and that we have a devout Catholic, so-called President of the United States that is proclaiming it, announcing it, highlighting it, even as it coincides with Easter.
00:07:57.140 Yes, that is absolutely evil and awful, 100%.
00:08:01.220 No caveats, no nuance to that.
00:08:04.400 And you know, even though it's been around since 2009, there hasn't always been a proclamation or an announcement about this.
00:08:12.800 Easter Sunday was on March 31st, for example, in 2013, when President Obama was president.
00:08:21.120 But President Obama didn't acknowledge it publicly.
00:08:24.160 He didn't acknowledge the so-called Trans Day of Visibility.
00:08:27.520 President Biden is the first president to make a public proclamation for Trans Day of Visibility.
00:08:34.160 Today wasn't the or this year wasn't the first year.
00:08:37.000 He's done it in the previous years that he's been president.
00:08:39.400 But there is no law, no rule saying that a president has to acknowledge this, has to make an announcement about it.
00:08:47.040 Like I said, President Obama didn't.
00:08:49.220 Of course, President Trump didn't either.
00:08:51.180 President Biden is the first one to do it.
00:08:53.660 And they knew that this year it would fall on Easter Sunday.
00:08:56.880 They didn't have to make an announcement about it.
00:08:58.820 He didn't have to do a proclamation.
00:09:00.760 They didn't have to say anything about it at all, but they decided to.
00:09:04.000 They decided to to try to bludgeon people who speak the truth about gender, who speak the truth about the barbarism that this causes for children who say that they're confused about their gender and the infringement upon the safety and the rights and the privacy of girls and women.
00:09:22.040 And that's what the proclamation was for, to make us look like we are extremists for saying two plus two equals four.
00:09:29.760 And yes, that is evil.
00:09:31.500 It is evil.
00:09:32.820 It is an assault on the Imago Dei, on Easter of all days.
00:09:38.340 And so there doesn't need to be any pushback or any finger wagging, any chastising from so-called conservatives to say, well, you just need to calm down.
00:09:50.920 Trans Day of Visibility has been around since 2009.
00:09:54.580 It doesn't matter.
00:09:55.840 It doesn't matter.
00:09:56.880 Like this is not an official holiday.
00:09:59.000 It doesn't have to be acknowledged.
00:10:00.440 They acknowledged it publicly, celebrated it as we will look in just a second.
00:10:05.240 Many in the administration celebrated it publicly, knowing that it also falls on a sacred holiday for Christians.
00:10:12.800 And yes, that is absolutely evil.
00:10:14.920 And the point that I made stands that I've said many times.
00:10:17.900 Christians have no business, no excuse, no justification to vote Democrat. 0.98
00:10:22.880 OK, their agenda, their platform is evil.
00:10:26.020 It is evil.
00:10:26.780 It is wicked.
00:10:28.140 Yes, there are different policies that we can debate.
00:10:30.060 I'm not saying every single policy is 100 percent wrong 100 percent of the time.
00:10:34.120 But when it comes to abortion, when it comes to gender, when it comes to sexuality, when it comes to marriage, all of these foundational issues that are necessary for us to get right for our society to survive and thrive, they get it dead wrong, satanically wrong.
00:10:50.800 So there's just no reason for it.
00:10:52.720 There's just no excuse or justification for it whatsoever.
00:10:57.000 So, as I said, President Biden and many in his administration were celebrating the Trans Day of Visibility very enthusiastically on Resurrection Sunday.
00:11:09.180 So I'll read you some examples of just their egregious rhetoric in just a second.
00:11:13.580 All right.
00:11:26.500 So let me give you some examples of what President Biden said.
00:11:29.900 So he said this.
00:11:30.680 He said, today on Transgender Day of Visibility, this is a tweet or a post on X.
00:11:37.140 I have a simple message to all trans Americans.
00:11:40.820 I see you.
00:11:42.160 You are made in the image of God and you're worthy of respect and dignity.
00:11:49.460 You are made in the image of God.
00:11:51.280 Now, obviously, he did not look at the entire verse.
00:11:56.200 I'm sure President Biden has no idea what verse that is.
00:12:01.540 I'm sure he didn't write this tweet.
00:12:03.000 But if you were to ask him, hey, what verse in the Bible says that we are made in the image of God?
00:12:07.920 I would, if I were a betting woman, I would bet a lot of money that President Biden has no idea what verse actually says that.
00:12:16.000 But, you know, it's an interesting verse.
00:12:17.660 And anyone who listens to this podcast has heard me say it a million bajillion times.
00:12:22.140 And that's Genesis 127.
00:12:24.300 And so, gosh, it's so important for us to know this.
00:12:27.440 God cares so much that we know what it means to be made in his image that he puts this information in the first chapter of the first book of the Bible.
00:12:36.740 Wow.
00:12:37.720 Genesis 127.
00:12:38.660 So God created man in his own image.
00:12:41.520 In the image of God, he created him.
00:12:43.960 Male and female, he created them.
00:12:45.980 Oh, my goodness.
00:12:47.120 So many answers to so many of our cultural, moral questions of the day.
00:12:52.840 So many things that we hear today are complicated or confusing or gray or nuanced.
00:12:58.240 God lays it out for us right there in the first chapter of the first book of the Bible.
00:13:02.080 So God created man in his own image.
00:13:03.760 So that tells us where we come from, who created us, what we were created for.
00:13:09.160 It tells us the value of human life right there, that unlike the plants and the animals, the solar system, we were created in God's image.
00:13:19.480 That sets us apart.
00:13:20.780 That gives us a dignity and a worth beyond anything else in all creation.
00:13:25.540 In the image of God, he created him.
00:13:27.780 Male and female, he created them.
00:13:30.420 So right there, we get the definition of gender.
00:13:32.620 There is no category for gender identity independent from sex.
00:13:39.060 It's just not there.
00:13:40.240 It doesn't exist.
00:13:41.420 This idea that you can declare that you are something other than what your body tells you that you are is a radical, fanciful, crazy, extremist idea that has no grounding in science, has no grounding in the Bible.
00:14:00.040 So male and female, he created them.
00:14:02.360 Not only do we see there the definition of gender, we also see the definition of marriage and family.
00:14:09.560 And of course, you read further into the chapter and into the book, and we see the command to be fruitful and multiply.
00:14:15.220 And so right there, God tells us, first book, first chapter, what it means to be human, what it means to be male and female, what it means to be married, what it means to have a family.
00:14:29.100 And of course, we see this all the way through to the very end of the Bible, and we see in the marriage supper of the Lamb, we see in the last chapter of Revelation that those gender designations still exist because we see that Christ is depicted as a groom and the church is depicted as the bridegroom.
00:14:56.460 And so those designations, that definition of marriage is not just biological, it also has spiritual and eternal significance.
00:15:06.600 The alliteration that we've used many times is the definition of marriage is rooted in creation.
00:15:13.820 It's reiterated throughout scripture, such as honor your father and mother.
00:15:19.280 It is repeated by Jesus himself, Matthew 19, 4 through 5.
00:15:25.620 It is representative of Christ in the church, as we see in Ephesians 5.
00:15:29.920 And in that way, it is reflective of the gospel, which we see, as I said, throughout scripture, but specifically in the book of Revelation and the marriage supper.
00:15:39.840 And so that definition of gender, that definition of marriage is so profound, so eternal, so spiritual.
00:15:49.360 It's not just a couple verses that we can extract and say, well, maybe that doesn't really apply today.
00:15:56.160 Maybe that's a mistranslation.
00:15:58.080 No, this goes all the way back to the very beginning and carries us through God's plan of redemption.
00:16:03.980 It matters so much that we get this right to God.
00:16:07.200 That's how much he emphasizes it throughout scripture.
00:16:10.720 And so for President Biden to say to a person who thinks that they're the opposite sex, who are made in the image of God, well, that is a half truth. 0.98
00:16:19.960 It is absolutely true that people who are deceived about their gender or who are deceiving others about their gender are made in the image of God.
00:16:29.160 They have innate dignity.
00:16:30.600 They have innate worth.
00:16:31.700 And just like everyone else, they are dead in their sin apart from Christ.
00:16:36.340 And just like everyone else, by grace through faith, they can be made alive in Christ.
00:16:41.460 They can be granted salvation by grace through faith.
00:16:44.540 They can be empowered to repent.
00:16:47.620 They can be empowered to live a life of freedom from sin and obedience.
00:16:52.020 And they can spend forever with God.
00:16:54.440 They can be reconciled to God through Christ.
00:16:57.020 That is the good news of the gospel.
00:16:59.080 They are not too far off.
00:17:00.480 That President Biden is not too far off.
00:17:03.600 That is absolutely true.
00:17:05.520 But it's not enough to tell someone who thinks that they are the opposite sex or who pretends to be the opposite sex that they are made in the image of God.
00:17:13.580 They are.
00:17:14.840 But the implication that must also be said is that you are made male or female in the image of God.
00:17:20.940 And I know people like to bring up intersex, which has nothing to do with gender identity or transgenderism whatsoever.
00:17:27.980 Even people who fall into that intersex category, they are either male or female.
00:17:33.720 They have some kind of anomaly because we live in a fallen world.
00:17:36.820 And so people have anomalies.
00:17:39.160 People have diseases.
00:17:40.600 People have disorders.
00:17:42.680 That doesn't negate the gender binary. 1.00
00:17:45.000 There are people who are born with one leg, but human beings are still bipeds. 0.97
00:17:50.640 And so, yes, those people are also made in the image of God.
00:17:54.160 Every single human is made in the image of God.
00:17:56.460 That is the radical message of equality that absolutely transformed the world after God established, after Jesus established the church.
00:18:06.120 And so, President Biden and his handlers, they're using this kind of language to try to manipulate the mushy middle Christians into believing that to affirm the imago Dei in someone, to affirm someone's dignity, 0.96
00:18:24.260 you must also affirm this lie, this destructive, deadly lie, that they can change their body to be the opposite sex, that they can identify as something other than what they are. 0.99
00:18:36.980 They can't.
00:18:37.740 I highly recommend Nancy Piercy's Love Thy Body.
00:18:42.580 I've had her on a couple times.
00:18:44.580 She's amazing.
00:18:45.940 If you have not read Love Thy Body, please do.
00:18:48.640 But she talks about the telos, the purpose of everything, that God has given everything a function.
00:18:56.000 God has given everything a purpose.
00:18:58.500 And even the most ardent atheist or liberal acknowledges that when it comes to, say, a bird versus an elephant.
00:19:05.320 They don't try to claim that an elephant can fly.
00:19:09.560 They don't try to claim that a bird can do something that an elephant can.
00:19:13.120 We look at these different kinds of animals, different kinds of species, and we understand that they fall into certain categories.
00:19:19.420 And they have certain functions.
00:19:20.960 They have certain abilities.
00:19:22.120 They have a certain purpose, a certain telos.
00:19:25.680 But for some reason, when it comes to male and female, that just goes out the window.
00:19:30.600 We believe that our bodies tell us nothing.
00:19:33.120 Whereas we look at a bird, and we understand that the wings tell us that that bird can probably fly, depending on the kind of bird that it is.
00:19:42.020 But when we look at the human body, even though we see two different kinds of human bodies, these people say, well, there's no telos.
00:19:50.640 There's no purpose.
00:19:52.160 This telos does not tell us anything.
00:19:55.740 We can be whoever we want to be by declaration or identification or feeling that our bodies are completely arbitrary.
00:20:04.020 This is a very much like a dualistic, she describes, and kind of Gnostic way of thinking, that the material world is really arbitrary and bends to the will of our minds or the feelings of our hearts.
00:20:21.980 And that's just not true.
00:20:23.160 Like Christianity gives so much dignity to the body, so much meaning, so much purpose to the body.
00:20:30.360 I mean, we see that, of course, throughout Scripture, that God made the material world for his own glory.
00:20:35.660 But we also see it in Jesus, that Jesus is a word made flesh.
00:20:41.960 Jesus came and dwelt among us.
00:20:44.040 He was tempted in every way as we are, yet was without sin.
00:20:48.520 And so we see that embodiment, that the flesh, that human beings, that bodies matter so much to God, so much so that we will experience a resurrection of the bodies.
00:21:00.480 And so even eternally, the body matters.
00:21:03.740 So this is a very worldly idea, a very pagan idea, that the body doesn't matter, that only what we feel and think on the inside is what matters.
00:21:14.720 And that, again, the material world and our bodies don't tell us anything that's not the Christian worldview.
00:21:21.620 The Christian worldview says the body matters very much.
00:21:24.080 The material world matters very much.
00:21:26.440 That's why there's going to be not only a new heaven, but a new earth.
00:21:29.520 God cares about all of this.
00:21:30.860 He's going to redeem all of this.
00:21:33.740 And so Christians just have to make sure that when we hear something like,
00:21:37.440 you're made in the image of God from Biden, or we hear it,
00:21:40.880 well, to be empathetic, or to be loving, or to be kind, you have to affirm transgenderism.
00:21:46.500 Whoa, whoa, whoa.
00:21:47.680 What does the Word of God say?
00:21:49.620 What does He say about the body?
00:21:50.940 What does He say about marriage?
00:21:52.040 What does He say about sex?
00:21:53.400 What does He say about gender?
00:21:55.120 Because remember, we can't out-love God.
00:21:57.700 God is love, 1 John 4, 8.
00:22:00.320 Therefore, we cannot out-love Him.
00:22:02.460 The most loving thing that we can do is agree with Him.
00:22:04.660 The same God who is love, 1 John 4, 8, also created the heavens and the earth,
00:22:09.760 also created us male and female.
00:22:12.260 The God who is love has the authority as the creator of the universe to tell us what is,
00:22:17.080 what isn't, what's right and what's wrong, what's good, what's bad, what's true, what's false,
00:22:20.060 what's male, what's female, what a marriage is, and when life begins.
00:22:23.560 And He really tells us a lot of that in the very first chapter of the Bible.
00:22:27.340 That's how fundamental it is.
00:22:29.260 So don't listen to Biden.
00:22:30.720 Biden, as it is right now, is a vassal of Satan.
00:22:33.560 And that's just true.
00:22:35.200 Like, I know that might sound dramatic, but He is.
00:22:39.460 And it's not, I'm not even just talking about the fact that He is clearly judging by His fruit,
00:22:44.260 because we can judge a tree by its fruit.
00:22:46.720 He's clearly not a believer.
00:22:48.200 Like, He's not a Christian at all. 0.99
00:22:51.080 But it's not, I'm not even just talking about that.
00:22:54.100 I am talking about the specific satanic agenda that He is pushing,
00:22:58.220 that He is pushing upon children, vulnerable young people,
00:23:03.120 and how He is sickening His DOJ on parents and on doctors who don't want to go along with this madness.
00:23:09.360 It's really disgusting.
00:23:11.100 And you see this reflected, of course, in the rest of His administration and the things that they have said.
00:23:18.480 So, for example, we've got Vice President Kamala Harris.
00:23:22.840 Every person in our nation must have the freedom to be their true self and to live free from hate.
00:23:27.560 On Transgender Day of Visibility, I say to all trans and non-binary people,
00:23:30.860 we see you, we love you, we will never stop fighting for you.
00:23:35.420 Okay?
00:23:36.180 Like, I'm not even sure what this means.
00:23:38.020 Their true self.
00:23:39.520 Of course, just like in so many things that they say, the opposite is actually true.
00:23:44.380 Their true self is who they biologically are.
00:23:48.840 Their true self is not some random identity that they've just declared.
00:23:53.700 What does true mean?
00:23:55.420 Like, should we ask that question?
00:23:57.100 What does true actually mean?
00:23:59.200 And again, this goes back to that, like, dualistic Gnostic thinking that true is something that you declare
00:24:04.220 rather than what you can see, rather than what the material world proves to be true.
00:24:10.200 Freedom to be their true self.
00:24:12.020 And obviously, that's not even true.
00:24:14.380 It's the same thing when they say love is love.
00:24:17.720 Trans women are women and love is love.
00:24:19.700 It's the same math.
00:24:20.980 It's like, what does that even mean?
00:24:22.200 They're circular.
00:24:23.000 You have to define woman for that to make sense.
00:24:25.240 You have to define love for that to make sense.
00:24:27.100 Because if love is just love, then anything that someone says is love is considered love
00:24:32.320 and is beautiful.
00:24:33.260 So predation, stalking, pedophilia, bestiality.
00:24:37.360 If someone says that those things are love, since we're not defining love in the love is love mantra,
00:24:43.380 does that count?
00:24:44.280 Is that worthy of celebration?
00:24:45.880 It's the same thing when she says we have to celebrate someone's true self.
00:24:50.360 Well, you don't actually believe that.
00:24:52.320 If someone says that they are something that is completely objectionable,
00:24:57.840 then you would be against them being their quote unquote true self.
00:25:02.060 Ted Bundy was also being his true self at the time.
00:25:06.160 We're against that.
00:25:06.880 So like we have to have some definitions, right?
00:25:09.720 When we say true, when we say love, when we say made in the image of God,
00:25:14.120 we have to define these things for them to carry any weight.
00:25:17.420 But of course, that's what Democrats and the left do very well.
00:25:20.760 They don't have to define their terms.
00:25:22.480 They use terms that sound universally positive.
00:25:25.100 And most people who just aren't thinking really have no incentive to think
00:25:28.540 and to go against the mainstream.
00:25:30.380 They accept it and they say, yay, let's just celebrate that.
00:25:34.960 The White House also said transgender Americans are part of the fabric of our nation.
00:25:39.540 On Transgender Day of Visibility, our administration honors the extraordinary
00:25:42.160 courage of transgender Americans and reaffirms our commitment
00:25:44.600 to form in a more perfect union where all people are treated equally.
00:25:50.380 Well, not if being treated equally means that a man can go into a woman's restroom. 1.00
00:25:55.120 No, I don't.
00:25:57.240 I'm sorry.
00:25:57.920 I don't want you to share a bathroom with me, share a locker room with me,
00:26:02.860 share a bathroom and locker room with my daughters. 0.94
00:26:05.100 No, that's not the direction that this is going.
00:26:08.320 It's just not.
00:26:09.200 I don't care what the White House says.
00:26:10.680 That's not the direction that this is going.
00:26:13.080 So again, use of universally positive word like equal to get people to say, yeah, equality,
00:26:20.420 just like the Equality Act.
00:26:21.680 That's great.
00:26:22.180 That's awesome.
00:26:22.740 Let's just accept it.
00:26:23.720 Not even thinking about what that actually means.
00:26:27.740 And like, what courage are we talking about here?
00:26:30.600 I mean, of course, you are so socially incentivized to declare some kind of new,
00:26:37.580 strange identity and force people narcissistically to bend to your declarations,
00:26:43.780 no matter how ridiculous they are.
00:26:47.720 Like, there's no courage that comes with that.
00:26:50.260 Again, there are a lot of incentives and a lot of motivations.
00:26:53.080 That would encourage someone to say that they are the opposite sex or they're non-binary.
00:26:59.100 It really doesn't take a lot of courage.
00:27:00.780 And honestly, most of these people have other mental issues that need to be dealt with directly
00:27:06.280 and compassionately.
00:27:08.400 The more courageous thing would be to deal with those things.
00:27:12.260 The more courageous thing would be to address the underlying issues that are causing people to think that they are the opposite sex.
00:27:19.960 That would be courageous.
00:27:21.500 Karine Jean-Pierre, on Transgender Day of Visibility, the Biden-Harris administration honors the extraordinary courage and contributions of transgender Americans
00:27:41.080 and reaffirms our nation's commitment to form a more perfect union where all people are treated equally.
00:27:46.480 Okay, so basically saying the same thing.
00:27:49.780 There are contributions by men and women who might think that they are the opposite sex or want other people to think that,
00:27:56.540 but there are no contributions by people by so-called transgender people because there's no such actual thing as transgenderism.
00:28:06.300 And some people get mad when I say that.
00:28:08.460 But in reality, there's no such thing as transgenderism.
00:28:13.560 There are people who think that they are the opposite sex,
00:28:16.580 but there is not a real concept of being the opposite sex or being the opposite gender.
00:28:24.000 Again, we can't separate those two categories.
00:28:27.540 And like, let's just back up a little bit.
00:28:30.560 This day, I don't even want to call it a holiday,
00:28:33.720 although you could probably call it a holiday because it is holy according to the left-wing religion.
00:28:39.820 It certainly is much holier than Easter.
00:28:43.320 Transgender Day of Visibility was started on March 31st, 2009.
00:28:46.580 by a man who identifies as a female.
00:28:49.520 He goes by Rachel Crandall Crocker, a psychotherapist and executive director of the advocacy group Transgender Michigan.
00:28:56.560 If we have a picture of him, we will put him up on screen.
00:29:01.900 Yep.
00:29:03.100 Yes, yes, yes.
00:29:04.460 That is our dainty flower of a beauty queen right there.
00:29:10.140 And that is the patron saint, I guess, of Transgender Day of Visibility. 0.95
00:29:17.120 That is who is leading the charge for us.
00:29:20.040 I don't know.
00:29:20.480 I just, I don't know.
00:29:22.660 She just looks beautiful.
00:29:23.500 I guess I'm speechless.
00:29:24.600 I don't know.
00:29:25.180 I don't know what to say.
00:29:26.320 I'm so glad that we have this up on screen for as long as we do so you can just take it in.
00:29:30.120 So, OK, Speaker Mike Johnson, he's a Republican.
00:29:36.360 He responded to all of this.
00:29:38.160 The Biden White House has betrayed the central tenet of Easter, which is the resurrection of Jesus Christ, banning sacred truth and tradition, while at the same time proclaiming Easter Sunday as Transgender Day is outrageous and abhorrent.
00:29:51.420 The American people are taking note, which is, of course, exactly true. 0.98
00:29:56.760 And he's referring to the reporting that the White House has banned religious Easter eggs from the from the art contest.
00:30:04.700 And Biden replied that he's thoroughly uninformed.
00:30:08.240 The president said, I didn't do that.
00:30:10.880 Now, Biden might be.
00:30:14.560 Correct in that he didn't do that.
00:30:16.380 He might have no idea what anyone is talking about.
00:30:19.940 He is still celebrating Oyster Sunday.
00:30:23.180 And so he might be being honest about that.
00:30:26.200 Now, I did read.
00:30:27.760 I don't know if this if you know if this is true or not, but I did read that the White House in the past has banned religious Easter eggs from the art contest.
00:30:38.200 Do you know?
00:30:39.180 I don't actually know.
00:30:40.200 I think that I think that that is true.
00:30:42.180 I don't think that Biden is the first one.
00:30:44.100 So if you can look that up and then I will come back to that and I will verify that if so.
00:30:50.200 But either way, like there's no law that says that you have to do that.
00:30:54.540 But he decided to do that while declaring it Transgender Day of Visibility.
00:31:00.060 Now, he did say Happy Easter, not just Happy Oyster, like he did release an Easter statement on Easter Sunday.
00:31:09.500 He said, Jill and I send our warmest wishes to Christians around the world celebrating Easter Sunday.
00:31:13.600 Easter reminds us of the power and hope and the promise of Christ's resurrection.
00:31:16.840 Yeah, right.
00:31:17.380 You don't believe in that.
00:31:19.120 As we gather with loved ones, we remember Jesus's sacrifice.
00:31:21.960 We pray for one another and cherish the blessing of the dawn of new possibilities.
00:31:26.040 What?
00:31:26.440 What is that?
00:31:27.260 And with wars and conflict taking a toll on innocent lives around the world, we renew our commitment to work for peace, security and dignity for all people from our family to yours.
00:31:35.380 Happy Easter and may God bless you.
00:31:36.440 You know what?
00:31:37.240 Like I would give them credit where credit was due if they did not also put out their silly declaration, basically calling people who say that men cannot become women extremists.
00:31:49.520 I would say this is a pretty good for president.
00:31:52.940 Like this is pretty good.
00:31:53.800 Now, obviously, they have two different what's happening here is they've got two different branches.
00:31:59.300 They've got two different groups.
00:32:01.240 One group that they are assigning to come up with the language for the Trans Day of Visibility.
00:32:07.520 The other group that is in charge, probably some evangelicals for Biden person who was in charge of coming up with the language for Easter.
00:32:17.460 And so they are just hoping that those two messages are received by the right people to try to make everyone happy and to try to trick the Christians over here into thinking that President Biden cares at all about Christianity and cares at all about the rights and the protections of Christians because he very obviously doesn't.
00:32:38.640 But if it hadn't been for the Trans Day of Visibility stuff, I would say that this is a pretty good statement. 0.74
00:32:45.000 But of course, in light of everything else, it is absolutely phony and it shouldn't be given any credibility at all.
00:32:52.040 Now, I will say that President Biden had a much longer statement for Ramadan, the Muslim holiday, than he had for Easter.
00:33:03.640 Very long statement, and I'm not even going to read the whole thing.
00:33:07.640 So he says tonight as the new crescent moon marks the beginning of the Islamic holy month of Ramadan, Jill and Ixin, our best wishes and prayers to Muslims across our country and around the world.
00:33:17.040 The sacred month is a time for reflection and renewal.
00:33:19.420 This year, it comes at a moment of immense pain.
00:33:22.360 The war in Gaza has inflicted terrible suffering on the Palestinian people.
00:33:28.120 Okay, there are also Muslims in Israel, but that's so strange just to mention and mentions the loss of life there and talks about how American Muslims have been affected by this when really it's American Jews who have been forced to bear the brunt of the
00:33:48.780 anti-Jew hatred of the anti-Jew hatred of American Muslims as that's going on in Israel and Gaza, not American Muslims.
00:33:57.480 And then he goes on and on and on and on, and he's saying that they are establishing an immediate and sustained ceasefire for at least six weeks and part of a deal to release hostages, of course, honoring Ramadan. 0.77
00:34:12.220 Here at home, we have seen an appalling resurgence of hate and violence towards Muslim Americans.
00:34:15.760 Again, like I have not seen Muslim Americans forced to take refuge in their university campus library because the Jews on campus are harassing them and chasing them down. 0.89
00:34:33.640 But that has happened to Jews on college campuses.
00:34:37.260 Muslims have been harassing them. 1.00
00:34:40.060 And I have not seen Jews taking down any pro-Palestine signage across the country, but I have seen pro-Palestinian activists taking down the signage that raises awareness for the Israeli refugees in America.
00:34:57.560 So taking down the signs in America, that is.
00:35:00.420 And so I'm just not sure where the statement is coming from.
00:35:03.780 My administration is developing the first ever national strategy to counter Islamophobia and related forms of bias and discrimination, to take on hate against Muslim Sikh, South Asian and Arab American communities.
00:35:14.840 It is just ridiculous.
00:35:16.900 It's just this is just this is what they do, though.
00:35:19.960 Like, this is just not a problem.
00:35:21.580 It's just not a problem that is pervasive right now.
00:35:24.580 I'm not saying that nothing like this has ever happened.
00:35:27.580 I'm not saying that inflicting harm on someone because they are Muslim or you perceive that they're Muslim in America is right. 1.00
00:35:36.060 I'm not saying that.
00:35:37.040 I think that there have been a couple instances, actually, of what you would categorize as hate crimes.
00:35:41.460 But again, no mention of what is being suffered by American Jews.
00:35:46.860 And again, a much, much longer statement about Ramadan than we saw for saw for Easter.
00:35:54.240 All right.
00:35:55.500 Let's see who else had something to say about all of this.
00:35:59.200 Of course, the secretary of health and human services, Javier Becerra.
00:36:03.200 He said that he's thinking about our country's great transgender, non-binary, and two-spirit leaders who epitomize resilience, progress, and joy.
00:36:14.580 Two-spirit.
00:36:15.880 This is a religion.
00:36:17.660 It's a religion.
00:36:18.840 It's a delusional one at that.
00:36:20.560 And here is sweet, sweet, sweet Rachel Levine.
00:36:27.420 She is, he is, the, I'm sorry, he just looks so insanely feminine that I forgot.
00:36:35.720 He is the assistant secretary for health, and he has a sweet, sweet statement for us.
00:36:43.320 Here he is.
00:36:43.880 On this Transgender Day of Visibility, we must continue to make focused and ongoing efforts to end inequities, eliminate the impacts of injustice, and improve access to care for everyone.
00:36:59.000 Today of all days, I stand proud and visible with my fellow transgender Americans.
00:37:07.120 He doesn't even try.
00:37:08.900 He doesn't, like, there's no even, there's no effort at all to look or sound feminine in any way.
00:37:16.120 He grew his hair out, wears it like a founding father, and he is like, yes, I am a woman.
00:37:22.460 I am visible.
00:37:23.820 We do see you.
00:37:26.260 We do see you.
00:37:27.780 That is true.
00:37:29.380 Brie is laughing.
00:37:30.240 And we're supposed to take this seriously, and other countries are supposed to take this seriously.
00:37:40.080 And I'm sorry, if you were just now tuning into Relatable for the first time, and you were like, wow, this is like, this is harsh, this is intense.
00:37:48.520 It's not.
00:37:49.180 It's actually, it's not.
00:37:50.520 It's not, because these people are forging an evil, evil, barbaric, body-mutilating movement in the United States that affects vulnerable children.
00:38:03.580 So no, they are evil.
00:38:05.300 If you are more concerned about us making light of this, laughing at this, mocking this, criticizing this, condemning this, than you are what they are doing, than your priorities are out of whack,
00:38:16.680 and you've been more affected by worldliness, than you have the Word of God.
00:38:21.740 And plus, we've been dealing with this, okay, not everyone has been paying attention for as long as, you know, the people in this space have.
00:38:30.100 And so we've been dealing with this craziness for a long time.
00:38:32.560 And so in order to, like, stay sane ourselves, sometimes we just have to laugh.
00:38:36.540 So we'll give you the biblical response, but we're also going to give you, like, the lighthearted response sometimes.
00:38:41.320 Secretary of Education, Miguel Cardona, he, this is, so, Secretary of Education, just think about the effect that that has on our country and on our young people.
00:38:52.580 Here's what he has to say.
00:38:54.080 Walking into a classroom should be an act of hope, not an act of bravery.
00:38:58.100 That every day you choose to show up as your true self, you make this world a more brave, more honest, and more free place.
00:39:05.660 In your gift for seeing things as they could be, I see the promise of America.
00:39:09.880 America.
00:39:12.300 Dumb.
00:39:13.640 Anyway, Gavin Newsom had something to say.
00:39:15.960 Gretchen Whitmer had something to say.
00:39:18.540 I don't even want to play their clips because it's just the same old, same old, silly, silly, silly stuff.
00:39:24.700 But let's play this guy who is a former Florida representative, now MSNBC political analyst.
00:39:30.960 His name is David Jolly.
00:39:32.540 He was on MSNBC on Monday saying that we are, we as conservatives, to criticize Biden's transgender proclamation, we are wrong theologically, wrong morally, and absolutely stupid politically.
00:39:45.920 Okay, here's top five.
00:39:47.260 That actually the Jesus they celebrate today would be inclusive of the transgender community and would be supportive of the transgender community and command all Christians, including Donald Trump, Mike Johnson, and others who celebrate today, that in fact they should love the transgender community as they love their own God.
00:40:05.480 We should love the transgender community as we love our own God.
00:40:10.320 What?
00:40:12.220 Worship them?
00:40:13.140 I don't think so.
00:40:16.040 Here is Jesus in his own words.
00:40:19.520 He's talking to the Pharisees, and in context they are speaking of divorce, but in talking about the importance of marriage, he goes to the definition of marriage, which again is founded all the way in creation.
00:40:29.420 So here's what Jesus says, Matthew 19, 4 through 5.
00:40:31.780 He answered, have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female and said, therefore, a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.
00:40:46.140 So people say, well, Jesus never talked about marriage.
00:40:49.540 He never talked about gender.
00:40:51.160 Yes, he did.
00:40:51.940 You're looking for him to use modern language in order to make your point.
00:40:59.080 But, of course, the definitions of gender and marriage are there affirmatively throughout Scripture.
00:41:06.240 And, yes, Jesus is very explicit about it.
00:41:08.400 Have you not read that in the beginning he made them male and female and then defines marriage?
00:41:15.500 A man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife. 0.99
00:41:19.000 So many gender designations there.
00:41:21.220 Male, female, man, wife, father, mother.
00:41:25.460 And, no, this is not just a cultural context.
00:41:27.680 He's going all the way back to creation.
00:41:30.500 He roots it in the creation of God.
00:41:35.280 And so Jesus is very clear about that.
00:41:38.060 And these people are typically some kind of red-letter Christians, although they don't even accept all the red letters because this would be a red letter. 0.69
00:41:45.320 But they try to separate Jesus of the New Testament and some of the things that he said from the God of the Old Testament, the rest of Scripture.
00:41:52.160 But that's not how God's word works.
00:41:54.760 That's not how Jesus believed that it worked.
00:41:57.160 Because, again, he is always quoting the Old Testament.
00:42:01.580 He is always quoting the prophets.
00:42:03.840 He's quoting the law.
00:42:05.160 He's quoting creation.
00:42:06.480 So if Jesus believed that these words are authoritative and inspired and inerrant and he spoke them to the Pharisees, then we should, too. 0.85
00:42:17.400 And, of course, Jesus is God.
00:42:19.480 So whatever is said in the Old Testament as God's word, Jesus says and affirms, too, 100%.
00:42:26.080 And so these people who say, oh, Jesus would accept the transgender community, no.
00:42:32.680 Yes, he would love them as image bearers of God, but he would love them enough to speak truth to them and to call them to repentance because he cares about their salvation.
00:42:42.640 He cares about their bodies, too.
00:42:44.320 He cares about their heart and soul and mind.
00:42:47.160 He actually cares about what is underneath their sin of gender deception, and it is sin. 0.78
00:42:53.980 This is not just a Jesus who goes out and heals people and who says that God loves them.
00:43:01.780 Actually, he doesn't go around at all and says that God loves them.
00:43:04.640 That's not really his message, to be honest.
00:43:07.600 But he's not just healing people.
00:43:09.040 He's not just feeding the poor.
00:43:11.040 He is also telling people to go and sin no more.
00:43:14.500 And these people are totally unfamiliar with that Jesus, and they don't know him at all.
00:43:18.800 And so just don't be tricked by that.
00:43:21.020 Don't be tricked by that.
00:43:23.640 And, you know, the founder of this day, the Trans Day of Visibility, this Crandall Crocker person,
00:43:31.580 he actually, I think, sums it up very well, what those who like Biden, like this David Jolly person, what they're trying to do.
00:43:40.560 Here's what he says that he had to do when it came to his so-called gender identity.
00:43:47.980 He wrote an article for a magazine in 1998 titled Religion and Identity, about his struggle as a Jewish boy claiming to actually be a nice Jewish girl.
00:43:56.300 He says, rather than trying to fit me into my religion, I began to experiment with fitting my religion into me.
00:44:02.380 I was not so concerned about being a good Jew.
00:44:04.420 I was more concerned about being a transsexual gay woman who was also Jewish.
00:44:08.540 I began to pick and choose which parts of Judaism fit in with who I was.
00:44:13.660 I became the main part of the equation.
00:44:15.640 Well, I am now a woman who loves other women.
00:44:18.620 I am Jewish, and I also go to a Unitarian Universalist church.
00:44:22.460 Crazy, crazy.
00:44:23.580 That's exactly what everyone is trying to do, fit their religion into what they feel and what they want and the sin that they have chosen.
00:44:30.100 There was this exchange on MSNBC that I saw that was great.
00:44:35.040 It was floating around on Twitter where a Catholic priest, I don't remember who he was, he called Biden out for this and called him a cafeteria Catholic.
00:44:42.620 Of course, like the female Episcopalian priest tries to like run in and protect Joe Biden. 1.00
00:44:49.540 But that's absolutely true.
00:44:50.880 He picks and chooses what he wants.
00:44:53.580 And that's what all progressives do.
00:44:56.140 And that's what a lot of people do, of course.
00:44:58.120 And none of us is perfectly sanctified.
00:45:00.260 But we have to start with the belief, the knowledge that God is authoritative, that his word is authoritative, and spend our lives through the power of the Holy Spirit conforming what we think, say, and do to that standard.
00:45:13.760 All right.
00:45:14.220 So that's all the craziness.
00:45:15.560 Did you know that there are 145 days, 145 days of the year that are dedicated to, dedicated to LGBTQ people?
00:45:31.680 It's like, let me read you some of these.
00:45:33.560 This is according to GLAAD.
00:45:37.000 National Asian and Pacific Islander HIV AIDS Awareness Day.
00:45:41.480 That is, don't miss it.
00:45:43.620 Write it down.
00:45:44.240 May 19th, National Asian and Pacific Islander HIV AIDS Awareness Day.
00:45:49.800 Very niche.
00:45:51.340 Very niche.
00:45:52.520 There's Lesbian Visibility Day, of course.
00:45:56.900 HIV is not a crime.
00:45:58.580 Awareness Day.
00:46:00.580 Okay.
00:46:01.020 National Black HIV AIDS Awareness Day.
00:46:03.700 Like, maybe we should just start thinking a little bit about things, about behavior.
00:46:11.980 Let's just think.
00:46:12.980 Let's just think.
00:46:13.500 Like, why are these LGBTQ days? 1.00
00:46:16.440 National HIV Testing Day.
00:46:19.060 Pulse Remembrance.
00:46:20.120 Okay.
00:46:20.300 That's Pulse Nightclub.
00:46:22.340 Let's see.
00:46:23.260 Non-binary Awareness Week.
00:46:25.960 National Latinx HIV AIDS Awareness Day.
00:46:29.200 National LGBT Center Awareness Day.
00:46:31.940 National LGBT Center Awareness Day.
00:46:33.180 There's Spirit Day.
00:46:34.760 Intersex Awareness Day.
00:46:36.760 Pansexual Panromantic Pride Day. 0.52
00:46:39.820 HIV Cure Research Day.
00:46:41.580 World AIDS Day.
00:46:42.600 So much AIDS.
00:46:44.540 So much AIDS.
00:46:45.760 Okay.
00:46:46.600 That is really, yeah.
00:46:50.580 International Drag Day.
00:46:51.940 There's so much.
00:46:52.860 So, like, for almost half of the year, we are celebrating LGBTQ.
00:46:59.780 And they are supposedly, according to their liturgical calendar.
00:47:04.100 And we're supposed to also believe that they are very oppressed.
00:47:07.640 Okay.
00:47:08.440 All right.
00:47:09.520 Okay.
00:47:10.200 Let's move on from that.
00:47:11.920 I think that you probably can guess the rest of my thoughts and all my thoughts about how evil and awful this is.
00:47:18.500 I mean, we've talked about this subject so many times and the literal and spiritual, moral destruction that this has on a country.
00:47:26.020 And, gosh, God have mercy on us.
00:47:28.340 God have mercy on us.
00:47:29.360 And may more and more people wake up to the deadliness of this and realize, like, you just can't vote for these people.
00:47:36.740 I'm not saying Republicans are perfect.
00:47:38.660 You know I don't think Donald Trump is perfect.
00:47:41.740 But you can't vote for Democrats.
00:47:43.840 You just can't as a Christian. 1.00
00:47:45.740 You can't square those things.
00:47:46.820 And I've had a lot of people who originally were mad at me for saying that.
00:47:50.420 It just took time to realize that that is just true.
00:47:53.500 It is just true.
00:47:54.880 Do not believe anyone who lies to you and says that their platform or agenda is in any way in alignment with the Christian worldview.
00:48:04.920 It's not.
00:48:05.340 All right.
00:48:05.580 Okay.
00:48:05.780 We're going to move into just a quick relationship segment.
00:48:09.220 I'm going to give some more relationship advice because you guys seem to like that.
00:48:13.160 And this is, again, based on a tweet.
00:48:14.520 So I saw this.
00:48:27.440 This tweet went viral with 83,000 likes.
00:48:31.460 This is, I don't know who this person is on Twitter, but she said,
00:48:35.880 Oh, that is absolutely correct.
00:48:52.260 Poor thing.
00:48:52.980 So this is the context.
00:48:54.440 There's a 28-year-old woman on TikTok. 1.00
00:48:56.180 She's now deactivated her account. 0.52
00:48:58.000 I hope that she's okay, honestly.
00:48:59.940 She's helping her boyfriend of eight years remodel his house.
00:49:03.140 However, he purchased the house in his name.
00:49:04.660 She's charging her rent and is, according to her, making her pay half of the remodeling expenses.
00:49:12.060 In the original video, the text reads,
00:49:13.640 What it feels like to have your boyfriend of eight years buy a house and then charge you rent to live in it
00:49:18.160 while making you both design director and general contractor of renovation.
00:49:24.460 And then in the video, she is, like, I don't know, ripping up carpet or ripping off the walls or something like that.
00:49:34.960 I'm not really sure.
00:49:35.880 Wallpaper.
00:49:36.820 And so a lot of people had criticisms and questions about this.
00:49:39.800 And so she answered some of those questions.
00:49:41.460 Here's thought six.
00:49:42.880 Someone for eight years without a ring.
00:49:44.500 And that's totally fine.
00:49:45.600 Like, that's your prerogative.
00:49:47.580 But it works for us.
00:49:48.800 Next thing is that I pay my boyfriend rent.
00:49:50.380 In the past, when we've rented properties together, we've split the rent.
00:49:52.720 Now my boyfriend has purchased a house.
00:49:54.080 I'm still an adult that needs a place to live and pays for the place she lives. 1.00
00:49:58.200 I just happen to pay that money to my boyfriend.
00:50:00.780 People are upset that I'm doing this work for Freed and I'm not gaining equity in this house.
00:50:04.620 Way that I look at it.
00:50:05.660 And he was able to buy this house because that has been a goal of his.
00:50:08.200 I didn't have the ability to take on that risk.
00:50:10.320 I don't see it as my place to, like, reap those gains.
00:50:14.960 Well, like, let's just go back to the basics before we even talk about, like, the finances of this
00:50:20.080 and not having equity in the house is that you shouldn't be living with your boyfriend.
00:50:24.080 Shouldn't be living with your boyfriend.
00:50:25.940 And I know that that is so scandalous to say today.
00:50:30.240 And I'm assuming that I don't think that this girl identifies as a Christian.
00:50:34.780 But you shouldn't be living with your boyfriend, not just because of the sin that it is,
00:50:40.100 but also because it increases the likelihood of you guys getting a divorce.
00:50:46.460 It makes your breakup, if you do get married, it makes your breakup a lot messier as well
00:50:53.300 because you have so much interwoven.
00:50:59.180 You have so much to detangle and so much to detach from.
00:51:04.840 And whether this woman realizes it or not, she has, in her mind, become a wife.
00:51:10.860 Like, she has, in her mind, committed her body and her heart and her soul and her mind and
00:51:16.720 her money to this person who very clearly does not care about her.
00:51:21.200 I mean, he might care about her in some way.
00:51:23.940 He doesn't care about her enough to take care of her and to marry her and to protect and to
00:51:29.420 provide for her like a man should because he doesn't want to.
00:51:33.620 What did we say last time?
00:51:34.740 If he wanted to, he would.
00:51:36.800 Girl, if he wanted to, he would.
00:51:38.680 He doesn't want to.
00:51:39.960 He does not want to make you his wife. 1.00
00:51:42.200 And so what the original tweet said that you are getting his house ready for him and his
00:51:51.520 future wife and his future kids, it's not going to be you and they're not going to be yours. 0.76
00:51:57.780 I do think that's true.
00:51:59.200 And that might sound harsh, but I would move out in a heartbeat and just recognize what
00:52:07.560 is being done to you by someone who doesn't really love you.
00:52:12.620 He doesn't.
00:52:13.420 I'm not saying he has no feelings for you, but this is not what love looks like.
00:52:18.600 This is a man who isn't very manly.
00:52:22.360 He's not very masculine.
00:52:23.760 He's not providing for you the way that his instincts should drive him to provide for
00:52:29.080 you and to protect for you.
00:52:30.600 And you just need to get out.
00:52:32.480 You are wasting your time and your energy and your money and your love on someone who
00:52:39.860 ultimately is going to commit to someone else besides you.
00:52:45.120 And that's just the harsh truth of it.
00:52:46.960 And again, yeah, this is just not a very good financial decision for you either.
00:52:52.320 Like he is getting a great deal out of this.
00:52:55.440 He's getting a lot of money.
00:52:57.160 I mean, you're paying him for rent.
00:52:59.580 That's one.
00:53:00.400 He doesn't have to pay a general contractor now because you're doing that.
00:53:04.080 He doesn't have to pay a designer now because you're doing that.
00:53:07.300 And so, yeah, he gets a lot out of this and you get absolutely nothing.
00:53:13.400 You get absolutely nothing.
00:53:14.320 You're paying to have your heart broken.
00:53:16.220 So just go ahead and rip off the bandaid.
00:53:18.280 As I have said many times, it is better to be single and sad than married and stuck.
00:53:24.920 So hightail it out of there, girl. 0.99
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