Ep 990 ｜ Taylor Swift’s Blasphemy & Title IX Betrayal ｜ Guest： Kristen Waggoner
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On today's episode of Relatable, Allie and Allie discuss the Biden administration's decision to change the law regarding Title IX, Taylor Swift's new album, and much more! Relatable is a podcast that Allie hosts and hosts on a weekly basis. This episode is brought to you by Good Ranchers.
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The Biden administration has announced changes to Title IX that puts women and girls at risk.
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Also, Taylor Swift has released a new album, and many of her lyrics are especially sacrilegious
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We are getting into all of that on today's episode of Relatable.
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Now we actually got it, got to get, we've got to get into, we've got to get into what
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we are actually talking about today because we have a lot to discuss since it was announced
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that Title IX is being changed by the Biden administration.
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I have been gunning to talk to you guys about it.
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So I'm going to give you a little summary of what's going on.
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And then we're going to talk to the expert from Alliance Defending Freedom, Kristen Wagner,
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She's going to break it down for us in layman's terms, what all of these regulations and what
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And then I am going to give my response and just my reaction to this and what I have to
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say specifically to Christians and influential Christians who just cannot find it within themselves
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And so after that, we will get into the much awaited Taylor Swift lyrics analysis, but we've
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Before we get to Kristen Wagner, let me just give you a brief summary of what's happened.
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So this was last week, April 19th, when this was announced.
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The Department of Education released its long-delayed Title IX rule, rewriting the more than 50-year-old
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civil rights law that prohibited discrimination on the basis of sex to now include so-called gender
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identity as Heritage Foundation senior legal fellow Sarah Parshall Perry put it.
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This change promises to turn Title IX's guarantee of sex equality and education completely upside
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You probably saw on social media people saying on the right and the left, oh, conservatives
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It just protects kids from harassment and just makes sure that they are being treated with
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Of course, that is absolutely what the Biden administration would like you would like you
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The final regulations promote their press release reads educational equity, an opportunity for students
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across the country, as well as accountability and fairness while empowering and supporting
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I would say that educational is a euphemism in this case, because as we will hear from Kristen,
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Equity is a euphemism, which is supposed to mean fairness, but it doesn't.
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It means trying to force equal opportunities and denying all differences, such as biological
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An opportunity, I would say that's another euphemism there.
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So already in the first few words, we've got three euphemisms for students across the
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We've got five euphemisms so far in their press release just at the very beginning, empowering
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that six euphemisms, supporting, and that is seven.
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You could even say students and families is coded language to mean boys who identify as girls.
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And what I mean by these are euphemisms is that these are universally positive words that
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actually mean something very harmful and scary, as we will get into.
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The Secretary of Education, Miguel Cardona, said these final regulations build on the
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I mean, that's right on par with reproductive rights or reproductive freedom being a euphemism
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So what they're trying to communicate to you is that nothing is really changing, that all
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our nation's students can access schools that are safe, welcoming, and respect their rights.
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So they present it very brilliantly, I will say, in a way that makes it seem like you can't
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possibly disagree with it without being against safety or against equal rights or against equity
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or against being welcoming or being respectful.
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But of course, that is not what these changes to Title IX actually mean.
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And this is an absolutely demonic and evil change to Title IX that will end in absolute chaos for females.
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And Kristen Wagner of Alliance Defending Freedom is going to explain that to us and tell us exactly
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what it means, but also give us some encouragement and empowerment as we wrap our heads around what
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we can do to push back against this and also what institutions like Alliance Defending Freedom
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is going to do to make sure that these changes do not stick around forever.
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So we're going to get into that conversation, which is going to teach you a lot.
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Kristen of Alliance Defending Freedom, thank you so much for taking the time to join us.
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OK, you tweeted, April 19th, the Biden admin can't redefine quote unquote sex in Title IX
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without affecting women's opportunities, including women's sports.
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Under these rule changes, privacy, safety, parental rights, free speech, and yes, women's sports
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This is an abuse of federal power that is anti-women, anti-science, and anti-logic.
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And it was that last sentence that really in the midst of just a lot of discouragement,
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seeing this rule change and as a mom of daughters, just kind of feeling this moment of fear that
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I thought, OK, but we've got people on our side and in our corner that are going to fight
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Before we get to the fight aspect of this, though, how you guys are going to push back,
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Like, what is Title IX, for those who may not know?
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And then what does this rule change really mean?
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Because we've seen some conflicting reports on that.
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Well, I mean, it's over 1,500 pages of regulations.
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So to take us back to Title IX and what it is, Title IX is a law that was put in place in 1972.
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It was passed by Congress, and it was designed to ensure women have equal opportunities.
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So it prohibits sex discrimination and ensures that women have equal opportunities in educational
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institutions that are receiving federal funding.
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And we know in the 70s, women didn't have equal opportunities in terms of scholarships and
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just the ability to be able to have comparable programs in women's sports like the men did.
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But it also plays out in other areas of educational institutions, including even being admitted into
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And so Title IX has had a significant impact on ensuring that women have equal access and
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And predominantly, it has involved women's sports.
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In addition to that, it carves out essentially that in a number of different instances, sex-based
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distinctions are appropriate under the law because the law recognizes the truth that we are all
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created equal and in God's image, but we are created differently.
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In terms of what's happened in more recent years, we have seen progressively left administrations
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try to twist Title IX to take away those benefits and those opportunities from women and instead
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say it's no longer about sex-based discrimination, but it's about gender identity.
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And that completely turns Title IX on its head.
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And we can talk about all the ways it does that.
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But it started in the Obama administration, actually, where we started to see guidelines
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And you may remember bathroom talk and boys being admitted into girls.
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Then the Trump administration essentially shored up the rule and interpreted the rule consistent
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with what Congress intended in the way it had always been interpreted.
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And now we're in the Biden administration, which has radically redefined sex and gutted those
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How does the Bostock decision play into this from 2020?
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And if I remember correctly, it was Gorsuch, who, of course, was a Trump appointee who went
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the direction that we conservatives, constitutionalists, would not have liked him to go and saying that
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sex can be interpreted to also mean so-called gender identity.
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And it's so disturbing to see the results of Bostock.
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Alliance Defending Freedom has had the privilege of representing parties in a number of different
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Supreme Court cases in the last 12 years and have had 15 victories.
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Our one loss was Bostock, to be candid, and it was a heartbreaking loss, and it was unprecedented
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in terms of how the court interpreted a statute that said sex discrimination to suddenly include
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Now, however, I think when Justice Gorsuch wrote that decision, which was a shock to conservatives
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that he would take that position, he also, I think, thought that potentially the court could
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limit the impact of that and in the decision itself suggest that sex-based distinctions
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may be appropriate in the law as well as protecting the rights of First Amendment rights, religious
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And so since that decision, we have had to litigate all around the edges of that Bostock decision.
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And to be clear, Bostock was under Title VII, which is applying to employers.
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It doesn't apply outside of the employment context, and the court's decision said that.
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It also has slightly different language than Title IX has, and in addition to the slightly
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different language, a difference between because of sex and on the basis of sex, Title IX, as
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I referenced, specifically calls out that there are reasons that are legitimate reasons to make
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biological distinctions in the context of educational institutions.
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So there are some very clear differences between Bostock, a Title VII statute, and a Title IX
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statute that applies to educational institutions.
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But Bostock is a terrible decision, and we're hoping that the court will reverse it.
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And so this is, even though they are two different things, they still correlate in that we are seeing
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this trend that you said started in the Obama era to redefine sex.
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And so we are seeing this in a variety of ways, and now this redefinition has come specifically
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This is something that has been debated and discussed, at least I've seen for the past maybe
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You've probably been privy to that conversation a lot longer than I have.
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And we kind of anticipated that this was about to happen, that they were going to make this
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announcement that they have now changed Title IX, correct?
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And actually, the first lawsuit that we filed was all the way back in 2019.
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Three Connecticut, well, now four Connecticut high school athletes at the time that were
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And two boys came in and transitioned from competing in the boys category and three weeks later moved
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And in just a period of a couple seasons, took 15 state championships, took opportunities to
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advance, 85 opportunities to advance from different girls, and four state championships
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So that's when we first got involved in this issue, and we have continued to see it escalate.
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And there are a number of cases that are being filed right now, including another one of our
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cases called BPJ, which comes out of the Four Circuit.
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And we can certainly talk about that, but I think you can expect that case to go to the
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How I have seen this change interpreted by many on the left and in what you would call
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the mainstream media is that this change really doesn't affect women's privacy rights, their
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ability to compete against one another, that it's really just protecting what they would
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call, I don't know, gender nonconforming, transgender students, whatever, from harassment.
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I was told even by some conservatives when I originally posted about this, that this is
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fear mongering, that this is blowing things out of proportion, that this change is not a
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I know it's 1,500 pages of regulations, as you said, but break it down for us.
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Well, having practiced in these areas for many years now in the areas of constitutional law,
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there aren't very many things that really make me angry.
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Because as a parent, the implications of this rule are staggering on our children.
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As a woman, it denies us of equal opportunities and says that a man's feelings can trump our
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rights as to be equally treated under the law and to have privacy.
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And it shames women for saying we are different and we are equal and tells us to go and sit
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down and shut up and stop complaining about this.
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The way that it plays out in terms of these particular rules is it tells us that if you
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have your children in any institution from kindergarten through 12th grade all the way
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through college and that institution receives any federal aid whatsoever, that these institutions
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now have to open up their locker rooms to boys who identify as girls.
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And we've had real cases where this has happened and girls have suffered as a result.
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It tells your kids that they have to use the wrong pronouns, that their speech is mandated
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It now means there's no longer a boy's PE class and a girl's PE class, which increases
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There are so many different ways that it clearly applies in these instances that the suggestion
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of fear mongering is, again, it's just an effort to try to force people to be quiet
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and to not say the quiet part out loud, which is you're defying biological reality and you
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It also is likely going to impact women's sports.
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And this suggestion, you know, I think maybe what you're hearing as well, the guidelines or
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the regulations don't explicitly say that they apply to sports right now.
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I mean, that's just political pandering because the Biden administration has already said
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very clearly that this redefinition does apply to sports.
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Right now, we are litigating a case that is going to be heading up likely to the U.S.
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And the Department of Justice has taken the position that a boy who decided that he was
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going to identify as a girl has now displaced a number of kids in that particular school in
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And the DOJ, the Department of Justice, has said that's just fine because sex includes
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gender identity and women no longer have the right to be able to participate in their own
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We got to have people stand up on this because it just there are so much implications.
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One more thing, Ali, that I need to mention that is so concerning about this is the guide,
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the regulations themselves actually embrace secret transition policies.
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I'm sure you've seen the cases that are going on.
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We're litigating a host of cases right now where school districts are adopting these policies
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and they're secretly transitioning kids and lying to the parents.
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The Biden administration regulation endorses that in the regulation itself.
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I just want to give people an example of what you're talking about, the danger of what you're
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talking about, because, again, you hear this rhetoric that says, well, we're just blowing
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This is just allowing people to be comfortable, whatever excuse they give.
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This is just one recent story of many that I've seen over the years.
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If you don't know the examples of what's happening in women's and girls' private facilities
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and on their teams, it's because you don't want to know at this point.
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It's very easy to find all the examples of what you're talking about.
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A 13-year-old boy who identified as a girl violently attacked a 12-year-old girl in a
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Montgomery County Middle School cafeteria, sending her to the hospital with head trauma
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And one of the girl's friends, her name is Emily, Brave Girl, she gave a testimony to
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the local community saying, look, I warned teachers that this was going to happen.
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Teachers had the ability to stop this from happening, and they didn't.
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And we had to sit in there and watch them clean up her blood off those tables and ground.
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And we had to watch them take her out with blood dripping down her face, and I will never
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And laying in bed last night, I just kept repeating it in my head, and we shouldn't
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have had to sit there and just watch that, like, watch them clean up her blood with the
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Watch her repeatedly yelling that I'm going to murder you and just hitting her with a Stanley.
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And I don't get how, like, you couldn't have stopped it.
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It was five hours from when I told you it was going to happen, and when it happened, it
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I don't get how you couldn't have stopped that.
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And how Ms. Fattori said, don't worry, it's not going to happen.
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Oh, Kristen, I'm trying not to cry because that little girl is so, she's so brave with
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her voice shaking, and yet she is so bold in defending her friend.
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So just to give people a little bit of clarity of what happened, this boy, who identified as
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the opposite sex, of course, was allowed to go into female facilities and had threatened
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that he was going to beat this other, this young girl with a Stanley cup.
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It's a stainless steel big drink vessel, so it obviously would hurt, do a lot of damage.
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And this young girl that gave that testimony, Emily, she said, I warned teachers about this.
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And then this young girl was beat mercilessly by this boy.
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And I'm sorry to say that this is a pattern that we see over and over again.
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Am I saying that all boys who try to identify as the opposite sex are doing this?
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No, but if it happens once, it's happened one too many times.
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As you said, there is a biological reason for sex, separate places, spaces, and it is
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for the protection of women and girls because boys and girls are different.
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So here's an example of exactly what you're talking about and what we will now see more
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And I think that we, in this process, we want to, as those who are people of faith and just
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people who are kind to others, express compassion towards those who are suffering.
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But expressing compassion doesn't come at the expense of individuals' rights to also be
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safe and to have private spaces and to not share our bathrooms and our locker rooms and
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our sports and not to be compelled to say things that we believe are false.
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And the Biden administration regulation does all of these things.
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It's moving us to this path where we are having to express a lie and to live a lie.
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And I think it's important to point out that it's causing not just great harm to those of
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us who believe in these biological realities, but it's leading children and others to great
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We know that this idea that we should transition minors as minors into a different sex or identifying
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In fact, the data is becoming clear that biological realities are important to reflect and that
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90% of all kids who receive counseling and work through these issues of the uncomfortableness
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They live healthy lives in the end, whereas when a student is pumped with hormones or puberty
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blockers, there are lifelong ramifications to this.
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And that's one reason why we see Europe right now retreating from the gender identity movement
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and the studies that they're publishing say this is wrong to do this.
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It's experimental and it's going to cause great harm to a generation.
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So, again, I don't think it just affects the students that believe in biological reality,
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but it's affecting a whole host of families that are being deceived.
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And that deception is going to cause great, not just injustice, but harm to them on a permanent
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People have asked me since this change was announced, okay, but what do we do?
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It's a very helpless feeling, which is why I appreciated your tweet, see you in court, POTUS.
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So, I know what ADF and how you guys will be fighting against this, although I would love
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But also, for those of us who aren't lawyers, I mean, what do we do?
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In some ways, we think we get a free pass if we're not a lawyer or a politician.
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But what we have to remember is God has called each of us into different areas, and He expects
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us to live a faithful witness to Him in those areas.
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So, I love seeing the podcasts that you're putting out, as well as even your own tweets
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about, again and again, reinforcing biblical truth.
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Because in the church, there's even a temptation, whether it's how we use pronouns or what we think
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We never see in Scripture compromising your biblical witness.
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And so, I think, again, as Christians committing to, God's Word is true, and it promotes human
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flourishing, and biological realities matter to all of us.
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So, looking for those spaces to speak out, not complying when we have these mandates to
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That's the only way that we will get ourselves out of this, is to insist that we will live
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the truth, and as that young girl did at that public school board meeting, standing up, and
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as many other parents did, to say, this is wrong, and we will not allow this in our communities.
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Because these policies aren't just playing out at the federal level, which is a result
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But they're also playing out at the local level, in our local communities.
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And it's not going to be resolved just by litigation.
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It's not going to be resolved just by state legislation.
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It's going to be resolved by our witness and what we do in our own local communities.
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But on the local level, if schools are saying, if institutions who take federal funding are
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saying, look, you're not going to get this federal funding if you don't comply with this,
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if you don't expand the definition of sex to mean gender identity, what can the members
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Like, I mean, do they have the ability to push their local public institutions to say,
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I think they do have the ability to stress that the school policies need to be protective
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of biological sex and particularly protective of women and girls, because it's the women and
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girls that suffer the most under these policies.
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And I think if enough public schools stand up, the administration will have to back off.
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We know that the Biden administration takes the position that men should and boys should
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be able to identify as girls and compete in girls' sports, because we've seen that in
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They tried to obscure that in the regulations that have just passed.
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Well, one, they're seeking to chill the speech and try to force these public schools into doing
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it without necessarily explicitly saying it in the rule.
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But the reason they're trying to do that is because they know that there will be a backlash
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And it's important that they feel that backlash, that we continue to stand up, particularly in
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this moment and say, our girls are not going to compete against boys.
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And that's not fair to the women and the girls that have to stand up.
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But you're seeing more and more people say, no, this is not happening.
00:29:34.280
We're also seeing a number of parents who are standing up.
00:29:37.740
We have a client who one of their daughters was supposed to sleep in a bed in a hotel room
00:29:44.060
with a boy who identifies as a girl without the school telling the parents.
00:29:48.100
And the parents are standing up and saying, no, this is not acceptable.
00:29:53.120
We have a couple of other parents where their children have been secretly transitioned and
00:29:57.900
they are standing up and saying, we want to change in the school policy.
00:30:07.660
And sometimes it's really uncomfortable to do that.
00:30:14.880
I always think about the story of Yaley Martinez, the young woman from California whose mother
00:30:20.420
She was transitioned, so-called, against her will at public school.
00:30:24.640
She was taken out of the home because her mom didn't affirm that, that her daughter could
00:30:31.800
And so she went into foster care and she went into group homes.
00:30:35.520
And of course, without any support, without the people who really loved her, she was abused.
00:30:41.200
And that's one of many stories of young women who are taken out of the home.
00:30:45.680
They end up being trafficked, exploited, because, of course, they are now around people who don't
00:30:50.980
have a vested interest in their well-being and their long-term health.
00:31:08.040
And as you said, this has happened because of who people voted for in 2020.
00:31:14.680
And we have the opportunity to vote again in November.
00:31:17.800
And we remember that these kinds of things happen because of who is in office, happen
00:31:25.540
And so this November, obviously, a lot is at stake there.
00:31:29.180
But tell us how the ADF is involved in pushing back against this.
00:31:33.520
Well, and I would also add that I think another reason that this happened isn't just because
00:31:40.260
Because we've got to get past the point of one administration using its executive power.
00:31:47.580
Frankly, with the Biden administration, it's an abuse of power because it goes beyond what
00:31:52.500
But our laws and policies shouldn't be so affected by who's in office in the moment.
00:31:57.900
And it really comes down to what we're teaching our own children at our kitchen tables, what we're
00:32:02.260
allowing them to be taught in the schools, and taking back the educational institutions to ensure
00:32:08.220
that our children understand why biology is important.
00:32:12.440
In terms of what ADF's role has been, we work both on the litigation side and the public policy,
00:32:18.620
and also with churches and ministries and Christians to help educate them and provide
00:32:25.500
So you referenced children that have been put in the foster care system or potentially up for
00:32:32.760
And I would just mention, I mean, we see this issue as the civil rights issue of our time,
00:32:37.580
It has to be one, because in our view, Western civilization depends on it.
00:32:41.720
We cannot ignore reality and have that mandated and have any rights, including parental rights
00:32:48.800
But we are also seeing a massive trend in Christians or others who believe in biology and human sexuality,
00:32:57.160
that men are men and women are women being boxed out of being able to provide foster and
00:33:03.740
So there are a number of cases right now where we're litigating the fact that you should not
00:33:09.320
be excluded from being able to serve as a foster care parent simply because you are not going
00:33:16.140
to be taking a child to have a puberty blocker injection or take hormones.
00:33:24.160
And I just want to reinforce for those who are watching, you know, God has put on our
00:33:29.140
hearts and He's called us to serve those who are in need.
00:33:32.900
And it's wrong for you to step out of that space completely and not challenge what is obviously
00:33:39.740
an obstacle to the Great Commission and to the Cultural Commission.
00:33:43.600
So again, we need more people to stand up and say and expose this and bring light into
00:33:51.000
Well, I'm thankful for ADF and how you guys hopefully are going to be taking this all the
00:33:58.720
way and pushing back as successfully and as effectively as you possibly can.
00:34:04.140
And I'm just so thankful for organizations like yours that are in it.
00:34:11.960
People talk about commentators being on the front lines and we all have our part to play,
00:34:15.700
but you guys really are and making a tangible difference.
00:34:19.140
And I'm just so thankful for how God has called you and equipped you and thankful for
00:34:26.340
How can people either follow you, support you, but also understand everything that ADF
00:34:37.480
We're on Instagrams at Alliance Defending Freedom.
00:34:45.240
All of our services are provided free of charge and they can pray for us.
00:34:50.040
But I also just want to highlight that it's our clients that are our heroes.
00:34:54.600
And these are just counselors who are seeking to live faithful to the gospel, women athletes
00:35:02.760
These are just ordinary people that God has given them a moment to stand.
00:35:06.600
And again, it might be just a stance that you take in explaining to your daughter why it
00:35:11.400
matters, why she's created fearfully and wonderfully made, and why she might feel awkward in the
00:35:18.720
Or it is a doctor who needs to stand and says, no, I'm not going to perform this surgery
00:35:28.260
And I believe, and I have seen again and again, that when we take those moments that we know
00:35:33.780
God has called us and we speak truth and we do it in love, that's when we hear that still
00:35:43.640
The cost of disobedience is much higher than the cost of obedience in this moment.
00:36:07.940
So I gave you just one example of the consequences of saying that there are really no differences
00:36:14.040
between the sexes, that if you declare that you are a girl, even though you are a boy, your
00:36:21.860
biology tells you that you are a boy, that you are just as valid in your femininity.
00:36:28.260
In your femaleness, as anyone who is actually biologically a girl, we can see the danger
00:36:35.520
of that, not just when it comes to their physical safety, because of course, that's a huge part
00:36:42.580
of this, whether or not all people who identify, all men who identify as the opposite sex are
00:36:50.260
The fact of the matter is their presence in private facilities is a danger to women because
00:36:57.160
they are bigger than us, because they are stronger than us.
00:37:00.520
Even a guy who is shorter and skinnier is still stronger than the average female because God
00:37:09.160
Even if they have been on hormones, even if they're wearing lipstick, even if they have a
00:37:13.460
small stature, they still have bigger bones, they have a greater lung capacity than we
00:37:19.380
do, they have a greater wingspan than we do, they are on average much faster and stronger
00:37:36.880
You heard Kristen talk about those young women who are racing in track, and unfortunately,
00:37:43.260
they have had opportunities, they have had titles, they have had scholarships taken from
00:37:48.320
them because these boys who were okay, they were mediocre runners before when they were
00:37:56.820
Now they have become all-stars, they have become champions because of course, they are still men.
00:38:06.320
You've got all of the benefits of testosterone.
00:38:09.440
Even if you try to go back on those benefits by injecting your body with estrogen, what has
00:38:15.720
been done to your body, to your muscle mass, to your heart, to your lungs during puberty,
00:38:23.260
And girls who do not, cannot go through male puberty, even if they are injected with cross-sex
00:38:29.060
hormones during their preteen years, they are just not receiving those benefits.
00:38:34.600
Men and women are different, really from the point of conception.
00:38:40.420
I actually have the biggest debate that I have done, the longest debate that I've done on
00:38:45.180
this subject coming out next month, Ellen Fisher's podcast.
00:38:49.760
I flew to California to film this, and I am actually debating someone who identifies himself
00:38:55.960
as non-binary, and we went back and forth on this for almost three hours.
00:39:09.240
At the end of the day, I didn't have to be some skilled debater to present my side.
00:39:14.160
It is just so obvious and true that there are male-female differences from the point of
00:39:19.820
conception onward that really cannot be changed.
00:39:28.140
That is why we have different gender roles, different roles in society.
00:39:33.100
Those gender roles don't prove to be as important when it comes to non-physical roles.
00:39:40.340
But because men and women's bodies are different, we need sex separate spaces.
00:39:48.560
And we are going to see the worst and the most gut-wrenching and disturbing consequences because of this.
00:40:00.380
Let me give you a few more examples of what this looks like when we decide that boys who want to
00:40:12.160
September 29th of last year, a viral cell phone video shows an Oregon middle school girl getting
00:40:17.600
beaten up by an attacker who everyone at the school is claiming is actually a male who identifies
00:40:25.200
The school district won't say whether or not this person has that so-called gender identity.
00:40:32.540
Redux also reported last year, June 1st, 2023, an Oklahoma school is being sued by a mother
00:40:41.180
of a female student who was assaulted by a trans-identifying male in the women's bathroom.
00:40:47.760
Of course, when your policy is that men can go into these bathrooms, you are going to get
00:40:54.160
men, whether they identify as the opposite sex or not, exploiting that rule so that they
00:41:01.300
Ask yourself, I've seen this question posed before, but ask yourself what kind of boy wants
00:41:08.080
to enter a space in which they know there are going to be naked girls, vulnerable girls,
00:41:16.140
girls who are uncomfortable with a male presence.
00:41:20.680
I don't think that's even a man who truly has, or a boy who truly has what's called gender
00:41:26.820
These stories that we see in locker rooms, in Planet Fitness, in spas, in bathrooms, in
00:41:34.760
locker rooms of these basically exhibitionist men, flashing women, flashing girls, getting
00:41:48.800
Gender dysphoria means you have a consistent, persistent, insistent discomfort in your own
00:41:54.720
body from a young age that you feel like you just want to escape your skin.
00:42:00.500
This almost exclusively happens in boys, by the way, and has throughout history.
00:42:06.900
And it has also historically been a tiny, tiny sampling of boys who just feel like they are
00:42:15.160
It typically manifests itself in a lot of hiding and a lot of covering up and a lot of insecurity
00:42:21.600
and a lot of just of trying to isolate yourself away from the public.
00:42:30.980
And so these boys that we see going into girls' bathrooms and going into women's facilities
00:42:36.460
who want to show off their male body parts, who are beating up on and sexually assaulting
00:42:45.540
We don't have to have compassion for the idea that they think that they're the opposite
00:42:55.760
They might have things that we should feel compassion for.
00:42:58.780
And of course, they're still made in the image of God.
00:43:02.700
But we really need to rack in with the fact that these boys and men infiltrating these
00:43:09.320
spaces and flaunting their bodies to intimidate and humiliate women are actually just porn-addled
00:43:18.900
When you see it from that perspective, which I truly believe from the many interviews that
00:43:24.980
I've done, from the journalists that I've talked to, from the activists that I've talked
00:43:28.260
to, from the detransitioners that I've talked to, all of the reading and all of the research
00:43:32.860
that I have done over the past five or so years, I truly believe that that is what is driving
00:43:40.160
this ideology is pornography and perversion and sexual immorality and sexual depravity.
00:43:47.360
And when you see it from that perspective, at least when I'm talking about boys and men
00:43:53.960
trying to be the opposite sex, when you see it from that perspective, you can stop being
00:44:00.080
so crippled by this, what I call toxic empathy that preempts you from being bold in the truth,
00:44:10.500
that prohibits you from seeing and saying things as they actually are.
00:44:17.060
When you see that you don't have to have this crippling feeling of compassion for these
00:44:24.780
boys and men who are going into women's spaces, when you can actually see them as what many
00:44:31.500
of them, I can't say all, but what many of them are, these sexually depraved people that
00:44:36.800
actually get off on making women uncomfortable, then maybe you will find the gumption and find
00:44:42.540
the strength to stand up for your daughters, maybe then you will be able to stand at the
00:44:49.480
pulpit and use the platform that God has given you and say, enough, enough.
00:44:56.000
And what really just makes me so angry and makes me so upset is that so many of the evangelical
00:45:04.340
leaders that I saw stand up in the summer of 2020 and bravely, using scare quotes because
00:45:14.120
I have my problems with this, but they use their voices to speak out against things like so-called
00:45:21.260
white supremacy and systemic and institutionalist and institutional and structural racism and white
00:45:29.700
privilege and speak up on behalf of Black Lives Matter and anti-racism and speak out against
00:45:40.500
They were so quick to post the black square to make sure that they had the round tables and
00:45:46.200
the sermons at their church talking about the big problem of systemic racism and social injustice
00:45:58.980
And now the reason why I say that with just a tinge of sarcasm is because the connections
00:46:05.060
that were made during that time between slavery and historic racism to any disparities or injustices
00:46:19.520
They're fraught with a lot of logical inconsistencies and just ahistorical analysis.
00:46:26.880
Obviously, I am not saying that racism shouldn't be talked about or that injustice against people
00:46:35.580
I'm not saying that those conversations shouldn't be had, but those conversations and the activism
00:46:41.420
that I saw from the evangelical church largely pushed unbiblical principles when it came to
00:46:49.200
justice and when it came to the relations between white people and Black people, white Christians
00:46:56.680
and Black Christians, this language that was employed by them was extremely worldly, extremely
00:47:03.480
divisive, extremely secular, saying things like white privilege, basically putting the onus
00:47:09.780
all on white people, taking the agency away from Black people, preaching two different messages,
00:47:15.540
almost two different gospels to white and Black people in the name of so-called racial reconciliation.
00:47:23.040
I mean, I had a lot of problems with all of that, but I say all that to say that evangelicals
00:47:28.180
were willing to stand up for a so-called social injustice that they didn't even really have a
00:47:36.420
But now they won't stand up against this real, true, clear, objective injustice that the Bible
00:47:43.680
very clearly speaks to in the first chapter of the first book of the Bible.
00:47:48.980
Like, there's a lot in debate, a lot of debate and discussion around what it looks like to
00:47:53.900
have a biblical and Christian response to a police officer's interaction with a Black person,
00:47:59.660
like what justice actually looks like, which we've talked about exhaustively on this podcast.
00:48:04.300
Justice, according to the Bible, and social justice, according to secular society, are not the same
00:48:10.340
things. And yet when it comes to this, this issue of the denial of the gender binary and the risk
00:48:21.140
that that places, especially on women and girls, but really on all people and all children in
00:48:26.620
particular, we all of a sudden have those same evangelicals unwilling to say what the Bible
00:48:35.480
says is true. It's so clear in scripture. It's in the first chapter of the first book of the Bible,
00:48:42.600
Genesis 127, God made them in his image, in his image. He created them male and female. He created
00:48:50.260
them, boom, right there. Jesus repeats that in Matthew 19, 4 through 5. In responding to a question
00:48:57.620
about divorce, he did not have to bring it all the way back to creation and its explicit
00:49:04.820
distinctions, definitions of male and female, but he did because that mattered to him. Have you not read,
00:49:11.420
Jesus said that in the beginning, God made them male and female? He's talking about marriage,
00:49:18.240
but he is clearly defining marriage and the importance of marriage by the reality of the
00:49:24.460
gender binary, by the biological reality of the gender binary, male and female. We see that definition
00:49:31.300
of male and female, the definition of gender all throughout scripture from the beginning of creation
00:49:39.180
in the first chapter all the way to Revelation 22 and the marriage supper between Christ and the church
00:49:46.060
where Christ is called the groom and the church is called the bride. That is a gender distinction
00:49:53.380
that shows that the gender definitions of marriage on earth actually have an eternal and profound and
00:50:00.840
spiritual meaning as we read in Ephesians 5. We've got it all right there. It's not confusing.
00:50:08.400
It's not nuanced. It's not gray. It's actually very black and white all throughout scripture that God has
00:50:16.480
made us male and female, that these are distinctions that actually matter, that manifest themselves in the
00:50:23.300
world in important ways. And yet, so few pastors, so few Christian teachers, so few Christian influencers
00:50:35.160
who were all about being social justice activists four years ago will speak up about this now.
00:50:43.500
Why? Why? Because many of these people who fancy themselves brave,
00:50:50.740
they're really very cowardly. Because see, you got a lot of applause by the secular world
00:50:57.780
and by progressives four years ago if you were willing to just repeat their mantras and maybe
00:51:02.180
put Micah 6-8 in front of it when you were talking about racism and discrimination back in 2020.
00:51:09.020
That was popular. That was mainstream popular. You got written about positively by the New York Times
00:51:15.580
and by the Atlantic. But now, if you say, I can't get on board with that and I am going to speak out
00:51:24.080
vehemently against this gender confusion and gender deception, you're not going to get positive press.
00:51:34.360
All those people that were clapping for you, all those people in the secular world,
00:51:38.100
all those progressives that were on your side back in 2020 when you were posting the black square,
00:51:42.620
they're going to turn their back against you. And if you have not counted the cost, you might not
00:51:48.700
think it's worth it. A lot of that activism back in 2020, while much of it might have been sincere
00:51:56.340
and might have been from a true motivation of thinking that you are doing good, a lot of it
00:52:05.040
was selfish, I think. I think. I don't know. I can't say. But when I look at the inconsistencies
00:52:12.880
and what that batch of evangelical Christians is actually willing to stand up for, sometimes
00:52:18.600
they'll give abortion a mention every now and then. Sometimes they'll talk about, I don't know,
00:52:26.760
maybe some other things that they know the Bible speaks against and traditionally fall into the
00:52:34.660
conservative definitions of what's important. Sometimes they'll do that, but very few of them
00:52:41.580
will talk about the definition of marriage anymore. Very few of them will talk about the reality of
00:52:48.000
gender. Very few of them will be public on their Instagram stories and in their Instagram feeds about
00:52:54.220
this because for some reason, for some reason, they're so scared to offend people when it comes to this
00:53:01.840
subject. They weren't scared. They weren't scared of offending white evangelicals when they were
00:53:06.660
talking about white fragility and white privilege. They weren't scared of offending Trump supporters.
00:53:13.040
They weren't scared of offending Republican voters four years ago. Now, that offense was worth it to
00:53:18.380
them. But now they say, well, they are scared to offend the man who identifies as the opposite sex.
00:53:26.180
They are scared to offend the two men who threw surrogacy by a baby. They're too scared to offend those
00:53:33.420
people. They weren't scared to offend their legitimate brothers and sisters in Christ who were white Trump
00:53:39.940
voting evangelicals four years ago, who many of them categorized and cascaded as racist just because of who
00:53:47.520
they voted for and because of the absence of a black square. That just goes to show that the activism of some
00:53:54.660
of these people is purely selfishly motivated. It's not about care for the marginalized. It's not about
00:54:02.460
care for the vulnerable. You know who's marginalized and vulnerable? These kids who are being put on
00:54:07.740
puberty blockers. These girls who are losing opportunities because men are now competing against
00:54:15.160
them. Women in prison who are forced to share spaces, to share prison cells with male rapists who now
00:54:27.860
identify as women. This is happening in this country. And how many pastors, how many Christians do you know
00:54:36.080
are speaking up about it? This is a civil rights issue. Don't you spout off about Micah 6-8 if all you
00:54:45.320
talk about is the issue that the secular world disagrees with you on. That America is some systemically
00:54:54.340
racist country that needs to be gutted and basically rebuilt in the image of DEI. That's not
00:55:05.740
courage. That's not courage. You sound just like the world. You're defining justice as they do. If you
00:55:13.080
want to be courageous and if you want to be loving as God defines loving because love rejoices with the
00:55:20.180
truth, as 1 Corinthians 13-6 tells us, if you want to be loving as God defines loving and God gets to
00:55:27.560
define loving because he is love, 1 John 4-8, then you will simply agree with Genesis 1-27. You will
00:55:35.020
represent that to the world because if you believe that God is in charge of all things because he
00:55:40.240
created all things, if you believe that his ways are better, then you will be loud and proud about
00:55:48.580
those things. That doesn't mean that you have to be purposely offensive. That doesn't mean that you
00:55:52.640
have to be spiteful. That doesn't mean that you have to be sarcastic. That doesn't mean those things.
00:55:57.320
Just understand that truth will offend the world and it matters, pastor. It matters. If you're a girl dad
00:56:04.540
and you're not speaking up about this, shame on you. Shame on you. You don't have to have a public
00:56:12.780
platform. I'm not saying that. You don't have to run for office. But with whatever sphere of influence
00:56:18.240
God has given you, whether it's five people or 5,000 people, you need to be speaking up about this.
00:56:23.040
This matters. This is an assault on creation. And because of that, it's making vulnerable girls
00:56:31.360
even more vulnerable. Okay. I promised y'all that we would talk about Taylor Swift and we really don't
00:56:38.900
have time. So maybe we'll do a little bit of Taylor Swift. And then if we have time and a future
00:56:45.600
episode, we'll break it down. We'll break it down some more. But I promised you guys that we would.
00:56:52.020
All right. All right, Brie. Your girl, Taylor Swift, has released an album. She released an album
00:57:14.560
on Friday. This is her 11th studio album, The Tortured Poets Department. Two hours after
00:57:22.500
releasing the album, Swift announced that the album was a surprise double album, dropping 15
00:57:28.020
additional songs to complete this album. And the four days since its release, the album has become
00:57:33.300
Spotify's most streamed album in a single day, exceeding 200 million streams. While the album's
00:57:38.020
title single, Fortnite, featuring Post Malone, became the streaming platform's most streamed song
00:57:43.520
in a single day. Wow. Now some Christians are pointing to problematic lyrics from Taylor Swift's
00:57:49.300
latest album, The Tortured Poets Department. All right. Before we get into some of those lyrics,
00:57:54.960
I want to set this up a little bit for those of you who are maybe new here and who don't know.
00:58:01.440
So we've talked about Taylor Swift a few times. Obviously, I and Brie too. We disagree with her
00:58:06.860
politically. And I would not call myself a Swifty. But I have enjoyed many of her albums and many of
00:58:13.460
her songs. I've kind of been just like agnostic about her. I do listen to like if she puts a new
00:58:19.240
album out, I like typically listen to a couple songs. Of course, I think they're catchy. Of course,
00:58:23.960
I understand why people like her. I don't like when people are like, I have no idea why people like
00:58:29.260
Taylor Swift. Like she is not talented. That's obviously not true. I mean, you cannot like her.
00:58:35.640
And you can even think that she's unimpressive, like her songwriting abilities or whatever,
00:58:39.800
because it's subjective. But I can see why she is impressive. I can see why tens of millions of
00:58:45.780
girls flock to her. I can see why she is appealing. And of course, I've liked some of her music.
00:58:52.680
However, some of the lyrics in this particular album are just extremely blasphemous.
00:58:59.880
Extremely sacrilegious. And I do find it. I do find them disturbing. So I'm going to go through
00:59:05.480
some of those lyrics. We're going to get Bree's take because she does consider herself a Swifty.
00:59:11.980
I laughed at Bree's story. She said that like people text you, like you said that people text
00:59:17.420
you when she puts an album out like you did it, like congratulating you. They congratulate me.
00:59:21.720
They're like, happy release day. Congratulations. And I'm like, thanks.
00:59:25.120
Like everyone's thinking of you when Taylor Swift puts out an album. So I'll get Bree's take on this
00:59:31.980
because Bree is not, let me just say, Bree is not like an unhinged Swifty, okay? I would say some
00:59:38.100
Swifties as well as some of the Beehive and Ariana Grande fans and K-pop fans are truly like detached
00:59:45.120
from reality and they cannot even like ever criticize the person that they are a fan of.
00:59:50.360
That's not Bree. So we're going to get her take in just a second. But let me tell you some of these,
00:59:56.120
I think, really disturbing lyrics in some of these songs on this new album.
01:00:00.780
So one of the songs is called Guilty as Sin. And it says,
01:00:05.820
what if I roll the stone away? They're going to crucify me anyway. What if the way you hold me
01:00:10.840
is actually what's holy? If long-suffering propriety is what they want from me, they don't
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know how you've haunted me so stunningly. I choose you and me religiously. The Berean millennial, Katie,
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she released or she posted some of these lyrics on Axe and she said that almost half of the songs on
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her newest album. I don't know. I haven't listened to all the songs. Either make fun of Christians or
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blaspheme him. The smallest man who ever lived, one of the lines is, because it wasn't sexy once
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it wasn't forbidden. I would have died for your sins. Instead, I just died inside. And then there is,
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but daddy, I love him. And we've got a researcher note. The song is not a response to Christians,
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despite her using the small town metaphor throughout its response to fans who cried out to
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cancel her when she was dating Maddie Healy, who has made jokes and said things in the past that
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people deem offensive. When her album Speak Now Taylor version came out, she was dating Maddie.
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A group of fans created the Speak Up Now campaign requesting that Taylor give more than a simple
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apology for the bigoted remarks that Maddie Healy has made. Okay, I didn't know any of that.
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So this response is apparently in response to those people. So she says, for example,
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clutching their pearls, sighing, what a mess. I just learned these people try and save you
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because they hate you. Too high a horse for a simple girl to rise above it. Blah, blah, blah.
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God saved the most judgmental creeps who say they want what's best for me. Sanctimoniously
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performing soliloquies. I'll never see yada, yada, yada. I don't really know why we even included that
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song in this, but I don't know. I guess it's just people thought that it was a response to Christians
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and it wasn't actually a response to Christians, but people were kind of understandably upset about
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that. She also had this song in 2019 from her album Lover. False God, I guess, is the song,
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but we might just get away with it. Religion's in your lips. Even if it's a false God, we'd still
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worship. We might just get away with it. The altar is my hips. Even if it's a false God, we'd still
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worship this love. We still worship this love. Blah. But we can patch it up good, make confessions,
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and we're begging for forgiveness. Got the wine for you. Yikes. Okay, Brie. She's got some
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sacrilegious and some blasphemous stuff up in here. What was your thought? As a Christian who
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likes Taylor Swift, as you were listening to this, what were you thinking? Yeah, I think
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there's a little bit more in this album than there has been in the past, but I included that
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from her 2019 album because I remember hearing that song and thinking, okay, this is
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pretty sacrilegious at that time, too. So it's not exactly new for her. And at that time,
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I couldn't find the exact interview, but I remember her saying something about how she
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is just fascinated by religious themes. She was like, I've never been religious, but I'm
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interested in the themes. And I was like, I don't know what that means. So she just kind
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of said that she's never been religious. Yeah, she said that. I think that was maybe in 2018
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when she said that. Yeah. Because remember in that when she was talking about Marsha Blackburn
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and that she said that she was a Christian. She was like, as a Christian. And I think people
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have kind of assumed that she's like at least a Christian in name. So that's interesting.
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Yeah. And she apparently is because that documentary was after she said this thing about like, I've
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never really been religious. So yes, obviously it's like all nominal. But yeah, no, I mean,
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there are a lot of songs that I don't condemn or that I don't condone from Taylor Swift. And
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some of these are some of them. I still think the album's really good. I also think there are a lot
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of themes in it that are actually really good. So I don't know. It's kind of like every Taylor Swift
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album. Some things I think are really not worth listening to and some are. Yeah. So I go back and
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forth on this myself as someone who is like not a Swifty, but does, you know, like and can appreciate
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some of her songs. Like some of her songs I just, I can't listen to. And again, I haven't listened to
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this album. I maybe have listened to one song, but there are some songs like on her last album,
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she had a song called Karma that I just thought was really sad. And I'm sure that's how she thinks.
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And I think that's how a lot of women think that karma is something that's real. It's basically
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like a works based religion, but it's also a very like vindictive way to think. And I think from the
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songs that she has, that she is a very vindictive, she does seem to have a vindictive streak. And to
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me, she also dons this kind of humility that not real humility, or maybe it is real humility,
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but it makes it seem like she is a victim and that she has always, you know, kept her side of the
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street clean. And she has always kind of been the good girl and people have come after her totally
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unprovoked. And because of that, I have to get back at them. Maybe you should be afraid of me
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kind of thing. And that persona is probably charming. I think it speaks. It seems sad to me.
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It seems sad. It seems a little bit unstable to me. It's not something that is like appealing when I
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listen, when I really think about like all of her songs and the kind of persona that she builds.
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I'm like, I don't know if this is something that I would ever want to be friends with and
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definitely needs Jesus for sure. But I go back and forth between like, okay, do people hold her to
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too high of a standard? Do we, for some reason, hold her to a standard that we don't hold any other
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artist? Like no one has these, like all these tweets and all of this, like these op-eds about like
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Ariana Grande and the things that she sings about or some of the other artists that are similar to
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Taylor Swift. Like people just don't talk about them as much. But then I also go back and I think,
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well, I think the reason why people point this out about Taylor Swift, even though she's not
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religious, so none of this stuff should really be surprising at all, is because so many Christian
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women listen to her and do kind of give her a pass. Like they wouldn't listen to hip hop or they
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wouldn't listen to like Lil Nas X because he's blasphemous, but they will jam out to Taylor Swift.
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They will go to her concert. They will take their 13 year old daughters to their concert while she's,
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you know, dancing in a leotard on a chair. And because it's Taylor Swift and she has a wholesome
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image, they kind of excuse her blasphemy and sacrilege in a way that maybe they wouldn't for
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another artist. So I don't know. I go back and forth on that a lot. I don't know what you think.
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No, I think that's a fair point. I do take issue with people exaggerating some of these things. Like
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I would disagree. I don't think half the album references things like this, like negative things
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like this. But I also don't think that most of her fans are under 15, which a lot of people claim.
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That's just not true. A lot of her fans are like my age. They've grown with her. Yeah,
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they've grown with her. So yes, people are taking their daughters to her concerts for sure. I think
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that's a fair point. But I think that a lot of people get a lot wrong about it as well when they
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criticize her. So yeah, I think people need to be a little bit more even handed with it. In my opinion,
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I think what's fair is to say that I think we should if anyone thinks like, for some reason
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that she is like, that these are wholesome lyrics and a wholesome example. And like someone that you
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want, like as a Christian, your daughters to look up to, or that this is someone that you can let your
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daughters listen to without you first assessing the lyrics. Then you need to just get that out of
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your head because that's not true. Like in the same way that it, you know, my parents were like,
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what is Christina Aguilera? And what are Britney Spears? What are they talking about? How did we go
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from the first album to slave for you? Like big difference. Of course, my at first it was like,
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oh, Britney Spears is a Christian. She's from Louisiana. The same thing I think about, I don't know,
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Mandy Moore and those people. And then you kind of see, okay, as they grow up, the image is different.
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The lyrics are different. And you have to start paying attention to those things. For some reason,
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I do think that, I don't know, simultaneously, I see on one hand that it seems like Taylor Swift
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is held to like a Christian standard, even though she is not a Christian and is really not really
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said that she has. Maybe she's gone back and forth on that. But, and then on the other hand,
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I feel like she just gets like a total free pass from Christians who should know better and to think
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that she is like some Christian example and she's just not. So I think if you just see her how she
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is, she's a secular artist who has sexual, well, yeah, secular sexual values and a secular sexual
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ethic. And she is going to play into this theme that is really popular right now, which is playing
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upon religious themes as, you know, Madonna did 40 years ago. And like a prayer, like, I think that you
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can see it clear-eyed. That doesn't mean that you should approve of it. That doesn't mean that your
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daughter should be listening to it. Maybe you shouldn't even be listening to it. But I also
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think that when people view her as like, I don't know, some sort of like witch that is putting people
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in a trance, I'm not so sure I would go that far. I don't think she's necessarily unique in that way.
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I don't know. Is there anything else you want to add?
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I'm not offended by people who really, really dislike her for these reasons. I just think there's a
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Yeah. Got it. Got it. Resident Swifty has weighed in. All right. That's what I think. And you know
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what we all have to do to make sure that what we are imbibing is lovely and pure and excellent and
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praiseworthy. And that is the call of the Christian. I certainly don't get that right all the time.
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And I still regret watching The Sopranos all the way through like five years ago. I'm haunted by
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that. I should have listened to Philippians 4 and I shouldn't have watched that because it wasn't
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pure excellent and I still have those scenes in my head. So, I've learned my lesson. I've learned
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my lesson. All right. That's all we've got time for. For today, we will be back here tomorrow with
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an awesome guest. I'm so excited. See you guys then.