Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey - May 08, 2024


Ep 999 | The Enneagram Scam | Guest: Dr. Dale Johnson


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58 minutes

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Summary

Dr. Dale Johnson is the Executive Director of the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors and host of the podcast, The Truth in Love. In this episode, Dr. Johnson talks about the difference between secular psychology and biblical counseling, and why there is a difference between them.


Transcript

00:00:00.460 Should Christians care about mental health?
00:00:04.480 Should we be going to psychiatrists, psychologists?
00:00:08.040 What is the difference between secular psychology and biblical counseling?
00:00:13.760 What is the difference between secular mental health and the biblical perspective on our
00:00:19.460 mind and our heart and our emotional state?
00:00:22.180 This was a wonderful, insightful conversation from Dr. Dale Johnson.
00:00:26.880 He is the executive director of the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors.
00:00:31.540 He is the host of the podcast, The Truth in Love podcast.
00:00:36.280 This was an amazing, very encouraging conversation as I heard the wisdom that he offered on what
00:00:44.180 the Bible actually says about how Christ can guide and help and sanctify our mind and heart.
00:00:52.300 Really, really good stuff that I know you guys are going to enjoy on today's episode of
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00:01:16.120 Dr. Johnson, thanks so much for taking the time to join us.
00:01:19.040 Before we get started, can you just tell us who you are and what you do?
00:01:23.340 Yeah, my name is Dale Johnson, and I am a professor of biblical counseling at Midwestern
00:01:28.540 Baptist Theological Seminary.
00:01:32.280 And I am also the executive director at ACBC, which is the Association of Certified Biblical
00:01:39.060 Counselors.
00:01:39.860 And those are two roles that take up most of my time.
00:01:43.640 But I'm a husband to my wife, Summer.
00:01:46.000 We've happily married for 23 years and have six children as well, so from college all the
00:01:52.980 way down.
00:01:53.640 So that's a little bit about who I am.
00:01:56.100 Awesome.
00:01:56.800 Awesome.
00:01:57.300 Well, I want to talk to you about biblical counseling.
00:02:00.640 You know, this conversation about counseling and therapy, what's needed, what's not, what
00:02:06.500 type of therapy or counseling is good, has been in conversation for a long time among
00:02:11.600 Christians with a lot of different perspectives.
00:02:13.680 What I've realized is that a lot of people don't know that there is actually a difference
00:02:18.800 between biblical counseling and what's called Christian counseling.
00:02:23.660 And I just want to hear from you, like, what is the difference and why do you care about
00:02:28.820 counseling for the Christian?
00:02:31.500 It's a really good question.
00:02:32.780 Let me start even by the way that you framed it, because that's how most people ask the
00:02:35.860 question.
00:02:36.400 They will ask the question, well, pragmatically, what's the difference?
00:02:39.660 Because what we're looking for is we're trying to decide, okay, what do we think will help
00:02:45.340 most in certain situations?
00:02:46.860 I would like to take that a step back and let us describe the distinctions of the types
00:02:52.400 of counseling so that we can understand that not only do they have different perspectives,
00:02:56.620 they have different goals in life.
00:02:58.740 And that matters to the Christian.
00:02:59.920 So for me, anybody who goes into counseling at any level, no matter how secular, you don't
00:03:07.060 do that kind of work because you hate people.
00:03:08.940 You go into that type of work because you have some concern about people who are broken
00:03:12.720 and hurting.
00:03:13.820 But there is a distinction, and it's really important.
00:03:15.860 I'll give it as brief as I can.
00:03:17.940 So if we were to think about it on a spectrum, so you've got a secular viewpoint, which is rooted
00:03:22.560 in humanistic thinking.
00:03:25.560 Obviously, there is no God.
00:03:27.020 We don't believe in a reality of His wisdom or anything about really the supernatural.
00:03:32.820 That's the perspective of most secularists, especially post-1859, which is a really important
00:03:38.520 date we might get into a little bit later.
00:03:40.820 But it's secular, meaning that it comes from human wisdom specifically.
00:03:45.680 We can talk about the empirical nature of how to pursue that type of wisdom, but it's
00:03:50.480 secular in its perspective, meaning that it's done within a closed system, and we're trying
00:03:55.820 to achieve human wisdom, what we can observe and see with the natural eye, and that's really
00:03:59.600 important.
00:04:00.600 You've got a middle position in the spectrum that you articulated as Christian counseling,
00:04:06.660 or what we would say is integrated counseling.
00:04:09.420 And essentially what's happening there is there's a perspective that we can take wisdom from
00:04:14.180 the world, human wisdom.
00:04:15.380 We can integrate that with theological truths to make sense of life, to understand human
00:04:21.440 nature or certain problems, or we start to compartmentalize humanity into physiological
00:04:26.600 or biological, psychological, and soulish type issues or spiritual issues.
00:04:33.560 And so that framework is built in the middle section, this Christian counseling, and there's
00:04:38.100 a spectrum within that.
00:04:39.180 So not every person who does integration is exactly the same.
00:04:42.520 There's a spectrum of how people articulate that.
00:04:45.080 But essentially what you're looking at is, you know, an overview is taking the wisdom
00:04:49.860 of man and the wisdom of God and trying to put those two together.
00:04:52.960 In biblical counseling, what we try and do is say, you know what, it's our perspective
00:04:57.500 that God has given us everything we need for life and godliness.
00:05:00.480 And if he's done that based on his character, that we choose to understand his wisdom about
00:05:06.860 life, about reality, the creation that he's made, and the creatures that he's made, and
00:05:12.720 that he's given us insight on not just what reality is for us as creatures, but what's broken
00:05:18.920 about man and how man should be repaired.
00:05:22.000 And that's a biblical perspective.
00:05:24.920 Right.
00:05:25.400 And I think a lot of people, you know, as I mentioned, and as you mentioned, don't really
00:05:29.660 know the difference between those two.
00:05:31.960 But there's also a specific track that you can take in your education to become a biblical
00:05:38.240 counselor that you don't have to if you are calling yourself a Christian counselor.
00:05:43.020 What does that entail?
00:05:43.820 Yeah, as far as educationally, a couple of different routes.
00:05:49.920 You know, if we were to contrast that from a secular perspective, obviously, most people
00:05:54.460 are trying to pursue licensure, or even from a Christian counseling perspective, they're
00:05:58.940 trying to pursue licensure.
00:06:00.240 So there's a federal regulation called KCREP, which is basically your educational standards,
00:06:05.820 and every school in every state has to meet those standards.
00:06:08.920 And then a person is trying to pursue certain education requirements that are laid out by
00:06:13.820 the federal government and then specific in each state.
00:06:17.000 That's different than biblical counseling, because what we believe in biblical counseling
00:06:20.860 is the best training that you can receive to do biblical counseling is not psychological
00:06:25.500 in nature, but it's biblical and theological in nature.
00:06:29.180 Because the point that I try to make that I think is so relevant, which we've understood
00:06:34.080 in church history very well, we seem to have lost understanding of this in the modern,
00:06:38.720 is in order to understand man, man is a dependent being.
00:06:41.980 And so we can't understand man without understanding the independent being who is God.
00:06:48.680 And in order to understand the nature of man, what man's purpose is, what we're for, how man
00:06:54.860 was designed to work, how we actually operate, we have to understand theology first.
00:07:00.220 So a theological training, biblical training, how to understand the scriptures really best helps
00:07:06.780 us to understand man, because man can't be understood unless we understand him in relation
00:07:11.560 to his creator.
00:07:13.480 Right.
00:07:14.820 And how would you tell someone who is considering counseling, but they just don't know, do they
00:07:21.100 really need it?
00:07:21.960 Are they overthinking it?
00:07:23.480 Is their problem severe enough to go see a professional?
00:07:27.820 How do you help someone decide whether it's time or whether it's right for them to go see
00:07:32.740 a biblical counselor?
00:07:33.660 Yeah, that's really good.
00:07:35.580 I think when there's, the way I describe it is the church is intended to do normal processes
00:07:41.240 of care.
00:07:41.840 If you look at the function that's described in the scriptures about what the church is
00:07:46.580 to do, every function of the local church is intended for the purpose of soul care, from
00:07:51.180 evangelism to preaching to the one another's to church discipline.
00:07:55.620 All these things are about how do we grow people to walk faithfully in Christ?
00:08:01.260 How do we comfort them when they're down?
00:08:02.780 How do we minister to them when they're suffering, when they're faint hearted and so on?
00:08:06.180 So every ministry of the word of the church is intended to bring light to darkness of the
00:08:12.400 soul.
00:08:13.380 And I think that's critical.
00:08:14.920 The second piece is when do we know we should take some intensive, what we would call intensive
00:08:20.060 discipleship?
00:08:20.840 Well, if there's an acute problem that is hindering your normal process of growth or your normal
00:08:26.660 function, then maybe it's time to sit down with somebody and let's deal with this particular
00:08:31.500 problem, help you get over that hump, scripturally speaking.
00:08:35.240 And then let's move you forward back and assimilate you back into the normal processes of care.
00:08:40.740 So, you know, when I think about professionalism, I can go into a whole diatribe, of course, about
00:08:46.180 how I think about professionalism in terms of counseling.
00:08:49.360 I think what we've made it is we've used that language of professionalism in counseling or
00:08:55.920 professionalized counseling to such a degree that we've diminished the biblical viewpoint
00:09:00.640 of what discipleship is intended to accomplish, which is for the purpose of stabilizing the
00:09:06.320 soul.
00:09:06.640 If you take somewhere like Ephesians 4, to grow up into the measure, the stature, the fullness
00:09:10.700 of Christ is to stabilize us so that we're not tossed to and fro by every wind of doctrine.
00:09:16.040 So there's a critical piece that we see, Psalm 19, 7, for example, the law of the Lord is
00:09:21.260 perfect and it accomplishes something.
00:09:23.560 It restores the soul.
00:09:25.440 So the Bible is staking claim that it does that type of soul work, that that's the domain
00:09:30.680 of God and the domain of his church and the truth that he's given us to accomplish that
00:09:35.080 work.
00:09:46.040 Do you find that men have a more difficult time than women coming to a biblical counselor
00:09:55.940 or any counselor and properly assessing when they need kind of outside help in working through
00:10:03.520 whatever it is that is inhibiting them from their normal processes, their spiritual life?
00:10:10.300 Unequivocally, yes.
00:10:14.820 Men, I think, and I'll give two basic reasons.
00:10:17.160 I think men are prideful.
00:10:18.600 And so it's hard for us to hear instruction from another person.
00:10:22.780 But the Proverbs calls us fools if we're not willing to receive instruction.
00:10:27.300 I think the second piece of that is men have a tendency to compartmentalize issues in their
00:10:31.920 life.
00:10:32.440 And so when there might be a major issue in one aspect of their life, they're not allowing
00:10:37.580 it to filter in and affect some of the other areas of their life, like their job or whatever.
00:10:42.260 And so, you know, there are many ways in which a man might feel like, you know, at home it's
00:10:47.340 going terribly, but in my job, things seem to be going well and I don't feel the pressure
00:10:52.500 that I need, you know, some sort of outside help.
00:10:55.140 Where sometimes ladies, you know, their life is all intertwined and they have a hard time
00:10:59.800 seeing one aspect of their life divorced from another aspect of their life.
00:11:03.400 So there's much more of a willingness to be humble and to seek help more often before
00:11:11.740 a man is willing to do that.
00:11:14.620 Yeah, I feel that women are typically more likely to be kind of external processors.
00:11:20.500 Like we like to talk it out.
00:11:22.160 I mean, that's what we did throughout our adolescence.
00:11:24.900 That was, you know, every like sleepover, every friend date, like every time you hang out,
00:11:30.080 you're externally processing your feelings, you're talking about your relationship, how
00:11:34.160 you feel about your parents.
00:11:35.420 Whereas I know I'm generalizing here, but guys are typically doing activities.
00:11:39.640 They're doing things together.
00:11:41.260 They're going on adventures.
00:11:42.280 They're playing games.
00:11:43.040 They're not necessarily sitting down and talking out how they feel and what's going on in their
00:11:49.880 lives.
00:11:50.260 And as you said, they can compartmentalize those things.
00:11:53.700 So now as an adult learning, oh, actually, these feelings have to be processed and talked
00:11:59.840 about and not just repressed.
00:12:02.360 That is, I think, a difficult thing to come to terms with, especially as an adult and especially
00:12:08.300 if you feel, which you do as a Christian man, you need to be like the rock for your family.
00:12:15.540 I think sometimes when we or maybe when men here have to be a rock for my family, that
00:12:21.860 means I can't have any emotions or I can't have any problems or I can't have any needs
00:12:26.860 or any anxiety.
00:12:29.520 And counseling is almost like an admission that you are needy in some way or that you're
00:12:35.180 insufficient or I don't want to say unstable, like in the mental way, but you know, like
00:12:39.940 you need some help with stability.
00:12:41.640 That's a hard thing to admit.
00:12:44.040 Yes, from pride, but also in just wanting to be the, you know, source of strength for your
00:12:50.220 family.
00:12:51.860 Yeah, well said.
00:12:52.980 And I think that plays into even 2 Corinthians 12, 9, where Paul describes his own weakness
00:12:59.200 and that Christ is made perfect in that weakness is that's a part of a spiritual battle for
00:13:04.100 a man as the head of the household, as you mentioned, where he's supposed to be strong.
00:13:08.680 But part of the paradox of the Christian life is that it's okay to embrace our weaknesses
00:13:12.640 because of where we find strength.
00:13:15.100 That strength is not like this therapeutic culture says, building the self from within.
00:13:19.840 In fact, that's antithetical to what the gospel actually calls us to.
00:13:23.360 It's to embrace those weaknesses and be unafraid with humility to embrace those weaknesses,
00:13:28.260 knowing that it's through those that Christ is actually demonstrated strong.
00:13:32.140 So that's a part of the paradox and struggle that I think is quite spiritual for men in their
00:13:37.740 role as head of the house.
00:13:38.700 And you know, I see that among women too, this kind of self-help, self-love culture that has
00:13:47.080 been popular for a very long time.
00:13:49.620 I mean, it goes back decades.
00:13:50.940 But certainly in the past, I don't know, 10 to 20 years with popular psychologists and maybe even
00:13:58.940 like pseudo psychologists, so people who offer psychological advice on Instagram, but maybe
00:14:03.620 aren't actually psychologists, this emphasis on self-love as the solution to all of your problems
00:14:12.420 and self-sufficiency as the answer to everything, that you are enough.
00:14:17.760 You're enough for yourself, and if you just discover yourself, fulfill yourself, make yourself
00:14:24.020 happy, do what you want, follow your dreams, then you will finally and fully be fulfilled,
00:14:30.520 that you have everything inside you that you need to be healed and to be whole and to be
00:14:36.520 happy.
00:14:37.440 I mean, that is the path that so many female liberating books are taking us down today.
00:14:45.340 I would say even sometimes with a Christian veneer over it, that, oh, Jesus told you to
00:14:50.460 love your neighbor as you love yourself.
00:14:52.020 That means you got to love yourself first, and you got to think of yourself first.
00:14:55.420 You got to prioritize all of your wants all the time.
00:14:58.540 But I love what you said, that that idea that the self is the source of strength and satisfaction
00:15:04.620 is contradictory to what the gospel tells us.
00:15:08.600 So can you explain that a little bit more?
00:15:13.400 Yeah, I think you're identifying exactly one of the key issues of our therapeutic culture.
00:15:21.820 Many call it the therapeutic gospel, because we've described that as being something that's
00:15:26.600 healthy.
00:15:27.300 We've described that as being something that's good.
00:15:29.240 But we've got to reckon these things according to the way God describes them.
00:15:33.100 God describes that perspective as being something that's not good, but in the category of evil.
00:15:38.920 In fact, in Luke 9, 23, for example, when Jesus calls his disciples, he says,
00:15:43.440 If anyone wishes to be my disciple, he must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me.
00:15:49.140 That's the first call that he makes to a disciple is not to build the self, to grow the self,
00:15:54.000 to think better of yourself.
00:15:55.920 He says we have to deny ourself.
00:15:58.120 Why?
00:15:58.240 Because we weren't made to live by us, for us, or through us.
00:16:02.380 We were made to live by, for, and through Christ.
00:16:04.700 So this is absolutely antithetical.
00:16:07.180 If you think of Philippians 3, 3, when Paul says,
00:16:09.700 We are to put no confidence in the flesh.
00:16:12.380 Well, this whole modern movement is really about building the self to such a degree that
00:16:16.800 we're putting confidence in our flesh and the strength of our flesh, thinking that the
00:16:21.040 answer is not to us.
00:16:22.480 And that's actually a bait and switch from the evil one, because us finding strength in
00:16:27.860 ourself is futile thinking, according to Ecclesiastes.
00:16:31.880 Us finding strength in the things of the earth, the Bible says, is futile in thinking.
00:16:36.920 It's like a vapor.
00:16:38.160 And I think that's what's increasing our levels of anxiety, our levels of depression,
00:16:42.440 is we start to try those things.
00:16:44.660 We see the emptiness of those, and it only exacerbates the problem.
00:16:48.580 It actually doesn't bring wholeness.
00:16:51.200 It doesn't bring stability.
00:16:53.760 It doesn't bring peace, like what we're searching after, because it's the wrong means to get there.
00:16:58.480 Yes.
00:16:58.920 I like to say that the self can't be both the problem and the solution.
00:17:03.300 And that's what Satan wants you to think.
00:17:06.120 Or not even, I wouldn't even say that Satan wants you to think that you are the problem.
00:17:10.920 He wants you to think that society is the problem, that everyone else is the problem,
00:17:13.960 that everyone's expectations and demands and the responsibilities that you have,
00:17:18.180 the problems are on the outside.
00:17:19.540 The solution is in the inside, when really the opposite is true.
00:17:23.360 The problems are in the inside, and the solution is outside of us in our creator,
00:17:28.200 because the self can't be both the problem and the solution.
00:17:30.960 If inside of ourselves we're finding the depression, the anxiety, the insufficiency,
00:17:35.720 the inadequacy, the insecurity that is weighing us down,
00:17:38.600 we're not going to find the solution to those things in the same place that we're finding our problems.
00:17:43.580 And of course, as you have articulated so well, and as scripture teaches repeatedly,
00:17:49.520 God made us that way.
00:17:50.460 He actually made us to be needy and made us to be insufficient so that his power can be perfected
00:17:56.500 through us.
00:17:58.080 But that's a very countercultural message today.
00:18:00.860 Do you find in your profession and in your practice that reminding people that we are not
00:18:09.320 called to self-fulfillment and self-glory and self-help, that that is a difficult message for
00:18:16.380 people to receive or not?
00:18:20.680 It's a very difficult message.
00:18:22.400 And that's a part of the difficulty, I think, that we face in the church is we have,
00:18:27.920 as you mentioned, Christianized these secular ideas.
00:18:31.180 And I think because we've done this for so long, I mean, we're talking about really since
00:18:36.900 the 1920s, we've been doing this fairly regular.
00:18:40.780 And you can, there are marks before that, but there's a stark contrast starting in the
00:18:44.520 20s, 30s, 40s.
00:18:45.900 And so that's infiltrated our churches and not just liberal churches.
00:18:49.120 It's infiltrated very conservative churches as sort of part and parcel of how we think about
00:18:54.000 ourselves and how we think about life.
00:18:55.520 We've compartmentalized ourselves to a psychological being, a spiritual being, believing fully that,
00:19:00.440 yes, the Bible is sufficient for all things spiritual, but that's a compartmentalization.
00:19:04.560 It's a deducing of the beauty of the sufficiency of Scripture and what it's claiming that it
00:19:09.920 actually does.
00:19:10.760 And so, yeah, I think this is a constant uphill battle that we're fighting.
00:19:15.100 I think often of Colossians 2, 8, where Paul tells us that we are to guard against empty
00:19:21.280 philosophies and vain deceptions.
00:19:22.960 And I think this is one of those empty philosophies and vain deceptions that we are intrigued by and
00:19:29.500 lured toward because we think it does empower us in some way to pursue, you know, peace and
00:19:36.020 healing and hope and help and all these different things that we so long for and desire.
00:19:41.520 But we have to return back to what does the Scripture actually tell us?
00:19:45.720 What does the Scripture describe is the means, not just the goal, because lots of people have
00:19:51.340 the right goal.
00:19:51.980 We want to glorify the Lord.
00:19:53.060 We want to live at peace in life.
00:19:54.500 And that's a great goal.
00:19:55.600 The problem is the means by which we get there.
00:19:58.240 And that's often where people get confused.
00:20:00.560 God is concerned not just about the goal.
00:20:03.220 He's also concerned about the means that we get there.
00:20:05.100 And He's provided the way that we are to do that in His Word.
00:20:09.060 Can I ask you what you think about the Enneagram and or maybe different personality tests in
00:20:29.640 general and how churches have brought in the Enneagram kind of as a tool to understanding
00:20:34.980 the self and even understanding the self in relation to your spouse or others or God?
00:20:39.700 I'm just curious on your take on that.
00:20:43.460 Yeah.
00:20:44.060 So I'll give you the short is I'm not a fan at all of the Enneagram.
00:20:48.740 I think it's very deceptive.
00:20:50.360 I think it's driven by the New Age movement.
00:20:52.400 I had a doctoral student, Rin Cherry, wrote on this, and he's asking the question, is this
00:20:58.540 Christian?
00:20:59.720 And the answer to that question is, no, it's not Christian.
00:21:03.400 I think we get enamored with what I call explanatory power.
00:21:07.920 And from our finite minds, what we try and do is we see that people have different personalities
00:21:12.900 or maybe we would call it different dispositions.
00:21:15.220 Historically, people call those different constitutions.
00:21:18.420 And so we see those things and we're trying to give explanation as to why is this happening
00:21:22.460 or how is this happening?
00:21:23.420 And I think what we start to grasp at are people who have tried to give explanation to
00:21:28.100 it.
00:21:28.580 The problem is we often are fooled by and we have a tendency to grasp at explanations that
00:21:37.300 are disconnected from reality where they give partial truths where we can identify, yeah,
00:21:42.020 I've had that experience or yes, I feel like that sometimes.
00:21:45.120 And then we run to it.
00:21:46.660 And I think that's a part of what's happening with the Enneagram.
00:21:49.440 And listen, we can go through a whole history of personality testing and their rise and fall
00:21:55.020 and the multiplicity of those things because they don't grasp the depth of humanity and
00:22:00.940 our human nature in full.
00:22:03.740 And because they miss those points, they rise and fall in popularity.
00:22:08.320 And I think the Enneagram is certainly in process of that.
00:22:11.340 I think this one is a little bit more dangerous in the sense that it promotes definite New Age
00:22:16.060 perspective.
00:22:16.640 It's trying to explain from a, you know, those who use it Christianly, it's trying to
00:22:22.400 explain, you know, the detriments that we have or the brokenness, the effects of sin
00:22:27.660 on our lives in personality traits.
00:22:30.660 And that in and of itself, I think, divorces us from the biblical explanation of what ails
00:22:35.980 us.
00:22:36.180 And so what will happen ultimately when we redefine the problems that we have in our
00:22:41.080 humanity, we start to grasp at different solutions that are earthly and unbiblical, thinking that
00:22:48.700 we're empowered to overcome these personality traits or, you know, being able to cultivate
00:22:53.820 relationship with somebody who's a different number than you are or compatibility with a
00:22:57.880 different person.
00:22:59.040 And we think about that in terms of, well, this is what's good and right.
00:23:03.280 When scripturally, we are called to die to those self-made preferences, that understanding
00:23:09.880 of even strengths and weaknesses, so that we get over ourselves and we learn to love other
00:23:15.480 people who are quite different than us.
00:23:16.960 And this is the beauty of the church, is that you should see a group of diverse people from
00:23:21.780 different backgrounds and socioeconomic statuses, and those people shouldn't be worshiping together.
00:23:27.440 But the beauty of that is that the Lord brings peace to us all to where we have one common
00:23:31.960 goal, and we see unity even in diversity.
00:23:35.320 And I think the Enneagram is something that unintentionally builds division, even from a
00:23:40.060 Christian perspective, not to mention, as I did before, the New Age perspective that created
00:23:45.520 it historically.
00:23:47.100 Yeah, you know, you're right.
00:23:48.040 I hadn't thought about the division piece of it.
00:23:50.920 Um, the demonic and kind of, uh, occultish origins of it definitely have concerned me.
00:24:01.200 That was something I didn't know.
00:24:02.760 I, you know, I liked the Enneagram in college.
00:24:05.080 That was kind of when it was coming to fame, I would say, gosh, probably back in like 2011
00:24:10.860 or so.
00:24:12.120 That's at least when I first heard of it, and I thought that it was great.
00:24:14.860 And it was marketed to me as Christian, that Jesus actually represents like the perfect
00:24:20.640 combination of all nine numbers.
00:24:23.680 And it is presented to us as a way to actually build our relationships and help our relationships.
00:24:29.260 But I can see what you say being true and that, oh, that person's a five.
00:24:35.620 That's why I don't like them.
00:24:37.240 That person's a three.
00:24:38.760 That's why we're not getting along.
00:24:39.820 My husband, he's a whatever.
00:24:41.740 He's a seven and I'm a two wing one, whatever it is.
00:24:45.720 That's why we're having a hard time right now.
00:24:47.860 And it actually, it seems like it could set up yet another obstacle, um, in reconciliation
00:24:55.000 in unity, because we're thinking about things through the perspective of our personality traits
00:25:01.860 rather than through the lens of scripture.
00:25:03.880 I also think it can tempt people into seeing their sin as personality quirks.
00:25:09.460 Well, I just don't want to evangelize because I'm a five.
00:25:13.880 Well, I just hold everyone to this impossible standard of perfection because I'm a one.
00:25:18.820 Okay.
00:25:19.300 But these are sins that we have to repent of, right?
00:25:22.040 No matter if they're a part of our Enneagram number.
00:25:26.020 And that, yeah, I think that can inhibit not just relationships, but also sanctification,
00:25:31.240 which may be true of many personality tests.
00:25:33.500 I just see it with the Enneagram a lot.
00:25:34.900 Yeah, I would say it's, it's pretty consistent and, and I think you're spot on in how you
00:25:40.820 describe that.
00:25:41.540 It becomes a hindrance and a detractor to how we see ourselves.
00:25:46.100 And we think it gives us insight.
00:25:48.020 It's really Gnostic, right?
00:25:49.340 We think it gives us insight into who we really are as a person.
00:25:52.720 Um, and I think that's a part of the danger of it, because as you said, these could be
00:25:57.060 issues of sin, but we're not pursuing, uh, Christ's answer of sanctification, crucifying,
00:26:02.420 mortifying those particular sins that, that, you know, keep division between us as individuals.
00:26:07.780 Uh, we, we start seeking other types of solutions and, uh, and that's the danger of it.
00:26:11.940 So yeah, well said.
00:26:12.800 Yeah.
00:26:14.440 Do you also see a stigma when it comes to counseling individuals about talking about
00:26:21.160 sin?
00:26:21.840 Maybe you don't see this because the people who are using biblical counseling are hoping
00:26:26.100 to actually get a biblical response, but nowadays talking about the reality of sin, sexual sin,
00:26:32.520 God's parameters and design for gender, marriage, sexuality, all of these things, talking about
00:26:38.000 holiness and repentance and sanctification.
00:26:40.580 That is certainly unpopular, even from many pulpits today.
00:26:45.400 And it's described certainly by the secular world as unhealthy or even abusive or affirming
00:26:51.460 God's design is harmful conversion therapy.
00:26:54.460 There are all of these, you know, very vitriolic words used to describe basic Christian teachings
00:27:01.760 about repentance and right and wrong.
00:27:04.820 Is that a challenge that biblical counselors face today as far as how they are?
00:27:10.580 Serving their clients?
00:27:13.200 Yeah, for sure.
00:27:13.740 I think it's, you know, it's always a challenge.
00:27:15.940 I think biblical counseling really has that caricature that, you know, all we deal with
00:27:19.300 are issues of sin.
00:27:20.420 And, um, you know, to a degree we could, you know, if you think from a biblical perspective,
00:27:24.700 every problem that human, that we face as humanity is because of sin.
00:27:29.640 Now people will say, well, what do you mean by that?
00:27:31.720 Let me qualify.
00:27:32.480 Um, if we look at the narrative of scripture and the Christian, um, unveiling of progressive
00:27:39.440 revelation, Genesis chapter three is really critical because the curse of the world, uh,
00:27:43.960 matters, the impact of sin on us, whether that's natural disasters or other people sinning
00:27:48.460 against us.
00:27:49.180 It doesn't mean that I'm personally responsible for what somebody else does to me or a natural
00:27:53.700 disaster happening, but I still have to deal with this idea of sin and how it impacts
00:27:58.480 me.
00:27:59.260 And this is really key, Allie Beth, that I think a lot of people miss is that we have
00:28:04.440 a tendency to think, well, if we don't categorize it as sin, then, then, um, I'm not a moral agent
00:28:09.840 that's responsible to deal with this.
00:28:12.180 Um, I can have, you know, an excuse as to why I shouldn't deal with this.
00:28:15.760 I think that's one of the biggest hurdles that people have to get over no matter the suffering
00:28:19.980 that we experience in life, whether it's from consequences of our own personal sin or from,
00:28:25.080 you know, the, the effects of the curse of sin on the world and other people.
00:28:28.660 Sinning against us.
00:28:30.260 We still have a moral obligation before God to respond appropriately, uh, to him, to honor
00:28:36.180 him with what he's entrusted to us.
00:28:38.200 So I think discussion about sin has sort of, uh, you know, went out of vogue or out of popularity.
00:28:45.540 And I think people don't realize the danger of it.
00:28:48.560 When, when we set aside this language of sin that, that the scripture describes, um, not only
00:28:55.120 are we misunderstanding the genuine problems that humanity faces, but we, we then therefore
00:29:01.400 miss, um, the, the solutions that God offers.
00:29:04.980 And that's the subtlety that I think that's happening because every counseling system has
00:29:10.380 several things, no matter who you look at, what, what theorist, uh, every counseling system
00:29:15.480 has a worldview.
00:29:16.260 They have a perspective of what they think is normal.
00:29:18.560 They have a perspective of what they think is broken in humanity, and they have a perspective
00:29:23.180 of what they think the solutions are.
00:29:25.200 And those are not scientific, uh, pursuits.
00:29:29.620 Those are fundamentally philosophical pursuits.
00:29:33.100 Most people don't realize that, that counseling based on any type of psychology is, is a philosophical
00:29:39.580 pursuit long before it's a scientific pursuit.
00:29:42.200 And that, that's a categorical mistake that most people make.
00:29:45.200 And so therefore, you know, we, we, we often get, um, we're, we're disillusioned with, uh,
00:29:52.000 some of the therapy that's offered because we think, well, this is something that could
00:29:55.360 be helpful when it's offering a different way of wisdom, uh, than what the scripture offers.
00:30:00.760 So, uh, sin really is under the microscope because if, as Freud thought, if we could remove
00:30:06.720 Augustine's view of original sin, uh, now we've opened up the door where, where his psychotherapeutic
00:30:13.400 and the modern therapeutic gospel, um, can thrive.
00:30:17.000 And that's exactly what you see happening today.
00:30:20.100 Yeah.
00:30:20.500 Gosh, that is so true.
00:30:22.220 The only sin today is saying that there is sin, ironically enough.
00:30:30.760 So what does it mean from a biblical perspective to be mentally and emotionally healthy in general?
00:30:46.980 What does that look like?
00:30:49.160 Yeah, it's a really good question.
00:30:50.040 So let me, let me start, um, I'll start, um, just sort of broad so people can understand.
00:30:56.660 So the diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders, right?
00:30:59.760 That's the, the, what most people describe as the Bible of psychology and the Bible of
00:31:04.180 psychiatry.
00:31:05.200 It's this massive book, thousand pages that has nearly 500 diagnoses in it.
00:31:10.840 And it's the, the labels that everyone hears about in terms of mental disorders or quote
00:31:15.700 unquote mental illnesses.
00:31:17.640 Um, it's a book about abnormalities.
00:31:20.120 Okay.
00:31:20.620 And if it's a book about abnormalities, what's really interesting is they never give a perception
00:31:24.900 of what's normal.
00:31:25.780 So the question really that people should have is, is how do we know what's abnormal if we
00:31:31.300 don't have some sort of plumb line or a baseline of what's normal?
00:31:34.560 And so we, we're grasping after what we think is mentally and emotionally healthy, uh, disposition
00:31:40.260 when we, we don't even really have an understanding of what, what is normal.
00:31:44.760 And what you see is this is culturally appraised.
00:31:47.760 This is why the DSM thrives in a place like the West and particularly in America, but you
00:31:53.040 can't just superimpose those same ideas, uh, in a place like Africa or in the, in the far
00:31:58.120 East because they have very different worldviews.
00:32:00.600 So this is something that's culturally appraised that should tell us a couple of things.
00:32:04.560 Okay.
00:32:04.980 Is if they can't define what's normal, how can they ever describe what is abnormal functioning?
00:32:10.720 It's just a, simply a expression of things that are unwanted or we think are awkward socially.
00:32:15.720 I'm not saying those things, you know, people don't experience some of those feelings or,
00:32:19.560 you know, uh, different dispositions that that's not the argument, but it does bring
00:32:25.060 us to the question of what does it mean to be normal?
00:32:27.340 What does it mean to be truly healthy?
00:32:28.920 If we're made in the image of God, um, then what it means to be healthy and what it means
00:32:34.660 to be normal is that we reflect the character and the nature and the glory of God.
00:32:39.480 And based on the testimony of scripture, the only way that happened is by the, is by the
00:32:44.200 redemption that's found in the Lord Jesus Christ.
00:32:46.380 So the only way in which we can walk stable in life, the only way that we can have peace
00:32:52.000 Romans 5, 1 is that we are right with God first.
00:32:55.900 And that then allows us sociologically to have good relationship with other people.
00:33:01.180 We can deal with, you know, adversity and difficulties that happen in life in a much more stable way,
00:33:06.040 not perfect for sure, but in a much more stable way.
00:33:09.040 So when we think about mental, mental health, mental health in and of itself is, is somewhat
00:33:13.600 of a misnomer in the secular world.
00:33:15.440 It was trying to borrow from in the, in the first decade of the 20th century, it was attempting
00:33:20.340 to borrow from the medical model and in advancement of hygiene and the things we were learning about
00:33:27.020 hygiene in the medical model.
00:33:28.300 And a guy named Clifford Beers, um, sort of in reaction to the psychiatric barbarism that
00:33:34.100 was, that was, uh, discovered in the first part of the 20th century.
00:33:37.740 He, he proposes this idea of mental hygiene.
00:33:40.400 He says, well, I think we should live in a way that we, we have certain environmental, uh,
00:33:45.800 ways that, that help us to stay clean in our mind.
00:33:48.460 And, and that's really the, the secular perspective, um, as we've moved mental health forward, uh,
00:33:55.020 in the modern sense.
00:33:55.940 And so notice what happens if, if you're depressed, for example, um, and we call that a disease
00:34:03.020 and that is what makes you mentally, um, unhealthy, then what we're attacking is the symptom, right?
00:34:09.440 The feeling of depression.
00:34:10.780 And we say anything that makes you feel that way is the problem.
00:34:14.800 And what we've done is we've taken symptoms and made symptoms, the problem.
00:34:19.380 And so we're trying to fix those as symptoms.
00:34:21.580 And what, what happens is then we say anybody who, who experiences any level of sadness or
00:34:28.240 fear, uh, that that's abnormal.
00:34:31.440 Uh, and what we've done is we've just removed ourselves from, uh, what genuine human experience
00:34:37.360 really looks like in, in a world post Genesis three of loss and death and grief and difficulty
00:34:43.340 and brokenness.
00:34:44.560 And so we're losing reality from God's perspective.
00:34:47.680 So, uh, what, what they're proposing, it sounds good, but it's, it's a completely different
00:34:52.760 pursuit.
00:34:53.260 So the way I categorize this is to say in Christian, in the Christian worldview, we have a view of
00:34:58.140 what's normal.
00:34:58.740 And his name is Jesus and how we are to live life as a human being in relation to the father.
00:35:04.440 And so it's important that we understand that, that Jesus did everything that Adam could not
00:35:09.400 do, everything that you can't do, everything I couldn't do in how normal humanity should
00:35:14.680 live in relation to God for the good of others and for the glory of the father.
00:35:19.420 And so for us, we have that plumb line.
00:35:21.740 And I think then we can see, okay, what does it look like to live healthy, both emotionally,
00:35:27.180 mentally in our mind, how we renew our mind, how we think in our mind, how we, um, forego the
00:35:32.980 corruption in our mind, uh, you know, all those things are critical when we think about
00:35:37.380 what it means to, to walk healthy, to live healthy.
00:35:40.020 Notice what that doesn't mean.
00:35:41.500 It doesn't mean that we are abstaining from suffering because Jesus tells us in this world,
00:35:47.860 you will have trouble.
00:35:48.800 The whole mental health pursuit, um, it really is a fool's errand in part because what they're
00:35:54.680 chasing after, uh, they will never be able to get rid of ever.
00:35:59.800 They can never assuage everything that can corrupt our mental health.
00:36:04.480 Um, from, from God's perspective, though, he acknowledges that troubles in the world,
00:36:08.460 but yet he says, we're not hopeless.
00:36:10.440 Even when the trouble is there, we can still walk stable.
00:36:13.000 James one, we can still walk faithful with the Lord, even through difficulty and trouble.
00:36:18.480 That's genuine hope.
00:36:19.720 And that's something that the secular world can't really offer.
00:36:22.240 Hmm.
00:36:23.220 That's so true that mentally being mentally healthy or mental health is usually described,
00:36:29.720 whether deliberately or not as absence of bad feelings and certainly the absence of
00:36:35.400 persistent bad feelings.
00:36:37.180 But even if you just read the Psalms, we see that David persistently had bad feelings.
00:36:42.020 He persistently had sad feelings.
00:36:44.620 And I've even heard some people analyze that as he suffered from some kind of depression and
00:36:50.360 anxiety disorder, but that is doing, you know, what we do today with the, which is pathologizing
00:36:56.020 and diagnosing the spectrum of human emotion.
00:37:00.680 And I especially worry about this for adolescents and for teens, um, who are inundated with this kind
00:37:09.380 of content, particularly on social media and who live in a world where antidepressant medication
00:37:15.340 is glorified.
00:37:16.800 It is downright glorified, not just normalized or destigmatized where I would say there's even
00:37:23.040 an issue with that, but glorified.
00:37:25.320 There's a whole segment of TikTok where these young people are talking about all the
00:37:30.580 different anti-anxiety and anti-depression medications that they're taking.
00:37:34.340 Parents think they're doing the right thing because of this like therapeutic gospel and
00:37:38.880 just the pervasiveness of trust the experts, trust the experts.
00:37:43.040 If your kid is having a hard time, if they're sad, if they're insecure, if they're acting out,
00:37:46.960 you got to go to the experts.
00:37:48.120 You got to go to the therapist.
00:37:49.800 I mean, we don't even have time to talk about like all the consequences and the road that that
00:37:54.400 can often, not always, but can often lead down, um, for kids.
00:37:58.900 But have you seen that in this rise of, um, uh, this phenomenon of, I don't know how to describe
00:38:08.340 it without using like the term mental health, but mentally unwell or children feeling that
00:38:14.520 they're mentally unwell.
00:38:16.400 And if you have seen that, like how do parents deal with it?
00:38:19.400 Yeah.
00:38:21.300 So I, I, I'm glad you brought parents up because let me just say at the outset, I think what
00:38:25.580 we're seeing unfold is that, uh, mental health, um, practitioners really become the experts
00:38:32.380 and they're, they're the ones who are then given status of, you know, the, the professional,
00:38:37.220 uh, the expert who, who makes declarations about particular things.
00:38:41.340 And the losers in all of this become the parents, because what you start to see happen is, you
00:38:46.000 know, parents who live with their kids every day really don't know their kids as well as
00:38:50.020 what a therapist can with certain insight.
00:38:52.380 And, and which I think is, is Gnosticism, uh, played out in full spectrum.
00:38:57.300 So, um, so I think that that's initially a danger.
00:39:00.000 Now, let me speak specifically to, uh, the question about adolescence and how we see that
00:39:04.840 growing.
00:39:05.080 I don't think we should, um, we should think that that's strange.
00:39:09.000 I, I didn't say, I don't think it's good or that I think it's good.
00:39:12.560 I think we shouldn't think it's strange.
00:39:14.960 If you understand the history of psychology, and I think Carl Truman, uh, did a really good
00:39:19.480 job in, in his cultural appraisal, um, as he describes the, the, um, the effects of Freudian
00:39:26.860 thought, uh, really on our modern therapeutic culture and how we, we take feelings and we take
00:39:32.540 them as, as primary identity.
00:39:35.080 And that's a part of what's happening.
00:39:36.800 Let me, let me explain something before I get into this, cause I think this part will
00:39:40.040 be helpful.
00:39:40.820 Let's take, let's take depression from the DSM, for example.
00:39:44.040 Okay.
00:39:44.320 So in, in, in the criteria of the DSM, there are nine categories of criteria for depression.
00:39:50.640 They describe normal functional problems when somebody has depressive feelings.
00:39:55.640 It's things like, you know, loss of appetite.
00:39:57.840 They can't function, uh, in a normal day.
00:40:00.520 They're overwhelmed with grief.
00:40:01.800 Maybe they have suicidal ideation, those types of things.
00:40:04.300 I'll often ask my students when a person is depressed, what are the things that they believe
00:40:09.020 to be true about themselves?
00:40:10.540 And they'll say, well, you know, they think maybe they're better off dead.
00:40:13.800 They think other people think that that's true.
00:40:15.820 They, they, you know, some event happened in their life.
00:40:18.060 And so they feel like they're worthless.
00:40:19.240 And I say, okay, if that's what they believe to be true, um, what's broken with the way
00:40:25.180 we describe what's broken in our cultures, we say, well, um, they shouldn't be feeling
00:40:30.000 depressed.
00:40:30.420 So their emotions must be broken.
00:40:32.000 But the question that I want to ask is, um, if that's true, okay.
00:40:36.960 If, if, if I believe that I should die, that I'm better off dead, that I'm worthless, what's
00:40:42.360 the, what's a proper emotional response to that belief?
00:40:45.700 If that's really true, actually, it's not your emotions that are broken.
00:40:49.140 Your emotions are responding quite properly to what you believe to be true.
00:40:53.920 And so we're attacking the symptom of, of emotions or feelings saying that that's, what's broken
00:41:01.180 instead of the issue of, of what's true and right, which is that I'm believing things that
00:41:06.200 are false according to, you know, us being made in, in, in, to God's image and have intrinsic
00:41:11.040 value and all the rest of it related to the image of God.
00:41:13.840 So we can see even that narrative starts to build what we have, what we see in our teenagers.
00:41:18.760 So what they're doing is they're describing themselves based on the way that they feel.
00:41:23.560 And it's become in vogue now to expect that, you know, we're, we're all born with some
00:41:28.640 form of inherited taints and expresses itself in different ways.
00:41:31.900 And then it becomes glorified, uh, almost a competition of, you know, who has the most
00:41:37.660 therapist or who has, you know, the different types of medication and, and, and that sort of
00:41:42.320 thing.
00:41:42.560 But it, that, that happens when we build feelings and emotions as that, which sets or creates our
00:41:50.860 identity as human beings.
00:41:52.720 And this is a secular culture trying to grasp at explaining who man is and what gives us
00:41:59.260 meaning and value and purpose.
00:42:01.420 And as we see in the scriptures, when we pursue that from a, uh, you know, as Solomon would
00:42:06.300 say below the sun or from an earthly perspective, it shouldn't surprise us that where we land
00:42:11.580 now is vanity, futility.
00:42:14.680 And that's what we see being promoted on places like tick tock.
00:42:19.120 That's what we see unfolding in our culture.
00:42:21.220 Our culture sociologically is futility and vanity.
00:42:25.420 And the Bible told that story already that when we pursue these things, this is the end
00:42:30.380 of it.
00:42:30.760 Um, but in, in our human disposition, we have a hard time seeing it because it took, you
00:42:35.260 know, nearly a century for it to unfold.
00:42:37.240 Uh, but these ideas have consequences and we're, we're picking the fruit now of these ideological,
00:42:43.260 uh, views that have, that have, uh, been growing from seed form for over a hundred years.
00:42:49.860 Yep.
00:42:50.800 Yep.
00:42:51.300 I think you're absolutely right.
00:43:04.460 What is your thought about, um, social emotional learning curriculum that's in schools to supposedly
00:43:13.940 try to deal with this problem of, um, kids being mentally unhealthy.
00:43:20.540 It's the idea that kids really need to learn to have empathy for themselves and others.
00:43:27.320 And once they do that, then they will be able to process their emotions better and we'll all
00:43:33.400 live in a much more peaceful and a more just, um, society.
00:43:38.280 Do you think there's anything good to that?
00:43:40.120 Uh, I don't, I don't think it's a healthy pursuit for sure.
00:43:44.620 And I like, um, social emotional learning, basically if you were to take, um, several
00:43:50.340 ideas and, and sort of create a recipe, if you will, um, somebody like Dewey in his sociological
00:43:56.540 learning theory, um, if you take somebody like Carl Rogers in his non-authoritarian approach
00:44:02.300 to education, which we see flourish in the sixties and seventies, um, we see all that sort of mixed
00:44:08.040 in a blender and, and, uh, along with Freud's psychotherapeutic approach to human problems
00:44:13.420 that these things come from early, uh, experiences in childhood that, that create then, uh, a very
00:44:19.740 sensitive, uh, human being that, that anything in the environment can trigger who we are and
00:44:24.160 what we do.
00:44:24.880 So you take that as a recipe, you, you blend it up and, and outcome something like social
00:44:30.040 learning theory.
00:44:30.700 Now people will, um, hear something like that and say, oh man, this is a, this is really helpful
00:44:36.000 because it's, it's really focusing on the kids and trying to, to catch, you know, triggers
00:44:40.460 of trauma early on in child's life.
00:44:42.600 Well, I appreciate that people are trying to, you know, deal with children in, in how they
00:44:47.720 describe their brokenness.
00:44:48.800 But, but what we can't miss is that these things are not idea free.
00:44:53.740 They're not philosophically free.
00:44:55.820 Uh, they come with a price and the price that they bring is that futility that I described.
00:45:00.860 So what's happening is effectively we're placing a lot of pressure on teachers.
00:45:05.600 Um, to do the, the diagnosing, or I've had several, several, uh, moms come to me and
00:45:11.860 say, my child was diagnosed with ADHD.
00:45:14.600 And they've told me that if I don't go see a psychiatrist that they can't be let back
00:45:19.080 in the classroom.
00:45:19.640 This is a small little, uh, example, but I'm like, okay, tell me about that process.
00:45:25.100 How did that happen?
00:45:25.760 Cause you said you need to see a psychiatrist.
00:45:27.380 You mean the psychiatrist didn't, didn't, uh, diagnose you?
00:45:30.740 No, no.
00:45:31.140 That, that the teacher said, if I don't go see a psychiatrist that I can't, I can't
00:45:35.480 come back to the class.
00:45:36.400 My child can't come back to the classroom.
00:45:37.840 So what you're seeing on the front end is that, um, you know, their teachers are being
00:45:42.240 trained and they're saying that this is the best thing to keep all the other kids really
00:45:46.220 healthy.
00:45:47.000 Um, but what we're doing, okay, if I were to boil this down in a nutshell, what we're
00:45:50.500 doing is we're saying that children get meaning, value, and purpose in their sociological
00:45:55.140 environment.
00:45:55.660 Now I want you to pay attention to what's happening here.
00:45:58.120 What's happening here is we are measuring ourself by the environment that we find ourself
00:46:02.960 in.
00:46:03.640 And that if an environment itself is not pleasing, then we can't flourish.
00:46:08.300 What that does is it describes that we as human beings are at the mercy of the environment
00:46:12.940 that we find ourself in.
00:46:14.900 Nothing could be more antithetical to the truth of the gospel of Christ.
00:46:19.340 The Bible doesn't put us at the mercy of our environmental circumstances.
00:46:23.220 The Bible puts us at the mercy of Christ and that no matter what we can flourish, no matter
00:46:28.100 how difficult the situation.
00:46:29.580 So this is building really in positive language, uh, a setting to where, you know, we as people
00:46:35.600 in our value and, and, uh, the way we measure our purpose is based on the environment that
00:46:40.540 we find ourself around and what the key to happiness or hope is in life is, is finding
00:46:46.220 ourself insulated in a, in a proper environment.
00:46:48.700 We don't have the power as human beings to do that.
00:46:51.620 I mean, uh, we don't have the power to insulate ourself enough from the destruction of a cursed
00:46:57.000 world.
00:46:57.600 Uh, and so that's a futile pursuit that we're setting our children up for failure.
00:47:01.900 Um, thinking that if they can get in touch with self-awareness and their own feelings,
00:47:06.360 then they'll understand themselves better and they'll be able to thrive and flourish in
00:47:11.500 life.
00:47:11.940 And it's setting our children up, uh, for failure because now you, you add in the, the,
00:47:17.120 to the recipe, social media, and we've even, we're even seeing at Congress, the, the bickering
00:47:21.880 back and forth about the influence of social media on the mental health of our, our young
00:47:26.720 people.
00:47:27.200 And now this is, this is something that's starting in social, uh, learning, you know, very
00:47:32.760 early on in our elementary schools, moving all the way up where we're taught that that's
00:47:37.160 how we get in tune with who we are.
00:47:38.380 And really it's a form of Gnosticism.
00:47:41.300 Yeah.
00:47:42.240 Yep.
00:47:42.640 It is that there is some kind of higher special knowing that you have access to.
00:47:47.000 If you take this journey deep into your heart, you can, this key of SEL can like open up
00:47:52.160 your heart and all of this wisdom will come out and finally it'll be this full, complete
00:47:55.820 person.
00:47:56.540 You're exactly right.
00:47:57.480 Which by the way, is what the author of many of these kinds of personality tests, like Carl
00:48:01.820 Zhang, like they all believed that too.
00:48:04.380 And so it really is all connected.
00:48:05.540 Um, well, we don't have that much more time and this is kind of a, this kind of a big question,
00:48:10.320 but I'm curious, what is your thought about empathy?
00:48:15.280 Because it is the virtue.
00:48:17.940 So we are told that we must pursue first.
00:48:22.980 It is the primary virtue.
00:48:25.040 If you are empathetic, then you will draw this XYZ conclusion.
00:48:29.660 If you are empathetic, then you will finally be virtuous.
00:48:34.440 You will finally be kind.
00:48:35.660 You'll finally be moral.
00:48:37.460 What is your thought about this heavy emphasis on empathy that seems to be more prevalent
00:48:44.800 than ever, at least in my estimation?
00:48:47.800 Yeah, that's really, really good question.
00:48:49.160 And some of this is a question regarding semantics and how we think about this term,
00:48:53.940 empathy, empathy, empathy historically was not a terrible term.
00:48:58.620 It wasn't, it wasn't a bad term.
00:49:00.300 It was trying to identify with the suffering of someone else, even the idea of coming alongside
00:49:04.920 someone and, and, and helping them through their difficulty and suffering.
00:49:09.100 The form that it's taken today and the way it's used is, is in terms of, um, I'll add a,
00:49:15.100 a qualifier, unconditional empathy.
00:49:17.760 Um, which means that then I have to give my unconditional regard for someone else.
00:49:22.440 And this gets back to that environmental perspective I was describing that if I can't
00:49:26.600 be empathetic and identify with someone, well, first of all, cause I haven't had that experience.
00:49:30.980 I can't speak into their life or really bear a burden genuinely with them cause I don't
00:49:35.480 know them or I don't understand them.
00:49:37.240 The second problem with that idea of unconditional empathy is it really, uh, creates an environment
00:49:43.840 where if a person is not affirmed at everything that they do, then it becomes an unhealthy
00:49:50.260 vitriolic state.
00:49:52.400 Uh, biblically, we can't live like that, right?
00:49:55.000 The Bible tells us to, to be sympathetic, uh, toward those who are broken, those who are
00:50:00.720 downtrodden, those who are hurting.
00:50:02.340 We see Jesus doing this in, in the, in the, in the gospels in the new Testament.
00:50:06.460 We see his followers are taught to care for those James 1, 27, uh, orphans and widows,
00:50:13.220 those who are downtrodden and, and, and that sort of thing, but it's never to leave them
00:50:17.340 in that place.
00:50:18.500 It's never to, to help them remain into the mess that they, they find themselves in.
00:50:23.640 How do we, how do we help to get them out according to God's ways, give them genuine,
00:50:27.740 legitimate hope.
00:50:28.780 And so for us as Christians, we can't be empathetic endlessly or unconditionally.
00:50:34.460 There's a time where, you know, if someone's sitting across from me and I'm seeing that they're
00:50:38.560 making decisions that are sinful decisions, it's, that's, uh, leading to their self-destruction.
00:50:43.820 Um, it's actually unloving for me to leave them on that path of self-destruction and not
00:50:49.360 give them what the scripture says.
00:50:50.860 So there comes a point in time where we have to offer sympathetic disagreement.
00:50:54.640 And we, as Ephesians 4, 15 would describe it, speak the truth in love to someone.
00:51:00.380 But this is, you know, the, the culture that we're in right now, we're, we're creating where
00:51:05.620 free speech is, is going to be questioned and it's going to be described as being hate
00:51:09.860 speech, especially if we were to, to warn someone against their own folly.
00:51:14.260 You take the, the transgender movement that's happening right now, right?
00:51:17.420 If you, if you're not empathetic and identify with their gender fluidity and transition, then
00:51:22.280 you become the one that's actually contributing to, uh, the detriment of their mental health.
00:51:27.900 Um, that's what empathy in the modern sense is creating.
00:51:32.000 Uh, it's creating sort of a bubble around people that you become the bad guy, or you
00:51:37.860 become the, the evil one, or you become the, the hateful person.
00:51:42.400 Um, if you genuinely speak truth to people in, in, in love and in grace, cause we can speak
00:51:47.980 truth wrongly.
00:51:48.680 We shouldn't speak truth wrongly, uh, but speaking the truth and love to people.
00:51:52.100 And so it really disregards this idea of, of there's a time where we, we, uh,
00:51:57.760 warn people, we speak the truth in, in, in a healthy way.
00:52:01.200 Um, and so I think empathy in its current sense and it's unconditional regard, uh, that
00:52:06.500 we see now is, is something that is harmful, even very dangerous.
00:52:10.400 And I hope people don't hear me say we ought not to be sympathetic or empathetic with people.
00:52:16.600 That's not what I'm saying.
00:52:17.520 What I'm saying is the way it's used now in terms of, uh, an unconditional approach where,
00:52:23.000 uh, we're just intended to be, um, accepting and that acceptance is the means to help.
00:52:29.640 And I think that's unchristian and very dangerous culture.
00:52:34.560 Well, you've given us a lot to chew on and a lot of great wisdom.
00:52:38.220 Your scripture recall is incredible and just, it's a gift.
00:52:41.640 It's a gift to my audience.
00:52:42.800 I'm sure it's a gift to everyone you speak to on a daily basis.
00:52:45.760 So I'm thankful for that.
00:52:47.620 Uh, from time to time, I ask the right guests to end the conversation by sharing the gospel.
00:52:55.480 So if someone were to ask you, Dr. Johnson, what is the gospel?
00:53:00.940 What would you tell them?
00:53:03.120 I think the gospel is that God created us as human beings.
00:53:07.820 He created us with meaning, purpose, and value.
00:53:10.880 But the Bible describes very clearly that we have missed the mark.
00:53:14.560 We are born into sin.
00:53:16.640 Um, and we see that evidentially by the way in which we live, that we choose to live for
00:53:22.520 ourself more than we choose to live for anything else.
00:53:25.080 And especially for the glory of God.
00:53:26.960 And in missing that mark, the Bible says that we owe God a great debt, that, that we will
00:53:32.120 endure the wrath of God.
00:53:33.980 If we remain in our sin, that, that sin, uh, we have a payment that we are, we, we, that
00:53:40.640 is due to God, um, um, for our sin.
00:53:43.600 And, uh, if we don't, if we can't make that payment, there's nothing within us that says
00:53:48.440 we can pay an eternal debt that we owe to an eternal God.
00:53:52.640 Uh, and so we are helpless and hopeless in and of ourselves.
00:53:55.900 But the Bible tells us that there's good news and everybody knows that what I just described
00:54:01.460 is true experientially, right?
00:54:03.260 When we live in life, we know that when we try to muddle about with our own strength,
00:54:08.080 we find ourself failing over and over again.
00:54:10.120 There's never peace around the next corner.
00:54:12.360 Uh, we know that to be true.
00:54:13.800 And that's the testimony of scripture about our, ourselves and our pursuit.
00:54:17.400 But the beauty is that God was telling a story from the very beginning when man, man fell,
00:54:23.540 uh, God was, he, he was enacting a redemptive story.
00:54:28.380 And the centerpiece of that story is his son, the Lord Jesus Christ.
00:54:31.640 And we see Jesus who comes in the form of a baby, the most, uh, humble.
00:54:36.240 He's identifying with us as being born in the flesh, living among us.
00:54:41.480 Uh, and he lived, the Bible says a perfect life, which means he was obedient fully.
00:54:45.840 This is important because he was born of a virgin.
00:54:48.900 So he didn't inherit our own sin, uh, in humanity.
00:54:51.940 So he was a perfect sacrifice.
00:54:53.640 He lived perfectly in obedience to God.
00:54:56.500 Yet he willingly, the Bible says he gave himself up for us to ransom us, uh, to himself.
00:55:04.300 And he calls us to repent and believe.
00:55:06.660 And the Bible describes that he, he died for, he lived for a righteous life.
00:55:11.200 He died for our sins.
00:55:12.300 He was buried three days, uh, based on the acceptance of God, of Jesus's sacrifice.
00:55:17.260 He rose again.
00:55:18.840 And now, uh, we have the opportunity to respond in repentance and faith.
00:55:25.200 And that's the call for us when we see our emptiness and our brokenness and the Lord brings
00:55:30.400 us back to life.
00:55:31.280 And we see that we call upon Jesus as the only one who can, uh, pay the debt of our sin.
00:55:37.560 Uh, and then we, we can walk faithfully with the Lord forever.
00:55:41.080 And, and that word is really important of what happens that he forgives our sin.
00:55:46.360 He counts us as righteous before God, no longer holding that sin against us.
00:55:51.080 So that, that, that way no longer do we have the wrath of God placed on us, but we can walk
00:55:56.800 at peace.
00:55:57.460 And one of the most important passages, and I'll read it because it's that clear Romans chapter
00:56:03.180 five, verse one, uh, sorry for the, the sound of pages turning, but it's good for people
00:56:09.040 to hear what the word says here.
00:56:10.600 And this is the summation of it, uh, Romans five, one, therefore, since we have been justified
00:56:16.560 by faith, that we have faith in the work that Christ has done for us, nothing we can do to
00:56:22.340 earn salvation.
00:56:23.480 We have faith.
00:56:24.560 We, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.
00:56:27.880 That's the gospel is that we have faith in the work and the person, the life, death, burial
00:56:33.780 and resurrection of Jesus, uh, and that he forgives our sin.
00:56:37.860 He's paid that debt to God.
00:56:40.320 He offered himself as a sacrifice to the Lord and he washes our sin clean.
00:56:45.140 And we can now be at peace with God.
00:56:47.860 We're no longer in enmity with God.
00:56:49.420 And I'm just telling you as someone who's walked that since I was 11, seeing the beauty
00:56:54.200 of what God has done for me in the Lord Jesus, uh, there's nothing that's more satisfying.
00:56:58.700 There's nothing that's more peace giving.
00:57:00.580 There's nothing that, that satisfies my soul more through the turmoil and difficulties of
00:57:06.000 life than being at peace with God.
00:57:08.980 And that's made possible through, through Jesus.
00:57:10.940 So thanks for the opportunity.
00:57:12.600 Yes.
00:57:12.920 Amen.
00:57:13.240 Well, thank you so much, Dr. Johnson, and thanks for taking the time to come on.
00:57:17.420 I really appreciate it.
00:57:19.340 Um, and where can people connect with you or find you?
00:57:24.200 Um, yeah, so, uh, I'm a faculty member at Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary.
00:57:29.720 You can see me on the faculty page there.
00:57:31.280 And then at, um, ACBC, the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors.
00:57:35.300 And that website is biblicalcounseling.com.
00:57:37.880 I also lead a podcast called the Truth and Love Podcast.
00:57:41.860 Um, we'd love to, to hear, hear from you guys.
00:57:44.780 Truth and Love Podcast.
00:57:45.760 Perfect.
00:57:46.240 Well, thank you so much.
00:57:47.320 I really appreciate you taking the time to come on.
00:57:50.300 Great.
00:57:50.800 Thank you.
00:57:51.120 Thank you.
00:57:54.200 Thank you.