This week, Clav and Max discuss why it's not okay to be friends with your wife's male friends, and how to deal with the fact that you're not white anymore. Also, Max reveals his DNA test results.
00:09:58.000because that would be retarded, right?
00:10:00.060I'm a 20 year old kid that doesn't even make any sense.
00:10:02.680You guys have been married for five years.
00:10:04.000You understand each other more than I or anyone on the internet ever could.
00:10:08.560All I'm simply saying is being brought to attention or being made aware of potentially some other perspectives or some other things that could be going on is always good, right?
00:10:22.720So, you know, like I said, not trying to convince you anything is wrong or you should operate differently in any way at all.
00:10:30.340just something you keep on you know in the back of your head and when you see different behaviors
00:10:36.760it'll sort of be like a little trigger like you know maybe I have to reevaluate my position a
00:10:41.860little bit uh and I've always had people look I've been doing this for a while and I can tell
00:10:46.480you how many times if you've been watching my stream women who are on social media like this
00:10:50.100no disrespect to Larry but it's just a major red flag like girls who want to be on the camera like
00:10:53.800that want to be seen by that many people you have to keep your relationship private you can't have
00:10:58.180your kids on camera you can't have your your wife online like that you know me and one are
00:11:02.800friends off camera too like we have the same philosophy you got to hide that from the internet
00:11:06.020and women who have the propensity to want to be public like that you know who are craving
00:11:10.540attention that way it's because she's finding a lack of attention in her own personal life
00:11:15.220and she's also seeking something more like women who are attention seeking that way
00:11:20.740they're not they're going to be exposed to too many messages too many temptations
00:11:24.980and also too much evil eye should completely shield that you agree right that the evil eye
00:11:29.400is too strong in this relationship right 100 she's she's proving that larry's attention is not enough
00:11:37.000his attention my multi-millionaire strongest man in the world husband is not enough for me
00:11:44.360i need more and obviously i've seen other clips too she's i'm sorry to say she's a very greedy
00:11:50.600woman bro very greedy woman i saw her laugh when larry was bringing up her like billionaire friend
00:11:55.820that she took had lunch with and she just immediately starts getting giddy and smiling
00:11:59.520about it you know we're having that memory doing that for me and it's something that's been very
00:12:07.860useful because love kind of blinds you in a lot of cases and friends have always been there to
00:12:12.420look out for me when i wasn't navigating through that kind of stuff in the best way um and you
00:18:00.160let me get my money in peace bro let me get my money in peace let me just finesse this big dude
00:18:04.260picture of our relationship and our dynamic based on like the information i give them because it's
00:18:11.360just like one-sided you know my friends hear my story his friends would hear only his story
00:18:15.000so there is never a full picture so i feel like i should we should not take anybody's advice on
00:18:20.280our relationship unless it's something like okay like we went to a therapist and like uh we want
00:18:24.700to really talk about it and we like openly say both of our stories and that's like very different
00:18:28.480situation that's where i'm going to hugely disagree that you the people around you and the
00:18:34.720people who are super close to you in your circle shouldn't have an idea of what's going on or
00:18:39.460shouldn't give you any advice as to sort of what you're doing your male friends if you've you got
00:18:45.960to give credit cloths pretty wise for somebody so young i agree and again you know he comes from a
00:18:50.400bodyguard background oh yeah yeah he was a bodyguard i think he was 18 years old you know bars
00:18:56.040where you have to be 21 he's been because it gives him a different perspective and makes you
00:19:00.520probably makes you mature quicker you know it's crazy i've actually been uh bodyguard since i was
00:19:05.94017 just because i'm so big like you know i mean like it just uh it's so interesting but yeah it
00:19:11.540just you learn about humans on a whole nother level bro like because you get to see the um
00:19:17.100the the instinctual side of them or the the animalistic side of them you get what i'm trying
00:19:22.580say it's very very different very very different cultivated those relationships in the right way
00:19:28.780your circle is the right people will never betray you and always have your back that is not something
00:19:35.240that could be said about uh really any woman right so kind of understanding that and that
00:19:41.660there will always be those people in your life um those actually true friendships who are doing
00:19:47.380everything and will look out for you in any way necessary it's good to have those people having
00:19:52.080a little bit of a picture into what's going on yeah but you have friends who betrayed their
00:19:55.880friends after like 30 years of friendship and they thought they were loyal they were you know
00:19:59.580like the best i just i genuinely feel like and and i think you you we spoke about this and you
00:20:04.460agree as well we should not ever put other people in our marriage and talk about you know like our
00:20:08.160problems we don't bring our relationship stuff out to public and to friends i believe our problems
00:20:12.740should be discussed amongst each other not amongst our friends and family because as my wife said and
00:20:16.920i agree with her it's largely one-sided when you're telling your problems your friends and
00:20:21.140family whatever it is between your partner they're only hearing your version of it your perspective
00:20:24.760they're not seeing the full picture right and usually there's a bias yeah right so can they
00:20:29.900accurately give you advice if they're not seeing the full picture now if it was a professional
00:20:33.580sitting down like you are right not saying that you're a therapist but like someone that's
00:20:37.420mediating the people in the relationship that's different right because now they're seeing the
00:20:41.100full picture but it's never the case it's always like he said she said right so it's just one-sided
00:20:45.340but here's the thing uh you know just for the people in the audience who are watching
00:20:50.880If you're the man and you're wrong and you're just giving your friends your side of the story, that's still okay.
00:20:58.720That's still not going to be an issue because at the end of the day, you should be operating out of self-interest and making a relationship that makes sense to you and the most ways possible.