SHNEAKO - How Much Do You Lie？

00:00:00.000 and even like the sexual relationship with him is one of the best i had in my life and it's why

00:00:06.080 all the time i came back with him because i think that i'm not gonna i'm not gonna have

00:00:11.120 better with someone else i could change your mind i could change your mind on that i can

00:00:16.320 you can change your mind i can change your mind yeah which way just watch what's your number

00:00:30.000 how good is your English I think so so I can do my best I think your English is

00:00:41.280 better than my French so we'll do English oh okay let's see how much do you lie how

00:00:46.240 much do I lie lie less as possible yeah so you don't lie a lot

00:00:59.600 as little as possible okay yes as little as possible yeah when do you lie if you're not

00:01:05.220 if you're lying as little as possible when are you lying uh it's not really a lie but it's hide

00:01:13.200 and i don't know some people consider hide as a lie not telling the full truth yes yeah he's not

00:01:20.440 lying to you uh not really you you saying that you hide things to protect the truth but i'm

00:01:28.400 guessing you also get mad if somebody does the same thing to you. That's crazy because at the

00:01:33.000 moment I'm extremely mad because of the situation of my boyfriends. I mean my ex-boyfriends. So he

00:01:40.100 starts our relationship with lie all the time. Lie, lie, lie. What was he lying about? So when I

00:01:49.120 meet him in 2019, he introduced himself as a bachelor, as a single guy. So we start to flirt

00:01:56.080 together. Yeah, we start to flood together. I fell in love for him. One month later, he

00:02:01.800 texts me and say, oh, I need to tell you something. I have a relationship since six years. I didn't

00:02:08.380 speak with him. I didn't answer to his text because I don't see the point. What I can

00:02:12.120 reply. But he came back to me and say beautiful things, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

00:02:18.180 And you fell for it?

00:02:19.400 Again.

00:02:20.220 Is lying wrong?

00:02:21.800 No, I don't think so. Sometimes.

00:02:22.920 When you know it's going to hurt someone deeply, and you don't want to hurt it, so you lie.

00:02:26.800 To protect them.

00:02:27.560 To protect their feelings.

00:02:28.500 Exactly.

00:02:29.120 Who do you usually have to protect the truth from?

00:02:31.260 Girlfriend.

00:02:32.220 Yeah.

00:02:34.160 Do you think that women can handle the truth?

00:02:38.060 Nah.

00:02:38.700 They say they can, but they hate it.

00:02:40.200 Yeah.

00:02:40.700 But they want to hear the truth, right?

00:02:41.780 They want it, but they can't handle it.

00:02:43.960 They can't handle it.

00:02:44.980 Yeah.

00:02:45.420 And I excused him, and again, I discovered another lie, and after another lie, and another

00:02:50.180 lie.

00:02:50.540 Why were you surprised at that point?

00:02:51.820 If he was lying about something that big, you probably should have expected that he was going to be a liar.

00:02:56.400 Because, you know, sometimes when you have this crazy connection with someone, you want to believe of the relationship.

00:03:02.360 You want to excuse him in the way that, okay, maybe his relationship wasn't good.

00:03:07.000 Maybe he's complicated and maybe you were making excuses for him.

00:03:10.320 All the time, until maybe one week ago, Wednesday, he's going to celebrate his 30 years old.

00:03:17.500 No, tomorrow of the 15th of June.

00:03:19.580 and he will he he's in Ibiza to celebrate his birthday without his

00:03:26.540 girlfriends so it was like a cherry on the cake you know do you think men can

00:03:31.940 handle the truth mostly yeah I do yeah who do you think is more hurtful men or

00:03:37.360 women women they say like the most deep cutting stuff in the middle of an

00:03:42.660 argument yeah yeah yeah so it's the same in London as it is in New York yeah

00:03:46.760 Did you break up with him or did he break up with you?

00:03:51.040 I broke up with him, yeah.

00:03:52.780 How did you break up with him?

00:03:55.100 I just say to him, okay, you know what, I'm tired.

00:03:59.480 Go anywhere you want.

00:04:01.420 Go Ibiza.

00:04:02.380 Go celebrate your birthday, fine.

00:04:04.800 But when you come back, I'm not here anymore.

00:04:07.340 What was the Ibiza situation?

00:04:10.060 Just, yeah, celebrate his birthday and just have fun, you know.

00:04:14.520 so he used to send me a long mail you know like because i block him everywhere and he used to

00:04:21.440 tell me like oh no i'm not gonna flirt with one girl don't worry i'm gonna flirt with all of the

00:04:27.000 girls i fake i fake my like emotions or like my opinions why because they can't take the truth

00:04:39.780 so you just gotta you gotta feed them what they want and if they can like

00:04:43.380 suss the bullshit then you're honest with them what's an opinion that you lie about

00:04:48.000 like when you're enjoying your time with someone you just sometimes just gotta like

00:04:53.740 bullshit your way through and then if they like suss the cap then you're like yeah do you know

00:04:57.200 what yeah a lot of political stuff as well like what what political opinions if you're near like

00:05:01.940 liberals or like left-leaning people you can't just come out and say like controversial stuff

00:05:06.040 in front of them because you're gonna get like cancelled or like so what's an opinion you hold

00:05:09.700 that you can't tell your friends be honest right now a lot of shit man a lot of shit tell me one

00:05:13.320 tell me one uh fuck i don't know i can't say because like you can't even say your opinions

00:05:19.320 right now because you're afraid to hurt the left yeah or like it's not gonna go nowhere but like

00:05:24.360 i fear that that's that's the image that you're gonna have like oh this person thinks so and so

00:05:29.460 therefore yeah do you ever get jealous well if someone will have a hard girlfriend yeah i would

00:05:37.940 be a little bit jealous. You can take her. Nah, that's cheeky. That's cheeky, yeah, not like that.

00:05:47.300 It's his effort. He done it the first point, so let him enjoy it. I'm not jealous personally.

00:05:55.620 I'm quite confident, but because you build relationship with a lie, it creates you like

00:06:01.760 insecurities and obviously you become jealous. What if you don't like the guy?

00:06:07.940 well it's none of my business anyway but the girl could be a business well no boys have different

00:06:16.940 priorities as well i mean when you when you are at the age of 20 18 19 20 yeah this this could be

00:06:22.160 your business but when you are getting older over 25 30 then yeah you get other priorities so girls

00:06:28.400 are not anymore business their life partner but they're not business anymore do you think that

00:06:32.400 you can fix the relationship after it's built on that or is it stuck is it always going to be

00:06:36.380 insecure after that i think um i need to fix myself first because all the bad things he done

00:06:46.140 to me uh and i definitely cannot excuse him after everything he done so you did excuse him

00:06:53.720 did excuse him for a long time yeah but like i said it's like the sherry on the cake this time

00:07:00.200 with ibiza things you know i'm just thinking in my experience i think girls become more attracted

00:07:04.980 to a guy that's lying and who's not telling the full truth i think girls like oh my why would you

00:07:09.900 do that to me why would you do that to me i don't think so like okay in my opinion uh i'm not never

00:07:18.340 looking for a guy who lies no way no way but sometimes when you are in a toxic relationship

00:07:24.400 you know you are like it's not constant you are like that when it's nice it's super nice and when

00:07:30.240 it's down it's fucking down it's really exciting no but sometimes it's not exciting but sometimes

00:07:35.040 it's just an addiction it's exciting yeah addiction is exciting maybe but um it's crazy

00:07:40.520 it's great like some crazy emotions you don't ask me questions all right how much do you lie

00:07:46.460 never never lie maybe the tiniest white lie to hurt someone if someone asks me a direct question

00:07:54.020 lying is the worst thing in the world it may it's like giving a people a jigsaw puzzle with

00:07:59.400 and saying that all the pieces are there and they aren't all there so you fuck with someone else's

00:08:03.540 world i hate lying you asked me the perfect question i definitely not looking for a guy

00:08:08.300 who lies like say that now but that's what the girl heart tends to gravitates toward i think i

00:08:13.340 think girls hearts end up being attached to that guy why would he lie to me why would and then you

00:08:17.520 end up wanting him really badly because he's lying because he's a piece of shit you want to

00:08:21.520 and you can't get over the competition right you're thinking about the girls in abiza why does he

00:08:25.940 like these girls more and then you kind of want to improve on that that's love that's being in

00:08:30.640 love you think it's like real love or you think it's maybe more addiction or maybe competition

00:08:35.200 well that's what love is being in love is obsession is addiction it's all the same thing

00:08:39.320 what do you hate so much about lying you hate bullshitters i think that no i think that the

00:08:42.780 people are i don't mind bullshitters people that praise themselves up that think they're the

00:08:46.660 greatest person in the world that isn't lying lying is saying something that you know is exactly

00:08:51.420 isn't true and you're screwing with someone else's reality because they

00:08:55.200 can't put the pieces together people lie very successfully to me I can't

00:08:59.220 believe that people are lying I cannot think of people in life that are that

00:09:03.160 they're lying I cannot deal in lies it makes life more easy if you don't lie it

00:09:09.960 makes life more easy one person lied to me in the in life a long time ago

00:09:15.540 regarding her parents she said that her parents are doctor but it wasn't so she

00:09:21.240 had to build that up for like six eight months continue that like telling oh my mom is going to

00:09:27.780 a hospital my dad is going to the hospital they have a different shift this that but they were

00:09:31.480 completely different uh background our father was working in a car manufacturing company and

00:09:37.180 mother was a teacher so imagine the scenario when you build up for nine months when you have

00:09:41.660 when you think about it when you go backward how many all many lies all many lies due to only one

00:09:48.380 lie she had to support how did you catch her she didn't tell me herself she she asked her one of

00:09:53.800 her friend to tell me what about the is this a lie say you're supposed to go to a party and you're

00:09:59.100 running late and you're in the shower and then you call and you say oh i'm five minutes away but

00:10:03.160 you're really in the bathroom it's a little you know i have lied like that that's what i call

00:10:06.720 this slight white lie just to make it more comfortable for the other person a little or

00:10:10.780 say there's something a cat the difference between a white lie and a bigger lie it's a massive it

00:10:15.200 It doesn't affect the other person's world to know that you were just a late...

00:10:19.040 It affects the party, the attendance or something?

00:10:20.840 I have to say I feel my skin start to crawl even with that sort of lie.

00:10:24.840 I don't feel comfortable even with that sort of lie, no.

00:10:28.220 But you justified it.

00:10:29.600 I just, well, I don't, you know, I don't...

00:10:32.240 How much do you lie?

00:10:33.920 Um, probably a few times a year.

00:10:39.080 What was the last thing you lied about?

00:10:41.340 I said I was fine when I wasn't.

00:10:44.000 I'm fine!

00:10:45.200 I said I was fine, but I wasn't fine at all.

00:10:49.120 But nobody believed you when you said that.

00:10:51.520 That's not really a lie, that's just something everyone says.

00:10:54.100 No, no, it's a lie, it's just a common lie.

00:10:56.760 When people say they're fine and they're not fine, it's a common lie.

00:10:59.960 It's just people would like to say I'm fine because it feels more comfortable.

00:11:02.840 What are you usually protecting?

00:11:03.920 Whose feelings are you protecting when you lie?

00:11:06.660 I think maybe mine, in the sense that I wouldn't want to say

00:11:10.660 if I'm saying I'm late and I'm giving a wrong reason.

00:11:12.940 and I'm protecting myself going through a more painful experience

00:11:16.640 and admitting I just forgot that I was meant to come and see you altogether.

00:11:20.660 Do you ever get jealous?

00:11:23.680 Jealousy, do you mean by jealousy?

00:11:25.720 Because a lot of people confuse jealousy and envy, right?

00:11:29.340 Envy is like I want to have a Tesla or something.

00:11:34.020 I envy the guy with the Tesla or the pretty girlfriend or the good looks or whatever, right?

00:11:39.880 That's envy.

00:11:40.860 Is that what you mean or do you mean jealousy?

00:11:42.480 I thought that was the same thing, you're educating me now

00:11:45.040 No, the word is changing

00:11:46.580 Jealousy is growing to mean envy and jealousy

00:11:49.080 But in the old definition of these words

00:11:51.640 Envy is what

00:11:53.000 Desiring someone else's belongings

00:11:54.500 Your neighbors

00:11:55.820 I'm not a very religious person

00:11:58.200 But that's what it is, don't covet your neighbor's wife

00:12:00.220 His house

00:12:00.740 Jealousy is the fear of losing love

00:12:04.360 In other words, jealousy

00:12:06.000 If I have my girlfriend and I see my girlfriend

00:12:08.080 Laughing and enjoying the company of another man

00:12:10.320 and I see that she's going to be attracted to this guy

00:12:13.320 and I start to fear losing her, that's jealousy.

00:12:17.480 I jealously guard this lovely machine

00:12:20.220 because it's what I make my podcast.

00:12:21.940 I don't want to lose it.

00:12:22.840 I don't want it stolen.

00:12:24.020 I jealously guard it.

00:12:25.120 You can use it like that as well.

00:12:26.780 I fear losing it.

00:12:28.000 You never get jealous?

00:12:29.740 No, I don't do that.

00:12:31.300 No, I don't get jealous.

00:12:32.720 I don't get fear that I'm going to lose something

00:12:34.740 or I lose this friend.

00:12:35.720 As a child, I did, but I've grown out of that.

00:12:37.980 You understand jealousy as envy.

00:12:40.320 Every now and then, you know, for example, I was invited to a friend's house in Mallorca and I said, I didn't know what his house was or anything.

00:12:50.220 He picked me up from the station. I said, what's your car like? He said, no, I'll see you. Don't worry.

00:12:53.960 I said, just tell me your car. What's your car? He says, all right, it's a red Rolls Royce convertible.

00:12:57.760 All right. So then he was driving me on this beautiful island and I'm thinking, oh, I wouldn't mind living on this island, you know, having a Rolls Royce.

00:13:06.620 But then I thought I'm here now. I'm sitting in the Rolls-Royce and I'm on the island. I'm enjoying what am I thinking?

00:13:12.840 I'd like this. I'm here now in it

00:13:23.140 To drop out yeah, it doesn't matter what the fuck right or wrong. It's a it's a voice. It's a camera

00:13:28.120 It's just entertainment

00:13:29.860 It's not the Bible

00:13:31.860 I never say listen to what I just try to be entertaining

00:13:37.800 That's what YouTube is you still drop them gems for people to listen up like you said because that makes a good video because people watch it go

00:13:47.220 They only give a niggas plus one so I never pull up to the man. Yeah, I got some merch samples out who wants them

00:13:53.560 No honest opinion cuz we're just here right now. What do you think of the new samples right now?

00:13:56.840 Do you like the design or not?

00:13:59.180 Don't just lie because I'm here.

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SHNEAKO - July 07, 2022

How Much Do You Lie？

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