SHNEAKO - July 07, 2022How Much Do You Lie？
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about lying, lying, hiding, and how to deal with it. We also talk about how women can handle the truth and how men can't handle it, and why it's so important to be honest.
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and even like the sexual relationship with him is one of the best i had in my life and it's why
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all the time i came back with him because i think that i'm not gonna i'm not gonna have
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better with someone else i could change your mind i could change your mind on that i can
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you can change your mind i can change your mind yeah which way just watch what's your number
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how good is your English I think so so I can do my best I think your English is
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better than my French so we'll do English oh okay let's see how much do you lie how
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much do I lie lie less as possible yeah so you don't lie a lot
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as little as possible okay yes as little as possible yeah when do you lie if you're not
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if you're lying as little as possible when are you lying uh it's not really a lie but it's hide
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and i don't know some people consider hide as a lie not telling the full truth yes yeah he's not
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lying to you uh not really you you saying that you hide things to protect the truth but i'm
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guessing you also get mad if somebody does the same thing to you. That's crazy because at the
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moment I'm extremely mad because of the situation of my boyfriends. I mean my ex-boyfriends. So he
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starts our relationship with lie all the time. Lie, lie, lie. What was he lying about? So when I
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meet him in 2019, he introduced himself as a bachelor, as a single guy. So we start to flirt
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together. Yeah, we start to flood together. I fell in love for him. One month later, he
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texts me and say, oh, I need to tell you something. I have a relationship since six years. I didn't
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speak with him. I didn't answer to his text because I don't see the point. What I can
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reply. But he came back to me and say beautiful things, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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When you know it's going to hurt someone deeply, and you don't want to hurt it, so you lie.
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Who do you usually have to protect the truth from?
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Do you think that women can handle the truth?
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And I excused him, and again, I discovered another lie, and after another lie, and another
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If he was lying about something that big, you probably should have expected that he was going to be a liar.
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Because, you know, sometimes when you have this crazy connection with someone, you want to believe of the relationship.
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You want to excuse him in the way that, okay, maybe his relationship wasn't good.
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Maybe he's complicated and maybe you were making excuses for him.
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All the time, until maybe one week ago, Wednesday, he's going to celebrate his 30 years old.
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and he will he he's in Ibiza to celebrate his birthday without his
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girlfriends so it was like a cherry on the cake you know do you think men can
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handle the truth mostly yeah I do yeah who do you think is more hurtful men or
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women women they say like the most deep cutting stuff in the middle of an
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argument yeah yeah yeah so it's the same in London as it is in New York yeah
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Did you break up with him or did he break up with you?
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I just say to him, okay, you know what, I'm tired.
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Just, yeah, celebrate his birthday and just have fun, you know.
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so he used to send me a long mail you know like because i block him everywhere and he used to
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tell me like oh no i'm not gonna flirt with one girl don't worry i'm gonna flirt with all of the
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girls i fake i fake my like emotions or like my opinions why because they can't take the truth
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so you just gotta you gotta feed them what they want and if they can like
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suss the bullshit then you're honest with them what's an opinion that you lie about
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like when you're enjoying your time with someone you just sometimes just gotta like
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bullshit your way through and then if they like suss the cap then you're like yeah do you know
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what yeah a lot of political stuff as well like what what political opinions if you're near like
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liberals or like left-leaning people you can't just come out and say like controversial stuff
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in front of them because you're gonna get like cancelled or like so what's an opinion you hold
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that you can't tell your friends be honest right now a lot of shit man a lot of shit tell me one
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tell me one uh fuck i don't know i can't say because like you can't even say your opinions
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right now because you're afraid to hurt the left yeah or like it's not gonna go nowhere but like
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i fear that that's that's the image that you're gonna have like oh this person thinks so and so
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therefore yeah do you ever get jealous well if someone will have a hard girlfriend yeah i would
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be a little bit jealous. You can take her. Nah, that's cheeky. That's cheeky, yeah, not like that.
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It's his effort. He done it the first point, so let him enjoy it. I'm not jealous personally.
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I'm quite confident, but because you build relationship with a lie, it creates you like
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insecurities and obviously you become jealous. What if you don't like the guy?
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well it's none of my business anyway but the girl could be a business well no boys have different
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priorities as well i mean when you when you are at the age of 20 18 19 20 yeah this this could be
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your business but when you are getting older over 25 30 then yeah you get other priorities so girls
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are not anymore business their life partner but they're not business anymore do you think that
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you can fix the relationship after it's built on that or is it stuck is it always going to be
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insecure after that i think um i need to fix myself first because all the bad things he done
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to me uh and i definitely cannot excuse him after everything he done so you did excuse him
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did excuse him for a long time yeah but like i said it's like the sherry on the cake this time
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with ibiza things you know i'm just thinking in my experience i think girls become more attracted
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to a guy that's lying and who's not telling the full truth i think girls like oh my why would you
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do that to me why would you do that to me i don't think so like okay in my opinion uh i'm not never
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looking for a guy who lies no way no way but sometimes when you are in a toxic relationship
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you know you are like it's not constant you are like that when it's nice it's super nice and when
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it's down it's fucking down it's really exciting no but sometimes it's not exciting but sometimes
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it's just an addiction it's exciting yeah addiction is exciting maybe but um it's crazy
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it's great like some crazy emotions you don't ask me questions all right how much do you lie
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never never lie maybe the tiniest white lie to hurt someone if someone asks me a direct question
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lying is the worst thing in the world it may it's like giving a people a jigsaw puzzle with
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and saying that all the pieces are there and they aren't all there so you fuck with someone else's
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world i hate lying you asked me the perfect question i definitely not looking for a guy
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who lies like say that now but that's what the girl heart tends to gravitates toward i think i
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think girls hearts end up being attached to that guy why would he lie to me why would and then you
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end up wanting him really badly because he's lying because he's a piece of shit you want to
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and you can't get over the competition right you're thinking about the girls in abiza why does he
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like these girls more and then you kind of want to improve on that that's love that's being in
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love you think it's like real love or you think it's maybe more addiction or maybe competition
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well that's what love is being in love is obsession is addiction it's all the same thing
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what do you hate so much about lying you hate bullshitters i think that no i think that the
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people are i don't mind bullshitters people that praise themselves up that think they're the
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greatest person in the world that isn't lying lying is saying something that you know is exactly
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isn't true and you're screwing with someone else's reality because they
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can't put the pieces together people lie very successfully to me I can't
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believe that people are lying I cannot think of people in life that are that
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they're lying I cannot deal in lies it makes life more easy if you don't lie it
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makes life more easy one person lied to me in the in life a long time ago
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regarding her parents she said that her parents are doctor but it wasn't so she
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had to build that up for like six eight months continue that like telling oh my mom is going to
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a hospital my dad is going to the hospital they have a different shift this that but they were
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completely different uh background our father was working in a car manufacturing company and
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mother was a teacher so imagine the scenario when you build up for nine months when you have
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when you think about it when you go backward how many all many lies all many lies due to only one
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lie she had to support how did you catch her she didn't tell me herself she she asked her one of
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her friend to tell me what about the is this a lie say you're supposed to go to a party and you're
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running late and you're in the shower and then you call and you say oh i'm five minutes away but
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you're really in the bathroom it's a little you know i have lied like that that's what i call
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this slight white lie just to make it more comfortable for the other person a little or
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say there's something a cat the difference between a white lie and a bigger lie it's a massive it
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It doesn't affect the other person's world to know that you were just a late...
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It affects the party, the attendance or something?
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I have to say I feel my skin start to crawl even with that sort of lie.
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I don't feel comfortable even with that sort of lie, no.
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That's not really a lie, that's just something everyone says.
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When people say they're fine and they're not fine, it's a common lie.
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It's just people would like to say I'm fine because it feels more comfortable.
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Whose feelings are you protecting when you lie?
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I think maybe mine, in the sense that I wouldn't want to say
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if I'm saying I'm late and I'm giving a wrong reason.
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and I'm protecting myself going through a more painful experience
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and admitting I just forgot that I was meant to come and see you altogether.
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Because a lot of people confuse jealousy and envy, right?
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Envy is like I want to have a Tesla or something.
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I envy the guy with the Tesla or the pretty girlfriend or the good looks or whatever, right?
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I thought that was the same thing, you're educating me now
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But that's what it is, don't covet your neighbor's wife
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If I have my girlfriend and I see my girlfriend
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Laughing and enjoying the company of another man
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and I see that she's going to be attracted to this guy
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and I start to fear losing her, that's jealousy.
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I don't get fear that I'm going to lose something
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Every now and then, you know, for example, I was invited to a friend's house in Mallorca and I said, I didn't know what his house was or anything.
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He picked me up from the station. I said, what's your car like? He said, no, I'll see you. Don't worry.
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I said, just tell me your car. What's your car? He says, all right, it's a red Rolls Royce convertible.
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All right. So then he was driving me on this beautiful island and I'm thinking, oh, I wouldn't mind living on this island, you know, having a Rolls Royce.
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But then I thought I'm here now. I'm sitting in the Rolls-Royce and I'm on the island. I'm enjoying what am I thinking?
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To drop out yeah, it doesn't matter what the fuck right or wrong. It's a it's a voice. It's a camera
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I never say listen to what I just try to be entertaining
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That's what YouTube is you still drop them gems for people to listen up like you said because that makes a good video because people watch it go
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