SHNEAKO - November 22, 2019How to Pick Up Girls - Kinda Quality Podcast #8
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1 hour and 22 minutes
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210.54007
Harmful content
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127
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157
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Summary
In this episode of the podcast, my friend Cass joins me to talk about relationships, sex, women, and dating. We talk about how to deal with rejection and how to get over it, and what to do when you get hurt by rejection.
Transcript
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all right what's up patreon this is kind of quality episode uh the podcast is kind of quality
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it's not episode one this is episode like eight or nine you're just a guest is my friend cass um
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we both went to hofstra together he has graduated and i have dropped out but we're still pals yeah
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um this is a weird dynamic seating arrangement and dynamic yeah kind of both facing something
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that we can't look at because it's kind of intimate yeah kind of yeah you mind no two nah
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um peachy did say that the other day peachy did say that like i fuck with cats but sometimes he
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could be mad gay and like what are you talking about because like you are like i'm touchy yeah
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you are touch i thought that was just a brazilian it is a brazilian thing and he said it's not i
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said like is that just it is yeah oh okay i figured or maybe you are just maybe i am yeah
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Maybe there's something about me, I don't know.
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So I brought Cass here because Cass gets called a fuckboy more than I do,
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which is the number one insult I get from females and from other dudes.
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Like if dudes want to insult me, sometimes they call me fuckboy,
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I've never been called a fuckboy by a dude.
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i think that's been my dudes gay dudes gay dudes what would they be gaining out of that like there's
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no negative connotation if you're a guy saying it about another guy you know i mean how do you
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take it when you get called a fuck boy uh just take it in stride take it on the chin keep it
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pushing you don't feel some type of way no i try not to i try to suppress those feelings as much
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as i can suppress those feelings you do that a lot huh yeah suppress a lot of feelings a lot of
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right uh so i asked on patreon uh to ask us questions about like relationships sex women
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and dating i love these yeah yeah and then the other half is about um it's a separate video
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i asked if you could talk about seasonal seasonal depression maybe we can get that at the end but
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for now i want to talk about uh relationships and women and stuff because you know i pride myself
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i think a pretty good game that's something i don't really share that a lot because i don't
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want to come off arrogant i have like i'm not too bad but cas like his game is is impeccable is
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impeccable like you could if you could spend like a couple nights like it's just like seeing him
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work it's like it's almost an art form it's it's i'm i'm impressed i'm impressed you know what it
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is i grew up kind of bullied by my older brother so i found out how to be manipulative really early
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and i think that's what works the best manipulative that is a good way yeah just projecting a form
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of yourself that's not true and you're charming and cute and like oh i might date this kid but
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no you won't right what you do that like i picked up on this and i don't see anyone else doing it
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it's just such a simple um manipulative like psychological thing it'd be like instead of
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asking like hey what time we go to the movie or no instead of saying like do you want to go to
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the movie you'll just text someone like um so the movie's at eight what time are we leaving or like
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whose car are we taking so the question isn't like what do you want to see a movie it's like
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it's already assuming that you want to go you know what i mean and you do the same thing with girls
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you know it's like he'll be at a club and you'll see a cute girl walking by that everybody's too
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afraid to talk to and he'll you'll say like i have a crush on you what are we going to do about it
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so the question isn't like i have a crush on you will you accept me it's like what are we going to
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do about it you know you're already putting yourself in that scenario and it's brilliant
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brilliant if there's any like there's a lot of young dudes out there that i always message me
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like how do i i there's a cute girl in my class how do i talk to her um maybe you'll learn something
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Alright, but yeah, just don't be afraid to get rejected.
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Starting off the discussion strong, he said,
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Alright, so there's a famous saying in Portuguese,
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and I'm going to translate it because it translates pretty well.
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It's, if you eat pussy, but you don't eat ass,
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I don't know how many inches apart you're right there don't be lazy what's so
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how do you say it in Portuguese what's the saying you want me to say yeah yeah
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yeah yeah yeah if you eat pussy but you don't yes you're lazy it's right there
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I'm thinking about how my dad listens to this podcast.
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I thought you were calling me lazy and you were...
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I don't think it's as gross as some other guys.
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Yeah, I think if you really have strong feelings for someone and you have a connection with
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them you have a heart to heart then you can like their asshole a little bit that's the next step
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in a relationship that is just odd logic maybe if you're like dogs you know what i mean like
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some girls call me a dog uh but no i have not eaten ass i've also never got my ass ate that's
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something that even dudes it's more common now no yeah you haven't no not even a finger nothing
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nothing the finger that does kind of scare me a little bit not yet one girl tried and i felt
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her fingertips creep like creep up my butt cheeks creeping up there and it was like spidey since
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it started tingling i just grabbed one i grabbed the other and i was like i could break both your
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wrists right now you said no i didn't say okay but i felt it deep in my heart because i'm like
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she's trying to violate me you know what did you actually do you just kept pushing your hand off
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i didn't really say much so i didn't say anything stop trying to finger me like what am i gonna say
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It's even like when there's any like ball touching I'm that I feel the same way. I'm not into the really
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Yeah, I'm not into that. I should be scared of the ball sucking because I always thought it hurt
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It doesn't hurt. It's just like it just doesn't feel comfortable. It's pretty unnecessary. It's not relaxing
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Please click away. This is not you should be watching just stop and I want to hear about your son
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Yeah, maybe she's a good guy. Well, that's a little you know
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i'm glad we started on ass eating but there's those better questions uh viral cam says pickup
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lines failed attempts at talking to girls tender experiences etc and that's not questions but um
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i guess we can't talk about that pickup lines i did give cast's pickup line away about uh
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i have a crush on you that's a good one about it that is a good one and like the second you said
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i'm like yeah that's it's clean there's not one word extra it's like it's it's punchy you know
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it's innocent right yeah it's not too creepy it isn't it's very and you're also trying to connect
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with them it has like a middle school like yeah yeah an innocent vibe to it i have a crush like
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that word crush is very nostalgic and there's nothing threatening about that yeah exactly it's
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like even you're just a crush if you don't like me back whatever it's very playful the stakes are low
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but she knows you're attracted yeah exactly perfect it's just it's so perfect it's a lot
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hours in the lab, that's what that is. Is what? A lot of hours in the lab. Right. Actually, where did that
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start? Like, where did that pickup line start? A friend of mine, he's the most outgoing person I've
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ever met in my life. Brazilian, right? Yeah, anywhere you go who knows someone. He's just, I don't know,
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it's weird. And we're walking on the beach, and these three girls walk by us, and he goes, yo,
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watch this. And his English is very broken. So he goes, hey, I know you. And they look at us,
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like confused as well he goes i know you she goes what are you talking about because i follow you
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on instagram he goes yeah i have a crush on you i follow you on instagram and she's like no you
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don't no you don't but at this point girls want to feel like they're famous right she already feels
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she already feels validated she's like no show me show me so he just pulls out his phone he's like
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ah wait maybe it wasn't you but we should exchange instagrams like i think you can i swear to god
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it worked you got it of course i was sitting there just like timid just studying him
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just arms crossed studying literally taking notes from a master i've seen guys do that they're like
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i've tried this before but i bombed hard it was at a mall i was like 16 or 17 and i heard someone
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say like um oh i know you like we matched on tinder and then she'd be like no no yeah we
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matched on tinder then you pull out your phone it's pretty much the same process yeah exactly
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but when i get nervous i start getting really aggressive like yeah i matched with you no
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you think i'm lying you think you couldn't match me why couldn't you match with me what you think
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you don't think i'm pretty tell me i'm pretty yeah that didn't work but that is it is a good
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if you do a playful like that i think that's the key to pick up lines because you know having a
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really well-crafted pickup line like oh you're an angel that fell from heaven it's not gonna work
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it's about connecting and being playful and yeah having making her have fun like girls i realize
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like girls always just want to be a part of something girls always just want to if you're
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having fun then they're having fun they're less attracted to looks like i remember i used to go
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out to parties and i would try to get laid like early early freshman year of college i was right
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out of boarding school i'm like i want to get laid so bad i just want to start like talking to
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chicks and it was mad corny like for the first month i'm just like that dude posted up on the
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wall with the solo cup you know arms crossed just staring at everybody not talking and then
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of course nothing happened but then after a month i made friends and we started going out to parties
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of a car so basically there was no rooms left in the house and i was obviously the horniest i've
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ever been i was in the prime of my horny little face so i went outside and i brought the girl with
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me and i started pulling random car doors until one opened and i went in the backseat of this
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random car that was your first time that was my first time that's like straight out of city of
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god that's a it's almost like a movie scene that's pretty cool more uncomfortable than a movie scene
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did the owner of the car know yeah he found out really i ripped his textbook cover his textbook
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and i left the condom in there well i couldn't find it so i just left it what textbook cover
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so he went to school so he had a textbook like a one of those flimsy ones right and i guess as i
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was shagging just ripped it off why i don't know it might have been under me and i was like oh you
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trying to move out the way no like i'm no i mean i might have been doing one of these hip thrust
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motions okay and it was under my butt cheeks right so it was just like the friction of me
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pulling and pushing it like the cover oh it was kind of like stuck to my butt cheeks because
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they're sweaty and you ripped it and you left a condom at least use a condom i'm proud of you
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yeah um i don't yeah i use condoms you use condoms yeah um sure 14 oh 13 or 14 14 14
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that's uh that's ballsy 14 i was very different the i can imagine making call of duty videos
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with my braces and glasses yeah that's what that was me at 14 i didn't lose my virginia till i was
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17 like it was like a week into being 17 too i was so pissed that i wasn't 16 all my friends are
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roasting me like when i was 15 too i can just tell you're a virgin you just like there's something
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about virgins and the way they walk like you just know from a while like these fucking guys who
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maybe like had three minutes sex one time are like it's just their aura like you can just tell
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a virgin i'm like bro bro what's your sign i'm gonna tell you if you're a virgin right
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that was me bro and then i was like bro i really don't want parents to be listening to this yell
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maybe i'll tell the story another time um fuck it i lost my virginity in the church bro no you
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didn't in a church in between two pews in a sleeping bag on the floor it was during like
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a field trip for school we it's the reason i'm not catholic that is the most blasphemous thing
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i can't go back to the church anymore now i like i'm forced to be an atheist by they find out who
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the priest i don't know no nobody knew nobody knew that is not that's horrible you have no
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choice but to believe hell doesn't exist right right like nah religion's bullshit now not not
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because of choice but you know that that is crazy it was a field trip on school like we were doing
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um we're doing we were working at a fucking homeless shelter like serving food and then we
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slept the whole week in the church and so this is only i went to boarding school so you couldn't
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sneak into people's dorms you would get kicked out so the the risk was a lot lower and
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you know wow man that is horrible for you guys that's that's what happened that was my first
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time i don't judge you yeah judgment free zone wow this is not a judgment free zone go ahead
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um damn dude are you are you christian i'm like on and off like so now yeah i tweeted about this
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i'm like i thank god for every like every day i thank god for another day of life okay i don't
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know if it's like because i'm christian i believe in god or if i'm like fuck yo if heaven exists
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and i'm not in that bitch i'm gonna be tight you know what i mean if i get to the door and it's
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like i don't know if they have bouncers or whatever it is and they're like where have you been these
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I downloaded Twitter, Tinder, for the sole purpose of finding a pool throughout the summer,
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because I was in this hot-ass place, barely in the sea, no pool, no form of water, beach
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is like 30 minutes away, so I started swiping everybody, everybody, if you came up, I swiped
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you right, go match with me, and I just kept asking everyone if they had a pool, and my
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bio was changed to looking for a place to swim this summer, you provide a pool, I provide
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the drinks so it was like reciprocal like you're gonna get something out of it it's gonna be a
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date that just happens that wasn't i would always keep up with you like every time i saw you like
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you find the pool you find the pool and you did find a couple yeah it took like two months no it
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took like two weeks sorry two weeks yeah that's impressive that's impressive a lot of messages
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though how many pools did you yeah you were on tinder a lot it was a lot of messages you have
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to filter a lot of people but how many pools did you get access to i only went to one just one but
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i got access access where they're like oh come through yeah three to three how was that pool
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that you went to it was awkward because i think she was expecting more to happen yeah there's
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kind of a sexual connotation like that it sounds like a sex thing in your bio something about pool
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it sounds like wet something but you didn't even you weren't even down no i really wanted
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just wanted the pool like i pulled up floaties and goggles on
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you're the type of guy who buy the 7-Eleven wine
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to consent to sex to consent in the uk it's 16 but in the u.s it's 18 it's strange to me that
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sleeping with a 17 year old over there will land you in prison and labeled a pedo but here it's
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perfectly acceptable so here's a misconception um in the age of consent in the u.s is actually
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most states is 16 as well but um everybody thinks it's 18 because in california it's 18 um but in
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new york the age i fucking googled this like a weirdo but the age of consent in new york
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is 17 and most of the state a lot of states is 16 but everyone thinks it's 18 because in california
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it's 18 in movies so what happens is in most movies they have to say that 18 thing is this
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true yeah it's it's 100 true and then there's a lot of other laws like i remember when i was in
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high school um i was always like a year older than well not always but it came up to the point
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where like sometimes i would be 17 or she would be 16 and i would have to like all right so what
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what are the so there's laws like um they call it the it has a funny name like peter pan law
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or something like that like if you're only like two years apart um then you're you're good to go
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or like if they can age you get sent is 16 and you're 17 and she's 15 you're you're good to go
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because of the two-year difference that is weird i think the older that i googled that or is weird
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that that's a law it's weird no it's not weird that's a lot either it's not weird that you
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googled it i'm thankful that you googled it yeah and i don't know why i said weird it was the wrong
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choice of words okay but that is i did feel weird googling it i felt like it was illegal just
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googling it i feel relieved do you want to share the story no okay but it's just good to know
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there's no specific story that sticks out in my head but then why are you so relieved
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because i just feel i know it happened at some point so now you can fuck high school no no
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i'm saying not that i can that i have okay but you don't want to say this is coming off so weird
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that I'm like, oh, I bang all these girls.
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Yeah, you don't like hanging around with someone
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who only talks about sex, you know what I mean?
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All right, moving on from these pedo questions,
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Is it okay to not have a lot of common interest with your SO?
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What do you think matters the most for two people to stay together?
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Regardless if it's good or bad or if it's what they want to hear, just be transparent.
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if you're feeling like, yeah, I don't want to hang out with you today
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but it's not because I don't like you, it's because today
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I don't feel like hanging out. Yeah. You know what I mean?
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a boyfriend and be like, oh, you want to hang out?
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Alright, we have to hang out because you're my girlfriend.
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Yeah, I didn't know how to do it. Sometimes with my
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And then she would just get mad. What if I wanted to hang
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up so i didn't know i i liked her but i didn't know how to you know get space yeah you have to
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say exactly what you feel yeah i think at least it might work out horribly for you and your
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significant other might dump you but that's what i think i think that you're with these people
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whoever you're dating because you guys enjoy each other's company when you're together
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because you like the way they make you feel when you're with them and if at some point that stops
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you're not bound to these people by a link you know i mean by chains if at some point they stop
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making you feel good or you guys stop enjoying each other's company or you stop enjoying their
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company then there's no point of being together you know i mean and you can tell them that
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yeah so it's not really that important uh the first part of this question was is it okay to
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not have a lot of common interests with your significant other i don't think it is like
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i think might be better it depends i don't think it i don't think it's as important as
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transparency and trust though no of course not hobbies um it helps you become friends in the
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first place but overall nah i don't think you have to have to be the same person my thought
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presence was straight to if she has her things to do if she likes basketball and dance and you like
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soccer and singing you guys have different things to do in different days you don't get as fed up
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with each other if you're doing the same hobbies and then you're with them when you get home and
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you see them in school or whatever the case may be then you have something to talk about yeah
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Yeah, actually, my relations have worked out better when we were different people.
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Tyrone asks, do you think not being able to be in or keep a serious relationship alive is necessarily bad?
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Because I feel like I don't really want to be in one.
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But then again, I do feel lonely sometimes when I lay in bed after a long day of work.
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Well, that's crazy. I feel the same way sometimes.
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I relate to that so hard. Good shit, Tyrone.
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as to why you're not in a serious relationship ever,
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or if it's genuinely just you haven't found the right person,
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little ring emoji it's weird that that's what confirms a relationship now like a snapchat story
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it's been like that since the facebook it used to be facebook posts but now like it's just a
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snapchat story or like a thriller video of youtube dancing together trying to act cute for the camera
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yeah it seems so fake to me it's like you're not doing this because it's fun you're doing this
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because you want to show people that you're having fun but that's the nature of social media which is
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not what we're talking about um and i do understand what you say when like uh you don't want to be in
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a relationship but then you feel lonely when you lay in bed um yeah it's sometimes i think that's
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a selfish feeling because you you want just the good parts of relationship like you only want a
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a girlfriend when you're lonely but you don't really feel alone all the time
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you're probably young you're probably our age i i can tell that's i think this is something that
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everybody goes through for the most part the pros and cons of relationships yeah i feel like
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for people it's weird some people are just in and out of relationships like
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one after the other yeah and i don't understand if it's something the way they grew up or
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maybe they're you know i mean they just grew up around more females and
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if there's something underlying that makes someone like that my sister's like that she's
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it's always like long-term boyfriend for a year.
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It's always a serious relationship every single time.
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I don't know how you'd find someone that you connect with
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on a level where you'd want to spend a year of your life
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i don't see how you can connect with some with that many people that often
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i don't believe it but you don't believe her i mean i believe it but i feel like
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they're not as for lack of better word woke about or you know i mean as people savvy i think that
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we're pretty people savvy like we read people well we understand social cues very well very well
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and we know like even these questions we think about underlying thoughts to what it takes to
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sustain a relationship the type of person we want to be around and it's kind of unreachable if you
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think about it someone that you're always going to enjoy their company yeah that's a lot to ask
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from someone from one person so i think that they kind of oversee those facts that that's what you
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want in someone however selfish you may be and they kind of settle for they're settling yeah
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even in their 20s i mean i don't know some people just sort of like just need someone around they
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just can't be alone i'm not like that i can i can be alone for a long time and be okay
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you have any trust issues i feel like that might be related to yes i have opening up issues like
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i don't i don't like opening up to a lot of women yeah i feel that way too like just now before you
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came here there was this girl that i thought was i you want to first met i'm like oh yeah she could
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be my girlfriend and then she came over and she drove me to uh we had breakfast together and like
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i'm just sitting watching her eat i'm like i hate you like your face your hands like just
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stop talking and then she came in here and then i'm like all right i got stuff to do she's like
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i'm like i'm gonna do a podcast like can i watch i'm like no i don't want you here and
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then she comes in my house of course i just expected her to leave but she came in and i'm
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like getting ready for the podcast and she's fucking in my kitchen just looking through the
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cabinets because like she said she had a crush on me now and I have not been more annoyed with
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the person. Wow, she was lying on you. Girls, it doesn't work on guys. It only works vice versa.
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No, but she wasn't, yeah, right. But it wasn't in line. It was like she was being honest. Like
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she said that she had to go off social media because she kept looking at my page and then
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she was fucking, wow, she was just looking through my cabinets, like just trying to stall. You know
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when girls get really, they really start liking you. They take your hoodie and stuff like that.
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that's what that was like except it was in my kitchen and she was sniffing tea and it was ramen
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like why are you fucking looking at my cabinets like there's nothing interesting that's bold from
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her though to just lay down the line like that like i've been looking at your pictures and i just
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can't stop yeah that's some shit like everybody does at some point like if you've broken up and
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you're like fuck what is this person doing now yeah you look at yeah everyone does that
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you want to talk about that that recent l yeah do i yeah i know i know i know i know so the same
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girl we were talking about the six months one or whatever so the six months relationship yeah
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she goes to school at fsu now in florida right and obviously i'm not gonna be with her she's
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gonna be some party school in florida in florida and she had lost basically what happened was that
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she was really in love with me and i was my fuck boy self and i was talking to her and saying i
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love you this and that but i was still in school so i'd go out and party all right the card fucked
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up but we're we didn't lose much so fsu party uh ex-girlfriend yeah and i don't remember how much
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i already said but i guess i'll just start again so she was out partying it was her turn start
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partying she basically stopped caring about me to sum it up and that's when i wanted to get her back
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so i'm running after uh facetime this i miss you what are you doing and she was kind of being dry
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about it and i caught those signals and i'm pretty good at getting hints so i don't like you know i
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mean because no one wants to look stupid no one's sticking out yeah and get insecure about that kind
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of stuff so i'm really read into the hints that i'm getting so i'm like all right i'm just gonna
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play the long game and i'm not gonna hit her up anymore and it worked for a bit she was sending
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me snaps but nothing like direct just general snaps of her drinking or whatever i'm like at
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least she's communicating i'm like all right i'm gonna keep playing the long game and then one day
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i went on her story because i had her stories muted so i wouldn't see if she was like you know
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what i mean and break my own heart but i'm like fuck it one day i'm gonna go look okay it was
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just her with like some dude and i'm like fuck yeah they look cozy like whatever i'm not gonna
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think anything of it go back the next day instagram post them kissing i'm like no yeah
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i was playing a long game it completely backfired found a new boyfriend moved on
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this not so i'm like all right whatever like i'll just take the l and i just didn't hit her up
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didn't unblock didn't do anything unhealthy how long ago was this i mean didn't block didn't do
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anything this was like a few weeks ago maybe not even two weeks ago didn't do anything unhealthy
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didn't block her didn't text her hope you're happy like no no no unnecessary so i just kind
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of left it in the air but then i got really smashed this past friday like hammered and i got
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home stumbled back down the stairs when i walked in the house made up to my bed and i was sitting
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there like 3 a.m and i had this bad habit of whenever i get drunk i facetime everyone
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and i'm like this is a girl i used to facetime all the time you know i mean like whenever i got
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home drunk i just facetime her we talk about bullshit i'd be drunk until i love her go to bed
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wake up the next day feel dandy so i call her called denied i'm like fuck yo fuck and i'm even
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like this starts getting my blood to boil so i go on my phone get out i'm like fuck i'm not gonna
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call her go on instagram block her go on snapchat block i'm like yo it's done and i wake up the
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next morning i'm like fuck yeah i probably look like a psycho like i probably look like i saw the
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picture of her kissing and i like freaked the fuck out and i was crying in my room called her
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called her and then blocked her i was gonna be baby take me back and like blocked it but is that
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what you're gonna say were you really no i wasn't i don't even remember what i was gonna say i
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I wasn't going to cry to any girl about getting back with her.
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My final verdict was probably trying to be like, come back to me.
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And that's the wrong way to go about it anyways.
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So if you guys are afraid to like approach a girl, this is, this is the worst of the worst.
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If you're like, uh, maybe she'll say no to me right now and I'll get embarrassed in front of my friend.
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No, the worst that could happen is she says yes.
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You guys, yeah, you guys talk for six months, you like her, and then she cuts you off.
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how the fuck do you talk to uninteresting women
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he said how the fuck do you talk to uninteresting women
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because all good looking girls I know are so fucking boring
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all they do is live on Snapchat, Instagram, etc
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probably I'm not mature enough to go for character over look
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oh man you're you're definitely like junior year senior year high school
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depends what you're looking for out of them are you just trying to bang or yeah you you have to
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i don't know what your motives are why do it you're a dude so you want to bang and you might
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want to find a girlfriend as well um you you'll find the right girl you'll find girls that are
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interesting to you um it doesn't i could kind of tell that you don't have a lot of female friends
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like you you kind of look at girls as objects and through so the social media filter that makes them
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look uninteresting because they only care about their appearance on social media but make friends
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with women like one mistake i made at your age is um i would only i was only looking for sex and
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relationships and i didn't try to make friends with women and the best relationships start from
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friendship like if you are looking for a relationship with a girl you should like her
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first if you don't like her which happened to me before if believe it or not this happens
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if you don't like her then you're not gonna have a good relationship
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yeah i think that's spot on really i thought you were disagreeing with me with that
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spot on he's got to be like late high school right yeah i yeah i think that's ties back into
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people being able to date one after the other that's like finding girls and interesting is
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something that i guess not everybody goes through and yeah people who get a lot of relationships
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find people really interesting they really get involved and they like what they're doing
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um they're really intriguing and guys like him and guys like us it's like a lot of these people
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it's like whatever you know i don't okay you have a what do you do you have a little sibling
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you do your makeup you're on the cheer team yeah if you're gonna try to make me laugh you'll say
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that aren't funny unless you're looking at the picture
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If you are just trying to fuck these uninteresting girls
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And you're trying to figure out how to talk to them
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You literally just invent a more outgoing version of yourself
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Literally just all the shit you really don't care about doing
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If you're like us and you don't give a fuck about taking a picture at a party
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It's not hard to fuck uninteresting women.
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As long as you're mild, if you have a slight personality,
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you can laugh their way into their panties.
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But I feel like that's a trait not everybody has.
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I don't think you can learn how to be interesting, though.
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companionship it's just everybody has uh fucking heart we're all gonna even if i don't want to get
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married i have i don't even feel pressure to have kids and it's gonna happen but everybody wants a
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relationship because you want that sort of comfort it's it's really simple like human stuff or and
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it's animalistic behavior you think it's animalistic or you think it's like implemented
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because we learned about marriage and stuff like that dude it's every species every species they
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it's just ingrained in biology you have you find someone you have kids you fuck and you stay
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together that's just mammals no and mammals i feel like the biological like if you're going
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through instinct is that the guys fuck and then find someone else to fuck because they want to
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spread their genes as much as possible and the female just finds the strongest most suited male
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to those are like gorillas yeah there's different with different monkeys i could talk in a million
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Um, it'll make you happier. I think a mistake a lot of people make is, uh, I made this mistake
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before is you feel when you're not happy, you look for a relation, you look for happiness in
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another person. Um, if you're unhappy and things aren't going in your right, um, things aren't
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going right in your life. You look for someone to make you feel a certain type of way. I was like
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that. Like when I was 18, I was, there's, there's one girl that I wanted to get in a relationship
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was so bad. She was like interested in me, but I was forcing it. And I was thinking in my head
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there's a lot of questions wow that's my favorite question you read it what is the future of
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monogamy in the modern world taking social media contraception polyamory rising divorce rates and
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a seeming increase in disconnect between men and women all into consideration
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i think that it's a lot of people know monogamy is bullshit now yeah we a lot more people know
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monogamy is bullshit it's it's unnatural it doesn't there's no reason for it and
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everybody thinks about cheating it's more about monogamy isn't because you love the person you
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can still love a person and fuck around but it's it's a jealousy thing and jealousy is very human
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emotion because you can be with one person and still sleep with other people sex can be
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disconnected from a long-term relationship but it's jealousy that gets in the way
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and we force it all the time with marriage and it doesn't work most of the time like half of
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marriages ended divorce because of the same thing like the man is sleeping with the secretary and
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calling his wife saying he's going to work late and the fucking wife is fucking the yoga teacher
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that always happens like half of marriages um and we know that now because so many people have
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divorced parents and come from broken homes i know so many kids like who have four parents
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when i went to visit them in brazil i only backed down last second like they called her and
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everything when you were 12 but you didn't want to lose your virginity to a prostitute bro i was
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just scared like i'd never had sex before i barely i didn't even know how to jerk off yet
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but they were like oh we're gonna get your prostitute i'm like yeah do it do it like i'm
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like i'm down i'm down she pulled up yeah i was under the bed what did she look like i don't i
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didn't go outside to look wait you were too scared you hid from her you hid from her you
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because I don't think people can get over their jealousy
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But no, people are not going to get over the jealousy.
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I was watching a documentary on Netflix or one of those factual shows.
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Where they talk about monogamy and how the creation of marriage, the foundation of it,
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was between two wealthy families to exchange land and just double their wealth, basically.
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And it was more like a contract than something that we think of it as now.
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with love and you know i mean this eternal vow to one another and i think it's important to know
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that that's where it stemmed from and it wasn't what it was originally intended to be and we
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created this whole we're gonna have this huge wedding and we're gonna love each other forever
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and that's it once we wed then that means everything's gonna be peaches and they're
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stuck with me because no one believes that anymore my thing is like if you love someone
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and you want to be with someone forever why do you want to get the law involved like why do you
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want to have the government decide what the fuck like that's such a weird idea to me that everybody
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chooses like we always say fuck the government fuck the law and then you're signing a contract
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that binds you together with the government and you're basically saying the court is going to be
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involved and there's going to be documented all this shit is going to be involved if we decide
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to leave why can't you just make a bond between between each other again at the end of the day
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Just have a couple baby mamas running around.
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You're not thinking about the kid, you're thinking about yourself.
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You can have a relationship with a woman and have a kid with her.
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i understand that but just having a kid in a broken home just to begin with and who says it's
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a broken home what if you live together oh you're saying like that's like some evolved shit no it's
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not it's not even that for for today how many people do you see doing that because they're
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fucking because they're not because they get jealous and they need the contract they need
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the merger you it doesn't have to be a broken home most broken homes are because of marriages
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marriages are more responsible for broken homes than having a baby mama yeah i guess
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i don't know the stats on that but the stats are like half of marriages under divorce that's the
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stats that's a stat yeah um i'm struggling la bette says i'm struggling with relationships
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and women to be honest i'm feeling down and depressed lately because i asked myself what's
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the whole point of having a relationship and falling in love while you have nothing to
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offer except your love and support what else would you offer yeah that's like it's not stop
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thinking of it as a contract these fucking people you don't need to take her to five-star dinner for
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to know that right you like her for her to like you just love her like you're and if it does then
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you shouldn't be with her in the first place and then he says i don't have interesting hobbies or
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job jesus christ dude yeah neither are the women i talk to they are fucking boring so everyone's
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boring including you it seems like they all care about is image and instagram i see a lot of people
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seem to have this problem it's hard when you're the only one who's keeping the relationship
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interesting what are you talking are you just saying you're not interesting i don't have
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interesting hobbies or job nothing to offer and then you say it's i'm the only one keeping the
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relationship interesting you're just fucked up like my betty man put the joint down yeah dude
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you're you're in your head too much i don't know i'm not answering that you you gotta figure it's
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Some points, you're just not feeling confident.
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Every time you go out, someone falls in love with you.
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Spana Montana says, do you really believe that...
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Do you really believe that you won't be able to fall in love or find that one person?
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Whenever you talk about love, it's really fucking depressing.
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a lot of people fall in love not because they actually
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love the person but because they want that sense of
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you know what I mean someone who's always there
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late at night and she's just thinking about like i'm can't i'm so excited to get drunk at the party
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tomorrow like she's already drunk from this party she's already dressed and like she's going out
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and she's she's looking forward to being drunk the next day that's her objective for the day
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tomorrow is to get drunk i think that comes from a long line of bad decisions that too but long line
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of insecurity and maybe some traumatic experience and the inability to be introspective and look at
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yourself and be like why do i want to get drunk every day uh-huh like yeah it's this total lack
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of self-awareness yeah exactly and that creates this persona of the cool thing to do is be like
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yeah i'm gonna get smashed tonight which i do too like we all fall for at some point i don't i never
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think it's the i don't even look forward to it it's like hey you know why not my talking point
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right it was her talking point it was her identity was getting drunk and going out yeah like that's
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her thing it's just lack of self-awareness at the end of the day right and say what when it seems
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like there's most girls my age are like that it's it's a little discouraging but i feel like
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eventually i'll find i want to find a girl who's like driven who's interested in things that you
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know matter uh that i can look at and respect and and someone i could even look up to you know
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would you rather be socially savvy like the way you are and think like this like i want to find
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someone who's worth it who has their priorities in check don't suck my line to yours no i'm saying
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They used to date or something. I looked it up after
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Girls are literally thirsting after this man
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because it's confirmed that he can please a woman.
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Why is that guys expect their girl to be able
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to make them nut, but most straight women will never be
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even though she's going to tell the group chat right after so there's a lot a lot i like that
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ending um yeah just straight women they complain about not being able to nut and then they don't
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communicate at all like it's a lot of work to make a girl come you have she has to be in the right
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see a guy can not wherever and he did not on a helicopter in the bathroom in class in a porta
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potty you can nut a girl needs the right mood the right setting she needs to feel wanted she needs
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to feel comfortable she needs to feel accepted she needs to feel sexy and if there's anything
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off of that rhythm it's not gonna work so every it's my problem is that straight women just need
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to communicate more and to be more open like oh play with my clit this way sorry parents for
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talking about clit you need to be more open and you need to it's like don't just don't just do
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that group chat shit because then you're not you're avoiding your own happiness you're really
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hurting yourself yeah like why why and they all do this um also you're saying why is it um that
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guys expect their girl to be able to make them not the most well we need to nut it's procreation
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there's a purpose when we come it's to have kids when a girl comes who the fuck cares
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it doesn't matter there's no psychologically speaking there's no biological purpose for a
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girl to come that's why it's more common for guys to come because that's the end like when you come
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it's over like their seed is planted you know when a girl comes whatever you're just
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kind of peeing for no reason biologically speaking that's true right guys try to make
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2019 yeah make her come she'll stay happy and she won't roast you in the yeah just say i feel
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like it's hot too when girls are trying to come like i want you to come because just looking at
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you and like feeling that i'm satisfying you this way and doing that like contortion yeah exactly
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noah chakas is probably not the right way to say that noah chakas says i'm an 18 year old guy who's
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good looking and pretty confident sick bro yet i haven't fucked in almost a year maybe you're not
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something's fishy yeah i don't know something something's not adding up here one of those
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two statements is false um as a self-pronounced fuck boy fuck you bro as a self-pronounced fuck
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boy what's the secret to getting shallow and meaningless pussy oh i'm with you i'm with you
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yeah what do you mean with me no with leila she said i'm cringing oh okay yeah dude you're you
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man i mean that was like there was a you contradicted yourself five times in a three
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sentence i think you're misinterpreting what it means to be a fuck boy yeah being a fuck boy isn't
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like it's not self-pronounced i'm the best you know what i mean if you're a self-pronounced
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fuck boy you're not a fuck boy you're just an asshole it's other people call you it the essence
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of a fuckboy is when you can be genuine but still only want a shallow bang yeah also i just flipped
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you off a couple times please don't leave my patreon i'm just roasting you you know what i
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mean i still need the money and you need to improve your outlook on pussy because so yeah
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it's off here um man yeah try being if you fake deep or something you said like just try as a
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self-pronounced fuckboy what's the secret to getting shallow meaningless pussy that's like
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the whole thing of being a fuckboy is getting shallow and meaningless but that is what being
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a fuckboy is um the secret dude i don't even want to answer you yeah you came off really
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unlikable here i'm gonna keep scrolling do better next time i i still uh have faith in you
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benchmark says how to not be scared of getting rejected we did talk about that yeah you have
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to accept that happens just you know take it on the chin no homo do you find that for yourself
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or in general being single lets you grow more as a person compared to if you're in a relationship
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how do I act confident without coming off as arrogant
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um it's tough because the people still think i'm arrogant um
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well that's just what's going to happen if you come off confident when people are mad at you
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they're going to call you arrogant that's just part of it so just don't be bothered by it the
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confident person thing to do was when someone calls you arrogant just brush it off and be like
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oh i'm just yeah i'm just a guy just be humble with it um the difference between someone who's
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confident as someone who's arrogant is someone who's arrogant doesn't have self-awareness and
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doesn't have a humble nature to them yeah you can be confident and still be humble you can be
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confident and still be a likable person a person who's arrogant is not likable self-deprecating
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humor being able to laugh at yourself especially when you get roasted that shows confidence that
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yeah nothing can really right don't get angry if somebody roasts you don't get it because like
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someone's the worst thing you can do that's an arrogant person a confident person will be like
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oh i guess you got a point uh but your mom's ugly yeah i feel like when people try to roast me i
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just roast myself with them and then it kind of takes the yeah because then they're laughing with
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you not at you um but i do see that in a lot of people when i'm like trying to get roast and they
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try to to laugh with me i just double down and i just don't know with you yeah i don't know i feel
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like being confident doesn't have anything to do with like brushing people off i think if you go
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to people you're genuine and you make them laugh and you guys laugh together just being able to
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talk to someone comfortably even if it's not something like flirty being able i guess i'm
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talking about girls even if you're not flirting with them if you're able to talk and have a
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genuine conversation and make them laugh they're going to be more attracted to you
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uh jacob larry also asked also i'm 16 and the girl i like told my mate that she's scared of me
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where I'm going to talk to you're going to talk to her for forever
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Maybe I have, and I just took it the wrong way.
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I feel like you're a breeding rapist right now.
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Some guy replied just saying, like, sweep her off her feet.
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You ever seen Borat where he just puts Pamela Anderson in the bag?
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Stefan Mincy says, can you still date another girl if there's some sort of a language barrier?
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I've been trying to talk to this girl for quite a while now, but it seems that a language barrier is holding us down.
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Yeah, I think you can date if you don't speak the same language.
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Dude, they must remotely speak the same language, like broken English.
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I think that's kind of romantic in its own way.
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Yeah, I was going to say it's like out of a movie.
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I've seen, there was an episode of Louie exactly like that, where Louie's dating this Hungarian
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girl, and they literally don't speak any, it's just, they don't communicate, they just
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communicate through, like, hand gestures, and at one point, like, they're trying to
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confess each other's feelings for each other, but they don't know how to, so they go to
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a Russian restaurant, and the waiter is able to translate.
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I mean, there's nothing I could, there's no secret to doing this, it's just gonna take
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a lot of communication, and you're gonna have to really be understanding.
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I was pretending like I didn't see any of that.
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What do you do to get over a relationship or lose feelings?
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I don't think just the sex is gonna get you over it
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and then eventually it'll just fade out of your memory
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Are you really in a position to give advice on this?
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If you mute their story, don't look at their story.
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To be honest, I just feel dumb when I force myself to think about something to say, and
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Dude, I would totally relate to that in high school when I was trying to talk to girls.
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That's your whole answer right there, becoming drunk.
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um yeah i remember like uh me and cassie used to go to this this bar you still kind of go but we
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used to go to this bar and like he would always pick up girls there and i was like how the fuck
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do you do it it was just like trash ass bar like trashy as fuck everyone fucked up and i would go
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there with like a couple beers and like i do okay in the dating world but i never could pick up a
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girl that i'm like what's your secret so just get drunk literally get drunk and then the next
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game literally the next time i got hammered bro i went with these soccer kids and they're doing
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shots all night like the bartender's getting involved like classic white boy wasted and of
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course like later that night i had some almost had a threesome almost almost but um hit the post
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hit the well it's more like the the ball was deflated you know what i mean we needed we needed
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a pump in that ball this kid was begging me all night he's like slammed he's coming up to me he's
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like bro yeah so we were in the bar and he got smashed and i look over and i see him doing the
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classic latino mating ritual millennial where she's just grinding on him throwing her shit back
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and he's catching it eyes rolling to the back of his head and i'm like all right you know at least
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he got he's doing his thing he was telling me about this girl like oh she's fit she's giving
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me signals she wasn't bad she was no she was good looking she's like oh she's giving me singles
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i'm like bro go for it maybe five minutes later i look away doing my thing i just feel someone
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tap my shoulder and i turn around and he's like bro you have to your friend
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you ever been there like when you need you want to get laid but the ugly friend that needs
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attention too bro and usually i would do it take one for the team bro usually i would help your boy
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out but he was standing like broad shouldered in front of me so i'm like oh this fag's hiding
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something so i kind of scooch him over and i look and this girl was looking straight into my eye
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but the trick is she was only looking with one of her eyes because the other one was looking over
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there i remember her eyes they were going crazy yo she was getting like that all night i'm like
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i'm too drunk for this it was like that all night i've never been to a rave when they do the thing
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with the gloves she was doing that shit with their eyes to me i was like yeah nico i'm sorry bro but
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i don't think it's gonna work he's like bro please this and that ends up finding some random like
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some random ass dude we're in the hood he ends up finding some local brings him back to his house
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because the guy says he's down to shag this girl.
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They fucked on the couch for like two minutes
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and those two minutes weren't enough and she came knocking and then yeah i'm downstairs with
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another girl and then she's like i can join you just from the top of the stairs yeah no
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um right uh and then braden marcel asked again have you ever hesitated on the girl because of
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the fear of an scd or sti if so what happened you think you could take this one why
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uh because uh no i've never hesitated but you should you should definitely hesitate you should
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definitely ask and i always ask i always ask a friend of mine it's not weird either a lot of
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guys like they think it's weird to bring it up but a lot of girls are actually they're thinking
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the same thing they don't want aids either so if you bring it up like have you been tested like
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are you on birth control um it's actually better because then you can uh to do the dirty with the
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conscious a clean conscious yeah you might even go harder right yeah a friend of mine he laminated
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his results for his std check that were clean and he tacked him to his wall next to his bed that's
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a red flag that means that that's a red flag for a girl if you haven't tacked on your wall
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i would assume that you have an std no but it's clean and it's like from your name yeah but you're
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having so much frequent casual sex that you haven't nailed on your wall or maybe he's just
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very savvy and avoiding the question before it occurs i want the girls to answer if you think
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that's weird that is 100 i don't know i thought it was a good imagine if you had if you went to
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a girl's apartment and she had her std results nailed she's clean you would really think that
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that's your first thought like it she's clean i'm that my i'm leaving you're leaving i'm leaving
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no you're not leaving because what decisions led up to you nailing your results on something
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happened nothing happened to him something happened before then you don't just do that
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And there's only, I think there's like 14 minutes on the card.
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Is a good relationship with a person more valuable than focusing on your hobbies?
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i'm 19 and i've never dated anyone and i'm okay with that is dating even worth it though
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um if you're okay with them then fuck it like it's not a necessity don't feel society's pressure
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are you asking like what's our opinion on daily do you think it's worth it like should i even try
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i think that if you feel ready to date you'll want to date and you'll find someone it is worth
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it to try to at least try is worth it just for practice yeah to stay committed forever it's it's
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dating is uh is all about trying if you're dating you're trying um so yeah you give it a shot
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but don't feel pressured by anyone if you don't want to uh troy tau packy says love is a feeling
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we should have for everyone sex is a thing that everyone likes to do there's no denying that
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having a baby is something that you should do with your soulmate okay uh we need more sexual
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activity physically did you dude this is not are you asking a question where's the question here
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do you see one no it's just a pair i'm not i'm skipping you i'm skipping you uh layla sator i
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I feel like she already asked the question, no?
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And she said, what do you think about waiting till marriage?
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Or else you're not going to be able to make your girl come,
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and she's going to hate you and put you in her group chat and divorce you.
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If most hot girls are boring and annoying, why fuck them?
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If most hot girls are boring and annoying...
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We're guys, and we need to release our strength.
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Yeah, the answer to your question is in your question.
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There are some insanely interesting people out there,
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and I hear the quiet ones who don't get a lot of attention
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I just personally think guys always going for hot girls
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are as moronic as girls going for fuckboys.
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i also think just constantly paying attention to e-girls will only make more appear what look at
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the second part um uh hold on let me keep reading i don't know why not surround yourself with
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interesting and intelligent women then maybe it'll be a little more peace sex related do you
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let your girl take your do you let your girl tickle your asshole for a bit of a thrill what
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the fuck just unrelated um okay a bit of a thrill is a great choice of words for that
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uh no we i don't i don't do that i don't do that i don't do that um also lost connections by
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johan harry is a good read about depression um all right so your your first question is like
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why do people try to fuck hot people when they can find meaningful relationships um it sounds
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like you're bitter because you're jealous of the hot girls getting the attention and you see
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yourself as the quiet one who has crazy sex well casual sex you don't want to have to get to know
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someone on a deep level to have casual sex you sometimes you just want to fuck and the quiet
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ones they're going to be like i'm interesting and like the hot people are just going out to
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have fun so a lot of it is just the experience of going out and partying you know i think it's
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very one way what do you mean guys or guys are more shallow when it comes to fucking hot girls
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Like, if you want to bang, if you're not inebriated, you want her to be good looking.
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But girls, if you're charming enough, she'll overlook your physical aspects for the most part.
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Yeah, their ability to charm them and make them laugh and make them feel like they're having a bit of a thrill.
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The other way around, it doesn't work that much.
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um lol um gervender uh pant jesus christ your guys names are so weird
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gervender panasar your name sounds like a pokemon bro
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i'm a dude that is not ashamed to think that he's kind of the shit
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but another one of these people i'm a dude that's not ashamed to think he's
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kind of the shit i'm cocky even though i respect women i'm not
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gonna lie and say getting pussy doesn't make me feel like marlon brando
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however i'm 18 and i respect that this type of behavior is typical for guys my age
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okay he's not that bad yeah i'm having fun right now but i don't know what toll that's going to
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take on future relationships do you think it's healthy for lads to act this way when we're young
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yeah it's normal i mean yeah you respect women you just like to fuck and you don't want to be
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tied down you're 18 that's normal that's normal as long as yeah that's normal nothing else um last
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one kelsey valente i'm guessing that's her name says what's your what are your thoughts on people
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who say they aren't attracted to a specific race or that they only think date blank race their own
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that's racist um is it i think so i think i do think so too actually it's been instilled in
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people that that it's not racist no that it's not one that it's not racist or two that black
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people aren't as good looking now it's changing now light skins are in but if you think a few
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years back it was like frowned upon yeah like you're pretty for a black girl dating yeah black
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girls that's just been instilled with us you know since we were little through movies because all
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the pretty girls and mean girls are white it depends on the movies that you're watching
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i mean yeah but the most commercially yeah you're right movies yeah it was always like the blonde
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white girl yeah cheerleader was always white quarterback's always white come from an affluent
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family yeah do you think that there is a prejudice or closed-mindedness behind that or do you think
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people just have their preferences you see my thing is i think having a preference is inherently
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a little bit racist like i know remember that girl um i messed with there was a girl i messed
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with like two years ago and i was her transition from dating black guys to now only dating asian
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guys so like i'm mixed so i was like the transition period now she's like full-on dating chinese
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korean like fresh off the boat dudes but i was like test for her i was testing the waters and
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now she's like she'll say that like he she my friend has a class with her and she's like it's
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a geography class she'll like answer questions by saying i only date asian guys and yada yada yada
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like it's part of our identity that's weirder than the std check on the wall it is a little
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bit racist i think to specifically because to only be attracted to one race means that you see
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a superiority in that race which is kind of the definition of racism believing that one race is
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better than the other if you say i only date this race especially if it's not your own that's a
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little bit racist and i a lot of people like that's just my preference that's just my preference
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okay you're not really hurting anyone because who you fuck doesn't affect all of society but it is
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inherently a racist belief i just think it's really weird that she's championing it like
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yeah that she's proud of it yeah like i only date asian guys that bothers me so i have some insight
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that you don't I'm different right but in reality you're just weird weird and
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probably a little racist mm-hmm and it's to have a fetish it's weird to
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fetishize a race that I don't get that don't get me wrong I'm a breeder like if
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I'm gonna have a kid I would love her to have like green eyes or blue eyes blonde
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so the kid comes out all cute but you don't think that's a little bit right
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like it might be yeah it might be I don't I honestly don't have a preference
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That is racist because that's, like, the standard of beauty that we grew up.
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Also, what is it with guys wanting to see girls make out?
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what it like obviously i don't get turned on watching two guys make out and i'm sure majority
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of girls would agree this though there's so much to unpack here because homosexuality with men is
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not the same with homosexuality with girls when two girls make out it's not seen as like they're
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gay it's seen as like whoo yeah it's like they're doing it for attention they're doing it for the
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male gaze right it's fun and you can still be feminine and fuck another girl you can't still
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be masculine and make out with another guy that's facts and if two guys are making out with the
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party nobody's gonna be like yeah that's like people like maybe not now but people will kind
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of like avoid making eye contact because it looks kind of gross like two beards connecting
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is inherently not masculine and that's not just my belief like that's how i hate we said society
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so many times but that's how society works like you can't still be masculine and make out with
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another guy it it goes against everything that we've been raised to believe yeah bro if your
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beards are touching if you ever seen like avatar when they connect the ponytails it's the same
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shit it's too much it's a deeper it's a deeper connection when the beards touch uh-uh i don't
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get turned on by watching two guys make out because yeah because you don't he's not sexy
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anymore yeah he's not macho and he can't provide for you because he's not macho yeah it's it's
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such a it's such a double standard not because i want to make out with the dude for attention
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but because the that's why bisexuality nicey why ally calls me gay
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maybe i should have told i probably shouldn't have snitched on him for that but bisexuality
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is like really trendy now it's really in but it's like just every girl with the nose ring
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like the transition phase like you get a nose ring and six months later you can start messing
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around with girls because i honestly think that everybody has homosexual thoughts it's whether
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you act on them like me every every dude has has considered whether or not they're gay before
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have you ever you've definitely thought that like you've wondered not recently not no but like when
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i was like 14 yeah i thought i was gay i watched gay porn it's not for me it's not for me i saw
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like bro i went to i went to a gay nightclub with my gay friends like i went to go visit
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my friend of master's like let's go to a club it was a gay club i'm not complaining but i saw
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a muscular dude twerking glitter off of his back and i know that i'm not gay it was i was laughing
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very like seeing a a grown man with glitter on his back twerk it's just funny to me but we've
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all thought about it it's just girls have the more of the ability to act on it because they can still
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be themselves if a guy acts on his bisexual thoughts then everybody's going to look at him
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differently if a girl acts on her bisexual thoughts it's like whatever she's just it's
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I don't think you need to go to that extent to watch big guys shake glitter off their butts.
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I didn't need to do that, but it was another confirmation that I'm not gay.
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Because, dude, like, there were, like, gay guys hitting on me, and my gay friends were encouraging them to do it, bro.
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It was uncomfortable because, dude, these gay guys, they want to convert you.
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And, like, fuck, I noticed this about all gay guys.
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like they really i don't want to say all but it's all gay guys they all low key that's their fetish
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is to convert straight dudes you're not gonna get me not gonna get me not today yeah i think that
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i just kind of rationalize with myself like i go to parties and i get off on girls twerk and i don't
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usually look at guys like probably i'm not gay you know what i mean like it could be that simple
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yeah but why do you think there's more girls who that was my reasoning for why um bisexualism is
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on the rise um not also because like they want to be trendy they want to be allies but why do you
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think more girls can be bisexual than guys for exactly the reasons you said i'm right yeah oh
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okay because you were looking at me like kind of weird no i was just listening because i'd never
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heard that take before it's being pensive i'm so i'm on to something with that idea cool all right
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that's the last question um thank you guys that was a that was my first like long form pot i've
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only done like 45 minutes before this like an hour and a half that feels like a podcast um
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thank you cast for coming on um i'm gonna grab them like on the upper on the lower thigh not
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over here because just this is the cutoff um and also we're getting kind of sus towards the ends
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anyway you got anything else you want to conclude with uh anything you want to plug no i don't have
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anything to plug i don't just happy to be here just happy to be here happy to share some wisdom