SHNEAKO - How to Pick Up Girls - Kinda Quality Podcast #8

00:00:00.000 all right what's up patreon this is kind of quality episode uh the podcast is kind of quality

00:00:05.780 it's not episode one this is episode like eight or nine you're just a guest is my friend cass um

00:00:11.120 we both went to hofstra together he has graduated and i have dropped out but we're still pals yeah

00:00:17.740 um this is a weird dynamic seating arrangement and dynamic yeah kind of both facing something

00:00:25.360 that we can't look at because it's kind of intimate yeah kind of yeah you mind no two nah

00:00:31.680 um peachy did say that the other day peachy did say that like i fuck with cats but sometimes he

00:00:40.980 could be mad gay and like what are you talking about because like you are like i'm touchy yeah

00:00:45.000 you are touch i thought that was just a brazilian it is a brazilian thing and he said it's not i

00:00:48.600 said like is that just it is yeah oh okay i figured or maybe you are just maybe i am yeah

00:00:53.560 Maybe there's something about me, I don't know.

00:00:55.180 I don't judge you.

00:00:56.080 I don't, you know, 2019.

00:01:00.320 So I brought Cass here because Cass gets called a fuckboy more than I do,

00:01:06.140 which is the number one insult I get from females and from other dudes.

00:01:11.880 Like if dudes want to insult me, sometimes they call me fuckboy,

00:01:14.580 which I think is a little bit gay.

00:01:17.580 I've never been called a fuckboy by a dude.

00:01:19.340 I feel like...

00:01:19.900 Never? Just girls?

00:01:20.820 Yeah.

00:01:21.120 Huh.

00:01:21.440 i think that's been my dudes gay dudes gay dudes what would they be gaining out of that like there's

00:01:28.680 no negative connotation if you're a guy saying it about another guy you know i mean how do you

00:01:33.300 take it when you get called a fuck boy uh just take it in stride take it on the chin keep it

00:01:38.080 pushing you don't feel some type of way no i try not to i try to suppress those feelings as much

00:01:43.820 as i can suppress those feelings you do that a lot huh yeah suppress a lot of feelings a lot of

00:01:48.640 right uh so i asked on patreon uh to ask us questions about like relationships sex women

00:01:55.980 and dating i love these yeah yeah and then the other half is about um it's a separate video

00:02:00.940 i asked if you could talk about seasonal seasonal depression maybe we can get that at the end but

00:02:06.060 for now i want to talk about uh relationships and women and stuff because you know i pride myself

00:02:12.960 i think a pretty good game that's something i don't really share that a lot because i don't

00:02:16.000 want to come off arrogant i have like i'm not too bad but cas like his game is is impeccable is

00:02:21.020 impeccable like you could if you could spend like a couple nights like it's just like seeing him

00:02:25.640 work it's like it's almost an art form it's it's i'm i'm impressed i'm impressed you know what it

00:02:31.480 is i grew up kind of bullied by my older brother so i found out how to be manipulative really early

00:02:35.580 and i think that's what works the best manipulative that is a good way yeah just projecting a form

00:02:40.400 of yourself that's not true and you're charming and cute and like oh i might date this kid but

00:02:44.200 no you won't right what you do that like i picked up on this and i don't see anyone else doing it

00:02:49.380 it's just such a simple um manipulative like psychological thing it'd be like instead of

00:02:54.960 asking like hey what time we go to the movie or no instead of saying like do you want to go to

00:02:58.720 the movie you'll just text someone like um so the movie's at eight what time are we leaving or like

00:03:02.960 whose car are we taking so the question isn't like what do you want to see a movie it's like

00:03:09.140 it's already assuming that you want to go you know what i mean and you do the same thing with girls

00:03:13.540 you know it's like he'll be at a club and you'll see a cute girl walking by that everybody's too

00:03:17.960 afraid to talk to and he'll you'll say like i have a crush on you what are we going to do about it

00:03:22.960 so the question isn't like i have a crush on you will you accept me it's like what are we going to

00:03:28.920 do about it you know you're already putting yourself in that scenario and it's brilliant

00:03:32.720 brilliant if there's any like there's a lot of young dudes out there that i always message me

00:03:36.920 like how do i i there's a cute girl in my class how do i talk to her um maybe you'll learn something

00:03:41.880 from this dude over here.

00:03:43.060 I think step one

00:03:43.760 is just getting over rejection.

00:03:45.560 Because it's going to happen.

00:03:46.480 It's inevitable.

00:03:47.340 You have to accept it.

00:03:48.100 You just have to accept it.

00:03:48.880 Even when you have game,

00:03:50.020 you're going to get rejected.

00:03:51.380 Yeah, I don't care who you are.

00:03:52.340 You've been rejected before.

00:03:53.520 Some girl's just not feeling it that day.

00:03:55.080 And it hurts.

00:03:56.340 But the more you get stabbed

00:03:57.340 by that wound,

00:03:58.000 the less you feel it.

00:04:00.340 I feel like it hurt.

00:04:01.420 But doesn't it hurt more?

00:04:02.400 The more you get stabbed?

00:04:03.040 Yeah, I don't know.

00:04:03.900 That wasn't my best way.

00:04:04.700 It wasn't.

00:04:05.240 I started compensating

00:04:06.220 by staring really deep

00:04:07.160 into their eyes,

00:04:08.440 their virtual eyes.

00:04:10.420 But yeah, you called me out.

00:04:11.880 Alright, but yeah, just don't be afraid to get rejected.

00:04:14.380 It's part of the game.

00:04:15.660 First question is from Philip.

00:04:17.580 Starting off the discussion strong, he said,

00:04:20.220 Do y'all eat ass?

00:04:22.900 I'll let you take this one, Cass.

00:04:25.320 I'll let you start here.

00:04:26.720 Alright, so there's a famous saying in Portuguese,

00:04:29.940 and I'm going to translate it because it translates pretty well.

00:04:32.200 Boa.

00:04:33.040 It's, if you eat pussy, but you don't eat ass,

00:04:36.640 what does that make you?

00:04:38.980 Well, you are what you eat.

00:04:40.380 No, it makes you lazy, bro.

00:04:41.880 I don't know how many inches apart you're right there don't be lazy what's so

00:04:49.340 how do you say it in Portuguese what's the saying you want me to say yeah yeah

00:04:53.440 yeah yeah yeah if you eat pussy but you don't yes you're lazy it's right there

00:05:04.240 It is.

00:05:05.000 It's next door.

00:05:06.220 I don't know.

00:05:07.060 I don't know.

00:05:09.520 I'm thinking about how my dad listens to this podcast.

00:05:14.740 Yeah, I'm lazy.

00:05:16.040 Oh, so you are lazy.

00:05:17.440 Oh, okay, okay, okay.

00:05:18.720 I thought you were calling me lazy and you were...

00:05:21.120 You probably are lazy, too.

00:05:22.500 I am lazy.

00:05:23.120 I am lazy.

00:05:23.740 I am lazy.

00:05:24.660 I mean, I'm not against it.

00:05:26.000 I'm not against it.

00:05:26.780 I don't think it's as gross as some other guys.

00:05:28.820 Really?

00:05:29.560 Yeah, I think if you really have strong feelings for someone and you have a connection with

00:05:33.400 them you have a heart to heart then you can like their asshole a little bit that's the next step

00:05:38.520 in a relationship that is just odd logic maybe if you're like dogs you know what i mean like

00:05:45.020 some girls call me a dog uh but no i have not eaten ass i've also never got my ass ate that's

00:05:52.860 something that even dudes it's more common now no yeah you haven't no not even a finger nothing

00:05:58.820 nothing the finger that does kind of scare me a little bit not yet one girl tried and i felt

00:06:05.740 her fingertips creep like creep up my butt cheeks creeping up there and it was like spidey since

00:06:09.960 it started tingling i just grabbed one i grabbed the other and i was like i could break both your

00:06:14.400 wrists right now you said no i didn't say okay but i felt it deep in my heart because i'm like

00:06:18.400 she's trying to violate me you know what did you actually do you just kept pushing your hand off

00:06:22.280 i didn't really say much so i didn't say anything stop trying to finger me like what am i gonna say

00:06:26.240 like this is the no-no zone

00:06:29.280 I'd feel like such a bitch

00:06:30.460 I'd feel like I was

00:06:31.280 you know what I mean

00:06:31.960 like I was getting

00:06:32.620 taken advantage of

00:06:33.440 no don't

00:06:34.360 yeah yeah yeah

00:06:35.340 yeah that must be

00:06:37.100 what it feels like

00:06:37.740 when you're trying

00:06:38.380 to finger a girl

00:06:39.020 and she's kind of prude

00:06:40.240 and she just wants

00:06:40.740 to keep making out

00:06:41.460 that'd be the first

00:06:42.540 one to be victim shamed

00:06:43.460 meanwhile I'd be in the shower

00:06:46.480 fetal position

00:06:47.480 right

00:06:47.800 you felt violated

00:06:50.500 huh

00:06:51.480 yeah I think that

00:06:53.320 that has happened before

00:06:54.260 and I did feel uncomfortable

00:06:55.480 it's crazy

00:06:56.200 It's even like when there's any like ball touching I'm that I feel the same way. I'm not into the really

00:07:00.720 Yeah, I'm not into that. I should be scared of the ball sucking because I always thought it hurt

00:07:04.720 It doesn't hurt. It's just like it just doesn't feel comfortable. It's pretty unnecessary. It's not relaxing

00:07:10.440 It's it's yeah, no

00:07:12.320 Yeah, thank you my parents watching this

00:07:15.940 Please click away. This is not you should be watching just stop and I want to hear about your son

00:07:21.440 Yeah, maybe she's a good guy. Well, that's a little you know

00:07:24.540 i'm glad we started on ass eating but there's those better questions uh viral cam says pickup

00:07:29.660 lines failed attempts at talking to girls tender experiences etc and that's not questions but um

00:07:35.100 i guess we can't talk about that pickup lines i did give cast's pickup line away about uh

00:07:40.780 i have a crush on you that's a good one about it that is a good one and like the second you said

00:07:44.380 i'm like yeah that's it's clean there's not one word extra it's like it's it's punchy you know

00:07:50.940 it's innocent right yeah it's not too creepy it isn't it's very and you're also trying to connect

00:07:56.620 with them it has like a middle school like yeah yeah an innocent vibe to it i have a crush like

00:08:01.060 that word crush is very nostalgic and there's nothing threatening about that yeah exactly it's

00:08:06.940 like even you're just a crush if you don't like me back whatever it's very playful the stakes are low

00:08:11.800 but she knows you're attracted yeah exactly perfect it's just it's so perfect it's a lot

00:08:16.940 hours in the lab, that's what that is. Is what? A lot of hours in the lab. Right. Actually, where did that

00:08:22.500 start? Like, where did that pickup line start? A friend of mine, he's the most outgoing person I've

00:08:27.400 ever met in my life. Brazilian, right? Yeah, anywhere you go who knows someone. He's just, I don't know,

00:08:32.700 it's weird. And we're walking on the beach, and these three girls walk by us, and he goes, yo,

00:08:38.360 watch this. And his English is very broken. So he goes, hey, I know you. And they look at us,

00:08:44.120 like confused as well he goes i know you she goes what are you talking about because i follow you

00:08:49.140 on instagram he goes yeah i have a crush on you i follow you on instagram and she's like no you

00:08:55.900 don't no you don't but at this point girls want to feel like they're famous right she already feels

00:08:59.400 she already feels validated she's like no show me show me so he just pulls out his phone he's like

00:09:04.740 ah wait maybe it wasn't you but we should exchange instagrams like i think you can i swear to god

00:09:10.060 it worked you got it of course i was sitting there just like timid just studying him

00:09:12.940 just arms crossed studying literally taking notes from a master i've seen guys do that they're like

00:09:21.120 i've tried this before but i bombed hard it was at a mall i was like 16 or 17 and i heard someone

00:09:25.860 say like um oh i know you like we matched on tinder and then she'd be like no no yeah we

00:09:31.320 matched on tinder then you pull out your phone it's pretty much the same process yeah exactly

00:09:34.640 but when i get nervous i start getting really aggressive like yeah i matched with you no

00:09:39.120 you think i'm lying you think you couldn't match me why couldn't you match with me what you think

00:09:43.120 you don't think i'm pretty tell me i'm pretty yeah that didn't work but that is it is a good

00:09:49.240 if you do a playful like that i think that's the key to pick up lines because you know having a

00:09:53.600 really well-crafted pickup line like oh you're an angel that fell from heaven it's not gonna work

00:09:57.360 it's about connecting and being playful and yeah having making her have fun like girls i realize

00:10:03.280 like girls always just want to be a part of something girls always just want to if you're

00:10:07.200 having fun then they're having fun they're less attracted to looks like i remember i used to go

00:10:12.260 out to parties and i would try to get laid like early early freshman year of college i was right

00:10:17.860 out of boarding school i'm like i want to get laid so bad i just want to start like talking to

00:10:21.920 chicks and it was mad corny like for the first month i'm just like that dude posted up on the

00:10:25.960 wall with the solo cup you know arms crossed just staring at everybody not talking and then

00:10:30.280 of course nothing happened but then after a month i made friends and we started going out to parties

00:10:34.900 Not to get late

00:10:36.080 We were just having

00:10:36.640 The time

00:10:37.380 We were just having fun

00:10:38.080 Like it's college

00:10:38.720 We're having a great time

00:10:39.540 Doing our thing

00:10:40.340 And everybody can see

00:10:41.980 That we're having fun

00:10:42.780 And we're doing something

00:10:43.600 And people go out

00:10:44.920 To have stories

00:10:45.760 And to have experiences

00:10:46.540 So when they see

00:10:47.360 Someone having the time

00:10:48.420 Of their lives

00:10:48.820 They want to be a part of it

00:10:49.780 And then instantly

00:10:50.580 Did pretty well

00:10:53.120 You know what I'm saying

00:10:53.680 Started doing pretty well

00:10:55.160 Nah yeah

00:10:56.160 I felt that pressure

00:10:56.920 Young to

00:10:57.460 To lose your virginity

00:10:59.380 Because you're Brazilian

00:11:00.500 Is that part of it?

00:11:01.480 Yeah I guess maybe

00:11:02.140 I heard the average age

00:11:03.860 To lose your virginity

00:11:04.520 in Brazil is 15.

00:11:05.400 I don't know that stat

00:11:06.200 off the top of my head,

00:11:07.000 but I wouldn't doubt it.

00:11:08.000 I read that stat

00:11:08.760 because I was nervous.

00:11:09.340 I think that's pretty average,

00:11:09.900 no?

00:11:10.060 15?

00:11:10.620 In Brazil.

00:11:11.520 And here,

00:11:11.960 it's like 16, 17.

00:11:16.200 I'll say 8th grade summer.

00:11:18.280 8th grade summer?

00:11:19.340 In the back of my friend's car

00:11:20.440 because...

00:11:20.940 Dude,

00:11:21.100 you felt the pressure

00:11:21.820 in 8th grade?

00:11:23.020 Yeah, bro.

00:11:23.600 What are you,

00:11:23.880 13, 14?

00:11:24.720 Because I had an older brother

00:11:25.460 to your half,

00:11:25.960 an older brother.

00:11:26.440 You were 14 or 13?

00:11:27.820 I was probably 14.

00:11:29.420 Jesus Christ, dude.

00:11:31.100 Killing it.

00:11:32.160 Are you in the back

00:11:32.640 of a truck, you said?

00:11:33.520 I was in the back

00:11:34.080 of a car so basically there was no rooms left in the house and i was obviously the horniest i've

00:11:40.080 ever been i was in the prime of my horny little face so i went outside and i brought the girl with

00:11:46.260 me and i started pulling random car doors until one opened and i went in the backseat of this

00:11:51.420 random car that was your first time that was my first time that's like straight out of city of

00:11:58.080 god that's a it's almost like a movie scene that's pretty cool more uncomfortable than a movie scene

00:12:03.500 did the owner of the car know yeah he found out really i ripped his textbook cover his textbook

00:12:09.560 and i left the condom in there well i couldn't find it so i just left it what textbook cover

00:12:13.100 so he went to school so he had a textbook like a one of those flimsy ones right and i guess as i

00:12:18.460 was shagging just ripped it off why i don't know it might have been under me and i was like oh you

00:12:25.060 trying to move out the way no like i'm no i mean i might have been doing one of these hip thrust

00:12:28.860 motions okay and it was under my butt cheeks right so it was just like the friction of me

00:12:33.820 pulling and pushing it like the cover oh it was kind of like stuck to my butt cheeks because

00:12:37.840 they're sweaty and you ripped it and you left a condom at least use a condom i'm proud of you

00:12:41.980 yeah um i don't yeah i use condoms you use condoms yeah um sure 14 oh 13 or 14 14 14

00:12:52.180 that's uh that's ballsy 14 i was very different the i can imagine making call of duty videos

00:12:58.400 with my braces and glasses yeah that's what that was me at 14 i didn't lose my virginia till i was

00:13:03.120 17 like it was like a week into being 17 too i was so pissed that i wasn't 16 all my friends are

00:13:08.880 roasting me like when i was 15 too i can just tell you're a virgin you just like there's something

00:13:12.540 about virgins and the way they walk like you just know from a while like these fucking guys who

00:13:16.780 maybe like had three minutes sex one time are like it's just their aura like you can just tell

00:13:20.400 a virgin i'm like bro bro what's your sign i'm gonna tell you if you're a virgin right

00:13:23.180 that was me bro and then i was like bro i really don't want parents to be listening to this yell

00:13:29.760 maybe i'll tell the story another time um fuck it i lost my virginity in the church bro no you

00:13:36.140 didn't in a church in between two pews in a sleeping bag on the floor it was during like

00:13:43.880 a field trip for school we it's the reason i'm not catholic that is the most blasphemous thing

00:13:49.020 i can't go back to the church anymore now i like i'm forced to be an atheist by they find out who

00:13:54.360 the priest i don't know no nobody knew nobody knew that is not that's horrible you have no

00:14:02.880 choice but to believe hell doesn't exist right right like nah religion's bullshit now not not

00:14:07.920 because of choice but you know that that is crazy it was a field trip on school like we were doing

00:14:13.640 um we're doing we were working at a fucking homeless shelter like serving food and then we

00:14:18.220 slept the whole week in the church and so this is only i went to boarding school so you couldn't

00:14:23.040 sneak into people's dorms you would get kicked out so the the risk was a lot lower and

00:14:28.340 you know wow man that is horrible for you guys that's that's what happened that was my first

00:14:35.520 time i don't judge you yeah judgment free zone wow this is not a judgment free zone go ahead

00:14:41.520 um damn dude are you are you christian i'm like on and off like so now yeah i tweeted about this

00:14:50.880 i'm like i thank god for every like every day i thank god for another day of life okay i don't

00:14:55.800 know if it's like because i'm christian i believe in god or if i'm like fuck yo if heaven exists

00:14:59.860 and i'm not in that bitch i'm gonna be tight you know what i mean if i get to the door and it's

00:15:04.920 like i don't know if they have bouncers or whatever it is and they're like where have you been these

00:15:09.100 past 40 years

00:15:10.180 not with us

00:15:11.280 I've been saying it

00:15:12.520 it could be any religion

00:15:13.560 you know

00:15:14.120 well what if

00:15:14.820 Islam is the right

00:15:15.560 religion or Judaism

00:15:16.420 what if they're all

00:15:17.060 fucked up

00:15:17.540 my money's been

00:15:18.400 on Christianity

00:15:19.040 since the get

00:15:19.760 well that's just

00:15:20.820 because of geography

00:15:21.600 that's just because

00:15:22.520 of geography

00:15:23.020 it's because of

00:15:23.420 what your parents

00:15:23.840 told you

00:15:24.140 if you were born

00:15:24.680 in Egypt

00:15:25.720 I'm all in

00:15:25.940 my chips are all in there

00:15:27.600 it doesn't seem

00:15:28.020 like you're all in

00:15:28.500 I'm not converting

00:15:28.760 you're more like

00:15:30.180 you're halfway in

00:15:31.400 I'm trying to get

00:15:33.600 to heaven

00:15:33.960 I'm not sure

00:15:35.120 if it's real

00:15:36.080 if it's real

00:15:36.980 or become a tree

00:15:39.060 or whatever the fuck

00:15:39.740 happens to you.

00:15:41.620 Reincarnation?

00:15:42.220 That'd be lit.

00:15:43.140 That would be lit.

00:15:44.060 If you actually

00:15:44.500 just become a tree,

00:15:45.180 like, trees are actually people.

00:15:46.320 Do you think that

00:15:46.920 trees have thoughts?

00:15:49.540 Like, just hoes

00:15:50.460 that they can hit up

00:15:50.980 whenever they want?

00:15:52.040 No, like, thoughts.

00:15:56.080 Yeah, you trying to

00:15:56.800 follow me?

00:15:59.500 Do you have any

00:16:00.180 tender experiences

00:16:00.940 you want to share?

00:16:03.280 This summer,

00:16:04.240 another one

00:16:04.820 that I was trying to

00:16:05.760 keep my followers up to

00:16:06.860 on Twitter,

00:16:08.220 that,

00:16:09.060 I downloaded Twitter, Tinder, for the sole purpose of finding a pool throughout the summer,

00:16:14.760 because I was in this hot-ass place, barely in the sea, no pool, no form of water, beach

00:16:19.340 is like 30 minutes away, so I started swiping everybody, everybody, if you came up, I swiped

00:16:25.460 you right, go match with me, and I just kept asking everyone if they had a pool, and my

00:16:30.280 bio was changed to looking for a place to swim this summer, you provide a pool, I provide

00:16:35.160 the drinks so it was like reciprocal like you're gonna get something out of it it's gonna be a

00:16:39.500 date that just happens that wasn't i would always keep up with you like every time i saw you like

00:16:43.060 you find the pool you find the pool and you did find a couple yeah it took like two months no it

00:16:46.620 took like two weeks sorry two weeks yeah that's impressive that's impressive a lot of messages

00:16:51.260 though how many pools did you yeah you were on tinder a lot it was a lot of messages you have

00:16:54.640 to filter a lot of people but how many pools did you get access to i only went to one just one but

00:17:00.140 i got access access where they're like oh come through yeah three to three how was that pool

00:17:05.020 that you went to it was awkward because i think she was expecting more to happen yeah there's

00:17:10.820 kind of a sexual connotation like that it sounds like a sex thing in your bio something about pool

00:17:16.880 it sounds like wet something but you didn't even you weren't even down no i really wanted

00:17:21.900 just wanted the pool like i pulled up floaties and goggles on

00:17:24.880 did you bring the drinks

00:17:28.980 yeah I brought a little bottle

00:17:30.980 it was like 15 bucks

00:17:32.860 20 bucks

00:17:33.420 the freshman girl classic

00:17:34.800 you're not going to ball out

00:17:37.620 you're the type of guy who buy the 7-Eleven wine

00:17:40.300 yeah 100%

00:17:41.700 girls don't know the difference

00:17:43.380 they definitely know the difference

00:17:44.960 if you're a wine connoisseur

00:17:48.540 I'll understand

00:17:49.300 you don't need to be a connoisseur to tell

00:17:51.200 sugary Moscato from 7-Eleven

00:17:53.340 agree to disagree

00:17:55.360 but I think that

00:17:55.920 if you pour it

00:17:56.660 and you give it to them

00:17:57.820 they'll like it

00:17:58.240 yeah that's true

00:17:58.820 and you're not gonna leave

00:18:00.160 like the little $7.99 tag on it

00:18:01.780 no

00:18:02.060 and girls they don't really

00:18:03.640 yeah you're

00:18:04.060 they're not reading the label

00:18:05.040 they all drink the same wine

00:18:06.840 they just drink sweet wine

00:18:07.960 it's not even wine

00:18:08.780 it's just like

00:18:09.400 they just get the big ass

00:18:11.300 barefoot

00:18:11.940 the big one

00:18:12.880 or like a big bag

00:18:14.060 yeah

00:18:14.580 yeah

00:18:15.180 you got a point

00:18:15.960 you got a point

00:18:16.460 alright

00:18:17.700 um

00:18:18.700 Andrew Biddulff says

00:18:20.060 at what age do you believe

00:18:21.140 you're mature

00:18:21.800 slash old enough

00:18:22.540 to consent to sex to consent in the uk it's 16 but in the u.s it's 18 it's strange to me that

00:18:27.540 sleeping with a 17 year old over there will land you in prison and labeled a pedo but here it's

00:18:31.640 perfectly acceptable so here's a misconception um in the age of consent in the u.s is actually

00:18:37.920 most states is 16 as well but um everybody thinks it's 18 because in california it's 18 um but in

00:18:45.300 new york the age i fucking googled this like a weirdo but the age of consent in new york

00:18:49.760 is 17 and most of the state a lot of states is 16 but everyone thinks it's 18 because in california

00:18:55.480 it's 18 in movies so what happens is in most movies they have to say that 18 thing is this

00:19:00.420 true yeah it's it's 100 true and then there's a lot of other laws like i remember when i was in

00:19:05.920 high school um i was always like a year older than well not always but it came up to the point

00:19:12.160 where like sometimes i would be 17 or she would be 16 and i would have to like all right so what

00:19:16.580 what are the so there's laws like um they call it the it has a funny name like peter pan law

00:19:22.440 or something like that like if you're only like two years apart um then you're you're good to go

00:19:27.760 or like if they can age you get sent is 16 and you're 17 and she's 15 you're you're good to go

00:19:32.100 because of the two-year difference that is weird i think the older that i googled that or is weird

00:19:37.460 that that's a law it's weird no it's not weird that's a lot either it's not weird that you

00:19:40.440 googled it i'm thankful that you googled it yeah and i don't know why i said weird it was the wrong

00:19:43.600 choice of words okay but that is i did feel weird googling it i felt like it was illegal just

00:19:47.740 googling it i feel relieved do you want to share the story no okay but it's just good to know

00:19:55.420 there's no specific story that sticks out in my head but then why are you so relieved

00:19:58.460 because i just feel i know it happened at some point so now you can fuck high school no no

00:20:02.760 i'm saying not that i can that i have okay but you don't want to say this is coming off so weird

00:20:10.680 that I'm like, oh, I bang all these girls.

00:20:11.860 It's a weird subject, Andrew.

00:20:12.800 I don't make that many girls.

00:20:14.000 Like, I don't know whatever you said,

00:20:15.860 but I feel like I'm trying to like,

00:20:18.220 you know what I mean?

00:20:18.660 It's making it seem like, oh, I'm...

00:20:19.680 You're coming off defensive now.

00:20:21.080 I don't know, yeah.

00:20:21.740 You seem like you're on the...

00:20:22.700 I kind of am.

00:20:23.580 That's what this question does.

00:20:24.840 That's what this question does.

00:20:25.880 It is fucked up.

00:20:26.460 You just want to seem like the guy

00:20:27.500 who's always like, yo, I bang mad girls.

00:20:28.940 I have sex.

00:20:29.500 Do you have sex?

00:20:30.260 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:20:31.420 Because then you're going to have less sex.

00:20:33.560 That too, in the long run.

00:20:35.300 Right.

00:20:35.960 But just like the way people view you,

00:20:37.600 You don't want to be that guy.

00:20:38.520 You don't want to be that guy.

00:20:40.000 You want people to think you're that guy,

00:20:42.120 but you don't want to come off as that guy.

00:20:43.780 Yeah, you don't like hanging around with someone

00:20:45.200 who only talks about sex, you know what I mean?

00:20:46.820 Yeah, those guys are the worst.

00:20:47.600 Those guys are the worst.

00:20:48.180 That girl's so hot.

00:20:49.140 Did you see how hot she was?

00:20:50.060 She's hot.

00:20:50.860 This girl I banged last weekend.

00:20:52.220 Yeah, like, we don't give a fuck.

00:20:53.780 We don't give a fuck.

00:20:55.560 All right, moving on from these pedo questions,

00:20:57.240 Miguel Acero asks, is that how you say it?

00:21:00.260 You speak a little Spanish now.

00:21:01.660 I still.

00:21:02.460 Sure.

00:21:03.500 You said it with the Portuguese accent.

00:21:04.880 Yeah, probably.

00:21:05.560 Yeah, you did.

00:21:05.700 Is it okay to not have a lot of common interest with your SO?

00:21:09.660 SO is a significant other.

00:21:11.540 What do you think matters the most for two people to stay together?

00:21:14.940 Wow, that's a good one.

00:21:17.360 I would say transparency.

00:21:20.100 Regardless if it's good or bad or if it's what they want to hear, just be transparent.

00:21:25.720 You have to trust them.

00:21:28.020 Yeah.

00:21:28.980 If there's no trust, it's never going to work.

00:21:30.620 That's where I think trust builds from.

00:21:32.960 It stems from you being transparent.

00:21:34.080 You're not hiding anything.

00:21:35.080 if you're feeling like, yeah, I don't want to hang out with you today

00:21:37.040 but it's not because I don't like you, it's because today

00:21:38.840 I don't feel like hanging out. Yeah. You know what I mean?

00:21:40.680 Don't be passive-aggressive. Yeah.

00:21:42.560 Instead of trying to feed into being

00:21:44.900 a boyfriend and be like, oh, you want to hang out?

00:21:47.000 Alright, we have to hang out because you're my girlfriend.

00:21:48.640 Then you just get sick of the person. Right.

00:21:51.080 Yeah, I didn't know how to do it. Sometimes with my

00:21:52.920 ex, my most recent ex, like

00:21:54.200 we'd be on Snapchat or FaceTime for like

00:21:56.760 four hours and three of those

00:21:58.820 hours I was like, I hate doing this.

00:22:01.180 I don't want to be on the phone with you.

00:22:02.680 And then she would just get mad. What if I wanted to hang

00:22:04.840 up so i didn't know i i liked her but i didn't know how to you know get space yeah you have to

00:22:11.820 say exactly what you feel yeah i think at least it might work out horribly for you and your

00:22:15.960 significant other might dump you but that's what i think i think that you're with these people

00:22:20.780 whoever you're dating because you guys enjoy each other's company when you're together

00:22:25.080 because you like the way they make you feel when you're with them and if at some point that stops

00:22:30.780 you're not bound to these people by a link you know i mean by chains if at some point they stop

00:22:35.720 making you feel good or you guys stop enjoying each other's company or you stop enjoying their

00:22:38.720 company then there's no point of being together you know i mean and you can tell them that

00:22:43.100 yeah so it's not really that important uh the first part of this question was is it okay to

00:22:47.940 not have a lot of common interests with your significant other i don't think it is like

00:22:51.860 i think might be better it depends i don't think it i don't think it's as important as

00:22:56.380 transparency and trust though no of course not hobbies um it helps you become friends in the

00:23:01.480 first place but overall nah i don't think you have to have to be the same person my thought

00:23:07.080 presence was straight to if she has her things to do if she likes basketball and dance and you like

00:23:13.220 soccer and singing you guys have different things to do in different days you don't get as fed up

00:23:17.280 with each other if you're doing the same hobbies and then you're with them when you get home and

00:23:20.560 you see them in school or whatever the case may be then you have something to talk about yeah

00:23:25.740 Yeah, actually, my relations have worked out better when we were different people.

00:23:30.440 We had almost nothing in common.

00:23:32.760 Oppsets attract, they say.

00:23:36.020 Tyrone asks, do you think not being able to be in or keep a serious relationship alive is necessarily bad?

00:23:42.800 Or do you see happiness in being alone?

00:23:44.540 Because I feel like I don't really want to be in one.

00:23:46.860 But then again, I do feel lonely sometimes when I lay in bed after a long day of work.

00:23:50.320 Well, that's crazy. I feel the same way sometimes.

00:23:51.940 I relate to that so much.

00:23:52.700 I relate to that so hard. Good shit, Tyrone.

00:23:54.360 The whole, like, dinette, yeah.

00:23:58.680 Definitely relate to that.

00:24:00.260 I don't think it's necessarily bad.

00:24:02.540 I think you have to be more introspective

00:24:05.620 and see if there's an unhealthy reason

00:24:07.540 as to why you're not in a serious relationship ever,

00:24:10.640 or if it's genuinely just you haven't found the right person,

00:24:13.740 which I doubt it.

00:24:15.280 Like, I've never had a proper girlfriend.

00:24:17.140 Really?

00:24:17.600 No.

00:24:18.020 How long was your longest relationship?

00:24:20.160 Bro, probably, like, six months.

00:24:23.020 Oh, okay.

00:24:23.380 Mine was like three

00:24:24.620 Like no labels or anything

00:24:25.920 You know what I mean

00:24:26.380 Okay

00:24:27.420 Just like

00:24:28.340 Right

00:24:29.520 We do everything that couples do

00:24:31.060 But I've never like

00:24:31.900 Were you guys exclusive

00:24:32.800 In those six months?

00:24:33.800 Yeah

00:24:34.100 That was a very

00:24:35.800 Unconvincing yeah

00:24:36.660 I mean yeah

00:24:37.720 That was still unconvincing

00:24:40.200 We don't need to talk about this on air

00:24:43.640 Yeah

00:24:43.880 Yeah but me as well

00:24:45.860 I haven't had like

00:24:46.480 A very serious

00:24:47.300 Proper relationship

00:24:48.060 Like

00:24:48.420 Where like

00:24:49.340 This is my girlfriend

00:24:50.120 You know

00:24:50.680 Post on Instagram

00:24:52.500 little ring emoji it's weird that that's what confirms a relationship now like a snapchat story

00:24:57.540 it's been like that since the facebook it used to be facebook posts but now like it's just a

00:25:01.980 snapchat story or like a thriller video of youtube dancing together trying to act cute for the camera

00:25:08.020 yeah it seems so fake to me it's like you're not doing this because it's fun you're doing this

00:25:12.080 because you want to show people that you're having fun but that's the nature of social media which is

00:25:16.660 not what we're talking about um and i do understand what you say when like uh you don't want to be in

00:25:23.780 a relationship but then you feel lonely when you lay in bed um yeah it's sometimes i think that's

00:25:32.040 a selfish feeling because you you want just the good parts of relationship like you only want a

00:25:37.040 a girlfriend when you're lonely but you don't really feel alone all the time

00:25:41.120 you're probably young you're probably our age i i can tell that's i think this is something that

00:25:46.960 everybody goes through for the most part the pros and cons of relationships yeah i feel like

00:25:53.660 for people it's weird some people are just in and out of relationships like

00:25:57.800 one after the other yeah and i don't understand if it's something the way they grew up or

00:26:02.580 maybe they're you know i mean they just grew up around more females and

00:26:06.120 if there's something underlying that makes someone like that my sister's like that she's

00:26:10.880 She's never really had a single phase.

00:26:13.440 Ever since early high school,

00:26:15.180 it's always like long-term boyfriend for a year.

00:26:17.660 Then it ends, she said, another year.

00:26:20.640 It's always a serious relationship every single time.

00:26:23.280 I don't understand that at all.

00:26:24.460 I don't understand how you can do that.

00:26:25.160 I don't get it.

00:26:26.960 I can't imagine myself doing that.

00:26:28.680 I get bored of women so easily.

00:26:33.040 I don't know how you'd find someone that you connect with

00:26:35.320 on a level where you'd want to spend a year of your life

00:26:37.500 living together, spending every day.

00:26:39.400 i don't see how you can connect with some with that many people that often

00:26:42.800 i don't believe it but you don't believe her i mean i believe it but i feel like

00:26:48.780 they're not as for lack of better word woke about or you know i mean as people savvy i think that

00:26:55.900 we're pretty people savvy like we read people well we understand social cues very well very well

00:27:00.400 and we know like even these questions we think about underlying thoughts to what it takes to

00:27:05.400 sustain a relationship the type of person we want to be around and it's kind of unreachable if you

00:27:11.920 think about it someone that you're always going to enjoy their company yeah that's a lot to ask

00:27:16.580 from someone from one person so i think that they kind of oversee those facts that that's what you

00:27:22.760 want in someone however selfish you may be and they kind of settle for they're settling yeah

00:27:29.380 even in their 20s i mean i don't know some people just sort of like just need someone around they

00:27:35.000 just can't be alone i'm not like that i can i can be alone for a long time and be okay

00:27:39.760 you have any trust issues i feel like that might be related to yes i have opening up issues like

00:27:45.560 i don't i don't like opening up to a lot of women yeah i feel that way too like just now before you

00:27:50.520 came here there was this girl that i thought was i you want to first met i'm like oh yeah she could

00:27:55.820 be my girlfriend and then she came over and she drove me to uh we had breakfast together and like

00:28:01.180 i'm just sitting watching her eat i'm like i hate you like your face your hands like just

00:28:09.240 stop talking and then she came in here and then i'm like all right i got stuff to do she's like

00:28:14.240 i'm like i'm gonna do a podcast like can i watch i'm like no i don't want you here and

00:28:19.360 then she comes in my house of course i just expected her to leave but she came in and i'm

00:28:24.180 like getting ready for the podcast and she's fucking in my kitchen just looking through the

00:28:28.820 cabinets because like she said she had a crush on me now and I have not been more annoyed with

00:28:33.480 the person. Wow, she was lying on you. Girls, it doesn't work on guys. It only works vice versa.

00:28:38.960 No, but she wasn't, yeah, right. But it wasn't in line. It was like she was being honest. Like

00:28:43.600 she said that she had to go off social media because she kept looking at my page and then

00:28:47.220 she was fucking, wow, she was just looking through my cabinets, like just trying to stall. You know

00:28:51.480 when girls get really, they really start liking you. They take your hoodie and stuff like that.

00:28:55.300 that's what that was like except it was in my kitchen and she was sniffing tea and it was ramen

00:28:59.180 like why are you fucking looking at my cabinets like there's nothing interesting that's bold from

00:29:03.860 her though to just lay down the line like that like i've been looking at your pictures and i just

00:29:07.680 can't stop yeah that's some shit like everybody does at some point like if you've broken up and

00:29:13.900 you're like fuck what is this person doing now yeah you look at yeah everyone does that

00:29:17.240 you want to talk about that that recent l yeah do i yeah i know i know i know i know so the same

00:29:24.380 girl we were talking about the six months one or whatever so the six months relationship yeah

00:29:29.060 she goes to school at fsu now in florida right and obviously i'm not gonna be with her she's

00:29:37.120 gonna be some party school in florida in florida and she had lost basically what happened was that

00:29:42.160 she was really in love with me and i was my fuck boy self and i was talking to her and saying i

00:29:47.140 love you this and that but i was still in school so i'd go out and party all right the card fucked

00:29:51.860 up but we're we didn't lose much so fsu party uh ex-girlfriend yeah and i don't remember how much

00:29:59.320 i already said but i guess i'll just start again so she was out partying it was her turn start

00:30:04.180 partying she basically stopped caring about me to sum it up and that's when i wanted to get her back

00:30:11.140 so i'm running after uh facetime this i miss you what are you doing and she was kind of being dry

00:30:18.380 about it and i caught those signals and i'm pretty good at getting hints so i don't like you know i

00:30:22.800 mean because no one wants to look stupid no one's sticking out yeah and get insecure about that kind

00:30:27.880 of stuff so i'm really read into the hints that i'm getting so i'm like all right i'm just gonna

00:30:32.740 play the long game and i'm not gonna hit her up anymore and it worked for a bit she was sending

00:30:36.240 me snaps but nothing like direct just general snaps of her drinking or whatever i'm like at

00:30:41.540 least she's communicating i'm like all right i'm gonna keep playing the long game and then one day

00:30:46.580 i went on her story because i had her stories muted so i wouldn't see if she was like you know

00:30:50.380 what i mean and break my own heart but i'm like fuck it one day i'm gonna go look okay it was

00:30:55.760 just her with like some dude and i'm like fuck yeah they look cozy like whatever i'm not gonna

00:31:01.000 think anything of it go back the next day instagram post them kissing i'm like no yeah

00:31:06.780 i was playing a long game it completely backfired found a new boyfriend moved on

00:31:11.200 this not so i'm like all right whatever like i'll just take the l and i just didn't hit her up

00:31:17.100 didn't unblock didn't do anything unhealthy how long ago was this i mean didn't block didn't do

00:31:20.380 anything this was like a few weeks ago maybe not even two weeks ago didn't do anything unhealthy

00:31:25.300 didn't block her didn't text her hope you're happy like no no no unnecessary so i just kind

00:31:31.300 of left it in the air but then i got really smashed this past friday like hammered and i got

00:31:38.300 home stumbled back down the stairs when i walked in the house made up to my bed and i was sitting

00:31:43.860 there like 3 a.m and i had this bad habit of whenever i get drunk i facetime everyone

00:31:49.120 and i'm like this is a girl i used to facetime all the time you know i mean like whenever i got

00:31:54.360 home drunk i just facetime her we talk about bullshit i'd be drunk until i love her go to bed

00:31:58.920 wake up the next day feel dandy so i call her called denied i'm like fuck yo fuck and i'm even

00:32:07.380 like this starts getting my blood to boil so i go on my phone get out i'm like fuck i'm not gonna

00:32:13.280 call her go on instagram block her go on snapchat block i'm like yo it's done and i wake up the

00:32:18.520 next morning i'm like fuck yeah i probably look like a psycho like i probably look like i saw the

00:32:23.880 picture of her kissing and i like freaked the fuck out and i was crying in my room called her

00:32:28.600 called her and then blocked her i was gonna be baby take me back and like blocked it but is that

00:32:32.820 what you're gonna say were you really no i wasn't i don't even remember what i was gonna say i

00:32:35.380 You probably were going to end up there.

00:32:37.340 I wasn't going to cry to any girl about getting back with her.

00:32:40.080 But I was going to be like, yo, what's good?

00:32:42.040 You know what I mean?

00:32:42.640 Yeah.

00:32:43.180 Like, long time, no talk.

00:32:45.240 See if...

00:32:45.900 My final verdict was probably trying to be like, come back to me.

00:32:50.080 Yeah.

00:32:50.400 In my drunken state, that would never happen.

00:32:52.520 And that's the wrong way to go about it anyways.

00:32:54.460 But it wasn't like I was going to cry.

00:32:56.260 So big L.

00:32:57.280 Big L.

00:32:58.020 Big L.

00:32:58.680 Big L.

00:32:59.560 But you take it on the chin.

00:33:01.280 In stride.

00:33:02.100 Rejection's part of it.

00:33:03.120 Rejection's part of it.

00:33:03.900 So if you guys are afraid to like approach a girl, this is, this is the worst of the worst.

00:33:12.460 If you're like, uh, maybe she'll say no to me right now and I'll get embarrassed in front of my friend.

00:33:16.340 No, the worst that could happen is she says yes.

00:33:18.300 It's taking a six month long L.

00:33:19.700 You guys, yeah, you guys talk for six months, you like her, and then she cuts you off.

00:33:25.380 So just approach girls.

00:33:26.600 Just approach girls.

00:33:27.280 The stakes are low.

00:33:28.120 Just remember the stakes are always low.

00:33:30.300 Your friends might make fun of you for a bit.

00:33:31.900 just walk back with a smile on your face

00:33:33.360 order a beer and you're good

00:33:35.620 or hit your jewel

00:33:37.020 I don't know what you do

00:33:37.740 how the fuck do you talk to uninteresting women

00:33:41.680 that is a funny question

00:33:45.180 let me finish the question though

00:33:49.780 he said how the fuck do you talk to uninteresting women

00:33:51.340 because all good looking girls I know are so fucking boring

00:33:53.740 all they do is live on Snapchat, Instagram, etc

00:33:56.160 and talk about gossip

00:33:57.220 probably I'm not mature enough to go for character over look

00:34:00.400 but you know what I mean

00:34:01.660 oh man you're you're definitely like junior year senior year high school

00:34:05.540 depends what you're looking for out of them are you just trying to bang or yeah you you have to

00:34:11.460 i don't know what your motives are why do it you're a dude so you want to bang and you might

00:34:15.680 want to find a girlfriend as well um you you'll find the right girl you'll find girls that are

00:34:23.400 interesting to you um it doesn't i could kind of tell that you don't have a lot of female friends

00:34:29.400 like you you kind of look at girls as objects and through so the social media filter that makes them

00:34:34.880 look uninteresting because they only care about their appearance on social media but make friends

00:34:40.860 with women like one mistake i made at your age is um i would only i was only looking for sex and

00:34:46.560 relationships and i didn't try to make friends with women and the best relationships start from

00:34:51.760 friendship like if you are looking for a relationship with a girl you should like her

00:34:55.900 first if you don't like her which happened to me before if believe it or not this happens

00:35:00.020 if you don't like her then you're not gonna have a good relationship

00:35:02.180 yeah i think that's spot on really i thought you were disagreeing with me with that

00:35:08.960 spot on he's got to be like late high school right yeah i yeah i think that's ties back into

00:35:17.880 people being able to date one after the other that's like finding girls and interesting is

00:35:23.200 something that i guess not everybody goes through and yeah people who get a lot of relationships

00:35:27.860 find people really interesting they really get involved and they like what they're doing

00:35:31.940 um they're really intriguing and guys like him and guys like us it's like a lot of these people

00:35:38.140 it's like whatever you know i don't okay you have a what do you do you have a little sibling

00:35:45.440 you do your makeup you're on the cheer team yeah if you're gonna try to make me laugh you'll say

00:35:50.900 you're my spirit animal

00:35:52.840 that's literally these meme jokes

00:35:55.340 that aren't funny unless you're looking at the picture

00:35:57.840 yeah just reciting vines

00:35:59.940 being able to recite vines

00:36:02.080 is not a personality trait

00:36:03.280 but dude

00:36:05.960 just try to make friends with women

00:36:07.600 and

00:36:08.020 don't always go in with the objective of that

00:36:11.760 it's going to lead somewhere

00:36:12.640 just have fun

00:36:13.860 and something usually comes from that

00:36:16.260 I've noticed that the less you try

00:36:18.440 the more it happens

00:36:19.840 It's a reverse psychology thing

00:36:22.220 I don't know even what I can say

00:36:23.720 If you are just trying to fuck these uninteresting girls

00:36:25.540 And you're trying to figure out how to talk to them

00:36:27.020 You literally just invent a more outgoing version of yourself

00:36:30.980 You go, hey, what's up, this and that

00:36:33.660 Let's play a game, let's do this

00:36:35.200 What's your name?

00:36:36.880 I have a crush on you

00:36:37.760 Yeah

00:36:38.380 Let's take a picture

00:36:39.220 Literally just all the shit you really don't care about doing

00:36:42.380 If you're like us and you don't give a fuck about taking a picture at a party

00:36:45.880 Or posting it, you know what I mean?

00:36:47.800 Like getting a flick for the Instagram

00:36:49.200 When you're at a party

00:36:49.860 Then

00:36:51.080 That's you

00:36:51.660 That's not me

00:36:52.160 I mean

00:36:53.080 Do you care about that?

00:36:54.320 I don't care about that

00:36:54.920 That's what I'm saying

00:36:55.340 Oh okay

00:36:55.680 I thought you'd do that

00:36:56.340 I'm saying if you don't care about that

00:36:57.880 And you do

00:36:58.440 Yeah

00:36:58.800 If you

00:36:59.380 This girl's just fucking boring

00:37:00.980 But you want to make her like you

00:37:02.580 That's the type of person

00:37:03.420 You portray yourself as

00:37:04.240 Someone who's like

00:37:04.900 Zany and quirky and funny

00:37:06.880 And outgoing

00:37:07.480 And flirty

00:37:08.960 Uh huh

00:37:09.920 Just do all the shit that

00:37:12.340 You know is fucking pointless

00:37:13.600 Yeah just

00:37:15.060 Just conform

00:37:16.840 It's not hard to fuck uninteresting women.

00:37:19.780 As long as you're mild, if you have a slight personality,

00:37:22.580 if you can entertain them for a bit,

00:37:24.500 you can laugh their way into their panties.

00:37:27.360 Yeah, if you can be kind of witty.

00:37:28.640 But I feel like that's a trait not everybody has.

00:37:30.920 You can learn it.

00:37:31.940 I think it's something that's learned.

00:37:34.520 I don't think you can learn how to be interesting, though.

00:37:38.540 Or maybe you can.

00:37:39.600 I think you can, too.

00:37:40.420 Yeah, just pick up some hobbies,

00:37:42.500 read a couple books, and you're good.

00:37:43.720 and one thing too

00:37:45.480 that most

00:37:46.660 boring

00:37:47.500 uninteresting

00:37:48.180 whatever

00:37:49.180 women like to do

00:37:50.760 or just women in general

00:37:51.700 or people in general

00:37:52.460 they like talking about themselves

00:37:53.760 everyone

00:37:54.480 not everybody likes

00:37:55.460 everybody likes talking about themselves

00:37:56.760 so ask them a lot about themselves

00:37:58.220 yeah

00:37:58.560 ask questions

00:37:59.420 make sure they're feeling satisfied

00:38:00.880 that you care about them

00:38:02.100 feed their egos

00:38:02.900 yeah exactly

00:38:03.400 feed the egos

00:38:04.280 that's better

00:38:04.940 they want to feel important

00:38:05.820 Erlin

00:38:07.220 dude say that fucking name

00:38:08.880 Erlin

00:38:10.120 Esgueda

00:38:11.060 yeah

00:38:11.840 what do you think

00:38:13.200 influences others

00:38:13.980 to search for love

00:38:14.700 should we even be

00:38:15.160 saying their full names

00:38:15.860 I mean they put it there

00:38:17.440 yeah whatever

00:38:18.620 I guess yeah

00:38:18.960 they'd give us a disclaimer

00:38:19.800 if they didn't want it

00:38:20.700 um

00:38:21.580 it's the internet

00:38:22.500 everybody's name

00:38:23.440 is available now

00:38:24.440 what do you think

00:38:25.580 influences others

00:38:26.320 to search for love

00:38:27.160 or search for

00:38:27.820 companionship relationship

00:38:29.160 do you believe that

00:38:30.340 being in a relationship

00:38:31.200 will make you happy

00:38:32.000 and why

00:38:32.420 uh

00:38:33.380 and the rest is about

00:38:33.940 seasonal depression

00:38:34.560 um

00:38:36.440 what do you think

00:38:36.980 does it search for love

00:38:38.140 or search for

00:38:38.580 do you believe that

00:38:41.620 being in a relationship

00:38:42.100 will make you happy

00:38:42.840 I think societal pressures

00:38:44.140 You grow up thinking that

00:38:45.760 You have to get married

00:38:46.500 And have a family

00:38:47.260 And your biological clock

00:38:49.260 Starts ticking

00:38:49.820 Especially for girls

00:38:50.780 They're like fuck

00:38:51.820 We need to get this done

00:38:52.740 Yeah

00:38:52.980 You can only get pregnant

00:38:54.360 Before

00:38:54.760 We don't get pregnant

00:38:55.800 For so long

00:38:56.440 We need to get this done

00:38:57.800 I need to find a husband

00:38:58.540 I need to get my life sorted

00:38:59.540 And guys feel the same way

00:39:00.560 Sometimes like

00:39:01.180 Sometimes you just want to

00:39:02.540 Stop going out and drinking

00:39:03.460 You just want to find a girlfriend

00:39:04.400 And hang out

00:39:05.080 But it's phases

00:39:06.640 For me at least

00:39:07.760 It's phases

00:39:08.260 Well everybody wants

00:39:12.220 companionship it's just everybody has uh fucking heart we're all gonna even if i don't want to get

00:39:19.160 married i have i don't even feel pressure to have kids and it's gonna happen but everybody wants a

00:39:24.720 relationship because you want that sort of comfort it's it's really simple like human stuff or and

00:39:29.900 it's animalistic behavior you think it's animalistic or you think it's like implemented

00:39:33.860 because we learned about marriage and stuff like that dude it's every species every species they

00:39:38.620 it's just ingrained in biology you have you find someone you have kids you fuck and you stay

00:39:45.700 together that's just mammals no and mammals i feel like the biological like if you're going

00:39:50.620 through instinct is that the guys fuck and then find someone else to fuck because they want to

00:39:55.720 spread their genes as much as possible and the female just finds the strongest most suited male

00:40:00.520 to those are like gorillas yeah there's different with different monkeys i could talk in a million

00:40:04.780 so long about how monkeys

00:40:06.340 interact with each other.

00:40:08.500 Why do you know so much about that?

00:40:09.840 Dude, because monkeys...

00:40:10.820 I feel like I'm a chimp

00:40:11.640 a lot of the time.

00:40:13.320 You ever feel like that?

00:40:13.760 I think you're proof

00:40:14.280 that we evolved from monkeys.

00:40:17.860 Do we need proof?

00:40:19.460 No.

00:40:20.120 Just put you in an exhibit?

00:40:23.640 It's just biology.

00:40:26.140 It's procreation.

00:40:27.280 It's that simple.

00:40:28.020 It's too deep of a question.

00:40:29.980 Or too simple of a question.

00:40:31.980 Or do you believe

00:40:32.440 that being in a relationship

00:40:33.100 will make you happy?

00:40:34.780 Um, it'll make you happier. I think a mistake a lot of people make is, uh, I made this mistake

00:40:41.040 before is you feel when you're not happy, you look for a relation, you look for happiness in

00:40:45.820 another person. Um, if you're unhappy and things aren't going in your right, um, things aren't

00:40:50.380 going right in your life. You look for someone to make you feel a certain type of way. I was like

00:40:54.760 that. Like when I was 18, I was, there's, there's one girl that I wanted to get in a relationship

00:40:59.340 was so bad. She was like interested in me, but I was forcing it. And I was thinking in my head

00:41:04.000 that I'm not going to be happy

00:41:06.040 until I'm with her.

00:41:07.960 And then I was with her

00:41:08.820 and I'm like,

00:41:09.220 wow, you're kind of boring.

00:41:11.720 You have to find happiness

00:41:12.720 within yourself.

00:41:13.840 It's got to be,

00:41:14.900 you can't look for it

00:41:16.060 in another person.

00:41:18.500 Yeah.

00:41:19.040 That's where a lot of

00:41:19.740 toxic relationships start.

00:41:21.020 That's when people while out

00:41:22.940 and, you know,

00:41:24.580 slash tires and burn clothes.

00:41:28.080 Is that a personal story?

00:41:30.160 Let's not get into that.

00:41:31.260 Let's not get into all this right now.

00:41:33.060 Yeah.

00:41:34.000 there's a lot of questions wow that's my favorite question you read it what is the future of

00:41:39.580 monogamy in the modern world taking social media contraception polyamory rising divorce rates and

00:41:45.040 a seeming increase in disconnect between men and women all into consideration

00:41:48.120 i think that it's a lot of people know monogamy is bullshit now yeah we a lot more people know

00:41:55.420 monogamy is bullshit it's it's unnatural it doesn't there's no reason for it and

00:42:01.460 everybody thinks about cheating it's more about monogamy isn't because you love the person you

00:42:07.220 can still love a person and fuck around but it's it's a jealousy thing and jealousy is very human

00:42:11.800 emotion because you can be with one person and still sleep with other people sex can be

00:42:18.440 disconnected from a long-term relationship but it's jealousy that gets in the way

00:42:22.540 and we force it all the time with marriage and it doesn't work most of the time like half of

00:42:29.180 marriages ended divorce because of the same thing like the man is sleeping with the secretary and

00:42:35.380 calling his wife saying he's going to work late and the fucking wife is fucking the yoga teacher

00:42:39.720 that always happens like half of marriages um and we know that now because so many people have

00:42:47.460 divorced parents and come from broken homes i know so many kids like who have four parents

00:42:53.700 they're just hogging them

00:42:56.900 like the mad kid

00:42:58.200 trying to get adopted

00:42:58.860 yeah and then

00:42:59.720 there's one kid

00:43:00.720 one stupid Jimmy

00:43:01.920 with four parents

00:43:02.900 and

00:43:03.240 nah yeah

00:43:05.060 my wise uncle

00:43:05.820 the one who said about

00:43:06.540 the being lazy

00:43:07.480 he also said that

00:43:09.000 the amount you love

00:43:10.000 your women

00:43:10.380 that was your uncle

00:43:10.840 that told you that?

00:43:11.460 yeah

00:43:11.600 your uncle was teaching

00:43:12.800 about eating ass?

00:43:13.700 at what age?

00:43:14.660 bro about everything

00:43:15.380 when I was 12

00:43:16.560 your uncle said that

00:43:17.220 if you don't eat ass

00:43:18.140 you're lazy

00:43:18.660 when I was 12

00:43:21.800 my cousins tried

00:43:22.480 ordering me a prostitute

00:43:23.420 when i went to visit them in brazil i only backed down last second like they called her and

00:43:28.040 everything when you were 12 but you didn't want to lose your virginity to a prostitute bro i was

00:43:32.440 just scared like i'd never had sex before i barely i didn't even know how to jerk off yet

00:43:35.540 but they were like oh we're gonna get your prostitute i'm like yeah do it do it like i'm

00:43:38.940 like i'm down i'm down she pulled up yeah i was under the bed what did she look like i don't i

00:43:43.540 didn't go outside to look wait you were too scared you hid from her you hid from her you

00:43:47.700 You hid from a prostitute

00:43:50.680 Under your bed

00:43:51.280 See when I was 12

00:43:52.380 I was hiding it

00:43:53.080 In my bed from monsters

00:43:53.920 You were hiding

00:43:55.320 From Brazilian prostitutes

00:43:56.800 Very different world

00:43:58.720 Take me

00:43:58.960 Monsters

00:43:59.520 Were they monsters though?

00:44:02.140 They're lovely ladies

00:44:03.180 Did you ever see

00:44:03.920 What she looked like?

00:44:04.380 No I never saw

00:44:04.820 What she looked like bro

00:44:05.180 My favorite comedian

00:44:05.900 Talks so much about

00:44:07.300 Brazilian prostitutes

00:44:08.980 He would just

00:44:09.420 Patrice O'Neill

00:44:10.220 Would fly to Brazil

00:44:11.000 Once a year

00:44:11.980 Just to sleep with prostitutes

00:44:13.660 For like a week

00:44:14.180 Get in a hotel

00:44:14.880 Yeah

00:44:15.320 Pay them

00:44:15.940 It's very common

00:44:16.640 Get a girlfriend experience

00:44:18.100 There's also like brothels

00:44:19.140 Massage houses

00:44:20.080 So

00:44:21.760 People go there

00:44:23.060 And they don't even go there

00:44:24.160 To fuck sometimes

00:44:24.800 Like I know

00:44:25.380 Some friends of mine

00:44:26.440 They go there

00:44:27.480 Just to have a drink at the bar

00:44:28.460 And watch these naked women

00:44:29.560 Walk around

00:44:30.060 So like strip clubs but

00:44:32.460 But everyone's

00:44:33.520 Fucking

00:44:34.140 So what is the future

00:44:39.240 Of monogamy

00:44:39.760 I think

00:44:41.900 Monogamy's dying

00:44:43.280 Love is cursed by monogamy

00:44:45.280 Shout out

00:44:45.960 Church of the Wild

00:44:46.580 that's an old ass song

00:44:49.500 taking social media contraception

00:44:52.220 rising divorce rates

00:44:53.580 I don't know

00:44:56.300 because I don't think people can get over their jealousy

00:44:58.760 I think

00:45:01.440 I don't think it's going to change

00:45:03.060 for the next 20-30 years

00:45:05.900 we're more aware that

00:45:07.120 polyamory

00:45:09.360 polygamy

00:45:11.580 yeah polygamy

00:45:12.320 it's kind of trendy now

00:45:15.140 But no, people are not going to get over the jealousy.

00:45:17.680 And it's still taboo in so many worlds.

00:45:19.520 Yeah, that's what I was going to say.

00:45:20.820 Yeah, this is a very Western idea.

00:45:23.100 I was watching a documentary on Netflix or one of those factual shows.

00:45:25.960 I forgot what it's called.

00:45:26.660 I think it's called Explain.

00:45:27.840 So you should look into that.

00:45:28.680 It is.

00:45:29.480 Where they talk about monogamy and how the creation of marriage, the foundation of it,

00:45:34.580 was between two wealthy families to exchange land and just double their wealth, basically.

00:45:40.040 And it was more like a contract than something that we think of it as now.

00:45:43.760 with love and you know i mean this eternal vow to one another and i think it's important to know

00:45:51.020 that that's where it stemmed from and it wasn't what it was originally intended to be and we

00:45:55.580 created this whole we're gonna have this huge wedding and we're gonna love each other forever

00:45:59.780 and that's it once we wed then that means everything's gonna be peaches and they're

00:46:04.160 stuck with me because no one believes that anymore my thing is like if you love someone

00:46:08.100 and you want to be with someone forever why do you want to get the law involved like why do you

00:46:12.840 want to have the government decide what the fuck like that's such a weird idea to me that everybody

00:46:18.400 chooses like we always say fuck the government fuck the law and then you're signing a contract

00:46:23.220 that binds you together with the government and you're basically saying the court is going to be

00:46:28.560 involved and there's going to be documented all this shit is going to be involved if we decide

00:46:33.300 to leave why can't you just make a bond between between each other again at the end of the day

00:46:37.740 it's a contract

00:46:38.460 it is a contract

00:46:39.580 it's a financial contract

00:46:40.880 it's like

00:46:41.320 it's like a merger

00:46:42.420 it's like an office merger

00:46:43.620 it is

00:46:44.260 and it's fucked up

00:46:46.580 because most dudes

00:46:47.260 are making more of the money

00:46:48.160 so we end up getting screwed

00:46:49.580 don't get married

00:46:52.040 don't get married

00:46:52.620 don't do it

00:46:53.840 probably will

00:46:54.340 we probably will

00:46:55.120 I'm not gonna get married

00:46:56.040 we probably will

00:46:56.600 everyone says that

00:46:57.440 like don't get married

00:46:57.960 but like I know you probably

00:46:59.080 I'm not getting married

00:46:59.900 I've been saying this

00:47:01.220 since I was 12

00:47:01.740 I may not be emotionally

00:47:02.460 available enough now

00:47:03.400 or like in the near future

00:47:04.600 but at some point

00:47:05.220 what are you gonna do it for

00:47:05.620 the comfort

00:47:06.100 the companionship

00:47:07.000 I don't know

00:47:07.480 The security?

00:47:08.240 The kid?

00:47:08.960 The contract?

00:47:09.560 I want a kid.

00:47:10.200 You can have a kid and not be married.

00:47:11.780 It's not the same, is it?

00:47:13.160 It totally is the same.

00:47:14.360 How would you even pull that off, really?

00:47:16.820 Just have a couple baby mamas running around.

00:47:21.080 A surrogate?

00:47:23.040 Whatever, yeah.

00:47:24.140 Nah.

00:47:25.000 Just have a kid with someone.

00:47:28.480 Like, it's not that...

00:47:29.540 You're not thinking about the kid, you're thinking about yourself.

00:47:31.380 I'm definitely thinking about the kid.

00:47:32.420 You're thinking about your relationship.

00:47:33.000 You can have a relationship with a woman and have a kid with her.

00:47:35.620 i understand that but just having a kid in a broken home just to begin with and who says it's

00:47:42.080 a broken home what if you live together oh you're saying like that's like some evolved shit no it's

00:47:47.000 not it's not even that for for today how many people do you see doing that because they're

00:47:51.060 fucking because they're not because they get jealous and they need the contract they need

00:47:54.960 the merger you it doesn't have to be a broken home most broken homes are because of marriages

00:48:00.800 marriages are more responsible for broken homes than having a baby mama yeah i guess

00:48:07.380 i don't know the stats on that but the stats are like half of marriages under divorce that's the

00:48:13.400 stats that's a stat yeah um i'm struggling la bette says i'm struggling with relationships

00:48:20.020 and women to be honest i'm feeling down and depressed lately because i asked myself what's

00:48:23.320 the whole point of having a relationship and falling in love while you have nothing to

00:48:27.080 offer except your love and support what else would you offer yeah that's like it's not stop

00:48:33.340 thinking of it as a contract these fucking people you don't need to take her to five-star dinner for

00:48:37.520 to know that right you like her for her to like you just love her like you're and if it does then

00:48:42.800 you shouldn't be with her in the first place and then he says i don't have interesting hobbies or

00:48:46.920 job jesus christ dude yeah neither are the women i talk to they are fucking boring so everyone's

00:48:53.340 boring including you it seems like they all care about is image and instagram i see a lot of people

00:48:59.140 seem to have this problem it's hard when you're the only one who's keeping the relationship

00:49:02.380 interesting what are you talking are you just saying you're not interesting i don't have

00:49:06.420 interesting hobbies or job nothing to offer and then you say it's i'm the only one keeping the

00:49:11.160 relationship interesting you're just fucked up like my betty man put the joint down yeah dude

00:49:15.740 you're you're in your head too much i don't know i'm not answering that you you gotta figure it's

00:49:20.140 It's all phases, Levete.

00:49:21.240 I'm not going to cut you off like that.

00:49:22.740 It's all phases.

00:49:23.360 Some points, you're just not feeling confident.

00:49:24.900 You don't shag anybody.

00:49:26.880 You're dry season.

00:49:28.040 In some phases, you're very confident.

00:49:29.920 Every time you go out, someone falls in love with you.

00:49:32.600 Bless you.

00:49:33.520 Bless you.

00:49:35.160 It's all phases.

00:49:36.140 All right.

00:49:36.540 Spana Montana says, do you really believe that...

00:49:38.500 Spana Montana.

00:49:40.080 Spana Montana.

00:49:40.640 Do you really believe that you won't be able to fall in love or find that one person?

00:49:44.960 Whenever you talk about love, it's really fucking depressing.

00:49:48.040 Like, have more hope for yourself, dude.

00:49:50.140 yeah it's actually so funny

00:49:52.680 um

00:49:53.840 well my philosophy is that love is just

00:49:56.740 based on jealousy and

00:49:58.100 uh neediness

00:49:59.840 just wanting something it's not

00:50:02.180 a lot of people fall in love not because they actually

00:50:04.580 love the person but because they want that sense of

00:50:06.520 security and comfort it's more like

00:50:08.680 uh a human teddy bear

00:50:12.660 you know what I mean someone who's always there

00:50:14.480 so if you find someone that did satisfy

00:50:16.720 whatever needs that you need

00:50:18.840 not like internally

00:50:19.760 but externally

00:50:20.320 it's not needs

00:50:20.620 like see

00:50:21.000 the problem is

00:50:21.780 when people look for

00:50:22.820 or something that you enjoy

00:50:23.820 yeah

00:50:24.300 you will be able to find

00:50:25.580 someone like that

00:50:26.080 yes

00:50:26.220 like someone that I can

00:50:27.800 look up

00:50:28.620 like I can look at

00:50:29.620 and be like

00:50:30.040 I

00:50:30.780 respect you

00:50:32.820 and you think that exists

00:50:34.020 yeah

00:50:34.420 so you think you will find them

00:50:35.420 yeah yeah

00:50:36.120 but I just think

00:50:37.300 the mistake a lot of people make

00:50:38.780 is they're just looking

00:50:39.860 for like a human pet

00:50:40.940 like you know

00:50:42.680 a dog gets excited

00:50:43.800 when you knock on the door

00:50:44.540 and you come home

00:50:45.100 a lot of dudes

00:50:46.240 just want that

00:50:46.900 they just want

00:50:47.660 like the guy earlier

00:50:48.960 he said like

00:50:49.400 after work I'm laying in bed

00:50:50.740 and I feel lonely

00:50:51.500 you want a dog

00:50:53.180 you want a human dog

00:50:54.380 a lot of the problem is like

00:50:58.460 this is going to sound

00:50:59.420 really cocky but

00:51:00.260 I just

00:51:01.720 a lot of girls

00:51:03.060 my age

00:51:04.300 are

00:51:05.340 like what people have been saying

00:51:06.820 they're concerned with things

00:51:07.660 that don't matter to me at all

00:51:09.180 like that girl

00:51:11.940 I don't want to say her name

00:51:14.220 yeah I know what you're talking about

00:51:15.060 yeah

00:51:15.260 like she

00:51:15.800 I'm with her

00:51:17.020 late at night and she's just thinking about like i'm can't i'm so excited to get drunk at the party

00:51:22.120 tomorrow like she's already drunk from this party she's already dressed and like she's going out

00:51:28.880 and she's she's looking forward to being drunk the next day that's her objective for the day

00:51:34.000 tomorrow is to get drunk i think that comes from a long line of bad decisions that too but long line

00:51:41.540 of insecurity and maybe some traumatic experience and the inability to be introspective and look at

00:51:46.680 yourself and be like why do i want to get drunk every day uh-huh like yeah it's this total lack

00:51:51.480 of self-awareness yeah exactly and that creates this persona of the cool thing to do is be like

00:51:57.540 yeah i'm gonna get smashed tonight which i do too like we all fall for at some point i don't i never

00:52:02.980 think it's the i don't even look forward to it it's like hey you know why not my talking point

00:52:07.160 right it was her talking point it was her identity was getting drunk and going out yeah like that's

00:52:12.140 her thing it's just lack of self-awareness at the end of the day right and say what when it seems

00:52:16.000 like there's most girls my age are like that it's it's a little discouraging but i feel like

00:52:19.940 eventually i'll find i want to find a girl who's like driven who's interested in things that you

00:52:25.080 know matter uh that i can look at and respect and and someone i could even look up to you know

00:52:32.320 would you rather be socially savvy like the way you are and think like this like i want to find

00:52:37.220 someone who's worth it who has their priorities in check don't suck my line to yours no i'm saying

00:52:44.040 Would you rather be this kind of person

00:52:45.780 Or be someone who is like

00:52:46.660 Ignorant to these social cues

00:52:49.660 And the fact that

00:52:50.980 She's looking forward to being drunk

00:52:52.280 And just be able to like someone like that

00:52:53.500 I see what you mean

00:52:53.980 Well they do say ignorance is bliss

00:52:55.540 But I say fuck that

00:52:56.880 Yeah that was basically the question

00:52:59.220 Do you think ignorance is a bliss

00:53:00.140 Nah ignorance

00:53:00.940 I couldn't

00:53:02.180 I never

00:53:02.640 I never wish for that

00:53:03.640 There's never a thought in my head

00:53:05.500 That I wish for that

00:53:06.340 Molly asked

00:53:08.140 And shout out Molly

00:53:08.800 I remember she sent an Instagram video

00:53:10.200 For wearing the merch

00:53:10.900 She said

00:53:11.720 I'm sure you know about the whole

00:53:13.280 Big Sean and Gina Yoko shit.

00:53:15.380 Did you hear about that? No, Evan.

00:53:16.940 They used to date or something. I looked it up after

00:53:19.280 she wrote this question. They used to date

00:53:20.960 and like in a song or something

00:53:23.200 Big Sean talked about how he made Gina Yoko

00:53:25.160 cum nine times in a day.

00:53:27.840 Nine nuts in a day.

00:53:29.420 That's impressive. I mean, good for him, man.

00:53:31.480 Girls are literally thirsting after this man

00:53:33.280 because it's confirmed that he can please a woman.

00:53:35.560 Why is that guys expect their girl to be able

00:53:37.260 to make them nut, but most straight women will never be

00:53:39.320 satisfied? Would you rather her

00:53:41.080 tell you or keep it to herself,

00:53:43.000 even though she's going to tell the group chat right after so there's a lot a lot i like that

00:53:47.200 ending um yeah just straight women they complain about not being able to nut and then they don't

00:53:53.400 communicate at all like it's a lot of work to make a girl come you have she has to be in the right

00:53:57.980 see a guy can not wherever and he did not on a helicopter in the bathroom in class in a porta

00:54:04.560 potty you can nut a girl needs the right mood the right setting she needs to feel wanted she needs

00:54:10.900 to feel comfortable she needs to feel accepted she needs to feel sexy and if there's anything

00:54:15.220 off of that rhythm it's not gonna work so every it's my problem is that straight women just need

00:54:21.460 to communicate more and to be more open like oh play with my clit this way sorry parents for

00:54:26.640 talking about clit you need to be more open and you need to it's like don't just don't just do

00:54:32.660 that group chat shit because then you're not you're avoiding your own happiness you're really

00:54:37.180 hurting yourself yeah like why why and they all do this um also you're saying why is it um that

00:54:44.560 guys expect their girl to be able to make them not the most well we need to nut it's procreation

00:54:52.840 there's a purpose when we come it's to have kids when a girl comes who the fuck cares

00:54:59.580 it doesn't matter there's no psychologically speaking there's no biological purpose for a

00:55:05.500 girl to come that's why it's more common for guys to come because that's the end like when you come

00:55:10.900 it's over like their seed is planted you know when a girl comes whatever you're just

00:55:15.100 kind of peeing for no reason biologically speaking that's true right guys try to make

00:55:21.900 2019 yeah make her come she'll stay happy and she won't roast you in the yeah just say i feel

00:55:26.720 like it's hot too when girls are trying to come like i want you to come because just looking at

00:55:31.700 you and like feeling that i'm satisfying you this way and doing that like contortion yeah exactly

00:55:36.220 noah chakas is probably not the right way to say that noah chakas says i'm an 18 year old guy who's

00:55:41.820 good looking and pretty confident sick bro yet i haven't fucked in almost a year maybe you're not

00:55:48.360 something's fishy yeah i don't know something something's not adding up here one of those

00:55:52.240 two statements is false um as a self-pronounced fuck boy fuck you bro as a self-pronounced fuck

00:55:59.860 boy what's the secret to getting shallow and meaningless pussy oh i'm with you i'm with you

00:56:04.640 yeah what do you mean with me no with leila she said i'm cringing oh okay yeah dude you're you

00:56:10.320 man i mean that was like there was a you contradicted yourself five times in a three

00:56:17.000 sentence i think you're misinterpreting what it means to be a fuck boy yeah being a fuck boy isn't

00:56:21.240 like it's not self-pronounced i'm the best you know what i mean if you're a self-pronounced

00:56:24.540 fuck boy you're not a fuck boy you're just an asshole it's other people call you it the essence

00:56:28.560 of a fuckboy is when you can be genuine but still only want a shallow bang yeah also i just flipped

00:56:35.560 you off a couple times please don't leave my patreon i'm just roasting you you know what i

00:56:39.100 mean i still need the money and you need to improve your outlook on pussy because so yeah

00:56:45.120 it's off here um man yeah try being if you fake deep or something you said like just try as a

00:56:50.180 self-pronounced fuckboy what's the secret to getting shallow meaningless pussy that's like

00:56:53.660 the whole thing of being a fuckboy is getting shallow and meaningless but that is what being

00:56:57.600 a fuckboy is um the secret dude i don't even want to answer you yeah you came off really

00:57:04.580 unlikable here i'm gonna keep scrolling do better next time i i still uh have faith in you

00:57:09.020 benchmark says how to not be scared of getting rejected we did talk about that yeah you have

00:57:15.240 to accept that happens just you know take it on the chin no homo do you find that for yourself

00:57:22.160 or in general being single lets you grow more as a person compared to if you're in a relationship

00:57:26.440 does this benefit wear off

00:57:29.680 after a certain amount of time

00:57:30.620 also do you get

00:57:31.460 extra motherfucking lonely

00:57:32.500 in the winter

00:57:32.860 or is that just me

00:57:33.580 that's seasonal depression

00:57:35.120 it's a thing

00:57:36.000 it's cup of season

00:57:36.640 it's cup of season

00:57:37.340 you want a big blanket

00:57:38.320 you want a human blanket

00:57:40.220 I don't think

00:57:41.640 growing as a person

00:57:44.460 has anything to do

00:57:45.420 with being single or taken

00:57:46.420 I think it's

00:57:48.340 a sequence of experiences

00:57:49.440 that you learn from

00:57:50.620 usually bad experiences

00:57:52.540 that you grow from

00:57:53.260 and whether you're single or taken

00:57:55.400 bad shit's gonna happen to you

00:57:56.680 so I try to learn from those

00:57:58.400 yeah I don't have much to say about that

00:58:02.180 yeah I'm not really sure

00:58:03.160 she has another question

00:58:05.800 one thing has to do with another

00:58:06.600 she has another long question

00:58:08.960 that's more season of the question

00:58:11.640 alright we'll move on

00:58:13.320 Jacob Lurie says

00:58:15.440 how do I act confident without coming off as arrogant

00:58:18.480 this is my whole thing

00:58:20.940 yeah

00:58:21.380 um it's tough because the people still think i'm arrogant um

00:58:29.620 well that's just what's going to happen if you come off confident when people are mad at you

00:58:35.000 they're going to call you arrogant that's just part of it so just don't be bothered by it the

00:58:39.020 confident person thing to do was when someone calls you arrogant just brush it off and be like

00:58:43.740 oh i'm just yeah i'm just a guy just be humble with it um the difference between someone who's

00:58:48.280 confident as someone who's arrogant is someone who's arrogant doesn't have self-awareness and

00:58:52.400 doesn't have a humble nature to them yeah you can be confident and still be humble you can be

00:58:57.760 confident and still be a likable person a person who's arrogant is not likable self-deprecating

00:59:03.320 humor being able to laugh at yourself especially when you get roasted that shows confidence that

00:59:09.480 yeah nothing can really right don't get angry if somebody roasts you don't get it because like

00:59:14.120 someone's the worst thing you can do that's an arrogant person a confident person will be like

00:59:17.520 oh i guess you got a point uh but your mom's ugly yeah i feel like when people try to roast me i

00:59:24.020 just roast myself with them and then it kind of takes the yeah because then they're laughing with

00:59:27.360 you not at you um but i do see that in a lot of people when i'm like trying to get roast and they

00:59:32.240 try to to laugh with me i just double down and i just don't know with you yeah i don't know i feel

00:59:40.060 like being confident doesn't have anything to do with like brushing people off i think if you go

00:59:44.980 to people you're genuine and you make them laugh and you guys laugh together just being able to

00:59:48.900 talk to someone comfortably even if it's not something like flirty being able i guess i'm

00:59:55.540 talking about girls even if you're not flirting with them if you're able to talk and have a

00:59:58.420 genuine conversation and make them laugh they're going to be more attracted to you

01:00:04.020 uh jacob larry also asked also i'm 16 and the girl i like told my mate that she's scared of me

01:00:08.740 What am I supposed to do?

01:00:10.140 She likes you.

01:00:13.520 Right?

01:00:14.240 No, bro.

01:00:15.000 16's too old for that.

01:00:16.500 She's scared of you.

01:00:17.440 Why is she scared of you?

01:00:18.640 Bro, because he's being...

01:00:19.700 If you're creepy...

01:00:20.860 Yeah.

01:00:21.100 All right, I don't know if it's scared creepy

01:00:22.480 or, like, intimidated scared.

01:00:23.960 If it's intimidated scared,

01:00:25.040 then she likes you.

01:00:26.220 Mate, you've not even had a relationship

01:00:29.580 with this girl,

01:00:30.220 and she thinks you're scary.

01:00:31.140 You've never, like...

01:00:31.960 You know what I mean?

01:00:32.480 You've never gotten close to her.

01:00:34.300 And she's told your mate.

01:00:35.080 Yeah, just take the hint.

01:00:37.360 Or else you're gonna end up like me.

01:00:38.740 where I'm going to talk to you're going to talk to her for forever

01:00:41.160 and then she's going to think you're scary

01:00:42.580 and then you're going to FaceTime her at 3am

01:00:44.760 it's going to be even worse

01:00:45.620 just take the hint now

01:00:46.880 it depends on the type of scared

01:00:49.780 some girls say that

01:00:50.740 it could be an intimidation thing

01:00:53.860 but because you're 16 and you're asking

01:00:55.760 I'm guessing you're probably the creepy scared

01:00:59.200 bro if you're 16

01:01:00.820 you're a sophomore in high school

01:01:02.080 junior, sophomore

01:01:03.480 girls aren't calling you scary to be flirty

01:01:06.280 that's not true

01:01:08.260 I've never been called scary to be...

01:01:11.140 Maybe I have, and I just took it the wrong way.

01:01:14.560 I feel like you're a breeding rapist right now.

01:01:16.980 My bad.

01:01:18.880 Some guy replied just saying, like, sweep her off her feet.

01:01:22.940 Yeah, literally just pick her up.

01:01:25.760 Middle of the hall, she's not looking.

01:01:27.800 You ever seen Borat where he just puts Pamela Anderson in the bag?

01:01:30.260 Just try doing that.

01:01:31.520 That always works.

01:01:32.440 That always works.

01:01:33.140 And that is creepy scary.

01:01:35.080 That's what you're going for.

01:01:36.200 That's what she loves in you.

01:01:37.760 Stefan Mincy says, can you still date another girl if there's some sort of a language barrier?

01:01:42.800 I've been trying to talk to this girl for quite a while now, but it seems that a language barrier is holding us down.

01:01:46.760 Is there a way to overcome this obstacle?

01:01:48.240 Yeah, I think you can date if you don't speak the same language.

01:01:51.540 Dude, they must remotely speak the same language, like broken English.

01:01:55.280 That's cool.

01:01:55.920 Like, keep trying, dude.

01:01:57.600 Let us know how it goes.

01:01:58.960 I am interested in that.

01:02:00.080 I think that's kind of romantic in its own way.

01:02:04.100 Yeah, I was going to say it's like out of a movie.

01:02:05.520 It is.

01:02:05.860 I've seen, there was an episode of Louie exactly like that, where Louie's dating this Hungarian

01:02:11.040 girl, and they literally don't speak any, it's just, they don't communicate, they just

01:02:15.220 communicate through, like, hand gestures, and at one point, like, they're trying to

01:02:19.460 confess each other's feelings for each other, but they don't know how to, so they go to

01:02:22.240 a Russian restaurant, and the waiter is able to translate.

01:02:24.980 Oh, he's able to mediate, that's sick.

01:02:26.380 Yeah, yeah.

01:02:27.320 So, yeah, just keep going with it.

01:02:28.900 I mean, there's nothing I could, there's no secret to doing this, it's just gonna take

01:02:31.900 a lot of communication, and you're gonna have to really be understanding.

01:02:34.900 Yeah, I have no personal experience with that.

01:02:36.740 Can't help you.

01:02:37.440 Really?

01:02:38.060 Even...

01:02:38.900 How good is your portrait?

01:02:40.400 Very good.

01:02:41.000 It's good?

01:02:41.720 Yeah.

01:02:42.040 Have you dated Brazilian girls?

01:02:43.960 Dated?

01:02:44.500 No.

01:02:46.080 No.

01:02:46.560 I'd rather date American girls.

01:02:48.100 Shout out all my American girls.

01:02:49.940 Sure.

01:02:50.840 That was the gay shit I've ever done.

01:02:52.460 With the earring.

01:02:53.760 Yeah, no, I'm not.

01:02:54.720 I was pretending like I didn't see any of that.

01:02:56.060 Yeah.

01:02:56.840 We can edit this, right?

01:02:59.900 What do you do to get over a relationship or lose feelings?

01:03:02.620 That's what I'm trying to do right now

01:03:05.580 Like fuck another bitch

01:03:08.180 You think so?

01:03:09.420 Yeah

01:03:09.620 I don't think that

01:03:10.160 I think the first thing

01:03:11.580 Like when you get out of a long relationship

01:03:13.100 The first step to moving on

01:03:15.700 Is getting pussy from someone else

01:03:18.000 Until you do that

01:03:19.640 You haven't really moved on

01:03:20.820 Because that last pussy

01:03:22.780 Is still what you're jerking off to

01:03:24.000 Kinda

01:03:24.300 Girl same thing

01:03:26.400 If your guy broke up with you

01:03:27.460 Go fuck one of us

01:03:29.040 We can help you get over it

01:03:30.600 Preferably me

01:03:31.300 Preferably yeah

01:03:32.600 give me the review of the yelp

01:03:35.300 but don't go crazy with the rebound

01:03:38.520 a lot of people they start

01:03:39.560 just don't be weird with it

01:03:41.740 treat it like it's just a one night stand

01:03:43.800 you have to go back into the single mindset

01:03:45.340 not like you're gonna find

01:03:47.060 what you lost in that next person

01:03:49.360 I don't think just the sex is gonna get you over it

01:03:51.380 you just have to keep yourself busy

01:03:52.960 you have to keep yourself busy

01:03:54.220 and then eventually it'll just fade out of your memory

01:03:57.760 the more you keep trying

01:03:59.720 to build off it the worse it's gonna get

01:04:01.580 the less they're going to want to talk to you

01:04:03.360 and the more sad you're going to be.

01:04:05.460 Are you really in a position to give advice on this?

01:04:08.160 Bro, I'm trying.

01:04:09.440 That was perfect.

01:04:11.060 I'm playing, I'm playing.

01:04:12.020 You can't look at their social media.

01:04:14.680 Yeah, man.

01:04:16.180 If you mute their story, don't look at their story.

01:04:18.920 Just unfriend them.

01:04:20.640 Do whatever you need to do.

01:04:21.820 Learn from him.

01:04:24.540 Braden Marcello asks,

01:04:25.780 this question can be applied to any situation

01:04:27.940 and not just girls.

01:04:28.660 How do you hold a conversation

01:04:30.020 when you run out of things to say?

01:04:31.580 To be honest, I just feel dumb when I force myself to think about something to say, and

01:04:34.700 when it comes out, my words get all mixed up.

01:04:36.740 Dude, I would totally relate to that in high school when I was trying to talk to girls.

01:04:42.500 Alcohol.

01:04:43.780 That does help.

01:04:45.680 That's your whole answer right there, becoming drunk.

01:04:47.620 Yeah.

01:04:48.340 Live your life drunk, like his ex.

01:04:53.380 Don't put that on me.

01:04:55.280 Don't put that on me.

01:04:56.380 Just kidding.

01:04:56.820 um yeah i remember like uh me and cassie used to go to this this bar you still kind of go but we

01:05:03.140 used to go to this bar and like he would always pick up girls there and i was like how the fuck

01:05:06.040 do you do it it was just like trash ass bar like trashy as fuck everyone fucked up and i would go

01:05:10.920 there with like a couple beers and like i do okay in the dating world but i never could pick up a

01:05:16.380 girl that i'm like what's your secret so just get drunk literally get drunk and then the next

01:05:20.200 game literally the next time i got hammered bro i went with these soccer kids and they're doing

01:05:23.800 shots all night like the bartender's getting involved like classic white boy wasted and of

01:05:28.520 course like later that night i had some almost had a threesome almost almost but um hit the post

01:05:34.960 hit the well it's more like the the ball was deflated you know what i mean we needed we needed

01:05:41.680 a pump in that ball this kid was begging me all night he's like slammed he's coming up to me he's

01:05:47.680 like bro yeah so we were in the bar and he got smashed and i look over and i see him doing the

01:05:54.160 classic latino mating ritual millennial where she's just grinding on him throwing her shit back

01:06:00.020 and he's catching it eyes rolling to the back of his head and i'm like all right you know at least

01:06:04.980 he got he's doing his thing he was telling me about this girl like oh she's fit she's giving

01:06:08.000 me signals she wasn't bad she was no she was good looking she's like oh she's giving me singles

01:06:11.620 i'm like bro go for it maybe five minutes later i look away doing my thing i just feel someone

01:06:17.540 tap my shoulder and i turn around and he's like bro you have to your friend

01:06:24.580 you ever been there like when you need you want to get laid but the ugly friend that needs

01:06:29.780 attention too bro and usually i would do it take one for the team bro usually i would help your boy

01:06:35.620 out but he was standing like broad shouldered in front of me so i'm like oh this fag's hiding

01:06:39.780 something so i kind of scooch him over and i look and this girl was looking straight into my eye

01:06:45.540 but the trick is she was only looking with one of her eyes because the other one was looking over

01:06:49.440 there i remember her eyes they were going crazy yo she was getting like that all night i'm like

01:06:54.440 i'm too drunk for this it was like that all night i've never been to a rave when they do the thing

01:06:57.760 with the gloves she was doing that shit with their eyes to me i was like yeah nico i'm sorry bro but

01:07:04.460 i don't think it's gonna work he's like bro please this and that ends up finding some random like

01:07:09.900 some random ass dude we're in the hood he ends up finding some local brings him back to his house

01:07:14.880 because the guy says he's down to shag this girl.

01:07:17.960 And I guess what?

01:07:18.600 He couldn't get hurt?

01:07:19.300 No, they did.

01:07:19.780 They fucked on the couch for like two minutes

01:07:21.320 and then he dipped.

01:07:21.980 And I only had one more condom

01:07:23.060 and I gave it to him.

01:07:24.200 And he's like, yo, thanks, bro.

01:07:25.280 Yo, take my number.

01:07:26.040 Next time you go out, let me know.

01:07:28.100 I'm out, I'm out.

01:07:28.800 I'm like, yeah, yeah, whatever.

01:07:29.680 Put in a fake number, then he leaves.

01:07:31.180 He didn't even make a mess.

01:07:32.160 Like, I set myself up to get robbed, honestly.

01:07:35.000 Like, randomly.

01:07:35.800 He didn't even go to the school

01:07:36.860 that we used to go to.

01:07:38.480 It was just a random local.

01:07:39.800 Like, a random guy.

01:07:40.480 I think he was like 25.

01:07:41.300 and those two minutes weren't enough and she came knocking and then yeah i'm downstairs with

01:07:45.880 another girl and then she's like i can join you just from the top of the stairs yeah no

01:07:50.980 house clean

01:07:54.740 um right uh and then braden marcel asked again have you ever hesitated on the girl because of

01:08:04.900 the fear of an scd or sti if so what happened you think you could take this one why

01:08:10.680 uh because uh no i've never hesitated but you should you should definitely hesitate you should

01:08:20.120 definitely ask and i always ask i always ask a friend of mine it's not weird either a lot of

01:08:25.760 guys like they think it's weird to bring it up but a lot of girls are actually they're thinking

01:08:28.900 the same thing they don't want aids either so if you bring it up like have you been tested like

01:08:32.860 are you on birth control um it's actually better because then you can uh to do the dirty with the

01:08:39.300 conscious a clean conscious yeah you might even go harder right yeah a friend of mine he laminated

01:08:44.540 his results for his std check that were clean and he tacked him to his wall next to his bed that's

01:08:50.540 a red flag that means that that's a red flag for a girl if you haven't tacked on your wall

01:08:55.020 i would assume that you have an std no but it's clean and it's like from your name yeah but you're

01:09:01.520 having so much frequent casual sex that you haven't nailed on your wall or maybe he's just

01:09:07.840 very savvy and avoiding the question before it occurs i want the girls to answer if you think

01:09:11.860 that's weird that is 100 i don't know i thought it was a good imagine if you had if you went to

01:09:15.980 a girl's apartment and she had her std results nailed she's clean you would really think that

01:09:21.180 that's your first thought like it she's clean i'm that my i'm leaving you're leaving i'm leaving

01:09:26.280 no you're not leaving because what decisions led up to you nailing your results on something

01:09:31.500 happened nothing happened to him something happened before then you don't just do that

01:09:36.900 You don't just decide to do that.

01:09:39.800 Let the people decide, agree to disagree.

01:09:41.900 All right.

01:09:42.120 You can let us know in the comments.

01:09:44.540 It's just not weird.

01:09:45.780 That's 100% weird.

01:09:48.320 Damn, there's so many questions.

01:09:48.920 It's progressive.

01:09:49.120 That's what it is.

01:09:49.780 There's so many questions.

01:09:50.720 And there's only, I think there's like 14 minutes on the card.

01:09:53.860 We're going to have to speed these.

01:09:54.840 All right, let's do it.

01:09:58.000 Is a good relationship with a person more valuable than focusing on your hobbies?

01:10:01.360 Interest in your opinion?

01:10:02.240 No.

01:10:04.460 I'm 19, or Arlith Vargas says,

01:10:05.820 i'm 19 and i've never dated anyone and i'm okay with that is dating even worth it though

01:10:09.380 um if you're okay with them then fuck it like it's not a necessity don't feel society's pressure

01:10:14.220 are you asking like what's our opinion on daily do you think it's worth it like should i even try

01:10:19.360 i think that if you feel ready to date you'll want to date and you'll find someone it is worth

01:10:23.100 it to try to at least try is worth it just for practice yeah to stay committed forever it's it's

01:10:28.260 dating is uh is all about trying if you're dating you're trying um so yeah you give it a shot

01:10:35.140 but don't feel pressured by anyone if you don't want to uh troy tau packy says love is a feeling

01:10:42.340 we should have for everyone sex is a thing that everyone likes to do there's no denying that

01:10:46.140 having a baby is something that you should do with your soulmate okay uh we need more sexual

01:10:51.700 activity physically did you dude this is not are you asking a question where's the question here

01:10:56.600 do you see one no it's just a pair i'm not i'm skipping you i'm skipping you uh layla sator i

01:11:02.400 I feel like she already asked the question, no?

01:11:03.760 Or did she call the other guy cringey?

01:11:05.020 Did she call the other guy cringe?

01:11:06.440 Ah, seasonal depression.

01:11:07.700 Skip ahead.

01:11:08.460 And she said, what do you think about waiting till marriage?

01:11:11.220 Yeah, don't do that.

01:11:13.160 Or else you're not going to be able to make your girl come,

01:11:14.680 and she's going to hate you and put you in her group chat and divorce you.

01:11:16.800 You don't want to be in the group chat.

01:11:18.000 And you'll die.

01:11:19.620 If most hot girls are boring and annoying, why fuck them?

01:11:22.880 This is coming from a girl.

01:11:23.980 Her name is Entirety.

01:11:26.140 If most hot girls are boring and annoying...

01:11:28.320 That's a great question.

01:11:28.860 Why fuck them?

01:11:30.440 Because they're hot.

01:11:32.000 We're guys, and we need to release our strength.

01:11:34.260 That's what we do.

01:11:35.880 It's an insatiable hunger.

01:11:37.660 Just ejaculate everywhere.

01:11:40.600 Yeah, the answer to your question is in your question.

01:11:44.200 Why not just genuinely get to know someone?

01:11:45.880 There are some insanely interesting people out there,

01:11:47.740 and I hear the quiet ones who don't get a lot of attention

01:11:49.620 have the craziest sex.

01:11:51.140 That is kind of true.

01:11:52.320 I just personally think guys always going for hot girls

01:11:54.760 are as moronic as girls going for fuckboys.

01:11:57.500 You sound kind of bitter.

01:11:58.380 I can see where this question is coming from.

01:12:00.200 i also think just constantly paying attention to e-girls will only make more appear what look at

01:12:06.140 the second part um uh hold on let me keep reading i don't know why not surround yourself with

01:12:10.940 interesting and intelligent women then maybe it'll be a little more peace sex related do you

01:12:15.160 let your girl take your do you let your girl tickle your asshole for a bit of a thrill what

01:12:20.940 the fuck just unrelated um okay a bit of a thrill is a great choice of words for that

01:12:28.680 uh no we i don't i don't do that i don't do that i don't do that um also lost connections by

01:12:38.220 johan harry is a good read about depression um all right so your your first question is like

01:12:45.360 why do people try to fuck hot people when they can find meaningful relationships um it sounds

01:12:50.760 like you're bitter because you're jealous of the hot girls getting the attention and you see

01:12:55.240 yourself as the quiet one who has crazy sex well casual sex you don't want to have to get to know

01:13:02.400 someone on a deep level to have casual sex you sometimes you just want to fuck and the quiet

01:13:06.660 ones they're going to be like i'm interesting and like the hot people are just going out to

01:13:10.480 have fun so a lot of it is just the experience of going out and partying you know i think it's

01:13:14.700 very one way what do you mean guys or guys are more shallow when it comes to fucking hot girls

01:13:23.540 Like, if you want to bang, if you're not inebriated, you want her to be good looking.

01:13:29.080 Like, it's a prerequisite.

01:13:30.380 But girls, if you're charming enough, she'll overlook your physical aspects for the most part.

01:13:35.420 Right.

01:13:35.720 Men like women for their looks.

01:13:37.600 Women like men for who we are as people.

01:13:39.960 Yeah, their ability to charm them and make them laugh and make them feel like they're having a bit of a thrill.

01:13:44.580 Yeah, it doesn't...

01:13:45.920 The other way around, it doesn't work that much.

01:13:48.420 So I think your question's a little outdated.

01:13:50.800 Bless you.

01:13:51.520 Unless you're talking like that.

01:13:53.540 um lol um gervender uh pant jesus christ your guys names are so weird

01:14:00.580 gervender panasar your name sounds like a pokemon bro

01:14:04.320 i'm a dude that is not ashamed to think that he's kind of the shit

01:14:10.180 but another one of these people i'm a dude that's not ashamed to think he's

01:14:13.620 kind of the shit i'm cocky even though i respect women i'm not

01:14:16.960 gonna lie and say getting pussy doesn't make me feel like marlon brando

01:14:19.960 however i'm 18 and i respect that this type of behavior is typical for guys my age

01:14:24.880 okay he's not that bad yeah i'm having fun right now but i don't know what toll that's going to

01:14:29.300 take on future relationships do you think it's healthy for lads to act this way when we're young

01:14:33.360 yeah it's normal i mean yeah you respect women you just like to fuck and you don't want to be

01:14:39.820 tied down you're 18 that's normal that's normal as long as yeah that's normal nothing else um last

01:14:47.080 one kelsey valente i'm guessing that's her name says what's your what are your thoughts on people

01:14:52.860 who say they aren't attracted to a specific race or that they only think date blank race their own

01:14:59.040 that's racist um is it i think so i think i do think so too actually it's been instilled in

01:15:06.080 people that that it's not racist no that it's not one that it's not racist or two that black

01:15:11.260 people aren't as good looking now it's changing now light skins are in but if you think a few

01:15:15.360 years back it was like frowned upon yeah like you're pretty for a black girl dating yeah black

01:15:20.100 girls that's just been instilled with us you know since we were little through movies because all

01:15:24.340 the pretty girls and mean girls are white it depends on the movies that you're watching

01:15:27.420 i mean yeah but the most commercially yeah you're right movies yeah it was always like the blonde

01:15:34.960 white girl yeah cheerleader was always white quarterback's always white come from an affluent

01:15:40.520 family yeah do you think that there is a prejudice or closed-mindedness behind that or do you think

01:15:44.820 people just have their preferences you see my thing is i think having a preference is inherently

01:15:49.480 a little bit racist like i know remember that girl um i messed with there was a girl i messed

01:15:54.280 with like two years ago and i was her transition from dating black guys to now only dating asian

01:16:00.700 guys so like i'm mixed so i was like the transition period now she's like full-on dating chinese

01:16:05.440 korean like fresh off the boat dudes but i was like test for her i was testing the waters and

01:16:12.360 now she's like she'll say that like he she my friend has a class with her and she's like it's

01:16:16.500 a geography class she'll like answer questions by saying i only date asian guys and yada yada yada

01:16:21.920 like it's part of our identity that's weirder than the std check on the wall it is a little

01:16:26.300 bit racist i think to specifically because to only be attracted to one race means that you see

01:16:31.880 a superiority in that race which is kind of the definition of racism believing that one race is

01:16:37.760 better than the other if you say i only date this race especially if it's not your own that's a

01:16:43.480 little bit racist and i a lot of people like that's just my preference that's just my preference

01:16:47.400 okay you're not really hurting anyone because who you fuck doesn't affect all of society but it is

01:16:54.260 inherently a racist belief i just think it's really weird that she's championing it like

01:16:59.760 yeah that she's proud of it yeah like i only date asian guys that bothers me so i have some insight

01:17:04.500 that you don't I'm different right but in reality you're just weird weird and

01:17:09.300 probably a little racist mm-hmm and it's to have a fetish it's weird to

01:17:16.020 fetishize a race that I don't get that don't get me wrong I'm a breeder like if

01:17:19.560 I'm gonna have a kid I would love her to have like green eyes or blue eyes blonde

01:17:23.040 so the kid comes out all cute but you don't think that's a little bit right

01:17:27.180 like it might be yeah it might be I don't I honestly don't have a preference

01:17:30.540 That is racist because that's, like, the standard of beauty that we grew up.

01:17:35.100 Yeah.

01:17:35.720 The one that you believed in.

01:17:37.260 Yeah.

01:17:38.120 I don't have that.

01:17:39.920 That's not ingrained in my mind at all.

01:17:42.060 I don't have a standard of beauty.

01:17:43.260 That's good.

01:17:44.300 It was ingrained in mine.

01:17:45.300 Yeah, I'm better than you, basically.

01:17:46.540 Yeah, basically, yeah.

01:17:48.160 Also, what is it with guys wanting to see girls make out?

01:17:51.620 Come on.

01:17:53.400 Duh.

01:17:55.260 Why wouldn't we want to see that?

01:17:56.740 Yeah, I don't...

01:17:57.540 Where's the question?

01:17:58.840 What do you mean, what's with it?

01:17:59.800 what it like obviously i don't get turned on watching two guys make out and i'm sure majority

01:18:05.780 of girls would agree this though there's so much to unpack here because homosexuality with men is

01:18:11.780 not the same with homosexuality with girls when two girls make out it's not seen as like they're

01:18:16.920 gay it's seen as like whoo yeah it's like they're doing it for attention they're doing it for the

01:18:21.860 male gaze right it's fun and you can still be feminine and fuck another girl you can't still

01:18:28.140 be masculine and make out with another guy that's facts and if two guys are making out with the

01:18:32.700 party nobody's gonna be like yeah that's like people like maybe not now but people will kind

01:18:38.680 of like avoid making eye contact because it looks kind of gross like two beards connecting

01:18:43.280 is inherently not masculine and that's not just my belief like that's how i hate we said society

01:18:50.200 so many times but that's how society works like you can't still be masculine and make out with

01:18:54.100 another guy it it goes against everything that we've been raised to believe yeah bro if your

01:18:59.420 beards are touching if you ever seen like avatar when they connect the ponytails it's the same

01:19:03.160 shit it's too much it's a deeper it's a deeper connection when the beards touch uh-uh i don't

01:19:08.920 get turned on by watching two guys make out because yeah because you don't he's not sexy

01:19:13.720 anymore yeah he's not macho and he can't provide for you because he's not macho yeah it's it's

01:19:19.080 such a it's such a double standard not because i want to make out with the dude for attention

01:19:22.420 but because the that's why bisexuality nicey why ally calls me gay

01:19:27.300 maybe i should have told i probably shouldn't have snitched on him for that but bisexuality

01:19:33.740 is like really trendy now it's really in but it's like just every girl with the nose ring

01:19:38.680 like the transition phase like you get a nose ring and six months later you can start messing

01:19:42.320 around with girls because i honestly think that everybody has homosexual thoughts it's whether

01:19:47.620 you act on them like me every every dude has has considered whether or not they're gay before

01:19:52.680 have you ever you've definitely thought that like you've wondered not recently not no but like when

01:20:00.260 i was like 14 yeah i thought i was gay i watched gay porn it's not for me it's not for me i saw

01:20:06.340 like bro i went to i went to a gay nightclub with my gay friends like i went to go visit

01:20:10.560 my friend of master's like let's go to a club it was a gay club i'm not complaining but i saw

01:20:14.740 a muscular dude twerking glitter off of his back and i know that i'm not gay it was i was laughing

01:20:22.440 very like seeing a a grown man with glitter on his back twerk it's just funny to me but we've

01:20:28.360 all thought about it it's just girls have the more of the ability to act on it because they can still

01:20:33.880 be themselves if a guy acts on his bisexual thoughts then everybody's going to look at him

01:20:38.980 differently if a girl acts on her bisexual thoughts it's like whatever she's just it's

01:20:42.140 She's in college.

01:20:42.860 She's experimenting.

01:20:44.860 Yeah.

01:20:45.820 Yeah.

01:20:46.880 I don't think you need to go to that extent to watch big guys shake glitter off their butts.

01:20:50.720 I didn't need to do that, but it was another confirmation that I'm not gay.

01:20:54.860 Because, dude, like, there were, like, gay guys hitting on me, and my gay friends were encouraging them to do it, bro.

01:20:59.500 And it was uncomfortable.

01:21:00.760 It was uncomfortable because, dude, these gay guys, they want to convert you.

01:21:05.000 That's the thing.

01:21:05.440 That's like a fetish of big guys.

01:21:06.820 I think that's disrespectful.

01:21:08.000 It is.

01:21:08.360 And, like, fuck, I noticed this about all gay guys.

01:21:11.040 like they really i don't want to say all but it's all gay guys they all low key that's their fetish

01:21:15.440 is to convert straight dudes you're not gonna get me not gonna get me not today yeah i think that

01:21:23.460 i just kind of rationalize with myself like i go to parties and i get off on girls twerk and i don't

01:21:28.300 usually look at guys like probably i'm not gay you know what i mean like it could be that simple

01:21:34.120 yeah but why do you think there's more girls who that was my reasoning for why um bisexualism is

01:21:41.000 on the rise um not also because like they want to be trendy they want to be allies but why do you

01:21:47.120 think more girls can be bisexual than guys for exactly the reasons you said i'm right yeah oh

01:21:52.500 okay because you were looking at me like kind of weird no i was just listening because i'd never

01:21:56.060 heard that take before it's being pensive i'm so i'm on to something with that idea cool all right

01:22:03.720 that's the last question um thank you guys that was a that was my first like long form pot i've

01:22:09.900 only done like 45 minutes before this like an hour and a half that feels like a podcast um

01:22:14.740 thank you cast for coming on um i'm gonna grab them like on the upper on the lower thigh not

01:22:21.020 over here because just this is the cutoff um and also we're getting kind of sus towards the ends

01:22:26.540 anyway you got anything else you want to conclude with uh anything you want to plug no i don't have

01:22:32.780 anything to plug i don't just happy to be here just happy to be here happy to share some wisdom

01:22:37.920 Not that I have any

01:22:39.720 Or that you should listen

01:22:40.460 To anything that we said

01:22:41.280 But

01:22:41.840 It was entertaining

01:22:42.840 This was pretty good

01:22:43.520 Both of us were entertaining

01:22:44.340 Yeah I think that was entertaining

01:22:45.600 It was entertaining being here

01:22:46.680 Yeah if you want an easy bang

01:22:50.120 I'm here for you

01:22:50.840 Girls

01:22:51.620 Hit them up

01:22:53.760 That's Cass

01:22:54.380 Alright

01:22:55.280 Peace guys

SHNEAKO - November 22, 2019

How to Pick Up Girls - Kinda Quality Podcast #8

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