SHNEAKO - November 13, 2025PERFORMATIVE MALE.
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Summary
On this episode of the podcast, the boys are joined by their good friend, Maxwell, to talk about the craziest things they ve ever done. The boys talk about how they met, how they first met, and how they became friends. They also talk about Maxwell's favorite color, the worst things he has ever worn, and the most annoying things he s ever worn.
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what is performative performative yeah someone who tries to fit in with a niche but then they
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they like they're really lying like when people try to act red pill when they're not what the
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hell what are you trying to say not you not you not you that one's good
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hi how you doing hi i'm marley nice to meet you my husband's maxwell i'm maxwell how old are you
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are you in school what's your favorite color blue and orange are you filming about the subway
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yeah we're filming about the subway so i got an ad on the subway right here
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for my youtube channel yeah but this is but i watch minecraft stuff i like your stuffed animal
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Steezy said that this hoodie is orange, but it looks red in the camera, so a long journey ahead of us.
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Every time we go to film, whether in New York or Miami, we have a three-minute buffer
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because he decided to wear Converse, the most annoying shoes to tie.
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Just like, look, when you get shoes, just put them on, and then you're ready to go.
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The fashion people I got something in here. I never travel with a suitcase
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Well, why are we calling it project X like sure it'd be project
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I'm actually more on YouTube. It's a source of what why it comes after eggs
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Well, the fuck did I think about sooner? I don't know how to do this
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I just use a backpack everywhere I go fill the arrow. Yeah
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Don't take credit for Project Y. You didn't come up with that.
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You know what's trying to really don't like in Gen Z?
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When you tell me you live in New York or Miami, you're like,
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I'm not going to fucking tell you. Why would I tell you that?
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You know Saad? Like, why do you want that information?
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Of course, we've been here for 30 minutes and my bag's lost.
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Do you want to be staying in this line right now,
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waiting to go talk to the customer service on the phone
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because the people at the front can't help you?
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They have one job, you know, just put the bag in.
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I know you think I'm impatient, but like, put the bag on the thing.
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That's what you get paid to do, and you can't fucking put the bag on the thing.
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And then they vote for Mom Donnie because they want free stuff.
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I promise you I'm not like the other guys I'm not a performative male I'm not like those
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other guys give up on the converse why do you do this to yourself
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my heart goes out to you oh shit that's what i'm talking about yo perfect timing
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damn bro unbanned letting new york city know that i'm back is it going to be a complete
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return on investment probably not directly but i don't like thinking short-sighted this way
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well you need to monetize direct this it's investing into the bigger vision it's a bigger
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statement also it's cool three years i was banned no way three years i finally got unbanned that's
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crazy bro yeah we should take it with the billboard with the billboard oh that's the
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photo right there wait you have twitter i'm banned on instagram still yeah instagram we need to be
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be unbanned next yeah thank you bro hey great to meet you with your content bro
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YouTube unbanned me they apologized because I was banned for COVID misinformation how is your
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how is your like streaming period going now well I'm crazy man I just streamed earlier this morning
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back to the vlog I post vlogs every single day and I stream almost every day I see you be talking
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about the things that like people would be scared to talk about you feel me it might be performative
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but we got billboards to celebrate the unbanned all over New York City 8th Street Delancey some
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People are like, oh, you're wasting your money.
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I think too many people in social media think short-term,
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Minimalism is annoying and cringe, but simplify.
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have the best text the best color get a simple message across any who subscribe
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here type this unbanned one word that's all you need there's a lot of text on
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here there is it's too much going on now what Richard William Shakespeare is like
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who's the who's Michael Urie and there's so many fonts look how many fonts
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there are okay you have to take it up with a graphic designer my friend don't
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think it should be one color one font i feel like this is pretty minimalist i i've given out a lot
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of these and this is minimalist yeah in comparison it should be we have to simplify not minimalize
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everything's minimalist at mcdonald's nowadays all the architecture that's new see that like
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who did that unbanned one word look at that fair enough no i agree i agree kind of matches my fit
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it does yeah but thanks man i'll check it out of course i probably won't thank you
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you. Hey look. Can I get your number? Oh. That was me on the board. Thank you. You guys
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see those subway ads? Bro, you used to be on my For You page all day, bro. Really? Yes.
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And then I got on TikTok? Yeah. I followed you. I followed you back in the day. I was
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bad for three years. Oh shit. Last year, I was always saying shit. I used to think your
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That shit was hilarious, bro. People would get so mad.
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I mean, no, a rage man because the truth makes people angry.
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I don't have my phone. I'll get a stream flick. I'll put it in the vlog.
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I'm gonna post it tonight on my second channel.
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I'm Bo. I'm Gavin. And where are you guys from?
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I'm from New York. We go to school right there at Grace.
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Okay. And some people, they think I'm a rage man.
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definitely not an evil person you're not an evil person you're a true speaker you're amazing look
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there's the ad people hate the truth boom we thought we like it we like your conscience hey
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take it easy guys safety safety i keep hearing this word performative everywhere especially the
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performative male the male feminist who's reading an emily radakowski book at a coffee shop in public
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to signal to all the women that he's a safe friendly guy might be the worst genre of men
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male feminists disgust me oftentimes they got skeletons in their closet they love to blame all
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the other men for being evil but they themselves they're not like the other guys they're just like
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the girls they got a chain maybe one dangly earring a mustache and a lot of women are waking
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up to the performative male the undercover guy who really has the same intention that everybody
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else does you're unbanned okay i didn't know you were banned i'm sorry i don't catch up now you do
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I love that word performative because it's the first time we've had a descriptive word to define the people that are fraudulent
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The people that put on a performance in order to elicit a certain reaction from other people
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But everybody's performing. Everybody has something performative about them
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Every day when you put on your clothes and you present yourself in a certain way
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You use the soap you use and the cologne you spray
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It's to get people to respond to you the way that you want
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One of my favorite lines from Ye is Halloween is the only day we don't put on a costume
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You get to authentically express yourself the way that you can't the other 364 days of the year.
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It's like the dudes that listen to Leve, Beepa Doobie, and all that,
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only to get girls that are also into that they got like what's that toe bags they got they wear
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a little leather crossover bag some baggy jeans macho macho what separates you guys from somebody
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who's performative not toting for fashion because we're not doing it to not toting we're not doing
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it for like you're not just getting a girl oh we're not doing it because this is who i am isn't that
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still performing in a way it's performing for myself though because i personally express myself
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through clothes i express myself through music fashion yeah i need that i'm such i'm such a big
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fan a performative male i feel like the matcha i feel like claro is coming back in performative
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males claro what is that it's that one artist she made the uh uh oh i forgot what song she made
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so liking certain music just to be accepted by that community are you a performative person
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i feel like it depends on my mood are you performing right now no
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okay let's take a photo what does performative mean i'd say able to do the task every time
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being performative putting on a performance you know when people say oh you're a performative
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male like someone is basically like you're putting on a performance you're trying to look
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good or like play a part or something like that why are you not performative i am oh why are you
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you're not performative? Well, I'm not performative. I don't know. I just keep it 100, try to be
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up for me. I am a little performative when it comes to, like, opportunities. If I get
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an opportunity, I'm gonna, on the spot. Doesn't everybody do that when you've got a job application
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or at the interview? Don't you perform and try to show that you're the best employee
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for the job? Yeah, so we keep the job. Or I say when a white person's on the phone,
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don't you change your voice and perform? Hey, sir, it's a love time. What the hell? That's
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crazy what does performative mean performative my bad i should have yeah what is a picture with
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you i'm sorry huh are you performing am i performing yeah no i'm not performing you're
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authentic i'm i would say i'm authentic who is a poser what's an example of somebody faking
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someone who's faking someone who acts like they can uh do something but they're not they can't
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actually do it so like someone who like tries to someone who tries to fit in with a niche but then
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they they like they're really lying like people who like for example like like when people try to
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act red pill when they're not what the hell what are you trying to say not you not you not you that
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was good that was good who's the most performative influencer that comes to your head mr beast
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why do you say that i i like i like mr beast i mean he's the first he's the first billionaire
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like on youtube ever right how do you think he's performing you think it's a fake smile
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i think a lot of people say that i i don't think it's a fake smile because he's been doing it for
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years and i've been subscribing before he was even like really like at a million even and he
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was he was doing stupid shit like 10 hours repeating the same word over and counting to
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fucking a million or something so why do you think he's performing because he's a billionaire i think
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now his stuff is just too much like i just feel like obviously he needs to keep going and going
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and going to have new content and strike a new audience but people are bored that he's investing
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all this money into content it's become he always ups the stakes yeah so now people get used to it
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I feel like it should just be like, I feel like he should go back to being more human
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Because now he has the beef jerky and the fucking feastables.
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Obviously, I'm not going to down him for trying to make his money.
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I just feel like, why can't he just be himself?
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Influencer, you can say a streamer, anyone.
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first one to come to your mind i don't think i can think of anybody i mean most people most
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people on the internet like really like just want to be somebody you know so everybody's pretty
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performative no one's really like no one's really sitting there trying to be in character at the
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end of the day like even in videos that i've made like i'm not like entirely like being myself
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because you need to be able to be a little bit unique for people to actually enjoy like your
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content you know what i'm saying who's the most performative person that you could see right here
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yeah are we calling people off yes i'm not a hater but it was a with a guitar
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any person who goes to myu that's in this circle i'm about to say somebody holding a skateboard
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and walking around with it in their arm and they can't skate and people are skating everywhere
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there's a lot of space you're not performing are you performative yeah i'm performative i would
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say how are you performing i like the honesty i think i i i'm very advocate i tend to advocate
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for a lot of things but i don't do as much as i can directly when i know i can do stuff more
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directly so you say free palestine but you don't donate no i i okay i say free palestine but then
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like i have a friend that's israeli that makes like underlying comments and that like i should
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be calling out that like of course i need to call i have that too yeah i have israeli friends yeah
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but there's certain stuff that like you know subconsciously needs to be said as soon as you
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see it happen like deep down you know that you should be doing the right thing but it's not
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overt so you can't be like oh like but like you should cool that was good insight i appreciate it
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oh you see that you got right up on it it looks like you bro
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Damn, people were so on tech with cameras recently.
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Her dog's privacy, her friend's dog's privacy is really important.
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take a photo tag me I'll repost it show some love we're ready ready ready look
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that's my head you like it oh my god that's you yeah congratulations yeah
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thanks that's super dope Sneeko that's amazing yeah good nice to meet you yeah
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do you have Instagram no I'm still banned on Instagram are you kidding nope
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I went to Cornell University, Ivy League, corporate.
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What, so you want me to blur it out, but you want to work for me?
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Cornell? Yeah, statistics major. That's one of the best schools in America. It's pretty good.
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It's pretty damn good. You don't like your job now? I mean, I think working for you would be
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much better. That's like that scene from Wolf of Washington where it's like, you show me a taste
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of a $76,000 for my job right now. Do my fucking job right now. I'll come work for you. All right.
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All right, well, let me get you. I'll give you my number. All right, work. We can figure something
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out. Let me finish this video. What's your name again? Reese. Reese. Nice to meet you. What's
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going on with your job now? How come you don't like it? It's just, you know, every day doing
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the same thing. It just gets, it gets a little boring. You're stuck in the matrix. I'm stuck
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in the matrix i'm trying to break out sneaker you broke out i'm trying to break out like how old are
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you 23 22 very close you don't make good money i mean i make good money i'm just you know what
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do you want to do what's your what's your don't share my number please i swear to god i won't
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okay send me a text right now i thought it'd be worth a shot to just come talk to you you know
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okay you know i just walked out of the subway i see your face i'm like this is my opportunity
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how much did cornell cost a year like 80 90. you paid the full tuition i'm still paying it right
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I'm in loans. I'm in debt. Fuck. Yeah, it's bad. That's good. I'm really good at gambling.
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I studied gambling during, you know, I was a statistics major. I studied gambling my senior
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year, one of my classes and learned a whole lot about it. Fucking love doing it. I know you like
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to, you know, do your shit on rain bed or... Nah, I don't gamble personally, but we'll talk,
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we'll talk. Yeah, we'll talk. Get outta here, bro. I'll text you, right? Yeah. What's going on,
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Mahat? Hey, what you think of that? Shit. Shit, that's fine. Fuck with it. I'm fucking with it,
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I'm going to the big game in about an hour or so.
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your laces. Where's your, you don't have any orange? Where's your orange, Molly? Are you filming about the subway? Yeah, we're filming about the subway, so I got an ad on the subway right here for my YouTube channel. Yeah, do you watch YouTube? Yeah, but I watch Minecraft stuff. Oh, okay. I like playing Minecraft. Have you beaten the ender dragon? I defeated the weather. Yeah, I like your stuffed animal. What's his name? Doggy.
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what's your name ruple nice to meet you are you babysitting yeah okay guys well be safe okay
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make sure you always study hard you're going to work hard in school okay ready
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going right there are you going in there okay be safe on the train guys nice to meet you
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i'm editing this video right now about to go live on patreon so that i can talk to you guys while i
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edit as well as all the podcasts on there years of secret content all my full videos the full
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whole one minute podcast all available on patreon for four dollars and then the 15 and up i'll answer
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your questions on a stream the community's building is growing i appreciate it so i'll