SNEAKO

00:00:00.000 How to not get walked all over by women. 0.95

00:00:02.000 And I think that, actually, I'd be curious to get your take on this,

00:00:04.860 because I know I really like what you've said about managing women

00:00:08.720 in some of your videos and content.

00:00:11.140 But you talked about a lot of times the guy,

00:00:14.520 especially in the Western world, in the sexless marriage,

00:00:17.040 being walked all over.

00:00:18.760 How does a guy turn around this or prevent that from happening?

00:00:23.100 How does he get into a relationship where he stays the man,

00:00:27.900 where he is the king, let's say?

00:00:29.720 Because a lot of guys today, and this is something,

00:00:32.540 a lot of the red pill guys and stuff, 1.00

00:00:34.100 they want to blame women for all this shit. 1.00

00:00:35.820 They want to say, oh, women are thoughts today. 1.00

00:00:37.900 And it's like women have always been women throughout history.

00:00:41.200 They've always, in the absence of masculinity, become masculine.

00:00:44.480 This is just their characteristics.

00:00:46.580 So I like to blame the man.

00:00:49.020 I like to say if a woman is treating you wrong, 1.00

00:00:51.220 if you've got all this shit that happens. 0.99

00:00:53.660 Yeah, it's our fault. 1.00

00:00:55.100 It's our fault for giving too much attention to hoes. 1.00

00:00:57.420 It's our fault for giving too much attention to women that don't deserve it.

00:01:00.920 It's social media.

00:01:01.920 It's the program we give.

00:01:03.340 It's a currency now.

00:01:04.400 So we need to take responsibility for it because they don't want to improve,

00:01:07.360 and they will never fix it.

00:01:08.080 To you, it's because of you. 0.99

00:01:09.680 So how does the man become the guy that doesn't have this shit happen to him? 0.99

00:01:13.780 I 1,000% agree with you, friend. 0.99

00:01:15.540 I 1,000% agree.

00:01:16.940 So like I have, anyone who doesn't know me knows I used to run a webcam studio.

00:01:22.160 So I had 75 women working for me, and they were talking to guys online 0.98

00:01:27.160 and taking money from all the Democrats and Betas,

00:01:30.200 sending them money, and the money went to me.

00:01:31.760 This is how I first made big money.

00:01:33.280 So I kind of understand intersexual dynamics from a very unique perspective

00:01:37.360 because you had me at the top.

00:01:38.580 You had 75 women underneath, and you had thousands of men underneath them 0.99

00:01:41.840 giving them the money, which kind of went to me.

00:01:43.420 So it was kind of like a weird dynamic.

00:01:45.460 So yeah, here's the truth about male-female relationships. 1.00

00:01:49.740 Women fuck men they respect. 1.00

00:01:52.520 That's it. 1.00

00:01:53.340 They don't fuck men they like. 1.00

00:01:55.800 They don't fuck men they love. 1.00

00:01:57.280 They fuck men they respect. 1.00

00:01:58.680 If she loves you and likes you and doesn't respect you, 1.00

00:02:00.760 she will not have sex with you. 1.00

00:02:02.300 I have women who respect me and fucking hate me, 1.00

00:02:04.800 but they're here every time I call. 0.97

00:02:06.000 If you can get them emotional,

00:02:08.220 like don't get afraid if she starts getting angry or like,

00:02:10.580 I used to think that if she, 0.81

00:02:11.840 if I made her upset, then she was going to hate me.

00:02:14.360 But if you can make them emotional, that's what they want.

00:02:17.180 For a woman, hate and love is kind of the same thing.

00:02:19.060 It's just a spectrum.

00:02:20.200 If they respect you, they're going to sleep with you.

00:02:22.540 And this is something that's biological and evolutionary. 1.00

00:02:24.500 They fuck men they respect. 1.00

00:02:25.840 So how do you make women respect you? 1.00

00:02:27.300 Well, first, you have to be worthy of respect as an individual.

00:02:29.380 There's no hack.

00:02:30.440 If you're worthy of respect, you're worthy of respect.

00:02:31.920 But secondly, you cannot allow blatant disrespect.

00:02:36.000 So if you allow her to blatantly disrespect you,

00:02:38.000 she's going to keep on doing it. 1.00

00:02:39.300 She will not that they're like children.

00:02:41.540 They're like children.

00:02:43.220 If you don't discipline them,

00:02:44.540 if you don't show that there's consequences,

00:02:46.300 they'll keep doing it.

00:02:47.280 You tolerate that.

00:02:48.560 Then you're setting a precedent,

00:02:49.680 which means, well,

00:02:50.880 why would I respect this guy in the first place?

00:02:52.920 I say this to guys all the time.

00:02:54.340 I've had loads of guys who come to me for like coaching and stuff.

00:02:56.680 And they say, you know,

00:02:57.180 my woman doesn't respect me. 1.00

00:02:58.260 And I say, look,

00:02:59.780 it's much harder to fix something that's broken

00:03:02.300 than just never let it go wrong in the first place.

00:03:04.140 From the second you got together,

00:03:06.000 you should have been a man and you can be, 1.00

00:03:07.460 you haven't got to be an asshole. 1.00

00:03:08.960 You haven't got to be aggressive. 1.00

00:03:10.100 I'll sit with a girl and very politely say, 0.93

00:03:11.680 look, if we're going to be in a relationship,

00:03:13.320 if I'm going to take you seriously,

00:03:14.840 you're not going to have male friends.

00:03:16.020 If you want to hang around with a whole bunch of men,

00:03:17.860 then I'm not going to take you seriously.

00:03:19.760 What do you mean you won't take me seriously? 1.00

00:03:20.880 I mean, we can fuck. 0.99

00:03:21.920 But he's just my friend. 1.00

00:03:23.160 Okay.

00:03:23.940 Do you ever pay?

00:03:25.000 No.

00:03:25.700 Does he pay?

00:03:26.480 Yeah.

00:03:27.020 So it's a date?

00:03:28.160 No, because I don't like him.

00:03:29.760 Okay.

00:03:30.100 But does he like you?

00:03:31.240 Yeah, but it doesn't matter.

00:03:32.320 But how does that mean you're friends 0.97

00:03:33.880 if he wants to have sex with you, 0.85

00:03:35.240 but you don't? 0.99

00:03:36.100 Well, it's just my friend.

00:03:38.040 I'm not going to be,

00:03:38.800 I'm never going to look at you as serious material.

00:03:40.920 So the idea, the decision is on you.

00:03:44.020 If you want to be serious,

00:03:45.000 you're not going to talk to those guys.

00:03:45.940 You want to talk to those guys? 1.00

00:03:46.740 I'll fuck you sometimes. 1.00

00:03:47.620 You decide. 1.00

00:03:49.080 And I lay on them.

00:03:50.220 And now if they choose to keep all their male friends,

00:03:53.000 then that means she's chosen these friendships over me,

00:03:55.320 which means sooner or later,

00:03:56.620 she was going to cheat anyway. 1.00

00:03:57.600 Like how long until she jumps on a new dick anyway? 1.00

00:03:59.700 So why would- 1.00

00:04:00.560 As soon as you show weakness,

00:04:01.540 she'll jump to those friends. 0.90

00:04:03.400 But I'd be upset about it.

00:04:05.160 But most men are too scared

00:04:06.480 to just put the ultimatum down.

00:04:08.360 And not, you haven't got to put the ultimatum down

00:04:09.720 in some scary, big, brash way.

00:04:11.560 Just be clear.

00:04:12.220 Look, any woman I'm with who I take seriously 1.00

00:04:13.900 doesn't hang around with other men.

00:04:15.340 So it's your choice.

00:04:17.640 And this is the point.

00:04:19.040 But most men don't say anything.

00:04:20.480 They let it slide

00:04:21.180 and they let it get completely broken.

00:04:22.600 And they come to me and say,

00:04:23.400 well, how do I fix it?

00:04:24.220 It's like, well, you have to make it,

00:04:25.180 not let it get broken in the first place.

00:04:27.260 You need to understand your boundaries

00:04:28.900 and expectations as a man.

00:04:30.340 And you have to set them.

00:04:31.360 And you have to make sure she complies

00:04:32.800 and sticks to them.

00:04:33.620 And if she doesn't,

00:04:34.380 you're going to have to find somebody else.

00:04:35.940 And this is another thing I talk about

00:04:37.340 being a playboy.

00:04:38.880 I have lots of guys come to me and say,

00:04:40.040 oh, Tate,

00:04:40.900 but I don't want to be a playboy like you.

00:04:42.820 I say, look,

00:04:43.300 if you want to be happily married,

00:04:44.420 the best thing you can be first is a playboy.

00:04:46.840 The best thing you can do

00:04:47.960 because you're going to learn

00:04:48.580 a whole bunch about women. 0.99

00:04:49.820 You need to womanize. 1.00

00:04:51.200 You need to be with a lot of women 1.00

00:04:52.280 to understand them. 0.99

00:04:53.700 And you need to not give a fuck about them 0.98

00:04:55.180 to really see what they are at their core. 0.98

00:04:58.960 That's why women will never understand us. 1.00

00:05:00.940 But that womanizing, 0.96

00:05:01.940 that playboy phase

00:05:02.740 will like let you tap into their true nature.

00:05:06.460 And what they really think,

00:05:08.540 la la land,

00:05:09.660 I just want a flower picnic

00:05:11.080 and I'm pretty

00:05:12.800 and that's cute

00:05:13.820 and makeup

00:05:14.700 and why would you say that?

00:05:16.360 That's toxic.

00:05:17.300 And you're like,

00:05:17.740 oh, now I get it.

00:05:18.960 You just are run by your emotions.

00:05:21.340 You're going to have a whole bunch of choices

00:05:22.600 to choose for a wife.

00:05:23.660 If you're stuck with one option,

00:05:25.160 the one chick you met,

00:05:27.020 you know, 1.00

00:05:27.440 she might be a dickhead. 1.00

00:05:28.920 Some women are just dickheads. 1.00

00:05:30.260 Yep. 1.00

00:05:30.460 You know,

00:05:31.180 you know, 1.00

00:05:31.520 some women have been fucked too hard. 1.00

00:05:32.940 Don't save her. 0.99

00:05:34.160 She don't want to be sad.

00:05:35.480 Don't save her.

00:05:36.760 She don't want to be sad.

00:05:38.040 Too many times

00:05:38.720 with too many big scary guys

00:05:40.080 and they just don't want to listen to them.

00:05:41.700 So like, 1.00

00:05:42.780 the more dick she takes, 1.00

00:05:44.100 the less she makes sense. 1.00

00:05:45.080 I'm sorry,

00:05:45.640 but body count does matter.

00:05:46.920 The world really would be a better place

00:05:48.580 if we could all write it all day heads, bro. 1.00

00:05:50.700 The more dick she takes, 1.00

00:05:52.780 the more crazy you get. 1.00

00:05:54.100 Being a playboy is important. 0.97

00:05:56.020 But yeah,

00:05:56.620 absolutely.

00:05:57.200 For setting your boundaries and stuff

00:05:58.700 and making sure you're not respected.

00:06:00.200 The key is this as a man,

00:06:01.440 and this is the bottom,

00:06:02.200 bottom,

00:06:02.500 bottom line.

00:06:03.840 Most men

00:06:04.620 are not prepared to walk away.

00:06:07.000 Mm-hmm.

00:06:07.500 Mm-hmm.

00:06:07.980 Yep.

00:06:08.260 And if you're not prepared to walk away,

00:06:10.440 you don't have any weapons.

00:06:12.760 Exactly.

00:06:13.040 If she knows no matter what,

00:06:14.680 you won't leave,

00:06:16.140 then she's going to keep disrespecting, 1.00

00:06:18.280 going crazy, 0.90

00:06:19.080 acting wild.

00:06:20.380 You need to have options.

00:06:21.940 A roast,

00:06:22.220 she'll act like a child,

00:06:23.440 like a misbehaved child

00:06:24.640 and toys are roast

00:06:25.320 throwing a tantrum.

00:06:25.980 What weapons do you have?

00:06:27.500 Anything you say,

00:06:28.580 shouting,

00:06:29.140 screaming,

00:06:29.720 yelling,

00:06:30.540 going out away for a few days,

00:06:33.060 whatever.

00:06:33.620 She knows you're going to come back.

00:06:35.220 You have no weapons.

00:06:36.520 The second,

00:06:37.460 imagine a girl came to you 0.51

00:06:38.680 and she said,

00:06:39.160 no matter what you do,

00:06:40.020 no matter how many times you cheat,

00:06:40.900 no matter what,

00:06:41.380 da, da, da,

00:06:41.740 I will never,

00:06:42.680 never leave.

00:06:43.760 Right. 1.00

00:06:43.860 Think of all the shit you do. 1.00

00:06:46.120 Think of what? 1.00

00:06:46.880 I know I do.

00:06:48.380 Yeah.

00:06:48.660 So this is the point.

00:06:49.660 So as a man,

00:06:50.560 if you're never prepared to walk away,

00:06:52.160 you're never going to be respected.

00:06:53.540 Respect.

00:06:54.380 And the woman thinking,

00:06:55.620 you know what?

00:06:56.260 He might just leave.

00:06:58.040 Are linked.

00:06:59.460 They have to be there.

00:07:01.180 So you have to mean what you say.

00:07:02.800 You have to let her know,

00:07:03.800 look,

00:07:03.980 there's some things I won't tolerate. 1.00

00:07:05.120 And if you fuck with me, 1.00

00:07:05.720 I'm going to walk away. 1.00

00:07:06.260 And if you walk away

00:07:07.100 and she doesn't chase you,

00:07:08.220 then,

00:07:08.920 then she's gone.

00:07:09.880 At least you saved yourself 1.00

00:07:11.160 a fucking nasty divorce 1.00

00:07:12.420 and getting cheated on 1.00

00:07:13.480 and all that shit. 0.98

00:07:14.520 Just end it then and there 1.00

00:07:15.580 and save yourself a bunch of time.

00:07:17.360 But men are too afraid

00:07:18.360 to pull the plug on it 1.00

00:07:19.420 because they get addicted to the pussy 1.00

00:07:20.600 and they don't believe 1.00

00:07:21.160 they can get any more pussy 1.00

00:07:22.060 and they get all messed up. 1.00

00:07:23.460 That's why we put up with so much.

00:07:25.120 I still want to hear 0.99

00:07:26.880 she has nice boobs. 1.00

00:07:29.000 Just boobs, bro. 1.00

00:07:30.540 Not worth all those problems. 0.95

00:07:31.840 And this is one of the advantages

00:07:32.760 of being a playboy.

00:07:33.820 I can leave any chick 1.00

00:07:34.860 because I got 10 more.

00:07:36.920 Yeah.

00:07:37.400 So if she doesn't act right,

00:07:38.660 I'll just replace her for the night 0.98

00:07:39.760 and I'll feel better by the next day.

00:07:41.660 I go through a breakup a week.

00:07:43.360 Look at the look in this guy's eyes

00:07:45.060 on the left.

00:07:45.580 He's supposed to be

00:07:46.620 the not toxic.

00:07:49.220 At least he's rational

00:07:50.420 and he's not so aggressive.

00:07:51.860 But look at the look in his eyes.

00:07:52.920 He's like, yeah, whoa.

00:07:55.060 Like he inherently,

00:07:57.120 like what he's saying

00:07:58.580 is stuff that all men 0.99

00:07:59.900 really agree with

00:08:00.980 if you think about it

00:08:01.620 and if you've dealt with women. 0.98

00:08:02.880 And he's like, oh my God,

00:08:03.820 you're saying

00:08:04.420 what I really have thought

00:08:05.820 my whole life. 0.99

00:08:06.420 I don't give a shit. 0.99

00:08:08.300 And it's just like, 0.99

00:08:09.060 this is part of the game.

00:08:09.940 So you have to be prepared

00:08:10.760 to walk away as a man.

00:08:11.720 So you have to look at

00:08:12.280 any relationship you're in

00:08:13.100 and say, okay,

00:08:13.980 I'm a nice guy.

00:08:14.640 I love her.

00:08:15.060 She loves me,

00:08:15.580 but I have boundaries 1.00

00:08:16.220 and if she fucks with him, 1.00

00:08:17.020 I'm going to have to walk away. 1.00

00:08:18.320 And that's the truth.

00:08:18.880 Otherwise,

00:08:19.160 you're never going to be respected.

00:08:20.440 Yeah.

00:08:20.720 I call it non-attachment, right?

00:08:22.540 Like having this ability

00:08:23.440 to be fully open, right?

00:08:25.420 Because it's not just being 1.00

00:08:26.340 a cold, heartless bastard or asshole. 1.00

00:08:30.080 It's being fully open, 1.00

00:08:31.140 but also at the same time

00:08:32.180 being willing to walk away,

00:08:33.140 just being saying,

00:08:33.920 hey, you know,

00:08:34.520 I'm not attached.

00:08:35.540 Like, you know,

00:08:36.240 I can express myself,

00:08:37.940 you know,

00:08:38.220 can even fall in love.

00:08:39.160 That's fine.

00:08:39.600 But I'm willing to walk away

00:08:41.380 because my worth

00:08:42.780 is so much greater

00:08:44.200 and I have options.

00:08:45.460 I'm better than you.

00:08:46.420 And I'm never going to time.

00:08:47.300 No, what he's saying

00:08:48.160 in a lot of words

00:08:48.920 is I'm better than you.

00:08:51.320 Myself up into one,

00:08:52.700 one single option

00:08:54.080 that I have

00:08:54.780 and putting my worth

00:08:55.760 or identity into that.

00:08:57.160 I've been head over heels

00:08:58.200 in love with women

00:08:58.900 and left them

00:09:00.060 and never got them back

00:09:01.300 and they never knew.

00:09:02.540 Yep.

00:09:02.920 That's life.

00:09:03.920 That's how it goes.

00:09:04.680 I've been head over heels

00:09:05.360 in love with women.

00:09:05.960 I didn't want to lose them

00:09:06.760 and they weren't listening.

00:09:07.620 So I walked away

00:09:08.300 and they didn't chase me

00:09:09.280 and I lost them.

00:09:10.220 But that's it.

00:09:10.940 My honor's intact.

00:09:11.880 My pride's intact. 0.98

00:09:12.840 And now I don't give a fuck anymore 0.98

00:09:13.980 because time's a hero. 0.99

00:09:14.800 That's life.

00:09:15.700 So it's better

00:09:16.740 than staying in a relationship

00:09:17.600 which I'm not happy in

00:09:18.480 because she starts acting 1.00

00:09:19.140 like a fucking fool. 1.00

00:09:20.500 And it's kind of like, 1.00

00:09:21.760 I use chess analogies a lot,

00:09:23.160 but it's kind of like chess.

00:09:24.100 If you're playing a game of chess

00:09:25.960 and you're in a losing position

00:09:27.020 and the only hope you have

00:09:28.640 of winning is a big sacrifice,

00:09:29.980 you give up your queen.

00:09:31.060 And you don't know

00:09:31.620 if it's going to work or not,

00:09:32.400 but it's the only hope.

00:09:33.760 You're better off

00:09:34.280 making the sacrifice

00:09:35.100 even if you lose

00:09:36.000 because if you don't,

00:09:36.780 you're just going to slowly

00:09:37.560 get ground down

00:09:38.440 and definitely lose in the end. 1.00

00:09:40.580 Like, do you love that pussy so much 1.00

00:09:42.420 you'd rather delay the breakup 1.00

00:09:43.920 by seven months

00:09:44.740 and lose without any pride or honor

00:09:46.360 and leave without any pride or honor

00:09:48.260 while she cheats on you? 1.00

00:09:49.120 Isn't it better just to say

00:09:49.840 right hand in the air,

00:09:50.500 you're not talking to that guy anymore?

00:09:52.100 Like, the end is coming.

00:09:54.140 If she chooses to talk

00:09:55.140 to that dude over you, 0.89

00:09:56.320 the end is certain. 0.99

00:09:57.740 So can you have enough balls 0.99

00:09:58.940 to just say bye 0.99

00:09:59.840 and at least leave

00:10:00.720 with your head held high?

00:10:02.140 But this is another thing, man.

00:10:03.540 It's crazy.

00:10:04.260 These men have never been through

00:10:05.940 any kind of emotional trauma.

00:10:07.980 So the idea of breaking up

00:10:09.080 with a woman is big to them.

00:10:11.500 I've been through, 1.00

00:10:12.360 when you've been through real shit, 0.99

00:10:14.420 a breakup just doesn't become 0.98

00:10:15.840 that real anymore.

00:10:16.860 You know, I've had people

00:10:17.480 try to kill me. 0.77

00:10:18.380 I have stab wounds. 1.00

00:10:19.680 Tell me again about this girl

00:10:20.840 who doesn't text you back. 0.99

00:10:22.120 Like, who gives a shit? 0.99

00:10:23.840 But she was hot. 1.00

00:10:26.460 But she's so,

00:10:27.540 she listened to my feelings.

00:10:29.740 There's people in Syria 0.55

00:10:30.800 getting bombed.

00:10:32.540 Yeah.

00:10:32.740 You have to get some perspective

00:10:34.440 and just realize

00:10:35.300 you're being, like,

00:10:36.120 there's real trauma

00:10:37.240 out here in the world.

00:10:38.500 Terrible things happen

00:10:39.440 day after day.

00:10:41.040 And here you are, alive.

00:10:42.680 But she was special.

00:10:44.260 And breathing

00:10:44.760 and perfectly healthy.

00:10:46.100 And you're going to cry 1.00

00:10:46.680 over some bitch? 1.00

00:10:48.080 Just man up. 1.00

00:10:49.340 But I liked her a lot.

00:10:50.920 And we would hold hands

00:10:52.460 and we went on a picnic. 1.00

00:10:54.780 Kill him! 1.00

00:10:55.640 Kill him! 1.00

00:10:56.560 Kill him! 1.00

00:10:56.940 Kill him! 1.00

00:10:58.100 Kill him! 1.00

00:10:58.320 Kill him! 1.00

00:10:58.600 Kill him! 1.00

00:10:58.860 Kill him! 1.00

00:10:59.640 Kill him! 1.00

00:10:59.840 Kill him! 1.00

00:11:00.280 Kill him! 1.00

00:11:00.780 Kill him! 1.00

00:11:01.320 Kill him! 1.00

00:11:02.360 Kill him! 1.00

00:11:03.300 Kill him! 1.00

00:11:03.760 Kill him! 1.00

00:11:04.100 Kill him! 1.00

00:11:05.280 Kill him! 1.00

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Andrew Tate Might Actually be Right!

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