SNEAKO - January 18, 2025BAN PORNHUB NOT TIK TOK.
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Summary
Porn is one of the most obvious weapons of mass destruction on the minds of the youth, and the U.S. Congress is doing nothing to ban it. Pornhub is free to access, but to ruin your life potentially, you just click a box that says you're over 18.
Transcript
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Nobody wants TikTok banned, but everybody wants Pornhub banned.
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There's not one person in Gen Z that actually cares about China selling our information to Timu.
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But every time somebody sees this headline, we're alarmed that Israel has direct connections to Pornhub.
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They're both brain rot, but if we have to pick one of the two,
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I'll pick white dudes doing Renegade and K-pop Cardi over gooning in a drive-thru any day.
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One makes you cringe a little bit, the other one leaves a legacy that your family can never forget.
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Here's a reward for you in case you're ever drowning in doubt, facing unmatched difficulties,
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or hopping on your last limb to remind you that there's men, women, and children out there
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that are winning their battles because your message made an impact on their lives.
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Porn is one of the most obvious weapons of mass destruction on the minds of the youth,
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and the U.S. Congress is doing nothing to ban it.
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Although the situation is funny, the guy who was jerking off in the drive-thru
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and then left his family to go and commit suicide makes you think a little bit.
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When a fat girl gets bullied for being fat, there's GoFundMes, there's marches, everyone cares.
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But a porn addict guy doing porn addict activities like jerking off in a drive-thru
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leaves a stain on his family's legacy that will never be wiped away.
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People joke around about the drive-thru guy, but it's very obvious what landed him in that situation
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People like me will get wiped from the internet, but your six-year-old brother
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could open up and see exactly what the drive-thru guy saw now.
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To get a beer at a bar or a pack of cigarettes, you gotta show an ID.
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But to ruin your life potentially, you just click a box that says you're over than 18.
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The government knows how easy it is to access, and they have no intention at all of making it harder.
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And I've heard all the justification, oh, it's a healthy way to explore your sexuality.
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There's no part of the human brain that should see that much that early, ever.
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So I spent most of my teenage years doing as much research as possible
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to try to find a way to rewire my brain from all the disgusting stuff I saw when I was 11, 12 years old.
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And I don't want to see anybody in the comments or quote tweets getting their high horse.
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If you know what this music is, you saw the same shit too.
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And the information that changed my life is an idea called long-term thinking,
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something that I never applied at an early age.
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The best way to quit porn or these instant gratification activities
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is to think of this idea of second-order consequences.
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They think in first-order consequences, you clock into work, you get your paycheck.
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First-order consequence is as simple as eat food, calories in.
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A second-order consequence is, oh, I go to the gym, my mood's going to be better,
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so my work is going to have a better output now.
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Second-order consequence is thinking, I'm not just going to refuse the fast food so I don't get fat.
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I want to not be fat so that I can put on a suit and feel more confident
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so that when I shake hands in an important meeting, I'm more likely to get the sale.
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And so the justification for porn is it's a healthy way to explore your sexuality
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and to get out your energy without doing some crazy thing in the street.
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Some people need to let their perversions run wild and the internet is a safe place to do it
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That's how most of the world thinks and operates and that's what separates the extremely wealthy
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First-order consequence is thinking Pornhub is technically safe because it's free to go on
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Second-order consequence is knowing that you're spending your energy and your time.
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A very simple example of first-order consequence is how you can buy a TV on layaway at Walmart.
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You're trading future happiness for instant gratification,
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taking debt that you have to pay off in the future for entertainment on a screen now.
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And why this works is because people don't understand the second-order consequence.
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Not only do you need to spend your time to make back the money that you spend on the TV to pay it off,
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but now by spending time to watch that TV, you're spending less time working,
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So yeah, you get to watch that terrible show today for free,
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but you're going to be consuming junk food while you watch it.
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And in the future, you're going to have to pay it off anyway.
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One of the most common traps is jewelry and fancy cars,
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something that my community always tells me to get.
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Sneeko, you should get a Lamborghini and get a Rolex diamond watch.
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And yes, I can afford these things and they look nice,
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you need to wear it and drive it in places that you wouldn't be if you were working instead.
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Now you got to buy bottle service and hang out with people that you hate at the club
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Second-order consequence is realizing if I invest that Lamborghini diamond watch money
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I can make so much money that that's all monkey activity anyway.
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And it is as simple as just removing your hand from your penis.
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But if you have trouble next time, imagine God looking down at you,
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And if that doesn't work, I would say apply long-term thinking.
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know that you're sacrificing the future for now.
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I have a friend in New York who just got $50 from stake.com
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and he ended up going $12,000 in debt in a night.
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I got to give props to my boy, Eddie, because what a business model.
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You see an email, boom, $3.50, and then you're clicking this button all night long.
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if you ever see those old people in a casino spamming the machine,
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that's exactly what teenagers and dooners look like
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before they go in a drive-thru with their pants off.
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Here's a conversation I just had on the One Minute Podcast
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with this father who recently applied long-term thinking.
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What's the secret to doing well in real estate?
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Saving all your money and just delayed gratification.
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Because you're going to have moments where you got large sums of money in your account
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and you have to know, I have to allocate this towards this.
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And you can't just go out spending money just to look a certain way.
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It's funny that you say that about instant gratification.
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I just watched a podcast last night about long-term thinking and delayed gratification.
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You ever heard the theory that five-year-old kids were offered one marshmallow now
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And then the kids that took two marshmallows later,
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they followed them throughout their life and they ended up being successful.
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The greatest piece of advice I ever got, I was in deployment
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and I was making more money than I ever made in my life.
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And one of my friend's mothers at the time asked me,
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she said, that's nice, sweetie, but where are you going to park it?
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So you're going to spend all that money on a car and you're going to park it on the street?
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She told me I could get a condo and I could rent it out.
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Instead, I got a multifamily, rented those units out, two units out,
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lived in one for about two years, a year and a half,
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And then the year after that, or a year and some change after that,
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And while we're at this topic, I also asked people about soulmates,
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which is an idea that I've pretty much given up on
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because when you get to a certain age and after a certain amount of relationships,
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I'm not sure that it's a love relationship, like loving relationship.
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And he has opened my heart and given me so much hope.
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It's the resilience, the honesty, the fact that he can be light
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and encourage me to believe that, you know, there's hope for us as humanity,
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even going through what he's going through, but also the way that we communicate.
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The other day I was on set dancing with a dancer,
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and I fell in love and I asked him to be my gay husband.
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the fact that they are able to stay optimistic about life in that situation
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is something that, you know, we all should look at and reflect and be like,
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look at what we're complaining about if people like this are still able to pray five times a day.
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Yeah, and I think there's something about the Palestinian culture
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that they all feel like they understand they're each a part of a larger family,
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because that's what we need to do as humans everywhere
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But I'm not sure that, like, it's a love in a relationship,
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You don't think any of your friends are your soulmates?
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But I'm close with them still, but not, like, in a soulmate type of way.
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Like, what separates your friends from soulmate friends?
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I think, like, soulmates are, like, destined to be together.
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My friends, I just found them because I think they're funny and nice to hang around with.
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Do you think that they would be offended if you told them that?
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Well, okay, in Denmark, what's the major difference between the relationships in Denmark
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I'm not sure that there's much bigger of a difference.
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But maybe, like, it's more private in Denmark, maybe?
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Do you think that we show too much on social media in America?
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But when you think about how many people are in America,
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it's only, like, a small part that shows it on social media, I think.
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What's the difference between a soulmate and a relationship?
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I think a soulmate is someone that you don't find yourself needing to.
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You don't have to explain yourself to often, too.
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But for me and him, at least, we both love music, and there's a passion for that.
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It's something that I don't have to explain to him.
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I don't have to explain to him why I want to stay up until four in the morning
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perfecting a particular sound on, you know, a snare drum or something.
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He just understands that and that drive and that interest.
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And the fact that we connect on a deeper level in that way, an unspoken way,
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I think that shows more of a soulmate-driven thing than just a relationship.
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And I think I say that because I think love is an act of choice.
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And you wake up and you decide to make that decision every day.
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I think people's idea of soulmates and falling in love
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My advice for young men on falling in love and long-term relationships
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but you get to a certain level of success and achievement
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and falling in love and soulmates just doesn't become feasible
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You need to be a little bit naive in your adolescence and early adulthood
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Because when you reach a certain level as a man,
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the only relationships outside of your family that are realistic
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are ones that are feasible and fit into your life
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rather than ones that are purely followed by your heart.
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I believe women at any age can always fall in love
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and revert back to that childlike innocence of soulmate love.
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But if you're a young guy and you haven't yet been in a relationship
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I would stay as far away from it as possible.
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Maintaining a relationship with the woman you love is a part-time job.
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So I would focus all your energy onto getting to the next level.