SNEAKO - January 18, 2025


BAN PORNHUB NOT TIK TOK.

Hosted by
Nicolas Kenn De Balinthazy
Mentioned
Renegade Sneeko Cardi Eddie Timu
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Episode Stats


Length

12 minutes

Words per minute

204.54

Word count

2,654

Sentence count

181

Harmful content

Misogyny

3

sentences flagged

Toxicity

25

sentences flagged

Hate speech

9

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Summary

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Porn is one of the most obvious weapons of mass destruction on the minds of the youth, and the U.S. Congress is doing nothing to ban it. Pornhub is free to access, but to ruin your life potentially, you just click a box that says you're over 18.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 This is a message to the U.S. government.
00:00:02.420 Nobody wants TikTok banned, but everybody wants Pornhub banned.
00:00:06.140 There's not one person in Gen Z that actually cares about China selling our information to Timu.
00:00:11.260 But every time somebody sees this headline, we're alarmed that Israel has direct connections to Pornhub.
00:00:16.720 They're both brain rot, but if we have to pick one of the two, 0.61
00:00:19.760 I'll pick white dudes doing Renegade and K-pop Cardi over gooning in a drive-thru any day. 1.00
00:00:25.460 One makes you cringe a little bit, the other one leaves a legacy that your family can never forget.
00:00:30.120 Raise your ya-ya-ya.
00:00:31.620 Not looking good.
00:00:32.420 Raise your ya-ya-ya.
00:00:36.700 Here's a reward for you in case you're ever drowning in doubt, facing unmatched difficulties,
00:00:40.680 or hopping on your last limb to remind you that there's men, women, and children out there
00:00:44.140 that are winning their battles because your message made an impact on their lives.
00:00:48.060 Long live love speech.
00:00:51.260 Porn is one of the most obvious weapons of mass destruction on the minds of the youth,
00:00:55.460 and the U.S. Congress is doing nothing to ban it. 0.98
00:00:57.640 Although the situation is funny, the guy who was jerking off in the drive-thru 0.64
00:01:01.320 and then left his family to go and commit suicide makes you think a little bit. 0.98
00:01:05.100 When a fat girl gets bullied for being fat, there's GoFundMes, there's marches, everyone cares. 1.00
00:01:10.220 But a porn addict guy doing porn addict activities like jerking off in a drive-thru 1.00
00:01:14.180 leaves a stain on his family's legacy that will never be wiped away. 0.99
00:01:17.480 People joke around about the drive-thru guy, but it's very obvious what landed him in that situation
00:01:21.840 to begin with, and no one's talking about it.
00:01:23.700 People like me will get wiped from the internet, but your six-year-old brother
00:01:27.080 could open up and see exactly what the drive-thru guy saw now.
00:01:30.760 To get a beer at a bar or a pack of cigarettes, you gotta show an ID.
00:01:34.080 But to ruin your life potentially, you just click a box that says you're over than 18.
00:01:38.440 The government knows how easy it is to access, and they have no intention at all of making it harder.
00:01:43.120 And I've heard all the justification, oh, it's a healthy way to explore your sexuality.
00:01:47.200 There's no part of the human brain that should see that much that early, ever.
00:01:52.300 Yet all the focus is on the CCP and TikTok.
00:01:55.000 Makes you wonder, who owns Pornhub?
00:01:57.400 So I spent most of my teenage years doing as much research as possible
00:02:00.840 to try to find a way to rewire my brain from all the disgusting stuff I saw when I was 11, 12 years old.
00:02:06.460 And I don't want to see anybody in the comments or quote tweets getting their high horse. 0.99
00:02:09.540 If you know what this music is, you saw the same shit too. 0.94
00:02:12.800 And the information that changed my life is an idea called long-term thinking, 0.98
00:02:16.900 something that I never applied at an early age.
00:02:19.720 The best way to quit porn or these instant gratification activities
00:02:22.860 is to think of this idea of second-order consequences.
00:02:26.520 Most people never apply these ideas at all.
00:02:28.920 They think in first-order consequences, you clock into work, you get your paycheck.
00:02:33.220 You study for the test, you pass the test.
00:02:35.940 First-order consequence is as simple as eat food, calories in.
00:02:39.880 Exercise, calories out.
00:02:41.380 A second-order consequence is, oh, I go to the gym, my mood's going to be better,
00:02:45.620 so my work is going to have a better output now.
00:02:48.140 Second-order consequence is thinking, I'm not just going to refuse the fast food so I don't get fat.
00:02:52.860 I want to not be fat so that I can put on a suit and feel more confident
00:02:56.300 so that when I shake hands in an important meeting, I'm more likely to get the sale.
00:03:00.400 And so the justification for porn is it's a healthy way to explore your sexuality
00:03:04.820 and to get out your energy without doing some crazy thing in the street.
00:03:09.440 Some people need to let their perversions run wild and the internet is a safe place to do it
00:03:14.060 where you're not harming anybody.
00:03:15.400 That's how most of the world thinks and operates and that's what separates the extremely wealthy
00:03:19.820 from 99% of the world.
00:03:22.100 First-order consequence is thinking Pornhub is technically safe because it's free to go on
00:03:26.460 and I'm not spending any of my money.
00:03:28.640 Second-order consequence is knowing that you're spending your energy and your time.
00:03:32.540 A very simple example of first-order consequence is how you can buy a TV on layaway at Walmart.
00:03:38.720 You're trading future happiness for instant gratification,
00:03:42.000 taking debt that you have to pay off in the future for entertainment on a screen now.
00:03:46.640 And why this works is because people don't understand the second-order consequence.
00:03:50.360 Not only do you need to spend your time to make back the money that you spend on the TV to pay it off,
00:03:56.120 but now by spending time to watch that TV, you're spending less time working,
00:04:00.920 therefore making even less money.
00:04:02.740 So yeah, you get to watch that terrible show today for free,
00:04:05.640 but you're going to be consuming junk food while you watch it.
00:04:08.180 You're going to be losing time.
00:04:09.820 And in the future, you're going to have to pay it off anyway.
00:04:12.520 One of the most common traps is jewelry and fancy cars,
00:04:15.340 something that my community always tells me to get.
00:04:17.800 Sneeko, you should get a Lamborghini and get a Rolex diamond watch.
00:04:22.360 And yes, I can afford these things and they look nice,
00:04:24.740 but to get back your investment,
00:04:26.880 you need to wear it and drive it in places that you wouldn't be if you were working instead.
00:04:31.140 Now you got to buy bottle service and hang out with people that you hate at the club
00:04:34.800 so you could flash that diamond watch.
00:04:36.640 Second-order consequence is realizing if I invest that Lamborghini diamond watch money
00:04:41.280 into myself and into my business,
00:04:42.920 I can make so much money that that's all monkey activity anyway.
00:04:47.720 And I get people who message me all the time,
00:04:49.360 Sneeko, how do I quit porn?
00:04:50.460 I want to quit so bad. 1.00
00:04:51.480 And it is as simple as just removing your hand from your penis. 1.00
00:04:53.900 But if you have trouble next time, imagine God looking down at you, 1.00
00:04:58.460 at his creation. 1.00
00:05:02.120 It's fucking diamond. 0.99
00:05:03.780 And if that doesn't work, I would say apply long-term thinking. 0.99
00:05:07.080 Wherever there's instant gratification,
00:05:09.100 know that you're sacrificing the future for now.
00:05:11.520 I have a friend in New York who just got $50 from stake.com
00:05:15.220 and he ended up going $12,000 in debt in a night.
00:05:19.420 I got to give props to my boy, Eddie, because what a business model.
00:05:22.200 You see an email, boom, $3.50, and then you're clicking this button all night long.
00:05:27.760 One of my favorite analogies,
00:05:28.920 if you ever see those old people in a casino spamming the machine, 0.98
00:05:32.080 that's exactly what teenagers and dooners look like 1.00
00:05:34.740 before they go in a drive-thru with their pants off.
00:05:37.280 Here's a conversation I just had on the One Minute Podcast
00:05:39.540 with this father who recently applied long-term thinking.
00:05:42.580 What's the secret to doing well in real estate?
00:05:45.920 Saving all your money and just delayed gratification.
00:05:49.640 Because you're going to have moments where you got large sums of money in your account
00:05:55.040 and you have to know, I have to allocate this towards this.
00:05:57.720 I have to save this for that.
00:05:59.380 And you can't just go out spending money just to look a certain way.
00:06:03.220 You got to save your money.
00:06:04.460 It's funny that you say that about instant gratification.
00:06:06.300 I just watched a podcast last night about long-term thinking and delayed gratification.
00:06:10.200 You ever heard the theory that five-year-old kids were offered one marshmallow now
00:06:15.300 or two marshmallows later?
00:06:16.560 They'll take the one marshmallow right now.
00:06:18.040 And then the kids that took two marshmallows later,
00:06:19.820 they followed them throughout their life and they ended up being successful.
00:06:22.340 The greatest piece of advice I ever got, I was in deployment
00:06:25.060 and I was making more money than I ever made in my life.
00:06:27.460 I was going to buy a GTR when I got home.
00:06:29.480 It was your dream car.
00:06:30.740 And one of my friend's mothers at the time asked me,
00:06:33.660 she said, that's nice, sweetie, but where are you going to park it?
00:06:37.660 I said, park it on the street.
00:06:38.780 I park all my cars on the street.
00:06:40.280 So you're going to spend all that money on a car and you're going to park it on the street?
00:06:44.980 Right then it clicked.
00:06:45.960 She told me I could get a condo and I could rent it out.
00:06:49.040 The room's out to my friends.
00:06:50.620 Instead, I got a multifamily, rented those units out, two units out,
00:06:56.840 lived in one for about two years, a year and a half,
00:07:00.080 and then rented out the other room.
00:07:02.160 And then the year after that, or a year and some change after that,
00:07:05.320 bought the next one, did the same thing.
00:07:07.940 Did you ever get the car?
00:07:09.700 No, I have five cars now though. 0.99
00:07:11.360 Oh shit. 0.99
00:07:12.180 Okay. 1.00
00:07:12.460 Yeah.
00:07:12.900 That's a lot of cars.
00:07:14.000 Yeah, it is a lot of cars.
00:07:15.200 And while we're at this topic, I also asked people about soulmates,
00:07:18.380 which is an idea that I've pretty much given up on
00:07:21.180 because when you get to a certain age and after a certain amount of relationships,
00:07:25.680 it's not going to happen anymore.
00:07:26.780 Do you believe in soulmates?
00:07:28.360 I do.
00:07:29.400 You're a soulmate?
00:07:30.320 Yeah, I think so.
00:07:31.520 He's a good one.
00:07:32.240 I'm going to keep him around.
00:07:34.040 A hundred percent.
00:07:34.940 I think everyone has a soulmate.
00:07:36.480 I'm not sure that it's a love relationship, like loving relationship.
00:07:40.720 It could also be a friend.
00:07:41.680 Or what was the last time you fell in love?
00:07:44.480 Um, last week.
00:07:47.080 What happened?
00:07:49.760 Seriously?
00:07:50.540 Yeah, I'm interested.
00:07:51.760 I have a pen pal in Gaza.
00:07:53.940 And he is so incredibly intelligent.
00:07:57.260 And he has opened my heart and given me so much hope.
00:08:00.020 So is it the resilience or the honesty?
00:08:04.060 What is it about?
00:08:05.080 It's the resilience, the honesty, the fact that he can be light
00:08:08.420 and encourage me to believe that, you know, there's hope for us as humanity,
00:08:14.140 even going through what he's going through, but also the way that we communicate.
00:08:17.540 The other day I was on set dancing with a dancer,
00:08:20.040 and I fell in love and I asked him to be my gay husband.
00:08:23.540 Well, the Gaza husband, that's great. 1.00
00:08:25.700 So how many husbands do you have? 1.00
00:08:27.500 Um, well, right now, just the gay one. 1.00
00:08:30.940 Just one gay husband. 1.00
00:08:32.480 Something about the people from Gaza, 1.00
00:08:34.180 the fact that they are able to stay optimistic about life in that situation
00:08:38.180 is something that, you know, we all should look at and reflect and be like,
00:08:42.180 look at what we're complaining about if people like this are still able to pray five times a day.
00:08:46.680 Yeah, and I think there's something about the Palestinian culture
00:08:49.880 that they all feel like they understand they're each a part of a larger family,
00:08:53.940 and I think that's something that inspires me
00:08:56.000 because that's what we need to do as humans everywhere
00:08:58.780 because we are really connected.
00:09:00.280 Do you believe in soulmates?
00:09:02.080 Yes, I do.
00:09:02.900 But I'm not sure that, like, it's a love in a relationship,
00:09:06.780 like loving in a relationship.
00:09:07.940 It could also be a friend.
00:09:09.520 Do you have a soulmate?
00:09:11.200 Not yet.
00:09:12.380 You don't think any of your friends are your soulmates?
00:09:14.320 No.
00:09:15.380 But I'm close with them still, but not, like, in a soulmate type of way.
00:09:19.340 What's the difference?
00:09:20.180 Like, what separates your friends from soulmate friends?
00:09:23.960 I think, like, soulmates are, like, destined to be together.
00:09:29.240 My friends, I just found them because I think they're funny and nice to hang around with.
00:09:33.060 Do you think that they would be offended if you told them that?
00:09:35.640 No.
00:09:36.660 I don't think so.
00:09:38.000 Maybe they're not going to see this.
00:09:39.180 I guess not.
00:09:40.020 Maybe not.
00:09:40.620 Well, okay, in Denmark, what's the major difference between the relationships in Denmark
00:09:45.720 or the relationships in America?
00:09:47.160 Because I'm sure you consume our media.
00:09:51.140 I'm not sure that there's much bigger of a difference.
00:09:54.600 But maybe, like, it's more private in Denmark, maybe?
00:09:59.420 I'm not sure.
00:10:00.720 Maybe, like, more intimate.
00:10:01.980 I'm not sure.
00:10:02.600 I can't.
00:10:03.260 Do you think that we show too much on social media in America?
00:10:06.020 Some do.
00:10:06.900 But when you think about how many people are in America,
00:10:09.540 it's only, like, a small part that shows it on social media, I think.
00:10:12.920 Like, the big influences.
00:10:15.200 Okay.
00:10:15.900 Do you believe in soulmates?
00:10:18.600 I do.
00:10:20.120 Is he your soulmate?
00:10:21.080 Yeah, I think so.
00:10:22.300 He's a good one.
00:10:23.000 I'm going to keep him around.
00:10:25.000 How long have you been together?
00:10:26.840 Going on around three years.
00:10:28.720 Wow.
00:10:29.160 Yeah.
00:10:29.460 What's the difference between a soulmate and a relationship?
00:10:33.020 I think a soulmate is someone that you don't find yourself needing to.
00:10:42.160 You don't have to explain yourself to often, too.
00:10:44.660 I don't know if that makes sense.
00:10:45.840 But for me and him, at least, we both love music, and there's a passion for that.
00:10:50.680 It's something that I don't have to explain to him.
00:10:52.320 I don't have to explain to him why I want to stay up until four in the morning
00:10:55.320 perfecting a particular sound on, you know, a snare drum or something.
00:11:01.060 He just understands that and that drive and that interest.
00:11:04.400 And the fact that we connect on a deeper level in that way, an unspoken way,
00:11:08.280 I think that shows more of a soulmate-driven thing than just a relationship.
00:11:14.520 Do you love him or are you in love?
00:11:17.320 Whoa.
00:11:18.360 Did you hear that one, babe?
00:11:20.120 He asked me if I'm in love with him.
00:11:22.140 Wait, say it again.
00:11:23.480 Do you love him or are you in love?
00:11:25.020 Do I love you or am I in love?
00:11:27.300 You know what?
00:11:27.780 I love him.
00:11:28.440 And I think I say that because I think love is an act of choice.
00:11:33.000 And you wake up and you decide to make that decision every day.
00:11:35.880 So I choose to love him every day.
00:11:37.880 Yes, I love him.
00:11:39.680 Thanks a lot for coming on.
00:11:40.480 Man, this is so cool.
00:11:41.520 Nice to meet you.
00:11:42.220 Hope you enjoy it.
00:11:42.900 Thank you.
00:11:44.800 Bye.
00:11:45.060 I think people's idea of soulmates and falling in love
00:11:48.400 is another form of instant gratification.
00:11:51.400 My advice for young men on falling in love and long-term relationships
00:11:54.780 is after 22, you're pretty much cooked.
00:11:58.520 I don't mean that in a morbid way,
00:12:00.040 but you get to a certain level of success and achievement
00:12:02.720 and falling in love and soulmates just doesn't become feasible
00:12:07.200 or really mentally possible anymore.
00:12:09.140 You need to be a little bit naive in your adolescence and early adulthood
00:12:14.140 to embrace a soulmate.
00:12:15.720 Because when you reach a certain level as a man,
00:12:18.020 the only relationships outside of your family that are realistic
00:12:20.980 are ones that are feasible and fit into your life
00:12:23.820 rather than ones that are purely followed by your heart.
00:12:26.940 I believe women at any age can always fall in love
00:12:29.960 and revert back to that childlike innocence of soulmate love.
00:12:34.540 Men past 21, 22 in a couple of relationships,
00:12:37.300 it's kind of out of here.
00:12:38.840 So I would say to young men,
00:12:40.040 if you've got a good girl now,
00:12:41.400 keep her for as long as possible.
00:12:42.960 But if you're a young guy and you haven't yet been in a relationship 0.99
00:12:45.900 and you're not a lonely romantic fuck, 0.99
00:12:47.980 I would stay as far away from it as possible. 1.00
00:12:50.600 Maintaining a relationship with the woman you love is a part-time job.
00:12:53.680 So I would focus all your energy onto getting to the next level.
00:12:57.300 Good luck, everybody.
00:12:57.960 See you at the top.