SNEAKO - January 18, 2025


BAN PORNHUB NOT TIK TOK.


Episode Stats

Length

12 minutes

Words per Minute

204.5367

Word Count

2,654

Sentence Count

181

Misogynist Sentences

3

Hate Speech Sentences

9


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 This is a message to the U.S. government.
00:00:02.420 Nobody wants TikTok banned, but everybody wants Pornhub banned.
00:00:06.140 There's not one person in Gen Z that actually cares about China selling our information to Timu.
00:00:11.260 But every time somebody sees this headline, we're alarmed that Israel has direct connections to Pornhub.
00:00:16.720 They're both brain rot, but if we have to pick one of the two,
00:00:19.760 I'll pick white dudes doing Renegade and K-pop Cardi over gooning in a drive-thru any day.
00:00:25.460 One makes you cringe a little bit, the other one leaves a legacy that your family can never forget.
00:00:30.120 Raise your ya-ya-ya.
00:00:31.620 Not looking good.
00:00:32.420 Raise your ya-ya-ya.
00:00:36.700 Here's a reward for you in case you're ever drowning in doubt, facing unmatched difficulties,
00:00:40.680 or hopping on your last limb to remind you that there's men, women, and children out there
00:00:44.140 that are winning their battles because your message made an impact on their lives.
00:00:48.060 Long live love speech.
00:00:51.260 Porn is one of the most obvious weapons of mass destruction on the minds of the youth,
00:00:55.460 and the U.S. Congress is doing nothing to ban it.
00:00:57.640 Although the situation is funny, the guy who was jerking off in the drive-thru
00:01:01.320 and then left his family to go and commit suicide makes you think a little bit.
00:01:05.100 When a fat girl gets bullied for being fat, there's GoFundMes, there's marches, everyone cares.
00:01:10.220 But a porn addict guy doing porn addict activities like jerking off in a drive-thru
00:01:14.180 leaves a stain on his family's legacy that will never be wiped away.
00:01:17.480 People joke around about the drive-thru guy, but it's very obvious what landed him in that situation
00:01:21.840 to begin with, and no one's talking about it.
00:01:23.700 People like me will get wiped from the internet, but your six-year-old brother
00:01:27.080 could open up and see exactly what the drive-thru guy saw now.
00:01:30.760 To get a beer at a bar or a pack of cigarettes, you gotta show an ID.
00:01:34.080 But to ruin your life potentially, you just click a box that says you're over than 18.
00:01:38.440 The government knows how easy it is to access, and they have no intention at all of making it harder.
00:01:43.120 And I've heard all the justification, oh, it's a healthy way to explore your sexuality.
00:01:47.200 There's no part of the human brain that should see that much that early, ever.
00:01:52.300 Yet all the focus is on the CCP and TikTok.
00:01:55.000 Makes you wonder, who owns Pornhub?
00:01:57.400 So I spent most of my teenage years doing as much research as possible
00:02:00.840 to try to find a way to rewire my brain from all the disgusting stuff I saw when I was 11, 12 years old.
00:02:06.460 And I don't want to see anybody in the comments or quote tweets getting their high horse.
00:02:09.540 If you know what this music is, you saw the same shit too.
00:02:12.800 And the information that changed my life is an idea called long-term thinking,
00:02:16.900 something that I never applied at an early age.
00:02:19.720 The best way to quit porn or these instant gratification activities
00:02:22.860 is to think of this idea of second-order consequences.
00:02:26.520 Most people never apply these ideas at all.
00:02:28.920 They think in first-order consequences, you clock into work, you get your paycheck.
00:02:33.220 You study for the test, you pass the test.
00:02:35.940 First-order consequence is as simple as eat food, calories in.
00:02:39.880 Exercise, calories out.
00:02:41.380 A second-order consequence is, oh, I go to the gym, my mood's going to be better,
00:02:45.620 so my work is going to have a better output now.
00:02:48.140 Second-order consequence is thinking, I'm not just going to refuse the fast food so I don't get fat.
00:02:52.860 I want to not be fat so that I can put on a suit and feel more confident
00:02:56.300 so that when I shake hands in an important meeting, I'm more likely to get the sale.
00:03:00.400 And so the justification for porn is it's a healthy way to explore your sexuality
00:03:04.820 and to get out your energy without doing some crazy thing in the street.
00:03:09.440 Some people need to let their perversions run wild and the internet is a safe place to do it
00:03:14.060 where you're not harming anybody.
00:03:15.400 That's how most of the world thinks and operates and that's what separates the extremely wealthy
00:03:19.820 from 99% of the world.
00:03:22.100 First-order consequence is thinking Pornhub is technically safe because it's free to go on
00:03:26.460 and I'm not spending any of my money.
00:03:28.640 Second-order consequence is knowing that you're spending your energy and your time.
00:03:32.540 A very simple example of first-order consequence is how you can buy a TV on layaway at Walmart.
00:03:38.720 You're trading future happiness for instant gratification,
00:03:42.000 taking debt that you have to pay off in the future for entertainment on a screen now.
00:03:46.640 And why this works is because people don't understand the second-order consequence.
00:03:50.360 Not only do you need to spend your time to make back the money that you spend on the TV to pay it off,
00:03:56.120 but now by spending time to watch that TV, you're spending less time working,
00:04:00.920 therefore making even less money.
00:04:02.740 So yeah, you get to watch that terrible show today for free,
00:04:05.640 but you're going to be consuming junk food while you watch it.
00:04:08.180 You're going to be losing time.
00:04:09.820 And in the future, you're going to have to pay it off anyway.
00:04:12.520 One of the most common traps is jewelry and fancy cars,
00:04:15.340 something that my community always tells me to get.
00:04:17.800 Sneeko, you should get a Lamborghini and get a Rolex diamond watch.
00:04:22.360 And yes, I can afford these things and they look nice,
00:04:24.740 but to get back your investment,
00:04:26.880 you need to wear it and drive it in places that you wouldn't be if you were working instead.
00:04:31.140 Now you got to buy bottle service and hang out with people that you hate at the club
00:04:34.800 so you could flash that diamond watch.
00:04:36.640 Second-order consequence is realizing if I invest that Lamborghini diamond watch money
00:04:41.280 into myself and into my business,
00:04:42.920 I can make so much money that that's all monkey activity anyway.
00:04:47.720 And I get people who message me all the time,
00:04:49.360 Sneeko, how do I quit porn?
00:04:50.460 I want to quit so bad.
00:04:51.480 And it is as simple as just removing your hand from your penis.
00:04:53.900 But if you have trouble next time, imagine God looking down at you,
00:04:58.460 at his creation.
00:05:02.120 It's fucking diamond.
00:05:03.780 And if that doesn't work, I would say apply long-term thinking.
00:05:07.080 Wherever there's instant gratification,
00:05:09.100 know that you're sacrificing the future for now.
00:05:11.520 I have a friend in New York who just got $50 from stake.com
00:05:15.220 and he ended up going $12,000 in debt in a night.
00:05:19.420 I got to give props to my boy, Eddie, because what a business model.
00:05:22.200 You see an email, boom, $3.50, and then you're clicking this button all night long.
00:05:27.760 One of my favorite analogies,
00:05:28.920 if you ever see those old people in a casino spamming the machine,
00:05:32.080 that's exactly what teenagers and dooners look like
00:05:34.740 before they go in a drive-thru with their pants off.
00:05:37.280 Here's a conversation I just had on the One Minute Podcast
00:05:39.540 with this father who recently applied long-term thinking.
00:05:42.580 What's the secret to doing well in real estate?
00:05:45.920 Saving all your money and just delayed gratification.
00:05:49.640 Because you're going to have moments where you got large sums of money in your account
00:05:55.040 and you have to know, I have to allocate this towards this.
00:05:57.720 I have to save this for that.
00:05:59.380 And you can't just go out spending money just to look a certain way.
00:06:03.220 You got to save your money.
00:06:04.460 It's funny that you say that about instant gratification.
00:06:06.300 I just watched a podcast last night about long-term thinking and delayed gratification.
00:06:10.200 You ever heard the theory that five-year-old kids were offered one marshmallow now
00:06:15.300 or two marshmallows later?
00:06:16.560 They'll take the one marshmallow right now.
00:06:18.040 And then the kids that took two marshmallows later,
00:06:19.820 they followed them throughout their life and they ended up being successful.
00:06:22.340 The greatest piece of advice I ever got, I was in deployment
00:06:25.060 and I was making more money than I ever made in my life.
00:06:27.460 I was going to buy a GTR when I got home.
00:06:29.480 It was your dream car.
00:06:30.740 And one of my friend's mothers at the time asked me,
00:06:33.660 she said, that's nice, sweetie, but where are you going to park it?
00:06:37.660 I said, park it on the street.
00:06:38.780 I park all my cars on the street.
00:06:40.280 So you're going to spend all that money on a car and you're going to park it on the street?
00:06:44.980 Right then it clicked.
00:06:45.960 She told me I could get a condo and I could rent it out.
00:06:49.040 The room's out to my friends.
00:06:50.620 Instead, I got a multifamily, rented those units out, two units out,
00:06:56.840 lived in one for about two years, a year and a half,
00:07:00.080 and then rented out the other room.
00:07:02.160 And then the year after that, or a year and some change after that,
00:07:05.320 bought the next one, did the same thing.
00:07:07.940 Did you ever get the car?
00:07:09.700 No, I have five cars now though.
00:07:11.360 Oh shit.
00:07:12.180 Okay.
00:07:12.460 Yeah.
00:07:12.900 That's a lot of cars.
00:07:14.000 Yeah, it is a lot of cars.
00:07:15.200 And while we're at this topic, I also asked people about soulmates,
00:07:18.380 which is an idea that I've pretty much given up on
00:07:21.180 because when you get to a certain age and after a certain amount of relationships,
00:07:25.680 it's not going to happen anymore.
00:07:26.780 Do you believe in soulmates?
00:07:28.360 I do.
00:07:29.400 You're a soulmate?
00:07:30.320 Yeah, I think so.
00:07:31.520 He's a good one.
00:07:32.240 I'm going to keep him around.
00:07:34.040 A hundred percent.
00:07:34.940 I think everyone has a soulmate.
00:07:36.480 I'm not sure that it's a love relationship, like loving relationship.
00:07:40.720 It could also be a friend.
00:07:41.680 Or what was the last time you fell in love?
00:07:44.480 Um, last week.
00:07:47.080 What happened?
00:07:49.760 Seriously?
00:07:50.540 Yeah, I'm interested.
00:07:51.760 I have a pen pal in Gaza.
00:07:53.940 And he is so incredibly intelligent.
00:07:57.260 And he has opened my heart and given me so much hope.
00:08:00.020 So is it the resilience or the honesty?
00:08:04.060 What is it about?
00:08:05.080 It's the resilience, the honesty, the fact that he can be light
00:08:08.420 and encourage me to believe that, you know, there's hope for us as humanity,
00:08:14.140 even going through what he's going through, but also the way that we communicate.
00:08:17.540 The other day I was on set dancing with a dancer,
00:08:20.040 and I fell in love and I asked him to be my gay husband.
00:08:23.540 Well, the Gaza husband, that's great.
00:08:25.700 So how many husbands do you have?
00:08:27.500 Um, well, right now, just the gay one.
00:08:30.940 Just one gay husband.
00:08:32.480 Something about the people from Gaza,
00:08:34.180 the fact that they are able to stay optimistic about life in that situation
00:08:38.180 is something that, you know, we all should look at and reflect and be like,
00:08:42.180 look at what we're complaining about if people like this are still able to pray five times a day.
00:08:46.680 Yeah, and I think there's something about the Palestinian culture
00:08:49.880 that they all feel like they understand they're each a part of a larger family,
00:08:53.940 and I think that's something that inspires me
00:08:56.000 because that's what we need to do as humans everywhere
00:08:58.780 because we are really connected.
00:09:00.280 Do you believe in soulmates?
00:09:02.080 Yes, I do.
00:09:02.900 But I'm not sure that, like, it's a love in a relationship,
00:09:06.780 like loving in a relationship.
00:09:07.940 It could also be a friend.
00:09:09.520 Do you have a soulmate?
00:09:11.200 Not yet.
00:09:12.380 You don't think any of your friends are your soulmates?
00:09:14.320 No.
00:09:15.380 But I'm close with them still, but not, like, in a soulmate type of way.
00:09:19.340 What's the difference?
00:09:20.180 Like, what separates your friends from soulmate friends?
00:09:23.960 I think, like, soulmates are, like, destined to be together.
00:09:29.240 My friends, I just found them because I think they're funny and nice to hang around with.
00:09:33.060 Do you think that they would be offended if you told them that?
00:09:35.640 No.
00:09:36.660 I don't think so.
00:09:38.000 Maybe they're not going to see this.
00:09:39.180 I guess not.
00:09:40.020 Maybe not.
00:09:40.620 Well, okay, in Denmark, what's the major difference between the relationships in Denmark
00:09:45.720 or the relationships in America?
00:09:47.160 Because I'm sure you consume our media.
00:09:51.140 I'm not sure that there's much bigger of a difference.
00:09:54.600 But maybe, like, it's more private in Denmark, maybe?
00:09:59.420 I'm not sure.
00:10:00.720 Maybe, like, more intimate.
00:10:01.980 I'm not sure.
00:10:02.600 I can't.
00:10:03.260 Do you think that we show too much on social media in America?
00:10:06.020 Some do.
00:10:06.900 But when you think about how many people are in America,
00:10:09.540 it's only, like, a small part that shows it on social media, I think.
00:10:12.920 Like, the big influences.
00:10:15.200 Okay.
00:10:15.900 Do you believe in soulmates?
00:10:18.600 I do.
00:10:20.120 Is he your soulmate?
00:10:21.080 Yeah, I think so.
00:10:22.300 He's a good one.
00:10:23.000 I'm going to keep him around.
00:10:25.000 How long have you been together?
00:10:26.840 Going on around three years.
00:10:28.720 Wow.
00:10:29.160 Yeah.
00:10:29.460 What's the difference between a soulmate and a relationship?
00:10:33.020 I think a soulmate is someone that you don't find yourself needing to.
00:10:42.160 You don't have to explain yourself to often, too.
00:10:44.660 I don't know if that makes sense.
00:10:45.840 But for me and him, at least, we both love music, and there's a passion for that.
00:10:50.680 It's something that I don't have to explain to him.
00:10:52.320 I don't have to explain to him why I want to stay up until four in the morning
00:10:55.320 perfecting a particular sound on, you know, a snare drum or something.
00:11:01.060 He just understands that and that drive and that interest.
00:11:04.400 And the fact that we connect on a deeper level in that way, an unspoken way,
00:11:08.280 I think that shows more of a soulmate-driven thing than just a relationship.
00:11:14.520 Do you love him or are you in love?
00:11:17.320 Whoa.
00:11:18.360 Did you hear that one, babe?
00:11:20.120 He asked me if I'm in love with him.
00:11:22.140 Wait, say it again.
00:11:23.480 Do you love him or are you in love?
00:11:25.020 Do I love you or am I in love?
00:11:27.300 You know what?
00:11:27.780 I love him.
00:11:28.440 And I think I say that because I think love is an act of choice.
00:11:33.000 And you wake up and you decide to make that decision every day.
00:11:35.880 So I choose to love him every day.
00:11:37.880 Yes, I love him.
00:11:39.680 Thanks a lot for coming on.
00:11:40.480 Man, this is so cool.
00:11:41.520 Nice to meet you.
00:11:42.220 Hope you enjoy it.
00:11:42.900 Thank you.
00:11:44.800 Bye.
00:11:45.060 I think people's idea of soulmates and falling in love
00:11:48.400 is another form of instant gratification.
00:11:51.400 My advice for young men on falling in love and long-term relationships
00:11:54.780 is after 22, you're pretty much cooked.
00:11:58.520 I don't mean that in a morbid way,
00:12:00.040 but you get to a certain level of success and achievement
00:12:02.720 and falling in love and soulmates just doesn't become feasible
00:12:07.200 or really mentally possible anymore.
00:12:09.140 You need to be a little bit naive in your adolescence and early adulthood
00:12:14.140 to embrace a soulmate.
00:12:15.720 Because when you reach a certain level as a man,
00:12:18.020 the only relationships outside of your family that are realistic
00:12:20.980 are ones that are feasible and fit into your life
00:12:23.820 rather than ones that are purely followed by your heart.
00:12:26.940 I believe women at any age can always fall in love
00:12:29.960 and revert back to that childlike innocence of soulmate love.
00:12:34.540 Men past 21, 22 in a couple of relationships,
00:12:37.300 it's kind of out of here.
00:12:38.840 So I would say to young men,
00:12:40.040 if you've got a good girl now,
00:12:41.400 keep her for as long as possible.
00:12:42.960 But if you're a young guy and you haven't yet been in a relationship
00:12:45.900 and you're not a lonely romantic fuck,
00:12:47.980 I would stay as far away from it as possible.
00:12:50.600 Maintaining a relationship with the woman you love is a part-time job.
00:12:53.680 So I would focus all your energy onto getting to the next level.
00:12:57.300 Good luck, everybody.
00:12:57.960 See you at the top.