SNEAKO - April 20, 2023Brittany Simon Exposes The Dark Realities Behind SNEAKO's Mind!
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In today's podcast, we are guested by sneeko and his friend Donya Donya. We talk about feminism, being exceptional, and why people have a hard time seeing you as being exceptional.
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hello everyone welcome back to today's podcast my name is britney simon in today's podcast we
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are guested by sneeko hi sneeko how you doing britney it's good to be back good so happy to
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see you and his friend donya donya we were on pearl show yesterday uh she's really well spoken
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and uh she makes a lot of sense she's actually uh has a similar worldview to you britney yeah but
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she didn't get the chance to speak that much on the podcast because there's some loud feminists
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who just talk over the whole time so i think well i'm excited to hear from you guys then go ahead
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tell me yeah it just it just gives me a headache talking to these people but um donya is a woman
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who makes sense okay i'm excited about that how did you guys meet we met on the show yesterday
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like literally yesterday yeah oh okay well here's to new friendships i guess okay that's exciting
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how old are you well tell us how both how old you both are i'm 24 and uh you're done don't
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22 22 okay awesome so i wanted to have you on the podcast nico and of course i'm happy you're
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here as well i want to talk about being exceptional it's come up a lot and i think because of where
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you're at in the world i would argue that you were quite exceptional but i know a lot of people don't
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want to think that of you and so i wanted to ask you why do you think people have a hard time
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seeing you as exceptional i think a lot of people have their own agenda and they have a lot of ego i think
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social media has done that and we see it like in the podcast we were on yesterday everybody wants
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to be that voice of truth and thinks that they know everything and i don't think people are willing
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to put themselves in a vulnerable situation to be completely honest people don't like being wrong
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people don't like being curious and i i think i add something to the social media space that's pretty
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uncommon when it comes to being curious and open-minded and being extremely honest and i've been doing it for
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so long i don't really come on acting like i know everything i come on um with a mindset of seeking
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of seeking truth which is rare and i think people i think a lot of it is jealousy and also a lot of it
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is also arrogance and a lack of understanding um but this is why i like what you do is that you come in
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with a lot of uh empathy and not fake empathy which is what i think a lot of women do now uh that they
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a lot of times they can be patronizing in the way that they talk to men um and we saw it on the show
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last night there's uh the way they talk to them they'll they'll do this fake empathy thing where
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they'll be like oh do you know how to fight and i'm like yeah i know how to fight okay that's good
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that's it's like you have to qualify it's like oh you're not a little bitch like oh you can you're
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like a big boy huh and it's not and they act like it's empathetic and understanding because they'll
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be like oh that's really good oh you're like a rumbler like you you're like you're like exceptional
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okay that's whatever the kind of gay but still that's the way that they talk and it's it's not
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really empathetic it's not it doesn't come from a place of understanding it comes from a place of
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competition do you because one of the things i struggle with especially when i start to express
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you know interest in different people's belief systems and how people do things i i guess i see
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like parts of people i know in you so i can humanize you very easily or i'm like oh yeah like i know
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people who have this mindset or i know people just like this and they're really good people
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and so from from knowing people similar to you i'm like well i know they're good and then i've
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talked to you a little bit i know you're good and i know you have the best intentions but do you
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think that it's ideology that really makes people think you have bad intentions or is there some
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part of you that secretly does have bad intentions i don't have bad intentions and it's not just
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ideology and i think they're the reason that you understand it is because probably the people that
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you're talking about are are they younger than you oh yeah they can be yeah yeah so what you are
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understanding is when i come from when i sound aggressive or when i sound straightforward people
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will get off put by that they're like why is this guy like yelling at me like calm down yesterday we did
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the show and this girl said that i was vibrating with misogyny and i've never heard that before
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he's like your vibrations are misogynistic and it's it's i've never heard that in my life which i thought
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it was extremely stupid but i do understand it because there's people with the same ideology as me
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but they come off and they explain it in a different way and i come on pretty hard-headed and aggressive
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and debate style and loud which people they see it as like a personal attack people get really
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off put by that i've noticed in my life that uh people always explain to me that the way i'm
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speaking is off-putting to people but i think that you kind of see past that and you don't really
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consider that um as aggressive as other people do which i could probably do better at at articulating
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myself in that way to get through to more people i can understand why women would say that i'm vibrating
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with misogyny but in in some sense i don't really feel the need to go and change up my tone of voice for
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these people because i think that they're already going to disagree with me regardless the reason
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why i like dania and why i like you britney is because i don't need to go and shift that up i i
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can just press myself properly and not have to to readjust do you think i think it's about more
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about listening to what you actually have to say rather than how you say it yeah absolutely honestly
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i run into the same problem and maybe you guys too in your life but people always tell me that
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britney's changed the way you talk talk differently do it different but the idea is that i'm supposed to be
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authentic right isn't that the goal so why would i switch it up now i want to be a good communicator
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so sometimes i'm not the best but the way i talk and maybe it's my middle eastern genes over here but
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like it feels aggressive to people but i don't mean it to be it's just i don't that's just who i am
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personality wise but i also am trying to reach a very specific audience i know who my audience is who
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i'm trying to talk to so the question is like when you make content who are you trying to talk to do you
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know yeah i know exactly who it is so i like talking to the whole world i want everybody
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i like having input in all types of conversations i have a specific point of view and i do have my
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core audience i'm on discord right now and i just had to go put an announcement because we were
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getting warnings for anti-vaccine content and like violence so my audience is on the same page as me
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they understand it but i like being a part of the bigger conversation so i think i'm at a point where
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i do have the core people that listen but also there's an equal amount of people that hate watch
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and that like to watch and disagree with me which i don't think is a bad thing i don't i'm not really
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afraid of that i like having open dialogue i like having debate and it doesn't really bother me if
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people don't like me yeah donia what about in your regular life do you ever see it are you a dominant
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personality yourself or do you find yourself to be more stoic or i think when encouraging people to do
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better in life some people do take it as an attack rather than rather than advice or something
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as someone wanting you to do better totally i run into that all the time definitely i've come across
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i've been told about my tone of voice and stuff but it's yeah people just kind of need to see past that
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and well you know i i'm sure you've heard me say it a bunch of times nico but like i really think
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everyone is so so different we all have like in these different bubbles but i think that for me i need
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to be kind of have my ass kicked a little bit like when i'm trying to be exceptional when i'm trying to
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literally beat statistics when i'm trying to be that person it means that i have to defy whatever
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that default is right so how could i not be somebody who needs like a little bit of aggression to get
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that motivation going and that aggression can be off-putting to most people but if most people
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aren't doing the thing i think it would be off-putting to them because they don't even know like how
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aggressive you have to be in certain areas to just get ahead so i think there's a combination
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of those two things like even getting yourself to the gym takes discipline and discipline is not
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something that i'm seeing quite frequently like have you guys ever heard the saying like die for
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your values do any of you know like have you do you ever grow up hearing that right all right
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that's before dishonor yes okay a lot of people i said that on stream the other day and someone was
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like who dies for their values who dies for their beliefs and i'm like what are you talking the world
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is built off of men who died for their beliefs so the idea that people are disconnected from that
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idea makes them cynical of you because it makes them think well you know what is nico really trying
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to do and i think you're trying to be better but i think that your process for being better looks
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offensive to other people what do you think about that yeah you completely you said it perfectly
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and i i want to thank you for defending me and saying that i how authentic you think i am um because
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yeah i think i think you got it spot on it's just about but at the same time you need to figure out a
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better way of communication like the most effective form of communication my way of doing it and i think
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our way is similar it can be off putting and aggressive to people and it does add entertainment value
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when it comes to understanding yeah you're gonna have a hard time changing people's minds because
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they're so uh they're so off put by how you're saying it they're focused on the way you're saying
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it rather than what you're saying so your message does get lost and if you want to be the most effective
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communicator you would get past that um but that that's a constant um thought process i have it's
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like are these people even really worth trying to get through to are these people just are they
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really stuck in their ways or are they um are they worth changing you know if the people that
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are capable of change they have to want to change yeah and and i think the people that want to change
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would understand it but the people that were never going to change is they won't be able to hear it so
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it's it's this balance and um but eventually i think that that that is the best form of communication
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yeah there's something to be said you know growing up in a house i have nine siblings
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and so i'm used to all these personalities and all these and i'm the oldest of seven of them so
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i've two older brothers and then the rest are like my little siblings and they come to me
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and they'll say things like hey what do you think i should do with this and how do you think i should
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do this and every time i give them advice they still pick their own path ultimately i can only give
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them my advice and then they have to do the journey they're going to do and do i sometimes get insane
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anxiety over the like mistakes my brothers make sometimes yes but they are learning the same i learned
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that every time i messed up every time i did something poorly i every time i didn't understand
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why it didn't work for me i had to reconstruct my perspective to actually attain my goals i had to
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change i had to radically change and that was very difficult honestly sometimes i felt like i wasn't
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going to make it through the change have you ever felt that way like through a transformation where
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you're like i've really got to do this or i'm not going to make it no i never have a defeatist
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mindset when it comes to that i always know that i'm going to come out as a better person it's just
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sometimes i wish i could well this is a stupid thought but i'm like i wish i could just fast
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forward to the end part where i've already figured this part out totally but you have to enjoy the
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process of the work if you don't enjoy it then it's going to be grueling and you have to enjoy it to the
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best of your ability every moment of life i agree with you yeah you don't enjoy what you do then it's
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going to feel like a chore every day and if you love what you do and you do it for free then you never
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work a day in your life so yeah i don't know why i keep uploading videos but here i am like and you
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know what i just hit my first six figures so i was pretty proud of myself it finally happened thank
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you but no god oh please sneak oh please i'm poor as hell no in a year no i just finally reached my
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first six figures and that's a big deal for me because i was a person who like struggled with
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like being financially set thinking about business being business-minded and i feel like i'm just
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starting that and you're so young you've already succeeded way past like do you ever feel intimidated
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by your own like where you are so young no uh actually i i never feel that way whatsoever
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uh i just compare myself to people that are more successful like i was listening i looked at the
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central sea a lot recently i think he's in london too um he's around the same age as me he just
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dropped an album called 23 which is just documenting his life at 23 just listen to the lyric before i went
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out to dinner and he was talking about how like he can't die now because he hasn't made 100 million
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yet and i i hear that i'm like man i gotta set my game up like yeah i could have been more productive
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today why am i not making 100 million like sometimes i overslept this morning and it's like why am i
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wasting any time laying in bed like scrolling for a little bit when i could be making 100 million
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dollars when i could be influencing more people when i could be making a different video that i've never
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made before like i i don't ever look at the place of my life and get complacent i just look at people who
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are doing better who are more motivated to do more than me i'm like man why am i not in that position
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because i don't see anybody else having uh an unfair advantage compared to me i i see it as we
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are adult we're all dealt the same hand and the only reason that i'm not at the same point as somebody
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else is just lack of self-discipline and a lack of um a strong a strong work ethic i i don't yesterday
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we're having this discussion and i noticed a lot of people in my generation they use things like
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racism to hold them back like oh i'm black so i can't have this or i'm an immigrant so i can't be
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here and this like misogyny and all this stuff and that type of mindset that defeatist mindset which
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is essentially what it is that will hold you back more than any other circumstance in life so i think
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that if you detach your mind from anything that's going to hold you back that you have no control of
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even if racism does exist your belief that is holding you back is stronger than the racism that's
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actually out there so i i like to separate myself from that and and never get complacent and just
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anybody who's doing better than me i should be there too okay what if you because this is how i
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think of it i think you just kind of said it in your own way i think that i would say that's funny
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our language is so different but i think we have the same message i would say we're all dealt
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different cards we all grew up in different environments but if you eradicate like what your
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culture has taught you or what the bubble is making you think we're all actually the same
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we're humans on a planet and then we're all playing the game of survival and then we're playing the game
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of success and then we're playing the game of maybe being a good family member and then we're playing
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we're playing like different versions of our life but you are raised in an environment where the game
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is a little different so i'm always like learn the rules of the game then destroy the game then make
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a new game or play a different game does that kind of translate versus because i was born a woman
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you were born a man those are different lives but ultimately we're both just people on a planet
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trying to do our best yeah and just attaching yourself to anything that's going to make you
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a victim or hold you back that's just i think it's really important for anybody watching to
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remember that that's a stronger force pulling you back than anything than any other circumstance
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even though like of course there's advantage that i have as a man that you don't have as a woman
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but uh complaining about it more that that's uh it doesn't help it doesn't help all it does is
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just hold you in your same spot well it's kind of like negative looping right you don't want to
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think to yourself every day i'm not worthy you want to think yourself i'm going to either earn
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that worthiness by being disciplined or i'm going to prove to myself that i'm good enough
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and i think that comes from the desire to believe in yourself which i don't think everyone is exactly
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at or they're not there yet so is a part of your work trying to get people to the point where
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they do believe in themselves my the point where i'm at what i do with live streaming i want to get
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people to unplug themselves from the same things that held me back before and i see that i describe
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it as just most of it is woke ideology most of it is wokeness these ideas were given to us and these
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ideas were fed to us not because they care about justice like when you hear when you see something
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censored because of misinformation the misconception that most people have is like oh they care about
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misinformation no they don't they are trying to push a specific narrative to keep us all complacent
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and to keep us satisfied with being mediocre while the people who are giving feeding us these lies
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they enjoy a life that we are never going to even fathom as possible because we're all arguing about
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racism and george floyd or whatever was in the news today whatever celebrity drama happened
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whatever climate like whatever they tell us to be concerned about that ultimately we have no control
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about people protesting the war in ukraine like you are not going to stop this war why have you been
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fed this have you been told to care about ukraine because you're going to stop the war or to keep
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you distracted and to keep you emotionally invested into something that you have no control over
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so that you feel like you're doing something while you actually have no control over this the most power
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that we have is becoming the best versions of ourselves is improving as being more impactful
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and truthful with your voice and having a closer connection to god that is the strongest thing that
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we are all capable of but that's harder to believe if you're if you're distracted but if you're distracted
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by all the garbage that you see in the news and on your phone that that's an easier thing to attach
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yourself to emotionally and mentally so my purpose is to get people to realize that these things
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they're all psyops they're they're not they were not designed because they care about you they were
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not designed so that you can go and protest it away it was given to you as a false sense of purpose and
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that's not your greater purpose your greater purpose is is much bigger than that so i i want people to
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understand like why they are emotionally invested into these things like who who people should question
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their worldview more often a lot of people have really strong opinions and they're really
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emotional about what they believe in and i don't really think that they even know why like they'll
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make a scrunch face or they'll say something like you're vibrating with misogyny and it's like why do you
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no like like why do you even think that yeah what led you to this point why why do you think that
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motherhood is oppression why why do you think that girls need to be uh rapping and girl boss queens like
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who fed you this idea i don't think people even analyze why they have these thoughts um it's hard
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to get to that point but uh and when i explain this to people they get aggressive because i challenge
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them and it sometimes it can be really personal because some people they really construct their
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entire identity around these beliefs so when you call that out it feels like you're calling them
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out personally but i think it's it's effective right right right now okay this is so interesting
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you know the way you talk about wokeness is how i felt growing up in the 90s and 2000s about the
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conservative movement of that era where i was like why are you telling me to be this way why are you
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saying this is the only way i can be i want to be any way i want to be successful so how do you how
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do you define success you know what is success for both of you i'd love to hear what you both think
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is once you reach it you'll be like i am successful or are you successful now you know how do you view it
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well i think i agree with donia this is why i like her i think success is just happiness
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success is quality of life a lot of people have this idea that success is directly correlated to
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monetary value and that's not really it success is just happy i think the most successful person
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is a person who's happiest because that that's the the point of life is is creation and also to
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live the happiest existence and live the fullest life possible um yeah i agree with you i think a lot
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of people have this mindset that if they make more money then they'll be happy or they'll be successful
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but you can't happiness isn't something you can really chase it's something that you find within
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yourself and i think it takes a long time for a lot of people to realize that because there's
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millionaires billionaires and they have all the money in the world they can buy whatever they want
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and they're not happy right right and when i compare myself to the person making a hundred or
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wanting to make a hundred million it's not because i really want that much money you don't need that
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much money it's the pursuit i think that that's the masculine imperative is to constantly pursue
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towards more and towards conquering and towards achieving as much as possible i think that
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pursuit of that makes you the happiest and yeah if you're always if you're working on something and
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if you have a specific goal and mission um then it's hard to really veer off in the wrong direction
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okay i'm so happy you guys said that because there is this assumption that when people view especially
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your works nico that there's some sort of goal to be the richest in the whole world as if money buys
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you've you know happiness or joy you know so how do you sort of change that narrative around your
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image because i see you that way that's how i see you i see you as somebody who's reaching for
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something deeper and more meaningful but for some reason like people can't see that in you and why do
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you think that is i think because most people don't go into social media or go into the space with that
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intention that's always been my intention it's been uh creation it's been artistic and that's why i'm
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kind of shifting away i haven't been live streaming as much because i'm just trying to create the best
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videos possible i want to make the same stuff that i was making in like 2018 2019 i was making
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these masterpiece videos because that's the happiest feeling i ever got like of course i'm
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making like good money now but the most successful that i've ever felt is after making a video like
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everything happens for a reason or fake it till you make it at 20 years old finishing the video
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rendering it after like a week of making this and then pressing upload and then just letting this
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idea this baby that i created and then putting it out into the universe that's like that's the
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happiest feeling that i have and so that i think you understand that but a lot of people get into
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this because and this is why it's become so oversaturated and there's so much noise and back and forth
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and drama and clickbait and extreme headlines is because people get into this like okay i can make money
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off this i can get influence off of this they don't go into it with pure intentions they see it as as a
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business i saw it as a way and that's i started youtube like when it was in the golden age i started
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like i see this as a place of self-expression i don't view it i had to like retrain my mind to view
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it as a business because i when i was in living in harlem when i was living in harlem and i was making
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around like 2 000 a month and i was just like feeding myself and paying for my rent based off the youtube
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videos that was like the coolest thing of all time for me the fact that i can create what i want to
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create and then pay this i didn't care about the rest i had to go and talk to more business-minded
00:21:57.080
people and they were saying let's show me how much they were making with less subscribers and i had to
00:22:00.740
retrain my mind to be like okay money can get you to a different place that you hadn't seen before
00:22:07.340
so yeah yeah you recognize that but um i think it's because people don't really go into it with pure
00:22:14.320
intentions and it's hard to because you'll get shot down so much there's so much negative feedback
00:22:18.300
there's so many negative comments there's so much there's so many people that uh will try to bring
00:22:23.020
you down that like to go into with pure intentions is almost stupid because why would you risk your
00:22:28.800
reputation like you've seen people try to destroy my life you've seen people try to ban me they tried
00:22:33.280
to get me like they accused me of all these things uh destroy my reputation lie about me i'm getting
00:22:38.660
the fake news is writing about me saying uh all this it's difficult to go into it like and just try to be
00:22:44.260
honest and vulnerable and authentic because they'll they'll they'll eat you alive but i've developed
00:22:50.000
a thick skin without doing it for a long time so it doesn't really affect me anymore but anybody
00:22:53.620
else seeing that and the way that the people that hate on what i do talk about me why would they go
00:22:59.380
into it with pure intentions that's that's it's better to see it as a business and not as an extension
00:23:04.800
of yourself which is how i see it it's better to see it as something that you just do separate
00:23:08.060
because then you put your entire reputation on the line um and now i didn't ask you uh what do
00:23:14.500
you do for a living so i can you know we can are you allowed to say it out loud yeah oh yeah i'm a
00:23:20.520
dental nurse and trying to be okay cool oh that's a great job that has that's a great paycheck right
00:23:25.780
there girl good for you okay that's interesting are you doing it for the money um partly just for
00:23:33.980
more freedom so i can travel i love but um it does feel good to be able to make a change in
00:23:39.720
people's lives and make them feel more confident in their own skin so that's cool okay that's the
00:23:44.680
most rewarding thing yeah you know it's funny when you're in the game of survival you have to pick a
00:23:49.620
job that pays you so you can feed your kids and support yourself like that's like you have to do
00:23:54.120
that so then the question is you said it earlier about you know you don't work a day in your life
00:23:58.580
picking something you're passionate about but not everybody gets that luxury we're pretty special
00:24:02.640
you know at least you know being a youtuber in general content creator i feel like i really
00:24:07.640
worked hard to do this two to three jobs at a time until i could and now i hope i always keep it going
00:24:11.760
on forever but then i have to be more business minded to keep this going i do have to think about
00:24:16.440
business to some extent because the way i talk pushes a lot of people away and so i have to think
00:24:20.420
to myself okay that's not the message i meant to send but that's what they heard so what do i do
00:24:24.880
do i act differently do i just change my words like i have to ask myself those questions
00:24:29.480
now what do you guys do when you're you know you're having this moment where you have to decide
00:24:34.820
which version of yourself do you show the public i guess more in sneko's case here so what is that
00:24:40.180
like what is that conversation you're having with yourself because for me it's always back and forth
00:24:43.920
do i talk differently maybe i can say it this way i'm thinking about not cussing in my videos so i can
00:24:48.180
get that bag from adsense i'm like should i do this like i do cuss should i pretend i don't cuss you know
00:24:53.420
what i mean yeah it's hard to be authentic in that way rumble gives you a lot of freedom
00:24:57.900
where i can when i'm live streaming on rumble i don't care like yeah i'm just talking to my chat
00:25:03.440
when it's just me in the chat then i could be myself and that's actually i find myself even be
00:25:07.960
more authentic than in most conversations because it's free-flowing it's entertainment people are just
00:25:12.640
there to hear me talk so it doesn't feel like back and forth um or it doesn't feel disingenuine
00:25:17.860
whatsoever that's it's actually so much so freeing to be on rumble compared to youtube because youtube like
00:25:22.140
i had to say like um when i talked about the shot i would be like the word i couldn't curse
00:25:27.480
i would come up with all this lingo and i have i still say it instead of like i'll say corn but
00:25:32.260
people know i want to talk about corn or yeah great like if you have to talk about um but i didn't i do
00:25:38.940
notice recently i've done podcasts and i've done uh debates where i've been scrutinized so much and
00:25:45.940
there's so many people even watching this right now you have to be aware that there are there's
00:25:49.340
probably 20 or 30 reaction channels watching this conversation ready to find a sentence where
00:25:54.680
i slip up so that they can make an entire video sneakos um i hate you yeah that's what's happening
00:26:04.240
like literally right now like even as i say this word uh say the sentence and i i was did a podcast
00:26:09.240
with pearl yesterday and i was talking about something about how like japan is successful
00:26:14.560
because they're homogenous society and i was just i was thinking while i was saying it people
00:26:19.320
are going to try and say i'm a white supremacist like while i'm just expressing uh an idea that i
00:26:24.640
had while in japan people are going to try to find a way to call me racist right or i was in a in a
00:26:28.800
debate with aiden ross and i was talking about um world war ii and i was very aware like this is
00:26:35.400
gonna be a clip on twitter like i know as soon as this this is gonna go and it was rightfully so
00:26:41.760
but then um it you just have to be aware of that now and i just see it as part of the game i don't
00:26:48.140
let it like i i'm i'm okay being scrutinized it's some people say like i uh i've seen some people say
00:26:56.480
like suniko has a humiliation fetish and that's absolutely not the case that's absolutely not the
00:27:02.280
case but i just don't really care about the scrutiny on social media because it never manifests in real
00:27:08.980
life i've never seen it i just get positivity like the people at the front desk of this hotel
00:27:13.100
they shake my hand they just like ask if i need anything extra yeah um people always take pictures
00:27:17.780
and it well you have to be realistic the same people who um talk about me online they probably
00:27:22.340
see me in public and take a picture with me so i i see it as entertainment i see it like people
00:27:27.060
like to engage in drama content people like to scrutinize people like to like
00:27:32.060
like they like they like doing it so fine like i'll be the i don't care like that will help me
00:27:39.180
get my message out there more and in a way it's really got to be canceled and everything but people
00:27:43.340
can't stop talking about me i feel like i have the system in a lot of ways where i'm banned off of
00:27:48.180
most of the platforms and my name is i've been trending on twitter worldwide for like weeks straight
00:27:52.960
just people youtube just like every day there's like i just searched my name yesterday and just all
00:27:59.140
these videos like what's the reason that the sneaker like what happened to him like people like
00:28:04.340
well like men in their 30s and 40s are like sneaker like they can't stop talking about me and i see it
00:28:11.560
as the way this is how trump won the election this in 2016 was the mainstream media all they did
00:28:16.860
was just poop all over him russian collusion he's a misogynist grab him by this they would not
00:28:23.980
stop talking about him they tried so hard to ruin his reputation what happened he won the election
00:28:29.120
so even though they're against him you're going to reach the people so being polarizing is a really
00:28:34.560
effective method at beating the censor machine at beating the propaganda machine because if real
00:28:42.380
recognized real the people that really understand they're not going to believe the lies that they see
00:28:46.060
on cnn they're not going to believe the lies from the fake news i i get called racist people call me
00:28:50.900
like right like literally which is so weird yeah they'll they'll write articles saying sneaker is a
00:28:57.100
white supremacist ally sneaker is a racist and of course like some people close to me are like
00:29:03.360
but not because they actually think i'm racist because they're afraid of what other people are
00:29:08.740
going to say for sure but they never they don't exist these people it's all it is is entered the way i
00:29:15.380
see it is just pure entertainment i know that i have good intentions and so do you and that's why i'm
00:29:20.100
thank you for doing the podcast i i think people can see that so i i understand how media is they
00:29:27.320
like to poop on people let them as long as you're accompanying yourself and you're living a good life
00:29:32.820
we're in london and life's great so like yeah like people feed off negativity it sells i think if
00:29:40.660
someone's more positive they don't even get the same amount of not as many people are going to be
00:29:46.300
talking about them true essentially so people say the outlandish things because they know that it's
00:29:51.680
going to get people's attention the same with the media people the media you scare tactics and they
00:29:57.080
put stuff out on the internet to scare people and they have half the population of the world living in
00:30:03.240
fear of news that probably isn't even true yeah i think there is a big a big problem with misinformation
00:30:09.380
and a big problem with just selling a product so the problem is like we're all hearing different news
00:30:14.020
we all have different sources and who are these sources and where are they getting their information
00:30:16.940
from it's hard to even know which is why my work is predicated on more what we believe versus what we
00:30:22.580
know because i don't think we know as much as we think i think we just have different information
00:30:26.200
so what's the downside to being yourself but also being the person that people hate so there's an
00:30:34.820
upside you you get everyone talks about you you go viral you become rich what's the downside
00:30:39.540
the downside is i mean i would say the number one downside is like stressing out the people closest
00:30:46.300
to me like they'll um yeah i don't want to say too much because it's gonna but like yeah don't
00:30:52.340
don't they'll see the conversation that you've had or like the the debates and like they're like
00:30:56.600
and they start reading the comments and they get it's just stress it's just stressful for them
00:31:01.680
i'm used to it but it's just like the people that that care about you um they get worried so
00:31:06.260
that's been the number one detractor other than that there's no big deal um you'll get slandered a
00:31:11.060
little bit people lie about you and uh people see you as a brand risk like there's some business
00:31:15.640
opportunities that i i've missed out on definitely because people think like that's the don't associate
00:31:21.380
with him and it's not because they actually think i'm a racist it's because there's articles calling
00:31:25.060
me racist and they don't want their brand to they don't want to associate with that so i get it it's
00:31:31.200
like being a brand risk will close a lot of doors but at the same time it's freeing because
00:31:35.360
once those doors are closed then you're not held back the same way that you feel like you're held
00:31:39.380
back on youtube by certain words like if i'm never gonna get a brand deal with this water bottle or
00:31:44.500
this water company then i don't need to go and change my language or pretend like i don't think
00:31:48.720
certain things i can just be as honest as possible yay said that to me like he never was more free like
00:31:54.440
once his bank account got frozen he's like i'm a free man now now what else they have nothing else to
00:31:58.580
take away from me they took my family they took my bank account they took everything there so i'm i'm a
00:32:04.120
free man yeah you know there's nobody there's nothing holding me back from being authentically
00:32:08.840
myself do you know the philosopher diogenes no he was during alexander the go ahead you've heard of
00:32:15.820
him yeah i don't know too much about him though but there's this funny story about diogenes during
00:32:20.780
alexander the great's like moment in time diogenes was this philosopher he had given up all his material
00:32:25.680
possessions and he was this is an alleged story of course right like this is what we've been told
00:32:29.420
throughout history but he's laying on the grass he's given up everything guys just everything he
00:32:33.840
has one single bowl but then he sees a child using the cupping of his hands to feed himself and he's
00:32:39.540
like well why do i even have this bowl so he gets rid of the bowl and as he's laying on the grass and
00:32:44.020
the sun is shining in front of him alexander the great comes to him and says what can i do for you
00:32:48.340
give tell me i'm a war hero i have everything what can i give you and diogenes says move you're blocking
00:32:53.280
the sun there's nothing you need except your joy your happiness your fulfillment and meaning and
00:32:58.880
purpose in life and that's not going to look the same for all of us right so for diogenes it was to
00:33:03.840
know that he's the freest he is when he has nothing holding him down for the rest of us we need to eat
00:33:09.280
and have shelter and go to london so we do need some money so realistically when you're sending out
00:33:14.780
this message that people are hearing and they look at you and think i'm never going to be sneeko though
00:33:18.660
i'm not going to risk my family being you know anxiety filled i'm not going to risk my reputation
00:33:23.900
i'm not going to risk this and that what message would you send to them if they're not willing to
00:33:28.740
take those big risks what risks could they take what message could you send to them to give them hope
00:33:33.960
that they could find their own path without becoming one of the most talked about negatively
00:33:38.800
people on the internet um the reality is most people are not really even in a world where they
00:33:46.420
they feel like they need to go and and challenge the status quo like that or engage in those
00:33:50.580
conversations i think that's a very specific type of person that wants to put themselves out there
00:33:55.620
like that so people can find themselves in different ways uh we're similar in that this is the way that
00:34:01.040
we find ourselves like being able to have open dialogue and talk online but most people they'll find
00:34:06.240
it uh in their own personal lives so for those people it's like i don't really think that that's a
00:34:11.700
a challenge for them to go and risk that uh people ignorance is bliss is true people like to
00:34:18.440
a lot of people like to live in the comfortable lives that they're fed they don't want to challenge
00:34:22.860
their worldview they don't want to think that they've been fed a lot of lies they don't like
00:34:27.340
to think that the government doesn't actually care about them or the powers that be have a different
00:34:30.620
agenda and that's okay if they will live a lot of times they'll even be aware of that but they'll just
00:34:35.720
they'll push it out of their heads just so that they can just like listen to go to their yoga class
00:34:41.200
and go home go like it's just like it's just too much and and i get it so but i don't i don't think
00:34:47.120
that's a problem for most people well hold on since you work in a normal people job girlfriend you got
00:34:51.920
to tell us what is it like being a normal person with a normal job normal goals but yet here you are
00:34:57.220
with sneeko here you are on my podcast so tell us i don't know it's quite it's very different i would
00:35:04.840
say um yeah i do see a lot of people every day just average normal everyday people and people that
00:35:13.980
work normal jobs and they just they just believe everything that's given to them and they just take
00:35:18.740
it for what it is and they just get on with it i mean some people are comfortable like that i mean
00:35:24.540
ignorance is bliss i guess it is it totally is now okay see this is what my work is about
00:35:30.040
but here's where i feel like i've come through with radical acceptance that i don't think my job in
00:35:35.700
life is to change people it's to give people the option to change like i'm saying live your life go to
00:35:43.180
your nine to five come home that's great that's beautiful have a family do your thing but if you find
00:35:48.620
yourself asking why aren't i joyful why aren't i happy why can't i feel that satisfaction that meaning
00:35:53.780
in life maybe i could find the answer i don't know on youtube maybe i could find it in a book and
00:35:58.480
that's what i'm trying to do i'm just trying to send a little beacon to people that are trying to
00:36:01.940
do something a little more on the orthodox my life is not normal but i feel normal every day
00:36:06.420
and that's something that i struggle with so what what like do you have a relationship with that
00:36:12.320
because you must feel normal right you must feel like a normal person yeah i am a normal person i think
00:36:17.920
it's just that that's what how i'm able to separate the negativity online or trending or
00:36:23.620
like people not stop talking about me it's like i said it only exists on the computer and on my phone
00:36:28.820
yeah i've never seen it not once and you would think trending worldwide after being canceled for
00:36:36.340
weeks straight on twitter being like one of them you would think that there'd be something happening
00:36:40.740
but it does not exist and that's been the best way for me to to not care about it it's just like
00:36:47.680
it's it i just see it purely as entertainment um people like to engage in a certain way isn't it
00:36:53.680
interesting though because like okay this is a thought i have and it sounds like it's a contradiction
00:36:57.140
i have a thought where i'm like i was oh my audience got so not my audience an audience of somebody else
00:37:03.240
got really upset with me and they were like did you hear what britney just said she just said in her
00:37:07.180
real life she just insinuated youtube is not her real life and i was like it's not it's my job and
00:37:12.500
it's a thing i do on the internet but then when i shut it off and i hang out with my family and with
00:37:15.900
my fiance that's my real life like that's my life so i'm realizing that i'm not even we are that's
00:37:24.160
what i'm saying but what why okay i'm online but i'm not chronically online you know that term like
00:37:28.720
you're chronically online i'm my real life is my family i have real problems we have a real solution
00:37:34.220
we have real things that we're doing and online is this cool job that i get to have but i didn't
00:37:38.960
realize that people didn't know that about me because i've been on the internet for so long they
00:37:42.340
thought britney was also one of us and i was like no no no no to be clear i live offline my real life is
00:37:48.620
off the computer but but at the same time here's the contradiction this is a part of me and it's
00:37:54.640
authentic and it's real and i it's meaningful to me so it is a part of me but yet it's not the whole
00:38:01.800
real me it's like a part of britney that needs to be on i need to make videos i don't know what's
00:38:06.320
wrong with me i need to do it right so what would you do you have that relationship with yourself
00:38:10.720
where you're yes you're offline and that's your real life but then your videos are so real they
00:38:14.400
they're so they mean so much to people they're so beautiful thank you um i appreciate that it's
00:38:21.720
you got to see it like as an art form or as creation and also like as a job like your job i'm sure
00:38:27.400
you think about it your job is there's your work like there's your work persona but when you come
00:38:32.000
back home you hang up your tie you put your shoes in the closet and then um there's that life so
00:38:36.600
one funny thing is a lot of people that i debate with like furiously and that you've had disagreements
00:38:41.940
with i'll i'll hang out with them in real life yeah well i won't talk like oh and rock climbing stuff
00:38:48.800
like that and then like it's back here and then we're literally like yelling at each other and then
00:38:53.980
people like are so confused and like oh i like that you guys could because i i don't i i know
00:38:58.780
how to separate that it doesn't have to be your whole thing like i'm sure we would get along and
00:39:03.220
i'm sure we'd have like if we met in real life we'd have a completely different conversation than
00:39:06.380
what we're having right now for sure it doesn't have to be your entire existence and if it is if
00:39:10.640
that's where you derive all of the meaning from uh from your work then you're gonna have a an empty
00:39:16.200
existence so this is why i'm putting a strong effort in traveling the world and meeting different
00:39:22.060
people and and training every day and just having a life that is it's really visual separate from
00:39:29.720
from this because i i see the effect that it has when everybody that constantly talks about me or
00:39:35.860
tries to bring me down or accusing me of all this stuff they're just in their room like they're that
00:39:42.740
they are the chronically online people and i think that that's a really important point uh for the
00:39:47.440
people watching to see it's like how much of that do they actually hate me or how much of that is
00:39:52.260
because they exist chronically online and they attach so much of their self-worth from that everybody
00:39:57.060
who hates me so much that they have a lot of things in common where they're a talking head in the same
00:40:01.580
room all day a lot of them are much older than me and they just sit there and that's you never see
00:40:07.680
them anywhere else i think it's important and i think it's effective too that i mean we're in london i met
00:40:12.700
donya yesterday i'd like to meet new people i'm gonna i'm about to go to bucharest and meet a lot of
00:40:16.660
people i'm going to romania this weekend cool and gonna keep gonna go to south america uh and just
00:40:22.880
continue seeing the world and i i will continue making my content but i it's important for people
00:40:28.420
that i i think it's important for the next generation of young men to understand that if
00:40:31.840
you make money online and if you have a business online you don't need to just game and watch corn
00:40:38.640
and like have just youtube be your whole or like tiktok that doesn't have to be your life
00:40:43.660
right it's an extension like that's a form of that's a form of communication but it doesn't
00:40:50.340
have to be your whole it could be a self-expression but that doesn't have to be your whole existence in
00:40:54.120
fact it shouldn't it's better if you're not it's better if you have experiences to tell stories to
00:40:58.000
tell and things to share uh from your experiences around the world and i think there's going to be a
00:41:03.440
lot of people that are starting to wake up and the reality is it's harder to wake up women
00:41:07.880
women are women are more easily programmed than men you think so yeah 100 i mean this i think
00:41:15.700
humans are programmable i think it's just humans you think they are they are but men are more capable
00:41:22.220
of waking up are more susceptible to criticism like when when women hear criticism and we were just
00:41:31.360
talking about this like she has one of her best friends is stuck in her ways and she's around bad
00:41:36.280
people and donia will try to tell her like you need to you need to get away from these people
00:41:41.740
or like come on this is how women are like when you tell when women tell each other accomplishments
00:41:46.040
the first thing they do is compare like what did you say like you told her about a job you got and
00:41:52.460
she's like why you're throwing it in my face why are you throwing because that's hard men men in my
00:41:58.740
experience like it's you uplift each other it's like oh good stuff like you're able to to self-improve
00:42:04.500
women are not good at as good at self-improvement as men that that's that's just a hard reality
00:42:09.640
britney if you disagree with me can you name one can you you disagree besides besides yours
00:42:16.280
because i see an essence of it but what what's the most popular self-improvement podcast for women
00:42:21.880
oh that's a great question well since the majority of men are the ones on youtube i assume
00:42:28.900
that wouldn't be as big of a market there right i think when i think of a woman's podcast i didn't
00:42:35.300
call her daddy oh i don't watch that i've never even watched it that's the most popular one that's
00:42:39.580
the most popular female podcast so funny i don't know that i don't watch that one i guess i do watch
00:42:43.740
most podcasts hosted by men but interviewing women so i guess yeah i can't think of a woman's podcast
00:42:49.220
other than comedians because i watch a lot of comedian podcasts hmm that's a good yeah i watched the
00:42:54.360
diary of ceo but that's a man and i watched like a bunch of like theories of everything but that's a
00:42:58.800
man but that makes sense right because even jordan peterson talks about this how majority of viewers
00:43:03.100
on youtube are men men are mostly chronically online like men are the ones suffering with
00:43:06.920
addiction to screens so my concern is that it's not even gender it's culture my concern because you
00:43:12.520
know i just said this on a live show the other day one of the greatest things my parents ever gave us
00:43:16.880
as children is not jealousy or envy like we do not want what other people have we want what we can
00:43:21.880
make for ourselves my dad's an entrepreneur my mom's like the stay-at-home mom who became part
00:43:26.540
of the business as well so for us it's i guess because we were raised in like it wasn't about
00:43:30.900
gender even though we're middle eastern from iraq it's not gender it's good people are not jealous
00:43:35.960
or envious they make their own you know what i'm saying so maybe it's a disconnect of culture more than
00:43:41.360
gender it could be but my bigger point is that the people that i'm going to be able to reach and
00:43:47.500
the people who's uh who's more affected like men are more easy are they are more susceptible to
00:43:54.440
to change their minds like okay yeah women women can be programmed by the art the people that are
00:44:01.260
doing the program the most influential people and this is true if you don't do this up woman thing
00:44:06.260
most influential people are men and if a woman is not being influenced by her husband or by their father
00:44:12.020
someone is going to take that patriarchal role and end up influencing her so even if she thinks she's an
00:44:16.780
independent queen she's probably influenced by the media the media is male dominated or she's
00:44:22.140
influenced by the government government's male dominated the government's telling her when to
00:44:25.360
stay inside when to go to work what she should do or her boss at her job and her boss 90 of the time
00:44:30.880
is a man so the the man is always in that influential world whether or not we we like it and this happens
00:44:37.340
in um in families too if you don't raise your kid properly what happens is somebody in the school is
00:44:43.660
going to end up raising your kid or the friends around it's it's usually it's a masculine figure
00:44:48.160
my point is that the people that i'm going to be able to reach and this is just a hard truth
00:44:53.320
it's going to be young men those are the people are going to be successful susceptible to
00:44:57.800
understanding this and that's why i think it's extremely important for me to travel and show a
00:45:00.820
different lifestyle because women are going to be like they'll admire it or they'll be like they'll
00:45:06.820
respect it and they'll see what but they're not going to go and emulate it they're not going to want
00:45:10.960
they're not going to go and emulate that a young man will so i think that that's the most effective
00:45:17.160
form if you want to make a change in the world getting the young men the military age men people
00:45:21.960
a little bit younger than me that's who's going to be able to to make a change because if you can
00:45:27.500
lead the household and if you strong men are the people that that are going to mold society i think
00:45:33.040
that's why these are kind of becoming a lot of extremely nonsense because there's a lack of strong
00:45:38.500
men there's a lack of men being able to take that lead and they give up they would rather you know
00:45:44.080
change their gender or say that gender roles don't exist and you know be chronically online and not
00:45:51.000
take the risk and not take the steps necessary in order to lead but the more strong men you have the
00:45:56.420
i think the better a world you have because uh if you have a strong man then you have um a happy woman
00:46:01.440
i think generally speaking there is a lack of discipline and leadership and i think because i work
00:46:07.480
with such niche communities gender like becomes a non-issue basically because i work mostly with
00:46:11.840
queer people like even in my relationship i'm the breadwinner like i'm not concerned with gender
00:46:16.160
roles in that regard but i think that generally speaking about straight heterosexual couples i think
00:46:22.340
there is that struggle dynamic because the studies they do on women who are successful who leave
00:46:26.980
corporate to become mothers and who want strong dominant men they're often straight women so you know
00:46:32.600
your audience is so much wider than mine it's such a different part of the population i'm just
00:46:36.300
talking to the few in between who are like sitting here not concerned so much with gender roles
00:46:40.820
but i wonder do you think that those communities deserve a place of joy and happiness outside of
00:46:45.980
that particular framework outside of the framework that works for straight couples
00:46:50.300
of course i think everybody deserves happiness and i want everybody to be happy
00:46:56.300
i just see it as the the most effective way or the most effective use of my voice is like of course i
00:47:04.020
like to entertain i like comedy and that's fun but if when it comes to influencing and impact it's
00:47:10.180
reaching young men yeah i think that's the most impactful use because if if i create men that have
00:47:16.000
that are happier that that are stronger that have a better life that are making more money and not
00:47:20.920
programmed if i if i impact them then the rest of the world is also and it doesn't it's bigger than
00:47:26.640
just straight relationships because if you have strong men are just around you in the community
00:47:30.460
strong men create a better world a weak men are the biggest problem i think people call me
00:47:35.760
all the time i think that it's it's a weak emotional man it's somebody who's unstable somebody who's
00:47:42.020
not in control that's the person who ends up lashing out and makes people scared like the reason
00:47:48.440
that a lot of women have their guard up is because they've been around a creepy guy who was too
00:47:52.560
or like a stalker women these bad experiences from weak men traumatize women and that's why i think
00:48:01.620
that's the most important thing to to use your voice for you know okay wait i really vibe with this idea
00:48:06.940
because i think that there's always a miss there's like okay i tell me if you agree with this that it's
00:48:12.240
not that men need to be emotional because being emotionally irregular is not good it's that men need to
00:48:17.280
have a relationship with their emotions so they don't lose that discipline is that sort of the
00:48:22.540
narrative oh i'm sorry girl say it again in your audio cut out emotional intelligence
00:48:26.620
emotionally intelligent and there's not many emotionally intelligent men anymore yeah across
00:48:34.160
anyway or women i think everyone's struggling right now i think everyone's kind of in a
00:48:38.440
we're not doing too good out here so that's why i think your voice is important for that motivation
00:48:42.860
it's what i'm trying to do which is to say look regardless of where you've come from or what
00:48:47.260
you're facing now i've got like mental illness and now i've got chronic illness and i'm like okay
00:48:51.600
doesn't matter scratch it just reinvent the wheel in your own way like reinvent your life so what the
00:48:57.380
the universe sent this your way god sent this your way whatever it is you're crossed to bear
00:49:00.720
you can still succeed but that's really hard knowing you can succeed i that's why i like people who walk
00:49:06.860
the walk see if i ever want to make a million dollars i'd call you because you did it right like i would
00:49:11.500
call people who have done things right what do you think about that do you think people should
00:49:16.020
have to walk the walk to be respected yeah i have people message me and they're like man i like what
00:49:22.440
you do a lot i want to start making red pill content too like i want to go and inspire and i'm like what
00:49:28.300
have you done well well so they really want to to talk about the same things but it's like if you
00:49:34.640
don't have the um the degree if you don't have the job application then you're not going to get the job
00:49:39.620
you know people don't take that as seriously and that's why that's why i'm saying like it's
00:49:43.800
extremely important to have real world experiences to have life experience and i i'm a social media
00:49:49.640
guy like i grew up on i grew up on my phone i grew up on the internet uh so i have to actively seek it
00:49:55.300
out a lot of people they have like the people that i talk to and that i that i respect and that i
00:50:00.060
communicate with a lot of time around the world they are accomplished men in their fields a lot of come
00:50:03.600
from like military background security uh fighters and businessmen uh they they have that's and then
00:50:11.280
social media is separate i'm a social media guy and i know a lot of people who watch this they
00:50:15.120
grew up like this as uh you know i'm 24 and so they have to actively seek it out to live a better
00:50:20.920
life and there's not enough of a push for that so yeah you need to if you don't have if your whole
00:50:27.820
experience is just you know video games and and comment sections then you're not going to really have
00:50:32.780
a lot to talk about so it's extremely important for you to have those conversations and to try and
00:50:38.900
fail new businesses and to to travel the world and to train with different people uh talk to different
00:50:44.960
people have these difficult conversations because that that experience will i think men only learn
00:50:49.920
from experience i think that men will hear what the truth is but unless you have um a traumatic or
00:50:57.880
it doesn't have to be traumatic but unless you have an experience to base it off of you're not
00:51:01.520
going to really learn i think men are stubborn in that sense where you need to go through it in
00:51:04.400
order to realize not to do it maybe that's just me that's me too honestly that's me too i just i
00:51:10.040
want to challenge things and i'm always very like i was that way even as a child and i was raised to
00:51:14.420
be an entrepreneur my dad had the hopes that i would run his business one day like he raised me
00:51:18.200
to like run businesses and i sat there and i think every time i came across something that felt
00:51:23.820
like a challenge i felt excited like i was excited at the idea of problem solving which is why my job
00:51:29.200
now is like problem solving like interpersonal relationships which is so girly of me huh i'm a
00:51:33.320
woman so how do i make my money by helping people with their relationships or their lives or
00:51:37.880
understanding themselves which is like such a girl thing to do but look how i made both happen like i
00:51:42.240
called my dad up this year and i was like hey i made my six figures i finally did it um it's taken
00:51:46.920
me three years of hardcore trying and i'm really proud of myself and he was like that's amazing
00:51:51.040
he's not very excited about all my content since he's pretty religious but overall he
00:51:56.360
congratulated me on doing the one thing he knew he raised me to do which is to be self-sufficient
00:52:01.420
to be independent to be my own thinker and that's really difficult in the world because like you said
00:52:07.080
everyone is trying to tell you how to think everyone is telling you who to be and how to be
00:52:11.940
so i'm going to ask you guys a few more questions and then we can wrap up so i'm very curious
00:52:15.660
you have someone come to you and they say this is who the world's telling me to be
00:52:21.820
this is who i want to be how do you know if it's a good decision to be who the world wants you to be
00:52:27.240
versus who you need to be how do you know it's a good decision i don't think that you should take
00:52:32.840
anybody anybody's advice um 100 i think you need to go apply it to your life and see how you can
00:52:39.300
because everybody has a different path and it's not gonna you can't copy anybody else's
00:52:44.040
trail it's just walking in their footsteps so it's important to create your own path
00:52:47.560
and to you know take different influences and be careful about uh the type of influence that you
00:52:52.860
have we always say that repeat this is a common knowledge that you're the sum of the five people
00:52:56.920
that you spend the most time with yeah so be careful about who you're around because if you
00:53:02.980
let the wrong person in if you let the wrong influence in if you're not aware of who's influencing
00:53:07.700
you then you're going to be a shitty person like the person telling you garbage yeah be very
00:53:13.980
careful and you have to be analytical and it's very important to question like why do you have
00:53:18.700
the why do you hold the beliefs that you hold people are extremely like dead set on what they
00:53:24.060
believe in i don't think enough people think about why or who said it or what the the motivation is
00:53:29.020
absolutely yeah i would just be very wary of that because there's a there's a lot of there's a lot of
00:53:35.020
people with bad intentions out there absolutely and for you you chose a job that you went into with a
00:53:40.380
lot of um i guess purpose money and it's something good to you but how do you make that decision as
00:53:45.980
well if someone came to you i guess even if you had that moment for yourself like how what would
00:53:50.840
you say to them i take everything with a grain of salt i listen to a lot of people not you her
00:53:56.500
um yeah i think again i would take their advice and i guess use it to my advantage but i wouldn't
00:54:07.460
follow exactly what they're saying in their footsteps i think you kind of take it and mold
00:54:11.840
it into your own kind of version like that no i agree okay i'm gonna ask you guys my favorite
00:54:18.160
question i like to ask people all answers are good answers are you ready okay it could be a bad answer
00:54:23.480
but no no bad answers all good answers okay actually let's nico you can go second okay i want to know
00:54:30.640
what is your favorite part about existing being alive truly um if she said murder would that be a
00:54:38.340
bad answer you know what it would be if it's a real answer it's a good answer but also a questionable
00:54:42.700
answer um being in nature i think oh yeah being in touch with nature and being like in the actual world
00:54:51.260
is really important i think people are so closed off from the real world nowadays everyone's on their
00:54:55.940
phones everyone's online all the time sometimes you just need a breath of fresh air and just come
00:55:00.940
away from it for a minute and just breathe and i think that's the best feeling is it about being
00:55:06.880
grounded yeah yeah just the feeling is so good even if you just like have your feet in the grass
00:55:12.720
outside yes like so good 100 i is 100 yeah i agree with this no so wait are you a nature person do you
00:55:20.600
actually go hiking i love going for walks i mean okay i love that i love a good walk i'm all about
00:55:26.860
the walks girl no i love that okay i'm glad you're walking the walk i'm really gonna push this for the
00:55:33.120
next year if i have anyone lecture me who doesn't walk the walk i'm gonna i'm really sick of it so i'm
00:55:38.060
glad you go on your walks girly now sneeko answer the same question what's your favorite part about
00:55:42.000
existing favorite part of existing is is the finish line is finishing a struggle or getting over
00:55:52.660
something that was difficult and then seeing the other side of it yeah that's the best part especially
00:55:58.220
after something that was very difficult and and challenge i like accomplishing something that was
00:56:04.560
difficult i like going i the i like the growth and i like the um i like the struggle i i it's there's
00:56:12.760
been difficult things in my life and now i've come to appreciate it because i'm like well at the end of
00:56:19.100
it i'm gonna come out a better person i'm gonna learn something i value struggle because people who
00:56:25.040
don't have any struggle they're not worth talking to they're they're boring they got nothing to say
00:56:29.260
they have nothing to i just don't want to talk to those people i think as a man specifically going
00:56:36.020
through struggle will depending on how you react to it will mold you and also make you stronger and
00:56:43.840
make you better overall and make you learn more and help you find reach that point of stoicism where
00:56:50.640
you're you're more in control where you'll feel the emotion but doesn't mean you need to act on the
00:56:55.900
emotion and just helps you become more of a well a well-rounded individual i think that
00:57:01.040
struggle is important and something that i've come to appreciate more absolutely i couldn't have said
00:57:07.260
it better i think struggle is so misunderstood that suffering of life comes from every great
00:57:12.500
philosopher that's ever come before us talks about how suffering and sacrifice lead becoming good men
00:57:18.080
but good men and women we lead through suffering we understand ourselves when we're challenged
00:57:22.080
and then when we overcome like every failure is a step to success and so like life is hard by default
00:57:28.100
so i think that's a really optimistic message to send which again maybe i'm being fooled sneeko maybe
00:57:33.300
you're tricking me but i genuinely get such good vibes from you such good energy some such good intentions
00:57:38.720
that i do think you're trying to help the world in your own way and that is something that i'm going
00:57:43.280
to don't tell me if you're faking it i don't want to know but i believe you i think you really are
00:57:47.060
trying to help people i mean if i was faking i think you'd be exposed by now you think okay yeah
00:57:52.940
there's so many people that are psychoanalyzed and investigating i really think you're underestimating
00:57:59.480
how many people are watching this with a literal like with a microscope and waiting for one of us to
00:58:04.700
slip up because of how much they they need me to fail so with all those people that that need me to
00:58:10.460
fail by now if i was faking it it would be common knowledge yeah yeah guys thank you so much for
00:58:17.260
being here i really appreciate it i think that was just a lovely conversation it's also like i don't
00:58:20.940
know if it just reassured me but i was just like i'm telling you this this man is on a journey that i
00:58:25.900
think a lot of people are underestimating and i think i can't wait to see you in like 10 years i'm
00:58:29.520
gonna follow your career i expect to see you in 10 years i expect to see you we'll have a great
00:58:34.080
conversation i'll buy you a coffee i'm so glad that makes me so happy really nice meeting you girly i'm so
00:58:39.280
glad you could come on lovely to meet you lovely to meet you guys have a great day thank you so much
00:58:45.620
my belly's being fed and i'm okay i'm just fine