SNEAKO - Brittany Simon Exposes The Dark Realities Behind SNEAKO's Mind!

00:00:00.000 hello everyone welcome back to today's podcast my name is britney simon in today's podcast we

00:00:04.060 are guested by sneeko hi sneeko how you doing britney it's good to be back good so happy to

00:00:09.540 see you and his friend donya donya we were on pearl show yesterday uh she's really well spoken

00:00:16.740 and uh she makes a lot of sense she's actually uh has a similar worldview to you britney yeah but 1.00

00:00:21.220 she didn't get the chance to speak that much on the podcast because there's some loud feminists 1.00

00:00:24.800 who just talk over the whole time so i think well i'm excited to hear from you guys then go ahead

00:00:30.840 tell me yeah it just it just gives me a headache talking to these people but um donya is a woman 1.00

00:00:35.600 who makes sense okay i'm excited about that how did you guys meet we met on the show yesterday

00:00:41.720 like literally yesterday yeah oh okay well here's to new friendships i guess okay that's exciting

00:00:48.380 how old are you well tell us how both how old you both are i'm 24 and uh you're done don't

00:00:54.400 22 22 okay awesome so i wanted to have you on the podcast nico and of course i'm happy you're

00:00:59.920 here as well i want to talk about being exceptional it's come up a lot and i think because of where

00:01:04.740 you're at in the world i would argue that you were quite exceptional but i know a lot of people don't

00:01:09.440 want to think that of you and so i wanted to ask you why do you think people have a hard time

00:01:13.600 seeing you as exceptional i think a lot of people have their own agenda and they have a lot of ego i think

00:01:21.720 social media has done that and we see it like in the podcast we were on yesterday everybody wants

00:01:27.540 to be that voice of truth and thinks that they know everything and i don't think people are willing

00:01:32.620 to put themselves in a vulnerable situation to be completely honest people don't like being wrong

00:01:37.160 people don't like being curious and i i think i add something to the social media space that's pretty

00:01:42.100 uncommon when it comes to being curious and open-minded and being extremely honest and i've been doing it for

00:01:49.120 so long i don't really come on acting like i know everything i come on um with a mindset of seeking

00:01:54.980 of seeking truth which is rare and i think people i think a lot of it is jealousy and also a lot of it

00:02:02.480 is also arrogance and a lack of understanding um but this is why i like what you do is that you come in

00:02:08.880 with a lot of uh empathy and not fake empathy which is what i think a lot of women do now uh that they 1.00

00:02:14.620 a lot of times they can be patronizing in the way that they talk to men um and we saw it on the show

00:02:20.980 last night there's uh the way they talk to them they'll they'll do this fake empathy thing where

00:02:26.020 they'll be like oh do you know how to fight and i'm like yeah i know how to fight okay that's good 0.94

00:02:32.000 that's it's like you have to qualify it's like oh you're not a little bitch like oh you can you're 1.00

00:02:37.740 like a big boy huh and it's not and they act like it's empathetic and understanding because they'll 0.96

00:02:42.340 be like oh that's really good oh you're like a rumbler like you you're like you're like exceptional 0.72

00:02:48.100 okay that's whatever the kind of gay but still that's the way that they talk and it's it's not 0.86

00:02:54.660 really empathetic it's not it doesn't come from a place of understanding it comes from a place of

00:02:58.640 competition do you because one of the things i struggle with especially when i start to express

00:03:04.160 you know interest in different people's belief systems and how people do things i i guess i see

00:03:09.500 like parts of people i know in you so i can humanize you very easily or i'm like oh yeah like i know

00:03:15.720 people who have this mindset or i know people just like this and they're really good people

00:03:19.680 and so from from knowing people similar to you i'm like well i know they're good and then i've

00:03:24.480 talked to you a little bit i know you're good and i know you have the best intentions but do you

00:03:28.680 think that it's ideology that really makes people think you have bad intentions or is there some

00:03:33.620 part of you that secretly does have bad intentions i don't have bad intentions and it's not just

00:03:38.560 ideology and i think they're the reason that you understand it is because probably the people that

00:03:43.020 you're talking about are are they younger than you oh yeah they can be yeah yeah so what you are

00:03:49.720 understanding is when i come from when i sound aggressive or when i sound straightforward people

00:03:56.480 will get off put by that they're like why is this guy like yelling at me like calm down yesterday we did

00:04:01.840 the show and this girl said that i was vibrating with misogyny and i've never heard that before

00:04:06.360 he's like your vibrations are misogynistic and it's it's i've never heard that in my life which i thought

00:04:11.200 it was extremely stupid but i do understand it because there's people with the same ideology as me 0.96

00:04:15.000 but they come off and they explain it in a different way and i come on pretty hard-headed and aggressive 0.99

00:04:21.120 and debate style and loud which people they see it as like a personal attack people get really

00:04:27.500 off put by that i've noticed in my life that uh people always explain to me that the way i'm

00:04:32.400 speaking is off-putting to people but i think that you kind of see past that and you don't really

00:04:36.980 consider that um as aggressive as other people do which i could probably do better at at articulating

00:04:43.480 myself in that way to get through to more people i can understand why women would say that i'm vibrating

00:04:48.100 with misogyny but in in some sense i don't really feel the need to go and change up my tone of voice for

00:04:53.980 these people because i think that they're already going to disagree with me regardless the reason

00:04:57.320 why i like dania and why i like you britney is because i don't need to go and shift that up i i 1.00

00:05:02.100 can just press myself properly and not have to to readjust do you think i think it's about more

00:05:07.580 about listening to what you actually have to say rather than how you say it yeah absolutely honestly

00:05:13.100 i run into the same problem and maybe you guys too in your life but people always tell me that

00:05:16.680 britney's changed the way you talk talk differently do it different but the idea is that i'm supposed to be

00:05:21.900 authentic right isn't that the goal so why would i switch it up now i want to be a good communicator

00:05:26.920 so sometimes i'm not the best but the way i talk and maybe it's my middle eastern genes over here but

00:05:32.020 like it feels aggressive to people but i don't mean it to be it's just i don't that's just who i am

00:05:37.860 personality wise but i also am trying to reach a very specific audience i know who my audience is who

00:05:43.780 i'm trying to talk to so the question is like when you make content who are you trying to talk to do you

00:05:49.440 know yeah i know exactly who it is so i like talking to the whole world i want everybody

00:05:55.320 i like having input in all types of conversations i have a specific point of view and i do have my

00:06:00.920 core audience i'm on discord right now and i just had to go put an announcement because we were

00:06:04.500 getting warnings for anti-vaccine content and like violence so my audience is on the same page as me

00:06:11.080 they understand it but i like being a part of the bigger conversation so i think i'm at a point where

00:06:15.980 i do have the core people that listen but also there's an equal amount of people that hate watch

00:06:20.020 and that like to watch and disagree with me which i don't think is a bad thing i don't i'm not really

00:06:25.100 afraid of that i like having open dialogue i like having debate and it doesn't really bother me if

00:06:31.260 people don't like me yeah donia what about in your regular life do you ever see it are you a dominant

00:06:36.900 personality yourself or do you find yourself to be more stoic or i think when encouraging people to do

00:06:43.780 better in life some people do take it as an attack rather than rather than advice or something

00:06:50.020 as someone wanting you to do better totally i run into that all the time definitely i've come across

00:06:56.720 i've been told about my tone of voice and stuff but it's yeah people just kind of need to see past that

00:07:02.720 and well you know i i'm sure you've heard me say it a bunch of times nico but like i really think

00:07:07.760 everyone is so so different we all have like in these different bubbles but i think that for me i need 0.96

00:07:12.100 to be kind of have my ass kicked a little bit like when i'm trying to be exceptional when i'm trying to 0.95

00:07:18.000 literally beat statistics when i'm trying to be that person it means that i have to defy whatever 0.98

00:07:23.780 that default is right so how could i not be somebody who needs like a little bit of aggression to get

00:07:28.860 that motivation going and that aggression can be off-putting to most people but if most people

00:07:33.100 aren't doing the thing i think it would be off-putting to them because they don't even know like how

00:07:38.160 aggressive you have to be in certain areas to just get ahead so i think there's a combination

00:07:42.620 of those two things like even getting yourself to the gym takes discipline and discipline is not

00:07:47.000 something that i'm seeing quite frequently like have you guys ever heard the saying like die for

00:07:51.540 your values do any of you know like have you do you ever grow up hearing that right all right

00:07:56.820 that's before dishonor yes okay a lot of people i said that on stream the other day and someone was

00:08:02.840 like who dies for their values who dies for their beliefs and i'm like what are you talking the world

00:08:06.260 is built off of men who died for their beliefs so the idea that people are disconnected from that

00:08:11.800 idea makes them cynical of you because it makes them think well you know what is nico really trying

00:08:17.620 to do and i think you're trying to be better but i think that your process for being better looks

00:08:23.640 offensive to other people what do you think about that yeah you completely you said it perfectly

00:08:29.440 and i i want to thank you for defending me and saying that i how authentic you think i am um because

00:08:37.200 yeah i think i think you got it spot on it's just about but at the same time you need to figure out a

00:08:43.000 better way of communication like the most effective form of communication my way of doing it and i think

00:08:48.580 our way is similar it can be off putting and aggressive to people and it does add entertainment value

00:08:54.020 when it comes to understanding yeah you're gonna have a hard time changing people's minds because

00:08:58.840 they're so uh they're so off put by how you're saying it they're focused on the way you're saying

00:09:06.060 it rather than what you're saying so your message does get lost and if you want to be the most effective

00:09:10.660 communicator you would get past that um but that that's a constant um thought process i have it's

00:09:16.760 like are these people even really worth trying to get through to are these people just are they

00:09:21.620 really stuck in their ways or are they um are they worth changing you know if the people that

00:09:27.060 are capable of change they have to want to change yeah and and i think the people that want to change

00:09:33.340 would understand it but the people that were never going to change is they won't be able to hear it so

00:09:36.780 it's it's this balance and um but eventually i think that that that is the best form of communication

00:09:44.460 yeah there's something to be said you know growing up in a house i have nine siblings

00:09:48.560 and so i'm used to all these personalities and all these and i'm the oldest of seven of them so

00:09:53.860 i've two older brothers and then the rest are like my little siblings and they come to me

00:09:56.960 and they'll say things like hey what do you think i should do with this and how do you think i should

00:10:00.540 do this and every time i give them advice they still pick their own path ultimately i can only give

00:10:05.800 them my advice and then they have to do the journey they're going to do and do i sometimes get insane

00:10:09.820 anxiety over the like mistakes my brothers make sometimes yes but they are learning the same i learned

00:10:15.380 that every time i messed up every time i did something poorly i every time i didn't understand

00:10:19.960 why it didn't work for me i had to reconstruct my perspective to actually attain my goals i had to

00:10:24.940 change i had to radically change and that was very difficult honestly sometimes i felt like i wasn't

00:10:30.220 going to make it through the change have you ever felt that way like through a transformation where

00:10:34.200 you're like i've really got to do this or i'm not going to make it no i never have a defeatist

00:10:39.700 mindset when it comes to that i always know that i'm going to come out as a better person it's just

00:10:44.700 sometimes i wish i could well this is a stupid thought but i'm like i wish i could just fast

00:10:48.700 forward to the end part where i've already figured this part out totally but you have to enjoy the 0.69

00:10:53.320 process of the work if you don't enjoy it then it's going to be grueling and you have to enjoy it to the

00:10:59.640 best of your ability every moment of life i agree with you yeah you don't enjoy what you do then it's

00:11:04.840 going to feel like a chore every day and if you love what you do and you do it for free then you never

00:11:09.740 work a day in your life so yeah i don't know why i keep uploading videos but here i am like and you

00:11:15.760 know what i just hit my first six figures so i was pretty proud of myself it finally happened thank

00:11:20.360 you but no god oh please sneak oh please i'm poor as hell no in a year no i just finally reached my 0.60

00:11:26.200 first six figures and that's a big deal for me because i was a person who like struggled with

00:11:30.000 like being financially set thinking about business being business-minded and i feel like i'm just

00:11:34.480 starting that and you're so young you've already succeeded way past like do you ever feel intimidated

00:11:40.520 by your own like where you are so young no uh actually i i never feel that way whatsoever

00:11:47.580 uh i just compare myself to people that are more successful like i was listening i looked at the

00:11:52.920 central sea a lot recently i think he's in london too um he's around the same age as me he just

00:11:57.240 dropped an album called 23 which is just documenting his life at 23 just listen to the lyric before i went

00:12:02.440 out to dinner and he was talking about how like he can't die now because he hasn't made 100 million

00:12:07.840 yet and i i hear that i'm like man i gotta set my game up like yeah i could have been more productive

00:12:12.680 today why am i not making 100 million like sometimes i overslept this morning and it's like why am i

00:12:17.880 wasting any time laying in bed like scrolling for a little bit when i could be making 100 million

00:12:22.020 dollars when i could be influencing more people when i could be making a different video that i've never

00:12:26.900 made before like i i don't ever look at the place of my life and get complacent i just look at people who

00:12:31.620 are doing better who are more motivated to do more than me i'm like man why am i not in that position

00:12:35.900 because i don't see anybody else having uh an unfair advantage compared to me i i see it as we

00:12:41.960 are adult we're all dealt the same hand and the only reason that i'm not at the same point as somebody

00:12:48.000 else is just lack of self-discipline and a lack of um a strong a strong work ethic i i don't yesterday

00:12:54.000 we're having this discussion and i noticed a lot of people in my generation they use things like

00:12:59.560 racism to hold them back like oh i'm black so i can't have this or i'm an immigrant so i can't be

00:13:05.480 here and this like misogyny and all this stuff and that type of mindset that defeatist mindset which

00:13:11.780 is essentially what it is that will hold you back more than any other circumstance in life so i think

00:13:16.380 that if you detach your mind from anything that's going to hold you back that you have no control of

00:13:19.700 even if racism does exist your belief that is holding you back is stronger than the racism that's

00:13:25.780 actually out there so i i like to separate myself from that and and never get complacent and just

00:13:31.600 anybody who's doing better than me i should be there too okay what if you because this is how i

00:13:38.040 think of it i think you just kind of said it in your own way i think that i would say that's funny

00:13:42.740 our language is so different but i think we have the same message i would say we're all dealt

00:13:46.120 different cards we all grew up in different environments but if you eradicate like what your

00:13:51.560 culture has taught you or what the bubble is making you think we're all actually the same

00:13:55.740 we're humans on a planet and then we're all playing the game of survival and then we're playing the game

00:13:59.740 of success and then we're playing the game of maybe being a good family member and then we're playing

00:14:03.220 we're playing like different versions of our life but you are raised in an environment where the game

00:14:08.020 is a little different so i'm always like learn the rules of the game then destroy the game then make

00:14:12.140 a new game or play a different game does that kind of translate versus because i was born a woman

00:14:16.840 you were born a man those are different lives but ultimately we're both just people on a planet

00:14:21.020 trying to do our best yeah and just attaching yourself to anything that's going to make you

00:14:28.020 a victim or hold you back that's just i think it's really important for anybody watching to

00:14:32.600 remember that that's a stronger force pulling you back than anything than any other circumstance

00:14:38.220 even though like of course there's advantage that i have as a man that you don't have as a woman

00:14:41.440 but uh complaining about it more that that's uh it doesn't help it doesn't help all it does is

00:14:49.180 just hold you in your same spot well it's kind of like negative looping right you don't want to

00:14:52.760 think to yourself every day i'm not worthy you want to think yourself i'm going to either earn

00:14:56.400 that worthiness by being disciplined or i'm going to prove to myself that i'm good enough

00:15:00.940 and i think that comes from the desire to believe in yourself which i don't think everyone is exactly

00:15:05.500 at or they're not there yet so is a part of your work trying to get people to the point where

00:15:10.240 they do believe in themselves my the point where i'm at what i do with live streaming i want to get

00:15:17.700 people to unplug themselves from the same things that held me back before and i see that i describe

00:15:24.220 it as just most of it is woke ideology most of it is wokeness these ideas were given to us and these

00:15:31.120 ideas were fed to us not because they care about justice like when you hear when you see something

00:15:35.720 censored because of misinformation the misconception that most people have is like oh they care about

00:15:40.700 misinformation no they don't they are trying to push a specific narrative to keep us all complacent

00:15:46.200 and to keep us satisfied with being mediocre while the people who are giving feeding us these lies

00:15:51.660 they enjoy a life that we are never going to even fathom as possible because we're all arguing about

00:15:57.320 racism and george floyd or whatever was in the news today whatever celebrity drama happened

00:16:02.180 whatever climate like whatever they tell us to be concerned about that ultimately we have no control

00:16:07.680 about people protesting the war in ukraine like you are not going to stop this war why have you been

00:16:13.160 fed this have you been told to care about ukraine because you're going to stop the war or to keep

00:16:18.440 you distracted and to keep you emotionally invested into something that you have no control over

00:16:22.300 so that you feel like you're doing something while you actually have no control over this the most power

00:16:27.900 that we have is becoming the best versions of ourselves is improving as being more impactful

00:16:33.440 and truthful with your voice and having a closer connection to god that is the strongest thing that

00:16:37.880 we are all capable of but that's harder to believe if you're if you're distracted but if you're distracted

00:16:46.020 by all the garbage that you see in the news and on your phone that that's an easier thing to attach

00:16:50.740 yourself to emotionally and mentally so my purpose is to get people to realize that these things

00:16:57.140 they're all psyops they're they're not they were not designed because they care about you they were

00:17:03.660 not designed so that you can go and protest it away it was given to you as a false sense of purpose and

00:17:10.500 that's not your greater purpose your greater purpose is is much bigger than that so i i want people to

00:17:15.880 understand like why they are emotionally invested into these things like who who people should question

00:17:22.880 their worldview more often a lot of people have really strong opinions and they're really

00:17:27.080 emotional about what they believe in and i don't really think that they even know why like they'll

00:17:31.640 make a scrunch face or they'll say something like you're vibrating with misogyny and it's like why do you

00:17:37.520 no like like why do you even think that yeah what led you to this point why why do you think that

00:17:43.280 motherhood is oppression why why do you think that girls need to be uh rapping and girl boss queens like 1.00

00:17:50.280 who fed you this idea i don't think people even analyze why they have these thoughts um it's hard

00:17:57.300 to get to that point but uh and when i explain this to people they get aggressive because i challenge

00:18:02.120 them and it sometimes it can be really personal because some people they really construct their

00:18:07.180 entire identity around these beliefs so when you call that out it feels like you're calling them

00:18:11.800 out personally but i think it's it's effective right right right now okay this is so interesting

00:18:16.520 you know the way you talk about wokeness is how i felt growing up in the 90s and 2000s about the

00:18:21.080 conservative movement of that era where i was like why are you telling me to be this way why are you

00:18:25.120 saying this is the only way i can be i want to be any way i want to be successful so how do you how

00:18:29.340 do you define success you know what is success for both of you i'd love to hear what you both think

00:18:34.140 is once you reach it you'll be like i am successful or are you successful now you know how do you view it

00:18:38.600 well i think i agree with donia this is why i like her i think success is just happiness

00:18:43.220 success is quality of life a lot of people have this idea that success is directly correlated to

00:18:48.280 monetary value and that's not really it success is just happy i think the most successful person

00:18:54.160 is a person who's happiest because that that's the the point of life is is creation and also to

00:18:58.440 live the happiest existence and live the fullest life possible um yeah i agree with you i think a lot

00:19:04.220 of people have this mindset that if they make more money then they'll be happy or they'll be successful

00:19:09.640 but you can't happiness isn't something you can really chase it's something that you find within

00:19:13.800 yourself and i think it takes a long time for a lot of people to realize that because there's

00:19:19.660 millionaires billionaires and they have all the money in the world they can buy whatever they want

00:19:23.540 and they're not happy right right and when i compare myself to the person making a hundred or

00:19:28.440 wanting to make a hundred million it's not because i really want that much money you don't need that

00:19:32.360 much money it's the pursuit i think that that's the masculine imperative is to constantly pursue

00:19:37.580 towards more and towards conquering and towards achieving as much as possible i think that

00:19:43.360 pursuit of that makes you the happiest and yeah if you're always if you're working on something and

00:19:49.920 if you have a specific goal and mission um then it's hard to really veer off in the wrong direction

00:19:55.320 okay i'm so happy you guys said that because there is this assumption that when people view especially

00:20:00.960 your works nico that there's some sort of goal to be the richest in the whole world as if money buys

00:20:06.160 you've you know happiness or joy you know so how do you sort of change that narrative around your

00:20:12.200 image because i see you that way that's how i see you i see you as somebody who's reaching for

00:20:16.800 something deeper and more meaningful but for some reason like people can't see that in you and why do

00:20:21.720 you think that is i think because most people don't go into social media or go into the space with that

00:20:29.520 intention that's always been my intention it's been uh creation it's been artistic and that's why i'm

00:20:36.300 kind of shifting away i haven't been live streaming as much because i'm just trying to create the best

00:20:40.280 videos possible i want to make the same stuff that i was making in like 2018 2019 i was making

00:20:44.400 these masterpiece videos because that's the happiest feeling i ever got like of course i'm

00:20:48.100 making like good money now but the most successful that i've ever felt is after making a video like

00:20:54.500 everything happens for a reason or fake it till you make it at 20 years old finishing the video

00:20:58.860 rendering it after like a week of making this and then pressing upload and then just letting this

00:21:03.960 idea this baby that i created and then putting it out into the universe that's like that's the

00:21:08.160 happiest feeling that i have and so that i think you understand that but a lot of people get into

00:21:12.900 this because and this is why it's become so oversaturated and there's so much noise and back and forth

00:21:17.760 and drama and clickbait and extreme headlines is because people get into this like okay i can make money

00:21:23.940 off this i can get influence off of this they don't go into it with pure intentions they see it as as a

00:21:28.680 business i saw it as a way and that's i started youtube like when it was in the golden age i started

00:21:33.740 like i see this as a place of self-expression i don't view it i had to like retrain my mind to view

00:21:39.560 it as a business because i when i was in living in harlem when i was living in harlem and i was making

00:21:43.280 around like 2 000 a month and i was just like feeding myself and paying for my rent based off the youtube

00:21:47.840 videos that was like the coolest thing of all time for me the fact that i can create what i want to

00:21:52.160 create and then pay this i didn't care about the rest i had to go and talk to more business-minded

00:21:57.080 people and they were saying let's show me how much they were making with less subscribers and i had to

00:22:00.740 retrain my mind to be like okay money can get you to a different place that you hadn't seen before

00:22:07.340 so yeah yeah you recognize that but um i think it's because people don't really go into it with pure

00:22:14.320 intentions and it's hard to because you'll get shot down so much there's so much negative feedback

00:22:18.300 there's so many negative comments there's so much there's so many people that uh will try to bring 0.95

00:22:23.020 you down that like to go into with pure intentions is almost stupid because why would you risk your 0.92

00:22:28.800 reputation like you've seen people try to destroy my life you've seen people try to ban me they tried 0.99

00:22:33.280 to get me like they accused me of all these things uh destroy my reputation lie about me i'm getting

00:22:38.660 the fake news is writing about me saying uh all this it's difficult to go into it like and just try to be

00:22:44.260 honest and vulnerable and authentic because they'll they'll they'll eat you alive but i've developed

00:22:50.000 a thick skin without doing it for a long time so it doesn't really affect me anymore but anybody

00:22:53.620 else seeing that and the way that the people that hate on what i do talk about me why would they go

00:22:59.380 into it with pure intentions that's that's it's better to see it as a business and not as an extension

00:23:04.800 of yourself which is how i see it it's better to see it as something that you just do separate

00:23:08.060 because then you put your entire reputation on the line um and now i didn't ask you uh what do

00:23:14.500 you do for a living so i can you know we can are you allowed to say it out loud yeah oh yeah i'm a

00:23:20.520 dental nurse and trying to be okay cool oh that's a great job that has that's a great paycheck right

00:23:25.780 there girl good for you okay that's interesting are you doing it for the money um partly just for

00:23:33.980 more freedom so i can travel i love but um it does feel good to be able to make a change in

00:23:39.720 people's lives and make them feel more confident in their own skin so that's cool okay that's the

00:23:44.680 most rewarding thing yeah you know it's funny when you're in the game of survival you have to pick a

00:23:49.620 job that pays you so you can feed your kids and support yourself like that's like you have to do

00:23:54.120 that so then the question is you said it earlier about you know you don't work a day in your life

00:23:58.580 picking something you're passionate about but not everybody gets that luxury we're pretty special

00:24:02.640 you know at least you know being a youtuber in general content creator i feel like i really

00:24:07.640 worked hard to do this two to three jobs at a time until i could and now i hope i always keep it going

00:24:11.760 on forever but then i have to be more business minded to keep this going i do have to think about

00:24:16.440 business to some extent because the way i talk pushes a lot of people away and so i have to think

00:24:20.420 to myself okay that's not the message i meant to send but that's what they heard so what do i do

00:24:24.880 do i act differently do i just change my words like i have to ask myself those questions

00:24:29.480 now what do you guys do when you're you know you're having this moment where you have to decide

00:24:34.820 which version of yourself do you show the public i guess more in sneko's case here so what is that

00:24:40.180 like what is that conversation you're having with yourself because for me it's always back and forth

00:24:43.920 do i talk differently maybe i can say it this way i'm thinking about not cussing in my videos so i can

00:24:48.180 get that bag from adsense i'm like should i do this like i do cuss should i pretend i don't cuss you know 0.62

00:24:53.420 what i mean yeah it's hard to be authentic in that way rumble gives you a lot of freedom

00:24:57.900 where i can when i'm live streaming on rumble i don't care like yeah i'm just talking to my chat

00:25:03.440 when it's just me in the chat then i could be myself and that's actually i find myself even be

00:25:07.960 more authentic than in most conversations because it's free-flowing it's entertainment people are just

00:25:12.640 there to hear me talk so it doesn't feel like back and forth um or it doesn't feel disingenuine

00:25:17.860 whatsoever that's it's actually so much so freeing to be on rumble compared to youtube because youtube like

00:25:22.140 i had to say like um when i talked about the shot i would be like the word i couldn't curse

00:25:27.480 i would come up with all this lingo and i have i still say it instead of like i'll say corn but

00:25:32.260 people know i want to talk about corn or yeah great like if you have to talk about um but i didn't i do

00:25:38.940 notice recently i've done podcasts and i've done uh debates where i've been scrutinized so much and

00:25:45.940 there's so many people even watching this right now you have to be aware that there are there's

00:25:49.340 probably 20 or 30 reaction channels watching this conversation ready to find a sentence where

00:25:54.680 i slip up so that they can make an entire video sneakos um i hate you yeah that's what's happening 0.55

00:26:04.240 like literally right now like even as i say this word uh say the sentence and i i was did a podcast

00:26:09.240 with pearl yesterday and i was talking about something about how like japan is successful

00:26:14.560 because they're homogenous society and i was just i was thinking while i was saying it people

00:26:19.320 are going to try and say i'm a white supremacist like while i'm just expressing uh an idea that i

00:26:24.640 had while in japan people are going to try to find a way to call me racist right or i was in a in a

00:26:28.800 debate with aiden ross and i was talking about um world war ii and i was very aware like this is

00:26:35.400 gonna be a clip on twitter like i know as soon as this this is gonna go and it was rightfully so

00:26:41.760 but then um it you just have to be aware of that now and i just see it as part of the game i don't

00:26:48.140 let it like i i'm i'm okay being scrutinized it's some people say like i uh i've seen some people say

00:26:56.480 like suniko has a humiliation fetish and that's absolutely not the case that's absolutely not the

00:27:02.280 case but i just don't really care about the scrutiny on social media because it never manifests in real

00:27:08.980 life i've never seen it i just get positivity like the people at the front desk of this hotel

00:27:13.100 they shake my hand they just like ask if i need anything extra yeah um people always take pictures

00:27:17.780 and it well you have to be realistic the same people who um talk about me online they probably

00:27:22.340 see me in public and take a picture with me so i i see it as entertainment i see it like people

00:27:27.060 like to engage in drama content people like to scrutinize people like to like

00:27:32.060 like they like they like doing it so fine like i'll be the i don't care like that will help me

00:27:39.180 get my message out there more and in a way it's really got to be canceled and everything but people

00:27:43.340 can't stop talking about me i feel like i have the system in a lot of ways where i'm banned off of

00:27:48.180 most of the platforms and my name is i've been trending on twitter worldwide for like weeks straight

00:27:52.960 just people youtube just like every day there's like i just searched my name yesterday and just all

00:27:59.140 these videos like what's the reason that the sneaker like what happened to him like people like

00:28:04.340 well like men in their 30s and 40s are like sneaker like they can't stop talking about me and i see it

00:28:11.560 as the way this is how trump won the election this in 2016 was the mainstream media all they did

00:28:16.860 was just poop all over him russian collusion he's a misogynist grab him by this they would not 0.70

00:28:23.980 stop talking about him they tried so hard to ruin his reputation what happened he won the election 0.97

00:28:29.120 so even though they're against him you're going to reach the people so being polarizing is a really

00:28:34.560 effective method at beating the censor machine at beating the propaganda machine because if real

00:28:42.380 recognized real the people that really understand they're not going to believe the lies that they see

00:28:46.060 on cnn they're not going to believe the lies from the fake news i i get called racist people call me

00:28:50.900 like right like literally which is so weird yeah they'll they'll write articles saying sneaker is a

00:28:57.100 white supremacist ally sneaker is a racist and of course like some people close to me are like 0.99

00:29:03.360 but not because they actually think i'm racist because they're afraid of what other people are 0.92

00:29:08.740 going to say for sure but they never they don't exist these people it's all it is is entered the way i

00:29:15.380 see it is just pure entertainment i know that i have good intentions and so do you and that's why i'm

00:29:20.100 thank you for doing the podcast i i think people can see that so i i understand how media is they

00:29:27.320 like to poop on people let them as long as you're accompanying yourself and you're living a good life

00:29:32.820 we're in london and life's great so like yeah like people feed off negativity it sells i think if

00:29:40.660 someone's more positive they don't even get the same amount of not as many people are going to be

00:29:46.300 talking about them true essentially so people say the outlandish things because they know that it's

00:29:51.680 going to get people's attention the same with the media people the media you scare tactics and they

00:29:57.080 put stuff out on the internet to scare people and they have half the population of the world living in

00:30:03.240 fear of news that probably isn't even true yeah i think there is a big a big problem with misinformation

00:30:09.380 and a big problem with just selling a product so the problem is like we're all hearing different news

00:30:14.020 we all have different sources and who are these sources and where are they getting their information

00:30:16.940 from it's hard to even know which is why my work is predicated on more what we believe versus what we

00:30:22.580 know because i don't think we know as much as we think i think we just have different information

00:30:26.200 so what's the downside to being yourself but also being the person that people hate so there's an

00:30:34.820 upside you you get everyone talks about you you go viral you become rich what's the downside

00:30:39.540 the downside is i mean i would say the number one downside is like stressing out the people closest

00:30:46.300 to me like they'll um yeah i don't want to say too much because it's gonna but like yeah don't

00:30:52.340 don't they'll see the conversation that you've had or like the the debates and like they're like

00:30:56.600 and they start reading the comments and they get it's just stress it's just stressful for them

00:31:01.680 i'm used to it but it's just like the people that that care about you um they get worried so

00:31:06.260 that's been the number one detractor other than that there's no big deal um you'll get slandered a

00:31:11.060 little bit people lie about you and uh people see you as a brand risk like there's some business

00:31:15.640 opportunities that i i've missed out on definitely because people think like that's the don't associate

00:31:21.380 with him and it's not because they actually think i'm a racist it's because there's articles calling

00:31:25.060 me racist and they don't want their brand to they don't want to associate with that so i get it it's

00:31:31.200 like being a brand risk will close a lot of doors but at the same time it's freeing because

00:31:35.360 once those doors are closed then you're not held back the same way that you feel like you're held

00:31:39.380 back on youtube by certain words like if i'm never gonna get a brand deal with this water bottle or

00:31:44.500 this water company then i don't need to go and change my language or pretend like i don't think

00:31:48.720 certain things i can just be as honest as possible yay said that to me like he never was more free like

00:31:54.440 once his bank account got frozen he's like i'm a free man now now what else they have nothing else to

00:31:58.580 take away from me they took my family they took my bank account they took everything there so i'm i'm a

00:32:04.120 free man yeah you know there's nobody there's nothing holding me back from being authentically

00:32:08.840 myself do you know the philosopher diogenes no he was during alexander the go ahead you've heard of

00:32:15.820 him yeah i don't know too much about him though but there's this funny story about diogenes during

00:32:20.780 alexander the great's like moment in time diogenes was this philosopher he had given up all his material

00:32:25.680 possessions and he was this is an alleged story of course right like this is what we've been told

00:32:29.420 throughout history but he's laying on the grass he's given up everything guys just everything he

00:32:33.840 has one single bowl but then he sees a child using the cupping of his hands to feed himself and he's

00:32:39.540 like well why do i even have this bowl so he gets rid of the bowl and as he's laying on the grass and

00:32:44.020 the sun is shining in front of him alexander the great comes to him and says what can i do for you

00:32:48.340 give tell me i'm a war hero i have everything what can i give you and diogenes says move you're blocking

00:32:53.280 the sun there's nothing you need except your joy your happiness your fulfillment and meaning and

00:32:58.880 purpose in life and that's not going to look the same for all of us right so for diogenes it was to

00:33:03.840 know that he's the freest he is when he has nothing holding him down for the rest of us we need to eat

00:33:09.280 and have shelter and go to london so we do need some money so realistically when you're sending out

00:33:14.780 this message that people are hearing and they look at you and think i'm never going to be sneeko though

00:33:18.660 i'm not going to risk my family being you know anxiety filled i'm not going to risk my reputation

00:33:23.900 i'm not going to risk this and that what message would you send to them if they're not willing to

00:33:28.740 take those big risks what risks could they take what message could you send to them to give them hope

00:33:33.960 that they could find their own path without becoming one of the most talked about negatively

00:33:38.800 people on the internet um the reality is most people are not really even in a world where they

00:33:46.420 they feel like they need to go and and challenge the status quo like that or engage in those

00:33:50.580 conversations i think that's a very specific type of person that wants to put themselves out there

00:33:55.620 like that so people can find themselves in different ways uh we're similar in that this is the way that

00:34:01.040 we find ourselves like being able to have open dialogue and talk online but most people they'll find

00:34:06.240 it uh in their own personal lives so for those people it's like i don't really think that that's a

00:34:11.700 a challenge for them to go and risk that uh people ignorance is bliss is true people like to

00:34:18.440 a lot of people like to live in the comfortable lives that they're fed they don't want to challenge

00:34:22.860 their worldview they don't want to think that they've been fed a lot of lies they don't like

00:34:27.340 to think that the government doesn't actually care about them or the powers that be have a different

00:34:30.620 agenda and that's okay if they will live a lot of times they'll even be aware of that but they'll just

00:34:35.720 they'll push it out of their heads just so that they can just like listen to go to their yoga class

00:34:41.200 and go home go like it's just like it's just too much and and i get it so but i don't i don't think

00:34:47.120 that's a problem for most people well hold on since you work in a normal people job girlfriend you got 0.97

00:34:51.920 to tell us what is it like being a normal person with a normal job normal goals but yet here you are

00:34:57.220 with sneeko here you are on my podcast so tell us i don't know it's quite it's very different i would

00:35:04.840 say um yeah i do see a lot of people every day just average normal everyday people and people that

00:35:13.980 work normal jobs and they just they just believe everything that's given to them and they just take

00:35:18.740 it for what it is and they just get on with it i mean some people are comfortable like that i mean

00:35:24.540 ignorance is bliss i guess it is it totally is now okay see this is what my work is about

00:35:30.040 but here's where i feel like i've come through with radical acceptance that i don't think my job in

00:35:35.700 life is to change people it's to give people the option to change like i'm saying live your life go to

00:35:43.180 your nine to five come home that's great that's beautiful have a family do your thing but if you find

00:35:48.620 yourself asking why aren't i joyful why aren't i happy why can't i feel that satisfaction that meaning

00:35:53.780 in life maybe i could find the answer i don't know on youtube maybe i could find it in a book and

00:35:58.480 that's what i'm trying to do i'm just trying to send a little beacon to people that are trying to

00:36:01.940 do something a little more on the orthodox my life is not normal but i feel normal every day

00:36:06.420 and that's something that i struggle with so what what like do you have a relationship with that

00:36:12.320 because you must feel normal right you must feel like a normal person yeah i am a normal person i think

00:36:17.920 it's just that that's what how i'm able to separate the negativity online or trending or

00:36:23.620 like people not stop talking about me it's like i said it only exists on the computer and on my phone

00:36:28.820 yeah i've never seen it not once and you would think trending worldwide after being canceled for

00:36:36.340 weeks straight on twitter being like one of them you would think that there'd be something happening

00:36:40.740 but it does not exist and that's been the best way for me to to not care about it it's just like

00:36:47.680 it's it i just see it purely as entertainment um people like to engage in a certain way isn't it

00:36:53.680 interesting though because like okay this is a thought i have and it sounds like it's a contradiction

00:36:57.140 i have a thought where i'm like i was oh my audience got so not my audience an audience of somebody else

00:37:03.240 got really upset with me and they were like did you hear what britney just said she just said in her

00:37:07.180 real life she just insinuated youtube is not her real life and i was like it's not it's my job and

00:37:12.500 it's a thing i do on the internet but then when i shut it off and i hang out with my family and with

00:37:15.900 my fiance that's my real life like that's my life so i'm realizing that i'm not even we are that's

00:37:24.160 what i'm saying but what why okay i'm online but i'm not chronically online you know that term like

00:37:28.720 you're chronically online i'm my real life is my family i have real problems we have a real solution

00:37:34.220 we have real things that we're doing and online is this cool job that i get to have but i didn't

00:37:38.960 realize that people didn't know that about me because i've been on the internet for so long they

00:37:42.340 thought britney was also one of us and i was like no no no no to be clear i live offline my real life is

00:37:48.620 off the computer but but at the same time here's the contradiction this is a part of me and it's

00:37:54.640 authentic and it's real and i it's meaningful to me so it is a part of me but yet it's not the whole

00:38:01.800 real me it's like a part of britney that needs to be on i need to make videos i don't know what's

00:38:06.320 wrong with me i need to do it right so what would you do you have that relationship with yourself

00:38:10.720 where you're yes you're offline and that's your real life but then your videos are so real they

00:38:14.400 they're so they mean so much to people they're so beautiful thank you um i appreciate that it's

00:38:21.720 you got to see it like as an art form or as creation and also like as a job like your job i'm sure

00:38:27.400 you think about it your job is there's your work like there's your work persona but when you come

00:38:32.000 back home you hang up your tie you put your shoes in the closet and then um there's that life so

00:38:36.600 one funny thing is a lot of people that i debate with like furiously and that you've had disagreements

00:38:41.940 with i'll i'll hang out with them in real life yeah well i won't talk like oh and rock climbing stuff

00:38:48.800 like that and then like it's back here and then we're literally like yelling at each other and then

00:38:53.980 people like are so confused and like oh i like that you guys could because i i don't i i know

00:38:58.780 how to separate that it doesn't have to be your whole thing like i'm sure we would get along and

00:39:03.220 i'm sure we'd have like if we met in real life we'd have a completely different conversation than

00:39:06.380 what we're having right now for sure it doesn't have to be your entire existence and if it is if

00:39:10.640 that's where you derive all of the meaning from uh from your work then you're gonna have a an empty

00:39:16.200 existence so this is why i'm putting a strong effort in traveling the world and meeting different

00:39:22.060 people and and training every day and just having a life that is it's really visual separate from

00:39:29.720 from this because i i see the effect that it has when everybody that constantly talks about me or

00:39:35.860 tries to bring me down or accusing me of all this stuff they're just in their room like they're that

00:39:42.740 they are the chronically online people and i think that that's a really important point uh for the

00:39:47.440 people watching to see it's like how much of that do they actually hate me or how much of that is

00:39:52.260 because they exist chronically online and they attach so much of their self-worth from that everybody

00:39:57.060 who hates me so much that they have a lot of things in common where they're a talking head in the same

00:40:01.580 room all day a lot of them are much older than me and they just sit there and that's you never see

00:40:07.680 them anywhere else i think it's important and i think it's effective too that i mean we're in london i met

00:40:12.700 donya yesterday i'd like to meet new people i'm gonna i'm about to go to bucharest and meet a lot of

00:40:16.660 people i'm going to romania this weekend cool and gonna keep gonna go to south america uh and just

00:40:22.880 continue seeing the world and i i will continue making my content but i it's important for people

00:40:28.420 that i i think it's important for the next generation of young men to understand that if

00:40:31.840 you make money online and if you have a business online you don't need to just game and watch corn

00:40:38.640 and like have just youtube be your whole or like tiktok that doesn't have to be your life

00:40:43.660 right it's an extension like that's a form of that's a form of communication but it doesn't

00:40:50.340 have to be your whole it could be a self-expression but that doesn't have to be your whole existence in

00:40:54.120 fact it shouldn't it's better if you're not it's better if you have experiences to tell stories to

00:40:58.000 tell and things to share uh from your experiences around the world and i think there's going to be a

00:41:03.440 lot of people that are starting to wake up and the reality is it's harder to wake up women 1.00

00:41:07.880 women are women are more easily programmed than men you think so yeah 100 i mean this i think 1.00

00:41:15.700 humans are programmable i think it's just humans you think they are they are but men are more capable

00:41:22.220 of waking up are more susceptible to criticism like when when women hear criticism and we were just

00:41:31.360 talking about this like she has one of her best friends is stuck in her ways and she's around bad

00:41:36.280 people and donia will try to tell her like you need to you need to get away from these people

00:41:41.740 or like come on this is how women are like when you tell when women tell each other accomplishments 1.00

00:41:46.040 the first thing they do is compare like what did you say like you told her about a job you got and

00:41:52.460 she's like why you're throwing it in my face why are you throwing because that's hard men men in my 0.99

00:41:58.740 experience like it's you uplift each other it's like oh good stuff like you're able to to self-improve

00:42:04.500 women are not good at as good at self-improvement as men that that's that's just a hard reality

00:42:09.640 britney if you disagree with me can you name one can you you disagree besides besides yours 0.57

00:42:16.280 because i see an essence of it but what what's the most popular self-improvement podcast for women

00:42:21.880 oh that's a great question well since the majority of men are the ones on youtube i assume

00:42:28.900 that wouldn't be as big of a market there right i think when i think of a woman's podcast i didn't 0.73

00:42:35.300 call her daddy oh i don't watch that i've never even watched it that's the most popular one that's

00:42:39.580 the most popular female podcast so funny i don't know that i don't watch that one i guess i do watch

00:42:43.740 most podcasts hosted by men but interviewing women so i guess yeah i can't think of a woman's podcast

00:42:49.220 other than comedians because i watch a lot of comedian podcasts hmm that's a good yeah i watched the

00:42:54.360 diary of ceo but that's a man and i watched like a bunch of like theories of everything but that's a

00:42:58.800 man but that makes sense right because even jordan peterson talks about this how majority of viewers

00:43:03.100 on youtube are men men are mostly chronically online like men are the ones suffering with

00:43:06.920 addiction to screens so my concern is that it's not even gender it's culture my concern because you

00:43:12.520 know i just said this on a live show the other day one of the greatest things my parents ever gave us

00:43:16.880 as children is not jealousy or envy like we do not want what other people have we want what we can

00:43:21.880 make for ourselves my dad's an entrepreneur my mom's like the stay-at-home mom who became part

00:43:26.540 of the business as well so for us it's i guess because we were raised in like it wasn't about

00:43:30.900 gender even though we're middle eastern from iraq it's not gender it's good people are not jealous

00:43:35.960 or envious they make their own you know what i'm saying so maybe it's a disconnect of culture more than

00:43:41.360 gender it could be but my bigger point is that the people that i'm going to be able to reach and

00:43:47.500 the people who's uh who's more affected like men are more easy are they are more susceptible to

00:43:54.440 to change their minds like okay yeah women women can be programmed by the art the people that are 1.00

00:44:01.260 doing the program the most influential people and this is true if you don't do this up woman thing 1.00

00:44:06.260 most influential people are men and if a woman is not being influenced by her husband or by their father

00:44:12.020 someone is going to take that patriarchal role and end up influencing her so even if she thinks she's an 1.00

00:44:16.780 independent queen she's probably influenced by the media the media is male dominated or she's 1.00

00:44:22.140 influenced by the government government's male dominated the government's telling her when to 1.00

00:44:25.360 stay inside when to go to work what she should do or her boss at her job and her boss 90 of the time

00:44:30.880 is a man so the the man is always in that influential world whether or not we we like it and this happens

00:44:37.340 in um in families too if you don't raise your kid properly what happens is somebody in the school is

00:44:43.660 going to end up raising your kid or the friends around it's it's usually it's a masculine figure

00:44:48.160 my point is that the people that i'm going to be able to reach and this is just a hard truth

00:44:53.320 it's going to be young men those are the people are going to be successful susceptible to 1.00

00:44:57.800 understanding this and that's why i think it's extremely important for me to travel and show a

00:45:00.820 different lifestyle because women are going to be like they'll admire it or they'll be like they'll 1.00

00:45:06.820 respect it and they'll see what but they're not going to go and emulate it they're not going to want

00:45:10.960 they're not going to go and emulate that a young man will so i think that that's the most effective

00:45:17.160 form if you want to make a change in the world getting the young men the military age men people 0.97

00:45:21.960 a little bit younger than me that's who's going to be able to to make a change because if you can

00:45:27.500 lead the household and if you strong men are the people that that are going to mold society i think

00:45:33.040 that's why these are kind of becoming a lot of extremely nonsense because there's a lack of strong

00:45:38.500 men there's a lack of men being able to take that lead and they give up they would rather you know

00:45:44.080 change their gender or say that gender roles don't exist and you know be chronically online and not

00:45:51.000 take the risk and not take the steps necessary in order to lead but the more strong men you have the

00:45:56.420 i think the better a world you have because uh if you have a strong man then you have um a happy woman

00:46:01.440 i think generally speaking there is a lack of discipline and leadership and i think because i work

00:46:07.480 with such niche communities gender like becomes a non-issue basically because i work mostly with

00:46:11.840 queer people like even in my relationship i'm the breadwinner like i'm not concerned with gender

00:46:16.160 roles in that regard but i think that generally speaking about straight heterosexual couples i think

00:46:22.340 there is that struggle dynamic because the studies they do on women who are successful who leave

00:46:26.980 corporate to become mothers and who want strong dominant men they're often straight women so you know 1.00

00:46:32.600 your audience is so much wider than mine it's such a different part of the population i'm just

00:46:36.300 talking to the few in between who are like sitting here not concerned so much with gender roles

00:46:40.820 but i wonder do you think that those communities deserve a place of joy and happiness outside of

00:46:45.980 that particular framework outside of the framework that works for straight couples

00:46:50.300 of course i think everybody deserves happiness and i want everybody to be happy

00:46:56.300 i just see it as the the most effective way or the most effective use of my voice is like of course i

00:47:04.020 like to entertain i like comedy and that's fun but if when it comes to influencing and impact it's

00:47:10.180 reaching young men yeah i think that's the most impactful use because if if i create men that have

00:47:16.000 that are happier that that are stronger that have a better life that are making more money and not

00:47:20.920 programmed if i if i impact them then the rest of the world is also and it doesn't it's bigger than

00:47:26.640 just straight relationships because if you have strong men are just around you in the community

00:47:30.460 strong men create a better world a weak men are the biggest problem i think people call me

00:47:35.760 all the time i think that it's it's a weak emotional man it's somebody who's unstable somebody who's

00:47:42.020 not in control that's the person who ends up lashing out and makes people scared like the reason

00:47:48.440 that a lot of women have their guard up is because they've been around a creepy guy who was too

00:47:52.560 or like a stalker women these bad experiences from weak men traumatize women and that's why i think

00:48:01.620 that's the most important thing to to use your voice for you know okay wait i really vibe with this idea

00:48:06.940 because i think that there's always a miss there's like okay i tell me if you agree with this that it's

00:48:12.240 not that men need to be emotional because being emotionally irregular is not good it's that men need to

00:48:17.280 have a relationship with their emotions so they don't lose that discipline is that sort of the

00:48:22.540 narrative oh i'm sorry girl say it again in your audio cut out emotional intelligence

00:48:26.620 emotionally intelligent and there's not many emotionally intelligent men anymore yeah across

00:48:34.160 anyway or women i think everyone's struggling right now i think everyone's kind of in a

00:48:38.440 we're not doing too good out here so that's why i think your voice is important for that motivation

00:48:42.860 it's what i'm trying to do which is to say look regardless of where you've come from or what

00:48:47.260 you're facing now i've got like mental illness and now i've got chronic illness and i'm like okay

00:48:51.600 doesn't matter scratch it just reinvent the wheel in your own way like reinvent your life so what the

00:48:57.380 the universe sent this your way god sent this your way whatever it is you're crossed to bear

00:49:00.720 you can still succeed but that's really hard knowing you can succeed i that's why i like people who walk 0.68

00:49:06.860 the walk see if i ever want to make a million dollars i'd call you because you did it right like i would

00:49:11.500 call people who have done things right what do you think about that do you think people should

00:49:16.020 have to walk the walk to be respected yeah i have people message me and they're like man i like what

00:49:22.440 you do a lot i want to start making red pill content too like i want to go and inspire and i'm like what

00:49:28.300 have you done well well so they really want to to talk about the same things but it's like if you

00:49:34.640 don't have the um the degree if you don't have the job application then you're not going to get the job

00:49:39.620 you know people don't take that as seriously and that's why that's why i'm saying like it's

00:49:43.800 extremely important to have real world experiences to have life experience and i i'm a social media

00:49:49.640 guy like i grew up on i grew up on my phone i grew up on the internet uh so i have to actively seek it

00:49:55.300 out a lot of people they have like the people that i talk to and that i that i respect and that i

00:50:00.060 communicate with a lot of time around the world they are accomplished men in their fields a lot of come

00:50:03.600 from like military background security uh fighters and businessmen uh they they have that's and then

00:50:11.280 social media is separate i'm a social media guy and i know a lot of people who watch this they

00:50:15.120 grew up like this as uh you know i'm 24 and so they have to actively seek it out to live a better

00:50:20.920 life and there's not enough of a push for that so yeah you need to if you don't have if your whole

00:50:27.820 experience is just you know video games and and comment sections then you're not going to really have

00:50:32.780 a lot to talk about so it's extremely important for you to have those conversations and to try and

00:50:38.900 fail new businesses and to to travel the world and to train with different people uh talk to different

00:50:44.960 people have these difficult conversations because that that experience will i think men only learn

00:50:49.920 from experience i think that men will hear what the truth is but unless you have um a traumatic or

00:50:57.880 it doesn't have to be traumatic but unless you have an experience to base it off of you're not

00:51:01.520 going to really learn i think men are stubborn in that sense where you need to go through it in

00:51:04.400 order to realize not to do it maybe that's just me that's me too honestly that's me too i just i

00:51:10.040 want to challenge things and i'm always very like i was that way even as a child and i was raised to

00:51:14.420 be an entrepreneur my dad had the hopes that i would run his business one day like he raised me

00:51:18.200 to like run businesses and i sat there and i think every time i came across something that felt

00:51:23.820 like a challenge i felt excited like i was excited at the idea of problem solving which is why my job

00:51:29.200 now is like problem solving like interpersonal relationships which is so girly of me huh i'm a

00:51:33.320 woman so how do i make my money by helping people with their relationships or their lives or

00:51:37.880 understanding themselves which is like such a girl thing to do but look how i made both happen like i

00:51:42.240 called my dad up this year and i was like hey i made my six figures i finally did it um it's taken

00:51:46.920 me three years of hardcore trying and i'm really proud of myself and he was like that's amazing

00:51:51.040 he's not very excited about all my content since he's pretty religious but overall he

00:51:56.360 congratulated me on doing the one thing he knew he raised me to do which is to be self-sufficient

00:52:01.420 to be independent to be my own thinker and that's really difficult in the world because like you said

00:52:07.080 everyone is trying to tell you how to think everyone is telling you who to be and how to be

00:52:11.940 so i'm going to ask you guys a few more questions and then we can wrap up so i'm very curious

00:52:15.660 you have someone come to you and they say this is who the world's telling me to be

00:52:21.820 this is who i want to be how do you know if it's a good decision to be who the world wants you to be

00:52:27.240 versus who you need to be how do you know it's a good decision i don't think that you should take

00:52:32.840 anybody anybody's advice um 100 i think you need to go apply it to your life and see how you can

00:52:39.300 because everybody has a different path and it's not gonna you can't copy anybody else's

00:52:44.040 trail it's just walking in their footsteps so it's important to create your own path

00:52:47.560 and to you know take different influences and be careful about uh the type of influence that you

00:52:52.860 have we always say that repeat this is a common knowledge that you're the sum of the five people

00:52:56.920 that you spend the most time with yeah so be careful about who you're around because if you

00:53:02.980 let the wrong person in if you let the wrong influence in if you're not aware of who's influencing 0.90

00:53:07.700 you then you're going to be a shitty person like the person telling you garbage yeah be very 0.92

00:53:13.980 careful and you have to be analytical and it's very important to question like why do you have 0.98

00:53:18.700 the why do you hold the beliefs that you hold people are extremely like dead set on what they

00:53:24.060 believe in i don't think enough people think about why or who said it or what the the motivation is

00:53:29.020 absolutely yeah i would just be very wary of that because there's a there's a lot of there's a lot of

00:53:35.020 people with bad intentions out there absolutely and for you you chose a job that you went into with a

00:53:40.380 lot of um i guess purpose money and it's something good to you but how do you make that decision as

00:53:45.980 well if someone came to you i guess even if you had that moment for yourself like how what would

00:53:50.840 you say to them i take everything with a grain of salt i listen to a lot of people not you her

00:53:56.500 um yeah i think again i would take their advice and i guess use it to my advantage but i wouldn't

00:54:07.460 follow exactly what they're saying in their footsteps i think you kind of take it and mold

00:54:11.840 it into your own kind of version like that no i agree okay i'm gonna ask you guys my favorite

00:54:18.160 question i like to ask people all answers are good answers are you ready okay it could be a bad answer

00:54:23.480 but no no bad answers all good answers okay actually let's nico you can go second okay i want to know

00:54:30.640 what is your favorite part about existing being alive truly um if she said murder would that be a 0.97

00:54:38.340 bad answer you know what it would be if it's a real answer it's a good answer but also a questionable

00:54:42.700 answer um being in nature i think oh yeah being in touch with nature and being like in the actual world

00:54:51.260 is really important i think people are so closed off from the real world nowadays everyone's on their

00:54:55.940 phones everyone's online all the time sometimes you just need a breath of fresh air and just come

00:55:00.940 away from it for a minute and just breathe and i think that's the best feeling is it about being

00:55:06.880 grounded yeah yeah just the feeling is so good even if you just like have your feet in the grass

00:55:12.720 outside yes like so good 100 i is 100 yeah i agree with this no so wait are you a nature person do you

00:55:20.600 actually go hiking i love going for walks i mean okay i love that i love a good walk i'm all about

00:55:26.860 the walks girl no i love that okay i'm glad you're walking the walk i'm really gonna push this for the

00:55:33.120 next year if i have anyone lecture me who doesn't walk the walk i'm gonna i'm really sick of it so i'm

00:55:38.060 glad you go on your walks girly now sneeko answer the same question what's your favorite part about

00:55:42.000 existing favorite part of existing is is the finish line is finishing a struggle or getting over

00:55:52.660 something that was difficult and then seeing the other side of it yeah that's the best part especially

00:55:58.220 after something that was very difficult and and challenge i like accomplishing something that was

00:56:04.560 difficult i like going i the i like the growth and i like the um i like the struggle i i it's there's

00:56:12.760 been difficult things in my life and now i've come to appreciate it because i'm like well at the end of

00:56:19.100 it i'm gonna come out a better person i'm gonna learn something i value struggle because people who

00:56:25.040 don't have any struggle they're not worth talking to they're they're boring they got nothing to say

00:56:29.260 they have nothing to i just don't want to talk to those people i think as a man specifically going

00:56:36.020 through struggle will depending on how you react to it will mold you and also make you stronger and

00:56:43.840 make you better overall and make you learn more and help you find reach that point of stoicism where

00:56:50.640 you're you're more in control where you'll feel the emotion but doesn't mean you need to act on the

00:56:55.900 emotion and just helps you become more of a well a well-rounded individual i think that

00:57:01.040 struggle is important and something that i've come to appreciate more absolutely i couldn't have said

00:57:07.260 it better i think struggle is so misunderstood that suffering of life comes from every great

00:57:12.500 philosopher that's ever come before us talks about how suffering and sacrifice lead becoming good men

00:57:18.080 but good men and women we lead through suffering we understand ourselves when we're challenged

00:57:22.080 and then when we overcome like every failure is a step to success and so like life is hard by default

00:57:28.100 so i think that's a really optimistic message to send which again maybe i'm being fooled sneeko maybe

00:57:33.300 you're tricking me but i genuinely get such good vibes from you such good energy some such good intentions

00:57:38.720 that i do think you're trying to help the world in your own way and that is something that i'm going

00:57:43.280 to don't tell me if you're faking it i don't want to know but i believe you i think you really are

00:57:47.060 trying to help people i mean if i was faking i think you'd be exposed by now you think okay yeah

00:57:52.940 there's so many people that are psychoanalyzed and investigating i really think you're underestimating

00:57:59.480 how many people are watching this with a literal like with a microscope and waiting for one of us to

00:58:04.700 slip up because of how much they they need me to fail so with all those people that that need me to

00:58:10.460 fail by now if i was faking it it would be common knowledge yeah yeah guys thank you so much for

00:58:17.260 being here i really appreciate it i think that was just a lovely conversation it's also like i don't

00:58:20.940 know if it just reassured me but i was just like i'm telling you this this man is on a journey that i

00:58:25.900 think a lot of people are underestimating and i think i can't wait to see you in like 10 years i'm

00:58:29.520 gonna follow your career i expect to see you in 10 years i expect to see you we'll have a great

00:58:34.080 conversation i'll buy you a coffee i'm so glad that makes me so happy really nice meeting you girly i'm so

00:58:39.280 glad you could come on lovely to meet you lovely to meet you guys have a great day thank you so much

00:58:44.740 okay

00:58:45.620 my belly's being fed and i'm okay i'm just fine

00:58:56.760 yet all i do is one

00:58:58.780 not to you in my mind

00:59:00.780 because i don't know

00:59:01.900 i don't make sense

00:59:05.020 i've been nothing but blessed

00:59:06.920 so why's my life a mess please tell me

00:59:09.820 cause i'm sick of thinking

00:59:12.660 yeah i'm sick of reaching out for the true 0.99

00:59:18.580 and living like there's a fool 0.94

00:59:22.420 so i don't know 0.99

00:59:41.320 you

00:59:41.860 Thank you.

SNEAKO - April 20, 2023

Brittany Simon Exposes The Dark Realities Behind SNEAKO's Mind!

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