SNEAKO - April 19, 2023


Feminist Accuses SNEAKO of Vibrating with Misogyny!

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feminism contradictions vibrating with misogyny debate
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In this episode, I'm joined by author and dating coach, Sneeko, to discuss why feminism is bad for men and why it's good for women. We discuss the role of women in society and the importance of men in society.

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00:00:01 People like to have a victim mindset, especially...
00:00:02 It's not a victimization, I'm just saying it exists.
00:00:04 Okay.
00:00:04 That's it.
00:00:05 That's my point, is that we hear this victimized mindset right now in order to give you a way
00:00:10 to navigate the world that justifies a lot of your thoughts and beliefs.
00:00:13 We're talking about race, and you're like, it's giving misogyny.
00:00:16 It is.
00:00:17 No, you...
00:00:18 What does calling out the victimization of the race...
00:00:21 I feel the vibration.
00:00:22 You feel the vibrations of misogyny?
00:00:24 Yeah, of your mentality.
00:00:26 Your mentality is one of
00:00:28 You're a type of man 1.00
00:00:30 They're just here trying to make you look stupid 1.00
00:00:33 That's what their job is 1.00
00:00:34 What value do you see
00:00:36 How do you value women 0.95
00:00:37 Do you see the value of women 1.00
00:00:38 I explained it five minutes ago
00:00:41 I said that I'm against feminism
00:00:43 I said the value of a woman is motherhood 0.94
00:00:45 Is in raising children
00:00:46 I said that we respect mothers
00:00:48 I opened the show by saying that
00:00:49 So what did I say that makes you think I'm a misogynist
00:00:52 That's a serious allegation
00:00:54 I said it's giving misogynism
00:00:55 What is giving misogyny?
00:00:56 Your vibration.
00:00:58 My vibrations?
00:00:59 Yeah, the vibes.
00:00:59 You're vibrating misogyny right now?
00:01:00 The vibes, no.
00:01:01 So are you vibrating with racism, too?
00:01:03 No, you're trying to put your masculinity into insertive, and I don't like that.
00:01:07 That's a bit misogynist.
00:01:08 It comes a bit aggressive, right?
00:01:09 Yeah, it's just.
00:01:10 It's going to be like, ugh.
00:01:11 It's the masculinity.
00:01:11 It's a bit heavy.
00:01:12 Yeah, I can feel it, and it's like you're trying to suppress my feminine.
00:01:15 So today we have a lovely panel, including some special guests.
00:01:18 I'm Sneeko.
00:01:19 I am 24 years old, and fun fact, I am a really nice guy.
00:01:24 Aw.
00:01:25 Yeah.
00:01:25 I didn't like that all.
00:01:28 That's good.
00:01:29 It's nice to see a nice, sweet side.
00:01:31 If you're a nice guy, it means there's vulnerabilities to you.
00:01:34 All nice guys finish last?
00:01:36 No.
00:01:37 But nice guys and nice husbands. 1.00
00:01:40 You're a good husband.
00:01:40 Can you cook?
00:01:42 Do you want a husband that cooks? 1.00
00:01:43 No, I'm just asking if you can cook.
00:01:44 Then I've got a line to say after, obviously.
00:01:49 I can cook, but I won't cook.
00:01:52 Oh, that's okay.
00:01:52 I'll cut you. 0.94
00:01:54 Nice. 0.83
00:01:54 Nice.
00:01:55 Girls, that's how you do it. 1.00
00:01:58 How you do what?
00:01:58 Not get a husband?
00:01:59 No.
00:02:00 That's how you're freaking yourself out of the bad situation.
00:02:03 Because you said, why'd you ask?
00:02:05 So I said, because I've got a line after.
00:02:07 Trouble.
00:02:11 Jay Waller, 37.
00:02:13 Nothing to say.
00:02:14 Troy Francis, 47, years young.
00:02:17 I'm a dating coach based in London.
00:02:18 And a fun fact, I'm single as well.
00:02:20 Fun fact about me, I've written 11 books about dating and the dating marketplace.
00:02:25 So, thank you all for coming
00:02:28 Today's topic, I'm just going to get right into it
00:02:30 Do feminists crave destruction? 1.00
00:02:33 Yes 0.99
00:02:33 Explain right here
00:02:35 We started off the show with destruction
00:02:37 Ask me the question and then you'll see
00:02:39 Okay, so you said yes, why?
00:02:43 Yes, because the whole point of feminism 1.00
00:02:44 Is to eradicate the importance of men 0.93
00:02:47 And I don't see anything as destructive
00:02:49 As eradicating the importance of men in society 0.92
00:02:51 That's a simple way to put it
00:02:53 What do you think?
00:02:55 I agree with what she's saying, 100%.
00:02:58 Did you actually agree or were you just trying to get to the next person?
00:03:00 No, I agree with what she's saying.
00:03:02 I think that a lot of, I think the term feminism has been almost changed 0.99
00:03:08 in modern day time and made into almost like women need to overpower men 0.96
00:03:12 and women need to take over the world kind of energy. 1.00
00:03:18 I hear that. No, I don't agree.
00:03:21 Okay, what do you think?
00:03:22 feminism is made to empower women 1.00
00:03:27 and show men the importance of women in society.
00:03:31 What's the importance of women in society? 1.00
00:03:33 What?
00:03:34 What's the importance of women in society? 1.00
00:03:36 We are society.
00:03:39 That's not...
00:03:40 What's your importance?
00:03:42 What's your role in society?
00:03:43 If it's so important,
00:03:44 that's the point of empowering you.
00:03:47 What's your role?
00:03:49 Well, I'm not being funny.
00:03:52 without where would the world be without women like where would you you've come from a woman 1.00
00:03:58 you've learned most of what you've growing up who brought you up was it your mother or your father
00:04:04 who's who's so who's got core duties why do men go so hard so the importance of a woman is
00:04:12 motherhood no not just motherhood come back to me i have to think about it but women you seem 1.00
00:04:20 pretty set in stone on that i think we just saw feminism in real time you said that it's in our 0.99
00:04:25 role is really important and then you just said motherhood which is that existed before the 1.00
00:04:30 feminist movement motherhood has always been important yeah it's always been respected right 1.00
00:04:33 you're right and it's pinnacle how do you think the world's going to continue to go on without
00:04:38 motherhood we agree so would you be here if you didn't have a mother we agree 100 exactly so what
00:04:42 is the feminist movement done to prove that well the feminist movement if you're talking about what 0.81
00:04:48 What's it
00:04:50 What's going on now
00:04:51 The empowerment
00:04:52 All this girl boss thing 1.00
00:04:53 That's going on right now
00:04:54 No that's modern feminism 1.00
00:04:56 That's what it's evolved to
00:04:58 But feminism in itself 1.00
00:04:59 Is made to
00:05:00 Make the world see
00:05:02 The value of women
00:05:03 They used to plan assassinations 0.90
00:05:04 In the early 1900s
00:05:06 What feminists 1.00
00:05:07 Well
00:05:09 Yeah
00:05:10 There's terrorist groups
00:05:12 That are men and women
00:05:13 You know
00:05:13 It's equality isn't it 0.98
00:05:15 Women can be terrorists too 1.00
00:05:16 True 0.99
00:05:18 That's why I think feminism, in my opinion, 1.00
00:05:21 is the problem when people want to label things.
00:05:24 You don't want all of the same things.
00:05:26 We are all very different women.
00:05:27 We have different experiences, different careers, different ones.
00:05:30 So if you start saying feminism, you start labeling everybody, 0.99
00:05:33 it's a problem because a black woman's freaking experience 1.00
00:05:36 is not the same as a white woman. 0.99
00:05:37 So our feminism doesn't look the same. 0.98
00:05:39 So when everybody's saying, oh, women, empower yourselves,
00:05:41 we can't empower ourselves the same way.
00:05:42 Some women work, some don't. 1.00
00:05:44 Some women are mothers, some women are not mothers. 1.00
00:05:45 It's like, don't put me under the same umbrella.
00:05:47 What does a black woman, what does that have to do with feminism? 1.00
00:05:49 It has to do with feminism because, for example, for me, 0.83
00:05:53 just knowing the difference between my empowerment
00:05:55 and the empowerment of my white girlfriends, it's very different.
00:05:59 I have bigger struggles to overcome.
00:06:00 So when somebody's telling me, oh, feminism, empower yourself, 1.00
00:06:02 we're all the same.
00:06:03 No, we're not.
00:06:04 We're quite different.
00:06:04 The same way that I don't believe that racism is actually something
00:06:08 that many people should be speaking on,
00:06:10 because even that black experience is totally different
00:06:12 depending on where you're from, what class you come from.
00:06:15 So women are not all the same just because 1.00
00:06:17 We are women 0.96
00:06:17 Everything you're saying is why people think that feminists are just chatting 1.00
00:06:21 Because what does racism
00:06:22 I'm not a feminist so I don't really care
00:06:24 And I brought feminism as a comparison point 1.00
00:06:26 Because I'm just trying to explain that
00:06:28 When you put people in the same bag
00:06:29 Every single time it causes problems
00:06:31 So you don't actually get to understand what the genuine problem is
00:06:34 And you start saying oh we want this
00:06:36 But then you don't know what you want
00:06:37 It's victim mindset
00:06:37 It's having a victim mindset
00:06:40 I'm black, I'm a woman, I need empowerment
00:06:42 No it's not a victimization, it's a fact
00:06:44 Because I know I lived that experience
00:06:46 You may not
00:06:47 And on top of that I'm also an immigrant
00:06:49 So I already know that my experience is different
00:06:50 So when I'm talking about empowerment
00:06:52 And you're an immigrant too
00:06:53 I don't look at it
00:06:53 There's a lot of ways you're victimizing yourself
00:06:55 I'm not victimized
00:06:56 I'm empowering myself because I'm a G
00:06:57 I made it through the problem
00:06:59 I don't really care about whether or not it was a situation
00:07:01 But that's wokeness
00:07:02 You empower yourself by victimizing yourself
00:07:04 No, I empower myself by understanding that
00:07:06 Perhaps I may have a bigger hill to climb
00:07:08 So I'll train harder
00:07:09 It's what you're leading with though
00:07:10 It's certainly what you're leading with
00:07:12 Your race, your gender
00:07:14 and your immigration. Of course. You're leading
00:07:16 with that. Is that your identity? You can understand that
00:07:18 when I'm a feminist too. What about 1.00
00:07:20 what you've done in the world instead of all of these other
00:07:22 things? I've done a lot of things in the world. Okay, then why not lead with those?
00:07:24 I'm an educator as well. Okay, cool. And I understand
00:07:26 the difference between me going into that
00:07:28 job versus other
00:07:30 people. I work with different types of racism.
00:07:32 What I'm trying to say is I'm not trying to make this about racism.
00:07:35 I'm simply making a comparison to
00:07:36 explain that. But you did. No, no, no. You certainly did.
00:07:38 And let me tell you why. Because I'm making a comparison.
00:07:41 So it's an analogy to explain
00:07:42 another problem. When you put everybody in the
00:07:44 same basket, it doesn't work. That's why
00:07:46 feminism doesn't work. It's not a good thing 1.00
00:07:48 because I don't relate to feminists. 1.00
00:07:50 Because the problems are not just caused by gender,
00:07:52 the problems are caused by these other factors that you're talking about.
00:07:54 Yes, but it's caused by so many different things.
00:07:56 There's different elements to it, so don't box me in.
00:07:58 So that's why I don't think feminism is good. 1.00
00:08:00 You neglect the people that actually do need empowering.
00:08:03 And I don't think it's fair to say that
00:08:04 she shouldn't lead with her race and 1.00
00:08:06 all of these things because when you look at us, the first thing you
00:08:08 do see is my race. If I am a TV presenter,
00:08:10 you're not going to look at me first as a TV presenter.
00:08:11 That's the first thing you say
00:08:12 When I see you
00:08:13 I see a woman 0.98
00:08:14 I don't see a black girl 1.00
00:08:15 Maybe that's just you 0.93
00:08:15 But the majority
00:08:16 You're gonna already
00:08:17 Have this stigma of me
00:08:18 Because I'm a black woman
00:08:18 But here's the problem
00:08:18 With you doing that
00:08:19 And I say this with love
00:08:20 But if you have that
00:08:21 Top of mind all the time
00:08:22 You're gonna suppress yourself
00:08:23 But that's literally
00:08:24 That's life
00:08:25 Like we can't change it
00:08:26 You're gonna suppress yourself
00:08:27 We can't change it
00:08:27 And that is life
00:08:28 That's like me assuming
00:08:29 That y'all are gonna hate me
00:08:30 Because I'm a straight white male
00:08:31 Why would I think that
00:08:32 About you guys
00:08:33 When we could just get along
00:08:34 So I don't understand
00:08:35 Like why are you
00:08:35 Being so challenging
00:08:36 When I said
00:08:37 Because I hate to hear it
00:08:38 coming out of your mouth because it's a poisonous thing for you to think next to feminists and i'm 1.00
00:08:42 saying whatever your empowerment movement is is not the same as mine so don't actually label me
00:08:47 to be in that situation and say oh women want oh i'm not labeling you i'm simply telling you what
00:08:51 exactly what you said no no no no exactly what you said what do you think about feminine i said 0.99
00:08:56 i'm black i'm an immigrant all this bullshit that's literally what you just said that's exactly 0.95
00:09:01 let me rephrase it so you can understand it please so essentially if i stand next to a feminist 1.00
00:09:06 yeah for example a white woman i don't relate to you because i'm black okay wait wait wait let me 0.55
00:09:10 finish can i finish you're about to say i can't box myself in with you because i'm black that's 0.85
00:09:14 not what i'm saying say it then what i'm saying is i am not the same woman as you what i want and
00:09:19 what i see to be empowerment is not the same whether it's culturally whether it's racially
00:09:22 whether it's professionally academically personally whatever we are all very different women cannot
00:09:27 be boxed into the same box because we're not the same because you're different races because of 0.96
00:09:31 Different experiences as women.
00:09:33 So you're making an anti-feminist argument. 1.00
00:09:36 Because she's black. 1.00
00:09:36 But you want to have other things to complain about. 0.91
00:09:39 I've got balance.
00:09:43 I know the things that are not right and I know the things that are right.
00:09:45 It's not just black and white.
00:09:47 There's gray areas in the middle.
00:09:49 That's why I mentioned, for example, things like race is a gray area in the middle
00:09:52 that makes it say, oh yeah, feminism may not actually be as accurate as people are saying. 1.00
00:09:56 That is why people come across feminists and they don't know what they want 1.00
00:09:59 Because one wants this
00:10:00 The other one wants this
00:10:01 And the other one wants this
00:10:02 Because they are different
00:10:03 And that is why
00:10:04 Feminism in my opinion 0.99
00:10:05 Is destructive 0.99
00:10:06 And I don't think
00:10:07 She's playing victim 0.99
00:10:08 I think she's just
00:10:09 Acknowledging a serious
00:10:10 Issue in society
00:10:11 Very much so
00:10:12 Racism?
00:10:13 Yes
00:10:13 Are we going to
00:10:14 Act like racism
00:10:15 Doesn't exist
00:10:15 Yeah it doesn't
00:10:16 Racism is not a problem
00:10:17 That's how they keep
00:10:18 People broken at the bottom
00:10:19 And arguing about nothing
00:10:20 And thinking that
00:10:21 They're victims all the time
00:10:21 And that sounds like a problem
00:10:22 It's not a problem
00:10:23 When you believe it
00:10:25 Your existence
00:10:26 And it's a problem then
00:10:26 Isn't it?
00:10:27 Okay
00:10:27 my point is your existence is a sum of your beliefs and your thoughts and if you're always
00:10:32 thinking that i'm a victim because i'm black i'm not a feminist because of this i'm an immigrant
00:10:36 then you know what's going to happen you're going to stay poor you're going to stay unhappy and
00:10:40 you're going to see racism everywhere at a certain level of wealth and at a certain level of status
00:10:44 people never discuss things like race people never discuss like i'm an immigrant so it was hard you
00:10:50 just want to get to the next point yeah that's why racism is a problem winners only see green
00:10:54 Because the truth of the matter is like I own a business right have a bunch of employees
00:10:57 If somebody turns up and does their job and they're profitable for my company 0.99
00:11:01 I cannot afford to give a fuck about their race religion hair 1.00
00:11:03 gender any of that stuff because 0.99
00:11:05 It's too hard to find people that work really hard 0.98
00:11:08 So a great example of that is LeBron James has been in the NBA for years because he puts out motherfucking results 0.94
00:11:14 Okay, but and he's not worried and he's not worried and living. Oh, I'm black 0.99
00:11:17 I can't play in the league, but you could say that for any I know plenty of successful young black men 0.76
00:11:22 And one thing I have a super big heart for is I play college football, and I cannot stand to see people put those young men in a box and tell them from the jump that they are not going to have a good shot at life just because they're black.
00:11:34 Can I ask you a question?
00:11:35 That is putting them in a box from the beginning and lying to them.
00:11:37 Sorry.
00:11:38 Do you think that LeBron James had the same journey as his white teammates?
00:11:42 What white teammates?
00:11:44 You want to talk about exclusion?
00:11:45 How many white people are in the NBA?
00:11:47 I can't think of one.
00:11:47 No, no, wait.
00:11:48 Name a white NBA player.
00:11:50 I don't know. 0.98
00:11:51 i feel left out fuck this i'm leaving no no no but i'm just saying if okay actually that's in 0.99
00:11:56 america in the u in the uk it's different my problem is telling young black men that they 0.99
00:12:01 don't have a shot because they're black is literally handicapping them from the jump and 1.00
00:12:05 i won't stand for it in the uk it's very different my friend in the uk for example the football 0.97
00:12:10 leagues they are full of white boys and the white players are actually quite physically endowed and 0.93
00:12:14 they're quite talented they get they stay behind a little bit more they're not selected first
00:12:18 In the UK it's very different
00:12:19 That's why I say
00:12:20 You shouldn't box people in
00:12:21 And talk about generally
00:12:22 Because culturally 0.98
00:12:23 I call bullshit though 0.99
00:12:24 I'll tell you why 0.99
00:12:25 I'll tell you why
00:12:26 It's true
00:12:26 An owner of a company
00:12:28 Whether it's a sports team
00:12:30 Or a normal business
00:12:31 Cannot afford
00:12:32 To choose somebody
00:12:34 Or not choose somebody
00:12:35 Based off their race or gender
00:12:36 But that's not true
00:12:37 No
00:12:37 Let me tell you why
00:12:38 Because the way that you make money
00:12:40 In the sport is you win 0.99
00:12:41 Fucking championships 0.99
00:12:42 Reggie you don't watch football 0.99
00:12:43 Some of the best players
00:12:44 In the UK 0.52
00:12:45 Yeah
00:12:46 They don't get the ratings
00:12:47 For example
00:12:47 in the World Cup three black players scored
00:12:49 but when England was
00:12:51 eliminated from the World Cup those three
00:12:53 players were the ones that were blamed and all the white 0.58
00:12:55 players were the ones that were celebrated because that
00:12:57 actually does happen in this country
00:12:59 so that's why race is actually
00:13:01 important. I don't know anything about soccer
00:13:02 but I'll say this. Sorry
00:13:05 so are both of you trying to say racism doesn't exist
00:13:07 or you trying to encourage us
00:13:09 you believing that you're a victim holds you
00:13:11 back more than any of the actual
00:13:13 racism that exists in society
00:13:14 This is some
00:13:17 It's really just poor people coping
00:13:19 That like racism
00:13:21 This is why I'm not successful
00:13:22 This is why I'm unhappy
00:13:23 It's because of systematic oppression
00:13:24 That mindset will hold you back more than any
00:13:27 White systems 0.91
00:13:28 I do agree with that mindset
00:13:29 That mindset will hold you back
00:13:31 Way more than any racism
00:13:33 What I will say is racism does exist
00:13:36 Absolutely it exists everywhere
00:13:38 It exists everywhere
00:13:39 But obviously I wouldn't call myself a victim
00:13:42 I've experienced racism
00:13:44 but I don't say I'm a victim.
00:13:46 I wouldn't let that stop me from prospering.
00:13:49 Do you have a harder time succeeding than a white girl? 1.00
00:13:52 I don't know.
00:13:53 I feel like it's all about mindset, to be honest.
00:13:56 If you sit there and think, oh, I can't do this because of this,
00:13:59 or I can't do that, then obviously that's a negative mindset to have.
00:14:01 You're not going to grow and you're not going to be the best version of yourself.
00:14:04 But if you think, okay, I might be different,
00:14:07 but that's not going to stop me from elevating
00:14:09 and being the best version of myself.
00:14:11 I get what you guys are trying to say in terms of
00:14:13 Mindset I definitely believe that what you
00:14:16 Think is what will manifest but what I'm
00:14:17 Trying to understand is are you guys trying to say
00:14:19 That racism does not exist
00:14:22 That's all and it's just this fantasy not as much
00:14:23 As we're talking about it right now and
00:14:25 Not as much as the
00:14:26 And as much as feminists 1.00
00:14:29 Believe that feminists like are held back and 1.00
00:14:31 That we need to be empowered ask like what
00:14:33 How do we empower women oh motherhood
00:14:35 Okay mothers have always been 0.99
00:14:37 Respected so it's a lot of this
00:14:39 people like to have and this is what wokeness does we like to have reasons to justify our
00:14:44 existence and where our place in the world like we're held back because of white oppression i'm
00:14:50 a feminist i'm an immigrant and this is why i'm where i'm at it makes us feel better about our
00:14:54 position in life but if you let go of those attachments and just understand that the world
00:14:57 is what you make it you will succeed and you will be better these ways so like racism it's all 0.98
00:15:03 garbage it's all meant to keep us like down and at the bottom the black lives matter movement for 1.00
00:15:07 example was all garbage all the psyop all that was a scam same with the feminist movement any of 1.00
00:15:12 these ideologies that people grasp on to feel better same thing with all these people talking 0.99
00:15:15 about ukraine and russia like you're not going to change it just go get some money and start a
00:15:19 family and just stop attaching yourself to stuff that you have no control over and that and that's
00:15:23 the point and he's dead on because like for example people get all up flustered about who 0.98
00:15:30 wins a presidency oh trump's president i can't dude i don't give a fuck who wins president you 1.00
00:15:33 could be president tomorrow i'm still gonna win bet your fucking ass i don't care what the 1.00
00:15:38 condition is i don't care who's in the office you do any of you could be president tomorrow and i'm 1.00
00:15:41 still gonna get up and go to work the next day can i tell you something very interesting do you
00:15:45 know why racism actually exists because nobody said it didn't exist it's not a way to lead your
00:15:49 identity it's actually very annoying because what people don't understand is that sometimes you're
00:15:54 walking amongst black people or even sometimes a black person will go into a shop and the security 0.57
00:15:58 guard will look at them and follow them they don't even know they're looking at prints because 0.90
00:16:02 That's pattern recognition
00:16:03 It's pattern recognition
00:16:06 No no no listen yeah
00:16:08 The problem is that with this whole idea
00:16:10 Of racism what people talk about
00:16:12 For me I find racism to be an insult
00:16:13 Because people look at the color of my skin
00:16:16 And they assume I'm lower than what I am
00:16:18 No they don't
00:16:19 They actually do
00:16:21 But coming from the two girls 0.60
00:16:24 That brought up race though
00:16:25 You bring up race immediately 0.92
00:16:27 The show had been going on five minutes
00:16:29 And you both bring up black 0.93
00:16:31 Never in my mind was I like
00:16:33 Can I ask you a question?
00:16:35 Can I ask you a question?
00:16:37 You said like they, who is they?
00:16:39 Just overall the general population
00:16:41 In this country at least
00:16:42 So would you say like everyone in this room?
00:16:46 I don't think that's true
00:16:47 I don't think that's true in London
00:16:48 I'll explain to you why
00:16:50 They hear my accent
00:16:53 A lot of the time, they see my skin tone
00:16:55 I just want to know who they
00:16:56 Just people in general
00:16:57 I met you in London
00:16:59 So I'm asking you, like, they.
00:17:01 Is that this room?
00:17:02 Is that, like, everyone in here just met you today?
00:17:04 Listen, they, I mean, they is just the people that don't matter to me.
00:17:07 I don't need to know their names.
00:17:09 And I'm just saying, this is a good sample size of people.
00:17:11 These are all random people.
00:17:12 Like, you know, I know we know each other, but outside of that.
00:17:16 Of course.
00:17:16 I relate to a lot of these girls, for example.
00:17:18 Could you be projecting insecurities onto other people,
00:17:21 making assumptions about what people think about you?
00:17:22 Because when I met you, I didn't think, oh, she's lower or she's anything else.
00:17:26 You know, whatever.
00:17:26 I mean, I just thought, yeah, cool girl.
00:17:28 Nice coat.
00:17:28 I thought good TV
00:17:29 You didn't think good TV
00:17:32 I'll explain to you why
00:17:34 And this is the same thing
00:17:35 That goes perhaps that links more into feminism 1.00
00:17:38 Is that I just don't like the fact
00:17:40 That people assume less
00:17:42 Of my capabilities based on something
00:17:44 I don't know that they do
00:17:45 I'll tell you who her
00:17:48 She's the one that put it out in the universe
00:17:49 Let me tell you
00:17:51 This is victim mindset
00:17:53 Literally what she said
00:17:54 My biggest comments yet
00:17:57 Guys, you guys are troublesome. 1.00
00:17:58 My biggest comment is like, look at this stupid girl. 1.00
00:18:01 What does she know? 1.00
00:18:02 I told Mr. King Riches that I could fix a Bentley.
00:18:05 And he laughed.
00:18:05 Well, how could you?
00:18:06 Why?
00:18:07 Because I'm a girl?
00:18:08 That's the thing.
00:18:09 So feminism, what I think feminism is like. 1.00
00:18:11 So it's King Riches' fault. 1.00
00:18:12 Then why not say, but why not respond to King Rich and say, because I have the skill set?
00:18:17 Yes.
00:18:18 And that's the whole point.
00:18:20 That's why feminism as well, what the girls are trying to say. 1.00
00:18:22 What is the point?
00:18:23 Listen, listen.
00:18:23 What I believe girls are trying to say is that, listen, don't look at the fact that I'm a girl.
00:18:27 I've got the skill set so respect me for my skill set
00:18:29 Then lead with it
00:18:30 Lead with that I have the skills
00:18:33 Of course and the only reason why
00:18:35 I mention my race is to separate myself
00:18:37 Most women don't have the skill set 1.00
00:18:39 To fix a car can we just call a spade
00:18:41 A spade it's not
00:18:43 Feminism holding us back it's us 1.00
00:18:45 Choosing not to get that skill
00:18:47 So people assume that but I don't know
00:18:49 How you cling that to me saying that feminism
00:18:51 Is holding us back because of that
00:18:52 You were saying that like people assume that you couldn't fix
00:18:55 a BMW, or people assume that you couldn't
00:18:57 fix a BMW. Yeah. And
00:18:59 somehow that's tied to, who cares?
00:19:01 No, it doesn't matter. That's what I'm saying. Feminism 0.94
00:19:03 doesn't matter. Girls just want credit 1.00
00:19:05 for what they can do.
00:19:06 I will give you 200 pounds if you can
00:19:09 fix a BMW. We can do a video.
00:19:12 Let's do it. Oh my God.
00:19:13 Stay tuned.
00:19:14 I'll teach you. I'll match it.
00:19:16 I'll match it because I love that. And if you can,
00:19:19 no, I'll match it. Do it. I'm actually doing
00:19:21 a series, guys. Make sure that you subscribe to my channel.
00:19:23 I love that. And watch
00:19:25 me fix a car i fixed the change batteries change tires fix the electric system why because i know
00:19:31 how to use google very well and i brought this and i did it love it love it i think anyone who
00:19:36 hasn't experienced racism shouldn't say anything about it full stop well okay cool so i grew up
00:19:42 quite a while five years five years in a black neighborhood i got in a fight every other day
00:19:46 for it okay because i had red hair they called me rooster i literally got in fights every day
00:19:50 So you got bullied.
00:19:51 That's not racism.
00:19:52 Exactly.
00:19:52 Oh, it's not.
00:19:53 It's discrimination based on what it looks like.
00:19:55 It's not.
00:19:55 That's exactly what racism is.
00:19:57 It's not racism.
00:19:58 No, because he wasn't oppressed.
00:19:59 We were the ones that oppressed, so you can't call that racism.
00:20:01 How are you oppressed?
00:20:02 No, but I'm not oppressed.
00:20:02 In 2023, how are you oppressed?
00:20:04 Because I got news for you, honey. 1.00
00:20:06 If you had a skill set that was worth something to somebody, you would be the richest fucker 1.00
00:20:09 in here. 0.99
00:20:10 So slavery didn't exist?
00:20:11 Did slavery exist?
00:20:12 Slavery exists.
00:20:13 Yeah.
00:20:13 It also existed for the IRS.
00:20:15 I'm not trying to belittle what happened to black people. 0.66
00:20:17 I would never.
00:20:17 No, I'm not.
00:20:18 Why are people in the UK talking about slavery?
00:20:20 No, no, no, no, no.
00:20:21 Here's why.
00:20:22 There was no slaves here.
00:20:24 Here's why.
00:20:24 No, this is very important.
00:20:26 Can we stop?
00:20:27 This is very important to me.
00:20:28 I have a lot of young black men that follow me. 0.99
00:20:30 There's no fucking way on earth I'm going to let them believe that they have a lesser chance than anybody else if they just work their ass off. 0.99
00:20:37 There's no fucking way. 1.00
00:20:38 I'm not shitting on their dreams like that. 1.00
00:20:39 I'll be damned. 1.00
00:20:40 You call me a racist if you want. 0.99
00:20:41 That's fine, but we have to work on them.
00:20:42 You call me a racist all day.
00:20:43 I'm not.
00:20:44 I don't care. 1.00
00:20:44 There's no way I'm letting those young men believe that shit. 1.00
00:20:46 100%. 1.00
00:20:47 Because I know plenty of black guys.
00:20:48 King Rich is here right now. 1.00
00:20:49 He's a fucking winner all day long 1.00
00:20:51 because he didn't let that shit happen. 1.00
00:20:52 100%. 1.00
00:20:52 We have to work harder.
00:20:53 What about all of our friends that are black
00:20:56 that are very, very successful?
00:20:57 King Rich is why do people listen to you when they see you?
00:20:59 Bro, looking at racism is for broke people.
00:21:02 No.
00:21:03 What I would say.
00:21:04 It's just serious.
00:21:04 It's just an insult.
00:21:06 I just find it insulting.
00:21:07 Don't tell me that.
00:21:08 It's not insulting.
00:21:09 You lead with it.
00:21:10 Get a new identity.
00:21:12 Especially as a black woman,
00:21:13 we are at the bottom of the list.
00:21:14 I'm a black girl.
00:21:16 What?
00:21:16 You're so much more than that.
00:21:17 you're so much more than that
00:21:18 then don't lead with it 1.00
00:21:20 it's bullshit 0.99
00:21:21 I didn't lead with it 0.99
00:21:22 I use it as a comparison
00:21:23 for me to explain
00:21:24 why I'm not the same
00:21:25 as every girl
00:21:26 that puts themselves
00:21:26 in one thing
00:21:27 then why not tell us
00:21:28 the skills you have
00:21:29 and the person you are
00:21:30 that lead
00:21:31 why don't you lead with that
00:21:32 oh it's too late
00:21:33 I can't speak full language
00:21:34 lead with the person you are
00:21:36 it's given that 0.98
00:21:36 you guys hate women 0.93
00:21:37 that's the vibes right now 0.98
00:21:39 no no no
00:21:41 no no
00:21:41 let me be clear
00:21:43 I just
00:21:44 wait wait wait
00:21:46 we have to do one at a time
00:21:47 stop
00:21:47 can i say something it's not a thing where they hate women if anything they love women for a man
00:21:53 to tell you to think positively how is that hatred the people are literally telling us that what we
00:21:58 think is what's going to manifest so therefore think positive thoughts and positive things will
00:22:02 happen to you you guys on this table who are talking about feminists you're all negative
00:22:05 because why would you focus so much on comments why would you focus so much on who's looking at
00:22:10 your hairstyle your accent or whatever and then someone comes to tell you actually focus on the
00:22:14 positive, and you guys are saying they hate you.
00:22:16 No, that's love.
00:22:17 You can't focus on it, because just the other day, a man
00:22:20 applied for a job, and they told him he can't
00:22:22 get a job because of his afro, so you can't tell us to not
00:22:24 focus on it when it is the focus.
00:22:26 Yes, it did happen. Watch the news.
00:22:28 It literally happened the other day. Yeah, but that's his experience.
00:22:30 But if he was smart, he's not going to let
00:22:32 that hold him back. That's the whole point.
00:22:34 That's why he went on the news and he spoke up
00:22:36 about it. You can't tell us to not
00:22:38 focus on it. If I walk into a certain place
00:22:40 with my afro, the first thing people are going to do is stare at me,
00:22:42 and certain places won't want to give me the job just because I have
00:22:44 You want me to tell you something?
00:22:45 Yeah, but that's your mindset.
00:22:46 No, but you can't tell me it's my mindset
00:22:48 if they have told me I am not giving you the job
00:22:50 because of my effort.
00:22:51 You can't tell me that's my mindset.
00:22:52 My point is that's going to happen point blank, period.
00:22:55 That is my point.
00:22:56 Yeah, but the world is evil.
00:22:57 Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.
00:23:01 Wait, wait, wait.
00:23:02 It was in the UK.
00:23:04 Try it.
00:23:04 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, stop.
00:23:09 Wait, thank you.
00:23:10 Do you know why you saw that in the news?
00:23:12 Because they want you to believe that racism is a real problem
00:23:15 It wasn't even on the news so you're lying
00:23:16 She just said that it was on the news
00:23:18 It was not only on the news, it went viral on Twitter
00:23:21 Let's fact check now
00:23:22 I said it was on the news
00:23:23 No, but you're saying why you saw it on the news
00:23:27 Yeah, that's why I saw it
00:23:28 So you're adding to it
00:23:29 They share these stories like George Floyd
00:23:31 And like that Afro nonsense that you saw on the news 1.00
00:23:33 In order for you to believe that there's a system that's holding you back
00:23:36 It's not
00:23:36 And you saw here, we're talking about race
00:23:38 Hold on, so the man went online and was like
00:23:40 I didn't get the job, sat there and didn't have an, at this point, when he got on the news.
00:23:44 They pick and chose to run that story because it gives people like you a reason to feel.
00:23:47 Not people like me.
00:23:48 Exactly, people like you.
00:23:49 They used to want to give my mom free food in the market because they didn't believe that white woman could have three little kids with afros. 1.00
00:23:56 They used to give her food because they used to think that we're little African children that suffer.
00:24:01 These times we were quite wealthy.
00:24:02 So, for example.
00:24:04 Okay, my overall point is that people like to have a victim mindset.
00:24:08 It's not a victimization, I'm just saying it exists.
00:24:10 Okay.
00:24:10 That's it.
00:24:10 That's my point, is that we hear this victimized mindset right now in order to give you a way to navigate the world that justifies a lot of your thoughts and beliefs.
00:24:18 We're talking about race, and you're like, it's giving misogyny.
00:24:23 What does calling out the victimization of the race, you feel the vibrations of misogyny?
00:24:30 Yeah, of your mentality.
00:24:32 Your mentality is one of, you're a type of man.
00:24:35 What type of man? 1.00
00:24:36 No, sister, they're just here trying to make you look stupid. 1.00
00:24:39 That's what their job is. 1.00
00:24:40 It's not that hard 0.95
00:24:41 It's not that fucking hard 0.93
00:24:43 Don't take it personal 0.91
00:24:44 They literally just want to catch you out
00:24:46 I'm trying to get to what she really believes
00:24:49 King Richard trains me for this
00:24:50 What are the vibrations that I'm giving you
00:24:53 Why?
00:24:56 I'm not being funny
00:24:57 What value do you see
00:24:59 How do you value women?
00:25:00 Do you see the value of women? 1.00
00:25:02 I explained it five minutes ago
00:25:04 I said that I'm against feminism
00:25:06 If you're going to call him a misogynist
00:25:09 She asked me a question
00:25:10 I said the value of a woman is motherhood 0.94
00:25:12 Is in raising children
00:25:13 I said that we respect mothers
00:25:15 I opened the show by saying that
00:25:16 So what did I say that makes you think that I'm a misogyny
00:25:19 That's a serious allegation
00:25:21 I said it's giving misogyny
00:25:22 What is giving misogyny
00:25:24 Your vibration
00:25:24 My vibrations
00:25:25 You're vibrating misogyny right now
00:25:27 So are you vibrating with racism too
00:25:30 What goes on
00:25:32 Moving a little bit mean that's why
00:25:34 I'm moving mean
00:25:35 A little bit
00:25:36 No, you're trying to put your masculinity into
00:25:38 Insertive, and I don't like that
00:25:40 That's a bit misogynist
00:25:41 It's the masculinity
00:25:44 I can feel it, and it's like
00:25:46 You're trying to suppress my feminine
00:25:47 He needs to be a bit more specific 1.00
00:25:51 He's trying to suppress your dickhead 1.00
00:25:53 Like, come on, bro 1.00
00:25:55 Y'all look, y'all are all smart, pretty young women 1.00
00:25:58 You can do anything you want to in this fucking world 1.00
00:26:00 And my message is this, Oprah 1.00
00:26:02 Listen 0.99
00:26:03 Fucking, here's the thing 1.00
00:26:05 And you swear a lot 1.00
00:26:07 I do, a lot
00:26:08 I know, I do, I'm going to keep doing that
00:26:11 So, here's the thing
00:26:13 There's no planet where I'm going to allow 0.96
00:26:15 Particularly a young black man to think 1.00
00:26:17 What about a young white man?
00:26:19 Young white man?
00:26:20 No, basically sister, don't worry
00:26:22 No, no, it's because 0.96
00:26:24 White and black, we didn't see 1.00
00:26:26 No, because we're talking about race
00:26:29 Particularly right now
00:26:30 And I, like, no planet
00:26:32 Do I want to ever 0.88
00:26:34 put out into the universe are allowed to be put out in the universe that a young black man is 1.00
00:26:39 going to not be able to be successful in his life because of his skin color there's no chance and i 1.00
00:26:45 will sit here and you can call me whatever you want but i just know too many of them and i know
00:26:49 too many that have been successful yeah but you're one of a few you're not like the majority but you
00:26:53 have to understand how many people watch this show can i how many people watch your channel
00:26:57 it's important no you're not can i challenge you guys but in general it does it doesn't stop you
00:27:03 but it does make a little challenge
00:27:04 a bit harder in the world, just a little bit.
00:27:07 He's like, you're
00:27:09 one of the first white men that I've met who
00:27:11 have this mentality.
00:27:12 No, not one of the first.
00:27:14 You know what, honestly, I think most white men...
00:27:17 He's politically correct, which is nice.
00:27:19 Prejudice exists. Maybe not
00:27:21 racism. Let's adjust the word. Not racism.
00:27:23 Prejudice is something different.
00:27:25 I believe that, and I think that there's prejudice
00:27:27 all over the world.
00:27:28 There you go, then. I was just a little bit
00:27:30 strong and a bit more negative.
00:27:31 And a bit lowly.
00:27:33 and in countries like japan that are very you know homogenous homogenous they won't even let
00:27:39 you in the restaurant unless you're japanese like you guys you think you've seen racism bro
00:27:44 there's some places in this world i've been that are turbo racist outwardly and get away with it 0.90
00:27:51 i think a black person today has a better chance than they've ever had is it completely fair no i 1.00
00:27:56 don't think so but i don't think life is completely fair at all and there's no way i'm going to let
00:28:01 somebody mentally handicapped themselves from the
00:28:03 jump. You know, it's true.
00:28:05 Would you guys... I don't
00:28:06 think it's an impairment to me. I know it made me
00:28:09 a bit stronger, but I know
00:28:11 it exists and it actually was an obstacle. Then for you, it's
00:28:13 a superpower. Yeah, that's it. I just want
00:28:15 to reframe it. Thank you. And have a different
00:28:16 relationship with it. And it's the same thing. You called us victims at first, but for me,
00:28:19 being a black, independent woman is a
00:28:20 superwoman. Because she led with it. I'm leading with my superpower.
00:28:23 What do you want me to do? Yeah, as she said, she's leading.
00:28:24 Yeah, but it didn't sound like a superpower then, did it?
00:28:26 No, because you didn't allow me to finish. You started saying
00:28:28 know you're leading with that what does that have to do you became challenging and this is the
00:28:31 problem this is why she said you guys are feeling a little bit like misogyny but that's not what
00:28:36 she means it's like you're going to be very aggressive and very challenging they're just
00:28:39 talking with passion because it's important it's important it's important because you have to go
00:28:45 out into the world with the absolute mindset that regardless of your circumstances regardless of
00:28:49 your background or your racial ethnicity or anything that you can go out and you can make
00:28:54 a success of your life we all have to do that a hundred percent and that's why they're getting
00:28:58 so I'm passionate about it.
00:28:58 You know what real love...
00:28:59 Because it's really important.
00:29:00 Exactly.
00:29:01 No, he's dead on.
00:29:01 You know what real love looks like?
00:29:04 In my opinion, real love is dark.
00:29:06 And real love takes risks. 1.00
00:29:07 So let's say you're fucking up. 0.99
00:29:09 Let's just say it was racism. 1.00
00:29:11 I'm willing to step in front of you
00:29:13 and have you be angry with me
00:29:14 so I can somehow change 0.99
00:29:16 where you're fucking up 0.99
00:29:17 and you can be mad at me if you want 0.99
00:29:19 because most people, 0.98
00:29:20 people that don't give a shit about you, 0.99
00:29:21 will let you leave and be like, 1.00
00:29:22 that bitch is fucking up. 1.00
00:29:23 I would much rather get into 1.00
00:29:24 a heated argument with you
00:29:26 and have the courage to sit in front of you
00:29:27 and tell you my truth
00:29:28 and have the thought
00:29:29 of somebody thinking
00:29:30 that I'm racist
00:29:30 on the internet
00:29:31 I'd rather do that
00:29:32 than let the young men 0.90
00:29:34 that follow me
00:29:34 believe they don't have a shot
00:29:36 I'd much rather
00:29:37 sit in that
00:29:38 and to me
00:29:38 that's the only kind
00:29:39 of friends I want
00:29:40 is people that are
00:29:40 going to tell me the truth 0.99
00:29:41 when I'm fucking up 0.99
00:29:42 so you get mad at me 0.99
00:29:43 but I just hate
00:29:44 to see it led that way
00:29:45 I'd much rather hear
00:29:46 about the skills you have
00:29:47 and I'm with you Pearl
00:29:48 I'll triple the 200
00:29:50 and then are you going to say
00:29:50 well done to my skills
00:29:51 or are you going to say
00:29:52 go back in the kitchen 1.00
00:29:53 fuck yeah 1.00
00:29:54 fuck yeah 1.00
00:29:54 no 1.00
00:29:54 you know how much
00:29:56 Do you know how much women privilege you have? 1.00
00:29:58 You just got offered $1,000 to see if you could fix a car.
00:30:01 And that's what I'm saying.
00:30:02 It's a superpower. 0.99
00:30:03 Should I take it black because you're a black girl? 1.00
00:30:05 No, don't take it back. 1.00
00:30:07 I'm a hustler. 0.98
00:30:08 Actually, do you hear the black privilege, too? 0.97
00:30:10 I peeped it a little bit earlier.
00:30:11 Black people and minorities in general have more freedom of speech than white people.
00:30:15 Because you just said that, in my experience, white people aren't like this.
00:30:19 And he's the first white guy you've ever seen act that way.
00:30:22 You're able to say, and that's pattern recognition.
00:30:24 If a white person said the same thing, that would be seen as racist.
00:30:28 You can't make judgments about other minorities like that.
00:30:31 White people have the least amount of freedom of speech right now because immediately, and especially right now, you call it saying that you're vibrating with misogyny because I'm speaking aggressively towards you. 0.72
00:30:40 That victim mentality gives you a lot more free speech than you're really aware of. 0.75
00:30:43 If I say something that upsets you, it's misogynistic.
00:30:45 If you see patterns in different races, that's just seen as your worldview.
00:30:50 view if he said the same thing oh you're the first black girl that talked that way in my experience 1.00
00:30:54 you would call him a racist yeah he makes a good point because if somebody if one of us guys said
00:30:58 oh this this woman over here she's she's i can feel the vibration of her toxic femininity 1.00
00:31:03 you know we'd just be like cancelled immediately not really no they would just call us retarded 0.55
00:31:08 that's just a retarded thing to say i think racism and all of these issues do exist but i feel like 0.84
00:31:16 i agree with you guys and thank you guys because you actually gave me a new way of thinking that
00:31:19 we don't have to use this as a barrier
00:31:21 because at the end of the day what we think is what will manifest
00:31:23 They do exist, they absolutely 100%
00:31:26 do exist but regardless of that
00:31:27 you still have to go out
00:31:29 and you still have to go out into the world and make it work
00:31:31 for you because that's the only thing
00:31:33 that we've got. And think about it this way
00:31:35 if racism was such this big barrier that you guys
00:31:37 are exaggerating it to be why would we have black 0.51
00:31:39 billionaires like Jay-Z and Kanye West?
00:31:42 Well absolutely, I mean if you think
00:31:43 about it, if you think about any ethnicity
00:31:45 any background, any social class
00:31:47 There are examples of people who've gone on
00:31:50 To become hugely, hugely successful
00:31:52 So that's what you've got to look at
00:31:53 At an incredibly disproportional rate
00:31:56 Not the guy who
00:31:57 That's a really important point
00:31:59 So in America, blacks are 13% of the population
00:32:01 Of course most of the white people 0.93
00:32:03 Are making the money
00:32:04 It's just the amount of people
00:32:06 But at the same time, there's more 0.98
00:32:09 Poor white people than there are going to be poor black people 1.00
00:32:11 Just by statistical numbers 0.99
00:32:13 You know what I'm saying?
00:32:14 But the population of incarcerations
00:32:17 Although it's only 13% of the black population
00:32:20 So how much of it is crime though?
00:32:22 How much of it is crime though? 0.96
00:32:23 But it's higher than the white people, right? 0.98
00:32:26 More black people in prison 1.00
00:32:27 By percentage
00:32:28 So would you say that's suppression or black people's culture?
00:32:32 And this is the thing
00:32:33 I'm asking
00:32:34 You hit the best point
00:32:36 It is a cultural thing
00:32:38 What does that mean?
00:32:40 I'll tell you
00:32:42 Can I say it?
00:32:43 It is cultural
00:32:44 because this is the thing now with racism because of culture and how things
00:32:49 happened back in the day,
00:32:50 people have just been stuck in kind of like that limbo of like, okay,
00:32:53 what do we do now?
00:32:54 Black people are still trying to catch up with a lot of things.
00:32:56 So that's why right now, yeah, it is still a cultural thing.
00:33:00 And what we can do is say the things that you were saying is empower yourself
00:33:03 regardless of what you look like,
00:33:05 because you are letting the cultural context ruin your prospects because you're
00:33:11 letting that make you be less when you're not.
00:33:12 And why are you acting so surprised when he said cultural?
00:33:15 I'm surprised too.
00:33:17 I'm surprised.
00:33:18 Wait, wait, wait.
00:33:18 What do you mean?
00:33:19 Why am I acting surprised?
00:33:20 Aren't you a rapper?
00:33:21 So?
00:33:22 What does that mean?
00:33:23 What genre of music advocates for murder all the time?
00:33:26 Hip-hop.
00:33:27 Hip-hop.
00:33:28 Yeah.
00:33:29 So you're a rapper.
00:33:30 You know the genre is black-dominated. 0.94
00:33:32 They advocate for violence all the time. 0.93
00:33:34 And you're going to be like, cultural?
00:33:35 You know what my problem with it is, actually, that I hate? 0.95
00:33:37 It's when a young black man goes and gets successful. 0.85
00:33:40 And obviously, because of the numbers and the businessmen in the world,
00:33:42 He ends up working with white people, and they call him an Uncle Tom. 1.00
00:33:45 And I think that's bullshit. 0.99
00:33:46 What's that? 1.00
00:33:47 I think, no. 1.00
00:33:48 No, it is bullshit. 0.99
00:33:49 I think they only call you an Uncle Tom if you're acting a certain way. 0.99
00:33:53 Like speaking correctly?
00:33:54 No, no, as in, like, no, no, no, I'm not trying to be disrespectful.
00:33:58 I would never.
00:33:58 No, I agree with you.
00:33:59 But when I've seen people call someone an Uncle Tom,
00:34:02 it's in a sense where you're just, from what I've seen is they will,
00:34:05 like, when I watch NWA is they made all the black guys just get on the floor 1.00
00:34:09 for no reason just because they were black. 0.98
00:34:11 And the black policeman is just standing for it 1.00
00:34:12 I would call that an Uncle Tom 0.96
00:34:13 Which happened in real life by the way
00:34:17 It's a documentary so it's not fake
00:34:18 It happened in real life though
00:34:21 That's what I'm telling you
00:34:22 Can I ask you a question
00:34:23 A good 40-50% of people that have been incarcerated
00:34:27 Is because of something that they didn't do
00:34:29 How is that culture for the people
00:34:31 Do you think it's 40-50% of both
00:34:33 I think it's a high percentage for black people
00:34:35 Can I say something very quickly
00:34:36 Can I say something very quickly
00:34:39 Pearl, my sister, listen, let me just
00:34:41 Can I just help you around this conversation
00:34:42 Because I know it can be awkward, especially with what happened
00:34:45 Guys, she is not racist, she's a G 0.98
00:34:47 Racism is not
00:34:49 A hindrance, it is a challenge, but you can
00:34:51 Overcome it, and I'm so sorry that I
00:34:53 Brought that into the conversation, because we're talking about
00:34:55 Feminism, and feminism is destructive 1.00
00:34:57 Okay, so I'm so sorry Pearl
00:34:59 I didn't mean to change the conversation
00:35:01 In your opinion, a lot of you guys
00:35:03 Who have this opinion about feminism being
00:35:05 Destructive, feminism is the reason 1.00
00:35:07 You're here, you're here, you're here
00:35:09 It kind of is though
00:35:10 Because if we're being honest
00:35:12 The Equal Pay Act
00:35:13 Women even getting into work 1.00
00:35:15 But who started the whole movement
00:35:18 For women to even come out of the kitchen 1.00
00:35:20 Who did all of that
00:35:23 Like who did all of that
00:35:24 And that's just recent generations
00:35:26 I know from what I know
00:35:27 My knowledge of feminism
00:35:28 In terms of the destructive feminism 1.00
00:35:32 Came from
00:35:34 I think it's always been destructive
00:35:36 I mean even in the early days
00:35:38 They planned assassinations.
00:35:39 It's always been freedom at the expense of men. 0.96
00:35:42 Always.
00:35:43 Even like let's take the vote.
00:35:45 Like the vote was one of the first things that we got, right?
00:35:47 Would you agree that was a good thing that women got to vote? 0.99
00:35:50 Yes.
00:35:50 Okay, but then women were not equally drafted. 1.00
00:35:52 So if there's a war that breaks out, the men are the ones that have to go fight.
00:35:56 So that's why women didn't want to vote because they had to be drafted in order to vote. 1.00
00:36:00 Because if you're voting for in the U.S., it's the commander in chief who picks if we go to war.
00:36:04 That's who you're voting for.
00:36:05 So you have to have some skin in the game.
00:36:07 So again, women wanted the freedom. 0.98
00:36:08 They want to say, oh, let's vote.
00:36:09 But they didn't get the responsibility that comes with it.
00:36:12 In the U.S., selective service is up to $200,000 per year.
00:36:16 So if they don't enlist, basically, if war breaks out and they don't sign up for the service, basically, they get fined $200,000.
00:36:24 But do you know why women should still have a say? 1.00
00:36:26 Because the same way that men are the ones that go to war that could get killed, it's the same way that women are then going to be left behind without a father at home or without a husband at home.
00:36:34 So there's effects of war on both sides
00:36:38 That's why it shouldn't just be men making decisions 0.76
00:36:40 We're all part of this society
00:36:41 So if democracy is about people, we are all people
00:36:44 So that's why the vote makes sense
00:36:45 I just think make it equal
00:36:48 Feminists want equality 1.00
00:36:49 Then be equally drafted and go on the front lines
00:36:51 But then women say, oh no, I don't want to do that 1.00
00:36:53 Okay, well then
00:36:54 And it doesn't have to be about the vote
00:36:56 All of feminism is, I want special treatment 1.00
00:36:59 Because you always hear the feminists talk about 1.00
00:37:01 Oh, equal pay
00:37:03 Even though we get paid more in a lot of industries
00:37:05 You never talk about equal pay and sex work
00:37:07 Why are women strippers paid more 1.00
00:37:09 Oh no let's go march
00:37:10 But nobody cares
00:37:11 And this is why I find feminism to be completely contradicting 1.00
00:37:15 Because women will say things like 1.00
00:37:16 I want to have equal pay
00:37:17 I want to be making this amount of money as men
00:37:20 And then the minute they find men that's making less money than them
00:37:23 He's a simp or he's soft
00:37:24 Yeah
00:37:27 It's very contradicting a lot of the times
00:37:29 You guys want equal pay
00:37:30 You guys want equal sexual liberation 0.99
00:37:33 Women that talk about equal pay are lazy. 1.00
00:37:36 Lazy. 0.99
00:37:37 It's usually, they just, I cannot stand women that complain about getting paid equal. 1.00
00:37:43 Because I've worked in so many industries that are begging women to work there. 1.00
00:37:47 But there are hard jobs and women don't want to work there. 1.00
00:37:49 I used to work in sales.
00:37:50 They wanted female salesmen. 1.00
00:37:52 But then the women would get the job and they would quit. 1.00
00:37:54 It's just like, what are you?
00:37:55 My highest paid employee in all my companies is a woman. 0.84
00:37:58 Straight up.
00:37:59 And it's by a landslide.
00:38:00 Just Christmas bonus alone was 30 grand
00:38:03 On top of her salary
00:38:05 And all of her health benefits, her gym membership
00:38:07 Her car, everything, and her travel 0.77
00:38:09 And the vacations I send her on
00:38:11 Do you know what, can I say something that is really cute about feminists 1.00
00:38:14 I think that feminists are just little girls 1.00
00:38:16 That manage to do something
00:38:17 And they're so excited
00:38:18 And they just want people to say, yay you, well done
00:38:21 No, but she produces the most too 1.00
00:38:24 I know, I know
00:38:25 But I'm talking about feminists 1.00
00:38:26 Because I realize that sometimes I'm looking at these girls
00:38:29 and say, yeah, what we call rights, we want this,
00:38:31 we want that, and realistically, no, you just want the man
00:38:33 to be able to say to you, oh, you're a G as well,
00:38:35 well done, and it's actually quite annoying
00:38:37 because you don't need that validation, you know
00:38:39 what I mean, because for me, I don't...
00:38:40 That's you. No, I know, and that's why I'm saying
00:38:43 I don't like feminism. But my opinion is 0.90
00:38:45 most of the feminists that I've met are actually 1.00
00:38:47 men, so I'm just a bit like men and trans women.
00:38:48 Yeah, because it's a mating strategy. 1.00
00:38:50 It's a mating strategy. Of course they are, 0.82
00:38:52 those are the simps, the ones
00:38:55 that go and placate to women and act
00:38:56 like they want to be male feminists, 0.97
00:38:58 Those are the simps they hate guys like us 0.98
00:39:01 They hate it 1.00
00:39:01 It's white knight shit 1.00
00:39:03 A guy that lives by truth and just calls it how it is 1.00
00:39:06 And guess what you know what that creates
00:39:08 Respect and your respect means with a man and a woman
00:39:10 Love you can't respect a man 1.00
00:39:13 That you know is full of shit you can't 1.00
00:39:15 What are you talking you said 1.00
00:39:16 This wanting validation for men for being
00:39:19 Equal you just wanted him to validate
00:39:21 You for being able to fix a car
00:39:22 No
00:39:22 You keep talking about yourself
00:39:26 Do you know why you're getting confused?
00:39:29 Because you've already immediately labeled me to be a feminist. 1.00
00:39:31 I'm standing against it.
00:39:32 It's not about feminism. 1.00
00:39:33 You said that feminism is wanting to get validation for men for being equal. 1.00
00:39:36 Let me clarify.
00:39:37 You got mad at him for not being able to fix a car,
00:39:39 and we just all gave you money up to go fix a car.
00:39:41 I have students like you.
00:39:42 Let me explain why you're actually just looking for an argument.
00:39:45 Because I'm saying that—
00:39:46 It's not an argument.
00:39:46 I'm just trying to see the double standard of what you're saying.
00:39:48 Feminists are actually a bit confused, 1.00
00:39:50 and they're screaming for so many things,
00:39:52 when in reality what they're actually looking for is just,
00:39:54 yay, well done.
00:39:56 That's it.
00:39:56 Because women cannot go and do certain things. 1.00
00:39:58 Newsflash, men go to work all day, every day, and nobody thanks them. 0.58
00:40:02 Exactly.
00:40:02 It's a thankless world.
00:40:03 Listen, and that's what I'm saying.
00:40:04 Having a movement for it is quite pointless.
00:40:07 Say well done to yourself, and it's okay.
00:40:09 So I'm actually against feminism because it actually hinders me. 1.00
00:40:11 I get called that all the time, and it's so annoying.
00:40:13 Completely agree with you.
00:40:14 You're contradicting yourself there.
00:40:15 I'm not, because I've already told you.
00:40:16 So why did we all put up money to go fix a car if you're not exactly what you just described?
00:40:21 Okay.
00:40:22 And let me tell you why I am not a feminist in that essence.
00:40:25 because that's what I want.
00:40:27 I want just somebody to say to me,
00:40:28 oh, by the way, if I tell you that I can fix a car,
00:40:32 oh, yeah, cool, that's good.
00:40:33 Well done to you because I got skills.
00:40:35 Validation.
00:40:35 Wait, wait, no.
00:40:36 What are you talking about?
00:40:38 She's exactly what she's describing right now.
00:40:41 I'm explaining to you the difference
00:40:43 between what they say they want,
00:40:44 what they actually really want.
00:40:46 That's it.
00:40:47 So what do you want?
00:40:48 Well, I just want to be able to be somewhere,
00:40:50 do something.
00:40:51 Somebody say, yeah, that's really good.
00:40:52 Well done.
00:40:52 So basically your family.
00:40:53 i'm saying i'm belittling the fact that feminists will stand there say equal rights we want all of 0.99
00:41:04 this when in reality you're just a sweet little girl that just wants to be like well done but
00:41:08 they're angry without all of those movements you wouldn't be here i would be no you wouldn't 0.98
00:41:13 50 years ago yes 50 years ago dead ass no like without those women actually taking the logic 1.00
00:41:19 upon themselves you know using that logic whether it was to do what meant what was the example that 0.99
00:41:25 you gave when they were terrorists men have been known terrorists for a very long time we're
00:41:30 talking back to the 1700s but what outcomes has that given for women has that given us good
00:41:36 outcomes are we happier no or do we have more children no are we on are we're on anti we're
00:41:43 on antidepressants more than ever before yes is this because we're more sexually promiscuous than
00:41:48 ever before we're in less relationships than ever before more of us are childless over 30 than ever
00:41:54 before what outcomes has happened that it's that are good we can point to individual things and
00:41:59 say yes we're on a podcast that's fun but in society as as a whole what what good has it done
00:42:06 it got me to meet you
00:42:08 but also the other the other issue with it is at what point you're talking about yeah 50 years ago
00:42:17 and that's how you've got to this point
00:42:18 and everything like that.
00:42:19 There's a sort of,
00:42:20 but I believe there is an even playing field now
00:42:22 in, certainly in the UK,
00:42:24 I think in the United States as well,
00:42:25 Canada, all these Anglosphere countries, right?
00:42:27 I don't believe that women are now held back
00:42:29 in any material way, okay?
00:42:31 In terms of the job market,
00:42:32 in terms of opportunities,
00:42:33 being an entrepreneur, et cetera, et cetera.
00:42:35 So at what point-
00:42:35 That's what affects the feminism. 1.00
00:42:37 No, absolutely.
00:42:38 Exactly.
00:42:38 But at what point do we say,
00:42:40 okay, right, now the conversation is closed
00:42:42 because now we move forward.
00:42:44 I would go even further
00:42:46 and say that women have more freedom than men. 0.98
00:42:48 Yeah, 100%.
00:42:50 Because of feminism. 1.00
00:42:51 And that's where it becomes destructive
00:42:53 because it seems now that the power balance
00:42:57 has shifted more into the feminine
00:42:59 and then guys are actually being disadvantaged now.
00:43:01 I do think that's the problem of modern day feminism. 1.00
00:43:04 I think that everyone wants women empowerment 0.64
00:43:07 and I'm for women empowerment,
00:43:09 but we can't pick and choose
00:43:11 when we want feminism to take place. 1.00
00:43:13 say for example like we want a man to provide for us and care for us and some people might
00:43:19 want to be a housewife but then also you want the the other side of it and you want to take 0.94
00:43:25 control in the relationship or vice versa yeah but she doesn't really want that like it's not
00:43:30 actually equal because it's like who say for example certain areas of work like a bin man
00:43:37 very few women want to be a bin man they will say it's i would say zero yeah they would say 1.00
00:43:42 it's a man's job but then if you want to look at feminism you guys want equality but when it 1.00
00:43:47 comes to certain jobs you don't want to do them when it comes to certain certain instances you
00:43:53 don't want to be involved in them so it doesn't really i think feminists pick and choose yeah 1.00
00:43:58 when it benefits them no but i think that's something i would say i think the issue here
00:44:03 is you guys are not trying to like not you guys in general but just like women who are like i'm
00:44:07 not a feminist but everything that you've actually being made like and alive right now i mean and 1.00
00:44:13 it's back to my point of the 50 years ago 100 years ago when your ancestors and your great
00:44:18 great great grandmothers are sitting there in the kitchen unable to do anything yeah like 1.00
00:44:22 feminism has benefited every woman in today's society yeah i was about to say i would suspect 0.99
00:44:28 those women are happier than these women currently how and how are they happy are they're not even 0.93
00:44:33 here i would actually prefer to be where women was in the 20s because the pressure for me as a 1.00
00:44:37 lady to work can be very exhausting so when you sit here and say that oh this is the reason why 0.86
00:44:42 i'm here today most women really don't most women i'll be honest with you we do all of this work
00:44:46 boss chick stuff because of the pressure that this feminist woman has put on women to not be 1.00
00:44:51 lazy and to get up and work so when you sit here and say oh this is the reason why you guys are 0.99
00:44:55 here and da da da da da most of us really don't want to be don't forget that you're black and 0.98
00:44:59 i want freedom the first wait wait just to correct something the first female million 1.00
00:45:07 it was um in the early it was in 1900 so yeah the hair shop lady no but everyone says they couldn't
00:45:12 um vote or they couldn't work until like the 50s and 60s but before that there was a female 1.00
00:45:17 millionaire so there someone did it yeah that's nice weren't held back well to be honest making
00:45:23 money is not really that hard you know this is the thing if you are capable you can do anything
00:45:29 whether you're a man or woman the problem with feminism i think is that it displaces women a 1.00
00:45:33 lot of the time because you're trying to make us be something that we're not like i work for
00:45:37 myself i i i do i would say i am a boss in what i do but i'm not a boss baby and i have to be
00:45:42 proved to my man that i'm this woman and you i deserve certain things i all i want is not because
00:45:47 i'm a feminist just because i'm a person that likes to be told well then i just want if i'm 0.99
00:45:50 with a man to be like oh that's quite cool you know well done for trying that that's it but i
00:45:54 don't really get anything against that i don't really get too many people sometimes especially
00:45:58 the people that know me telling me things like oh you're a woman you shouldn't do this so do you 0.86
00:46:02 want validation from men or not i just want i don't it's not just from men i want it from anybody
00:46:06 Even women that will look at me and be like, no, you can't do that. 1.00
00:46:09 Women do that to each other. 1.00
00:46:10 So I don't want to be boxed in because I'm a woman.
00:46:13 I just want to be treated like normal.
00:46:14 Just it's fine.
00:46:15 It seems like your value system is extremely external and exists in other people's minds.
00:46:19 No, not really.
00:46:20 This is in terms of the context of the conversation, because I think you can tell that I don't actually need much external validation.
00:46:25 I'm quite gassed by myself.
00:46:26 Thank you.
00:46:28 But it seems like in some industries, say in London, we're in London now, right?
00:46:31 I mean, if you look at media industry, if you look at advertising, certain types of like information technology and stuff like that, it's very actually female based.
00:46:38 You know, you've got like, say, the advertising industry, you've got more female leaders in that space than you have men. 1.00
00:46:43 So it seems to me at some point we have to say, right, well, the balance has been addressed now.
00:46:48 I think so. It's getting there. I think women need to just kind of like empower themselves, not request for the stuff. 1.00
00:46:54 And then it goes back to what they were saying before, which is like, OK, man or woman, you've got to go out into the world and you've got to bend it to your will. 0.87
00:46:59 right you've got to make it you've got to make your own narrative and not and not fall back on
00:47:03 these you know victimhood things yes you you summed that up nicely i can see you've got good
00:47:08 experience talking to people and making them understand the simple and basics oh i like that
00:47:13 thank you for summarizing it that way but you made a good point in the sense that like when is
00:47:18 that's then the thing is with feminism is never ending every week every month there's a new issue 1.00
00:47:23 it's so unnecessary that these feminists won and it's just like when are you guys going to be 1.00
00:47:28 satisfied that's my problem and that's when it becomes destructive but i don't think you can say
00:47:32 that is unnecessary to them because if they fall away they fall away so i don't think they can 0.98
00:47:35 feel stupid they can have stupid beliefs and feelings yeah but that doesn't make it reality 0.99
00:47:40 just because they feel aware just because the girl feels like she was discriminated because 1.00
00:47:45 of her gender it doesn't mean that she was and that's the big problem of this generation is we
00:47:49 don't know how to differentiate between what we're feeling and what's actually reality like i get
00:47:53 That's what they're feeling
00:47:54 But right now I'm feeling like a dog
00:47:56 Am I a dog?
00:47:57 No
00:47:57 Exactly
00:47:58 So we have to learn to differentiate
00:47:59 Between what we're feeling
00:48:00 And what's actually facts
00:48:01 And we need to do that 1.00
00:48:02 By calling people stupid 1.00
00:48:03 Or saying that they're acting 1.00
00:48:04 Like dickheads when they are 0.98
00:48:05 Like if someone says 0.99
00:48:06 You're vibrating with misogyny 1.00
00:48:08 That should be called stupid 1.00
00:48:09 Like respectfully 1.00
00:48:10 Like that was a stupid thing to say 1.00
00:48:12 It's an analogy 0.99
00:48:12 It's a figure of speech as well
00:48:14 Don't be so mean
00:48:15 What's the analogy?
00:48:16 The analogy is basically
00:48:17 She's saying you're coming
00:48:17 A bit aggressive
00:48:18 Your energy is coming
00:48:19 A bit tense
00:48:19 I even felt it
00:48:20 So I reworded what she said
00:48:22 Tense?
00:48:23 and misogynistic
00:48:24 are two very different things.
00:48:27 Yeah, but the accusation was real.
00:48:29 It wasn't a figure of speech. The accusation was real.
00:48:31 And I stand on it.
00:48:32 And she does stand on it.
00:48:33 So you're trying to justify it.
00:48:35 And that's my point. We need to call that stupid 1.00
00:48:38 when people say stupid things like that. 1.00
00:48:39 And what do those accusations do? 1.00
00:48:42 Sneeko's a bit different because 0.99
00:48:43 his industry is to get cancelled.
00:48:46 Exactly. That's why.
00:48:47 In a way. But it's like for the average person
00:48:49 that you label them that, that could ruin their entire
00:48:52 career yeah it's a bit like it's a bit like using the term creepy isn't it and then it's sort of
00:48:55 like if a woman calls a guy creepy just the fact that she said it is it's believed because she she
00:49:01 says i felt that he was creepy so it's like oh right okay so therefore he was creepy because
00:49:05 you're saying you felt like that but where's the where's the sort of foundational truth of that
00:49:09 statement right and it's like saying vibrating with misogyny okay well okay it was tense but
00:49:14 we're in a debate right so what's the misogynistic element of that they were just having a debate
00:49:19 Because why is he looking at her as an op?
00:49:22 Just because she's a girl.
00:49:26 If there was four guys sitting on the couch and they were making the same point.
00:49:31 That's what a debate is.
00:49:32 They would have said the same things.
00:49:32 If we have different points of view, we are disagreeing.
00:49:35 But you don't know me, so don't go against me because we could actually agree on things.
00:49:39 That's the whole point.
00:49:40 Don't go against me gender-based.
00:49:42 I don't like that.
00:49:42 That's given misogyny.
00:49:43 That was the vibe.
00:49:45 I don't know if it was off the gender.
00:49:47 I'm sorry.
00:49:48 I didn't mean to interrupt you.
00:49:49 different opinions it has nothing to do with womanhood because your boundaries of like 1.00
00:49:57 aggressive like tonality in the way you speak you don't you know
00:50:02 I got canceled for talking about COVID in the election had nothing to do with vibrating
00:50:09 misogyny I don't know you feel a little bit aggressive I'm not gonna lie
00:50:13 That's it.
00:50:18 This is your job?