SNEAKO - GRILLING WITH SNEAKO & CHIAN PT.2

00:00:00.000 I'm trying to remember what her intro was before 0.98

00:00:28.480 what did she say we're we're gonna be grilling sneeko the something

00:00:34.300 controversial I don't remember I'll just make it up

00:00:41.120 we're good

00:00:57.720 I think we're good

00:01:01.860 love speech what's going on everybody we are live in London at a very nice restaurant I have to thank

00:01:11.060 the owner and everything for letting us be here right now I know it's early in the US but luckily

00:01:15.280 they let us open a little bit early to have this conversation I'm here with an old friend even

00:01:21.100 though men and women can't be friends but it's my turn to grill her okay she's known for grilling a 1.00

00:01:26.200 lot of famous people and rappers these people alpha males and she comes from a feminist perspective 1.00

00:01:32.060 it's my turn okay the men are getting the revenge I have my questions prepared and I'm very excited

00:01:37.880 to see her again it's been about a year uh welcome Cheyenne Reynolds your turn to be grilled how are

00:01:44.300 you hello how are you I'm doing good good nice to see you nice to see you again you're not gonna

00:01:49.080 give me a hug oh it's good to see you good to see you so I don't probably like we're matching beige

00:01:56.040 and black yeah we didn't prepare this but we are we're both wearing beige and maybe we should have

00:02:00.900 like planned it but we look too friendly right now because I want to put you in the hot seat I know

00:02:06.940 so sit a little further away okay so how have you been it's been about a year yeah I've been okay

00:02:13.000 I've been better um just trying to learn new things about life so yeah traveling you're in

00:02:18.980 discovery phase yes oh my god big time what does that mean because I've been traveling a lot too

00:02:23.640 just came back from Albania I wouldn't say discovery phase more work phase but what so what's uh what

00:02:28.780 phase of life are you in now yeah no it's definitely like discovery I think I'm trying to lean more into

00:02:33.020 like purpose so I'm just meeting people along the way learning about people their life their

00:02:38.660 situations and I guess adapting it to my life okay how has your life changed like how does how

00:02:44.340 do you yeah do you know what it is it's changed in the sense of I'm a more aware I like to think I

00:02:49.840 was a little more aware before I wasn't aware person but I just think now it's just learning more

00:02:54.060 perspectives because I think obviously from my previous show which was grilling which is now

00:02:58.600 called come correct as come correct come correct yeah similar format but obviously on my own terms

00:03:04.700 now so I'm independent with that and congrats thank you that's the way to go yeah it's a big

00:03:09.120 leap because I think a lot of people especially in the creative space like you don't realize

00:03:13.220 how much and how important ownership is so now obviously having ownership but it's hard because

00:03:18.500 I feel like having to do everything by yourself and be like a one woman team it's the hardest part 0.99

00:03:23.800 but now I've got a team so shout out to Andrew and Gigi that are here your team is good they came set

00:03:27.700 up with all this equipment yes see why don't you come and have more teams see this is how we do it

00:03:31.940 well we work together but that's good I always thought that you were the star of the show I mean

00:03:35.820 the fact that uh I guess that's a separate conversation the biggest aspect but you were

00:03:40.980 definitely the one carrying everything but egos get involved exactly and uh you went really viral

00:03:46.860 the the Andrew Tate one oh god yeah like 20 million views is it 20 million that that interview and he

00:03:52.460 just got arrested so yeah what are your thoughts on that do you know what I think like the whole I think

00:03:57.240 after meeting him in person I think it's really hard for people that aren't in the industry to

00:04:01.920 understand like content manipulation so I from what I've met of Andrew and my encounter with him

00:04:07.800 I think he's been very polite very pleasant very charming everybody says that who knows him you

00:04:11.700 know and I just feel like people that don't understand how this social media stuff works

00:04:15.840 like it's so easy to take content manipulate it and make it sound way more aggressive or than it

00:04:22.080 actually is so I just think I'm not one of these people that's like oh my god he's like guilty I'm not

00:04:27.760 saying he's innocent like I don't you never know the truth of situations but all I know is my

00:04:31.340 experience with Andrew was very very pleasant I can't actually say anything bad about him

00:04:35.940 so he should be free yeah yeah I think so I think so but it's been a what about your relationship

00:04:42.640 oh you know it's nice to be in this side of the conversation because uh you do have a lot of strong

00:04:48.200 opinions about relationships and so so where are you at to be fair where am I at I think I've

00:04:54.040 definitely realized doing the show makes relationships very hard like in my personal life so I'm just

00:04:59.220 learning to navigate that I still think and this is the maddest part when you guys you red pill 1.00

00:05:04.500 man's fear I'm not red community we don't like that word oh sorry it's a no-go word but when you

00:05:11.660 guys would come on and we challenge views and opinions my views were always very similar but it

00:05:16.820 was coming yes it was yes it was like I always said if women I can think of five things we disagree 0.99

00:05:22.940 on but it's fine but continue yeah no but for me ultimately it was always about unity like

00:05:27.280 men and women uniting together and that's how it should be what does that mean like a happy home

00:05:33.840 not having like 10 wives yeah so I think no no no because this is where I'm gonna sound like a big

00:05:41.820 hypocrite but I understand polyamorous relationships open relationships so even that as a whole is a

00:05:48.880 separate conversation but I feel like in modern western world they don't understand open relationships 0.93

00:05:54.920 in that sense or like sister wives I think that's a whole different dynamic which for me like one of 0.76

00:06:00.140 my best friends she's Muslim she was raised by two mothers and a father so I completely understand that

00:06:05.940 perspective and there was so much peace in their household but not everybody understands that and I get

00:06:10.500 it so that's why I say I'm understanding people the world but ultimately what I like to preach is men

00:06:15.800 being loyal at home at home at home no but honestly going to work not outside I just don't want a man outside 1.00

00:06:22.760 you don't want your husband to go outside to work not to party okay party aside that's understandable

00:06:28.600 but there's things that a guy has to do say would you let your husband would you be okay with your

00:06:32.600 husband traveling around the world and working and no I'd have to come you have to come

00:06:36.480 everywhere he goes so you haven't changed at all your standards are the same it's not no but I don't understand

00:06:43.000 why I feel like I would add value to you like I could come travel with you you would you really

00:06:49.800 want to do that or do you just want to supervise both being honest it'd be to do both because I

00:06:56.760 feel like if I'm with you there are so many other outlooks and perspectives that I could bring like

00:07:01.420 don't don't laugh like women can bring so much value to men and relationships and even in business 0.72

00:07:07.780 not fully every business move that could be what you do but I can give a whole nother outlook like

00:07:12.280 why would you not well that's why you're you would be a wife and not my business partner those are 1.00

00:07:18.120 different relationships but why can't you have a wife that is a business partner we're in this we're

00:07:22.280 in the same team you can in some aspects but okay let me give you the personal example I've been

00:07:26.880 traveling for a month we've been to about like what seven eight countries if I had a woman there it 0.99

00:07:31.900 would be like you getting ready just now I don't want to like reveal everything but you know you're

00:07:35.860 putting lotion on your legs you're you're getting your hair right there's nothing wrong with that

00:07:40.100 but like we need to go places I have to catch the airport do you want me to have dry legs

00:07:44.120 at home yes well I don't want you to have dry legs I want you to have lotion legs but exactly we have

00:07:49.440 to get places you know how much I know don't do that because I know a matter of urgency if you was

00:07:54.180 like look so if my husband was like look babe we need to be ready we need to be here I'll be

00:07:59.660 efficient I'll be at the door before you I'll be like driving the car ready okay but if I change plans

00:08:03.760 last second if I have to go from Albania go on a boat to Greece and then fly to London

00:08:07.580 are you going to be able to pack your suitcase last second like this and be ready to go no because

00:08:11.260 I feel like what you men underestimate is the ability of when a woman loves her man the things

00:08:15.760 that we'll do like we will have everything ready for you like we really will we want to make your

00:08:20.140 life easier and I think making it easier would be staying at home and not traveling with me but I

00:08:24.860 want to come why do you want to come because I want to come I don't know see I never understood

00:08:29.380 that about your perspective why do you want to come but why not why would you not want to share

00:08:33.380 this moment with me see this what it's not you don't actually want to come it's just like why

00:08:36.960 not why can't I come yeah but I think it would be fun like we're making money together like we're

00:08:42.760 really but I think I want maybe I've watched too many movies but I want the whole like Bonnie and Clyde

00:08:47.860 ride or die build something together okay maybe not Bonnie and Clyde that's a bit crazy yeah

00:08:51.820 they both died at the end I want like ride or die together give me an example of that relationship

00:08:57.760 um I can't name one there's it doesn't exist no yeah it is a bit of a fantasy but I want it I'm

00:09:05.300 gonna make it happen okay so are you still single single what are you looking for right now so I've

00:09:10.840 been dating and so but yes I've just been dating really and with the guy that was with last he was

00:09:18.900 really lovely so we're just figuring things out I think doing this industry as a woman it is a lot

00:09:24.820 harder than just like what people think and I think ultimately going into traditional values and

00:09:30.240 stuff it is very hard like I understand the love and the ability and the power of women being at home

00:09:36.000 but I'm not ready to be at home I'm ready to be a wife but I'm also not ready to give up my career

00:09:41.340 just yet but I think ultimately it's gonna take a very great and a very strong man to be with me

00:09:48.460 ultimately because it doesn't sound like the guy you're with is that guy no he is no he definitely

00:09:52.300 is but it's just there's so many factors that come into it it's not just a fairy tale to be like oh

00:09:56.580 my god let's make it work you know like there's situations as things like it's complicated to make

00:10:03.680 things work you're waffling no I'm not waffling I'm not it's like not my business doing to share

00:10:08.660 to the world situation so it's complicated basically yeah okay but I don't but then in a fairy tale of me

00:10:15.220 it's like it shouldn't be complicated if if you're the factual person it shouldn't be as complicated

00:10:20.440 how is it in the dating world in London it's crazy it's very different than Miami yeah Miami's all I

00:10:27.600 mean you met some of my Miami friends uh Myron and Fresh yeah when they came here uh Miami dating life

00:10:32.960 is a lot of clubbing partying going out it's a very public atmosphere is it the same here it's it isn't

00:10:38.500 it isn't it depends who it is that you're dating I think for me I am believe it or not because I talk

00:10:43.380 on the internet for a living but in real life I'm a very reserved person so I do find it hard

00:10:49.480 navigating in spaces when it comes to dating because I think ultimately I see the other end

00:10:53.900 of when I've gone on dates with guys and then when I've gone out and then people want to take

00:10:57.940 pictures with me or something like that I can see the first three pictures is fine but then after a

00:11:03.600 few it gets a bit much it gets a bit much so then it's like oh it's very conflicting so I'd need a man

00:11:08.780 that's very understanding with my current career you can't just say no to the pictures if you're out

00:11:12.960 with your no why would I say no because it's making them insecure no it's not but what it is it's like

00:11:17.880 for me where I'm at and where I'm career building like people that watch my content I really value

00:11:22.780 because it's it's changed my life so I feel like I'm never going to disregard someone for like a

00:11:27.280 moment because they're what's made my content go viral so I'm very grateful for that I get there

00:11:32.280 is a time there's especially there's a time and place there is right that's what I'm saying but

00:11:35.180 walking down the street that is totally fine I want to give you an example I was with um a family

00:11:39.600 member and I hadn't seen them in a while we're walking down the street we're going to dinner and then

00:11:44.400 someone comes chasing me down let's take a photo let's go photo photo photo I'm like you know what

00:11:47.580 right now I'm with my aunt I'm right here I'm gonna do and then she loved that and she told my

00:11:51.520 whole family about that she got really excited like I'm with my aunt like she started bragging about

00:11:55.180 how I rejected that that would make your your husband feel wanted and that instead of sharing

00:11:59.800 your attention everywhere everywhere maybe yeah I'll let you know how it goes well I mean in dating

00:12:04.120 have you ever tried matter daddy what's that no like when it comes to relationships in

00:12:08.780 london have you have you you never tried it was it you never tried matter daddy no what

00:12:13.440 and what have you tried to to matter daddy what's that you've never no I'm literally looking at your

00:12:21.060 eyes like what no no no because you said that you're taking pictures a lot of people you've never tried

00:12:25.100 some people you some people do do what they try matter daddy what the hell is that 0.75

00:12:29.600 I need you to break it down is what is not matter daddy not too much how are you oh my god thanks

00:12:39.320 for asking got it got it got it got it I won okay I'm gonna get into these questions so it's time

00:12:47.660 to grill you a bit that took way too long you could see I was lying yeah that's what I was like

00:12:51.820 you could you could tell that I was lying but I got you for someone to jump in he knew you know

00:12:55.920 okay first question I wish we had the drawings on the front but um what have you seen of me since

00:13:02.580 we last met what do you mean as in on the internet yeah um a few things to be fair you disappeared for

00:13:08.940 a bit so I don't know if it's because like my algorithm just suddenly said I fell off no you

00:13:12.560 didn't fall off but it's like I think my algorithm changed because I was just like I came off the

00:13:17.420 internet on that content so what's your algorithm now cats and girl stuff I bet your phone is a bunch

00:13:23.200 of makeup and hair yeah okay typical female all right that makes sense but what have I seen to

00:13:29.140 be honest with you I've seen just you on the internet I think I saw that you it was like

00:13:34.600 debunking the whole red pill kind of thing so I'm not sure if I'm saying it right if I was debunking

00:13:39.260 yeah it was kind of like you were breaking it down then obviously my vain self was like oh my god

00:13:44.900 this was after my episode that he's changed his news but he did no I feel like I did you're not

00:13:50.360 gonna admit it but I know you didn't change my perspective on anything I know that I did

00:13:54.140 influence it you had absolutely zero influence I definitely influenced on my worldview I definitely

00:13:58.300 influenced it I even got I even got voice notes from other people like I've been watching sneakers

00:14:03.280 content and I think that you've changed it do you want me to play it do you want me to play it

00:14:06.760 I want to hear yeah if you have a phone I'm very interested in it because I don't know what the

00:14:10.960 influence would be you said that you liked um sucking toes and don't do that to me then we argued

00:14:16.220 about uh thank you or no and then it was about I was saying that a man being at the home and the

00:14:24.880 importance of your legacy about being a father well you realize I'm not at home right now I've been

00:14:30.840 traveling the whole world you know this is far from home I remember there was a video where you

00:14:34.540 were saying about you know your legacy and everything like that and I did influence that my legacy yeah what

00:14:42.220 did you influence about no let me show you no I have to show you okay because I need the timeline

00:14:46.880 for it to make sense I don't know what you're talking about right how you doing

00:14:51.940 I saw your video with academics too that was a that was a fun we could we could talk about it but let

00:14:58.420 me first hear this one oh wait it's quite the voice notes let me just what would she have influenced 0.97

00:15:02.600 me on did you see the depending on when you filmed that I honestly think this conversation has had a

00:15:08.980 massive impact on him because like he's been saying some madness for a long time in it but recently I 0.96

00:15:14.680 saw him he was on fresh and fit and he proper grilled them for being on this like corny ass like 0.91

00:15:20.980 well this is may 2023 yeah yeah well I disagree with getting but I've never been pro vasectomy 0.86

00:15:38.220 there was no point where I ever said that um yeah that was a long time ago but do you remember

00:15:44.840 anything else that because that was over a year ago I remember that debate that was okay that was

00:15:50.560 a debate with uh he calls himself the godfather of the red pill and he was advocating for vasectomies

00:15:55.100 but even when we were we did our um we first met our first date I was always advocating for family

00:16:00.860 and having children I felt like it wasn't what do you think I said no I'm definitely sure it wasn't

00:16:06.660 because I was like oh my god but that's your seed that's your legacy I'm sure in my mind that's what

00:16:12.080 it was I think you just made it I mean that's not female nature it's okay what is your least favorite race 1.00

00:16:17.840 least favorite race yeah

00:16:20.380 don't have least favorite okay well what side are you picking when it comes to the UK rides

00:16:26.680 you don't want to answer that no do you know what it is I don't have a least favorite race because

00:16:33.860 being a mixed race person I have what are you again you're uh half trinity right no so it's 1.00

00:16:40.140 English and Jamaican English so being mixed race you see both sides of the perspective and it's

00:16:45.520 awful when you just see half your family this side and half family that but it's yeah not good

00:16:50.760 so you're pro-immigration yeah okay absolutely great how have your views changed on what you're

00:16:57.620 looking for in a guy in a relationship it sounds like they're exactly the same yeah no they are the

00:17:02.980 same but joy is I'm a lot more calmer to being open to be more submissive to a man however not

00:17:09.860 fully submissive because I do believe and I think it should be advocated for women to have their

00:17:13.860 financial independence I think don't laugh I'm not laughing I'm letting you talk um because it's

00:17:19.440 important I think you just need to hold your own but that's also me speaking from a deep background

00:17:24.720 where you know when I was younger I was in an abusive relationship I had to leave that so I'm never

00:17:29.580 saying anything just to preach and lead people blindly on the internet like my experience was

00:17:33.540 I was with a man he completely controlled me like locked me in his house took everything he locked

00:17:38.760 you in the house yeah he would lock me in his house so like yeah domestic so I had to literally

00:17:44.560 find my way out so that was get get working make my own money so I'm not just saying it just to like 0.88

00:17:50.500 be an idiot on the internet but you realize your perspective is pretty unique most girls you know 0.96

00:17:55.560 most women they don't want to be doing the career that you're yeah like most girls even now there's 1.00

00:18:00.140 like there's busy there's a lot of men here stuff like this you're comfortable in situations that a

00:18:03.660 lot of women would not be comfortable in yeah so you can't apply that standards to most people 1.00

00:18:07.500 yeah but you know what it is I think ultimately everyone does have a different experience but

00:18:11.900 ultimately women do need their own financial independence because there could be a time where 1.00

00:18:16.500 you're there if like you're my man and you're down you might need money to help you get back up to

00:18:21.040 invest in something and if I've got my own bit of money and if I'm actually with you

00:18:24.100 and we're in this together that might be the thing that helps you like I feel you shouldn't

00:18:27.920 underestimate women's abilities so how do you balance the submissive nature and also your 1.00

00:18:33.800 independent nature I think it's it's you have two conflicting ideologies it's not it's you know what

00:18:39.240 it is it's you've got to meet the right man that put puts me in a position where I can feel safe

00:18:44.640 enough to submit because right now I'm on survival I'm making my own money I can't submit like I

00:18:49.960 can't I don't feel safe like and it's not with my man it's just in my life right now unless you

00:18:54.900 are actually be able to be like look babe this is this and this is what we need to do to be able

00:18:59.240 to build this situation build it together I need to feel like we are secure in a relationship because

00:19:04.020 I won't I can't like I can't you make pretty good money right how much do you need before you could

00:19:10.280 just do you know what it's for me I'm I'm not your typical female I'm my personal life is very chaotic

00:19:17.900 I am coming from like a place of survival I have to look after my mom I have to look after my sister

00:19:24.500 my sister's in and out of hospital my mom's now in and out of hospital so for me like I have too many

00:19:29.840 people in my life depending on me so it's not I'm not just a girl on the internet posting up for clout

00:19:34.440 like I'm genuinely trying to change my family generational wealth because unfortunately

00:19:38.440 there's on my mom's side there's no men in our family to do that so if we go back to traditional

00:19:43.200 views values and men being men of the house I don't have that so I feel like I am so you're the man of

00:19:49.060 the house and it's hard okay so you you realize you cannot submit to a man if you're the man yeah

00:19:53.340 so your views haven't changed at all and you're still no my views have changed like I'm open but

00:19:58.920 like everything open to what has been in me but it's just finding the right time I just think

00:20:05.160 timing for me isn't it how much more time do you need well my clock is running out so how yeah take

00:20:11.420 time no but do you know what it is I I just know what I need to do and I've accepted that if it doesn't

00:20:17.360 happen if I can't meet someone I don't get married it's just not in this lifetime like and I'm okay with

00:20:22.200 that because you're okay with being single forever yeah not ideal so before you even be like oh this

00:20:29.260 is I'm actually I've had to you have to make peace and accept it you would really prefer being single

00:20:35.280 forever don't do that as I wouldn't prefer but it's okay if I'm not putting pressure on myself I'm not

00:20:41.260 gonna act erratic act crazy just for the sake of wanting to settle down like if I meet someone I settle

00:20:46.540 down then I settle down don't do it I see you laughing then it's just too bad because I know

00:20:53.040 there's a lot of women like that that I don't think that you're gonna think the same thing in 20 years 1.00

00:20:57.040 no definitely like I think it now like I get home and I'm lonely of course I want someone to share my

00:21:02.200 life with but I'm not forcing it because just because out of desperation I'm gonna make the wrong

00:21:06.640 choice and be with the wrong man that's crazy but you were just talking about legacy and how important

00:21:11.080 it is and what do you want your legacy to be um the way that I love the what the way that I love

00:21:17.580 and I think it's different for men because your name when you have children especially when you have

00:21:23.220 sons that's how your legacy carries on so even going back into your traditional values a woman takes a 1.00

00:21:28.560 man's name everything like that so a female's legacy isn't in that with the family name but my legacy 0.91

00:21:33.400 would be my first name how I am my character and how I treat people like I've run pure love projects

00:21:38.540 which is a homeless charity where we go through the homeless and obviously I'm trying to

00:21:42.920 eventually move on from that and do more just acts of kindness so that's how I'll build my personal

00:21:47.340 legacy leave a positive footprint on the earth do you think should we move over here is are they

00:21:54.940 still working over here or no they're just setting up to start um you can go to one of the corners but

00:21:59.460 whether we have more space yeah but it's a noisy problem it's a bit distracting yeah

00:22:06.760 I think we should go there yeah yeah you think so yeah I'm easy yeah let me take the lights

00:22:15.300 thank you yeah you need the lights huh yeah obviously oh wait I don't understand because this

00:22:22.920 is quite a bit zoom in on that no we will not it's nice over here too okay perfect do you want me

00:22:34.360 to grab something no I think we're good see that masculine energy let me grab something guys

00:22:44.300 yeah here's much better here um right here yeah thanks oh there's plugs here as well convenient

00:22:56.880 why do you want to sit like in the booth yeah right here I'm not looking at the questions

00:23:05.780 yeah I couldn't focus too many people walking by it was like really bothering me

00:23:16.040 so good you have good lights everything's good boys you don't need the light on the top

00:23:24.080 are you sure okay

00:23:26.400 you sure because it's quite dark I feel dark

00:23:31.320 oh really okay all right perfect what about children yeah no children is a legacy for people

00:23:41.980 like I'm not saying it's not but I think it's very different for men and women when it comes to

00:23:47.740 names and legacies don't you think so you don't care about having a lot of children no of course I

00:23:54.380 want loads of children but I don't think yeah I want kids I want more kids like I want why are you

00:24:03.640 doing that I'm just listening I'm just listening yeah no I think yeah traditional families and that is

00:24:09.620 yeah I listen to you I get a headache listening to you why because I want you to make sense and

00:24:16.080 there's just so many no but it does like what I'm saying makes sense I think ultimately like I said

00:24:20.300 before for men and women like it is about unity and it is about togetherness but I think also when

00:24:25.780 it comes to the internet online I'm not obviously I'm 30 but also with a lot of other women when

00:24:31.140 it comes to like I thought you were 27 that's my media age so when it comes to pressures and stuff

00:24:37.300 it it's very hard when it comes to society because we've seen it I've heard it I had so many

00:24:42.380 conversations women lose their value as they get older and it's it's very hard when you're navigating 1.00

00:24:47.280 in the space when you're not trying to just be with someone for the sake of being with someone

00:24:50.840 would you rather have a Christian son or a gay son

00:24:55.840 either I'm okay what would you prefer a son that actually can be respectful and be very loving to the

00:25:05.100 world if he was all those things respectful loving masculine these things would you prefer

00:25:10.640 that he were gay or Christian either good answer no it's not but for me I genuinely 0.95

00:25:17.920 I accept people for who they are why are you still single um when you say still single

00:25:27.080 unmarried at least yeah why am I unmarried like I said I realized that I'm not easy to be with

00:25:33.960 being completely honest but it's because my workspace like I promise you I could easily settle down

00:25:38.100 tomorrow and it's not been in a big-headed way it's very easy for women to actually settle down 0.88

00:25:43.860 I don't think it is it really is no western women is the more a woman speaks English the harder it is 1.00

00:25:48.700 for her to settle down because she's she's been indoctrinated by feminism and so that you have 1.00

00:25:53.580 that combative thing we're like why can't I travel why can't I do this instead of just

00:25:57.480 accept him accept exactly no but that's what I mean like if I really wanted to I could accept everything

00:26:03.160 like if I really really wanted you don't want to yeah not right now like I even said that I'm really

00:26:08.720 happy with where I'm at right now I don't need to surrender anything but in this present moment

00:26:13.760 like I said I'm on a mission I've got things that I want to do what's your mission

00:26:17.460 like I fully just said like my mom's not well right my sister's sick right like I've got a lot of

00:26:25.100 things that I've got to do like I said I'm the man of the house I'm having to look after everyone so

00:26:30.840 when it comes to the malpressures I understand it because I feel like I'm in my masculine energy

00:26:35.380 because of the things that I've got to do I'm in survival for my family right that's the headache

00:26:39.900 you're too pretty to be the man of the house be just be a woman well I would like to but my 0.96

00:26:46.980 current situation circumstances I can't fair fair uh any relationships since we last spoke

00:26:53.720 yeah and why did they end um to be honest with you being completely honest it's just that

00:26:59.220 observation on my life and what I want and where I'm trying to go and I think I come with a lot of

00:27:05.140 baggage being completely honest when it comes to relationships and moving forward because I don't

00:27:11.740 want no man to have to take they can take on me so you have a lot of baggage too yeah like my like I

00:27:17.380 have got so much stuff to deal with like I'm very difficult because you don't make a great sales pitch

00:27:22.220 for yourself I'm not trying to sell myself though I'm just working I'm just doing me I'm not trying

00:27:26.560 to sell myself because if that was the case like I'm very smart if you if you're trying to actually

00:27:30.800 get married to a man you literally do everything you cook you clean you be a yes woman and then

00:27:35.960 that's it and you don't talk about your problems you just deal with them and then a man will easily

00:27:40.120 snap you up so well why did your last relationship end if you had one to be honest with you I wouldn't

00:27:46.720 say like it just like ended but I think it's just you realize you're on different timelines so

00:27:50.500 the guy that was interested in was 10 years older than me and then realizing that I'm not in a

00:27:57.180 position to do certain things or I'm not submissive enough and that's fine so you ended it yeah it was

00:28:04.360 amicable we both oh no no no that's not how it works yes it is how it works okay so he broke up

00:28:10.340 with you no he didn't break up with me you both at the same exact time you said no we're done no

00:28:14.980 because it's getting to a point where we're arguing it's just not a nice space it's just toxic well who

00:28:19.800 initiated the breakup I did oh okay you dumped him no but I wouldn't say I dumped him because

00:28:26.480 then you go back it's like those toxic moments where you keep going back for a while and then

00:28:30.000 you go for them like the final straw was you yeah okay well you seem like you're in a good place

00:28:35.700 yeah okay and yeah well it's just it's difficult I love it I'm like yeah then we're not going to get

00:28:43.380 anything personal yeah and then it's like shy this this this so why are you single um why are you

00:28:48.680 single can I fire it back at you I just yeah you can grow back sure why are you single I am looking

00:28:53.780 for the right one no you're not I am no you're not what makes you you don't know what do you you

00:28:59.820 haven't seen you in a year what are you talking about I'm looking for the right one I don't think

00:29:02.760 you are what do you think I'm looking for you're working yeah I feel like you're on your building

00:29:07.260 stage that's true that's true but while I'm building I look yeah yeah so what do you do to

00:29:12.160 look for a wife ask friends mutual friends and that's it okay where do you go to I actually don't 0.98

00:29:19.980 think like in this I think we're we're in the same career stage but it's funny because you're a girl

00:29:24.260 but I can relate to that when you're working hard and trying to build on something I think having a

00:29:28.220 relationship is just going to drag you down unless you're like married and you actually know what you

00:29:32.360 want but having girlfriend boyfriend thing I think it's a giant waste of time I think if you

00:29:36.220 really want to get to the next level I've come to realize you just break up just get rid of them

00:29:39.760 get rid of the dead weight because if you were gonna be with this person you would already be

00:29:42.640 married don't you say you say trigger words I notice that's what you do what I said wait

00:29:45.960 yeah like that's not like baggage yeah it's too much it's weighing you down it's not weighing you

00:29:52.680 down I think once again it's you meet those once in a lifetime people that you don't want to get

00:29:57.000 rid of but you should if you if you want to succeed it's either one or the other yeah so I hear it

00:30:02.460 because that's where I'm at yeah but it's frustrating so you same thing you did you cut

00:30:06.800 off a dead weight it was dragging you down it was holding you drowning you in the ocean but sometimes

00:30:11.340 though I think I hold myself down because you have to get to a point where you're like what is it you

00:30:15.000 actually want like what is it you actually want I want to get married I want to have kids and I

00:30:20.220 want to keep building my career okay so when you say like what where's your five-year plan

00:30:27.920 this is like a job interview yeah I haven't been asked this question since I worked at Subway

00:30:32.000 five-year plan I don't know what I'm going to do tomorrow yesterday I was in Albania like 0.56

00:30:36.040 everything is just it's very chaotic I know what I want to do but five-year plan is a ridiculous

00:30:40.280 thing because I don't even know what's going to happen tomorrow genuinely so I don't think you are

00:30:43.700 looking for a wife then I am no because you're you're very busy but you don't need your idea of a

00:30:51.200 wife is that you need to be together all the time you need to like be like Siamese twins going 1.00

00:30:54.340 everywhere I disagree but in the beginning stages of getting to know someone you need to spend and

00:31:00.660 have a lot of time to commit no because for me personally if I'm to if I'm trying to get to know

00:31:04.520 you and then you're flying off everywhere I'm not going to get to know you all I know is that you're

00:31:09.860 very busy you don't have time for me how much you really need to know about your wife what

00:31:14.000 everything you don't need to know everything the kind of love that I want though I want like a really

00:31:16.940 deep love like I like deep substance depth I want to know everything about you the best love is

00:31:21.620 actually when you don't know everything where you just put your best foot forward and you always

00:31:26.320 show your best self I don't want to know everything about anyone that's not gonna that's not gonna

00:31:31.980 build greater love you should always every time you see your husband or wife you should always put

00:31:35.800 your best foot put your best shirt on look your best and have your legs moisturized so you want a

00:31:40.060 fake love I don't want fake love I don't want the best love why do I want like any I don't want to

00:31:44.460 see you in your worst moments why I prefer not to with anybody with anything in life you know

00:31:51.200 there's something for your wife when she when she comes you want to you want to say like for me

00:31:55.680 maybe it's because I'm a huge romantic person like I watch too many movies you know that

00:32:00.660 you're a romantic person what like I I would love to know like everything about you so then

00:32:06.140 I know when you've had like a bad day so even little things like your mannerisms the way you are

00:32:10.920 like if you're having an off day like if I was your woman I really knew like I would love to

00:32:15.380 like your woman would know how to perk you back up and I think knowing certain things like it could 0.99

00:32:19.380 be past traumas childhood traumas like so many different things stop it keep going I'm not doing

00:32:25.080 anything and um and I feel like when you've got a partner that it really is like that really deep

00:32:30.120 rooted love and connection nothing's going to beat that like no outside person energy can throw that

00:32:37.280 often and I think if you've got that I think you'll have the ability to go and travel the world

00:32:41.580 because that trust really is there like if you know how your man behaves when he's drunk or when

00:32:46.200 he does certain things like you know no like you're like if someone's out like you can know how certain

00:32:51.960 patterns are even if he's if he's angry what his tendencies are to do or things like that I think

00:32:56.580 you have to really really know your person not just put your best foot forward I think putting

00:33:00.340 your best foot forward is good and it's always good to look good for your man show up for your man

00:33:04.680 like and for your woman but I just think that's fake like I want something real it's not fake you're

00:33:10.400 just always showing your best self yeah but as you should like I'm not going to give you I don't

00:33:15.940 want to give you my worst side but at the same time it's you there's moments like you're human it's

00:33:21.060 human error to mess up it's human error to cry have a bad day have an off day like I could absolutely

00:33:26.120 try my best but by default sometimes I just can't give you my best and that's inevitable to happen but

00:33:32.020 ideally that never happens right so there's some guys I know that they'll have a wife in a different

00:33:36.420 country like guys that have a wife in Albania for example and they live in America and they see their

00:33:41.500 wife like twice a year and they're married and everything they'll communicate on the phone and

00:33:45.380 then when they do see each other they like she gets ready she's excited they have the best experience

00:33:49.600 ever best restaurants all this stuff and then he goes back to work he does this thing she's at home

00:33:53.460 and she has the best memories like I think the most romantic loves if you're going to go and follow

00:33:57.160 a romantic Hollywood idea it's when a wife is waiting for her husband to come back from war

00:34:02.460 and she's opened up the window and she's like looking peering through she had like he's at war

00:34:06.780 he opens up the little locket he's like oh Lacey or whatever Nancy you're that memory is stronger

00:34:13.000 having an idea of love is stronger than knowing somebody all the time because romanticism that

00:34:18.580 happens in your brain it doesn't happen like in the conversation it's the ideas that you build up in

00:34:22.240 your head so you don't want to see him all the time I would my words how did I not just convince

00:34:29.120 you with that you were looking at me like that sounded good and then you just you just disagree

00:34:32.240 to disagree I just know I think I just know the kind of relationship that I want and I think that's

00:34:36.620 really what's dangerous when it comes to our kind of conflicting views and challenging conversations

00:34:42.220 it's we don't have to agree we don't have to always disagree and it's just like the ultimate

00:34:47.340 thing is like you are your own individual person like there are people that will follow your

00:34:51.420 ideal and that's fine and that's why they follow you but then there's also people that have the

00:34:55.260 same belief system as me and might want the same things as me and that's why they follow you've

00:34:58.540 also just said just now that you might be single forever and you've accepted that yeah that's

00:35:01.640 okay that's not okay yeah how is humanity is not going to continue if we have a lot of women 1.00

00:35:06.540 like that it's fine it's fine it's definitely fine what's fine the world is overpopulated anyway

00:35:11.280 right oh this is the this is why I argue with the guy like promoting vasectomies because we need

00:35:15.920 to have people that want to have kids the world's not overpopulated they're fine

00:35:18.800 women there's a lot of women that don't listen to women this is exactly why this is exactly why 0.99

00:35:24.180 I say that um would you move countries oh no here here's a question if you got into a disagreement

00:35:29.360 with your husband who makes the final decision what about who makes the final decision in an

00:35:35.600 argument my husband yeah it was well yeah it is him okay would be him what if we're married and I

00:35:42.160 want to move to Albania then we have to move to Albania you would yeah like if you're building

00:35:47.740 something with someone it becomes a thing like yeah we're gonna disagree but if you're married

00:35:53.400 to someone you follow them okay so you would listen I do listen I'm not an idiot it's not about 1.00

00:36:00.860 being an idiot but you would I think you think I'm a bit like stupid I don't think you're stupid I 1.00

00:36:05.580 just think that you have just this angry feminist that you're resisting against is that I'm not like 1.00

00:36:10.440 I'm really not like I'm a very aware person like I'm a very conscious person like I'm smart enough to

00:36:15.420 know that you have different perspectives and different realities and that's totally okay

00:36:18.980 you know it's like I'm not trying to fight you like and I think one thing you say you got the

00:36:23.400 trigger word earlier has got me riled up I think it's more like it's I'm totally fine being where

00:36:30.380 I'm at I totally understand where your opinions and beliefs come from like I'm not here to completely

00:36:36.180 fight you about it like I have to make peace with that because if we're just fighting this time 0.98

00:36:40.620 it's not that I think you're stupid it's like you know when your kids and your brother or sister 0.99

00:36:47.000 is playing with a toy and then you want that toy because they have it not because you actually want 1.00

00:36:51.600 to play with it it's because they have something that you don't have that's you that's you no it's

00:36:56.940 not it's not me that's why I said I'm totally okay not having a relationship so I'm not the kid

00:37:03.440 that wants the toy all right well invest in cat food invest in some cat food do you think you could

00:37:08.800 uh can you turn off the phone yeah it's like really loud um you like cats I have cats oh so

00:37:16.120 you're already prepared yeah how many do you have get more get six the way you're talking yeah uh how

00:37:23.380 would you improve yourself um to what is with you depends if I'm improving myself for me right now

00:37:30.340 then stay going to the gym stay being healthy stay in good environments with good people

00:37:37.200 if I'm trying to be a wife then I have to improve on we are talking about being a wife because that's 0.87

00:37:44.980 what I'm just guessing just improve yourself oh but I like that you keep thinking about wife when I

00:37:48.540 ask you these questions yeah I know exactly that means I'm projecting a good idea of relationships um

00:37:52.980 I think I know what I need to do to be a wife like I need to be at home more there's so many more

00:37:58.040 sacrifices that I'd have to do but ultimately to improve myself is just keep reading more books

00:38:02.900 personal development center self meditate more and just that's it to stay more aligned with what my

00:38:08.620 vision is the gym stuff should still apply to wife of course yeah absolutely I mean you look good since

00:38:14.960 last time I was like wondering uh how you're gonna look like oh really yeah I don't know yeah I don't

00:38:22.180 know when you haven't seen someone in a while okay let's do a couple more and then we'll do the

00:38:28.420 interviews okay what are your non-negotiables in a relationship and why are they important to you

00:38:34.560 um a non-negotiable is probably that's actually a really hard one because I'm very chilled but my

00:38:42.980 very what very chilled in a relationship but I'd say I'm trying to go back to like the last situation

00:38:47.560 I've just been in yeah I think it was the communication with other females it's kind of 0.93

00:38:54.360 like there has to be boundaries so it's hard to communication with those what do you mean like

00:38:59.820 for example um it's hard because I can't talk to other women yeah like in a certain way like 0.99

00:39:07.120 certain manner like okay so you can take pictures with men that are your fans if we're out to dinner

00:39:11.240 but I can't have I can talk to another girl yeah or what else no you can talk to other females but 1.00

00:39:18.520 you have to have boundaries like you have to make it known like you have a partner all those things

00:39:23.640 and I think if you don't then there's a big red flag okay and I don't see anything wrong with that

00:39:29.380 what about you my non-negotiables in a relationship um can't go to the club can never step in a club

00:39:37.580 are you agreeing or disagreeing I can't tell to myself with you the clubbing thing I actually

00:39:41.960 get it I feel like clubbing it's okay in your relationship I think it is a low vibrational

00:39:46.540 experience very like I actually don't like it I think the club is horrible it's messy do you drink

00:39:50.640 um I do drink but I'm not a big drinker and it's only because like I'm a lightweight and I don't like

00:39:56.440 Caribbean's like to drink though yes but I don't like the version I think when you grow up in an

00:40:01.080 alcoholic one alcoholic background right you don't want to drink it brings out the worst in you

00:40:06.540 yeah and I've seen how people can change so that's why I'm not a big big drinker

00:40:10.360 but what you said earlier you like to see people at their worst and everything too so wouldn't you

00:40:15.040 like to know somebody yeah that's what I mean so when you know so that's what I mean so like when I

00:40:19.100 to pick up on that so it's like you know if like a certain part like if you're with someone and

00:40:24.540 if they're if they deal with like a bad day by drinking alcohol then you know what kind of person

00:40:29.700 they are because it's kind of like for me it's a weak thing it's an escapism like it's just an

00:40:35.400 escape so you kind of know about that person that's why when I say I want to know everything

00:40:38.680 about you I need to know do you have a gambling addiction because I couldn't be with someone where

00:40:42.960 we've got a house together we've got kids together and then you're gambling all our money and we've

00:40:46.860 lost our house so when I say I need to know you it's because of that yeah just don't marry a gambling 0.98

00:40:51.100 addict yeah you just don't do that exactly okay what's your love language and how do you ensure

00:40:57.160 your partner meets your needs uh as in like what I like to do love languages or what I like to perceive

00:41:03.080 yeah what is your love language I think this is like a liberal like gay word but what's your

00:41:07.840 because some people say it's touch and it's communicating or whatever I feel like mine's

00:41:10.800 all of them I like to do all of them I'm a proper like giver I'm a people pleaser nice so I feel

00:41:16.320 like words of affirmation especially I think it goes a long way I think gifts gifts given I'm like

00:41:22.980 the best at giving gifts best at giving gifts yes you like to give yeah I am because your way is I

00:41:28.360 like to be thoughtful so when you think about what someone likes then I like to like make you

00:41:32.560 happy with that right right um what is it words of affirmation touch like I am a touchy person what

00:41:37.340 else do you give whatever someone needs really like if I know that you need something if I can do

00:41:42.720 that for you then I'll do it and sometimes it might even just be time it might be lending a hand

00:41:46.260 doing something it might be you physically you might not buy certain trainers right because you like

00:41:51.720 to give physically so yeah or it could be anything not a physical gift it could be anything but I just 0.98

00:41:56.180 like to give where I can but within reason you can't be taken for an idiot that was good I was 0.98

00:42:02.740 expecting you to say a lot of but you like to to plead you come to please oh yeah no absolutely like 0.97

00:42:06.980 for me and as well going back into like my content and where I'm going I'm trying to be more purpose-led

00:42:11.880 so it's I just want to be of service to other people you want to be of service you like to service

00:42:16.740 yeah right and give okay what about you um what's my love language I like to receive

00:42:24.940 oh is it yes so yeah so great um giving give back that's another one okay one more and then um we'll

00:42:33.340 okay what are your thoughts on modern dating dynamics changing between men and women well my

00:42:39.720 thoughts I think it's tiring and I feel like me and you have some responsibility to it I think this

00:42:44.580 it's our fault that we're changing the relationship dynamics I feel like this whole podcast stream

00:42:49.380 online internet have been so detrimental right to it's ruined dating isn't it it's made me jaded

00:42:56.660 yeah no I sit down at a date or once in a while like well not even not a date but like I'll I've

00:43:02.000 sat at dinner with girls uh and the whole time I'm thinking I should just be streaming I should be

00:43:06.960 streaming the date like I don't want to waste time I don't want to make anyone laugh off camera I

00:43:11.620 don't want to waste my jokes I don't want to like all of it should be content and then even like

00:43:16.340 doing the fresh and fit podcast all the time it's like I'm used to the debate talking points and

00:43:20.600 everything and like oh body count this stuff it's really made me jaded towards just the whole idea

00:43:25.520 it's not fun anymore it just seems like a chore because I think you have the same thing our experience

00:43:30.440 our dating is is entertainment so it's like why would I do this for free yeah you know I want to make

00:43:36.580 money from from it yeah it's a hard one I think for me I'm not I'm not a big big data because I

00:43:43.180 think it's I feel like men come with ulterior motives so it's like I'm smart enough to know 1.00

00:43:47.420 if I have a pound every time I say I'm smart enough today yeah um I don't think you're stupid you keep 0.96

00:43:52.760 thinking that I'm thinking that I don't think though no it really is I know that there's a 0.99

00:43:56.120 difference between a man a man that's trying to love you and a man that's trying to sleep with you

00:43:59.400 like love and lust are very different things so unfortunately for me being as open as I am on my

00:44:05.780 socials the way that I post the way that I am it's kind of like I know that these men aren't

00:44:10.440 trying to take me serious so that's why I'd rather just not date because they're just trying to smash

00:44:13.860 yeah you're just trying to smash and I just and I can see right through it because your chat's all

00:44:16.940 the same so it's going to take a really special man to like really show up and show me that it's

00:44:23.380 different well one of the the guy that is looking for love you don't think that he's going to feel

00:44:28.480 qualms for the fact that maybe you've given it up to some people on the first day and then you haven't

00:44:35.480 well in relationships like say if that guy's looking for love say you waited three days or

00:44:40.340 whatever like how long are you how long are you gonna abstain how long are you making the guy wait

00:44:44.640 to be honest with you I think the longer you wait the better like I say to women like and don't get 1.00

00:44:49.000 wrong if you want to free up sooner that is totally fine but I just think ultimately you see more about

00:44:56.040 a man the longer you make him wait because you'll see if he gets frustrated see if he gets like

00:45:00.560 impatient and yeah and as well before you sleep with a man he's willing to do everything for you

00:45:05.160 so if you want more of a man don't sleep them okay so are you looking for love or just to extract

00:45:10.580 resources no I don't need to extract resources because that's what you just said no but regardless

00:45:14.600 like for me I've got a lot of men around me in my life as friends although you don't think men and

00:45:20.220 women can be friends yes they can I have a lot of men around me that I respect me that will help me

00:45:27.740 if I need them and I feel yes yeah because any of you that respect me and I feel like for me that

00:45:34.720 shows that I can be good with men you definitely can be good with men yeah would they have sex with 0.94

00:45:43.720 you no don't do that we're the guys we're not calling no one I can we're not doing that listen

00:45:54.260 you know how many shows I've been on and you have to go you didn't learn anything in a year like it's

00:45:59.700 it's incredible okay um how about you step away first let's uh if you could go one-on-one me yes

00:46:06.060 ways are going to ask you some questions about how it's going so far um and we'll be right back

00:46:10.900 to be continued

00:46:14.780 where do we want me to sit can we have light in

00:46:23.240 over here yeah

00:46:28.400 yeah here

00:46:36.720 okay so hello first thoughts um it's good to see him again he looks well about on him

00:47:05.600 honestly or thoughts was in the conversation yes um yeah it's it's been nice to see him again

00:47:11.960 i feel like i definitely believe that i changed his views and stuff when i last see him i don't care

00:47:17.600 what he says i definitely know i did

00:47:19.020 so how does it feel being the one to get grilled this time

00:47:23.560 oh it's different i feel like i'm a bit of like an oversharer and i talk too much

00:47:28.800 so i don't like it i do not like it and i feel like with nico

00:47:31.960 i know the kind of answers he'd like i said he definitely says like trigger words to get me going

00:47:37.020 so i'm trying to not like react as you can see i'm like staying calm and composed trying

00:47:42.120 is there anything that he said that has surprised you in this conversation

00:47:46.660 um that i've not changed

00:47:48.440 thoughts on him not wanting to travel with a wife

00:47:55.000 yeah that's that's crazy i feel like he's i think maybe both of us we put the conversation too far

00:48:01.980 into it being like the future when like you're actually happily married with your kids but i think

00:48:07.740 ultimately when she's your fiancee she should definitely be traveling the world with you 0.97

00:48:11.600 is there anything he said so far that has surprised you the most

00:48:16.220 um nothing's surprised me because listen it's nico so

00:48:21.620 what are your thoughts on his views of love

00:48:25.680 um he's listen he is not looking for love do you heard him just then he said what was it even

00:48:33.200 when i'm on a date i think about streaming that is not a man that's ready to commit just so you

00:48:36.740 know the ladies don't fall for it what did you think of his pickup line earlier 0.99

00:48:41.180 which one matter daddy oh no listen i was what the hell 0.58

00:48:47.160 lastly do you have any advice for him going forward

00:48:50.960 um i think to be honest with you um and the reason why i'm actually happy to meet him again

00:48:55.860 i feel like he's actually seems like a nice guy i think he's gonna hate me but i think he's a bit lost

00:49:01.520 i feel like he needs to keep doing what he's doing he's on a good path i wouldn't say lost in a rude way

00:49:07.900 but i feel like he's very different to a lot of the other mansphere people in the community sorry i

00:49:15.120 know i'm not saying that but like this whole mansphere stuff i feel like he could lead people on a much

00:49:21.860 stronger path about unity and not just women being traditional and at home perfect wonderful thank you

00:49:29.880 i don't know if you're gonna come down okay oh you're gonna get the mic for me

00:49:40.320 oh you got that one can you turn it off when you walk by it

00:49:44.120 do you want it off we're done

00:49:45.360 oh

00:49:47.020 i'm definitely gonna stream

00:49:52.100 you should have inspired me to do it

00:49:54.140 streamer 0.99

00:49:59.880 all right don't listen i'm gonna talk shit about you 0.99

00:50:06.300 i'll be nice 0.99

00:50:08.180 yeah um

00:50:12.220 first us

00:50:13.360 i'm gonna headache

00:50:14.260 she can hear me

00:50:16.980 i mean yeah she's i like her she's got a nice personality all this stuff

00:50:21.200 and um

00:50:22.540 she's pretty you know supposed to lower my gaze but 1.00

00:50:26.560 oh it's just fucking it's a fucking headache bro 1.00

00:50:29.480 it's a fucking headache 1.00

00:50:30.500 and um the guys around her don't want to take her you know it's just 0.99

00:50:33.840 you guys know don't need it you guys already know

00:50:36.480 you know

00:50:37.460 okay

00:50:38.420 but

00:50:39.420 good content she's good 0.99

00:50:40.640 um i keep hanging out there but just fucking hell 1.00

00:50:43.960 fuck feminism ruins so many good women 1.00

00:50:46.100 it's too bad 1.00

00:50:47.400 the more she speaks english the more she's gonna be uh brain rotted feminism 1.00

00:50:51.520 do you think she's ready to be a wife 0.69

00:50:55.200 um

00:50:58.000 no

00:50:59.300 she wants to keep doing the career thing she she wants to be outside

00:51:02.440 she wants to keep taking pictures she wants to be fully career

00:51:05.400 it's gonna be almost impossible for her to get to submit to a guy 1.00

00:51:09.220 what are your thoughts on her being fine with being single forever

00:51:13.340 bruv it's just like

00:51:15.120 it's crazy that you get people like this that are at the forefront

00:51:17.840 and she even pointed it out of giving relationship advice

00:51:20.780 and

00:51:21.980 talking about dating and programming people's ideas about dating because

00:51:26.500 she's saying i'm okay with being single forever and having cats

00:51:29.820 and dying alone and the world is overpopulated

00:51:31.960 what

00:51:32.720 it's like that's a satanic belief

00:51:35.000 she's the world is over no it's not

00:51:36.820 half of canada is empty

00:51:38.900 there's places all over the world where they need people

00:51:41.180 there's population decline in japan we need more babies

00:51:43.980 we need babies she should be having 10 babies right now not be here but instead 1.00

00:51:47.480 she's so focused on like career

00:51:49.160 it's brain rot

00:51:50.320 is there anything she said so far that has surprised you

00:51:53.680 no everything she said is exactly what i thought she was going to say

00:51:56.580 that she need to lower her requirements in men 1.00

00:51:59.020 but they women can't really do that women cannot lower their requirements they 1.00

00:52:11.840 they have a specific set stone of what they believe they should have

00:52:14.980 that's how strong the zog propaganda machine is 1.00

00:52:18.400 what are your thoughts on her views of love 0.95

00:52:21.520 retarded 1.00

00:52:25.060 what advice would you give her

00:52:28.340 what advice would i give her

00:52:35.220 get pregnant and quit the internet 0.99

00:52:43.560 would you wipe her 0.99

00:52:45.460 it depends on what head i'm thinking with

00:52:57.120 what are your thoughts on her wanting to travel with her man everywhere 1.00

00:53:06.220 stupid 1.00

00:53:06.760 stay home 1.00

00:53:07.640 you don't actually want to do that

00:53:09.220 you're going to be peeing every five seconds

00:53:10.600 it's just a waste of time

00:53:11.600 and then lastly your thoughts on her wanting to be the man of the house 0.99

00:53:16.780 gay 0.99

00:53:17.780 like that's what yeah actually no i can't i can't wife of somebody who wants to be a man 0.99

00:53:21.340 it's gay if i do that 0.98

00:53:22.300 could you hear me 0.91

00:53:23.680 okay

00:53:24.040 that's it

00:53:25.960 that's it

00:53:26.500 all right let's let's go back

00:53:27.960 i hope you said nice things about me

00:53:32.940 really nice things

00:53:33.860 all nice

00:53:34.400 i'm all right thank you

00:53:38.580 i'm actually very friendly

00:53:41.060 you are

00:53:42.200 i never said you weren't

00:53:43.520 i never said you weren't

00:53:46.340 well just tell me what did you say

00:53:51.660 because i'm going to see it anyway

00:53:53.080 yeah i was just

00:53:53.980 i actually what i didn't say

00:53:55.020 and what i should have said is

00:53:56.020 um

00:53:56.840 thank you

00:53:58.680 can i just put it here for now

00:54:00.180 yeah

00:54:00.920 that's fine

00:54:01.580 is that okay

00:54:03.740 yeah

00:54:04.080 um

00:54:05.400 oh god my memory's really bad

00:54:06.860 no i was just saying like

00:54:08.020 things haven't changed

00:54:08.940 i said that you definitely

00:54:10.840 should be more open to the idea of like

00:54:14.840 when you're in a relationship with someone

00:54:17.740 traveling with them

00:54:18.980 because i feel like

00:54:19.740 you

00:54:20.520 if it's your wife 0.55

00:54:21.460 like you have to get to that point where she's at home

00:54:23.380 with your kids

00:54:24.560 so you can travel

00:54:25.660 travel until she stays home

00:54:27.020 yeah i feel like you should

00:54:28.220 i think you're

00:54:28.920 and as well i actually said that

00:54:30.160 i actually think

00:54:31.460 out of

00:54:32.180 most people that i've come on the show with

00:54:34.540 and i've challenged

00:54:35.040 that you've got

00:54:36.360 a lot more potential to

00:54:38.120 say so

00:54:39.580 have a better impact

00:54:40.920 and a better legacy

00:54:41.600 on something else

00:54:42.400 um

00:54:44.300 compared to

00:54:44.800 what

00:54:45.380 i don't know

00:54:46.580 like

00:54:47.000 i don't want to talk bad about

00:54:48.640 other people

00:54:49.240 but other people that have been on the show

00:54:50.960 like who

00:54:51.740 i know all of them

00:54:53.040 yeah well all of them then

00:54:54.440 um

00:54:55.340 i feel the same with fresh as well

00:54:57.000 i feel like he's got

00:54:57.580 you both have like

00:54:58.420 this potential to

00:54:59.600 don't be fresh

00:55:00.240 be really like

00:55:01.800 you both are really nice guys

00:55:03.100 like they've done like

00:55:03.760 you are really nice guys

00:55:04.900 i'm not saying you're not

00:55:05.720 but i feel like

00:55:06.560 on the internet

00:55:07.240 and the way

00:55:07.860 your content can go

00:55:09.360 and the manipulation

00:55:10.060 and

00:55:10.680 like

00:55:11.580 it's

00:55:12.560 quite

00:55:13.380 it's not negative

00:55:14.660 because i understand your mission

00:55:15.720 you're

00:55:16.200 preaching about traditional values

00:55:17.920 and traditional stuff

00:55:18.860 no i'm saying you

00:55:20.600 right now

00:55:21.100 but ultimately

00:55:22.460 when it comes down to

00:55:23.660 you

00:55:25.660 i feel like

00:55:26.660 you could probably have

00:55:27.580 a really beautiful

00:55:28.280 healthy

00:55:28.720 dynamic of a relationship

00:55:30.400 that

00:55:30.860 could be so different

00:55:32.320 and it's not this very like

00:55:33.540 oh women at home 1.00

00:55:34.380 like

00:55:34.600 it's very heavy on like

00:55:35.920 women at home 1.00

00:55:36.720 like why don't you just

00:55:37.340 that's what traditional values are

00:55:38.500 yeah i know

00:55:38.980 but you can have them

00:55:39.720 but in the meantime

00:55:40.360 live and enjoy

00:55:41.080 like go

00:55:41.520 meet a woman

00:55:42.520 and travel the world with her

00:55:43.700 like it doesn't always have to be like

00:55:44.900 women are one way 1.00

00:55:45.820 i think like

00:55:46.240 just experience like

00:55:47.340 a female 0.98

00:55:48.820 like actually experience

00:55:50.200 being with a woman

00:55:51.360 and accepting her

00:55:52.300 and seeing her as your best friend

00:55:53.420 and not seeing her

00:55:54.180 as just a wife

00:55:55.960 best friend

00:55:56.780 like see her as your best friend

00:55:57.700 you want to be

00:55:58.840 best friends with your husband

00:55:59.960 yeah

00:56:00.820 i want that

00:56:03.020 that's what i want

00:56:03.860 okay

00:56:04.880 well

00:56:05.560 what do you think

00:56:06.400 well i said that you were delusional

00:56:07.600 cheyenne

00:56:08.080 yeah

00:56:08.680 it's fine

00:56:10.140 i'm not going to change your mind

00:56:11.200 on these things

00:56:11.600 there's no point

00:56:12.100 but what's the difference

00:56:13.540 between fresh and myron

00:56:14.340 because you seem like

00:56:15.520 you left out myron

00:56:16.180 yeah do you know what it is

00:56:17.220 i feel like myron's very like

00:56:18.800 one way with it

00:56:19.800 he is hardcore like 0.96

00:56:21.460 troll with it 0.93

00:56:23.160 like his levels are 0.97

00:56:24.860 troll 0.85

00:56:25.180 he's like he's like a troll 0.99

00:56:27.080 like

00:56:27.940 that's the first time i heard that

00:56:29.360 no joe like

00:56:30.080 he's very like intense

00:56:31.240 with his beliefs

00:56:31.940 and that's fine

00:56:32.460 because the way i see it

00:56:33.120 is the reason why i do actually respect them

00:56:35.400 but i respect anyone

00:56:36.160 that if you've got a belief

00:56:36.980 and you're really advocate

00:56:37.900 and you are so passionate about it

00:56:39.520 like

00:56:40.360 i can't

00:56:41.840 talk about

00:56:42.520 like i might not agree

00:56:43.400 but that's fine

00:56:44.000 you do your thing over there

00:56:44.940 so that's why i'm not even

00:56:45.780 i don't need to talk bad about like them

00:56:47.460 but i think like with fresh

00:56:49.100 he's very different

00:56:49.720 um

00:56:51.120 the way that he is

00:56:53.040 the way he

00:56:54.140 is

00:56:55.060 like he's very very different

00:56:56.720 and i feel like it's more positive

00:56:58.720 i feel like

00:56:59.360 female experiences with 0.92

00:57:01.340 them two separately

00:57:02.620 are very different

00:57:03.260 it's probably the same with you

00:57:04.340 because i think like

00:57:05.680 despite on the stream

00:57:06.840 i know you're thinking about

00:57:07.520 just constantly streaming

00:57:08.340 like you're a nice guy

00:57:09.640 thank you

00:57:11.320 mine's a nice guy too

00:57:12.300 no i'm not saying he's not

00:57:13.440 because listen like

00:57:14.280 he's respectful

00:57:15.100 like when we've gone out

00:57:16.580 like he's paid a bill

00:57:17.320 like he's like

00:57:18.000 he's been respectful

00:57:19.360 but i feel like

00:57:20.220 you can't just be respectful

00:57:21.760 to certain women

00:57:22.540 and not all

00:57:23.100 and i think that's why

00:57:24.000 i have a big issue

00:57:24.740 i feel like

00:57:25.280 the way

00:57:25.980 if he's not

00:57:27.040 if this woman's not 0.99

00:57:28.220 in his eyes

00:57:29.260 deemed as attractive

00:57:30.080 the way he's very like

00:57:31.300 aggressive with it

00:57:32.420 it's just not for me

00:57:33.640 personally

00:57:34.300 and that's what i mean

00:57:35.040 i don't want to talk bad

00:57:35.740 about him because

00:57:36.320 ultimately they're on

00:57:37.320 their thing

00:57:38.040 they're on their mission

00:57:38.780 but it's just not

00:57:40.600 for me

00:57:41.580 and i feel like

00:57:42.960 that being

00:57:44.040 an experience

00:57:45.680 like i've had an experience

00:57:46.700 that sounds mad

00:57:47.460 saying it like that

00:57:47.980 oh my god

00:57:48.400 what happened

00:57:48.820 you had an experience

00:57:50.060 no that sounded crazy

00:57:51.360 but basically i went

00:57:52.340 i once went out

00:57:53.160 with freshman pitt

00:57:54.520 yeah

00:57:54.860 and brought a friend

00:57:56.680 and then just

00:57:57.380 my room was just

00:57:58.020 like inappropriate

00:57:58.620 about like the girl

00:57:59.480 that i brought out

00:58:00.160 just because he wasn't

00:58:01.100 attracted to her

00:58:01.940 she was big huh 1.00

00:58:02.740 and like

00:58:04.040 you brought a whale out

00:58:04.900 no but that's what i mean

00:58:05.760 don't say whale

00:58:06.500 that's not nice

00:58:07.260 and but in what he calls

00:58:09.380 like wide framed

00:58:10.280 and that's why i just feel

00:58:11.600 like that's not cool

00:58:12.840 like you can't

00:58:14.000 you can't be like that

00:58:14.920 and i think ultimately

00:58:15.660 like when you preach

00:58:16.800 and this is why i feel like

00:58:17.800 with this mansphere

00:58:19.620 red pill community 0.76

00:58:20.600 what annoys me the most

00:58:22.160 is like you like for me

00:58:24.180 and the way you behave

00:58:25.180 and the way you are

00:58:26.440 bitching on the internet 1.00

00:58:27.300 about women

00:58:27.820 sorry that is not a

00:58:29.160 protector or provider

00:58:30.000 like what are you doing

00:58:31.040 well not all women

00:58:31.960 the women 0.97

00:58:32.260 it's embarrassing

00:58:32.700 i'm sorry but it is

00:58:33.660 like you can't not say

00:58:34.820 thank you

00:58:35.440 when men are behaving

00:58:37.940 this way you can't say

00:58:39.060 like that is that a

00:58:39.920 respectable man there

00:58:40.700 is that an honorable

00:58:41.280 man right there

00:58:42.000 like it's not

00:58:43.140 it's literally a man 1.00

00:58:44.220 talking shit about 1.00

00:58:45.620 women on the internet 1.00

00:58:46.440 like that for me

00:58:47.800 that doesn't give off

00:58:48.600 protective vibes

00:58:49.780 that doesn't give off

00:58:50.400 alpha vibes

00:58:51.040 like it's embarrassing

00:58:52.400 like you're attacking

00:58:53.220 women 1.00

00:58:53.600 like it's not cool

00:58:54.900 like for me to

00:58:56.120 for women to feel

00:58:56.740 safe with you

00:58:57.320 what are you doing

00:58:58.260 why are you arguing

00:58:58.900 with women on the 0.98

00:58:59.360 internet

00:58:59.580 do you not think

00:58:59.980 it's embarrassing

00:59:00.420 someone's got to do it

00:59:02.600 no yeah but i'm saying

00:59:03.880 but it's like someone

00:59:05.180 that you could do it

00:59:05.740 with class

00:59:06.300 like the way you

00:59:06.900 handle situations

00:59:07.720 it doesn't need to be

00:59:09.100 that way and i feel

00:59:09.840 like that's my only

00:59:11.500 problem when it comes

00:59:12.280 to men on the internet

00:59:13.500 and the reason why

00:59:14.540 i'm gonna get hated

00:59:15.580 here but the reason

00:59:16.460 why the red pill

00:59:18.180 movement and everything

00:59:19.320 has such a strong

00:59:20.720 rise it's because

00:59:21.460 of like men that

00:59:22.860 get rejected daily

00:59:23.840 like you guys give

00:59:24.920 them a voice you

00:59:26.220 give them like a

00:59:28.720 platform for them

00:59:29.520 to feel seen and

00:59:30.180 valid like validated

00:59:31.700 but at the same time

00:59:32.600 it's like they will

00:59:33.940 come online and

00:59:35.220 attack women like me 0.99

00:59:36.340 but in the real world

00:59:37.320 like i'm a very

00:59:37.880 friendly person so

00:59:38.880 you come with your

00:59:39.500 assumptions just

00:59:40.660 because you might

00:59:41.180 think i might reject

00:59:41.980 you but that's not

00:59:43.380 who i am like i'm so

00:59:44.280 for that i'll say

00:59:44.720 hello to everybody

00:59:45.480 the red pill stuff

00:59:46.520 is dying yeah

00:59:47.580 i gotta admit like

00:59:48.140 that um women 1.00

00:59:49.400 arguing stuff it is

00:59:50.560 like on the i think

00:59:51.760 people are getting

00:59:52.080 tired of it i'm tired

00:59:53.040 of it i've been

00:59:53.760 tired of it i'm tired

00:59:54.680 of it too to be to

00:59:55.600 be honest i i find it

00:59:56.680 pretty useless to argue

00:59:57.860 with women should we 0.97

00:59:58.560 just be friends now

00:59:59.300 see and when i say

01:00:03.540 that people are gonna

01:00:04.020 say i'm simping but

01:00:04.900 it's just like it's

01:00:05.820 just i find it useless 0.54

01:00:06.620 to argue with women 1.00

01:00:07.200 because i'm not gonna

01:00:07.660 like when you say

01:00:08.240 something really 0.97

01:00:08.680 silly like uh 0.92

01:00:09.940 something really 1.00

01:00:10.580 smart really silly 1.00

01:00:11.680 like you want to be 1.00

01:00:12.340 best friends with your

01:00:12.960 husband it's like

01:00:13.900 all right sure no but

01:00:15.080 this is why you

01:00:15.580 want to believe that

01:00:16.380 no this is what i'm

01:00:16.960 saying but this is

01:00:17.460 why you let it down

01:00:18.160 because i feel like

01:00:18.880 what do you mean

01:00:19.180 let it down

01:00:19.580 let everything down

01:00:21.720 i feel like you if

01:00:23.780 you just meet the

01:00:24.460 right person where you

01:00:25.380 actually want to build

01:00:26.340 with them meet the

01:00:26.900 right woman you're not 1.00

01:00:28.260 going to be advocate in

01:00:29.060 this because it's like

01:00:29.800 i'm not being funny

01:00:30.540 like respectfully all

01:00:32.860 you guys are going to

01:00:33.420 preach and what you're

01:00:34.100 going to just have

01:00:34.540 girls that are 0.79

01:00:35.580 impressed by money

01:00:36.360 but if you meet

01:00:37.240 no no no you can

01:00:38.280 have a wife that's

01:00:39.620 not your best friend

01:00:40.240 that's also not

01:00:40.740 impressed by money

01:00:41.400 you don't want to

01:00:42.260 build with your best

01:00:43.020 friend your best

01:00:43.520 why not because

01:00:46.640 that's not ideal

01:00:47.320 you have different

01:00:48.660 you have a specific

01:00:49.560 ideal for me

01:00:50.300 okay well i'm

01:00:51.580 speaking for men

01:00:52.140 here like you have

01:00:52.960 specific roles in a

01:00:53.860 relationship and a

01:00:55.020 best friend is not

01:00:55.640 going to go provide

01:00:56.100 why would i want to

01:00:56.720 come home and have 1.00

01:00:57.440 sex with my best 1.00

01:00:58.100 friend because it's 1.00

01:00:59.660 your wife but you 0.94

01:01:01.480 see how you just

01:01:02.020 changed the term

01:01:02.660 no but it's your

01:01:03.140 best but i want that

01:01:04.020 like it's it's hard

01:01:05.320 to say i had a long

01:01:06.080 day and i need a

01:01:06.520 massage it's been a

01:01:07.220 stressful day do i

01:01:08.020 want to like cut do i

01:01:09.120 want to snuggle with

01:01:10.400 my best friend yeah

01:01:11.400 i want my best

01:01:13.220 friend to cuddle me

01:01:13.960 yeah you i can see

01:01:16.500 you're hearing how 0.94

01:01:17.440 gay that is like in 1.00

01:01:18.400 your eyes i can see 0.99

01:01:19.220 that your best friend

01:01:20.260 is a man if your

01:01:21.420 best friend was your

01:01:22.080 i'm not even i'm not

01:01:22.860 even saying that man

01:01:23.920 i'm just saying the

01:01:24.480 term best friend you're

01:01:25.140 like i'd love that

01:01:26.020 i would love that

01:01:28.360 all right um so i

01:01:29.960 just find it i find it

01:01:30.740 useless to argue so if

01:01:31.620 you want to believe that

01:01:32.220 if you want to believe

01:01:32.860 that no it's also

01:01:33.500 meaning it's useless to 0.96

01:01:34.620 argue because women 1.00

01:01:35.900 are never going to

01:01:36.420 change never

01:01:37.460 men change men do 0.50

01:01:39.500 improve women change 0.99

01:01:40.360 no they don't yes

01:01:41.520 they do who's changed

01:01:42.520 you know what uh do

01:01:44.220 you know britney renner

01:01:44.860 she became a muslim

01:01:46.240 she's uh she's wearing

01:01:47.220 hijab now and it seems

01:01:49.340 like she's changed but

01:01:49.940 who knows if it's just

01:01:50.580 for the internet but

01:01:51.240 like as muslims are 1.00

01:01:52.000 supposed to believe that

01:01:52.940 she has the best 0.98

01:01:53.840 intentions yeah i think

01:01:55.300 that's what i mean but

01:01:55.880 people can change would

01:01:57.420 you become muslim yeah

01:01:58.700 well i wouldn't say no

01:01:59.400 because a lot of my

01:02:00.140 good friends are actually

01:02:00.920 muslim yeah you're in

01:02:01.980 the uk london is

01:02:02.740 stand but for me and

01:02:04.460 being completely honest i

01:02:05.540 know that the way that i

01:02:06.340 dress my talk show like

01:02:08.040 everything that i do is

01:02:08.880 just inappropriate to

01:02:09.680 like the religion so i

01:02:10.740 feel like there's baby

01:02:11.620 steps if i really am

01:02:12.600 going to commit to

01:02:13.140 something i would like

01:02:15.000 to give it a hundred

01:02:15.580 percent i'm just like my

01:02:17.060 relationship with god and

01:02:18.040 everything that i'm doing

01:02:18.720 i'm on a journey it's like

01:02:19.900 i said i'm trying to in a

01:02:21.480 discovery phase where i'm

01:02:22.580 traveling more meeting more

01:02:24.040 people yeah but you can

01:02:26.060 still you don't need to be

01:02:26.980 perfect like there's no

01:02:27.980 expectation yeah anybody's

01:02:29.380 going to be you know

01:02:30.300 immediately an imam or a

01:02:31.720 sheikh yeah it takes 0.64

01:02:32.660 time what about you what's

01:02:33.680 what's your religious i'm

01:02:34.620 muslim why are you yeah

01:02:35.880 have you always been 0.65

01:02:37.040 muslim no i i reverted like

01:02:39.120 right after right before i

01:02:41.100 met you last year oh

01:02:41.960 really yeah so it's been a

01:02:43.180 bit over a year now and i

01:02:44.480 think we first met it was

01:02:45.120 like two months something

01:02:45.980 like that oh interesting

01:02:47.260 when did we meet how's that

01:02:48.800 journey for you it's good

01:02:49.740 is it i hate the word

01:02:50.840 journey it's very but it's

01:02:52.360 like your best friend vibes

01:02:53.440 it is journey you know it's

01:02:56.460 good you know but it's good

01:02:57.340 it's a good it's been a i'm

01:02:59.240 learning a lot yeah there's

01:03:00.500 there's a lot to and to

01:03:01.620 assume that i'm perfect is you

01:03:03.100 know it's impossible yeah

01:03:04.700 nobody there's no

01:03:05.540 expectation to be perfect i

01:03:07.200 think people think that like

01:03:08.020 as soon as you become muslim or

01:03:09.620 become christian whatever that

01:03:10.400 you need to be a perfect

01:03:12.020 person especially because you're

01:03:13.480 on the internet people are

01:03:14.240 always criticizing but yeah i'm

01:03:16.180 not perfect i'm so like

01:03:18.220 obviously being muslim and

01:03:19.480 stuff you are probably open to

01:03:21.540 multiple wives that's not the 1.00

01:03:23.820 main part of it no but i know

01:03:25.080 the reason why is because i have

01:03:25.880 a question yeah how many wives i 1.00

01:03:28.320 want thank you so much how many

01:03:29.400 wives do you want i knew that 0.94

01:03:30.520 was coming and do you really

01:03:32.920 think that you are capable of

01:03:35.580 taking care of that many women

01:03:37.180 happy well because i feel like a

01:03:38.860 lot of men struggle just to keep

01:03:39.800 one woman happy they do i don't 0.72

01:03:42.840 have that problem you sure no i'm

01:03:44.660 very sure you're supposed to treat

01:03:47.120 them equally because they're all

01:03:48.540 supposed to be taken care of like

01:03:49.600 financially and also you're

01:03:50.900 supposed to love them the same

01:03:51.840 that's the expectation so i mean you

01:03:55.180 start with one wife people think

01:03:56.880 that because i'm less than like oh

01:03:57.840 you must want four wives like i 1.00

01:03:59.100 mean yeah but you start with one

01:04:01.540 and then you get two and then you

01:04:02.280 get three and i think probably two

01:04:04.000 is probably the most realistic

01:04:05.040 four is ideal but really four yeah

01:04:08.080 yeah of course you gotta make a lot

01:04:10.240 of money i i do i do very well

01:04:13.120 okay it's something not that

01:04:14.600 expensive how much you need to pay

01:04:15.540 for a wife yeah but i feel like

01:04:17.280 just it's not just like money it's

01:04:18.980 like maintenance of everything like

01:04:22.100 running a home date night i can do

01:04:24.480 it yeah yeah i can do it easily

01:04:26.160 it'll be interesting to watch that

01:04:27.260 unravel yeah easily so would you do

01:04:30.580 could you be a sister wife do you 1.00

01:04:32.320 know what i'm like this cut comes up

01:04:34.980 quite a lot i think it takes the right

01:04:38.180 man being completely honest because i

01:04:40.460 feel like could you be a sister wife

01:04:42.000 for me for you yeah i'd have to be

01:04:46.460 interested first right well you are

01:04:48.900 um i'd say do you know what it is i

01:04:52.300 think to be a sister wife it depends 1.00

01:04:53.980 on the man everything i think like

01:04:56.420 what what's the criteria you would need

01:04:57.740 to bring me peace you would need to

01:04:59.360 bring me stability yeah you would need

01:05:01.360 to make me feel comfortable and i feel

01:05:02.940 like you don't understand the concept of

01:05:06.260 like my emotional needs i'm one of the

01:05:07.660 best friends so you could not keep me

01:05:09.920 happy that's why you're best friends

01:05:11.140 with the sister wife good save that you

01:05:13.360 know you bring another one on the team

01:05:15.980 and now you guys can go cry to each 0.63

01:05:17.540 other exactly and then i see you're

01:05:20.060 like hey welcome home tidying up

01:05:21.700 together perfect no but i feel like it

01:05:23.940 is a nice idea of having a sister wife 0.89

01:05:27.300 because when you like actually really

01:05:29.220 understand like unity of like a family

01:05:32.640 the unit like kids so she could do the 0.94

01:05:36.460 housework i can look after the kids like

01:05:38.100 it could be in an ideal so beautiful but

01:05:40.780 i think being so westernized it makes

01:05:43.100 it complicated i think also with shows

01:05:45.180 like ours that we've done it makes it

01:05:47.560 also difficult because we promote about

01:05:50.020 you know a man must do this woman must 1.00

01:05:51.880 do this but ultimately until you start

01:05:53.920 seeing in the community really healthy

01:05:55.720 like sister wives polyamorous open 1.00

01:05:58.700 relationships it's just very hard because

01:06:02.020 people also bring their opinions so

01:06:04.300 forget them but when you get married

01:06:06.140 you just got to leave the internet i

01:06:07.940 don't want to publicize any of my

01:06:09.460 relationships on camera i've learned

01:06:11.300 learn from that you can't do that at all

01:06:14.300 do you think societal expectations

01:06:19.260 shape how people view relationships and

01:06:21.740 gender roles yeah like we influence a lot

01:06:26.640 i think people with platforms like

01:06:28.860 someone that just likes you you could say

01:06:31.640 something and then because they like you

01:06:33.080 that would now follow that belief right

01:06:34.460 like you just said earlier the world should

01:06:35.960 be depopulated and now there's going to

01:06:37.460 be girls running around aborting their babies 1.00

01:06:39.680 because of what you said no i didn't say

01:06:42.140 that you kind of did say that see how

01:06:44.160 you twist see this content manipulation

01:06:46.300 wasn't very good at it wasn't

01:06:47.880 you think babies are dead weight but

01:06:50.100 it's fine no i did not say that no i 0.96

01:06:53.300 did not say that so you're such a

01:06:54.860 manipulator you you are comfortable with

01:06:57.000 not having kids this stuff so like other

01:06:58.900 girls are going to follow that no i 1.00

01:07:00.300 didn't even say that i didn't say that

01:07:02.200 i'm 100% sure you said that i'm going to

01:07:03.860 watch this back i didn't say that what

01:07:05.160 did you say not that okay yeah but then

01:07:08.600 how do societal expectations shape how

01:07:10.400 people view relationships because

01:07:11.680 everyone's got an opinion and i think

01:07:13.180 people need to remember like these are

01:07:14.560 just opinions on the internet like it's

01:07:16.180 not real life like just go home love

01:07:18.240 your girlfriend go home and love your

01:07:19.720 boyfriend like it's not that deep

01:07:21.340 because i've seen people that for

01:07:23.460 example with the andrew tate episode

01:07:24.900 how many females rang me to say i've 1.00

01:07:28.520 just had no argument with your

01:07:29.260 boyfriend because of your show like and

01:07:31.160 men will come up to me my missus broke

01:07:32.960 up like so people broke up because

01:07:35.020 yeah like what after when that whole

01:07:36.800 thing happened like it was crazy and

01:07:38.760 that's why i've just people need to get

01:07:40.180 off the internet and just focus on your

01:07:42.000 relationship and that's why i feel like

01:07:43.280 you need to stop preaching on the

01:07:44.380 internet get into a really happy

01:07:45.720 relationship and i feel like

01:07:47.000 what do i appreciate it's incorrect i

01:07:48.600 feel like you're going to find a really

01:07:50.100 beautiful woman and you're going to

01:07:51.460 have a really beautiful relationship

01:07:52.600 and you're going to find out this new

01:07:54.980 discovery that this view that you

01:07:57.500 have it can work you can have it and

01:08:00.120 you can adapt it but i feel like it's

01:08:01.480 going to change

01:08:02.020 that's true i've come to realize like

01:08:04.260 streaming so much it's not conducive to

01:08:06.440 having a good relationship at all like

01:08:08.140 you actually have to sacrifice that

01:08:09.620 yeah you know as public people know

01:08:11.080 everything about my life and everything

01:08:12.480 i do there's just there's absolutely no

01:08:14.260 way it's possible um and even when i

01:08:16.720 have spoken to girls i was recently in

01:08:19.120 bosnia and i was speaking to this girl

01:08:21.420 and she's talking and she's like talking

01:08:22.580 about her life and i like genuinely don't

01:08:24.980 care i could not care less about what

01:08:28.220 she's talking about she's like yeah

01:08:29.500 school you know i'm like looking at my

01:08:30.940 phone looking at the stats like

01:08:32.400 emailing people and she's like why are

01:08:34.100 you so distracted i'm like no i'm

01:08:35.120 paying attention i was paying attention

01:08:36.580 but i knew what she was going to say

01:08:37.620 before she said it yeah and it's just

01:08:38.980 hard to care about uh it makes you

01:08:41.700 really jaded you know it's hard to be

01:08:43.000 interested in people exactly it's really 0.75

01:08:44.720 fucked it up

01:08:45.120 what do you mean ulterior motives like 0.95

01:08:48.380 looking for clout

01:08:48.980 yeah you could tell when people like

01:08:50.880 just they yeah you just know why

01:08:53.800 they're trying to get to know you

01:08:54.660 yeah well when i'm done with this

01:08:58.200 then that'll happen you that is a

01:08:59.600 good point i can't lie how do you

01:09:01.900 envision your ideal relationship

01:09:03.200 dynamic in turn we asked that

01:09:04.920 um how important is religion to you

01:09:07.360 your family and your future children

01:09:08.820 do you know what it's the last

01:09:10.320 question because we the restaurant's

01:09:11.540 opening yes yeah um for me i'm

01:09:13.720 definitely leaning more into faith

01:09:15.200 with everything but i'm just trying to

01:09:16.960 discover like where i actually place

01:09:19.120 myself if that makes sense so it's

01:09:21.420 just kind of like learning embracing

01:09:23.720 other cultures and just seeing kind of

01:09:25.560 what actually does fit into me so i

01:09:27.460 don't want to see like oh my god this

01:09:28.480 needs to be this way because i've got

01:09:30.260 friends that are christian i've got

01:09:31.260 friends that are muslim you know i've

01:09:32.600 got friends that are sikh so but no 1.00

01:09:34.400 jewish friends and yeah i do have a

01:09:37.040 jewish friend actually oh and and that's

01:09:39.900 the thing even with things like that

01:09:41.040 learning how to navigate in spaces and

01:09:43.360 in conversations because it's kind of

01:09:45.040 like it's crazy like even just the way

01:09:48.840 the world is moving how do you keep up

01:09:51.500 with things but ultimately going back to

01:09:53.040 a question with me with where religion

01:09:56.680 is in my family i think if you do have

01:09:58.760 a religious household and you lean with

01:10:00.800 god first and your faith is there i think

01:10:03.540 you're gonna have a very strong

01:10:04.880 relationship you come from a christian

01:10:06.180 family my mom was christian yes and

01:10:09.260 you're uh what about your dad um no

01:10:12.480 rastafari rasta that's a religion what

01:10:16.600 do they do is it just like smoking weed

01:10:17.940 and what is it i'm asking i thought no

01:10:21.640 do you know what to be honest with you

01:10:22.880 it's like a demonic like voodoo thing 0.98

01:10:24.400 what it's not demonic is it voodoo it's 0.87

01:10:27.420 not voodoo or like peace and love and

01:10:29.260 weed right if you want to say that okay

01:10:31.600 rastafari wow okay yeah in your discovery

01:10:35.940 phase have you come closer to god at all

01:10:38.660 like because you yeah no it has like i'm

01:10:40.280 just leaning into learning more things

01:10:42.700 like my friends gifted me the quran

01:10:44.660 quran yeah yeah um and then but then 0.99

01:10:47.920 i have a friend taking me to church so

01:10:49.540 i'm not trying to overwhelm myself but

01:10:50.960 i'm just trying to be in communities

01:10:52.900 and embrace them and just see where i

01:10:54.740 actually feel at peace did you read the

01:10:56.220 quran yet haven't read it yet because

01:10:57.800 i'm just going to church at the moment

01:10:59.120 so my friends give me that so i can put

01:11:01.200 my time and energy into it read the

01:11:02.440 quran in church it'll make them really 1.00

01:11:05.360 no that no yeah everyone has their own

01:11:07.980 process and everything yeah so that's

01:11:09.840 my little discovery shout out to that

01:11:11.500 friend who that's uh you have a good

01:11:12.740 friend that gave you that yeah i've

01:11:13.980 got loads of good friends that's i

01:11:15.080 mean i've got you have a lot of

01:11:16.260 friends it's a it's kind of a red flag

01:11:18.680 what do you mean you know a lot of

01:11:20.860 people yeah how do you know so many

01:11:22.720 people because of my job okay and i

01:11:25.220 believe like when you meet people

01:11:26.800 there's value for everyone like if i

01:11:29.580 didn't have friends here we would be

01:11:30.640 here right now that's true so i just

01:11:32.240 feel like yeah i'm thinking like how do

01:11:33.980 you why do they like you so much

01:11:35.500 because i'm a nice person that's me off

01:11:37.200 camera believe it or not i'm not a

01:11:39.620 dickhead i know you're kind of off 0.99

01:11:41.080 camera we got to talk yeah i'm if i

01:11:43.260 can help you i think if i can help

01:11:45.300 people where i can and people will do

01:11:46.700 that for me so that's why i have a lot

01:11:49.040 of friends and we're going to do an

01:11:50.380 interview on saturday yes we look

01:11:52.600 forward to it yeah yes thank you it's

01:11:54.600 been it's always a pleasure yes it has

01:11:56.440 been a pleasure felt weird it did yeah

01:11:59.180 why i don't you're asking me questions

01:12:00.980 right it's nice to be on the other side

01:12:03.400 i don't like it ha yeah yeah exactly

01:12:06.260 well thank you so much for coming on we

01:12:08.040 have more things coming um i do want to

01:12:10.020 speak to you about um something we can

01:12:11.600 do tomorrow if possible but yeah saturday

01:12:13.440 we have something it's fine you just

01:12:14.360 want to spend every day with me it's

01:12:15.200 fine never mind never mind no don't

01:12:18.480 not don't like you that much okay we're

01:12:20.420 gonna be live again in a couple hours

01:12:21.640 guys with the Avengers thank you so

01:12:23.080 much to Cheyenne for coming on thank

01:12:24.460 you appreciate you bye

01:12:25.520 how was that

01:12:29.260 what's uh ar-15

01:12:39.880 that's nice

01:12:47.760 uh no okay he did it he did it he did

01:13:03.880 it okay all right um go go i don't have

01:13:09.820 any money

SNEAKO - August 22, 2024

GRILLING WITH SNEAKO & CHIAN PT.2

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