SNEAKO - August 22, 2024


GRILLING WITH SNEAKO & CHIAN PT.2

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Cheyenne Reynolds is the host of the hit TV show, Cheyenne's Grilling. She's known for grilling famous people, famous people and rappers, alpha males, and she comes from a feminist perspective. In this episode, she grills one of her old friends and former co-worker, Gwyneth Paltrow, about her life and what it's like being a woman in the entertainment industry.

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00:00:00 I'm trying to remember what her intro was before 0.98
00:00:28 what did she say we're we're gonna be grilling sneeko the something
00:00:34 controversial I don't remember I'll just make it up
00:00:41 we're good
00:00:57 I think we're good
00:01:01 love speech what's going on everybody we are live in London at a very nice restaurant I have to thank
00:01:11 the owner and everything for letting us be here right now I know it's early in the US but luckily
00:01:15 they let us open a little bit early to have this conversation I'm here with an old friend even
00:01:21 though men and women can't be friends but it's my turn to grill her okay she's known for grilling a 1.00
00:01:26 lot of famous people and rappers these people alpha males and she comes from a feminist perspective 1.00
00:01:32 it's my turn okay the men are getting the revenge I have my questions prepared and I'm very excited
00:01:37 to see her again it's been about a year uh welcome Cheyenne Reynolds your turn to be grilled how are
00:01:44 you hello how are you I'm doing good good nice to see you nice to see you again you're not gonna
00:01:49 give me a hug oh it's good to see you good to see you so I don't probably like we're matching beige
00:01:56 and black yeah we didn't prepare this but we are we're both wearing beige and maybe we should have
00:02:00 like planned it but we look too friendly right now because I want to put you in the hot seat I know
00:02:06 so sit a little further away okay so how have you been it's been about a year yeah I've been okay
00:02:13 I've been better um just trying to learn new things about life so yeah traveling you're in
00:02:18 discovery phase yes oh my god big time what does that mean because I've been traveling a lot too
00:02:23 just came back from Albania I wouldn't say discovery phase more work phase but what so what's uh what
00:02:28 phase of life are you in now yeah no it's definitely like discovery I think I'm trying to lean more into
00:02:33 like purpose so I'm just meeting people along the way learning about people their life their
00:02:38 situations and I guess adapting it to my life okay how has your life changed like how does how
00:02:44 do you yeah do you know what it is it's changed in the sense of I'm a more aware I like to think I
00:02:49 was a little more aware before I wasn't aware person but I just think now it's just learning more
00:02:54 perspectives because I think obviously from my previous show which was grilling which is now
00:02:58 called come correct as come correct come correct yeah similar format but obviously on my own terms
00:03:04 now so I'm independent with that and congrats thank you that's the way to go yeah it's a big
00:03:09 leap because I think a lot of people especially in the creative space like you don't realize
00:03:13 how much and how important ownership is so now obviously having ownership but it's hard because
00:03:18 I feel like having to do everything by yourself and be like a one woman team it's the hardest part 0.99
00:03:23 but now I've got a team so shout out to Andrew and Gigi that are here your team is good they came set
00:03:27 up with all this equipment yes see why don't you come and have more teams see this is how we do it
00:03:31 well we work together but that's good I always thought that you were the star of the show I mean
00:03:35 the fact that uh I guess that's a separate conversation the biggest aspect but you were
00:03:40 definitely the one carrying everything but egos get involved exactly and uh you went really viral
00:03:46 the the Andrew Tate one oh god yeah like 20 million views is it 20 million that that interview and he
00:03:52 just got arrested so yeah what are your thoughts on that do you know what I think like the whole I think
00:03:57 after meeting him in person I think it's really hard for people that aren't in the industry to
00:04:01 understand like content manipulation so I from what I've met of Andrew and my encounter with him
00:04:07 I think he's been very polite very pleasant very charming everybody says that who knows him you
00:04:11 know and I just feel like people that don't understand how this social media stuff works
00:04:15 like it's so easy to take content manipulate it and make it sound way more aggressive or than it
00:04:22 actually is so I just think I'm not one of these people that's like oh my god he's like guilty I'm not
00:04:27 saying he's innocent like I don't you never know the truth of situations but all I know is my
00:04:31 experience with Andrew was very very pleasant I can't actually say anything bad about him
00:04:35 so he should be free yeah yeah I think so I think so but it's been a what about your relationship
00:04:42 oh you know it's nice to be in this side of the conversation because uh you do have a lot of strong
00:04:48 opinions about relationships and so so where are you at to be fair where am I at I think I've
00:04:54 definitely realized doing the show makes relationships very hard like in my personal life so I'm just
00:04:59 learning to navigate that I still think and this is the maddest part when you guys you red pill 1.00
00:05:04 man's fear I'm not red community we don't like that word oh sorry it's a no-go word but when you
00:05:11 guys would come on and we challenge views and opinions my views were always very similar but it
00:05:16 was coming yes it was yes it was like I always said if women I can think of five things we disagree 0.99
00:05:22 on but it's fine but continue yeah no but for me ultimately it was always about unity like
00:05:27 men and women uniting together and that's how it should be what does that mean like a happy home
00:05:33 not having like 10 wives yeah so I think no no no because this is where I'm gonna sound like a big
00:05:41 hypocrite but I understand polyamorous relationships open relationships so even that as a whole is a
00:05:48 separate conversation but I feel like in modern western world they don't understand open relationships 0.93
00:05:54 in that sense or like sister wives I think that's a whole different dynamic which for me like one of 0.76
00:06:00 my best friends she's Muslim she was raised by two mothers and a father so I completely understand that
00:06:05 perspective and there was so much peace in their household but not everybody understands that and I get
00:06:10 it so that's why I say I'm understanding people the world but ultimately what I like to preach is men
00:06:15 being loyal at home at home at home no but honestly going to work not outside I just don't want a man outside 1.00
00:06:22 you don't want your husband to go outside to work not to party okay party aside that's understandable
00:06:28 but there's things that a guy has to do say would you let your husband would you be okay with your
00:06:32 husband traveling around the world and working and no I'd have to come you have to come
00:06:36 everywhere he goes so you haven't changed at all your standards are the same it's not no but I don't understand
00:06:43 why I feel like I would add value to you like I could come travel with you you would you really
00:06:49 want to do that or do you just want to supervise both being honest it'd be to do both because I
00:06:56 feel like if I'm with you there are so many other outlooks and perspectives that I could bring like
00:07:01 don't don't laugh like women can bring so much value to men and relationships and even in business 0.72
00:07:07 not fully every business move that could be what you do but I can give a whole nother outlook like
00:07:12 why would you not well that's why you're you would be a wife and not my business partner those are 1.00
00:07:18 different relationships but why can't you have a wife that is a business partner we're in this we're
00:07:22 in the same team you can in some aspects but okay let me give you the personal example I've been
00:07:26 traveling for a month we've been to about like what seven eight countries if I had a woman there it 0.99
00:07:31 would be like you getting ready just now I don't want to like reveal everything but you know you're
00:07:35 putting lotion on your legs you're you're getting your hair right there's nothing wrong with that
00:07:40 but like we need to go places I have to catch the airport do you want me to have dry legs
00:07:44 at home yes well I don't want you to have dry legs I want you to have lotion legs but exactly we have
00:07:49 to get places you know how much I know don't do that because I know a matter of urgency if you was
00:07:54 like look so if my husband was like look babe we need to be ready we need to be here I'll be
00:07:59 efficient I'll be at the door before you I'll be like driving the car ready okay but if I change plans
00:08:03 last second if I have to go from Albania go on a boat to Greece and then fly to London
00:08:07 are you going to be able to pack your suitcase last second like this and be ready to go no because
00:08:11 I feel like what you men underestimate is the ability of when a woman loves her man the things
00:08:15 that we'll do like we will have everything ready for you like we really will we want to make your
00:08:20 life easier and I think making it easier would be staying at home and not traveling with me but I
00:08:24 want to come why do you want to come because I want to come I don't know see I never understood
00:08:29 that about your perspective why do you want to come but why not why would you not want to share
00:08:33 this moment with me see this what it's not you don't actually want to come it's just like why
00:08:36 not why can't I come yeah but I think it would be fun like we're making money together like we're
00:08:42 really but I think I want maybe I've watched too many movies but I want the whole like Bonnie and Clyde
00:08:47 ride or die build something together okay maybe not Bonnie and Clyde that's a bit crazy yeah
00:08:51 they both died at the end I want like ride or die together give me an example of that relationship
00:08:57 um I can't name one there's it doesn't exist no yeah it is a bit of a fantasy but I want it I'm
00:09:05 gonna make it happen okay so are you still single single what are you looking for right now so I've
00:09:10 been dating and so but yes I've just been dating really and with the guy that was with last he was
00:09:18 really lovely so we're just figuring things out I think doing this industry as a woman it is a lot
00:09:24 harder than just like what people think and I think ultimately going into traditional values and
00:09:30 stuff it is very hard like I understand the love and the ability and the power of women being at home
00:09:36 but I'm not ready to be at home I'm ready to be a wife but I'm also not ready to give up my career
00:09:41 just yet but I think ultimately it's gonna take a very great and a very strong man to be with me
00:09:48 ultimately because it doesn't sound like the guy you're with is that guy no he is no he definitely
00:09:52 is but it's just there's so many factors that come into it it's not just a fairy tale to be like oh
00:09:56 my god let's make it work you know like there's situations as things like it's complicated to make
00:10:03 things work you're waffling no I'm not waffling I'm not it's like not my business doing to share
00:10:08 to the world situation so it's complicated basically yeah okay but I don't but then in a fairy tale of me
00:10:15 it's like it shouldn't be complicated if if you're the factual person it shouldn't be as complicated
00:10:20 how is it in the dating world in London it's crazy it's very different than Miami yeah Miami's all I
00:10:27 mean you met some of my Miami friends uh Myron and Fresh yeah when they came here uh Miami dating life
00:10:32 is a lot of clubbing partying going out it's a very public atmosphere is it the same here it's it isn't
00:10:38 it isn't it depends who it is that you're dating I think for me I am believe it or not because I talk
00:10:43 on the internet for a living but in real life I'm a very reserved person so I do find it hard
00:10:49 navigating in spaces when it comes to dating because I think ultimately I see the other end
00:10:53 of when I've gone on dates with guys and then when I've gone out and then people want to take
00:10:57 pictures with me or something like that I can see the first three pictures is fine but then after a
00:11:03 few it gets a bit much it gets a bit much so then it's like oh it's very conflicting so I'd need a man
00:11:08 that's very understanding with my current career you can't just say no to the pictures if you're out
00:11:12 with your no why would I say no because it's making them insecure no it's not but what it is it's like
00:11:17 for me where I'm at and where I'm career building like people that watch my content I really value
00:11:22 because it's it's changed my life so I feel like I'm never going to disregard someone for like a
00:11:27 moment because they're what's made my content go viral so I'm very grateful for that I get there
00:11:32 is a time there's especially there's a time and place there is right that's what I'm saying but
00:11:35 walking down the street that is totally fine I want to give you an example I was with um a family
00:11:39 member and I hadn't seen them in a while we're walking down the street we're going to dinner and then
00:11:44 someone comes chasing me down let's take a photo let's go photo photo photo I'm like you know what
00:11:47 right now I'm with my aunt I'm right here I'm gonna do and then she loved that and she told my
00:11:51 whole family about that she got really excited like I'm with my aunt like she started bragging about
00:11:55 how I rejected that that would make your your husband feel wanted and that instead of sharing
00:11:59 your attention everywhere everywhere maybe yeah I'll let you know how it goes well I mean in dating
00:12:04 have you ever tried matter daddy what's that no like when it comes to relationships in
00:12:08 london have you have you you never tried it was it you never tried matter daddy no what
00:12:13 and what have you tried to to matter daddy what's that you've never no I'm literally looking at your
00:12:21 eyes like what no no no because you said that you're taking pictures a lot of people you've never tried
00:12:25 some people you some people do do what they try matter daddy what the hell is that 0.75
00:12:29 I need you to break it down is what is not matter daddy not too much how are you oh my god thanks
00:12:39 for asking got it got it got it got it I won okay I'm gonna get into these questions so it's time
00:12:47 to grill you a bit that took way too long you could see I was lying yeah that's what I was like
00:12:51 you could you could tell that I was lying but I got you for someone to jump in he knew you know
00:12:55 okay first question I wish we had the drawings on the front but um what have you seen of me since
00:13:02 we last met what do you mean as in on the internet yeah um a few things to be fair you disappeared for
00:13:08 a bit so I don't know if it's because like my algorithm just suddenly said I fell off no you
00:13:12 didn't fall off but it's like I think my algorithm changed because I was just like I came off the
00:13:17 internet on that content so what's your algorithm now cats and girl stuff I bet your phone is a bunch
00:13:23 of makeup and hair yeah okay typical female all right that makes sense but what have I seen to
00:13:29 be honest with you I've seen just you on the internet I think I saw that you it was like
00:13:34 debunking the whole red pill kind of thing so I'm not sure if I'm saying it right if I was debunking
00:13:39 yeah it was kind of like you were breaking it down then obviously my vain self was like oh my god
00:13:44 this was after my episode that he's changed his news but he did no I feel like I did you're not
00:13:50 gonna admit it but I know you didn't change my perspective on anything I know that I did
00:13:54 influence it you had absolutely zero influence I definitely influenced on my worldview I definitely
00:13:58 influenced it I even got I even got voice notes from other people like I've been watching sneakers
00:14:03 content and I think that you've changed it do you want me to play it do you want me to play it
00:14:06 I want to hear yeah if you have a phone I'm very interested in it because I don't know what the
00:14:10 influence would be you said that you liked um sucking toes and don't do that to me then we argued
00:14:16 about uh thank you or no and then it was about I was saying that a man being at the home and the
00:14:24 importance of your legacy about being a father well you realize I'm not at home right now I've been
00:14:30 traveling the whole world you know this is far from home I remember there was a video where you
00:14:34 were saying about you know your legacy and everything like that and I did influence that my legacy yeah what
00:14:42 did you influence about no let me show you no I have to show you okay because I need the timeline
00:14:46 for it to make sense I don't know what you're talking about right how you doing
00:14:51 I saw your video with academics too that was a that was a fun we could we could talk about it but let
00:14:58 me first hear this one oh wait it's quite the voice notes let me just what would she have influenced 0.97
00:15:02 me on did you see the depending on when you filmed that I honestly think this conversation has had a
00:15:08 massive impact on him because like he's been saying some madness for a long time in it but recently I 0.96
00:15:14 saw him he was on fresh and fit and he proper grilled them for being on this like corny ass like 0.91
00:15:20 well this is may 2023 yeah yeah well I disagree with getting but I've never been pro vasectomy 0.86
00:15:38 there was no point where I ever said that um yeah that was a long time ago but do you remember
00:15:44 anything else that because that was over a year ago I remember that debate that was okay that was
00:15:50 a debate with uh he calls himself the godfather of the red pill and he was advocating for vasectomies
00:15:55 but even when we were we did our um we first met our first date I was always advocating for family
00:16:00 and having children I felt like it wasn't what do you think I said no I'm definitely sure it wasn't
00:16:06 because I was like oh my god but that's your seed that's your legacy I'm sure in my mind that's what
00:16:12 it was I think you just made it I mean that's not female nature it's okay what is your least favorite race 1.00
00:16:17 least favorite race yeah
00:16:20 don't have least favorite okay well what side are you picking when it comes to the UK rides
00:16:26 you don't want to answer that no do you know what it is I don't have a least favorite race because
00:16:33 being a mixed race person I have what are you again you're uh half trinity right no so it's 1.00
00:16:40 English and Jamaican English so being mixed race you see both sides of the perspective and it's
00:16:45 awful when you just see half your family this side and half family that but it's yeah not good
00:16:50 so you're pro-immigration yeah okay absolutely great how have your views changed on what you're
00:16:57 looking for in a guy in a relationship it sounds like they're exactly the same yeah no they are the
00:17:02 same but joy is I'm a lot more calmer to being open to be more submissive to a man however not
00:17:09 fully submissive because I do believe and I think it should be advocated for women to have their
00:17:13 financial independence I think don't laugh I'm not laughing I'm letting you talk um because it's
00:17:19 important I think you just need to hold your own but that's also me speaking from a deep background
00:17:24 where you know when I was younger I was in an abusive relationship I had to leave that so I'm never
00:17:29 saying anything just to preach and lead people blindly on the internet like my experience was
00:17:33 I was with a man he completely controlled me like locked me in his house took everything he locked
00:17:38 you in the house yeah he would lock me in his house so like yeah domestic so I had to literally
00:17:44 find my way out so that was get get working make my own money so I'm not just saying it just to like 0.88
00:17:50 be an idiot on the internet but you realize your perspective is pretty unique most girls you know 0.96
00:17:55 most women they don't want to be doing the career that you're yeah like most girls even now there's 1.00
00:18:00 like there's busy there's a lot of men here stuff like this you're comfortable in situations that a
00:18:03 lot of women would not be comfortable in yeah so you can't apply that standards to most people 1.00
00:18:07 yeah but you know what it is I think ultimately everyone does have a different experience but
00:18:11 ultimately women do need their own financial independence because there could be a time where 1.00
00:18:16 you're there if like you're my man and you're down you might need money to help you get back up to
00:18:21 invest in something and if I've got my own bit of money and if I'm actually with you
00:18:24 and we're in this together that might be the thing that helps you like I feel you shouldn't
00:18:27 underestimate women's abilities so how do you balance the submissive nature and also your 1.00
00:18:33 independent nature I think it's it's you have two conflicting ideologies it's not it's you know what
00:18:39 it is it's you've got to meet the right man that put puts me in a position where I can feel safe
00:18:44 enough to submit because right now I'm on survival I'm making my own money I can't submit like I
00:18:49 can't I don't feel safe like and it's not with my man it's just in my life right now unless you
00:18:54 are actually be able to be like look babe this is this and this is what we need to do to be able
00:18:59 to build this situation build it together I need to feel like we are secure in a relationship because
00:19:04 I won't I can't like I can't you make pretty good money right how much do you need before you could
00:19:10 just do you know what it's for me I'm I'm not your typical female I'm my personal life is very chaotic
00:19:17 I am coming from like a place of survival I have to look after my mom I have to look after my sister
00:19:24 my sister's in and out of hospital my mom's now in and out of hospital so for me like I have too many
00:19:29 people in my life depending on me so it's not I'm not just a girl on the internet posting up for clout
00:19:34 like I'm genuinely trying to change my family generational wealth because unfortunately
00:19:38 there's on my mom's side there's no men in our family to do that so if we go back to traditional
00:19:43 views values and men being men of the house I don't have that so I feel like I am so you're the man of
00:19:49 the house and it's hard okay so you you realize you cannot submit to a man if you're the man yeah
00:19:53 so your views haven't changed at all and you're still no my views have changed like I'm open but
00:19:58 like everything open to what has been in me but it's just finding the right time I just think
00:20:05 timing for me isn't it how much more time do you need well my clock is running out so how yeah take
00:20:11 time no but do you know what it is I I just know what I need to do and I've accepted that if it doesn't
00:20:17 happen if I can't meet someone I don't get married it's just not in this lifetime like and I'm okay with
00:20:22 that because you're okay with being single forever yeah not ideal so before you even be like oh this
00:20:29 is I'm actually I've had to you have to make peace and accept it you would really prefer being single
00:20:35 forever don't do that as I wouldn't prefer but it's okay if I'm not putting pressure on myself I'm not
00:20:41 gonna act erratic act crazy just for the sake of wanting to settle down like if I meet someone I settle
00:20:46 down then I settle down don't do it I see you laughing then it's just too bad because I know
00:20:53 there's a lot of women like that that I don't think that you're gonna think the same thing in 20 years 1.00
00:20:57 no definitely like I think it now like I get home and I'm lonely of course I want someone to share my
00:21:02 life with but I'm not forcing it because just because out of desperation I'm gonna make the wrong
00:21:06 choice and be with the wrong man that's crazy but you were just talking about legacy and how important
00:21:11 it is and what do you want your legacy to be um the way that I love the what the way that I love
00:21:17 and I think it's different for men because your name when you have children especially when you have
00:21:23 sons that's how your legacy carries on so even going back into your traditional values a woman takes a 1.00
00:21:28 man's name everything like that so a female's legacy isn't in that with the family name but my legacy 0.91
00:21:33 would be my first name how I am my character and how I treat people like I've run pure love projects
00:21:38 which is a homeless charity where we go through the homeless and obviously I'm trying to
00:21:42 eventually move on from that and do more just acts of kindness so that's how I'll build my personal
00:21:47 legacy leave a positive footprint on the earth do you think should we move over here is are they
00:21:54 still working over here or no they're just setting up to start um you can go to one of the corners but
00:21:59 whether we have more space yeah but it's a noisy problem it's a bit distracting yeah
00:22:06 I think we should go there yeah yeah you think so yeah I'm easy yeah let me take the lights
00:22:15 thank you yeah you need the lights huh yeah obviously oh wait I don't understand because this
00:22:22 is quite a bit zoom in on that no we will not it's nice over here too okay perfect do you want me
00:22:34 to grab something no I think we're good see that masculine energy let me grab something guys
00:22:44 yeah here's much better here um right here yeah thanks oh there's plugs here as well convenient
00:22:56 why do you want to sit like in the booth yeah right here I'm not looking at the questions
00:23:05 yeah I couldn't focus too many people walking by it was like really bothering me
00:23:16 so good you have good lights everything's good boys you don't need the light on the top
00:23:24 are you sure okay
00:23:26 you sure because it's quite dark I feel dark
00:23:31 oh really okay all right perfect what about children yeah no children is a legacy for people
00:23:41 like I'm not saying it's not but I think it's very different for men and women when it comes to
00:23:47 names and legacies don't you think so you don't care about having a lot of children no of course I
00:23:54 want loads of children but I don't think yeah I want kids I want more kids like I want why are you
00:24:03 doing that I'm just listening I'm just listening yeah no I think yeah traditional families and that is
00:24:09 yeah I listen to you I get a headache listening to you why because I want you to make sense and
00:24:16 there's just so many no but it does like what I'm saying makes sense I think ultimately like I said
00:24:20 before for men and women like it is about unity and it is about togetherness but I think also when
00:24:25 it comes to the internet online I'm not obviously I'm 30 but also with a lot of other women when
00:24:31 it comes to like I thought you were 27 that's my media age so when it comes to pressures and stuff
00:24:37 it it's very hard when it comes to society because we've seen it I've heard it I had so many
00:24:42 conversations women lose their value as they get older and it's it's very hard when you're navigating 1.00
00:24:47 in the space when you're not trying to just be with someone for the sake of being with someone
00:24:50 would you rather have a Christian son or a gay son
00:24:55 either I'm okay what would you prefer a son that actually can be respectful and be very loving to the
00:25:05 world if he was all those things respectful loving masculine these things would you prefer
00:25:10 that he were gay or Christian either good answer no it's not but for me I genuinely 0.95
00:25:17 I accept people for who they are why are you still single um when you say still single
00:25:27 unmarried at least yeah why am I unmarried like I said I realized that I'm not easy to be with
00:25:33 being completely honest but it's because my workspace like I promise you I could easily settle down
00:25:38 tomorrow and it's not been in a big-headed way it's very easy for women to actually settle down 0.88
00:25:43 I don't think it is it really is no western women is the more a woman speaks English the harder it is 1.00
00:25:48 for her to settle down because she's she's been indoctrinated by feminism and so that you have 1.00
00:25:53 that combative thing we're like why can't I travel why can't I do this instead of just
00:25:57 accept him accept exactly no but that's what I mean like if I really wanted to I could accept everything
00:26:03 like if I really really wanted you don't want to yeah not right now like I even said that I'm really
00:26:08 happy with where I'm at right now I don't need to surrender anything but in this present moment
00:26:13 like I said I'm on a mission I've got things that I want to do what's your mission
00:26:17 like I fully just said like my mom's not well right my sister's sick right like I've got a lot of
00:26:25 things that I've got to do like I said I'm the man of the house I'm having to look after everyone so
00:26:30 when it comes to the malpressures I understand it because I feel like I'm in my masculine energy
00:26:35 because of the things that I've got to do I'm in survival for my family right that's the headache
00:26:39 you're too pretty to be the man of the house be just be a woman well I would like to but my 0.96
00:26:46 current situation circumstances I can't fair fair uh any relationships since we last spoke
00:26:53 yeah and why did they end um to be honest with you being completely honest it's just that
00:26:59 observation on my life and what I want and where I'm trying to go and I think I come with a lot of
00:27:05 baggage being completely honest when it comes to relationships and moving forward because I don't
00:27:11 want no man to have to take they can take on me so you have a lot of baggage too yeah like my like I
00:27:17 have got so much stuff to deal with like I'm very difficult because you don't make a great sales pitch
00:27:22 for yourself I'm not trying to sell myself though I'm just working I'm just doing me I'm not trying
00:27:26 to sell myself because if that was the case like I'm very smart if you if you're trying to actually
00:27:30 get married to a man you literally do everything you cook you clean you be a yes woman and then
00:27:35 that's it and you don't talk about your problems you just deal with them and then a man will easily
00:27:40 snap you up so well why did your last relationship end if you had one to be honest with you I wouldn't
00:27:46 say like it just like ended but I think it's just you realize you're on different timelines so
00:27:50 the guy that was interested in was 10 years older than me and then realizing that I'm not in a
00:27:57 position to do certain things or I'm not submissive enough and that's fine so you ended it yeah it was
00:28:04 amicable we both oh no no no that's not how it works yes it is how it works okay so he broke up
00:28:10 with you no he didn't break up with me you both at the same exact time you said no we're done no
00:28:14 because it's getting to a point where we're arguing it's just not a nice space it's just toxic well who
00:28:19 initiated the breakup I did oh okay you dumped him no but I wouldn't say I dumped him because
00:28:26 then you go back it's like those toxic moments where you keep going back for a while and then
00:28:30 you go for them like the final straw was you yeah okay well you seem like you're in a good place
00:28:35 yeah okay and yeah well it's just it's difficult I love it I'm like yeah then we're not going to get
00:28:43 anything personal yeah and then it's like shy this this this so why are you single um why are you
00:28:48 single can I fire it back at you I just yeah you can grow back sure why are you single I am looking
00:28:53 for the right one no you're not I am no you're not what makes you you don't know what do you you
00:28:59 haven't seen you in a year what are you talking about I'm looking for the right one I don't think
00:29:02 you are what do you think I'm looking for you're working yeah I feel like you're on your building
00:29:07 stage that's true that's true but while I'm building I look yeah yeah so what do you do to
00:29:12 look for a wife ask friends mutual friends and that's it okay where do you go to I actually don't 0.98
00:29:19 think like in this I think we're we're in the same career stage but it's funny because you're a girl
00:29:24 but I can relate to that when you're working hard and trying to build on something I think having a
00:29:28 relationship is just going to drag you down unless you're like married and you actually know what you
00:29:32 want but having girlfriend boyfriend thing I think it's a giant waste of time I think if you
00:29:36 really want to get to the next level I've come to realize you just break up just get rid of them
00:29:39 get rid of the dead weight because if you were gonna be with this person you would already be
00:29:42 married don't you say you say trigger words I notice that's what you do what I said wait
00:29:45 yeah like that's not like baggage yeah it's too much it's weighing you down it's not weighing you
00:29:52 down I think once again it's you meet those once in a lifetime people that you don't want to get
00:29:57 rid of but you should if you if you want to succeed it's either one or the other yeah so I hear it
00:30:02 because that's where I'm at yeah but it's frustrating so you same thing you did you cut
00:30:06 off a dead weight it was dragging you down it was holding you drowning you in the ocean but sometimes
00:30:11 though I think I hold myself down because you have to get to a point where you're like what is it you
00:30:15 actually want like what is it you actually want I want to get married I want to have kids and I
00:30:20 want to keep building my career okay so when you say like what where's your five-year plan
00:30:27 this is like a job interview yeah I haven't been asked this question since I worked at Subway
00:30:32 five-year plan I don't know what I'm going to do tomorrow yesterday I was in Albania like 0.56
00:30:36 everything is just it's very chaotic I know what I want to do but five-year plan is a ridiculous
00:30:40 thing because I don't even know what's going to happen tomorrow genuinely so I don't think you are
00:30:43 looking for a wife then I am no because you're you're very busy but you don't need your idea of a
00:30:51 wife is that you need to be together all the time you need to like be like Siamese twins going 1.00
00:30:54 everywhere I disagree but in the beginning stages of getting to know someone you need to spend and
00:31:00 have a lot of time to commit no because for me personally if I'm to if I'm trying to get to know
00:31:04 you and then you're flying off everywhere I'm not going to get to know you all I know is that you're
00:31:09 very busy you don't have time for me how much you really need to know about your wife what
00:31:14 everything you don't need to know everything the kind of love that I want though I want like a really
00:31:16 deep love like I like deep substance depth I want to know everything about you the best love is
00:31:21 actually when you don't know everything where you just put your best foot forward and you always
00:31:26 show your best self I don't want to know everything about anyone that's not gonna that's not gonna
00:31:31 build greater love you should always every time you see your husband or wife you should always put
00:31:35 your best foot put your best shirt on look your best and have your legs moisturized so you want a
00:31:40 fake love I don't want fake love I don't want the best love why do I want like any I don't want to
00:31:44 see you in your worst moments why I prefer not to with anybody with anything in life you know
00:31:51 there's something for your wife when she when she comes you want to you want to say like for me
00:31:55 maybe it's because I'm a huge romantic person like I watch too many movies you know that
00:32:00 you're a romantic person what like I I would love to know like everything about you so then
00:32:06 I know when you've had like a bad day so even little things like your mannerisms the way you are
00:32:10 like if you're having an off day like if I was your woman I really knew like I would love to
00:32:15 like your woman would know how to perk you back up and I think knowing certain things like it could 0.99
00:32:19 be past traumas childhood traumas like so many different things stop it keep going I'm not doing
00:32:25 anything and um and I feel like when you've got a partner that it really is like that really deep
00:32:30 rooted love and connection nothing's going to beat that like no outside person energy can throw that
00:32:37 often and I think if you've got that I think you'll have the ability to go and travel the world
00:32:41 because that trust really is there like if you know how your man behaves when he's drunk or when
00:32:46 he does certain things like you know no like you're like if someone's out like you can know how certain
00:32:51 patterns are even if he's if he's angry what his tendencies are to do or things like that I think
00:32:56 you have to really really know your person not just put your best foot forward I think putting
00:33:00 your best foot forward is good and it's always good to look good for your man show up for your man
00:33:04 like and for your woman but I just think that's fake like I want something real it's not fake you're
00:33:10 just always showing your best self yeah but as you should like I'm not going to give you I don't
00:33:15 want to give you my worst side but at the same time it's you there's moments like you're human it's
00:33:21 human error to mess up it's human error to cry have a bad day have an off day like I could absolutely
00:33:26 try my best but by default sometimes I just can't give you my best and that's inevitable to happen but
00:33:32 ideally that never happens right so there's some guys I know that they'll have a wife in a different
00:33:36 country like guys that have a wife in Albania for example and they live in America and they see their
00:33:41 wife like twice a year and they're married and everything they'll communicate on the phone and
00:33:45 then when they do see each other they like she gets ready she's excited they have the best experience
00:33:49 ever best restaurants all this stuff and then he goes back to work he does this thing she's at home
00:33:53 and she has the best memories like I think the most romantic loves if you're going to go and follow
00:33:57 a romantic Hollywood idea it's when a wife is waiting for her husband to come back from war
00:34:02 and she's opened up the window and she's like looking peering through she had like he's at war
00:34:06 he opens up the little locket he's like oh Lacey or whatever Nancy you're that memory is stronger
00:34:13 having an idea of love is stronger than knowing somebody all the time because romanticism that
00:34:18 happens in your brain it doesn't happen like in the conversation it's the ideas that you build up in
00:34:22 your head so you don't want to see him all the time I would my words how did I not just convince
00:34:29 you with that you were looking at me like that sounded good and then you just you just disagree
00:34:32 to disagree I just know I think I just know the kind of relationship that I want and I think that's
00:34:36 really what's dangerous when it comes to our kind of conflicting views and challenging conversations
00:34:42 it's we don't have to agree we don't have to always disagree and it's just like the ultimate
00:34:47 thing is like you are your own individual person like there are people that will follow your
00:34:51 ideal and that's fine and that's why they follow you but then there's also people that have the
00:34:55 same belief system as me and might want the same things as me and that's why they follow you've
00:34:58 also just said just now that you might be single forever and you've accepted that yeah that's
00:35:01 okay that's not okay yeah how is humanity is not going to continue if we have a lot of women 1.00
00:35:06 like that it's fine it's fine it's definitely fine what's fine the world is overpopulated anyway
00:35:11 right oh this is the this is why I argue with the guy like promoting vasectomies because we need
00:35:15 to have people that want to have kids the world's not overpopulated they're fine
00:35:18 women there's a lot of women that don't listen to women this is exactly why this is exactly why 0.99
00:35:24 I say that um would you move countries oh no here here's a question if you got into a disagreement
00:35:29 with your husband who makes the final decision what about who makes the final decision in an
00:35:35 argument my husband yeah it was well yeah it is him okay would be him what if we're married and I
00:35:42 want to move to Albania then we have to move to Albania you would yeah like if you're building
00:35:47 something with someone it becomes a thing like yeah we're gonna disagree but if you're married
00:35:53 to someone you follow them okay so you would listen I do listen I'm not an idiot it's not about 1.00
00:36:00 being an idiot but you would I think you think I'm a bit like stupid I don't think you're stupid I 1.00
00:36:05 just think that you have just this angry feminist that you're resisting against is that I'm not like 1.00
00:36:10 I'm really not like I'm a very aware person like I'm a very conscious person like I'm smart enough to
00:36:15 know that you have different perspectives and different realities and that's totally okay
00:36:18 you know it's like I'm not trying to fight you like and I think one thing you say you got the
00:36:23 trigger word earlier has got me riled up I think it's more like it's I'm totally fine being where
00:36:30 I'm at I totally understand where your opinions and beliefs come from like I'm not here to completely
00:36:36 fight you about it like I have to make peace with that because if we're just fighting this time 0.98
00:36:40 it's not that I think you're stupid it's like you know when your kids and your brother or sister 0.99
00:36:47 is playing with a toy and then you want that toy because they have it not because you actually want 1.00
00:36:51 to play with it it's because they have something that you don't have that's you that's you no it's
00:36:56 not it's not me that's why I said I'm totally okay not having a relationship so I'm not the kid
00:37:03 that wants the toy all right well invest in cat food invest in some cat food do you think you could
00:37:08 uh can you turn off the phone yeah it's like really loud um you like cats I have cats oh so
00:37:16 you're already prepared yeah how many do you have get more get six the way you're talking yeah uh how
00:37:23 would you improve yourself um to what is with you depends if I'm improving myself for me right now
00:37:30 then stay going to the gym stay being healthy stay in good environments with good people
00:37:37 if I'm trying to be a wife then I have to improve on we are talking about being a wife because that's 0.87
00:37:44 what I'm just guessing just improve yourself oh but I like that you keep thinking about wife when I
00:37:48 ask you these questions yeah I know exactly that means I'm projecting a good idea of relationships um
00:37:52 I think I know what I need to do to be a wife like I need to be at home more there's so many more
00:37:58 sacrifices that I'd have to do but ultimately to improve myself is just keep reading more books
00:38:02 personal development center self meditate more and just that's it to stay more aligned with what my
00:38:08 vision is the gym stuff should still apply to wife of course yeah absolutely I mean you look good since
00:38:14 last time I was like wondering uh how you're gonna look like oh really yeah I don't know yeah I don't
00:38:22 know when you haven't seen someone in a while okay let's do a couple more and then we'll do the
00:38:28 interviews okay what are your non-negotiables in a relationship and why are they important to you
00:38:34 um a non-negotiable is probably that's actually a really hard one because I'm very chilled but my
00:38:42 very what very chilled in a relationship but I'd say I'm trying to go back to like the last situation
00:38:47 I've just been in yeah I think it was the communication with other females it's kind of 0.93
00:38:54 like there has to be boundaries so it's hard to communication with those what do you mean like
00:38:59 for example um it's hard because I can't talk to other women yeah like in a certain way like 0.99
00:39:07 certain manner like okay so you can take pictures with men that are your fans if we're out to dinner
00:39:11 but I can't have I can talk to another girl yeah or what else no you can talk to other females but 1.00
00:39:18 you have to have boundaries like you have to make it known like you have a partner all those things
00:39:23 and I think if you don't then there's a big red flag okay and I don't see anything wrong with that
00:39:29 what about you my non-negotiables in a relationship um can't go to the club can never step in a club
00:39:37 are you agreeing or disagreeing I can't tell to myself with you the clubbing thing I actually
00:39:41 get it I feel like clubbing it's okay in your relationship I think it is a low vibrational
00:39:46 experience very like I actually don't like it I think the club is horrible it's messy do you drink
00:39:50 um I do drink but I'm not a big drinker and it's only because like I'm a lightweight and I don't like
00:39:56 Caribbean's like to drink though yes but I don't like the version I think when you grow up in an
00:40:01 alcoholic one alcoholic background right you don't want to drink it brings out the worst in you
00:40:06 yeah and I've seen how people can change so that's why I'm not a big big drinker
00:40:10 but what you said earlier you like to see people at their worst and everything too so wouldn't you
00:40:15 like to know somebody yeah that's what I mean so when you know so that's what I mean so like when I
00:40:19 to pick up on that so it's like you know if like a certain part like if you're with someone and
00:40:24 if they're if they deal with like a bad day by drinking alcohol then you know what kind of person
00:40:29 they are because it's kind of like for me it's a weak thing it's an escapism like it's just an
00:40:35 escape so you kind of know about that person that's why when I say I want to know everything
00:40:38 about you I need to know do you have a gambling addiction because I couldn't be with someone where
00:40:42 we've got a house together we've got kids together and then you're gambling all our money and we've
00:40:46 lost our house so when I say I need to know you it's because of that yeah just don't marry a gambling 0.98
00:40:51 addict yeah you just don't do that exactly okay what's your love language and how do you ensure
00:40:57 your partner meets your needs uh as in like what I like to do love languages or what I like to perceive
00:41:03 yeah what is your love language I think this is like a liberal like gay word but what's your
00:41:07 because some people say it's touch and it's communicating or whatever I feel like mine's
00:41:10 all of them I like to do all of them I'm a proper like giver I'm a people pleaser nice so I feel
00:41:16 like words of affirmation especially I think it goes a long way I think gifts gifts given I'm like
00:41:22 the best at giving gifts best at giving gifts yes you like to give yeah I am because your way is I
00:41:28 like to be thoughtful so when you think about what someone likes then I like to like make you
00:41:32 happy with that right right um what is it words of affirmation touch like I am a touchy person what
00:41:37 else do you give whatever someone needs really like if I know that you need something if I can do
00:41:42 that for you then I'll do it and sometimes it might even just be time it might be lending a hand
00:41:46 doing something it might be you physically you might not buy certain trainers right because you like
00:41:51 to give physically so yeah or it could be anything not a physical gift it could be anything but I just 0.98
00:41:56 like to give where I can but within reason you can't be taken for an idiot that was good I was 0.98
00:42:02 expecting you to say a lot of but you like to to plead you come to please oh yeah no absolutely like 0.97
00:42:06 for me and as well going back into like my content and where I'm going I'm trying to be more purpose-led
00:42:11 so it's I just want to be of service to other people you want to be of service you like to service
00:42:16 yeah right and give okay what about you um what's my love language I like to receive
00:42:24 oh is it yes so yeah so great um giving give back that's another one okay one more and then um we'll
00:42:33 okay what are your thoughts on modern dating dynamics changing between men and women well my
00:42:39 thoughts I think it's tiring and I feel like me and you have some responsibility to it I think this
00:42:44 it's our fault that we're changing the relationship dynamics I feel like this whole podcast stream
00:42:49 online internet have been so detrimental right to it's ruined dating isn't it it's made me jaded
00:42:56 yeah no I sit down at a date or once in a while like well not even not a date but like I'll I've
00:43:02 sat at dinner with girls uh and the whole time I'm thinking I should just be streaming I should be
00:43:06 streaming the date like I don't want to waste time I don't want to make anyone laugh off camera I
00:43:11 don't want to waste my jokes I don't want to like all of it should be content and then even like
00:43:16 doing the fresh and fit podcast all the time it's like I'm used to the debate talking points and
00:43:20 everything and like oh body count this stuff it's really made me jaded towards just the whole idea
00:43:25 it's not fun anymore it just seems like a chore because I think you have the same thing our experience
00:43:30 our dating is is entertainment so it's like why would I do this for free yeah you know I want to make
00:43:36 money from from it yeah it's a hard one I think for me I'm not I'm not a big big data because I
00:43:43 think it's I feel like men come with ulterior motives so it's like I'm smart enough to know 1.00
00:43:47 if I have a pound every time I say I'm smart enough today yeah um I don't think you're stupid you keep 0.96
00:43:52 thinking that I'm thinking that I don't think though no it really is I know that there's a 0.99
00:43:56 difference between a man a man that's trying to love you and a man that's trying to sleep with you
00:43:59 like love and lust are very different things so unfortunately for me being as open as I am on my
00:44:05 socials the way that I post the way that I am it's kind of like I know that these men aren't
00:44:10 trying to take me serious so that's why I'd rather just not date because they're just trying to smash
00:44:13 yeah you're just trying to smash and I just and I can see right through it because your chat's all
00:44:16 the same so it's going to take a really special man to like really show up and show me that it's
00:44:23 different well one of the the guy that is looking for love you don't think that he's going to feel
00:44:28 qualms for the fact that maybe you've given it up to some people on the first day and then you haven't
00:44:35 well in relationships like say if that guy's looking for love say you waited three days or
00:44:40 whatever like how long are you how long are you gonna abstain how long are you making the guy wait
00:44:44 to be honest with you I think the longer you wait the better like I say to women like and don't get 1.00
00:44:49 wrong if you want to free up sooner that is totally fine but I just think ultimately you see more about
00:44:56 a man the longer you make him wait because you'll see if he gets frustrated see if he gets like
00:45:00 impatient and yeah and as well before you sleep with a man he's willing to do everything for you
00:45:05 so if you want more of a man don't sleep them okay so are you looking for love or just to extract
00:45:10 resources no I don't need to extract resources because that's what you just said no but regardless
00:45:14 like for me I've got a lot of men around me in my life as friends although you don't think men and
00:45:20 women can be friends yes they can I have a lot of men around me that I respect me that will help me
00:45:27 if I need them and I feel yes yeah because any of you that respect me and I feel like for me that
00:45:34 shows that I can be good with men you definitely can be good with men yeah would they have sex with 0.94
00:45:43 you no don't do that we're the guys we're not calling no one I can we're not doing that listen
00:45:54 you know how many shows I've been on and you have to go you didn't learn anything in a year like it's
00:45:59 it's incredible okay um how about you step away first let's uh if you could go one-on-one me yes
00:46:06 ways are going to ask you some questions about how it's going so far um and we'll be right back
00:46:10 to be continued
00:46:14 where do we want me to sit can we have light in
00:46:23 over here yeah
00:46:28 yeah here
00:46:36 okay so hello first thoughts um it's good to see him again he looks well about on him
00:47:05 honestly or thoughts was in the conversation yes um yeah it's it's been nice to see him again
00:47:11 i feel like i definitely believe that i changed his views and stuff when i last see him i don't care
00:47:17 what he says i definitely know i did
00:47:19 so how does it feel being the one to get grilled this time
00:47:23 oh it's different i feel like i'm a bit of like an oversharer and i talk too much
00:47:28 so i don't like it i do not like it and i feel like with nico
00:47:31 i know the kind of answers he'd like i said he definitely says like trigger words to get me going
00:47:37 so i'm trying to not like react as you can see i'm like staying calm and composed trying
00:47:42 is there anything that he said that has surprised you in this conversation
00:47:46 um that i've not changed
00:47:48 thoughts on him not wanting to travel with a wife
00:47:55 yeah that's that's crazy i feel like he's i think maybe both of us we put the conversation too far
00:48:01 into it being like the future when like you're actually happily married with your kids but i think
00:48:07 ultimately when she's your fiancee she should definitely be traveling the world with you 0.97
00:48:11 is there anything he said so far that has surprised you the most
00:48:16 um nothing's surprised me because listen it's nico so
00:48:21 what are your thoughts on his views of love
00:48:25 um he's listen he is not looking for love do you heard him just then he said what was it even
00:48:33 when i'm on a date i think about streaming that is not a man that's ready to commit just so you
00:48:36 know the ladies don't fall for it what did you think of his pickup line earlier 0.99
00:48:41 which one matter daddy oh no listen i was what the hell 0.58
00:48:47 lastly do you have any advice for him going forward
00:48:50 um i think to be honest with you um and the reason why i'm actually happy to meet him again
00:48:55 i feel like he's actually seems like a nice guy i think he's gonna hate me but i think he's a bit lost
00:49:01 i feel like he needs to keep doing what he's doing he's on a good path i wouldn't say lost in a rude way
00:49:07 but i feel like he's very different to a lot of the other mansphere people in the community sorry i
00:49:15 know i'm not saying that but like this whole mansphere stuff i feel like he could lead people on a much
00:49:21 stronger path about unity and not just women being traditional and at home perfect wonderful thank you
00:49:29 i don't know if you're gonna come down okay oh you're gonna get the mic for me
00:49:40 oh you got that one can you turn it off when you walk by it
00:49:44 do you want it off we're done
00:49:45 oh
00:49:47 i'm definitely gonna stream
00:49:52 you should have inspired me to do it
00:49:54 streamer 0.99
00:49:59 all right don't listen i'm gonna talk shit about you 0.99
00:50:06 i'll be nice 0.99
00:50:08 yeah um
00:50:12 first us
00:50:13 i'm gonna headache
00:50:14 she can hear me
00:50:16 i mean yeah she's i like her she's got a nice personality all this stuff
00:50:21 and um
00:50:22 she's pretty you know supposed to lower my gaze but 1.00
00:50:26 oh it's just fucking it's a fucking headache bro 1.00
00:50:29 it's a fucking headache 1.00
00:50:30 and um the guys around her don't want to take her you know it's just 0.99
00:50:33 you guys know don't need it you guys already know
00:50:36 you know
00:50:37 okay
00:50:38 but
00:50:39 good content she's good 0.99
00:50:40 um i keep hanging out there but just fucking hell 1.00
00:50:43 fuck feminism ruins so many good women 1.00
00:50:46 it's too bad 1.00
00:50:47 the more she speaks english the more she's gonna be uh brain rotted feminism 1.00
00:50:51 do you think she's ready to be a wife 0.69
00:50:55 um
00:50:58 no
00:50:59 she wants to keep doing the career thing she she wants to be outside
00:51:02 she wants to keep taking pictures she wants to be fully career
00:51:05 it's gonna be almost impossible for her to get to submit to a guy 1.00
00:51:09 what are your thoughts on her being fine with being single forever
00:51:13 bruv it's just like
00:51:15 it's crazy that you get people like this that are at the forefront
00:51:17 and she even pointed it out of giving relationship advice
00:51:20 and
00:51:21 talking about dating and programming people's ideas about dating because
00:51:26 she's saying i'm okay with being single forever and having cats
00:51:29 and dying alone and the world is overpopulated
00:51:31 what
00:51:32 it's like that's a satanic belief
00:51:35 she's the world is over no it's not
00:51:36 half of canada is empty
00:51:38 there's places all over the world where they need people
00:51:41 there's population decline in japan we need more babies
00:51:43 we need babies she should be having 10 babies right now not be here but instead 1.00
00:51:47 she's so focused on like career
00:51:49 it's brain rot
00:51:50 is there anything she said so far that has surprised you
00:51:53 no everything she said is exactly what i thought she was going to say
00:51:56 that she need to lower her requirements in men 1.00
00:51:59 but they women can't really do that women cannot lower their requirements they 1.00
00:52:11 they have a specific set stone of what they believe they should have
00:52:14 that's how strong the zog propaganda machine is 1.00
00:52:18 what are your thoughts on her views of love 0.95
00:52:21 retarded 1.00
00:52:25 what advice would you give her
00:52:28 what advice would i give her
00:52:35 get pregnant and quit the internet 0.99
00:52:43 would you wipe her 0.99
00:52:45 it depends on what head i'm thinking with
00:52:57 what are your thoughts on her wanting to travel with her man everywhere 1.00
00:53:06 stupid 1.00
00:53:06 stay home 1.00
00:53:07 you don't actually want to do that
00:53:09 you're going to be peeing every five seconds
00:53:10 it's just a waste of time
00:53:11 and then lastly your thoughts on her wanting to be the man of the house 0.99
00:53:16 gay 0.99
00:53:17 like that's what yeah actually no i can't i can't wife of somebody who wants to be a man 0.99
00:53:21 it's gay if i do that 0.98
00:53:22 could you hear me 0.91
00:53:23 okay
00:53:24 that's it
00:53:25 that's it
00:53:26 all right let's let's go back
00:53:27 i hope you said nice things about me
00:53:32 really nice things
00:53:33 all nice
00:53:34 i'm all right thank you
00:53:38 i'm actually very friendly
00:53:41 you are
00:53:42 i never said you weren't
00:53:43 i never said you weren't
00:53:46 well just tell me what did you say
00:53:51 because i'm going to see it anyway
00:53:53 yeah i was just
00:53:53 i actually what i didn't say
00:53:55 and what i should have said is
00:53:56 um
00:53:56 thank you
00:53:58 can i just put it here for now
00:54:00 yeah
00:54:00 that's fine
00:54:01 is that okay
00:54:03 yeah
00:54:04 um
00:54:05 oh god my memory's really bad
00:54:06 no i was just saying like
00:54:08 things haven't changed
00:54:08 i said that you definitely
00:54:10 should be more open to the idea of like
00:54:14 when you're in a relationship with someone
00:54:17 traveling with them
00:54:18 because i feel like
00:54:19 you
00:54:20 if it's your wife 0.55
00:54:21 like you have to get to that point where she's at home
00:54:23 with your kids
00:54:24 so you can travel
00:54:25 travel until she stays home
00:54:27 yeah i feel like you should
00:54:28 i think you're
00:54:28 and as well i actually said that
00:54:30 i actually think
00:54:31 out of
00:54:32 most people that i've come on the show with
00:54:34 and i've challenged
00:54:35 that you've got
00:54:36 a lot more potential to
00:54:38 say so
00:54:39 have a better impact
00:54:40 and a better legacy
00:54:41 on something else
00:54:42 um
00:54:44 compared to
00:54:44 what
00:54:45 i don't know
00:54:46 like
00:54:47 i don't want to talk bad about
00:54:48 other people
00:54:49 but other people that have been on the show
00:54:50 like who
00:54:51 i know all of them
00:54:53 yeah well all of them then
00:54:54 um
00:54:55 i feel the same with fresh as well
00:54:57 i feel like he's got
00:54:57 you both have like
00:54:58 this potential to
00:54:59 don't be fresh
00:55:00 be really like
00:55:01 you both are really nice guys
00:55:03 like they've done like
00:55:03 you are really nice guys
00:55:04 i'm not saying you're not
00:55:05 but i feel like
00:55:06 on the internet
00:55:07 and the way
00:55:07 your content can go
00:55:09 and the manipulation
00:55:10 and
00:55:10 like
00:55:11 it's
00:55:12 quite
00:55:13 it's not negative
00:55:14 because i understand your mission
00:55:15 you're
00:55:16 preaching about traditional values
00:55:17 and traditional stuff
00:55:18 no i'm saying you
00:55:20 right now
00:55:21 but ultimately
00:55:22 when it comes down to
00:55:23 you
00:55:25 i feel like
00:55:26 you could probably have
00:55:27 a really beautiful
00:55:28 healthy
00:55:28 dynamic of a relationship
00:55:30 that
00:55:30 could be so different
00:55:32 and it's not this very like
00:55:33 oh women at home 1.00
00:55:34 like
00:55:34 it's very heavy on like
00:55:35 women at home 1.00
00:55:36 like why don't you just
00:55:37 that's what traditional values are
00:55:38 yeah i know
00:55:38 but you can have them
00:55:39 but in the meantime
00:55:40 live and enjoy
00:55:41 like go
00:55:41 meet a woman
00:55:42 and travel the world with her
00:55:43 like it doesn't always have to be like
00:55:44 women are one way 1.00
00:55:45 i think like
00:55:46 just experience like
00:55:47 a female 0.98
00:55:48 like actually experience
00:55:50 being with a woman
00:55:51 and accepting her
00:55:52 and seeing her as your best friend
00:55:53 and not seeing her
00:55:54 as just a wife
00:55:55 best friend
00:55:56 like see her as your best friend
00:55:57 you want to be
00:55:58 best friends with your husband
00:55:59 yeah
00:56:00 i want that
00:56:03 that's what i want
00:56:03 okay
00:56:04 well
00:56:05 what do you think
00:56:06 well i said that you were delusional
00:56:07 cheyenne
00:56:08 yeah
00:56:08 it's fine
00:56:10 i'm not going to change your mind
00:56:11 on these things
00:56:11 there's no point
00:56:12 but what's the difference
00:56:13 between fresh and myron
00:56:14 because you seem like
00:56:15 you left out myron
00:56:16 yeah do you know what it is
00:56:17 i feel like myron's very like
00:56:18 one way with it
00:56:19 he is hardcore like 0.96
00:56:21 troll with it 0.93
00:56:23 like his levels are 0.97
00:56:24 troll 0.85
00:56:25 he's like he's like a troll 0.99
00:56:27 like
00:56:27 that's the first time i heard that
00:56:29 no joe like
00:56:30 he's very like intense
00:56:31 with his beliefs
00:56:31 and that's fine
00:56:32 because the way i see it
00:56:33 is the reason why i do actually respect them
00:56:35 but i respect anyone
00:56:36 that if you've got a belief
00:56:36 and you're really advocate
00:56:37 and you are so passionate about it
00:56:39 like
00:56:40 i can't
00:56:41 talk about
00:56:42 like i might not agree
00:56:43 but that's fine
00:56:44 you do your thing over there
00:56:44 so that's why i'm not even
00:56:45 i don't need to talk bad about like them
00:56:47 but i think like with fresh
00:56:49 he's very different
00:56:49 um
00:56:51 the way that he is
00:56:53 the way he
00:56:54 is
00:56:55 like he's very very different
00:56:56 and i feel like it's more positive
00:56:58 i feel like
00:56:59 female experiences with 0.92
00:57:01 them two separately
00:57:02 are very different
00:57:03 it's probably the same with you
00:57:04 because i think like
00:57:05 despite on the stream
00:57:06 i know you're thinking about
00:57:07 just constantly streaming
00:57:08 like you're a nice guy
00:57:09 thank you
00:57:11 mine's a nice guy too
00:57:12 no i'm not saying he's not
00:57:13 because listen like
00:57:14 he's respectful
00:57:15 like when we've gone out
00:57:16 like he's paid a bill
00:57:17 like he's like
00:57:18 he's been respectful
00:57:19 but i feel like
00:57:20 you can't just be respectful
00:57:21 to certain women
00:57:22 and not all
00:57:23 and i think that's why
00:57:24 i have a big issue
00:57:24 i feel like
00:57:25 the way
00:57:25 if he's not
00:57:27 if this woman's not 0.99
00:57:28 in his eyes
00:57:29 deemed as attractive
00:57:30 the way he's very like
00:57:31 aggressive with it
00:57:32 it's just not for me
00:57:33 personally
00:57:34 and that's what i mean
00:57:35 i don't want to talk bad
00:57:35 about him because
00:57:36 ultimately they're on
00:57:37 their thing
00:57:38 they're on their mission
00:57:38 but it's just not
00:57:40 for me
00:57:41 and i feel like
00:57:42 that being
00:57:44 an experience
00:57:45 like i've had an experience
00:57:46 that sounds mad
00:57:47 saying it like that
00:57:47 oh my god
00:57:48 what happened
00:57:48 you had an experience
00:57:50 no that sounded crazy
00:57:51 but basically i went
00:57:52 i once went out
00:57:53 with freshman pitt
00:57:54 yeah
00:57:54 and brought a friend
00:57:56 and then just
00:57:57 my room was just
00:57:58 like inappropriate
00:57:58 about like the girl
00:57:59 that i brought out
00:58:00 just because he wasn't
00:58:01 attracted to her
00:58:01 she was big huh 1.00
00:58:02 and like
00:58:04 you brought a whale out
00:58:04 no but that's what i mean
00:58:05 don't say whale
00:58:06 that's not nice
00:58:07 and but in what he calls
00:58:09 like wide framed
00:58:10 and that's why i just feel
00:58:11 like that's not cool
00:58:12 like you can't
00:58:14 you can't be like that
00:58:14 and i think ultimately
00:58:15 like when you preach
00:58:16 and this is why i feel like
00:58:17 with this mansphere
00:58:19 red pill community 0.76
00:58:20 what annoys me the most
00:58:22 is like you like for me
00:58:24 and the way you behave
00:58:25 and the way you are
00:58:26 bitching on the internet 1.00
00:58:27 about women
00:58:27 sorry that is not a
00:58:29 protector or provider
00:58:30 like what are you doing
00:58:31 well not all women
00:58:31 the women 0.97
00:58:32 it's embarrassing
00:58:32 i'm sorry but it is
00:58:33 like you can't not say
00:58:34 thank you
00:58:35 when men are behaving
00:58:37 this way you can't say
00:58:39 like that is that a
00:58:39 respectable man there
00:58:40 is that an honorable
00:58:41 man right there
00:58:42 like it's not
00:58:43 it's literally a man 1.00
00:58:44 talking shit about 1.00
00:58:45 women on the internet 1.00
00:58:46 like that for me
00:58:47 that doesn't give off
00:58:48 protective vibes
00:58:49 that doesn't give off
00:58:50 alpha vibes
00:58:51 like it's embarrassing
00:58:52 like you're attacking
00:58:53 women 1.00
00:58:53 like it's not cool
00:58:54 like for me to
00:58:56 for women to feel
00:58:56 safe with you
00:58:57 what are you doing
00:58:58 why are you arguing
00:58:58 with women on the 0.98
00:58:59 internet
00:58:59 do you not think
00:58:59 it's embarrassing
00:59:00 someone's got to do it
00:59:02 no yeah but i'm saying
00:59:03 but it's like someone
00:59:05 that you could do it
00:59:05 with class
00:59:06 like the way you
00:59:06 handle situations
00:59:07 it doesn't need to be
00:59:09 that way and i feel
00:59:09 like that's my only
00:59:11 problem when it comes
00:59:12 to men on the internet
00:59:13 and the reason why
00:59:14 i'm gonna get hated
00:59:15 here but the reason
00:59:16 why the red pill
00:59:18 movement and everything
00:59:19 has such a strong
00:59:20 rise it's because
00:59:21 of like men that
00:59:22 get rejected daily
00:59:23 like you guys give
00:59:24 them a voice you
00:59:26 give them like a
00:59:28 platform for them
00:59:29 to feel seen and
00:59:30 valid like validated
00:59:31 but at the same time
00:59:32 it's like they will
00:59:33 come online and
00:59:35 attack women like me 0.99
00:59:36 but in the real world
00:59:37 like i'm a very
00:59:37 friendly person so
00:59:38 you come with your
00:59:39 assumptions just
00:59:40 because you might
00:59:41 think i might reject
00:59:41 you but that's not
00:59:43 who i am like i'm so
00:59:44 for that i'll say
00:59:44 hello to everybody
00:59:45 the red pill stuff
00:59:46 is dying yeah
00:59:47 i gotta admit like
00:59:48 that um women 1.00
00:59:49 arguing stuff it is
00:59:50 like on the i think
00:59:51 people are getting
00:59:52 tired of it i'm tired
00:59:53 of it i've been
00:59:53 tired of it i'm tired
00:59:54 of it too to be to
00:59:55 be honest i i find it
00:59:56 pretty useless to argue
00:59:57 with women should we 0.97
00:59:58 just be friends now
00:59:59 see and when i say
01:00:03 that people are gonna
01:00:04 say i'm simping but
01:00:04 it's just like it's
01:00:05 just i find it useless 0.54
01:00:06 to argue with women 1.00
01:00:07 because i'm not gonna
01:00:07 like when you say
01:00:08 something really 0.97
01:00:08 silly like uh 0.92
01:00:09 something really 1.00
01:00:10 smart really silly 1.00
01:00:11 like you want to be 1.00
01:00:12 best friends with your
01:00:12 husband it's like
01:00:13 all right sure no but
01:00:15 this is why you
01:00:15 want to believe that
01:00:16 no this is what i'm
01:00:16 saying but this is
01:00:17 why you let it down
01:00:18 because i feel like
01:00:18 what do you mean
01:00:19 let it down
01:00:19 let everything down
01:00:21 i feel like you if
01:00:23 you just meet the
01:00:24 right person where you
01:00:25 actually want to build
01:00:26 with them meet the
01:00:26 right woman you're not 1.00
01:00:28 going to be advocate in
01:00:29 this because it's like
01:00:29 i'm not being funny
01:00:30 like respectfully all
01:00:32 you guys are going to
01:00:33 preach and what you're
01:00:34 going to just have
01:00:34 girls that are 0.79
01:00:35 impressed by money
01:00:36 but if you meet
01:00:37 no no no you can
01:00:38 have a wife that's
01:00:39 not your best friend
01:00:40 that's also not
01:00:40 impressed by money
01:00:41 you don't want to
01:00:42 build with your best
01:00:43 friend your best
01:00:43 why not because
01:00:46 that's not ideal
01:00:47 you have different
01:00:48 you have a specific
01:00:49 ideal for me
01:00:50 okay well i'm
01:00:51 speaking for men
01:00:52 here like you have
01:00:52 specific roles in a
01:00:53 relationship and a
01:00:55 best friend is not
01:00:55 going to go provide
01:00:56 why would i want to
01:00:56 come home and have 1.00
01:00:57 sex with my best 1.00
01:00:58 friend because it's 1.00
01:00:59 your wife but you 0.94
01:01:01 see how you just
01:01:02 changed the term
01:01:02 no but it's your
01:01:03 best but i want that
01:01:04 like it's it's hard
01:01:05 to say i had a long
01:01:06 day and i need a
01:01:06 massage it's been a
01:01:07 stressful day do i
01:01:08 want to like cut do i
01:01:09 want to snuggle with
01:01:10 my best friend yeah
01:01:11 i want my best
01:01:13 friend to cuddle me
01:01:13 yeah you i can see
01:01:16 you're hearing how 0.94
01:01:17 gay that is like in 1.00
01:01:18 your eyes i can see 0.99
01:01:19 that your best friend
01:01:20 is a man if your
01:01:21 best friend was your
01:01:22 i'm not even i'm not
01:01:22 even saying that man
01:01:23 i'm just saying the
01:01:24 term best friend you're
01:01:25 like i'd love that
01:01:26 i would love that
01:01:28 all right um so i
01:01:29 just find it i find it
01:01:30 useless to argue so if
01:01:31 you want to believe that
01:01:32 if you want to believe
01:01:32 that no it's also
01:01:33 meaning it's useless to 0.96
01:01:34 argue because women 1.00
01:01:35 are never going to
01:01:36 change never
01:01:37 men change men do 0.50
01:01:39 improve women change 0.99
01:01:40 no they don't yes
01:01:41 they do who's changed
01:01:42 you know what uh do
01:01:44 you know britney renner
01:01:44 she became a muslim
01:01:46 she's uh she's wearing
01:01:47 hijab now and it seems
01:01:49 like she's changed but
01:01:49 who knows if it's just
01:01:50 for the internet but
01:01:51 like as muslims are 1.00
01:01:52 supposed to believe that
01:01:52 she has the best 0.98
01:01:53 intentions yeah i think
01:01:55 that's what i mean but
01:01:55 people can change would
01:01:57 you become muslim yeah
01:01:58 well i wouldn't say no
01:01:59 because a lot of my
01:02:00 good friends are actually
01:02:00 muslim yeah you're in
01:02:01 the uk london is
01:02:02 stand but for me and
01:02:04 being completely honest i
01:02:05 know that the way that i
01:02:06 dress my talk show like
01:02:08 everything that i do is
01:02:08 just inappropriate to
01:02:09 like the religion so i
01:02:10 feel like there's baby
01:02:11 steps if i really am
01:02:12 going to commit to
01:02:13 something i would like
01:02:15 to give it a hundred
01:02:15 percent i'm just like my
01:02:17 relationship with god and
01:02:18 everything that i'm doing
01:02:18 i'm on a journey it's like
01:02:19 i said i'm trying to in a
01:02:21 discovery phase where i'm
01:02:22 traveling more meeting more
01:02:24 people yeah but you can
01:02:26 still you don't need to be
01:02:26 perfect like there's no
01:02:27 expectation yeah anybody's
01:02:29 going to be you know
01:02:30 immediately an imam or a
01:02:31 sheikh yeah it takes 0.64
01:02:32 time what about you what's
01:02:33 what's your religious i'm
01:02:34 muslim why are you yeah
01:02:35 have you always been 0.65
01:02:37 muslim no i i reverted like
01:02:39 right after right before i
01:02:41 met you last year oh
01:02:41 really yeah so it's been a
01:02:43 bit over a year now and i
01:02:44 think we first met it was
01:02:45 like two months something
01:02:45 like that oh interesting
01:02:47 when did we meet how's that
01:02:48 journey for you it's good
01:02:49 is it i hate the word
01:02:50 journey it's very but it's
01:02:52 like your best friend vibes
01:02:53 it is journey you know it's
01:02:56 good you know but it's good
01:02:57 it's a good it's been a i'm
01:02:59 learning a lot yeah there's
01:03:00 there's a lot to and to
01:03:01 assume that i'm perfect is you
01:03:03 know it's impossible yeah
01:03:04 nobody there's no
01:03:05 expectation to be perfect i
01:03:07 think people think that like
01:03:08 as soon as you become muslim or
01:03:09 become christian whatever that
01:03:10 you need to be a perfect
01:03:12 person especially because you're
01:03:13 on the internet people are
01:03:14 always criticizing but yeah i'm
01:03:16 not perfect i'm so like
01:03:18 obviously being muslim and
01:03:19 stuff you are probably open to
01:03:21 multiple wives that's not the 1.00
01:03:23 main part of it no but i know
01:03:25 the reason why is because i have
01:03:25 a question yeah how many wives i 1.00
01:03:28 want thank you so much how many
01:03:29 wives do you want i knew that 0.94
01:03:30 was coming and do you really
01:03:32 think that you are capable of
01:03:35 taking care of that many women
01:03:37 happy well because i feel like a
01:03:38 lot of men struggle just to keep
01:03:39 one woman happy they do i don't 0.72
01:03:42 have that problem you sure no i'm
01:03:44 very sure you're supposed to treat
01:03:47 them equally because they're all
01:03:48 supposed to be taken care of like
01:03:49 financially and also you're
01:03:50 supposed to love them the same
01:03:51 that's the expectation so i mean you
01:03:55 start with one wife people think
01:03:56 that because i'm less than like oh
01:03:57 you must want four wives like i 1.00
01:03:59 mean yeah but you start with one
01:04:01 and then you get two and then you
01:04:02 get three and i think probably two
01:04:04 is probably the most realistic
01:04:05 four is ideal but really four yeah
01:04:08 yeah of course you gotta make a lot
01:04:10 of money i i do i do very well
01:04:13 okay it's something not that
01:04:14 expensive how much you need to pay
01:04:15 for a wife yeah but i feel like
01:04:17 just it's not just like money it's
01:04:18 like maintenance of everything like
01:04:22 running a home date night i can do
01:04:24 it yeah yeah i can do it easily
01:04:26 it'll be interesting to watch that
01:04:27 unravel yeah easily so would you do
01:04:30 could you be a sister wife do you 1.00
01:04:32 know what i'm like this cut comes up
01:04:34 quite a lot i think it takes the right
01:04:38 man being completely honest because i
01:04:40 feel like could you be a sister wife
01:04:42 for me for you yeah i'd have to be
01:04:46 interested first right well you are
01:04:48 um i'd say do you know what it is i
01:04:52 think to be a sister wife it depends 1.00
01:04:53 on the man everything i think like
01:04:56 what what's the criteria you would need
01:04:57 to bring me peace you would need to
01:04:59 bring me stability yeah you would need
01:05:01 to make me feel comfortable and i feel
01:05:02 like you don't understand the concept of
01:05:06 like my emotional needs i'm one of the
01:05:07 best friends so you could not keep me
01:05:09 happy that's why you're best friends
01:05:11 with the sister wife good save that you
01:05:13 know you bring another one on the team
01:05:15 and now you guys can go cry to each 0.63
01:05:17 other exactly and then i see you're
01:05:20 like hey welcome home tidying up
01:05:21 together perfect no but i feel like it
01:05:23 is a nice idea of having a sister wife 0.89
01:05:27 because when you like actually really
01:05:29 understand like unity of like a family
01:05:32 the unit like kids so she could do the 0.94
01:05:36 housework i can look after the kids like
01:05:38 it could be in an ideal so beautiful but
01:05:40 i think being so westernized it makes
01:05:43 it complicated i think also with shows
01:05:45 like ours that we've done it makes it
01:05:47 also difficult because we promote about
01:05:50 you know a man must do this woman must 1.00
01:05:51 do this but ultimately until you start
01:05:53 seeing in the community really healthy
01:05:55 like sister wives polyamorous open 1.00
01:05:58 relationships it's just very hard because
01:06:02 people also bring their opinions so
01:06:04 forget them but when you get married
01:06:06 you just got to leave the internet i
01:06:07 don't want to publicize any of my
01:06:09 relationships on camera i've learned
01:06:11 learn from that you can't do that at all
01:06:14 do you think societal expectations
01:06:19 shape how people view relationships and
01:06:21 gender roles yeah like we influence a lot
01:06:26 i think people with platforms like
01:06:28 someone that just likes you you could say
01:06:31 something and then because they like you
01:06:33 that would now follow that belief right
01:06:34 like you just said earlier the world should
01:06:35 be depopulated and now there's going to
01:06:37 be girls running around aborting their babies 1.00
01:06:39 because of what you said no i didn't say
01:06:42 that you kind of did say that see how
01:06:44 you twist see this content manipulation
01:06:46 wasn't very good at it wasn't
01:06:47 you think babies are dead weight but
01:06:50 it's fine no i did not say that no i 0.96
01:06:53 did not say that so you're such a
01:06:54 manipulator you you are comfortable with
01:06:57 not having kids this stuff so like other
01:06:58 girls are going to follow that no i 1.00
01:07:00 didn't even say that i didn't say that
01:07:02 i'm 100% sure you said that i'm going to
01:07:03 watch this back i didn't say that what
01:07:05 did you say not that okay yeah but then
01:07:08 how do societal expectations shape how
01:07:10 people view relationships because
01:07:11 everyone's got an opinion and i think
01:07:13 people need to remember like these are
01:07:14 just opinions on the internet like it's
01:07:16 not real life like just go home love
01:07:18 your girlfriend go home and love your
01:07:19 boyfriend like it's not that deep
01:07:21 because i've seen people that for
01:07:23 example with the andrew tate episode
01:07:24 how many females rang me to say i've 1.00
01:07:28 just had no argument with your
01:07:29 boyfriend because of your show like and
01:07:31 men will come up to me my missus broke
01:07:32 up like so people broke up because
01:07:35 yeah like what after when that whole
01:07:36 thing happened like it was crazy and
01:07:38 that's why i've just people need to get
01:07:40 off the internet and just focus on your
01:07:42 relationship and that's why i feel like
01:07:43 you need to stop preaching on the
01:07:44 internet get into a really happy
01:07:45 relationship and i feel like
01:07:47 what do i appreciate it's incorrect i
01:07:48 feel like you're going to find a really
01:07:50 beautiful woman and you're going to
01:07:51 have a really beautiful relationship
01:07:52 and you're going to find out this new
01:07:54 discovery that this view that you
01:07:57 have it can work you can have it and
01:08:00 you can adapt it but i feel like it's
01:08:01 going to change
01:08:02 that's true i've come to realize like
01:08:04 streaming so much it's not conducive to
01:08:06 having a good relationship at all like
01:08:08 you actually have to sacrifice that
01:08:09 yeah you know as public people know
01:08:11 everything about my life and everything
01:08:12 i do there's just there's absolutely no
01:08:14 way it's possible um and even when i
01:08:16 have spoken to girls i was recently in
01:08:19 bosnia and i was speaking to this girl
01:08:21 and she's talking and she's like talking
01:08:22 about her life and i like genuinely don't
01:08:24 care i could not care less about what
01:08:28 she's talking about she's like yeah
01:08:29 school you know i'm like looking at my
01:08:30 phone looking at the stats like
01:08:32 emailing people and she's like why are
01:08:34 you so distracted i'm like no i'm
01:08:35 paying attention i was paying attention
01:08:36 but i knew what she was going to say
01:08:37 before she said it yeah and it's just
01:08:38 hard to care about uh it makes you
01:08:41 really jaded you know it's hard to be
01:08:43 interested in people exactly it's really 0.75
01:08:44 fucked it up
01:08:45 what do you mean ulterior motives like 0.95
01:08:48 looking for clout
01:08:48 yeah you could tell when people like
01:08:50 just they yeah you just know why
01:08:53 they're trying to get to know you
01:08:54 yeah well when i'm done with this
01:08:58 then that'll happen you that is a
01:08:59 good point i can't lie how do you
01:09:01 envision your ideal relationship
01:09:03 dynamic in turn we asked that
01:09:04 um how important is religion to you
01:09:07 your family and your future children
01:09:08 do you know what it's the last
01:09:10 question because we the restaurant's
01:09:11 opening yes yeah um for me i'm
01:09:13 definitely leaning more into faith
01:09:15 with everything but i'm just trying to
01:09:16 discover like where i actually place
01:09:19 myself if that makes sense so it's
01:09:21 just kind of like learning embracing
01:09:23 other cultures and just seeing kind of
01:09:25 what actually does fit into me so i
01:09:27 don't want to see like oh my god this
01:09:28 needs to be this way because i've got
01:09:30 friends that are christian i've got
01:09:31 friends that are muslim you know i've
01:09:32 got friends that are sikh so but no 1.00
01:09:34 jewish friends and yeah i do have a
01:09:37 jewish friend actually oh and and that's
01:09:39 the thing even with things like that
01:09:41 learning how to navigate in spaces and
01:09:43 in conversations because it's kind of
01:09:45 like it's crazy like even just the way
01:09:48 the world is moving how do you keep up
01:09:51 with things but ultimately going back to
01:09:53 a question with me with where religion
01:09:56 is in my family i think if you do have
01:09:58 a religious household and you lean with
01:10:00 god first and your faith is there i think
01:10:03 you're gonna have a very strong
01:10:04 relationship you come from a christian
01:10:06 family my mom was christian yes and
01:10:09 you're uh what about your dad um no
01:10:12 rastafari rasta that's a religion what
01:10:16 do they do is it just like smoking weed
01:10:17 and what is it i'm asking i thought no
01:10:21 do you know what to be honest with you
01:10:22 it's like a demonic like voodoo thing 0.98
01:10:24 what it's not demonic is it voodoo it's 0.87
01:10:27 not voodoo or like peace and love and
01:10:29 weed right if you want to say that okay
01:10:31 rastafari wow okay yeah in your discovery
01:10:35 phase have you come closer to god at all
01:10:38 like because you yeah no it has like i'm
01:10:40 just leaning into learning more things
01:10:42 like my friends gifted me the quran
01:10:44 quran yeah yeah um and then but then 0.99
01:10:47 i have a friend taking me to church so
01:10:49 i'm not trying to overwhelm myself but
01:10:50 i'm just trying to be in communities
01:10:52 and embrace them and just see where i
01:10:54 actually feel at peace did you read the
01:10:56 quran yet haven't read it yet because
01:10:57 i'm just going to church at the moment
01:10:59 so my friends give me that so i can put
01:11:01 my time and energy into it read the
01:11:02 quran in church it'll make them really 1.00
01:11:05 no that no yeah everyone has their own
01:11:07 process and everything yeah so that's
01:11:09 my little discovery shout out to that
01:11:11 friend who that's uh you have a good
01:11:12 friend that gave you that yeah i've
01:11:13 got loads of good friends that's i
01:11:15 mean i've got you have a lot of
01:11:16 friends it's a it's kind of a red flag
01:11:18 what do you mean you know a lot of
01:11:20 people yeah how do you know so many
01:11:22 people because of my job okay and i
01:11:25 believe like when you meet people
01:11:26 there's value for everyone like if i
01:11:29 didn't have friends here we would be
01:11:30 here right now that's true so i just
01:11:32 feel like yeah i'm thinking like how do
01:11:33 you why do they like you so much
01:11:35 because i'm a nice person that's me off
01:11:37 camera believe it or not i'm not a
01:11:39 dickhead i know you're kind of off 0.99
01:11:41 camera we got to talk yeah i'm if i
01:11:43 can help you i think if i can help
01:11:45 people where i can and people will do
01:11:46 that for me so that's why i have a lot
01:11:49 of friends and we're going to do an
01:11:50 interview on saturday yes we look
01:11:52 forward to it yeah yes thank you it's
01:11:54 been it's always a pleasure yes it has
01:11:56 been a pleasure felt weird it did yeah
01:11:59 why i don't you're asking me questions
01:12:00 right it's nice to be on the other side
01:12:03 i don't like it ha yeah yeah exactly
01:12:06 well thank you so much for coming on we
01:12:08 have more things coming um i do want to
01:12:10 speak to you about um something we can
01:12:11 do tomorrow if possible but yeah saturday
01:12:13 we have something it's fine you just
01:12:14 want to spend every day with me it's
01:12:15 fine never mind never mind no don't
01:12:18 not don't like you that much okay we're
01:12:20 gonna be live again in a couple hours
01:12:21 guys with the Avengers thank you so
01:12:23 much to Cheyenne for coming on thank
01:12:24 you appreciate you bye
01:12:25 how was that
01:12:29 what's uh ar-15
01:12:39 that's nice
01:12:47 uh no okay he did it he did it he did
01:13:03 it okay all right um go go i don't have
01:13:09 any money