00:14:10.220They want a man who knows what he values, a man who's good at building something, a man who's multidimensional and integrated, who can be masculine, but is also emotionally aware, intelligent, and fearless when it comes to achieving his goals.
00:14:32.680I just, I would say women want different things depending on the woman, right?
00:14:37.100So I would say a woman wants to feel cherished, appreciated, respected, loved, protected.
00:14:43.760And women don't necessarily see money as one of those core pillars on which a relationship can rest upon.
00:14:57.060Now, when I say that, I don't mean that women are okay being with people that are poor.
00:15:03.200But I know women that, a lot of women, that would be extremely okay if their partner makes 75K a year, can put a roof over their heads and love her and take care of her and provide for her.
00:15:17.760Not every woman out here is looking for a man with a yacht.
00:15:21.280Not every woman out here is looking for a man with a Ferrari or a 12-bedroom house, right?
00:15:25.420So this idea that if you get a 12-bedroom house and a Ferrari and all these things, that you're going to be able to attract that high-quality woman isn't necessarily true.
00:15:34.320Because the most high-quality women are not attracted by material things.
00:15:38.380And that's what a lot of people don't understand, is that the most high-quality women...
00:15:42.860They're attracted to your capabilities to get that.
00:15:44.720The sexual factor isn't even the first factor.
00:15:48.240It's who you are as a man developed, right?
00:15:50.920And the potential that you have of becoming.
00:15:52.900So when they see you, they see you not only for who you are, but for who you can become.
00:15:57.320And that's something that women have the potential of doing.
00:16:00.400That's why they have that nurturing tendency attached to them that is extremely powerful.
00:16:03.960That's why I think having a long-term partner is important.
00:16:07.560And I know it's not for everybody, but think about this.
00:16:12.260It's like, imagine investing or starting a company.
00:16:16.080Do you want to start a company every fucking week?
00:16:17.860Or do you prefer building one company through trial and error and testing and tribulation and building it up?
00:16:22.560I don't want to compare a relationship to a company, but what I mean...
00:16:27.260But what I mean from that is this understanding that within the relational dynamic, you need to be able to understand that having that relationship that builds over a long period of time becomes extremely strong.
00:16:42.680And that a lot of people's poor relationships towards the opposite gender is because they try to have microwave relationships.
00:16:49.000And inside these microwave relationships, you're not really going to understand the other person.
00:16:56.860And what I've come to realize, especially as a person that is a big fan of a long-term relationship building, is that when you are inside a long-term relationship, that other person tests you a lot.
00:17:13.780And it requires you to become a certain type of individual because you can't just block the phone number and call it a day.
00:17:33.860It teaches you understanding how to deal with another person when they're having a bad day.
00:17:39.480It teaches you how to be responsible, how to be respectful, how to be kind, how to be humble, how to be receptive.
00:17:45.780All these things that you could negate if you have a one-night stand or if you have a girl that you could just block her number and tell her not to show up anymore.
00:17:53.300So, on the other side, there's a lot of freedom in being single, right?
00:17:59.020But the sweetest point is the point in which you can find a long-term partner that allows you to pursue your fullest potential, doesn't limit your fullest potential, is kind of like a supplement to your fullest potential, and supplements your growth and encourages your growth and doesn't hold you back.
00:18:19.320And simultaneously is somebody that you enjoy with and in which your needs are satisfied, that you don't have to go search for things outside of it.
00:18:30.580And what I've come to realize, especially with relationships, is that people don't even know themselves yet.
00:18:38.340And I think that in order to have a great relationship with another person, you must first have a great relationship with yourself because a lot of people hold a lot of baggage before entering relationships,
00:18:47.400and a lot of that stuff kind of just spills over.
00:19:35.180Yeah, well, I mean, women are obviously people, not objects.
00:19:39.300But it's one way of looking at things, you know, misogynistic as that might be.
00:19:45.200So the context, can you want to go big screen on it?
00:19:50.000So the context within this comment is when you're going down the aisle, right?
00:19:57.520The father hands the daughter to the husband, which means it goes from one household to the other.
00:20:09.000It's not this idea of literal possession of property.
00:20:13.460And if that was the conveying message behind it, I disagree with it, and I would be totally okay telling him that I disagree with it.
00:20:21.800However, if he's conveying it from the stance of passing on the responsibility, which I don't know the context on, I would have to listen to it.
00:21:18.580Because nobody picks the good clips, bro.
00:21:21.440Pick up the fucking 900 good clips where the guy says something positive.
00:21:24.700But you don't because you're a jealous fucking cunt that the other bald dude beat you in your own fucking lane.
00:21:31.340So you have this other bald dude that just showed up in the middle of nowhere and he takes you for all your worth, gets more views than you've done in 30 years.
00:21:38.960Of course, you're going to be a jelly old man.