SNEAKO - How To Ignore Your Lazy Friends!

00:00:00.000 how to ignore people philosophies of life according to the research by social psychologist

00:00:04.420 dr david mcclelland of harvard the people you habitually associate with determines as much as

00:00:09.520 95 of your success or failure in life the five people you spend the most time with define you

00:00:15.460 that's so true so the more you spend time with the same friends that you've had since middle

00:00:20.040 school smoking weed and playing fortnight the more you're regressing because those people that

00:00:24.580 environment does not know how to change the only way you know how to hang out is to stay there

00:00:29.620 play video games hit a vape smoke weed and watch tv let's go to a party and then you stand up on the

00:00:36.160 wall hold your cup the girl's hot i'm gonna go talk to her and then they don't talk to her you need to 1.00

00:00:42.080 grow you need to grow unless you have like friends who are like-minded but i'm talking to a lot of

00:00:46.980 people recently who are like bro i don't know because i know time is money and like all my

00:00:51.200 friends aren't doing anything with their life it's a fact of life that some people hold us back while

00:00:55.680 others propel us forward which is why in this video we'll be talking about six types of negative

00:01:00.860 people we need to ignore and more importantly how we should ignore them before we begin don't forget

00:01:05.800 to subscribe to our channel downtown success is dedicated towards giving out life-changing ideas

00:01:11.280 that will make your journey towards success short and easy the truth is you can't hang out with

00:01:16.420 negative people and expect to have a positive life more importantly if you do all the right things

00:01:21.060 but if you get around people who hold you to a lower standard then you're more likely to fail 0.95

00:01:25.580 and they'll call you an asshole i think that's been happening with my friends recently they're

00:01:29.320 probably watching the stream um i've had to like tell people like and ignore people and just be like 0.98

00:01:34.480 no like i need my time right now i need to get it i want to be a multi-millionaire and the only way i 0.90

00:01:39.520 can do it and i want to get out of this shit i'm sick of what's happening in the west i'm sick of it 0.95

00:01:43.460 all the tiktok people the brainwashing i'm sick of it i want to get out and to do that i need to 0.99

00:01:48.940 prioritize my time because time is money so i've had to ignore a lot of people and be like no i

00:01:52.620 can't go to your barbecue that's an hour and a half drive i gotta stream no i can't go play

00:01:56.740 basketball with you right now i have to stream no i can't just hang out and play let's go to the

00:02:01.460 party i can't i got shit i gotta go to bed early so i can wake up and edit there's stuff i have to i 0.91

00:02:06.240 have my business i'm working on i'm trying to go get it right now so i need to say no to a lot of 0.99

00:02:10.400 people and they'll naturally think you're an asshole so you need to weigh your options because a lot 0.99

00:02:14.640 of you are going to do the same thing what's more important your friends thinking you're an 0.99

00:02:18.240 asshole for two days or your life pick one so who are these six types of negative people and how do 0.99

00:02:25.680 we ignore them one the hopelessly hostile drama queen we all have friends who are drama queens 0.99

00:02:31.420 i cut off people like that and it's immediately when i cut off the drama queens boom boom exponent my 0.73

00:02:41.560 channel doubled almost a billion views on tiktok in a week and a half man i think i'm at like 810

00:02:47.480 million views on hashtag sneaker on tiktok bro i've been streaming every single day i've made more

00:02:53.080 money in the past three weeks than i made in like the past three months it's insane as soon as i cut

00:02:57.880 out negative energy boom i stopped smoking weed i'm cutting out distractions it is possible i had a 0.60

00:03:02.980 debate with abba yesterday and he said some bullshit that not everybody could get rich okay then you won't

00:03:09.000 get rich if you think that you will never get rich but watch me on this on my journey watch i'm gonna get 0.88

00:03:15.880 it and you're gonna see the growth and i wanted to inspire you i wanted to show you that work ethic

00:03:19.580 is the most important thing you need to get it and to get out of your situation most of what the reason

00:03:26.000 that you aren't rich is excuses well i was gonna start but then i gotta go i'll do it tomorrow

00:03:33.320 do it right now do it right now you should be angry that you don't have it right now

00:03:39.000 so what people do when they they get that anger and they get that jealousy well you just got lucky

00:03:44.700 well because you made a million in crypto you just got lucky you don't take accountability you don't

00:03:51.220 get lucky you need to be smart you need to know the right people you need to be in the right positions

00:03:55.100 you need to know the right insider not there's no luck there's no luck and if you think that you

00:04:00.940 will never get rich so you could choose to be jealous or choose to be inspired i'm choosing to 0.99

00:04:08.480 be inspired i'm gonna let go you're gonna see all the fucking haters just take your meds i miss the 0.99

00:04:14.640 old sneaker that's the reason i haven't grown for a long time is because i've been on youtube for so 0.99

00:04:19.800 long and like people have grown up with me that i have a specific demographic that has then hasn't

00:04:24.640 progressed in their life you see them in the chat i miss the old the go watch the old 0.98

00:04:28.680 cico fucking dummy i'm growing if you miss the old shit rewatch it in your room all day long 1.00

00:04:34.320 while you stay in the same position dummy so many people even close to me i miss your old videos 1.00

00:04:40.080 go watch them then what do you want me to do make the same shit i made when i was 15 0.98

00:04:45.780 i'm a different person maybe it's your fault that you haven't grown at all and that's i've let that 0.98

00:04:51.840 hold me back for so long on this youtube journey these people but you should do you changed 1.00

00:04:58.320 you change fuck you fuck you that's why i'm turning up right now i realized that i could 1.00

00:05:06.360 just let that shit go drop the people who are holding you back and turn the fuck up suck my 1.00

00:05:11.760 dick watch the old shit bitch you are very charismatic colorful and compelling and sweep us up into their 1.00

00:05:18.280 personal melodramas they need you to help solve some urgent problem so you do and then there's another 1.00

00:05:23.720 problem and another until you realize that for these people problems are a way of life they want

00:05:28.980 an audience people a lot of people don't have anything going on so they just make up problems 0.96

00:05:32.940 because they like drama people need a problem in life so there's makeup shit to be mad about 0.71

00:05:37.420 they crave attention using urgent problems to control you by responding to their demands your life 0.98

00:05:42.820 becomes hijacked by their daily dramas they may seem weak and helpless but these people are

00:05:47.820 master manipulators they follow a specific pattern and then as soon as they get over it well do you 1.00

00:05:53.560 want to go to a movie now let's go on a picnic but bitch you were just fucking stressing me out for 1.00

00:05:58.540 six hours about fucking nothing and i had to explain it to you brutally why you made no sense and why 1.00

00:06:03.620 you're stupid and once they finally get it through their emotional drama nonsense head that they're 1.00

00:06:08.520 acting stupid they go want to watch a movie fuck you cut them off waste of time energy suckers keep 1.00

00:06:17.800 that shit to yourself you need to protect your energy don't let people leech off of it because they're sad 1.00

00:06:22.060 fuck them they often use flattery by convincing you that you are the only one they could count on 1.00

00:06:27.680 to solve their problems they ambush you by appealing to your sympathy your ego your desire to be a good 1.00

00:06:33.520 person but if for some reason you can't satisfy their demands or the moment you're not available 1.00

00:06:38.360 they will call you selfish and find you're an asshole you're a narcissist you're selfish 1.00

00:06:42.640 fuck you someone else drama queens violate the primary rule of good relationships which is a balance of 1.00

00:06:49.940 give and take nourished by mutual listening empathy interest and respect drama queens crave admiration and 1.00

00:06:56.400 they don't respect you they use you for fun tension but can't or won't give it back

00:07:01.460 psychiatrists say that drama queen behavior is wired into the brain due to a varying combo of 0.98

00:07:06.640 genetics trauma or other environmental facts no it's not trauma every bitch thinks this now in 1.00

00:07:12.100 the west they all they all do this they got nothing going on in their life they're watching reality tv 0.99

00:07:17.180 nonsense and watching celebrities lives all day so they want the same i'm toxic i'm toxic they want to 0.99

00:07:23.140 have the same shit with their life it's not trauma it's brainwashing protect your energy cut those 0.99

00:07:28.860 people off and focus on yourself there is nothing much we could do to change them but we could change 1.00

00:07:34.880 our behavior and keep ourselves from being drained by a person who asks a lot without contributing by

00:07:40.760 following these steps one set boundaries set boundaries around them and don't let them overstep

00:07:46.880 get the fuck out of my house for example if the person treats you as their personal 911 hotline 0.99

00:07:53.100 no matter the hour lay out a strict schedule of your availability bye bitch two avoid asking a drama 1.00

00:08:00.540 queen how they're feeling drama queens are dramatic by nature and need an audience for this asking someone 0.97

00:08:06.280 you know is a drama queen how they're doing usually leads to trouble this can invite a drama queen to vent 1.00

00:08:11.560 or complain so try to minimize interactions that encourage sharing three don't reward their drama

00:08:18.240 the drama queen is seeking attention and will likely drag anyone who bites into a spiral of drama 1.00

00:08:23.460 instead of responding focus on your own work focus on yourself yes man shout out to philosophies for

00:08:30.680 like i'm subscribing focus on yourself if necessary say something like sorry you're feeling bad but i've 0.97

00:08:37.700 got work to do four bye bitch i got shit to do i'm streaming ho replenish yourself to recharge after an 1.00

00:08:44.400 encounter with a drama queen go for a walk or meditate or put on your headphones and blast see you bitch i'm 1.00

00:08:50.580 flying a new one out get the fuck out of my life your favorite tunes don't dwell on the drama because it 1.00

00:08:55.420 will only keep you in the negative zone yeah five when all else fails distance yourself when 0.97

00:09:01.500 everything fails and you're 1.00

00:09:02.620 bye bitch 1.00

00:09:07.620 deuce 1.00

00:09:09.820 peace

00:09:12.220 still at the end of your rope you might have to cut ties tell them that you need time alone to focus on you

00:09:20.400 right now focus on yourself you'll have to fight off guilt especially if it's a close

00:09:25.400 relationship but ultimately if things are going to change we can only change ourselves

00:09:29.860 the second type of person we need to ignore is the person you have failed to please a hundred times before

00:09:35.480 we've all been in a situation with someone who is intimidating and demanding and we nervously

00:09:40.300 try to keep the peace by going along with anything they wanted trying to keep them happy

00:09:44.440 no matter what we do it's just not enough

00:09:47.240 you may think that pleasing them will make them happy and comfortable and make you likable and easy going

00:09:51.820 you may think you are the nicest person if you never say no but it's an extremely unhealthy

00:09:56.720 pattern of behavior it will make you feel lost confused and pretty unlikable when you go through

00:10:01.300 life as a pleaser you aren't living on your own terms you think you're being nice agreeable and

00:10:06.380 drama free but keeping your true self beneath the surface doesn't do anyone any favors it just

00:10:11.620 results in you being surrounded by rude selfish and unforgiving people who instead of appreciating

00:10:17.580 that you've put their needs first treat you like a doormat you need to ignore the person you have

00:10:22.120 failed to please a hundred times before because they are simply never going to appreciate or even

00:10:26.960 going to notice your efforts but will always find an opportunity to criticize you when you can't

00:10:31.900 fulfill their slightest of demands you need to stop pleasing that person chat how many people in

00:10:37.140 your life do you have like this i feel like everybody can relate to this can deal with them by changing

00:10:42.000 your attitude towards them by one dealing with your feelings ask yourself why do you want to please

00:10:48.800 someone is it because you want them to be happy or is it because deep down inside you're afraid and

00:10:54.060 insecure people might please others because they want to avoid internal bad feelings you got to ignore

00:10:59.920 negative people things such as fear of rejection fear of disappointing others fear of criticisms loneliness

00:11:06.480 and guilt to assess your priorities whenever that person you have been pleasing asks you for anything

00:11:12.840 you automatically jump in and say yes before thinking if you really want to do that thing you may feel

00:11:18.000 obligated to say yes because that response becomes the right thing to do but for all the wrong reasons

00:11:23.160 next time a situation arises consciously stop to think about it before you commit to doing it thinking

00:11:28.560 consciously takes work and practice three speak up for what you want there's nothing wrong with voicing your

00:11:35.600 opinion and it doesn't have to mean you're making a demand simply reminding people that you're an

00:11:40.160 individual with your own preferences is a big step forward if you tend to please people by going along

00:11:45.600 with what other people want instead of voicing your likes or dislikes speak out four learn how to say no

00:11:52.640 if you tend to always say yes to things even when you don't want to or when situations cause you stress

00:11:57.680 start saying no it might take some practice but let people know when you can't do what they want

00:12:02.560 there's no need to make excuses or talk your way out of it a simple no or no thank you will do the

00:12:09.280 third type of a lot of these people who leech off your energy will shame you into doing it so even

00:12:14.720 though you know the right answers to say no they'll be like but you don't even care about me 0.99

00:12:20.800 you're a narcissist you're an asshole they'll belittle you you'll be like oh i i just wanted to go be by 1.00

00:12:25.760 myself i'm an asshole oh shit fuck oh and now you're in a relationship not for fun but you're 1.00

00:12:33.680 hanging out with somebody out of guilt the person you need to ignore is the naysayer who always dumps 1.00

00:12:41.680 on your dreams mahatma gandhi once said first they ignore you then they laugh at you then they fight you

00:12:47.280 and then you win are there any naysayers in your life someone who is perhaps discouraging you from

00:12:52.560 pursuing your goals and dreams someone who thinks that you're joking and says it's impossible when

00:12:57.040 you share your grand plans for your future someone who sabotages you when you try to cultivate a new

00:13:01.920 habit or quit a bad habit someone who is keeping you from achieving your highest potential if yes then

00:13:07.040 you need to ignore them because if you give in and let their negativity convince you of who you are

00:13:11.680 their madness will wither you away you'll morph into what they say you i was caught in this for like

00:13:16.160 two years chat i was caught around like these people for like two years just negative energy

00:13:21.280 that's why you've seen the turn up that's why you've seen the glow up recently i'm like no

00:13:25.120 no no

00:13:30.000 you don't believe me ask musa rather than living honestly as yourself in this way these people will

00:13:35.120 steal your life from you you'll lose track of where their opinion ends and your reality begins 0.97

00:13:39.600 so here are ways you can deal with a naysayer bye bitch one redirect them some naysayers later can't 1.00

00:13:46.560 play fortnite sayers offer unsolicited opinions about your activity all right clip that right 0.97

00:13:50.640 here i want to go watch the open preach video now we get the point oh playback what did they say i 1.00

00:13:54.880 don't give a fuck low is telling me to go to therapy that's some like some woke shit fuck therapy i don't 0.99

00:14:02.080 need it i'm good bro low needs to get on the treadmill and stop telling people to go to therapy 1.00

00:14:07.040 matter of fact you go like talk about my mental health i'm gonna talk about your weight get on the

00:14:10.240 treadmill and stop telling people what they should with their life i you know what i'm just not gonna 1.00

00:14:13.920 listen if you're fat as fuck i don't need to listen what you're what the hell you clearly there's 1.00

00:14:18.800 something in your life that you need to fix so what position are you to tell me that my brain is off 1.00

00:14:23.520 your weight is off feel me dead ass and we're gonna go back on the peer to peer podcast and 0.98

00:14:28.240 go get mad about that but that's a fact you're not in a position to give me life advice if there's 0.98

00:14:33.120 clearly stuff that you need to fix and he likes it because like my philosophy is so different than

00:14:38.960 his philosophy so low is always like you should do that you should do that no maybe i'm just 0.99

00:14:43.520 different than you get off of my dick and let me just okay so i'm tired of you i'm tired of you 1.00

00:14:49.360 saying that you think that you know life better than me get on the treadmill that i want to promote 0.99

00:14:54.640 the wrong things and now people who are like extremely overweight and don't lose weight they're 0.99

00:14:58.640 like getting on this high horse about therapy that shit kind of pisses me off bro that you like you 0.99

00:15:03.680 think that you could judge my mental health and tell me what to do but you clearly need to go to 0.99

00:15:08.320 the gym and stop eating all this food you clearly have a lot to work on i can see it you can't see 0.99

00:15:14.960 my mental health you don't know what the fuck is going on in my head i've been streaming every day 0.99

00:15:21.360 ain't nothing wrong with me you go to therapy go to a treadmill i'm sick of it you don't tell me what 0.98

00:15:26.960 to do i thought it was like a joke back and forth like i've been in a lot of peer to peer podcasts and i

00:15:32.720 thought it was just like that was like the back and forth like i was kind of um playing the role

00:15:37.600 i thought that was like a bit like i was like oh i was down bad and then low was like dressed up in

00:15:42.480 a suit but if he's now telling me to go to therapy like still i don't know but deep down i think that

00:15:47.840 low and uh an agent are red pill but they're just like it's the same thing with abba and preach they

00:15:52.800 choose not to they choose to you know take the middle ground so that they can have a bigger audience

00:15:58.240 and everything but if you really look at what's happening there's a spiritual warfare there's a

00:16:02.880 gender warfare feminism is a lie i'm sticking to truth i'm sticking to truth well when you're 30 0.99

00:16:09.920 you don't want to get pussy well and then lowe's like well i got a good relationship and we eat 1.00

00:16:16.480 together well i'm like fuck that bro let's turn up i want to live life and do cool shit now i'm gonna 1.00

00:16:23.920 sit down all day now i'm about to go film a movie with steezy 0.99

00:16:30.160 and i want to promote like i genuinely want to promote like forward-thinking positivity

00:16:36.400 they chose to be humble yes they chose to domesticate themselves that that's a good way

00:16:41.040 to describe abba and preach and playback they chose the blue pill a little bit even though they know the

00:16:46.640 truth they know the red pill they're choosing blue pill because it's more marketable it's more content

00:16:52.960 it's a bigger audience less demonetization less truth but on the stream chat i promise you keep

00:16:59.440 tuning in every day i'm sticking to the truth and they're going to call it controversial because

00:17:03.680 because in a world full of lies the truth is controversial

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SNEAKO - July 29, 2022

How To Ignore Your Lazy Friends!

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