SNEAKO - November 12, 2022


HOW TO VIEW WOMEN


Episode Stats


Length

19 minutes

Words per minute

189.04222

Word count

3,662

Sentence count

453

Harmful content

Misogyny

42

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Toxicity

82

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Hate speech

27

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about how to stop viewing women as accessories to your life and start viewing them as people. We talk about our creepy male gaze and how it affects our perception of women and how we view them.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 It's 10.03 at night, and you're asking women about my catcalling.
00:00:03.620 Why?
00:00:04.200 It makes me really sad when I don't get catcalled,
00:00:06.420 because then I'm like, do I look ugly?
00:00:08.060 So you'll slide in my crib?
00:00:09.260 Huh?
00:00:09.760 Huh?
00:00:10.140 What?
00:00:10.740 You can pull up to the crib.
00:00:12.740 What?
00:00:13.300 You can pull up late night, like on some sneaky.
00:00:15.980 Sorry?
00:00:16.820 Like we can sneaky link.
00:00:18.160 What is that?
00:00:19.940 That's it.
00:00:20.380 This is your job.
00:00:21.960 What do you do?
00:00:23.000 What's your life?
00:00:23.840 What is this?
00:00:24.700 What's going on?
00:00:25.280 I don't know how I'm supposed to view women. 0.97
00:00:30.440 Like most men, I've heard some negative feedback on my ability to properly coexist with 0.96
00:00:35.260 whiny overdramatic females. 1.00
00:00:36.980 What sticks out to me after filming random women like a PI for three days is all the footage 0.93
00:00:41.120 of them brushing their hair.
00:00:42.640 They spend so much effort on looking good, but their biggest issue with us is our creepy
00:00:46.760 male gaze.
00:00:48.020 She just wants to feel pretty, and you're telling her cheesy pickup lines from Google.
00:00:51.500 But it feels impossible to act normal around someone that's literally carrying gold between
00:00:56.300 their legs.
00:00:57.380 Even when she gets under your skin, what she got still feels worth it.
00:01:01.600 You try to push away those feelings because when she realizes your intention, she loses 0.99
00:01:05.340 interest and kind of thinks you're pathetic. 0.99
00:01:07.800 Your self-worth is dependent on her opinion, and she starts resenting all the creepy, horny, 1.00
00:01:13.120 jealous male anger that comes with it.
00:01:15.360 At some point, it's time to stop thinking like this.
00:01:18.540 That's how the same woman who was pursued for her beauty ends up discarded and cut in 1.00
00:01:22.440 half by some guy.
00:01:24.420 Maybe she can do more than spread her legs. 1.00
00:01:26.640 Maybe if you look closer, you'll see something you never noticed before.
00:01:30.620 Maybe if you don't, all the girls your age will have learned their mistake and avoid some 0.99
00:01:34.420 guy like you forever.
00:01:36.160 But you also want to have the ability to sweep any girl off her feet. 0.99
00:01:40.360 Not in hopes that life is going to open the door on somebody better.
00:01:43.360 It's usually just some guy's damaged ex.
00:01:45.540 But because you're insecure and women's admiration makes up for what you're lacking. 0.72
00:01:49.680 It's selfish, but you're tired of lifting women up on a pedestal only to doze off mid-conversation 0.99
00:01:54.780 on a $90 date because you're talking to a girl who never had to develop a personality. 0.99
00:01:59.420 Viewing women like romantic balls of joy is just as dumb as objectifying them because 0.99
00:02:03.720 your heart will always get broken. 1.00
00:02:06.240 Now look at you. 1.00
00:02:07.380 Broken no bitches. 1.00
00:02:08.500 You're worried that if you keep viewing women as accessories for your life, you'll be that 1.00
00:02:12.400 guy whose wife was found in the back of the trunk.
00:02:14.600 So it's time to go outside and meet real women, platonic and celibate. 1.00
00:02:18.900 I'm going to do all the research I can on how to untoxify myself and figure out the right
00:02:23.460 way to view women. 1.00
00:02:24.480 So for only $150, I hired a pickup artist on Google to coach me on running down on women 1.00
00:02:29.500 in the street.
00:02:31.380 Cassidy.
00:02:32.080 Cassidy.
00:02:32.780 Huber?
00:02:33.520 Yeah, Huber.
00:02:34.280 Pleasure.
00:02:34.640 Just thinking we could walk around, talk, basically mix it up a little bit.
00:02:38.000 We've got 90 minutes.
00:02:39.080 It's an art form.
00:02:40.520 It's not respected anymore.
00:02:41.920 When you talk about pickup artists, it's a negative connotation.
00:02:47.300 People hate them in the media.
00:02:49.340 But you still call yourself a pickup artist?
00:02:51.240 Me, I would say seduction expert.
00:02:53.840 Oh, wait.
00:02:54.580 I think we see something here.
00:02:56.360 Okay.
00:02:58.080 I'm going direct.
00:02:59.400 Excuse me?
00:03:00.040 You know where H&M is?
00:03:01.300 I'm not from here.
00:03:02.280 Mom, if you move down that way, go ahead and do it. 0.90
00:03:04.500 I got confused.
00:03:05.620 Someone's like, this way.
00:03:07.200 That's okay.
00:03:07.580 Okay, you make a left.
00:03:08.260 Okay, thank you.
00:03:10.380 All right, that's an indirect approach.
00:03:12.820 Use it as a warm-up.
00:03:16.360 Excuse me really quickly.
00:03:18.180 One second.
00:03:18.980 You got it?
00:03:21.120 Now, that girl did not stop, but that's okay with me.
00:03:24.120 Like I said, I will show you one more stop, and we will switch mics.
00:03:28.820 This is the moment I started wondering if I got scammed.
00:03:32.380 Okay, it's 7.12.
00:03:35.260 Like three minutes?
00:03:36.220 Yeah, three more minutes.
00:03:37.680 I hope you're learning something from this.
00:03:40.020 It's a lot of walking.
00:03:41.900 A lot of walking.
00:03:43.300 Not getting upset or anything.
00:03:45.320 Just being chill, relaxed.
00:03:47.020 Chill.
00:03:48.660 Relaxed.
00:03:50.160 Cool.
00:03:51.280 7.13.
00:03:53.180 14.
00:03:54.780 Excuse me really quickly.
00:03:56.900 I guess it's 7.14.
00:03:59.140 I mean, slim picking today, but all right, I guess it's your turn.
00:04:03.480 7.14.
00:04:04.520 I didn't really see much.
00:04:06.620 All right, all right. 1.00
00:04:08.800 That's that white girl stuff, just walking around barefoot and shit. 1.00
00:04:11.820 I'm just asking my friend. 0.99
00:04:12.920 I'm trying to get this for my little sister.
00:04:14.900 I'm not sure if it'd be good for her.
00:04:16.900 How old is she? 0.98
00:04:19.920 She's like seven.
00:04:21.140 Is this too old for her? 0.99
00:04:23.480 Get it smaller.
00:04:24.280 Smaller.
00:04:24.740 What size is this?
00:04:25.600 A medium.
00:04:26.420 I guess you guys are like 18 and going to start next year.
00:04:29.000 Actually, my 18th birthday is right now. 0.99
00:04:31.540 Oh, shit. 0.99
00:04:32.440 Yeah. 1.00
00:04:32.980 Oh, that's awesome.
00:04:33.780 Thank you.
00:04:34.280 I would hug you, but we just met.
00:04:35.560 That's awesome, though.
00:04:36.360 Thank you, sir.
00:04:37.840 I gotta admit, for a guy who calls himself a seduction expert, his demeanor made every
00:04:42.220 woman feel comfortable. 0.99
00:04:43.400 That's what's up.
00:04:44.060 We like that.
00:04:44.580 We like that. 1.00
00:04:45.080 Oh, shit. 1.00
00:04:46.020 That's cool. 0.99
00:04:46.820 It was so nice to meet you.
00:04:47.660 It was a pleasure.
00:04:48.480 Take care, guys.
00:04:49.600 Take care.
00:04:49.980 That was worth the money, but I definitely need another lesson.
00:05:00.260 Well, this is really cheap.
00:05:01.780 Like, I'm really rich.
00:05:02.880 Like, I have a lot of money.
00:05:03.860 I can get, like, really cool jewelry, too, right?
00:05:05.840 Right, right.
00:05:06.320 Right, right, right.
00:05:07.000 Just like you, right?
00:05:09.160 Okay, what?
00:05:10.040 Is this an interview?
00:05:10.980 And if anything, it strengthened my idea that women are objects of beauty that I need
00:05:15.620 to worship for approval.
00:05:17.660 My education so far wasn't very feminist.
00:05:20.360 Maybe spitting game is just a crutch for communication.
00:05:23.180 So for only $37, I bought a ticket for a speed dating event exclusively for people in
00:05:27.300 their 30s and 40s.
00:05:35.260 But then I had to wait an hour in a corner with the five other men who outnumbered the
00:05:39.420 women. 0.81
00:05:39.660 Not a big change.
00:05:40.980 Not a little bit.
00:05:42.520 All right.
00:05:43.240 It's nice to meet you.
00:05:45.640 I think my loneliness covered for the age.
00:05:50.180 When I started doubting even coming here, I remembered that this was a learning opportunity
00:05:53.820 from seasoned women.
00:05:55.400 This experience should fix my misogyny and maybe find me a cougar.
00:05:59.920 Hello.
00:06:00.480 Hello.
00:06:01.020 How are you?
00:06:01.800 How are you?
00:06:02.060 How are you?
00:06:02.120 How are you?
00:06:02.180 How are you?
00:06:02.240 How are you?
00:06:02.300 What's your name?
00:06:02.840 My name is Farming.
00:06:04.440 Hubert.
00:06:04.940 Very French.
00:06:05.600 Right, right.
00:06:05.940 You can call me Hubert.
00:06:07.220 Hubert.
00:06:07.940 Hubert.
00:06:08.780 Do you speak French?
00:06:09.800 Oui, je parle Francais.
00:06:10.600 Okay, most of you.
00:06:11.480 You stay broken, right?
00:06:12.640 Yeah.
00:06:12.860 Huh?
00:06:13.200 So I come to Brooklyn many times.
00:06:15.140 Okay.
00:06:15.440 You will catch up there.
00:06:16.400 So you'll slide in my crib?
00:06:17.560 Huh?
00:06:18.080 Huh?
00:06:18.480 What?
00:06:19.020 You can pull up to the crib?
00:06:21.140 What?
00:06:21.580 You can pull up late night like on some sneaky.
00:06:24.280 Sorry?
00:06:24.640 Like we can sneaky link?
00:06:26.500 What is that?
00:06:27.760 How old are you, by the way?
00:06:29.240 How old do I look?
00:06:30.200 I don't know.
00:06:30.940 20?
00:06:31.920 20?
00:06:32.360 No, but this is for 30s and 40s.
00:06:34.480 I know.
00:06:35.260 I know what it is.
00:06:36.640 I'm like 44 or 45.
00:06:38.860 You don't want that?
00:06:39.800 How old are you?
00:06:40.360 Like 26?
00:06:41.180 26?
00:06:41.380 You're supposed to be 30.
00:06:42.600 No.
00:06:43.060 You're looking a little young.
00:06:43.660 Can I see your ID?
00:06:45.000 Do you have anything?
00:06:45.800 I need to write down your name, right?
00:06:46.900 Oh, yeah.
00:06:47.300 Yeah.
00:06:47.420 And I need to rate you like 1 out of 10?
00:06:51.080 No, I think you just need to put up a bra. 1.00
00:06:52.980 Oh, oh.
00:06:53.660 Where do I write?
00:06:54.060 I write your bank account somewhere?
00:06:56.060 Well, you will not know that information.
00:06:58.100 Who is your favorite man so far?
00:07:00.120 Besides me.
00:07:00.960 Like who is the best?
00:07:02.120 Yeah.
00:07:02.760 No, this is going to be way easier than I thought.
00:07:04.700 You give me your number?
00:07:06.040 You give me your number?
00:07:06.840 Yeah, I'll get your number.
00:07:07.720 And when I come to Brooklyn or Times Square, we can go to the sneaky link.
00:07:10.760 What?
00:07:11.200 We can sneaky link in Brooklyn.
00:07:13.160 Brooklyn?
00:07:13.880 Yeah.
00:07:14.300 22?
00:07:15.860 Something like that.
00:07:16.480 Don't worry about my age.
00:07:17.240 It's just not important.
00:07:17.740 I had to miss in Fort and Gates.
00:07:19.480 I'm 27.
00:07:20.580 Oh, you're 27?
00:07:21.360 Yeah.
00:07:21.820 I'm 28, actually.
00:07:23.500 Are you sure?
00:07:24.160 Yeah, 28.
00:07:24.880 I don't date people younger than me.
00:07:26.580 Why not?
00:07:27.540 That seems like a weird prejudice.
00:07:29.900 That's discrimination.
00:07:31.380 No.
00:07:31.940 That's actually, that's ageist.
00:07:33.540 That's ageist.
00:07:34.480 Closer up to 30.
00:07:35.560 What about you?
00:07:36.940 I'm about 45, 46.
00:07:39.300 No, you're not.
00:07:40.120 Yeah.
00:07:40.520 No, like mentally.
00:07:42.480 But like your actual age?
00:07:44.460 No, but like spiritually, like I identify.
00:07:46.300 I identify as, no, I like I converted.
00:07:50.420 Like I'm trans age.
00:07:52.100 Okay.
00:07:52.580 So, yeah, I'm 45.
00:07:54.480 But technically, I'm 16.
00:07:57.860 But like mentally, spiritually, like based on our conversation and connection, like I've
00:08:03.260 been alive for a long time.
00:08:04.220 You could say I'm an old soul.
00:08:05.600 I'm 38.
00:08:06.500 You're 38?
00:08:07.640 I'm 46.
00:08:09.680 I'm really into girls, like 38, 39. 0.97
00:08:12.380 Like that's, that's always been my type.
00:08:14.120 Ever since I was 18, I've always like 38.
00:08:16.580 Yeah.
00:08:16.600 Really?
00:08:17.060 Yeah.
00:08:17.460 Ever since I was a little kid.
00:08:18.780 Really?
00:08:19.120 I was a baby.
00:08:20.060 Yeah.
00:08:21.220 You have a brother and sister also?
00:08:22.220 Yeah, my brother and sister, they love 38-year-olds, yeah.
00:08:26.280 What do they love?
00:08:28.060 38-year-old women.
00:08:30.040 Why?
00:08:31.340 Oh my God, my last date was Filipino.
00:08:34.060 I was dating him for six months.
00:08:36.120 He, I love him.
00:08:37.280 But he was too crazy for me.
00:08:38.940 Look at the phone. 0.60
00:08:39.380 He doesn't like me to wear sexy clothes.
00:08:40.920 I like to wear sexy clothes.
00:08:42.720 Oh.
00:08:43.360 I like to wear sexy.
00:08:44.380 He was protective?
00:08:45.440 Too much.
00:08:46.180 He was older?
00:08:47.400 He was like 32. 1.00
00:08:48.300 See, younger men, if you a bad bitch, I'm not going to like stop you from being a bad 1.00
00:08:53.120 bitch. 1.00
00:08:53.360 Like I'm going to let you be a bad bitch. 1.00
00:08:55.140 It seems like older women want to be viewed just like young girls do, but they have enough 1.00
00:08:59.200 experience to avoid fuckboys. 0.97
00:09:01.480 So where do you see this date going? 0.98
00:09:03.500 Like this is our first date, right?
00:09:05.060 I don't know.
00:09:06.980 That's the real question.
00:09:08.600 You're not supposed to ask that.
00:09:09.740 Oh.
00:09:10.380 But like technically you're, you're my girlfriend now.
00:09:12.520 What?
00:09:13.240 Like we're, we're dating because this is a date.
00:09:15.500 We're so.
00:09:15.800 With a camera.
00:09:16.340 We're dating.
00:09:16.740 So you could write that I'm the, I'm the number one on the, on the list, right?
00:09:21.760 Number one?
00:09:22.380 Just, just, you can like cross out everyone circle me and then solve you as out because
00:09:30.120 we're locked in.
00:09:31.560 We got each other's, it's like that, it's like that.
00:09:34.220 But not official.
00:09:35.240 It's official when you ask me to come on a date.
00:09:37.640 I think it was official when I crossed out everybody else.
00:09:40.740 What would I get if I, if I dated you?
00:09:43.220 Do you have to figure it out?
00:09:45.200 Is it worth it?
00:09:46.020 It is.
00:09:48.060 Is she hitting on me? 0.96
00:09:50.060 Why does she type?
00:09:51.240 I don't got no type. 0.99
00:09:52.540 Bad bitches is the only thing that I like. 1.00
00:09:55.180 I ain't got no wife. 1.00
00:09:58.720 Cups with the ice because we do this every night.
00:10:02.640 Already?
00:10:03.880 Yeah, fumbled that one, huh?
00:10:05.660 So I see we're switching.
00:10:06.440 I hope you don't, you don't cheat on me because like, no, we are in a relationship now.
00:10:10.580 You understand that?
00:10:11.160 Oh, wait.
00:10:11.480 Yeah, this is, this is how the terms work.
00:10:12.820 Did I, did I told you that I, well, I wrote it.
00:10:14.720 So you're my girlfriend.
00:10:16.100 So new girlfriend.
00:10:17.460 Where's the camera? 1.00
00:10:19.000 Shit, shit, shit. 1.00
00:10:20.300 My new wife from India hates Indian men. 1.00
00:10:27.560 I don't know, I love Indian men. 0.99
00:10:29.420 Hate Americans better than Indians. 1.00
00:10:32.720 You're totally funny, huh? 0.98
00:10:33.500 Really good, thank you.
00:10:34.500 And I would say like 8.5 out of 10, 8 point.
00:10:38.300 You could put 10 for me, though.
00:10:39.860 No, but she's definitely locked in.
00:10:43.900 No, smile.
00:10:48.480 No, smile.
00:10:53.220 No, what did you mean?
00:10:54.240 Oh, sorry, sorry.
00:10:55.480 I'll delete the picture.
00:10:56.740 Oh, let's take another, that's my fault.
00:10:58.200 Smile.
00:11:02.060 Smile.
00:11:03.500 What the face are you made?
00:11:04.520 What?
00:11:05.080 I can't show it to my face.
00:11:05.860 That's my smile.
00:11:06.760 That's my natural smile.
00:11:07.960 Oh, really?
00:11:08.700 Yeah.
00:11:09.240 When I look at you, I just.
00:11:11.520 You're not modeling, yeah.
00:11:12.800 Totally funny, huh?
00:11:13.720 No, I'm being serious.
00:11:14.720 You are.
00:11:15.340 No, no, I'm being serious.
00:11:16.640 You look better like a guy like you.
00:11:18.840 A guy like what?
00:11:20.500 A 46-year-old man.
00:11:22.160 Funny.
00:11:23.900 Now I'm not going to let anything stand in the way
00:11:26.240 and block the right way to view women. 1.00
00:11:28.920 Those middle-aged women taught a lesson 1.00
00:11:30.320 to not feed into the ego
00:11:31.640 just because you're sitting across
00:11:33.120 from a smoking hot car.
00:11:34.460 That speed dating event
00:11:35.380 helped me take a small step away
00:11:37.020 from constantly objectifying women.
00:11:39.420 I wasn't spinning in circles
00:11:40.900 thinking about how to impress them.
00:11:42.660 They were all laughing
00:11:43.580 because I was relaxed
00:11:44.900 and had zero expectations.
00:11:46.940 Now it's time to take a look
00:11:47.960 at my own reflection
00:11:48.860 and figure out how girls 0.86
00:11:50.380 my own age want to be viewed.
00:11:52.260 How are we supposed to appreciate your beauty 0.80
00:11:54.240 without creeping you the fuck out? 0.55
00:11:55.960 Does catcalling make you feel good?
00:11:57.980 Sometimes, yeah.
00:11:58.720 If you're cute.
00:11:59.780 You know what? 0.99
00:12:00.140 I appreciate them shooting their shot. 0.99
00:12:02.100 Like, why not? 0.96
00:12:02.800 There's a certain amount
00:12:03.480 where it's like,
00:12:03.980 okay, thank you.
00:12:04.580 I appreciate it.
00:12:05.420 Like, yo, ma, let me talk to you.
00:12:06.900 Like, come here. 1.00
00:12:07.720 Like, what the fuck? 1.00
00:12:08.660 I look like a dog. 1.00
00:12:09.440 Like, oh, yo, come here real quick.
00:12:10.960 What?
00:12:11.300 Like, no.
00:12:11.960 You're beautiful.
00:12:12.460 Thank you.
00:12:12.960 That's it.
00:12:13.500 How do you respectfully say 1.00
00:12:14.560 you have a fat ass? 1.00
00:12:16.520 You've been working out? 1.00
00:12:19.080 Do you do legs?
00:12:20.460 Nice glutes.
00:12:22.100 Nice glutes? 0.62
00:12:22.960 Cheeks on fleek.
00:12:23.700 I don't like all that, personally.
00:12:26.360 Just be like, oh, you're beautiful.
00:12:27.540 Thank you.
00:12:28.040 Call it a day.
00:12:29.660 You disagree?
00:12:30.980 She's making the biggest disagreement face
00:12:32.740 I've ever seen.
00:12:34.760 I love that face.
00:12:36.160 Wait, wait.
00:12:36.620 What do you disagree with?
00:12:37.460 You don't think that catcalling
00:12:38.440 can be, like, a little enjoyable sometimes?
00:12:40.600 It's not.
00:12:42.480 It's disgusting.
00:12:43.840 It's always disgusting? 0.64
00:12:44.960 Of course.
00:12:46.020 It's never made you feel good?
00:12:47.340 No.
00:12:48.200 So what's your opinion
00:12:48.880 on these three women disagreeing?
00:12:52.700 There's a camera in front of them
00:12:53.880 and they're trying to be in the camera.
00:12:55.360 That's it.
00:12:56.260 I think they're being honest.
00:13:00.400 No.
00:13:01.660 Were you guys being honest?
00:13:02.620 It seemed pretty, like,
00:13:03.360 a normal response from you.
00:13:04.380 When it gets to, like, the extreme,
00:13:06.120 that's a problem.
00:13:07.060 That's it.
00:13:07.360 Is this your job?
00:13:08.980 What do you do?
00:13:09.980 What's your life?
00:13:10.880 What is this?
00:13:11.700 What's going on?
00:13:12.540 Is this your life?
00:13:13.400 What's going on?
00:13:13.980 Why are you asking women questions? 1.00
00:13:15.880 It's, um...
00:13:16.580 Excuse me.
00:13:17.640 Ten o'clock at night.
00:13:18.740 Uh, why are you approaching women 1.00
00:13:20.120 and asking about catcalling?
00:13:22.820 So we could talk about it
00:13:24.040 and, you know,
00:13:24.660 get your perspective?
00:13:25.780 Why?
00:13:26.420 To get your perspective.
00:13:27.440 No, no, no.
00:13:28.060 What does that benefit for you?
00:13:29.440 For me?
00:13:29.920 Yeah.
00:13:30.320 It makes an interesting video.
00:13:31.540 Oh, really?
00:13:32.280 Yeah.
00:13:32.560 Okay, so for what?
00:13:34.440 Like TikTok and Pornhub.
00:13:35.700 Ah, you're a TikToker. 1.00
00:13:36.400 Okay.
00:13:37.020 So daughter or...
00:13:38.620 What's it called?
00:13:39.340 What's it called?
00:13:39.780 You know what I think?
00:13:41.040 What do you think? 1.00
00:13:43.740 I think this is mad fucking stupid. 1.00
00:13:46.260 Yeah. 1.00
00:13:47.640 It's 10 o'clock at night
00:13:48.700 and you're asking women
00:13:49.540 about men catcalling?
00:13:51.200 Yeah. 1.00
00:13:51.480 It's fucking stupid as fuck. 1.00
00:13:53.600 And that's my answer to that. 1.00
00:13:55.120 I didn't ask you that question.
00:13:56.480 I know, but I'm answering it.
00:13:59.360 Okay.
00:13:59.720 You're part of it now. 1.00
00:14:01.680 I mean, you think it's stupid, 1.00
00:14:02.760 but you've just contributed to it. 1.00
00:14:04.100 Just because it's stupid. 1.00
00:14:05.840 You can contribute to something that's stupid. 1.00
00:14:08.340 It doesn't matter. 1.00
00:14:09.780 It's very weird that men go up to women
00:14:12.100 at 10 o'clock at night
00:14:13.460 and ask them about men catcalling them. 0.64
00:14:15.980 It's kind of like the same thing, so...
00:14:18.120 Oh, it's weird?
00:14:19.140 It's very weird.
00:14:19.900 Why is it weird?
00:14:20.380 Because you're a man, a stranger, 1.00
00:14:22.620 coming up to a woman.
00:14:24.280 A woman.
00:14:25.320 Nothing you did or you didn't do
00:14:26.860 has not contributed anything to my lifespan.
00:14:29.660 Now I know this conversation isn't going anywhere,
00:14:31.680 but I'm trying to see if I can get her to like me
00:14:33.600 even though she clearly hates the male gender. 0.93
00:14:36.440 Have you ever used your looks to your advantage?
00:14:39.560 Not that I'm aware of. 1.00
00:14:40.840 What the fuck? 0.99
00:14:41.780 I don't think I have any looks to use my advantage, so... 1.00
00:14:45.080 You think you're onto something?
00:14:46.580 You don't think you're pretty?
00:14:47.920 I did not say I don't think I'm pretty.
00:14:49.700 You just said that right now.
00:14:51.740 I think you're kind of pretty.
00:14:53.440 Okay.
00:14:54.160 You see that smile?
00:14:55.420 What's the number one problem that men have
00:14:57.840 when they communicate with women?
00:14:59.740 Everything.
00:15:01.220 Number one? 0.59
00:15:02.540 Ugly. 1.00
00:15:03.560 Most men are ugly. 1.00
00:15:04.720 You said it, not I. 1.00
00:15:06.020 Are most men ugly? 0.99
00:15:12.120 Yes. 0.93
00:15:12.760 Do you want the answer?
00:15:14.040 Thank you.
00:15:14.680 She still hates me,
00:15:15.920 but she did stay eight minutes 1.00
00:15:17.280 talking for my stupid TikTok. 1.00
00:15:19.060 It ain't that serious. 1.00
00:15:20.300 It's really not that serious.
00:15:21.460 I don't know why she went that freaking hard.
00:15:23.220 It makes me really sad when I don't get cackled
00:15:25.280 because then I'm like,
00:15:26.020 do I look ugly?
00:15:27.460 Yeah. 0.98
00:15:27.780 I feel like I deserve to be cackled.
00:15:29.680 It's a summer thing.
00:15:31.400 Yeah.
00:15:31.800 Bring cackling back.
00:15:33.600 Yeah.
00:15:34.380 I mean...
00:15:35.100 In a feminist way. 1.00
00:15:36.680 Maybe not, but...
00:15:37.620 Okay, this is the thing about women. 1.00
00:15:38.780 You're beautiful, baby.
00:15:39.820 On the surface, we'll be like,
00:15:40.900 I don't want to be cackled 0.99
00:15:41.860 because, ew, men are gross, 0.99
00:15:43.120 but deep down, every woman appreciates, 0.99
00:15:45.340 like, okay, someone finds me attractive.
00:15:46.940 Recently, a guy said that my body
00:15:48.680 was offensive to other women. 0.87
00:15:50.300 So it's like the fact that
00:15:51.240 I haven't been cackled that much,
00:15:52.400 it's like, okay, come on now.
00:15:54.720 I want to feel a little bit of love.
00:15:56.820 Yeah.
00:15:57.460 My favorite one is, like,
00:15:58.860 you dropped something.
00:16:00.760 Your smile.
00:16:02.400 Hi.
00:16:04.240 That's just corny.
00:16:05.380 Don't say it if it's going to be corny.
00:16:07.200 I think I'm going to steal that one.
00:16:08.540 I like that one.
00:16:09.860 Nice, nice, nice smile.
00:16:11.240 Thank you.
00:16:11.680 I needed that today.
00:16:13.140 I had a horrible day.
00:16:14.220 Please, tell me more.
00:16:15.080 You got something on your jacket right there.
00:16:16.740 Oh, just your smile.
00:16:17.680 It's shining onto it.
00:16:18.600 That's just what happened.
00:16:20.700 Okay, okay.
00:16:21.580 How do you think that we can improve as a gender
00:16:23.500 when it comes to talking to y'all?
00:16:25.420 I honestly think you need to just, like,
00:16:27.620 up your confidence
00:16:28.440 and just embrace
00:16:29.840 whatever sex appeal you have.
00:16:31.760 Just, like, go for it 1.00
00:16:32.740 because women love that shit. 1.00
00:16:34.180 If you're, like, cute enough. 1.00
00:16:35.680 What if you're not attractive?
00:16:36.800 Then it's creepy, right?
00:16:38.140 If you're not attractive,
00:16:39.240 you could have a charm.
00:16:40.140 If you have confidence and charm and swag,
00:16:42.200 then it's not creepy.
00:16:43.420 If you're a creep, then it's creepy.
00:16:44.820 Okay, what about for the creepy guys?
00:16:46.500 For the creepy guys,
00:16:47.160 like, don't try to pull, like,
00:16:48.360 lines that are, like,
00:16:49.560 cutesy and whatever. 1.00
00:16:50.620 Just be straightforward.
00:16:51.420 Just be like,
00:16:51.900 I think you're cute.
00:16:52.920 Do you want to go out with me?
00:16:54.220 And if a girl says no, that's fine. 0.99
00:16:55.760 Be straightforward.
00:16:56.560 Yeah.
00:16:57.060 I think that's always solid.
00:16:59.320 Have you ever used your looks
00:17:00.340 to get something from a man?
00:17:02.220 Yes.
00:17:02.560 Absolutely.
00:17:02.880 As much as I can.
00:17:04.840 Yeah.
00:17:04.960 As often as possible.
00:17:06.140 What's the most you ever got?
00:17:07.160 Like, drinks is, like,
00:17:07.980 you know, that's light.
00:17:08.820 Money.
00:17:09.380 I got a lot of money.
00:17:11.500 Oh! 0.60
00:17:12.400 Paid me a nice chunk of money
00:17:13.700 and I left
00:17:14.360 and then blocked his number.
00:17:15.400 It was like,
00:17:15.800 he's out, thanks.
00:17:17.100 How much money, can I ask?
00:17:18.660 Like, 600 bucks
00:17:20.020 for the night, yeah.
00:17:21.940 Oh, for the night?
00:17:22.820 Yeah.
00:17:24.360 We stayed in a really nice hotel.
00:17:26.180 I don't care.
00:17:27.380 I was broke.
00:17:28.800 Okay, so you had to give something, you know?
00:17:30.560 It's not like you just got the money.
00:17:32.040 I mean, I guess.
00:17:36.460 I think he considers that a fair transaction.
00:17:39.400 That one just sounds like a mohooker. 1.00
00:17:43.260 Roman!
00:17:44.500 No!
00:17:44.900 It wasn't like that.
00:17:45.720 It was like,
00:17:47.540 I don't know.
00:17:49.000 You asked for something
00:17:50.100 and he was just like,
00:17:51.420 here's some help.
00:17:52.380 Exactly.
00:17:52.760 I think he had a lot of game
00:17:54.620 to convince her that.
00:17:56.060 In only a half hour shooting at
00:17:57.680 10.03 at night,
00:17:58.540 every girl had a completely different answer. 0.96
00:18:01.220 I don't even think they know
00:18:02.480 how they want to be viewed.
00:18:03.900 They want you to be straightforward,
00:18:05.440 but not too straightforward, creep.
00:18:06.920 They want your attention,
00:18:08.040 but only at the perfect moment
00:18:09.400 when they need it.
00:18:10.720 Based on those interviews,
00:18:12.040 they kind of expect you
00:18:13.420 to know how to read their minds.
00:18:15.400 I'm starting to understand
00:18:16.300 why a lot of dudes play it safe
00:18:17.880 and stick to the hub.
00:18:18.780 If you're respectful
00:18:19.660 with your catcalling,
00:18:21.540 if she don't answer,
00:18:22.480 leave it alone.
00:18:23.660 If she does answer,
00:18:24.580 says thank you,
00:18:25.820 leave it at that.
00:18:26.900 Don't be disrespectful.
00:18:28.540 Hey yo,
00:18:28.860 you look really beautiful today.
00:18:30.740 Thank you,
00:18:31.360 but I got a boyfriend.
00:18:32.320 Okay, have a good time.
00:18:33.760 I'm talking like this issue
00:18:34.900 is universal,
00:18:35.820 but after working on this video
00:18:37.140 for two weeks,
00:18:38.080 maybe I'm just horny.
00:18:39.700 I attach so much importance
00:18:40.920 to women's attention 0.87
00:18:41.860 because I grew up
00:18:42.660 a little Asian boy
00:18:43.440 in America with braces.
00:18:45.180 When you can't get something,
00:18:46.380 you start believing
00:18:47.020 you won't be happy
00:18:47.880 until you do.
00:18:48.780 But your value as a man
00:18:50.060 shouldn't depend on a woman. 0.95
00:18:51.840 She simply wants somebody 1.00
00:18:53.100 that doesn't need her.
00:18:54.960 Instead of approaching women 1.00
00:18:56.200 as a projection of your desires,
00:18:58.180 it's better to see them
00:18:59.060 as just other people.
00:19:00.880 Usually people are more interesting
00:19:02.280 than they seem. 0.95
00:19:03.380 If you just want sex, 0.50
00:19:04.920 you'll ironically save
00:19:06.160 a lot of time and money
00:19:07.360 by just paying her the $600
00:19:09.000 and getting blocked.
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