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SNEAKO
- November 12, 2022
HOW TO VIEW WOMEN
Episode Stats
Length
19 minutes
Words per Minute
189.04222
Word Count
3,662
Sentence Count
453
Misogynist Sentences
42
Hate Speech Sentences
27
Summary
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Transcript
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Misogyny classification is done with
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Hate speech classification is done with
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It's 10.03 at night, and you're asking women about my catcalling.
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Why?
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It makes me really sad when I don't get catcalled,
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because then I'm like, do I look ugly?
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So you'll slide in my crib?
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Huh?
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Huh?
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What?
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You can pull up to the crib.
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What?
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You can pull up late night, like on some sneaky.
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Sorry?
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Like we can sneaky link.
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What is that?
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That's it.
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This is your job.
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What do you do?
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What's your life?
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What is this?
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What's going on?
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I don't know how I'm supposed to view women.
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Like most men, I've heard some negative feedback on my ability to properly coexist with
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whiny overdramatic females.
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What sticks out to me after filming random women like a PI for three days is all the footage
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of them brushing their hair.
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They spend so much effort on looking good, but their biggest issue with us is our creepy
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male gaze.
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She just wants to feel pretty, and you're telling her cheesy pickup lines from Google.
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But it feels impossible to act normal around someone that's literally carrying gold between
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their legs.
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Even when she gets under your skin, what she got still feels worth it.
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You try to push away those feelings because when she realizes your intention, she loses
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interest and kind of thinks you're pathetic.
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Your self-worth is dependent on her opinion, and she starts resenting all the creepy, horny,
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jealous male anger that comes with it.
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At some point, it's time to stop thinking like this.
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That's how the same woman who was pursued for her beauty ends up discarded and cut in
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half by some guy.
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Maybe she can do more than spread her legs.
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Maybe if you look closer, you'll see something you never noticed before.
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Maybe if you don't, all the girls your age will have learned their mistake and avoid some
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guy like you forever.
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But you also want to have the ability to sweep any girl off her feet.
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Not in hopes that life is going to open the door on somebody better.
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It's usually just some guy's damaged ex.
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But because you're insecure and women's admiration makes up for what you're lacking.
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It's selfish, but you're tired of lifting women up on a pedestal only to doze off mid-conversation
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on a $90 date because you're talking to a girl who never had to develop a personality.
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Viewing women like romantic balls of joy is just as dumb as objectifying them because
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your heart will always get broken.
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Now look at you.
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Broken no bitches.
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You're worried that if you keep viewing women as accessories for your life, you'll be that
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guy whose wife was found in the back of the trunk.
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So it's time to go outside and meet real women, platonic and celibate.
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I'm going to do all the research I can on how to untoxify myself and figure out the right
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way to view women.
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So for only $150, I hired a pickup artist on Google to coach me on running down on women
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in the street.
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Cassidy.
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Cassidy.
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Huber?
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Yeah, Huber.
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Pleasure.
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Just thinking we could walk around, talk, basically mix it up a little bit.
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We've got 90 minutes.
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It's an art form.
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It's not respected anymore.
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When you talk about pickup artists, it's a negative connotation.
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People hate them in the media.
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But you still call yourself a pickup artist?
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Me, I would say seduction expert.
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Oh, wait.
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I think we see something here.
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Okay.
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I'm going direct.
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Excuse me?
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You know where H&M is?
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I'm not from here.
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Mom, if you move down that way, go ahead and do it.
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I got confused.
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Someone's like, this way.
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That's okay.
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Okay, you make a left.
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Okay, thank you.
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All right, that's an indirect approach.
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Use it as a warm-up.
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Excuse me really quickly.
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One second.
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You got it?
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Now, that girl did not stop, but that's okay with me.
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Like I said, I will show you one more stop, and we will switch mics.
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This is the moment I started wondering if I got scammed.
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Okay, it's 7.12.
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Like three minutes?
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Yeah, three more minutes.
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I hope you're learning something from this.
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It's a lot of walking.
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A lot of walking.
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Not getting upset or anything.
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Just being chill, relaxed.
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Chill.
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Relaxed.
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Cool.
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7.13.
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14.
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Excuse me really quickly.
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I guess it's 7.14.
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I mean, slim picking today, but all right, I guess it's your turn.
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7.14.
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I didn't really see much.
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All right, all right.
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That's that white girl stuff, just walking around barefoot and shit.
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I'm just asking my friend.
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I'm trying to get this for my little sister.
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I'm not sure if it'd be good for her.
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How old is she?
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She's like seven.
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Is this too old for her?
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Get it smaller.
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Smaller.
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What size is this?
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A medium.
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I guess you guys are like 18 and going to start next year.
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Actually, my 18th birthday is right now.
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Oh, shit.
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Yeah.
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Oh, that's awesome.
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Thank you.
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I would hug you, but we just met.
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That's awesome, though.
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Thank you, sir.
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I gotta admit, for a guy who calls himself a seduction expert, his demeanor made every
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woman feel comfortable.
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That's what's up.
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We like that.
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We like that.
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Oh, shit.
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That's cool.
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It was so nice to meet you.
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It was a pleasure.
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Take care, guys.
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Take care.
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That was worth the money, but I definitely need another lesson.
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Well, this is really cheap.
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Like, I'm really rich.
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Like, I have a lot of money.
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I can get, like, really cool jewelry, too, right?
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Right, right.
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Right, right, right.
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Just like you, right?
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Okay, what?
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Is this an interview?
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And if anything, it strengthened my idea that women are objects of beauty that I need
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to worship for approval.
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My education so far wasn't very feminist.
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Maybe spitting game is just a crutch for communication.
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So for only $37, I bought a ticket for a speed dating event exclusively for people in
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their 30s and 40s.
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But then I had to wait an hour in a corner with the five other men who outnumbered the
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women.
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Not a big change.
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Not a little bit.
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All right.
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It's nice to meet you.
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I think my loneliness covered for the age.
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When I started doubting even coming here, I remembered that this was a learning opportunity
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from seasoned women.
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This experience should fix my misogyny and maybe find me a cougar.
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Hello.
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Hello.
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How are you?
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How are you?
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How are you?
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How are you?
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How are you?
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How are you?
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What's your name?
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My name is Farming.
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Hubert.
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Very French.
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Right, right.
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You can call me Hubert.
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Hubert.
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Hubert.
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Do you speak French?
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Oui, je parle Francais.
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Okay, most of you.
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You stay broken, right?
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Yeah.
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Huh?
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So I come to Brooklyn many times.
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Okay.
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You will catch up there.
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So you'll slide in my crib?
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Huh?
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Huh?
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What?
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You can pull up to the crib?
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What?
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You can pull up late night like on some sneaky.
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Sorry?
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Like we can sneaky link?
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What is that?
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How old are you, by the way?
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How old do I look?
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I don't know.
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20?
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20?
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No, but this is for 30s and 40s.
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I know.
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I know what it is.
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I'm like 44 or 45.
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You don't want that?
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How old are you?
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Like 26?
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26?
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You're supposed to be 30.
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No.
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You're looking a little young.
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Can I see your ID?
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Do you have anything?
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I need to write down your name, right?
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Oh, yeah.
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Yeah.
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And I need to rate you like 1 out of 10?
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No, I think you just need to put up a bra.
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Oh, oh.
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Where do I write?
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I write your bank account somewhere?
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Well, you will not know that information.
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Who is your favorite man so far?
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Besides me.
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Like who is the best?
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Yeah.
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No, this is going to be way easier than I thought.
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You give me your number?
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You give me your number?
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Yeah, I'll get your number.
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And when I come to Brooklyn or Times Square, we can go to the sneaky link.
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What?
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We can sneaky link in Brooklyn.
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Brooklyn?
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Yeah.
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22?
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Something like that.
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Don't worry about my age.
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It's just not important.
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I had to miss in Fort and Gates.
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I'm 27.
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Oh, you're 27?
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Yeah.
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I'm 28, actually.
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Are you sure?
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Yeah, 28.
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I don't date people younger than me.
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Why not?
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That seems like a weird prejudice.
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That's discrimination.
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No.
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That's actually, that's ageist.
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That's ageist.
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Closer up to 30.
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What about you?
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I'm about 45, 46.
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No, you're not.
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Yeah.
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No, like mentally.
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But like your actual age?
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No, but like spiritually, like I identify.
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I identify as, no, I like I converted.
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Like I'm trans age.
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Okay.
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So, yeah, I'm 45.
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But technically, I'm 16.
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But like mentally, spiritually, like based on our conversation and connection, like I've
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been alive for a long time.
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You could say I'm an old soul.
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I'm 38.
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You're 38?
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I'm 46.
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I'm really into girls, like 38, 39.
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Like that's, that's always been my type.
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Ever since I was 18, I've always like 38.
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Yeah.
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Really?
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Yeah.
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Ever since I was a little kid.
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Really?
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I was a baby.
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Yeah.
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You have a brother and sister also?
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Yeah, my brother and sister, they love 38-year-olds, yeah.
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What do they love?
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38-year-old women.
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Why?
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Oh my God, my last date was Filipino.
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I was dating him for six months.
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He, I love him.
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But he was too crazy for me.
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Look at the phone.
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He doesn't like me to wear sexy clothes.
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I like to wear sexy clothes.
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Oh.
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I like to wear sexy.
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He was protective?
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Too much.
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He was older?
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He was like 32.
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See, younger men, if you a bad bitch, I'm not going to like stop you from being a bad
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bitch.
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Like I'm going to let you be a bad bitch.
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It seems like older women want to be viewed just like young girls do, but they have enough
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experience to avoid fuckboys.
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So where do you see this date going?
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Like this is our first date, right?
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I don't know.
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That's the real question.
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You're not supposed to ask that.
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Oh.
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But like technically you're, you're my girlfriend now.
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What?
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Like we're, we're dating because this is a date.
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We're so.
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With a camera.
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We're dating.
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So you could write that I'm the, I'm the number one on the, on the list, right?
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Number one?
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Just, just, you can like cross out everyone circle me and then solve you as out because
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we're locked in.
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We got each other's, it's like that, it's like that.
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But not official.
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It's official when you ask me to come on a date.
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I think it was official when I crossed out everybody else.
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What would I get if I, if I dated you?
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Do you have to figure it out?
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Is it worth it?
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It is.
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Is she hitting on me?
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Why does she type?
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I don't got no type.
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Bad bitches is the only thing that I like.
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I ain't got no wife.
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Cups with the ice because we do this every night.
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Already?
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Yeah, fumbled that one, huh?
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So I see we're switching.
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I hope you don't, you don't cheat on me because like, no, we are in a relationship now.
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You understand that?
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Oh, wait.
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Yeah, this is, this is how the terms work.
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Did I, did I told you that I, well, I wrote it.
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So you're my girlfriend.
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So new girlfriend.
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Where's the camera?
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Shit, shit, shit.
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My new wife from India hates Indian men.
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I don't know, I love Indian men.
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Hate Americans better than Indians.
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You're totally funny, huh?
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Really good, thank you.
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And I would say like 8.5 out of 10, 8 point.
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You could put 10 for me, though.
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No, but she's definitely locked in.
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No, smile.
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No, smile.
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No, what did you mean?
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Oh, sorry, sorry.
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I'll delete the picture.
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Oh, let's take another, that's my fault.
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Smile.
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Smile.
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What the face are you made?
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What?
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I can't show it to my face.
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That's my smile.
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That's my natural smile.
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Oh, really?
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Yeah.
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When I look at you, I just.
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You're not modeling, yeah.
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Totally funny, huh?
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No, I'm being serious.
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You are.
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No, no, I'm being serious.
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You look better like a guy like you.
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A guy like what?
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A 46-year-old man.
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Funny.
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Now I'm not going to let anything stand in the way
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and block the right way to view women.
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Those middle-aged women taught a lesson
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to not feed into the ego
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just because you're sitting across
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from a smoking hot car.
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That speed dating event
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helped me take a small step away
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from constantly objectifying women.
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I wasn't spinning in circles
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thinking about how to impress them.
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They were all laughing
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because I was relaxed
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and had zero expectations.
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Now it's time to take a look
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at my own reflection
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and figure out how girls
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my own age want to be viewed.
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How are we supposed to appreciate your beauty
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without creeping you the fuck out?
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Does catcalling make you feel good?
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Sometimes, yeah.
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If you're cute.
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You know what?
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I appreciate them shooting their shot.
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Like, why not?
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There's a certain amount
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where it's like,
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okay, thank you.
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I appreciate it.
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Like, yo, ma, let me talk to you.
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Like, come here.
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Like, what the fuck?
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I look like a dog.
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Like, oh, yo, come here real quick.
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What?
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Like, no.
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You're beautiful.
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Thank you.
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That's it.
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How do you respectfully say
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you have a fat ass?
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You've been working out?
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Do you do legs?
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Nice glutes.
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Nice glutes?
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Cheeks on fleek.
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I don't like all that, personally.
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Just be like, oh, you're beautiful.
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Thank you.
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Call it a day.
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You disagree?
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She's making the biggest disagreement face
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I've ever seen.
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I love that face.
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Wait, wait.
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What do you disagree with?
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You don't think that catcalling
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can be, like, a little enjoyable sometimes?
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It's not.
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It's disgusting.
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It's always disgusting?
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Of course.
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It's never made you feel good?
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No.
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So what's your opinion
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on these three women disagreeing?
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There's a camera in front of them
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and they're trying to be in the camera.
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That's it.
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I think they're being honest.
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No.
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Were you guys being honest?
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It seemed pretty, like,
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a normal response from you.
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When it gets to, like, the extreme,
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that's a problem.
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That's it.
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Is this your job?
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What do you do?
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What's your life?
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What is this?
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What's going on?
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Is this your life?
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What's going on?
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Why are you asking women questions?
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It's, um...
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Excuse me.
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Ten o'clock at night.
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Uh, why are you approaching women
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and asking about catcalling?
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So we could talk about it
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and, you know,
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get your perspective?
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Why?
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To get your perspective.
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No, no, no.
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What does that benefit for you?
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For me?
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Yeah.
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It makes an interesting video.
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Oh, really?
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Yeah.
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Okay, so for what?
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Like TikTok and Pornhub.
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Ah, you're a TikToker.
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Okay.
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So daughter or...
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What's it called?
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What's it called?
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You know what I think?
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What do you think?
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I think this is mad fucking stupid.
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Yeah.
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It's 10 o'clock at night
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and you're asking women
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about men catcalling?
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Yeah.
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It's fucking stupid as fuck.
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And that's my answer to that.
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I didn't ask you that question.
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I know, but I'm answering it.
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Okay.
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You're part of it now.
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I mean, you think it's stupid,
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but you've just contributed to it.
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Just because it's stupid.
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You can contribute to something that's stupid.
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It doesn't matter.
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It's very weird that men go up to women
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at 10 o'clock at night
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and ask them about men catcalling them.
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It's kind of like the same thing, so...
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Oh, it's weird?
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It's very weird.
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Why is it weird?
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Because you're a man, a stranger,
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coming up to a woman.
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A woman.
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Nothing you did or you didn't do
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has not contributed anything to my lifespan.
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Now I know this conversation isn't going anywhere,
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but I'm trying to see if I can get her to like me
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even though she clearly hates the male gender.
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Have you ever used your looks to your advantage?
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Not that I'm aware of.
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What the fuck?
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I don't think I have any looks to use my advantage, so...
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You think you're onto something?
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You don't think you're pretty?
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I did not say I don't think I'm pretty.
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You just said that right now.
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I think you're kind of pretty.
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Okay.
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You see that smile?
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What's the number one problem that men have
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when they communicate with women?
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Everything.
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Number one?
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Ugly.
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Most men are ugly.
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You said it, not I.
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Are most men ugly?
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Yes.
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Do you want the answer?
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Thank you.
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She still hates me,
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but she did stay eight minutes
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talking for my stupid TikTok.
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It ain't that serious.
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It's really not that serious.
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I don't know why she went that freaking hard.
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It makes me really sad when I don't get cackled
00:15:25.280
because then I'm like,
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do I look ugly?
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Yeah.
00:15:27.780
I feel like I deserve to be cackled.
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It's a summer thing.
00:15:31.400
Yeah.
00:15:31.800
Bring cackling back.
00:15:33.600
Yeah.
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I mean...
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In a feminist way.
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Maybe not, but...
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Okay, this is the thing about women.
00:15:38.780
You're beautiful, baby.
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On the surface, we'll be like,
00:15:40.900
I don't want to be cackled
00:15:41.860
because, ew, men are gross,
00:15:43.120
but deep down, every woman appreciates,
00:15:45.340
like, okay, someone finds me attractive.
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Recently, a guy said that my body
00:15:48.680
was offensive to other women.
00:15:50.300
So it's like the fact that
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I haven't been cackled that much,
00:15:52.400
it's like, okay, come on now.
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I want to feel a little bit of love.
00:15:56.820
Yeah.
00:15:57.460
My favorite one is, like,
00:15:58.860
you dropped something.
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Your smile.
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Hi.
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That's just corny.
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Don't say it if it's going to be corny.
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I think I'm going to steal that one.
00:16:08.540
I like that one.
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Nice, nice, nice smile.
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Thank you.
00:16:11.680
I needed that today.
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I had a horrible day.
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Please, tell me more.
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You got something on your jacket right there.
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Oh, just your smile.
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It's shining onto it.
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That's just what happened.
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Okay, okay.
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How do you think that we can improve as a gender
00:16:23.500
when it comes to talking to y'all?
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I honestly think you need to just, like,
00:16:27.620
up your confidence
00:16:28.440
and just embrace
00:16:29.840
whatever sex appeal you have.
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Just, like, go for it
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because women love that shit.
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If you're, like, cute enough.
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What if you're not attractive?
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Then it's creepy, right?
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If you're not attractive,
00:16:39.240
you could have a charm.
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If you have confidence and charm and swag,
00:16:42.200
then it's not creepy.
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If you're a creep, then it's creepy.
00:16:44.820
Okay, what about for the creepy guys?
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For the creepy guys,
00:16:47.160
like, don't try to pull, like,
00:16:48.360
lines that are, like,
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cutesy and whatever.
00:16:50.620
Just be straightforward.
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Just be like,
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I think you're cute.
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Do you want to go out with me?
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And if a girl says no, that's fine.
00:16:55.760
Be straightforward.
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Yeah.
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I think that's always solid.
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Have you ever used your looks
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to get something from a man?
00:17:02.220
Yes.
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Absolutely.
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As much as I can.
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Yeah.
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As often as possible.
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What's the most you ever got?
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Like, drinks is, like,
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you know, that's light.
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Money.
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I got a lot of money.
00:17:11.500
Oh!
00:17:12.400
Paid me a nice chunk of money
00:17:13.700
and I left
00:17:14.360
and then blocked his number.
00:17:15.400
It was like,
00:17:15.800
he's out, thanks.
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How much money, can I ask?
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Like, 600 bucks
00:17:20.020
for the night, yeah.
00:17:21.940
Oh, for the night?
00:17:22.820
Yeah.
00:17:24.360
We stayed in a really nice hotel.
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I don't care.
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I was broke.
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Okay, so you had to give something, you know?
00:17:30.560
It's not like you just got the money.
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I mean, I guess.
00:17:36.460
I think he considers that a fair transaction.
00:17:39.400
That one just sounds like a mohooker.
00:17:43.260
Roman!
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No!
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It wasn't like that.
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It was like,
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I don't know.
00:17:49.000
You asked for something
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and he was just like,
00:17:51.420
here's some help.
00:17:52.380
Exactly.
00:17:52.760
I think he had a lot of game
00:17:54.620
to convince her that.
00:17:56.060
In only a half hour shooting at
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10.03 at night,
00:17:58.540
every girl had a completely different answer.
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I don't even think they know
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how they want to be viewed.
00:18:03.900
They want you to be straightforward,
00:18:05.440
but not too straightforward, creep.
00:18:06.920
They want your attention,
00:18:08.040
but only at the perfect moment
00:18:09.400
when they need it.
00:18:10.720
Based on those interviews,
00:18:12.040
they kind of expect you
00:18:13.420
to know how to read their minds.
00:18:15.400
I'm starting to understand
00:18:16.300
why a lot of dudes play it safe
00:18:17.880
and stick to the hub.
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If you're respectful
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with your catcalling,
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if she don't answer,
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leave it alone.
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If she does answer,
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says thank you,
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leave it at that.
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Don't be disrespectful.
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Hey yo,
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you look really beautiful today.
00:18:30.740
Thank you,
00:18:31.360
but I got a boyfriend.
00:18:32.320
Okay, have a good time.
00:18:33.760
I'm talking like this issue
00:18:34.900
is universal,
00:18:35.820
but after working on this video
00:18:37.140
for two weeks,
00:18:38.080
maybe I'm just horny.
00:18:39.700
I attach so much importance
00:18:40.920
to women's attention
00:18:41.860
because I grew up
00:18:42.660
a little Asian boy
00:18:43.440
in America with braces.
00:18:45.180
When you can't get something,
00:18:46.380
you start believing
00:18:47.020
you won't be happy
00:18:47.880
until you do.
00:18:48.780
But your value as a man
00:18:50.060
shouldn't depend on a woman.
00:18:51.840
She simply wants somebody
00:18:53.100
that doesn't need her.
00:18:54.960
Instead of approaching women
00:18:56.200
as a projection of your desires,
00:18:58.180
it's better to see them
00:18:59.060
as just other people.
00:19:00.880
Usually people are more interesting
00:19:02.280
than they seem.
00:19:03.380
If you just want sex,
00:19:04.920
you'll ironically save
00:19:06.160
a lot of time and money
00:19:07.360
by just paying her the $600
00:19:09.000
and getting blocked.
00:19:09.780
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