SNEAKO - July 19, 2022


Is Cheating ACTUALLY Bad？


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23 minutes

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4,449

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389

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Misogyny

81

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152

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In this episode, we discuss cheating and manipulation in relationships and how to deal with it. We also talk about how to avoid being cheated on and what to do if you're in a relationship with someone who cheats on you.

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00:00:00.000 I wanna watch another one, cheating and manipulation. 0.99
00:00:02.140 Cheeto, you cheater, you cheated, bleh.
00:00:07.180 I can't believe how many men said that when I'm like, 0.98
00:00:10.720 yo, I want multiple .
00:00:12.680 I can't believe you would cheat on your queen.
00:00:15.000 I believe that men initially do really nice things 0.97
00:00:17.280 for women because they want sex. 1.00
00:00:20.520 Yes. 0.93
00:00:21.720 If so, why would a woman ever accept an extravagant offer 1.00
00:00:24.840 from a man if she wasn't interested in having sex? 0.63
00:00:27.480 Oh, she's manipulating him, man, come on.
00:00:30.920 I mean, women like dinner and a good time, right?
00:00:34.720 Halfway.
00:00:35.640 She can just live in that. 0.99
00:00:37.040 That's why, cut off your female friends. 1.00
00:00:39.560 They're using you. 1.00
00:00:40.760 You're not really your friend. 1.00
00:00:41.880 They're dangling the pussy over your head. 1.00
00:00:43.840 You know, like in the cartoons, when a fucking, 1.00
00:00:47.320 the guy's on the treadmill, like a fat dude, 0.99
00:00:49.200 and there's a donut in front of it,
00:00:50.280 and you're just hoping you're gonna get it,
00:00:52.600 but you're on a treadmill, so you don't get that.
00:00:54.200 That's you with your female friends. 1.00
00:00:56.200 You're hoping and running that you're gonna get some pussy, 1.00
00:00:58.280 and she's eating for free. 1.00
00:01:00.520 Cut her off.
00:01:02.560 Isn't that leading a man on?
00:01:05.120 Not necessarily.
00:01:06.280 Wrong.
00:01:07.120 I think it's fun to get to know somebody.
00:01:09.080 Wrong. 0.99
00:01:09.920 People do shit out of their hearts all the time, you know? 0.98
00:01:12.800 But generally, don't men initially do things 1.00
00:01:14.920 because they want sex? 0.93
00:01:15.840 Yeah, they're looking forward to something. 0.79
00:01:16.960 It might be sex, but they're looking forward to something.
00:01:18.480 Well, if a man's taking a woman to a $300 meal 0.91
00:01:20.800 for the first time, I don't think he wants to be friends, does he?
00:01:23.320 Nope.
00:01:24.480 Nah, not necessarily. 0.62
00:01:26.000 Okay, so would it be safe to assume he generally wants sex? 1.00
00:01:29.120 He may want a handjob. 0.99
00:01:30.480 It ain't sex. 1.00
00:01:32.160 Shut up. 1.00
00:01:33.000 Wrong. 1.00
00:01:33.520 Why would you say some stupid shit like that? 1.00
00:01:35.040 Nobody's ever had a good handjob. 1.00
00:01:36.480 Are you kidding me?
00:01:37.880 Are you kidding me?
00:01:39.560 I'm generally a nice guy.
00:01:40.840 You know, sometimes, you know, sex is a bonus,
00:01:42.800 but, you know, I'm gonna say I'm a good 70-30. 0.98
00:01:46.560 We're not going to roof, Chris, if I didn't plan on having sex with you once, 0.98
00:01:50.560 at least eventually, sometimes. 0.98
00:01:51.840 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:01:52.720 That's not happening.
00:01:53.880 There may be some men out there.
00:01:55.340 I wouldn't say that accounts to all men,
00:01:58.060 but I believe that men may wow or woo women in the beginning,
00:02:03.060 initially, because they want sex.
00:02:04.360 However, there are men that are truly out there looking for soulmates
00:02:08.260 that may present themselves as being...
00:02:13.160 They're abusing that.
00:02:14.780 Come on, yo.
00:02:15.680 Maybe they want a soulmate more than what they are in the beginning
00:02:20.340 to attract that individual,
00:02:22.440 and then there are some that are authentic and true to who they actually are.
00:02:25.500 Wrong.
00:02:26.740 If so, why would a woman ever accept an extravagant offer from a man 1.00
00:02:30.380 if she wasn't interested in having sex?
00:02:32.180 I don't know. 1.00
00:02:33.380 Say some stupid shit. 1.00
00:02:34.580 Say some stupid shit. 1.00
00:02:35.600 Say some stupid shit. 1.00
00:02:36.240 I think as women, if a man is offering you gifts 1.00
00:02:40.460 and you accept those gifts, you're allowing him, you're leading him on.
00:02:44.860 Okay, cool.
00:02:45.220 If you're not planning on forming a relationship or become intimate with him
00:02:49.220 because ultimately he is expecting something back from you.
00:02:54.200 I mean, I think if you're the type of guy to just expect something,
00:02:58.220 that kind of comes off as desperate,
00:03:00.260 and that's probably not going to get you anywhere.
00:03:02.160 You know, you want to be confident, but you want to be sure of yourself too,
00:03:05.900 as well as being yourself, you know.
00:03:08.160 You see how much you got to do to navigate all that nonsense, bro?
00:03:10.980 So, thanks for the five.
00:03:11.840 It's complicated.
00:03:12.460 Drops a new vid.
00:03:13.020 React to that?
00:03:13.520 Okay, right after this.
00:03:14.120 So, I mean, whenever you go into something and you're just expecting something back out of it,
00:03:20.080 it's not authentic, and I think most girls can see straight through that. 0.86
00:03:23.200 If so, why would a woman ever accept an extravagant offer from a man 1.00
00:03:27.320 if she wasn't interested in having sex?
00:03:29.940 Because most girls are gold diggers anyway. 1.00
00:03:31.900 They want what they can get out of anybody.
00:03:34.420 It doesn't just have to be a man.
00:03:35.800 It's anybody.
00:03:37.060 Isn't that leading a man on?
00:03:38.580 Definitely.
00:03:39.140 Most definitely.
00:03:39.620 Is it fair for somebody who leads people on to complain about being cheated on?
00:03:45.940 Um, no.
00:03:48.640 Because...
00:03:49.320 What was the question?
00:03:50.100 Sorry.
00:03:51.360 Is it fair for somebody who leads people on to complain about being cheated on?
00:03:55.340 No.
00:03:57.360 Um, no.
00:03:58.320 No.
00:03:58.920 No.
00:03:59.340 Because you can't be cheated on unless you've committed to being in a relationship.
00:04:04.680 So, if you're leading someone on, that means you haven't committed to being in a relationship with that person.
00:04:10.900 W. Poiman Granny said, since you started streaming, I went from 180 to 560 followers.
00:04:14.940 Your clips are blowing up.
00:04:16.100 Bots, stay broke.
00:04:17.340 Clip the stream.
00:04:18.480 Take it. 0.99
00:04:19.360 Make your TikTok go viral and shit like that. 0.99
00:04:21.200 10,000 followers. 0.87
00:04:22.480 Then you can get the creator fund.
00:04:24.180 And in two weeks, I'm going to start an affiliate link for my website called The Creativity Kit.
00:04:29.880 That's going to be my course.
00:04:31.160 And every person who signs up from your link is going to start making bread.
00:04:33.560 Look at him.
00:04:33.900 He's donating money saying he's running up his TikTok.
00:04:36.400 Someone got 36,000 followers, bro.
00:04:38.700 You got to step your game up, Poiman Granny. 1.00
00:04:41.320 So, therefore, if he decides to date or partner with someone else, then no, he hasn't cheated.
00:04:50.100 There's no commitment.
00:04:51.040 Does being in love require you to be vulnerable?
00:04:54.960 Yes, it most definitely does.
00:04:56.780 It requires you to open up parts of yourself that you may typically guard.
00:05:03.940 But in order to have a real intimate relationship.
00:05:06.120 She believes in astrology.
00:05:07.320 She's the spiritual.
00:05:08.540 I mean, it's fine.
00:05:09.600 But, like, come on.
00:05:10.340 You can tell by the hair.
00:05:11.140 Like, she has crystals.
00:05:12.380 You have to share those things that are closest to us.
00:05:16.460 Does it require you to be vulnerable?
00:05:18.620 I guess in some aspects because being in love sometimes, you know, clouds your judgment for some things you wouldn't normally do in the case if you really, really care about somebody like that.
00:05:33.680 When a woman leaves a man on, do you blame the man for making himself vulnerable?
00:05:38.360 Or do you blame the woman for taking advantage of his weakness?
00:05:42.340 You blame the man.
00:05:43.680 Women do not have to take any responsibility for nothing nowadays, bro. 1.00
00:05:47.140 I'm not like fun!
00:05:48.120 You know, a real man ain't supposed to be weak, you know.
00:05:51.100 But, I mean, a pretty woman that says the right things to a man, she could pretty much get anything from a man. 1.00
00:05:56.380 So I'd have to blame the woman more than the man.
00:05:58.440 What signs should a man look for if he's concerned about being led on?
00:06:04.600 Just if she's concerned about more about what he has in his pockets than what he has in his heart.
00:06:10.640 When a woman leads a man on, do you blame the man for making himself vulnerable? 0.51
00:06:14.960 Or do you blame the woman for taking advantage of his weakness?
00:06:19.840 I don't admire women who lead men on. 1.00
00:06:24.020 I believe there are a lot of beautiful women in the world who know that they're beautiful. 1.00
00:06:27.460 And they have no intent on being in any type of...
00:06:31.020 You know what it is?
00:06:31.420 A lot of them don't even have to take responsibility for leading men on.
00:06:34.460 They get to be like, well, if he wants to have sex and I don't, well, then that's just his problem.
00:06:39.920 It's not even like they're consciously leading him on.
00:06:42.700 They just take advantage of how desperate men are nowadays.
00:06:46.440 The long-term relationship, they just want what the man can provide them with.
00:06:51.940 And good men who have good hearts who are really looking for lifelong partners.
00:06:57.460 So I don't support or believe in women who do that. 1.00
00:07:01.500 What signs should a man look for if he's concerned about being let on?
00:07:05.820 A woman who's not giving back. 1.00
00:07:08.460 Giving back means giving pussy. 1.00
00:07:10.980 If you took her out on more than two dates and you ain't even getting no pussy, run. 1.00
00:07:17.020 I'm telling you, bro. 1.00
00:07:17.980 And they're going to say, but she's more than that.
00:07:20.340 But she's a connection, man.
00:07:22.100 Boom, buka.
00:07:22.720 You know what you want.
00:07:23.940 And who is continuously, who he's spoiling, basically.
00:07:29.500 A man can set himself up for that.
00:07:31.720 He shouldn't be putting out gifts and paying bills and stuff like that in the very beginning
00:07:36.660 when there's no commitment.
00:07:38.600 Do you think it's fair for somebody who leads people on to complain about being cheated on?
00:07:42.360 No.
00:07:43.160 Why not? 0.92
00:07:43.680 Say some nonsense. 0.89
00:07:44.120 Say some nonsense.
00:07:45.100 The mark of the... 1.00
00:07:46.720 Say some delusional shit. 1.00
00:07:48.700 It just doesn't make sense. 1.00
00:07:50.480 You can't do...
00:07:51.020 Like, you can't do dirty and then...
00:07:53.020 Be upset when you're done dirty.
00:07:55.520 Okay.
00:07:56.460 When a woman leads a man on, do you blame the man for making himself vulnerable? 0.51
00:07:59.940 Or do you blame the woman for taking advantage of his weakness?
00:08:02.180 Blame the woman for taking advantage. 1.00
00:08:03.740 Oh, shit. 1.00
00:08:04.080 Because regardless of gender, you don't take advantage of people regardless. 1.00
00:08:07.940 Okay.
00:08:09.500 They're kind of cute, too.
00:08:11.140 I'm just saying.
00:08:12.300 Just take these off and...
00:08:14.440 DM me, baby.
00:08:16.120 Would blaming the man be victim blaming?
00:08:18.700 Yes.
00:08:20.360 What sign should a man look for? 0.78
00:08:21.500 What a man cannot be the victim. 1.00
00:08:23.520 You just sound like a bitch. 1.00
00:08:24.500 Nobody takes it seriously. 1.00
00:08:25.600 Or if he's concerned about being let on.
00:08:28.680 Um...
00:08:29.320 Does she put...
00:08:31.280 They are bad, chat.
00:08:32.860 They need some bad you right here. 1.00
00:08:34.400 You know what I'm saying? 1.00
00:08:35.020 Boom, fuck up! 1.00
00:08:35.800 What's the IG? 1.00
00:08:36.480 I miss you.
00:08:37.200 Oh, mm, mm, mm.
00:08:39.080 Actual, like, not just...
00:08:40.520 Let me chill out.
00:08:41.220 Let me chill out.
00:08:41.860 Pension, like, effort.
00:08:43.140 Does she put effort into you?
00:08:44.320 Does she actually want to listen to what you're saying?
00:08:47.440 When somebody cheats on their lover,
00:08:49.180 do you typically blame the one who cheats
00:08:50.800 or the one who drove the other one to cheat?
00:08:52.940 No, it's no driving you to cheat.
00:08:54.900 If you cheated, you already had that in your mind.
00:08:57.800 Didn't nobody make you do it.
00:08:59.280 You know what I mean?
00:08:59.960 It's just...
00:09:00.700 That might have been your excuse of why you did it,
00:09:03.160 but nobody can make you cheat
00:09:04.540 if you really care about somebody.
00:09:06.620 Right, they can make you leave.
00:09:07.980 Exactly.
00:09:08.300 Making me leave, exactly.
00:09:10.100 I typically blame the one who drove the other one away.
00:09:12.800 Well, why wouldn't that person just leave, then?
00:09:14.520 Because most people are comfortable
00:09:16.160 being in the position that they're already in.
00:09:18.440 Do you feel like it's easier for a woman to seduce a man 0.99
00:09:20.720 or for a man to seduce a woman? 0.99
00:09:22.400 A woman to seduce a man. 1.00
00:09:23.220 A woman to seduce a man 1.00
00:09:24.080 because a man's always willing to give it up. 1.00
00:09:25.780 They don't give a fuck who they fuck, you know? 1.00
00:09:27.660 So if the answer is women, 1.00
00:09:28.800 does that make it easier for them to cheat?
00:09:30.780 Yep.
00:09:31.680 I mean, people cheat regardless.
00:09:33.440 If they say they don't, they're lying.
00:09:35.240 Who is more likely to forgive cheating, men or women?
00:09:38.160 Women are more likely to forgive it. 1.00
00:09:41.260 That's the way it should be.
00:09:42.260 Please don't say the wrong thing, guy.
00:09:43.280 You've said some wrong answers so far.
00:09:46.340 I don't know. 1.00
00:09:46.860 I'd be ready to kill a bitch, man. 1.00
00:09:48.440 Would you agree that it's women 1.00
00:09:49.940 because men cheat wanting sex 0.64
00:09:51.780 while women typically cheat with feelings? 1.00
00:09:53.880 I'd say when a bitch fucks somebody else, 1.00
00:09:55.720 that means they definitely got feelings for that person. 1.00
00:09:58.160 They've already checked out mentally.
00:09:59.840 Women don't cheat for fun. 1.00
00:10:01.200 Men cheat just because, like, 0.95
00:10:02.340 it's just like what we do, bro.
00:10:04.280 So it's like,
00:10:04.680 oh, Cheeto, I can't believe you did that.
00:10:08.740 Come on, chill out, bro. 1.00
00:10:10.160 Men can fuck a girl 1.00
00:10:11.120 and not even talk to her ever again in their life. 1.00
00:10:14.120 I mean, but that's a big misconception too
00:10:15.920 because a lot of females these days can, you know, 1.00
00:10:18.700 fornicate and stuff like that 0.95
00:10:19.980 without no kind of emotion,
00:10:21.160 just like men can, you know?
00:10:22.620 So that's kind of tough.
00:10:23.960 I don't like my... 0.84
00:10:24.880 Why are men more likely to be able to have sex 0.91
00:10:26.680 without intimacy than women? 1.00
00:10:30.700 Because we can make 10 bitches pregnant in an hour 1.00
00:10:34.380 and a bitch, a queen, 1.00
00:10:36.600 gets pregnant one time a year. 1.00
00:10:39.020 So naturally, biologically,
00:10:40.440 they look for one guy
00:10:41.900 and men just want to...
00:10:44.000 everywhere.
00:10:46.640 It's a simple question.
00:10:47.460 No, man, because men's... 1.00
00:10:48.720 The majority of guys are perverts. 1.00
00:10:51.020 You know what I mean? 1.00
00:10:51.740 We get into the mood
00:10:52.800 and then it doesn't matter.
00:10:54.160 It's not perverted.
00:10:55.020 It's just biology, bro.
00:10:56.160 Why are you talking down on us like that?
00:10:57.600 It doesn't matter who's there
00:10:58.240 and then we're not going to want to talk to them the next day.
00:11:00.560 So then why should men be held 0.99
00:11:01.740 to the same standard as women for cheating? 0.99
00:11:04.440 Because most of the time when a woman cheats, 1.00
00:11:06.460 they get to know the man first.
00:11:08.000 It's not just a one-night stand type thing.
00:11:10.020 It's more of emotional involvement.
00:11:13.500 What do you find more intimate,
00:11:14.940 having a deep conversation or having sex?
00:11:17.220 Deep conversation, definitely.
00:11:18.500 If the answer is deep conversation,
00:11:19.900 why is cheating more about sex
00:11:21.900 rather than sharing a deep conversation
00:11:23.920 with a stranger?
00:11:25.120 Well, see, that's the thing.
00:11:26.000 When it comes to a man being cheated on,
00:11:28.000 it wouldn't really be about the sex.
00:11:29.440 It would be more about the connection
00:11:31.000 that she gave to another man
00:11:33.620 to be able to get to that point to have sex.
00:11:36.540 Should a woman be mad about cheating 1.00
00:11:38.180 if she's already a side piece? 0.99
00:11:41.300 I really don't...
00:11:42.260 That's not cheating if she's a side piece. 1.00
00:11:43.820 That's just what a side piece is. 1.00
00:11:45.740 Why are we got some stupid questions like that? 1.00
00:11:47.160 You don't have to be right at that point. 1.00
00:11:48.940 No.
00:11:49.200 Don't women often say, 1.00
00:11:51.180 once a cheater, always a cheater?
00:11:52.360 Yes.
00:11:53.160 So if he's cheating on his woman to be with you,
00:11:55.380 should you be surprised
00:11:56.140 if he's cheating on you with me to...
00:11:57.400 No.
00:11:57.700 My mom always said,
00:11:59.160 you lose him how you get him.
00:12:01.100 You're consensually giving yourself up
00:12:03.220 to be a side option.
00:12:04.700 Right.
00:12:05.020 Don't women often say, 1.00
00:12:05.820 once a cheater...
00:12:06.600 Sorry, but I mean, like, yeah.
00:12:08.720 Yeah.
00:12:09.000 You're always a cheater?
00:12:10.420 Once a cheater, always a cheater.
00:12:11.680 I disagree because people could change.
00:12:13.720 Okay.
00:12:14.020 I was just saying that, like,
00:12:15.000 obviously if the man is cheating on his woman 0.92
00:12:16.580 to be with you,
00:12:17.620 why would you be surprised
00:12:18.860 if he cheats on you
00:12:19.480 to be with another woman?
00:12:21.400 Bruh.
00:12:21.800 Oh.
00:12:24.700 Because...
00:12:25.180 Bruh.
00:12:25.560 Wow, that's so good.
00:12:27.480 Bruh.
00:12:27.600 All right, let's try this one.
00:12:29.740 What do you find more intimate?
00:12:31.520 Having a deep conversation
00:12:32.480 or having...
00:12:33.080 Yeah, she cute too. 0.97
00:12:33.920 Why do you get all the baddies
00:12:34.820 in this video? 0.99
00:12:35.360 Sex. 0.97
00:12:36.240 Having a deep conversation.
00:12:37.960 If the answer is a deep conversation,
00:12:39.620 why is cheating more about...
00:12:40.660 I disagree.
00:12:41.720 A deep convo? 1.00
00:12:42.960 You can have that shit like... 1.00
00:12:44.320 But easy. 1.00
00:12:45.440 ...about sex rather than
00:12:46.440 sharing a deep conversation
00:12:47.660 with a stranger.
00:12:50.780 I find cheating both ways, actually.
00:12:54.820 Cheating could be in all sorts
00:12:56.840 and forms of ways.
00:12:58.480 Why do you think men are more likely
00:12:59.580 to be able to have sex 0.63
00:13:00.480 without intimacy than women? 0.70
00:13:02.680 Why is everything like men and women? 1.00
00:13:06.520 Well, I mean...
00:13:07.380 These questions are sexist.
00:13:09.360 What else could it be?
00:13:10.460 Why are we gender-alizing? 0.82
00:13:15.680 Why are we generalizing?
00:13:16.900 Gender...
00:13:17.340 Uh-oh, she's getting triggered.
00:13:18.680 Oh, generalizing?
00:13:19.920 Okay, can you educate me?
00:13:21.220 Like, what would...
00:13:22.220 Like, why would you just say
00:13:23.300 there's only a male and a female?
00:13:25.020 Well, no, no.
00:13:25.440 I'm saying that...
00:13:28.260 I mean, obviously,
00:13:30.620 I talk to same-sex couples
00:13:31.880 and, you know,
00:13:32.980 other types of relationships
00:13:34.420 and things like that.
00:13:35.500 But that's fine.
00:13:36.260 Okay.
00:13:37.340 Why does some...
00:13:38.020 When you're that hot,
00:13:38.680 you don't really have to make any sense.
00:13:39.920 Women pride themselves
00:13:40.920 on manipulation as a skill
00:13:42.880 when they already control
00:13:44.260 what men want.
00:13:46.420 You know, I mean,
00:13:47.660 you got books like
00:13:48.400 48 Laws of Power,
00:13:49.520 got people thinking
00:13:50.220 that they can use people
00:13:51.160 to get what they want, man.
00:13:52.520 I really think it all comes down to,
00:13:54.680 especially when it comes to women,
00:13:56.080 it's all about using
00:13:57.200 to get what they want
00:13:58.320 before they get used.
00:13:59.680 Because they already feel like
00:14:00.720 coming into a situation,
00:14:02.560 the man pretty much
00:14:03.520 only wants one thing.
00:14:04.560 Is there any better
00:14:06.680 manipulation strategy
00:14:07.940 than remaining
00:14:09.160 an unidentifiable threat? 0.99
00:14:13.120 Damn, that's a good question. 0.99
00:14:16.940 No, probably not. 0.99
00:14:18.140 Because, I mean,
00:14:19.540 if it's unidentifiable,
00:14:21.220 then you're not really going to be able
00:14:22.400 to put your guards up like that,
00:14:24.060 you know?
00:14:24.500 So it's not going to be something
00:14:26.080 that your defense is up on.
00:14:28.440 So pretty much,
00:14:29.600 you're going to be
00:14:29.940 taken advantage of.
00:14:31.000 Women often describe themselves 0.64
00:14:33.720 as complicated,
00:14:34.880 emotional,
00:14:35.520 even crazy.
00:14:36.380 I'm complicated,
00:14:37.080 spiritual, 0.76
00:14:37.760 and crazy. 0.75
00:14:38.540 That's just me.
00:14:39.660 If you're with me,
00:14:40.920 you just got to deal
00:14:42.660 with my craziness.
00:14:43.840 I'm just crazy.
00:14:45.040 So, 0.95
00:14:45.600 I'm toxic. 0.96
00:14:47.720 I'm toxic. 0.94
00:14:48.300 Why are they so proud
00:14:49.420 to say that?
00:14:50.780 Is that your only personality trait, 1.00
00:14:52.560 being a fucking headache? 1.00
00:14:54.160 Jesus Christ, man. 1.00
00:14:55.220 Women actually want 1.00
00:14:56.380 to be understood.
00:14:57.880 Calm down.
00:14:58.680 Why do you hate
00:14:59.220 when you seem like
00:14:59.840 you're projecting?
00:15:00.460 You're probably as insecure,
00:15:01.660 man.
00:15:01.980 I'm sorry.
00:15:02.560 most definitely.
00:15:03.240 They definitely do.
00:15:04.000 But wouldn't that actually
00:15:04.860 hold them to a certain
00:15:05.720 level of accountability?
00:15:07.640 Yeah.
00:15:08.100 Well,
00:15:08.440 see,
00:15:08.780 the thing is,
00:15:09.520 you know,
00:15:10.000 women, 1.00
00:15:10.860 because of their estrogen,
00:15:13.320 you know,
00:15:13.660 they move off,
00:15:15.380 majority of them,
00:15:17.780 move off emotions
00:15:19.260 where most men
00:15:20.680 move off intellect
00:15:22.100 and what they're thinking about.
00:15:23.860 You know what I mean?
00:15:24.560 So,
00:15:25.100 you know,
00:15:27.340 when it comes down
00:15:28.500 to the mind state
00:15:29.540 of a woman,
00:15:30.120 you know,
00:15:30.340 she's not going to care
00:15:31.260 what's actually making sense.
00:15:33.400 It's all going to be
00:15:34.660 about what she feels.
00:15:35.920 And if she feels
00:15:36.780 that certain type of way,
00:15:37.680 she's going to be right
00:15:38.540 about that majority
00:15:39.460 of the time.
00:15:40.900 So,
00:15:41.480 wouldn't you say
00:15:42.240 that a lot of things
00:15:43.080 women feel 0.99
00:15:43.980 is just based
00:15:44.980 on perceived victimhood?
00:15:46.680 Nope.
00:15:47.640 They only know
00:15:48.380 how to be victims.
00:15:49.320 I'm a victim.
00:15:50.680 Yeah,
00:15:50.980 well,
00:15:51.320 how about,
00:15:51.940 meh.
00:15:52.180 they don't know
00:15:52.840 how to ever be wrong.
00:15:54.500 It's not possible
00:15:55.340 in their heads
00:15:55.940 because they're weaker.
00:15:58.740 Boom,
00:15:59.180 bucka.
00:15:59.760 Most definitely.
00:16:00.900 As opposed to
00:16:01.600 real victimhood.
00:16:02.280 Most definitely.
00:16:03.420 Most definitely.
00:16:04.460 What are your thoughts
00:16:05.200 on the following statement?
00:16:06.920 A man's loyalty
00:16:07.780 is tested when...
00:16:08.900 This guy's been wrong
00:16:09.520 the whole time. 0.93
00:16:10.020 He's got to say some nonsense.
00:16:10.880 He has everything
00:16:11.800 while a woman's loyalty 0.88
00:16:13.160 is tested
00:16:13.800 when her man has nothing.
00:16:15.380 Facts,
00:16:15.780 because
00:16:16.100 if you got everything
00:16:17.360 with me right there
00:16:18.100 but you don't have nothing, 1.00
00:16:19.240 a bitch will fly. 1.00
00:16:20.440 I think a woman's loyalty 1.00
00:16:21.640 can be tested
00:16:22.940 if a man
00:16:23.620 doesn't have anything.
00:16:25.300 A lot of times
00:16:26.000 in the culture
00:16:26.680 it's said
00:16:27.300 women will 1.00
00:16:28.960 stick with a man 0.91
00:16:31.800 when he's in the mud,
00:16:32.700 right?
00:16:32.960 But the goal
00:16:33.520 is not to stay in the mud,
00:16:34.700 right?
00:16:35.400 So,
00:16:35.900 in other words,
00:16:36.880 it's okay
00:16:37.480 in my opinion
00:16:38.440 if you start at the bottom
00:16:39.820 but...
00:16:40.920 But if you start at the top
00:16:41.960 and ever 0.99
00:16:43.000 ego will fuck him up. 1.00
00:16:48.100 But if you bring a bitch 1.00
00:16:49.120 from the bottom up, 1.00
00:16:50.180 that's your wifey wifey. 1.00
00:16:51.640 We should be working together
00:16:53.060 to come out of the bottom.
00:16:55.000 Staying at the bottom
00:16:55.680 is not okay
00:16:56.320 and some people
00:16:56.980 are okay
00:16:57.540 with having the minimum
00:17:00.540 in life.
00:17:01.160 They don't have
00:17:01.880 much desire out of life.
00:17:04.220 And I think
00:17:04.700 as women,
00:17:05.600 we have to decide
00:17:06.760 because women, 1.00
00:17:07.800 we are very loyal.
00:17:09.900 The black woman 0.99
00:17:10.660 is very loyal 0.99
00:17:11.340 to her man
00:17:12.080 and...
00:17:13.280 But we could be
00:17:14.140 so loyal
00:17:14.820 that
00:17:15.460 we don't see,
00:17:18.760 you know,
00:17:19.500 some red flags there
00:17:21.560 because oftentimes
00:17:23.180 people can sell you
00:17:24.260 a dream, right?
00:17:25.680 It's very easy
00:17:26.640 to profess things
00:17:27.520 with their lips
00:17:28.160 but are you actually
00:17:28.860 going to put in
00:17:29.340 the action
00:17:29.780 and the work
00:17:30.300 behind it,
00:17:30.900 the education
00:17:31.580 and all that it takes
00:17:32.560 to achieve the things
00:17:33.680 that you say
00:17:34.080 that you want?
00:17:35.080 Period.
00:17:35.700 And I think
00:17:36.180 as women,
00:17:36.600 we need to be able
00:17:37.480 to identify that
00:17:38.520 because we can't
00:17:39.860 make a man
00:17:40.560 be a man.
00:17:41.140 We can't make him
00:17:41.940 want more for his life
00:17:43.020 and more for his family.
00:17:44.060 He has to want
00:17:44.660 that for himself.
00:17:45.820 In my response
00:17:46.700 to that question,
00:17:47.660 I have to quote
00:17:48.480 a famous comedian
00:17:49.400 by the name
00:17:49.920 of Chris Rock.
00:17:51.640 Only, you know,
00:17:53.260 dogs and children
00:17:54.520 are only love
00:17:55.340 unconditionally.
00:17:57.340 Men are only love
00:17:58.760 for what we can provide
00:18:00.320 for the situation.
00:18:01.820 One paycheck away
00:18:02.780 from a breakup.
00:18:03.740 Boom, book up!
00:18:05.580 Mic drop.
00:18:07.020 So do you think
00:18:08.000 that people are only
00:18:08.800 as loyal as their
00:18:09.600 options today?
00:18:11.900 Majority.
00:18:12.700 Majority of them,
00:18:14.040 you know,
00:18:14.260 because love
00:18:16.000 is really just
00:18:17.200 more of a word now.
00:18:18.880 Now it's more
00:18:19.820 what can I get
00:18:20.800 out of you,
00:18:21.480 you know?
00:18:22.040 It's not many people
00:18:23.180 that's trying to look
00:18:23.960 for genuine love
00:18:24.940 these days.
00:18:25.860 Do you think
00:18:26.200 unconditional love
00:18:27.040 is possible
00:18:27.560 in a romantic relationship?
00:18:28.940 Yeah, most definitely.
00:18:30.020 So why do we have
00:18:30.840 a term called
00:18:31.360 deal breakers?
00:18:32.780 Deal breakers?
00:18:34.700 Man, I think
00:18:35.320 it's because nowadays,
00:18:36.640 you know,
00:18:36.900 people are starting
00:18:37.540 to give up
00:18:38.100 on the fight more,
00:18:39.480 you know?
00:18:39.780 They're starting to,
00:18:40.880 you're not seeing
00:18:41.860 a lot of,
00:18:43.140 like,
00:18:43.320 when I was coming up,
00:18:44.960 my grandmothers
00:18:45.760 and granddaddies,
00:18:46.600 like,
00:18:46.800 you had a lot
00:18:47.420 of older people
00:18:48.100 that were married
00:18:49.040 for years,
00:18:49.840 and now you just
00:18:50.620 don't see that.
00:18:51.480 You know,
00:18:51.700 you don't see a lot
00:18:52.460 of people being
00:18:53.480 married for more
00:18:54.340 than 10 years.
00:18:55.120 So I guess
00:18:55.660 it's just,
00:18:56.460 it's stuff like that
00:18:57.440 that just puts
00:18:58.300 a downfall on
00:18:59.160 and it makes it
00:18:59.740 to where people
00:19:00.700 don't really want
00:19:01.500 to work for
00:19:02.000 their relationship.
00:19:03.060 Do you know
00:19:03.300 more people
00:19:03.800 who have stayed
00:19:04.460 together or
00:19:05.000 who have separated?
00:19:06.000 Separated.
00:19:07.060 Everybody feels
00:19:07.840 like they can
00:19:08.160 upgrade now.
00:19:08.860 We have too many
00:19:09.420 options because
00:19:10.060 of our phone
00:19:10.560 we always think
00:19:11.340 that there's a
00:19:11.700 better option.
00:19:12.320 Worth getting
00:19:12.740 into a long-term
00:19:13.660 relationship
00:19:14.380 when the risks
00:19:15.020 are so high.
00:19:16.640 I didn't mean
00:19:16.920 to press that wrong.
00:19:17.740 That was a mistake.
00:19:18.560 Sorry about that.
00:19:19.380 Boom, bucker! 1.00
00:19:20.120 It's worth it, man,
00:19:21.180 because love, man,
00:19:22.220 that real love,
00:19:23.360 real love is worth
00:19:24.860 any obstacle
00:19:25.600 you're gonna have
00:19:26.260 to go through.
00:19:26.980 And it has to be
00:19:27.900 genuine, though.
00:19:28.700 It has to be
00:19:29.300 50% on both sides,
00:19:32.220 not 100%,
00:19:33.180 you know,
00:19:33.520 because you gotta
00:19:34.120 take something
00:19:34.700 from the other side.
00:19:35.640 If you woke up
00:19:36.800 tomorrow as a
00:19:37.660 gorgeous female, 1.00
00:19:38.660 would you use 0.97
00:19:39.360 sex to manipulate 0.95
00:19:40.080 men? 0.98
00:19:40.840 Immediately.
00:19:42.180 Okay, so can
00:19:43.540 you blame women 0.79
00:19:44.160 for doing that
00:19:44.740 just because they
00:19:45.180 can?
00:19:45.800 No, but I get
00:19:47.220 mad at it, though.
00:19:48.260 If men woke up 0.96
00:19:49.220 tomorrow as
00:19:49.880 gorgeous women, 1.00
00:19:50.760 would they use 0.97
00:19:51.280 sex to manipulate 0.95
00:19:52.100 men? 0.99
00:19:52.980 Most definitely.
00:19:54.340 Instantly.
00:19:55.200 Social Guarantee said
00:19:55.960 there are real people
00:19:56.440 and fake people
00:19:56.920 on both sexes.
00:19:57.600 Men can take advantage 0.90
00:19:58.120 of women just as
00:19:58.840 easily with the
00:19:59.400 right resources.
00:20:00.520 The issue is with
00:20:01.200 men having no 0.95
00:20:01.860 standards with who
00:20:02.420 they allow in their
00:20:03.040 lives.
00:20:04.420 And I think that
00:20:04.940 happened.
00:20:05.180 Men have no 1.00
00:20:05.640 standards because
00:20:06.320 we're just desperate 1.00
00:20:07.260 for some pussy, 1.00
00:20:08.000 though. 1.00
00:20:08.940 If so, can you
00:20:09.820 blame women for 1.00
00:20:10.460 doing that just
00:20:11.020 because they can?
00:20:12.360 No, not at all. 0.99
00:20:14.240 The vagina runs 1.00
00:20:15.300 the world. 1.00
00:20:16.040 Do you think if
00:20:16.600 women woke up 1.00
00:20:17.220 tomorrow as men,
00:20:18.220 would they lie to
00:20:19.020 women in order to 1.00
00:20:19.600 get sex? 1.00
00:20:20.520 Yeah. 0.95
00:20:21.380 No.
00:20:22.260 Really?
00:20:22.880 I'm asking men,
00:20:24.040 if they woke up
00:20:24.660 tomorrow as a-
00:20:25.200 Uh-oh, she hates
00:20:25.880 him now.
00:20:26.220 She's ready to
00:20:26.680 disagree.
00:20:29.000 Gorgeous woman, 0.58
00:20:30.280 do you think they 0.96
00:20:30.820 would use sex to 0.83
00:20:31.560 get what they want? 0.99
00:20:33.360 Probably.
00:20:33.800 100% in my eyes,
00:20:38.420 100% I believe that
00:20:40.320 would be, yes.
00:20:42.060 If they woke up as
00:20:43.400 like Megan Fox, yes,
00:20:46.960 they're going to use
00:20:47.700 their body.
00:20:48.760 Okay, so is it fair
00:20:49.800 for men to blame women
00:20:50.720 for doing that just
00:20:51.460 because they can?
00:20:51.960 No.
00:20:54.220 I feel like everyone
00:20:55.380 is independent and
00:20:56.380 everyone has the
00:20:57.180 right to their own
00:20:58.440 body and the right
00:20:59.060 to say whatever
00:20:59.660 they want.
00:21:00.520 Okay.
00:21:01.860 Now, asking a woman, 0.81
00:21:03.980 if you woke up
00:21:05.020 tomorrow as a man,
00:21:06.520 would you lie to
00:21:07.340 women in order to 1.00
00:21:07.980 get sex? 1.00
00:21:09.480 Would I what? 0.99
00:21:10.520 Would you lie to 1.00
00:21:10.980 get sex? 0.99
00:21:11.280 Do you think if 0.99
00:21:11.820 women woke up 1.00
00:21:12.660 tomorrow as a man,
00:21:13.700 do you think they
00:21:14.120 would lie to women 1.00
00:21:14.940 in order to get 0.99
00:21:15.520 sex? 0.95
00:21:16.440 Nah.
00:21:17.500 They probably try to
00:21:18.100 have deep 1.00
00:21:18.360 conversations and shit. 0.99
00:21:19.160 So why is it okay 1.00
00:21:21.880 for women to
00:21:22.420 manipulate, but it's
00:21:23.240 wrong when men do 1.00
00:21:23.880 the same thing?
00:21:24.980 I never understood
00:21:25.540 that and I always
00:21:26.160 try to say that.
00:21:26.760 Double standards 1.00
00:21:27.240 is a motherfucker. 1.00
00:21:28.700 Who do you think 1.00
00:21:29.020 has bigger double
00:21:29.640 standards, men or
00:21:30.320 women? 1.00
00:21:30.780 You already know.
00:21:32.320 Okay, so if I woke
00:21:33.160 up as a man, would 0.99
00:21:34.460 I lie to have sex? 0.99
00:21:36.660 No. 0.92
00:21:37.160 No.
00:21:38.320 Why not?
00:21:39.400 Because I'm a good
00:21:40.420 person.
00:21:41.140 Halfway.
00:21:41.940 Because my dad has
00:21:42.760 always taught me
00:21:43.360 never to lie. 1.00
00:21:44.280 Shut up. 1.00
00:21:45.020 Okay, but do you 1.00
00:21:46.040 think that a lot of
00:21:46.760 men lie to women 1.00
00:21:48.540 to get sex? 0.99
00:21:50.880 100%. 0.99
00:21:51.280 Okay, can you
00:21:52.620 blame men for
00:21:53.320 manipulating women 0.99
00:21:54.100 to get what they
00:21:54.620 want?
00:21:56.060 100%.
00:21:56.500 Wrong.
00:21:57.200 It's manipulation.
00:21:58.680 Well, why is it
00:21:59.280 okay for women to 1.00
00:22:00.080 manipulate?
00:22:00.720 It's not okay.
00:22:01.580 But it's wrong when
00:22:02.280 men do the same
00:22:02.780 thing.
00:22:03.360 I never said it
00:22:04.100 was okay to
00:22:04.580 manipulate.
00:22:05.520 But don't women 1.00
00:22:07.440 use sex to get 0.99
00:22:09.600 what they want? 0.98
00:22:11.080 Not all women do. 0.97
00:22:12.460 Not all women, but
00:22:13.320 not all men lie
00:22:14.040 either, right?
00:22:14.820 That is correct.
00:22:16.540 Okay.
00:22:16.880 What is the
00:22:18.100 difference between
00:22:18.660 using power and
00:22:20.140 abusing power?
00:22:21.800 Using a power is
00:22:24.020 you could use it.
00:22:27.100 Oh, wow.
00:22:28.180 Using and abusing.
00:22:29.480 Abusing is everything's 1.00
00:22:32.660 good in moderation.
00:22:33.860 So you could use,
00:22:35.480 it's just like water.
00:22:36.700 If you drink too much
00:22:37.680 water, you're going to
00:22:38.320 get sick. 0.82
00:22:40.040 So like using and
00:22:41.680 abusing, it's just
00:22:43.100 like.
00:22:43.420 Everybody gets used
00:22:46.380 on both sides of the
00:22:47.640 field, whether you're
00:22:47.960 a woman.
00:22:50.220 Everybody gets used
00:22:51.560 on both sides of the
00:22:52.540 field, whether you're
00:22:53.140 a woman or a man.
00:22:54.020 You know, it's just
00:22:54.500 men are using, you 0.99
00:22:57.360 know, women for 1.00
00:22:58.120 things and women 0.87
00:22:59.000 are using what they
00:23:00.320 got as far as what
00:23:01.720 they have to get what
00:23:02.780 they want.
00:23:03.300 You know what I mean?
00:23:03.980 Men use what they 0.99
00:23:05.700 work for to get what
00:23:07.120 they want.
00:23:07.640 If you get what I'm
00:23:08.900 saying.
00:23:09.140 So what's the
00:23:10.020 difference between
00:23:10.560 using power and
00:23:11.760 abusing power?
00:23:13.680 I guess I guess when
00:23:14.960 you're doing it for
00:23:15.700 the for the wrong
00:23:16.480 things.
00:23:16.980 I mean, a lot of
00:23:17.500 these girls out here, 0.93
00:23:18.520 they they know what's
00:23:20.080 coming with a big
00:23:20.880 wallet.
00:23:21.360 You know, they know
00:23:22.060 that a guy wants to
00:23:22.980 take him out to eat,
00:23:23.880 take him out to a
00:23:24.540 place.