SNEAKO - November 12, 2022


Is Polyamory Brainwashing？


Episode Stats

Length

15 minutes

Words per Minute

162.17589

Word Count

2,556

Sentence Count

361

Misogynist Sentences

26

Hate Speech Sentences

16


Summary

Stephanie and Mazaya and Rosa are a throuple with a new baby on the way, but is it a good one? Is it a bad one? And what does it mean for their family situation?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Let's see if they're brainwashed.
00:00:01.980 It's Mazaya.
00:00:03.320 And he fell in love with Stephanie and Rosa.
00:00:07.380 We are a throuple.
00:00:09.360 Stephanie and Mazaya dated for a couple of years before breaking up.
00:00:14.540 When they reconnected, Mazaya introduced her to his new girlfriend, Rosa.
00:00:20.120 In the beginning, seeing him with other women was my mother.
00:00:24.300 Despite initial reservations,
00:00:26.180 the three people are now expanding their family with a new baby on the way.
00:00:31.420 Hey!
00:00:33.040 Who had the baby?
00:00:34.780 Does it matter?
00:00:35.700 Yes, whoever he had the baby with is the more important.
00:00:39.020 It's not an even relationship.
00:00:40.020 No, but they're all in the same team, so it's their baby.
00:00:43.060 It doesn't even matter who birthed it.
00:00:44.600 Chad, is this degenerate?
00:00:45.740 Don't grow on this relationship.
00:00:47.220 I am amused by this.
00:00:50.200 But there's a lot of God people in here that are going to say this is degenerate.
00:00:54.580 She kind of looked like you.
00:00:56.180 You got the same hair.
00:00:58.000 I was thinking something like that, and I wish you just didn't say it, because whatever, bro.
00:01:03.720 You're thinking what?
00:01:05.640 It's whatever, bro.
00:01:06.480 What?
00:01:07.180 Nothing.
00:01:08.400 You just give them things to make fun of me for.
00:01:11.460 They're not even making fun of you.
00:01:13.720 Thanks to the two, Al Khalifa.
00:01:16.620 But their family setup has attracted plenty of criticism.
00:01:21.500 The most common misconception, they probably think I was a pimp.
00:01:24.340 What a woman is, you know, you're being manipulated.
00:01:27.560 You're insecure about yourself.
00:01:29.920 You don't know who you are.
00:01:31.420 You're being brainwashed.
00:01:35.340 Me and Rose cook, but I kind of...
00:01:38.280 I like how they didn't specify whose baby it was, but it's not important.
00:01:42.740 Yeah, whatever.
00:01:43.740 Okay.
00:01:44.000 I do most of the cooking because she works on the weekends, so we kind of alternate.
00:01:48.380 Babe, your drink is ready.
00:01:50.340 We are a throuple.
00:01:57.760 Me and Mazzea, we met back in 2014.
00:02:01.600 I used to follow him on Instagram.
00:02:03.780 And then one day, we decided to link up.
00:02:06.200 We chilled.
00:02:07.400 It was a vibe from the moment we met.
00:02:09.660 And then we didn't speak until two years after that.
00:02:12.980 And once we rekindled and reconnected, it's been a wrap since then.
00:02:18.080 And then we started dating in 2018.
00:02:21.160 I met Rose back in 2019.
00:02:26.840 He brought me to their condo that they used to live in.
00:02:31.200 And boom, there goes Rose.
00:02:33.300 Hey!
00:02:34.540 You know, we had spoke about Polly before, and he had mentioned it.
00:02:39.440 And he also mentioned Rose at the time.
00:02:41.740 Uh-oh.
00:02:43.280 For everybody saying degenerate, look at all the demon signs.
00:02:47.920 Uh-uh.
00:02:49.020 Devil horns.
00:02:49.940 Let me get a bite.
00:02:52.060 Ooh.
00:02:56.500 Ooh.
00:02:57.620 Yummy.
00:02:58.400 Yummy, that ain't hit left or right.
00:03:00.400 Yummy, yummy, yummy, yummy.
00:03:02.280 Buh, buh, buh, buh.
00:03:05.040 Cringe?
00:03:06.420 No.
00:03:07.640 They don't seem cringe.
00:03:08.660 In the beginning of the relationship,
00:03:10.940 I was so used to being monogamy.
00:03:12.560 And I was so into wanting to be with him and him and him and him.
00:03:17.460 And in the beginning, me seeing him with other women was like, hold up.
00:03:22.040 Took me about two or three years.
00:03:24.520 I was on and off.
00:03:25.580 But, um, I'm over with that.
00:03:27.980 And now it's just way better.
00:03:30.040 It was hard in the beginning because emotions were clashing.
00:03:33.220 And I had been dating him monogamously.
00:03:36.300 But we broke up and I had already, like, known about Stephanie.
00:03:41.260 You know, he has baby moms and stuff.
00:03:43.720 My loves, can you guys...
00:03:45.040 You think they're beef?
00:03:46.940 Uh, in the beginning, yeah, for sure.
00:03:49.160 There's definitely messages in, like, her saying,
00:03:52.180 why are you hanging out with that freaking whore?
00:03:55.180 With that what?
00:03:56.700 That whore.
00:03:58.820 Say it.
00:03:59.140 We're on Rumble.
00:03:59.640 Say it with the chest.
00:04:00.520 No.
00:04:00.960 With that fucking whore!
00:04:03.300 Set the table, please.
00:04:04.980 Yes, you.
00:04:05.740 Thank you.
00:04:07.140 Do I have to?
00:04:09.120 Yes.
00:04:09.560 The beauty of having two wives and the family that we have is the fact that we can keep
00:04:18.480 growing, being able to help each other, eat at the table.
00:04:22.460 The meals are always immaculate to the point where it's like, you know, we just never had
00:04:27.300 that growing up before.
00:04:29.100 The beauty to me is having that stability and that help from a woman.
00:04:33.520 Like, imagine what you can do with two and what people do with one.
00:04:37.240 And the fact that they chose me and had me a part of their lives as well is a blessing
00:04:42.320 to me.
00:04:43.120 Let's pray, guys.
00:04:45.040 Monday.
00:04:45.440 All right.
00:04:46.060 Look at that.
00:04:46.560 It's a family of God, too.
00:04:47.780 Maybe they aren't demonic.
00:04:49.440 They have the double horns.
00:04:50.500 He's got the Jesus tattoo.
00:04:51.720 They seem like a happy family.
00:04:53.540 It seems like it could...
00:04:55.100 Yeah.
00:04:55.860 Yeah.
00:04:57.180 Yeah.
00:04:59.580 So, what are you trying to say?
00:05:03.360 Thanks, baby.
00:05:04.680 All right.
00:05:05.040 Thank you, Lord, for this food.
00:05:08.080 May God bless those who don't have.
00:05:10.140 Amen.
00:05:10.740 Amen.
00:05:11.740 Amen.
00:05:12.660 What made me decide to be polyamorous is I like men and women.
00:05:18.360 And I don't mind having a man and a girlfriend.
00:05:22.500 Especially if that girl can cater to my needs as a woman, as a lover.
00:05:30.420 I'm bisexual.
00:05:32.260 W.
00:05:32.800 I like men dominantly.
00:05:34.520 But I do have an interest.
00:05:35.860 Women always have.
00:05:37.440 Steph is the first woman I've been with.
00:05:39.280 We've had other girlfriends and experiences as life goes on with my partners.
00:05:43.480 Clearly, I'm straight.
00:05:44.380 I identify as straight, man.
00:05:45.820 I'm a straight male.
00:05:46.740 You feel me?
00:05:47.440 I love that.
00:05:47.980 W.
00:05:48.280 LGBT community as well, though.
00:05:50.680 Because, I mean, clearly, I'm still a part of it.
00:05:52.860 It was actually four of us.
00:05:54.580 It started out four.
00:05:55.700 It was just thrown into the fire.
00:05:57.660 I knew nothing about polyamorous.
00:05:59.700 Dating the second woman saved our relationship.
00:06:02.880 What?
00:06:04.200 Wow.
00:06:05.540 Saved it?
00:06:06.200 Wow.
00:06:06.700 It's really working out for them.
00:06:08.460 It seems like they're extremely happy.
00:06:09.940 They got everything figured out.
00:06:11.040 Oh, that's Stephanie's daughter.
00:06:13.460 The other girl?
00:06:14.620 Oh, that's her daughter.
00:06:15.560 I guess that's Stephanie.
00:06:16.480 How many children do you have?
00:06:22.100 We have seven and two.
00:06:24.900 It's about to be nine.
00:06:26.260 What the?
00:06:27.020 Aw.
00:06:27.680 Okay.
00:06:28.880 One of the best and biggest perks of being in polyamorous relationship and having multiple
00:06:33.820 people, genuine multiple people, is if you have a family and you have kids, like, that
00:06:40.500 is one of the best perks, literally, is having someone to take care of your kid when you have
00:06:46.680 nobody to take care of your kid.
00:06:48.380 You know, if you don't have child care.
00:06:51.500 We are teaching Malaya or ABCs.
00:06:54.840 Look at that.
00:06:55.620 The kid seems really happy.
00:06:56.720 Chad, I don't understand why you're saying cringe, L family.
00:06:59.300 Like, yes, the women are gay, but it's fine.
00:07:01.040 Like, women can be gay.
00:07:02.480 Women can be gay.
00:07:03.260 There's nothing wrong with that.
00:07:04.080 Bumbaka!
00:07:06.160 It's fine?
00:07:06.720 It's good.
00:07:07.220 It's good.
00:07:07.840 Yeah, it's fine.
00:07:08.460 LGBT only for women.
00:07:10.100 Numbers, colors, and shapes.
00:07:13.180 And video games.
00:07:16.060 That too.
00:07:17.840 The best thing about having your daughter home and doing homeschooling, to me, personally,
00:07:22.460 is that I get to school.
00:07:23.060 And they homeschool the kids.
00:07:24.380 Like, they should be because...
00:07:25.320 I don't know if I believe in homeschooling.
00:07:28.100 Why?
00:07:29.120 Because you need to meet different people and that builds character.
00:07:32.700 Having those social interactions with other kids.
00:07:35.200 Well, if they meet in the neighborhood, but schools are like, there's so much brainwashing,
00:07:38.780 that's what we're going to react to the rest of the stream.
00:07:39.920 We're going to slay these demons.
00:07:41.840 These are the type of people that's going to raise your kids.
00:07:44.120 No, no.
00:07:44.620 You can still take control in the house.
00:07:45.880 And also, you can meet the teachers and people before you freaking put your kid in
00:07:49.760 a school.
00:07:52.280 Chad, these are the type of people that are going to raise your kids in school.
00:07:55.400 That's what I'm saying.
00:07:55.860 WL on homeschooling.
00:07:57.060 I think...
00:07:57.580 Keep them in the neighborhood.
00:07:58.880 Bring them in, like, some sort of...
00:08:00.380 Maybe sports?
00:08:01.240 No.
00:08:02.000 I think children need that interaction.
00:08:04.200 There's so many interactions I can remember.
00:08:07.140 This is the teacher, though.
00:08:08.300 Look at the teacher.
00:08:09.000 This may come as a surprise to you.
00:08:10.700 Stop.
00:08:11.140 Stop.
00:08:11.420 Listen.
00:08:11.680 Listen.
00:08:12.240 This is what you're going to send your kids off every day to have this person.
00:08:14.880 No, you can avoid schools that have these people.
00:08:17.500 A bearded woman, lady.
00:08:18.980 You can avoid that.
00:08:20.120 A man, lady.
00:08:21.040 Okay, stop.
00:08:22.020 A he, she, they.
00:08:22.980 I can't.
00:08:23.380 I can't.
00:08:24.680 Stop putting me in this position.
00:08:26.600 But I rarely get misgendered by children, especially because when I'm out and about, like, in the
00:08:30.880 world, I always have a mask on.
00:08:32.680 So, like, you can't, you would think I'm a lady, which makes me feel a lot better than
00:08:37.360 being called a man.
00:08:38.460 And so sometimes kids will say that because they see the long hair.
00:08:41.220 And even if a child did misgender me, I would not blame the child because they don't understand
00:08:46.180 the ramifications of their actions.
00:08:48.420 I would absolutely blame the parent.
00:08:50.740 Why the fuck are you raising your child in a binary that's going to oppress them and
00:08:55.540 everybody else?
00:08:56.960 Bumbucka!
00:08:57.520 What?
00:08:59.560 This is the future.
00:09:00.580 No.
00:09:01.060 They really got to figure it out.
00:09:02.620 Spend more quiet time with her.
00:09:04.300 No, who's thinking about having more kids, too?
00:09:06.600 We got one in the oven.
00:09:08.320 Just cooking.
00:09:09.520 On slow baking.
00:09:10.600 I want to have a baby with both of these beautiful women.
00:09:15.320 I see Steph's children as my own, and I love them dearly, and I take care of them, like,
00:09:20.040 if they were my own babies.
00:09:21.360 I mean, they really are.
00:09:22.900 Daily.
00:09:24.100 They look up to you like, they look up to her like a second mom.
00:09:27.340 Yeah.
00:09:27.780 I do then ask them.
00:09:29.440 They call me mom.
00:09:30.160 How do you see, how do you see Rose?
00:09:31.880 And we see Rose like my stepmom.
00:09:33.700 Some of the main challenges of being in a Thripple, I would say, is all the backlash
00:09:39.680 that we get social media-wise.
00:09:41.640 I mean, people of just, like, judgment.
00:09:44.120 The most common misconception we have about our poly relationship, they probably think
00:09:48.320 I was a pimp.
00:09:49.620 I get that a lot.
00:09:51.500 My concern, more or less, is what probably...
00:09:53.980 How is he a pimp?
00:09:56.380 They're in a house.
00:09:57.700 They're fed.
00:09:58.780 Everything's fine.
00:09:59.500 They don't have to sell box.
00:10:00.820 Just because there's two of them doesn't mean it's pimping.
00:10:02.300 It'd be my wife's backlash to it because they feel like the woman is weak.
00:10:06.980 And unfortunately, the woman is strong because of those reasons I mentioned, as in being
00:10:12.440 secure yourself, not being jealous.
00:10:14.560 So when somebody say something about that being a weaker link or the woman is, you know,
00:10:18.540 you're being manipulated, it's ignorant because the woman has a choice.
00:10:23.100 It's her choice.
00:10:24.480 She's definitely hotter, though.
00:10:26.800 She's definitely hotter than the two of them.
00:10:29.040 I would never share my man.
00:10:32.680 You're insecure.
00:10:33.600 Chat left or right?
00:10:34.560 You're by yourself.
00:10:35.880 You don't know who you are.
00:10:37.340 That's why you're sharing your man.
00:10:39.360 You're being brainwashed.
00:10:41.540 If I'm choosing to be in a poly, I don't have to be here if I don't want to.
00:10:46.320 This is not what I want.
00:10:47.120 I don't have to be here.
00:10:47.880 I'm not obligated or having a gun put to my head.
00:10:51.760 If you don't like it, that's you.
00:10:54.300 But if I like it, why are you judging me for what I like and what I want to do with my life?
00:11:00.540 Why do you look so concerned?
00:11:04.520 I'm not.
00:11:05.760 You look worried.
00:11:06.640 I've heard those same freaking comments before, like us being open.
00:11:11.740 It is annoying.
00:11:13.180 He's just brainwashing you.
00:11:15.060 He's just putting that all in your head.
00:11:18.240 Everyone's saying left.
00:11:19.260 See?
00:11:19.740 So, it seems like they have it equal.
00:11:22.220 What if we had something like this, but you were the priority?
00:11:25.980 And the others were just like...
00:11:26.800 No.
00:11:27.480 You're like little maids.
00:11:29.160 No.
00:11:30.880 What would change your mind?
00:11:32.700 Nothing.
00:11:34.820 She's caverned that.
00:11:36.640 Maybe after you gave me a baby.
00:11:41.860 Okay.
00:11:42.440 So, you get the first one.
00:11:43.380 Then I'm there forever.
00:11:44.820 Yeah.
00:11:45.320 So, you could lock it in.
00:11:46.280 No.
00:11:46.640 I get all of them.
00:11:47.780 You're not having babies with multiple people.
00:11:50.220 But then how am I going to keep the second wife around?
00:11:54.100 I don't know.
00:11:59.700 Wrong.
00:12:01.680 Hey.
00:12:02.420 When your mama coming?
00:12:03.420 She should be coming soon.
00:12:04.660 She said she was on the way already.
00:12:07.320 Yeah.
00:12:07.440 So, she should be popping up any minute now.
00:12:09.760 Whew.
00:12:10.220 It's hot out here, right?
00:12:11.400 Yeah, it is.
00:12:12.120 I'm going to go make some drinks.
00:12:13.520 Okay.
00:12:13.780 Make mine's virgin, please.
00:12:15.000 Okay.
00:12:15.960 Yeah.
00:12:17.180 Nice and virgin.
00:12:19.120 Good.
00:12:19.780 No haram.
00:12:20.380 I'm a little nervous about my mom coming.
00:12:22.940 W?
00:12:25.980 Chad, is this haram?
00:12:27.040 I think this should be allowed.
00:12:27.980 I don't see anything wrong with that.
00:12:29.180 I think because I don't know what she's going to say about our poly relationship.
00:12:33.280 So, I'm quite curious.
00:12:34.780 She doesn't know?
00:12:36.100 She doesn't know what?
00:12:36.760 That they're in a poly relationship.
00:12:38.460 What the heck?
00:12:39.160 Who doesn't know?
00:12:39.880 Oh, her parents?
00:12:40.380 Her mom.
00:12:41.400 Oh.
00:12:42.120 Yeah.
00:12:42.380 Well, now she does.
00:12:44.220 Now she does.
00:12:45.100 I don't know if this is the best way to reveal that info.
00:12:46.940 Just to know what are her thoughts and how does she truly feel?
00:12:50.780 Hello.
00:12:51.720 Hey, mom.
00:12:53.560 You made it.
00:12:57.040 What's her reaction going to be?
00:13:00.100 She's going to be upset.
00:13:01.540 No, actually, no.
00:13:02.120 It's been a good vibe all the time.
00:13:03.360 She's going to be okay with it.
00:13:12.140 Virgin Mary here.
00:13:13.340 Salud.
00:13:13.700 The first time my daughter told me about the poly relationship.
00:13:18.660 Well, she's Dominican.
00:13:21.140 Oh, yeah?
00:13:21.920 And she's Dominican?
00:13:23.720 Bro, like, look at the left side.
00:13:26.560 Look.
00:13:29.200 Bro.
00:13:32.220 I wasn't really too happy about it because...
00:13:38.700 I did not pre-watch this.
00:13:43.960 I did not know it was going to be.
00:13:46.140 To me, if I love someone, you know, I don't like to share it with nobody.
00:13:51.160 But now, you know, I really...
00:13:53.400 How do you know she's Dominican?
00:13:54.520 Her name.
00:13:55.360 What is it like?
00:13:56.500 Belkis.
00:13:57.980 Belkitsa.
00:13:58.560 That makes her happy.
00:14:00.980 And I love my daughter, so whatever makes her happy makes me happy.
00:14:04.040 As long as you're happy, baby, I'm happy.
00:14:06.420 Fitness is key.
00:14:08.120 I love you.
00:14:09.260 It was really good to hear my mom's thoughts again because, you know, I see that she's more
00:14:14.460 positive and more enlightened about our situation.
00:14:19.320 Look how happy they are.
00:14:20.600 I'm just...
00:14:21.100 Stop looking worried.
00:14:22.300 Why are you looking upset?
00:14:24.460 I'm not.
00:14:25.740 What's wrong?
00:14:26.360 Hey, hey, hey.
00:14:27.620 Haram, haram, haram.
00:14:28.940 You can't be seen.
00:14:29.880 And all she wants me is to be happy.
00:14:34.540 We're open to having one more person to our family that can inherit these blessings and
00:14:40.780 share and help the growth for the foundation of the future of all our families.
00:14:45.420 I like being in a couple because it's extra love.
00:14:48.740 It's a lot of inspiration.
00:14:50.720 Life is just three times as amazing.
00:14:54.720 Three times.
00:14:55.300 See, the love, it's exponential.
00:14:56.920 See, when there's two people, it's like, you know, there's the...
00:15:00.940 But when you add another, it's just...
00:15:02.920 It all multiplies.
00:15:03.900 But girls are just so sneaky.
00:15:07.140 What do you mean?
00:15:08.600 They will try to take my place and remove me.
00:15:12.260 You think so?
00:15:12.960 Yeah.
00:15:14.260 Nah.
00:15:15.220 Not if...
00:15:15.540 But they love each other.
00:15:16.920 The two wives, they're also kissing...
00:15:18.240 No, it's hard to find a girl that is that way.
00:15:24.640 Yeah.
00:15:25.040 They're going to be trying to take you away.
00:15:29.960 Trying to slow their way in.
00:15:31.540 Yeah.
00:15:33.620 Yeah.
00:15:34.420 One day.
00:15:35.360 One day.
00:15:36.780 One day.
00:15:44.600 That's it.
00:15:45.020 This is your job?
00:15:45.600 This is your job.