SNEAKO - Is Polyamory Brainwashing？

00:00:00.000 Let's see if they're brainwashed. 0.97

00:00:01.980 It's Mazaya.

00:00:03.320 And he fell in love with Stephanie and Rosa.

00:00:07.380 We are a throuple.

00:00:09.360 Stephanie and Mazaya dated for a couple of years before breaking up.

00:00:14.540 When they reconnected, Mazaya introduced her to his new girlfriend, Rosa.

00:00:20.120 In the beginning, seeing him with other women was my mother.

00:00:24.300 Despite initial reservations,

00:00:26.180 the three people are now expanding their family with a new baby on the way.

00:00:31.420 Hey! 0.99

00:00:33.040 Who had the baby? 0.90

00:00:34.780 Does it matter?

00:00:35.700 Yes, whoever he had the baby with is the more important.

00:00:39.020 It's not an even relationship.

00:00:40.020 No, but they're all in the same team, so it's their baby.

00:00:43.060 It doesn't even matter who birthed it. 0.97

00:00:44.600 Chad, is this degenerate? 0.97

00:00:45.740 Don't grow on this relationship. 0.96

00:00:47.220 I am amused by this.

00:00:50.200 But there's a lot of God people in here that are going to say this is degenerate.

00:00:54.580 She kind of looked like you.

00:00:56.180 You got the same hair.

00:00:58.000 I was thinking something like that, and I wish you just didn't say it, because whatever, bro.

00:01:03.720 You're thinking what?

00:01:05.640 It's whatever, bro.

00:01:06.480 What?

00:01:07.180 Nothing.

00:01:08.400 You just give them things to make fun of me for.

00:01:11.460 They're not even making fun of you.

00:01:13.720 Thanks to the two, Al Khalifa.

00:01:16.620 But their family setup has attracted plenty of criticism.

00:01:21.500 The most common misconception, they probably think I was a pimp.

00:01:24.340 What a woman is, you know, you're being manipulated. 1.00

00:01:27.560 You're insecure about yourself.

00:01:29.920 You don't know who you are.

00:01:31.420 You're being brainwashed.

00:01:35.340 Me and Rose cook, but I kind of...

00:01:38.280 I like how they didn't specify whose baby it was, but it's not important.

00:01:42.740 Yeah, whatever.

00:01:43.740 Okay.

00:01:44.000 I do most of the cooking because she works on the weekends, so we kind of alternate.

00:01:48.380 Babe, your drink is ready.

00:01:50.340 We are a throuple.

00:01:57.760 Me and Mazzea, we met back in 2014.

00:02:01.600 I used to follow him on Instagram.

00:02:03.780 And then one day, we decided to link up.

00:02:06.200 We chilled.

00:02:07.400 It was a vibe from the moment we met.

00:02:09.660 And then we didn't speak until two years after that.

00:02:12.980 And once we rekindled and reconnected, it's been a wrap since then.

00:02:18.080 And then we started dating in 2018.

00:02:21.160 I met Rose back in 2019.

00:02:26.840 He brought me to their condo that they used to live in.

00:02:31.200 And boom, there goes Rose.

00:02:33.300 Hey! 0.99

00:02:34.540 You know, we had spoke about Polly before, and he had mentioned it.

00:02:39.440 And he also mentioned Rose at the time.

00:02:41.740 Uh-oh.

00:02:43.280 For everybody saying degenerate, look at all the demon signs.

00:02:47.920 Uh-uh.

00:02:49.020 Devil horns.

00:02:49.940 Let me get a bite.

00:02:52.060 Ooh.

00:02:56.500 Ooh.

00:02:57.620 Yummy.

00:02:58.400 Yummy, that ain't hit left or right.

00:03:00.400 Yummy, yummy, yummy, yummy.

00:03:02.280 Buh, buh, buh, buh.

00:03:05.040 Cringe? 0.81

00:03:06.420 No.

00:03:07.640 They don't seem cringe.

00:03:08.660 In the beginning of the relationship,

00:03:10.940 I was so used to being monogamy.

00:03:12.560 And I was so into wanting to be with him and him and him and him.

00:03:17.460 And in the beginning, me seeing him with other women was like, hold up.

00:03:22.040 Took me about two or three years.

00:03:24.520 I was on and off.

00:03:25.580 But, um, I'm over with that.

00:03:27.980 And now it's just way better.

00:03:30.040 It was hard in the beginning because emotions were clashing.

00:03:33.220 And I had been dating him monogamously.

00:03:36.300 But we broke up and I had already, like, known about Stephanie.

00:03:41.260 You know, he has baby moms and stuff.

00:03:43.720 My loves, can you guys...

00:03:45.040 You think they're beef?

00:03:46.940 Uh, in the beginning, yeah, for sure.

00:03:49.160 There's definitely messages in, like, her saying, 1.00

00:03:52.180 why are you hanging out with that freaking whore? 1.00

00:03:55.180 With that what? 1.00

00:03:56.700 That whore. 1.00

00:03:58.820 Say it. 1.00

00:03:59.140 We're on Rumble.

00:03:59.640 Say it with the chest.

00:04:00.520 No. 1.00

00:04:00.960 With that fucking whore! 1.00

00:04:03.300 Set the table, please. 1.00

00:04:04.980 Yes, you.

00:04:05.740 Thank you.

00:04:07.140 Do I have to?

00:04:09.120 Yes.

00:04:09.560 The beauty of having two wives and the family that we have is the fact that we can keep

00:04:18.480 growing, being able to help each other, eat at the table.

00:04:22.460 The meals are always immaculate to the point where it's like, you know, we just never had

00:04:27.300 that growing up before.

00:04:29.100 The beauty to me is having that stability and that help from a woman.

00:04:33.520 Like, imagine what you can do with two and what people do with one.

00:04:37.240 And the fact that they chose me and had me a part of their lives as well is a blessing

00:04:42.320 to me.

00:04:43.120 Let's pray, guys.

00:04:45.040 Monday.

00:04:45.440 All right.

00:04:46.060 Look at that.

00:04:46.560 It's a family of God, too.

00:04:47.780 Maybe they aren't demonic.

00:04:49.440 They have the double horns.

00:04:50.500 He's got the Jesus tattoo.

00:04:51.720 They seem like a happy family.

00:04:53.540 It seems like it could...

00:04:55.100 Yeah.

00:04:55.860 Yeah.

00:04:57.180 Yeah.

00:04:59.580 So, what are you trying to say?

00:05:03.360 Thanks, baby.

00:05:04.680 All right.

00:05:05.040 Thank you, Lord, for this food.

00:05:08.080 May God bless those who don't have.

00:05:10.140 Amen.

00:05:10.740 Amen.

00:05:11.740 Amen.

00:05:12.660 What made me decide to be polyamorous is I like men and women.

00:05:18.360 And I don't mind having a man and a girlfriend.

00:05:22.500 Especially if that girl can cater to my needs as a woman, as a lover. 1.00

00:05:30.420 I'm bisexual.

00:05:32.260 W.

00:05:32.800 I like men dominantly.

00:05:34.520 But I do have an interest.

00:05:35.860 Women always have. 1.00

00:05:37.440 Steph is the first woman I've been with.

00:05:39.280 We've had other girlfriends and experiences as life goes on with my partners.

00:05:43.480 Clearly, I'm straight.

00:05:44.380 I identify as straight, man.

00:05:45.820 I'm a straight male.

00:05:46.740 You feel me?

00:05:47.440 I love that.

00:05:47.980 W.

00:05:48.280 LGBT community as well, though.

00:05:50.680 Because, I mean, clearly, I'm still a part of it.

00:05:52.860 It was actually four of us.

00:05:54.580 It started out four.

00:05:55.700 It was just thrown into the fire.

00:05:57.660 I knew nothing about polyamorous.

00:05:59.700 Dating the second woman saved our relationship.

00:06:02.880 What?

00:06:04.200 Wow.

00:06:05.540 Saved it?

00:06:06.200 Wow.

00:06:06.700 It's really working out for them.

00:06:08.460 It seems like they're extremely happy.

00:06:09.940 They got everything figured out.

00:06:11.040 Oh, that's Stephanie's daughter.

00:06:13.460 The other girl?

00:06:14.620 Oh, that's her daughter.

00:06:15.560 I guess that's Stephanie.

00:06:16.480 How many children do you have?

00:06:22.100 We have seven and two.

00:06:24.900 It's about to be nine.

00:06:26.260 What the?

00:06:27.020 Aw.

00:06:27.680 Okay.

00:06:28.880 One of the best and biggest perks of being in polyamorous relationship and having multiple

00:06:33.820 people, genuine multiple people, is if you have a family and you have kids, like, that

00:06:40.500 is one of the best perks, literally, is having someone to take care of your kid when you have

00:06:46.680 nobody to take care of your kid.

00:06:48.380 You know, if you don't have child care.

00:06:51.500 We are teaching Malaya or ABCs.

00:06:54.840 Look at that.

00:06:55.620 The kid seems really happy.

00:06:56.720 Chad, I don't understand why you're saying cringe, L family. 0.98

00:06:59.300 Like, yes, the women are gay, but it's fine. 1.00

00:07:01.040 Like, women can be gay. 1.00

00:07:02.480 Women can be gay. 0.98

00:07:03.260 There's nothing wrong with that. 0.98

00:07:04.080 Bumbaka! 0.68

00:07:06.160 It's fine?

00:07:06.720 It's good.

00:07:07.220 It's good.

00:07:07.840 Yeah, it's fine.

00:07:08.460 LGBT only for women.

00:07:10.100 Numbers, colors, and shapes.

00:07:13.180 And video games.

00:07:16.060 That too.

00:07:17.840 The best thing about having your daughter home and doing homeschooling, to me, personally,

00:07:22.460 is that I get to school.

00:07:23.060 And they homeschool the kids.

00:07:24.380 Like, they should be because...

00:07:25.320 I don't know if I believe in homeschooling.

00:07:28.100 Why?

00:07:29.120 Because you need to meet different people and that builds character.

00:07:32.700 Having those social interactions with other kids.

00:07:35.200 Well, if they meet in the neighborhood, but schools are like, there's so much brainwashing,

00:07:38.780 that's what we're going to react to the rest of the stream.

00:07:39.920 We're going to slay these demons.

00:07:41.840 These are the type of people that's going to raise your kids.

00:07:44.120 No, no.

00:07:44.620 You can still take control in the house.

00:07:45.880 And also, you can meet the teachers and people before you freaking put your kid in

00:07:49.760 a school.

00:07:52.280 Chad, these are the type of people that are going to raise your kids in school.

00:07:55.400 That's what I'm saying.

00:07:55.860 WL on homeschooling.

00:07:57.060 I think...

00:07:57.580 Keep them in the neighborhood.

00:07:58.880 Bring them in, like, some sort of...

00:08:00.380 Maybe sports?

00:08:01.240 No.

00:08:02.000 I think children need that interaction.

00:08:04.200 There's so many interactions I can remember.

00:08:07.140 This is the teacher, though.

00:08:08.300 Look at the teacher.

00:08:09.000 This may come as a surprise to you.

00:08:10.700 Stop.

00:08:11.140 Stop.

00:08:11.420 Listen.

00:08:11.680 Listen.

00:08:12.240 This is what you're going to send your kids off every day to have this person.

00:08:14.880 No, you can avoid schools that have these people.

00:08:17.500 A bearded woman, lady.

00:08:18.980 You can avoid that.

00:08:20.120 A man, lady.

00:08:21.040 Okay, stop.

00:08:22.020 A he, she, they. 0.99

00:08:22.980 I can't.

00:08:23.380 I can't.

00:08:24.680 Stop putting me in this position.

00:08:26.600 But I rarely get misgendered by children, especially because when I'm out and about, like, in the

00:08:30.880 world, I always have a mask on.

00:08:32.680 So, like, you can't, you would think I'm a lady, which makes me feel a lot better than

00:08:37.360 being called a man.

00:08:38.460 And so sometimes kids will say that because they see the long hair.

00:08:41.220 And even if a child did misgender me, I would not blame the child because they don't understand

00:08:46.180 the ramifications of their actions.

00:08:48.420 I would absolutely blame the parent. 0.99

00:08:50.740 Why the fuck are you raising your child in a binary that's going to oppress them and 1.00

00:08:55.540 everybody else? 1.00

00:08:56.960 Bumbucka! 0.99

00:08:57.520 What?

00:08:59.560 This is the future.

00:09:00.580 No.

00:09:01.060 They really got to figure it out.

00:09:02.620 Spend more quiet time with her.

00:09:04.300 No, who's thinking about having more kids, too?

00:09:06.600 We got one in the oven.

00:09:08.320 Just cooking.

00:09:09.520 On slow baking.

00:09:10.600 I want to have a baby with both of these beautiful women. 0.83

00:09:15.320 I see Steph's children as my own, and I love them dearly, and I take care of them, like,

00:09:20.040 if they were my own babies.

00:09:21.360 I mean, they really are.

00:09:22.900 Daily.

00:09:24.100 They look up to you like, they look up to her like a second mom.

00:09:27.340 Yeah.

00:09:27.780 I do then ask them.

00:09:29.440 They call me mom.

00:09:30.160 How do you see, how do you see Rose?

00:09:31.880 And we see Rose like my stepmom.

00:09:33.700 Some of the main challenges of being in a Thripple, I would say, is all the backlash

00:09:39.680 that we get social media-wise.

00:09:41.640 I mean, people of just, like, judgment.

00:09:44.120 The most common misconception we have about our poly relationship, they probably think

00:09:48.320 I was a pimp.

00:09:49.620 I get that a lot.

00:09:51.500 My concern, more or less, is what probably...

00:09:53.980 How is he a pimp?

00:09:56.380 They're in a house.

00:09:57.700 They're fed.

00:09:58.780 Everything's fine.

00:09:59.500 They don't have to sell box.

00:10:00.820 Just because there's two of them doesn't mean it's pimping.

00:10:02.300 It'd be my wife's backlash to it because they feel like the woman is weak. 1.00

00:10:06.980 And unfortunately, the woman is strong because of those reasons I mentioned, as in being

00:10:12.440 secure yourself, not being jealous.

00:10:14.560 So when somebody say something about that being a weaker link or the woman is, you know,

00:10:18.540 you're being manipulated, it's ignorant because the woman has a choice. 1.00

00:10:23.100 It's her choice. 0.98

00:10:24.480 She's definitely hotter, though. 1.00

00:10:26.800 She's definitely hotter than the two of them. 1.00

00:10:29.040 I would never share my man. 0.88

00:10:32.680 You're insecure.

00:10:33.600 Chat left or right?

00:10:34.560 You're by yourself.

00:10:35.880 You don't know who you are.

00:10:37.340 That's why you're sharing your man. 0.61

00:10:39.360 You're being brainwashed.

00:10:41.540 If I'm choosing to be in a poly, I don't have to be here if I don't want to.

00:10:46.320 This is not what I want.

00:10:47.120 I don't have to be here.

00:10:47.880 I'm not obligated or having a gun put to my head.

00:10:51.760 If you don't like it, that's you.

00:10:54.300 But if I like it, why are you judging me for what I like and what I want to do with my life?

00:11:00.540 Why do you look so concerned?

00:11:04.520 I'm not.

00:11:05.760 You look worried. 0.91

00:11:06.640 I've heard those same freaking comments before, like us being open. 0.96

00:11:11.740 It is annoying. 0.98

00:11:13.180 He's just brainwashing you.

00:11:15.060 He's just putting that all in your head.

00:11:18.240 Everyone's saying left.

00:11:19.260 See?

00:11:19.740 So, it seems like they have it equal.

00:11:22.220 What if we had something like this, but you were the priority?

00:11:25.980 And the others were just like...

00:11:26.800 No.

00:11:27.480 You're like little maids. 1.00

00:11:29.160 No.

00:11:30.880 What would change your mind?

00:11:32.700 Nothing.

00:11:34.820 She's caverned that. 1.00

00:11:36.640 Maybe after you gave me a baby.

00:11:41.860 Okay.

00:11:42.440 So, you get the first one.

00:11:43.380 Then I'm there forever.

00:11:44.820 Yeah.

00:11:45.320 So, you could lock it in.

00:11:46.280 No.

00:11:46.640 I get all of them.

00:11:47.780 You're not having babies with multiple people.

00:11:50.220 But then how am I going to keep the second wife around? 1.00

00:11:54.100 I don't know.

00:11:59.700 Wrong.

00:12:01.680 Hey.

00:12:02.420 When your mama coming?

00:12:03.420 She should be coming soon.

00:12:04.660 She said she was on the way already.

00:12:07.320 Yeah.

00:12:07.440 So, she should be popping up any minute now.

00:12:09.760 Whew.

00:12:10.220 It's hot out here, right?

00:12:11.400 Yeah, it is.

00:12:12.120 I'm going to go make some drinks.

00:12:13.520 Okay.

00:12:13.780 Make mine's virgin, please.

00:12:15.000 Okay.

00:12:15.960 Yeah.

00:12:17.180 Nice and virgin.

00:12:19.120 Good.

00:12:19.780 No haram.

00:12:20.380 I'm a little nervous about my mom coming.

00:12:22.940 W?

00:12:25.980 Chad, is this haram?

00:12:27.040 I think this should be allowed.

00:12:27.980 I don't see anything wrong with that.

00:12:29.180 I think because I don't know what she's going to say about our poly relationship.

00:12:33.280 So, I'm quite curious.

00:12:34.780 She doesn't know?

00:12:36.100 She doesn't know what?

00:12:36.760 That they're in a poly relationship. 0.97

00:12:38.460 What the heck? 0.87

00:12:39.160 Who doesn't know? 0.97

00:12:39.880 Oh, her parents?

00:12:40.380 Her mom.

00:12:41.400 Oh.

00:12:42.120 Yeah.

00:12:42.380 Well, now she does.

00:12:44.220 Now she does.

00:12:45.100 I don't know if this is the best way to reveal that info.

00:12:46.940 Just to know what are her thoughts and how does she truly feel?

00:12:50.780 Hello.

00:12:51.720 Hey, mom.

00:12:53.560 You made it.

00:12:57.040 What's her reaction going to be?

00:13:00.100 She's going to be upset.

00:13:01.540 No, actually, no.

00:13:02.120 It's been a good vibe all the time.

00:13:03.360 She's going to be okay with it.

00:13:12.140 Virgin Mary here.

00:13:13.340 Salud.

00:13:13.700 The first time my daughter told me about the poly relationship.

00:13:18.660 Well, she's Dominican. 0.93

00:13:21.140 Oh, yeah?

00:13:21.920 And she's Dominican? 0.81

00:13:23.720 Bro, like, look at the left side.

00:13:26.560 Look.

00:13:29.200 Bro.

00:13:32.220 I wasn't really too happy about it because...

00:13:38.700 I did not pre-watch this.

00:13:43.960 I did not know it was going to be.

00:13:46.140 To me, if I love someone, you know, I don't like to share it with nobody.

00:13:51.160 But now, you know, I really...

00:13:53.400 How do you know she's Dominican? 0.91

00:13:54.520 Her name.

00:13:55.360 What is it like?

00:13:56.500 Belkis.

00:13:57.980 Belkitsa.

00:13:58.560 That makes her happy.

00:14:00.980 And I love my daughter, so whatever makes her happy makes me happy.

00:14:04.040 As long as you're happy, baby, I'm happy.

00:14:06.420 Fitness is key.

00:14:08.120 I love you.

00:14:09.260 It was really good to hear my mom's thoughts again because, you know, I see that she's more

00:14:14.460 positive and more enlightened about our situation.

00:14:19.320 Look how happy they are.

00:14:20.600 I'm just...

00:14:21.100 Stop looking worried.

00:14:22.300 Why are you looking upset?

00:14:24.460 I'm not.

00:14:25.740 What's wrong?

00:14:26.360 Hey, hey, hey.

00:14:27.620 Haram, haram, haram.

00:14:28.940 You can't be seen.

00:14:29.880 And all she wants me is to be happy.

00:14:34.540 We're open to having one more person to our family that can inherit these blessings and

00:14:40.780 share and help the growth for the foundation of the future of all our families.

00:14:45.420 I like being in a couple because it's extra love.

00:14:48.740 It's a lot of inspiration.

00:14:50.720 Life is just three times as amazing.

00:14:54.720 Three times.

00:14:55.300 See, the love, it's exponential.

00:14:56.920 See, when there's two people, it's like, you know, there's the...

00:15:00.940 But when you add another, it's just...

00:15:02.920 It all multiplies.

00:15:03.900 But girls are just so sneaky. 1.00

00:15:07.140 What do you mean?

00:15:08.600 They will try to take my place and remove me.

00:15:12.260 You think so?

00:15:12.960 Yeah.

00:15:14.260 Nah.

00:15:15.220 Not if...

00:15:15.540 But they love each other.

00:15:16.920 The two wives, they're also kissing... 0.68

00:15:18.240 No, it's hard to find a girl that is that way.

00:15:24.640 Yeah.

00:15:25.040 They're going to be trying to take you away.

00:15:29.960 Trying to slow their way in.

00:15:31.540 Yeah.

00:15:33.620 Yeah.

00:15:34.420 One day.

00:15:35.360 One day.

00:15:36.780 One day.

00:15:44.600 That's it.

00:15:45.020 This is your job?

00:15:45.600 This is your job.

SNEAKO - November 12, 2022

Is Polyamory Brainwashing？

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