SNEAKO - November 12, 2022


Is Polyamory Brainwashing？

Topics
poly relationship
Hosted by
Nicolas Kenn De Balinthazy
Mentioned
Rose Stephanie Chad Yummy Steph Rosa Virgin Mary Al Khalifa W. LGBT Mazzea Haram
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Episode Stats


Length

15 minutes

Words per minute

162.18

Word count

2,556

Sentence count

418

Harmful content

Misogyny

26

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Toxicity

28

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Hate speech

16

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Summary

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Stephanie and Mazaya and Rosa are a throuple with a new baby on the way, but is it a good one? Is it a bad one? And what does it mean for their family situation?

Transcript

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00:00:00 Let's see if they're brainwashed. 0.97
00:00:01 It's Mazaya.
00:00:03 And he fell in love with Stephanie and Rosa.
00:00:07 We are a throuple.
00:00:09 Stephanie and Mazaya dated for a couple of years before breaking up.
00:00:14 When they reconnected, Mazaya introduced her to his new girlfriend, Rosa.
00:00:20 In the beginning, seeing him with other women was my mother.
00:00:24 Despite initial reservations,
00:00:26 the three people are now expanding their family with a new baby on the way.
00:00:31 Hey! 0.99
00:00:33 Who had the baby? 0.90
00:00:34 Does it matter?
00:00:35 Yes, whoever he had the baby with is the more important.
00:00:39 It's not an even relationship.
00:00:40 No, but they're all in the same team, so it's their baby.
00:00:43 It doesn't even matter who birthed it. 0.97
00:00:44 Chad, is this degenerate? 0.97
00:00:45 Don't grow on this relationship. 0.96
00:00:47 I am amused by this.
00:00:50 But there's a lot of God people in here that are going to say this is degenerate.
00:00:54 She kind of looked like you.
00:00:56 You got the same hair.
00:00:58 I was thinking something like that, and I wish you just didn't say it, because whatever, bro.
00:01:03 You're thinking what?
00:01:05 It's whatever, bro.
00:01:06 What?
00:01:07 Nothing.
00:01:08 You just give them things to make fun of me for.
00:01:11 They're not even making fun of you.
00:01:13 Thanks to the two, Al Khalifa.
00:01:16 But their family setup has attracted plenty of criticism.
00:01:21 The most common misconception, they probably think I was a pimp.
00:01:24 What a woman is, you know, you're being manipulated. 1.00
00:01:27 You're insecure about yourself.
00:01:29 You don't know who you are.
00:01:31 You're being brainwashed.
00:01:35 Me and Rose cook, but I kind of...
00:01:38 I like how they didn't specify whose baby it was, but it's not important.
00:01:42 Yeah, whatever.
00:01:43 Okay.
00:01:44 I do most of the cooking because she works on the weekends, so we kind of alternate.
00:01:48 Babe, your drink is ready.
00:01:50 We are a throuple.
00:01:57 Me and Mazzea, we met back in 2014.
00:02:01 I used to follow him on Instagram.
00:02:03 And then one day, we decided to link up.
00:02:06 We chilled.
00:02:07 It was a vibe from the moment we met.
00:02:09 And then we didn't speak until two years after that.
00:02:12 And once we rekindled and reconnected, it's been a wrap since then.
00:02:18 And then we started dating in 2018.
00:02:21 I met Rose back in 2019.
00:02:26 He brought me to their condo that they used to live in.
00:02:31 And boom, there goes Rose.
00:02:33 Hey! 0.99
00:02:34 You know, we had spoke about Polly before, and he had mentioned it.
00:02:39 And he also mentioned Rose at the time.
00:02:41 Uh-oh.
00:02:43 For everybody saying degenerate, look at all the demon signs.
00:02:47 Uh-uh.
00:02:49 Devil horns.
00:02:49 Let me get a bite.
00:02:52 Ooh.
00:02:56 Ooh.
00:02:57 Yummy.
00:02:58 Yummy, that ain't hit left or right.
00:03:00 Yummy, yummy, yummy, yummy.
00:03:02 Buh, buh, buh, buh.
00:03:05 Cringe? 0.81
00:03:06 No.
00:03:07 They don't seem cringe.
00:03:08 In the beginning of the relationship,
00:03:10 I was so used to being monogamy.
00:03:12 And I was so into wanting to be with him and him and him and him.
00:03:17 And in the beginning, me seeing him with other women was like, hold up.
00:03:22 Took me about two or three years.
00:03:24 I was on and off.
00:03:25 But, um, I'm over with that.
00:03:27 And now it's just way better.
00:03:30 It was hard in the beginning because emotions were clashing.
00:03:33 And I had been dating him monogamously.
00:03:36 But we broke up and I had already, like, known about Stephanie.
00:03:41 You know, he has baby moms and stuff.
00:03:43 My loves, can you guys...
00:03:45 You think they're beef?
00:03:46 Uh, in the beginning, yeah, for sure.
00:03:49 There's definitely messages in, like, her saying, 1.00
00:03:52 why are you hanging out with that freaking whore? 1.00
00:03:55 With that what? 1.00
00:03:56 That whore. 1.00
00:03:58 Say it. 1.00
00:03:59 We're on Rumble.
00:03:59 Say it with the chest.
00:04:00 No. 1.00
00:04:00 With that fucking whore! 1.00
00:04:03 Set the table, please. 1.00
00:04:04 Yes, you.
00:04:05 Thank you.
00:04:07 Do I have to?
00:04:09 Yes.
00:04:09 The beauty of having two wives and the family that we have is the fact that we can keep
00:04:18 growing, being able to help each other, eat at the table.
00:04:22 The meals are always immaculate to the point where it's like, you know, we just never had
00:04:27 that growing up before.
00:04:29 The beauty to me is having that stability and that help from a woman.
00:04:33 Like, imagine what you can do with two and what people do with one.
00:04:37 And the fact that they chose me and had me a part of their lives as well is a blessing
00:04:42 to me.
00:04:43 Let's pray, guys.
00:04:45 Monday.
00:04:45 All right.
00:04:46 Look at that.
00:04:46 It's a family of God, too.
00:04:47 Maybe they aren't demonic.
00:04:49 They have the double horns.
00:04:50 He's got the Jesus tattoo.
00:04:51 They seem like a happy family.
00:04:53 It seems like it could...
00:04:55 Yeah.
00:04:55 Yeah.
00:04:57 Yeah.
00:04:59 So, what are you trying to say?
00:05:03 Thanks, baby.
00:05:04 All right.
00:05:05 Thank you, Lord, for this food.
00:05:08 May God bless those who don't have.
00:05:10 Amen.
00:05:10 Amen.
00:05:11 Amen.
00:05:12 What made me decide to be polyamorous is I like men and women.
00:05:18 And I don't mind having a man and a girlfriend.
00:05:22 Especially if that girl can cater to my needs as a woman, as a lover. 1.00
00:05:30 I'm bisexual.
00:05:32 W.
00:05:32 I like men dominantly.
00:05:34 But I do have an interest.
00:05:35 Women always have. 1.00
00:05:37 Steph is the first woman I've been with.
00:05:39 We've had other girlfriends and experiences as life goes on with my partners.
00:05:43 Clearly, I'm straight.
00:05:44 I identify as straight, man.
00:05:45 I'm a straight male.
00:05:46 You feel me?
00:05:47 I love that.
00:05:47 W.
00:05:48 LGBT community as well, though.
00:05:50 Because, I mean, clearly, I'm still a part of it.
00:05:52 It was actually four of us.
00:05:54 It started out four.
00:05:55 It was just thrown into the fire.
00:05:57 I knew nothing about polyamorous.
00:05:59 Dating the second woman saved our relationship.
00:06:02 What?
00:06:04 Wow.
00:06:05 Saved it?
00:06:06 Wow.
00:06:06 It's really working out for them.
00:06:08 It seems like they're extremely happy.
00:06:09 They got everything figured out.
00:06:11 Oh, that's Stephanie's daughter.
00:06:13 The other girl?
00:06:14 Oh, that's her daughter.
00:06:15 I guess that's Stephanie.
00:06:16 How many children do you have?
00:06:22 We have seven and two.
00:06:24 It's about to be nine.
00:06:26 What the?
00:06:27 Aw.
00:06:27 Okay.
00:06:28 One of the best and biggest perks of being in polyamorous relationship and having multiple
00:06:33 people, genuine multiple people, is if you have a family and you have kids, like, that
00:06:40 is one of the best perks, literally, is having someone to take care of your kid when you have
00:06:46 nobody to take care of your kid.
00:06:48 You know, if you don't have child care.
00:06:51 We are teaching Malaya or ABCs.
00:06:54 Look at that.
00:06:55 The kid seems really happy.
00:06:56 Chad, I don't understand why you're saying cringe, L family. 0.98
00:06:59 Like, yes, the women are gay, but it's fine. 1.00
00:07:01 Like, women can be gay. 1.00
00:07:02 Women can be gay. 0.98
00:07:03 There's nothing wrong with that. 0.98
00:07:04 Bumbaka! 0.68
00:07:06 It's fine?
00:07:06 It's good.
00:07:07 It's good.
00:07:07 Yeah, it's fine.
00:07:08 LGBT only for women.
00:07:10 Numbers, colors, and shapes.
00:07:13 And video games.
00:07:16 That too.
00:07:17 The best thing about having your daughter home and doing homeschooling, to me, personally,
00:07:22 is that I get to school.
00:07:23 And they homeschool the kids.
00:07:24 Like, they should be because...
00:07:25 I don't know if I believe in homeschooling.
00:07:28 Why?
00:07:29 Because you need to meet different people and that builds character.
00:07:32 Having those social interactions with other kids.
00:07:35 Well, if they meet in the neighborhood, but schools are like, there's so much brainwashing,
00:07:38 that's what we're going to react to the rest of the stream.
00:07:39 We're going to slay these demons.
00:07:41 These are the type of people that's going to raise your kids.
00:07:44 No, no.
00:07:44 You can still take control in the house.
00:07:45 And also, you can meet the teachers and people before you freaking put your kid in
00:07:49 a school.
00:07:52 Chad, these are the type of people that are going to raise your kids in school.
00:07:55 That's what I'm saying.
00:07:55 WL on homeschooling.
00:07:57 I think...
00:07:57 Keep them in the neighborhood.
00:07:58 Bring them in, like, some sort of...
00:08:00 Maybe sports?
00:08:01 No.
00:08:02 I think children need that interaction.
00:08:04 There's so many interactions I can remember.
00:08:07 This is the teacher, though.
00:08:08 Look at the teacher.
00:08:09 This may come as a surprise to you.
00:08:10 Stop.
00:08:11 Stop.
00:08:11 Listen.
00:08:11 Listen.
00:08:12 This is what you're going to send your kids off every day to have this person.
00:08:14 No, you can avoid schools that have these people.
00:08:17 A bearded woman, lady.
00:08:18 You can avoid that.
00:08:20 A man, lady.
00:08:21 Okay, stop.
00:08:22 A he, she, they. 0.99
00:08:22 I can't.
00:08:23 I can't.
00:08:24 Stop putting me in this position.
00:08:26 But I rarely get misgendered by children, especially because when I'm out and about, like, in the
00:08:30 world, I always have a mask on.
00:08:32 So, like, you can't, you would think I'm a lady, which makes me feel a lot better than
00:08:37 being called a man.
00:08:38 And so sometimes kids will say that because they see the long hair.
00:08:41 And even if a child did misgender me, I would not blame the child because they don't understand
00:08:46 the ramifications of their actions.
00:08:48 I would absolutely blame the parent. 0.99
00:08:50 Why the fuck are you raising your child in a binary that's going to oppress them and 1.00
00:08:55 everybody else? 1.00
00:08:56 Bumbucka! 0.99
00:08:57 What?
00:08:59 This is the future.
00:09:00 No.
00:09:01 They really got to figure it out.
00:09:02 Spend more quiet time with her.
00:09:04 No, who's thinking about having more kids, too?
00:09:06 We got one in the oven.
00:09:08 Just cooking.
00:09:09 On slow baking.
00:09:10 I want to have a baby with both of these beautiful women. 0.83
00:09:15 I see Steph's children as my own, and I love them dearly, and I take care of them, like,
00:09:20 if they were my own babies.
00:09:21 I mean, they really are.
00:09:22 Daily.
00:09:24 They look up to you like, they look up to her like a second mom.
00:09:27 Yeah.
00:09:27 I do then ask them.
00:09:29 They call me mom.
00:09:30 How do you see, how do you see Rose?
00:09:31 And we see Rose like my stepmom.
00:09:33 Some of the main challenges of being in a Thripple, I would say, is all the backlash
00:09:39 that we get social media-wise.
00:09:41 I mean, people of just, like, judgment.
00:09:44 The most common misconception we have about our poly relationship, they probably think
00:09:48 I was a pimp.
00:09:49 I get that a lot.
00:09:51 My concern, more or less, is what probably...
00:09:53 How is he a pimp?
00:09:56 They're in a house.
00:09:57 They're fed.
00:09:58 Everything's fine.
00:09:59 They don't have to sell box.
00:10:00 Just because there's two of them doesn't mean it's pimping.
00:10:02 It'd be my wife's backlash to it because they feel like the woman is weak. 1.00
00:10:06 And unfortunately, the woman is strong because of those reasons I mentioned, as in being
00:10:12 secure yourself, not being jealous.
00:10:14 So when somebody say something about that being a weaker link or the woman is, you know,
00:10:18 you're being manipulated, it's ignorant because the woman has a choice. 1.00
00:10:23 It's her choice. 0.98
00:10:24 She's definitely hotter, though. 1.00
00:10:26 She's definitely hotter than the two of them. 1.00
00:10:29 I would never share my man. 0.88
00:10:32 You're insecure.
00:10:33 Chat left or right?
00:10:34 You're by yourself.
00:10:35 You don't know who you are.
00:10:37 That's why you're sharing your man. 0.61
00:10:39 You're being brainwashed.
00:10:41 If I'm choosing to be in a poly, I don't have to be here if I don't want to.
00:10:46 This is not what I want.
00:10:47 I don't have to be here.
00:10:47 I'm not obligated or having a gun put to my head.
00:10:51 If you don't like it, that's you.
00:10:54 But if I like it, why are you judging me for what I like and what I want to do with my life?
00:11:00 Why do you look so concerned?
00:11:04 I'm not.
00:11:05 You look worried. 0.91
00:11:06 I've heard those same freaking comments before, like us being open. 0.96
00:11:11 It is annoying. 0.98
00:11:13 He's just brainwashing you.
00:11:15 He's just putting that all in your head.
00:11:18 Everyone's saying left.
00:11:19 See?
00:11:19 So, it seems like they have it equal.
00:11:22 What if we had something like this, but you were the priority?
00:11:25 And the others were just like...
00:11:26 No.
00:11:27 You're like little maids. 1.00
00:11:29 No.
00:11:30 What would change your mind?
00:11:32 Nothing.
00:11:34 She's caverned that. 1.00
00:11:36 Maybe after you gave me a baby.
00:11:41 Okay.
00:11:42 So, you get the first one.
00:11:43 Then I'm there forever.
00:11:44 Yeah.
00:11:45 So, you could lock it in.
00:11:46 No.
00:11:46 I get all of them.
00:11:47 You're not having babies with multiple people.
00:11:50 But then how am I going to keep the second wife around? 1.00
00:11:54 I don't know.
00:11:59 Wrong.
00:12:01 Hey.
00:12:02 When your mama coming?
00:12:03 She should be coming soon.
00:12:04 She said she was on the way already.
00:12:07 Yeah.
00:12:07 So, she should be popping up any minute now.
00:12:09 Whew.
00:12:10 It's hot out here, right?
00:12:11 Yeah, it is.
00:12:12 I'm going to go make some drinks.
00:12:13 Okay.
00:12:13 Make mine's virgin, please.
00:12:15 Okay.
00:12:15 Yeah.
00:12:17 Nice and virgin.
00:12:19 Good.
00:12:19 No haram.
00:12:20 I'm a little nervous about my mom coming.
00:12:22 W?
00:12:25 Chad, is this haram?
00:12:27 I think this should be allowed.
00:12:27 I don't see anything wrong with that.
00:12:29 I think because I don't know what she's going to say about our poly relationship.
00:12:33 So, I'm quite curious.
00:12:34 She doesn't know?
00:12:36 She doesn't know what?
00:12:36 That they're in a poly relationship. 0.97
00:12:38 What the heck? 0.87
00:12:39 Who doesn't know? 0.97
00:12:39 Oh, her parents?
00:12:40 Her mom.
00:12:41 Oh.
00:12:42 Yeah.
00:12:42 Well, now she does.
00:12:44 Now she does.
00:12:45 I don't know if this is the best way to reveal that info.
00:12:46 Just to know what are her thoughts and how does she truly feel?
00:12:50 Hello.
00:12:51 Hey, mom.
00:12:53 You made it.
00:12:57 What's her reaction going to be?
00:13:00 She's going to be upset.
00:13:01 No, actually, no.
00:13:02 It's been a good vibe all the time.
00:13:03 She's going to be okay with it.
00:13:12 Virgin Mary here.
00:13:13 Salud.
00:13:13 The first time my daughter told me about the poly relationship.
00:13:18 Well, she's Dominican. 0.93
00:13:21 Oh, yeah?
00:13:21 And she's Dominican? 0.81
00:13:23 Bro, like, look at the left side.
00:13:26 Look.
00:13:29 Bro.
00:13:32 I wasn't really too happy about it because...
00:13:38 I did not pre-watch this.
00:13:43 I did not know it was going to be.
00:13:46 To me, if I love someone, you know, I don't like to share it with nobody.
00:13:51 But now, you know, I really...
00:13:53 How do you know she's Dominican? 0.91
00:13:54 Her name.
00:13:55 What is it like?
00:13:56 Belkis.
00:13:57 Belkitsa.
00:13:58 That makes her happy.
00:14:00 And I love my daughter, so whatever makes her happy makes me happy.
00:14:04 As long as you're happy, baby, I'm happy.
00:14:06 Fitness is key.
00:14:08 I love you.
00:14:09 It was really good to hear my mom's thoughts again because, you know, I see that she's more
00:14:14 positive and more enlightened about our situation.
00:14:19 Look how happy they are.
00:14:20 I'm just...
00:14:21 Stop looking worried.
00:14:22 Why are you looking upset?
00:14:24 I'm not.
00:14:25 What's wrong?
00:14:26 Hey, hey, hey.
00:14:27 Haram, haram, haram.
00:14:28 You can't be seen.
00:14:29 And all she wants me is to be happy.
00:14:34 We're open to having one more person to our family that can inherit these blessings and
00:14:40 share and help the growth for the foundation of the future of all our families.
00:14:45 I like being in a couple because it's extra love.
00:14:48 It's a lot of inspiration.
00:14:50 Life is just three times as amazing.
00:14:54 Three times.
00:14:55 See, the love, it's exponential.
00:14:56 See, when there's two people, it's like, you know, there's the...
00:15:00 But when you add another, it's just...
00:15:02 It all multiplies.
00:15:03 But girls are just so sneaky. 1.00
00:15:07 What do you mean?
00:15:08 They will try to take my place and remove me.
00:15:12 You think so?
00:15:12 Yeah.
00:15:14 Nah.
00:15:15 Not if...
00:15:15 But they love each other.
00:15:16 The two wives, they're also kissing... 0.68
00:15:18 No, it's hard to find a girl that is that way.
00:15:24 Yeah.
00:15:25 They're going to be trying to take you away.
00:15:29 Trying to slow their way in.
00:15:31 Yeah.
00:15:33 Yeah.
00:15:34 One day.
00:15:35 One day.
00:15:36 One day.
00:15:44 That's it.
00:15:45 This is your job?
00:15:45 This is your job.