SNEAKO - May 22, 2023


Melina Responds to Moistcr1tikal...

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In this episode, we talk about abuse in relationships and how to deal with it. We also talk about how to handle it and what to do when it happens in a marriage. We also discuss how to get out of a toxic marriage and what you should do if it happens to you.

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00:00:00 okay okay but what do you think about this and this is what i think john was trying to get at
00:00:03 yeah why is it that like physical abuse and i just said a finger on the arm why is this the
00:00:09 worst possible thing that could happen in a relationship i don't think that is they don't
00:00:14 talk about the like the defense where's the defense for like the emotional abuse i mean
00:00:19 emotional abuse is probably that's probably a real thing too yeah but you ever see like
00:00:23 bill burr had this bit you ever see like an old man and his old wife like why is his face just
00:00:29 in a perpetual state of fear of he's just like it's just of wearing him down after you need to
00:00:37 go pick this up and then put the coaster down put your feet down wait what are you talking about
00:00:41 right now and then slowly like a husband like an old married couple you look at the the man and the
00:00:47 woman the man just has like his face just stuck
00:00:51 is this like a real situation hey hey kids i'm here with the wife 0.99
00:01:02 it's just him resisting all the times that he wanted to be like shut the fuck up and he didn't 0.99
00:01:10 get to shut the shut the fuck up it's just where it ages you okay if you're with someone that you 1.00
00:01:17 just can't stand why the fuck are you with them 1.00
00:01:19 okay so this is uh i want to watch this after oh no this is your video yeah it's my video so your boy 0.99
00:01:27 um moist penguin zero why does he have like multiple names i don't know this is most in paris
00:01:36 most embarrassing podcast discussion and uh and mel made it and so did mld to um of our
00:01:42 wait he was here what did he say about that because i'm i'm like he was gonna hate me oh mld
00:01:47 yeah um same stuff he disagreed to what he said on the podcast i didn't hear him after he didn't
00:01:55 take it back i didn't i don't know what was his take on that this is an embarrassing thing to admit
00:01:59 out loud he saw his voice is so you think so no no no but i'm all about love speech you could fall
00:02:09 asleep to that it's it's too it's just embarrassing thing to admit out loud but i've recently found a
00:02:16 great guilty pleasure that i've been consuming like junk food it's those ridiculously you know
00:02:22 cringe podcasts he should totally go on these shows and argue with them instead of making videos he's
00:02:29 not gonna do it he should i think i want to see it criticizing him and obviously i love everyone
00:02:34 and everything but like he won't so it's the type of person like that will just sit in his room and
00:02:40 then just criticize other people but never really engage in real life conversations like that just i
00:02:46 want to see him on he won't do it i want to see him on them though there's zero chance he would do
00:02:51 it i mean if he would then it would surprise me it's like being the chef of junk food if he actually
00:02:55 is on it you know why do you say that because he said that he he's because assuming you like junk food
00:03:00 for a few dudes pseudo intellectuals bring on a bunch of women and have the worst debates of all time 1.00
00:03:07 it's a forsaken wasteland where normal thinking goes to die a thunderdome of delusion it is brain
00:03:16 melting it reminds me of those old psas for the dangers of smoking cigarettes and they'll like 1.00
00:03:21 open up someone's chest and be like this is what your lungs look like when you smoke and it's like 0.94
00:03:26 yellow and oozing covered in this like disgusting slime and it's very fucking yucky this is like that 0.99
00:03:33 but instead of showing you your lungs on cigarettes it's your brain when watching this content and 0.98
00:03:38 it's fucking revolting like it is actual brain rot i don't this type of humor is not really my thing 0.98
00:03:44 either this type of humor yeah like the dry explaining it like it's like when i had a piece 0.99
00:03:50 of diarrhea in my poop and i ripped it out that's how bad this game was like you should totally make a 0.69
00:03:55 video like that wait are you laughing at that diarrhea thing or the okay i think you should make a video
00:04:00 like this and goes into a marriage and has kids when they're like 18 19 20 and then um a year into
00:04:09 the relationship it gets really really abusive from you from both this is so anyone anyone really
00:04:15 i feel like i always have to say i always have to say both because otherwise they're just gonna
00:04:21 assume that i'm like you're telling you're saying that men are amazing it might be rare assume we
00:04:27 i haven't seen this i already just find this painful she's asking a very simple question and 0.86
00:04:32 setting it up talking about abuse and already the the dudes here are like this is ridiculous this is
00:04:38 exceptionally rare this is damn near science fiction abuse never even heard of it that's like winning 0.61
00:04:45 the lottery twice level of astronomical odds abuse is it is very uncommon very rare as a way of trying
00:04:53 to like abuse is so unrare it's like digging into your diarrhea and finding a quarter and a needle
00:04:58 of a haystack i can't believe that i think it's just already like you're choosing something very fringe 0.92
00:05:04 and outlandish abuses chat wl on abusing your wife it's like a unicorn it almost doesn't exist 0.92
00:05:09 but anyway crazy lady go on with your hypothetical abuse thing or whatever you called it is just 1.00
00:05:16 trying to downplay it which i think is just cringe if it would happen what would you recommend for
00:05:21 those people to do would they divorce or do you want them to keep going in the relationship
00:05:25 keep going you can't divorce i mean that's not a real thing uh you can like divorce is not a real
00:05:30 thing his catholic background shines chat saying w abuse what do you think about that
00:05:35 i mean they're in agreement with the men in the past i described it this way when i was reacting
00:05:40 to this okay i was just like i feel like hogwarts would be more real to them than divorce
00:05:44 you can separate but you can't actually divorce that's not a real thing even though it might be
00:05:54 like physically abusive you got to endure people are too you want to stick in people are just i mean
00:05:59 look i'm gonna be honest are just everybody quits hey you're very specific about physical abuse too i
00:06:06 don't know maybe he didn't hear you say that i do think they know it's too hard i'm this xyz this is 0.95
00:06:11 why i'm special so i can fuck up this entire situation based upon me being special the clown 0.91
00:06:17 puts himself front and center here you're looking at the chief entertainment for this episode 0.98
00:06:21 fucking discount walmart brand sal from impractical jokers here his name's jonathan and let me just tell 0.98
00:06:29 you it's not a john mld he's got some opinions and man oh man are they a stinker so the question is 0.99
00:06:37 very simple if there's an abusive relationship an abusive marriage should the marriage end you know
00:06:42 if the woman is being abused or even if the man is being abused the woman who asked the question her
00:06:47 name is melina and she doesn't just make it exclusive to women getting abused men can also 1.00
00:06:51 be victims of abuse something that jonathan heavily disagrees with we'll get to that later on
00:06:57 but he is saying that oh if it's an abusive relationship you have to endure this is the problem 0.99
00:07:02 with snowflake society now everyone's such a pussy so they'll ruin a marriage because they think 1.00
00:07:08 they're so special would you go on a would you go on a date with them no what is that my type 1.00
00:07:13 why not just not no chemistry how do you know because i met him oh where was the why was the
00:07:21 chemistry off uh i i just don't think we're in the same universe of interests or well very clearly
00:07:29 you're in the same universe both content creation talking about yeah but i mean he's like in another
00:07:34 area of content like we're in content creation like you can be in content creation so like yeah i could
00:07:40 have a conversation but i don't i just i think there's like a very specific kind of person that i
00:07:44 would get down with what's the type of person um i like funny charismatics intelligent people you
00:07:52 don't think he's either you know he's none of those things not in the sort of like okay you know
00:07:56 funny charismatic intelligent what's his name he has a lot of subscribers have you seen nathan for
00:07:59 you uh yeah that guy he's my type okay what about him would you rather go on a date with
00:08:04 uh penguin or mld probably charlie right what's wrong with mld well
00:08:13 no i i just don't i just think we're way too different 0.99
00:08:18 yeah it's just i'm not i'm not tracking him okay you absolute fucking troglodyte 0.99
00:08:28 it's not about being special it's about not getting beat the fuck up in a marriage 0.99
00:08:33 there's there's no excuse for abusing your spouse whether it's physical or mental 0.89
00:08:38 you think there's no you can't say that okay you want me to there's a fair reason to beat up your
00:08:48 partner you know what it does say in the quran but before you laugh before you laugh what's always
00:08:56 the final result of any argument of any dispute is violence no matter what in a marriage in a
00:09:03 disagreement with anybody with any human interaction the final thing is violence is violence and the
00:09:09 quran doesn't excuse that it doesn't say do that but it's saying like if there is an argument like
00:09:14 that that's what's necessary but don't never go to the face but if it gets to that point that's what 0.99
00:09:20 inevitably happens basically if you're like screaming at someone get a fuck out of my house 0.94
00:09:25 over and over again and they're not doing it and no one's listening and like she's screaming and 0.94
00:09:28 she's grabbing you and that's you know like a clear cut i feel like it's a bit different though
00:09:32 when it comes to partners a little bit nope why because actually it might be even more realistic
00:09:37 i mean like i think like if someone is getting really heated and they want to be left alone you
00:09:41 should probably separate but like trying to get it to like a physical point it's probably not no no
00:09:45 no one said trying but that's always the last scenario i mean yeah it is the last scenario or you die
00:09:53 so you said that's never that you should probably not do like if you're getting to that point
00:09:59 well no no one wants to get to that point if it's like if it's right up you know it's like
00:10:04 right about to happen you should probably divorce right it's probably not the best to stick around
00:10:08 in that relationship right you should probably not do that you should but you shouldn't let it go that
00:10:13 far that's my point don't no no don't do it nico so right before i beat my wife don't do it sign
00:10:23 the divorce paper yes if it's if you feel like that's that's gonna i don't feel like i don't ever
00:10:30 want that to happen i obviously never want that to happen but you should probably not get it to
00:10:36 physical stuff because that's yeah no one wants to do that i'm not you're not you're saying here's
00:10:40 the thing here's the thing i feel like there's probably a lot of really clear signs before that
00:10:44 happens that it's probably divorce time because it's probably like a lot of fights that can be pretty
00:10:49 mental abusive happening before that i feel like it is the final state as you said yeah okay what's
00:10:53 better for the relationship one slap and she gets in line or divorce one slap you know not continued 1.00
00:11:01 that's how it works no that is how it works no don't even say you're not you're saying no to a
00:11:08 hypothetical right now okay let me here's a hypothetical right you and destiny are in a big fight huge fight
00:11:14 you're screaming you're ah you're like clawing him you're like breaking his streaming computer and
00:11:18 everything like that that's really bad it's really bad oh yeah right technically it's not abuse
00:11:22 i mean it's a structure of property it's not abuse it's not abuse it's a structure of property so 0.94
00:11:26 are you destroying your streaming computer it's destroying the other person's shit let me just 0.97
00:11:30 okay you're not abusing him but you're destroying it's not physical abuse let me say five things 0.99
00:11:35 before one second feminist holy i'm gonna 1.00
00:11:38 hey we need to
00:11:43 no no no no
00:11:46 so you're
00:11:47 don't clip that i'm telling him i'm gonna tell he's gonna he's gonna see that anyway so you're
00:11:55 in a fight with destiny right you're destroying your streaming laptop you're screaming at each other
00:11:59 you're calling each other terrible names what's better for the marriage destiny gives you one hit here
00:12:05 and you get in line or you sign divorce papers right there divorce papers right there 1.00
00:12:09 get in line it doesn't work like that's not how it works how would you know i mean you you like
00:12:14 that you like that women should be in line and like be a certain way like act like i like wifely
00:12:19 duties and all that shit wait wait so you say it ironically yes i like when women act in line 1.00
00:12:23 and i like when women yeah i know wifely duties yeah exactly well i don't like that you don't 1.00
00:12:29 like performing wifely duties no no really not for not for like this it sounds like you're having
00:12:35 like a bang made i i don't really like that idea i didn't even say that like slappers so she turns 1.00
00:12:40 into the bang me about it i didn't i didn't even say that you said you just said you don't like
00:12:43 well basically you're telling you're saying that a wife should follow your orders right yes yeah we 0.97
00:12:51 don't we don't agree on that you should follow the contract of the relationship that you guys have
00:12:58 both agreed on that's true but okay but just following orders because you're a guy no i don't
00:13:04 disagree with that it's not really beating or hitting in islam is not even a slap that's forbidden
00:13:07 it's like one finger hit or touch that's what i said i said nothing on the face and that's it just a
00:13:12 little just a little right there no just not good don't that like you just destroyed the cops right
00:13:19 now you just destroyed his computer you were screaming in his face that's really bad too you should 0.99
00:13:25 not do that you should divorce before you start destroying someone's computer holy shit destroying 0.99
00:13:30 someone's stuff is really bad too that's awful that's not good what's worse what's worse 0.98
00:13:36 insulting his mother destroying his computer or one finger to the arm
00:13:41 i feel like physical abuse is probably the worst it's probably the end of everything
00:13:47 because you're hurting someone physically it's pretty bad but i mean the other stuff is really bad
00:13:52 why is that the worst thing if i had to pick between him like destroying my computer or insulting
00:13:57 my mom instead of hitting me i would probably say insult my mother and destroy my computer then a 0.76
00:14:04 finger on the arm but that's not this is not abuse did i just abuse you technically you're saying 0.99
00:14:09 physically that's what it's hurting you like if i started to punch the shit out of you that would be 0.98
00:14:14 who said punch i said what's worse what if what if i start cutting you or something i didn't say that 0.99
00:14:19 you're see you you're going away with the hypothetical i'm talking hypothetical we're sorry we're talking
00:14:22 about physical abuse right yeah and this is the limitation of the physical abuse i don't think
00:14:26 that's true that's what it just that's what it says that's it get in line let's google physical
00:14:33 abuse here so we can get a good definition i think it's like when you hurt someone right
00:14:37 i mean i can i can do that pretty hard like it's the most there is a right answer to this question
00:14:43 and the answer is yes the marriage should end if it's abusive a hundred percent whether it's the
00:14:48 woman or the man being abused it should straight up end there's no enduring this isn't one of those
00:14:53 situations where it's like ah you know there's greener pastures once you get through a couple
00:14:56 of the black eyes and broken bones you know my husband may have beat the fuck out of me a couple
00:15:00 nights ago but he also took me to a really fancy steakhouse and i had an absolute banging filet so 0.97
00:15:06 you know all of the abuse was worth it and i'm a little happier today but it's ridiculous
00:15:11 this is honestly making icy fury penguin says i feel like destiny's wife is similar to i dub's
00:15:16 wife that's why they both become so liberal i'm actually going to react that perfect don't
00:15:20 appreciate you ice for a good ten dollars because right after i know that it's a little bit low energy
00:15:26 but i want to watch his i dub situation we don't need to watch the whole thing but i want to react
00:15:29 to twitter reacting to his take me concerned my heart is breaking for whatever woman he's in a
00:15:33 relationship with i'm imagining this guy treating relationships like it's whenever he plays
00:15:37 videos i just want to like skip his parts are you salty and then just go to the salty about his
00:15:44 voice i don't like his voice it really triggers me maybe you're right it's a little bit uh what do
00:15:50 you think when you hear this are you like tuned in or are you like oh i think he's all right
00:15:54 sounds like a dude that talks no strong opinion at all nice he just he's just like a youtube dude
00:16:01 that's like his category for me youtube guy i think he has a hamster he brought it to a party
00:16:07 i think i'm not sure i think it was him fight club if my partner can't roll with my knuckle sandwiches
00:16:15 without crying about it and she wants to leave for it well then good riddance to her toots 0.83
00:16:19 jesus christ special snowflakes can't handle a few of my right hooks ridiculous that's frightening that is 0.93
00:16:25 a frightening mentality that you're telling someone to just endure physical or even mental abuse in a 1.00
00:16:31 relationship and calling them like like a special snowflake or a pussy if they they don't that's 1.00
00:16:38 crazy and also his cohort there the goofball he's in cahoots with who's like man divorce isn't real 0.99
00:16:44 divorce is make-believe it's it's hocus pocus there's no such thing as divorce yes if you're getting 0.98
00:16:50 abused you can't okay i don't know if i could do this okay it's just hard times in relationship i'm
00:16:55 sure you guys had hard times in relationship any relationship has hard time and it is what it is
00:17:00 you need to push through and you need to endure because we're in this hold on because what we're
00:17:05 in this situation now like where everybody's just creating this like super nuanced like one percent
00:17:12 example of like well what if the kid's transgender black and abused and he's a black lives matter 0.90
00:17:17 supporter one percent example of your kid being black like cool okay i get like that one 0.99
00:17:22 a lot of diarrhea fell out of his mouth on this one here so there's there's a lot to break down he 0.99
00:17:37 had a like an actual episode of psychosis there he just started spitting shit that never even came up 0.99
00:17:41 it's a very simple question it really wasn't nuanced she just said in an abusive relationship 1.00
00:17:46 should the marriage end it really doesn't get more simple than that a fucking child could 0.96
00:17:51 understand the question there wasn't anything about like all these nuance that you bring up 0.98
00:17:56 but anyway smash mouth has his meltdown there for a second but his message is still the same no matter
00:18:00 what you got to endure you got to endure the abuse he even has the chutzpah to equate abuse to just a
00:18:09 hard time in a relationship as if it's just some little obstacle little hiccup that every relationship 0.97
00:18:15 goes through brother abuse is not a hard time in a relationship that is a fucking crime that is when 0.95
00:18:24 a relationship ends should end i wouldn't want my daughter in that situation quite frankly and i 0.94
00:18:29 understand the argument what do you think about domestic abuse to endure because i have people
00:18:34 close to me who grew up in abusive households and it lasted for periods of time and it was a phase
00:18:40 and they endured through it and they ended up raising healthy successful families their face is
00:18:45 really tell the whole story here this this reaction's pretty on par with that statement
00:18:50 abuse is not a phase it shouldn't be a phase this isn't a normal thing there's there's no reason to
00:18:57 start normalizing abusive relationships as something every couple needs to go through or will go
00:19:03 through abuse isn't acceptable full stop like that's that's where this is a really easy slam dunk for
00:19:10 these do w domestic abuse abuse melina okay okay but what do you think about this and this is what
00:19:17 i think john was trying to get at yeah why is it that like physical abuse and i just said a finger
00:19:23 on the arm why is this the worst possible thing that could happen in a relationship i don't think
00:19:29 that is they don't talk about the like the defense where's the defense for like the emotional
00:19:33 abuse i mean emotional abuse is probably that's probably a real thing too right yeah but you ever see
00:19:38 like bill burr had this bit you ever see like an old man and his old wife like why is his face just
00:19:45 in a perpetual state of fear of he's just like it's just of wearing him down after you need to go pick
00:19:53 this up and then put the coaster down put your feet down what are you talking about right now and then
00:19:57 slowly like a husband like an old married couple you look at the the man and the woman the man just 0.99
00:20:04 has like his face is just stuck is this like a real situation hey hey kids i'm here with the wife 0.99
00:20:17 it's just him resisting all the times that he wanted to be like shut the fuck up and he didn't get to 0.98
00:20:26 shut the shut the fuck up it's just where it ages you okay if you're with someone that you just 0.99
00:20:33 can't stand why the fuck are you with them why why wouldn't you ask that instead because it's not 1.00
00:20:40 that easy to just like getting remarried at a certain age is not as easy like that's so much 0.99
00:20:44 easier than just having like that's all day instead of that but that's him holding back all the times
00:20:52 that society is demonizing physical abuse is the worst a finger on the arm is the worst possible
00:20:57 thing you could do like i think it's a lot more simple than that if you're unhappy in a relationship
00:21:02 you just don't be together anymore that's or you can get her in line again with one little 0.99
00:21:06 no it's not gonna help anything no it's not you're gonna go to jail because you can't do that
00:21:11 anymore but it's why women are in charge women run relationships no one would be happy with that 1.00
00:21:16 happening i don't think you want to beat that oh that's not true you know how many women on tiktok 1.00
00:21:20 would be celebrating good riddance that piece of shit and all your friends are gonna be like yeah 1.00
00:21:24 he was a piece of shit anyway i hated him you think that women should abuse men or that's like fine 1.00
00:21:29 women do abuse men that's not okay either jesus yeah but there's no grade for that there's no jail 1.00
00:21:34 time probably there's no criminal record thing i fully agree with you on that one fuck that shit i hate 1.00
00:21:39 that there's like men that's getting abused by their women out there and no one fucking takes 1.00
00:21:43 it seriously people are your side and people on my side are not taking you serious they fucking suck 0.99
00:21:48 no men go to jail for physical abuse men are always yeah i think women should do the exact same they 1.00
00:21:52 should also go to jail okay so we're in agreement women should go to jail for being cunts 1.00
00:21:55 for physical abuse no no for for abusing men and for taking it down 0.95
00:22:01 we're committing a crime like a physical crime which should be a physical crime women going you should do 1.00
00:22:08 what about that what about that i don't think i don't think people go to jail for mental abuse
00:22:13 either like i think it should be pretty equal there like it's it's i actually hate how much
00:22:18 people don't take things like that seriously or have people just trust women right away
00:22:22 we agree jail time jail for anyone that yeah hit someone jail for feminists for feminism yeah what 1.00
00:22:29 about that we're equal behind bars felony wait what are you saying right now i'm saying we should
00:22:35 jail feminists for being annoying if we are punishing men for just for snapping and then 1.00
00:22:41 one little annoying we agree we agree feminists fuck that fuck women yes yeah 1.00
00:22:48 it's well time should a marriage end when it gets abusive whether for the woman or the man and the 1.00
00:22:59 answer is easy it's yes a relationship isn't something where there should be an abusive phase
00:23:05 if there is an abusive partner that partner needs to seek legitimate help and get help for controlling
00:23:12 whatever violent urges or impulses they have but that doesn't mean that the other partner needs to
00:23:18 stay in the relationship while they're getting that help especially not if there's children in the
00:23:22 household because not only is it dangerous for the partner it's dangerous for the kid to be around
00:23:26 as well i think it's very simple i don't think it's that nuance abuse just isn't acceptable like
00:23:32 that's a super easy thing for a normal person to answer but we've cultivated this culture online where
00:23:37 everything needs to be like a debate even on the simplest topics like you just saw smash mouth have
00:23:43 that meltdown like oh you're getting into all this crazy 0.1 percent example nuance of abuse and then
00:23:50 all of these other factors like out of nowhere when that wasn't even what was discussed it is the
00:23:55 easiest black and white question to an extent so you would say that to stick in those relationships
00:23:59 that might be abusive to everyone involved and a child if there's i'm not saying like hey stick in 0.93
00:24:04 the relationship and get the shit out of you i'm just asking you what you believe i'm just telling 0.90
00:24:12 you i'm not telling you extreme thing i'm just asking you what you think if you just stick in that 0.98
00:24:16 relationship or not it's it's it's such it is such an extreme example that i can't give a prescription
00:24:21 for what other people should do there is there is an element god damn it it's not even an extreme
00:24:27 example if you just google it for like 15 seconds there's so many different studies conducted on the
00:24:33 topic and according to a lot of the different numbers all of which are a little different but
00:24:38 most of them agree that at least 20 of all marriages are abusive at some point in time and that's just
00:24:43 in reported cases what did you think about his taking this video uh agree on it i mean he's saying
00:24:51 like i mean it's a pretty popular opinion you know that abuses bad yeah yeah like it's not an extreme
00:25:00 example it's really not but even if it was it doesn't even change the question like even in the
00:25:05 extreme example here it's still a very easy answer that yes that marriage should end there is a problem
00:25:12 okay this video's not even halfway over i think we saw enough right yeah is it really what else did
00:25:17 you say you watched it's about the cheating thing of course like cheating is really bad i think you
00:25:21 should divorce if there's cheating going on as well clearly but like the guys thought that yeah like
00:25:26 if someone is cheating it's divorce time right away but physical abuse you should uh injure you know
00:25:31 so well i think they mean cheating on the women's side but cheating on the man's side i mean i don't even
00:25:36 know i don't know if they think the same i didn't ask that specifically i i didn't really
00:25:40 specify like with women and men much i was just asking in general because i was curious
00:25:45 about what they would think about that
00:25:48 that's it
00:25:54 that's your job
00:25:54 that's your job