SNEAKO - September 15, 2022Modern Day Women Are BEYOND Delusional
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In this episode, we talk about sexism, racism, and interracial dating in the 21st century. We also have a special guest on the show, our friend Shaniqua, who is a sociology major at the University of Toronto.
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it's complicated the race to submit what advice would you have a guy who maybe sees you in a bar
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and thinks you're really attractive and wants to approach you without being perceived as creepy
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don't be creepy that's not advice do you think it's true women often find attractive men cute
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and romantic when an ugly one doing the exact same is creepy thing is creepy yes okay i don't i don't
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i think all men are i assume the worst so okay all men are the worst i don't see that let me ask
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you this why is it okay for women to paint men with a broad brush as something to be feared but
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if men did the same thing more misogynist women it would be sexist um i think that based on the
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statistics yeah okay it usually what statistics name one that's brainwashing the fact that she
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thinks that there's magical statistics that mean that oh no where the fuck my camera go
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she thinks that there's magical statistics that says that men are worse than women but she can't
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even say anything straight up brainwashing women are always the victims but what the hell bro
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i don't know why it's messed up fuck it let me ask you this uh is it okay for women to fear men
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when 80 of all violent crime is done by men yes i mean that's why that that's why that broad
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paintbrush is there okay how is that different than judging certain races based on statistical
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data whoa you bring up racist statistics they call you nick fuentes in other words why is it
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okay for women to be sexist but not racist those are not that different it's both generalizations
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i'm a sociology minor i'm thinking um why did you have to say that the difference between being
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sexist and racist can you ask the question again i got her that's a good question yeah well you're
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basing something off of statistics and then you can't say the same thing based off you can't
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ignore one statistic and go completely full in on one another that's because it's because one
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thing is stigmatized and the other one is cool systematic just like it's systematic racism it's
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built into our society okay so is the patriarchy it's built into society what's the difference
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it's not something that's new in the last five years the same way second we already seen it no
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we haven't i don't think we've seen this before we've seen these girls but we haven't seen
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more prevalent and has more severe consequences
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crime of a different race yo how did he flip her she's arguing now you interviewing me yes
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fight fight this is getting good go ahead ask your question then we're done what'd you say
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you were you said oh well one's systemic and then the other is is has then you said one has worse
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consequences but how is yeah call her out of the female bullshit rape worse than you murdering
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someone else i would say they're both bad and neither should happen but i i do think murder
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is well then why does so are you saying that one is happening because of systemic racism and the
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other is happening because of sexism that's a lot to unpack here slip slip that's the question
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women are painting men with a broad brush as something to be feared but if women did that
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to a certain race that would be racist you're generalizing an entire group of people either
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based on skin color or based on their their their gender right yeah and we're
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all so fucked up like honestly all right this is an interracial dating question
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sorry are you more likely to see black men dating white women or white men dating
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you see black men dating white women all the time
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happened in the history of the world so black men dating white women and why is that um to be
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honest i'm not really quite sure that's just what i think i feel like they might be intimidated by
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us black women so they might do another race i don't see my i don't agree with a lot of that i
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mean i agree with what she's saying but black women have been called ugly so much by the beauty
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standards that are set up by white people we live by a white beauty standard so even dark-skinned
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black men are most often with black women that are lighter dark-skinned women get overlooked so
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much and i i think that's a a standard that's ingrained i think that's a form of brainwashing
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too why do you think that that's more attractive to be lighter what does skin color have to do with
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procreation which is ultimately the reason we're here man embrace a dark queen man it's underrated
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us black women so they might do another race i don't see myself dating a white guy nothing
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against his race but it's more about like my bloodline and keeping it pure and black and
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maybe if i want to there you go did you hear that one more time i'm gonna bring this one up about
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like my bloodline and keeping it pure and black and imagine if a white guy said word for word
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what she just said imagine a white guy just had this question asked why don't you date a black
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woman and a white guy goes well it's the kind of about keeping the bloodline pure and keeping a
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white i'm proud of being white i want my bloodline to be white and that's why i wouldn't date a dark
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woman i care about my bloodline i'm proudly white she's saying the same thing and i was like yeah
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good point oh yeah i get it white people do not have freedom of speech maybe if i want to have
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children i want my children to be black nothing against like skin color race nothing i have two
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theories and i want to see what your opinion is okay theory number one is the infamous bbc
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theory number two she didn't know what bbc meant
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how the hell is black women are often perceived to be seen as less submissive
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the bbc that ain't true yeah because because i've seen a whole bunch of hay hey you've seen a whole
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bunch of hay why are you why are you seeing a whole bunch of hay how old are you a whole bunch of people
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a whole bunch black african-american men they ain't packing okay you thought you were just
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empowered saying that calling people's dicks small but you also just said i've seen a whole
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bunch of dicks okay okay so you think that's a myth yeah not all black men men are are are blessed
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black dudes dating white women because white women love our dicks i mean love our penises my bad
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and what about the theory um a lot of black men that i've interviewed have told me that they
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have perceived black women uh um are often seen as less submissive because some black women they
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want to come off as independent i don't need a man blah blah blah like i don't need no man
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sometimes some black women don't want their man to take control i guess and they want to
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be seen as independent i don't need nobody a powerful black woman we ain't no beta bitch
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we alphas up in this mother exactly exactly nobody wants to date an alpha why would you say that
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Bitch hold on hold on hold on hold on hold on but but y'all not alphas up in this motherfucker bitch
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I'm out for zip and period it's motherfucking bitch. I'm trying to be a man. Oh hold on hold on hold on
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Hold on this exactly the type of women that they're talking about bro, but but y'all not bitches though y'all ladies
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And like he said and like he said and like he said we're Queens and like he said what I'm an alpha
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We gotta be strong or else we're gonna get walked all over on.
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Why do so many women think that being submissive is a sign of weakness?
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Because most women that are submissive get ran over.
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Okay, but at the same time, wouldn't you also say that a lot of men that trust their women and, you know, make themselves vulnerable will get run over as well?
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Yep, because we got a friend who do it to her man all the time.
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And is it possible to be in love without making yourself vulnerable?
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a good man a good man a good man a worthy a worthy man a strong woman being vulnerable to
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a worthy man a strong man doesn't yeah see when i talk about dating a dark-skinned queen a worthy
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man a strong woman being vulnerable to a worthy man a strong man i'm not really talking about them
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i think a lot of the western brainwashing has affected all races of women in the west but
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is going to be a way easier time to handle than this.
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Does a man have the right to define what a woman is?
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Okay, so then what gives women the right to define what a real man is?
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Oh, like they have the right to define what a real woman is.
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But aren't women always saying like a real man should be this and a real man should be
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Just like men, just like men say that we should be this and we should be that.
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And I do all that shit, but at the end of the day, what do you cook?
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It's crazy because we can't figure that out until we live that.
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You just get to see how absolutely ridiculous they look.
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it doesn't look like eyelashes this looks like when a kid is drawing
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an amplifier it looks like you know you know when a kid is driving a car going away
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and you draw the skid marks of the tire that's what your eyelashes look like this one
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a fork yeah two forks every time i can't i see nothing but a
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and is you know if we wasn't taught what a real man is if we didn't see example of a real man we
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don't know ourselves so only go from like you said we're making ourselves vulnerable and open
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to seeing if this person well if a woman doesn't even know what a real man is how do you know
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whether a man is worthy of submitting to well we know how we're supposed to be treated no they know
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how they want to feel but they don't know what a real man is that's why you can't rely on a woman
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to tell you who you are it's a personal journey a man's journey is personal solo she has no idea
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she knows how she wants to be felt she knows how she wants you to make her feel but not all the
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work that goes into becoming that just do it just figure it out but she can't tell you now we know
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that we're not crazy it doesn't take a book just like it doesn't take a lot to raise kids we're not
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given a book to race it's no instructions so it's no instructions with a man we obviously
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knows because at the time we know if a man's bullshit he's bullshit if it's a man good
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he's good we know how because we're gonna feel it it's gonna yeah what they feel i mean girls
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are good at having intuition when it comes to bullshit but they can't tell you how to be better
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why do women often attack a man's masculinity when they don't get what they want
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because they know that that's the only power they have is just bringing men down
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because they do that to us and they and they're really prideful so when you do something like
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that their pride is like all of it like they hit on us because we're pretty but then like
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we're not trying to fuck them so all of a sudden like we're not pretty anymore
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am i wrong no that's a great point i've heard that before as well it's like oh you won't date
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me so now you're ugly right exactly why do you think men do that because there's because a
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woman's worth is what she looks like a man's worth is your masculinity is your respect
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Do you believe that being in love requires you to be vulnerable?
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Yes, but they're going to say, they're going to give the right answer.
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How can you become vulnerable without getting taken advantage of?
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I think there's a fine line between taking advantage of someone and loving them.
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I think it's it it's a hard thing and losing yourself in love but I mean I'm only 19 I haven't
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quite figured that out yet so let's ask the 22 year old um you do become vulnerable when you
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fall in love but you just gotta take the risk of being taken advantage of and be calm so she's 19
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she's outside like this in Vegas where every single casino every single bar is 21 plus they
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don't care they're gonna take her fake id knowing it's fake but a guy can't be 19 going out here
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to kick him out but it's that in yourself in who you are in your identity but love sucks let's get
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that straight okay um and also by the way um have either you guys ever had your hearts broken before
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oh yes yeah 100 right now bro right now that's why they're outside in vegas 19 outside on the
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vegas strip boom and and and uh have either of you ever unfairly punished a potential suitor
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and maybe wants to learn how they can trust somebody again
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I mean, so far, I think it would be to just not let it go,
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I hope someone doesn't walk all over her on these Vegas bars.
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you're you be free live your life and if it happens it happens no terrible advice you should
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actively try to better yourself so that you could find the pot the partner that you want but women
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get to have the privilege of walking around and saying just live your life be a walk around i
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belong to the streets and eventually some guy's gonna just have to put up with me and if you know
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you're not a real man no men have to actively become better to find love and you get to live
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in this delusion that well one day or you're 22 you should start looking soon what is the peak
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pregnancy age like 25 but gal girls are like running around outside on their whole face so
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like 33 because they think they're magically going to find the relationship they want while
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the man that they really want is actively working to better himself if i was with a man that never
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beat on me and then i was with a man that beat on me i wasn't scared until a motherfucker was
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beating on me you know i'm saying so it's just like the things that we go through in the situations
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that we're in that make us but y'all we have to prevail i don't know what y'all race is i don't
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know what your religion is but you have to prevail believe in god or whatever you believe in you know
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i'm saying and we're gonna make it through you need to just not be vulnerable to everybody
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and pick up on those red flags and stop trying to ignore them and stop trying to make people
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what you want to make them into wow wow wow it's my birthday birthday queen chat it's 95% males
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watching this imagine like going around your birthday and you you get what is this uh
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looks like you're you're at a beauty pageant you put a little wrapped yourself in a bow it's my
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birthday birthdays are for women because you already know that's not who they are
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what percentage of modern women are marriage material let me be honest it's not very it's not
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very many you know why women are in tune to their body they're not in tune with running
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a household they're in tune to social media they're not in tune with the needs of their
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significant other or their kids that you know i i'm just gonna be honest the women really is like
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men it's all about me and i don't know if it comes from brainwashing the experience that
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they're they've had or i i mean i don't know okay wait wait let me just wait wait wait did he do
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this on purpose to just get the most aggressively
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we're the prize no no this is why there's so such a lack of happy relationships because the
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man is the prize if you're on top if we're always worshiping you then you're dating a simp
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you don't want to be with the guy who thinks you're the prize you want to look at your guy
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like he's the shit this is the biggest bullshit bro right why are women don't know that we're the
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prize with a class fuck you if you think otherwise date my eyelashes that look like a car driving
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away in a kid's book why are men expected to value all women as a collective but women don't value
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all men as a no they only value the man that deserves respect oh hold up women do value all
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men fuck out of here you were just saying now i've seen a whole bunch of dicks that was small
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okay it's just really like certain people don't value but i value my men okay well no i'm not
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all men stupid i'm talking about your individual dumb bro women only know how to apply the dick
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that they're taking right now to men that they're talking about i'm telling you they do not understand
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men they will never get our problems their only experience with men is just the last dick that
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they've seen this girl's interview just proved that i've seen a bunch of smile dicks my man i
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love visual man i'm talking where is he right now you're in the vegas strip dully with your friend
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on a girl's trip where you man at all men as they collected that's what i mean i'm saying like but
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don't don't women often say like you know you need to respect me men ain't shit men you know
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men are cheaters men are liars you know but but men are expected to treat all women like queens
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yeah no because not all women queens some women uh-huh so why do you think that we have the
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expression where of all the good men gone but nobody's asking where of all the good women gone
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great fucking question you know why because women they think they rule the world i don't know why
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okay let me ask you beyonce brainwashing who run the world girls who run the world girls
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what no they don't no they don't their pussy is just like what makes it that's it men are in
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charge of everything men built everything a lot of it we did because we want to get some coochie
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but you don't run shit let me ask you this right why do women often talk about how they secretly
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run the world but then also complain about how they're so oppressed because girls are fucking
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confused bro and they're yeah yeah exactly they're fucking delusional a real woman can take a home
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ready for her lilies to make no sense look i'm telling you the longer the mark of delusion
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this is the perfect example and great edit because she about to make no sense because girls are
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fucking confused ready a real woman can take a homeless man off the street and make him something
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no no that has never happened that will never happen what the fuck are you talking about
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How many okay, how many women are willing to take a homeless man off the street and make him something?
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Where I'm from a lot a lot you can be and y'all can build together what?
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Bullshitters professionally I would date a homeless man
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when where and then you're gonna go out of here as soon as the interview ends you're gonna be
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there bro people ain't shit you can't fuck with me unless you take me to a five-star restaurant
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i need a birkin bag fuck out of here you're gonna bring a broke man up how how how how are you gonna
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bring me up what the fuck are you gonna do to bring me up okay but here's the thing i i agree
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with you but it's often said and i'm not saying i said i made this rule but it's often said
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it's often said that women today don't care about a man's struggle they want to show up at the
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finish line and pick the winners i'm not that woman i can't relate to those women okay so you
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like homeless guys we know your type why is it that a rich man would change a broke woman's life
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but a rich woman is less likely to give a broke man a chance okay so now that now that depends
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on the person because you can maybe feel in your heart like you know i'm helping this person getting
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them off their feet but once you get them off their feet and you know they damn throw that
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person to the side because of how they're feeling they feel like they're embossed up like it just
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depends on the person like and men get comfortable like okay you know in the beginning we try to hold
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you guys down and then y'all start getting comfortable and want us to take over the role
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and then it's just like okay well what what what are your goals why are you still being the same
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like why are you not trying to level up like i'm not i'm not your mom i'm not here to take care of
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you i'm trying to boss up with you we're trying to boss up together yeah like we're trying to do
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things together not me doing bosses things for you why do you want to boss up this is the dumbest
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shit they just want to be us so bad how are you going to boss up because you don't want to get
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out and do boss up to what you don't want to be in charge i think that goes back to traditional
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She's conforming to those traditional gender roles
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to take care of her versus her taking care of a man
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often determined by what he provides i think it goes back to the traditional gender roles where
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the man was the provider well right but why is it that we've changed everything where it concerns
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women but men are still expected to play by the same old-fashioned gender roles because feminism
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comes from the top to make us weaker so that they could have all the power and these women are
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running around delusional don't realize what's happening and most men don't but they need videos
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like this they need to have conversations like this to realize that women are getting confused
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and we're actively getting sadder but nobody cares
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because male problems are funny. Well let me tell you
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out here they're not taking care of nothing they don't even live
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but do you think that maybe there's a reason for that?
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men to be traditional but women don't want to be traditional
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why is it that it's okay for women to expect men to do traditional things like protect and provide
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but the minute he expects her woman to do traditional woman things like cook and clean
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it's sexist i can only speak for myself so if the man is yeah avoid the question backtrack
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fighting and handling what he's supposed to do i can provide from the other end from what i guess
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would be traditional gender roles it may have to take their part and play their role so i can be
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vulnerable and being submissive to you okay um i thought you wanted to boss up now you want to
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be submissive you can't be a submissive boss shut the fuck up why is it that a man often has to lead
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first before the woman's willing to submit rather than the woman's submitting first so that the man
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can lead okay but at the same time if we're just yeah see they act like men until it's time to act
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like a woman they get to pick and choose how feminine they act but men have to always be men
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we can't pick and choose to be feminine you have to always be a man but nowadays because of feminism
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they are as masculine as most men taking it back to just a man being a man a lion an animal in a
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jungle we we know who is you know the dominant if you want to be dominant if that's what you're
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saying you're going to be then do that and i could be submissive to you i've heard you just didn't
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answer the question you just said what are you talking about you see how she just avoided it
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And then she was like, oh, shit, yeah, I'm full of shit with my birthday shawl on.
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If that's what you're saying, you're going to be that and I can be submissive to you.
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I've heard from a lot of black men that they perceive black women to be less submissive.
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Okay. Now, at the same time, why are there so many women in general who perceive being submissive as a sign of weakness?
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I don't understand why being soft gets you ran over.
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If you be mean, I promise you, every girl in the world will love you likely.
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Once again, being in love requires you to be vulnerable, so doesn't that require you to be soft somewhat?
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That's why I say girls wipe the soft dudes and fuck the mean dudes, honestly.
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They encourage us to act like that, but also complain when it's time to settle down on a relationship like that.