SNEAKO


Modern Day Women Are BEYOND Delusional


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In this episode, we talk about sexism, racism, and interracial dating in the 21st century. We also have a special guest on the show, our friend Shaniqua, who is a sociology major at the University of Toronto.

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00:00:00.000 it's complicated the race to submit what advice would you have a guy who maybe sees you in a bar
00:00:04.500 and thinks you're really attractive and wants to approach you without being perceived as creepy
00:00:07.500 don't be creepy that's not advice do you think it's true women often find attractive men cute 0.96
00:00:13.660 and romantic when an ugly one doing the exact same is creepy thing is creepy yes okay i don't i don't
00:00:20.900 i think all men are i assume the worst so okay all men are the worst i don't see that let me ask
00:00:28.380 you this why is it okay for women to paint men with a broad brush as something to be feared but
00:00:34.480 if men did the same thing more misogynist women it would be sexist um i think that based on the 0.80
00:00:42.260 statistics yeah okay it usually what statistics name one that's brainwashing the fact that she 1.00
00:00:49.940 thinks that there's magical statistics that mean that oh no where the fuck my camera go 0.93
00:00:53.760 she thinks that there's magical statistics that says that men are worse than women but she can't 0.99
00:00:58.080 even say anything straight up brainwashing women are always the victims but what the hell bro 1.00
00:01:04.080 i don't know why it's messed up fuck it let me ask you this uh is it okay for women to fear men 0.98
00:01:14.340 when 80 of all violent crime is done by men yes i mean that's why that that's why that broad 0.97
00:01:19.500 paintbrush is there okay how is that different than judging certain races based on statistical
00:01:24.740 data whoa you bring up racist statistics they call you nick fuentes in other words why is it
00:01:29.580 okay for women to be sexist but not racist those are not that different it's both generalizations 0.99
00:01:37.280 i'm a sociology minor i'm thinking um why did you have to say that the difference between being
00:01:42.860 sexist and racist can you ask the question again i got her that's a good question yeah well you're 0.62
00:01:48.000 basing something off of statistics and then you can't say the same thing based off you can't 0.62
00:01:51.800 ignore one statistic and go completely full in on one another that's because it's because one
00:01:59.040 thing is stigmatized and the other one is cool systematic just like it's systematic racism it's
00:02:05.160 built into our society okay so is the patriarchy it's built into society what's the difference
00:02:09.860 it's not something that's new in the last five years the same way second we already seen it no
00:02:13.080 we haven't i don't think we've seen this before we've seen these girls but we haven't seen
00:02:17.480 this... No, we haven't seen this.
00:02:19.500 Well, right, but I'm just saying
00:02:21.800 that there are statistics to back
00:02:23.800 up certain reasons that certain people
00:02:25.840 might, you know...
00:02:27.260 I would just say it's because racism is
00:02:29.680 more prevalent and has more severe consequences
00:02:32.040 than sexism, because in our society 0.99
00:02:33.740 right now, men and women
00:02:35.920 are relatively more equal...
00:02:37.460 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:02:38.860 How is what
00:02:40.820 the worst that men can do to women
00:02:43.700 any as bad as violent
00:02:45.840 crime of a different race yo how did he flip her she's arguing now you interviewing me yes
00:02:53.920 fight fight this is getting good go ahead ask your question then we're done what'd you say
00:03:00.600 you were you said oh well one's systemic and then the other is is has then you said one has worse 1.00
00:03:08.460 consequences but how is yeah call her out of the female bullshit rape worse than you murdering 1.00
00:03:15.520 someone else i would say they're both bad and neither should happen but i i do think murder 0.99
00:03:21.600 is well then why does so are you saying that one is happening because of systemic racism and the
00:03:26.040 other is happening because of sexism that's a lot to unpack here slip slip that's the question
00:03:35.900 women are painting men with a broad brush as something to be feared but if women did that 1.00
00:03:39.940 to a certain race that would be racist you're generalizing an entire group of people either
00:03:45.500 based on skin color or based on their their their gender right yeah and we're 0.99
00:03:50.180 all so fucked up like honestly all right this is an interracial dating question 0.99
00:03:54.860 okay 1.00
00:04:06.900 sorry are you more likely to see black men dating white women or white men dating 0.96
00:04:14.780 black women black 1.00
00:04:16.820 men dating white women by far 0.92
00:04:18.780 you see black men dating white women all the time 0.92
00:04:20.800 you don't see white men dating black 0.92
00:04:22.800 women all the time name the last 1.00
00:04:24.680 white man you saw dating a black woman 0.82
00:04:26.540 can you imagine a guy
00:04:28.620 hey oh Shaniqua
00:04:30.380 welcome home where
00:04:32.780 have you been all night 1.00
00:04:33.860 period you think it's stupid oh 1.00
00:04:36.540 sweetie a little bit of attitude 0.99
00:04:38.280 why are you saying I got attitude full
00:04:40.420 no honey I would never say
00:04:42.760 you have attitude that relationship has never
00:04:44.600 happened in the history of the world so black men dating white women and why is that um to be 0.89
00:04:51.040 honest i'm not really quite sure that's just what i think i feel like they might be intimidated by
00:04:58.360 us black women so they might do another race i don't see my i don't agree with a lot of that i
00:05:04.920 mean i agree with what she's saying but black women have been called ugly so much by the beauty 1.00
00:05:11.360 standards that are set up by white people we live by a white beauty standard so even dark-skinned 1.00
00:05:16.440 black men are most often with black women that are lighter dark-skinned women get overlooked so 0.85
00:05:22.280 much and i i think that's a a standard that's ingrained i think that's a form of brainwashing
00:05:26.880 too why do you think that that's more attractive to be lighter what does skin color have to do with
00:05:32.660 procreation which is ultimately the reason we're here man embrace a dark queen man it's underrated 0.74
00:05:38.380 us black women so they might do another race i don't see myself dating a white guy nothing 0.72
00:05:44.740 against his race but it's more about like my bloodline and keeping it pure and black and 0.72
00:05:51.180 maybe if i want to there you go did you hear that one more time i'm gonna bring this one up about
00:05:57.220 like my bloodline and keeping it pure and black and imagine if a white guy said word for word
00:06:03.680 what she just said imagine a white guy just had this question asked why don't you date a black 0.94
00:06:10.200 woman and a white guy goes well it's the kind of about keeping the bloodline pure and keeping a 1.00
00:06:16.200 white i'm proud of being white i want my bloodline to be white and that's why i wouldn't date a dark 1.00
00:06:21.560 woman i care about my bloodline i'm proudly white she's saying the same thing and i was like yeah
00:06:26.920 good point oh yeah i get it white people do not have freedom of speech maybe if i want to have
00:06:32.780 children i want my children to be black nothing against like skin color race nothing i have two
00:06:39.500 theories and i want to see what your opinion is okay theory number one is the infamous bbc
00:06:49.900 theory number two she didn't know what bbc meant
00:06:53.660 how the hell is black women are often perceived to be seen as less submissive 1.00
00:06:59.820 the bbc that ain't true yeah because because i've seen a whole bunch of hay hey you've seen a whole 0.98
00:07:10.140 bunch of hay why are you why are you seeing a whole bunch of hay how old are you a whole bunch of people
00:07:15.660 a whole bunch black african-american men they ain't packing okay you thought you were just 1.00
00:07:22.220 empowered saying that calling people's dicks small but you also just said i've seen a whole 0.99
00:07:25.680 bunch of dicks okay okay so you think that's a myth yeah not all black men men are are are blessed 1.00
00:07:34.100 black dudes dating white women because white women love our dicks i mean love our penises my bad 1.00
00:07:40.080 and what about the theory um a lot of black men that i've interviewed have told me that they 1.00
00:07:44.520 have perceived black women uh um are often seen as less submissive because some black women they 0.82
00:07:50.900 want to come off as independent i don't need a man blah blah blah like i don't need no man 0.93
00:07:56.280 sometimes some black women don't want their man to take control i guess and they want to 1.00
00:08:01.940 be seen as independent i don't need nobody a powerful black woman we ain't no beta bitch 1.00
00:08:08.380 we alphas up in this mother exactly exactly nobody wants to date an alpha why would you say that 1.00
00:08:15.680 Bitch hold on hold on hold on hold on hold on but but y'all not alphas up in this motherfucker bitch 1.00
00:08:21.860 I'm out for zip and period it's motherfucking bitch. I'm trying to be a man. Oh hold on hold on hold on 1.00
00:08:27.740 Hold on this exactly the type of women that they're talking about bro, but but y'all not bitches though y'all ladies 1.00
00:08:33.740 And like he said and like he said and like he said we're Queens and like he said what I'm an alpha 1.00
00:08:39.560 Alpha, bitch, queen. 1.00
00:08:41.140 Just say a whole bunch of nothing, bro. 1.00
00:08:45.080 And at the end of the day, we're...
00:08:46.440 Just a whole bunch of...
00:08:47.640 A lot of self-esteem for nothing.
00:08:50.120 And it's okay to be that.
00:08:51.920 Because if we weren't, guess what?
00:08:54.800 We would be doing horrible.
00:08:57.220 Just...
00:08:57.580 We would be doing horrible.
00:09:00.520 We gotta be strong or else we're gonna get walked all over on.
00:09:03.780 Why do so many women think that being submissive is a sign of weakness? 1.00
00:09:10.040 Because most women that are submissive get ran over. 1.00
00:09:14.320 Okay, but at the same time, wouldn't you also say that a lot of men that trust their women and, you know, make themselves vulnerable will get run over as well?
00:09:23.100 Yep, because we got a friend who do it to her man all the time. 1.00
00:09:26.520 Drag him through the mud.
00:09:27.600 And is it possible to be in love without making yourself vulnerable?
00:09:34.040 Yeah.
00:09:35.360 No. 0.95
00:09:36.260 No, what the hell are you talking about? 0.89
00:09:38.680 Yeah.
00:09:39.560 no yeah it's okay to be vulnerable to a man
00:09:43.520 a good man a good man a good man a worthy a worthy man a strong woman being vulnerable to
00:09:50.740 a worthy man a strong man doesn't yeah see when i talk about dating a dark-skinned queen a worthy 0.99
00:09:56.360 man a strong woman being vulnerable to a worthy man a strong man i'm not really talking about them
00:10:03.060 i think a lot of the western brainwashing has affected all races of women in the west but
00:10:09.000 a dark-skilled woman from outside of the West 0.55
00:10:12.820 is going to be a way easier time to handle than this.
00:10:16.480 Does a man have the right to define what a woman is?
00:10:19.700 Not at all. Not at all.
00:10:22.360 Is she from New York?
00:10:23.440 Not at all.
00:10:24.340 You heard that? You heard that?
00:10:25.320 ...what a woman is? 1.00
00:10:26.920 Not at all. Not at all.
00:10:29.580 I disagree with that.
00:10:31.080 I disagree with that one, too.
00:10:32.460 Okay, so then what gives women the right to define what a real man is? 0.94
00:10:37.200 Just...
00:10:37.760 Oh, like they have the right to define what a real woman is. 1.00
00:10:43.200 Well, right.
00:10:44.200 But aren't women always saying like a real man should be this and a real man should be 0.99
00:10:47.540 that.
00:10:48.540 Just like men say that.
00:10:50.720 Just like men, just like men say that we should be this and we should be that.
00:10:54.140 We should be able to cook.
00:10:55.140 We should be able to clean.
00:10:56.140 We should be able to cook clean.
00:10:57.140 We should.
00:10:58.140 All that.
00:10:59.140 Yes. 1.00
00:11:00.140 And I do all that shit, but at the end of the day, what do you cook? 1.00
00:11:03.140 Tacos? 1.00
00:11:04.140 What do you cook?
00:11:05.140 Cereal?
00:11:06.140 You pour the milk in the Lucky Charms bowl?
00:11:08.280 Yeah.
00:11:08.880 It goes both ways.
00:11:10.660 Often we do try to define what...
00:11:15.020 I'm so sick of these, bro.
00:11:19.280 What a real man is.
00:11:20.840 And you know what?
00:11:21.640 It's crazy because we can't figure that out until we live that.
00:11:25.880 Until we experience what a real man...
00:11:28.140 That's a great angle on the Lele Lees, too. 0.99
00:11:30.140 You just get to see how absolutely ridiculous they look. 0.97
00:11:33.800 This one just looks like pointy. 0.98
00:11:35.660 it doesn't look like eyelashes this looks like when a kid is drawing
00:11:40.260 an amplifier it looks like you know you know when a kid is driving a car going away
00:11:46.660 and you draw the skid marks of the tire that's what your eyelashes look like this one
00:11:51.980 a fork yeah two forks every time i can't i see nothing but a
00:11:59.700 and is you know if we wasn't taught what a real man is if we didn't see example of a real man we
00:12:07.980 don't know ourselves so only go from like you said we're making ourselves vulnerable and open
00:12:13.380 to seeing if this person well if a woman doesn't even know what a real man is how do you know
00:12:17.540 whether a man is worthy of submitting to well we know how we're supposed to be treated no they know
00:12:23.200 how they want to feel but they don't know what a real man is that's why you can't rely on a woman 1.00
00:12:28.220 to tell you who you are it's a personal journey a man's journey is personal solo she has no idea
00:12:34.680 she knows how she wants to be felt she knows how she wants you to make her feel but not all the
00:12:42.000 work that goes into becoming that just do it just figure it out but she can't tell you now we know
00:12:48.240 that we're not crazy it doesn't take a book just like it doesn't take a lot to raise kids we're not
00:12:53.480 given a book to race it's no instructions so it's no instructions with a man we obviously 0.98
00:12:57.880 knows because at the time we know if a man's bullshit he's bullshit if it's a man good 0.96
00:13:03.320 he's good we know how because we're gonna feel it it's gonna yeah what they feel i mean girls 0.99
00:13:08.300 are good at having intuition when it comes to bullshit but they can't tell you how to be better 0.95
00:13:12.280 why do women often attack a man's masculinity when they don't get what they want 1.00
00:13:17.000 because they know that that's the only power they have is just bringing men down
00:13:21.900 because they do that to us and they and they're really prideful so when you do something like
00:13:26.760 that their pride is like all of it like they hit on us because we're pretty but then like 0.99
00:13:30.700 we're not trying to fuck them so all of a sudden like we're not pretty anymore 0.98
00:13:34.220 am i wrong no that's a great point i've heard that before as well it's like oh you won't date 0.99
00:13:38.920 me so now you're ugly right exactly why do you think men do that because there's because a 1.00
00:13:44.080 woman's worth is what she looks like a man's worth is your masculinity is your respect
00:13:47.780 I think it hurts their ego.
00:13:50.340 Yeah, I agree with that.
00:13:51.480 Okay.
00:13:52.080 Do you believe that being in love requires you to be vulnerable?
00:13:56.220 Yes, but they're going to say, they're going to give the right answer.
00:13:59.120 They look like nice girls.
00:14:00.720 A hundred percent.
00:14:02.620 Okay.
00:14:03.320 How can you become vulnerable without getting taken advantage of?
00:14:08.540 I think there's a fine line between taking advantage of someone and loving them.
00:14:14.340 I think it's it it's a hard thing and losing yourself in love but I mean I'm only 19 I haven't
00:14:21.840 quite figured that out yet so let's ask the 22 year old um you do become vulnerable when you
00:14:27.940 fall in love but you just gotta take the risk of being taken advantage of and be calm so she's 19
00:14:33.180 she's outside like this in Vegas where every single casino every single bar is 21 plus they
00:14:37.860 don't care they're gonna take her fake id knowing it's fake but a guy can't be 19 going out here 0.95
00:14:42.420 to kick him out but it's that in yourself in who you are in your identity but love sucks let's get
00:14:47.920 that straight okay um and also by the way um have either you guys ever had your hearts broken before
00:14:53.100 oh yes yeah 100 right now bro right now that's why they're outside in vegas 19 outside on the
00:15:00.200 vegas strip boom and and and uh have either of you ever unfairly punished a potential suitor
00:15:07.840 based on previous bad experiences?
00:15:09.980 Not personally.
00:15:10.940 Definitely.
00:15:11.940 So what advice would you give to somebody
00:15:13.920 who maybe has kind of had some bad experiences
00:15:17.140 and maybe wants to learn how they can trust somebody again
00:15:21.260 and make themselves vulnerable?
00:15:22.580 I don't know how to trust anybody again.
00:15:24.780 I mean, so far, I think it would be to just not let it go,
00:15:29.300 but let it go, and each person's different,
00:15:31.380 and try, and if it doesn't work out...
00:15:34.380 She's very hopeful.
00:15:35.400 I hope someone doesn't walk all over her on these Vegas bars. 1.00
00:15:37.500 you're you be free live your life and if it happens it happens no terrible advice you should
00:15:44.460 actively try to better yourself so that you could find the pot the partner that you want but women 1.00
00:15:48.200 get to have the privilege of walking around and saying just live your life be a walk around i
00:15:53.280 belong to the streets and eventually some guy's gonna just have to put up with me and if you know
00:15:57.260 you're not a real man no men have to actively become better to find love and you get to live
00:16:02.260 in this delusion that well one day or you're 22 you should start looking soon what is the peak
00:16:08.000 pregnancy age like 25 but gal girls are like running around outside on their whole face so 1.00
00:16:12.000 like 33 because they think they're magically going to find the relationship they want while
00:16:17.240 the man that they really want is actively working to better himself if i was with a man that never 0.99
00:16:22.380 beat on me and then i was with a man that beat on me i wasn't scared until a motherfucker was 0.98
00:16:27.080 beating on me you know i'm saying so it's just like the things that we go through in the situations 0.99
00:16:30.540 that we're in that make us but y'all we have to prevail i don't know what y'all race is i don't
00:16:35.180 know what your religion is but you have to prevail believe in god or whatever you believe in you know
00:16:39.640 i'm saying and we're gonna make it through you need to just not be vulnerable to everybody
00:16:44.040 and pick up on those red flags and stop trying to ignore them and stop trying to make people
00:16:48.180 what you want to make them into wow wow wow it's my birthday birthday queen chat it's 95% males
00:16:58.340 watching this imagine like going around your birthday and you you get what is this uh
00:17:03.380 looks like you're you're at a beauty pageant you put a little wrapped yourself in a bow it's my
00:17:08.500 birthday birthdays are for women because you already know that's not who they are 1.00
00:17:13.140 what percentage of modern women are marriage material let me be honest it's not very it's not 1.00
00:17:19.860 very many you know why women are in tune to their body they're not in tune with running 1.00
00:17:27.140 a household they're in tune to social media they're not in tune with the needs of their
00:17:32.260 significant other or their kids that you know i i'm just gonna be honest the women really is like 1.00
00:17:39.860 men it's all about me and i don't know if it comes from brainwashing the experience that
00:17:46.740 they're they've had or i i mean i don't know okay wait wait let me just wait wait wait did he do
00:17:54.340 this on purpose to just get the most aggressively
00:17:56.840 no accountability on the woman 0.84
00:18:09.760 oh they do
00:18:11.480 no they don't
00:18:13.200 from where i'm from 0.99
00:18:15.160 we're the fucking prize 1.00
00:18:17.120 and if women don't know that we're the prize 1.00
00:18:19.560 nope
00:18:20.280 wrong
00:18:22.160 we're the prize no no this is why there's so such a lack of happy relationships because the
00:18:31.780 man is the prize if you're on top if we're always worshiping you then you're dating a simp 1.00
00:18:36.180 you don't want to be with the guy who thinks you're the prize you want to look at your guy 1.00
00:18:41.800 like he's the shit this is the biggest bullshit bro right why are women don't know that we're the 1.00
00:18:47.940 prize with a class fuck you if you think otherwise date my eyelashes that look like a car driving 1.00
00:18:54.120 away in a kid's book why are men expected to value all women as a collective but women don't value 1.00
00:19:06.460 all men as a no they only value the man that deserves respect oh hold up women do value all 1.00
00:19:13.780 men fuck out of here you were just saying now i've seen a whole bunch of dicks that was small 1.00
00:19:19.220 okay it's just really like certain people don't value but i value my men okay well no i'm not 1.00
00:19:25.420 all men stupid i'm talking about your individual dumb bro women only know how to apply the dick 1.00
00:19:32.240 that they're taking right now to men that they're talking about i'm telling you they do not understand 1.00
00:19:36.580 men they will never get our problems their only experience with men is just the last dick that 0.99
00:19:41.380 they've seen this girl's interview just proved that i've seen a bunch of smile dicks my man i 1.00
00:19:46.780 love visual man i'm talking where is he right now you're in the vegas strip dully with your friend 0.96
00:19:51.720 on a girl's trip where you man at all men as they collected that's what i mean i'm saying like but 0.97
00:19:58.020 don't don't women often say like you know you need to respect me men ain't shit men you know 0.99
00:20:03.040 men are cheaters men are liars you know but but men are expected to treat all women like queens 0.99
00:20:07.340 yeah no because not all women queens some women uh-huh so why do you think that we have the 0.99
00:20:16.160 expression where of all the good men gone but nobody's asking where of all the good women gone 0.99
00:20:20.920 great fucking question you know why because women they think they rule the world i don't know why 1.00
00:20:28.320 okay let me ask you beyonce brainwashing who run the world girls who run the world girls 1.00
00:20:34.360 what no they don't no they don't their pussy is just like what makes it that's it men are in 1.00
00:20:43.120 charge of everything men built everything a lot of it we did because we want to get some coochie 1.00
00:20:48.400 but you don't run shit let me ask you this right why do women often talk about how they secretly 1.00
00:20:53.440 run the world but then also complain about how they're so oppressed because girls are fucking 1.00
00:20:58.540 confused bro and they're yeah yeah exactly they're fucking delusional a real woman can take a home 0.99
00:21:05.280 ready for her lilies to make no sense look i'm telling you the longer the mark of delusion 0.96
00:21:09.180 this is the perfect example and great edit because she about to make no sense because girls are 1.00
00:21:13.680 fucking confused ready a real woman can take a homeless man off the street and make him something 1.00
00:21:20.100 no no that has never happened that will never happen what the fuck are you talking about 1.00
00:21:27.460 How many okay, how many women are willing to take a homeless man off the street and make him something? 1.00
00:21:33.320 Will you how often do you see that happen?
00:21:37.720 Where I'm from a lot a lot you can be and y'all can build together what? 0.82
00:21:47.000 Bullshitters professionally I would date a homeless man
00:21:50.960 when where and then you're gonna go out of here as soon as the interview ends you're gonna be 1.00
00:21:58.400 there bro people ain't shit you can't fuck with me unless you take me to a five-star restaurant 0.99
00:22:04.660 i need a birkin bag fuck out of here you're gonna bring a broke man up how how how how are you gonna 1.00
00:22:11.840 bring me up what the fuck are you gonna do to bring me up okay but here's the thing i i agree 1.00
00:22:16.800 with you but it's often said and i'm not saying i said i made this rule but it's often said 0.98
00:22:20.540 it's often said that women today don't care about a man's struggle they want to show up at the 0.99
00:22:25.160 finish line and pick the winners i'm not that woman i can't relate to those women okay so you
00:22:30.920 like homeless guys we know your type why is it that a rich man would change a broke woman's life
00:22:37.100 but a rich woman is less likely to give a broke man a chance okay so now that now that depends 1.00
00:22:44.460 on the person because you can maybe feel in your heart like you know i'm helping this person getting 0.94
00:22:49.800 them off their feet but once you get them off their feet and you know they damn throw that 0.56
00:22:54.860 person to the side because of how they're feeling they feel like they're embossed up like it just
00:22:58.220 depends on the person like and men get comfortable like okay you know in the beginning we try to hold
00:23:03.780 you guys down and then y'all start getting comfortable and want us to take over the role
00:23:07.440 and then it's just like okay well what what what are your goals why are you still being the same
00:23:12.500 like why are you not trying to level up like i'm not i'm not your mom i'm not here to take care of
00:23:16.460 you i'm trying to boss up with you we're trying to boss up together yeah like we're trying to do 0.99
00:23:20.540 things together not me doing bosses things for you why do you want to boss up this is the dumbest 0.99
00:23:27.740 shit they just want to be us so bad how are you going to boss up because you don't want to get 0.99
00:23:32.020 out and do boss up to what you don't want to be in charge i think that goes back to traditional 1.00
00:23:37.500 gender roles 0.99
00:23:38.740 You ain't got the answers
00:23:41.380 Swayne, you ain't got the answers
00:23:43.360 When the man brought home
00:23:45.300 the bacon
00:23:46.300 so to say
00:23:48.060 You brought home a lot of bacon
00:23:50.500 Sorry, sorry, sorry
00:23:53.840 She's conforming to those traditional gender roles 1.00
00:23:57.200 then she would prefer 0.61
00:23:58.800 You brought home all the bacon
00:24:00.520 to take care of her versus her taking care of a man 1.00
00:24:03.100 Okay, why is it that in the age
00:24:05.260 of independent women, a man's values
00:24:07.280 often determined by what he provides i think it goes back to the traditional gender roles where
00:24:12.520 the man was the provider well right but why is it that we've changed everything where it concerns
00:24:17.640 women but men are still expected to play by the same old-fashioned gender roles because feminism 1.00
00:24:22.620 comes from the top to make us weaker so that they could have all the power and these women are 1.00
00:24:26.740 running around delusional don't realize what's happening and most men don't but they need videos
00:24:30.420 like this they need to have conversations like this to realize that women are getting confused 0.99
00:24:34.880 delusional and getting happier
00:24:36.920 and we're actively getting sadder but nobody cares
00:24:38.760 because male problems are funny. Well let me tell you
00:24:41.020 trust me they're not. How in the
00:24:42.960 house hell? Because these men 0.97
00:24:44.900 out here they're not taking care of nothing they don't even live
00:24:46.980 up to the same standard as before. Okay
00:24:48.920 but do you think that maybe there's a reason for that?
00:24:50.920 Could it possibly be because women expect 1.00
00:24:52.860 men to be traditional but women don't want to be traditional 1.00
00:24:54.940 women in return? 1.00
00:24:58.100 Boom book up.
00:25:01.600 That's a good question.
00:25:02.880 I don't know. I mean. Well I mean
00:25:04.560 why is it that it's okay for women to expect men to do traditional things like protect and provide 0.97
00:25:09.720 but the minute he expects her woman to do traditional woman things like cook and clean 1.00
00:25:13.480 it's sexist i can only speak for myself so if the man is yeah avoid the question backtrack
00:25:18.820 fighting and handling what he's supposed to do i can provide from the other end from what i guess
00:25:23.780 would be traditional gender roles it may have to take their part and play their role so i can be 0.95
00:25:30.280 vulnerable and being submissive to you okay um i thought you wanted to boss up now you want to 0.99
00:25:35.460 be submissive you can't be a submissive boss shut the fuck up why is it that a man often has to lead 0.99
00:25:41.420 first before the woman's willing to submit rather than the woman's submitting first so that the man 0.99
00:25:46.080 can lead okay but at the same time if we're just yeah see they act like men until it's time to act
00:25:52.340 like a woman they get to pick and choose how feminine they act but men have to always be men 1.00
00:25:55.980 we can't pick and choose to be feminine you have to always be a man but nowadays because of feminism 1.00
00:26:01.280 they are as masculine as most men taking it back to just a man being a man a lion an animal in a
00:26:07.680 jungle we we know who is you know the dominant if you want to be dominant if that's what you're
00:26:14.280 saying you're going to be then do that and i could be submissive to you i've heard you just didn't
00:26:18.440 answer the question you just said what are you talking about you see how she just avoided it 1.00
00:26:21.760 And then she was like, oh, shit, yeah, I'm full of shit with my birthday shawl on. 0.98
00:26:27.260 But she just dodged it. 1.00
00:26:28.780 Not in my head.
00:26:29.580 Yeah, I feel better now.
00:26:30.240 If that's what you're saying, you're going to be that and I can be submissive to you. 0.90
00:26:34.200 I've heard from a lot of black men that they perceive black women to be less submissive.
00:26:39.780 What are your thoughts? 0.74
00:26:40.940 Yes, that's true.
00:26:42.400 Very true.
00:26:43.500 Because they they can't settle for nothing.
00:26:45.860 Okay. Now, at the same time, why are there so many women in general who perceive being submissive as a sign of weakness? 0.98
00:26:56.100 Probably because they want a mean dude. 1.00
00:26:58.200 I don't understand why being soft gets you ran over.
00:27:02.560 If you be mean, I promise you, every girl in the world will love you likely.
00:27:07.300 Once again, being in love requires you to be vulnerable, so doesn't that require you to be soft somewhat? 1.00
00:27:12.580 That's why I say girls wipe the soft dudes and fuck the mean dudes, honestly. 1.00
00:27:17.140 Honestly, literally, like, that's the trick. 1.00
00:27:21.840 It's a cycle.
00:27:23.040 They encourage us to act like that, but also complain when it's time to settle down on a relationship like that.
00:27:32.400 That's it.
00:27:32.940 Is this your job?