SNEAKO - November 13, 2023


Sheikh Uthman Educates SNEAKO On The Kaaba

Topics
hajj united Muslims
Hosted by
Nicolas Kenn De Balinthazy
Mentioned
Abraham Astaghfirullah Prophet Allahu Akbar Alhamdulillah Inshallah Zamzam Sneeko Adam Ahmadi Muslim Rabbul Khali Abdul Wahab Dhul Hijjah Abu Bakr Barakallah Muhammad Bedouins Ishmael Versace Hussain and 14 more
SNEAKO, Mufti Menk, Sheikh Uthman Live Podcast from Mecca Sheikh Uthman Shows SNEAKO the Holy City of Medina

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In this episode, we talk about the Hajj and how we should support our brothers and sisters who are performing it. We also talk about why it is important to have a wife and why we should get married.

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00:00:00 Next to somebody who may be a beggar in the street to show that we're all one human race, one body.
00:00:10 And once you see the clothes gone, you can't even tell where somebody's from.
00:00:15 They could be Mexican or Pakistani, you can't tell.
00:00:17 You know, you could be Algerian or Moroccan or whatever, nobody cares anymore. 1.00
00:00:22 You're all Muslims, one family, going and seeing what all the prophets did from Abraham onwards, 0.91
00:00:28 coming and performing the Hajj. 0.95
00:00:30 So what else are you supposed to do?
00:00:32 You walk around seven times.
00:00:34 I think the first four are slower.
00:00:37 So here, you start with the Hajj al-Aswad, the black stone that was sent by Allah from the sky. 0.95
00:00:44 We don't worship it, to be clear.
00:00:46 It's just something that Allah sent as a sign.
00:00:50 You go around it, starting from it, seven times.
00:00:53 The first three times, you're going to jog.
00:00:56 You're going to be three.
00:00:57 You're going to jog a little bit, right?
00:00:59 For men, not for women. 1.00
00:01:00 And then the next four, you walk.
00:01:03 Then you slow down.
00:01:03 Okay.
00:01:04 You slow down.
00:01:04 So seven all together.
00:01:06 You...
00:01:06 And do I have to go bald?
00:01:09 Wait, wait, wait till we get there, man.
00:01:10 So you do the seven.
00:01:13 Afterwards, you're going to drink from the Zamzam water that you've been drinking from, the blessed water.
00:01:18 And then you're going to pray with the Maqam of Ibrahim, the place where Abraham stood between you and the Kaaba. 0.76
00:01:25 So it reminds you that Abraham stood here.
00:01:28 This is not a new religion.
00:01:29 This is the same religion from the time of Adam to Muhammad. 0.88
00:01:32 Peace and blessings be upon all the prophets.
00:01:34 And you're going to pray two units, two Raka'a there. 0.99
00:01:37 Then you're going to go, drink some more Zamzam, make dua, pray, supplicate.
00:01:42 And then you go do Sa'i, which you see on the right, this covered area.
00:01:47 That's like a long strip.
00:01:49 This is between Safa and Marwa.
00:01:52 The two hills are small.
00:01:54 What strips?
00:01:54 On the right.
00:01:55 So you look on the right, this straight line.
00:01:58 So you see the Kaaba?
00:01:59 Yeah.
00:01:59 It's circling around.
00:02:00 There you see this long strip that goes back and forth.
00:02:04 Can you zoom in?
00:02:05 Yes.
00:02:07 You can zoom.
00:02:08 Where is it?
00:02:09 Let's see.
00:02:10 Oh, Warner knows.
00:02:13 Right here.
00:02:13 Right here.
00:02:14 Okay.
00:02:14 This.
00:02:16 Oh, sorry.
00:02:17 Yeah.
00:02:17 From here to there, if you look on the right, you point at it and zoom.
00:02:23 This is Safa.
00:02:24 The reality is, this is a city that never sleeps.
00:02:27 And this is a place where people are worshiping 24-7.
00:02:30 If you don't worship Allah, it doesn't matter.
00:02:33 Allah has people worshiping him all day and all night.
00:02:35 Allah does not need you. 1.00
00:02:37 Allah does not need you. 1.00
00:02:38 You need Allah. 0.90
00:02:39 And that's the reality.
00:02:41 But go ahead.
00:02:41 In Vegas.
00:02:43 Alhamdulillah.
00:02:46 Barakallah feekum. 0.98
00:02:46 Allah accepted.
00:02:47 But this is something beautiful.
00:02:48 If you're not Muslim, look up the hajj. 1.00
00:02:50 Watch some videos.
00:02:51 It's an experience that, I mean, it's amazing.
00:02:54 And especially to see humanity come together.
00:02:57 It's not like the Vatican where they've got little boys in tights and stuff running around.
00:03:01 I mean, Alhamdulillah, you have.
00:03:03 Astaghfirullah.
00:03:04 Astaghfirullah.
00:03:04 Astaghfirullah, man.
00:03:05 Yeah.
00:03:05 That's the Pope.
00:03:06 Not me, bro.
00:03:07 He needs a wife. 1.00
00:03:10 Right?
00:03:10 But that's the thing.
00:03:11 I'm being honest, bro.
00:03:15 You think he doesn't need a wife, man? 0.98
00:03:17 You think all these priests would be doing this if they got married? 0.99
00:03:20 Why not get married?
00:03:22 I don't know.
00:03:22 This is not natural.
00:03:23 Look at your Bible.
00:03:25 Look at Abraham.
00:03:26 Look at Moses.
00:03:27 Look at David.
00:03:27 They all got married.
00:03:29 Yes, Isa ibn Maryam was taken up by Allah at a young age.
00:03:32 But even he's going to come back and get married.
00:03:35 Allah made a natural way, man. 0.98
00:03:37 Woman.
00:03:37 Not.
00:03:38 It's Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve.
00:03:41 So.
00:03:44 How can the average person watching right now do, how could we support?
00:03:48 How could we help?
00:03:48 Because they're silencing people.
00:03:50 They take you off of Instagram.
00:03:51 They shadow ban you.
00:03:52 They delete you off of YouTube.
00:03:53 What are we supposed to do?
00:03:56 First and foremost, when we say a war, a war is fought between countries.
00:04:02 A war is fought between armies.
00:04:03 A war is not fought when one of the heaviest armed-backed militaries in the world is bombing
00:04:10 a civilian population.
00:04:12 That's not called a war, right?
00:04:14 If they want to fight a war, let them pick a place and bring soldiers out and fight it.
00:04:18 That's not it.
00:04:19 But if you go and you shall, and you don't, again, as people who may not understand, the 0.93
00:04:24 people of Gaza can't leave.
00:04:26 The borders are closed.
00:04:28 They can't just be like, we're going to go to Egypt until the war is over.
00:04:31 They can move around within Gaza, but they can't leave Gaza. 1.00
00:04:34 So you're telling a population you can't leave here, and we're going to bomb you, and you 1.00
00:04:39 die, you die. 0.99
00:04:40 And there's children, babies, dying, videos you cannot deny every day.
00:04:46 You can see the bombs coming from the planes, hitting, and you can see the babies being
00:04:51 pulled out of the rubble, dead.
00:04:52 The videos are online.
00:04:54 So the first thing you can do, whether you're Muslim, not Muslim, doesn't matter. 0.76
00:04:57 If you're an honest person, share this.
00:05:00 Share this information, because Fox isn't going to tell you this.
00:05:04 CNN and BBC is not going to tell you this.
00:05:06 But that time is over where they could control that message.
00:05:08 Today, because of our brothers, Nico, and other brothers like that out there on social
00:05:12 media, letting the world know, letting your voice be heard, that's the first thing.
00:05:17 Second thing, know that Arabs are a Semitic people, by the way.
00:05:22 So if you criticize Israel, it doesn't mean you're anti-Semitic.
00:05:26 When you're criticizing Palestinians who are Arab and Semitic, nobody says you're anti-Semitic.
00:05:31 We are not criticizing the Jewish people.
00:05:34 When we criticize the actions of the IDF and the Israeli government, there are many Jews 1.00
00:05:40 out there criticizing what's going on by that.
00:05:42 So let your voice be heard.
00:05:44 Use your social media to let the world know.
00:05:47 And last but not least, we want people to come together and stand up to the powers that
00:05:53 be and tell them that we do not believe this is right.
00:05:56 Again, we advise our leaders.
00:05:58 We advise our imams, our preachers, our rabbis, our community leaders.
00:06:05 Advise them.
00:06:06 Go and speak to them nicely.
00:06:08 We're not calling for bloodshed and killing of government, but we are calling for people
00:06:12 to let their voice be heard that we do not believe in this genocide.
00:06:17 We believe it should be stopped.
00:06:19 We know that Israel as a country doesn't care what anybody thinks.
00:06:25 They don't care if they're breaking international law.
00:06:27 But how long are we going to allow this to go on with our, for Americans, it's our taxpayer
00:06:33 money. 0.96
00:06:34 If 10 billion, the B of my money is going to buy more bombs to kill children, why wouldn't 0.96
00:06:42 we as Americans, Muslim, non-Muslim, atheists, doesn't matter, say to our government that 0.74
00:06:48 look, why don't we use that money to help with the homeless?
00:06:51 Why don't we help education?
00:06:52 He recognizes Abraham and Ishmael and Isaac.
00:06:55 This is a place that from that time has been a place of people coming and visiting as Abraham
00:07:01 used to come and visit Ishmael here and perform these rituals.
00:07:05 And the Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, he showed us these rituals as well, manasik
00:07:09 as we call them.
00:07:10 And today you see it, alhamdulillah, billions of Muslims around the world want to come here
00:07:16 and millions come all the time.
00:07:19 This is, as you can see, this is a light night for us because it's midnight, it's not Ramadan, 1.00
00:07:26 but it's still packed.
00:07:27 People from every country of the world, alhamdulillah, we're going to live stream inshallah later
00:07:32 in the daytime and show you there will be no place to stand.
00:07:36 And inshallah someday with Sneeko and maybe Abdul Wahab and Brother Ahmad, we're going to
00:07:40 come here in Ramadan and show you where you won't even be able to set foot down here. 0.96
00:07:45 And then someday when our brother Sneeko does his first hajj, inshallah, we're going to come.
00:07:49 When is hajj?
00:07:50 That's in August.
00:07:52 Hajj is in Dhul Hijjah, the Islamic months. 0.67
00:07:54 So they're lunar calendars, so they kind of move.
00:07:56 But inshallah, you will never see that many people from that many backgrounds peacefully together.
00:08:09 When I went hajj the first time, the estimated was about four million people.
00:08:14 Because there's the official count and then there's the Arabs and Bedouins that just take up their tents. 0.99
00:08:19 Four million people can fit here?
00:08:21 No, no, no.
00:08:21 This place is packed out.
00:08:23 In hajj, you'll be praying all the way out in the middle of the streets. 0.99
00:08:28 In hajj, you will go to Arafah, you will go to Muzdalifah. 0.88
00:08:33 And, you know, official counts when two, three million comes.
00:08:37 Nobody counts the people that are just from Kuwait and Qatar and Rabbul Khali and they just drive their trucks. 1.00
00:08:43 And you'll see them in hajj.
00:08:44 They'll come with their own tents and they'll set up.
00:08:46 So that many people, they can't even communicate.
00:08:49 They speak different language, different cultural norms.
00:08:52 But being patient for the sake of Allah, doing all these rituals together for the sake of Allah, showing that humanity is one body.
00:09:01 It's not about a Korean church.
00:09:03 It's not about only Jews who are of the Hebrew race can go to the Wailing Wall.
00:09:07 It's not about only Hinduism from the Indian subcontinent.
00:09:12 You will see people from, when I went further, I saw people from Finland, from the Djibouti, from places like Papua New Guinea, from Chile.
00:09:19 I couldn't imagine there were Muslims in Iceland.
00:09:22 But alhamdulillah, they were here performing hajj together.
00:09:25 White, black, rich, poor. 0.95
00:09:28 You could be a billionaire.
00:09:29 You can't be flexing your Gucci clothes or your Versace suits.
00:09:33 You'll be wearing the same ihram as a broke person that's out there.
00:09:37 Inshallah, you see in the humanity being one family.
00:09:43 Maryam, the mother of God, according to Christians, she was married to Joseph.
00:09:48 So why do nuns not get married? 1.00
00:09:50 It doesn't make sense.
00:09:51 All it is, is the church trying to keep the wealth within themselves.
00:09:55 But what it has done, and this is not my opinion, you can go Google priest sex abuse cases around the world, in L.A., in Boston, in the U.K., anywhere in the world.
00:10:05 You've made this environment that is unnatural.
00:10:08 You have these priests that some of them become priests because they're interested in boys, but some of them may not be.
00:10:15 But because they're not able to fulfill their natural desires in the natural way, it becomes a natural disaster by putting them around young children.
00:10:24 And then they wonder why these, and they have murders to cover this up.
00:10:28 You can look this up.
00:10:29 There was a series on Netflix, forgot what it was called, but it was about a nun that got killed in Boston by the Catholic Church.
00:10:39 You know, why?
00:10:40 Because she knew that the police was involved in covering up rapes by priests.
00:10:45 We as Muslims believe that scholars, Imams, should get married naturally.
00:10:49 How Allah created us to be, Adam and Eve, man, woman, married, children.
00:10:55 That's the way it is, right?
00:10:57 Now look, if you want to get more, you can get a second, you can get a third, you can get a fourth.
00:11:02 But do it openly.
00:11:04 Do it in a proper way, in a halal way. 0.99
00:11:10 Don't go to Saudi Arabia.
00:11:12 It's a pretty controversial subject from what I read.
00:11:16 A lot of people have different ideas about the politics and how they're running and the future of the country.
00:11:20 Look, Saudi Arabia is a beautiful country.
00:11:22 You're here, you see good people.
00:11:25 You know, today when we were in Medina, you saw people come and be kind to us.
00:11:29 You saw people that gave us prayer rugs, that didn't even know us.
00:11:32 It's not because we're famous.
00:11:34 People from parts of Saudi Arabia that wouldn't even have heard of anybody.
00:11:37 He's humble.
00:11:37 He's definitely famous here.
00:11:39 In the Muslim world, he definitely is.
00:11:41 I'm not known by anybody, man.
00:11:42 I'm just here with the cool guys.
00:11:44 That's not true.
00:11:44 So, you see people that have been very kind.
00:11:49 People who are praying and fasting and they give a lot of charity.
00:11:53 There's good and bad everywhere.
00:11:55 I'm not praising anybody over anybody.
00:11:57 There are bad people here.
00:11:58 There are good people here.
00:11:59 Every government has its own issues, good and bad.
00:12:02 Our thing is we want to always give good advice to our leaders to want them to do what's best for the ummah.
00:12:11 But criticizing governments is very easy.
00:12:14 To sit there and say this government is doing that and this king is doing this and this prime minister and this dictator.
00:12:20 But the harm that comes out of bloodshed is worse for the ummah.
00:12:25 So rather we say that our advice to our leaders is going to be private.
00:12:29 It's going to be for them.
00:12:31 We call for the Muslims to be united, to help together, to work as one ummah.
00:12:36 I don't care if you're the king of Saudi or the king of Kuwait or the prime minister of this or the president of that.
00:12:41 I call everybody, regular people, average joes, muhammads and abdullahs on the street and kings of countries to turn back to the Quran, to always live by the sunnah of al-Mustafa alayhi salatu salam.
00:12:54 To be concerned with the ummah, to remember that in the end you will go back to Allah and you will be held accountable. 0.98
00:13:01 And I pray for the safety and for the blessings and the good life in this world and the hereafter for the whole Muslim ummah.
00:13:09 For every Muslim country and every Muslim out there, I wish nothing but good for every non-Muslim, I wish nothing but guidance and good for them.
00:13:20 It's a pretty controversial subject from what I read.
00:13:24 A lot of people have different ideas about the politics and how they're running and the future of the country.
00:13:29 Saudi Arabia is a beautiful country.
00:13:30 You're here, you see good people.
00:13:33 How, you know, today when we were in Medina, you saw people come and be kind to us.
00:13:37 You saw people that gave us prayer rugs, that didn't even know us, that didn't, it's not because we're famous.
00:13:42 People that from parts of Saudi Arabia that wouldn't even have heard of anybody.
00:13:45 He's humble, he's definitely famous here in the Muslim world, he definitely is.
00:13:49 I'm not known by anybody, man.
00:13:50 I'm just, I'm just here with the cool guys.
00:13:52 That's not true.
00:13:52 So, you see people that have been very kind, people that are, people who are praying and fasting and they give a lot of charity.
00:14:02 There's good and bad everywhere.
00:14:03 I'm not praising anybody over anybody.
00:14:05 There are bad people here, there are good people here.
00:14:07 Every government has its own issues, good and bad.
00:14:10 Our, our thing is we want to always give good advice to our leaders, to want them to do what's best for the ummah.
00:14:18 But, criticizing governments is very easy, to sit there and say this government is doing that and this king is doing this and this prime minister and this dictator.
00:14:28 But, the harm that comes out of bloodshed is worse for the ummah.
00:14:33 So rather we say that our advice to our leaders is going to be private, it's going to be for them.
00:14:39 We call for the Muslims to be united, to help together, to work as one ummah.
00:14:44 I don't care if you're the king of Saudi or the king of Kuwait or the prime minister of this or the president of that.
00:14:50 I call everybody, people, average Joes, Mohammeds and Abdullahs on the street and kings of countries to turn back to the Qur'an, 1.00
00:14:59 to always live by the sunnah of al-Mustafa alayhi salatu salam, to be concerned with the ummah,
00:15:04 to remember that in the end you will go back to Allah and you will be held accountable. 0.77
00:15:07 And, I pray for the safety and for the blessings and the good life in this world and the hereafter for the whole Muslim ummah.
00:15:17 Still going through, I'm not saying he's perfect, I'm not saying I'm perfect.
00:15:21 None of us are.
00:15:21 None of us are.
00:15:22 But, you don't see him drunk in alleyways and you don't see him at rainbow parades and things.
00:15:28 Alhamdulillah, Allah has protected him and he's here in Mecca in the best place on earth.
00:15:33 He's not, he's not out there drinking and doing drugs, he's having gawah, coffee and dates, you know.
00:15:40 So...
00:15:40 I want some more, actually.
00:15:41 There you go, bro.
00:15:42 Moussa, Yusuf, what about you, man?
00:15:44 I have a question about Islam that I think people are seeing right now.
00:15:48 The Islamic world is more unified than it has been in a while because of what's going on.
00:15:54 And I've seen videos, one that really struck me, where a brother in a hospital in Palestine had just lost his brother.
00:16:01 And instead of being upset, he was rejoicing.
00:16:04 He was celebrating, he said, I was saying, Allahu Akbar, my brother's been martyred.
00:16:07 And he was happy that his brother was now with Allah.
00:16:10 So, for people watching and wondering, why is it that Muslims who are on their deen, why are they not afraid of dying? 1.00
00:16:19 As a Muslim, we believe this life is only a stage, a test.
00:16:24 Allah says in the Qur'an,
00:16:26 Allah says,
00:16:31 Allah says,
00:16:35 We created death and life to see which one of you puts forth the best of deeds.
00:16:41 So, this life is only a test.
00:16:44 We're not attached to this life.
00:16:46 Nobody wants to see their family members dead.
00:16:48 No, everybody is... it hurts.
00:16:50 But as Muslims, we know, we have a comfort in knowing that it's not the end.
00:16:56 That this person who died, an innocent person that's killed under the rubble of a building, even though he didn't do anything wrong,
00:17:04 we know that Allah is just, and Allah is loving, and Allah is forgiving, and Allah is merciful.
00:17:09 Allah will enter this person into paradise. 0.99
00:17:12 And if you make it to paradise, then what else is there?
00:17:15 How long are you going to live?
00:17:16 I have a question about Islam that I think people are seeing right now.
00:17:21 The Islamic world is more unified than it has been in a while because of what's going on.
00:17:27 And I've seen videos, one that really struck me, where a brother in a hospital in Palestine had just lost his brother.
00:17:34 And instead of being upset, he was rejoicing.
00:17:37 He was celebrating.
00:17:38 He said, I was saying, Allahu Akbar, my brother's been martyred.
00:17:41 And he was happy that his brother was now with Allah.
00:17:43 So, for people watching and wondering, why is it that Muslims who are on their deen, why are they not afraid of dying? 1.00
00:17:52 As a Muslim, we believe this life is only a stage, a test.
00:17:58 Allah says in the Quran,
00:17:59 Allah says,
00:18:02 Allah says,
00:18:06 We created death and life to see which one of you puts forth the best of deeds.
00:18:15 So, this life is only a test.
00:18:17 We're not attached to this life.
00:18:19 Nobody wants to see their family members dead.
00:18:21 No, everybody is, it hurts.
00:18:23 But as Muslims, we know, we have a comfort in knowing that it's not the end.
00:18:29 That this person who died, an innocent person that's killed under the rubble of a building, even though he didn't do anything wrong.
00:18:37 We know that Allah is just and Allah is loving and Allah is forgiving and Allah is merciful.
00:18:43 Allah will enter this person into paradise. 0.99
00:18:45 And if you make it to paradise, then what else is there?
00:18:49 How long are you going to live?
00:18:50 70 years?
00:18:52 80 years?
00:18:53 100 years?
00:18:54 Then what?
00:18:54 How old are you now?
00:18:55 How did that life pass?
00:18:58 The same way 80 years or 100 years and you don't know if you live to see tomorrow.
00:19:02 But in paradise, you live forever.
00:19:05 No suffering, no death, no being separated from your family.
00:19:11 You will see Allah, you will see your creator, you will see the prophets.
00:19:15 You will see your family members that have passed.
00:19:18 If you make it to paradise, nothing else matters.
00:19:21 80 years?
00:19:22 100 years?
00:19:23 Then what?
00:19:24 How old are you now?
00:19:25 How did that life pass?
00:19:27 The same way 80 years or 100 years and you don't know if you live to see tomorrow.
00:19:31 But in paradise, you live forever.
00:19:34 No suffering, no death, no being separated from your family.
00:19:40 You will see Allah, you will see your creator, you will see the prophets.
00:19:44 You will see your family members that have passed.
00:19:47 If you make it to paradise, nothing else matters.
00:19:50 So when somebody innocent dies, it hurts us.
00:19:53 We're not saying there isn't pain, but we're patient and we have counsel and comfort in the fact that they'll be in paradise.
00:20:00 And we ask Allah to protect our brothers in Gaza and everywhere in the world, not just in Gaza, in India and other places where Muslims are being killed.
00:20:09 But at the same time, for non-Muslims to see how Muslims are patient because we believe in what we say.
00:20:16 I got a question.
00:20:18 Righteous spouse, I mean, speak to your family, especially if you're Egyptian.
00:20:23 Alhamdulillah, you have family, you have your mother, you have your aunts.
00:20:26 See if they know any pious good sisters and try to find a good wife. 0.88
00:20:30 If you're unable to, speak to your imams, speak to your Muslim leaders and say,
00:20:36 Look, if you know of any good pious women, a good family, I'm interested in following the traditional method, go and reach out. 0.98
00:20:43 And may Allah give you a pious wife.
00:20:44 If none of those work, let's say you're in a country where you don't have those access or maybe you don't have family.
00:20:51 Alhamdulillah, there are online ways in the halal, not the dating apps, not the getting to know each other, but in the halal way.
00:20:57 There are ways you can try to find a good spouse. 0.99
00:21:01 And last but not least, most importantly, ask Allah.
00:21:04 I mean, don't forget to make your dua sincerely and Allah will make a way. 0.99
00:21:09 Secondly, you can make dua for a spouse?
00:21:11 Of course, you should make a, for a pious spouse.
00:21:13 I didn't know that.
00:21:14 A pious spouse.
00:21:16 Allah give you a pious wife.
00:21:17 What do you think about?
00:21:18 A niqabi. 1.00
00:21:20 Inshallah.
00:21:20 Inshallah.
00:21:21 What about dating in general?
00:21:22 Should young Muslims even date? 1.00
00:21:24 No, no.
00:21:24 Dating is haram.
00:21:25 If dating led to more understanding in marriages, then in the West, the divorce rate wouldn't be higher than 50%.
00:21:37 You know, dating, I mean, imagine a woman that's dated 30 guys, you know, or a guy that's dated 30 women.
00:21:44 Like, you know, how is that going to, how is that going to be when you have that, I mean, unless they make tawbah, unless they repent, that's different, right? 0.99
00:21:52 But in Islam, you can get to know each other within boundaries.
00:21:55 Meaning, you can speak within boundaries, not alone.
00:21:58 You can write.
00:21:58 You can say, okay, this is how I want to live.
00:22:00 How do you want to live?
00:22:01 And traditionally, when the father is there with the girl, you can ask her questions.
00:22:05 You can see of her what you need to see, meaning, I mean, you can't see her in a bikini and things, but you can see her face, her hands, her feet, maybe some of the forearms and things.
00:22:15 What about her only fans?
00:22:17 I don't know what that is.
00:22:18 Okay.
00:22:19 Absolutely not.
00:22:20 I don't know what that is, yeah.
00:22:21 It's bikini photos.
00:22:22 Yeah, you definitely cannot see bikini. 1.00
00:22:24 No, no, no.
00:22:25 If any woman is putting bikini pictures out there, she's not the one to marry. 1.00
00:22:29 No?
00:22:30 No, no, no.
00:22:30 So you don't think that someone should get in a relationship with a girl who's selling bikini photos online? 0.56
00:22:35 Definitely not.
00:22:36 Okay.
00:22:36 Yeah, yeah.
00:22:37 We don't want that to end up in a never mind.
00:22:39 I don't want to get myself in trouble now.
00:22:41 Okay.
00:22:41 But I think what's important is that if she makes taubah, if she repents and she covers and that was a past, that's fine.
00:22:49 But if she's currently selling bikini pictures, then how are you going to be a man when dudes are buying bikini pictures of your wife? 1.00
00:22:55 Right?
00:22:56 That would not be the way to go.
00:22:58 Fair.
00:22:58 A good Muslim wife who covers herself outside but keeps her beauty for her husband, this is the way to go. 1.00
00:23:05 Right.
00:23:05 Just as a man, I'm not out there selling, you know, pictures of me either.
00:23:09 Alhamdulillah, I'm modestly dressed.
00:23:11 I'm, you know, I'm not dating, I'm not doing, I'm not drinking.
00:23:14 We call upon unity, but unity won't come with people saying, I'm a Shia Muslim and I'm a Qadiani Muslim and I'm an Ahmadi Muslim and I'm an Ismaili Muslim.
00:23:24 No, let's take the hyphenations off and say we're just Muslims.
00:23:28 We believe in the Quran, the same Quran, we believe in the Prophet, the same Prophet.
00:23:35 The Prophet was asked, who is your favorite person, authentic narration?
00:23:39 Who is your favorite person on earth?
00:23:41 He said, Ayesha.
00:23:42 So how can any Muslim not love the mother of the believers, Ayesha?
00:23:48 And when they ask what are minarrijal from the men, he said Abuha, her father, Abu Bakr.
00:23:53 So we love those sahaba, we love Umar, we love Uthman, we love Ali, we love Hassan, we love Hussain.
00:23:59 We love them and we want to unite together upon the Quran and the Sunnah.
00:24:05 Peace out.
00:24:08 Peace be, Bem, hope for me.
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