SNEAKO - SNEAKO & Brett Cooper Rant About Porn

00:00:00.520 Okay, that's all the egg.

00:00:02.520 My unmatched perspicacity.

00:00:04.060 This is Brett reacts to if teen boys were 100% honest.

00:00:08.240 I want to see what she thinks about teenage boys.

00:00:10.560 What?

00:00:11.340 What the f-

00:00:12.060 Welcome back to another episode of Off The Clock.

00:00:19.100 I need to be transparent with you guys.

00:00:21.480 I can see my YouTube analytics.

00:00:24.220 And I know that I have a lot of young men who watch my channel.

00:00:28.820 I'm flattered.

00:00:29.600 I'm so glad you're here.

00:00:30.800 I'm going to react to a Jubilee video today that is about you all, tailored to you all.

00:00:36.940 And I'm going to see what you would say if you were actually honest.

00:00:40.920 This is Jubilee. 1.00

00:00:41.940 I would donkey fuck you. 1.00

00:00:44.480 You want me to be honest? 1.00

00:00:45.900 I would give you triplets the first night. 0.97

00:00:49.540 I want to go tell you stuff that would make you disgusted face to face,

00:00:54.800 but it would make you cry if you were in the same bed.

00:00:57.760 Like, consensually.

00:00:59.400 Brad Cooper.

00:01:00.160 You want me to be honest?

00:01:02.380 You want me to be honest?

00:01:03.080 Guys, I want to do stuff to you that's not even an urban dictionary yet.

00:01:08.720 I want to create new positions with you.

00:01:12.320 If teen boys were 100% honest.

00:01:19.660 I love you!

00:01:21.140 So, this is for you guys.

00:01:23.340 Mask off.

00:01:24.940 These videos are just so funny.

00:01:27.720 So intense for no reason.

00:01:29.500 Oh my god.

00:01:30.300 Weird story.

00:01:30.900 In college, my friend was a film minor and had to do some weird, like, short film.

00:01:34.740 He was graduating the year before I did, so, like, as COVID was starting.

00:01:37.600 And people were, like, freaking out moving off of campus and, you know, all of that stuff.

00:01:41.700 And I was helping him film the short film.

00:01:43.420 And he wore one of these masks in it.

00:01:45.440 And so, we had to, like, go around campus with him, like, in this mask.

00:01:48.280 And that's just an aside.

00:01:49.660 It just reminded me of that.

00:01:50.540 It was very weird.

00:01:51.400 Wow!

00:01:51.620 In an age of call-outs.

00:01:52.740 That was such a good story.

00:01:54.440 This is why I watch you.

00:01:55.840 Because you've also seen that mask before.

00:01:58.940 Yes, this is why I enjoy your content.

00:02:01.940 Culture wars.

00:02:02.920 And perfect facades.

00:02:04.240 People can be afraid to express how they really feel.

00:02:08.000 So, we brought together seven strangers, protected their identities, and asked them all seven burning audience questions.

00:02:14.140 There we go.

00:02:15.560 What will be revealed when we take the mask off?

00:02:20.540 It's like a horror movie. 0.99

00:02:23.360 Oh, damn. 1.00

00:02:25.200 Carl. 0.99

00:02:26.380 I didn't know there was a teen boy named Carl in 2013.

00:02:28.160 If the answer is yes, you will flip on your light. 0.98

00:02:32.340 Do you watch porn?

00:02:37.660 Bro, they all do. 0.99

00:02:38.520 Come on.

00:02:38.960 Let's be honest.

00:02:39.720 Chat, ban porn 2023.

00:02:41.560 All these teen boys, of course they do.

00:02:43.160 Of course they do.

00:02:43.940 I genuinely don't.

00:02:44.840 If you put me on a lie detector test, I don't watch porn.

00:02:47.260 I haven't watched porn.

00:02:47.880 I don't even remember the last time that I watched porn.

00:02:50.200 I genuinely cannot.

00:02:51.940 It's maybe better.

00:02:52.760 You have more energy.

00:02:54.220 You have more power.

00:02:55.060 However, I wake up like, boom, boom, ready to go.

00:02:59.340 Chugging eggs, gym every day.

00:03:01.400 Don't get tired.

00:03:02.540 I don't need sleep as much anymore. 0.99

00:03:04.620 I'm ready to fucking go. 0.99

00:03:06.340 But porn, ooh, ooh. 1.00

00:03:08.940 And you wake up, ooh.

00:03:10.640 Come on.

00:03:11.860 Come on.

00:03:12.220 Stop it.

00:03:12.640 I don't even have anything to say about that.

00:03:19.560 I'm not even, like, upset.

00:03:20.760 I just know that it's real.

00:03:22.220 And so when people want to say, oh, it's not an issue, we don't need to talk about porn.

00:03:26.340 No, it is.

00:03:27.180 Because it's in our pockets.

00:03:29.560 Every single day.

00:03:30.980 And if you are-

00:03:31.420 What do you think Brent watches that?

00:03:32.440 We're not being real about the impacts of watching porn.

00:03:36.000 I'm not just saying that as a woman that's like, oh, I don't want you to objectify me.

00:03:38.820 Whatever. 0.53

00:03:39.260 No, for you, it is bad for your mental health.

00:03:43.000 It is literally bad for your hormones.

00:03:45.160 Yes.

00:03:45.700 Your testosterone gets lowered.

00:03:46.980 But I'm not-

00:03:47.420 Yes, yes.

00:03:48.680 Brent, I don't watch porn. 1.00

00:03:49.940 I'm waking up ready to fucking go. 1.00

00:03:53.300 Woo! 0.99

00:03:53.980 Ready to start the day.

00:03:56.040 Waving at the sky.

00:03:57.320 Pointing towards where I want to do, where I want to go in life.

00:04:01.440 Because I don't watch porn.

00:04:03.180 Surprised?

00:04:04.080 I'm glad that we're starting off this video with this.

00:04:06.700 I don't know where it's going to go.

00:04:07.540 But just know, like, I take that very, very seriously.

00:04:11.460 Porn is not something that I think is like some flippant subject.

00:04:14.200 I think it's actually something we really do need to address.

00:04:16.920 Classic Brett W.

00:04:18.860 She's not even Rod Cooper anymore.

00:04:21.460 Great taste.

00:04:22.020 As a culture.

00:04:23.360 One, because of the impacts on young men.

00:04:25.560 Number two, on the way that it forces men to view women and view sexual encounters.

00:04:30.020 And three, because of the sexual exploitation that happens in the production of porn.

00:04:34.480 It's accessible.

00:04:36.080 And because it's accessible and it's accessible and it's there, people use it.

00:04:42.940 I'm one of them.

00:04:44.140 I think most guys can agree that they have, at least at some point, watched it.

00:04:48.640 Yeah, I have at some point. 0.98

00:04:49.300 You know, I mean, it's, if you can enjoy it in a healthy way, if you can enjoy masturbating 0.93

00:04:54.200 in a healthy way, I think, then like, by all means, go for it. 0.98

00:04:57.260 No, L. L. 0.97

00:04:57.900 Yeah, I do watch porn. 0.99

00:04:59.960 God. 0.98

00:05:00.740 Told you.

00:05:01.080 Um, a lot of my teenage years, I spent a lot of time self-obsessing over it to the point

00:05:07.780 where it kind of became an addiction.

00:05:09.580 And it took until very recently to get out of the hole of, you know, paying for porn.

00:05:13.220 I do watch it, but I don't like that I watch it.

00:05:15.640 I'm going to bring everyone else into the conversation.

00:05:18.820 Chat, you know what I always, what I see a lot recently when I'm talking about the self-approvement

00:05:21.840 stuff?

00:05:22.920 People will be like, how do I stop smoking weed?

00:05:25.780 How do I stop watching porn?

00:05:27.360 There's people in the chat right now who are like that.

00:05:29.080 How do I stop?

00:05:29.740 You know how do I stop?

00:05:31.780 Phone's on, phone off.

00:05:33.280 Boom. 0.51

00:05:33.820 Now you're not watching porn.

00:05:35.200 You know how to stop smoking weed?

00:05:36.220 You're smoking weed.

00:05:37.500 You're not smoking weed.

00:05:38.620 It's that simple.

00:05:39.500 Well, I just, I just.

00:05:41.080 Now you're making excuses.

00:05:42.440 You just stop doing it.

00:05:45.060 You have to better your mindset in every single realm or you're not going to be able, if you

00:05:49.260 are not even in control over your decisions, how are you going to be successful in life?

00:05:53.700 How are you going to accomplish?

00:05:55.100 How are you going to be someone that is inspiring others, that's creating new things?

00:05:59.280 How are you going to reach your full potential if you can't even not watch porn?

00:06:05.740 How do I stop?

00:06:07.500 Stop.

00:06:09.120 Just stop.

00:06:10.320 Uh, I said no.

00:06:12.360 Um, I used to watch it a lot before.

00:06:15.000 Um, I would say I'm a, I was addicted to it.

00:06:18.380 My dad is in prison, so.

00:06:21.200 Ten pushups right now.

00:06:21.880 There was no one really for me to talk to about sex. 0.95

00:06:25.000 So, porn was my education on sex. 0.98

00:06:29.580 That is, ugh. 1.00

00:06:30.840 Disgusting! 0.99

00:06:32.020 It's so dangerous that porn is how so many young people get their information about sex. 0.98

00:06:38.560 And obviously there's a fault in our, you know, sex ed curriculum and I have my thoughts about how politicized it gets.

00:06:44.160 But obviously there is a conversation that young people need that is not happening.

00:06:50.260 And I'm not saying this is somebody who, you know, is above this.

00:06:54.520 Like, I had a really good friend in L.A. who, you know, I think started having sex when she was 12 years old. 0.80

00:06:59.460 Ah! 0.98

00:07:00.220 I don't like porn! 0.97

00:07:01.540 And was watching porn. 0.58

00:07:03.360 It was, like, very flippantly like, oh my god, you haven't watched it? 0.93

00:07:05.600 Let me show you.

00:07:06.280 Like, whatever.

00:07:06.720 Like.

00:07:07.280 L.A.

00:07:08.940 It's so cavalier even for women. 1.00

00:07:11.340 So it's interesting hearing young men talk about it.

00:07:12.720 But as a female, like, I know that it's prevalent with, like, my peers as well.

00:07:16.480 And the fact that this is where, like, both men and women get their ideas about sex and what a sexual encounter should look like.

00:07:23.420 Like, I just, it's just bad.

00:07:25.160 And my heart also breaks for young men that, I don't know how old these guys are, this is like teen boys, but one just said, you know, in his earlier teen years, so I'm not sure maybe the early 20s.

00:07:32.500 That at this age, you've already been battling an addiction?

00:07:36.980 It's crazy.

00:07:37.860 I was like, that's not chat, type of one.

00:07:39.280 Like, it's getting harder for young men to reach their full potential because of all these distractions.

00:07:44.920 I was one of those guys.

00:07:45.880 I was, every single night before I went to sleep, it was routine.

00:07:48.960 Boom.

00:07:49.640 Reddit.

00:07:50.660 Go to the subreddits.

00:07:51.600 I had five subreddits that I always watch.

00:07:53.660 Look at all the popular videos.

00:07:54.640 And me and hear, they're so good.

00:07:56.800 They're so good.

00:07:57.580 Go to the hub.

00:07:58.440 60 tabs.

00:07:59.400 And that was how I fell asleep.

00:08:01.860 And for years and years and years, that will ruin your testosterone at the most important part of your life where you're supposed to grow it.

00:08:08.800 Look at all the ones in the chat.

00:08:10.340 So, to combat this, knowing that there are so many roadblocks trying to make you soy, trying to make you turn into one of these people, you need to go three times harder to prevent it. 0.65

00:08:21.500 Raw eggs every day.

00:08:23.480 Gym every day.

00:08:24.740 Sunlight every day.

00:08:25.980 Hard work every day.

00:08:27.320 Doing the right thing constantly.

00:08:29.380 Every decision you make has to be calculated.

00:08:32.480 You need to really resist the slave mind.

00:08:35.740 It's not just, you can't just operate in this world in the West with all the distractions we have and just expect to live a good life.

00:08:41.680 It's impossible now for a young man.

00:08:43.780 You have to actively push away all the distractions.

00:08:47.540 It has to be a conscious decision.

00:08:49.800 There's no la la la.

00:08:51.100 La la la.

00:08:51.460 A pretty girl.

00:08:52.340 Brett.

00:08:53.440 Can walk around and have a life.

00:08:56.200 That's good.

00:08:57.500 Because she's a girl, she'll get attention, stuff like that. 1.00

00:09:00.160 It's not the same for young men. 0.99

00:09:01.940 You need to actively push all that shit out. 1.00

00:09:05.300 Put the vape down. 1.00

00:09:07.220 Put down the social media.

00:09:09.120 Uninstall TikTok.

00:09:10.320 And download Rumble.

00:09:11.400 If you aren't, if you aren't resisting, they're going to get you.

00:09:15.060 They're going to get you.

00:09:16.740 They just will.

00:09:18.040 It's impossible.

00:09:18.920 The amount of temptations out there, it's impossible to not succumb to it if you don't have an iron mind, man.

00:09:28.400 Trust me.

00:09:29.860 Trust me.

00:09:30.640 But you all know this, right?

00:09:31.840 You guys all know this. 0.99

00:09:34.620 Porn is for communist liberals. 0.99

00:09:35.800 Like, that's insane to me. 0.99

00:09:40.500 Obviously, it happens.

00:09:41.720 It's just like, are we really going to take this lightly?

00:09:44.840 From personal experience, it messed me up because after watching it so much, you know, I'm sure we've all been there where you're on page five and, like, nothing is right.

00:09:56.240 Like, you're looking for that right video.

00:09:58.980 But your dopamine, like, receptors and everything is so messed up at this point that the same thing that we could do. 0.99

00:10:05.500 And then your dopamine receptors are so fucked up. 0.91

00:10:08.360 In chat, type of one of you know what I'm talking about. 0.99

00:10:10.240 You'll be there watching the 60s video and you're not even, you're just this.

00:10:14.740 And you're just stroking a floppy little worm.

00:10:18.460 This is where you are because you're just, look, it's like you're just digging for gold.

00:10:22.480 You're not going to find it.

00:10:23.680 You're not even aroused anymore.

00:10:25.020 It's just training your mind to be addicted to dopamine. 0.99

00:10:28.080 I mean, if you, if you're stroking a floppy gummy, like, how are you going to have sex with a beautiful woman like Brett? 1.00

00:10:36.220 Get you off, wouldn't get you off anymore. 1.00

00:10:37.760 Right?

00:10:38.000 I went so deep into where me, I'm straight, man. 0.99

00:10:40.280 I started watching trans porn. 0.99

00:10:42.040 I mean, y'all. 0.99

00:10:44.300 What?

00:10:45.940 Me too.

00:10:46.680 Where me, I'm straight, man. 0.99

00:10:47.740 I started watching trans porn. 0.99

00:10:49.880 I don't like porn! 1.00

00:10:52.020 I mean, y'all. 0.99

00:10:54.360 Trans porn. 0.97

00:10:56.100 I think it's the third or fourth.

00:10:57.140 What did I say in that video?

00:10:58.040 Third or fourth most viewed category in 2022?

00:11:00.840 Because it was just erotic in a different way that I've never seen before.

00:11:03.860 I needed more stimulation.

00:11:05.500 Because of pornography. 0.92

00:11:06.580 Yeah, because of pornography.

00:11:07.700 So I don't think it's just entertainment.

00:11:09.800 It actually affects with your brain and the way you perceive love.

00:11:13.540 Do you think that a lot of teenagers or teen boys are really educated on the effects of pornography?

00:11:19.280 No.

00:11:19.780 No.

00:11:20.380 And it's a conversation that we refuse to have because it's still taboo, even though you can literally access it at any given moment.

00:11:30.380 It's either taboo.

00:11:31.700 Ban porn.

00:11:33.120 You should have to show an ID.

00:11:35.400 And this is what Yay24, bro.

00:11:36.960 This is Yay24, everybody in the chat.

00:11:38.660 Have to wait.

00:11:39.620 Because Yay wants to ban porn. 1.00

00:11:42.260 Ban it.

00:11:42.600 And I completely agree.

00:11:44.040 It's the number one problem that young men face, I think, in the West.

00:11:47.780 It's the number one problem because it will affect everything in your life.

00:11:50.660 Your reward system.

00:11:52.560 Your testosterone.

00:11:54.220 Your ability to function with other women.

00:11:56.420 It just will.

00:11:57.860 It's the quickest way to fall into depression.

00:12:01.180 We're going to ban porn.

00:12:03.100 You should be able to show an ID.

00:12:04.200 But this is what's going to happen.

00:12:05.240 They're not going to be able to do it.

00:12:06.480 Unless Yay actually does get elected.

00:12:08.580 So you need to ban it from your mind.

00:12:10.920 Don't ask me.

00:12:11.800 How do I do it?

00:12:13.220 Stop.

00:12:14.080 Fight.

00:12:14.680 Fight.

00:12:15.340 Resist.

00:12:17.260 Ten more push-ups. 0.60

00:12:18.560 Or if you bring it up.

00:12:19.520 It's like, oh, like you're stopping a Karen. 0.67

00:12:21.460 You're being so prude.

00:12:22.440 Don't get in the way of my fun.

00:12:23.840 Whatever.

00:12:24.520 No.

00:12:25.060 This is an important conversation.

00:12:26.980 We're talking about my generation.

00:12:28.840 The next generation.

00:12:29.780 That's probably going to have even more access to it.

00:12:31.640 What happens when we get virtual reality porn?

00:12:33.340 I think that already exists.

00:12:34.660 What about AI?

00:12:35.260 You're talking about how you keep having to make it more intense.

00:12:39.140 Get more simulated. 1.00

00:12:39.980 Niggas is jerking off to Pokimane AI porn, chat. 1.00

00:12:44.080 It's gone too far. 1.00

00:12:46.560 It's gone Poki. 0.98

00:12:49.500 Not even. 0.98

00:12:50.260 Because porn is just pixels.

00:12:52.080 But pixelated pixels. 0.88

00:12:56.180 Pixelated pixels.

00:12:57.020 Just computer CGI.

00:13:01.400 That's worse than hentai. 0.98

00:13:03.080 They should get something new.

00:13:05.360 That impacts the people you are in relationships with.

00:13:08.120 There is a reason why 56% of American divorces cite pornography as an issue. 0.99

00:13:13.400 Because if you can't get off anymore, if you need more simulation, you can't get it from your wife, from your husband, and you're constantly seeking out other things.

00:13:21.360 Where is this going to take us next?

00:13:23.020 If we don't address it now, I don't know when we're going to.

00:13:26.720 Sorry for making that so intense.

00:13:28.040 We're going to hopefully go on to another conversation now.

00:13:30.200 We really started off with a banger, for lack of a better word, boys.

00:13:33.180 You did not have to do that.

00:13:35.440 You knew you did not have to do that.

00:13:37.520 Have you ever cried in front of someone else?

00:13:44.280 I wholeheartedly agree with the statement.

00:13:46.360 I feel like it's easier to open up towards women, which is kind of embarrassing. 1.00

00:13:50.200 But quite frankly, I feel like they understand emotions more.

00:13:54.240 Because they really understand the whole crying.

00:13:57.480 I feel like crying is sort of normal to them.

00:13:59.520 And they see of it as a way to express themselves.

00:14:02.800 It's interesting that you said that you're more comfortable to cry in front of women.

00:14:06.300 I had a girlfriend, and she broke up with me over text.

00:14:08.700 And before that, we were talking, and I cried in front of her.

00:14:11.860 And I was... 1.00

00:14:12.420 That shit will make you red pill rage. 1.00

00:14:16.560 Being honest, and I thought that's what you're supposed to do. 1.00

00:14:18.320 That's what my dad taught me, right?

00:14:19.480 But I guess she interpreted it as being insecure.

00:14:22.160 And she broke up with me, and that really messed me up for a little while because...

00:14:26.020 My heart breaks, genuinely, I'm not just saying this, for young men right now because...

00:14:31.420 You have women telling you that you're toxic, that you're too masculine, that leaning into

00:14:38.540 your natural biology of what you are literally...

00:14:41.040 And then you cry, and they think you're...

00:14:42.780 You're just insecure.

00:14:45.140 ...created to do and lead and act, that that is awful, and you're oppressive, you're upholding

00:14:50.180 the patriarchy.

00:14:50.800 And then on the other side of their mouth, if you act too soft, if you're too vulnerable,

00:14:56.000 if you lean too much into what they're asking, then they're upset about it, and they're uncomfortable,

00:15:02.080 and it's like, you probably feel like you can't win.

00:15:04.760 Well, now I know I can't show any kind of insecurity, so I don't... 1.00

00:15:07.780 No, she's just a bitch. 1.00

00:15:08.640 I don't like crying in front of women. 1.00

00:15:10.480 I'd rather cry in front of some family that I trust, right?

00:15:12.980 That's interesting because I'd rather find a stranger on the street and tell them everything

00:15:18.340 I'm going through because I will never see them again in my life, and I feel like they

00:15:22.640 won't be able to judge me.

00:15:23.740 I'll never see them.

00:15:24.680 I'd rather have a stranger and think I'm strong and my family know all my problems,

00:15:27.820 so it's interesting.

00:15:29.540 Feminism has gone too far. 1.00

00:15:35.360 Everybody yes.

00:15:36.720 Interesting.

00:15:37.900 In the feminism movement, there's so much of tearing down men or trying to put men back 1.00

00:15:43.800 in their spot, but if the women want us men to step up, then I feel like it'd be a lot 1.00

00:15:49.420 more productive instead of tearing down men and telling us all what we're doing wrong than

00:15:54.280 to, on the other hand, to build us up, I guess for the sake of keeping us accountable.

00:15:58.100 That's common sense.

00:16:00.120 And if you said that online publicly with your face, you would have so many angry girl bosses 1.00

00:16:05.080 ripping into you on TikTok.

00:16:06.760 Giving females more opportunities to certain things, I just think that's quite unfair. 1.00

00:16:11.260 And it's like, you got to put in the work.

00:16:12.820 You got to put in certain things to earn these things.

00:16:15.960 And it's not like women are granted less access to these jobs. 1.00

00:16:20.280 How ironic is it that for boys to be 100% honest, they all need to go undercover?

00:16:24.880 But if this was flipped, girls would just get lights on, blasting, you'd have a big ring 1.00

00:16:29.580 light. 0.99

00:16:29.940 Everybody could, all the women would just be brutally honest about how men are trash and 0.99

00:16:35.580 how they're queens and about what makes them cry. 0.98

00:16:38.120 They don't need to hold back at all.

00:16:40.300 That's the result of a feminized society. 1.00

00:16:42.180 For men, to be honest, the light's got to be off.

00:16:44.500 You got to censor me because I don't want to lose everything.

00:16:47.340 I know there's plenty of women who are in business, who are doing good things for America. 1.00

00:16:52.860 I just find it counterintuitive that this whole feminist movement is advocating for equal 0.96

00:16:56.880 rights in certain things when they already have access to them.

00:17:02.420 I'm a feminist. 1.00

00:17:03.360 I guess I believe in the equality of men and women.

00:17:06.040 I think that when we talk about feminism, a lot of it boils down to employment. 1.00

00:17:12.840 I think that the bringing down of men, you guys keep on saying bringing down men and

00:17:17.900 shaming them, I think that is way overstated.

00:17:20.500 I have never been shamed for my maleness.

00:17:23.920 I think, you know, if...

00:17:24.880 What?

00:17:26.560 Really?

00:17:27.380 If you look at any movement, there's definitely going to be like a radical portion of that

00:17:32.240 movement.

00:17:32.640 I feel like there's a wall and we should break down that wall and focus on the human race.

00:17:36.760 Not women, not men, not Mexicans, not this. 0.98

00:17:39.760 We should all bring each other up.

00:17:41.280 I mean, that is actually equality.

00:17:44.580 Shocking.

00:17:46.040 Like, that guy was like, I'm a feminist. 1.00

00:17:47.560 I do believe in, you know, equality between men and women.

00:17:50.220 That is feminism. 1.00

00:17:51.220 And in that sense, if we're just leaving it at that statement, I would say that I am

00:17:54.700 a feminist.

00:17:55.320 Before I learned about third wave feminism and I saw how far they went, I was proud to 0.99

00:17:58.840 say, oh yeah, I'm a feminist. 1.00

00:18:00.000 I want to empower women. 0.99

00:18:03.000 I'm like a strong...

00:18:04.340 I'm like...

00:18:04.940 I'm not some docile, quiet me girl.

00:18:07.980 If you guys watch my show, you know that.

00:18:09.620 I obviously want the same opportunities.

00:18:11.620 I'm going to fight to be in the room with my male peers.

00:18:17.060 But feminism has gone so much farther than that. 1.00

00:18:20.500 And so I think it'd be interesting to have had a more nuanced question about feminism, 1.00

00:18:29.000 I think, because there's just so many different waves.

00:18:31.400 People might not know.

00:18:32.380 Like, all right, I can say that I think feminism has gone too far while still agreeing that 1.00

00:18:36.600 women deserve equal rights but not liking the way that they're handling things now because 1.00

00:18:40.000 it's just so complex.

00:18:42.340 And again, I feel for guys who feel like they can't be part of this conversation, similar

00:18:47.060 to abortion, where it's like, you don't have a uterus, you can't talk about it.

00:18:49.540 It's like, you can't talk about feminists unless you're supporting us.

00:18:52.060 But if you're against this movement, you don't get to speak about it because you're not a

00:18:55.540 woman. 1.00

00:18:56.660 I've been anxious about my penis, says. 1.00

00:18:59.680 It's funny now, thinking about it, all the female commentators, like Brad Cooper, it's 1.00

00:19:06.700 just pearly things, and Leia Halpern.

00:19:09.300 And they'll argue a lot for traditional gender roles. 1.00

00:19:13.460 They'll argue a lot against feminism. 1.00

00:19:16.200 But then, if you look at what they do in their profession, it kind of goes against that

00:19:22.240 because it's pretty masculine.

00:19:23.760 They are girl bosses. 0.97

00:19:27.560 They're independent of a man. 0.62

00:19:30.020 They make a lot of money.

00:19:31.680 And also, they're doing a masculine job, which is speaking up against things, having debates,

00:19:38.500 arguing.

00:19:40.060 It's pretty masculine what they do.

00:19:41.720 But then, at the same time, they'll argue, like, traditional, traditional, traditional.

00:19:47.640 What you do is a result of feminism. 1.00

00:19:50.660 Without feminism, like back in the 50s, you wouldn't have this channel. 1.00

00:19:53.960 You wouldn't, you'd be at home, like, popping zannies and making burnt lasagna for your 0.66

00:19:59.620 honey, I'm home.

00:20:01.140 Right.

00:20:02.460 Or they'll argue so much for that.

00:20:04.980 But, and now I think about it, I think about, uh, Brad Cooper's Instagram, and she's always

00:20:08.640 at the gun range with giant AR-15s.

00:20:12.140 Leia Halpern's at, like, crypto events speaking.

00:20:15.040 This, the World Economic Forum.

00:20:16.740 She doesn't sound like that, but she's like, the World Economic Forum needs to crumble.

00:20:20.600 We need to fight the government.

00:20:22.860 Pretty feminist. 1.00

00:20:24.280 Just Pearly Things is like, yeah, bitch, you're a whale. 1.00

00:20:27.180 What's up? 1.00

00:20:27.760 You're supposed to be a feminine woman. 1.00

00:20:29.280 Come to my wife's school, and I can teach you how to be a good woman. 1.00

00:20:32.320 Nigga. 1.00

00:20:34.000 I'm gonna freestyle.

00:20:35.140 I'm Just Pearly Things. 0.93

00:20:36.160 Yeah, nigga. 1.00

00:20:37.620 Just Pearly Things came with my shit with the do-rag on, said, yo, what's up? 1.00

00:20:40.800 What's crackin', Sneeko? 0.99

00:20:42.080 Let's talk about some feminism, you whirr. 1.00

00:20:46.640 They are the result of feminism. 1.00

00:20:50.600 I'm not burning bridges.

00:20:52.660 I'm not burning bridges, Chad. 1.00

00:20:54.060 Shut the fuck up. 1.00

00:20:54.880 Don't say that. 1.00

00:20:55.440 Don't say that.

00:20:56.400 Don't say that.

00:20:57.540 Because you know what I'm saying is true.

00:21:00.580 You know what I'm saying is true.

00:21:02.320 I would say that to them.

00:21:03.580 I would say that all to their face.

00:21:06.040 I hate that I can't talk about other people in this space.

00:21:09.040 I can't say that without people saying, eh, eh, eh.

00:21:13.360 Three guards are like, nah, bro.

00:21:20.900 I started watching pornography, I think around the age of 11 or 12.

00:21:26.380 And we're back.

00:21:27.840 Add another thing to the list.

00:21:30.080 Self-confidence issues.

00:21:31.200 And that's, you know, that's a very impressionable, vulnerable place to be in.

00:21:35.960 So, of course, there's always these feelings about looking at your body.

00:21:40.220 Yeah, and I think the competition is probably what affects me the most part, you know.

00:21:43.940 It's the thing you're like, I know, good and well, there's dudes bigger than me.

00:21:47.720 And she says it doesn't matter, but it still plays on my mental when I go to sleep at night.

00:21:52.220 Currently, I'm not really, like, afraid of the size that I have because I am kind of becoming more confident in my body and the way that I am.

00:22:02.940 And I don't really feel like it's going to matter nearly as much when you're with someone for 10 years as you are for, like, a one-night stand.

00:22:10.260 So I am not personally, like, that uncomfortable with my size.

00:22:15.280 Everything that you just said, like, is true.

00:22:17.100 And, like, you just need to become confident in your own self by knowing what people really look for.

00:22:22.220 But, like, it's hard to get on Netflix and watch Euphoria and think, like, these are, like, grown-ass men playing high school people.

00:22:28.940 And you think, like, well, that's not what I look for.

00:22:31.060 Euphoria is a giant psyop.

00:22:32.700 That's an important conversation.

00:22:34.220 Not just, I mean, Euphoria is, like, so, like, sexually explicit.

00:22:38.040 But just in case people are unaware of this, like, Euphoria, like they said, it's, like, 25 to 30-year-old dudes playing high schoolers.

00:22:46.760 You guys remember Glee?

00:22:48.160 I think a lot of those were in their 30s when they started.

00:22:50.460 I did the reboot of Heathers.

00:22:51.320 I was the only...

00:22:52.320 Bro, that girl Maddie from Euphoria is, like, 36 years old.

00:22:56.100 ...person who was an actual teenager on that show.

00:22:59.560 And we were all playing in high school.

00:23:00.900 And they were, like, a 31-year-old, 26.

00:23:03.140 And then everybody on Twitter, like, people in their late 20s are, like, I ship this couple... 0.98

00:23:07.700 Bitch, they're in high school. 0.99

00:23:10.320 And you're invested in their fictional romantic lives. 1.00

00:23:16.320 Bruh.

00:23:16.880 So, when you look at those TV shows, just know they're not actually depicting you as an 18-year-old, a 17-year-old, whatever.

00:23:29.320 Like, KJ Apa in Riverdale.

00:23:31.200 That's not what a 15-year-old looks like.

00:23:34.040 It's just not.

00:23:38.200 And I get...

00:23:39.040 I mean, I look at, you know, some women and I'm like, oh, God, whatever. 0.99

00:23:42.220 It happens to all of us.

00:23:43.320 I'm just letting you know the reality of behind the scenes.

00:23:45.920 They are not your age.

00:23:47.480 And they are trying to, you know, create high school content, but tailoring them for adults, for, like, the female gaze of, like, women my age and probably older, who are going to sit on their couch and, you know, eat a pint of ice cream and watch Riverdale and be like, oh, my God, his washboard abs.

00:24:05.040 It's not about the high schoolers.

00:24:06.580 It's, like, trying to get women to watch... 0.94

00:24:07.920 It's softcore porn with high schoolers tailored for LGBT people and women in their late 20s. 1.00

00:24:15.460 It's disgusting. 1.00

00:24:15.940 It's disgusting. 0.88

00:24:17.480 It's pretty...

00:24:18.160 Bro, Euphoria Season 1, I ain't gonna lie, bro. 0.99

00:24:19.660 That shit was pretty good. 0.99

00:24:20.620 It is a psyop and they are trying to normalize trans people and there's, like, an abnormal amount of gay people in the show. 1.00

00:24:28.220 And a lot of it is part of the program or something like that.

00:24:31.140 I did enjoy Season 1 and I can't even lie to you.

00:24:33.100 They give it a 10, Dean, for truth.

00:24:34.940 It's player versus player and you need to be controlled.

00:24:36.780 Break the cycle and take back control.

00:24:38.920 The trick to watching these shows that you're sure are psyops are just to watch it and hate it and just point out...

00:24:44.020 Like, every time you see something, you gotta be like Leonardo DiCaprio and then be, oh!

00:24:47.480 There it is!

00:24:48.160 Psyop!

00:24:48.940 Communism!

00:24:49.600 There it is!

00:24:50.000 There it is!

00:24:52.520 Oh! 0.60

00:24:52.980 They...

00:24:53.260 No!

00:24:53.940 Up!

00:24:54.260 Up!

00:24:54.540 Trans!

00:24:54.940 Up!

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00:24:56.420 Woke!

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00:25:22.320 Oh, my God.

00:25:29.340 Okay.

00:25:30.380 I guess growing up, I was never one of the jocks of school.

00:25:35.780 But this is the result.

00:25:36.820 The fact that all these teenage boys have questioned their sexuality,

00:25:39.940 and there must be at least half the people in the chat probably fall into this category,

00:25:43.840 is the result of shows like Euphoria.

00:25:45.900 When they put gay pride flags in classrooms,

00:25:48.860 when they show you all these trans people,

00:25:50.780 when there's so many pride parades and all these rainbows everywhere,

00:25:55.240 you are conditioned to question it more.

00:25:57.440 When in a world where that's not shoved in your face all the time,

00:26:00.660 when jockstraps and dog ears and people on leashes aren't always in your face,

00:26:05.560 you would have never questioned it.

00:26:06.840 But you go to school and they start talking about pansexual,

00:26:09.160 they start talking about gender fluidity, and you're like, am I?

00:26:12.820 It's not a lot of these guys' fault.

00:26:14.400 It's actually none of their fault.

00:26:15.580 It's the result of the programming.

00:26:18.260 I always was into music.

00:26:19.660 I was always into theater.

00:26:21.420 And so growing up, you know, I was always bullied because of that,

00:26:25.460 because I was being too gay or whatever.

00:26:26.880 And I always hung up with the girls. 0.85

00:26:28.520 And so I definitely did kind of buy into what everyone else was saying, 0.91

00:26:33.000 their peer pressure of like saying, oh, you're gay.

00:26:35.420 This is how you're going to end up turning out because this is how you are now.

00:26:38.140 So young people themselves are saying that there is peer pressure about your sexuality.

00:26:45.600 I'm just laying that out there. 1.00

00:26:49.560 I have fucked girls at NYU. 0.99

00:26:52.320 Real talk. 1.00

00:26:53.160 Real talk.

00:26:53.640 I don't know if anybody NYU or NYC in here. 0.99

00:26:56.320 I've fucked girls at NYU. 1.00

00:26:57.740 And they said that they make fun of heterosexual people. 1.00

00:27:02.780 Like, NYU is so gay that they will make fun of straight people. 0.89

00:27:09.880 You get bullied for being straight at NYU. 0.63

00:27:12.680 That's how weird it is to be heteronormative, which is just normal, really.

00:27:18.760 But that's the word that you say.

00:27:19.640 Like, you're not even bi.

00:27:21.940 Like, you're not even like pan.

00:27:24.120 Like, you're cis.

00:27:26.920 Like, you're cis. 1.00

00:27:29.860 And I'm like, what the fuck? 1.00

00:27:34.440 Real talk. 1.00

00:27:35.740 Real talk.

00:27:42.760 For the people who are like, no, no, that just doesn't happen.

00:27:45.880 You're just like, no, you are or you aren't.

00:27:48.360 Being in that environment as a young person,

00:27:49.900 especially when you deal with insecurities and you're being bullied

00:27:52.340 and you don't really understand yourself

00:27:53.920 and everybody around you is different than you.

00:27:56.580 And you're like, oh, well, maybe I am.

00:27:59.080 Like, they're saying this.

00:27:59.920 Like, I'm so different.

00:28:02.280 And, you know, if you end up being gay, that's totally fine.

00:28:05.600 But it is worrisome that at a young age,

00:28:07.480 this is what they're, you know, being peer pressured about.

00:28:09.940 And now these days, with young people, it's even more intense.

00:28:12.700 Ten more, chat.

00:28:14.140 Oh, you like theater.

00:28:16.280 You like sparkly things.

00:28:17.800 You are probably trans. 0.86

00:28:18.860 You're probably a girl.

00:28:20.160 It's a slippery slope.

00:28:21.800 Let kids be kids.

00:28:23.120 And it's hard because kids being kids is going to mean

00:28:26.060 that some of them are going to be mean to people.

00:28:27.760 And that's hard.

00:28:28.960 So, again, it just goes back to the culture of, like,

00:28:31.640 the fact that this has become how we taunt people.

00:28:34.180 With where I am now in my life,

00:28:36.000 I've just kind of gotten to a place where I've grown from home.

00:28:38.600 When is Brett going to say it's all part of the matrix?

00:28:41.540 When is she going to say this is all trickling down for some place?

00:28:44.780 Bottom line, this is Daily Wire.

00:28:48.760 I'm not going to say it.

00:28:49.900 Chad's going to say it.

00:28:50.680 But you know what it is about Daily Wire.

00:28:52.320 You know what they can't talk about.

00:28:53.720 But they know.

00:28:58.780 They know at Daily Wire what they can't talk about.

00:29:01.260 I know what my identity is.

00:29:03.460 People thinking that definitely, like, it gets you thinking, you know?

00:29:07.940 It gets you thinking, like, well, am I?

00:29:10.860 Or should I be?

00:29:12.320 You know, it's like, should I be attracted to dudes

00:29:15.200 because I like things that are quote-unquote gay?

00:29:18.100 No, it does not matter.

00:29:19.160 Then I guess it just reveals the issue that, like... 0.98

00:29:21.180 If you like musical theater, you're gay. 1.00

00:29:23.200 No, I'm sorry. 0.99

00:29:24.540 Bomboka! 1.00

00:29:25.520 I'm sorry.

00:29:26.500 We've made certain things gay. 0.86

00:29:28.720 If I didn't go to therapy and stop being, like...

00:29:32.260 What?

00:29:39.120 Man! 0.97

00:29:41.600 Made certain things gay. 0.96

00:29:46.000 If I didn't go to therapy and... 0.96

00:29:48.540 Not you! 0.99

00:29:56.020 Stop being, like, an anxious, depressed clump of a teenager. 0.99

00:30:02.620 I'm guessing the people probably would have told me I might be a lesbian. 0.99

00:30:05.560 I mean, my mom, at one point, I've talked about this conversation multiple times.

00:30:07.940 We were driving through one of the canyons in L.A.

00:30:10.160 And I was sitting there in, like, all black.

00:30:11.880 Like, my legs spread out and my Doc Martens being all pissed off about something. 0.98

00:30:15.460 And she was like, you are dressing like a Bush lesbian. 0.98

00:30:18.680 And she was like, if you are, okay. 0.98

00:30:22.460 But that's how you're presenting yourself to the world

00:30:24.680 because you're dealing with internal things that you're, you know, really angry about.

00:30:28.480 And we have stuff going on with our family.

00:30:30.400 And is this how you want to present yourself and be perceived?

00:30:33.700 And that was an important question for me to be asked.

00:30:36.280 And that was also in that conversation that I've referenced so many times

00:30:38.840 where she said, it is okay to be both strong and feminine.

00:30:43.600 You don't have to sacrifice one for the other.

00:30:46.580 You can still be Brett.

00:30:48.200 You can still love all the things that you love. 0.99

00:30:50.060 You can still have the personality that, like, takes no shit, 0.99

00:30:53.520 that is super loud and passionate. 0.93

00:30:55.180 I saw a tweet from this girl, and she posted a picture of her when she was 10

00:30:59.260 in a full football gear, helmet, pads, shoulder, everything.

00:31:04.220 And she said it was because she had a brother who made fun of her

00:31:07.320 for not being able to play football and stuff like that.

00:31:09.240 And she was doing all this tomboy behavior when she was a kid 1.00

00:31:11.780 because she admired her brother.

00:31:13.540 And she thanks her parents for being sane 0.99

00:31:16.280 because instead of cutting off her titties 1.00

00:31:19.040 and making her put an inside-out dick, 1.00

00:31:22.520 they just said, you'll grow out of it. 1.00

00:31:23.760 Because she wasn't trans, she just admired her brother. 0.99

00:31:26.760 But this agenda is being pushed so hard.

00:31:29.800 Imagine how many kids are in that same spot 0.99

00:31:32.760 and end up cutting off their titties 0.81

00:31:34.680 and changing the name from Brett to Ben. 0.97

00:31:41.720 I don't like mine!

00:31:43.340 That's the Matrix.

00:31:45.220 While also being like, hey, it's okay to wear a dress one time.

00:31:48.840 Literally, y'all, I remember going to Priscilla's Coffee Shop

00:31:51.140 in Burbank, California.

00:31:52.040 I walked in and my best friend of like three years,

00:31:55.180 it was the first time she had ever seen me wear a dress.

00:31:57.260 It was like right after that conversation.

00:31:59.820 She was like, what the heck?

00:32:02.640 Like that is how much of a shift I took.

00:32:05.740 Because I was like, oh my God, like that isn't me.

00:32:08.840 Anyway, that's just from the female perspective. 1.00

00:32:12.080 Mine didn't stem from any kind of like extra like curricular activity.

00:32:15.800 My stuff stemmed from porn, as I mentioned before.

00:32:18.520 Oh, interesting that they brought it up again

00:32:22.700 as a root cause to another issue.

00:32:25.740 Told you.

00:32:26.180 It's a slippery slope when you touch your wee-wee.

00:32:29.700 Don't touch your wee-wee. 1.00

00:32:31.220 Don't touch your wee-wee. 1.00

00:32:32.280 You're going to end up trans. 1.00

00:32:33.720 Should be a slogan. 0.99

00:32:34.660 Someone...

00:32:35.140 Actually, I'm going to buy a Times Square billboard. 0.99

00:32:37.420 Keep your hand out of your pants unless you want to be trans. 1.00

00:32:45.880 Good. 0.86

00:32:46.380 W?

00:32:46.760 No?

00:32:47.720 Okay.

00:32:48.880 Hmm. 0.99

00:32:50.620 And when I started watching trans, you know, trans porn... 1.00

00:32:53.480 Ah! 0.99

00:32:54.280 And it's weird to say, but like I got really nervous.

00:32:57.580 I got really, really nervous because I thought maybe I'd be gay.

00:32:59.980 And so, you know, I did my research on it.

00:33:01.860 It's like me doing that video where I took the quiz to find out if I was gay.

00:33:04.480 That was like...

00:33:07.680 I had my own version of this, y'all, but it was in high school.

00:33:10.180 And I was like, do I have depression?

00:33:12.240 Yeah, Brett, you did.

00:33:13.760 Like, do I with me at like 3 a.m.?

00:33:15.620 Am I anxious?

00:33:16.920 Like, yeah.

00:33:18.040 Your parents are going through a terrible divorce. 0.99

00:33:21.420 Your brother is schizophrenic. 0.80

00:33:23.080 Like, your other brother died. 0.99

00:33:24.500 I think you probably have some problems.

00:33:26.220 All the stuff I would look up with saying that give you...

00:33:28.440 Okay, okay, okay, okay.

00:33:29.660 Let me go reel back the therapy comment.

00:33:34.480 Therapy can help.

00:33:36.240 There's a lot of situations where it's necessary.

00:33:38.040 Clearly it worked for Brett.

00:33:40.280 Clearly it worked.

00:33:42.120 I still attain the idea that a lot of young men, it's better for them to go and improve their life rather than go and sit and talk about it endlessly.

00:33:50.420 Therapy, a lot of the time, ends up becoming a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

00:33:56.680 But it helps her out.

00:33:59.660 So, of course, if there's anyone watching this and you really feel like you need it, bro, I'm not going to stop you.

00:34:05.000 And don't listen to what I'm saying.

00:34:06.580 But I think there's a lot of people that don't need to go.

00:34:10.600 Good take?

00:34:11.600 No?

00:34:12.200 Am I hurting someone's feelings?

00:34:12.940 You watch Transborn, you're still straight because they're women and stuff like that. 1.00

00:34:17.040 But I'm thinking, like, what would my family think?

00:34:19.000 I've never sought out, like, every time I talk to one, a trans woman in real life, there's no, like, actual attraction there.

00:34:25.040 So I'm still lost in the fact of what I actually am attracted to.

00:34:29.500 But I guess I am still straight because there aren't women. 1.00

00:34:32.200 Quite frankly, right now, I feel happy with my sexuality.

00:34:37.000 And I feel that it's not wrong to question your sexuality in terms of, well, in America, like, you're free to question whatever you want.

00:34:43.140 You can question your religion.

00:34:46.160 You can question your culture.

00:34:47.440 It's just society is the things that constrains those certain things to be what's normal and what's wrong.

00:34:52.300 I feel like there's such a strong stigma to be straight or strong, like, pushing you into it.

00:34:59.240 But even right now, I feel the desire to, like, explain myself, even though we're anonymous right now.

00:35:03.660 I feel like I've never been with, like, I've only been with, like, actual, like, cis women.

00:35:07.800 But, like, I don't know.

00:35:08.920 I know this, like, no one is judging me.

00:35:11.160 We're all here, to be honest.

00:35:12.300 It's so...

00:35:13.340 Wait, that dude has never been with a cis woman?

00:35:16.920 I love this.

00:35:18.560 You do?

00:35:21.520 Because obviously you're still dealing with, like, young men that have peer pressure and there's, you know, societal pressure.

00:35:25.860 But I, on the other hand, like, watch, you know, the content that I do and I talk about the stories that I do where I, like, literally see that this seemingly oppressed class of people has so much sway over all of the institutions, over all of our media, our entertainment, over all of our trends. 0.68

00:35:43.820 It's like that video I reacted to the other day for a comment section episode.

00:35:46.860 Who, though, Brett?

00:35:48.520 Who? 0.99

00:35:49.520 Where this guy was like, maybe he was watching trans porn, too. 0.99

00:35:52.300 I don't know. 0.99

00:35:53.020 But he was saying, like...

00:35:53.640 Who runs the porn industry?

00:35:54.900 I followed all these trans women on Twitter. 0.95

00:35:56.700 Who runs the media?

00:35:58.040 Twitter, and, like, they were so...

00:35:59.100 Who runs Daily Wire?

00:36:00.560 Cool, and...

00:36:01.500 Who runs YouTube?

00:36:03.000 I wanted to be them, and then he ended up transitioning. 0.94

00:36:05.360 He was like, they were just so whatever.

00:36:07.280 So it's interesting.

00:36:08.000 Who made euphoria?

00:36:09.200 I do think...

00:36:10.460 Who runs the...

00:36:11.440 There is, like, a social contagion part, but I think...

00:36:13.780 It's like, we're not fully there yet because there are guys that are still like, oh, no, I can't, that's weird, I don't want to...

00:36:19.700 Whatever.

00:36:19.920 But then, on the other hand, I see, like, the social and cultural influence that these people have in the way that our institutions and our big corporations and celebrities back them just, like, blindly.

00:36:29.240 It's just interesting.

00:36:30.680 I don't really have a...

00:36:31.460 It's interesting.

00:36:32.760 ...condense point for that.

00:36:33.520 She's connecting the dots.

00:36:34.860 You don't have a condensed point.

00:36:35.920 I know what the point is.

00:36:38.240 Bruh.

00:36:39.740 She's smart.

00:36:40.580 She's smart.

00:36:41.760 But this platform, it's just...

00:36:43.460 That's the restrictions.

00:36:44.820 We can't...

00:36:45.600 To, like, say anything against what he's saying.

00:36:47.580 It's his personal experience, but I just think that's interesting.

00:36:49.680 It's such a stigma that from the last, you know, 18 years of my life, that in this moment right now, I feel embarrassed and ashamed for something that should just be...

00:36:57.540 That's just the way it is, you know?

00:36:59.800 I'm scared of dying.

00:37:06.500 Interesting.

00:37:06.900 I think of it as, like...

00:37:10.280 Good question.

00:37:10.900 Are you scared of dying?

00:37:12.820 I'm not scared to die, Chad.

00:37:13.800 Are you?

00:37:16.040 I'm not.

00:37:18.180 I'm extremely scared of death.

00:37:19.900 I mean, I watch my father die, like, right before me.

00:37:22.920 It's a scary thing.

00:37:23.840 They just stop breathing.

00:37:25.560 And just the idea of, like, nothing is just extremely terrifying to me.

00:37:30.720 It's like, you don't really know what's going on.

00:37:32.660 Like, are you even thinking?

00:37:33.820 Are you even there?

00:37:34.340 You're just a blip out of just space.

00:37:37.480 It is terrifying.

00:37:38.920 You...

00:37:39.480 We don't know.

00:37:40.680 And as a Christian, I want to pretend that, like, I know that there's, you know, heaven and hell.

00:37:44.580 But at the end of the day, I genuinely don't know.

00:37:46.700 I think that's...

00:37:48.160 No, nobody in my channel is scared to die?

00:37:50.120 My biggest fear.

00:37:50.920 I don't have a fear of, like, the act...

00:37:54.460 Is it the act of dying?

00:37:55.780 Of actually dying?

00:37:57.400 I fear being on my deathbed and regretting not taking chances.

00:38:02.220 Me too.

00:38:03.460 Very masculine, yo.

00:38:05.260 Very masculine.

00:38:06.180 Do you hear that?

00:38:08.080 Regrets not taking chances?

00:38:09.740 This is stuff that meant, like, is it natural?

00:38:12.620 Does a traditional woman, like, is that her core desire?

00:38:16.560 I want to take chances.

00:38:18.180 You don't really hear that from housewives. 1.00

00:38:20.360 Fear being on my deathbed and regretting not taking chances that I think I should have taken.

00:38:27.380 She's taking risks, started shows.

00:38:32.280 And not doing what I wanted to do, not making as much of an impact.

00:38:35.800 So I think that is what stays with me.

00:38:38.700 I don't think I've actually ever talked about this before.

00:38:40.300 Since we're all being honest here, and I've talked about my teen depressed emo years now.

00:38:47.620 One of my, like, biggest things in my teen years was that my older brother died when he was 17 years old.

00:38:55.920 And he died a week after his 17th birthday.

00:38:59.700 I am the only one in my family who is younger than him.

00:39:02.340 So everybody else, like, moved on.

00:39:05.300 Not moved on, but, like, they continued to be getting older.

00:39:07.720 They were already older than him.

00:39:08.960 Obviously, it's a totally different situation for my brother, Reed, who was his identical twin.

00:39:14.660 So he's kind of constantly going through life knowing that he's, you know, missing his person.

00:39:18.440 But for me, I had a really, really unique experience where, you know, he died when I was at a very young age.

00:39:25.000 So I went through over a decade where I was still technically younger than him.

00:39:29.400 So I got my older brother, and I still looked up to him.

00:39:31.660 I was still kind of following in his footsteps.

00:39:33.680 I felt like, oh, I can, you know, I'll do the same things David did.

00:39:37.020 I want to, you know, preserve his legacy.

00:39:39.140 And then as I got closer to reaching 17, I got so freaked out.

00:39:43.060 I've had some heart issues.

00:39:44.160 He died of a cardiac arrest.

00:39:45.960 And I've had some heart issues.

00:39:47.900 Nothing really, really serious, but just stuff that, you know, since that happened, we obviously, like, Spidey Sense turned on.

00:39:54.820 And because of that, and because of the fact that he was, like, permanently solidified in time,

00:40:01.220 I was terrified that I was going to die a week after my 17th birthday.

00:40:04.660 Like, I thought that was it.

00:40:06.000 I was like, I don't know.

00:40:06.780 It was just, like, I couldn't see life beyond that because for my entire childhood, I had looked at him as, like, the benchmark.

00:40:14.840 And I've talked to some other friends who I have a really good friend whose brother also died, was many years older than him,

00:40:20.560 and had a very similar experience.

00:40:22.280 I've talked to people who have lost their parents at a young age.

00:40:24.760 Like, now they're 35.

00:40:26.820 They have kids.

00:40:27.620 They're doing things that their parents never did.

00:40:29.160 It's a very, very weird and a very unique experience.

00:40:32.900 I'll be interested if any of you guys have had that.

00:40:35.400 But that was my greatest fear.

00:40:37.040 And since then, I have felt a lot more free.

00:40:39.900 It was not fun in the moment.

00:40:41.080 And, like, the year afterwards, I mean, I was a mess.

00:40:42.720 And still, like, February and October, even though that's my birthday month, are hard for me.

00:40:48.140 Because I'm getting another year older that he never gets to be.

00:40:51.480 And then his birthday and then the anniversary of his death.

00:40:53.700 He died on Valentine's Day.

00:40:54.920 Those are really, really hard.

00:40:57.220 But that was, since then, I don't think I have as much of a fear.

00:41:00.420 But, oh, my God, like, going into that, like, I was a wreck that week.

00:41:05.440 And I couldn't figure it out.

00:41:06.600 I was, like, subconsciously I knew.

00:41:07.820 But I was, like, something's going to happen to me.

00:41:09.520 I can't, like, I can't move on from this.

00:41:11.140 And it also just felt wrong.

00:41:12.320 I thought it was, like, I shouldn't get to be here if he didn't anyway.

00:41:15.540 But, yeah, since then, I don't really have as much of a fear of dying.

00:41:23.760 I think I've, you know, at this point, if I did die, I've done everything that I have wanted to do in this time in my life.

00:41:29.900 Like, I've done everything that I could in my, you know, 21 years.

00:41:32.860 Obviously, like, haven't gotten the chance to, you know, get married, have kids, do other things that I want.

00:41:36.700 But I've crammed a lot into 21 years.

00:41:38.620 So I feel like I'm on the right track to not deal with those regrets at the end of my life.

00:41:42.520 But, anyway, it's just interesting.

00:41:43.620 Don't be you opening up.

00:41:46.680 I'm glad.

00:41:47.120 I don't mean to trivialize that.

00:41:49.120 That was a really genuine moment.

00:41:50.980 And I have never seen her be that honest before.

00:41:56.320 Thank you for sharing.

00:42:00.180 Every time I thought about dying, it was as an old person.

00:42:03.800 But two years ago, when I started working as a lifeguard, this lady and her friend came to the pool.

00:42:09.820 And, you know, I have the music going and everything.

00:42:11.600 She just starts having a seizure.

00:42:13.260 And luckily, you know, I did everything right.

00:42:16.020 And EMS showed up.

00:42:17.180 And she was safe.

00:42:18.520 But then two weeks later, she, unfortunately, had another seizure while driving.

00:42:23.720 And she died.

00:42:24.380 And that's when I realized life is, like, it can happen to anyone at any point.

00:42:29.600 And if I just die and don't do anything with my life, then that's absolutely what I'm scared of.

00:42:33.760 Boom, bucka! 1.00

00:42:34.460 I mean, as morbid as it sounds, death is a very, very powerful motivator.

00:42:41.920 And I know that well.

00:42:45.380 Because my brother died at such a young age that it's, like, from six years old, I knew that life wasn't certain or guaranteed.

00:42:54.160 I was watching a TikTok earlier today.

00:42:55.720 The guy named, is it Tim, like, Chichiro?

00:42:58.760 Something like that.

00:42:59.440 He does, like, the day in the life videos.

00:43:01.100 He's, like, super inspirational.

00:43:02.100 But he wakes up every day and he thinks about, like, what in my life is actually guaranteed today?

00:43:09.100 There's barely anything that is.

00:43:11.700 And if you think about that every single day and you realize you have to be, you know, grateful for every day that you get to have those things,

00:43:17.080 it totally changes your perspective about life and how much you can cram into your time here.

00:43:21.420 I said that I don't fear death.

00:43:23.560 Because I, unlike you guys, I don't really have an experience, so much hands-on experience with death.

00:43:29.120 But I think, you know, obviously the fact that it might come way sooner than you expect is a scary thought.

00:43:43.580 All right, here we go.

00:43:44.460 Do you guys feel like you can actually be your genuine self when you're, like, talking to a girl or hanging out with a girl?

00:43:51.520 There's definitely a difference between, like, talking or opening up to, like, my friends that are girls versus, like, a girl that I'm interested in.

00:43:58.600 Like, obviously, if you're trying to impress a girl, you're going to be dressed nicely.

00:44:01.360 You're going to wear some cologne.

00:44:02.260 You're not going to, like, fart around here, right?

00:44:04.180 It's a filter thing.

00:44:05.920 But, like, when it comes to your mom, like, your mom's a girl, and I wholeheartedly trust my mom.

00:44:10.340 That's sweet.

00:44:11.220 That's good.

00:44:12.160 I guess that's what it is.

00:44:13.180 I just, there's a lot of times I walk away with talking to a woman. 0.97

00:44:15.880 Oh, boo-hoo! 1.00

00:44:17.700 Let me play a sad song for you on the world's smallest violin.

00:44:21.760 He used to be my best friend.

00:44:23.000 He's kind of a womanizer, but I see him get so much, like, success.

00:44:26.800 And every time I've done success, he's doing things that he's done, which is just putting them on the facade and telling them what they want to hear.

00:44:32.060 And, you know, in the short term, that might work out for you.

00:44:36.600 And if that's what you're wanting and that's what your goal is, then, you know, whatever.

00:44:40.920 But I'm somebody that believes that I just don't think you need to waste time on people.

00:44:48.200 That's a harsh thing to say because, you know, you learn something from every person that you interact with and you bring into your life.

00:44:54.220 But your time and your energy is priceless.

00:44:58.800 You literally cannot get that back.

00:45:00.220 It is, like, the most valuable currency.

00:45:03.760 And I don't see the benefit in bringing somebody seriously into my life that I cannot be holding myself with that does not actually like me for me.

00:45:16.100 Like, you can go around and you can, you know, say things to woo one person and be like, oh, I need to fit this mold.

00:45:21.400 I need to be more like this for her and whatever.

00:45:23.120 But, you know, a few months in, whenever, you know, when, you know, shit hits the fan and those walls come down and your true selves are exposed, it's like, hey, it might work. 0.97

00:45:32.520 It might be great. 0.79

00:45:32.980 You guys might realize you're perfect for each other.

00:45:35.220 But sometimes it's like, oh, my God, why have I spent three months with this person that, like, now that I'm being real, we're not, we're either not compatible.

00:45:43.340 She doesn't like it.

00:45:44.160 And if you're going in, I'm not saying it's deceptive, but if you're, like, putting on a show in a way, you're kind of setting yourself up for somebody, you know, not being there for the right reason.

00:45:55.440 Chad, do you think, type of one, if you think it's going to be difficult for Brett to submit to a man.

00:46:01.120 This video has really made me realize, like, she has a lot of masculine tendencies.

00:46:09.020 And I don't know if it's true, but that's what happens when girls go through traumatic experiences.

00:46:15.240 When men go through traumatic experiences, you become ice cold.

00:46:18.240 You become harder.

00:46:19.340 You become stronger.

00:46:20.500 You become emotionless, which can be one of the best tools you have when it goes to operating in the business world.

00:46:28.180 But you see, there's a lot of ones.

00:46:29.420 When Brett has gone through traumatic experiences, it's hard in her shell.

00:46:34.300 And when you become harder as a girl, you just become more masculine.

00:46:39.160 This girl's, I want to take risks.

00:46:43.160 I want to, you know, she's dressing like a lesbo. 1.00

00:46:46.460 Her mom thinks so.

00:46:50.020 She grew the Ben Shapiro eyebrows.

00:46:51.880 You see what happens?

00:46:53.340 It's going to be difficult.

00:46:54.460 She's going to need an ultra, ultra masculine.

00:46:56.720 And she's going to need, and he's also going to be, she needs a really smart caveman dude in order to tame her. 0.72

00:47:07.080 Or else she's just going to, she's going to, she's going to become fed up and she's going to resent.

00:47:10.480 If there's any ounce of soy, any ounce of simp.

00:47:13.520 She will chew and spit him out like gum. 1.00

00:47:19.140 And they're not trying to be malicious at all because they don't know any better.

00:47:23.700 They don't know you.

00:47:25.220 And that's something that I always keep in my mind.

00:47:27.080 It all always goes back to that, like my time, my energy, like we're thinking about like death and that sort of thing.

00:47:34.380 That's something I can't get back at all.

00:47:36.580 If I'm choosing to spend time with you, that means I really value you.

00:47:40.060 And I hope that you value me too, because we're both spending time together.

00:47:44.100 So I'm going to be as authentically myself as possible.

00:47:46.900 It's why I think it's really important that I'm transparent on the show.

00:47:49.980 Because if you're taking time out of your day, hours out of your week, if you watch all these videos, if you watch all of them, I'm impressed.

00:47:57.760 Why, like, I don't want to be a fake person on here and be duping people into, you know, watching some character.

00:48:03.620 Duping.

00:48:04.080 That's why I think it's so important.

00:48:05.000 So I take that, you know, with work and with, you know, personal relationships.

00:48:08.440 But I understand the pressure of like wanting to fit yourself into a mold.

00:48:11.940 It's refreshing to talk to people.

00:48:13.700 She's empathizing a lot with these boys, bro.

00:48:16.800 I've seen her relate more to this conversation than I've seen her relate to any of the women that she puts on the screen.

00:48:22.540 I'm not the only one who feels a certain way about things.

00:48:26.940 It's nice and it's a step in the right direction for me in becoming more comfortable with being open and honest with everybody.

00:48:33.180 I love that.

00:48:33.680 I think just the whole open conversation, like this won't bite me in the end later.

00:48:38.040 Ten more chat.

00:48:38.680 I'm not going to listen to this and think, oh, that guy's bad.

00:48:41.660 I have more safety of expressing my honest opinions.

00:48:44.820 And whether those be good opinions or bad opinions, it's like, it's a better way to express one's true self without trying to be influenced by what high school is and all the people influencing you in high school.

00:48:55.760 Because frankly, high school is just popular culture.

00:48:58.880 What people think is popular.

00:49:00.680 And society in general. 0.96

00:49:02.380 And I mean, I hate to say it, but you get out of high school and it's the same damn thing.

00:49:06.220 Like, the peer pressure is even more intense afterwards, in my opinion.

00:49:13.460 I mean, I don't know if I'd say more intense.

00:49:15.280 It is if you're trying to compete with others, which is a masculine trait.

00:49:18.520 If you want to submit to a man, you want to cook and clean and raise kids, you don't care about that peer pressure. 0.60

00:49:24.220 The people that you're competing with, if you're a housewife, other moms on the block and who has the better stroller? 1.00

00:49:30.740 Who's got the better fucking, what's that boxcar, better Range Rover? 0.99

00:49:36.420 Who has the better G-Wagon with the pink little steering wheel? 1.00

00:49:39.220 It's just simple shit. 1.00

00:49:40.700 Materialistic stuff. 1.00

00:49:41.360 That's who you're competing against.

00:49:42.700 Brett has a male mindset.

00:49:45.680 She's competing against other YouTube, other podcasters, other people on Daily Wire. 0.52

00:49:51.140 Like, you have more money.

00:49:54.040 Other people have more money.

00:49:55.960 That's what?

00:49:58.280 How many women are really competing about like, what woman? 1.00

00:50:01.660 Yeah, you broke though.

00:50:02.720 No, girls compete over like how pretty they are. 1.00

00:50:05.280 Not how much you got in your bank account.

00:50:06.560 Money.

00:50:07.500 You're outside of these, you know, four walls.

00:50:09.480 You're in this world with even more influences.

00:50:11.240 That was like, fantastic.

00:50:14.080 I love that.

00:50:14.740 And I love the fact that, obviously, we can talk about like, broader cultural issues that might relate to political things or, you know, whatever.

00:50:23.280 And the feminism question was really the only one that leaned more that way. 1.00

00:50:26.740 But what I loved is that they weren't getting into identity politics.

00:50:31.380 They literally couldn't see each other.

00:50:33.300 This was truly men, young. 0.99

00:50:35.820 I don't have a crush on Brett anymore.

00:50:39.380 Chat, that's all you, man.

00:50:41.860 Why did it take me this long to realize that?

00:50:44.560 I've been watching Brett videos since last summer.

00:50:48.280 Since BotTube.

00:50:50.040 I've been watching this.

00:50:50.900 And I just realized that she kind of, and you know, I don't even think, I don't think that she has a boyfriend.

00:50:59.960 I don't think that she's even like been with a guy in a long time.

00:51:02.500 I think she's so career oriented, competition mode.

00:51:06.700 That's crazy.

00:51:09.620 It just, it just all died, bro.

00:51:11.760 All died.

00:51:12.660 In one video, I started off the stream barking at her.

00:51:15.400 It's gone.

00:51:18.220 It's gone.

00:51:18.760 Chat, go ahead.

00:51:20.240 I relinquish her.

00:51:22.380 I had notifications on for Instagram so I could comment first on her photos.

00:51:26.340 I'm turning noties off.

00:51:27.580 I'm divorced.

00:51:32.000 Go ahead, chat.

00:51:35.200 It was nice.

00:51:39.980 Two men being honest about their struggles, about the things that they face on a daily basis.

00:51:44.500 Exposing the fact that they feel like they cannot be their authentic selves and be this honest in their real life when they are, you know, when the mask is off basically because of, you know, the fear of cancel culture, the fear of peer pressure, not being cool enough, not pleasing women.

00:52:01.360 It's really, really hard.

00:52:02.520 And I know that, you know, this video is about men, but for girls as well, especially, you know, middle school, high school, it's a really, really hard time.

00:52:08.400 But I do want to put special emphasis on guys because even though everybody else says that they're oppressed, at this point in time, like, I know you guys know it, but all of those people, they attack you constantly and tear you down, like they say in that video.

00:52:24.760 And so obviously it makes sense why so many men struggle and feel like their concerns are not valid and they cannot express that.

00:52:30.120 So I think this is very cool.

00:52:32.200 I hope that you...

00:52:33.200 All right, you chat in.

00:52:34.420 Cool.

00:52:35.720 Good reaction, man.

00:52:36.720 Good reaction.

00:52:37.280 I was afraid you guys would be boring, Skip.

00:52:39.180 Boring, Skip.

00:52:45.300 That's it.

00:52:45.740 This is your job.

SNEAKO - February 06, 2023

SNEAKO & Brett Cooper Rant About Porn

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