SNEAKO - SNEAKO Debates ＂Oppressed＂ Feminists On Their Victim Mentality

00:00:00 women working is actually a madness for men now exactly because men now need to work a lot more 1.00

00:00:06 because women can get the same type of paying jobs as men so most men that working an average job

00:00:12 now they need to work 10 times harder to be able to get a girl that works but that's why they have 1.00

00:00:17 this mentality of suppress a woman and feel like okay if suppress these women and make them think 1.00

00:00:23 their only purpose is be smaller so i can look bigger i don't think it's about suppressing women 1.00

00:00:28 I think it's the mentality

00:00:31 though it's the women 0.71

00:00:33 are like. I think you want to be a victim

00:00:34 so badly. No I don't want to be a victim

00:00:36 I don't want to be a victim I'm not a victim

00:00:39 so the reality. She wants to be a victim 0.98

00:00:40 and she also wants to be in charge. 0.99

00:00:42 He's having a normal conversation

00:00:45 with you and you called him a misogynist

00:00:46 or you said he's vibrating.

00:00:49 Right right right.

00:00:50 I'm not going to take it back.

00:00:51 You don't need to of course because you're going to die on your hill.

00:00:54 It's very obvious. Absolutely.

00:00:57 You have a very clear need to.

00:00:58 And I'm not the only person who feels like that.

00:00:59 You have a very clear need to be right.

00:01:01 Does anyone else vibrate with misogyny right now?

00:01:04 No.

00:01:05 You're the only one.

00:01:06 Anyways, I'm not the only one.

00:01:07 That's what you said.

00:01:09 Yeah, I'm sorry that I feel the vibe that you are a misogynist.

00:01:12 And you said you weren't the only one, but you are.

00:01:14 And I'm happy to be the only one who feels that way.

00:01:16 You've got to be more specific, though.

00:01:17 You can't throw an accusation at somebody.

00:01:20 It's like, I know this isn't a court of law,

00:01:21 but you can't just throw an accusation against somebody

00:01:23 and not substantiate it, other than by saying,

00:01:26 well, this is what I feel.

00:01:26 Someone said something along the lines of, don't go against me.

00:01:29 Isn't this a debate, like, for and against?

00:01:32 Yeah, but when you immediately have to go against, like, come on.

00:01:35 That's a debate.

00:01:36 You opened it up by saying I'm a black immigrant.

00:01:38 I mean, look, you guys are victims until somebody calls you out.

00:01:42 It's just, none of this makes any sense.

00:01:44 You're going to go and say that I'm a victim, I'm black, so I have a hard time in life,

00:01:47 and then somebody disagrees with you, and then you're even a victim more.

00:01:49 Do you know why?

00:01:50 We disagree, and then I'm aggressive, and you're pointing at me and interrupting me,

00:01:53 but I'm aggressive.

00:01:53 I'm sorry, I was aggressive there still.

00:01:55 you have been the whole time but i'm aggressive i don't say that you're vibrating with misandry

00:02:00 yeah exactly my whole point of this argument is that my whole point is that people now

00:02:04 and especially people my age i'm 24 we have such a victim mindset that makes us feel like we can

00:02:09 navigate the world a certain way and that everything is against us and we don't do that

00:02:13 because the world is against us it because it makes us feel better about our life path and

00:02:16 our decisions and about our place in the world that is the number one thing that will hold people 0.89

00:02:20 back i'm an immigrant i'm black you're misogynistic you're racist i'm stop acting like that's a 0.95

00:02:27 victimization that's exactly what he said i already explained to you why that is my superpower 0.97

00:02:32 i simply pointed out the fact that it is an extra obstacle that some people may not have

00:02:36 but for me it's a good thing it makes me fit saying that you have an obstacle spicy and prettier

00:02:40 that's why i like having all saying that you have an believing that you have an obstacle

00:02:45 is exactly i know because i felt it i've had to overcome several times just because you haven't

00:02:50 live my life. Don't bloody 0.56

00:02:51 discourage me from telling what I feel because

00:02:54 that's what I've experienced. So wait, Sneaker, what you're trying to say

00:02:56 is that we should disregard our traumatic

00:02:58 experiences that have

00:03:00 brought, like,

00:03:01 you know. Even if you were traumatized, if you had

00:03:04 a terrible experience. Use the only for power for good things.

00:03:06 Right. If the KKK was burning crosses,

00:03:08 like, what will hold you back more

00:03:09 is still thinking about that you're traumatized.

00:03:12 It's thinking that the world is against you.

00:03:14 That will hold you back even more than anything else

00:03:16 that anyone's going to tell you, that any industry will

00:03:18 say, that anything that I believe, 0.72

00:03:19 how misogynistic and racist I am.

00:03:22 You believing that you're traumatized 0.98

00:03:23 and navigating the world that way

00:03:24 is going to hold you back

00:03:25 more than anybody else.

00:03:27 And that's the number one thing

00:03:27 I would say for anyone here

00:03:29 watching this right now.

00:03:30 Get rid of that mindset

00:03:31 because that was programmed into you

00:03:32 by the news.

00:03:33 You're talking about mainstream media

00:03:34 showing this one Afro dude. 0.88

00:03:35 They do that so that we stay down.

00:03:38 It's not because they actually

00:03:39 care about racism.

00:03:40 You think the news cares

00:03:41 about this Afro guy?

00:03:42 No, they care about programming.

00:03:44 George Floyd, you think that goes viral

00:03:45 because they care about George Floyd?

00:03:47 No, it's to get everybody rioting

00:03:49 And to keep everybody confused

00:03:50 And to keep everybody outside

00:03:51 And to keep everybody distracted and angry

00:03:53 A lot of people leveled up because of that

00:03:55 A lot of addressing these issues

00:03:57 Actually is quite empowering

00:03:58 Because you start to look at

00:03:59 What did BLM accomplish?

00:04:00 Let me tell you

00:04:00 To some people

00:04:02 To some people

00:04:02 I lived in Milwaukee

00:04:06 During the BLM protests

00:04:08 There were some shops that didn't open back up

00:04:10 Of course

00:04:11 Let me tell you something

00:04:13 Things like BLM

00:04:15 Things like Wakanda

00:04:16 what it is why is actually something that is is a good thing to even talk about these things and

00:04:20 be gassed about the fact that black people start to go to the forefront is because even though some

00:04:25 people may take it as a victimization there are people that actually take it to be an empowerment

00:04:29 exactly but how do you how do you know if the outcome of something is good i know basically i

00:04:40 know because within my business wait wait basically within my business i see the change i see right

00:04:46 right okay okay so you would say so you would say it would be the results right yeah the results of

00:04:51 course so it's good the government started giving funds out for black people to do things about 1.00

00:04:55 people make money okay so if the results of those protests were that some shops did not open back up

00:05:01 and the whole business was a scam how is that a good result well it's the same way that people go

00:05:06 to war people do a million things that with good comes bad that's no but i'm asking like what good

00:05:11 came what good came of what did blm accomplish oh blm accomplished a lot within the creative

00:05:15 industry here in the uk a lot of black people start making money since blm awareness awareness 0.87

00:05:21 since blm a lot of people have still died the same way george floyd did it didn't change the 0.99

00:05:25 main factor which was white cops killing black people yeah white cops kill white people too 0.98

00:05:30 so what did blm accomplish at blm in the uk the government started giving funding to black 0.99

00:05:35 Businesses a lot more they started putting a lot

00:05:37 Of projects to big up black people and put them 1.00

00:05:39 On so actually was a good thing for the UK

00:05:41 I'm not gonna lie a lot of people got

00:05:44 Really good opportunities because

00:05:45 Of that situation whatever

00:05:47 The nature of the cops not have guns here

00:05:50 No

00:05:50 Why was the UK even giving money to black businesses 0.97

00:05:55 Here when this had nothing to do with black people 0.96

00:05:57 So you got some money like yeah a lot of people

00:05:59 Made money what how was racism solved

00:06:01 It's not about racism being sold

00:06:03 That's what black 1.00

00:06:04 But what it did

00:06:06 It actually gave extra leeway

00:06:08 For people to now go and do more

00:06:10 It gave an encouragement to say 0.74

00:06:11 Actually forget about being black 1.00

00:06:13 You know this happened but look we're going to help you 0.99

00:06:15 Go go go then take advantage and you win

00:06:17 And you grow it's a good thing

00:06:18 So when you talk about this and you expose it

00:06:20 I have a question

00:06:21 Do you think throwing money at a problem solves it

00:06:24 Of course not

00:06:25 Throw it at me it will solve it 0.98

00:06:28 Are you a stripper 0.91

00:06:29 Can I also make one point

00:06:31 You said that Black Lives Matter 1.00

00:06:33 I helped businesses

00:06:34 and black people

00:06:35 build their brand 0.99

00:06:36 or whatever

00:06:36 but I think we need

00:06:37 to also question

00:06:38 how long is that

00:06:39 going to last

00:06:39 because I feel like

00:06:40 this is just going to last

00:06:41 for like the last

00:06:41 two, five years

00:06:42 and after that

00:06:43 it's going to go back

00:06:43 to user programming

00:06:44 It's already blown over

00:06:45 Yeah

00:06:46 Well, it's starting

00:06:48 to withdraw

00:06:48 for the people

00:06:49 that got leg up

00:06:49 They got leg up

00:06:50 Even if it did solve

00:06:51 that problem

00:06:52 in a sense

00:06:52 where they're supporting

00:06:53 black businesses

00:06:54 it didn't solve

00:06:55 the main matter at hand

00:06:56 It put people

00:06:56 representing on TV

00:06:58 like ZZ Mills 0.99

00:06:59 is on Channel 4 now

00:07:00 But that wasn't

00:07:00 A sister is there

00:07:01 with another sister 1.00

00:07:02 The problem was white cops killing black people 1.00

00:07:05 The problem wasn't not having black people 1.00

00:07:06 And her answer was they put a black person on TV 0.84

00:07:08 You inspire other people to want to do the same

00:07:11 Because it didn't solve the problem

00:07:12 The problem doesn't get solved like this

00:07:14 Zizi Mills is on TV because she's talented 0.97

00:07:18 To insinuate it's because of BLM

00:07:20 Pretty racist

00:07:21 I'm not going to lie

00:07:22 If you understand the industry you know I ain't lying

00:07:25 Come for me if you want to

00:07:26 Who understands the industry better than me?

00:07:30 Well, in the U.K.?

00:07:31 Come on.

00:07:32 In London?

00:07:32 Yes, I built the biggest podcast in London.

00:07:34 You built the biggest podcast.

00:07:36 What do you know about the London people, them here?

00:07:38 Not as much as I do.

00:07:39 I've lived here for longer than you.

00:07:40 I've met hundreds in the past year.

00:07:42 You've met them.

00:07:42 Do you know their history?

00:07:43 You don't.

00:07:44 So you can't actually tell me that you know more about the come up of some people.

00:07:47 Do you think Zizi Mills is on TV because she's talented? 0.96

00:07:50 I'll tell you why she's on TV. 1.00

00:07:52 I think she's talented.

00:07:53 But guess why she's on TV and why she was given prime time? 0.92

00:07:55 Because they want to now make inclusivity and diversity something that's the forefront of a lot of things.

00:08:00 To be fair, there have been black presenters on TV since the 80s or 70s.

00:08:06 But it also sounds like you're admitting that there's an advantage for being black and it has nothing to do with skill set and diversity and inclusion.

00:08:12 So where's the mindset that black people are oppressed if you're getting a job for representation?

00:08:16 This is not what I said.

00:08:17 I said the fact that people are talking about certain situations is making other people give our community more opportunities, which then creates more representation, more inspiration.

00:08:27 The problem starts to get solved.

00:08:28 Sounds like you're getting jobs over your skin color and not your skill set.

00:08:30 No, but it doesn't matter, because the whole point is, at least I'm there.

00:08:34 When flying a plane, it matters.

00:08:35 Well, CZ Mills is talented, that's why they picked her, they wouldn't just pick her. 1.00

00:08:39 Why can't it be that?

00:08:40 Because I feel like...

00:08:40 But they picked her over someone else. 0.51

00:08:41 Yeah, but I feel like saying it's because she's black takes away from her skill set. 0.99

00:08:44 No, it doesn't.

00:08:44 You're taking away from her 100%.

00:08:45 Listen, let me tell you, people, cancel me if you want, but diversity and inclusivity

00:08:50 is now something that every corporate company is talking about.

00:08:53 They're raving about it, so take opportunity, because it doesn't matter.

00:08:56 What you do with the opportunity is up to you, but if you're smart to take this opportunity,

00:09:00 Because right now you can make a lot of money

00:09:02 So are you oppressed or not?

00:09:03 I'm not, of course not 0.68

00:09:04 And that's why I said me being black is actually a superpower

00:09:06 It depends actually

00:09:07 I'm not a victim

00:09:08 If he was going to run for a prime minister

00:09:10 That you would be fake

00:09:12 Rishi Sunak is prime minister and he's brown, isn't he?

00:09:15 Yeah

00:09:15 Yeah, nah

00:09:17 I mean

00:09:18 I don't agree with that

00:09:19 I mean

00:09:19 He didn't get elected

00:09:20 We do have a female black vice president 0.98

00:09:22 His representation

00:09:23 Right

00:09:24 We did Obama 0.97

00:09:24 I mean it is possible, guys

00:09:26 It is possible

00:09:27 And if you look at like the percentages of white people

00:09:29 versus black people just the actual percentages you know y'all do really really well y'all have

00:09:34 a lot of millionaires like we do i tell you who i really admire who i really admire is little wayne

00:09:39 he's one of my favorite people because when he asked about that he doesn't live in that way

00:09:43 and he was so fucking successful not living that way and just doing his thing and i just i know 0.93

00:09:48 i've said it three four times i just want every young person seeing this to hear it you can do 0.69

00:09:53 it bro you really can and don't live any other way but you can that's it you can do it and going back

00:09:59 to the victim mindset i would say that um a lot of people wouldn't even go and apply for that role

00:10:06 to be president or prime minister because they think like that because they think okay i'm black

00:10:11 there's i'm not gonna i don't have a chance in all fairness i don't have a chance you actually

00:10:16 went to go and do it and you actually put in the effort and you were talented and you

00:10:19 over 30 years and doing everything he had to do to get in the position to even win

00:10:23 because i mean the presidency is not something you apply for right yeah it's like over time

00:10:28 You come to know that hey

00:10:29 I got a shot at this thing and he ran for it 1.00

00:10:31 Dude if Candace Owens ran tomorrow I'd vote for her ass 1.00

00:10:33 Straight up I would vote for her 0.97

00:10:35 Candace Owens ran for president tomorrow I'd vote for her 1.00

00:10:37 I would vote for her

00:10:38 That's such a

00:10:39 Why?

00:10:41 Because I think she's intelligent 1.00

00:10:42 I think she knows her shit and she's based as fuck 1.00

00:10:44 I think sometimes 1.00

00:10:47 That's the whole point of what I'm trying to say

00:10:49 It's not because she's black by the way 0.97

00:10:51 Zero because of that

00:10:52 You brought up quotas before

00:10:55 Quotas of all

00:10:57 Quotas which is like getting a job

00:10:59 Because of your gender or your race 0.89

00:11:00 I brought them up for what

00:11:01 No but I'm saying you seemed like you said it was a good thing

00:11:04 You think it's a good thing

00:11:05 Don't you think it's kind of a slap in the face

00:11:07 Because it's saying that you can't do it yourself

00:11:09 No not really

00:11:10 I think quotas are racist and sexist

00:11:14 But it is

00:11:15 But the reason why

00:11:16 I'm kind of going on the whole thing

00:11:19 Of use race as your superpower 0.97

00:11:20 I don't really care about why you're doing it

00:11:22 As long as I'm there and I can make something good out of it

00:11:24 Then great I'll go there and I'll turn it

00:11:26 It's an opportunity.

00:11:28 So if somebody now was saying to me,

00:11:29 okay, because you're mixed race and you've got curly hair, 0.99

00:11:32 we want you to present this show primetime TV,

00:11:34 but it's because you've got curly hair.

00:11:35 Be like, yeah, no stress.

00:11:36 Let me do it.

00:11:36 Let's see how I'm going to do.

00:11:37 I'm going to get famous.

00:11:38 I'm going to make money.

00:11:39 I can open another business.

00:11:40 I can empower through that opportunity

00:11:42 that came from a bad reason.

00:11:44 Well, I think what is good about what you're saying

00:11:46 is you're talking about seizing the opportunity

00:11:48 and you're talking about using whatever prospects come along

00:11:50 to get where you want to get to.

00:11:52 I think there's almost like a schism in this conversation,

00:11:54 isn't there?

00:11:54 because I think what these guys are talking about

00:11:56 and probably what I'm talking about is more mindset-based.

00:11:59 And over here, we're getting into the weeds

00:12:02 about some of these social issues, which do exist.

00:12:04 100% they do exist.

00:12:05 But ultimately, overall, what we need to do,

00:12:09 we need to transcend that.

00:12:10 Because actually, I mean, social class is a huge thing as well, right?

00:12:13 And actually, you've sort of paid lip service to that.

00:12:15 I mean, someone like Rishi Sunak,

00:12:16 he's the Prime Minister of the United Kingdom,

00:12:18 but he came from an incredibly privileged background, right?

00:12:20 So social class is a big thing,

00:12:22 whether you're black or white or Asian or whatever.

00:12:24 But people from very underprivileged social backgrounds can also go on to become hugely successful.

00:12:31 So what we all need to do is think, sod my background, my race, my ethnicity, all of that stuff.

00:12:36 It's irrelevant.

00:12:37 How am I going to go out there and change the world today?

00:12:39 What am I going to do?

00:12:40 What steps am I going to take to make a dent in this universe before I die in this short period of time I've got here?

00:12:45 And furthermore, setting up the generations that come behind you.

00:12:48 Because for that man to be in a position to be prime minister, probably his grandpa was a G. 1.00

00:12:53 His grandpa's grandpa was a G. Yeah, so it's a legacy thing and creating a family that sticks together and has certain family values 0.85

00:12:59 That can literally propel into the future. Normally it takes a couple generations to create a Rockefeller type family

00:13:05 And so if if people start today building that legacy, then it's a really huge thing

00:13:12 In fact, I just got a text yesterday from an NBA player that wants to like talk business about something

00:13:17 i knew who he was because he was in the league but his father and grandfather own a large portion

00:13:24 of real estate in baton rouge and i knew who they were just from the real estate world

00:13:28 and so when kyle is his name's collis temple he's been he's the class he's my favorite nba player 0.94

00:13:32 not because he's the best players because he's a fucking class act gentleman you know i'm saying 0.90

00:13:37 like yes i'll do whatever whatever collis wants to do let's do it let's do let's make money bro 0.97

00:13:42 and my suit guy's a black guy he knew him he gave him my cell phone number the guy that made this

00:13:46 suit black guy right gave me the contact the plug i don't care because money's green and he and that

00:13:52 family the temple family is a great example of a legacy family and that can be made if young men

00:13:59 see that it's a possibility what about women and women too yeah women too but the thing the thing 1.00

00:14:04 about women is this you have to understand there's primal parts of us and most often like she was

00:14:12 saying earlier a woman would much rather be with a strong man she looks up to and be inside the

00:14:18 frame of the family and do the maternal things the things that matter the things that the world

00:14:21 cannot live without a mother i think being a mother is one of the strongest most impressive

00:14:27 hard jobs on the planet that baby will not sleep you can't get any sleep you've been pregnant your

00:14:33 body's torn up and then you still have to nurture that baby and not get upset with it not shake it

00:14:38 not, you know, it's maddening, right? Like, let's not belittle that job. One of the most

00:14:43 important jobs on the planet, because you're molding the next generation that might be that 0.95

00:14:48 legacy holder for your race or, or your family or whomever. So I think that it's really, really,

00:14:54 really important that we put mothers on a pedestal more than we put rappers. And I don't mean that

00:14:58 to disrespect you. I just mean it because it's what's important for the children.

00:15:02 And the thing is that feminism comes in and says that motherhood isn't enough. 1.00

00:15:05 Bullshit 0.99

00:15:06 Even when we were talking about 1.00

00:15:09 Oh you get to work, you get to do this

00:15:10 Well we got to be mothers

00:15:11 I mean my grandma

00:15:12 She had nine kids

00:15:16 And she said her one regret in life

00:15:17 Is not having 12

00:15:18 It wasn't being a rapper

00:15:21 It wasn't dropping 16 bars on Sway

00:15:25 And I think that's one of the worst things

00:15:27 About feminism

00:15:28 Is because if I was to speak out now

00:15:30 And say that I just want to be

00:15:31 A stay at home wife with six kids 0.90

00:15:32 People would look at me

00:15:33 When I'm saying it's lazy

00:15:34 But I think that's like

00:15:36 The best part of a woman's life

00:15:38 Is having kids

00:15:39 And raising them

00:15:40 Is a privilege

00:15:40 You want to hear

00:15:41 What's going to call you lazy though

00:15:42 Huh

00:15:42 You know who's going to belittle that

00:15:44 Probably one of those

00:15:45 Other women 0.95

00:15:46 Yeah

00:15:46 Men aren't going to look down 1.00

00:15:48 To you for that

00:15:48 It's the competition

00:15:49 This is why it's important

00:15:51 No they wouldn't

00:15:51 Maybe

00:15:52 He's completely right

00:15:54 He's completely right

00:15:55 Weak men

00:15:56 I don't think men would 0.81

00:15:56 Weak men who might as well

00:15:58 Be women 0.99

00:15:58 This is why women 1.00

00:16:00 Need to be very careful

00:16:01 Who they keep around

00:16:01 Because a lot of times

00:16:02 You're in competition

00:16:02 With each other

00:16:03 And misery loves company

00:16:04 Whenever a woman now on social media

00:16:06 When they see like a famous woman in a happy relationship 0.97

00:16:08 You see them all the time trying to bring them down

00:16:10 Trying to catch them cheating

00:16:11 They want to be at the same level because it's jealousy 0.77

00:16:13 Misery loves company

00:16:15 And so a lot of the friendships that women have

00:16:17 They aren't productive whatsoever 1.00

00:16:18 A lot of them are feeding garbage 0.89

00:16:19 When you get in a breakup, when you have problems with your boyfriend 0.97

00:16:21 And you go talk to your girlfriends, what do they say?

00:16:23 Leave him, leave him right now, let's go to the club 1.00

00:16:26 They don't actually promote anything positive

00:16:28 They just want to bring you back down to degeneracy

00:16:30 And watch out, she might text him

00:16:31 I had a friend that told me to leave him but was texting him

00:16:34 Those are female friends 0.99

00:16:36 And that's what's really destructive about feminism 1.00

00:16:38 Is that you talk about female empowerment

00:16:40 And then you guys bring each other down more than men do 0.99

00:16:42 That's actually the real misogyny

00:16:44 Is you trying to destroy each other's lives

00:16:46 And ruin each other's relationships for jealousy

00:16:47 We're not the misogynists because I'm speaking aggressive

00:16:50 It's misogynists to not want a woman to be a mother

00:16:52 Which is the happiest state a woman could ever be in

00:16:54 How can you say that?

00:16:56 What did I say that's wrong?

00:16:58 What is wrong about what I said?

00:16:59 Just say what you just said again

00:17:01 I'm not repeating it for you

00:17:02 Right now, perfect example

00:17:04 You didn't even hear what I said, it's the way I said it

00:17:06 And now you're upset, you don't even know why you're mad

00:17:08 I know what you said, but can you hear yourself speaking

00:17:10 Okay, what did he say that was wrong?

00:17:12 It's how I said it, not what I said

00:17:13 What did he say that was wrong?

00:17:15 What about all the barren women? What about women that can't have kids? 1.00

00:17:19 They're miserable 0.98

00:17:20 Yeah, but those are outliers 0.98

00:17:21 Have you ever spoken to a woman that can't have kids 1.00

00:17:25 That's barren? 0.98

00:17:26 They're usually miserable, they're not happy with that

00:17:28 And if you talk to, you know what percentage of women 1.00

00:17:30 That don't have kids are happy with it

00:17:32 Less than 20%

00:17:33 So the majority of women 1.00

00:17:35 That don't have kids are not happy

00:17:37 So he's right, what did he say that was wrong?

00:17:39 That's a perfect example of feelings over facts

00:17:41 She pulled the Greta Thunberg 0.52

00:17:43 Tell me, what did he say that was incorrect?

00:17:45 She went, how dare you? 1.00

00:17:46 He exists

00:17:47 What did I say that was wrong?

00:17:50 Yeah, what did he say?

00:17:51 It's just like, you're throwing out these facts

00:17:54 Like a woman's sole purpose 1.00

00:17:56 A woman's sole purpose is to be a mother 1.00

00:17:58 there's nothing more

00:18:01 there's nothing more okay whilst I do believe

00:18:03 there is nothing more important than

00:18:05 not actually I don't believe that

00:18:07 I don't believe that there's more to women 1.00

00:18:09 in society

00:18:09 what's more important than having children

00:18:12 name five things

00:18:14 being healthy

00:18:15 I'm not asking you Dinalva 1.00

00:18:17 what's name five things

00:18:18 being healthy

00:18:21 being healthy is a pre-work

00:18:25 your actual career

00:18:28 your dreams from a little girl yeah we from from a child all girls we all have a dream like

00:18:33 whatever the prince charming usually not all of us have the being having dream being stable okay

00:18:39 okay okay so wait wait wait i just want to talk to you so so your career what else what else is

00:18:45 more important your mental stability your health your um contribution to society outside of

00:18:52 a motherhood so so you're you're 65 okay by yourself okay your career is more important

00:18:59 yeah i'm a cat mom and i've got a great career i've made i've made i've left i've made my mark

00:19:04 in this world just like a man has like just like because if a man doesn't have kids at 65 the

00:19:09 society look at him in any way i agree that mental stability is important but for me if i hit let's

00:19:14 say 30 and i have no kids my mental stability will be very low i will be depressed and even

00:19:18 though i want to be this i want to be that i want to have a career so badly if i don't have kids

00:19:23 like i wouldn't know what to do you're completely right let me just tell you something right now

00:19:26 like you said you're going to be a cat mom no i'm saying i'm not saying i'm going to be i'm

00:19:31 saying there's women like that is that what you're on the right path and not only that women 1.00

00:19:34 turn to lesbians is that what you want genuinely i'm not trying to be aggressive do you want to be

00:19:39 a cat mom rapper you talk about your contribution to society it's dropping a rap song having an 1.00

00:19:45 Instagram where your tits are out 1.00

00:19:47 and then having some cats. Is that what you want to leave? 0.99

00:19:49 Is that what you think women do? 1.00

00:19:51 I haven't seen your Instagram. Outside of motherhood, that's probably

00:19:54 what, that's the only value

00:19:55 you see in a woman. The only thing that... I'm asking you. 1.00

00:19:57 No, but I'm saying the only thing, the only value

00:19:59 that a woman has in your eyes is motherhood. 0.87

00:20:01 So every woman that you get with... That's the most important.

00:20:03 So every woman you get with, as long as she has kids, 1.00

00:20:05 she's valuable. I'm not talking about women I get with. 0.99

00:20:07 No, but is that what you're trying to say then? The highest contribution

00:20:09 to society a woman has is motherhood. 1.00

00:20:11 So what's the highest contribution that a man has?

00:20:13 in your opinion invent build and maintain society can i just challenge you quickly didn't you say

00:20:18 that there would be none of this without women having children you said that in the beginning 1.00

00:20:22 but i'm what i'm trying to say is i don't like the fact that there's a lot of men who have this

00:20:28 mentality towards women i don't see your value as a woman outside of let me marry you let me breed 1.00

00:20:34 you like a fuck like a fucking cow and then you know like you're gonna stay there i'm gonna do 1.00

00:20:39 what I need to do and all your whole purpose in your whole existence is to do nothing but have 1.00

00:20:45 my kid but that is crazy but why is that but why is that why is that a bad thing it's not a bad

00:20:51 thing that's what that's what my look at look at that's what my grandma did she had nine kids and 0.85

00:20:55 now she has over 50 grandkids and I feel like you're trying you're making it seem more terrible

00:20:59 than what it is you compare motherhood to being a cow you just compared motherhood to breeding

00:21:04 being bred like a cow comparing like the attitude that I heard what she said why are you trying to

00:21:08 Because you're misinterpreting what she said.

00:21:10 I heard something different.

00:21:12 She's not saying that.

00:21:13 She's saying the attitude that people have to say that women should just be mothers and your motherhood is the most important thing.

00:21:18 And she belittled it.

00:21:19 No, wait, wait, wait.

00:21:20 That's, wait, yeah?

00:21:21 Yeah.

00:21:21 What she's trying to really say is that attitude that you say that that's what women are for, what they are about, makes it look like we're just like, what do you call it?

00:21:29 Like cows. 0.75

00:21:29 Like cattle.

00:21:30 Like cattle.

00:21:31 What do you call it?

00:21:32 The dog girl? 1.00

00:21:34 Bitch. 1.00

00:21:35 Is that what you call it? 1.00

00:21:36 Female dog.

00:21:37 No one said that word

00:21:38 I see you starting to realize this

00:21:41 You're the Jesus lover over here

00:21:42 You're starting to realize the mindset that a lot of these women have 1.00

00:21:45 They're comparing motherhood to being bred like a cow

00:21:47 I feel like it's just very backwards

00:21:48 Because I feel like with you

00:21:50 And I'm not trying to attack you

00:21:51 But I just feel like you're trying to make it seem more dark

00:21:54 Than what it actually is

00:21:55 A lot of men, yes they're very privileged by the fact that

00:21:58 They've picked a woman and they want to have children with them 0.99

00:22:00 But it's not just centered around them

00:22:01 Maybe they just love their company

00:22:03 Maybe they just love their softness

00:22:05 You're just making it seem like men

00:22:07 Just come and just like

00:22:08 Let me have your children

00:22:09 That's like 5% of men

00:22:11 It's not that the men

00:22:13 In the vast majority of cases

00:22:15 It's not that the men just look at the woman

00:22:16 As this kind of breeding animal

00:22:17 It's this very animalistic thing

00:22:21 We're talking about love

00:22:24 We're talking about he falls in love with that woman

00:22:26 He wants to build a family

00:22:28 You're not talking about that

00:22:30 Can you explain

00:22:34 what you were talking about what are you talking about then if you're not talking about that

00:22:37 no i don't think they're talking about that because they haven't made it clear you just

00:22:41 said that motherhood's the most important thing so for you your sole purpose is to get with a 1.00

00:22:45 woman and have a kid with her and that's i want to clarify i want to clarify career is more

00:22:50 important than motherhood yes or no when when i'm when so in in a society career is more important

00:22:55 than motherhood yes or no yes or no depends no yes or no but it depends no because because the

00:23:01 the way you're arguing you're just arguing with everything no but you're not you're not even

00:23:06 making a clear point like if your point if your point is if your point is that career is more

00:23:11 important than motherhood say it it depends no but not in the world because she's like there's

00:23:16 everyone comes from a different place here what you said

00:23:19 what i'm saying is okay we're dealing with the facts of the west right now in it like this is

00:23:31 not in africa not in do you get it like other countries where they have these values that oh

00:23:37 yeah um and some men still have that mentality that a woman so that woman's not it's like 1.00

00:23:44 what yeah what results does that does that lead to are women happier in the west i think so i don't 0.73

00:23:52 think so okay so how let's let me just think this through with you okay how would we measure if

00:23:59 women are happier in the west or in other countries the rate of women on what antidepressants because

00:24:05 you would agree depressed women take drugs right to not be depressed right okay so if the women in 1.00

00:24:13 the west are on antidepressants higher that means our results are not good if we're more obese than

00:24:17 other countries our results are not good so yeah we're more successful not in terms of happiness

00:24:25 You're basing success monetarily

00:24:27 Success is about enjoyment of life

00:24:29 It's not about wrapping and making

00:24:31 I thought y'all weren't paid equally

00:24:32 I thought you weren't paid equally

00:24:35 That's not what she said

00:24:37 Are you financially successful?

00:24:39 No, she means more financially independent

00:24:41 Success is not about how much money you're making

00:24:43 Because financial independence is important

00:24:44 For example, I'll give you a reason why

00:24:46 The average woman makes like $25,000 a year 1.00

00:24:50 No, financial independence is important

00:24:50 So they're not that successful

00:24:52 Can I ask you a question?

00:24:53 That's poverty

00:24:54 Okay, compared to the countries

00:24:57 Where they probably would have

00:24:59 A better lifestyle because they live off

00:25:01 Of their family's income, of their husbands

00:25:03 You know

00:25:04 Sister, can I say something here?

00:25:06 It's important for women to have financial stability 1.00

00:25:08 Because you can't always rely on men

00:25:11 To be there to give you things 0.98

00:25:12 It's not just because men are trash and men are not 0.98

00:25:15 Reliable, everybody dies 0.98

00:25:16 Which means that you as a woman need to also be able to 1.00

00:25:19 Count on a way to

00:25:20 Stabilize yourself because if you do have

00:25:23 children you also need to be able to provide for the children so things go wrong for example

00:25:27 so why that's why certain things like financial independence and having a career can be important

00:25:30 for women and i know this because i speak like about my mom from experience if she didn't go 1.00

00:25:35 to work and she was a housewife if she didn't go to work we would have been suffering we should 1.00

00:25:40 have had to go jump in bed with somebody else to provide for her which she didn't do so she went 0.95

00:25:44 to work so it's good thing it's a good thing for me to go and work and have a career i don't think

00:25:48 they i don't think what we're trying to say that woman is work woman working is a bad thing what 0.72

00:25:51 we're trying to say is women putting work over family is a bad thing because if you go back to 1.00

00:25:56 what Pearl said the results have been bad they've been horrible also as well a lot of work is not

00:26:01 really what it's cracked up to be I mean it seems like women have worked really really hard and

00:26:04 fought really hard to be able to go work in cubicles for you know eight hours a day which 0.55

00:26:08 is pretty shit you know let's let's face it not most people aren't going to become Cardi B most 0.94

00:26:13 people aren't going to become like a world famous rapper or you know like a super influencer right 0.99

00:26:18 Most jobs are not very good

00:26:20 So why is this importance put onto that

00:26:23 When actually most people are trying to get out of work

00:26:25 Out of normal jobs

00:26:27 Because they're so terrible

00:26:28 It's because feminism made these women think 1.00

00:26:30 That being a mother is a bad thing 1.00

00:26:32 That they're oppressed

00:26:33 That they compare it to cows, to being bred

00:26:36 They don't see any value in being a mother 1.00

00:26:39 They compare themselves to men all the time

00:26:41 They want to go fix cars like we do

00:26:43 They want to go wrap like we do

00:26:44 Why is it men don't fix cars only? 0.98

00:26:46 See?

00:26:47 And why is it men that rap on me? 0.87

00:26:48 Because women aren't as good at it. 1.00

00:26:50 Well, if I get stuck in the middle of nowhere, I don't have my phone.

00:26:53 Good thing I can change my tire.

00:26:55 Wait, wait, wait.

00:26:55 Look at the top.

00:26:56 It's a survival skill.

00:26:57 Donalva, wait.

00:26:58 The top ten rappers of all time, are they men or women?

00:27:01 There's a woman in there. 1.00

00:27:02 There's a woman in there. 1.00

00:27:03 Are the majority?

00:27:04 Stop.

00:27:05 Come on.

00:27:06 Are the majority men or women?

00:27:08 Men.

00:27:08 Definitely men.

00:27:09 Okay, so women aren't as good at it. 1.00

00:27:11 Well, that doesn't mean that they're not as good at it.

00:27:13 That's exactly what they're saying.

00:27:14 No, that doesn't mean that.

00:27:16 That's exactly what it is.

00:27:18 It's not.

00:27:19 Do you know why?

00:27:20 Because that's the same thing as saying women have only just started going into science because it's more encouraged.

00:27:25 But because there's more men engineers, they're all better than women. 1.00

00:27:28 No, women can't be good at it. 1.00

00:27:30 But they're just still trying to go into things because we are still catching up with something that's been there for men for a very long time.

00:27:36 No, because we're picking in, like, they're trying to push women into industries we're not naturally good at. 1.00

00:27:41 Listen, rapping is like poetry.

00:27:43 You're basically saying we can't write poetry as good as a man.

00:27:45 No, Denelva, wait, wait, Denelva.

00:27:48 It's like we were trying to make women into men and we're not men. 0.59

00:27:53 No, rapping is not for men because rapping is art.

00:27:56 If women wanted to do it and were good at it, they would do it. 1.00

00:28:02 Men as rappers sell more because whatever it is that they're rapping about as well is more like it helps men feel empowered, feel this.

00:28:11 There's a certain advantage for men within that industry.

00:28:14 Can I ask you a question?

00:28:15 Why aren't men top of the list when it comes to the beauty influence?

00:28:22 They are, though.

00:28:24 No, they're not.

00:28:25 They are.

00:28:25 Because we're money and not being fat.

00:28:27 Modeling.

00:28:28 The modeling industry.

00:28:29 Exactly.

00:28:29 Who dominates the modeling industry?

00:28:31 And men are women? 0.91

00:28:32 Why does Giselle make more than Tom Brady? 1.00

00:28:35 Exactly.

00:28:35 Clearly because they're better at it.

00:28:37 Women are better at makeup. 1.00

00:28:38 Men are better at other things.

00:28:39 We need to stop acting like we can do the same things.

00:28:42 No, it's not.

00:28:43 Because women are visually. 1.00

00:28:44 Sometimes there's exceptions.

00:28:45 sometimes there's an exceptions i know there's a male youtuber who can probably do more makeup

00:28:49 than me but if we're talking on a general senses because women let's be real because women please 1.00

00:28:54 the visuals because we're good at that it's true but we also need to ask why i said because

00:29:03 i'm not arguing i'm agreeing but yeah but the same way we can admit women are better at this 0.98

00:29:08 and women are better at visuals and so why are we so afraid to admit that men are better than

00:29:12 other things than we are exactly for example i would not want to have a man running a nursery 1.00

00:29:18 school because i wouldn't want to leave my small child with a man i'd rather leave that but then

00:29:22 why do you argue so hard with that matter wait wait that matter that matter better rappers than

00:29:29 women because the results show it no because there's more men rappers and they do better at

00:29:34 it's like i'm talking to a kid right now okay very childish i understand why you think she's

00:29:38 good tv because you just talk you're just talking like what are you talking about okay i'll tell you

00:29:44 why for example rapping what is rapping rapping you write lyrics it's like a poetry it's poetry

00:29:50 essentially right okay the only difference between poetry and rapping is because when you rap you

00:29:56 flow on a beat cool so that has nothing to do with you being a man or woman now when it comes

00:30:00 to taking care of children and babies for example then there i'm going to say yeah it is about being

00:30:06 a man and a woman. So there are certain things where

00:30:08 the rule does not apply, and there are certain things that the

00:30:10 rule definitely applies. So I am not stupid, sir.

00:30:12 No, but then, chill out. Hold on, I'm not calling you stupid, but 1.00

00:30:14 just because you're speaking loud, it doesn't mean that you're making 0.99

00:30:16 a good point. I can't hear myself too well, so obviously I have to

00:30:18 project my voice. Listen a little bit, because you're

00:30:20 not making a good point just because you're speaking up.

00:30:22 Okay, why did I not make a good point?

00:30:24 You're not having any stance. You say you're not a feminist, 1.00

00:30:26 but you're saying that women should be scientists 0.75

00:30:28 too. We can rap the same, but also

00:30:30 I'm not the... Because I'm not a feminist, I just think 0.87

00:30:32 people have skills. You've been talking the most out of

00:30:34 anyone on this panel and you have no specific point of view my point of view is simply to say

00:30:39 to talk you guys just want to argue about black and white when there's great points in the middle

00:30:44 the same way that sometimes the rule applies where men are better at something than women

00:30:48 and sometimes it doesn't know that you've been on too many shows to not know that we are talking

00:30:55 about in general like i've told you this so many shows to know that i sit here to tell my point so

00:31:01 So that I can then take the content and put it on my page.

00:31:04 You can say your point, but that doesn't mean you're right.

00:31:10 No, but this looks better.

00:31:12 So there you go.

00:31:13 It's not about, for everybody watching, it's not about making a clear point.

00:31:16 It's just this is her time.

00:31:17 She's on camera.

00:31:18 You like talking.

00:31:19 It's about empowerment. 1.00

00:31:20 It's about calling bullshit on black and white. 0.99

00:31:22 You like hearing your own voice. 0.99

00:31:24 I love my voice.

00:31:25 And I like looking at myself.

00:31:26 This is narcissism.

00:31:27 You have no point of view.

00:31:29 You're just here to talk.

00:31:30 I just agree with you because you're saying things as if I should be.

00:31:33 I want to hear from you because I don't think we have all show.

00:31:38 I'm just here getting heated a little bit.

00:31:40 I just feel like everything.

00:31:42 So feminism, it's just women demonizing everything that women are good at. 1.00

00:31:47 So being able to give birth, reproduction is beautiful.

00:31:53 It is a beautiful thing.

00:31:55 Why are we demonizing it?

00:31:56 Why are we relating ourselves to cows?

00:32:00 Yeah, I don't get that.

00:32:00 Who said that?

00:32:01 Who was it that said that?

00:32:02 A rapper, Red Hair.

00:32:03 Is that a true negative mindset?

00:32:04 And I hate to bring religion into it, 1.00

00:32:05 but as a Christian,

00:32:06 I can only speak on what I know.

00:32:07 In the Bible,

00:32:08 the main focus for women is to reproduce. 1.00

00:32:11 So for you to try and make it seem like it's a bad thing 0.93

00:32:13 is literally ludicrous to me.

00:32:15 We're on this planet to reproduce.

00:32:16 And this is why I say...

00:32:17 There's nothing else to it.

00:32:18 Forget society.

00:32:19 Forget everything else.

00:32:20 We are literally here to make children.

00:32:22 Right. 0.98

00:32:22 And this is why I said feminism is demonic. 1.00

00:32:24 It is demonic. 0.99

00:32:25 It's reproducing.

00:32:26 It's just to reproduce. 0.94

00:32:27 I'm here for more than just to give birth to.

00:32:30 a child actually i can be a mother but i also i am an educator i'm here to help but you're getting

00:32:35 it the wrong way we're not saying that we're just i'm not here to just give birth to a child

00:32:38 guys one at a time i'm gonna wait wait thank you i'm gonna let you go go ahead that's not what

00:32:49 we're saying because when she asked for a fun fact i said first my career i'm not here i'm not

00:32:53 saying that i'm here to just become a mother to just give kids but we are saying the main he said

00:32:57 the most important thing is motherhood and you guys

00:32:59 are trying to take away from the fact of the matter. The fact

00:33:01 of the matter is that the most important thing for a woman 1.00

00:33:03 is to be a mother. You can want a 0.99

00:33:05 career, you can want to be rich, mental health, all

00:33:07 of that, that's all nice and fun but the main factor of

00:33:09 life is the most important thing is

00:33:11 being a mother and you guys are just trying to argue with the

00:33:13 sake of arguing because what you guys are saying, you're just both

00:33:15 contradicting yourself and you're both bumping heads which makes

00:33:17 zero sense whatsoever. What's more meaningful ultimately

00:33:20 in life terms? Is it having a child?

00:33:21 Is it having a family? Is it having those connections

00:33:24 with other human beings? You know, in this brief period

00:33:26 If you got this money

00:33:26 Or is it going to work

00:33:27 In a cubicle for eight hours

00:33:28 What's the most important thing

00:33:29 For men then

00:33:30 If women is giving birth 1.00

00:33:31 Ways for you guys

00:33:32 Creation

00:33:33 Okay

00:33:34 That's a good one

00:33:35 In every way

00:33:36 Creating everything

00:33:38 Inventing

00:33:38 Building

00:33:39 Maintaining society

00:33:40 Creating children

00:33:41 And then protecting

00:33:42 And providing for that family

00:33:43 Including a very good

00:33:45 Mother and wife

00:33:46 Do you feel like men

00:33:47 Have been doing a good job

00:33:48 At that lately

00:33:48 No I don't

00:33:49 But I also think that

00:33:50 It's in a lot of ways

00:33:51 Since the women 0.99

00:33:52 Control the sex 0.98

00:33:52 And the men control 0.95

00:33:53 The relationships

00:33:54 The abundance of sex 0.60

00:33:55 and the promiscuity in the agenda

00:33:58 that we're currently going through.

00:33:59 I think it's making both sides very sad.

00:34:02 It doesn't have to be a gray area.

00:34:04 That's what you're saying to dismiss the argument.

00:34:06 The point is like men have a specific role

00:34:08 and women have a specific role. 1.00

00:34:09 That's a black and white that I think we should agree on.

00:34:13 Definitely.

00:34:14 And we can also agree that men and women are equal

00:34:15 just in completely different roles.

00:34:18 That's all.

00:34:19 The world doesn't go without mothers, 0.98

00:34:21 particularly mothers. 0.98

00:34:23 They're going to be the foundational base

00:34:24 Of every human that comes into this world

00:34:26 Not just after the fact

00:34:28 But while she's holding the baby 0.98

00:34:29 How she treats her body 1.00

00:34:30 While that baby's there

00:34:31 The words that are coming out of her mouth

00:34:33 And that baby can hear you 0.93

00:34:34 While she's in there 1.00

00:34:35 Everything about that situation

00:34:37 And the atmosphere

00:34:37 That the mother creates 0.99

00:34:38 Is going to have a lot to do

00:34:39 With the mental health of that child

00:34:40 Boy or girl

00:34:41 It's the most important job in the world

00:34:44 And then at some point

00:34:45 When it's a little boy

00:34:46 I am very big on handing

00:34:47 That little boy off to the father

00:34:48 And the father gets to

00:34:51 Take care of that family

00:34:52 He gets to be a man

00:34:53 he gets to be the hero for that situation that's what's broken about everything we're talking about

00:34:57 you know in those situations may i ask so obviously that's really important but

00:35:02 how do we then just to make it a little bit more rounded and a bit more like wholesome

00:35:07 what advice do you give to the women in terms of what do they have to build for themselves to 1.00

00:35:11 prepare for a potentially eventuality or the occurrence of your husband passing away early

00:35:18 maybe you've got two kids for him one is three one is one what do you tell a woman that has just

00:35:22 completely given herself to being a housewife and doesn't actually have skills or the abilities 1.00

00:35:26 or knowledge to strive in the world because she just wanted to be a housewife and then what does

00:35:32 that what happens to her i mean so there's a bunch of technical ways like life insurance 1.00

00:35:36 but there's also the man you pick you know women a lot of their success in life is picking the 1.00

00:35:42 right horse hate to say you better pick a good one you know people get shot sometimes if they

00:35:47 run over people get shot i doubt that i'm gonna get shot in life i'm not gonna be in that situation 0.99

00:35:50 No, I'm just saying in general, pick a man that's not going to get fucking shot. 0.99

00:35:53 You understand what I'm saying? 0.98

00:35:55 Like, it's not about him going off to war. 0.99

00:35:56 He shouldn't have been in the damn neighborhood. 1.00

00:35:58 Okay. 1.00

00:35:58 Right? 1.00

00:35:58 He shouldn't have been doing the shit he was doing. 1.00

00:35:59 He shouldn't have been fucking with the people he was fucking with. 1.00

00:36:01 So a woman, one of the most important things she can do in her life is pick the right partner. 0.99

00:36:04 Of course.

00:36:05 You know, you have to choose that risk.

00:36:06 Yeah, and look, and you have a lot of risk in that, especially nowadays, because you get

00:36:10 to that 1% man, you pick him, and now you're dealing with promiscuity and all those other

00:36:14 things, right?

00:36:15 And that's a whole different subject, but what I'm saying is, is if a woman can find

00:36:18 a man that is strong and she can look up to and

00:36:20 she can trust and there's a real relationship there

00:36:22 she has no problem getting inside of her frame 0.98

00:36:24 and then inside of his frame and then all of a sudden

00:36:26 there's not a thought about you know whether

00:36:28 or not you know there's

00:36:29 feminism in the house 1.00

00:36:32 it's more like I trust this man

00:36:34 fully and guess what makes him motivated

00:36:36 more than anything in the world to take care of them

00:36:38 is that trust that she puts in him

00:36:40 because he takes it seriously and he becomes a hero

00:36:42 in life and he wants nothing more than

00:36:44 to create a life for that woman and those

00:36:46 kids that would have been one

00:36:48 10th of what it had been if he would not have come into that life and that's what motivates men

00:36:51 it truly truly is and if you have a good woman that can accept that and accept you being the

00:36:56 leader you will kill for her yeah and so that woman will have nothing to worry about because 1.00

00:37:00 he'll do his duty as a man and a real man would take care of his family protect provide and a

00:37:05 woman that supports him is nothing i promise you they're happiest women in the world yeah

00:37:09 sorry can i it's okay if i can ask them a question would you guys want your wives i 1.00

00:37:13 don't know if you guys are married but would you guys want your wives to work 0.99

00:37:16 Ideally no

00:37:17 Why no

00:37:19 I'd rather them raise the kids

00:37:21 I'm going to provide

00:37:23 I'm going to be the one bringing the bread home

00:37:25 I don't want her to work out of necessity

00:37:27 That's a lot of pressure to put on men

00:37:29 That aren't able to earn salaries

00:37:31 Pressure makes diamonds

00:37:33 Hey look that's Darwinism

00:37:35 That's the best name for the species

00:37:37 Do you guys ever think that maybe there might be

00:37:38 Like she was speaking about that 5% 1.00

00:37:40 5% chance that you might get run over a car

00:37:43 You might get cancer or something

00:37:44 I want to finish answering your question

00:37:47 She wants to pick a guy who is going to have the wherewithal 0.99

00:37:49 So if that situation, if that eventuality did occur

00:37:52 She would be looked after even in the point of his demise

00:37:55 And I don't think you should live your life out of fear

00:37:57 Like what if the worst case scenario happens

00:37:59 And I think a lot of times as women 0.98

00:38:01 We kind of go into situations out of fear

00:38:04 Instead of thinking about like what good could happen

00:38:06 Is it fear or is it being realistic?

00:38:08 I mean what percent of husbands like die young?

00:38:11 What percent is it? Is it a high percentage?

00:38:13 Yeah it's not

00:38:14 Even if you guys have a college degree, your chance of getting divorced is 10%.

00:38:19 You should be more scared of that than your husband dying.

00:38:23 I'll say another thing, too. 1.00

00:38:24 You know how they say a lot of men are bums and a lot of men are shit? 1.00

00:38:27 If you only, if there was a society where only the men that truly produce and could truly take care of a family could reproduce, 1.00

00:38:34 you would watch men's production skyrocket through the roof.

00:38:37 because i hate to say it men get up out of bed every morning whether they're a brick later

00:38:43 inventor or they're trying to make a rocket ship to the moon it is in pursuit of women 1.00

00:38:47 thank you that is a driving force of society but it's just a yin and yang it's just a fact of the 0.99

00:38:52 world so a lot of women have babies with shit men so you got to pick them like make sure your 1.00

00:39:00 picker's not broken and then be in a position and create a scenario and an error about yourself that 1.00

00:39:05 tells the high quality men that i am a quality woman and i am worthy of you taking care of me

00:39:11 fully and if you want to work work but it's not it shouldn't be because you have to work

00:39:15 that's that's my problem with a woman working is that she gets forced into working because the man's 1.00

00:39:21 not doing what he committed to in the beginning which is protecting and providing if she gets 0.84

00:39:25 bored i would let her open up a little dumb store that sells like yeah little trinkets or hair stuff 1.00

00:39:30 And a woman that exactly is fine 0.99

00:39:32 I do think that just because the man is the provider

00:39:34 It doesn't mean the woman has to have zero skill 1.00

00:39:36 And what you just said

00:39:37 You said I'll let her 0.87

00:39:38 I think that's the wrong thing to say

00:39:40 You'll let her have a hair business 1.00

00:39:42 You know what though

00:39:44 When a woman is like crazy in love 1.00

00:39:46 And there's true genuine desire

00:39:47 What she really wants to do is help build the kingdom 0.96

00:39:50 I have a question for you

00:39:53 Because you said you're a Christian right 0.90

00:39:54 You don't believe in submitting to your husband

00:39:56 No of course but he's saying

00:39:58 So you would have to

00:40:00 You don't believe in submitting to your husband's authority

00:40:03 I'm 50-50

00:40:05 Then you're not a real Christian 1.00

00:40:07 I'm not a real Christian 0.96

00:40:08 No, there's a lot of fake Christians in the church 0.99

00:40:11 No, there's a lot of fake Christians in the church 0.99

00:40:13 Because you guys don't believe in male authority 0.88

00:40:16 No, no, no, no

00:40:16 Because you guys need to understand what being a Christian means

00:40:19 Just because I said I'm a Christian doesn't mean I follow the Bible

00:40:21 By a word

00:40:23 No, there's something called being a Luke warm Christian

00:40:27 So you guys need to do your research

00:40:28 This is why Christianity is failing 1.00

00:40:31 So you're a pick and choose Christian 0.99

00:40:33 I'm a Christian when it benefits me

00:40:36 No, that's not what I'm saying

00:40:37 Can I also say something

00:40:40 And I think this is why divorce rates are skyrocketing

00:40:43 Because people don't understand

00:40:44 What the true meaning of marriage is

00:40:46 If you actually read your Bible

00:40:48 You would understand that marriage

00:40:49 Is a union between two people

00:40:52 So two people become one 0.52

00:40:53 Meaning

00:40:54 Meaning

00:40:56 Meaning once you're married, once you make a decision,

00:41:01 you have to run it with your partner,

00:41:03 and your partner has to kind of...

00:41:04 You guys are talking about somebody dying.

00:41:07 You guys are talking about, oh, what if the husband dies?

00:41:08 But what's far more likely to happen is that the woman divorces him, 0.98

00:41:14 because we know that, what is it, 70% of divorces are started by women, right? 1.00

00:41:19 80%, sorry.

00:41:20 So that is the eventuality that you've got to look out for.

00:41:23 Yeah, because men are happy as long as the woman's in the kitchen making them a sound. 1.00

00:41:25 It's because women get bored 1.00

00:41:27 Because the butterflies go

00:41:29 And then they think

00:41:29 I'll sod this

00:41:30 I'll go off and you know

00:41:31 Hold on Sneeko 0.98

00:41:32 I've got a question for you

00:41:33 I'm not being funny

00:41:34 Would you be with a woman 0.98

00:41:35 Who earns more than you?

00:41:36 That would never happen

00:41:37 Exactly

00:41:37 But that's the reality

00:41:39 Of certain situations

00:41:40 Like would it emasculate you?

00:41:41 Those relationships

00:41:42 It's not about insecurity

00:41:44 Those relationships always fail

00:41:45 According to who?

00:41:47 That always happens

00:41:48 The woman needs to look up 1.00

00:41:49 To her man

00:41:50 Always

00:41:50 In your

00:41:51 That's what you prefer

00:41:52 That's just the truth

00:41:53 Of relationships

00:41:54 That's what you prefer

00:41:54 That's what you'd prefer

00:41:55 Because it's not every relationship

00:41:57 This is just female nature 1.00

00:41:58 That's the fact

00:41:58 It's female nature 1.00

00:41:59 If you're

00:42:00 You're not a female 1.00

00:42:00 So you wouldn't know

00:42:01 Okay I understand female

00:42:03 I understand female nature 1.00

00:42:04 Better than you

00:42:04 I have to in order to be successful

00:42:06 No you don't

00:42:07 I do

00:42:07 What makes you qualified

00:42:08 To speak so much on girls

00:42:09 Exactly

00:42:10 Do you have sisters

00:42:11 This is how female 1.00

00:42:12 It's not

00:42:12 Don't

00:42:13 It's not therapy

00:42:14 It's female nature 1.00

00:42:15 I just want to know

00:42:16 How closely you are

00:42:17 With females 0.79

00:42:18 Guys let him finish this point

00:42:19 Sorry

00:42:20 What is your question

00:42:21 Because now you're

00:42:21 You're vibrating with misandry

00:42:23 Oh sorry

00:42:24 My bad, I took it back

00:42:27 You gotta get rid of this TV

00:42:29 So she can stop looking at herself

00:42:30 I look really nice, I like my outfit, I like my hair

00:42:33 Look I'm shining, I've got red lipstick

00:42:35 I think the reality is

00:42:37 A lot of men wouldn't be with 0.87

00:42:38 A lot of men are always talking 0.93

00:42:41 A certain way about a woman 1.00

00:42:42 Because she's not a high earner 1.00

00:42:44 And because she's not a high earner 1.00

00:42:47 She's

00:42:48 A lot of women put themselves in positions 1.00

00:42:51 With certain mindsets that

00:42:52 They want a man who is 0.99

00:42:54 Above them

00:42:55 Can you name one relationship

00:42:56 Where the woman is in charge and it works 1.00

00:42:58 I can't name a relationship

00:43:00 Where a man is in charge and it works 1.00

00:43:02 Every single one that worked

00:43:03 Every single successful relationship ever

00:43:05 The man is in charge

00:43:07 I think it's just

00:43:08 Complement each other

00:43:10 But the husband is leaving

00:43:12 That's not crazy

00:43:13 In your opinion

00:43:14 This is every successful relationship

00:43:16 This is how we are alive

00:43:18 As the man is taking lead

00:43:19 He's in charge of the household

00:43:21 And then she's running it 1.00

00:43:22 That's how it works.

00:43:23 It's common knowledge.

00:43:24 I'll be honest.

00:43:25 It's very simple.

00:43:25 Very, very, very, very few women would want to be with a man that's earning less than them. 0.67

00:43:29 I wouldn't want to be with a man that's earning less than me because I'd feel like I'd have to wear the pants in the relationship.

00:43:34 Exactly.

00:43:34 What happens when financial situations occur?

00:43:37 I'm going to have to take the heavy load of that because I am the breadwinner of the family.

00:43:41 Yeah, exactly.

00:43:41 And what you said, it's not just about who pays for stuff.

00:43:44 I mean, that's important, but it's also about respect.

00:43:46 And as I think it was Justin said before, I mean, if respect, ultimately you can't have love without respect.

00:43:51 And if she doesn't respect him,

00:43:52 she's not going to love him, really.

00:43:53 Yeah.

00:43:54 Women working is actually a madness for men now. 1.00

00:43:56 Exactly.

00:43:57 Because men now need to work a lot more 1.00

00:43:59 because women can get the same type of paying jobs as men. 0.79

00:44:02 So most men that are working an average job now,

00:44:06 they need to work 10 times harder

00:44:07 to be able to get a girl that works an average job. 1.00

00:44:09 But that's why they have this mentality

00:44:10 of suppress a woman and feel like,

00:44:12 okay, suppress these women 1.00

00:44:14 and make them think their only purpose is...

00:44:17 Be smaller so I can look bigger.

00:44:19 I don't think it's about suppressing women, though.

00:44:22 I think it's the mentality, though.

00:44:24 It's the women are like. 1.00

00:44:26 I think you want to be a victim so badly.

00:44:28 No, I don't want to be a victim.

00:44:29 I don't want to be a victim.

00:44:31 I'm not a victim.

00:44:31 It's minor feminism. 1.00

00:44:32 She wants to be a victim, and she also wants to be in charge at the same time. 1.00

00:44:35 It's like he's having a normal conversation with you,

00:44:38 and you called him a misogynist.

00:44:39 Or you said he's vibrating.

00:44:41 Vibrating.

00:44:41 Right, right, right.

00:44:43 I'm not going to take it back.

00:44:44 You don't need to, of course, because you're going to die on your hill.

00:44:47 It's very obvious.

00:44:48 Absolutely.

00:44:49 And I'm not the only person who feels like that

00:44:52 You have a very clear need to be right

00:44:54 Does anyone else vibrate with misogyny right now?

00:44:57 No

00:44:57 You're the only one

00:44:58 That's what you said

00:45:00 Yeah I'm sorry that I feel the vibe that you are a misogynist

00:45:05 And you said you weren't the only one but you are

00:45:06 And I'm happy to be the only one

00:45:08 You've got to be more specific though

00:45:10 You can't throw an accusation at somebody

00:45:12 It's like I know this isn't a court of law

00:45:14 But you can't just throw an accusation against somebody

00:45:16 And not substantiate it other than by saying

00:45:18 Well this is what I feel 1.00

00:45:19 He's moving like girls are stupid 1.00

00:45:21 That's why 1.00

00:45:22 It's because you're acting stupid 1.00

00:45:28 I'm not acting stupid 1.00

00:45:30 You've been saying nothing half the show 0.98

00:45:32 You talk a lot without any

00:45:33 When I post this content guys you see

00:45:36 The substance that I've got it's just because we're in the middle of the heat

00:45:38 People don't get what I'm trying to say

00:45:39 You're going to edit it

00:45:40 If you need an editor to make sense

00:45:44 You don't make sense

00:45:45 That was wrong

00:45:46 You just didn't say anything at all

00:45:47 You have no point of view on anything

00:45:49 Because I'm trying to fish out the information from you

00:45:51 My point of view is very simple

00:45:53 You're trying to fish out the information

00:45:55 Is this an interrogation or a conversation

00:45:57 It's a podcast, it's fun

00:45:58 But what I do is

00:45:59 The way you keep looking at the TV and talking here

00:46:02 You're here for the entertainment value

00:46:04 But you're not really here to get anywhere with the combo

00:46:05 Do you know why, I'm a teacher

00:46:07 And what I do is when people say certain things

00:46:10 I say things to make you understand

00:46:12 To make you understand

00:46:13 That what you're saying doesn't quite make a lot of sense

00:46:16 Go deeper than that

00:46:17 Because when you go deeper

00:46:17 Your arguments actually don't stand 1.00

00:46:19 You do act like girls are stupid 1.00

00:46:20 You've tried to catch me out a million times 1.00

00:46:22 I already know

00:46:23 It's funny

00:46:24 But he's on the opposing side of the argument to you though

00:46:27 You're never going to know about the female nature 1.00

00:46:28 I'm not in the opposite of things that don't make sense

00:46:30 Can I make a point? 1.00

00:46:31 You can't look stupid if you don't say something stupid 1.00

00:46:33 I don't say anything that's stupid 1.00

00:46:34 Can I say something? 1.00

00:46:35 I don't think he's making women look stupid 1.00

00:46:37 I think he's making you look stupid 1.00

00:46:39 No, he's contradicted yourself 1.00

00:46:40 I don't think you two are stupid 1.00

00:46:43 If that's how he feels, that's how he feels 0.99

00:46:44 But he says that in order to be successful

00:46:47 He studied the female nature 1.00

00:46:49 So females, again, in my opinion 1.00

00:46:51 From how you've worded it

00:46:53 I feel like you are viewing women 0.76

00:46:55 As, you know, like

00:46:58 I don't want to say beneath

00:47:00 That's why I'm using misogyny

00:47:02 Because you have this mentality

00:47:05 And it's stuck there

00:47:06 And that's what misogynistic men

00:47:09 That's how they view women 1.00

00:47:11 That's how they view the world

00:47:12 Can you define misogyny?

00:47:13 No, no, but hold on

00:47:14 Whereas in your mind

00:47:15 You might feel like

00:47:17 That's going to get you far

00:47:18 Because it's a man's world 1.00

00:47:19 In my opinion

00:47:21 I don't think it is

00:47:22 I don't think it's a man's world 1.00

00:47:24 Can you define misogyny for me?

00:47:25 I'm not going to do that

00:47:25 I'm sorry

00:47:26 You're throwing out this word

00:47:27 You don't even know what it means

00:47:28 No, I don't need to explain anything to you

00:47:29 It's not an explanation

00:47:30 It's a definition

00:47:30 Well, I don't need to define anything to you

00:47:32 I said what I said

00:47:33 And I said you're vibrating that misogyny

00:47:34 It's not what it means to me

00:47:35 There's a clear definition

00:47:36 Because obviously

00:47:37 Maybe we've got the wrong definition

00:47:39 Misogyny is hatred of women 0.98

00:47:40 Yes

00:47:40 Okay, then yeah

00:47:41 Now you know what it means?

00:47:43 No, no

00:47:43 I've been knowing what it means

00:47:45 And I feel like you have some of that embedded in you

00:47:47 Like maybe subconsciously

00:47:48 But seriously

00:47:49 You have a bit of it babe

00:47:51 Because I said so

00:47:54 Because of the points that you've made

00:47:57 Just for fun

00:47:59 Out of all the women here 1.00

00:48:01 Who thinks Sneeko is misogynistic

00:48:02 Raise your hand

00:48:03 He's like on the spectrum

00:48:06 But the majority of us here

00:48:08 We're not obviously only one person

00:48:10 Put their hand up

00:48:11 It's funny how the two feminists raise their hand. 1.00

00:48:13 Well, she's not a feminist. 1.00

00:48:15 She's not a feminist. 1.00

00:48:16 You just make no sense.

00:48:17 She doesn't stand for feminist values.

00:48:18 I don't make sense because I don't label myself as A or B.

00:48:21 I just am what I know.

00:48:22 Different experiences require...

00:48:23 You just said you don't label yourself as A or B,

00:48:25 but you said you're not a feminist. 1.00

00:48:27 Yeah.

00:48:28 You've contradicted yourself this whole thing.

00:48:29 How?

00:48:29 Because I don't label myself as a feminist? 0.89

00:48:31 I just say what makes sense?

00:48:32 No, it's because you talk out of both sides of your mouth.

00:48:34 Because what?

00:48:35 You make circles and you talk out of both sides of your mouth.

00:48:37 Of course I talk out of both sides of your mouth.

00:48:38 I feel like the whole, like, I'm not feminine.

00:48:42 Are you proud of that?

00:48:43 Is that, like, you're happy about that?

00:48:45 That is fun.

00:48:46 Makes it exciting.

00:48:46 Well, she's just here for the concert.

00:48:48 I'm here to argue.

00:48:50 I'm here to make you understand that what you say,

00:48:52 and the way you so forcefully say that this is what it is,

00:48:55 no, it's not.

00:48:56 Well, then you have a point of view.

00:48:57 He's got wounded masculine energy.

00:48:59 But if he was to say it softly, he would be sassy.

00:49:01 I can feel it still.

00:49:02 No, he wouldn't.

00:49:02 Yes, Grace, I agree.

00:49:03 But if he was to say it softly, he would be soft,

00:49:05 and he would be sassy.

00:49:06 Listen, what?

00:49:07 What do you guys want?

00:49:08 I don't want anything

00:49:09 Because if he was to say it

00:49:09 Softly and less firmly

00:49:11 You guys would call him

00:49:11 Soft and sassy

00:49:12 No no no

00:49:13 I already told him he's sweet

00:49:14 I already had a conversation with him

00:49:16 So am I misogynist

00:49:16 Or am I sweet

00:49:17 No your problem is

00:49:18 And when you put yourself

00:49:20 With the camera

00:49:20 Yeah

00:49:21 The reason why this is going on

00:49:22 Is because

00:49:23 You come with an attitude

00:49:24 It's just between you two

00:49:25 No I

00:49:26 But I feel it

00:49:26 And I agree with her

00:49:27 And I'm not actually

00:49:28 Being with her

00:49:28 I'm just personally

00:49:29 Did you feel the vibrations as well

00:49:30 No no personally

00:49:31 From how you speak

00:49:32 You raised your hand

00:49:33 From how you speak right

00:49:34 And from how

00:49:35 The words you choose to say

00:49:36 And how you say it

00:49:37 So do you think

00:49:37 I'm misogynist

00:49:38 Yes or no

00:49:38 You see how you

00:49:40 You have ideology

00:49:41 Misogynistic ideology

00:49:42 Can you have a point of view

00:49:43 On anything

00:49:43 You're missing

00:49:44 You've got

00:49:44 Yeah you've got that ideology

00:49:46 A little bit

00:49:47 For sure

00:49:47 I don't think you have

00:49:48 A hatred towards women 0.83

00:49:49 I think you're just stating

00:49:50 The facts in modern day society

00:49:51 Yeah it's difficult

00:49:52 It's not necessarily

00:49:53 It's not necessarily

00:49:54 Like a particular view

00:49:57 But it's actually

00:49:57 What is going on

00:49:58 In today's world

00:49:59 I think

00:50:00 I think feminists 1.00

00:50:01 Hate women 1.00

00:50:02 They do 0.99

00:50:02 Yeah they do

00:50:03 They do

00:50:03 They do 1.00

00:50:04 She was shitting on motherhood 0.99

00:50:05 More than I ever did 1.00

00:50:06 I said that was the highest form

00:50:07 Of a woman's life 1.00

00:50:09 Is to raise kids

00:50:09 And she compared it to cows

00:50:10 Like that's

00:50:11 That's more misogynistic

00:50:12 Than anything I could have said

00:50:14 Imagine if I said that

00:50:15 Having kids

00:50:16 Oh you want to have kids 0.98

00:50:17 You're a cow 0.82

00:50:18 You're just going to breed kids 1.00

00:50:19 Ugh 0.99

00:50:20 That's hating women 1.00

00:50:22 You know it's crazy

00:50:22 The reaction channels

00:50:23 Will pull that clip

00:50:24 And then say that you said it

00:50:25 But we're here for a conversation

00:50:28 Not to get edited up

00:50:29 Yeah

00:50:30 Going back to you guys' point

00:50:32 Why

00:50:32 Because I'm only 23

00:50:34 So I'm kind of torn between

00:50:35 whether i would want to continue working after i have kids from your opinion like why would you

00:50:41 feel like women working is something that they shouldn't do it's not that you should or shouldn't 1.00

00:50:47 it's just ideally no if you're with the right man then you wouldn't have to work if you want to you

00:50:50 can but i would rather that you raise the kids yeah who's who's gonna be watching the kids when

00:50:56 you're at work some babysitter that's very and so then you have a stranger influencing your kid

00:51:01 more than you are and you have to look at it as a place of trust and love he picked you he he

00:51:07 trusts you and picked you over every woman in the world put his children in you and instilled that

00:51:12 trust in you to take care of them while he's away making sure the family's taken care of

00:51:16 is there a more important duty i just listen i think that women in the workplace i think women 0.92

00:51:22 kill it in fact my construction company all of my managers outside the managers that are in the

00:51:28 field are women. And they're very good at it. They're very organized. I call them my Trojan 1.00

00:51:32 horses because they get more in a negotiation than a man could because it's not a dick measuring

00:51:36 thing, right? But at the same time, a lot of those women are past 1.00

00:51:40 the years of being a mother and their kids are grown and they're in their 50s

00:51:44 and they're professional businesswomen. But I suspect that

00:51:48 any woman that gets a high level guy 1.00

00:51:52 who chooses her and chooses to trust

00:51:55 her with one of the most important things in this world his children that should be an honor past

00:52:01 any other job that i can think of for a woman now does that mean that a woman can't go out there and 1.00

00:52:08 make money and have an impact on the world outside of being a mother no it doesn't women can just by 1.00

00:52:13 and largely on the macro what a beautiful job to have and it's just a warning sign i'm not trying

00:52:19 to be misogynistic but i'm telling you like having cats and rapping is not where you're going to find

00:52:24 your higher purpose and it's not going to give you the satisfaction in life that you could find

00:52:27 if you submit it to a man and it's submitting doesn't have to be suppressing it's not misogynistic

00:52:31 to submit to your husband that's a woman's happiest state is submitting to a man that she 0.95

00:52:36 loves he's 100 right you know you know what i believe if if more women would take that role 0.95

00:52:42 there'd be less women on antidepressants but there are a lot of women here who are willing 1.00

00:52:47 to take that role so what is your point there are a lot of women who share this mentality you're not 1.00

00:52:51 different than them no i am i've made that clear i'm not gonna lie you're not like other women no

00:52:56 i'm not i don't want what other women or traditional women or women that are that what 1.00

00:53:03 every woman wants i have a different dream i have a different purpose and that's just to be a rapper

00:53:08 no did i say that i'm asking what's your dream no i'm sorry that i don't dream to

00:53:13 what's your aim what's your aim in life that's not what's your end goal what i'm on is what i'm

00:53:18 I'm a rapper, that's as far as it goes

00:53:21 Let's say you became the world's biggest rapper

00:53:25 And you took that to the extreme

00:53:28 Is that more impactful on the world at 65 than having five kids?

00:53:34 Because when you're gone, who cares?

00:53:37 Your career's gone

00:53:38 What do you have to show for it in the world?

00:53:41 My music

00:53:42 Stream it, love it

00:53:45 That's better than a child

00:53:50 No, no one said that

00:53:52 But I'm just saying

00:53:53 You're not saying anything

00:53:55 What I'm saying is

00:53:57 Back to what this guy said

00:54:00 I just don't like them

00:54:01 I keep saying it because I can see it

00:54:03 So you skipped the dream part

00:54:06 I'm misogynistic

00:54:06 What?

00:54:09 You are misogynistic but you're not going to admit it

00:54:12 That's the thing 0.99

00:54:13 You think I hate women? 1.00

00:54:14 You don't think 0.82

00:54:15 But yes I do 0.75

00:54:16 You hate some of the women 0.98

00:54:17 That you probably met

00:54:17 Actually you know

00:54:19 I figured it out

00:54:20 I don't hate women at all 1.00

00:54:22 You said that you're not

00:54:23 Like other women 1.00

00:54:24 I don't like that

00:54:25 I don't like women 1.00

00:54:26 Who think that they're different

00:54:27 Who want to be men 0.85

00:54:28 Who want to be rappers

00:54:29 Who don't want to be

00:54:30 I have no problem with women 1.00

00:54:31 I have a problem with women 1.00

00:54:32 That don't even 0.83

00:54:33 Can't define misogyny

00:54:34 But call me misogynistic

00:54:36 That prefer rapping 0.62

00:54:37 Over having children

00:54:38 But I literally asked you

00:54:39 I wouldn't even consider that womanhood 1.00

00:54:40 I literally asked you

00:54:41 What did I just ask you

00:54:42 I said

00:54:43 What

00:54:43 Do you hate women and you said 0.99

00:54:46 Oh I don't hate women but I hate women that fix 1.00

00:54:48 So yeah I wouldn't even really consider 0.92

00:54:50 That a woman I don't I don't really find

00:54:52 You very feminine you're not you're not 1.00

00:54:53 You're not and that's that's okay 0.95

00:54:56 I don't find you masculine so 1.00

00:54:57 The feeling is mutual my point

00:55:00 But you have the mentality

00:55:01 On of these social media men like the men

00:55:04 On social media who have so much to say

00:55:06 Internet worry is like they've

00:55:08 Got so much to say about what a woman should do 1.00

00:55:10 How a woman should dress how a woman should 1.00

00:55:12 Like, look, you're not feminine. 0.97

00:55:13 Like, oh, yeah, there are women that are not feminine women. 1.00

00:55:16 Like, this is the real world.

00:55:17 Yeah, and they die alone.

00:55:21 They don't get picked.

00:55:22 Women outlive men anyways. 1.00

00:55:24 And why would you want to get picked?

00:55:25 It's not a competition.

00:55:26 I'm not saying it is, but statistically women outlive men. 0.99

00:55:29 So what's your point?

00:55:30 My point is that it's not misogyny.

00:55:33 So you do have subconsciously, like, you have misogynistic views, yes.

00:55:39 No, it's not any.

00:55:40 You do.

00:55:40 And that's coming from a woman 1.00

00:55:43 Okay, you're not very womanly 0.95

00:55:45 But the majority of the women in the room 1.00

00:55:48 Said he wasn't misogynist

00:55:49 And the majority of the women in this room 1.00

00:55:51 Come from religious backgrounds

00:55:53 Etc, etc, so they have a certain

00:55:56 Mentality

00:55:56 I didn't come from a religious background

00:55:59 My mum's Catholic, but she never

00:56:01 Pushed it upon us when we was growing up

00:56:03 I grew up pretty much with no religion

00:56:04 I've been to church maybe twice in my life

00:56:07 So I wouldn't say I grew up with a religious background

00:56:09 i don't think he's misogynistic and i'm also grew up in a church but my parents didn't talk to me

00:56:13 about marriage until my 20s because it was you know i was too young so i've only just discovered

00:56:19 and like these things and preferred these things just recently so let me explain let me explain

00:56:23 what your vibration and what you're saying and why a lot of people watch the show and the importance

00:56:27 of these podcasts is that there's a frustration that men have dealing with western women because

00:56:31 they're extremely masculine they're combative they think that they're equal they don't make

00:56:35 a lot of sense they talk out of their mouth they're always on social media and then when

00:56:39 you travel outside of the west and you see women who are actually feminine i just spent three weeks

00:56:42 in japan and it is a breath of fresh air to see women who are naturally in that state who act like 1.00

00:56:47 women who don't prioritize rapping over being mothers people who are happy that there's a binary

00:56:53 that there's men and women there's none of this confusion there's none of this back and forth

00:56:57 there's not this competition that's what the frustration is is that this is not natural the

00:57:01 way that you're acting your career path and your dreams your unwillingness to define misogyny

00:57:06 your worldview is frustrating to deal with it's not hatred it's i'm trying to explain that and

00:57:11 why men and probably why it's going to be difficult for you to settle down with the husband because 1.00

00:57:15 you don't want to submit to a man and that's how we're going to be happiest that's why there's a

00:57:19 rise in depression that's why there's a rise in suicide and antidepressants and all this

00:57:22 this is the root of the problem is feminism it's it's it's not it has nothing to do with hatred 1.00

00:57:27 has nothing to do with uh but me hating you i i honestly don't care about you i probably wouldn't 0.55

00:57:33 talk to you if this wasn't on a podcast i'm trying to explain a feeling that a lot of people are

00:57:36 gravitating to and why red pill is blowing up so much because it's tapping into this feeling that

00:57:40 a lot of people realize now and they don't really know why but this is what it is can i say something

00:57:45 quickly do you know why i like african men more in terms of like my taste because culturally the

00:57:50 same way that you're saying when you go outside the west when you go outside the west when i go

00:57:54 outside the west i'm more likely to find your average guy as an african man who has done a lot

00:57:59 more manly things the west the men in the west actually they are a bit soft in the sense of yeah

00:58:05 you can go make your money and have a career but being a man is more than the money in your pocket

00:58:09 so actually the problem goes both ways there's a lot of men that are not doing what they're

00:58:13 meant to do as naturally masculine men no absolutely and i mean i always say because

00:58:18 i travel around quite a lot you know i've been to eastern europe but also into um uh into south

00:58:23 america as well and you when you go outside of the west when you go outside of the anglosphere

00:58:26 you see the difference.

00:58:28 You see a lot of this stuff that we're talking about now is very culturally

00:58:31 defined.

00:58:31 It's very,

00:58:32 it's a,

00:58:32 it's a hothouse of this debate that's going on in England and it's going on

00:58:36 in America and it's going on in Canada and Australia outside of the,

00:58:39 these places.

00:58:40 It's very,

00:58:40 very different.

00:58:41 It doesn't exist.

00:58:42 Yeah.

00:58:43 And my point is that it's not really what you naturally want.

00:58:46 You've been programmed by social media.

00:58:47 You've been programmed.

00:58:48 I guarantee you listen to Meg DeStallion and Cardi B.

00:58:50 You follow a lot of celebrities on Instagram and I guarantee you have a lot

00:58:53 of provocative pictures on Instagram.

00:58:54 This is what happens when you follow that path

00:58:57 And when you think that being a mother

00:58:59 Is comparable to being a cow

00:59:00 It's not what you naturally want 0.92

00:59:03 You have been brainwashed

00:59:03 And you wouldn't be with a woman who makes more than you 0.99

00:59:06 So you're brainwashed yourself, babe

00:59:08 You would find it emasculating

00:59:10 Like you don't like the fact that there's women now 1.00

00:59:12 Who can earn the same amount as you

00:59:14 Doing the same thing as you

00:59:16 Actually earn more than you

00:59:17 Doing the same thing as you

00:59:18 I asked you to name one relationship where that's worked

00:59:21 And I've asked you the same question and you couldn't

00:59:23 So what's your point?

00:59:24 A relationship where the man's in charge 0.78

00:59:26 And the man makes more

00:59:27 Can I tell a factual story

00:59:29 Cardi B, one of the biggest rappers

00:59:32 Actually came out on Twitter

00:59:33 And she said she wants to stop rapping

00:59:35 And just focus on raising her children 1.00

00:59:36 Because that's what makes her happy

00:59:38 So do you still feel like being a rapper

00:59:40 Is what's going to give you genuine happiness

00:59:42 If the biggest rapper in the world

00:59:44 Is willing to give that up

00:59:46 She got cash

00:59:46 And they sell you a lie

00:59:49 They go on a song and say I don't cook, I don't clean

00:59:51 And then they really want to

00:59:53 Or Beyonce will make a song, all the single ladies, and she's married. 1.00

00:59:56 And stayed with a guy that she did.

00:59:58 And they're instilling this brainwashing because it sounds good because it makes you feel empowered.

01:00:02 It gives you dopamine in the moment, but it's not really what gives you long-term serotonin, actual happiness, actual higher purpose.

01:00:08 It's a drug.

01:00:09 It's like smoking a cigarette.

01:00:10 Can you hunt?

01:00:12 Yeah, I can.

01:00:13 Yeah?

01:00:13 Can you fight?

01:00:14 Of course.

01:00:15 Okay, that's good.

01:00:16 I can do fighting.

01:00:18 So you're good.

01:00:19 You're still a hard man deep down.

01:00:21 Even though you started a career online looking for trouble

01:00:24 You're still a man

01:00:24 There's a lot of men

01:00:26 That can't do that

01:00:28 I'll ask them can you hunt

01:00:29 And we tell them to

01:00:32 And this is the reason that Justin Waller is so successful

01:00:34 And why people need this online

01:00:35 Is because men can't live in this 1.00

01:00:37 I don't believe in, I'm not going to say

01:00:39 You need to improve or else you're going to fall behind

01:00:41 Women can believe in this delusional 1.00

01:00:43 They can just believe in nothing

01:00:45 They can say I'm going to be a rapper with cats when I'm 65

01:00:48 And then people won't check you

01:00:49 And if I do check you, I'm misogynistic

01:00:51 When you uplift men and you tell them the truth, it's like, yo, thank you for telling me that.

01:00:54 I need to improve.

01:00:55 Women don't want to hear it. 1.00

01:00:56 They want to stay in this cycle of nothing.

01:00:59 Yeah.

01:00:59 I guess, I mean, because obviously you're not sitting here with guys that are not like you, then you can't sit here and obviously say, yeah, women are also acting a bit more masculine. 0.99

01:01:08 I do.

01:01:09 I have my friends from back in the day, from back in New York.

01:01:11 A lot of them are still in the same spot that they were in college.

01:01:12 And I tell them, man, you got to step your game up.

01:01:14 That's good.

01:01:15 I'll talk to them the same way.

01:01:16 It sounds aggressive, but people need to hear that because no one talks to them like that.

01:01:20 Okay, so that's nice because you saying that and you being able to own up to that brings more balance to your argument.

01:01:25 Because the problem is when we sit in these conversations, we're usually saying women, women, women, women.

01:01:29 Well, the difference is for the men to get on this podcast, here's the difference.

01:01:33 You can just be a girl and be on this podcast.

01:01:35 We don't really care what you've done.

01:01:36 To be a man on this podcast, you've had to have done something.

01:01:39 You think they're going to go to a club and recruit guys to be here?

01:01:43 You wouldn't sit here.

01:01:45 These guys are accomplished in their field.

01:01:46 That's why we get to sit down with average women. 1.00

01:01:48 And do you know why you get to sit down with average women? 1.00

01:01:51 Not me included, obviously.

01:01:53 You're above average, you're different.

01:01:54 Thank you.

01:01:55 Because actually there's a massive need and, you know,

01:02:00 urge for people to get onto women, which I do get. 0.98

01:02:03 But then there's also a moment where you have to chill out

01:02:05 because you're not actually speaking to just average women.

01:02:08 You don't actually know this from anywhere.

01:02:09 So when you have an attitude of almost like wanting to make us patronize

01:02:14 almost what we say with such a challenge,

01:02:18 Yeah, that's why you come across as misogyny

01:02:20 Well, I need to get through because this is a common problem

01:02:22 That a lot of guys face

01:02:23 She started off by saying she's vibrating with misogyny 0.99

01:02:25 You're vibrating, not me

01:02:27 And what I feel to say

01:02:29 And then people don't check that

01:02:30 It's important to check that out

01:02:32 You can't just let that slide

01:02:33 Hold on, what I feel to say

01:02:34 Actually, never mind

01:02:37 Exactly, you need to call it out when people make no sense

01:02:40 Or else we're going to keep living in clown world

01:02:42 Can I challenge you both? 0.54

01:02:43 Can I challenge you both?

01:02:46 So...

01:02:46 i feel like these new age internet men are like very destructive to these young men out there

01:02:52 because you have of you have an opinion you have a voice you're very vocal about it and you stand

01:02:57 strong in your point and like you know you've got this andrew tate passport bros things that

01:03:01 what you're getting at because you're kind of that's all going back in different countries

01:03:05 women are feminine la de la de la sounding like some nonsense stuff that other guys jump because 1.00

01:03:10 the guy's never going to look at a woman to for influence like let's be real and real we're not 0.85

01:03:15 real men a lot of men will not look and this is where um in rap and other careers fields where

01:03:22 women are at the top men will not they look they don't look at you and think oh yeah but this 0.63

01:03:29 person can influence this this person can influence me or this person like it can't come from a woman 0.98

01:03:34 but whereas if andrew tate does it it's like oh yeah let's jump on the bandwagon because he's a

01:03:38 guy i'm a guy like you only want to relate to someone because of yeah but a gender role like

01:03:43 Let's be real.

01:03:44 One of the reasons that's happening, though,

01:03:46 is because people like Tate and, you know,

01:03:48 the gentleman sitting here are redressing the balance

01:03:51 because the reason that they've been so popular

01:03:54 and they've blown up to such an extent

01:03:55 is because they're going against what is the prevailing narrative.

01:03:58 And the prevailing narrative is basically telling guys,

01:04:00 you know, be a nice guy, buy our flowers, you know,

01:04:04 take on 15 dates, you know, this kind of thing.

01:04:05 And all of that kind of thing hasn't worked.

01:04:08 But the first thing that he said is that he's a nice guy.

01:04:10 So refine what you mean by...

01:04:11 But he's a nice guy.

01:04:12 yeah so what does that mean then so he's a nice guy but he's like this and he's like that like

01:04:16 it's not making any sense like i said these internet boys a lot of men on the internet

01:04:20 are being brainwashed like they are being like the women okay yeah the women are being brainwashed 1.00

01:04:25 but yeah we have maybe a few sensible men who can go you know you're not gonna go for every

01:04:29 single woman anyways there's one wife okay i need you what did they say what did they say that's not

01:04:34 true what have they said andrew tate andrew tate one thing he said not true i don't disagree with

01:04:41 what andrew tate says i'm just saying that he's influenced what what what does he say it's how

01:04:46 he's saying it like there's a way to say it and i don't agree that's enough that's enough that's

01:04:54 enough that's the perfect point because brainwashing implies that you're lying that you're

01:04:58 feeding him a lie it's not what i'm saying because you can't refute any of it it's how i'm saying it

01:05:02 and this is the western world we prioritize the way you feel your vibrations of misogyny over what

01:05:07 is true and what's false but people are not going to listen to you if you're not telling the truth

01:05:11 If what you're saying is flying over a lot of people's heads,

01:05:14 all you want,

01:05:15 no,

01:05:15 not mine.

01:05:16 Cause I don't believe in what you're saying.

01:05:18 Anyway,

01:05:18 it's like you,

01:05:19 you said,

01:05:20 you know,

01:05:20 a woman's nature,

01:05:21 like you don't,

01:05:22 you will never know a woman's nature.

01:05:24 You don't bleed once a month,

01:05:25 bro.

01:05:25 You're never going to know what it's like.

01:05:27 No,

01:05:27 but it's a woman's nature. 1.00

01:05:28 So what are you talking about?

01:05:30 It's a woman's nature, 1.00

01:05:31 female nature. 1.00

01:05:34 I want to hear from you.

01:05:36 I just,

01:05:36 you haven't talked much.

01:05:37 Yeah,

01:05:37 no,

01:05:38 I don't think that's got anything to do with it.

01:05:40 And another thing,

01:05:40 I want to go back to the misogyny thing

01:05:42 I feel like people just throw around

01:05:44 Whatever they feel

01:05:46 Whatever they want to say

01:05:47 But they don't want to hold accountability for it

01:05:49 Like you don't

01:05:50 You can just say whatever

01:05:51 You can say whatever

01:05:53 But he can't say the same thing

01:05:55 Because then he will

01:05:56 You know 1.00

01:05:56 You will throw a bitch for it 1.00

01:05:58 Can I challenge the both of you 1.00

01:05:59 I'm sure most of you guys can agree

01:06:01 That men are becoming more feminine 1.00

01:06:03 Can you kind of understand why

01:06:06 That's forced women to almost become more masculine 1.00

01:06:09 But this is why

01:06:10 No, but that's because of women. 1.00

01:06:11 Can we just say one thing, though?

01:06:13 This is why, because you've mentioned Andrew Tate,

01:06:16 people like that, and obviously, as you said,

01:06:18 the gentleman here, the reason that those people

01:06:20 have risen to prominence is because the West

01:06:24 is out of balance, right?

01:06:25 They are there redressing the balance.

01:06:27 They're going against the prevailing narrative.

01:06:29 And the main thing that they're preaching,

01:06:31 everybody, is self-improvement, because men have to, 0.96

01:06:33 like you said, men have to step up.

01:06:35 We don't get a choice to not step up.

01:06:38 We can't just say, oh, well, I'm just, you know,

01:06:40 I'm just living my truth and you know it's all going to be fine we have to put in the work

01:06:44 otherwise we're just going to get left on the sidelines women have more advantage than that 1.00

01:06:47 for the most part but to go back sorry to stop you just to go back to my question like can you

01:06:52 both understand why women have now become more masculine so for example like a woman her husband 0.93

01:06:57 has left the family and now she's forced to become more masculine and work and just do more masculine 1.00

01:07:02 things so would you guys now look down on her because she's been forced to play a position 0.96

01:07:07 that she had no choice but to play.

01:07:09 Yeah, but women leave more marriages than men do. 1.00

01:07:12 Like 80% of divorces are initiated by women.

01:07:15 I forgot what to add to that.

01:07:16 And women always worked. 1.00

01:07:17 They just worked in the house.

01:07:20 Like they always worked.

01:07:20 They were in the field, in the plow.

01:07:23 Like if anything, they worked more

01:07:24 in previous generations, I would say.

01:07:26 But they still kept their femininity.

01:07:27 What I'm trying to say is that

01:07:28 women have become more masculine. 0.93

01:07:30 And I feel like, do you guys somewhat understand why?

01:07:34 Or do you think we're just waking up

01:07:35 and deciding let's just be feminine?

01:07:36 because as much as i feel like feminism is a dark thing there's a slight part of me that can

01:07:41 understand why women have been forced to play this masculine role and do you guys even acknowledge 0.53

01:07:46 it or do you guys still think it's a mindset this is why it's not misogyny is i completely

01:07:50 understand why i think a lot of trans people for example are men turning into women because it's

01:07:54 getting harder to perform as a man and so they'd rather go and become women in that sense the

01:07:58 brainwashing is equal there's there's an equal amount of brainwashing on the on the masculine 1.00

01:08:02 side to become more feminine and to paint your nails and to to act like that and you see it

01:08:08 being pushed by youtube and these platforms they encourage it they clap it they're very

01:08:12 yes queen they say yes queen to men you see who the men that are getting propped up in the most

01:08:16 famous pop stars and music celebrity they're they're all they you see the agenda it's and

01:08:22 that's the problem with the world the problem with the world is actually weak men i in no way shape

01:08:27 or form would ever allow it to come out of my mouth that this is women's fault it is weak men 0.99

01:08:31 that is letting these things happen if we if men got together and said this this promiscuity is 0.99

01:08:37 bullshit if men got together and said hey we need to step up and be stronger and be better that is 0.97

01:08:43 the only thing that i allow a woman to actually let go and let him take that masculine role the 1.00

01:08:48 women hold on and it's hard for women because they're like fuck can this fucker do it can he 1.00

01:08:53 take care of me or is he gonna come home and cry to me about his job no seriously like because you 1.00

01:08:57 come home we were talking we had a heated conversation yesterday about why men should

01:09:01 not go cry to their woman i am a big believer that a man should never cry or show emotion from

01:09:06 a woman and the reason is because you're if you were to translate the words he's screaming i can't 0.86

01:09:11 take care of the situation you can't trust me and so the woman's like man i better get masculine 1.00

01:09:16 real quick it's like what you're talking about with the man dies women are scared that a man 0.98

01:09:20 cannot that because men are weak men are fucking weak and if men were stronger women could trust 0.96

01:09:25 them more and let go and whether you like it or not fall into that feminine frame because i think 0.99

01:09:31 that's what they're naturally propense to do so would you say weak men is the roots of

01:09:37 absolutely the weak men are the biggest problem in the world weak men are in charge now it used

01:09:42 to be that the the masculine leader the fighter is somebody like that the the warrior would lead

01:09:47 charge but ever since technology social media you could be able to poke girls i would say this

01:09:51 all the time mark zuckerberg and created facebook he was a nerd and he started like he based facebook

01:09:56 off of hot or not and so now this nerd was able to go and uh own the sexual marketplace he was

01:10:02 able to judge all these women who would have he would have never had access to before and that

01:10:06 was a shift in 2007 now the nerd is in charge rather than the warrior so now that they've

01:10:11 acknowledged that men can be weak would you still say they're misogynistic

01:10:15 not can be are men are weak and that's why andrew is so popular yeah but my point is that the fact

01:10:23 that the both of you can actually sit here and acknowledge

01:10:25 that men

01:10:25 being weak is the cause of

01:10:28 you know just this destruction of

01:10:30 relationships could you now

01:10:32 see that they are not misogynistic

01:10:35 if they can see both sides of the

01:10:37 you know panel

01:10:38 plane whatever the saying is

01:10:40 no comment

01:10:42 guys

01:10:44 I'm going to take a second to read super chat

01:10:46 Sneeko I know you have to get going

01:10:49 I can read some

01:10:49 I got some time

01:10:51 Okay, okay, I don't want to, okay.

01:10:54 So, guys, I'm going to read all Super Chats that are over $20,

01:10:57 so if you want me to read your Super Chat, make sure it's over $20

01:11:00 because we're not reading the ones below it.

01:11:03 Okay.

01:11:03 Quickly, though, you can give a comment.

01:11:05 It's okay.

01:11:05 We don't need to keep on arguing.

01:11:07 I understand you don't want to submit and you think it's suppressing,

01:11:10 but we can be on the same page.

01:11:11 If you can submit to me, then we can be on the same page.

01:11:14 Submit to what?

01:11:15 As in my femininity.

01:11:17 Submit to your femininity? 1.00

01:11:18 Yeah, as in come home to her, give a kiss, sometimes like Donna.

01:11:21 Cook for me, clean for me, do what you think a woman needs to do and have the baby. 1.00

01:11:25 So do you want a masculine man or a feminine man? 1.00

01:11:28 What?

01:11:29 Obviously a masculine, like obviously.

01:11:31 Men don't know each other.

01:11:32 So if you want a masculine man, then I can't submit to you.

01:11:36 Oh.

01:11:38 Do you want a relationship or not?

01:11:40 With somebody, not me.

01:11:43 Definitely not you.

01:11:44 Because what you're saying makes no sense.

01:11:45 What am I saying?

01:11:47 You're saying that you want me to submit to you and you want me to cook and clean for you,

01:11:50 But also you want a masculine man 1.00

01:11:51 Maybe let your guard down a little bit

01:11:53 Become more vulnerable

01:11:54 That's what men do 0.99

01:11:55 You know

01:11:55 Men do cook 0.99

01:11:56 Men do clean 0.97

01:11:57 Men do submissive things 0.68

01:11:58 Do you want a husband

01:11:59 That's going to cook and clean for you 0.66

01:12:00 Cooking is not submissive

01:12:01 Cooking is just a

01:12:02 It's a simple question

01:12:03 Yeah but he's saying

01:12:04 So are you saying that

01:12:05 Cooking and cleaning

01:12:05 As a man is submissive then

01:12:07 Yes

01:12:07 That's crazy

01:12:09 Do you want a husband

01:12:10 That cooks and cleans for you

01:12:11 Why not

01:12:11 Okay

01:12:12 Have you ever been in love

01:12:14 Of course

01:12:15 Okay

01:12:15 So when you were with your girlfriend

01:12:17 Were you always this like

01:12:19 I'm a man

01:12:19 or you're not able to just like chill out a little bit

01:12:22 and cuddle with her 0.94

01:12:23 and sometimes she's the one giving you a massage 1.00

01:12:25 and you're giving a kiss and being cute to her.

01:12:27 I've tried, it doesn't work.

01:12:28 Oh, it does work.

01:12:29 That's actually quite nice.

01:12:30 A lot of men, the men that find a white woman can do that,

01:12:32 not anymore.

01:12:33 Okay.

01:12:34 Well, there you go.

01:12:34 Yes.

01:12:35 No, but I do know a lot of men

01:12:37 and I know this because that's the reason why

01:12:39 I always say men talk so much

01:12:40 but they don't know each other

01:12:41 as deep as they think they do

01:12:43 because men change completely

01:12:44 in the private company of a woman as well.

01:12:47 But that's why power couples make all the big moves 1.00

01:12:49 in this world because it takes a man and a woman i say there are power couples in the world but i

01:12:54 think most couples that are successful aren't really a power couple it's just a very very

01:12:59 strong man and a very very supportive on board woman now there is jay-z and beontae but i do

01:13:04 think they're outliers i don't i don't think they're not the best example what's going on

01:13:09 in that relationship they don't seem that happy to me i'm not gonna lie there's been public 0.76

01:13:12 well they're fighting over who has the dick honestly in a lot of ways and i don't think 0.79

01:13:16 that's healthy at all in no way do i think a man and a woman in a relationship should compete for 0.95

01:13:22 who the man is going to be and i think that's probably the overarching problem with feminism 1.00

01:13:26 is that you have a man and a woman in this power struggle over something that has traditionally 0.66

01:13:30 been successful being the man's role and that's not to belittle a woman it's to put her in her

01:13:35 grace and her beauty and everything that's wonderful about women it's it's it's a lane

01:13:39 thing and and nobody's you know it's not about being right or wrong it's like what are we wired

01:13:44 to do. I agree with you

01:13:46 earlier, I would never drop my children off

01:13:48 to a daycare

01:13:50 with men running it. Women 1.00

01:13:52 are better at it. They're nurturing. They have these

01:13:54 skill sets. It's about that.

01:13:56 It's not about, you know, which one of

01:13:58 us are going to take the lead because I

01:14:00 cannot find a relationship, and I would

01:14:02 challenge you to, find a relationship that's

01:14:04 really going to work where the woman's the leader 1.00

01:14:06 and the alpha, how can she 0.99

01:14:08 respect him? And if she doesn't respect him,

01:14:10 how can she love him? I mean, there's

01:14:12 the queen, Margaret Thatcher,

01:14:14 That's a good example of her being the prime minister and her husband. 0.99

01:14:18 I would call it an outlier.

01:14:19 I'd call it an outlier.

01:14:20 If you took a hundred relationships, you still probably wouldn't have the queen or Margaret Thatcher in it.

01:14:26 And I can tell you, the more dominant she gets, and Pearl will probably admit this, 0.99

01:14:29 the bigger your channel gets, the harder it will be to find a man on your level because you make a lot of money.

01:14:36 Facts.

01:14:36 Are you ready for that?

01:14:37 I do okay.

01:14:38 But you're very based

01:14:41 And you do understand

01:14:41 The more influence you get

01:14:43 The taller you are

01:14:44 The more money you get

01:14:45 The harder it is

01:14:47 But you can still find

01:14:49 I want to correct something

01:14:52 It's not intimidating to guys

01:14:53 No guy is intimidated by what I do

01:14:55 It's not intimidating

01:14:57 It just doesn't typically work in relationships 0.84

01:15:01 When the woman makes more than the man 1.00

01:15:02 So they're a bit more shook

01:15:03 No they're not

01:15:05 Yeah, because they know that if they go trying with Pearl because she's a G and I'm not, I'm going to get hurt because I may fall in love with a girl that is not going to look up to me. 0.97

01:15:14 So I better not go there.

01:15:15 I'm a bit shook still.

01:15:16 Pearl, how many men do you know that are taller than you that make more money than you? 1.00

01:15:20 How many?

01:15:23 Not many.

01:15:25 But, yeah, I know a couple, but not many.

01:15:27 I have a question.

01:15:30 oh is your like podcast more important to you than like settling down and having children

01:15:36 no no it's not okay then that's nice so you're gonna have the kit of the jpt thing so once

01:15:43 say you was to find someone not to like interview but if say you was to find someone and they would

01:15:47 want you to like give up this whole podcast thing and you are in love with them to have a family

01:15:51 would you do it yeah oh that's so refreshing to hear yeah because not a loved woman i'd sell the

01:15:56 equipment though i need to get my money back on it he'd say you guys he'd tell you to put in

01:16:02 storage you know that's one of those things but that's kind of what makes her a hero in a lot of

01:16:06 ways because she's sitting here doing this thing that's going to counteract really finding that

01:16:10 dude and and she's out here telling so many women hey listen you're probably going to be more happy

01:16:17 like this at the expense of honestly herself in a lot of ways this is a very expensive penthouse 0.98

01:16:22 right it's a very big channel she has it's like people talk about boss bitches like she's employing 1.00

01:16:28 a lot of people you know like you want to talk about god's work like shout out to pearl for that

01:16:32 you know i'll argue with you on a subject if we have to but let's call a spade a spade what she's 0.98

01:16:37 doing is pretty selfless in that regard yeah i guess so she made plenty of money as well from 1.00

01:16:42 that it makes it hard it's gonna make it harder for her because even she knows she could get a 1.00

01:16:47 man right but the likelihood of him being like what are you 5 11 6 6 yeah 6 foot tall yeah 6 foot

01:16:55 tall so that that that's down to 1 percent of the male population before the money right before the 1.00

01:17:00 money and and the clout like think about you're talking about 0.00 put that in the delusion

01:17:07 calculator and you guys still aren't listening to what i mean katie perry's her net worth is higher 1.00

01:17:12 Than her husband she did alright so

01:17:14 I mean what other option do I have

01:17:16 I would die alone

01:17:17 Okay I'm going to read super

01:17:22 Chats 0.99

01:17:23 Guys make sure you like

01:17:26 The video and subscribe to the channel

01:17:28 Okay

01:17:29 God of Legends why Sneeko has on

01:17:32 Why does Sneeko have on feminine 0.99

01:17:34 Pants that is like skinny

01:17:36 Jeans women wore in the 90s 0.77

01:17:38 He is wearing

01:17:39 Pure

01:17:41 um nut hugger pants um gora legends um true that's why sneko got his uh skinny jeans from

01:17:49 the female department lucifer um question for the guys do you j waller troy and sneko have

01:17:55 girlfriends who are providing value to you as you speak and if so what is the value are your

01:17:59 women actually helping you build your empire how or so you guys preach a lot that's actually a good 1.00

01:18:04 question um that we can come back to um nestle hustle um here is 20 for the rapper chick to

01:18:10 to stop talking. Jasmine, wish the women would respond with an educational response instead of 1.00

01:18:16 an emotional one. They're so defensive and make it about themselves instead of answering the

01:18:19 question with just logic and justification. Lawrence Bullock, the goal of feminism is to 1.00

01:18:26 erase the difference between men and women, not equality. Lawrence, so any criticisms of women

01:18:32 is misogyny direct from the feminism handbook. Silly sausage. Hungry managed to find a way to 1.00

01:18:39 help monetize motherhood by lowering income tax 25 percent for every child that they have forever

01:18:45 um four kids no tax and guess what the feminists thought about that you guessed right they hated 1.00

01:18:50 it zero fallout the myth of the stay-at-home wife needs to be needs to die throughout history the

01:18:56 majority of women have always worked in some way be it in farms field the home or at the market 1.00

01:19:01 only in recent times has the average been able to has the average been able to have one um manny f

01:19:08 During World War I and II, women had to go to factories and work in order to support the men there in war and still took care of the children, then lived a much harder life.

01:19:20 How are women today suppressed, and what would the panel do, and would the panel of women do the same sacrifice? 0.88

01:19:28 Ash, I'm showing my support from—showing my support, your Chi-Town brother, keep aiming high.

01:19:35 And let me refresh it really quick.

01:19:38 um okay so what was the question that they asked you guys i want to find it again okay

01:19:49 do you guys have girlfriends providing value to you as you speak and if so what is the value are

01:19:56 your women actually helping you build your empire how so yeah i have a couple girlfriends right now 1.00

01:20:01 i know it's haram but one of them runs my discord server and she's she's on top of things when i was 0.89

01:20:06 getting a lot in a lot of drama she was there and she was able to take care of it and make sure that

01:20:10 it was running properly i have one that wants to become my assistant and i'm training her to 1.00

01:20:14 run my accounting and do the taxes and do the paperwork when i get tickets i'm gonna try to

01:20:19 get her to quit her job and be my assistant the other one uh working on traveling with her and 1.00

01:20:26 she recently got a big payout uh so i'm gonna go travel with her and she's there she helps me find

01:20:31 other girls as well so and the other one the other one needs work but all of them add something to my 1.00

01:20:36 life and all of them help then play their role properly if they were

01:20:39 completely useless I think that it's not worth my time or theirs what about you 0.93

01:20:46 there's no woman in my life it's not an asset to me you think like a pimp and 0.94

01:20:50 love and provide like a hero straight up like there's no woman's not asset what

01:20:55 about you what's the question again sorry do you have girlfriends providing you

01:20:59 value as you speak and if so what is the value I mean yeah absolutely they all

01:21:04 provide value because otherwise why would you spend time with them right i mean but the way

01:21:07 that they provide value is is um not material but it's sort of like in terms of sustenance

01:21:12 in terms of in terms of feminine energy it's in terms of you know having somebody there who kind 1.00

01:21:17 of gets you um there's many many ways in which they provide value 100 so i have a question for

01:21:24 the women um do you want to be married and have kids yes um if so what age do you want to be

01:21:30 buried and how many kids i would love to be married with kids tomorrow but um that's not

01:21:36 happening because i still need to work on myself um i would ideally like to do that like 25 25 how

01:21:42 many kids do you want i want four four kids okay what about you um i would like to be married i

01:21:48 would like to have children um maybe my late 20s i haven't really thought too much into it but how

01:21:54 do you know i'm 22 i've never been in a relationship so i haven't really got an exact

01:21:59 age where I would say I want to get married and I feel like I need to meet someone first to put

01:22:05 a time frame on it. Why late 20s? Late 20s? Yeah. Why not sooner? I just feel like I want to travel

01:22:13 and live my life to the fullest and then when I'm ready to be selfless then I'm ready to settle down

01:22:18 and have children and start a family. Wouldn't you prefer to travel with your husband? I would

01:22:24 love to travel with someone. I travel a lot on my own so it would be nice to travel with someone.

01:22:27 what does live your life mean i hear that a lot from from good girls like you and then live your 1.00

01:22:33 life in if we're going to be honest what does live your life really mean you're traveling living your

01:22:37 life what come on to travel and to live my life honestly i think travel is the best education that

01:22:43 you can get i think it's better than any school that you can go through i think you learn about

01:22:47 the real world when you travel you learn about different cultures you meet so many different

01:22:51 people and that's why i love to travel do you think you're gonna have an easier time finding

01:22:56 your husband now when you're 22 you haven't had a relationship or when you're in your late 20s

01:23:01 and you've already traveled definitely um definitely earlier on but to get married because

01:23:06 obviously you're not going to meet someone straight away and get married to them in an

01:23:08 instant you're going to have a relationship with them first i assume anyway um so yeah i could meet

01:23:15 someone when i'm like 25 and then i could get married when i'm 28 but that's still

01:23:19 yeah can i chime in in the conversation i it's clear that the point that you're trying

01:23:26 to make is that the younger you are,

01:23:28 the better chances you have of finding someone.

01:23:30 I think she should start looking now instead of put it off.

01:23:33 I think it'll be okay.

01:23:35 I'm not putting it off.

01:23:36 It's just when it happens, it happens kind of thing.

01:23:37 I'm not going to go out of my way and search for it

01:23:42 and make it my sole purpose, but I think when the time is right,

01:23:46 the world will give me someone that's meant for me.

01:23:49 Can I ask you a question?

01:23:50 so do you think um age is an indicator for you as to picking a partner like is it is it like if

01:23:58 she's older then you don't want her if she's younger it's like preferably your your type of 0.98

01:24:04 woman has to be between a certain age etc have you like is well what's your name by the way me

01:24:11 yeah danielle danielle is like a perfect example of a girl that i would date that i would like to

01:24:16 go out with 22 hasn't had a relationship uh very pretty i would rather date her now than when she 1.00

01:24:22 was 32 and traveled the world completely agree you know why because a man that's traveled the

01:24:29 world like we've all done here we know that the girl that has instagram photos and multiple 0.60

01:24:36 multiple countries was not only living her life but statistically i slept with a lot more men 1.00

01:24:40 you know what i'm saying that's what your life means yeah that's what the journey means and we 0.98

01:24:45 call it the cock carousel. And I don't mean to be crude, but a woman that has been more 1.00

01:24:51 promiscuous and traveled more and done all these different things, then what do you have

01:24:55 to give her that's going to make her life magic anyway? So when we're talking about

01:24:58 being the hero and wanting, like no man wants a woman that he can't save from a castle and

01:25:02 dragon, that doesn't mean the woman needs to be saved or she's broken. That's the beautiful

01:25:06 thing about love. So if she's done all the experience, for example, if you get in a Lamborghini

01:25:11 and you know how to use the handle on the door,

01:25:13 it tells me something.

01:25:15 You understand what I'm saying?

01:25:16 Now, if you can't get in, you're like,

01:25:17 how does it, like when a girl gets in my G-Wagon, 1.00

01:25:19 if she can't, like, I'm like, nah.

01:25:22 I want to show you the world, Danielle.

01:25:23 I don't want someone else to show you.

01:25:25 Say it again?

01:25:26 Tanya, but with a D.

01:25:27 Tanya.

01:25:28 Tanya.

01:25:28 Yeah.

01:25:29 We'll get used to it.

01:25:30 But does what I'm saying make sense?

01:25:32 Like a man wants a woman that has preserved herself 1.00

01:25:35 in many, many ways.

01:25:36 Like you have a relationship.

01:25:37 So if a woman has done any sort of sex work, it's not... 1.00

01:25:44 Oh, that's completely out, obviously.

01:25:46 That's very obvious. 0.99

01:25:47 I would never wife up a girl that her job was to have sex with men. 1.00

01:25:51 No, that's absolutely foolish. 1.00

01:25:52 But hoes get wifed the quickest. 1.00

01:25:54 Yeah, because they're simps.

01:25:55 They're the easiest ones.

01:25:56 And then it fails.

01:25:57 Because the hoe or the sex worker doesn't want to have sex for money any longer. 1.00

01:26:02 So she finds some fool to pay for her life. 1.00

01:26:05 And then she texts me and I sleep with her. 0.93

01:26:07 Are you on OnlyFans?

01:26:08 No, not me.

01:26:09 Oh.

01:26:10 Do you understand what I'm saying?

01:26:11 Like, that's, like, no quality man, no man that's going to be worth his salt is going 0.52

01:26:15 to pick up a sex worker, no. 1.00

01:26:17 Why would he have to?

01:26:18 Because if he's high level, he can get a girl like her.

01:26:22 And I don't even mean that to be disrespectful.

01:26:25 Like, I'm not trying to disrespect sex workers.

01:26:27 I'm telling you right now, I would never marry one.

01:26:29 Well, first of all, marriage is a different subject, but I would never make her, you know, 0.98

01:26:34 part of my life at all, ever.

01:26:36 But then don't you pay for it?

01:26:39 Who pays for it? 0.99

01:26:40 No, I'm just saying because there's men that have this ideology.

01:26:44 No, I said every woman is an asset. 1.00

01:26:45 Okay.

01:26:46 A man's job is to build a woman to the woman that it takes to take her where he's going. 0.95

01:26:51 Interesting.

01:26:52 Build her.

01:26:52 A man should build a woman. 1.00

01:26:54 And that means by investing into her, like, hey, baby, I just said this yesterday.

01:26:58 It's like, hey, listen, we're going to go to this event.

01:27:01 I'm going to get you this dress.

01:27:02 Do it like this. 0.99

01:27:04 A little less titties. 0.57

01:27:05 the for the fork start here and go in you want to you want to build her up and make her be able to 1.00

01:27:10 come up because you're trying to get up the social classes right if you really love her you'll

01:27:14 develop her and build her to take her with you that's what you do for a woman that's how you 0.99

01:27:18 build a woman but a woman that's been giving her body away to all the other guys at the table 1.00

01:27:23 because the rich guys that pay for sex they'd be like i had that girl last year in marbella 1.00

01:27:26 Yeah, no fucking way 1.00

01:27:28 No fucking way 0.99

01:27:30 Do you want to be married? 1.00

01:27:34 Skip me, please

01:27:35 Marriage in the traditional sense

01:27:40 Is not really something that bothers me

01:27:41 I'd rather have a partnership

01:27:42 You want to do the two houses thing, don't you?

01:27:45 I'd rather have a partnership

01:27:46 And I'd rather have a man present in my life

01:27:48 But it doesn't have to be like

01:27:50 Overarching and overwhelming

01:27:51 With the way that people are making it seem nowadays

01:27:54 I fully agree with what you're saying

01:27:56 And I think that for me to be able to actually take a man very seriously, he has to be a man that can actually bring something new to my life, you know, where somebody that I can look up to and I can be like, OK, you're teaching me something new.

01:28:07 OK, I need you to answer the question.

01:28:10 Do you want to be married?

01:28:11 Yes or no?

01:28:11 I want to have a partnership.

01:28:12 OK, OK.

01:28:13 So you don't care about being married on paper.

01:28:15 No, you want a relationship.

01:28:17 Yeah.

01:28:17 OK.

01:28:18 OK.

01:28:18 Do you want kids?

01:28:19 Yes or no?

01:28:20 Yeah, definitely.

01:28:21 OK.

01:28:21 How many kids?

01:28:22 In the world of today, I think it's safer to have two.

01:28:25 Two kids.

01:28:25 OK.

01:28:25 And you're 30?

01:28:26 Yes.

01:28:27 So when do you want to be in a relationship, and when do you want to have the kids?

01:28:32 Since it's just been about, like, a year since I've rebuilt my life, I'd say maybe, like, I'll probably pick my husband in about six months.

01:28:42 Okay.

01:28:43 So in the next six months, you're going to find a husband.

01:28:44 Do you have some prospects?

01:28:46 Yeah, of course.

01:28:47 Okay.

01:28:48 So you got a list?

01:28:50 I've got, well.

01:28:52 Anyone in the chat?

01:28:53 And he's ready to marry you within six months.

01:28:55 yeah okay and so then you're gonna or not sorry not get married but being that in a relationship

01:29:01 it's very listen and then when do you when do you want your first kid by um i mean i don't really

01:29:06 go into people to meet people superficially i tend to go quite okay i need you to answer

01:29:10 so wait wait i'm just giving 31 32 33 34 35 like it depends on how the relationship 31 32 33 it's

01:29:19 not about age about how many well it is about age you know no essentially i'm not gonna say i want

01:29:24 have a kid by 31. I mean, you're running out of eggs.

01:29:26 I ain't going to lie. No, well, I do.

01:29:28 And actually, just being 30 doesn't mean you don't have eggs.

01:29:30 You're losing them.

01:29:32 Janelva, geriatric pregnancy

01:29:34 starts at 35. That's fine. I've got five

01:29:36 years. A lot happens in five years.

01:29:37 What age

01:29:41 do you want to have your first kid?

01:29:42 I would like to have my first

01:29:44 kid when

01:29:46 me and my husband have established

01:29:48 that we are ready to do it together. You just said you don't want

01:29:50 to be married.

01:29:52 Talking out of both sides of the mouth.

01:29:54 Once again, force of habit, once me and my hubby, yeah, which not on paper, but in life, once me and him establish that we can get on, then we are ready for the thing.

01:30:04 That's it. I'm not going to say I want these kids when he's not ready.

01:30:06 OK, so you're going to have the kids when he's ready, when we're both ready.

01:30:11 It's a conversation when you're both ready.

01:30:12 OK, I want to. All right. When do you want to be married?

01:30:15 How many kids do you want and what age do you want to have kids? 0.89

01:30:17 I want to be married by 25 and I want to have two kids by 30 and then my third kid before I'm 35.

01:30:22 yeah how old are you now 19 okay yeah 19 that's good that's a really good mindset to have at 19

01:30:32 that's really good thanks um so i'm 21 um i am want to be married by 25 that's my aim

01:30:43 and then children i want as soon as possible once i'm married how many i like kids so four maybe

01:30:52 four kids four kids yeah four kids but then again i don't know i think i've got a major problem

01:30:59 because i'm finding it very difficult to find the right person and i don't know if i'm the problem

01:31:07 or if it's the men well what are you looking for um someone definitely more dominant than me

01:31:13 um i feel like as if i've gone too far down the career route and i've obviously you're only 21

01:31:20 I've done a lot.

01:31:21 Okay, what have you done?

01:31:23 So I've got my dream job.

01:31:24 I'm an executive assistant.

01:31:26 So that was like what I wanted to do.

01:31:28 I work for a really big family.

01:31:30 I've got my dream car.

01:31:33 And then for me to go out there and try to find a man who's able to beat that.

01:31:38 Because obviously that's what women want. 1.00

01:31:39 They want someone bigger than them.

01:31:41 Someone stronger, someone more masculine, dominant.

01:31:44 But then I can't find that.

01:31:46 I don't know why.

01:31:47 I do know why because we're surrounded

01:31:50 By very weak men

01:31:52 Unfortunately

01:31:52 So

01:31:54 But yeah I'm not going to speak too much

01:31:59 Do you have like an income requirement

01:32:01 Yeah

01:32:02 How much does he have to make

01:32:03 I would say about

01:32:05 At least 25% more than me

01:32:09 Which is roughly

01:32:10 It will have to be in like the

01:32:12 40, 45, 48,000

01:32:15 Kind of mark

01:32:16 Okay, so that's, like, in U.S. dollars, that's, like, 55, 60.

01:32:19 Yeah, something like that.

01:32:20 You can find that guy.

01:32:21 Yeah, that's not crazy.

01:32:22 You can find that guy.

01:32:23 Can I say something just quickly to her?

01:32:25 No, I'm going to ask her.

01:32:26 So I'm curious to the guys, what are the best places for women to find husbands? 0.58

01:32:33 That's a good question.

01:32:36 Nowadays, a lot of it happens online.

01:32:37 A lot of people Instagram, but I think, like, you should go put yourself in situations where, I think, the farmer's market, go grocery shopping.

01:32:46 I think the church, you should go find a guy there, a picnic, like a little park, you know,

01:32:52 just go to cute places. I met, I met a lot of great couples recently in Japan. They met at the

01:32:55 beach. You know, I don't, I think that if you are in your feminine nature and you are doing things 1.00

01:33:01 that coincide with that, you'll, you can find that guy. I hear a lot of females say, um, there's a 1.00

01:33:06 whole lot of accounts on TikTok that base their content off of how to find a successful rich man

01:33:11 or how to do this or how to do that.

01:33:14 And they usually say, they usually target Mayfair, Knightsbridge,

01:33:19 go to this bar, go to this club. 0.64

01:33:21 The club, I wouldn't seek that out in the club.

01:33:23 I don't agree.

01:33:24 Immediately you put yourself in the scenario that guys at that level

01:33:28 are not looking for.

01:33:29 You don't want a girl who's clubbing. 1.00

01:33:31 I think what Sneeko said is important.

01:33:34 Being in your feminine energy, wherever you go,

01:33:37 you're going to more likely attract a better quality of man

01:33:40 because the problem with Mayfair and, you know,

01:33:42 Kensington and Knightsbridge and these places

01:33:44 is you're going to meet a lot of guys

01:33:45 who just want to have one-night stands,

01:33:47 but equally you're going to meet them online as well.

01:33:49 So it's really about the energy that you put out

01:33:53 in terms of what you attract.

01:33:54 But I think as well, going to some more like chilled out places,

01:33:56 going to Borough Market, like you said, going to Whole Foods,

01:33:58 you know, those kind of places,

01:34:00 more likely to meet somebody who's a bit more authentic

01:34:01 than maybe the more superficial, glamorous.

01:34:04 Yeah, yeah.

01:34:04 The gym's good.

01:34:05 Although as long as you don't start filming them

01:34:06 and putting it on TikTok.

01:34:07 Please don't do that.

01:34:10 What do you think?

01:34:14 It's hard because it depends on what you mean, how you define the man, right?

01:34:18 Whole Foods.

01:34:18 I don't grocery shop anymore.

01:34:19 So I don't think you're going to find a one percenter in there.

01:34:22 But at the same time, you know, you have to find them somewhere.

01:34:26 So I think Sneeko's dead on with the online thing.

01:34:28 And then it comes down to filtering and asking the right questions, but being respectful inside those questions, you know, say and just be hand honest.

01:34:35 Like, look, man, I'm looking for this kind of guy, you know, and six to 50, 60 grand.

01:34:40 And he also nailed that that's not going to be a problem for you

01:34:42 In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if you got a bunch of messages after this show because that's so very obtainable now, right?

01:34:48 So you need to aim higher

01:34:50 Yeah, and I think you could I think I think you can get higher. Yeah, you could

01:34:54 but um

01:34:55 You know also you have to understand that guys that are pretty well to do have pretty well to do hobbies 0.99

01:35:00 Bro, if I was a girl, I'd be playing golf like a motherfucker 0.99

01:35:02 You know what I'm saying? 1.00

01:35:04 Even if you suck. Yeah, even if you're trash even if you're trash, you know, so it's like those types of things, you know 1.00

01:35:09 where where do where do guys like that meet up where are they and can it not be in a bar scene

01:35:14 because you don't want to meet somebody you're going to be with forever in a bar because the

01:35:17 first question you're going to get asked is you have to carry that around in your relationship

01:35:21 oh we met in the club right so i i would try not to meet a person in the club honestly so when you

01:35:28 say the best place to meet someone is online how do you portray yourself in the best way possible

01:35:33 online what is your ideal ideally if you want to be wife material i would make it be known that you 0.97

01:35:40 had curves without showing skin okay there's a classy way to be sexy right you know the woman 1.00

01:35:46 that's like very clearly built well but is not showing it but she's still showing it just there's

01:35:52 clothes right yeah with a bit of mystery to it right and it'll drive men wild because now if

01:35:58 you go online and you look at a girl's account and first of all, she's got the cleavage everywhere. 1.00

01:36:03 But if you just scroll down a little bit, you can see exactly what her nipples look like. 1.00

01:36:06 I don't want a woman like that. I don't want that. You know why? Because a man gets a lot of value 1.00

01:36:12 from other men out of how classy and how beautiful this woman is. And if she's out there promoting it

01:36:18 to the world, number one, that's marketing. So I'd never accept that as a man personally.

01:36:23 And then number two, everybody in that group is going to look down upon that man because the woman 0.95

01:36:28 is out there marketing and they've all seen everything he's got so the sacredness and and

01:36:34 which is one of the most beautiful things i believe that a woman has is now given away so 0.99

01:36:38 it's i think it's very important to compete because you are competing against bbls and

01:36:43 boob jobs and all those things but even if you get a boob job there's a way to show that you 0.98

01:36:47 have big poops and a busty figure and you're in good shape without actually showing it if that 0.87

01:36:53 makes sense what do you what do you think about women that get plastic surgery to attract men 0.99

01:36:58 you think that's a good idea i think it's smart i would do it if i was one if i was a woman

01:37:01 i would have fake boobs for sure if i didn't have you know you understand what i'm saying 0.65

01:37:06 like yeah let's not cap about that and i'll also be in the squat rack and i'll also be doing all 0.60

01:37:11 the things that it took to attract men beauty is very mathematical in a lot of ways the attractive

01:37:16 things about a woman like as far as bust and shape and all those things those things are very very 1.00

01:37:21 Very real and although it sounds shallow

01:37:23 It's the basis of the relationship is attraction

01:37:25 So if you can be attracted to

01:37:27 Somebody and then be and then

01:37:29 Another thing I would be

01:37:30 At least well read understand

01:37:33 Politics have a strong opinion because

01:37:35 You're going to want those kind of things because

01:37:36 I do there is nothing more attractive for me than

01:37:39 A woman that is based if 0.99

01:37:41 A woman is based 0.98

01:37:42 Like we'll have a strong opinion about the right things

01:37:45 Yeah you're a communist I don't want to yeah like

01:37:47 I mean I mean obviously feminists 1.00

01:37:49 Right and here's a newsflash for you

01:37:51 most most successful men are based in pretty much conservative if you're talking politics right

01:37:57 that's by and largely and then if you get a lefty that's successful he's probably going to be kind

01:38:03 of simply you're probably going to sacrifice some masculinity there you know so for me the right

01:38:08 hobbies i like the i like the whole foods thing but online and then make sure you're the kind of

01:38:14 class that a man says okay i can take her and like turn her and build her and keep developing her 1.00

01:38:20 because she's already on the right path.

01:38:22 She's already the right cloth. 0.68

01:38:24 Men often pick the wrong cloth, as do women. 1.00

01:38:27 But being the right cloth from the jump,

01:38:30 you're giving that man a canvas to turn you into a queen. 1.00

01:38:34 So that's what I would do.

01:38:35 Can I ask the question?

01:38:36 I understand what femininity looks like from a woman's perspective, 1.00

01:38:39 but from a man's eyes, what does femininity look like to you guys?

01:38:44 Because we might have different opinions.

01:38:46 I don't think we do.

01:38:47 Oh, really?

01:38:48 What do you think the woman's perspective on femininity is? 1.00

01:38:51 I think femininity is someone who's calm, someone who's able to submit, someone who's able to compromise, someone who takes care of herself. 1.00

01:38:59 And you guys just have the same thing.

01:39:00 I think you want to be looking at watchwords like classy, demure, modesty, you know.

01:39:05 And when you're constructing, say, like an online profile, it's those kinds of things you want to be going for.

01:39:10 Like Justin has just said, I mean, you can look sexy, but nice dress, you know, not going the sort of the Instagram hoe kind of route. 0.99

01:39:16 You know, less is more, you know, with a lot of these things.

01:39:20 Yeah, because you're selling it cheaper.

01:39:21 Yeah.

01:39:23 Do any of you guys have any other dating questions for the guys?

01:39:28 If you'd want to know from like a man's point of view.

01:39:32 What do you think is the main problem with men nowadays and the women that they choose?

01:39:38 Like, why are they making certain mistakes?

01:39:41 I think that ethics happen a long time before you need them.

01:39:43 So men choose not to be in abundance in every area of their life.

01:39:48 They're not taking care of their fitness.

01:39:50 They're not taking care of their business.

01:39:52 They're not taking care of their career, their style.

01:39:54 They're not well-read.

01:39:55 They're not doing all the things that they're supposed to be able to do to tell a woman that comes into their life, hey, listen, I can't put up with this kind of behavior. 0.98

01:40:03 You can't have your titties all over the Internet. 0.99

01:40:04 I can't accept that. 0.99

01:40:06 You have to be in abundance to tell a woman, no. 1.00

01:40:08 The woman, and this is not to disrespect women, but a woman needs to know that you can replace her. 1.00

01:40:12 You need to be that kind of man to earn that kind of respect from a woman. 0.99

01:40:16 And when you can get in a position with a woman where she knows you can replace her with somebody else that wants to be classy, who wants to take that role, who wants to be submissive inside a frame that you've earned, then you're in the right place. 0.83

01:40:28 And men, by and largely, are not doing that now.

01:40:31 They're playing the video games and doing the weed or whatever they're not supposed to be doing.

01:40:35 And for that reason, they make sacrifices when it comes down to relationship negotiations that they shouldn't make and they don't even want to make.

01:40:43 But that's the only girl they got.

01:40:45 And so if they would have been working on themselves the last few years, they when it comes to the point of something coming to a head, they can't look a woman in the eyes with conviction and say, this isn't going to work.

01:40:55 I'm going to run.

01:40:56 I'm going to be the leader in this relationship.

01:40:58 They have to cater.

01:40:59 But that wouldn't. And what happens with that is she sees him buckle because he's not in abundance and then she loses respect for him.

01:41:05 And if she doesn't leave him, she cheats. What about the mistake that a lot of athletes make?

01:41:11 Because they also seem to end up sometimes with like. Absolutely. So there's buckets in life.

01:41:15 So the money bucket can fill up. You can be the richest guy in the world and be a fucking dork. 1.00

01:41:21 You can also be completely jacked, ripped, you know, alpha, have game, all those other things, be broke. 1.00

01:41:28 So a man can't just stop at one thing 0.53

01:41:31 So if you were look at like a schedule of values of things in life, you have to be connected

01:41:36 You have to have influence. You have to have money. You have to be fit

01:41:39 You have to be worldly well-spoken and be able to be articulate in a conversation to communicate because a woman is really going to need communication 1.00

01:41:45 Because it's going to get emotional, you know

01:41:48 So you better have to be stern and direct but at the same time a good communicator without arguing

01:41:53 A man has to have emotional intelligence 1.00

01:41:55 I will never raise my voice at a one like a woman. I'm seeing I'll never raise my voice because it tells her that I'll go down to a child level 1.00

01:42:02 She has to respect me. There has to be that dissonance because if she doesn't respect me

01:42:07 She's like man. I need to find a guy I respect. I don't look up to this guy. This guy can't handle it

01:42:11 Yeah, this guy is childish. He'll come down here with me. Yeah, that's not the way to do it. So 0.91

01:42:17 For me a man has to handle all these different areas of his life and some of these buckets fill and that's what you'll see

01:42:24 sometimes you'll see a guy get ran over the coals because he's an athlete so he had let's say maybe

01:42:29 fitness and money but he didn't have all those other things like frame and things like that to

01:42:34 make him a leader and the next thing you know he's getting he's getting divorced like that soccer

01:42:38 player yeah yeah that that just got wrecked right shout out to akimi no he didn't get wrecked he

01:42:43 actually won in that divorce did he yeah because she makes more money than him secondly right well 0.80

01:42:48 but let's take any athlete that gets wrecked it happens they get wrecked because they they look

01:42:54 at that one bucket particularly a money bucket a lot of times you see a lot of fat rich guys

01:42:57 they get comfortable they think they're the big boss but there's dudes out there competing in

01:43:02 every category yeah and you have to and you have to have the frame right i have a very burning

01:43:08 question that's been asked okay one second sneaker sneaker has to go so um thank you yeah thanks for

01:43:14 coming i wanted sneaker to answer this question real quick real quick okay i have a very burning

01:43:19 question that's been answered a million times but i really need to like um i still don't understand

01:43:23 Why do men cheat like what are the top five reasons?

01:43:28 It's just not just on our DNA. It's never gonna stop

01:43:31 I don't even think it's worth asking that question. Just accept it if you want that level of guy

01:43:35 You gotta accept it. So there's no reason. It's just a natural thing that they just cheat. It's natural for us to do that

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SNEAKO - April 19, 2023

SNEAKO Debates ＂Oppressed＂ Feminists On Their Victim Mentality

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