SNEAKO - SNEAKO Debates ＂Oppressed＂ Feminists On Their Victim Mentality

00:00:00.000 women working is actually a madness for men now exactly because men now need to work a lot more 1.00

00:00:06.300 because women can get the same type of paying jobs as men so most men that working an average job

00:00:12.960 now they need to work 10 times harder to be able to get a girl that works but that's why they have 1.00

00:00:17.300 this mentality of suppress a woman and feel like okay if suppress these women and make them think 1.00

00:00:23.080 their only purpose is be smaller so i can look bigger i don't think it's about suppressing women 1.00

00:00:28.920 I think it's the mentality

00:00:31.100 though it's the women 0.71

00:00:33.060 are like. I think you want to be a victim

00:00:34.940 so badly. No I don't want to be a victim

00:00:36.760 I don't want to be a victim I'm not a victim

00:00:39.180 so the reality. She wants to be a victim 0.98

00:00:40.920 and she also wants to be in charge. 0.99

00:00:42.780 He's having a normal conversation

00:00:45.100 with you and you called him a misogynist

00:00:46.920 or you said he's vibrating.

00:00:49.160 Right right right.

00:00:50.520 I'm not going to take it back.

00:00:51.960 You don't need to of course because you're going to die on your hill.

00:00:54.660 It's very obvious. Absolutely.

00:00:57.080 You have a very clear need to.

00:00:58.360 And I'm not the only person who feels like that.

00:00:59.920 You have a very clear need to be right.

00:01:01.960 Does anyone else vibrate with misogyny right now?

00:01:04.800 No.

00:01:05.260 You're the only one.

00:01:06.680 Anyways, I'm not the only one.

00:01:07.520 That's what you said.

00:01:09.080 Yeah, I'm sorry that I feel the vibe that you are a misogynist.

00:01:12.180 And you said you weren't the only one, but you are.

00:01:14.240 And I'm happy to be the only one who feels that way.

00:01:16.420 You've got to be more specific, though.

00:01:17.580 You can't throw an accusation at somebody.

00:01:20.180 It's like, I know this isn't a court of law,

00:01:21.700 but you can't just throw an accusation against somebody

00:01:23.920 and not substantiate it, other than by saying,

00:01:26.000 well, this is what I feel.

00:01:26.820 Someone said something along the lines of, don't go against me.

00:01:29.660 Isn't this a debate, like, for and against?

00:01:32.180 Yeah, but when you immediately have to go against, like, come on.

00:01:35.080 That's a debate.

00:01:36.420 You opened it up by saying I'm a black immigrant.

00:01:38.860 I mean, look, you guys are victims until somebody calls you out.

00:01:42.100 It's just, none of this makes any sense.

00:01:44.060 You're going to go and say that I'm a victim, I'm black, so I have a hard time in life,

00:01:47.200 and then somebody disagrees with you, and then you're even a victim more.

00:01:49.680 Do you know why?

00:01:50.240 We disagree, and then I'm aggressive, and you're pointing at me and interrupting me,

00:01:53.100 but I'm aggressive.

00:01:53.660 I'm sorry, I was aggressive there still.

00:01:55.700 you have been the whole time but i'm aggressive i don't say that you're vibrating with misandry

00:02:00.060 yeah exactly my whole point of this argument is that my whole point is that people now

00:02:04.560 and especially people my age i'm 24 we have such a victim mindset that makes us feel like we can

00:02:09.960 navigate the world a certain way and that everything is against us and we don't do that

00:02:13.420 because the world is against us it because it makes us feel better about our life path and

00:02:16.840 our decisions and about our place in the world that is the number one thing that will hold people 0.89

00:02:20.920 back i'm an immigrant i'm black you're misogynistic you're racist i'm stop acting like that's a 0.95

00:02:27.000 victimization that's exactly what he said i already explained to you why that is my superpower 0.97

00:02:32.480 i simply pointed out the fact that it is an extra obstacle that some people may not have

00:02:36.920 but for me it's a good thing it makes me fit saying that you have an obstacle spicy and prettier

00:02:40.980 that's why i like having all saying that you have an believing that you have an obstacle

00:02:45.000 is exactly i know because i felt it i've had to overcome several times just because you haven't

00:02:50.280 live my life. Don't bloody 0.56

00:02:51.900 discourage me from telling what I feel because

00:02:54.140 that's what I've experienced. So wait, Sneaker, what you're trying to say

00:02:56.300 is that we should disregard our traumatic

00:02:58.160 experiences that have

00:03:00.020 brought, like,

00:03:01.880 you know. Even if you were traumatized, if you had

00:03:04.280 a terrible experience. Use the only for power for good things.

00:03:06.140 Right. If the KKK was burning crosses,

00:03:08.300 like, what will hold you back more

00:03:09.860 is still thinking about that you're traumatized.

00:03:12.660 It's thinking that the world is against you.

00:03:14.220 That will hold you back even more than anything else

00:03:16.260 that anyone's going to tell you, that any industry will

00:03:18.200 say, that anything that I believe, 0.72

00:03:19.800 how misogynistic and racist I am.

00:03:22.080 You believing that you're traumatized 0.98

00:03:23.620 and navigating the world that way

00:03:24.760 is going to hold you back

00:03:25.520 more than anybody else.

00:03:27.020 And that's the number one thing

00:03:27.800 I would say for anyone here

00:03:29.160 watching this right now.

00:03:30.260 Get rid of that mindset

00:03:31.240 because that was programmed into you

00:03:32.600 by the news.

00:03:33.360 You're talking about mainstream media

00:03:34.340 showing this one Afro dude. 0.88

00:03:35.980 They do that so that we stay down.

00:03:38.100 It's not because they actually

00:03:39.100 care about racism.

00:03:40.080 You think the news cares

00:03:41.180 about this Afro guy?

00:03:42.140 No, they care about programming.

00:03:44.000 George Floyd, you think that goes viral

00:03:45.360 because they care about George Floyd?

00:03:47.500 No, it's to get everybody rioting

00:03:49.080 And to keep everybody confused

00:03:50.420 And to keep everybody outside

00:03:51.840 And to keep everybody distracted and angry

00:03:53.580 A lot of people leveled up because of that

00:03:55.320 A lot of addressing these issues

00:03:57.220 Actually is quite empowering

00:03:58.600 Because you start to look at

00:03:59.580 What did BLM accomplish?

00:04:00.060 Let me tell you

00:04:00.580 To some people

00:04:02.140 To some people

00:04:02.920 I lived in Milwaukee

00:04:06.780 During the BLM protests

00:04:08.280 There were some shops that didn't open back up

00:04:10.620 Of course

00:04:11.120 Let me tell you something

00:04:13.200 Things like BLM

00:04:15.060 Things like Wakanda

00:04:16.100 what it is why is actually something that is is a good thing to even talk about these things and

00:04:20.920 be gassed about the fact that black people start to go to the forefront is because even though some

00:04:25.740 people may take it as a victimization there are people that actually take it to be an empowerment

00:04:29.820 exactly but how do you how do you know if the outcome of something is good i know basically i

00:04:40.900 know because within my business wait wait basically within my business i see the change i see right

00:04:46.300 right okay okay so you would say so you would say it would be the results right yeah the results of

00:04:51.300 course so it's good the government started giving funds out for black people to do things about 1.00

00:04:55.240 people make money okay so if the results of those protests were that some shops did not open back up

00:05:01.580 and the whole business was a scam how is that a good result well it's the same way that people go

00:05:06.700 to war people do a million things that with good comes bad that's no but i'm asking like what good

00:05:11.260 came what good came of what did blm accomplish oh blm accomplished a lot within the creative

00:05:15.980 industry here in the uk a lot of black people start making money since blm awareness awareness 0.87

00:05:21.200 since blm a lot of people have still died the same way george floyd did it didn't change the 0.99

00:05:25.560 main factor which was white cops killing black people yeah white cops kill white people too 0.98

00:05:30.900 so what did blm accomplish at blm in the uk the government started giving funding to black 0.99

00:05:35.940 Businesses a lot more they started putting a lot

00:05:37.940 Of projects to big up black people and put them 1.00

00:05:39.920 On so actually was a good thing for the UK

00:05:41.880 I'm not gonna lie a lot of people got

00:05:44.040 Really good opportunities because

00:05:45.880 Of that situation whatever

00:05:47.540 The nature of the cops not have guns here

00:05:50.120 No

00:05:50.720 Why was the UK even giving money to black businesses 0.97

00:05:55.820 Here when this had nothing to do with black people 0.96

00:05:57.360 So you got some money like yeah a lot of people

00:05:59.900 Made money what how was racism solved

00:06:01.860 It's not about racism being sold

00:06:03.820 That's what black 1.00

00:06:04.360 But what it did

00:06:06.780 It actually gave extra leeway

00:06:08.600 For people to now go and do more

00:06:10.340 It gave an encouragement to say 0.74

00:06:11.980 Actually forget about being black 1.00

00:06:13.720 You know this happened but look we're going to help you 0.99

00:06:15.260 Go go go then take advantage and you win

00:06:17.200 And you grow it's a good thing

00:06:18.600 So when you talk about this and you expose it

00:06:20.440 I have a question

00:06:21.640 Do you think throwing money at a problem solves it

00:06:24.780 Of course not

00:06:25.440 Throw it at me it will solve it 0.98

00:06:28.000 Are you a stripper 0.91

00:06:29.440 Can I also make one point

00:06:31.340 You said that Black Lives Matter 1.00

00:06:33.340 I helped businesses

00:06:34.300 and black people

00:06:35.200 build their brand 0.99

00:06:36.380 or whatever

00:06:36.840 but I think we need

00:06:37.920 to also question

00:06:38.500 how long is that

00:06:39.140 going to last

00:06:39.740 because I feel like

00:06:40.300 this is just going to last

00:06:41.160 for like the last

00:06:41.840 two, five years

00:06:42.820 and after that

00:06:43.320 it's going to go back

00:06:43.960 to user programming

00:06:44.660 It's already blown over

00:06:45.820 Yeah

00:06:46.060 Well, it's starting

00:06:48.020 to withdraw

00:06:48.580 for the people

00:06:49.160 that got leg up

00:06:49.960 They got leg up

00:06:50.880 Even if it did solve

00:06:51.880 that problem

00:06:52.400 in a sense

00:06:52.840 where they're supporting

00:06:53.380 black businesses

00:06:54.140 it didn't solve

00:06:55.140 the main matter at hand

00:06:56.060 It put people

00:06:56.640 representing on TV

00:06:58.260 like ZZ Mills 0.99

00:06:59.080 is on Channel 4 now

00:07:00.120 But that wasn't

00:07:00.620 A sister is there

00:07:01.420 with another sister 1.00

00:07:02.180 The problem was white cops killing black people 1.00

00:07:05.280 The problem wasn't not having black people 1.00

00:07:06.940 And her answer was they put a black person on TV 0.84

00:07:08.360 You inspire other people to want to do the same

00:07:11.280 Because it didn't solve the problem

00:07:12.400 The problem doesn't get solved like this

00:07:14.760 Zizi Mills is on TV because she's talented 0.97

00:07:18.120 To insinuate it's because of BLM

00:07:20.500 Pretty racist

00:07:21.060 I'm not going to lie

00:07:22.620 If you understand the industry you know I ain't lying

00:07:25.600 Come for me if you want to

00:07:26.880 Who understands the industry better than me?

00:07:30.780 Well, in the U.K.?

00:07:31.700 Come on.

00:07:32.020 In London?

00:07:32.640 Yes, I built the biggest podcast in London.

00:07:34.980 You built the biggest podcast.

00:07:36.400 What do you know about the London people, them here?

00:07:38.640 Not as much as I do.

00:07:39.640 I've lived here for longer than you.

00:07:40.880 I've met hundreds in the past year.

00:07:42.120 You've met them.

00:07:42.760 Do you know their history?

00:07:43.720 You don't.

00:07:44.280 So you can't actually tell me that you know more about the come up of some people.

00:07:47.300 Do you think Zizi Mills is on TV because she's talented? 0.96

00:07:50.320 I'll tell you why she's on TV. 1.00

00:07:52.160 I think she's talented.

00:07:53.220 But guess why she's on TV and why she was given prime time? 0.92

00:07:55.680 Because they want to now make inclusivity and diversity something that's the forefront of a lot of things.

00:08:00.700 To be fair, there have been black presenters on TV since the 80s or 70s.

00:08:06.540 But it also sounds like you're admitting that there's an advantage for being black and it has nothing to do with skill set and diversity and inclusion.

00:08:12.040 So where's the mindset that black people are oppressed if you're getting a job for representation?

00:08:16.120 This is not what I said.

00:08:17.460 I said the fact that people are talking about certain situations is making other people give our community more opportunities, which then creates more representation, more inspiration.

00:08:27.240 The problem starts to get solved.

00:08:28.360 Sounds like you're getting jobs over your skin color and not your skill set.

00:08:30.700 No, but it doesn't matter, because the whole point is, at least I'm there.

00:08:34.400 When flying a plane, it matters.

00:08:35.940 Well, CZ Mills is talented, that's why they picked her, they wouldn't just pick her. 1.00

00:08:39.100 Why can't it be that?

00:08:40.240 Because I feel like...

00:08:40.880 But they picked her over someone else. 0.51

00:08:41.760 Yeah, but I feel like saying it's because she's black takes away from her skill set. 0.99

00:08:44.520 No, it doesn't.

00:08:44.960 You're taking away from her 100%.

00:08:45.740 Listen, let me tell you, people, cancel me if you want, but diversity and inclusivity

00:08:50.620 is now something that every corporate company is talking about.

00:08:53.400 They're raving about it, so take opportunity, because it doesn't matter.

00:08:56.780 What you do with the opportunity is up to you, but if you're smart to take this opportunity,

00:09:00.440 Because right now you can make a lot of money

00:09:02.880 So are you oppressed or not?

00:09:03.620 I'm not, of course not 0.68

00:09:04.660 And that's why I said me being black is actually a superpower

00:09:06.720 It depends actually

00:09:07.460 I'm not a victim

00:09:08.100 If he was going to run for a prime minister

00:09:10.380 That you would be fake

00:09:12.020 Rishi Sunak is prime minister and he's brown, isn't he?

00:09:15.340 Yeah

00:09:15.560 Yeah, nah

00:09:17.660 I mean

00:09:18.240 I don't agree with that

00:09:19.100 I mean

00:09:19.600 He didn't get elected

00:09:20.520 We do have a female black vice president 0.98

00:09:22.620 His representation

00:09:23.520 Right

00:09:24.120 We did Obama 0.97

00:09:24.780 I mean it is possible, guys

00:09:26.180 It is possible

00:09:27.020 And if you look at like the percentages of white people

00:09:29.780 versus black people just the actual percentages you know y'all do really really well y'all have

00:09:34.180 a lot of millionaires like we do i tell you who i really admire who i really admire is little wayne

00:09:39.380 he's one of my favorite people because when he asked about that he doesn't live in that way

00:09:43.400 and he was so fucking successful not living that way and just doing his thing and i just i know 0.93

00:09:48.720 i've said it three four times i just want every young person seeing this to hear it you can do 0.69

00:09:53.540 it bro you really can and don't live any other way but you can that's it you can do it and going back

00:09:59.320 to the victim mindset i would say that um a lot of people wouldn't even go and apply for that role

00:10:06.540 to be president or prime minister because they think like that because they think okay i'm black

00:10:11.600 there's i'm not gonna i don't have a chance in all fairness i don't have a chance you actually

00:10:16.020 went to go and do it and you actually put in the effort and you were talented and you

00:10:19.500 over 30 years and doing everything he had to do to get in the position to even win

00:10:23.700 because i mean the presidency is not something you apply for right yeah it's like over time

00:10:28.000 You come to know that hey

00:10:29.420 I got a shot at this thing and he ran for it 1.00

00:10:31.480 Dude if Candace Owens ran tomorrow I'd vote for her ass 1.00

00:10:33.740 Straight up I would vote for her 0.97

00:10:35.800 Candace Owens ran for president tomorrow I'd vote for her 1.00

00:10:37.940 I would vote for her

00:10:38.880 That's such a

00:10:39.840 Why?

00:10:41.400 Because I think she's intelligent 1.00

00:10:42.560 I think she knows her shit and she's based as fuck 1.00

00:10:44.600 I think sometimes 1.00

00:10:47.160 That's the whole point of what I'm trying to say

00:10:49.400 It's not because she's black by the way 0.97

00:10:51.300 Zero because of that

00:10:52.980 You brought up quotas before

00:10:55.920 Quotas of all

00:10:57.020 Quotas which is like getting a job

00:10:59.320 Because of your gender or your race 0.89

00:11:00.680 I brought them up for what

00:11:01.680 No but I'm saying you seemed like you said it was a good thing

00:11:04.300 You think it's a good thing

00:11:05.320 Don't you think it's kind of a slap in the face

00:11:07.480 Because it's saying that you can't do it yourself

00:11:09.220 No not really

00:11:10.200 I think quotas are racist and sexist

00:11:14.220 But it is

00:11:15.200 But the reason why

00:11:16.200 I'm kind of going on the whole thing

00:11:19.240 Of use race as your superpower 0.97

00:11:20.440 I don't really care about why you're doing it

00:11:22.160 As long as I'm there and I can make something good out of it

00:11:24.560 Then great I'll go there and I'll turn it

00:11:26.700 It's an opportunity.

00:11:28.100 So if somebody now was saying to me,

00:11:29.660 okay, because you're mixed race and you've got curly hair, 0.99

00:11:32.000 we want you to present this show primetime TV,

00:11:34.140 but it's because you've got curly hair.

00:11:35.180 Be like, yeah, no stress.

00:11:36.040 Let me do it.

00:11:36.860 Let's see how I'm going to do.

00:11:37.720 I'm going to get famous.

00:11:38.420 I'm going to make money.

00:11:39.200 I can open another business.

00:11:40.140 I can empower through that opportunity

00:11:42.080 that came from a bad reason.

00:11:44.980 Well, I think what is good about what you're saying

00:11:46.660 is you're talking about seizing the opportunity

00:11:48.020 and you're talking about using whatever prospects come along

00:11:50.860 to get where you want to get to.

00:11:52.220 I think there's almost like a schism in this conversation,

00:11:54.560 isn't there?

00:11:54.840 because I think what these guys are talking about

00:11:56.740 and probably what I'm talking about is more mindset-based.

00:11:59.980 And over here, we're getting into the weeds

00:12:02.560 about some of these social issues, which do exist.

00:12:04.640 100% they do exist.

00:12:05.920 But ultimately, overall, what we need to do,

00:12:09.060 we need to transcend that.

00:12:10.640 Because actually, I mean, social class is a huge thing as well, right?

00:12:13.660 And actually, you've sort of paid lip service to that.

00:12:15.480 I mean, someone like Rishi Sunak,

00:12:16.580 he's the Prime Minister of the United Kingdom,

00:12:18.000 but he came from an incredibly privileged background, right?

00:12:20.880 So social class is a big thing,

00:12:22.180 whether you're black or white or Asian or whatever.

00:12:24.760 But people from very underprivileged social backgrounds can also go on to become hugely successful.

00:12:31.280 So what we all need to do is think, sod my background, my race, my ethnicity, all of that stuff.

00:12:36.580 It's irrelevant.

00:12:37.580 How am I going to go out there and change the world today?

00:12:39.460 What am I going to do?

00:12:40.220 What steps am I going to take to make a dent in this universe before I die in this short period of time I've got here?

00:12:45.660 And furthermore, setting up the generations that come behind you.

00:12:48.720 Because for that man to be in a position to be prime minister, probably his grandpa was a G. 1.00

00:12:53.140 His grandpa's grandpa was a G. Yeah, so it's a legacy thing and creating a family that sticks together and has certain family values 0.85

00:12:59.520 That can literally propel into the future. Normally it takes a couple generations to create a Rockefeller type family

00:13:05.940 And so if if people start today building that legacy, then it's a really huge thing

00:13:12.500 In fact, I just got a text yesterday from an NBA player that wants to like talk business about something

00:13:17.180 i knew who he was because he was in the league but his father and grandfather own a large portion

00:13:24.020 of real estate in baton rouge and i knew who they were just from the real estate world

00:13:28.200 and so when kyle is his name's collis temple he's been he's the class he's my favorite nba player 0.94

00:13:32.940 not because he's the best players because he's a fucking class act gentleman you know i'm saying 0.90

00:13:37.780 like yes i'll do whatever whatever collis wants to do let's do it let's do let's make money bro 0.97

00:13:42.020 and my suit guy's a black guy he knew him he gave him my cell phone number the guy that made this

00:13:46.600 suit black guy right gave me the contact the plug i don't care because money's green and he and that

00:13:52.740 family the temple family is a great example of a legacy family and that can be made if young men

00:13:59.340 see that it's a possibility what about women and women too yeah women too but the thing the thing 1.00

00:14:04.800 about women is this you have to understand there's primal parts of us and most often like she was

00:14:12.700 saying earlier a woman would much rather be with a strong man she looks up to and be inside the

00:14:18.020 frame of the family and do the maternal things the things that matter the things that the world

00:14:21.960 cannot live without a mother i think being a mother is one of the strongest most impressive

00:14:27.240 hard jobs on the planet that baby will not sleep you can't get any sleep you've been pregnant your

00:14:33.940 body's torn up and then you still have to nurture that baby and not get upset with it not shake it

00:14:38.240 not, you know, it's maddening, right? Like, let's not belittle that job. One of the most

00:14:43.680 important jobs on the planet, because you're molding the next generation that might be that 0.95

00:14:48.240 legacy holder for your race or, or your family or whomever. So I think that it's really, really,

00:14:54.800 really important that we put mothers on a pedestal more than we put rappers. And I don't mean that

00:14:58.720 to disrespect you. I just mean it because it's what's important for the children.

00:15:02.300 And the thing is that feminism comes in and says that motherhood isn't enough. 1.00

00:15:05.500 Bullshit 0.99

00:15:06.780 Even when we were talking about 1.00

00:15:09.260 Oh you get to work, you get to do this

00:15:10.560 Well we got to be mothers

00:15:11.600 I mean my grandma

00:15:12.900 She had nine kids

00:15:16.420 And she said her one regret in life

00:15:17.800 Is not having 12

00:15:18.760 It wasn't being a rapper

00:15:21.740 It wasn't dropping 16 bars on Sway

00:15:25.540 And I think that's one of the worst things

00:15:27.680 About feminism

00:15:28.280 Is because if I was to speak out now

00:15:30.020 And say that I just want to be

00:15:31.100 A stay at home wife with six kids 0.90

00:15:32.700 People would look at me

00:15:33.480 When I'm saying it's lazy

00:15:34.880 But I think that's like

00:15:36.400 The best part of a woman's life

00:15:38.700 Is having kids

00:15:39.500 And raising them

00:15:40.280 Is a privilege

00:15:40.860 You want to hear

00:15:41.320 What's going to call you lazy though

00:15:42.260 Huh

00:15:42.760 You know who's going to belittle that

00:15:44.140 Probably one of those

00:15:45.900 Other women 0.95

00:15:46.500 Yeah

00:15:46.840 Men aren't going to look down 1.00

00:15:48.080 To you for that

00:15:48.560 It's the competition

00:15:49.760 This is why it's important

00:15:51.100 No they wouldn't

00:15:51.920 Maybe

00:15:52.100 He's completely right

00:15:54.620 He's completely right

00:15:55.340 Weak men

00:15:56.080 I don't think men would 0.81

00:15:56.940 Weak men who might as well

00:15:58.540 Be women 0.99

00:15:58.900 This is why women 1.00

00:16:00.160 Need to be very careful

00:16:01.000 Who they keep around

00:16:01.720 Because a lot of times

00:16:02.380 You're in competition

00:16:02.980 With each other

00:16:03.560 And misery loves company

00:16:04.560 Whenever a woman now on social media

00:16:06.700 When they see like a famous woman in a happy relationship 0.97

00:16:08.700 You see them all the time trying to bring them down

00:16:10.580 Trying to catch them cheating

00:16:11.460 They want to be at the same level because it's jealousy 0.77

00:16:13.940 Misery loves company

00:16:15.180 And so a lot of the friendships that women have

00:16:17.140 They aren't productive whatsoever 1.00

00:16:18.460 A lot of them are feeding garbage 0.89

00:16:19.580 When you get in a breakup, when you have problems with your boyfriend 0.97

00:16:21.520 And you go talk to your girlfriends, what do they say?

00:16:23.920 Leave him, leave him right now, let's go to the club 1.00

00:16:26.140 They don't actually promote anything positive

00:16:28.400 They just want to bring you back down to degeneracy

00:16:30.360 And watch out, she might text him

00:16:31.920 I had a friend that told me to leave him but was texting him

00:16:34.540 Those are female friends 0.99

00:16:36.680 And that's what's really destructive about feminism 1.00

00:16:38.580 Is that you talk about female empowerment

00:16:40.160 And then you guys bring each other down more than men do 0.99

00:16:42.480 That's actually the real misogyny

00:16:44.480 Is you trying to destroy each other's lives

00:16:46.260 And ruin each other's relationships for jealousy

00:16:47.920 We're not the misogynists because I'm speaking aggressive

00:16:50.180 It's misogynists to not want a woman to be a mother

00:16:52.680 Which is the happiest state a woman could ever be in

00:16:54.840 How can you say that?

00:16:56.600 What did I say that's wrong?

00:16:58.360 What is wrong about what I said?

00:16:59.840 Just say what you just said again

00:17:01.220 I'm not repeating it for you

00:17:02.200 Right now, perfect example

00:17:04.320 You didn't even hear what I said, it's the way I said it

00:17:06.440 And now you're upset, you don't even know why you're mad

00:17:08.160 I know what you said, but can you hear yourself speaking

00:17:10.500 Okay, what did he say that was wrong?

00:17:12.300 It's how I said it, not what I said

00:17:13.540 What did he say that was wrong?

00:17:15.940 What about all the barren women? What about women that can't have kids? 1.00

00:17:19.240 They're miserable 0.98

00:17:20.200 Yeah, but those are outliers 0.98

00:17:21.880 Have you ever spoken to a woman that can't have kids 1.00

00:17:25.000 That's barren? 0.98

00:17:26.280 They're usually miserable, they're not happy with that

00:17:28.800 And if you talk to, you know what percentage of women 1.00

00:17:30.820 That don't have kids are happy with it

00:17:32.240 Less than 20%

00:17:33.560 So the majority of women 1.00

00:17:35.800 That don't have kids are not happy

00:17:37.760 So he's right, what did he say that was wrong?

00:17:39.860 That's a perfect example of feelings over facts

00:17:41.900 She pulled the Greta Thunberg 0.52

00:17:43.040 Tell me, what did he say that was incorrect?

00:17:45.520 She went, how dare you? 1.00

00:17:46.660 He exists

00:17:47.360 What did I say that was wrong?

00:17:50.380 Yeah, what did he say?

00:17:51.940 It's just like, you're throwing out these facts

00:17:54.240 Like a woman's sole purpose 1.00

00:17:56.240 A woman's sole purpose is to be a mother 1.00

00:17:58.640 there's nothing more

00:18:01.180 there's nothing more okay whilst I do believe

00:18:03.220 there is nothing more important than

00:18:05.080 not actually I don't believe that

00:18:07.060 I don't believe that there's more to women 1.00

00:18:09.140 in society

00:18:09.940 what's more important than having children

00:18:12.440 name five things

00:18:14.860 being healthy

00:18:15.700 I'm not asking you Dinalva 1.00

00:18:17.620 what's name five things

00:18:18.900 being healthy

00:18:21.940 being healthy is a pre-work

00:18:25.140 your actual career

00:18:28.360 your dreams from a little girl yeah we from from a child all girls we all have a dream like

00:18:33.980 whatever the prince charming usually not all of us have the being having dream being stable okay

00:18:39.320 okay okay so wait wait wait i just want to talk to you so so your career what else what else is

00:18:45.240 more important your mental stability your health your um contribution to society outside of

00:18:52.640 a motherhood so so you're you're 65 okay by yourself okay your career is more important

00:18:59.780 yeah i'm a cat mom and i've got a great career i've made i've made i've left i've made my mark

00:19:04.600 in this world just like a man has like just like because if a man doesn't have kids at 65 the

00:19:09.320 society look at him in any way i agree that mental stability is important but for me if i hit let's

00:19:14.280 say 30 and i have no kids my mental stability will be very low i will be depressed and even

00:19:18.600 though i want to be this i want to be that i want to have a career so badly if i don't have kids

00:19:23.300 like i wouldn't know what to do you're completely right let me just tell you something right now

00:19:26.860 like you said you're going to be a cat mom no i'm saying i'm not saying i'm going to be i'm

00:19:31.400 saying there's women like that is that what you're on the right path and not only that women 1.00

00:19:34.840 turn to lesbians is that what you want genuinely i'm not trying to be aggressive do you want to be

00:19:39.240 a cat mom rapper you talk about your contribution to society it's dropping a rap song having an 1.00

00:19:45.960 Instagram where your tits are out 1.00

00:19:47.680 and then having some cats. Is that what you want to leave? 0.99

00:19:49.800 Is that what you think women do? 1.00

00:19:51.140 I haven't seen your Instagram. Outside of motherhood, that's probably

00:19:54.000 what, that's the only value

00:19:55.900 you see in a woman. The only thing that... I'm asking you. 1.00

00:19:57.980 No, but I'm saying the only thing, the only value

00:19:59.960 that a woman has in your eyes is motherhood. 0.87

00:20:01.960 So every woman that you get with... That's the most important.

00:20:03.860 So every woman you get with, as long as she has kids, 1.00

00:20:05.880 she's valuable. I'm not talking about women I get with. 0.99

00:20:07.500 No, but is that what you're trying to say then? The highest contribution

00:20:09.860 to society a woman has is motherhood. 1.00

00:20:11.500 So what's the highest contribution that a man has?

00:20:13.760 in your opinion invent build and maintain society can i just challenge you quickly didn't you say

00:20:18.500 that there would be none of this without women having children you said that in the beginning 1.00

00:20:22.480 but i'm what i'm trying to say is i don't like the fact that there's a lot of men who have this

00:20:28.200 mentality towards women i don't see your value as a woman outside of let me marry you let me breed 1.00

00:20:34.020 you like a fuck like a fucking cow and then you know like you're gonna stay there i'm gonna do 1.00

00:20:39.340 what I need to do and all your whole purpose in your whole existence is to do nothing but have 1.00

00:20:45.480 my kid but that is crazy but why is that but why is that why is that a bad thing it's not a bad

00:20:51.520 thing that's what that's what my look at look at that's what my grandma did she had nine kids and 0.85

00:20:55.120 now she has over 50 grandkids and I feel like you're trying you're making it seem more terrible

00:20:59.360 than what it is you compare motherhood to being a cow you just compared motherhood to breeding

00:21:04.240 being bred like a cow comparing like the attitude that I heard what she said why are you trying to

00:21:08.540 Because you're misinterpreting what she said.

00:21:10.560 I heard something different.

00:21:12.260 She's not saying that.

00:21:13.140 She's saying the attitude that people have to say that women should just be mothers and your motherhood is the most important thing.

00:21:18.700 And she belittled it.

00:21:19.420 No, wait, wait, wait.

00:21:20.180 That's, wait, yeah?

00:21:21.420 Yeah.

00:21:21.780 What she's trying to really say is that attitude that you say that that's what women are for, what they are about, makes it look like we're just like, what do you call it?

00:21:29.440 Like cows. 0.75

00:21:29.920 Like cattle.

00:21:30.800 Like cattle.

00:21:31.900 What do you call it?

00:21:32.540 The dog girl? 1.00

00:21:34.800 Bitch. 1.00

00:21:35.680 Is that what you call it? 1.00

00:21:36.420 Female dog.

00:21:37.040 No one said that word

00:21:38.740 I see you starting to realize this

00:21:41.360 You're the Jesus lover over here

00:21:42.560 You're starting to realize the mindset that a lot of these women have 1.00

00:21:45.460 They're comparing motherhood to being bred like a cow

00:21:47.580 I feel like it's just very backwards

00:21:48.980 Because I feel like with you

00:21:50.740 And I'm not trying to attack you

00:21:51.860 But I just feel like you're trying to make it seem more dark

00:21:54.520 Than what it actually is

00:21:55.460 A lot of men, yes they're very privileged by the fact that

00:21:58.560 They've picked a woman and they want to have children with them 0.99

00:22:00.660 But it's not just centered around them

00:22:01.960 Maybe they just love their company

00:22:03.220 Maybe they just love their softness

00:22:05.260 You're just making it seem like men

00:22:07.260 Just come and just like

00:22:08.620 Let me have your children

00:22:09.860 That's like 5% of men

00:22:11.780 It's not that the men

00:22:13.700 In the vast majority of cases

00:22:15.280 It's not that the men just look at the woman

00:22:16.820 As this kind of breeding animal

00:22:17.880 It's this very animalistic thing

00:22:21.380 We're talking about love

00:22:24.620 We're talking about he falls in love with that woman

00:22:26.280 He wants to build a family

00:22:28.840 You're not talking about that

00:22:30.860 Can you explain

00:22:34.400 what you were talking about what are you talking about then if you're not talking about that

00:22:37.960 no i don't think they're talking about that because they haven't made it clear you just

00:22:41.380 said that motherhood's the most important thing so for you your sole purpose is to get with a 1.00

00:22:45.520 woman and have a kid with her and that's i want to clarify i want to clarify career is more

00:22:50.500 important than motherhood yes or no when when i'm when so in in a society career is more important

00:22:55.700 than motherhood yes or no yes or no depends no yes or no but it depends no because because the

00:23:01.720 the way you're arguing you're just arguing with everything no but you're not you're not even

00:23:06.800 making a clear point like if your point if your point is if your point is that career is more

00:23:11.660 important than motherhood say it it depends no but not in the world because she's like there's

00:23:16.580 everyone comes from a different place here what you said

00:23:19.100 what i'm saying is okay we're dealing with the facts of the west right now in it like this is

00:23:31.280 not in africa not in do you get it like other countries where they have these values that oh

00:23:37.860 yeah um and some men still have that mentality that a woman so that woman's not it's like 1.00

00:23:44.000 what yeah what results does that does that lead to are women happier in the west i think so i don't 0.73

00:23:52.880 think so okay so how let's let me just think this through with you okay how would we measure if

00:23:59.780 women are happier in the west or in other countries the rate of women on what antidepressants because

00:24:05.100 you would agree depressed women take drugs right to not be depressed right okay so if the women in 1.00

00:24:13.240 the west are on antidepressants higher that means our results are not good if we're more obese than

00:24:17.940 other countries our results are not good so yeah we're more successful not in terms of happiness

00:24:25.100 You're basing success monetarily

00:24:27.400 Success is about enjoyment of life

00:24:29.800 It's not about wrapping and making

00:24:31.180 I thought y'all weren't paid equally

00:24:32.680 I thought you weren't paid equally

00:24:35.420 That's not what she said

00:24:37.360 Are you financially successful?

00:24:39.820 No, she means more financially independent

00:24:41.620 Success is not about how much money you're making

00:24:43.100 Because financial independence is important

00:24:44.980 For example, I'll give you a reason why

00:24:46.900 The average woman makes like $25,000 a year 1.00

00:24:50.020 No, financial independence is important

00:24:50.840 So they're not that successful

00:24:52.160 Can I ask you a question?

00:24:53.680 That's poverty

00:24:54.260 Okay, compared to the countries

00:24:57.160 Where they probably would have

00:24:59.280 A better lifestyle because they live off

00:25:01.140 Of their family's income, of their husbands

00:25:03.320 You know

00:25:04.540 Sister, can I say something here?

00:25:06.660 It's important for women to have financial stability 1.00

00:25:08.740 Because you can't always rely on men

00:25:11.280 To be there to give you things 0.98

00:25:12.380 It's not just because men are trash and men are not 0.98

00:25:15.160 Reliable, everybody dies 0.98

00:25:16.480 Which means that you as a woman need to also be able to 1.00

00:25:19.000 Count on a way to

00:25:20.380 Stabilize yourself because if you do have

00:25:23.040 children you also need to be able to provide for the children so things go wrong for example

00:25:27.060 so why that's why certain things like financial independence and having a career can be important

00:25:30.880 for women and i know this because i speak like about my mom from experience if she didn't go 1.00

00:25:35.460 to work and she was a housewife if she didn't go to work we would have been suffering we should 1.00

00:25:40.060 have had to go jump in bed with somebody else to provide for her which she didn't do so she went 0.95

00:25:44.140 to work so it's good thing it's a good thing for me to go and work and have a career i don't think

00:25:48.040 they i don't think what we're trying to say that woman is work woman working is a bad thing what 0.72

00:25:51.940 we're trying to say is women putting work over family is a bad thing because if you go back to 1.00

00:25:56.780 what Pearl said the results have been bad they've been horrible also as well a lot of work is not

00:26:01.180 really what it's cracked up to be I mean it seems like women have worked really really hard and

00:26:04.740 fought really hard to be able to go work in cubicles for you know eight hours a day which 0.55

00:26:08.820 is pretty shit you know let's let's face it not most people aren't going to become Cardi B most 0.94

00:26:13.380 people aren't going to become like a world famous rapper or you know like a super influencer right 0.99

00:26:18.840 Most jobs are not very good

00:26:20.580 So why is this importance put onto that

00:26:23.700 When actually most people are trying to get out of work

00:26:25.960 Out of normal jobs

00:26:27.540 Because they're so terrible

00:26:28.360 It's because feminism made these women think 1.00

00:26:30.380 That being a mother is a bad thing 1.00

00:26:32.800 That they're oppressed

00:26:33.520 That they compare it to cows, to being bred

00:26:36.200 They don't see any value in being a mother 1.00

00:26:39.560 They compare themselves to men all the time

00:26:41.900 They want to go fix cars like we do

00:26:43.340 They want to go wrap like we do

00:26:44.380 Why is it men don't fix cars only? 0.98

00:26:46.940 See?

00:26:47.340 And why is it men that rap on me? 0.87

00:26:48.960 Because women aren't as good at it. 1.00

00:26:50.740 Well, if I get stuck in the middle of nowhere, I don't have my phone.

00:26:53.840 Good thing I can change my tire.

00:26:55.000 Wait, wait, wait.

00:26:55.780 Look at the top.

00:26:56.560 It's a survival skill.

00:26:57.420 Donalva, wait.

00:26:58.680 The top ten rappers of all time, are they men or women?

00:27:01.760 There's a woman in there. 1.00

00:27:02.860 There's a woman in there. 1.00

00:27:03.620 Are the majority?

00:27:04.460 Stop.

00:27:05.260 Come on.

00:27:06.060 Are the majority men or women?

00:27:08.660 Men.

00:27:08.960 Definitely men.

00:27:09.460 Okay, so women aren't as good at it. 1.00

00:27:11.520 Well, that doesn't mean that they're not as good at it.

00:27:13.780 That's exactly what they're saying.

00:27:14.620 No, that doesn't mean that.

00:27:16.200 That's exactly what it is.

00:27:18.180 It's not.

00:27:19.360 Do you know why?

00:27:20.300 Because that's the same thing as saying women have only just started going into science because it's more encouraged.

00:27:25.140 But because there's more men engineers, they're all better than women. 1.00

00:27:28.820 No, women can't be good at it. 1.00

00:27:30.180 But they're just still trying to go into things because we are still catching up with something that's been there for men for a very long time.

00:27:36.040 No, because we're picking in, like, they're trying to push women into industries we're not naturally good at. 1.00

00:27:41.960 Listen, rapping is like poetry.

00:27:43.780 You're basically saying we can't write poetry as good as a man.

00:27:45.960 No, Denelva, wait, wait, Denelva.

00:27:48.920 It's like we were trying to make women into men and we're not men. 0.59

00:27:53.180 No, rapping is not for men because rapping is art.

00:27:56.400 If women wanted to do it and were good at it, they would do it. 1.00

00:28:02.280 Men as rappers sell more because whatever it is that they're rapping about as well is more like it helps men feel empowered, feel this.

00:28:11.320 There's a certain advantage for men within that industry.

00:28:14.200 Can I ask you a question?

00:28:15.960 Why aren't men top of the list when it comes to the beauty influence?

00:28:22.800 They are, though.

00:28:24.020 No, they're not.

00:28:25.060 They are.

00:28:25.860 Because we're money and not being fat.

00:28:27.540 Modeling.

00:28:28.060 The modeling industry.

00:28:29.300 Exactly.

00:28:29.860 Who dominates the modeling industry?

00:28:31.900 And men are women? 0.91

00:28:32.580 Why does Giselle make more than Tom Brady? 1.00

00:28:35.040 Exactly.

00:28:35.740 Clearly because they're better at it.

00:28:37.340 Women are better at makeup. 1.00

00:28:38.740 Men are better at other things.

00:28:39.880 We need to stop acting like we can do the same things.

00:28:42.300 No, it's not.

00:28:43.160 Because women are visually. 1.00

00:28:44.500 Sometimes there's exceptions.

00:28:45.960 sometimes there's an exceptions i know there's a male youtuber who can probably do more makeup

00:28:49.840 than me but if we're talking on a general senses because women let's be real because women please 1.00

00:28:54.880 the visuals because we're good at that it's true but we also need to ask why i said because

00:29:03.120 i'm not arguing i'm agreeing but yeah but the same way we can admit women are better at this 0.98

00:29:08.900 and women are better at visuals and so why are we so afraid to admit that men are better than

00:29:12.700 other things than we are exactly for example i would not want to have a man running a nursery 1.00

00:29:18.600 school because i wouldn't want to leave my small child with a man i'd rather leave that but then

00:29:22.860 why do you argue so hard with that matter wait wait that matter that matter better rappers than

00:29:29.400 women because the results show it no because there's more men rappers and they do better at

00:29:34.860 it's like i'm talking to a kid right now okay very childish i understand why you think she's

00:29:38.960 good tv because you just talk you're just talking like what are you talking about okay i'll tell you

00:29:44.780 why for example rapping what is rapping rapping you write lyrics it's like a poetry it's poetry

00:29:50.900 essentially right okay the only difference between poetry and rapping is because when you rap you

00:29:56.060 flow on a beat cool so that has nothing to do with you being a man or woman now when it comes

00:30:00.880 to taking care of children and babies for example then there i'm going to say yeah it is about being

00:30:06.280 a man and a woman. So there are certain things where

00:30:08.200 the rule does not apply, and there are certain things that the

00:30:10.280 rule definitely applies. So I am not stupid, sir.

00:30:12.300 No, but then, chill out. Hold on, I'm not calling you stupid, but 1.00

00:30:14.220 just because you're speaking loud, it doesn't mean that you're making 0.99

00:30:16.320 a good point. I can't hear myself too well, so obviously I have to

00:30:18.300 project my voice. Listen a little bit, because you're

00:30:20.240 not making a good point just because you're speaking up.

00:30:22.120 Okay, why did I not make a good point?

00:30:24.040 You're not having any stance. You say you're not a feminist, 1.00

00:30:26.240 but you're saying that women should be scientists 0.75

00:30:28.120 too. We can rap the same, but also

00:30:30.320 I'm not the... Because I'm not a feminist, I just think 0.87

00:30:32.180 people have skills. You've been talking the most out of

00:30:34.220 anyone on this panel and you have no specific point of view my point of view is simply to say

00:30:39.340 to talk you guys just want to argue about black and white when there's great points in the middle

00:30:44.080 the same way that sometimes the rule applies where men are better at something than women

00:30:48.140 and sometimes it doesn't know that you've been on too many shows to not know that we are talking

00:30:55.460 about in general like i've told you this so many shows to know that i sit here to tell my point so

00:31:01.320 So that I can then take the content and put it on my page.

00:31:04.200 You can say your point, but that doesn't mean you're right.

00:31:10.400 No, but this looks better.

00:31:12.560 So there you go.

00:31:13.520 It's not about, for everybody watching, it's not about making a clear point.

00:31:16.820 It's just this is her time.

00:31:17.980 She's on camera.

00:31:18.980 You like talking.

00:31:19.800 It's about empowerment. 1.00

00:31:20.460 It's about calling bullshit on black and white. 0.99

00:31:22.340 You like hearing your own voice. 0.99

00:31:24.520 I love my voice.

00:31:25.380 And I like looking at myself.

00:31:26.340 This is narcissism.

00:31:27.620 You have no point of view.

00:31:29.000 You're just here to talk.

00:31:30.000 I just agree with you because you're saying things as if I should be.

00:31:33.100 I want to hear from you because I don't think we have all show.

00:31:38.500 I'm just here getting heated a little bit.

00:31:40.220 I just feel like everything.

00:31:42.440 So feminism, it's just women demonizing everything that women are good at. 1.00

00:31:47.760 So being able to give birth, reproduction is beautiful.

00:31:53.520 It is a beautiful thing.

00:31:55.500 Why are we demonizing it?

00:31:56.820 Why are we relating ourselves to cows?

00:32:00.000 Yeah, I don't get that.

00:32:00.780 Who said that?

00:32:01.620 Who was it that said that?

00:32:02.640 A rapper, Red Hair.

00:32:03.500 Is that a true negative mindset?

00:32:04.420 And I hate to bring religion into it, 1.00

00:32:05.960 but as a Christian,

00:32:06.660 I can only speak on what I know.

00:32:07.720 In the Bible,

00:32:08.420 the main focus for women is to reproduce. 1.00

00:32:11.520 So for you to try and make it seem like it's a bad thing 0.93

00:32:13.540 is literally ludicrous to me.

00:32:15.700 We're on this planet to reproduce.

00:32:16.980 And this is why I say...

00:32:17.760 There's nothing else to it.

00:32:18.760 Forget society.

00:32:19.560 Forget everything else.

00:32:20.280 We are literally here to make children.

00:32:22.240 Right. 0.98

00:32:22.540 And this is why I said feminism is demonic. 1.00

00:32:24.980 It is demonic. 0.99

00:32:25.880 It's reproducing.

00:32:26.740 It's just to reproduce. 0.94

00:32:27.420 I'm here for more than just to give birth to.

00:32:30.000 a child actually i can be a mother but i also i am an educator i'm here to help but you're getting

00:32:35.600 it the wrong way we're not saying that we're just i'm not here to just give birth to a child

00:32:38.500 guys one at a time i'm gonna wait wait thank you i'm gonna let you go go ahead that's not what

00:32:49.480 we're saying because when she asked for a fun fact i said first my career i'm not here i'm not

00:32:53.480 saying that i'm here to just become a mother to just give kids but we are saying the main he said

00:32:57.920 the most important thing is motherhood and you guys

00:32:59.940 are trying to take away from the fact of the matter. The fact

00:33:01.980 of the matter is that the most important thing for a woman 1.00

00:33:03.960 is to be a mother. You can want a 0.99

00:33:05.960 career, you can want to be rich, mental health, all

00:33:07.880 of that, that's all nice and fun but the main factor of

00:33:09.880 life is the most important thing is

00:33:11.480 being a mother and you guys are just trying to argue with the

00:33:13.920 sake of arguing because what you guys are saying, you're just both

00:33:15.920 contradicting yourself and you're both bumping heads which makes

00:33:17.920 zero sense whatsoever. What's more meaningful ultimately

00:33:20.020 in life terms? Is it having a child?

00:33:21.920 Is it having a family? Is it having those connections

00:33:24.060 with other human beings? You know, in this brief period

00:33:26.020 If you got this money

00:33:26.760 Or is it going to work

00:33:27.800 In a cubicle for eight hours

00:33:28.780 What's the most important thing

00:33:29.780 For men then

00:33:30.640 If women is giving birth 1.00

00:33:31.820 Ways for you guys

00:33:32.580 Creation

00:33:33.520 Okay

00:33:34.860 That's a good one

00:33:35.880 In every way

00:33:36.520 Creating everything

00:33:38.220 Inventing

00:33:38.880 Building

00:33:39.200 Maintaining society

00:33:40.200 Creating children

00:33:41.160 And then protecting

00:33:42.540 And providing for that family

00:33:43.880 Including a very good

00:33:45.320 Mother and wife

00:33:46.140 Do you feel like men

00:33:47.120 Have been doing a good job

00:33:48.120 At that lately

00:33:48.580 No I don't

00:33:49.120 But I also think that

00:33:50.220 It's in a lot of ways

00:33:51.300 Since the women 0.99

00:33:52.000 Control the sex 0.98

00:33:52.920 And the men control 0.95

00:33:53.600 The relationships

00:33:54.260 The abundance of sex 0.60

00:33:55.700 and the promiscuity in the agenda

00:33:58.200 that we're currently going through.

00:33:59.540 I think it's making both sides very sad.

00:34:02.800 It doesn't have to be a gray area.

00:34:04.260 That's what you're saying to dismiss the argument.

00:34:06.300 The point is like men have a specific role

00:34:08.240 and women have a specific role. 1.00

00:34:09.980 That's a black and white that I think we should agree on.

00:34:13.200 Definitely.

00:34:14.040 And we can also agree that men and women are equal

00:34:15.880 just in completely different roles.

00:34:18.840 That's all.

00:34:19.940 The world doesn't go without mothers, 0.98

00:34:21.440 particularly mothers. 0.98

00:34:23.100 They're going to be the foundational base

00:34:24.940 Of every human that comes into this world

00:34:26.660 Not just after the fact

00:34:28.160 But while she's holding the baby 0.98

00:34:29.360 How she treats her body 1.00

00:34:30.760 While that baby's there

00:34:31.680 The words that are coming out of her mouth

00:34:33.460 And that baby can hear you 0.93

00:34:34.460 While she's in there 1.00

00:34:35.200 Everything about that situation

00:34:37.000 And the atmosphere

00:34:37.660 That the mother creates 0.99

00:34:38.720 Is going to have a lot to do

00:34:39.920 With the mental health of that child

00:34:40.980 Boy or girl

00:34:41.740 It's the most important job in the world

00:34:44.040 And then at some point

00:34:45.500 When it's a little boy

00:34:46.420 I am very big on handing

00:34:47.720 That little boy off to the father

00:34:48.940 And the father gets to

00:34:51.360 Take care of that family

00:34:52.320 He gets to be a man

00:34:53.520 he gets to be the hero for that situation that's what's broken about everything we're talking about

00:34:57.460 you know in those situations may i ask so obviously that's really important but

00:35:02.800 how do we then just to make it a little bit more rounded and a bit more like wholesome

00:35:07.520 what advice do you give to the women in terms of what do they have to build for themselves to 1.00

00:35:11.980 prepare for a potentially eventuality or the occurrence of your husband passing away early

00:35:18.000 maybe you've got two kids for him one is three one is one what do you tell a woman that has just

00:35:22.220 completely given herself to being a housewife and doesn't actually have skills or the abilities 1.00

00:35:26.460 or knowledge to strive in the world because she just wanted to be a housewife and then what does

00:35:32.200 that what happens to her i mean so there's a bunch of technical ways like life insurance 1.00

00:35:36.660 but there's also the man you pick you know women a lot of their success in life is picking the 1.00

00:35:42.480 right horse hate to say you better pick a good one you know people get shot sometimes if they

00:35:47.040 run over people get shot i doubt that i'm gonna get shot in life i'm not gonna be in that situation 0.99

00:35:50.800 No, I'm just saying in general, pick a man that's not going to get fucking shot. 0.99

00:35:53.920 You understand what I'm saying? 0.98

00:35:55.420 Like, it's not about him going off to war. 0.99

00:35:56.820 He shouldn't have been in the damn neighborhood. 1.00

00:35:58.000 Okay. 1.00

00:35:58.340 Right? 1.00

00:35:58.500 He shouldn't have been doing the shit he was doing. 1.00

00:35:59.700 He shouldn't have been fucking with the people he was fucking with. 1.00

00:36:01.400 So a woman, one of the most important things she can do in her life is pick the right partner. 0.99

00:36:04.760 Of course.

00:36:05.260 You know, you have to choose that risk.

00:36:06.740 Yeah, and look, and you have a lot of risk in that, especially nowadays, because you get

00:36:10.360 to that 1% man, you pick him, and now you're dealing with promiscuity and all those other

00:36:14.400 things, right?

00:36:15.060 And that's a whole different subject, but what I'm saying is, is if a woman can find

00:36:18.660 a man that is strong and she can look up to and

00:36:20.660 she can trust and there's a real relationship there

00:36:22.600 she has no problem getting inside of her frame 0.98

00:36:24.600 and then inside of his frame and then all of a sudden

00:36:26.780 there's not a thought about you know whether

00:36:28.500 or not you know there's

00:36:29.880 feminism in the house 1.00

00:36:32.320 it's more like I trust this man

00:36:34.300 fully and guess what makes him motivated

00:36:36.580 more than anything in the world to take care of them

00:36:38.660 is that trust that she puts in him

00:36:40.340 because he takes it seriously and he becomes a hero

00:36:42.600 in life and he wants nothing more than

00:36:44.540 to create a life for that woman and those

00:36:46.520 kids that would have been one

00:36:48.340 10th of what it had been if he would not have come into that life and that's what motivates men

00:36:51.900 it truly truly is and if you have a good woman that can accept that and accept you being the

00:36:56.880 leader you will kill for her yeah and so that woman will have nothing to worry about because 1.00

00:37:00.660 he'll do his duty as a man and a real man would take care of his family protect provide and a

00:37:05.600 woman that supports him is nothing i promise you they're happiest women in the world yeah

00:37:09.400 sorry can i it's okay if i can ask them a question would you guys want your wives i 1.00

00:37:13.980 don't know if you guys are married but would you guys want your wives to work 0.99

00:37:16.360 Ideally no

00:37:17.540 Why no

00:37:19.120 I'd rather them raise the kids

00:37:21.920 I'm going to provide

00:37:23.580 I'm going to be the one bringing the bread home

00:37:25.020 I don't want her to work out of necessity

00:37:27.920 That's a lot of pressure to put on men

00:37:29.380 That aren't able to earn salaries

00:37:31.360 Pressure makes diamonds

00:37:33.640 Hey look that's Darwinism

00:37:35.440 That's the best name for the species

00:37:37.000 Do you guys ever think that maybe there might be

00:37:38.980 Like she was speaking about that 5% 1.00

00:37:40.780 5% chance that you might get run over a car

00:37:43.460 You might get cancer or something

00:37:44.880 I want to finish answering your question

00:37:47.340 She wants to pick a guy who is going to have the wherewithal 0.99

00:37:49.780 So if that situation, if that eventuality did occur

00:37:52.220 She would be looked after even in the point of his demise

00:37:55.300 And I don't think you should live your life out of fear

00:37:57.540 Like what if the worst case scenario happens

00:37:59.640 And I think a lot of times as women 0.98

00:38:01.360 We kind of go into situations out of fear

00:38:04.120 Instead of thinking about like what good could happen

00:38:06.380 Is it fear or is it being realistic?

00:38:08.160 I mean what percent of husbands like die young?

00:38:11.880 What percent is it? Is it a high percentage?

00:38:13.660 Yeah it's not

00:38:14.100 Even if you guys have a college degree, your chance of getting divorced is 10%.

00:38:19.040 You should be more scared of that than your husband dying.

00:38:23.400 I'll say another thing, too. 1.00

00:38:24.460 You know how they say a lot of men are bums and a lot of men are shit? 1.00

00:38:27.060 If you only, if there was a society where only the men that truly produce and could truly take care of a family could reproduce, 1.00

00:38:34.500 you would watch men's production skyrocket through the roof.

00:38:37.740 because i hate to say it men get up out of bed every morning whether they're a brick later

00:38:43.240 inventor or they're trying to make a rocket ship to the moon it is in pursuit of women 1.00

00:38:47.060 thank you that is a driving force of society but it's just a yin and yang it's just a fact of the 0.99

00:38:52.960 world so a lot of women have babies with shit men so you got to pick them like make sure your 1.00

00:39:00.380 picker's not broken and then be in a position and create a scenario and an error about yourself that 1.00

00:39:05.300 tells the high quality men that i am a quality woman and i am worthy of you taking care of me

00:39:11.420 fully and if you want to work work but it's not it shouldn't be because you have to work

00:39:15.580 that's that's my problem with a woman working is that she gets forced into working because the man's 1.00

00:39:21.420 not doing what he committed to in the beginning which is protecting and providing if she gets 0.84

00:39:25.340 bored i would let her open up a little dumb store that sells like yeah little trinkets or hair stuff 1.00

00:39:30.400 And a woman that exactly is fine 0.99

00:39:32.200 I do think that just because the man is the provider

00:39:34.940 It doesn't mean the woman has to have zero skill 1.00

00:39:36.760 And what you just said

00:39:37.760 You said I'll let her 0.87

00:39:38.860 I think that's the wrong thing to say

00:39:40.680 You'll let her have a hair business 1.00

00:39:42.000 You know what though

00:39:44.160 When a woman is like crazy in love 1.00

00:39:46.520 And there's true genuine desire

00:39:47.860 What she really wants to do is help build the kingdom 0.96

00:39:50.240 I have a question for you

00:39:53.020 Because you said you're a Christian right 0.90

00:39:54.600 You don't believe in submitting to your husband

00:39:56.580 No of course but he's saying

00:39:58.220 So you would have to

00:40:00.560 You don't believe in submitting to your husband's authority

00:40:03.800 I'm 50-50

00:40:05.080 Then you're not a real Christian 1.00

00:40:07.360 I'm not a real Christian 0.96

00:40:08.780 No, there's a lot of fake Christians in the church 0.99

00:40:11.160 No, there's a lot of fake Christians in the church 0.99

00:40:13.820 Because you guys don't believe in male authority 0.88

00:40:16.060 No, no, no, no

00:40:16.840 Because you guys need to understand what being a Christian means

00:40:19.720 Just because I said I'm a Christian doesn't mean I follow the Bible

00:40:21.980 By a word

00:40:23.180 No, there's something called being a Luke warm Christian

00:40:27.520 So you guys need to do your research

00:40:28.820 This is why Christianity is failing 1.00

00:40:31.460 So you're a pick and choose Christian 0.99

00:40:33.880 I'm a Christian when it benefits me

00:40:36.780 No, that's not what I'm saying

00:40:37.900 Can I also say something

00:40:40.240 And I think this is why divorce rates are skyrocketing

00:40:43.380 Because people don't understand

00:40:44.620 What the true meaning of marriage is

00:40:46.560 If you actually read your Bible

00:40:48.080 You would understand that marriage

00:40:49.880 Is a union between two people

00:40:52.000 So two people become one 0.52

00:40:53.560 Meaning

00:40:54.200 Meaning

00:40:56.200 Meaning once you're married, once you make a decision,

00:41:01.620 you have to run it with your partner,

00:41:03.320 and your partner has to kind of...

00:41:04.980 You guys are talking about somebody dying.

00:41:07.060 You guys are talking about, oh, what if the husband dies?

00:41:08.780 But what's far more likely to happen is that the woman divorces him, 0.98

00:41:14.120 because we know that, what is it, 70% of divorces are started by women, right? 1.00

00:41:19.360 80%, sorry.

00:41:20.240 So that is the eventuality that you've got to look out for.

00:41:23.160 Yeah, because men are happy as long as the woman's in the kitchen making them a sound. 1.00

00:41:25.440 It's because women get bored 1.00

00:41:27.840 Because the butterflies go

00:41:29.020 And then they think

00:41:29.700 I'll sod this

00:41:30.280 I'll go off and you know

00:41:31.360 Hold on Sneeko 0.98

00:41:32.180 I've got a question for you

00:41:33.260 I'm not being funny

00:41:34.040 Would you be with a woman 0.98

00:41:35.020 Who earns more than you?

00:41:36.520 That would never happen

00:41:37.240 Exactly

00:41:37.660 But that's the reality

00:41:39.100 Of certain situations

00:41:40.500 Like would it emasculate you?

00:41:41.880 Those relationships

00:41:42.620 It's not about insecurity

00:41:44.160 Those relationships always fail

00:41:45.740 According to who?

00:41:47.340 That always happens

00:41:48.400 The woman needs to look up 1.00

00:41:49.260 To her man

00:41:50.040 Always

00:41:50.540 In your

00:41:51.400 That's what you prefer

00:41:52.960 That's just the truth

00:41:53.520 Of relationships

00:41:54.300 That's what you prefer

00:41:54.780 That's what you'd prefer

00:41:55.940 Because it's not every relationship

00:41:57.020 This is just female nature 1.00

00:41:58.000 That's the fact

00:41:58.500 It's female nature 1.00

00:41:59.380 If you're

00:42:00.060 You're not a female 1.00

00:42:00.880 So you wouldn't know

00:42:01.840 Okay I understand female

00:42:03.340 I understand female nature 1.00

00:42:04.500 Better than you

00:42:04.980 I have to in order to be successful

00:42:06.320 No you don't

00:42:07.500 I do

00:42:07.960 What makes you qualified

00:42:08.880 To speak so much on girls

00:42:09.920 Exactly

00:42:10.480 Do you have sisters

00:42:11.140 This is how female 1.00

00:42:12.260 It's not

00:42:12.740 Don't

00:42:13.180 It's not therapy

00:42:14.040 It's female nature 1.00

00:42:15.360 I just want to know

00:42:16.440 How closely you are

00:42:17.760 With females 0.79

00:42:18.260 Guys let him finish this point

00:42:19.980 Sorry

00:42:20.380 What is your question

00:42:21.040 Because now you're

00:42:21.880 You're vibrating with misandry

00:42:23.820 Oh sorry

00:42:24.600 My bad, I took it back

00:42:27.740 You gotta get rid of this TV

00:42:29.360 So she can stop looking at herself

00:42:30.540 I look really nice, I like my outfit, I like my hair

00:42:33.320 Look I'm shining, I've got red lipstick

00:42:35.420 I think the reality is

00:42:37.520 A lot of men wouldn't be with 0.87

00:42:38.940 A lot of men are always talking 0.93

00:42:41.220 A certain way about a woman 1.00

00:42:42.800 Because she's not a high earner 1.00

00:42:44.520 And because she's not a high earner 1.00

00:42:47.900 She's

00:42:48.640 A lot of women put themselves in positions 1.00

00:42:51.100 With certain mindsets that

00:42:52.480 They want a man who is 0.99

00:42:54.700 Above them

00:42:55.600 Can you name one relationship

00:42:56.760 Where the woman is in charge and it works 1.00

00:42:58.520 I can't name a relationship

00:43:00.660 Where a man is in charge and it works 1.00

00:43:02.360 Every single one that worked

00:43:03.880 Every single successful relationship ever

00:43:05.880 The man is in charge

00:43:07.380 I think it's just

00:43:08.260 Complement each other

00:43:10.660 But the husband is leaving

00:43:12.280 That's not crazy

00:43:13.020 In your opinion

00:43:14.100 This is every successful relationship

00:43:16.560 This is how we are alive

00:43:18.240 As the man is taking lead

00:43:19.700 He's in charge of the household

00:43:21.120 And then she's running it 1.00

00:43:22.480 That's how it works.

00:43:23.260 It's common knowledge.

00:43:24.260 I'll be honest.

00:43:25.060 It's very simple.

00:43:25.940 Very, very, very, very few women would want to be with a man that's earning less than them. 0.67

00:43:29.820 I wouldn't want to be with a man that's earning less than me because I'd feel like I'd have to wear the pants in the relationship.

00:43:34.600 Exactly.

00:43:34.960 What happens when financial situations occur?

00:43:37.120 I'm going to have to take the heavy load of that because I am the breadwinner of the family.

00:43:41.180 Yeah, exactly.

00:43:41.680 And what you said, it's not just about who pays for stuff.

00:43:44.060 I mean, that's important, but it's also about respect.

00:43:46.280 And as I think it was Justin said before, I mean, if respect, ultimately you can't have love without respect.

00:43:51.180 And if she doesn't respect him,

00:43:52.140 she's not going to love him, really.

00:43:53.940 Yeah.

00:43:54.460 Women working is actually a madness for men now. 1.00

00:43:56.720 Exactly.

00:43:57.300 Because men now need to work a lot more 1.00

00:43:59.000 because women can get the same type of paying jobs as men. 0.79

00:44:02.700 So most men that are working an average job now,

00:44:06.180 they need to work 10 times harder

00:44:07.540 to be able to get a girl that works an average job. 1.00

00:44:09.080 But that's why they have this mentality

00:44:10.680 of suppress a woman and feel like,

00:44:12.980 okay, suppress these women 1.00

00:44:14.860 and make them think their only purpose is...

00:44:17.940 Be smaller so I can look bigger.

00:44:19.580 I don't think it's about suppressing women, though.

00:44:22.000 I think it's the mentality, though.

00:44:24.380 It's the women are like. 1.00

00:44:26.400 I think you want to be a victim so badly.

00:44:28.300 No, I don't want to be a victim.

00:44:29.760 I don't want to be a victim.

00:44:31.260 I'm not a victim.

00:44:31.900 It's minor feminism. 1.00

00:44:32.860 She wants to be a victim, and she also wants to be in charge at the same time. 1.00

00:44:35.340 It's like he's having a normal conversation with you,

00:44:38.180 and you called him a misogynist.

00:44:39.760 Or you said he's vibrating.

00:44:41.240 Vibrating.

00:44:41.840 Right, right, right.

00:44:43.280 I'm not going to take it back.

00:44:44.700 You don't need to, of course, because you're going to die on your hill.

00:44:47.340 It's very obvious.

00:44:48.860 Absolutely.

00:44:49.580 And I'm not the only person who feels like that

00:44:52.600 You have a very clear need to be right

00:44:54.400 Does anyone else vibrate with misogyny right now?

00:44:57.460 No

00:44:57.860 You're the only one

00:44:58.800 That's what you said

00:45:00.980 Yeah I'm sorry that I feel the vibe that you are a misogynist

00:45:05.080 And you said you weren't the only one but you are

00:45:06.720 And I'm happy to be the only one

00:45:08.900 You've got to be more specific though

00:45:10.280 You can't throw an accusation at somebody

00:45:12.520 It's like I know this isn't a court of law

00:45:14.360 But you can't just throw an accusation against somebody

00:45:16.620 And not substantiate it other than by saying

00:45:18.620 Well this is what I feel 1.00

00:45:19.540 He's moving like girls are stupid 1.00

00:45:21.980 That's why 1.00

00:45:22.900 It's because you're acting stupid 1.00

00:45:28.800 I'm not acting stupid 1.00

00:45:30.040 You've been saying nothing half the show 0.98

00:45:32.260 You talk a lot without any

00:45:33.700 When I post this content guys you see

00:45:36.260 The substance that I've got it's just because we're in the middle of the heat

00:45:38.700 People don't get what I'm trying to say

00:45:39.880 You're going to edit it

00:45:40.620 If you need an editor to make sense

00:45:44.440 You don't make sense

00:45:45.100 That was wrong

00:45:46.080 You just didn't say anything at all

00:45:47.500 You have no point of view on anything

00:45:49.640 Because I'm trying to fish out the information from you

00:45:51.760 My point of view is very simple

00:45:53.060 You're trying to fish out the information

00:45:55.140 Is this an interrogation or a conversation

00:45:57.020 It's a podcast, it's fun

00:45:58.900 But what I do is

00:45:59.900 The way you keep looking at the TV and talking here

00:46:02.440 You're here for the entertainment value

00:46:04.020 But you're not really here to get anywhere with the combo

00:46:05.860 Do you know why, I'm a teacher

00:46:07.940 And what I do is when people say certain things

00:46:10.160 I say things to make you understand

00:46:12.160 To make you understand

00:46:13.640 That what you're saying doesn't quite make a lot of sense

00:46:16.060 Go deeper than that

00:46:17.000 Because when you go deeper

00:46:17.860 Your arguments actually don't stand 1.00

00:46:19.140 You do act like girls are stupid 1.00

00:46:20.660 You've tried to catch me out a million times 1.00

00:46:22.180 I already know

00:46:23.300 It's funny

00:46:24.080 But he's on the opposing side of the argument to you though

00:46:27.100 You're never going to know about the female nature 1.00

00:46:28.820 I'm not in the opposite of things that don't make sense

00:46:30.660 Can I make a point? 1.00

00:46:31.240 You can't look stupid if you don't say something stupid 1.00

00:46:33.740 I don't say anything that's stupid 1.00

00:46:34.460 Can I say something? 1.00

00:46:35.480 I don't think he's making women look stupid 1.00

00:46:37.520 I think he's making you look stupid 1.00

00:46:39.220 No, he's contradicted yourself 1.00

00:46:40.420 I don't think you two are stupid 1.00

00:46:43.400 If that's how he feels, that's how he feels 0.99

00:46:44.960 But he says that in order to be successful

00:46:47.980 He studied the female nature 1.00

00:46:49.540 So females, again, in my opinion 1.00

00:46:51.860 From how you've worded it

00:46:53.060 I feel like you are viewing women 0.76

00:46:55.200 As, you know, like

00:46:58.400 I don't want to say beneath

00:47:00.520 That's why I'm using misogyny

00:47:02.500 Because you have this mentality

00:47:05.060 And it's stuck there

00:47:06.800 And that's what misogynistic men

00:47:09.100 That's how they view women 1.00

00:47:11.160 That's how they view the world

00:47:12.620 Can you define misogyny?

00:47:13.980 No, no, but hold on

00:47:14.520 Whereas in your mind

00:47:15.700 You might feel like

00:47:17.000 That's going to get you far

00:47:18.460 Because it's a man's world 1.00

00:47:19.980 In my opinion

00:47:21.680 I don't think it is

00:47:22.620 I don't think it's a man's world 1.00

00:47:24.120 Can you define misogyny for me?

00:47:25.220 I'm not going to do that

00:47:25.960 I'm sorry

00:47:26.380 You're throwing out this word

00:47:27.520 You don't even know what it means

00:47:28.340 No, I don't need to explain anything to you

00:47:29.980 It's not an explanation

00:47:30.580 It's a definition

00:47:30.960 Well, I don't need to define anything to you

00:47:32.560 I said what I said

00:47:33.240 And I said you're vibrating that misogyny

00:47:34.680 It's not what it means to me

00:47:35.640 There's a clear definition

00:47:36.840 Because obviously

00:47:37.760 Maybe we've got the wrong definition

00:47:39.140 Misogyny is hatred of women 0.98

00:47:40.400 Yes

00:47:40.780 Okay, then yeah

00:47:41.640 Now you know what it means?

00:47:43.320 No, no

00:47:43.880 I've been knowing what it means

00:47:45.320 And I feel like you have some of that embedded in you

00:47:47.400 Like maybe subconsciously

00:47:48.920 But seriously

00:47:49.820 You have a bit of it babe

00:47:51.720 Because I said so

00:47:54.320 Because of the points that you've made

00:47:57.740 Just for fun

00:47:59.240 Out of all the women here 1.00

00:48:01.200 Who thinks Sneeko is misogynistic

00:48:02.760 Raise your hand

00:48:03.280 He's like on the spectrum

00:48:06.160 But the majority of us here

00:48:08.980 We're not obviously only one person

00:48:10.700 Put their hand up

00:48:11.380 It's funny how the two feminists raise their hand. 1.00

00:48:13.900 Well, she's not a feminist. 1.00

00:48:15.480 She's not a feminist. 1.00

00:48:16.360 You just make no sense.

00:48:17.100 She doesn't stand for feminist values.

00:48:18.420 I don't make sense because I don't label myself as A or B.

00:48:21.280 I just am what I know.

00:48:22.660 Different experiences require...

00:48:23.700 You just said you don't label yourself as A or B,

00:48:25.480 but you said you're not a feminist. 1.00

00:48:27.060 Yeah.

00:48:28.120 You've contradicted yourself this whole thing.

00:48:29.400 How?

00:48:29.700 Because I don't label myself as a feminist? 0.89

00:48:31.420 I just say what makes sense?

00:48:32.160 No, it's because you talk out of both sides of your mouth.

00:48:34.580 Because what?

00:48:35.200 You make circles and you talk out of both sides of your mouth.

00:48:37.860 Of course I talk out of both sides of your mouth.

00:48:38.900 I feel like the whole, like, I'm not feminine.

00:48:42.200 Are you proud of that?

00:48:43.160 Is that, like, you're happy about that?

00:48:45.020 That is fun.

00:48:46.440 Makes it exciting.

00:48:46.780 Well, she's just here for the concert.

00:48:48.260 I'm here to argue.

00:48:50.100 I'm here to make you understand that what you say,

00:48:52.520 and the way you so forcefully say that this is what it is,

00:48:55.540 no, it's not.

00:48:56.420 Well, then you have a point of view.

00:48:57.400 He's got wounded masculine energy.

00:48:59.120 But if he was to say it softly, he would be sassy.

00:49:01.040 I can feel it still.

00:49:02.180 No, he wouldn't.

00:49:02.600 Yes, Grace, I agree.

00:49:03.160 But if he was to say it softly, he would be soft,

00:49:05.500 and he would be sassy.

00:49:06.480 Listen, what?

00:49:07.240 What do you guys want?

00:49:08.140 I don't want anything

00:49:09.080 Because if he was to say it

00:49:09.960 Softly and less firmly

00:49:11.040 You guys would call him

00:49:11.960 Soft and sassy

00:49:12.860 No no no

00:49:13.600 I already told him he's sweet

00:49:14.660 I already had a conversation with him

00:49:16.060 So am I misogynist

00:49:16.960 Or am I sweet

00:49:17.440 No your problem is

00:49:18.760 And when you put yourself

00:49:20.020 With the camera

00:49:20.740 Yeah

00:49:21.180 The reason why this is going on

00:49:22.920 Is because

00:49:23.400 You come with an attitude

00:49:24.420 It's just between you two

00:49:25.080 No I

00:49:26.020 But I feel it

00:49:26.760 And I agree with her

00:49:27.360 And I'm not actually

00:49:28.040 Being with her

00:49:28.940 I'm just personally

00:49:29.400 Did you feel the vibrations as well

00:49:30.620 No no personally

00:49:31.620 From how you speak

00:49:32.540 You raised your hand

00:49:33.100 From how you speak right

00:49:34.580 And from how

00:49:35.260 The words you choose to say

00:49:36.460 And how you say it

00:49:37.200 So do you think

00:49:37.520 I'm misogynist

00:49:38.100 Yes or no

00:49:38.740 You see how you

00:49:40.080 You have ideology

00:49:41.040 Misogynistic ideology

00:49:42.440 Can you have a point of view

00:49:43.500 On anything

00:49:43.880 You're missing

00:49:44.320 You've got

00:49:44.820 Yeah you've got that ideology

00:49:46.200 A little bit

00:49:47.040 For sure

00:49:47.500 I don't think you have

00:49:48.300 A hatred towards women 0.83

00:49:49.140 I think you're just stating

00:49:50.060 The facts in modern day society

00:49:51.520 Yeah it's difficult

00:49:52.800 It's not necessarily

00:49:53.360 It's not necessarily

00:49:54.400 Like a particular view

00:49:57.040 But it's actually

00:49:57.860 What is going on

00:49:58.720 In today's world

00:49:59.640 I think

00:50:00.020 I think feminists 1.00

00:50:01.580 Hate women 1.00

00:50:02.060 They do 0.99

00:50:02.780 Yeah they do

00:50:03.480 They do

00:50:03.960 They do 1.00

00:50:04.480 She was shitting on motherhood 0.99

00:50:05.500 More than I ever did 1.00

00:50:06.240 I said that was the highest form

00:50:07.500 Of a woman's life 1.00

00:50:09.020 Is to raise kids

00:50:09.660 And she compared it to cows

00:50:10.900 Like that's

00:50:11.760 That's more misogynistic

00:50:12.920 Than anything I could have said

00:50:14.120 Imagine if I said that

00:50:15.200 Having kids

00:50:16.440 Oh you want to have kids 0.98

00:50:17.520 You're a cow 0.82

00:50:18.360 You're just going to breed kids 1.00

00:50:19.540 Ugh 0.99

00:50:20.300 That's hating women 1.00

00:50:22.060 You know it's crazy

00:50:22.660 The reaction channels

00:50:23.720 Will pull that clip

00:50:24.580 And then say that you said it

00:50:25.980 But we're here for a conversation

00:50:28.980 Not to get edited up

00:50:29.880 Yeah

00:50:30.680 Going back to you guys' point

00:50:32.480 Why

00:50:32.940 Because I'm only 23

00:50:34.420 So I'm kind of torn between

00:50:35.900 whether i would want to continue working after i have kids from your opinion like why would you

00:50:41.820 feel like women working is something that they shouldn't do it's not that you should or shouldn't 1.00

00:50:47.140 it's just ideally no if you're with the right man then you wouldn't have to work if you want to you

00:50:50.920 can but i would rather that you raise the kids yeah who's who's gonna be watching the kids when

00:50:56.780 you're at work some babysitter that's very and so then you have a stranger influencing your kid

00:51:01.280 more than you are and you have to look at it as a place of trust and love he picked you he he

00:51:07.480 trusts you and picked you over every woman in the world put his children in you and instilled that

00:51:12.840 trust in you to take care of them while he's away making sure the family's taken care of

00:51:16.480 is there a more important duty i just listen i think that women in the workplace i think women 0.92

00:51:22.640 kill it in fact my construction company all of my managers outside the managers that are in the

00:51:28.400 field are women. And they're very good at it. They're very organized. I call them my Trojan 1.00

00:51:32.280 horses because they get more in a negotiation than a man could because it's not a dick measuring

00:51:36.220 thing, right? But at the same time, a lot of those women are past 1.00

00:51:40.560 the years of being a mother and their kids are grown and they're in their 50s

00:51:44.340 and they're professional businesswomen. But I suspect that

00:51:48.360 any woman that gets a high level guy 1.00

00:51:52.540 who chooses her and chooses to trust

00:51:55.480 her with one of the most important things in this world his children that should be an honor past

00:52:01.480 any other job that i can think of for a woman now does that mean that a woman can't go out there and 1.00

00:52:08.420 make money and have an impact on the world outside of being a mother no it doesn't women can just by 1.00

00:52:13.600 and largely on the macro what a beautiful job to have and it's just a warning sign i'm not trying

00:52:19.640 to be misogynistic but i'm telling you like having cats and rapping is not where you're going to find

00:52:24.240 your higher purpose and it's not going to give you the satisfaction in life that you could find

00:52:27.440 if you submit it to a man and it's submitting doesn't have to be suppressing it's not misogynistic

00:52:31.820 to submit to your husband that's a woman's happiest state is submitting to a man that she 0.95

00:52:36.120 loves he's 100 right you know you know what i believe if if more women would take that role 0.95

00:52:42.860 there'd be less women on antidepressants but there are a lot of women here who are willing 1.00

00:52:47.360 to take that role so what is your point there are a lot of women who share this mentality you're not 1.00

00:52:51.780 different than them no i am i've made that clear i'm not gonna lie you're not like other women no

00:52:56.860 i'm not i don't want what other women or traditional women or women that are that what 1.00

00:53:03.360 every woman wants i have a different dream i have a different purpose and that's just to be a rapper

00:53:08.880 no did i say that i'm asking what's your dream no i'm sorry that i don't dream to

00:53:13.440 what's your aim what's your aim in life that's not what's your end goal what i'm on is what i'm

00:53:18.780 I'm a rapper, that's as far as it goes

00:53:21.760 Let's say you became the world's biggest rapper

00:53:25.980 And you took that to the extreme

00:53:28.380 Is that more impactful on the world at 65 than having five kids?

00:53:34.260 Because when you're gone, who cares?

00:53:37.820 Your career's gone

00:53:38.520 What do you have to show for it in the world?

00:53:41.200 My music

00:53:42.020 Stream it, love it

00:53:45.300 That's better than a child

00:53:50.260 No, no one said that

00:53:52.660 But I'm just saying

00:53:53.720 You're not saying anything

00:53:55.480 What I'm saying is

00:53:57.960 Back to what this guy said

00:54:00.040 I just don't like them

00:54:01.400 I keep saying it because I can see it

00:54:03.960 So you skipped the dream part

00:54:06.040 I'm misogynistic

00:54:06.840 What?

00:54:09.060 You are misogynistic but you're not going to admit it

00:54:12.580 That's the thing 0.99

00:54:13.280 You think I hate women? 1.00

00:54:14.600 You don't think 0.82

00:54:15.260 But yes I do 0.75

00:54:16.540 You hate some of the women 0.98

00:54:17.060 That you probably met

00:54:17.920 Actually you know

00:54:19.180 I figured it out

00:54:19.720 I figured it out

00:54:20.700 I don't hate women at all 1.00

00:54:22.080 You said that you're not

00:54:23.280 Like other women 1.00

00:54:24.020 I don't like that

00:54:25.860 I don't like women 1.00

00:54:26.940 Who think that they're different

00:54:27.940 Who want to be men 0.85

00:54:28.820 Who want to be rappers

00:54:29.680 Who don't want to be

00:54:30.140 I have no problem with women 1.00

00:54:31.220 I have a problem with women 1.00

00:54:32.460 That don't even 0.83

00:54:33.500 Can't define misogyny

00:54:34.800 But call me misogynistic

00:54:36.100 That prefer rapping 0.62

00:54:37.500 Over having children

00:54:38.240 But I literally asked you

00:54:39.100 I wouldn't even consider that womanhood 1.00

00:54:40.480 I literally asked you

00:54:41.860 What did I just ask you

00:54:42.780 I said

00:54:43.160 What

00:54:43.720 Do you hate women and you said 0.99

00:54:46.200 Oh I don't hate women but I hate women that fix 1.00

00:54:48.300 So yeah I wouldn't even really consider 0.92

00:54:50.360 That a woman I don't I don't really find

00:54:52.340 You very feminine you're not you're not 1.00

00:54:53.760 You're not and that's that's okay 0.95

00:54:56.000 I don't find you masculine so 1.00

00:54:57.720 The feeling is mutual my point

00:55:00.080 But you have the mentality

00:55:01.580 On of these social media men like the men

00:55:04.160 On social media who have so much to say

00:55:06.160 Internet worry is like they've

00:55:08.120 Got so much to say about what a woman should do 1.00

00:55:10.100 How a woman should dress how a woman should 1.00

00:55:12.120 Like, look, you're not feminine. 0.97

00:55:13.780 Like, oh, yeah, there are women that are not feminine women. 1.00

00:55:16.800 Like, this is the real world.

00:55:17.900 Yeah, and they die alone.

00:55:21.300 They don't get picked.

00:55:22.500 Women outlive men anyways. 1.00

00:55:24.400 And why would you want to get picked?

00:55:25.880 It's not a competition.

00:55:26.780 I'm not saying it is, but statistically women outlive men. 0.99

00:55:29.620 So what's your point?

00:55:30.860 My point is that it's not misogyny.

00:55:33.120 So you do have subconsciously, like, you have misogynistic views, yes.

00:55:39.200 No, it's not any.

00:55:40.600 You do.

00:55:40.880 And that's coming from a woman 1.00

00:55:43.900 Okay, you're not very womanly 0.95

00:55:45.940 But the majority of the women in the room 1.00

00:55:48.180 Said he wasn't misogynist

00:55:49.560 And the majority of the women in this room 1.00

00:55:51.980 Come from religious backgrounds

00:55:53.760 Etc, etc, so they have a certain

00:55:56.140 Mentality

00:55:56.880 I didn't come from a religious background

00:55:59.540 My mum's Catholic, but she never

00:56:01.560 Pushed it upon us when we was growing up

00:56:03.460 I grew up pretty much with no religion

00:56:04.940 I've been to church maybe twice in my life

00:56:07.340 So I wouldn't say I grew up with a religious background

00:56:09.520 i don't think he's misogynistic and i'm also grew up in a church but my parents didn't talk to me

00:56:13.800 about marriage until my 20s because it was you know i was too young so i've only just discovered

00:56:19.020 and like these things and preferred these things just recently so let me explain let me explain

00:56:23.620 what your vibration and what you're saying and why a lot of people watch the show and the importance

00:56:27.340 of these podcasts is that there's a frustration that men have dealing with western women because

00:56:31.980 they're extremely masculine they're combative they think that they're equal they don't make

00:56:35.820 a lot of sense they talk out of their mouth they're always on social media and then when

00:56:39.160 you travel outside of the west and you see women who are actually feminine i just spent three weeks

00:56:42.620 in japan and it is a breath of fresh air to see women who are naturally in that state who act like 1.00

00:56:47.620 women who don't prioritize rapping over being mothers people who are happy that there's a binary

00:56:53.660 that there's men and women there's none of this confusion there's none of this back and forth

00:56:57.340 there's not this competition that's what the frustration is is that this is not natural the

00:57:01.500 way that you're acting your career path and your dreams your unwillingness to define misogyny

00:57:06.220 your worldview is frustrating to deal with it's not hatred it's i'm trying to explain that and

00:57:11.800 why men and probably why it's going to be difficult for you to settle down with the husband because 1.00

00:57:15.520 you don't want to submit to a man and that's how we're going to be happiest that's why there's a

00:57:19.320 rise in depression that's why there's a rise in suicide and antidepressants and all this

00:57:22.600 this is the root of the problem is feminism it's it's it's not it has nothing to do with hatred 1.00

00:57:27.380 has nothing to do with uh but me hating you i i honestly don't care about you i probably wouldn't 0.55

00:57:33.000 talk to you if this wasn't on a podcast i'm trying to explain a feeling that a lot of people are

00:57:36.680 gravitating to and why red pill is blowing up so much because it's tapping into this feeling that

00:57:40.920 a lot of people realize now and they don't really know why but this is what it is can i say something

00:57:45.820 quickly do you know why i like african men more in terms of like my taste because culturally the

00:57:50.920 same way that you're saying when you go outside the west when you go outside the west when i go

00:57:54.400 outside the west i'm more likely to find your average guy as an african man who has done a lot

00:57:59.720 more manly things the west the men in the west actually they are a bit soft in the sense of yeah

00:58:05.780 you can go make your money and have a career but being a man is more than the money in your pocket

00:58:09.220 so actually the problem goes both ways there's a lot of men that are not doing what they're

00:58:13.600 meant to do as naturally masculine men no absolutely and i mean i always say because

00:58:18.240 i travel around quite a lot you know i've been to eastern europe but also into um uh into south

00:58:23.000 america as well and you when you go outside of the west when you go outside of the anglosphere

00:58:26.940 you see the difference.

00:58:28.300 You see a lot of this stuff that we're talking about now is very culturally

00:58:31.100 defined.

00:58:31.760 It's very,

00:58:32.320 it's a,

00:58:32.500 it's a hothouse of this debate that's going on in England and it's going on

00:58:36.120 in America and it's going on in Canada and Australia outside of the,

00:58:39.580 these places.

00:58:40.060 It's very,

00:58:40.680 very different.

00:58:41.220 It doesn't exist.

00:58:42.600 Yeah.

00:58:43.280 And my point is that it's not really what you naturally want.

00:58:46.040 You've been programmed by social media.

00:58:47.640 You've been programmed.

00:58:48.440 I guarantee you listen to Meg DeStallion and Cardi B.

00:58:50.580 You follow a lot of celebrities on Instagram and I guarantee you have a lot

00:58:53.620 of provocative pictures on Instagram.

00:58:54.860 This is what happens when you follow that path

00:58:57.780 And when you think that being a mother

00:58:59.060 Is comparable to being a cow

00:59:00.660 It's not what you naturally want 0.92

00:59:03.060 You have been brainwashed

00:59:03.960 And you wouldn't be with a woman who makes more than you 0.99

00:59:06.380 So you're brainwashed yourself, babe

00:59:08.020 You would find it emasculating

00:59:10.240 Like you don't like the fact that there's women now 1.00

00:59:12.700 Who can earn the same amount as you

00:59:14.800 Doing the same thing as you

00:59:16.300 Actually earn more than you

00:59:17.620 Doing the same thing as you

00:59:18.820 I asked you to name one relationship where that's worked

00:59:21.280 And I've asked you the same question and you couldn't

00:59:23.580 So what's your point?

00:59:24.460 A relationship where the man's in charge 0.78

00:59:26.460 And the man makes more

00:59:27.220 Can I tell a factual story

00:59:29.040 Cardi B, one of the biggest rappers

00:59:32.620 Actually came out on Twitter

00:59:33.940 And she said she wants to stop rapping

00:59:35.400 And just focus on raising her children 1.00

00:59:36.860 Because that's what makes her happy

00:59:38.460 So do you still feel like being a rapper

00:59:40.960 Is what's going to give you genuine happiness

00:59:42.960 If the biggest rapper in the world

00:59:44.480 Is willing to give that up

00:59:46.200 She got cash

00:59:46.980 And they sell you a lie

00:59:49.360 They go on a song and say I don't cook, I don't clean

00:59:51.580 And then they really want to

00:59:53.420 Or Beyonce will make a song, all the single ladies, and she's married. 1.00

00:59:56.920 And stayed with a guy that she did.

00:59:58.740 And they're instilling this brainwashing because it sounds good because it makes you feel empowered.

01:00:02.820 It gives you dopamine in the moment, but it's not really what gives you long-term serotonin, actual happiness, actual higher purpose.

01:00:08.520 It's a drug.

01:00:09.140 It's like smoking a cigarette.

01:00:10.320 Can you hunt?

01:00:12.420 Yeah, I can.

01:00:13.320 Yeah?

01:00:13.700 Can you fight?

01:00:14.620 Of course.

01:00:15.280 Okay, that's good.

01:00:16.060 I can do fighting.

01:00:18.180 So you're good.

01:00:19.600 You're still a hard man deep down.

01:00:21.340 Even though you started a career online looking for trouble

01:00:24.000 You're still a man

01:00:24.940 There's a lot of men

01:00:26.800 That can't do that

01:00:28.620 I'll ask them can you hunt

01:00:29.900 And we tell them to

01:00:32.260 And this is the reason that Justin Waller is so successful

01:00:34.400 And why people need this online

01:00:35.920 Is because men can't live in this 1.00

01:00:37.580 I don't believe in, I'm not going to say

01:00:39.780 You need to improve or else you're going to fall behind

01:00:41.760 Women can believe in this delusional 1.00

01:00:43.720 They can just believe in nothing

01:00:45.300 They can say I'm going to be a rapper with cats when I'm 65

01:00:48.080 And then people won't check you

01:00:49.140 And if I do check you, I'm misogynistic

01:00:51.160 When you uplift men and you tell them the truth, it's like, yo, thank you for telling me that.

01:00:54.820 I need to improve.

01:00:55.820 Women don't want to hear it. 1.00

01:00:56.700 They want to stay in this cycle of nothing.

01:00:59.520 Yeah.

01:00:59.980 I guess, I mean, because obviously you're not sitting here with guys that are not like you, then you can't sit here and obviously say, yeah, women are also acting a bit more masculine. 0.99

01:01:08.640 I do.

01:01:09.000 I have my friends from back in the day, from back in New York.

01:01:11.060 A lot of them are still in the same spot that they were in college.

01:01:12.940 And I tell them, man, you got to step your game up.

01:01:14.940 That's good.

01:01:15.380 I'll talk to them the same way.

01:01:16.780 It sounds aggressive, but people need to hear that because no one talks to them like that.

01:01:20.400 Okay, so that's nice because you saying that and you being able to own up to that brings more balance to your argument.

01:01:25.760 Because the problem is when we sit in these conversations, we're usually saying women, women, women, women.

01:01:29.680 Well, the difference is for the men to get on this podcast, here's the difference.

01:01:33.240 You can just be a girl and be on this podcast.

01:01:35.180 We don't really care what you've done.

01:01:36.400 To be a man on this podcast, you've had to have done something.

01:01:39.520 You think they're going to go to a club and recruit guys to be here?

01:01:43.680 You wouldn't sit here.

01:01:45.200 These guys are accomplished in their field.

01:01:46.840 That's why we get to sit down with average women. 1.00

01:01:48.820 And do you know why you get to sit down with average women? 1.00

01:01:51.440 Not me included, obviously.

01:01:53.120 You're above average, you're different.

01:01:54.840 Thank you.

01:01:55.560 Because actually there's a massive need and, you know,

01:02:00.180 urge for people to get onto women, which I do get. 0.98

01:02:03.280 But then there's also a moment where you have to chill out

01:02:05.620 because you're not actually speaking to just average women.

01:02:08.460 You don't actually know this from anywhere.

01:02:09.620 So when you have an attitude of almost like wanting to make us patronize

01:02:14.920 almost what we say with such a challenge,

01:02:18.260 Yeah, that's why you come across as misogyny

01:02:20.440 Well, I need to get through because this is a common problem

01:02:22.460 That a lot of guys face

01:02:23.320 She started off by saying she's vibrating with misogyny 0.99

01:02:25.740 You're vibrating, not me

01:02:27.520 And what I feel to say

01:02:29.840 And then people don't check that

01:02:30.800 It's important to check that out

01:02:32.520 You can't just let that slide

01:02:33.780 Hold on, what I feel to say

01:02:34.900 Actually, never mind

01:02:37.660 Exactly, you need to call it out when people make no sense

01:02:40.720 Or else we're going to keep living in clown world

01:02:42.060 Can I challenge you both? 0.54

01:02:43.580 Can I challenge you both?

01:02:46.300 So...

01:02:46.620 i feel like these new age internet men are like very destructive to these young men out there

01:02:52.000 because you have of you have an opinion you have a voice you're very vocal about it and you stand

01:02:57.340 strong in your point and like you know you've got this andrew tate passport bros things that

01:03:01.620 what you're getting at because you're kind of that's all going back in different countries

01:03:05.340 women are feminine la de la de la sounding like some nonsense stuff that other guys jump because 1.00

01:03:10.840 the guy's never going to look at a woman to for influence like let's be real and real we're not 0.85

01:03:15.860 real men a lot of men will not look and this is where um in rap and other careers fields where

01:03:22.500 women are at the top men will not they look they don't look at you and think oh yeah but this 0.63

01:03:29.300 person can influence this this person can influence me or this person like it can't come from a woman 0.98

01:03:34.780 but whereas if andrew tate does it it's like oh yeah let's jump on the bandwagon because he's a

01:03:38.620 guy i'm a guy like you only want to relate to someone because of yeah but a gender role like

01:03:43.540 Let's be real.

01:03:44.600 One of the reasons that's happening, though,

01:03:46.100 is because people like Tate and, you know,

01:03:48.640 the gentleman sitting here are redressing the balance

01:03:51.560 because the reason that they've been so popular

01:03:54.120 and they've blown up to such an extent

01:03:55.300 is because they're going against what is the prevailing narrative.

01:03:58.160 And the prevailing narrative is basically telling guys,

01:04:00.360 you know, be a nice guy, buy our flowers, you know,

01:04:04.100 take on 15 dates, you know, this kind of thing.

01:04:05.940 And all of that kind of thing hasn't worked.

01:04:08.400 But the first thing that he said is that he's a nice guy.

01:04:10.640 So refine what you mean by...

01:04:11.800 But he's a nice guy.

01:04:12.200 yeah so what does that mean then so he's a nice guy but he's like this and he's like that like

01:04:16.180 it's not making any sense like i said these internet boys a lot of men on the internet

01:04:20.060 are being brainwashed like they are being like the women okay yeah the women are being brainwashed 1.00

01:04:25.020 but yeah we have maybe a few sensible men who can go you know you're not gonna go for every

01:04:29.860 single woman anyways there's one wife okay i need you what did they say what did they say that's not

01:04:34.640 true what have they said andrew tate andrew tate one thing he said not true i don't disagree with

01:04:41.880 what andrew tate says i'm just saying that he's influenced what what what does he say it's how

01:04:46.840 he's saying it like there's a way to say it and i don't agree that's enough that's enough that's

01:04:54.560 enough that's the perfect point because brainwashing implies that you're lying that you're

01:04:58.180 feeding him a lie it's not what i'm saying because you can't refute any of it it's how i'm saying it

01:05:02.200 and this is the western world we prioritize the way you feel your vibrations of misogyny over what

01:05:07.720 is true and what's false but people are not going to listen to you if you're not telling the truth

01:05:11.560 If what you're saying is flying over a lot of people's heads,

01:05:14.960 all you want,

01:05:15.620 no,

01:05:15.820 not mine.

01:05:16.560 Cause I don't believe in what you're saying.

01:05:18.080 Anyway,

01:05:18.580 it's like you,

01:05:19.300 you said,

01:05:20.240 you know,

01:05:20.760 a woman's nature,

01:05:21.660 like you don't,

01:05:22.360 you will never know a woman's nature.

01:05:24.060 You don't bleed once a month,

01:05:25.440 bro.

01:05:25.760 You're never going to know what it's like.

01:05:27.580 No,

01:05:27.760 but it's a woman's nature. 1.00

01:05:28.960 So what are you talking about?

01:05:30.020 It's a woman's nature, 1.00

01:05:31.220 female nature. 1.00

01:05:34.340 I want to hear from you.

01:05:36.040 I just,

01:05:36.400 you haven't talked much.

01:05:37.660 Yeah,

01:05:37.940 no,

01:05:38.240 I don't think that's got anything to do with it.

01:05:40.240 And another thing,

01:05:40.900 I want to go back to the misogyny thing

01:05:42.540 I feel like people just throw around

01:05:44.920 Whatever they feel

01:05:46.100 Whatever they want to say

01:05:47.160 But they don't want to hold accountability for it

01:05:49.040 Like you don't

01:05:50.480 You can just say whatever

01:05:51.640 You can say whatever

01:05:53.260 But he can't say the same thing

01:05:55.240 Because then he will

01:05:56.260 You know 1.00

01:05:56.600 You will throw a bitch for it 1.00

01:05:58.100 Can I challenge the both of you 1.00

01:05:59.860 I'm sure most of you guys can agree

01:06:01.900 That men are becoming more feminine 1.00

01:06:03.460 Can you kind of understand why

01:06:06.200 That's forced women to almost become more masculine 1.00

01:06:09.320 But this is why

01:06:10.200 No, but that's because of women. 1.00

01:06:11.720 Can we just say one thing, though?

01:06:13.800 This is why, because you've mentioned Andrew Tate,

01:06:16.540 people like that, and obviously, as you said,

01:06:18.160 the gentleman here, the reason that those people

01:06:20.880 have risen to prominence is because the West

01:06:24.740 is out of balance, right?

01:06:25.860 They are there redressing the balance.

01:06:27.580 They're going against the prevailing narrative.

01:06:29.620 And the main thing that they're preaching,

01:06:31.620 everybody, is self-improvement, because men have to, 0.96

01:06:33.720 like you said, men have to step up.

01:06:35.680 We don't get a choice to not step up.

01:06:38.400 We can't just say, oh, well, I'm just, you know,

01:06:40.080 I'm just living my truth and you know it's all going to be fine we have to put in the work

01:06:44.080 otherwise we're just going to get left on the sidelines women have more advantage than that 1.00

01:06:47.800 for the most part but to go back sorry to stop you just to go back to my question like can you

01:06:52.020 both understand why women have now become more masculine so for example like a woman her husband 0.93

01:06:57.460 has left the family and now she's forced to become more masculine and work and just do more masculine 1.00

01:07:02.340 things so would you guys now look down on her because she's been forced to play a position 0.96

01:07:07.200 that she had no choice but to play.

01:07:09.020 Yeah, but women leave more marriages than men do. 1.00

01:07:12.940 Like 80% of divorces are initiated by women.

01:07:15.160 I forgot what to add to that.

01:07:16.480 And women always worked. 1.00

01:07:17.860 They just worked in the house.

01:07:20.100 Like they always worked.

01:07:20.800 They were in the field, in the plow.

01:07:23.140 Like if anything, they worked more

01:07:24.280 in previous generations, I would say.

01:07:26.000 But they still kept their femininity.

01:07:27.740 What I'm trying to say is that

01:07:28.620 women have become more masculine. 0.93

01:07:30.820 And I feel like, do you guys somewhat understand why?

01:07:34.300 Or do you think we're just waking up

01:07:35.560 and deciding let's just be feminine?

01:07:36.920 because as much as i feel like feminism is a dark thing there's a slight part of me that can

01:07:41.600 understand why women have been forced to play this masculine role and do you guys even acknowledge 0.53

01:07:46.320 it or do you guys still think it's a mindset this is why it's not misogyny is i completely

01:07:50.340 understand why i think a lot of trans people for example are men turning into women because it's

01:07:54.520 getting harder to perform as a man and so they'd rather go and become women in that sense the

01:07:58.760 brainwashing is equal there's there's an equal amount of brainwashing on the on the masculine 1.00

01:08:02.840 side to become more feminine and to paint your nails and to to act like that and you see it

01:08:08.240 being pushed by youtube and these platforms they encourage it they clap it they're very

01:08:12.040 yes queen they say yes queen to men you see who the men that are getting propped up in the most

01:08:16.280 famous pop stars and music celebrity they're they're all they you see the agenda it's and

01:08:22.520 that's the problem with the world the problem with the world is actually weak men i in no way shape

01:08:27.220 or form would ever allow it to come out of my mouth that this is women's fault it is weak men 0.99

01:08:31.680 that is letting these things happen if we if men got together and said this this promiscuity is 0.99

01:08:37.300 bullshit if men got together and said hey we need to step up and be stronger and be better that is 0.97

01:08:43.620 the only thing that i allow a woman to actually let go and let him take that masculine role the 1.00

01:08:48.820 women hold on and it's hard for women because they're like fuck can this fucker do it can he 1.00

01:08:53.180 take care of me or is he gonna come home and cry to me about his job no seriously like because you 1.00

01:08:57.360 come home we were talking we had a heated conversation yesterday about why men should

01:09:01.300 not go cry to their woman i am a big believer that a man should never cry or show emotion from

01:09:06.060 a woman and the reason is because you're if you were to translate the words he's screaming i can't 0.86

01:09:11.340 take care of the situation you can't trust me and so the woman's like man i better get masculine 1.00

01:09:16.160 real quick it's like what you're talking about with the man dies women are scared that a man 0.98

01:09:20.540 cannot that because men are weak men are fucking weak and if men were stronger women could trust 0.96

01:09:25.460 them more and let go and whether you like it or not fall into that feminine frame because i think 0.99

01:09:31.140 that's what they're naturally propense to do so would you say weak men is the roots of

01:09:37.080 absolutely the weak men are the biggest problem in the world weak men are in charge now it used

01:09:42.800 to be that the the masculine leader the fighter is somebody like that the the warrior would lead

01:09:47.340 charge but ever since technology social media you could be able to poke girls i would say this

01:09:51.940 all the time mark zuckerberg and created facebook he was a nerd and he started like he based facebook

01:09:56.620 off of hot or not and so now this nerd was able to go and uh own the sexual marketplace he was

01:10:02.560 able to judge all these women who would have he would have never had access to before and that

01:10:06.380 was a shift in 2007 now the nerd is in charge rather than the warrior so now that they've

01:10:11.780 acknowledged that men can be weak would you still say they're misogynistic

01:10:15.460 not can be are men are weak and that's why andrew is so popular yeah but my point is that the fact

01:10:23.000 that the both of you can actually sit here and acknowledge

01:10:25.080 that men

01:10:25.700 being weak is the cause of

01:10:28.820 you know just this destruction of

01:10:30.520 relationships could you now

01:10:32.820 see that they are not misogynistic

01:10:35.200 if they can see both sides of the

01:10:37.040 you know panel

01:10:38.740 plane whatever the saying is

01:10:40.700 no comment

01:10:42.180 guys

01:10:44.300 I'm going to take a second to read super chat

01:10:46.960 Sneeko I know you have to get going

01:10:49.260 I can read some

01:10:49.860 I got some time

01:10:51.420 Okay, okay, I don't want to, okay.

01:10:54.060 So, guys, I'm going to read all Super Chats that are over $20,

01:10:57.860 so if you want me to read your Super Chat, make sure it's over $20

01:11:00.920 because we're not reading the ones below it.

01:11:03.040 Okay.

01:11:03.840 Quickly, though, you can give a comment.

01:11:05.360 It's okay.

01:11:05.820 We don't need to keep on arguing.

01:11:07.840 I understand you don't want to submit and you think it's suppressing,

01:11:10.240 but we can be on the same page.

01:11:11.840 If you can submit to me, then we can be on the same page.

01:11:14.700 Submit to what?

01:11:15.440 As in my femininity.

01:11:17.160 Submit to your femininity? 1.00

01:11:18.100 Yeah, as in come home to her, give a kiss, sometimes like Donna.

01:11:21.220 Cook for me, clean for me, do what you think a woman needs to do and have the baby. 1.00

01:11:25.200 So do you want a masculine man or a feminine man? 1.00

01:11:28.100 What?

01:11:29.060 Obviously a masculine, like obviously.

01:11:31.400 Men don't know each other.

01:11:32.800 So if you want a masculine man, then I can't submit to you.

01:11:36.940 Oh.

01:11:38.360 Do you want a relationship or not?

01:11:40.520 With somebody, not me.

01:11:43.400 Definitely not you.

01:11:44.020 Because what you're saying makes no sense.

01:11:45.920 What am I saying?

01:11:47.540 You're saying that you want me to submit to you and you want me to cook and clean for you,

01:11:50.940 But also you want a masculine man 1.00

01:11:51.820 Maybe let your guard down a little bit

01:11:53.360 Become more vulnerable

01:11:54.120 That's what men do 0.99

01:11:55.040 You know

01:11:55.340 Men do cook 0.99

01:11:56.200 Men do clean 0.97

01:11:57.000 Men do submissive things 0.68

01:11:58.740 Do you want a husband

01:11:59.500 That's going to cook and clean for you 0.66

01:12:00.600 Cooking is not submissive

01:12:01.740 Cooking is just a

01:12:02.580 It's a simple question

01:12:03.460 Yeah but he's saying

01:12:04.180 So are you saying that

01:12:05.220 Cooking and cleaning

01:12:05.800 As a man is submissive then

01:12:07.580 Yes

01:12:07.840 That's crazy

01:12:09.180 Do you want a husband

01:12:10.360 That cooks and cleans for you

01:12:11.160 Why not

01:12:11.640 Okay

01:12:12.440 Have you ever been in love

01:12:14.260 Of course

01:12:15.020 Okay

01:12:15.560 So when you were with your girlfriend

01:12:17.160 Were you always this like

01:12:19.040 I'm a man

01:12:19.900 or you're not able to just like chill out a little bit

01:12:22.640 and cuddle with her 0.94

01:12:23.880 and sometimes she's the one giving you a massage 1.00

01:12:25.340 and you're giving a kiss and being cute to her.

01:12:27.520 I've tried, it doesn't work.

01:12:28.740 Oh, it does work.

01:12:29.480 That's actually quite nice.

01:12:30.380 A lot of men, the men that find a white woman can do that,

01:12:32.960 not anymore.

01:12:33.500 Okay.

01:12:34.160 Well, there you go.

01:12:34.560 Yes.

01:12:35.080 No, but I do know a lot of men

01:12:37.040 and I know this because that's the reason why

01:12:39.160 I always say men talk so much

01:12:40.840 but they don't know each other

01:12:41.880 as deep as they think they do

01:12:43.320 because men change completely

01:12:44.620 in the private company of a woman as well.

01:12:47.000 But that's why power couples make all the big moves 1.00

01:12:49.500 in this world because it takes a man and a woman i say there are power couples in the world but i

01:12:54.660 think most couples that are successful aren't really a power couple it's just a very very

01:12:59.360 strong man and a very very supportive on board woman now there is jay-z and beontae but i do

01:13:04.600 think they're outliers i don't i don't think they're not the best example what's going on

01:13:09.080 in that relationship they don't seem that happy to me i'm not gonna lie there's been public 0.76

01:13:12.160 well they're fighting over who has the dick honestly in a lot of ways and i don't think 0.79

01:13:16.820 that's healthy at all in no way do i think a man and a woman in a relationship should compete for 0.95

01:13:22.380 who the man is going to be and i think that's probably the overarching problem with feminism 1.00

01:13:26.180 is that you have a man and a woman in this power struggle over something that has traditionally 0.66

01:13:30.520 been successful being the man's role and that's not to belittle a woman it's to put her in her

01:13:35.160 grace and her beauty and everything that's wonderful about women it's it's it's a lane

01:13:39.860 thing and and nobody's you know it's not about being right or wrong it's like what are we wired

01:13:44.800 to do. I agree with you

01:13:46.700 earlier, I would never drop my children off

01:13:48.560 to a daycare

01:13:50.720 with men running it. Women 1.00

01:13:52.620 are better at it. They're nurturing. They have these

01:13:54.660 skill sets. It's about that.

01:13:56.740 It's not about, you know, which one of

01:13:58.720 us are going to take the lead because I

01:14:00.500 cannot find a relationship, and I would

01:14:02.700 challenge you to, find a relationship that's

01:14:04.680 really going to work where the woman's the leader 1.00

01:14:06.420 and the alpha, how can she 0.99

01:14:08.560 respect him? And if she doesn't respect him,

01:14:10.660 how can she love him? I mean, there's

01:14:12.540 the queen, Margaret Thatcher,

01:14:14.560 That's a good example of her being the prime minister and her husband. 0.99

01:14:18.100 I would call it an outlier.

01:14:19.400 I'd call it an outlier.

01:14:20.540 If you took a hundred relationships, you still probably wouldn't have the queen or Margaret Thatcher in it.

01:14:26.020 And I can tell you, the more dominant she gets, and Pearl will probably admit this, 0.99

01:14:29.920 the bigger your channel gets, the harder it will be to find a man on your level because you make a lot of money.

01:14:36.380 Facts.

01:14:36.980 Are you ready for that?

01:14:37.640 I do okay.

01:14:38.100 But you're very based

01:14:41.080 And you do understand

01:14:41.980 The more influence you get

01:14:43.720 The taller you are

01:14:44.900 The more money you get

01:14:45.760 The harder it is

01:14:47.860 But you can still find

01:14:49.500 I want to correct something

01:14:52.340 It's not intimidating to guys

01:14:53.980 No guy is intimidated by what I do

01:14:55.960 It's not intimidating

01:14:57.860 It just doesn't typically work in relationships 0.84

01:15:01.060 When the woman makes more than the man 1.00

01:15:02.520 So they're a bit more shook

01:15:03.900 No they're not

01:15:05.520 Yeah, because they know that if they go trying with Pearl because she's a G and I'm not, I'm going to get hurt because I may fall in love with a girl that is not going to look up to me. 0.97

01:15:14.320 So I better not go there.

01:15:15.300 I'm a bit shook still.

01:15:16.440 Pearl, how many men do you know that are taller than you that make more money than you? 1.00

01:15:20.040 How many?

01:15:23.780 Not many.

01:15:25.800 But, yeah, I know a couple, but not many.

01:15:27.500 I have a question.

01:15:30.520 oh is your like podcast more important to you than like settling down and having children

01:15:36.840 no no it's not okay then that's nice so you're gonna have the kit of the jpt thing so once

01:15:43.460 say you was to find someone not to like interview but if say you was to find someone and they would

01:15:47.760 want you to like give up this whole podcast thing and you are in love with them to have a family

01:15:51.680 would you do it yeah oh that's so refreshing to hear yeah because not a loved woman i'd sell the

01:15:56.580 equipment though i need to get my money back on it he'd say you guys he'd tell you to put in

01:16:02.440 storage you know that's one of those things but that's kind of what makes her a hero in a lot of

01:16:06.260 ways because she's sitting here doing this thing that's going to counteract really finding that

01:16:10.800 dude and and she's out here telling so many women hey listen you're probably going to be more happy

01:16:17.600 like this at the expense of honestly herself in a lot of ways this is a very expensive penthouse 0.98

01:16:22.620 right it's a very big channel she has it's like people talk about boss bitches like she's employing 1.00

01:16:28.360 a lot of people you know like you want to talk about god's work like shout out to pearl for that

01:16:32.700 you know i'll argue with you on a subject if we have to but let's call a spade a spade what she's 0.98

01:16:37.040 doing is pretty selfless in that regard yeah i guess so she made plenty of money as well from 1.00

01:16:42.940 that it makes it hard it's gonna make it harder for her because even she knows she could get a 1.00

01:16:47.260 man right but the likelihood of him being like what are you 5 11 6 6 yeah 6 foot tall yeah 6 foot

01:16:55.280 tall so that that that's down to 1 percent of the male population before the money right before the 1.00

01:17:00.880 money and and the clout like think about you're talking about 0.00 put that in the delusion

01:17:07.240 calculator and you guys still aren't listening to what i mean katie perry's her net worth is higher 1.00

01:17:12.780 Than her husband she did alright so

01:17:14.560 I mean what other option do I have

01:17:16.740 I would die alone

01:17:17.640 Okay I'm going to read super

01:17:22.860 Chats 0.99

01:17:23.560 Guys make sure you like

01:17:26.780 The video and subscribe to the channel

01:17:28.840 Okay

01:17:29.160 God of Legends why Sneeko has on

01:17:32.800 Why does Sneeko have on feminine 0.99

01:17:34.720 Pants that is like skinny

01:17:36.740 Jeans women wore in the 90s 0.77

01:17:38.680 He is wearing

01:17:39.940 Pure

01:17:41.960 um nut hugger pants um gora legends um true that's why sneko got his uh skinny jeans from

01:17:49.960 the female department lucifer um question for the guys do you j waller troy and sneko have

01:17:55.400 girlfriends who are providing value to you as you speak and if so what is the value are your

01:17:59.980 women actually helping you build your empire how or so you guys preach a lot that's actually a good 1.00

01:18:04.380 question um that we can come back to um nestle hustle um here is 20 for the rapper chick to

01:18:10.080 to stop talking. Jasmine, wish the women would respond with an educational response instead of 1.00

01:18:16.020 an emotional one. They're so defensive and make it about themselves instead of answering the

01:18:19.540 question with just logic and justification. Lawrence Bullock, the goal of feminism is to 1.00

01:18:26.640 erase the difference between men and women, not equality. Lawrence, so any criticisms of women

01:18:32.160 is misogyny direct from the feminism handbook. Silly sausage. Hungry managed to find a way to 1.00

01:18:39.940 help monetize motherhood by lowering income tax 25 percent for every child that they have forever

01:18:45.340 um four kids no tax and guess what the feminists thought about that you guessed right they hated 1.00

01:18:50.720 it zero fallout the myth of the stay-at-home wife needs to be needs to die throughout history the

01:18:56.740 majority of women have always worked in some way be it in farms field the home or at the market 1.00

01:19:01.220 only in recent times has the average been able to has the average been able to have one um manny f

01:19:08.740 During World War I and II, women had to go to factories and work in order to support the men there in war and still took care of the children, then lived a much harder life.

01:19:20.320 How are women today suppressed, and what would the panel do, and would the panel of women do the same sacrifice? 0.88

01:19:28.140 Ash, I'm showing my support from—showing my support, your Chi-Town brother, keep aiming high.

01:19:35.380 And let me refresh it really quick.

01:19:38.740 um okay so what was the question that they asked you guys i want to find it again okay

01:19:49.660 do you guys have girlfriends providing value to you as you speak and if so what is the value are

01:19:56.740 your women actually helping you build your empire how so yeah i have a couple girlfriends right now 1.00

01:20:01.780 i know it's haram but one of them runs my discord server and she's she's on top of things when i was 0.89

01:20:06.780 getting a lot in a lot of drama she was there and she was able to take care of it and make sure that

01:20:10.820 it was running properly i have one that wants to become my assistant and i'm training her to 1.00

01:20:14.820 run my accounting and do the taxes and do the paperwork when i get tickets i'm gonna try to

01:20:19.920 get her to quit her job and be my assistant the other one uh working on traveling with her and 1.00

01:20:26.340 she recently got a big payout uh so i'm gonna go travel with her and she's there she helps me find

01:20:31.400 other girls as well so and the other one the other one needs work but all of them add something to my 1.00

01:20:36.200 life and all of them help then play their role properly if they were

01:20:39.860 completely useless I think that it's not worth my time or theirs what about you 0.93

01:20:46.040 there's no woman in my life it's not an asset to me you think like a pimp and 0.94

01:20:50.840 love and provide like a hero straight up like there's no woman's not asset what

01:20:55.920 about you what's the question again sorry do you have girlfriends providing you

01:20:59.580 value as you speak and if so what is the value I mean yeah absolutely they all

01:21:04.260 provide value because otherwise why would you spend time with them right i mean but the way

01:21:07.780 that they provide value is is um not material but it's sort of like in terms of sustenance

01:21:12.620 in terms of in terms of feminine energy it's in terms of you know having somebody there who kind 1.00

01:21:17.280 of gets you um there's many many ways in which they provide value 100 so i have a question for

01:21:24.000 the women um do you want to be married and have kids yes um if so what age do you want to be

01:21:30.000 buried and how many kids i would love to be married with kids tomorrow but um that's not

01:21:36.500 happening because i still need to work on myself um i would ideally like to do that like 25 25 how

01:21:42.800 many kids do you want i want four four kids okay what about you um i would like to be married i

01:21:48.160 would like to have children um maybe my late 20s i haven't really thought too much into it but how

01:21:54.560 do you know i'm 22 i've never been in a relationship so i haven't really got an exact

01:21:59.740 age where I would say I want to get married and I feel like I need to meet someone first to put

01:22:05.060 a time frame on it. Why late 20s? Late 20s? Yeah. Why not sooner? I just feel like I want to travel

01:22:13.200 and live my life to the fullest and then when I'm ready to be selfless then I'm ready to settle down

01:22:18.420 and have children and start a family. Wouldn't you prefer to travel with your husband? I would

01:22:24.060 love to travel with someone. I travel a lot on my own so it would be nice to travel with someone.

01:22:27.760 what does live your life mean i hear that a lot from from good girls like you and then live your 1.00

01:22:33.360 life in if we're going to be honest what does live your life really mean you're traveling living your

01:22:37.900 life what come on to travel and to live my life honestly i think travel is the best education that

01:22:43.720 you can get i think it's better than any school that you can go through i think you learn about

01:22:47.940 the real world when you travel you learn about different cultures you meet so many different

01:22:51.740 people and that's why i love to travel do you think you're gonna have an easier time finding

01:22:56.560 your husband now when you're 22 you haven't had a relationship or when you're in your late 20s

01:23:01.020 and you've already traveled definitely um definitely earlier on but to get married because

01:23:06.120 obviously you're not going to meet someone straight away and get married to them in an

01:23:08.800 instant you're going to have a relationship with them first i assume anyway um so yeah i could meet

01:23:15.900 someone when i'm like 25 and then i could get married when i'm 28 but that's still

01:23:19.900 yeah can i chime in in the conversation i it's clear that the point that you're trying

01:23:26.480 to make is that the younger you are,

01:23:28.540 the better chances you have of finding someone.

01:23:30.740 I think she should start looking now instead of put it off.

01:23:33.360 I think it'll be okay.

01:23:35.140 I'm not putting it off.

01:23:36.200 It's just when it happens, it happens kind of thing.

01:23:37.960 I'm not going to go out of my way and search for it

01:23:42.160 and make it my sole purpose, but I think when the time is right,

01:23:46.180 the world will give me someone that's meant for me.

01:23:49.700 Can I ask you a question?

01:23:50.860 so do you think um age is an indicator for you as to picking a partner like is it is it like if

01:23:58.820 she's older then you don't want her if she's younger it's like preferably your your type of 0.98

01:24:04.860 woman has to be between a certain age etc have you like is well what's your name by the way me

01:24:11.680 yeah danielle danielle is like a perfect example of a girl that i would date that i would like to

01:24:16.380 go out with 22 hasn't had a relationship uh very pretty i would rather date her now than when she 1.00

01:24:22.780 was 32 and traveled the world completely agree you know why because a man that's traveled the

01:24:29.140 world like we've all done here we know that the girl that has instagram photos and multiple 0.60

01:24:36.280 multiple countries was not only living her life but statistically i slept with a lot more men 1.00

01:24:40.740 you know what i'm saying that's what your life means yeah that's what the journey means and we 0.98

01:24:45.740 call it the cock carousel. And I don't mean to be crude, but a woman that has been more 1.00

01:24:51.460 promiscuous and traveled more and done all these different things, then what do you have

01:24:55.200 to give her that's going to make her life magic anyway? So when we're talking about

01:24:58.380 being the hero and wanting, like no man wants a woman that he can't save from a castle and

01:25:02.680 dragon, that doesn't mean the woman needs to be saved or she's broken. That's the beautiful

01:25:06.800 thing about love. So if she's done all the experience, for example, if you get in a Lamborghini

01:25:11.440 and you know how to use the handle on the door,

01:25:13.460 it tells me something.

01:25:15.160 You understand what I'm saying?

01:25:16.080 Now, if you can't get in, you're like,

01:25:17.440 how does it, like when a girl gets in my G-Wagon, 1.00

01:25:19.740 if she can't, like, I'm like, nah.

01:25:22.580 I want to show you the world, Danielle.

01:25:23.920 I don't want someone else to show you.

01:25:25.740 Say it again?

01:25:26.680 Tanya, but with a D.

01:25:27.740 Tanya.

01:25:28.240 Tanya.

01:25:28.700 Yeah.

01:25:29.560 We'll get used to it.

01:25:30.620 But does what I'm saying make sense?

01:25:32.440 Like a man wants a woman that has preserved herself 1.00

01:25:35.540 in many, many ways.

01:25:36.500 Like you have a relationship.

01:25:37.740 So if a woman has done any sort of sex work, it's not... 1.00

01:25:44.000 Oh, that's completely out, obviously.

01:25:46.260 That's very obvious. 0.99

01:25:47.760 I would never wife up a girl that her job was to have sex with men. 1.00

01:25:51.000 No, that's absolutely foolish. 1.00

01:25:52.420 But hoes get wifed the quickest. 1.00

01:25:54.720 Yeah, because they're simps.

01:25:55.780 They're the easiest ones.

01:25:56.680 And then it fails.

01:25:57.520 Because the hoe or the sex worker doesn't want to have sex for money any longer. 1.00

01:26:02.940 So she finds some fool to pay for her life. 1.00

01:26:05.920 And then she texts me and I sleep with her. 0.93

01:26:07.380 Are you on OnlyFans?

01:26:08.620 No, not me.

01:26:09.620 Oh.

01:26:10.260 Do you understand what I'm saying?

01:26:11.120 Like, that's, like, no quality man, no man that's going to be worth his salt is going 0.52

01:26:15.460 to pick up a sex worker, no. 1.00

01:26:17.520 Why would he have to?

01:26:18.580 Because if he's high level, he can get a girl like her.

01:26:22.760 And I don't even mean that to be disrespectful.

01:26:25.280 Like, I'm not trying to disrespect sex workers.

01:26:27.340 I'm telling you right now, I would never marry one.

01:26:29.400 Well, first of all, marriage is a different subject, but I would never make her, you know, 0.98

01:26:34.220 part of my life at all, ever.

01:26:36.820 But then don't you pay for it?

01:26:39.720 Who pays for it? 0.99

01:26:40.500 No, I'm just saying because there's men that have this ideology.

01:26:44.160 No, I said every woman is an asset. 1.00

01:26:45.700 Okay.

01:26:46.460 A man's job is to build a woman to the woman that it takes to take her where he's going. 0.95

01:26:51.700 Interesting.

01:26:52.380 Build her.

01:26:52.980 A man should build a woman. 1.00

01:26:54.980 And that means by investing into her, like, hey, baby, I just said this yesterday.

01:26:58.740 It's like, hey, listen, we're going to go to this event.

01:27:01.020 I'm going to get you this dress.

01:27:02.880 Do it like this. 0.99

01:27:04.200 A little less titties. 0.57

01:27:05.100 the for the fork start here and go in you want to you want to build her up and make her be able to 1.00

01:27:10.480 come up because you're trying to get up the social classes right if you really love her you'll

01:27:14.680 develop her and build her to take her with you that's what you do for a woman that's how you 0.99

01:27:18.660 build a woman but a woman that's been giving her body away to all the other guys at the table 1.00

01:27:23.200 because the rich guys that pay for sex they'd be like i had that girl last year in marbella 1.00

01:27:26.840 Yeah, no fucking way 1.00

01:27:28.700 No fucking way 0.99

01:27:30.460 Do you want to be married? 1.00

01:27:34.380 Skip me, please

01:27:35.580 Marriage in the traditional sense

01:27:40.480 Is not really something that bothers me

01:27:41.780 I'd rather have a partnership

01:27:42.260 You want to do the two houses thing, don't you?

01:27:45.040 I'd rather have a partnership

01:27:46.140 And I'd rather have a man present in my life

01:27:48.860 But it doesn't have to be like

01:27:50.220 Overarching and overwhelming

01:27:51.980 With the way that people are making it seem nowadays

01:27:54.200 I fully agree with what you're saying

01:27:56.220 And I think that for me to be able to actually take a man very seriously, he has to be a man that can actually bring something new to my life, you know, where somebody that I can look up to and I can be like, OK, you're teaching me something new.

01:28:07.280 OK, I need you to answer the question.

01:28:10.160 Do you want to be married?

01:28:11.000 Yes or no?

01:28:11.620 I want to have a partnership.

01:28:12.760 OK, OK.

01:28:13.720 So you don't care about being married on paper.

01:28:15.880 No, you want a relationship.

01:28:17.220 Yeah.

01:28:17.680 OK.

01:28:18.180 OK.

01:28:18.520 Do you want kids?

01:28:19.360 Yes or no?

01:28:20.040 Yeah, definitely.

01:28:21.140 OK.

01:28:21.280 How many kids?

01:28:22.600 In the world of today, I think it's safer to have two.

01:28:25.020 Two kids.

01:28:25.840 OK.

01:28:25.960 And you're 30?

01:28:26.880 Yes.

01:28:27.400 So when do you want to be in a relationship, and when do you want to have the kids?

01:28:32.000 Since it's just been about, like, a year since I've rebuilt my life, I'd say maybe, like, I'll probably pick my husband in about six months.

01:28:42.760 Okay.

01:28:43.040 So in the next six months, you're going to find a husband.

01:28:44.940 Do you have some prospects?

01:28:46.400 Yeah, of course.

01:28:47.340 Okay.

01:28:48.300 So you got a list?

01:28:50.000 I've got, well.

01:28:52.040 Anyone in the chat?

01:28:53.420 And he's ready to marry you within six months.

01:28:55.960 yeah okay and so then you're gonna or not sorry not get married but being that in a relationship

01:29:01.280 it's very listen and then when do you when do you want your first kid by um i mean i don't really

01:29:06.680 go into people to meet people superficially i tend to go quite okay i need you to answer

01:29:10.120 so wait wait i'm just giving 31 32 33 34 35 like it depends on how the relationship 31 32 33 it's

01:29:19.180 not about age about how many well it is about age you know no essentially i'm not gonna say i want

01:29:24.260 have a kid by 31. I mean, you're running out of eggs.

01:29:26.580 I ain't going to lie. No, well, I do.

01:29:28.140 And actually, just being 30 doesn't mean you don't have eggs.

01:29:30.660 You're losing them.

01:29:32.760 Janelva, geriatric pregnancy

01:29:34.160 starts at 35. That's fine. I've got five

01:29:36.300 years. A lot happens in five years.

01:29:37.980 What age

01:29:41.020 do you want to have your first kid?

01:29:42.620 I would like to have my first

01:29:44.340 kid when

01:29:46.620 me and my husband have established

01:29:48.520 that we are ready to do it together. You just said you don't want

01:29:50.400 to be married.

01:29:52.560 Talking out of both sides of the mouth.

01:29:54.260 Once again, force of habit, once me and my hubby, yeah, which not on paper, but in life, once me and him establish that we can get on, then we are ready for the thing.

01:30:04.560 That's it. I'm not going to say I want these kids when he's not ready.

01:30:06.980 OK, so you're going to have the kids when he's ready, when we're both ready.

01:30:11.100 It's a conversation when you're both ready.

01:30:12.840 OK, I want to. All right. When do you want to be married?

01:30:15.780 How many kids do you want and what age do you want to have kids? 0.89

01:30:17.720 I want to be married by 25 and I want to have two kids by 30 and then my third kid before I'm 35.

01:30:22.980 yeah how old are you now 19 okay yeah 19 that's good that's a really good mindset to have at 19

01:30:32.080 that's really good thanks um so i'm 21 um i am want to be married by 25 that's my aim

01:30:43.160 and then children i want as soon as possible once i'm married how many i like kids so four maybe

01:30:52.140 four kids four kids yeah four kids but then again i don't know i think i've got a major problem

01:30:59.320 because i'm finding it very difficult to find the right person and i don't know if i'm the problem

01:31:07.360 or if it's the men well what are you looking for um someone definitely more dominant than me

01:31:13.880 um i feel like as if i've gone too far down the career route and i've obviously you're only 21

01:31:20.400 I've done a lot.

01:31:21.440 Okay, what have you done?

01:31:23.200 So I've got my dream job.

01:31:24.760 I'm an executive assistant.

01:31:26.520 So that was like what I wanted to do.

01:31:28.800 I work for a really big family.

01:31:30.940 I've got my dream car.

01:31:33.540 And then for me to go out there and try to find a man who's able to beat that.

01:31:38.620 Because obviously that's what women want. 1.00

01:31:39.960 They want someone bigger than them.

01:31:41.660 Someone stronger, someone more masculine, dominant.

01:31:44.960 But then I can't find that.

01:31:46.920 I don't know why.

01:31:47.580 I do know why because we're surrounded

01:31:50.200 By very weak men

01:31:52.240 Unfortunately

01:31:52.960 So

01:31:54.820 But yeah I'm not going to speak too much

01:31:59.340 Do you have like an income requirement

01:32:01.440 Yeah

01:32:02.220 How much does he have to make

01:32:03.300 I would say about

01:32:05.920 At least 25% more than me

01:32:09.320 Which is roughly

01:32:10.960 It will have to be in like the

01:32:12.880 40, 45, 48,000

01:32:15.380 Kind of mark

01:32:16.620 Okay, so that's, like, in U.S. dollars, that's, like, 55, 60.

01:32:19.960 Yeah, something like that.

01:32:20.940 You can find that guy.

01:32:21.620 Yeah, that's not crazy.

01:32:22.460 You can find that guy.

01:32:23.260 Can I say something just quickly to her?

01:32:25.180 No, I'm going to ask her.

01:32:26.860 So I'm curious to the guys, what are the best places for women to find husbands? 0.58

01:32:33.360 That's a good question.

01:32:36.240 Nowadays, a lot of it happens online.

01:32:37.620 A lot of people Instagram, but I think, like, you should go put yourself in situations where, I think, the farmer's market, go grocery shopping.

01:32:46.320 I think the church, you should go find a guy there, a picnic, like a little park, you know,

01:32:52.100 just go to cute places. I met, I met a lot of great couples recently in Japan. They met at the

01:32:55.240 beach. You know, I don't, I think that if you are in your feminine nature and you are doing things 1.00

01:33:01.080 that coincide with that, you'll, you can find that guy. I hear a lot of females say, um, there's a 1.00

01:33:06.140 whole lot of accounts on TikTok that base their content off of how to find a successful rich man

01:33:11.360 or how to do this or how to do that.

01:33:14.560 And they usually say, they usually target Mayfair, Knightsbridge,

01:33:19.620 go to this bar, go to this club. 0.64

01:33:21.360 The club, I wouldn't seek that out in the club.

01:33:23.660 I don't agree.

01:33:24.580 Immediately you put yourself in the scenario that guys at that level

01:33:28.080 are not looking for.

01:33:29.340 You don't want a girl who's clubbing. 1.00

01:33:31.580 I think what Sneeko said is important.

01:33:34.060 Being in your feminine energy, wherever you go,

01:33:37.660 you're going to more likely attract a better quality of man

01:33:40.360 because the problem with Mayfair and, you know,

01:33:42.820 Kensington and Knightsbridge and these places

01:33:44.480 is you're going to meet a lot of guys

01:33:45.820 who just want to have one-night stands,

01:33:47.340 but equally you're going to meet them online as well.

01:33:49.700 So it's really about the energy that you put out

01:33:53.140 in terms of what you attract.

01:33:54.340 But I think as well, going to some more like chilled out places,

01:33:56.600 going to Borough Market, like you said, going to Whole Foods,

01:33:58.820 you know, those kind of places,

01:34:00.160 more likely to meet somebody who's a bit more authentic

01:34:01.820 than maybe the more superficial, glamorous.

01:34:04.060 Yeah, yeah.

01:34:04.780 The gym's good.

01:34:05.340 Although as long as you don't start filming them

01:34:06.740 and putting it on TikTok.

01:34:07.440 Please don't do that.

01:34:10.360 What do you think?

01:34:14.160 It's hard because it depends on what you mean, how you define the man, right?

01:34:18.280 Whole Foods.

01:34:18.740 I don't grocery shop anymore.

01:34:19.980 So I don't think you're going to find a one percenter in there.

01:34:22.420 But at the same time, you know, you have to find them somewhere.

01:34:26.780 So I think Sneeko's dead on with the online thing.

01:34:28.920 And then it comes down to filtering and asking the right questions, but being respectful inside those questions, you know, say and just be hand honest.

01:34:35.440 Like, look, man, I'm looking for this kind of guy, you know, and six to 50, 60 grand.

01:34:40.200 And he also nailed that that's not going to be a problem for you

01:34:42.480 In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if you got a bunch of messages after this show because that's so very obtainable now, right?

01:34:48.580 So you need to aim higher

01:34:50.080 Yeah, and I think you could I think I think you can get higher. Yeah, you could

01:34:54.260 but um

01:34:55.720 You know also you have to understand that guys that are pretty well to do have pretty well to do hobbies 0.99

01:35:00.580 Bro, if I was a girl, I'd be playing golf like a motherfucker 0.99

01:35:02.900 You know what I'm saying? 1.00

01:35:04.540 Even if you suck. Yeah, even if you're trash even if you're trash, you know, so it's like those types of things, you know 1.00

01:35:09.560 where where do where do guys like that meet up where are they and can it not be in a bar scene

01:35:14.820 because you don't want to meet somebody you're going to be with forever in a bar because the

01:35:17.900 first question you're going to get asked is you have to carry that around in your relationship

01:35:21.260 oh we met in the club right so i i would try not to meet a person in the club honestly so when you

01:35:28.640 say the best place to meet someone is online how do you portray yourself in the best way possible

01:35:33.460 online what is your ideal ideally if you want to be wife material i would make it be known that you 0.97

01:35:40.440 had curves without showing skin okay there's a classy way to be sexy right you know the woman 1.00

01:35:46.740 that's like very clearly built well but is not showing it but she's still showing it just there's

01:35:52.420 clothes right yeah with a bit of mystery to it right and it'll drive men wild because now if

01:35:58.620 you go online and you look at a girl's account and first of all, she's got the cleavage everywhere. 1.00

01:36:03.780 But if you just scroll down a little bit, you can see exactly what her nipples look like. 1.00

01:36:06.920 I don't want a woman like that. I don't want that. You know why? Because a man gets a lot of value 1.00

01:36:12.940 from other men out of how classy and how beautiful this woman is. And if she's out there promoting it

01:36:18.180 to the world, number one, that's marketing. So I'd never accept that as a man personally.

01:36:23.160 And then number two, everybody in that group is going to look down upon that man because the woman 0.95

01:36:28.020 is out there marketing and they've all seen everything he's got so the sacredness and and

01:36:34.040 which is one of the most beautiful things i believe that a woman has is now given away so 0.99

01:36:38.620 it's i think it's very important to compete because you are competing against bbls and

01:36:43.020 boob jobs and all those things but even if you get a boob job there's a way to show that you 0.98

01:36:47.740 have big poops and a busty figure and you're in good shape without actually showing it if that 0.87

01:36:53.660 makes sense what do you what do you think about women that get plastic surgery to attract men 0.99

01:36:58.440 you think that's a good idea i think it's smart i would do it if i was one if i was a woman

01:37:01.940 i would have fake boobs for sure if i didn't have you know you understand what i'm saying 0.65

01:37:06.340 like yeah let's not cap about that and i'll also be in the squat rack and i'll also be doing all 0.60

01:37:11.760 the things that it took to attract men beauty is very mathematical in a lot of ways the attractive

01:37:16.400 things about a woman like as far as bust and shape and all those things those things are very very 1.00

01:37:21.300 Very real and although it sounds shallow

01:37:23.260 It's the basis of the relationship is attraction

01:37:25.400 So if you can be attracted to

01:37:27.320 Somebody and then be and then

01:37:29.260 Another thing I would be

01:37:30.900 At least well read understand

01:37:33.160 Politics have a strong opinion because

01:37:35.220 You're going to want those kind of things because

01:37:36.840 I do there is nothing more attractive for me than

01:37:39.180 A woman that is based if 0.99

01:37:41.200 A woman is based 0.98

01:37:42.220 Like we'll have a strong opinion about the right things

01:37:45.160 Yeah you're a communist I don't want to yeah like

01:37:47.160 I mean I mean obviously feminists 1.00

01:37:49.200 Right and here's a newsflash for you

01:37:51.100 most most successful men are based in pretty much conservative if you're talking politics right

01:37:57.600 that's by and largely and then if you get a lefty that's successful he's probably going to be kind

01:38:03.260 of simply you're probably going to sacrifice some masculinity there you know so for me the right

01:38:08.860 hobbies i like the i like the whole foods thing but online and then make sure you're the kind of

01:38:14.000 class that a man says okay i can take her and like turn her and build her and keep developing her 1.00

01:38:20.000 because she's already on the right path.

01:38:22.340 She's already the right cloth. 0.68

01:38:24.060 Men often pick the wrong cloth, as do women. 1.00

01:38:27.860 But being the right cloth from the jump,

01:38:30.700 you're giving that man a canvas to turn you into a queen. 1.00

01:38:34.020 So that's what I would do.

01:38:35.200 Can I ask the question?

01:38:36.500 I understand what femininity looks like from a woman's perspective, 1.00

01:38:39.660 but from a man's eyes, what does femininity look like to you guys?

01:38:44.140 Because we might have different opinions.

01:38:46.660 I don't think we do.

01:38:47.780 Oh, really?

01:38:48.160 What do you think the woman's perspective on femininity is? 1.00

01:38:51.160 I think femininity is someone who's calm, someone who's able to submit, someone who's able to compromise, someone who takes care of herself. 1.00

01:38:59.240 And you guys just have the same thing.

01:39:00.880 I think you want to be looking at watchwords like classy, demure, modesty, you know.

01:39:05.480 And when you're constructing, say, like an online profile, it's those kinds of things you want to be going for.

01:39:10.140 Like Justin has just said, I mean, you can look sexy, but nice dress, you know, not going the sort of the Instagram hoe kind of route. 0.99

01:39:16.380 You know, less is more, you know, with a lot of these things.

01:39:20.340 Yeah, because you're selling it cheaper.

01:39:21.760 Yeah.

01:39:23.160 Do any of you guys have any other dating questions for the guys?

01:39:28.960 If you'd want to know from like a man's point of view.

01:39:32.300 What do you think is the main problem with men nowadays and the women that they choose?

01:39:38.760 Like, why are they making certain mistakes?

01:39:41.020 I think that ethics happen a long time before you need them.

01:39:43.920 So men choose not to be in abundance in every area of their life.

01:39:48.560 They're not taking care of their fitness.

01:39:50.540 They're not taking care of their business.

01:39:52.120 They're not taking care of their career, their style.

01:39:54.000 They're not well-read.

01:39:55.120 They're not doing all the things that they're supposed to be able to do to tell a woman that comes into their life, hey, listen, I can't put up with this kind of behavior. 0.98

01:40:03.340 You can't have your titties all over the Internet. 0.99

01:40:04.920 I can't accept that. 0.99

01:40:06.120 You have to be in abundance to tell a woman, no. 1.00

01:40:08.440 The woman, and this is not to disrespect women, but a woman needs to know that you can replace her. 1.00

01:40:12.820 You need to be that kind of man to earn that kind of respect from a woman. 0.99

01:40:16.540 And when you can get in a position with a woman where she knows you can replace her with somebody else that wants to be classy, who wants to take that role, who wants to be submissive inside a frame that you've earned, then you're in the right place. 0.83

01:40:28.700 And men, by and largely, are not doing that now.

01:40:31.300 They're playing the video games and doing the weed or whatever they're not supposed to be doing.

01:40:35.560 And for that reason, they make sacrifices when it comes down to relationship negotiations that they shouldn't make and they don't even want to make.

01:40:43.200 But that's the only girl they got.

01:40:45.360 And so if they would have been working on themselves the last few years, they when it comes to the point of something coming to a head, they can't look a woman in the eyes with conviction and say, this isn't going to work.

01:40:55.500 I'm going to run.

01:40:56.320 I'm going to be the leader in this relationship.

01:40:58.260 They have to cater.

01:40:59.220 But that wouldn't. And what happens with that is she sees him buckle because he's not in abundance and then she loses respect for him.

01:41:05.960 And if she doesn't leave him, she cheats. What about the mistake that a lot of athletes make?

01:41:11.660 Because they also seem to end up sometimes with like. Absolutely. So there's buckets in life.

01:41:15.920 So the money bucket can fill up. You can be the richest guy in the world and be a fucking dork. 1.00

01:41:21.700 You can also be completely jacked, ripped, you know, alpha, have game, all those other things, be broke. 1.00

01:41:28.380 So a man can't just stop at one thing 0.53

01:41:31.340 So if you were look at like a schedule of values of things in life, you have to be connected

01:41:36.160 You have to have influence. You have to have money. You have to be fit

01:41:39.460 You have to be worldly well-spoken and be able to be articulate in a conversation to communicate because a woman is really going to need communication 1.00

01:41:45.720 Because it's going to get emotional, you know

01:41:48.400 So you better have to be stern and direct but at the same time a good communicator without arguing

01:41:53.280 A man has to have emotional intelligence 1.00

01:41:55.400 I will never raise my voice at a one like a woman. I'm seeing I'll never raise my voice because it tells her that I'll go down to a child level 1.00

01:42:02.600 She has to respect me. There has to be that dissonance because if she doesn't respect me

01:42:07.800 She's like man. I need to find a guy I respect. I don't look up to this guy. This guy can't handle it

01:42:11.460 Yeah, this guy is childish. He'll come down here with me. Yeah, that's not the way to do it. So 0.91

01:42:17.220 For me a man has to handle all these different areas of his life and some of these buckets fill and that's what you'll see

01:42:24.160 sometimes you'll see a guy get ran over the coals because he's an athlete so he had let's say maybe

01:42:29.840 fitness and money but he didn't have all those other things like frame and things like that to

01:42:34.380 make him a leader and the next thing you know he's getting he's getting divorced like that soccer

01:42:38.880 player yeah yeah that that just got wrecked right shout out to akimi no he didn't get wrecked he

01:42:43.820 actually won in that divorce did he yeah because she makes more money than him secondly right well 0.80

01:42:48.320 but let's take any athlete that gets wrecked it happens they get wrecked because they they look

01:42:54.140 at that one bucket particularly a money bucket a lot of times you see a lot of fat rich guys

01:42:57.960 they get comfortable they think they're the big boss but there's dudes out there competing in

01:43:02.420 every category yeah and you have to and you have to have the frame right i have a very burning

01:43:08.020 question that's been asked okay one second sneaker sneaker has to go so um thank you yeah thanks for

01:43:14.520 coming i wanted sneaker to answer this question real quick real quick okay i have a very burning

01:43:19.140 question that's been answered a million times but i really need to like um i still don't understand

01:43:23.600 Why do men cheat like what are the top five reasons?

01:43:28.720 It's just not just on our DNA. It's never gonna stop

01:43:31.280 I don't even think it's worth asking that question. Just accept it if you want that level of guy

01:43:35.780 You gotta accept it. So there's no reason. It's just a natural thing that they just cheat. It's natural for us to do that

SNEAKO - April 19, 2023

SNEAKO Debates ＂Oppressed＂ Feminists On Their Victim Mentality

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