00:10:40.980There's a drug called scopolamine here where they put it into your drink, and once you drink it, you more or less will be open to doing anything they say.
00:10:48.340So if I scope you, if I put scopolamine in your drink, I'll say, hey, shooter, it would be a great idea if you put on a chicken costume and go dance around the streets.
00:11:22.240I can't even use my own goddamn Capital One credit card half the time.
00:11:25.160It's like, I know, like I can verify what street I grew up on and what my, you know, last four of my social, I can't even use my credit cards here half the time.
00:11:33.120If these guys, you know, scope you and get your passport, your wallet, your phone, they'll unlock it.
00:11:37.600They'll, they have like friends in banks and like Miami.
00:11:40.740Cause you know, everybody here in Columbia has family in Miami and whatnot.
00:11:43.940They have friends at the banks who will like let these go through or however they do it.
00:14:47.980I would say travel with a group of guys.
00:14:49.820But also, I'm learning from Jewel how important it is to have locals who know exactly what's going on, which restaurants to go to.
00:14:57.000Instead of like, I used to travel and then like go to the tourist spots immediately, look at Google Maps or like look at Yelp or something like that and just go immediately to the popular places.
00:15:04.600But that's where you're going to get scoped.
00:15:06.220That's where people are going to be able to target you.
00:15:08.200But only you're just going to get a worse experience when you're traveling.
00:15:10.440the experience that you want traveling are exactly from the locals directly from the people
00:15:14.620who live in this place you're going to be able to skip all the lines you don't have to interact
00:15:18.000with the tourists you want to get that real experience immediately and i actually i'm at
00:15:22.740the point now where i won't travel somewhere unless i have my staff or you know third parties
00:15:28.020that i've interacted with from a professional sense where i can make a phone call and someone
00:15:31.400can contact relevant authorities and say hey we need proper support here immediately and i mean
00:15:36.200that that comes with my line of work but even let's say you don't have that sort of professional
00:15:39.440infrastructure globally you should still be in whether it's see you know ceo network or war room
00:15:44.420or some kind of global membership where yeah we've got trusted brothers in that city we've got trusted
00:15:49.540brothers in this city if i'm rolling with you and you've been here for seven years you speak the
00:15:53.080language you know all the good spots time is our most valuable thing i've got one week i can figure
00:15:57.980out some nice spots or i can go with you says this spot this spot this adventure this motorcycle
00:16:02.100thing this jet ski thing by the way that you're going to get ripped off that way yeah you need
00:16:06.420without local knowledge traveling without local knowledge and without your boys is an opportunity
00:16:09.900missed it's an inefficient way to try and get the most out of your days i don't do it ever aside
00:16:14.500from just the security and safety stuff it's just boring not to travel yeah i would rather be in a
00:16:19.300four out of ten city with all my boys than a 10 out of 10 city alone well said 100 because a lot
00:16:24.480of traveling you're just going to be in a you're going to do tourist shops that you could do
00:16:27.300anywhere same stuff when you go to the resort and any destination it's the same experience you get
00:16:32.240in thailand and columbia it's exactly the same but you want to be with people for example last
00:16:36.420night we were walking back from the hookah spot i took an uber so i didn't get a partake but this
00:16:39.600is something that we've done we've traveled a lot uh jewel and you guys saw a gym just randomly like
00:16:44.420some outdoor gym and we're leaving the hookah spot they all jumped over the fence and then just got
00:16:48.240some quick push-ups and dips in did some pull-ups and then just get right back to the b&b yeah we
00:16:52.220broke into the gym at midnight to get a lift in that's the type of experience that you can't have
00:16:56.140if you're traveling with your family or if you're traveling with girls you're not going to be able
00:16:59.620to maximize your time, and I think it's extremely
00:17:01.660important when you're traveling. You want to get off the plane
00:17:03.560and just maximize and be able to do as much as you can.
00:17:05.880If you're with people who are going to be slowing you down
00:17:07.740like women or like older family members.
00:17:10.060No, it is. Because women... No, no, no, it's true.
00:17:11.580Women need to pee every five seconds. Where's the bathroom?
00:17:13.760And they don't even drink water. That's the crazy part.
00:21:36.920I enjoy being able to sit down and have a conversation with you guys right now and shopping and shit.
00:21:40.620And it's a blessing to be able to sit down and talk with you guys in beautiful Medellin and have a bunch of people watching us and enjoy the conversation.
00:21:48.040Do you think on your deathbed you may regret having not enjoyed a bit more in terms of adventures with the lads or going shooting or these sorts of things?
00:21:55.120Talking to you losers is what I enjoy.
01:00:12.760Everyone thinks they're a nerd, but by and large, you were probably more confident and had better social skills than the average person or no?
01:00:19.120Yeah, I was not lonely for attention with women.
01:00:22.860You were naturally pretty alpha, naturally pretty outgoing.
01:00:24.600I wouldn't say I was alpha, but the army made me a lot more of a masculine man.
01:00:27.940I grew up single-parent household, blue pill, all that stuff.
01:01:01.120How can I go over to these people who already have their own fun, their own party?
01:01:04.040A stranger is going to infiltrate that group by providing funny stories, good vibes, whatever other value you can provide.
01:01:11.980You're going to make them accept you into your group.
01:01:14.720You're talking about heightened social and emotional intelligence.
01:01:16.780So the same way that people dedicate hours upon hours into guitar or volleyball or coding, PHP, whatever it is, I mastered my social skills by talking to stupid hoes in nightclubs and going up like, oh, fuck, I feel nervous.
01:08:50.180all the black like why i don't need to go talk to random people in vegas or i don't need to go and
01:08:53.840black belt these hoes but that model is better for society that model that you're talking about
01:08:58.420sneaker will be much better for society than all this random casual sex that everyone's engaging
01:09:02.480in because let's be honest casual sex breaks women if you're engaging a lot of casual sex as a man
01:09:06.560you're doing something that's damaging for her it's damaging for society sneaker's model the
01:09:10.360vol sell green pill and get married when you built your value that that would be good for society
01:09:15.100as opposed to what we see in the west nowadays but the problem is that yeah not enough people
01:09:18.540practice and then yeah you're gonna have to go to a you know a sharia law country a lot of the
01:09:22.360times to be able to find a woman that that has that maybe a saudi arabia maybe taliban
01:09:26.540but for but for everybody else man it's gonna be tough for them to be able to do that but yes
01:09:35.040optimally yeah dude that's the best way to go a girl that you're meeting her with her brother
01:09:38.960there or her father there and you have that conversation that's the best way to do it but
01:09:42.100are most guys gonna have that no they're not gonna have that opportunity if you harvest your
01:09:44.820and sell power until you're 32 then you can get there see instead of your 20s wasting around
01:09:48.100casual sex dating you're in the club all the time you're wasting money you get lonely you're in the
01:09:52.480gym you have to watch all this content if you just harvest that energy into what you do by the time
01:09:56.680you're ready to be married you're gonna be able to be the leader that that girl needs you would
01:10:00.080have achieved a little thing come from you know what it is it's just this islam this is exactly
01:10:04.700how every marriage works successfully in islam you will achieve a lot more if you take sneaker's
01:10:08.820model over the chasing girls model you'll get a lot more done with business with fitness with
01:10:12.320with understanding the world everything those hundreds of hours we spend on chasing women
01:10:15.940i put it to you that it's a fairly low roi in terms of building yourself as a man if you take
01:10:20.280the vol cell pill because it's not bro you are not involuntary cell of it i've seen the way women
01:10:24.800walk up to you let's be real here shout out to the incels though i'm on the same team but if you
01:10:29.860take that time and energy and you put that into building yourself as a man building empire your
01:10:33.520life is going to be better than than just spending that chasing women that's that's my opinion maybe
01:10:37.220the most intelligent approach would be something like kind of like what i do which is i throw these
01:10:40.360parties and not only full of you know a lot of beautiful women there's some high net worth high
01:10:45.080value guys there as well you're providing something a lot of people want exactly so it doesn't mean
01:10:48.680you have to go into a cocaine filled nightclub in las vegas and stay up till 3 a.m chasing hoes
01:10:53.880trying to put your dick in them you could throw an amazing house party here in uh in the penthouse
01:10:58.060you're networking you're building your network i met amazing business partners guys who become
01:11:02.180clients here but again your intent is not just to get your pp wet as my own was saying your intent
01:11:06.640but you could also use that time to while you're networking while you're meeting you know the guys
01:11:12.100and stuff yeah there's hot girls there you're talking to hot girls and maybe you have some
01:11:15.400type of filtering system where they at the very least don't have an only fans link in their bio
01:11:19.860uh you know you can't high standards bro at the very least i think guys definitely got to get out
01:11:25.460there to miami actually for miami and medellin those are you've already separated yourself from
01:11:30.56080 90 percent of the women wow by not having an only fan i mean i would have how many girls on
01:11:34.760your show on average do only i mean it's out of control a lot there's at least at least if we got
01:11:38.740like you know 10 girls at least two or three of them do it but you see that how'd that be a
01:11:41.780smart approach you're throwing parties you're building your networking skills you're providing
01:11:44.660value you're maybe making money from the parties there's guys and girls you're just being social
01:11:48.640in general makes sense and then you can kind of have the best of both worlds you're not wasting
01:11:52.340time on hoes but you are actively like lifting weights for your social muscles by creating that
01:11:57.900yeah let's be honest man beautiful women virtuous women are one of the most highly sought after
01:12:02.600things that men want throughout history how many presidents how many kings have lost their empires
01:12:08.080because of a pretty lady so if you're if you're the sort of guy who's comfortable around pretty
01:12:11.480ladies there's definitely utility there i see that definitely yeah no i think it's definitely
01:12:15.360important to you know because the thing is a lot of guys are like socially weird and strange and
01:12:19.440they don't they can't pick up cues so they got to get out there and talk to people men women
01:12:22.880be in a be social to a degree you you because the thing is if you just stay inside all the time and
01:12:28.420you just do nothing but work work work and you don't talk to people then you're going to be
01:12:31.760very socially strange and then people are going to think you're a weirdo you're not going to be
01:12:35.140able to attract a girl because video games yeah you got to get out there and still talk to people
01:12:39.000and guys it could be as simple as like just talking to someone in the elevator generating
01:12:42.540a conversation it could be as you know you could talk to a woman without it being sexual you can
01:12:46.240just start start a conversation have it going practice on that and then bam and then that's
01:12:50.220the point is is that you don't want analysis by paralysis where you see an attractive girl or you
01:12:55.180see someone and you can't even carry a conversation because you're so nervous you want to be in a
01:12:58.820position where number one you're able to talk to people number two you don't put women on a pedestal
01:13:02.440and a good way to do that is by talking to them all the time and then you'll be like okay i'm
01:13:05.960desensitized to this i can do this and then boom there you go the casual yeah i was just gonna say
01:13:10.320but i like the differing opinions here this is great this is great discussion casual sex is one
01:13:13.760of the most destructive things to society men we get the privilege of not letting it corrupt your
01:13:18.160soul because it doesn't have the same effect but for women the more penis she's had the more
01:13:22.240corrupted she becomes it's like it takes away at her soul every single pump it makes it we've all
01:13:28.980had this situation before where you've been with virgins before right you you see a virgin in front
01:13:34.080of you she's innocent she's beautiful and you're like i got a virgin and you kind of rub your hands
01:13:38.060together like satan because you know what you're doing inherently deep down is bad because what
01:13:43.160you're doing is you're taking a bit of a way now you are attaching her soul to yours forever for
01:13:47.860you you don't care as soon as you pull up your pants you walk out of the room but in that moment
01:13:51.720she is tied to you for the rest of your life and you know that you don't even you're just there for
01:13:55.480five seconds and we've had that moment and i've done it before i mean i'm trying to be better
01:13:59.320but you look at this girl and you're like right now i could ruin her or i can do the right thing
01:14:04.540and you do end up ruining her because she knows that she's giving away her innocence forever
01:14:08.820now she's she's let her marriage material her value is intrinsically lower for the rest of
01:14:14.120her life it's never something you can get back men you can it doesn't matter women don't care
01:14:17.740how many bodies you have but you are taking away a girl's innocence the more you have casual sex
01:14:21.700with her and you know deep down that you don't care about her at all and she's deeply in love
01:14:25.620with you it's it's really sick well that's part of the reason why i don't really believe in dating
01:14:29.620and i don't date i think it's and i've actually been in situations where i've seen a good girl
01:14:33.560been across the dinner table and gone you know what i don't have the intention of taking care
01:14:37.100of you forever so i'm not going to get sexual with you because that would lessen your ability
01:14:41.340to find a man you can then respect and submit to and have build a happy family and be a happy
01:14:46.020person i've disengaged just out of the fact that i don't want to break a person because i think
01:14:49.660it's very real especially if you're a masculine guy and you leave that solid imprint on a girl
01:14:53.800man she's going to be stuck on you forever we all have those girls still chasing us now
01:14:58.000you know because it's real so i think i think pursuing casual sex especially with good girls
01:15:03.100i think i think there's a negative negative impact on her and on society as a result i think i
01:15:08.040mentioned this last time too not to not to brag or anything but i have a lot of followers here
01:15:11.300in medellin i have like 12k followers on one of my accounts i have another one with you know many
01:15:15.000thousands of followers yeah and uh you know i'm in a very easy dating market so i'm not trying to
01:15:19.120brag like oh you know some you know billy badass or anything but if i post on my instagram hey
01:15:23.420i'm trying to get dinner tonight who'd like to come get dinner with me i'll have 40 dms of girls
01:15:28.420and maybe 15 of them will be smoke shows they'll be really really fucking hot but the reason why
01:15:33.020i don't do it i'm not constantly going on all these dates with these women is because
01:15:35.880i don't want to put my penis in any more women regardless of how hot they are if i don't
01:15:42.060have a connection like them kind of like put it this way like yeah all right you don't remember
01:15:45.460remember the little wayne verse um it's like as soon as i come i come like you you think she's
01:15:52.620she's so interesting moment of clarity she's so smart and then you're not you're like i just want
01:15:56.500this bitch to leave if i even think that like after i nut i would just want her to get out
01:16:00.820immediately and i couldn't just stand to be around her i just prefer not to nut in her in the first
01:16:04.400place good fair enough that's that's how you find the girls that you love though like you nut
01:16:08.260and then don't want them to leave right away right and then you're like oh kind of i don't mind if
01:16:12.200you stay here for five seconds and like you can actually cuddle and not fake it but wouldn't it
01:16:15.740be fair to say that you got to go through a bunch of annoying girls to be able to come to that point
01:16:18.600where you really have that abundance mindset where you can finally say that i would say so
01:16:21.900playing devil's advocate here guys i mean it's a tricky one i'm a different takes here i'm a
01:16:26.840revert to islam and so i have engaged in hedonism for long enough to realize that it's a waste of
01:16:31.680time to those new to the brothers who have grown up muslim i don't really know what the solution
01:16:37.300is for them to get the experience in the modern context in the western context yeah to know what
01:16:41.280they need to do to hold frame to screen for you know that's a good woman that's not bad i think
01:16:44.780in in muslim countries if you're a traditionally muslim man and you find a traditionally muslim
01:16:48.900woman and your families you know agree i think that's a good way to do it but i also appreciate
01:16:53.180that that's not really accessible for most men in the west so i'm not the man with the answers bro
01:16:56.160when it comes to how to do this in the west i personally think the abundance mindset applies
01:16:59.560to most people but it's not the ideal way and the reason that applies to most people is because we
01:17:02.980get corrupted at a really young age from things like social pressure porn from trying to compete
01:17:08.480with other guys at a young age i think you guys have the abundance mindset though i think most
01:17:11.600guys have the scarcity mindset the reason guys need to have most guys will gravitate towards
01:17:16.440the abundance mindset instead of just harvesting incel power is because you mean the scarcity
01:17:20.380mindset the yeah i don't abundance like like like for example like you guys are at a point now where
01:17:25.460you can say i don't want to have sex with this girl because i want to like her a lot of guys
01:17:28.740will just be like i just need to bust it up i need to bust it up but you okay but you have the
01:17:33.000ability to be like i don't even want to fuck like you have options because you're an attractive guy
01:17:36.220Instead of – you can have a scarcity mindset and just be like, okay, I don't need to do this.
01:17:40.860I'm just going to wait until marriage.
01:17:41.960But a lot of guys, I need to have sex because your skull gets corrupted at a young age from things like porn, from social pressure, from competing with other guys, competing about how old you're going to lose your virginity at, from basing your male power based on how many girls you're having, which is really –
01:17:56.480like a lot of men will base their value based on how many girls they can get, which is really gay.
01:18:01.220Like is that really the greatest accomplishment you can have as a man?
01:18:03.900our accomplishment what we're supposed to do is conquer the world is to add value a man is only
01:18:08.320value based on how much he adds to the world a gentleman is only respected for giving more than
01:18:12.540he takes and so if you're just measuring your self-worth based on women which a lot of guys
01:18:16.680fall into the trap really young it is happening more and more because of porn because of the
01:18:20.920hip-hop culture what's on tv you're going to be i'm horny i need to go sleep but so that's why
01:18:26.340the abundance mindset does apply to most people but if we have more religion and we have more
01:18:30.640people focused and ignoring all that until they're at the age where they're actually ready to be
01:18:34.220married we wouldn't need that so it is i understand the red pill philosophy and it is that's the most
01:18:39.560realistic approach but you want to have an abundance mindset you need to and how you get
01:18:43.720there there's multiple ways you can be you've had sex with too many hookers not hookers whores
01:18:48.160and you're annoyed by them and you're like fuck this shit or hookers whatever the fuck you want
01:18:51.980to do right or you have religion right which keeps you on the path and you have that abundance
01:18:56.780mindset because you're fulfilled by god you don't need women right so you're you have that
01:19:00.980abundance there's better way there's way multiple ways to get to the abundance mindset some guys
01:19:05.560do it through religion some guys do it through experience about having had sex with a bunch of
01:19:09.200girls um but yeah the point is i think the bottom line is as a man you need to get to a point where
01:19:13.900you have an abundance mindset where you're able to turn away women i think that's the real the
01:19:17.340bottom line is you need to be able to turn away women how you get there is up to you it's a
01:19:20.320personal journey i think it also takes years how are you really going to be that high value man
01:19:23.620with abundance of women all these things when you're 20 it takes decades to build wealth and
01:19:27.900value as a man and and okay we talk about that made man vibe where you just walk in the room
01:19:31.720people know you're the made man you can't fake that you got to get your money right your fitness
01:19:35.100right you got to travel got to conquer it does take a lot of time to become that man who's
01:19:38.740naturally confident and abundant i think a lot of young guys want that now you got to go out and
01:19:42.300build who you are as a man first there's no there's no hack to that yeah run through hose
01:19:45.900that is most definitely not what i was insinuating we uh we'll keep going with the with the things
01:19:50.420And then we'll read the ones that came in before, but then we'll, from this point forward, like I said before, we'll read 50 and up.
01:19:57.000But the ones that came in from before.