SNEAKO - February 09, 2023


SNEAKO Interviews Justin Waller

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In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the sit down and talk about what it's like being a single dad to two boys, Andrew and Tristan. They talk about how they deal with the stress of it all and how they handle it.

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00:00:00 How you feeling, man? You look a little bit stressed out about this Instagram thing.
00:00:04 Nah, bro. I'm cool in real life. Fuck me. It's money, you know?
00:00:07 Yeah. Missed opportunities. What, did things lose or something?
00:00:10 How does this work?
00:00:13 Cool.
00:00:14 That should be good.
00:00:14 Yeah.
00:00:15 Yeah, but why did you get terminated on Instagram?
00:00:18 Dude, actually, I can't call it the Matrix, man.
00:00:20 It's some kids, basically, they would ban me and then they'd message that they banned me.
00:00:26 And they're like, hey, send me money.
00:00:28 But there were so many of them, you know? 1.00
00:00:29 And then you're negotiating with terrorists and all that shit. 0.98
00:00:31 So they just banned me so many times with the bot that Instagram won't let me. 0.98
00:00:37 I was able to, I had the shield.
00:00:39 And so what I was able to do is dispute it and get it back after a couple hours.
00:00:44 So they're knocking me down five times a day and telling me they were doing it.
00:00:48 And then eventually, it's just, I couldn't do it anymore.
00:00:51 So it's not the Matrix, it's just some terrorist kids? 1.00
00:00:53 Yeah, just some assholes, bro. 1.00
00:00:55 You'll get it back. You can get it back. 1.00
00:00:56 Luke Belmont's pulling up. He's the expert at that. He runs the internet.
00:00:59 Yeah, I've been talking to him.
00:01:00 We got five from Sam.
00:01:01 Yo, Justin, I'm a 19-year-old construction worker putting in 12 hours a day, five days a week.
00:01:05 You've inspired the shit out of me to keep getting more experience and start my own company.
00:01:10 Love that, man. I love that, bro.
00:01:12 How's it going with all your businesses?
00:01:13 And BTR says huge inspiration waller. Yee-haw!
00:01:16 Man, we're smashing it, dude. Killing it. 1.00
00:01:21 We'll have our biggest year this year. Last year was our biggest year.
00:01:24 And it's not going to do anything but get bigger and bigger, bro.
00:01:26 So we're not stopping it at all. In fact, I think we'll triple this year.
00:01:29 What have you been up to since Romania, since this whole situation?
00:01:34 Are you stressed out about Andrew and Tristan? Like, what's your predictions?
00:01:38 What's been going on? I haven't seen you in a while.
00:01:41 I mean, I saw you at the freshman party. Nicole, thank you for the 22. A killer stream.
00:01:44 Thank you. Appreciate it.
00:01:44 Bro, how you been? I've been trying to figure out...
00:01:49 Bro, I'm good, man. Everything's been good. It's just been non-stop work, bro.
00:01:52 Non-stop. That's all I've been doing, man.
00:01:54 I had a shoulder surgery, my fifth shoulder surgery.
00:01:57 So I've been doing a lot of therapy, going back home for that.
00:01:59 And then just working on all the plans for the year, you know, how we're going to execute.
00:02:03 But, you know, the business is 13 years old next month.
00:02:07 So it's kind of just the same thing, just bigger numbers.
00:02:11 You know, same KPI, same things we measure every day.
00:02:14 It's just what can we do to drive the top line and make sure we still, you know, hit our net.
00:02:19 So, yeah, man. Same stuff for me.
00:02:22 I did buy right under 100 doors in real estate in December.
00:02:29 And it looks like I'm about to close another 60.
00:02:32 So that's really exciting, actually.
00:02:35 When is it enough, Justin?
00:02:37 Never, bro.
00:02:38 It's never enough?
00:02:39 Never.
00:02:39 There's always a new mountain to climb?
00:02:40 Yeah, bro.
00:02:41 You know what?
00:02:41 I'll put it to you like this.
00:02:42 It's like I was at home the other day and somebody had my channel up on the screen back in Louisiana.
00:02:50 And it's that photo of me in the jet, right?
00:02:54 And he's, you know, glaring off into whatever, trying to look all cool in a suit.
00:02:58 And I said, you don't understand.
00:02:59 I work for that dude.
00:03:01 It's not easy working for that guy.
00:03:03 You know, so it's the voice in my head, bro, that I feel like I'm constantly working for.
00:03:07 So every time I do something that I like, next thing you know, it's not good enough.
00:03:11 I move the goalposts.
00:03:12 So I think that's healthy.
00:03:15 Did everything sound better?
00:03:16 I think I just been new with these my kids.
00:03:18 Switch them up.
00:03:18 Better now?
00:03:19 You good?
00:03:20 Yeah, I think everything's good.
00:03:22 Do you ever think that you could retire?
00:03:24 Could you ever just... 1.00
00:03:26 Fuck yeah, dude. 1.00
00:03:26 I could quit right now. 1.00
00:03:28 It's like, what kind of life would I live, you know?
00:03:30 Okay, it's good.
00:03:31 Yeah.
00:03:34 What kind of life, like, you wouldn't have any purpose?
00:03:37 You work hard.
00:03:38 Like, every day I see your Instagram story, you're always building a new building.
00:03:41 Yeah.
00:03:41 You're always having construction workers.
00:03:43 Yeah.
00:03:44 You're always doing something new on social media.
00:03:48 When can you...
00:03:49 Is there ever a time to chill out?
00:03:53 No.
00:03:53 I mean, I mix my entire life.
00:03:57 I plan to work all day, every day.
00:03:58 I never plan.
00:03:59 It's kind of like the gym, right?
00:04:00 Like, I never plan a day off.
00:04:01 If a day off happens, then I let it happen.
00:04:04 And that's the good thing about working all the time, is that if you have an opportunity
00:04:08 to go to the Keys on a Tuesday with some dime and live your life completely on your
00:04:13 terms, you get to do that.
00:04:15 But I never have a day scheduled off, ever.
00:04:17 And the whole time I'm doing that day in the Keys, let's say, I'm texting and working
00:04:22 the whole damn time, so it doesn't matter.
00:04:24 I believe that if you can't be happy on a random Tuesday, then you need to really address 0.98
00:04:29 what your life looks like.
00:04:30 I was talking about that yesterday on the stream.
00:04:32 When we were in Romania, something happened.
00:04:34 We had a great day.
00:04:35 It was a lot of fun.
00:04:36 We were partying, having fun.
00:04:37 And then you said something that I remembered.
00:04:39 I still think about.
00:04:40 You're sitting like this, and you're like, I'm like, this is a really good day today.
00:04:44 And you said, can't have a bad day.
00:04:47 It's not possible.
00:04:47 Bro, no such thing.
00:04:49 Can't have a bad day.
00:04:50 No.
00:04:50 Cannot have a bad day.
00:04:51 And I've never heard somebody say that, and I've never thought about it in that way.
00:04:54 And in a way, I've been depressed before.
00:04:57 I believe that anymore.
00:04:59 But that belief, thinking it's impossible for me to have a bad day.
00:05:04 And when you said it, I believed you.
00:05:06 I can't picture you having a down moment.
00:05:11 No, man.
00:05:12 And I'll tell you another thing.
00:05:13 I actually get to say that about three times a day.
00:05:16 Because it comes up in small talk.
00:05:18 Right?
00:05:19 So, by saying that, I'm putting that into my reality.
00:05:24 And I'm giving a gift to the person that heard me say it.
00:05:28 You know what I'm saying?
00:05:28 Like, most people.
00:05:29 That was for me.
00:05:30 Yeah.
00:05:31 Right.
00:05:31 So, like, it's like spreading something that's actually positive.
00:05:34 Like, I can't have a bad day.
00:05:36 Well, you're speaking that into reality.
00:05:38 So, by speaking that into reality, if something negative happens, like, I just lost my Instagram, right?
00:05:43 I'm not having a bad day, bro.
00:05:45 Yeah.
00:05:45 My day is absolutely amazing.
00:05:47 It just gives me.
00:05:47 It's not going to be affected by Instagram.
00:05:48 Right.
00:05:48 All it's going to do is make one of my other platforms stronger while I get my Instagram back.
00:05:53 Period.
00:05:54 So, is it a negative day?
00:05:55 Or did I get stronger because of what's happening right now?
00:05:58 And so, if you can choose to build the muscle that frames your scenarios like that, then you'll never lose in a day or any situation.
00:06:07 You'll only say, okay, cool. 0.99
00:06:10 Now my Twitter's about to get strong as fuck. 0.88
00:06:12 Or now my YouTube's about to go to a different place. 0.97
00:06:15 Or now I'm going to use this other platform or what have you.
00:06:17 Or now I'm going to start a Facebook group instead of, you know, because I don't have Instagram.
00:06:21 Whatever. 0.97
00:06:21 It doesn't fucking matter, dude. 0.92
00:06:23 So, you have to choose to make every day a good day. 0.94
00:06:29 And once you do that and once you learn how to start creating the muscle where you flip the script on everything that could possibly happen to you, you realize all you're going to do is win in every direction.
00:06:40 So, because I'll have all the work.
00:06:41 Let's say I pick Twitter, for example.
00:06:43 Let's say I go hard on Twitter now because I have no choice.
00:06:46 Well, then my Twitter's going to get up to $100,000.
00:06:49 And by the time it gets to $100,000, I'm going to get my Instagram back.
00:06:53 And then I'll have a Twitter that's even stronger than it was before.
00:06:57 Right.
00:06:57 Did I lose?
00:06:59 No. 1.00
00:06:59 Now, I could have lost because I could sit here and be pouting like a little bitch. 1.00
00:07:02 You know what I'm saying? 1.00
00:07:03 But I can still get to women. 1.00
00:07:07 You know?
00:07:08 I can still figure out how to make money.
00:07:10 So, I'm not – man, I got layers to my stuff.
00:07:13 So, you know, it's just going to make one of my layers stronger.
00:07:17 And that's it.
00:07:18 Thanks for the 11.
00:07:19 Two legends right here.
00:07:21 Flying Raptor.
00:07:21 I appreciate the motivation you both provide for this generation.
00:07:23 Keep up the great work.
00:07:24 Free the Tates.
00:07:25 I want to ask you this.
00:07:26 You seem like you mentor a lot of people and a lot of young guys look up to you.
00:07:30 Especially me.
00:07:31 I ask Jay Waller for advice all the time.
00:07:35 Like even at the Fresh and Fit party, we're having a couple drinks.
00:07:37 We're having fun.
00:07:38 And then I'll come up and I'll look to guys like you for that wisdom that I don't have.
00:07:45 And like even after the stream when I was with Sterling, your roommate and good friend.
00:07:49 We were talking for a while and I was just like trying to get a lot of the game.
00:07:52 And that's why I want to have you on the stream.
00:07:54 What is something that you've realized talking to young guys?
00:07:56 I saw like you were talking about some guy in the airport the other day.
00:07:59 And what have you learned since Romania?
00:08:03 Like I think we – I got to learn a lot from you back in Bucharest at the Tate Mansion.
00:08:07 But what have you learned since then from like what young guys need to hear?
00:08:13 Yeah.
00:08:14 So I think young guys have checked out on the things that used to be popular, right?
00:08:18 So they used to like super look up to athletes or they would super look up to movie stars.
00:08:24 But they're quickly beginning to realize that like those guys aren't as cool as they seem to be in the 90s when all the information was really controlled.
00:08:32 I mean like I wouldn't personally trade places with any famous person that I know of because I know that the frame and everything in my life is set up. 0.95
00:08:38 And even if they're monetarily better off than me, the gap in happiness because of all the other areas of life, my shit's so tied together. 0.97
00:08:47 Like you could – let's say you had a NFL star and he's super, super rich, but he has no frame of women. 0.98
00:08:53 He has no – and he's just getting rolled on by some chick and he's about to lose half of it in a divorce or take an L or he doesn't live as freely as I live my life in that way.
00:09:01 So to me, man, I think what's happening is they're seeing guys that have their life together in all areas and have complete control of the situation. 0.99
00:09:12 And even to this day, I can't – I say most movie stars, maybe outside of Leo, don't even really have a full grip on their shit. 0.90
00:09:19 What does Leo have that other guys don't have? 0.97
00:09:21 Leo's got –
00:09:22 Leo's just wrapped up with another Israeli 19-year-old model.
00:09:25 Yeah, bro.
00:09:25 He's doing his thing, man.
00:09:27 Boom, Boka! 0.98
00:09:28 He's living life on his own terms, bro. 0.98
00:09:29 And some of the wealthiest men in the world are still a rat in a cage, man.
00:09:34 They're a prison to the system.
00:09:35 Why do you think Leo doesn't get called creepy?
00:09:37 I've seen other guys.
00:09:38 There's guys like – that you don't know, internet dudes.
00:09:40 I would say Keemstar is like 40-something and he's dating a girl who's like half his age. 0.98
00:09:46 But everyone's like creep, creep, pedo, pedo. 0.97
00:09:48 Leonardo DiCaprio, I think it's a common consensus. 0.88
00:09:51 This guy is not – he's not creepy.
00:09:53 It's just like this is his preference.
00:09:55 Why is that?
00:09:56 Well, number one, I think he owns it completely.
00:09:58 You have to be able to own it completely.
00:10:00 Like it's guilt is the number one tool used against men.
00:10:03 You said that in Romania and I have – I've been repeating that and I've been telling other people that all the time.
00:10:08 It's like the shame and the guilt is how they control men and you can't let that control you.
00:10:16 How did you get past that?
00:10:17 Like there's so much game that you gave me that I think about all the time.
00:10:21 Like the shame and the guilt.
00:10:22 That opened up my eyes to how much – like Lstream.
00:10:26 How much they try to say like, oh, you're just insecure.
00:10:29 Like the thing I get all the time is, oh, this wannabe alpha male.
00:10:33 I've never called myself an alpha male once.
00:10:35 But they use that really strategically to try to shame and guilt you for trying to inspire.
00:10:40 And I'm doing push-ups on the stream.
00:10:41 They try to belittle your whole message by using that kind of terminology.
00:10:44 Like, oh, like what do you – like you got your heart broken or something.
00:10:48 Who hurt you?
00:10:49 Who hurts you?
00:10:50 You know, like that's always the first tactic they use.
00:10:53 How did you – how did you realize that?
00:10:55 And before you answer that, we got a big $100 dono from Doc Holliday.
00:10:59 Sneeko and Jay Waller, thanks for the mindset to be purposeful, stronger, and accountable. 0.98
00:11:03 Grown men over bitch voice. 1.00
00:11:05 Cigars and cognacs for the collab tonight. 1.00
00:11:07 Respect and cheer, gents.
00:11:08 I wish I had some kind of grand.
00:11:09 I got some cigars, but we're going high.
00:11:12 I don't want to interrupt and get away.
00:11:13 I was just an empire social, so I was just smoking one.
00:11:16 So, yeah, man.
00:11:18 So, I knew I had an issue with guilt because guilt was something that was the number one thing in my life that was holding me back.
00:11:26 I had my fitness together.
00:11:27 My money was right.
00:11:28 I was – I had very good style for where I was from.
00:11:33 And guilt was the only thing, man.
00:11:35 And I feel like I really fixed that in the war room, and it did not take me long.
00:11:39 What I realized is that as – the way the machine is set up right now, it's – you go to school.
00:11:46 The last camaraderie you have is when you play high school football or college football.
00:11:51 And I thought to myself, when was the last time I was, like, truly, truly, truly happy all the way?
00:11:56 It was college football.
00:11:57 What did I have?
00:11:58 I had camaraderie.
00:11:59 I had other people that were thinking and moving the way I did.
00:12:02 So, that's why I do think men's groups are so important.
00:12:06 Groups like the war room gave me a base of people, or even Sterling himself gave me a base to say, hey, somebody's attacking me in this way, and it's starting to make me feel this way. 0.95
00:12:18 And he'll be there and be like, nah, bro, that's bullshit. 0.98
00:12:21 You know? 0.99
00:12:21 So, you have to have people around you that think and move the way you do.
00:12:26 That's why I talk about I don't care. 1.00
00:12:27 Fuck time. 1.00
00:12:28 Fuck blood. 1.00
00:12:28 I don't care how long I've known a person. 1.00
00:12:30 Do our souls align or not?
00:12:31 Right.
00:12:31 Because that's what I really need to look for.
00:12:33 Because if you're in the world and you feel any way, whether it's how I feel and you feel, or let's say it's somebody else that feels a certain way, one of the most important things you can do is find a tribe of people that you're so aligned with. 0.85
00:12:46 That way you don't have to be wrong for being who you are because I wasn't fucking broken.
00:12:50 I just needed other people that thought the way I did. 0.72
00:12:53 And so, in South Louisiana, it was very isolated.
00:12:55 Right.
00:12:56 You know?
00:12:56 It was get married, you know, get a dog, a couple kids, and a DSLD or a DH Horton house. 1.00
00:13:02 Fuck that. 1.00
00:13:03 I don't want that life. 1.00
00:13:04 And a what house?
00:13:05 It's a big track builder in America.
00:13:07 Okay.
00:13:07 Like a Horton house.
00:13:08 It's like. 1.00
00:13:08 That's some down south shit. 1.00
00:13:09 It's the cookie cutter shit. 1.00
00:13:11 That's some roll tide shit. 1.00
00:13:12 Yeah, some roll tide shit, maybe. 1.00
00:13:15 Thanks for the five. 1.00
00:13:16 Zombie Beast.
00:13:16 Not Seiko.
00:13:16 They've been trying to cancel Leo Fort recently.
00:13:18 Since he got in chubby, he's definitely getting called a creep.
00:13:20 Now, not to the same level, though.
00:13:22 I think it's the difference between unspoken Riz and sexual harassment.
00:13:26 He's.
00:13:27 But he.
00:13:28 What do you.
00:13:28 What would you recommend for.
00:13:30 For guys who need that.
00:13:32 That masculine network around you.
00:13:33 Like you.
00:13:34 You really like.
00:13:34 You said the same thing to me in Bucharest.
00:13:36 And it made a lot of sense.
00:13:38 And also.
00:13:39 It just.
00:13:40 When I.
00:13:40 When we were there.
00:13:41 And I was with Fresh and Fit.
00:13:42 I was with you.
00:13:43 Tristan and Andrew.
00:13:44 It just.
00:13:45 Everything was.
00:13:46 Because everybody was on the same page about everything.
00:13:47 And that was like one of the first times in my life.
00:13:49 Where I've been around other guys who just get it.
00:13:52 And I've been around like.
00:13:54 The Vapors.
00:13:55 The Fortnite guys.
00:13:57 You know.
00:13:57 Guys smoking weed.
00:13:58 Not with a lot of ambition.
00:13:59 That's been.
00:14:00 My.
00:14:01 Surroundings.
00:14:01 So this is the first time that it's like.
00:14:03 It was motivating.
00:14:04 It was inspiring.
00:14:05 And it was also like.
00:14:06 Yeah.
00:14:06 Luke Belmar was there.
00:14:07 He's coming.
00:14:07 He's coming in later with his brother.
00:14:09 It was the first time that you've been around like.
00:14:10 Guys who just understand.
00:14:12 The reality of.
00:14:14 Men in the West.
00:14:16 How.
00:14:16 How would you recommend.
00:14:17 Guys to find that now.
00:14:18 Because.
00:14:19 You know.
00:14:20 Having a football team.
00:14:21 That you could do that in college.
00:14:22 For the most part.
00:14:23 Where do you.
00:14:24 What do you think is a place for them to find that?
00:14:27 Look man.
00:14:27 It's going to sound like a plug man.
00:14:29 But my.
00:14:29 The war room.
00:14:30 Genuinely use the war room.
00:14:31 Yeah.
00:14:32 Genuinely.
00:14:32 I just left two war room dudes. 1.00
00:14:34 From Empire.
00:14:35 And I had.
00:14:35 I had a meeting this morning.
00:14:37 With a war room guy.
00:14:38 Sterling's a war room guy.
00:14:39 I put myself around these guys.
00:14:42 I'm to the point now.
00:14:43 Where I'm not even really doing business.
00:14:44 With anybody that's not in the war room.
00:14:46 Unless it's a customer out in the real world.
00:14:48 You know what I'm saying.
00:14:49 But if it's something new.
00:14:50 Or something that.
00:14:52 You know.
00:14:53 Is outside of what I'm normally doing.
00:14:55 With real estate and construction.
00:14:56 I'm not even.
00:14:57 I'm not even looking anywhere else man.
00:14:58 So.
00:14:59 The war room for me.
00:15:00 Has been that place.
00:15:01 There's a culture in there.
00:15:03 Where you already know.
00:15:03 What somebody's about.
00:15:04 When they come in man.
00:15:05 You know the expectations.
00:15:06 So.
00:15:07 For me.
00:15:08 It's a war room.
00:15:09 For some other people.
00:15:10 It could be some other group.
00:15:11 But it's certainly.
00:15:12 The war room for me.
00:15:15 Was Hugh Hefner.
00:15:16 A top G.
00:15:17 Or a creep.
00:15:17 What do you think?
00:15:18 Oh bro.
00:15:18 Top G.
00:15:19 Top G.
00:15:19 Top G bro.
00:15:21 Absolutely.
00:15:23 Sneakle.
00:15:23 Can you show them.
00:15:24 The soy boy photo.
00:15:25 Please.
00:15:25 Yeah.
00:15:25 I want to show you.
00:15:26 This is something.
00:15:27 I show every stream.
00:15:29 Can you see these 10 faces?
00:15:31 What is your first thought?
00:15:33 So.
00:15:33 What they all have in common.
00:15:34 Is they've all made.
00:15:35 Hit piece documentaries about me.
00:15:37 What do you think.
00:15:38 When you see this picture.
00:15:39 This collage right here.
00:15:40 Those are generally going to be guys.
00:15:43 That are upset and angry.
00:15:45 That they don't get attention from women.
00:15:47 And.
00:15:47 They're going to use.
00:15:50 Strategies.
00:15:51 Around.
00:15:52 Belittling.
00:15:52 Guys.
00:15:53 That do get women. 1.00
00:15:54 In order to hopefully.
00:15:55 Pick those women up themselves. 0.93
00:15:57 It's just a bunch of punks.
00:15:58 I don't know.
00:15:58 I mean.
00:15:59 I kind of recognize a couple of them.
00:16:02 But.
00:16:04 I don't know. 0.99
00:16:05 I don't see shit. 0.99
00:16:07 Do you think that. 0.99
00:16:08 Men should look up to.
00:16:09 To guys like this.
00:16:12 No.
00:16:12 But at the same time.
00:16:13 I think that.
00:16:14 That punk dudes.
00:16:15 Are going to follow guys like that.
00:16:16 Because it makes them feel better.
00:16:17 About their inaction.
00:16:19 These guys are telling dudes.
00:16:20 That are not taking action.
00:16:21 That if.
00:16:22 That it's okay.
00:16:23 And that guys like us. 1.00
00:16:24 Are assholes. 1.00
00:16:25 And pieces of shit. 1.00
00:16:27 So. 1.00
00:16:28 And there's another.
00:16:29 Honest question.
00:16:30 Somebody in the chat.
00:16:30 It passed.
00:16:31 But they asked like.
00:16:33 Answer.
00:16:33 If you can answer honestly.
00:16:35 What was your.
00:16:36 Your general.
00:16:37 View of like.
00:16:38 My frame.
00:16:39 And the way I carried myself.
00:16:40 When you.
00:16:41 When you first met me.
00:16:42 I thought you did great.
00:16:43 I'll tell you what I appreciated about you.
00:16:46 Is that you're famous.
00:16:48 And.
00:16:49 Your willingness.
00:16:50 To walk up.
00:16:52 And.
00:16:53 And not forget.
00:16:55 Kind of like the hierarchy.
00:16:56 Of the young guy.
00:16:56 And the new guy.
00:16:57 I really.
00:16:58 Really.
00:16:59 Appreciated.
00:17:00 Because I was a lot like that.
00:17:02 And.
00:17:04 And I just thought it was really cool.
00:17:05 And really humble.
00:17:06 Of you to be that way.
00:17:07 I don't need the.
00:17:09 I don't need the.
00:17:09 The ego boost.
00:17:11 But it's definitely something I recognize.
00:17:12 And it made me want to.
00:17:14 Be there for you in any way I possibly could.
00:17:16 If there's ever anything I can do for you.
00:17:18 It's like certainly something I'm going to jump towards.
00:17:20 It's like I canceled something to be here tonight.
00:17:23 And when that's something.
00:17:24 That's something.
00:17:26 Nice.
00:17:29 How did you find out with that Instagram?
00:17:30 Huh?
00:17:31 Bro.
00:17:32 You know.
00:17:33 I had.
00:17:33 I got the.
00:17:34 You know.
00:17:34 You got it.
00:17:34 It's the rotation G.
00:17:36 Yeah.
00:17:37 She's already in the. 0.99
00:17:37 In the.
00:17:38 In the queue.
00:17:40 So.
00:17:41 But.
00:17:42 Nice.
00:17:43 Priorities.
00:17:43 Yeah.
00:17:44 Do you.
00:17:44 Do you ever get tired?
00:17:45 See.
00:17:45 We've been talking about this a lot in the chat.
00:17:47 I have a lot of religious people who watch it.
00:17:49 And.
00:17:51 I'm 24.
00:17:52 I'm already.
00:17:52 Kind of getting. 0.91
00:17:54 Tired of casual sex. 0.93
00:17:56 Yeah. 0.99
00:17:56 I'm getting.
00:17:57 It's.
00:17:57 It's getting repetitive.
00:17:59 And.
00:17:59 It just seems meaningless.
00:18:00 Like I'm telling everybody every day to not watch porn. 1.00
00:18:03 To stop jerking off. 1.00
00:18:05 Yeah. 1.00
00:18:05 We're on nofap.
00:18:06 Everybody in the chat.
00:18:06 A lot of people are folded.
00:18:08 We're all on nofap.
00:18:09 But.
00:18:09 Yeah.
00:18:09 What is.
00:18:10 What is that much.
00:18:11 What's.
00:18:11 Different about.
00:18:12 You know.
00:18:13 You got a nice thing that you.
00:18:14 That you could have been with right now.
00:18:16 Why. 0.99
00:18:17 Is that any different than masturbation? 0.99
00:18:19 If you're not trying to get her pregnant. 0.98
00:18:21 If you're not trying to get a relationship out of her.
00:18:23 What is the difference between. 0.99
00:18:26 Casual sex and masturbation. 1.00
00:18:28 You know man. 1.00
00:18:29 I would say somewhere around 28.
00:18:32 If I can't have some kind of connection with the girl.
00:18:34 It's not.
00:18:34 It's not worth it.
00:18:36 You know.
00:18:36 So.
00:18:36 A lot of people say.
00:18:38 Hey all these girls are just hoes. 1.00
00:18:39 Blah blah blah.
00:18:40 Like.
00:18:40 If I don't like being around her at all.
00:18:42 I'm not doing it man.
00:18:43 So.
00:18:43 I think that's the difference.
00:18:44 And the other thing about.
00:18:46 The.
00:18:46 The fap stuff. 0.98
00:18:47 Is that you have to go into porn. 0.97
00:18:49 And so porn is going to take you to this creek. 0.95
00:18:51 You know. 0.96
00:18:52 It's.
00:18:52 It's kind of like a gateway drug.
00:18:54 It gets out of hand.
00:18:55 As you start to get bored. 1.00
00:18:56 Of just the normal shit. 1.00
00:18:57 And then people start watching trans porn. 1.00
00:18:59 When we're watching this video. 0.99
00:19:00 Teenage boys.
00:19:00 They get addicted to porn.
00:19:01 And they get desensitized to it.
00:19:02 They start watching weird. 1.00
00:19:03 Hentai shit. 1.00
00:19:04 You start watching weird shit. 1.00
00:19:05 Yeah. 1.00
00:19:06 Cause.
00:19:06 Yeah.
00:19:07 And the next thing you know.
00:19:08 You're trying to get your girl to like. 1.00
00:19:09 Fuck some other dude in front of you. 1.00
00:19:10 Or some shit. 1.00
00:19:10 Fuck that. 1.00
00:19:11 Like. 1.00
00:19:12 You know.
00:19:12 It can. 1.00
00:19:12 It can fuck your head up man. 1.00
00:19:14 Yeah. 1.00
00:19:14 Look.
00:19:14 And look bro.
00:19:15 I'm not going to sit here and say.
00:19:16 I've never looked at porn or anything like that.
00:19:18 And I'm not saying that.
00:19:20 I've never beat my meat.
00:19:21 But what I will say is this bro.
00:19:23 Is that.
00:19:24 Like.
00:19:26 It's when it gets out of hand.
00:19:27 And it gets to a place where you quit.
00:19:29 Trying to talk to women at all. 1.00
00:19:30 Is where I think it gets really dangerous.
00:19:33 Because then you have nothing to do.
00:19:34 But focus your sexual energy there. 0.99
00:19:36 And then it's just going to escalate.
00:19:37 And I think the escalation is what's actually more dangerous about it.
00:19:40 Reverend Ralph.
00:19:42 Thank you for the 50.
00:19:44 Too much freedom leads to delusion and sorrow. 0.99
00:19:46 Boss bitches in their 20. 1.00
00:19:47 Cat ladies in their 40s. 1.00
00:19:48 Too little freedom leads to confusion and anger.
00:19:50 Average guy in today's western dating market.
00:19:54 What do you think about this?
00:19:58 I think that if there are more strong men.
00:20:00 There'd be more women willing to get behind men. 1.00
00:20:02 I actually don't blame women at all. 1.00
00:20:04 I want to be really clear this year.
00:20:06 About my feelings towards women.
00:20:08 I actually don't hate women. 1.00
00:20:10 At all.
00:20:11 I think that.
00:20:15 Men need to understand that the better they are.
00:20:17 The better the women are going to be. 1.00
00:20:19 You know.
00:20:19 Women don't do. 1.00
00:20:21 Some of the crazy shit that you see women doing. 1.00
00:20:24 I feel like I get the best out of the women that I interact with. 0.99
00:20:27 And I think that any man that maximizes himself.
00:20:29 Will see.
00:20:30 You can see the same woman act one way. 1.00
00:20:32 With guy A.
00:20:33 And then act completely different with guy B.
00:20:35 Based off of who guy B became.
00:20:38 They'll change their tune.
00:20:39 Now.
00:20:40 Do we need to understand female nature? 1.00
00:20:41 Absolutely.
00:20:42 Do you need to have a strong frame that's tight tight tight. 0.98
00:20:45 With no bullshit? 0.99
00:20:46 Yeah absolutely. 0.94
00:20:47 But at the same time.
00:20:48 I think the better you are as a man.
00:20:49 The more you work on yourself.
00:20:51 The fitness.
00:20:51 The finances.
00:20:52 Your fashion.
00:20:53 Understanding the world.
00:20:54 Setting yourself up correctly.
00:20:56 Then the easier the game gets to you.
00:20:58 So.
00:20:59 You know.
00:20:59 We can blame women. 1.00
00:21:01 I think there will be a bunch of women living with 30 cats. 1.00
00:21:03 And drinking box wine.
00:21:04 And they're going to be sad and lonely.
00:21:06 But I really think it's more likely.
00:21:07 Because there's going to be a lack of men.
00:21:09 That can put those women in a place. 1.00
00:21:11 Where they feel like they want to really submit.
00:21:14 And get behind a man. 1.00
00:21:15 And let him lead.
00:21:16 So.
00:21:17 Drew Fires. 1.00
00:21:18 I was a bitch ass soy boy. 1.00
00:21:20 Until I got red pilled. 1.00
00:21:21 He put this in all caps.
00:21:22 He looks really energetic about this. 0.99
00:21:24 I got my shit together. 0.96
00:21:25 Now I'm working as an ENT en route. 0.98
00:21:27 To become a firefighter.
00:21:28 Much love. 1.00
00:21:29 Keep red pilling these fools. 1.00
00:21:32 What's the best way? 1.00
00:21:34 And you don't mind if I keep asking you questions.
00:21:35 Go far away bro.
00:21:36 I'm here for you.
00:21:37 How do you tighten frame.
00:21:39 Because I'm still trying to have the tighter frame.
00:21:44 To get rid of that shaming and guilt.
00:21:47 I think.
00:21:47 I noticed that.
00:21:48 I've been really aware of the different ways.
00:21:50 That women interact with me. 0.72
00:21:52 And then women interact with people. 1.00
00:21:54 Who have a tighter frame.
00:21:55 And I noticed that I get tested a lot more.
00:21:57 Than guys like you.
00:21:58 Or guys like Myron.
00:22:00 Where they'll try to see.
00:22:03 Like.
00:22:04 Just little stuff to try to like. 1.00
00:22:06 Try to call me a bitch. 1.00
00:22:08 Quicker. 1.00
00:22:09 How do I tighten that up.
00:22:10 So that I don't have to even deal with that at all.
00:22:12 How do I make it so that it's not.
00:22:14 Even a possibility for that to come up with conversation.
00:22:16 Because I can bob and weave that.
00:22:18 I can get around it.
00:22:19 But I don't even.
00:22:19 That won't happen to you.
00:22:22 How do you present in that way.
00:22:24 Like last night.
00:22:25 We're at dinner.
00:22:27 After.
00:22:27 After Fresh and Fit.
00:22:28 I'm with Myron and these two girls.
00:22:30 And.
00:22:30 Just the little stuff.
00:22:32 Like this.
00:22:32 This girl was a single mom. 0.70
00:22:34 She was OnlyFans. 1.00
00:22:35 Like just sucking dick on camera. 1.00
00:22:37 All this stuff. 1.00
00:22:39 And like her attitude.
00:22:40 Was just way.
00:22:42 Like way stronger towards me.
00:22:43 Even though she was trying to justify.
00:22:44 Like how she wants a high value man. 0.99
00:22:46 Even though she has a kid.
00:22:47 And I'm trying to tell her like.
00:22:48 A guy doesn't want to settle down with you.
00:22:50 If you have a kid already.
00:22:52 And just.
00:22:53 She was just like.
00:22:54 Meh.
00:22:54 Meh.
00:22:54 But then Myron was talking.
00:22:55 She was just like.
00:22:56 Like listening more.
00:22:58 What is the difference in that frame?
00:22:59 How do you get to that point?
00:23:00 Is it the.
00:23:01 How is she able to smell that on you? 1.00
00:23:04 It comes off of you. 0.97
00:23:06 I hate. 0.94
00:23:07 I hate to give you.
00:23:07 I wish I could give you like this tangible answer.
00:23:09 But it's really how you hold yourself in a room.
00:23:13 Like it's not anything that I say.
00:23:16 It's a presence that they want to automatically respect.
00:23:20 And they don't feel the need to test.
00:23:22 It's a control.
00:23:23 There's sometimes I feel like when I go on Fresh and Fit.
00:23:26 The show is boring.
00:23:27 Because the girls shut up when I talk. 1.00
00:23:29 Yeah.
00:23:29 You know what I'm saying?
00:23:30 Even though you speak kind of quiet.
00:23:32 You're sitting there.
00:23:33 And you go there.
00:23:34 Part of the reason that it's entertaining for me.
00:23:36 Is because all the girls are like. 1.00
00:23:37 I'm like they're trying to masculinize women.
00:23:39 And feminized men.
00:23:39 And they're like.
00:23:41 And then it's a big debate.
00:23:42 And it's loud.
00:23:42 It's energetic.
00:23:43 And stuff like that.
00:23:43 But you talk to this like.
00:23:44 Yeah.
00:23:45 Yeah.
00:23:45 And I don't know if you notice this.
00:23:47 You'll see them nod in their head.
00:23:48 Yeah.
00:23:49 Yeah.
00:23:49 I don't get that nod.
00:23:50 Yeah.
00:23:50 And so. 1.00
00:23:51 Shut the fuck up. 1.00
00:23:52 Yeah. 1.00
00:23:52 They want to argue with you.
00:23:53 Yeah.
00:23:53 Yeah.
00:23:53 Which is good content.
00:23:54 But the energy I'm giving them.
00:23:56 Is that I'm here.
00:23:58 And you're here.
00:23:59 And I don't mean that in a disrespectful way.
00:24:01 I mean it more like.
00:24:02 I'm in control of my situation.
00:24:04 I'm not even doubting.
00:24:05 Whether you're going to agree with me or not.
00:24:07 Because I have a message to give you.
00:24:08 This is it.
00:24:09 You know.
00:24:10 And so.
00:24:10 It's about having a certain kind of presence around everyone.
00:24:13 Being in a certain amount of control.
00:24:15 Speaking with conviction.
00:24:17 Eye contact.
00:24:18 You don't.
00:24:18 You don't talk as fast.
00:24:20 It's like when you talk a certain way.
00:24:23 They feel the energy coming off of you.
00:24:25 So it's way more of an energy and a presence.
00:24:27 Than it is what I'm actually saying.
00:24:29 If that makes sense.
00:24:32 And.
00:24:32 It's stoic.
00:24:33 But in person.
00:24:36 And to get to that point.
00:24:37 Is there a specific way to command a room like that?
00:24:40 Or does it just come with experience in your life.
00:24:42 And the way you interact with other people.
00:24:43 And what you've been through.
00:24:44 And just everything that makes you who you are.
00:24:46 Is that what gives you that command?
00:24:48 Yeah I think it's years and years of that.
00:24:51 And going through stress and pain.
00:24:53 And going through being stressed out about things.
00:24:55 For example like.
00:24:56 Maybe if I were younger.
00:24:58 I'd be more stressed out about this Instagram thing.
00:25:01 But I've been through so much. 1.00
00:25:02 Losing a little fucking Instagram. 0.99
00:25:04 It's nothing bro. 1.00
00:25:07 It's nothing. 0.99
00:25:08 I've had real shit on the line in the real world. 0.99
00:25:10 So for me. 0.98
00:25:11 When I'm looking at losing a social media account.
00:25:14 I'm just like.
00:25:15 Bro.
00:25:16 You know.
00:25:16 I was this person long before my social media got where it was anyway.
00:25:20 So.
00:25:21 I think that just going through things.
00:25:23 Everything you're doing right now.
00:25:25 With the weights.
00:25:26 And getting canceled.
00:25:27 And this is.
00:25:28 This is your.
00:25:29 You ever see 300?
00:25:31 Where the kid goes through the agagi.
00:25:33 And then they send him off into the woods.
00:25:35 Okay.
00:25:36 So like.
00:25:36 I think every man has his own agagi.
00:25:39 And that's where he's got to go into the woods.
00:25:41 By himself.
00:25:41 In the cold.
00:25:42 And face the wolf. 0.99
00:25:43 And either die or come back. 0.99
00:25:44 Like a king. 0.99
00:25:45 Right.
00:25:45 Right.
00:25:46 And when you do that in your own heart.
00:25:49 Is when you'll start to have that presence.
00:25:51 Where they're like.
00:25:52 Nothing is going to shake him.
00:25:53 And for that reason.
00:25:54 I must listen to what he's saying.
00:25:55 Because he's more certain than I am.
00:25:57 He's certain in his self.
00:25:59 And.
00:26:00 When you're sitting across from a 22 year old girl.
00:26:02 And you're a 37 year old man.
00:26:04 And you've been through it.
00:26:06 It's very.
00:26:06 Very easy for me. 0.99
00:26:07 Not to get shit tested. 0.99
00:26:09 Yeah. 0.99
00:26:09 You understand what I'm saying?
00:26:11 Yeah.
00:26:11 Because she's looking up to me.
00:26:13 And it's just this calm presence.
00:26:15 It's going to come off of you.
00:26:16 But it kind of comes from within.
00:26:18 It's because you've been through your own agagi.
00:26:20 You're just going through that right now.
00:26:22 It's just a part of life.
00:26:23 It's just 24.
00:26:24 That's all it is.
00:26:25 It's not lesser man.
00:26:26 It's just different stage.
00:26:28 Does that make sense?
00:26:29 I was wondering.
00:26:30 Basically if there's any tactics to try to get around that.
00:26:34 Any like.
00:26:34 Well.
00:26:35 What are the war room secrets?
00:26:36 It's like some of that wudan mastery I can do. 0.66
00:26:40 I wouldn't say it's.
00:26:41 I wouldn't say it's any of that.
00:26:42 I would say it's a calm presence.
00:26:45 You can't be excitable.
00:26:48 Excitable is something.
00:26:49 I'm definitely there.
00:26:49 Yeah.
00:26:50 But you can't.
00:26:50 But you can't.
00:26:51 Right?
00:26:51 It's entertaining.
00:26:53 Yeah.
00:26:53 It's good.
00:26:53 It's good for this.
00:26:54 Right?
00:26:55 But for a woman it's not.
00:26:57 Right.
00:26:58 Because a woman is going to be the one emotional. 1.00
00:27:00 Right?
00:27:00 And now she's not at ease.
00:27:01 Because you're just emotional.
00:27:02 Now she's not at ease.
00:27:02 Because you're just emotional.
00:27:03 It's her.
00:27:03 Even if you're doing it through comedy.
00:27:07 Your comedy has to.
00:27:08 Has to become different.
00:27:09 Right?
00:27:10 You have to be funny charming. 0.59
00:27:12 Not funny goofy.
00:27:14 Does that make sense?
00:27:15 Yeah. 0.94
00:27:15 Because if you're funny goofy. 0.89
00:27:16 She's going to test you. 0.95
00:27:17 Right. 1.00
00:27:18 She thinks you're a clown. 1.00
00:27:19 Yeah. 0.98
00:27:20 Thank you for the 10 ghost.
00:27:21 Jay Waller got them stripes.
00:27:22 Sneakle.
00:27:22 You're earning them right now.
00:27:23 You're right.
00:27:24 Don Zanarko.
00:27:24 WL stream.
00:27:25 Better everyday.
00:27:25 Free to guys.
00:27:26 And then.
00:27:30 Kubi says.
00:27:30 The thing about improving is a lot of you are taking your degeneracy net.
00:27:32 Just amplifying it.
00:27:33 You stop watching porn.
00:27:34 Level up.
00:27:35 And then start participating in hookup culture.
00:27:37 You didn't change.
00:27:37 Etc.
00:27:39 Let's see what you're saying.
00:27:40 We'll talk more about that afterwards.
00:27:41 But you Matt.
00:27:42 Thank you for the 20.
00:27:43 W stream.
00:27:43 Sneakle.
00:27:44 W Justin Waller.
00:27:44 High energy chat.
00:27:45 It's Sneakle and Justin Waller.
00:27:46 20 pushups now.
00:27:47 Hashtag free to taste.
00:27:48 We got to do 20 pushups. 0.91
00:27:50 Oh for Christ's sake.
00:27:51 We got to do 20 pushups. 0.91
00:27:52 All right guys.
00:27:52 Sterling on here.
00:27:53 We drank four eggs.
00:27:54 And he said that.
00:27:55 We could drink the raw eggs too.
00:27:57 He said that you had four.
00:27:59 Right before he came on the stream.
00:28:00 Uh huh.
00:28:00 Does that actually work?
00:28:01 Does that actually boost testosterone?
00:28:03 It's about the cholesterol.
00:28:06 The good cholesterol it says.
00:28:08 So.
00:28:09 One.
00:28:10 Two.
00:28:11 Three.
00:28:12 Four.
00:28:13 Five.
00:28:14 Six.
00:28:14 Chad do it too.
00:28:15 Seven.
00:28:16 Eight.
00:28:16 Eight.
00:28:17 Nine.
00:28:18 Ten.
00:28:18 You and Sterling don't breathe when you do pushups. 0.93
00:28:32 I don't hear a sound.
00:28:36 Chad you know you're a wagget if you didn't do it.
00:28:38 If you just watched us do it and you didn't do the 20.
00:28:43 Okay.
00:28:44 Who had better form Chad?
00:28:45 Me or Jay?
00:28:46 Better be me.
00:28:48 Okay.
00:28:49 What um.
00:28:51 What was I going to.
00:28:52 I was going to ask you more about.
00:28:53 About the hookup culture thing.
00:28:56 So.
00:28:56 Do you still consider it hookup culture if you have a connection with them?
00:29:01 No man.
00:29:02 Not.
00:29:02 Not if I feel like dude.
00:29:03 I'll give you an example.
00:29:04 I had a girlfriend.
00:29:04 In New Orleans.
00:29:07 That I would see.
00:29:09 On and off.
00:29:11 For 10 years.
00:29:11 And when I say I genuinely cared about this girl.
00:29:17 I'd see her.
00:29:18 And then I wouldn't see her for three months.
00:29:20 But when we were together.
00:29:21 There's nowhere I wanted to be.
00:29:24 Other than with that girl.
00:29:25 Everyone said you had forms better.
00:29:26 Dude. 1.00
00:29:27 Our chats is fucking. 1.00
00:29:28 They like. 1.00
00:29:28 Haters.
00:29:29 Right.
00:29:29 They're hating on you. 0.50
00:29:29 They're just a bunch of haters.
00:29:30 Yeah.
00:29:30 Yeah.
00:29:31 Um.
00:29:32 And it was one of the best relationships in my life man.
00:29:35 I wouldn't trade it.
00:29:37 I've got ex-girlfriends.
00:29:38 That to this day.
00:29:39 I still love those girls. 1.00
00:29:41 Now.
00:29:42 They've moved on.
00:29:43 They're married.
00:29:44 But I'm.
00:29:44 Like.
00:29:44 If I see them on Facebook.
00:29:47 I'm genuinely happy.
00:29:49 You know what I'm saying?
00:29:51 I love them in that chapter.
00:29:53 I still love them today.
00:29:54 In a different way.
00:29:55 And I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:29:57 So.
00:29:59 Just because you have a connection with a woman.
00:30:02 And y'all sleep together.
00:30:03 And you end up not getting married or whatever.
00:30:07 You know.
00:30:07 To me.
00:30:08 I've had some wonderful experiences that way.
00:30:11 Have I slept with some girls and I'll talk to them again? 1.00
00:30:13 Sure.
00:30:14 Yeah.
00:30:14 I've done that.
00:30:14 But not.
00:30:15 Not a whole lot.
00:30:16 You know.
00:30:17 I like connecting with people.
00:30:19 And.
00:30:21 As far as like.
00:30:22 Sleeping with a bunch of women now.
00:30:24 Ideally.
00:30:25 I'd like to like them.
00:30:26 As a person.
00:30:27 So.
00:30:29 Some people.
00:30:30 Would attack that.
00:30:32 But it's been good for me in my life.
00:30:34 And how I feel.
00:30:36 And.
00:30:37 The thing that.
00:30:38 I think.
00:30:39 Sets me apart.
00:30:40 From most people that are doing it.
00:30:42 Is that I don't have to lie.
00:30:45 So if I sit a girl down. 1.00
00:30:46 And she knows what's up.
00:30:49 Then.
00:30:50 But do you think women can handle the truth? 1.00
00:30:53 I think they can handle the truth.
00:30:55 When you're at a certain level.
00:30:56 I think they don't.
00:30:57 Sometimes they don't like it.
00:30:58 But they choose it.
00:30:59 So.
00:31:00 Women want equality. 1.00
00:31:00 Why would I not give her choice?
00:31:03 I'm going to say it again.
00:31:04 They want equality.
00:31:06 When I sit her down.
00:31:07 And say.
00:31:07 Hey listen.
00:31:07 I got you.
00:31:09 And this one.
00:31:09 And this one.
00:31:09 And this one.
00:31:10 And this one.
00:31:10 And they still choose me.
00:31:12 Who are we going to be upset with?
00:31:13 That's an adult.
00:31:15 You know.
00:31:16 She. 0.93
00:31:16 She wants equality. 1.00
00:31:17 And everything else in this world.
00:31:19 And I told her the deal.
00:31:20 And she's going to help me bring other chicks. 1.00
00:31:23 You know.
00:31:23 Like.
00:31:25 To me man.
00:31:26 I feel like I live one of the best existences.
00:31:28 Men ever lived. 0.85
00:31:29 I really do.
00:31:30 With all my heart man.
00:31:31 With all my heart.
00:31:32 Like.
00:31:32 I wouldn't trade with anybody.
00:31:34 And.
00:31:35 And I think one of the main reasons is because I get to live in my own truth.
00:31:39 And that's a very freeing place to be.
00:31:42 You know.
00:31:42 Whether it's with women. 0.84
00:31:43 Or in business.
00:31:44 Or whatever.
00:31:45 You know.
00:31:46 There's been some people that.
00:31:48 Even.
00:31:48 Even in business.
00:31:49 That.
00:31:50 Kind of did some things I didn't like in the past.
00:31:52 And ever since all this stuff happened on the internet.
00:31:53 They want to work together again.
00:31:55 And I'd make money with them.
00:31:56 But I don't have to.
00:31:57 Because I can be a man of principle now.
00:31:59 And I always kind of have been.
00:32:00 This way.
00:32:02 Guilt was the only thing.
00:32:03 Only rock in the shoe I ever had as an adult.
00:32:06 Because I was working so hard at everything else.
00:32:08 That guilt was the only thing I had not handled.
00:32:10 And the war room helped me handle that.
00:32:12 And it happened really quickly.
00:32:14 Because I already knew what I wanted.
00:32:16 And.
00:32:17 From there.
00:32:18 It's just.
00:32:19 I'm telling the truth.
00:32:19 I'm up front.
00:32:20 And people can take me as I am.
00:32:22 Or not take me at all.
00:32:23 And I'm okay either way.
00:32:24 And what I found is by and largely.
00:32:26 When you're in that place.
00:32:28 They choose to be with you.
00:32:29 Because there's not many people.
00:32:30 That are living their life on that terms.
00:32:31 And coming from that balance of a frame.
00:32:34 So they appreciate and respect it.
00:32:36 So for me.
00:32:39 Regardless of whether.
00:32:40 Whether it's looked at as a hook up.
00:32:41 Or some kind of odd relationship.
00:32:42 Whatever man.
00:32:43 I just.
00:32:46 I don't feel bad about anything in my life.
00:32:48 How do you get over.
00:32:49 Have you ever had.
00:32:50 A girl that you're prioritizing.
00:32:52 Be like.
00:32:53 Why don't you treat me.
00:32:54 I'm not special.
00:32:56 You do the same thing for other girls. 1.00
00:32:57 That you do for me.
00:32:59 And these guilt tactics.
00:33:00 Like you don't love me as much.
00:33:02 Why do you.
00:33:02 You bought her dinner.
00:33:04 You bought.
00:33:04 I don't get that.
00:33:05 You don't get that.
00:33:06 I don't get that.
00:33:07 In fact.
00:33:08 Number one.
00:33:09 I don't put girls on my social media. 0.99
00:33:10 At all.
00:33:11 Number two.
00:33:12 Yeah.
00:33:13 When I'm with a woman.
00:33:15 She has my full attention.
00:33:17 And so it's really about how you make people feel.
00:33:21 So.
00:33:21 The phone's down.
00:33:23 It's like I'm with you right now.
00:33:24 Right.
00:33:25 Phone's down.
00:33:26 I'm not texting.
00:33:28 I'm here with you.
00:33:29 I'm paying attention to you.
00:33:30 I'm listening to what you're saying.
00:33:31 I'm trying to give you every part of me.
00:33:33 Back.
00:33:34 And if you can do that.
00:33:37 You'll end up making people feel a certain way.
00:33:39 And I think that's what attaches people to you the most is when they leave you, they think
00:33:44 about how they felt.
00:33:45 Even if they don't consciously pick it up, people pick up subconsciously.
00:33:50 When I'm around said person, I feel a certain way.
00:33:52 So I'm drawn to them.
00:33:54 So if you can make them feel like a queen in the moment when you're with them, they have
00:34:00 they have this piece of you and you're with them and you're spending time with them.
00:34:03 That's when you connect, by the way. 0.50
00:34:05 That's what makes it a little bit more than sex.
00:34:07 That's what makes it something at least worth having.
00:34:09 Right.
00:34:10 If you can do that and they feel special because you gave them your full self when you're in
00:34:15 their presence and they're in your presence, then I think they're just it's been my experience
00:34:20 that they're just naturally going to want to be around you because you're giving
00:34:23 them a feeling that most people cannot because most people are not present enough to even
00:34:26 be there with them fully because of all the distractions.
00:34:28 Yeah, I guess.
00:34:30 See, what's separating that is I hear that all the time, like, you don't do the same thing.
00:34:33 And it's because of social media.
00:34:36 It's because of they see things online and start comparing to what they what are you doing
00:34:40 online?
00:34:41 Like if I bring a girl on stream, then another girl's watching it.
00:34:46 She starts.
00:34:47 She doesn't understand that it's content and that it's entertainment and that I'm doing this
00:34:51 for, you know, it doesn't have to be like it's blows my mind that they don't that even
00:34:57 a girl that I could be with for a long time won't understand that when I bring a girl in 0.99
00:35:01 front of the camera, like I'm and I'm like being cutesy and doing all this shit or eating 0.96
00:35:05 food that is purely for content. 0.98
00:35:07 And then she starts to compare.
00:35:08 Oh, you flew her out.
00:35:10 Oh, you did all this stuff like you paid for dinner.
00:35:12 Part of the I think the separation is I grew up with social media.
00:35:16 So, yeah, women have never been it's this is a new generation of women who see everything 0.98
00:35:21 your generation.
00:35:22 It wasn't all always in their face.
00:35:25 I don't think that they're they're able to say this is why I say that women can't handle 1.00
00:35:28 the truth, because I think we're offering women the same reality.
00:35:33 Like this is what I'm going to be doing.
00:35:35 Right.
00:35:35 But there's a level of delusion that they get to live in if they don't see it all the
00:35:39 time. 0.99
00:35:39 They like to be willfully ignorant. 0.98
00:35:40 So like a girl, she might know what you're doing. 1.00
00:35:43 But if she sees it, it's completely different reality.
00:35:46 Yeah, you're absolutely right about that.
00:35:47 So I like I don't I don't put those things do, bro.
00:35:50 You want to talk about a dude that could flex on the Internet with chicks? 0.99
00:35:53 I could do it.
00:35:54 It's not worth it.
00:35:56 No, it's not worth it, bro.
00:35:58 I got bro because I got businesses to run and that and that's going to take up a whole
00:36:02 hell of a lot of time dealing with all the emotions.
00:36:05 Oh, bro.
00:36:05 It'll be all day long.
00:36:06 Right.
00:36:07 Yeah.
00:36:08 So but it's great content.
00:36:11 Bro, it's great.
00:36:12 You're on Rumble.
00:36:13 You know, I mean, everyone else has YouTube and switch.
00:36:15 You got to work extra hard.
00:36:16 You know, you got to have a little bit.
00:36:18 Do you think the girl adds to the to the content for?
00:36:20 Of course, people have been that all these dudes, of course, they want to see a girl.
00:36:24 How are you treating this girl on camera?
00:36:26 Is it is it is it clear?
00:36:27 Is it clear that y'all have a relationship of some sort or is it more like a fresh and
00:36:31 fit where it's kind of transactional?
00:36:33 It's well, fresh and fit is.
00:36:36 Yeah, it looks it looks like a relationship, but that's that's the illusion.
00:36:41 OK.
00:36:42 Are you setting the frame up correctly?
00:36:44 How do you because so like I always say that the the formula for happiness is the gap between
00:36:49 expectation and reality.
00:36:51 So in negotiation, there's a guy named Chris Foss.
00:36:54 He wrote a book called Never Split the Difference.
00:36:57 And so he does something called an accusations audit.
00:37:03 And so let's say I go into a real estate deal.
00:37:06 Guy wants right now.
00:37:07 This guy wants three point five million for this property.
00:37:09 I'm not going to be able to pay him that because it just the math doesn't work out.
00:37:12 He's going to have to lower his number for the debt and everything to work.
00:37:15 I'm going to go to him and I'm going to say, listen, man, I know it feels like I'm trying
00:37:18 to retrade on you.
00:37:19 I know it feels like I'm trying to get this property cheap and you worked on it and you
00:37:24 did this and you did this.
00:37:26 By me saying that before I lower the price, it's getting any accusation that he could have
00:37:32 towards me out of the way because I said it, which dramatically reduces its impact.
00:37:40 Does that make sense?
00:37:41 I'll give you another example.
00:37:42 You ever seen eight mile?
00:37:43 Yeah.
00:37:43 You know that last scene where they're rapping and he starts rapping about everything the
00:37:47 guy could rap about?
00:37:49 Yeah.
00:37:49 That's an accusations audit.
00:37:51 So in a negotiation, like when you're sitting. 0.94
00:37:54 He's like, I'm trailing trash. 1.00
00:37:55 I'm white trash. 1.00
00:37:55 Yeah, you're sleeping with my girl. 1.00
00:37:57 Blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:37:57 You've taken all the energy away.
00:38:01 Okay.
00:38:01 So if you sit that young lady down that you're worried about getting upset with you about 1.00
00:38:04 and say, hey, listen, it's going to look like I flew her out.
00:38:08 It's going to look like I'm taking her to get dinner. 0.99
00:38:11 It's going to look like we have a connection on camera.
00:38:13 It's going to look like this, but it's because it makes a content and that content that is
00:38:18 created creates revenue.
00:38:20 And that's the money that I use to take you to the keys, baby.
00:38:24 That's beautiful, man.
00:38:25 I was debating about that so much before the street.
00:38:28 See, I had this debate with my friend Salim and I'm like, what's it?
00:38:31 By the way, that's not a lie.
00:38:33 It's not a lie, but it was like, should I, should I was wondering if she was just going
00:38:36 to see and understand and figure that out for herself.
00:38:38 But you need to, you have to give her that structure.
00:38:41 Yeah.
00:38:42 You set the frame because if you don't set the frame, she's going to create an allegation. 0.62
00:38:46 Right.
00:38:47 Right.
00:38:47 But if you frame it correctly, it can be a situation where she's on the other end kind 0.51
00:38:53 of making fun of that girl because she knows that you, that you love her.
00:38:57 Right.
00:38:58 Right. 1.00
00:38:59 She's like, huh, look at this bitch. 1.00
00:39:00 She thinks she's got Sneeko, but she doesn't because he already talked to me about this. 0.99
00:39:04 Okay.
00:39:05 All right.
00:39:06 I'm learning.
00:39:07 I'm learning.
00:39:07 GMC Hammer.
00:39:07 So shout out to Jay Waller, a war room member in Miami that has, that he mentors has convinced
00:39:11 me that joining the war room will undoubtedly change my life.
00:39:15 What can you give a, like, what did you learn in the war room?
00:39:18 You might want to not give away all the secrets, but like, what did you change when it came
00:39:23 to the guilt?
00:39:24 Because that's still, that's still gets me.
00:39:26 That's something that I'm working on is not being able to, to act how I actually want
00:39:31 to act.
00:39:31 We had a lot of conversation about this in Bucharest that you can't suppress that the
00:39:36 dragon inside of you, like what you actually are, your, your natural essence.
00:39:39 You can't let other people take that away.
00:39:41 What, what did you learn that, that changed that and allowed you to, to act how you want
00:39:46 to be?
00:39:47 It's really just an, okay.
00:39:49 So I, humans are, are, are creatures that like want to move in packs, right?
00:39:53 Like we're, we're very social.
00:39:56 And so what I think is super dangerous about not being in a group of guys that align with
00:40:01 you is that either you're going to be completely alone in a room full of people, i.e. your
00:40:07 family, everybody from your hometown.
00:40:09 And they're going to have all these rules that by the way, most men have bent to, they
00:40:13 don't actually want to live that way.
00:40:15 But now if they don't act like they want to live that way, then they get in trouble with
00:40:20 the mother-in-law and the wife, right?
00:40:22 What the war room did for me is give me a group of people that thought like me.
00:40:26 And I knew no matter what happened, I could walk into any room around anybody and live
00:40:33 my truth because I had an army of men that had my back no matter what.
00:40:36 And if you don't have that, then you have nothing backing you up.
00:40:39 It's just you against your mother-in-law and your girlfriend or whoever is there in front
00:40:43 of you, society telling you to live life on their terms and not yours.
00:40:47 But you have to have a group of people that are backing you.
00:40:49 So you still have the community.
00:40:51 And that's why I say groups like the war room, I genuinely believe it saves people's
00:40:57 lives in a lot of ways. 0.68
00:40:58 My life was fucking awesome.
00:40:59 I was just having to, I was just having to negotiate around how much conviction I lived 0.86
00:41:04 with.
00:41:04 You know, I was doing what I wanted to do.
00:41:06 It just wasn't near as fun and I didn't have near the support.
00:41:10 So for me, finding, finding a group of people that live and breathe their life the same way
00:41:17 that I do allows me to know that I'm loved no matter what.
00:41:20 Much like I talk about with Andrew and Tristan, when I asked Andrew, Hey, what allows you to
00:41:24 speak this way?
00:41:25 Tristan's going to be there and love me no matter what.
00:41:27 That's powerful, dude.
00:41:29 Cause you know, you have people in your corner.
00:41:31 So do you have a real brother?
00:41:34 Yeah, I have 12.
00:41:36 I have two half brothers, same mom.
00:41:38 Okay.
00:41:39 Yeah.
00:41:40 Yeah.
00:41:41 It's difficult.
00:41:41 I have a brother who's a year and a half younger, but we're not on the same page about a lot
00:41:46 of this stuff.
00:41:47 We have a very different worldview and we kind of, we grew up like best friends and
00:41:51 drifted apart.
00:41:52 What do you think would be the, like, I look at the relationship that Andrew and Tristan
00:41:55 have and I want my brotherhood to be as strong.
00:41:59 What do you, what do you think I can do to, to get it to that level with your brother,
00:42:04 particularly nothing, bro.
00:42:09 I'll never forget this.
00:42:10 I did a, I did this weekend workshop one time and they, they had us rate our relationship
00:42:16 with our, with our mothers.
00:42:19 And this is how you have to relate, rate your relationships.
00:42:22 It's the world says a 10 out of 10 relationship with your brother or your mom or your dad or
00:42:27 whatever.
00:42:27 It's like, you see them all the time, your best friends, you text every day, you hang out
00:42:30 on the weekends.
00:42:31 And obviously you spend all the holidays together, but that's not really what makes a 10 out of
00:42:36 10 relationship.
00:42:37 What is a 10 out of 10 relationship to you is important.
00:42:41 So for instance, like, well, my father, I don't hang out with him a whole lot, but when
00:42:44 I walk in his house, he respects the fuck out of me, you know, and, and we have really
00:42:51 good conversations and then I bounce and I might not see him for six or eight months,
00:42:54 you know, just depending on what's going on.
00:42:56 That relationship for me is a 10 out of 10, not because I don't want to see him.
00:43:00 It's just healthy for me.
00:43:02 And another thing I've learned in life is like, if your brother is not on the same tracks
00:43:07 as you're on, you're not going to change him.
00:43:09 All you're going to do is become the average.
00:43:12 You see what I'm saying?
00:43:13 So you're not going to change them.
00:43:14 So unless he, unless he starts beating your door down, trying to do pushups and live streams,
00:43:19 it's just, it's not there, bro.
00:43:21 Yeah.
00:43:21 And it doesn't mean you don't love him.
00:43:23 And also doesn't mean that he's wrong.
00:43:24 It just means that you're on a different path.
00:43:28 And I think that's, what's most important.
00:43:29 People think that when, when you're on a different path to someone else, that somebody has to
00:43:33 be wrong.
00:43:34 That's not true.
00:43:35 It's just a different path.
00:43:36 Hey, bro, I love you.
00:43:37 I'm going this way.
00:43:38 You're going that way.
00:43:39 It's not an issue.
00:43:41 It's just where we're at.
00:43:43 So, and you, you gotta be able to have grace to let people not be wrong just because you're
00:43:47 different.
00:43:49 Paroxi Mike's for the 10.
00:43:50 Thank you.
00:43:50 He said, Hey, Mr. Wall, I just wanted to thank you and say that I love what you're saying here
00:43:53 and what you do appreciate that.
00:43:55 Dougie free says I'm from London, England.
00:43:56 Is there anything used to got money wise?
00:43:59 I'm still trying to get the funds to join the war room.
00:44:01 And have you got Tristan Tate's address?
00:44:02 I'm a fellow Christian who wants to help.
00:44:04 He wants to send letters to Tristan in jail. 0.96
00:44:08 Thank you for the 50 big 50.
00:44:10 Is there such a thing as a happy man?
00:44:12 What does he look like?
00:44:13 And what is his character?
00:44:14 How does he get up and grind when the mind and the body aren't there?
00:44:17 Is it just sheer will day in and day out?
00:44:20 Some days I feel like, first of all, I'm a happy man.
00:44:27 Like, bro.
00:44:28 Can't have a bad day, bro.
00:44:29 I can't have a bad day.
00:44:31 Like there are multiple times over the course of a week. 0.97
00:44:33 I'm like, you've got to be fucking kidding me. 0.98
00:44:35 This is what my life is. 0.99
00:44:37 But like, no, seriously, I swear to God, bro.
00:44:40 I swear to God.
00:44:41 And the thing about it is, man, is like.
00:44:43 I never think that.
00:44:45 I, you're 24.
00:44:48 When I was your age, I would, it wasn't even hard to get out of bed, man.
00:44:53 It wasn't.
00:44:54 I was, I would wake up at four.
00:44:55 I'd go work out.
00:44:56 By the time six o'clock came around, I'd talk to five or six people.
00:44:59 I'd already worked out.
00:45:00 I'd plan my day.
00:45:01 My food was laid out.
00:45:02 Like it was just, it was just not a thing, dude.
00:45:05 I would even say that it's sometimes harder now because I wake up.
00:45:10 I got a bunch of M's in the bank account, a bunch of 10's in my inbox and, and houses
00:45:15 that were, you see what I'm saying?
00:45:16 Yeah. 0.99
00:45:16 Now, what do you do when you don't have to do shit and you get the result? 0.98
00:45:20 So you got, you got to find a bigger mountain, right? 0.99
00:45:23 Always.
00:45:23 But the first one is way more exciting.
00:45:25 I can tell you now you have to, now you have to get outrageous about the goals, you
00:45:30 know?
00:45:31 And so that's something even I navigate through.
00:45:33 If there's anything ever in my head is so it's always that whatever I've done is not
00:45:36 enough and I better get to doing something else.
00:45:39 And so I think the thing that's going to keep you pushing forward, my friend, is just
00:45:44 making sure that you never get to the top of a mountain without another one to climb
00:45:47 because that is very, very dangerous because then you self-sabotage back down because all
00:45:52 the happiness is on climbing.
00:45:54 So why do you think Andrew and Tristan are locked up?
00:45:58 I think it's political.
00:46:00 I don't think it's about right or wrong.
00:46:02 I think that they have the hearts of young men and I think that it's very dangerous.
00:46:08 So because that's the age of people that they want controlled and they started to wake
00:46:12 up a lot of people.
00:46:13 They definitely did.
00:46:14 Yeah.
00:46:14 For me in a lot of ways.
00:46:16 Do you have any, any predictions?
00:46:18 And you're going to, are you going to go to Dubai with us?
00:46:21 Yeah.
00:46:21 I'm leaving.
00:46:22 I think Friday.
00:46:23 Yeah.
00:46:23 I'm going to, I'm going a little later, but I'll be there.
00:46:26 Gregonia worldwide says question guys recently, girlfriend of 1.5 years broke up with me two
00:46:29 weeks ago.
00:46:29 Cause I was a little toxic and we argued she was toxic too, but the love was strong.
00:46:34 She was nurturing.
00:46:35 Should I work it out or let it go?
00:46:37 She broke up with you. 0.68
00:46:38 Yeah.
00:46:39 So regard, first of all, her calling you toxic is just her putting a label to her excuse.
00:46:45 More than likely the frame got out of hand there.
00:46:48 I would go hard, no contact straight to Jim.
00:46:50 And I, when I say no contact, let me be very clear.
00:46:53 Don't unfollow her, but make sure you can't see her stories.
00:46:56 You don't watch her stories.
00:46:56 You don't reach out to friends.
00:46:57 You don't watch your friend's stories go completely.
00:47:00 Why shouldn't you unfollow her? 0.97
00:47:01 You don't unfollow her because you're showing emotion.
00:47:04 You need to be able to stand in that fire and not look.
00:47:07 If you unfollow her, you're doing it out of anger.
00:47:09 So, and then you got to go through the process of following back.
00:47:12 And you're also taking the opportunity away from yourself to have her see you get better
00:47:17 every day.
00:47:18 So there's a little song I share with people called Cheyenne.
00:47:23 And it talks about when he left that phone dangling off the hook and he turned around
00:47:28 and gave it one last look and walked away.
00:47:29 You got to walk away, go work on you.
00:47:32 And I can guarantee you, my friend, if you can truly stay to no contact and you go get
00:47:38 better, she'll be back.
00:47:40 Don't watch your stories.
00:47:41 Don't reach out to friends. 1.00
00:47:42 Don't put up with any bullshit and don't get emotional. 0.99
00:47:45 Do not let her have you raise your emotion. 1.00
00:47:48 If you raise your emotion, it's over.
00:47:50 And every time you contact her, it's like starting over and it triples the chance of
00:47:54 her never coming back.
00:47:57 How long is it going to take, do you think, for the girl to come back?
00:48:00 Obviously, it varies.
00:48:02 As long as it takes, G.
00:48:03 One thing that the War Room has is a course called the Iron Mind.
00:48:08 Absolutely, yeah.
00:48:08 Yeah.
00:48:08 So if you could go, what I would advise you do is go to the War Room right now.
00:48:12 I don't even care if you do it through me, bro.
00:48:14 Go buy the Iron Mind course and work on the man it would take to have her begging you to 1.00
00:48:20 come back.
00:48:20 And the funny thing about it is, this has been my experience, by the time you become the
00:48:26 man that is going to have her come in and crawling back to you, you will no longer want 1.00
00:48:31 her, and you'll be glad you don't.
00:48:35 What if you do?
00:48:37 Then take her, but it's going to be drastically on your terms and highly lopsided in the negotiations.
00:48:44 How do you think that this guy in particular, I think you're the best example that I've seen
00:48:50 of how far frame can take you as a man.
00:48:54 Yeah.
00:48:54 How do you think, and obviously you just see this one super chat, well, how do most guys 0.94
00:48:59 lose their frame and lose their respect and they get the constant shit test and they get 0.94
00:49:02 the constant paragraphs? 0.89
00:49:05 And how, what's the, yeah, what's the most common way guys break frame?
00:49:10 There's a whole story in that message.
00:49:12 Pull that message back up, if you would.
00:49:14 Gorgonio, question guys, recently, girlfriend of 1.5 years broke up with me two weeks ago
00:49:18 because I was a little toxic and we argued she was toxic too, but the love was strong.
00:49:21 So right there, he's admitting he was a little toxic.
00:49:23 He's, he's, he's opened a frame up for her to be able to accuse him of something.
00:49:27 So he doesn't use the word toxic, right?
00:49:29 He doesn't use the word toxic and he's even accepted it.
00:49:33 So not only did he acknowledge it in his own heart, he must've acknowledged it to her.
00:49:37 And who did he get it from her?
00:49:39 So that tells me right there that she can put words in his mouth. 1.00
00:49:43 Do you think that you're not going to get shit tested or left by a woman that can put 1.00
00:49:48 words in your mouth? 1.00
00:49:49 You think a 22 year old girl can put words in my fucking mouth? 1.00
00:49:52 It's not possible. 1.00
00:49:53 You had, he goes back.
00:49:55 I heard you say it the other day, you have to be the mountain that her emotional ways
00:49:58 crash into.
00:49:59 That's you.
00:49:59 I took that.
00:50:00 Yeah, no, yeah, I know.
00:50:00 I know.
00:50:01 But, but I heard you say it and it's a great time to use it because if you show her that
00:50:08 she can put words in your mouth, label you, make you emotional, put you in a state where
00:50:14 you're hurting, then dude, she's got you.
00:50:16 And it's not, and you have to look at it not so much as women are bad. 1.00
00:50:21 She's testing you to make sure that you're strong enough to handle the situation because
00:50:25 she doesn't need a girlfriend. 1.00
00:50:26 She needs a man. 0.90
00:50:27 And I'm not saying you're not a man, but you could probably use some reframing around
00:50:32 how your mind and the strength around your mind works.
00:50:35 I really advise you go take Iron Mind.
00:50:37 It'll help you out a lot.
00:50:39 Why do you think that she accused him of being toxic?
00:50:42 You think he, he was engaging in arguments?
00:50:44 Absolutely nothing to do with anything.
00:50:46 She could have called him anything, right?
00:50:48 Right. 1.00
00:50:49 Like my girls don't call me shit. 0.99
00:50:52 You know, you know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:50:53 All they do is complain about not getting to see me enough.
00:50:56 Right.
00:50:56 And until you get to there, then, you know, I'm not, I don't argue with women at all. 1.00
00:51:03 I don't have arguments with women. 1.00
00:51:05 They don't, they don't know because they don't bring me there.
00:51:08 So either his frame is not right or, or she's monkey branching and she's trying to 0.75
00:51:13 justify it, which means that he needs to work on the fitness, the finance, like who
00:51:18 he is as a person, because she's just, that word is just an excuse.
00:51:23 It's a placeholder. 0.99
00:51:23 She could have called him a dickhead. 0.99
00:51:24 It'd have been the same thing. 0.99
00:51:26 You know, you understand what I'm saying?
00:51:28 Calling you toxic is the same.
00:51:29 Right.
00:51:30 It's the same thing.
00:51:31 Common guilt tactic.
00:51:32 Yeah.
00:51:32 She's just, she's just putting it there.
00:51:34 She doesn't even know the reason why she's leaving most of the time.
00:51:36 So she puts in, oh, he plays video games. 0.99
00:51:39 Dude, I can start playing video games every fucking day and I would not have a chick leave 1.00
00:51:44 me over video games. 0.99
00:51:46 It's just what they say.
00:51:47 You have to pay attention to what women do, not what they say. 1.00
00:51:51 And I'm not calling them stupid. 0.98
00:51:52 I'm just simply saying is a lot of times they'll leave a man and they don't even know why he's, 0.98
00:51:56 why they're leaving. 0.98
00:51:57 And I don't even blame the women because if the man had his shit together and the frame 0.99
00:52:01 was absolutely correct. 0.99
00:52:02 She wouldn't leave.
00:52:03 She wouldn't leave.
00:52:04 I'll put it to you like this.
00:52:07 There's a girl in my life.
00:52:10 People know that this girl is in my life, right?
00:52:13 Goes to Thanksgiving.
00:52:14 They try to give her beef. 1.00
00:52:16 Her mom jumps in and says, shut the fuck up. 1.00
00:52:19 Stay out of their business. 1.00
00:52:21 Instead of attacking me for the shit I say on the internet, by the way, you've seen some 0.99
00:52:25 of the stuff I've said online. 0.99
00:52:26 Yeah. 0.99
00:52:26 They tell them to shut the fuck up. 1.00
00:52:28 They could have easily called me toxic. 1.00
00:52:29 They could have easily came after me.
00:52:31 But what they did was ruthlessly defend me instead.
00:52:34 Frame.
00:52:35 I wasn't even there.
00:52:37 Wait, someone tried to start beef because.
00:52:39 Yeah.
00:52:39 Have you seen his YouTube videos?
00:52:40 Blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:52:41 Her mom. 1.00
00:52:42 Shut the fuck up. 1.00
00:52:44 Get the fuck out of their business. 1.00
00:52:45 And she's like, yeah. 0.99
00:52:46 So boom.
00:52:48 Checkmate, bro.
00:52:49 And look. 1.00
00:52:49 And look at the shit I say on Fresh and Fit. 1.00
00:52:51 Yeah. 1.00
00:52:52 I'm saying it right now.
00:52:53 Right. 0.97
00:52:53 You could attack me. 1.00
00:52:54 A piece of shit. 1.00
00:52:55 Are they? 1.00
00:52:56 Yeah.
00:52:57 Frame.
00:52:57 Frame.
00:52:59 I'm not hearing it.
00:53:00 So he's got to get to there and he's got to be that dude.
00:53:06 And so that's why, you know, you're working on your fitness.
00:53:08 You're working on, you know, who you are as a person.
00:53:11 All this stuff.
00:53:11 It's that energy again.
00:53:12 It's right back there.
00:53:14 So he's got some pain to go through and good.
00:53:16 I've gone through that pain, man. 0.99
00:53:17 Heartbreak's a bitch. 0.99
00:53:18 Stay strong, bro. 0.99
00:53:20 It's fine.
00:53:21 You're fine.
00:53:21 You got to go through it.
00:53:25 Okay.
00:53:27 Does that make sense or no?
00:53:28 Yeah.
00:53:28 It makes perfect sense.
00:53:30 One line.
00:53:30 I re-listened to this podcast recently because I think it was one of the best ones.
00:53:34 It was you, Andrew, Sterling, Rollo on Fresh and Fit.
00:53:40 Yeah.
00:53:40 The Avenger one.
00:53:41 Yeah.
00:53:41 The Avengers Assemble Podcast.
00:53:42 I highly recommend listening to that because it's like guys with a lot of experience talking
00:53:46 about spinning plates and about relationships.
00:53:49 One line that I've been thinking about a lot, which I think Andrew said, but you agreed with
00:53:54 was, uh, he says like to make a girl come like right before she's about to come, you
00:53:59 say, I'm going to cheat on you as soon as I leave the room. 1.00
00:54:02 And then she'll, she'll, she'll like, how can you explain the science behind that line?
00:54:08 Yeah.
00:54:08 So women want to be with men that other women want to be with Rolo says this all the time.
00:54:16 He says, women want to be with men that other women want to be with and other men want to 0.99
00:54:20 be or something, something of that nature.
00:54:22 Um, she just wants to know that you have that dominance over women. 1.00
00:54:28 I'll tell you one that I like a lot is talking about threesomes and the other girl coming so hard 1.00
00:54:37 while she's borrowing your dick. 1.00
00:54:41 They lose their fucking mind. 1.00
00:54:42 I don't understand how to, I don't, I try when you guys, no, I, I never tried it. 1.00
00:54:51 I don't fucking have the frame to, I just can't do it.
00:54:54 And still, I can't say it properly. 0.97
00:54:57 Yeah.
00:54:57 I haven't tried, but I just, I play it in my head.
00:54:59 I'm like, what?
00:55:00 Yeah.
00:55:00 I would be like, sorry.
00:55:01 Right after saying it, you got to own it.
00:55:03 And that's another thing about frame is that everything in your life you have to say with
00:55:07 complete conviction, but you want, like when you see a girl come to you telling her that
00:55:13 she's going to get excited about watching another girl coming while she borrows your 1.00
00:55:20 dick, you know what I'm saying? 1.00
00:55:22 Like it's your dick. 1.00
00:55:23 She's borrowing it. 1.00
00:55:24 She's losing her mind.
00:55:25 And then we're throwing her away, bro.
00:55:28 I've literally done this in the next day.
00:55:31 Watch.
00:55:31 I'll show you something.
00:55:32 I'll prove this.
00:55:33 I'll prove this right now.
00:55:36 I heard that.
00:55:37 And I believe him when he said, but I can't picture myself saying that with conviction.
00:55:41 And I want to get to that.
00:55:43 I'll listen to that podcast.
00:55:44 I'm like, bro, I got work to do, man.
00:55:45 Look, she's sending me the accounts right now.
00:55:48 This one's down.
00:55:50 Hold on.
00:55:52 Bro.
00:55:53 This one's down.
00:55:54 This one's down.
00:55:55 She's doing the work.
00:55:56 She's finding the girl.
00:55:57 She made the account.
00:55:58 She's doing the account.
00:55:58 She has a paid account now. 1.00
00:55:59 She's just finding chicks to fuck. 1.00
00:56:01 Not the only one. 1.00
00:56:06 I'll show you another one.
00:56:08 Yeah.
00:56:08 Easy.
00:56:11 Bro.
00:56:11 Big G.
00:56:13 I got work to do, Chad.
00:56:15 I'm going to try it.
00:56:16 El Fresco.
00:56:17 Bro, that's going to go so wrong.
00:56:18 If you don't say that with complete conviction, then it's going to go bad.
00:56:23 I picture myself saying that in like just the fight ensuing.
00:56:30 Let's see here.
00:56:33 Chad, relax about the mics.
00:56:34 It's too low.
00:56:34 It's too high. 1.00
00:56:35 Just fucking turn up. 0.99
00:56:36 Change your volume on your headphones. 0.99
00:56:38 Regonio has a follow-up to that.
00:56:39 I want to check it out.
00:56:41 Read that.
00:56:44 Read it.
00:56:45 I don't care.
00:56:45 Man, she's, yeah.
00:56:49 She's like, whoa.
00:56:50 Okay.
00:56:51 She sent a picture and then some squirt emojis and a heart.
00:56:55 And then good night, baby.
00:56:56 The restaurant girl gave me her number.
00:56:58 She said, when I come back to let her know, she'll take days off to spend time with us.
00:57:02 Wink. 1.00
00:57:03 She's sexy as fuck. 1.00
00:57:04 Her and I vibe so well, and I'm pretty sure she'd fuck us both. 1.00
00:57:08 Next time I'll text her beforehand so she could take days off. 1.00
00:57:11 The other girl too.
00:57:12 I want to have fun with them and you, heart.
00:57:16 Another pick.
00:57:17 Can I read the next one?
00:57:18 Yeah, whatever.
00:57:20 I got work to do, Chad. 1.00
00:57:22 I'll be dreaming of your dick inside of me. 1.00
00:57:24 I miss it already. 1.00
00:57:26 Sweet dreams, Z.
00:57:28 Bro, he didn't even reply.
00:57:30 Bro, he didn't even reply.
00:57:32 He just hearted the message.
00:57:34 And then she texted him the next day.
00:57:36 That's not unmatched perspicacity coupled with sheer indivindicability makes you a feared opponent in any realm of human endeavor.
00:57:45 Bro, he didn't even reply.
00:57:51 It's a game, bro.
00:57:52 10.
00:57:53 No, an actual dime.
00:57:56 Boom.
00:57:58 That's why Waller starts with a W, man.
00:58:02 I got work to do.
00:58:03 I got work to do. 1.00
00:58:04 Gorgonio says, damn, y'all. 0.99
00:58:05 This is the guy from before with the toxic. 1.00
00:58:06 Damn, lol. 0.99
00:58:07 Y'all are spot on. 0.99
00:58:08 I'm working hard, but not hard enough.
00:58:09 Been on my fitness and finance gains for a few months straight now, but my frame wasn't strong.
00:58:13 I'm 29.
00:58:13 She's 23.
00:58:14 Def looking into Iron Man.
00:58:15 Yeah, check it out.
00:58:16 Everyone's saying Big G in the chat. 0.99
00:58:17 Chat, this is no bullshit, bro. 0.99
00:58:20 This is another level. 0.99
00:58:23 But do you understand, though, what I'm saying?
00:58:29 Because I'm not trying to be over the top about this.
00:58:33 I'm trying to be real direct and precise about it.
00:58:36 When a woman tries to accuse you of something, it's not what she's accusing you of. 1.00
00:58:42 That's the biggest mistake a man can make.
00:58:44 Because the first thing he does is says, oh, she's accusing me of said thing.
00:58:48 Let me go defend said thing. 0.90
00:58:49 The mistake is defending it or even hearing it at all.
00:58:53 A compromise.
00:58:54 There has to be this hierarchy.
00:58:56 Hierarchy.
00:58:57 And she is happy in that hierarchy.
00:59:00 Your woman doesn't want a punk. 1.00
00:59:03 You know what I'm saying?
00:59:03 And what he's dealing with, he's not toxic, bro.
00:59:06 If he was toxic, he would not even be able to accept the fact that she was calling him as such.
00:59:12 You see what I'm saying?
00:59:14 He's softer than he's toxic. 1.00
00:59:15 And it doesn't mean he's a pussy. 1.00
00:59:17 He just, he doesn't have the consciousness yet of what's going on. 1.00
00:59:20 Right.
00:59:20 H-Ref says, hi, Justin.
00:59:23 Thank you for what you do.
00:59:24 Will the war room help me with the Tate brother situation if it gets worse?
00:59:27 Tate has made me a God-fearing man, and it's heartbreaking to see what's happening.
00:59:31 Yeah, the war room's not going to stop growing, man.
00:59:32 Let me be very, very clear.
00:59:34 The war room's not going anywhere.
00:59:36 It's getting bigger by the day.
00:59:37 It's getting stronger by the day.
00:59:38 We're all, there's a millionaire room in there right now.
00:59:41 We're all working really, really hard to make it better every day.
00:59:45 The leadership in the war room is absolutely incredible, and I can't even take credit for that, man.
00:59:51 There's guys that work tirelessly in the war room to make it better every day for every man that's in it, man.
00:59:58 So it's the best decision that I think that a young man could possibly make.
01:00:03 The amount of heartbreak, the amount of lost money, the amount of running through life confused and on the wrong path,
01:00:09 it can be completely avoided for a young guy that joins, in my opinion.
01:00:13 So, or even a guy that is in his 30s.
01:00:16 I joined in my 30s, man, and I still think it's one of the best things I ever did.
01:00:20 So.
01:00:21 Thanks for the 15, Canucks Kamara Austin.
01:00:24 Supporting off in Japan, Justin, can you share your non-symp country song playlist?
01:00:28 Yeah, man.
01:00:28 I got a playlist called G-Country.
01:00:30 He loves that country music, man.
01:00:31 Yeah, G-Country, man.
01:00:32 I can put it in the chat somehow, maybe.
01:00:35 G-Country. 0.99
01:00:36 Yeah.
01:00:36 Okay.
01:00:38 I'm still stuck on those text messages that I just saw.
01:00:41 You want some more, Cowboy?
01:00:42 I want some more.
01:00:43 I want to see more.
01:00:44 All right.
01:00:45 I need the secrets.
01:00:47 Do you want to see what I passed on?
01:00:51 Boom, Buka! 0.99
01:00:52 Yeah.
01:00:57 That's a 10.
01:01:09 Boom, Buka! 0.99
01:01:11 That's a legitimate 10.
01:01:12 Did you buy her that?
01:01:13 No.
01:01:15 What did she, um... 1.00
01:01:17 I'll tell you this.
01:01:19 Let me just...
01:01:19 I can't say this on air.
01:01:20 I'm sorry, Chad.
01:01:38 Hold on.
01:01:42 And then, how did you...
01:01:44 Owned it. 0.99
01:01:45 Fucking owned it. 0.99
01:01:46 Just owned it. 1.00
01:01:47 Yeah, that's right.
01:01:48 Yup.
01:01:49 What about it?
01:01:52 See you next week, yeah?
01:01:54 Boom, done.
01:01:55 She thought you were hot. 0.99
01:01:58 That's it, bro.
01:01:59 Yeah, L, me watching chat.
01:02:00 I'm not me watching.
01:02:01 I'm trying to figure out how to get past that.
01:02:05 It's conviction, but the conviction's got to come from all the work and the agagi and everything, right? 0.91
01:02:09 So, let's put it in order so it makes more sense, right?
01:02:12 So, you do all the work, right?
01:02:13 You go through the pain.
01:02:14 You're confident.
01:02:15 You've gone through all this stress.
01:02:17 You know that nothing...
01:02:18 Like, losing a girl?
01:02:19 Losing a girl?
01:02:20 How many do you lose?
01:02:22 Bro, no.
01:02:23 Not many.
01:02:24 Not many, bro.
01:02:26 Not many.
01:02:29 The only way I will lose a girl is if I can't see her enough.
01:02:33 The only way...
01:02:34 Sterling said the same thing.
01:02:35 The only way is if I can't give her my time.
01:02:39 That's it.
01:02:40 That's how they get cold out.
01:02:41 It's never because...
01:02:44 Did you see that tweet I made?
01:02:46 That girl that went on the internet and said that she paid $10,000 to get her virginity back, and I called her out. 1.00
01:02:52 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:02:53 Yeah.
01:02:53 That was so funny, man.
01:02:55 Okay.
01:02:55 So, you saw that.
01:02:56 I took it down.
01:02:57 Can you explain it for the chat?
01:02:58 Yeah.
01:02:58 So, this girl, she has a big OnlyFans account. 0.99
01:03:01 She went on the New York Post and said that she got her vagina fixed so she could... 1.00
01:03:05 She restored her virginity. 0.99
01:03:06 She restored her virginity. 0.56
01:03:07 She got a BBL for her hymen.
01:03:08 And I responded to the New York Post with screenshots saying, a surgeon can't fix a broken heart. 0.99
01:03:15 Now, you would think she would be fucking furious, right? 0.97
01:03:18 Is that fair? 0.99
01:03:19 Mm-hmm.
01:03:19 Furious.
01:03:20 Okay.
01:03:21 Let's see if she's furious. 0.51
01:03:22 This is what she texts me today.
01:03:25 Basically, he posted the screenshots like she's restored her virginity.
01:03:27 Yeah, I called her out. 0.74
01:03:28 But she was sending all these pictures of lingerie saying, I miss you.
01:03:32 I miss you.
01:03:32 Right.
01:03:33 This is what happened today.
01:03:35 She sent me this message.
01:03:36 Or was it yesterday?
01:03:37 Read this and then hit the video.
01:03:39 I'd never seen this.
01:03:39 Can I read it?
01:03:40 Go ahead.
01:03:42 Well, back in...
01:03:43 Can I read this one?
01:03:45 Yeah.
01:03:46 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:03:46 Justin goes, panties, question mark?
01:03:48 Well, she asked me that.
01:03:49 Oh, did you see about the panties?
01:03:51 And he goes, panties, question mark?
01:03:52 But you're leaving.
01:03:53 He's just texting one word, just hearting.
01:03:55 He's not wasting any time.
01:03:57 And then she says, well, back in September when you were in London, I had a surprise plan
01:04:00 for you.
01:04:00 I would tell you, but I prefer you see it for yourself.
01:04:04 Here's a video.
01:04:08 Okay, there's the panties. 0.85
01:04:08 Wait, wait, wait.
01:04:09 Let it play.
01:04:09 Okay.
01:04:10 It gets good.
01:04:15 The panties say, owned by Justin Waller.
01:04:17 Put it in the chat. 1.00
01:04:18 I don't give a fuck. 0.99
01:04:19 Bro, so here's the thing. 0.99
01:04:21 I just called.
01:04:22 He say, owned by Justin Waller.
01:04:23 I just called this girl out on social media.
01:04:26 Publicly.
01:04:27 Publicly.
01:04:27 I thought it was over after that.
01:04:28 You humiliated her.
01:04:30 And she said, I've never done this to anyone.
01:04:33 You were the first one I wanted to try, dot, dot, dot.
01:04:37 Yep.
01:04:38 You look so good in love.
01:04:42 You want him?
01:04:43 It's easy to see.
01:04:44 It's the game, G.
01:04:47 Look, love it.
01:04:50 Don't care, bro.
01:04:50 He's just saying, he just texts like, everyone in the chat is saying, WWD.
01:04:55 Bro, not me watching.
01:04:56 I'm game learning.
01:04:57 I'm trying to learn.
01:04:59 This is the power of frame.
01:05:00 This is how far.
01:05:01 It's frame, bro.
01:05:03 It's frame.
01:05:04 And here's another thing that comes from, I'll tell you another thing that's really important
01:05:06 about frame, is once you do all this internal work and it's coming off of you like that,
01:05:12 you start to get in this abundance of choice.
01:05:16 And so it's much easier to negotiate when I have a bunch of chips.
01:05:22 I can call so many bluffs and I can look them dead in the eyes and say, I don't care what
01:05:28 your hand is.
01:05:29 Like when you sign a business deal, you need equity.
01:05:31 Yeah.
01:05:31 Or when somebody, like, let's say this guy's like, no, I'm not going to sell it to you for
01:05:37 three million instead of three, five.
01:05:39 And I'll look him dead in the eye and say, that's fine, bro.
01:05:41 Because I can place this money somewhere else.
01:05:43 I have four more deals.
01:05:44 Right.
01:05:46 Here.
01:05:46 Same thing with women. 1.00
01:05:48 And that's a part of ethics is being in abundance.
01:05:53 Abundance mindset.
01:05:54 Let me, let me give you an example of why, of why not just mindset, but actually being
01:05:59 in abundance.
01:06:00 This happens almost every day, right?
01:06:02 Two guys are friends for 20 years.
01:06:04 One of those guys get married, right?
01:06:07 The marriage starts to kind of get off the rockers.
01:06:10 They've all been hanging out over time.
01:06:12 Friend B that didn't get married isn't in abundance.
01:06:16 Friend A's wife wants to piss off friend A, goes to try to sleep with friend B. 1.00
01:06:23 Instead of that man being in abundance, he's in a pussy desert. 0.99
01:06:27 He takes her up on it and loses a friend for the rest of his life. 0.96
01:06:30 The man wasn't in abundance.
01:06:32 It's a, it's your job to be in abundance before said thing happens.
01:06:37 Right.
01:06:38 Right.
01:06:38 You need insurance policy.
01:06:39 You have to, because it makes it very, very, now you take pride in being that man's
01:06:43 friend. 1.00
01:06:44 Like, fuck you, ho. 1.00
01:06:45 I got plenty of you. 1.00
01:06:46 There's no way I'm giving up my one friend.
01:06:48 Right.
01:06:49 And, but it happens every day because guys aren't creating abundance in their life and
01:06:53 they're desperate.
01:06:53 I always say, it's not a bad man that I'm worried about.
01:06:56 It is a desperate man that I'm worried about.
01:06:58 Because they'll snake you for what he doesn't have.
01:07:00 Yeah.
01:07:00 They'll snake you. 1.00
01:07:01 I don't, I don't want to be friends with a man that's not an abundance of money and 1.00
01:07:04 pussy because he'll try to steal my money and I'll try to hit my bitch behind my back. 1.00
01:07:08 Now, do I trust my girl? 1.00
01:07:11 Yeah, I absolutely do.
01:07:13 But why am I going to have somebody up front around you, trying, starving to death at my
01:07:16 buffet, bro?
01:07:17 Yeah.
01:07:19 Yeah.
01:07:19 Sterling has 10 girlfriends.
01:07:22 W.
01:07:22 I would never.
01:07:24 10?
01:07:24 At least, bro.
01:07:25 I'm just, I'm throwing out a random number.
01:07:27 Sterling's got girlfriends in every city in the world we go to.
01:07:30 Yeah.
01:07:30 If you want to see Sterling Cooper, we had him on the stream three days ago.
01:07:32 It's on locals.
01:07:33 So the point is this, Andrew too, I've met a bunch of Andrew's girls are texting me about
01:07:39 Andrew, but I can tell you with a shadow of a doubt, Andrew would have zero issue with
01:07:45 it.
01:07:45 I'm sitting here saying it on the internet. 0.99
01:07:46 I don't give a fuck. 0.99
01:07:47 He knows I would never, never. 0.99
01:07:49 I don't have to.
01:07:51 Well, they're texting you about Andrew.
01:07:52 They do.
01:07:53 Yeah, of course.
01:07:53 Of course.
01:07:54 But in general, they're coming through my Instagram.
01:07:57 Hey, can I get you a WhatsApp?
01:07:58 I'm trying to find out what's going on.
01:07:59 Of course, I'll talk to them.
01:08:00 Yeah.
01:08:00 You know, because I don't have to snake him.
01:08:05 I could leave any girl of mine with Andrew Tate or Tristan Tate or Sterling. 0.99
01:08:09 I could send them to fucking the Bahamas to a romantic resort and I would not have to 0.99
01:08:14 worry about them snaking me with one of my, with a girl. 1.00
01:08:19 I just don't have to worry about it.
01:08:21 And that's the kind of friends you want.
01:08:22 You want friends that are in abundance because getting yourself there is actually the ethical
01:08:29 thing to do.
01:08:30 That way, there's nothing more. 0.99
01:08:33 There's no amount of pussy in the world that I could get that would be worth trading my 1.00
01:08:37 friendship with my boys. 1.00
01:08:39 Right.
01:08:42 Thanks for the 10, Momasa.
01:08:43 I can't forget about my ex that broke up with me five years ago.
01:08:46 Been with other women since, but I still can't forget about her.
01:08:48 Is it too late to try to get it back?
01:08:50 Assuming I could.
01:08:51 This is part.
01:08:51 Um, I was telling you about this in Bucharest.
01:08:54 There was one girl I broke up with so many times and then it would move on other girls,
01:08:58 something like that.
01:08:59 But I had this problem too.
01:09:01 Like, I know that you're not supposed to be afraid to let girls go and you have to be 1.00
01:09:04 able to, you have priorities, but what do you do about this?
01:09:07 Have you ever been in this position?
01:09:09 Yeah, man.
01:09:09 I have been in that position.
01:09:10 You have to understand that the only thing you can ever do is change you.
01:09:15 Contacting that girl is the worst decision you can possibly make.
01:09:22 I always think of it.
01:09:23 You ever seen two batteries and if you try to put them together, they push each other
01:09:27 away.
01:09:27 Yeah.
01:09:28 It's literally that energy.
01:09:31 Getting women is a gravitational pull in general. 1.00
01:09:34 However, particularly around a breakup, if it's not her idea, it will not work.
01:09:41 It has to be her idea.
01:09:43 She has to send you that, Hey, stranger text.
01:09:46 You understand what I'm saying?
01:09:48 Yeah.
01:09:48 It's never going to be like, Oh, well, she doesn't want me.
01:09:50 Dude, the second she wants you, she will text you.
01:09:56 Guaranteed.
01:09:57 Literally, if I know anything without a shadow of a doubt in my life, when it comes to women,
01:10:01 you are not going to talk a girl into coming back to you.
01:10:05 It's not going to happen.
01:10:06 You have to go be, be, become the guy that she wants to be with and she feels like she's 0.99
01:10:11 missing out on, and then you have to make a decision whether you want to take her ass 0.99
01:10:14 back or not, or pump and dump her out of revenge or whatever. 1.00
01:10:18 And I'm not promoting any of that, but I'm just flat out telling you, I'll give you an
01:10:22 example.
01:10:23 I've said this on some podcasts.
01:10:25 I was dating Miss Louisiana in college and I broke up with her.
01:10:29 I broke up with her while she was getting ready for Miss America because my head was spinning 0.95
01:10:35 and I didn't have my shit all the way together yet where I could just say, Hey, listen, I'm 0.98
01:10:39 going to start running through the volleyball team. 0.99
01:10:42 Right?
01:10:42 So I broke up with her because I thought that was the God fearing thing to do. 1.00
01:10:46 It was stupid. 1.00
01:10:47 If I had that shit to do again, I wouldn't have, I'd have just kept pimping, but it broke 1.00
01:10:51 my heart, man. 0.99
01:10:52 Cause I loved her.
01:10:53 I didn't want to leave her.
01:10:55 I just, I just didn't want to be monogamous and I didn't know how to share that in South
01:10:58 Louisiana.
01:11:00 And so I tried to recover her and in my chasing her, it put me in a weak frame and it just
01:11:08 pushed her away.
01:11:10 And so she ended up getting married and it, ah, oh no, the W comes back.
01:11:17 Then I became Justin Waller.
01:11:20 She calls me up, lies to me, says she got a divorce. 1.00
01:11:24 Found out that she didn't.
01:11:25 I got lied to.
01:11:27 And just recently she called and she calls all the time, bro.
01:11:32 How's she looking?
01:11:33 She's straight, bro. 0.75
01:11:34 I mean, she wasn't, I mean, she got third place in Miss America. 0.97
01:11:36 She's fine, bro.
01:11:37 But I mean, I had already, dude, I like, I chose not to be with her.
01:11:40 I beat the brakes off of her for like a year and then just threw her back. 1.00
01:11:44 Go to the streets, bitch. 1.00
01:11:47 You know? 1.00
01:11:47 So, um, am I proud of hurting a girl's feelings? 1.00
01:11:51 No, but she was also a fucking liar. 1.00
01:11:53 And, uh, and it is what it is. 1.00
01:11:55 So it's, it's about going at what, what did I do in that five years though?
01:12:00 I went and built my business.
01:12:02 I was in top-knop shape.
01:12:05 Uh, I was growing as a person.
01:12:07 And by the time she realized that I had passed her husband up, which, which is all it was
01:12:11 about.
01:12:12 Yeah.
01:12:12 All you got to do is, is pass up the slowest guy, which is the guy that she's with. 0.64
01:12:16 Right.
01:12:16 Right.
01:12:16 Just pass that dude. 1.00
01:12:17 And she's going to monkey branch to you again. 1.00
01:12:19 Cause she's got a history with you.
01:12:21 And here's, and here's the opposite side of her calling that guy toxic, but we had this
01:12:26 thing yet.
01:12:27 You ever have a girl explain to you why y'all should be together? 1.00
01:12:29 I have it happen to me all the time, but we had this connection and the way you made 0.94
01:12:33 me feel and all this other bullshit. 0.99
01:12:35 Meanwhile, she's telling the other dude that he's toxic. 0.99
01:12:39 Understand they're going to create a story in both directions.
01:12:42 It's not about that at all. 0.91
01:12:44 It's about who you are as a man and the presence that you hold in the frame, she gets sucked
01:12:51 into it.
01:12:52 And then she makes a story about why she does so.
01:12:57 Do you believe in the alpha widowing? 0.99
01:12:59 When I had Sterling on, he was, uh, it's fucked up. 0.99
01:13:03 It's true. 0.99
01:13:04 Okay.
01:13:05 So I'll, I'll, I'll say what he said. 0.99
01:13:07 He was saying that like, basically if a girl is with Justin, like she, she's fucked. 0.99
01:13:12 Yeah. 0.99
01:13:13 Like, like, like, like it's that it's just a trap because like, how are you going to
01:13:18 find another six, three millionaire who can skin a bear, who can hunt, who who's competent,
01:13:24 who can run a business, who is well-liked, has a network.
01:13:27 Like what, how is she going?
01:13:29 Because there's this term alpha widow.
01:13:30 I heard that from Sterling actually that once a girl is with that top tier male and he's
01:13:36 competent in every single way to the point where she's texting, like, I miss you already
01:13:41 and you're not even replying and she's finding other girls. 1.00
01:13:43 When you get her to that level, she's not able to connect with another man again, because
01:13:47 she's always going to be thinking of that experience, that connection, what we had before.
01:13:53 Yeah. 1.00
01:13:54 It's fucked dude. 1.00
01:13:55 Cause they'll still get married and they'll text you while they're married. 1.00
01:13:57 It's completely fucked up. 1.00
01:13:58 It's fucked up. 1.00
01:13:59 So you got to keep your ethics, man. 1.00
01:14:00 I got three rules, bro.
01:14:01 So rule number one, if a man is all fighting for my country, yeah, go ahead. 0.99
01:14:09 If a man is all fighting for my country, I, I don't give a fuck. 0.99
01:14:18 I wouldn't, and I know about it. 0.99
01:14:19 I will not see that woman at all.
01:14:21 I won't even give her the time of day because he's out fighting for, you know, whether it's
01:14:25 our freedom or not, or it's the matrix or whatever.
01:14:27 If he's fighting for the country, I'm not talking to his girl. 1.00
01:14:30 Number two, you could be my biggest fucking enemy in the world. 1.00
01:14:34 If I know that a woman is married, I will not sleep with her. 1.00
01:14:39 Now I've been lied to and found out, but if I know there's no fucking way I'm going to 0.99
01:14:44 do it. 0.99
01:14:45 Number three, I don't give a fuck how mad you get. 1.00
01:14:48 You get as mad as you want. 1.00
01:14:49 I will absolutely fuck your sister in a second. 1.00
01:14:52 So, cause it's, it's not going to break your heart. 1.00
01:14:55 So that's my rules, man. 1.00
01:14:59 Wait, under what circumstance will you fuck a girl's sister? 1.00
01:15:02 I'll, I'll fuck, I'll fuck my friend's sister in a second. 1.00
01:15:04 Sorry, bro. 1.00
01:15:06 Why?
01:15:07 It's just a joke, dude.
01:15:08 Oh, okay.
01:15:09 I'm just kidding.
01:15:10 Okay.
01:15:11 Okay.
01:15:12 I thought you were a hundred percent here.
01:15:14 No, bro.
01:15:14 I'm completely kidding.
01:15:15 Okay.
01:15:15 Okay.
01:15:15 Okay.
01:15:16 Okay.
01:15:17 Okay.
01:15:17 Sonny says, Justin, the Tates recommend staying mysterious on your occupation with girls.
01:15:22 Would love your take slash advice on this.
01:15:23 I know.
01:15:24 I never know what to say.
01:15:25 LML.
01:15:26 Chad, did you think he was serious too?
01:15:27 I thought he was 100% serious.
01:15:28 He didn't change his tone of voice at all.
01:15:30 Okay.
01:15:33 I generally tell him, you know, everybody's game is a little bit different.
01:15:40 Andrew particularly has more of a mob boss look.
01:15:43 I think that plays to a character.
01:15:45 I think playing a character is good.
01:15:47 We all play a character in our own way.
01:15:49 We all paint this certain picture and it's generally in truth or some kind of mystique
01:15:54 that just, it's not that you're not being who you are.
01:15:58 You're just kind of putting a spin on it in a way.
01:16:00 And I think it's very person dependent, you know, whether you want to do that or not.
01:16:05 Luke Belmar's here.
01:16:07 Luke.
01:16:07 I was just texting Luke, man.
01:16:15 That's it.
01:16:16 Is this your job?
01:16:16 I find...
01:16:16 I find you the job.
01:16:17 I find you.
01:16:17 Until then, it's from me.
01:16:18 He turned around.
01:16:19 I'm done.
01:16:23 I'm ended.
01:16:26 I'm done.
01:16:29 I'm done.
01:16:42 I'm done.