SNEAKO - SNEAKO Interviews Justin Waller

00:00:00.240 How you feeling, man? You look a little bit stressed out about this Instagram thing.

00:00:04.060 Nah, bro. I'm cool in real life. Fuck me. It's money, you know?

00:00:07.920 Yeah. Missed opportunities. What, did things lose or something?

00:00:10.620 How does this work?

00:00:13.320 Cool.

00:00:14.080 That should be good.

00:00:14.920 Yeah.

00:00:15.720 Yeah, but why did you get terminated on Instagram?

00:00:18.340 Dude, actually, I can't call it the Matrix, man.

00:00:20.980 It's some kids, basically, they would ban me and then they'd message that they banned me.

00:00:26.080 And they're like, hey, send me money.

00:00:28.240 But there were so many of them, you know? 1.00

00:00:29.760 And then you're negotiating with terrorists and all that shit. 0.98

00:00:31.940 So they just banned me so many times with the bot that Instagram won't let me. 0.98

00:00:37.520 I was able to, I had the shield.

00:00:39.740 And so what I was able to do is dispute it and get it back after a couple hours.

00:00:44.240 So they're knocking me down five times a day and telling me they were doing it.

00:00:48.300 And then eventually, it's just, I couldn't do it anymore.

00:00:51.120 So it's not the Matrix, it's just some terrorist kids? 1.00

00:00:53.420 Yeah, just some assholes, bro. 1.00

00:00:55.340 You'll get it back. You can get it back. 1.00

00:00:56.840 Luke Belmont's pulling up. He's the expert at that. He runs the internet.

00:00:59.040 Yeah, I've been talking to him.

00:01:00.420 We got five from Sam.

00:01:01.160 Yo, Justin, I'm a 19-year-old construction worker putting in 12 hours a day, five days a week.

00:01:05.580 You've inspired the shit out of me to keep getting more experience and start my own company.

00:01:10.020 Love that, man. I love that, bro.

00:01:12.540 How's it going with all your businesses?

00:01:13.880 And BTR says huge inspiration waller. Yee-haw!

00:01:16.800 Man, we're smashing it, dude. Killing it. 1.00

00:01:21.880 We'll have our biggest year this year. Last year was our biggest year.

00:01:24.740 And it's not going to do anything but get bigger and bigger, bro.

00:01:26.900 So we're not stopping it at all. In fact, I think we'll triple this year.

00:01:29.420 What have you been up to since Romania, since this whole situation?

00:01:34.080 Are you stressed out about Andrew and Tristan? Like, what's your predictions?

00:01:38.600 What's been going on? I haven't seen you in a while.

00:01:41.420 I mean, I saw you at the freshman party. Nicole, thank you for the 22. A killer stream.

00:01:44.160 Thank you. Appreciate it.

00:01:44.980 Bro, how you been? I've been trying to figure out...

00:01:49.160 Bro, I'm good, man. Everything's been good. It's just been non-stop work, bro.

00:01:52.300 Non-stop. That's all I've been doing, man.

00:01:54.900 I had a shoulder surgery, my fifth shoulder surgery.

00:01:57.400 So I've been doing a lot of therapy, going back home for that.

00:01:59.760 And then just working on all the plans for the year, you know, how we're going to execute.

00:02:03.980 But, you know, the business is 13 years old next month.

00:02:07.780 So it's kind of just the same thing, just bigger numbers.

00:02:11.580 You know, same KPI, same things we measure every day.

00:02:14.380 It's just what can we do to drive the top line and make sure we still, you know, hit our net.

00:02:19.380 So, yeah, man. Same stuff for me.

00:02:22.360 I did buy right under 100 doors in real estate in December.

00:02:29.920 And it looks like I'm about to close another 60.

00:02:32.400 So that's really exciting, actually.

00:02:35.940 When is it enough, Justin?

00:02:37.340 Never, bro.

00:02:38.220 It's never enough?

00:02:39.100 Never.

00:02:39.420 There's always a new mountain to climb?

00:02:40.480 Yeah, bro.

00:02:41.180 You know what?

00:02:41.640 I'll put it to you like this.

00:02:42.660 It's like I was at home the other day and somebody had my channel up on the screen back in Louisiana.

00:02:50.780 And it's that photo of me in the jet, right?

00:02:54.420 And he's, you know, glaring off into whatever, trying to look all cool in a suit.

00:02:58.500 And I said, you don't understand.

00:02:59.820 I work for that dude.

00:03:01.480 It's not easy working for that guy.

00:03:03.560 You know, so it's the voice in my head, bro, that I feel like I'm constantly working for.

00:03:07.900 So every time I do something that I like, next thing you know, it's not good enough.

00:03:11.940 I move the goalposts.

00:03:12.980 So I think that's healthy.

00:03:15.500 Did everything sound better?

00:03:16.500 I think I just been new with these my kids.

00:03:18.400 Switch them up.

00:03:18.940 Better now?

00:03:19.560 You good?

00:03:20.620 Yeah, I think everything's good.

00:03:22.020 Do you ever think that you could retire?

00:03:24.380 Could you ever just... 1.00

00:03:26.260 Fuck yeah, dude. 1.00

00:03:26.860 I could quit right now. 1.00

00:03:28.360 It's like, what kind of life would I live, you know?

00:03:30.600 Okay, it's good.

00:03:31.800 Yeah.

00:03:34.660 What kind of life, like, you wouldn't have any purpose?

00:03:37.540 You work hard.

00:03:38.720 Like, every day I see your Instagram story, you're always building a new building.

00:03:41.560 Yeah.

00:03:41.900 You're always having construction workers.

00:03:43.960 Yeah.

00:03:44.100 You're always doing something new on social media.

00:03:48.040 When can you...

00:03:49.320 Is there ever a time to chill out?

00:03:53.120 No.

00:03:53.860 I mean, I mix my entire life.

00:03:57.540 I plan to work all day, every day.

00:03:58.760 I never plan.

00:03:59.240 It's kind of like the gym, right?

00:04:00.120 Like, I never plan a day off.

00:04:01.880 If a day off happens, then I let it happen.

00:04:04.600 And that's the good thing about working all the time, is that if you have an opportunity

00:04:08.340 to go to the Keys on a Tuesday with some dime and live your life completely on your

00:04:13.720 terms, you get to do that.

00:04:15.000 But I never have a day scheduled off, ever.

00:04:17.780 And the whole time I'm doing that day in the Keys, let's say, I'm texting and working

00:04:22.280 the whole damn time, so it doesn't matter.

00:04:24.560 I believe that if you can't be happy on a random Tuesday, then you need to really address 0.98

00:04:29.360 what your life looks like.

00:04:30.620 I was talking about that yesterday on the stream.

00:04:32.600 When we were in Romania, something happened.

00:04:34.760 We had a great day.

00:04:35.620 It was a lot of fun.

00:04:36.200 We were partying, having fun.

00:04:37.340 And then you said something that I remembered.

00:04:39.080 I still think about.

00:04:40.280 You're sitting like this, and you're like, I'm like, this is a really good day today.

00:04:44.560 And you said, can't have a bad day.

00:04:47.540 It's not possible.

00:04:47.980 Bro, no such thing.

00:04:49.140 Can't have a bad day.

00:04:50.140 No.

00:04:50.740 Cannot have a bad day.

00:04:51.260 And I've never heard somebody say that, and I've never thought about it in that way.

00:04:54.960 And in a way, I've been depressed before.

00:04:57.920 I believe that anymore.

00:04:59.100 But that belief, thinking it's impossible for me to have a bad day.

00:05:04.580 And when you said it, I believed you.

00:05:06.280 I can't picture you having a down moment.

00:05:11.520 No, man.

00:05:12.000 And I'll tell you another thing.

00:05:13.220 I actually get to say that about three times a day.

00:05:16.080 Because it comes up in small talk.

00:05:18.460 Right?

00:05:19.480 So, by saying that, I'm putting that into my reality.

00:05:24.660 And I'm giving a gift to the person that heard me say it.

00:05:28.140 You know what I'm saying?

00:05:28.640 Like, most people.

00:05:29.720 That was for me.

00:05:30.720 Yeah.

00:05:31.040 Right.

00:05:31.380 So, like, it's like spreading something that's actually positive.

00:05:34.740 Like, I can't have a bad day.

00:05:36.180 Well, you're speaking that into reality.

00:05:38.700 So, by speaking that into reality, if something negative happens, like, I just lost my Instagram, right?

00:05:43.760 I'm not having a bad day, bro.

00:05:45.460 Yeah.

00:05:45.780 My day is absolutely amazing.

00:05:47.260 It just gives me.

00:05:47.580 It's not going to be affected by Instagram.

00:05:48.660 Right.

00:05:48.860 All it's going to do is make one of my other platforms stronger while I get my Instagram back.

00:05:53.160 Period.

00:05:54.120 So, is it a negative day?

00:05:55.940 Or did I get stronger because of what's happening right now?

00:05:58.860 And so, if you can choose to build the muscle that frames your scenarios like that, then you'll never lose in a day or any situation.

00:06:07.680 You'll only say, okay, cool. 0.99

00:06:10.580 Now my Twitter's about to get strong as fuck. 0.88

00:06:12.640 Or now my YouTube's about to go to a different place. 0.97

00:06:15.500 Or now I'm going to use this other platform or what have you.

00:06:17.920 Or now I'm going to start a Facebook group instead of, you know, because I don't have Instagram.

00:06:21.380 Whatever. 0.97

00:06:21.900 It doesn't fucking matter, dude. 0.92

00:06:23.000 So, you have to choose to make every day a good day. 0.94

00:06:29.340 And once you do that and once you learn how to start creating the muscle where you flip the script on everything that could possibly happen to you, you realize all you're going to do is win in every direction.

00:06:40.120 So, because I'll have all the work.

00:06:41.860 Let's say I pick Twitter, for example.

00:06:43.800 Let's say I go hard on Twitter now because I have no choice.

00:06:46.140 Well, then my Twitter's going to get up to $100,000.

00:06:49.800 And by the time it gets to $100,000, I'm going to get my Instagram back.

00:06:53.920 And then I'll have a Twitter that's even stronger than it was before.

00:06:57.160 Right.

00:06:57.280 Did I lose?

00:06:59.160 No. 1.00

00:06:59.700 Now, I could have lost because I could sit here and be pouting like a little bitch. 1.00

00:07:02.900 You know what I'm saying? 1.00

00:07:03.480 But I can still get to women. 1.00

00:07:07.900 You know?

00:07:08.300 I can still figure out how to make money.

00:07:10.680 So, I'm not – man, I got layers to my stuff.

00:07:13.960 So, you know, it's just going to make one of my layers stronger.

00:07:17.440 And that's it.

00:07:18.860 Thanks for the 11.

00:07:19.980 Two legends right here.

00:07:21.220 Flying Raptor.

00:07:21.880 I appreciate the motivation you both provide for this generation.

00:07:23.920 Keep up the great work.

00:07:24.780 Free the Tates.

00:07:25.540 I want to ask you this.

00:07:26.560 You seem like you mentor a lot of people and a lot of young guys look up to you.

00:07:30.700 Especially me.

00:07:31.220 I ask Jay Waller for advice all the time.

00:07:35.000 Like even at the Fresh and Fit party, we're having a couple drinks.

00:07:37.240 We're having fun.

00:07:38.120 And then I'll come up and I'll look to guys like you for that wisdom that I don't have.

00:07:45.140 And like even after the stream when I was with Sterling, your roommate and good friend.

00:07:49.340 We were talking for a while and I was just like trying to get a lot of the game.

00:07:52.200 And that's why I want to have you on the stream.

00:07:54.360 What is something that you've realized talking to young guys?

00:07:56.720 I saw like you were talking about some guy in the airport the other day.

00:07:59.980 And what have you learned since Romania?

00:08:03.200 Like I think we – I got to learn a lot from you back in Bucharest at the Tate Mansion.

00:08:07.900 But what have you learned since then from like what young guys need to hear?

00:08:13.800 Yeah.

00:08:14.020 So I think young guys have checked out on the things that used to be popular, right?

00:08:18.280 So they used to like super look up to athletes or they would super look up to movie stars.

00:08:24.000 But they're quickly beginning to realize that like those guys aren't as cool as they seem to be in the 90s when all the information was really controlled.

00:08:32.080 I mean like I wouldn't personally trade places with any famous person that I know of because I know that the frame and everything in my life is set up. 0.95

00:08:38.840 And even if they're monetarily better off than me, the gap in happiness because of all the other areas of life, my shit's so tied together. 0.97

00:08:47.900 Like you could – let's say you had a NFL star and he's super, super rich, but he has no frame of women. 0.98

00:08:53.400 He has no – and he's just getting rolled on by some chick and he's about to lose half of it in a divorce or take an L or he doesn't live as freely as I live my life in that way.

00:09:01.700 So to me, man, I think what's happening is they're seeing guys that have their life together in all areas and have complete control of the situation. 0.99

00:09:12.800 And even to this day, I can't – I say most movie stars, maybe outside of Leo, don't even really have a full grip on their shit. 0.90

00:09:19.420 What does Leo have that other guys don't have? 0.97

00:09:21.500 Leo's got –

00:09:22.020 Leo's just wrapped up with another Israeli 19-year-old model.

00:09:25.000 Yeah, bro.

00:09:25.720 He's doing his thing, man.

00:09:27.080 Boom, Boka! 0.98

00:09:28.220 He's living life on his own terms, bro. 0.98

00:09:29.900 And some of the wealthiest men in the world are still a rat in a cage, man.

00:09:34.180 They're a prison to the system.

00:09:35.560 Why do you think Leo doesn't get called creepy?

00:09:37.440 I've seen other guys.

00:09:38.460 There's guys like – that you don't know, internet dudes.

00:09:40.300 I would say Keemstar is like 40-something and he's dating a girl who's like half his age. 0.98

00:09:46.500 But everyone's like creep, creep, pedo, pedo. 0.97

00:09:48.880 Leonardo DiCaprio, I think it's a common consensus. 0.88

00:09:51.240 This guy is not – he's not creepy.

00:09:53.700 It's just like this is his preference.

00:09:55.580 Why is that?

00:09:56.660 Well, number one, I think he owns it completely.

00:09:58.320 You have to be able to own it completely.

00:10:00.800 Like it's guilt is the number one tool used against men.

00:10:03.960 You said that in Romania and I have – I've been repeating that and I've been telling other people that all the time.

00:10:08.720 It's like the shame and the guilt is how they control men and you can't let that control you.

00:10:16.020 How did you get past that?

00:10:17.660 Like there's so much game that you gave me that I think about all the time.

00:10:21.100 Like the shame and the guilt.

00:10:22.340 That opened up my eyes to how much – like Lstream.

00:10:26.260 How much they try to say like, oh, you're just insecure.

00:10:29.180 Like the thing I get all the time is, oh, this wannabe alpha male.

00:10:33.140 I've never called myself an alpha male once.

00:10:35.520 But they use that really strategically to try to shame and guilt you for trying to inspire.

00:10:40.140 And I'm doing push-ups on the stream.

00:10:41.700 They try to belittle your whole message by using that kind of terminology.

00:10:44.840 Like, oh, like what do you – like you got your heart broken or something.

00:10:48.480 Who hurt you?

00:10:49.260 Who hurts you?

00:10:50.280 You know, like that's always the first tactic they use.

00:10:53.220 How did you – how did you realize that?

00:10:55.180 And before you answer that, we got a big $100 dono from Doc Holliday.

00:10:59.940 Sneeko and Jay Waller, thanks for the mindset to be purposeful, stronger, and accountable. 0.98

00:11:03.700 Grown men over bitch voice. 1.00

00:11:05.540 Cigars and cognacs for the collab tonight. 1.00

00:11:07.300 Respect and cheer, gents.

00:11:08.680 I wish I had some kind of grand.

00:11:09.640 I got some cigars, but we're going high.

00:11:12.280 I don't want to interrupt and get away.

00:11:13.400 I was just an empire social, so I was just smoking one.

00:11:16.540 So, yeah, man.

00:11:18.340 So, I knew I had an issue with guilt because guilt was something that was the number one thing in my life that was holding me back.

00:11:26.080 I had my fitness together.

00:11:27.060 My money was right.

00:11:28.720 I was – I had very good style for where I was from.

00:11:33.740 And guilt was the only thing, man.

00:11:35.080 And I feel like I really fixed that in the war room, and it did not take me long.

00:11:39.340 What I realized is that as – the way the machine is set up right now, it's – you go to school.

00:11:46.120 The last camaraderie you have is when you play high school football or college football.

00:11:51.640 And I thought to myself, when was the last time I was, like, truly, truly, truly happy all the way?

00:11:56.680 It was college football.

00:11:57.840 What did I have?

00:11:58.660 I had camaraderie.

00:11:59.600 I had other people that were thinking and moving the way I did.

00:12:02.520 So, that's why I do think men's groups are so important.

00:12:06.060 Groups like the war room gave me a base of people, or even Sterling himself gave me a base to say, hey, somebody's attacking me in this way, and it's starting to make me feel this way. 0.95

00:12:18.900 And he'll be there and be like, nah, bro, that's bullshit. 0.98

00:12:21.540 You know? 0.99

00:12:21.700 So, you have to have people around you that think and move the way you do.

00:12:26.180 That's why I talk about I don't care. 1.00

00:12:27.580 Fuck time. 1.00

00:12:28.100 Fuck blood. 1.00

00:12:28.520 I don't care how long I've known a person. 1.00

00:12:30.220 Do our souls align or not?

00:12:31.720 Right.

00:12:31.920 Because that's what I really need to look for.

00:12:33.420 Because if you're in the world and you feel any way, whether it's how I feel and you feel, or let's say it's somebody else that feels a certain way, one of the most important things you can do is find a tribe of people that you're so aligned with. 0.85

00:12:46.260 That way you don't have to be wrong for being who you are because I wasn't fucking broken.

00:12:50.140 I just needed other people that thought the way I did. 0.72

00:12:53.660 And so, in South Louisiana, it was very isolated.

00:12:55.940 Right.

00:12:56.160 You know?

00:12:56.560 It was get married, you know, get a dog, a couple kids, and a DSLD or a DH Horton house. 1.00

00:13:02.980 Fuck that. 1.00

00:13:03.460 I don't want that life. 1.00

00:13:04.300 And a what house?

00:13:05.340 It's a big track builder in America.

00:13:07.200 Okay.

00:13:07.400 Like a Horton house.

00:13:08.140 It's like. 1.00

00:13:08.680 That's some down south shit. 1.00

00:13:09.680 It's the cookie cutter shit. 1.00

00:13:11.080 That's some roll tide shit. 1.00

00:13:12.120 Yeah, some roll tide shit, maybe. 1.00

00:13:15.080 Thanks for the five. 1.00

00:13:16.060 Zombie Beast.

00:13:16.500 Not Seiko.

00:13:16.860 They've been trying to cancel Leo Fort recently.

00:13:18.220 Since he got in chubby, he's definitely getting called a creep.

00:13:20.260 Now, not to the same level, though.

00:13:22.420 I think it's the difference between unspoken Riz and sexual harassment.

00:13:26.460 He's.

00:13:27.220 But he.

00:13:28.240 What do you.

00:13:28.900 What would you recommend for.

00:13:30.860 For guys who need that.

00:13:32.000 That masculine network around you.

00:13:33.540 Like you.

00:13:34.020 You really like.

00:13:34.840 You said the same thing to me in Bucharest.

00:13:36.960 And it made a lot of sense.

00:13:38.500 And also.

00:13:39.440 It just.

00:13:40.060 When I.

00:13:40.540 When we were there.

00:13:41.260 And I was with Fresh and Fit.

00:13:42.280 I was with you.

00:13:43.380 Tristan and Andrew.

00:13:44.380 It just.

00:13:45.020 Everything was.

00:13:46.000 Because everybody was on the same page about everything.

00:13:47.600 And that was like one of the first times in my life.

00:13:49.480 Where I've been around other guys who just get it.

00:13:52.320 And I've been around like.

00:13:54.260 The Vapors.

00:13:55.520 The Fortnite guys.

00:13:57.060 You know.

00:13:57.420 Guys smoking weed.

00:13:58.280 Not with a lot of ambition.

00:13:59.380 That's been.

00:14:00.620 My.

00:14:01.380 Surroundings.

00:14:01.780 So this is the first time that it's like.

00:14:03.480 It was motivating.

00:14:04.740 It was inspiring.

00:14:05.400 And it was also like.

00:14:06.600 Yeah.

00:14:06.820 Luke Belmar was there.

00:14:07.600 He's coming.

00:14:07.940 He's coming in later with his brother.

00:14:09.380 It was the first time that you've been around like.

00:14:10.820 Guys who just understand.

00:14:12.800 The reality of.

00:14:14.760 Men in the West.

00:14:16.140 How.

00:14:16.520 How would you recommend.

00:14:17.800 Guys to find that now.

00:14:18.820 Because.

00:14:19.860 You know.

00:14:20.260 Having a football team.

00:14:21.660 That you could do that in college.

00:14:22.740 For the most part.

00:14:23.920 Where do you.

00:14:24.500 What do you think is a place for them to find that?

00:14:27.320 Look man.

00:14:27.860 It's going to sound like a plug man.

00:14:29.180 But my.

00:14:29.920 The war room.

00:14:30.280 Genuinely use the war room.

00:14:31.960 Yeah.

00:14:32.280 Genuinely.

00:14:32.760 I just left two war room dudes. 1.00

00:14:34.100 From Empire.

00:14:35.280 And I had.

00:14:35.940 I had a meeting this morning.

00:14:37.080 With a war room guy.

00:14:38.580 Sterling's a war room guy.

00:14:39.860 I put myself around these guys.

00:14:42.400 I'm to the point now.

00:14:43.520 Where I'm not even really doing business.

00:14:44.820 With anybody that's not in the war room.

00:14:46.280 Unless it's a customer out in the real world.

00:14:48.600 You know what I'm saying.

00:14:49.180 But if it's something new.

00:14:50.620 Or something that.

00:14:52.560 You know.

00:14:53.340 Is outside of what I'm normally doing.

00:14:55.080 With real estate and construction.

00:14:56.540 I'm not even.

00:14:57.160 I'm not even looking anywhere else man.

00:14:58.660 So.

00:14:59.240 The war room for me.

00:15:00.280 Has been that place.

00:15:01.840 There's a culture in there.

00:15:03.020 Where you already know.

00:15:03.840 What somebody's about.

00:15:04.640 When they come in man.

00:15:05.500 You know the expectations.

00:15:06.880 So.

00:15:07.500 For me.

00:15:08.180 It's a war room.

00:15:09.160 For some other people.

00:15:10.120 It could be some other group.

00:15:11.160 But it's certainly.

00:15:12.000 The war room for me.

00:15:15.560 Was Hugh Hefner.

00:15:16.580 A top G.

00:15:17.120 Or a creep.

00:15:17.600 What do you think?

00:15:18.460 Oh bro.

00:15:18.860 Top G.

00:15:19.360 Top G.

00:15:19.860 Top G bro.

00:15:21.220 Absolutely.

00:15:23.500 Sneakle.

00:15:23.880 Can you show them.

00:15:24.400 The soy boy photo.

00:15:25.320 Please.

00:15:25.880 Yeah.

00:15:25.980 I want to show you.

00:15:26.580 This is something.

00:15:27.160 I show every stream.

00:15:29.520 Can you see these 10 faces?

00:15:31.940 What is your first thought?

00:15:33.260 So.

00:15:33.760 What they all have in common.

00:15:34.660 Is they've all made.

00:15:35.520 Hit piece documentaries about me.

00:15:37.560 What do you think.

00:15:38.720 When you see this picture.

00:15:39.960 This collage right here.

00:15:40.720 Those are generally going to be guys.

00:15:43.480 That are upset and angry.

00:15:45.140 That they don't get attention from women.

00:15:47.380 And.

00:15:47.960 They're going to use.

00:15:50.500 Strategies.

00:15:51.220 Around.

00:15:52.060 Belittling.

00:15:52.940 Guys.

00:15:53.380 That do get women. 1.00

00:15:54.460 In order to hopefully.

00:15:55.940 Pick those women up themselves. 0.93

00:15:57.340 It's just a bunch of punks.

00:15:58.260 I don't know.

00:15:58.900 I mean.

00:15:59.220 I kind of recognize a couple of them.

00:16:02.920 But.

00:16:04.100 I don't know. 0.99

00:16:05.200 I don't see shit. 0.99

00:16:07.640 Do you think that. 0.99

00:16:08.800 Men should look up to.

00:16:09.900 To guys like this.

00:16:12.340 No.

00:16:12.900 But at the same time.

00:16:13.900 I think that.

00:16:14.600 That punk dudes.

00:16:15.360 Are going to follow guys like that.

00:16:16.600 Because it makes them feel better.

00:16:17.620 About their inaction.

00:16:19.060 These guys are telling dudes.

00:16:20.440 That are not taking action.

00:16:21.460 That if.

00:16:22.360 That it's okay.

00:16:23.240 And that guys like us. 1.00

00:16:24.740 Are assholes. 1.00

00:16:25.880 And pieces of shit. 1.00

00:16:27.480 So. 1.00

00:16:28.720 And there's another.

00:16:29.640 Honest question.

00:16:30.240 Somebody in the chat.

00:16:30.900 It passed.

00:16:31.500 But they asked like.

00:16:33.180 Answer.

00:16:33.800 If you can answer honestly.

00:16:35.060 What was your.

00:16:36.100 Your general.

00:16:37.940 View of like.

00:16:38.800 My frame.

00:16:39.280 And the way I carried myself.

00:16:40.640 When you.

00:16:41.340 When you first met me.

00:16:42.440 I thought you did great.

00:16:43.740 I'll tell you what I appreciated about you.

00:16:46.060 Is that you're famous.

00:16:48.700 And.

00:16:49.640 Your willingness.

00:16:50.960 To walk up.

00:16:52.120 And.

00:16:53.000 And not forget.

00:16:55.060 Kind of like the hierarchy.

00:16:56.120 Of the young guy.

00:16:56.900 And the new guy.

00:16:57.680 I really.

00:16:58.560 Really.

00:16:59.580 Appreciated.

00:17:00.160 Because I was a lot like that.

00:17:02.060 And.

00:17:04.300 And I just thought it was really cool.

00:17:05.720 And really humble.

00:17:06.280 Of you to be that way.

00:17:07.680 I don't need the.

00:17:09.100 I don't need the.

00:17:09.920 The ego boost.

00:17:11.080 But it's definitely something I recognize.

00:17:12.900 And it made me want to.

00:17:14.080 Be there for you in any way I possibly could.

00:17:16.280 If there's ever anything I can do for you.

00:17:18.060 It's like certainly something I'm going to jump towards.

00:17:20.580 It's like I canceled something to be here tonight.

00:17:23.020 And when that's something.

00:17:24.420 That's something.

00:17:26.220 Nice.

00:17:29.020 How did you find out with that Instagram?

00:17:30.800 Huh?

00:17:31.600 Bro.

00:17:32.080 You know.

00:17:33.040 I had.

00:17:33.460 I got the.

00:17:34.080 You know.

00:17:34.480 You got it.

00:17:34.960 It's the rotation G.

00:17:36.140 Yeah.

00:17:37.120 She's already in the. 0.99

00:17:37.980 In the.

00:17:38.660 In the queue.

00:17:40.060 So.

00:17:41.440 But.

00:17:42.100 Nice.

00:17:43.000 Priorities.

00:17:43.500 Yeah.

00:17:44.200 Do you.

00:17:44.580 Do you ever get tired?

00:17:45.540 See.

00:17:45.760 We've been talking about this a lot in the chat.

00:17:47.480 I have a lot of religious people who watch it.

00:17:49.580 And.

00:17:51.100 I'm 24.

00:17:52.060 I'm already.

00:17:52.800 Kind of getting. 0.91

00:17:54.320 Tired of casual sex. 0.93

00:17:56.180 Yeah. 0.99

00:17:56.440 I'm getting.

00:17:57.100 It's.

00:17:57.640 It's getting repetitive.

00:17:59.120 And.

00:17:59.940 It just seems meaningless.

00:18:00.960 Like I'm telling everybody every day to not watch porn. 1.00

00:18:03.620 To stop jerking off. 1.00

00:18:05.040 Yeah. 1.00

00:18:05.240 We're on nofap.

00:18:06.160 Everybody in the chat.

00:18:06.900 A lot of people are folded.

00:18:08.000 We're all on nofap.

00:18:09.280 But.

00:18:09.420 Yeah.

00:18:09.760 What is.

00:18:10.260 What is that much.

00:18:11.040 What's.

00:18:11.920 Different about.

00:18:12.880 You know.

00:18:13.320 You got a nice thing that you.

00:18:14.700 That you could have been with right now.

00:18:16.780 Why. 0.99

00:18:17.860 Is that any different than masturbation? 0.99

00:18:19.820 If you're not trying to get her pregnant. 0.98

00:18:21.400 If you're not trying to get a relationship out of her.

00:18:23.380 What is the difference between. 0.99

00:18:26.020 Casual sex and masturbation. 1.00

00:18:28.820 You know man. 1.00

00:18:29.540 I would say somewhere around 28.

00:18:32.080 If I can't have some kind of connection with the girl.

00:18:34.400 It's not.

00:18:34.780 It's not worth it.

00:18:36.060 You know.

00:18:36.440 So.

00:18:36.980 A lot of people say.

00:18:38.220 Hey all these girls are just hoes. 1.00

00:18:39.540 Blah blah blah.

00:18:40.540 Like.

00:18:40.880 If I don't like being around her at all.

00:18:42.300 I'm not doing it man.

00:18:43.400 So.

00:18:43.820 I think that's the difference.

00:18:44.740 And the other thing about.

00:18:46.180 The.

00:18:46.860 The fap stuff. 0.98

00:18:47.940 Is that you have to go into porn. 0.97

00:18:49.420 And so porn is going to take you to this creek. 0.95

00:18:51.900 You know. 0.96

00:18:52.260 It's.

00:18:52.560 It's kind of like a gateway drug.

00:18:54.060 It gets out of hand.

00:18:55.360 As you start to get bored. 1.00

00:18:56.640 Of just the normal shit. 1.00

00:18:57.560 And then people start watching trans porn. 1.00

00:18:59.000 When we're watching this video. 0.99

00:19:00.100 Teenage boys.

00:19:00.720 They get addicted to porn.

00:19:01.580 And they get desensitized to it.

00:19:02.680 They start watching weird. 1.00

00:19:03.760 Hentai shit. 1.00

00:19:04.140 You start watching weird shit. 1.00

00:19:05.760 Yeah. 1.00

00:19:06.300 Cause.

00:19:06.680 Yeah.

00:19:07.360 And the next thing you know.

00:19:08.300 You're trying to get your girl to like. 1.00

00:19:09.360 Fuck some other dude in front of you. 1.00

00:19:10.400 Or some shit. 1.00

00:19:10.840 Fuck that. 1.00

00:19:11.640 Like. 1.00

00:19:12.160 You know.

00:19:12.540 It can. 1.00

00:19:12.880 It can fuck your head up man. 1.00

00:19:14.060 Yeah. 1.00

00:19:14.420 Look.

00:19:14.680 And look bro.

00:19:15.220 I'm not going to sit here and say.

00:19:16.280 I've never looked at porn or anything like that.

00:19:18.780 And I'm not saying that.

00:19:20.280 I've never beat my meat.

00:19:21.340 But what I will say is this bro.

00:19:23.480 Is that.

00:19:24.860 Like.

00:19:26.200 It's when it gets out of hand.

00:19:27.680 And it gets to a place where you quit.

00:19:29.500 Trying to talk to women at all. 1.00

00:19:30.820 Is where I think it gets really dangerous.

00:19:33.120 Because then you have nothing to do.

00:19:34.520 But focus your sexual energy there. 0.99

00:19:36.280 And then it's just going to escalate.

00:19:37.840 And I think the escalation is what's actually more dangerous about it.

00:19:40.700 Reverend Ralph.

00:19:42.980 Thank you for the 50.

00:19:44.180 Too much freedom leads to delusion and sorrow. 0.99

00:19:46.240 Boss bitches in their 20. 1.00

00:19:47.200 Cat ladies in their 40s. 1.00

00:19:48.540 Too little freedom leads to confusion and anger.

00:19:50.720 Average guy in today's western dating market.

00:19:54.700 What do you think about this?

00:19:58.400 I think that if there are more strong men.

00:20:00.420 There'd be more women willing to get behind men. 1.00

00:20:02.560 I actually don't blame women at all. 1.00

00:20:04.320 I want to be really clear this year.

00:20:06.540 About my feelings towards women.

00:20:08.120 I actually don't hate women. 1.00

00:20:10.700 At all.

00:20:11.720 I think that.

00:20:15.300 Men need to understand that the better they are.

00:20:17.440 The better the women are going to be. 1.00

00:20:19.220 You know.

00:20:19.500 Women don't do. 1.00

00:20:21.280 Some of the crazy shit that you see women doing. 1.00

00:20:24.320 I feel like I get the best out of the women that I interact with. 0.99

00:20:27.260 And I think that any man that maximizes himself.

00:20:29.820 Will see.

00:20:30.320 You can see the same woman act one way. 1.00

00:20:32.600 With guy A.

00:20:33.740 And then act completely different with guy B.

00:20:35.880 Based off of who guy B became.

00:20:38.480 They'll change their tune.

00:20:39.460 Now.

00:20:40.180 Do we need to understand female nature? 1.00

00:20:41.660 Absolutely.

00:20:42.560 Do you need to have a strong frame that's tight tight tight. 0.98

00:20:45.680 With no bullshit? 0.99

00:20:46.580 Yeah absolutely. 0.94

00:20:47.560 But at the same time.

00:20:48.460 I think the better you are as a man.

00:20:49.900 The more you work on yourself.

00:20:51.140 The fitness.

00:20:51.920 The finances.

00:20:52.640 Your fashion.

00:20:53.640 Understanding the world.

00:20:54.600 Setting yourself up correctly.

00:20:56.120 Then the easier the game gets to you.

00:20:58.780 So.

00:20:59.700 You know.

00:20:59.960 We can blame women. 1.00

00:21:01.140 I think there will be a bunch of women living with 30 cats. 1.00

00:21:03.720 And drinking box wine.

00:21:04.920 And they're going to be sad and lonely.

00:21:06.200 But I really think it's more likely.

00:21:07.760 Because there's going to be a lack of men.

00:21:09.580 That can put those women in a place. 1.00

00:21:11.920 Where they feel like they want to really submit.

00:21:14.160 And get behind a man. 1.00

00:21:15.040 And let him lead.

00:21:16.380 So.

00:21:17.900 Drew Fires. 1.00

00:21:18.440 I was a bitch ass soy boy. 1.00

00:21:20.560 Until I got red pilled. 1.00

00:21:21.380 He put this in all caps.

00:21:22.520 He looks really energetic about this. 0.99

00:21:24.220 I got my shit together. 0.96

00:21:25.300 Now I'm working as an ENT en route. 0.98

00:21:27.040 To become a firefighter.

00:21:28.300 Much love. 1.00

00:21:29.080 Keep red pilling these fools. 1.00

00:21:32.000 What's the best way? 1.00

00:21:34.040 And you don't mind if I keep asking you questions.

00:21:35.520 Go far away bro.

00:21:36.460 I'm here for you.

00:21:37.120 How do you tighten frame.

00:21:39.540 Because I'm still trying to have the tighter frame.

00:21:44.420 To get rid of that shaming and guilt.

00:21:47.000 I think.

00:21:47.340 I noticed that.

00:21:48.440 I've been really aware of the different ways.

00:21:50.740 That women interact with me. 0.72

00:21:52.580 And then women interact with people. 1.00

00:21:54.060 Who have a tighter frame.

00:21:55.240 And I noticed that I get tested a lot more.

00:21:57.900 Than guys like you.

00:21:58.920 Or guys like Myron.

00:22:00.140 Where they'll try to see.

00:22:03.700 Like.

00:22:04.660 Just little stuff to try to like. 1.00

00:22:06.680 Try to call me a bitch. 1.00

00:22:08.360 Quicker. 1.00

00:22:09.140 How do I tighten that up.

00:22:10.500 So that I don't have to even deal with that at all.

00:22:12.720 How do I make it so that it's not.

00:22:14.640 Even a possibility for that to come up with conversation.

00:22:16.820 Because I can bob and weave that.

00:22:18.300 I can get around it.

00:22:19.200 But I don't even.

00:22:19.940 That won't happen to you.

00:22:22.100 How do you present in that way.

00:22:24.440 Like last night.

00:22:25.280 We're at dinner.

00:22:27.240 After.

00:22:27.780 After Fresh and Fit.

00:22:28.420 I'm with Myron and these two girls.

00:22:30.160 And.

00:22:30.460 Just the little stuff.

00:22:32.520 Like this.

00:22:32.780 This girl was a single mom. 0.70

00:22:34.420 She was OnlyFans. 1.00

00:22:35.700 Like just sucking dick on camera. 1.00

00:22:37.880 All this stuff. 1.00

00:22:39.140 And like her attitude.

00:22:40.680 Was just way.

00:22:42.020 Like way stronger towards me.

00:22:43.560 Even though she was trying to justify.

00:22:44.620 Like how she wants a high value man. 0.99

00:22:46.480 Even though she has a kid.

00:22:47.440 And I'm trying to tell her like.

00:22:48.620 A guy doesn't want to settle down with you.

00:22:50.580 If you have a kid already.

00:22:52.500 And just.

00:22:53.400 She was just like.

00:22:54.040 Meh.

00:22:54.320 Meh.

00:22:54.620 But then Myron was talking.

00:22:55.680 She was just like.

00:22:56.280 Like listening more.

00:22:58.060 What is the difference in that frame?

00:22:59.640 How do you get to that point?

00:23:00.740 Is it the.

00:23:01.600 How is she able to smell that on you? 1.00

00:23:04.860 It comes off of you. 0.97

00:23:06.760 I hate. 0.94

00:23:07.360 I hate to give you.

00:23:07.960 I wish I could give you like this tangible answer.

00:23:09.540 But it's really how you hold yourself in a room.

00:23:13.640 Like it's not anything that I say.

00:23:16.040 It's a presence that they want to automatically respect.

00:23:20.220 And they don't feel the need to test.

00:23:22.040 It's a control.

00:23:23.900 There's sometimes I feel like when I go on Fresh and Fit.

00:23:26.180 The show is boring.

00:23:27.280 Because the girls shut up when I talk. 1.00

00:23:29.280 Yeah.

00:23:29.640 You know what I'm saying?

00:23:30.700 Even though you speak kind of quiet.

00:23:32.600 You're sitting there.

00:23:33.480 And you go there.

00:23:34.480 Part of the reason that it's entertaining for me.

00:23:36.120 Is because all the girls are like. 1.00

00:23:37.320 I'm like they're trying to masculinize women.

00:23:39.100 And feminized men.

00:23:39.920 And they're like.

00:23:41.020 And then it's a big debate.

00:23:42.240 And it's loud.

00:23:42.780 It's energetic.

00:23:43.340 And stuff like that.

00:23:43.780 But you talk to this like.

00:23:44.660 Yeah.

00:23:45.140 Yeah.

00:23:45.440 And I don't know if you notice this.

00:23:47.280 You'll see them nod in their head.

00:23:48.440 Yeah.

00:23:49.020 Yeah.

00:23:49.260 I don't get that nod.

00:23:50.420 Yeah.

00:23:50.760 And so. 1.00

00:23:51.320 Shut the fuck up. 1.00

00:23:52.180 Yeah. 1.00

00:23:52.340 They want to argue with you.

00:23:53.600 Yeah.

00:23:53.740 Yeah.

00:23:53.840 Which is good content.

00:23:54.540 But the energy I'm giving them.

00:23:56.520 Is that I'm here.

00:23:58.080 And you're here.

00:23:59.200 And I don't mean that in a disrespectful way.

00:24:01.340 I mean it more like.

00:24:02.320 I'm in control of my situation.

00:24:04.520 I'm not even doubting.

00:24:05.700 Whether you're going to agree with me or not.

00:24:07.300 Because I have a message to give you.

00:24:08.680 This is it.

00:24:09.780 You know.

00:24:10.340 And so.

00:24:10.960 It's about having a certain kind of presence around everyone.

00:24:13.780 Being in a certain amount of control.

00:24:15.580 Speaking with conviction.

00:24:17.120 Eye contact.

00:24:18.380 You don't.

00:24:18.740 You don't talk as fast.

00:24:20.240 It's like when you talk a certain way.

00:24:23.000 They feel the energy coming off of you.

00:24:25.360 So it's way more of an energy and a presence.

00:24:27.720 Than it is what I'm actually saying.

00:24:29.760 If that makes sense.

00:24:32.020 And.

00:24:32.320 It's stoic.

00:24:33.300 But in person.

00:24:36.180 And to get to that point.

00:24:37.260 Is there a specific way to command a room like that?

00:24:40.000 Or does it just come with experience in your life.

00:24:42.080 And the way you interact with other people.

00:24:43.920 And what you've been through.

00:24:44.780 And just everything that makes you who you are.

00:24:46.420 Is that what gives you that command?

00:24:48.540 Yeah I think it's years and years of that.

00:24:51.500 And going through stress and pain.

00:24:53.160 And going through being stressed out about things.

00:24:55.200 For example like.

00:24:56.660 Maybe if I were younger.

00:24:58.760 I'd be more stressed out about this Instagram thing.

00:25:01.300 But I've been through so much. 1.00

00:25:02.960 Losing a little fucking Instagram. 0.99

00:25:04.580 It's nothing bro. 1.00

00:25:07.780 It's nothing. 0.99

00:25:08.380 I've had real shit on the line in the real world. 0.99

00:25:10.440 So for me. 0.98

00:25:11.520 When I'm looking at losing a social media account.

00:25:14.280 I'm just like.

00:25:15.480 Bro.

00:25:16.080 You know.

00:25:16.720 I was this person long before my social media got where it was anyway.

00:25:20.700 So.

00:25:21.860 I think that just going through things.

00:25:23.920 Everything you're doing right now.

00:25:25.180 With the weights.

00:25:26.120 And getting canceled.

00:25:27.780 And this is.

00:25:28.560 This is your.

00:25:29.540 You ever see 300?

00:25:31.740 Where the kid goes through the agagi.

00:25:33.840 And then they send him off into the woods.

00:25:35.600 Okay.

00:25:36.260 So like.

00:25:36.780 I think every man has his own agagi.

00:25:39.080 And that's where he's got to go into the woods.

00:25:41.060 By himself.

00:25:41.800 In the cold.

00:25:42.560 And face the wolf. 0.99

00:25:43.460 And either die or come back. 0.99

00:25:44.920 Like a king. 0.99

00:25:45.460 Right.

00:25:45.900 Right.

00:25:46.260 And when you do that in your own heart.

00:25:49.240 Is when you'll start to have that presence.

00:25:51.220 Where they're like.

00:25:52.000 Nothing is going to shake him.

00:25:53.360 And for that reason.

00:25:54.160 I must listen to what he's saying.

00:25:55.680 Because he's more certain than I am.

00:25:57.640 He's certain in his self.

00:25:59.720 And.

00:26:00.220 When you're sitting across from a 22 year old girl.

00:26:02.900 And you're a 37 year old man.

00:26:04.700 And you've been through it.

00:26:06.060 It's very.

00:26:06.820 Very easy for me. 0.99

00:26:07.800 Not to get shit tested. 0.99

00:26:09.240 Yeah. 0.99

00:26:09.720 You understand what I'm saying?

00:26:11.020 Yeah.

00:26:11.200 Because she's looking up to me.

00:26:13.540 And it's just this calm presence.

00:26:15.280 It's going to come off of you.

00:26:16.720 But it kind of comes from within.

00:26:18.260 It's because you've been through your own agagi.

00:26:20.140 You're just going through that right now.

00:26:22.060 It's just a part of life.

00:26:23.360 It's just 24.

00:26:24.940 That's all it is.

00:26:25.700 It's not lesser man.

00:26:26.900 It's just different stage.

00:26:28.960 Does that make sense?

00:26:29.700 I was wondering.

00:26:30.980 Basically if there's any tactics to try to get around that.

00:26:34.240 Any like.

00:26:34.920 Well.

00:26:35.260 What are the war room secrets?

00:26:36.780 It's like some of that wudan mastery I can do. 0.66

00:26:40.400 I wouldn't say it's.

00:26:41.380 I wouldn't say it's any of that.

00:26:42.900 I would say it's a calm presence.

00:26:45.640 You can't be excitable.

00:26:48.100 Excitable is something.

00:26:49.260 I'm definitely there.

00:26:49.960 Yeah.

00:26:50.160 But you can't.

00:26:50.840 But you can't.

00:26:51.440 Right?

00:26:51.940 It's entertaining.

00:26:53.120 Yeah.

00:26:53.480 It's good.

00:26:53.960 It's good for this.

00:26:54.760 Right?

00:26:55.140 But for a woman it's not.

00:26:57.800 Right.

00:26:58.160 Because a woman is going to be the one emotional. 1.00

00:27:00.060 Right?

00:27:00.580 And now she's not at ease.

00:27:01.680 Because you're just emotional.

00:27:02.040 Now she's not at ease.

00:27:02.780 Because you're just emotional.

00:27:03.520 It's her.

00:27:03.780 Even if you're doing it through comedy.

00:27:07.480 Your comedy has to.

00:27:08.760 Has to become different.

00:27:09.820 Right?

00:27:10.400 You have to be funny charming. 0.59

00:27:12.440 Not funny goofy.

00:27:14.280 Does that make sense?

00:27:15.120 Yeah. 0.94

00:27:15.500 Because if you're funny goofy. 0.89

00:27:16.620 She's going to test you. 0.95

00:27:17.800 Right. 1.00

00:27:18.640 She thinks you're a clown. 1.00

00:27:19.540 Yeah. 0.98

00:27:20.020 Thank you for the 10 ghost.

00:27:21.180 Jay Waller got them stripes.

00:27:22.260 Sneakle.

00:27:22.500 You're earning them right now.

00:27:23.820 You're right.

00:27:24.260 Don Zanarko.

00:27:24.780 WL stream.

00:27:25.320 Better everyday.

00:27:25.780 Free to guys.

00:27:26.920 And then.

00:27:30.240 Kubi says.

00:27:30.820 The thing about improving is a lot of you are taking your degeneracy net.

00:27:32.980 Just amplifying it.

00:27:33.880 You stop watching porn.

00:27:34.840 Level up.

00:27:35.300 And then start participating in hookup culture.

00:27:37.060 You didn't change.

00:27:37.700 Etc.

00:27:39.020 Let's see what you're saying.

00:27:40.120 We'll talk more about that afterwards.

00:27:41.580 But you Matt.

00:27:42.040 Thank you for the 20.

00:27:43.000 W stream.

00:27:43.820 Sneakle.

00:27:44.160 W Justin Waller.

00:27:44.940 High energy chat.

00:27:45.660 It's Sneakle and Justin Waller.

00:27:46.640 20 pushups now.

00:27:47.540 Hashtag free to taste.

00:27:48.600 We got to do 20 pushups. 0.91

00:27:50.080 Oh for Christ's sake.

00:27:51.020 We got to do 20 pushups. 0.91

00:27:52.120 All right guys.

00:27:52.560 Sterling on here.

00:27:53.180 We drank four eggs.

00:27:54.040 And he said that.

00:27:55.940 We could drink the raw eggs too.

00:27:57.360 He said that you had four.

00:27:59.000 Right before he came on the stream.

00:28:00.420 Uh huh.

00:28:00.820 Does that actually work?

00:28:01.980 Does that actually boost testosterone?

00:28:03.640 It's about the cholesterol.

00:28:06.660 The good cholesterol it says.

00:28:08.340 So.

00:28:09.280 One.

00:28:10.260 Two.

00:28:11.420 Three.

00:28:12.340 Four.

00:28:13.280 Five.

00:28:14.180 Six.

00:28:14.700 Chad do it too.

00:28:15.540 Seven.

00:28:16.500 Eight.

00:28:16.820 Eight.

00:28:17.460 Nine.

00:28:18.360 Ten.

00:28:18.580 You and Sterling don't breathe when you do pushups. 0.93

00:28:32.080 I don't hear a sound.

00:28:36.640 Chad you know you're a wagget if you didn't do it.

00:28:38.180 If you just watched us do it and you didn't do the 20.

00:28:43.700 Okay.

00:28:44.580 Who had better form Chad?

00:28:45.660 Me or Jay?

00:28:46.040 Better be me.

00:28:48.720 Okay.

00:28:49.980 What um.

00:28:51.760 What was I going to.

00:28:52.340 I was going to ask you more about.

00:28:53.600 About the hookup culture thing.

00:28:56.080 So.

00:28:56.680 Do you still consider it hookup culture if you have a connection with them?

00:29:01.400 No man.

00:29:02.000 Not.

00:29:02.200 Not if I feel like dude.

00:29:03.200 I'll give you an example.

00:29:04.220 I had a girlfriend.

00:29:04.880 In New Orleans.

00:29:07.680 That I would see.

00:29:09.840 On and off.

00:29:11.080 For 10 years.

00:29:11.660 And when I say I genuinely cared about this girl.

00:29:17.640 I'd see her.

00:29:18.660 And then I wouldn't see her for three months.

00:29:20.240 But when we were together.

00:29:21.700 There's nowhere I wanted to be.

00:29:24.160 Other than with that girl.

00:29:25.460 Everyone said you had forms better.

00:29:26.740 Dude. 1.00

00:29:27.100 Our chats is fucking. 1.00

00:29:28.040 They like. 1.00

00:29:28.640 Haters.

00:29:29.020 Right.

00:29:29.260 They're hating on you. 0.50

00:29:29.540 They're just a bunch of haters.

00:29:30.240 Yeah.

00:29:30.500 Yeah.

00:29:31.420 Um.

00:29:32.840 And it was one of the best relationships in my life man.

00:29:35.660 I wouldn't trade it.

00:29:37.140 I've got ex-girlfriends.

00:29:38.660 That to this day.

00:29:39.600 I still love those girls. 1.00

00:29:41.260 Now.

00:29:42.580 They've moved on.

00:29:43.400 They're married.

00:29:44.140 But I'm.

00:29:44.700 Like.

00:29:44.960 If I see them on Facebook.

00:29:47.760 I'm genuinely happy.

00:29:49.900 You know what I'm saying?

00:29:51.840 I love them in that chapter.

00:29:53.520 I still love them today.

00:29:54.580 In a different way.

00:29:55.940 And I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

00:29:57.800 So.

00:29:59.880 Just because you have a connection with a woman.

00:30:02.440 And y'all sleep together.

00:30:03.440 And you end up not getting married or whatever.

00:30:07.440 You know.

00:30:07.820 To me.

00:30:08.600 I've had some wonderful experiences that way.

00:30:11.340 Have I slept with some girls and I'll talk to them again? 1.00

00:30:13.040 Sure.

00:30:14.020 Yeah.

00:30:14.180 I've done that.

00:30:14.940 But not.

00:30:15.460 Not a whole lot.

00:30:16.540 You know.

00:30:17.440 I like connecting with people.

00:30:19.720 And.

00:30:21.180 As far as like.

00:30:22.300 Sleeping with a bunch of women now.

00:30:24.740 Ideally.

00:30:25.220 I'd like to like them.

00:30:26.300 As a person.

00:30:27.420 So.

00:30:29.560 Some people.

00:30:30.980 Would attack that.

00:30:32.020 But it's been good for me in my life.

00:30:34.600 And how I feel.

00:30:36.840 And.

00:30:37.760 The thing that.

00:30:38.980 I think.

00:30:39.340 Sets me apart.

00:30:40.800 From most people that are doing it.

00:30:42.660 Is that I don't have to lie.

00:30:45.400 So if I sit a girl down. 1.00

00:30:46.680 And she knows what's up.

00:30:49.280 Then.

00:30:50.600 But do you think women can handle the truth? 1.00

00:30:53.720 I think they can handle the truth.

00:30:55.140 When you're at a certain level.

00:30:56.380 I think they don't.

00:30:57.400 Sometimes they don't like it.

00:30:58.380 But they choose it.

00:30:59.500 So.

00:31:00.020 Women want equality. 1.00

00:31:00.960 Why would I not give her choice?

00:31:03.440 I'm going to say it again.

00:31:04.300 They want equality.

00:31:06.100 When I sit her down.

00:31:07.060 And say.

00:31:07.320 Hey listen.

00:31:07.860 I got you.

00:31:09.020 And this one.

00:31:09.660 And this one.

00:31:09.980 And this one.

00:31:10.320 And this one.

00:31:10.680 And they still choose me.

00:31:12.900 Who are we going to be upset with?

00:31:13.980 That's an adult.

00:31:15.960 You know.

00:31:16.540 She. 0.93

00:31:16.840 She wants equality. 1.00

00:31:17.920 And everything else in this world.

00:31:19.340 And I told her the deal.

00:31:20.720 And she's going to help me bring other chicks. 1.00

00:31:23.340 You know.

00:31:23.820 Like.

00:31:25.620 To me man.

00:31:26.300 I feel like I live one of the best existences.

00:31:28.000 Men ever lived. 0.85

00:31:29.200 I really do.

00:31:30.180 With all my heart man.

00:31:31.440 With all my heart.

00:31:32.160 Like.

00:31:32.660 I wouldn't trade with anybody.

00:31:34.460 And.

00:31:35.500 And I think one of the main reasons is because I get to live in my own truth.

00:31:39.680 And that's a very freeing place to be.

00:31:42.340 You know.

00:31:42.900 Whether it's with women. 0.84

00:31:43.800 Or in business.

00:31:44.320 Or whatever.

00:31:45.640 You know.

00:31:46.000 There's been some people that.

00:31:48.260 Even.

00:31:48.700 Even in business.

00:31:49.380 That.

00:31:50.120 Kind of did some things I didn't like in the past.

00:31:52.040 And ever since all this stuff happened on the internet.

00:31:53.900 They want to work together again.

00:31:55.000 And I'd make money with them.

00:31:56.280 But I don't have to.

00:31:57.340 Because I can be a man of principle now.

00:31:59.340 And I always kind of have been.

00:32:00.880 This way.

00:32:02.180 Guilt was the only thing.

00:32:03.520 Only rock in the shoe I ever had as an adult.

00:32:06.080 Because I was working so hard at everything else.

00:32:08.600 That guilt was the only thing I had not handled.

00:32:10.240 And the war room helped me handle that.

00:32:12.740 And it happened really quickly.

00:32:14.200 Because I already knew what I wanted.

00:32:16.180 And.

00:32:17.740 From there.

00:32:18.620 It's just.

00:32:19.040 I'm telling the truth.

00:32:19.780 I'm up front.

00:32:20.820 And people can take me as I am.

00:32:22.760 Or not take me at all.

00:32:23.560 And I'm okay either way.

00:32:24.980 And what I found is by and largely.

00:32:26.620 When you're in that place.

00:32:28.100 They choose to be with you.

00:32:29.180 Because there's not many people.

00:32:30.140 That are living their life on that terms.

00:32:31.460 And coming from that balance of a frame.

00:32:34.280 So they appreciate and respect it.

00:32:36.800 So for me.

00:32:39.420 Regardless of whether.

00:32:40.240 Whether it's looked at as a hook up.

00:32:41.760 Or some kind of odd relationship.

00:32:42.980 Whatever man.

00:32:43.640 I just.

00:32:46.080 I don't feel bad about anything in my life.

00:32:48.240 How do you get over.

00:32:49.540 Have you ever had.

00:32:50.620 A girl that you're prioritizing.

00:32:52.220 Be like.

00:32:53.020 Why don't you treat me.

00:32:54.640 I'm not special.

00:32:56.260 You do the same thing for other girls. 1.00

00:32:57.720 That you do for me.

00:32:59.680 And these guilt tactics.

00:33:00.740 Like you don't love me as much.

00:33:02.340 Why do you.

00:33:02.920 You bought her dinner.

00:33:04.060 You bought.

00:33:04.540 I don't get that.

00:33:05.540 You don't get that.

00:33:06.540 I don't get that.

00:33:07.520 In fact.

00:33:08.540 Number one.

00:33:09.040 I don't put girls on my social media. 0.99

00:33:10.240 At all.

00:33:11.620 Number two.

00:33:12.860 Yeah.

00:33:13.260 When I'm with a woman.

00:33:15.240 She has my full attention.

00:33:17.560 And so it's really about how you make people feel.

00:33:21.080 So.

00:33:21.940 The phone's down.

00:33:23.020 It's like I'm with you right now.

00:33:24.100 Right.

00:33:25.700 Phone's down.

00:33:26.300 I'm not texting.

00:33:28.180 I'm here with you.

00:33:29.400 I'm paying attention to you.

00:33:30.620 I'm listening to what you're saying.

00:33:31.760 I'm trying to give you every part of me.

00:33:33.900 Back.

00:33:34.920 And if you can do that.

00:33:37.780 You'll end up making people feel a certain way.

00:33:39.820 And I think that's what attaches people to you the most is when they leave you, they think

00:33:44.640 about how they felt.

00:33:45.520 Even if they don't consciously pick it up, people pick up subconsciously.

00:33:50.500 When I'm around said person, I feel a certain way.

00:33:52.680 So I'm drawn to them.

00:33:54.340 So if you can make them feel like a queen in the moment when you're with them, they have

00:34:00.440 they have this piece of you and you're with them and you're spending time with them.

00:34:03.420 That's when you connect, by the way. 0.50

00:34:05.320 That's what makes it a little bit more than sex.

00:34:07.140 That's what makes it something at least worth having.

00:34:09.700 Right.

00:34:10.760 If you can do that and they feel special because you gave them your full self when you're in

00:34:15.540 their presence and they're in your presence, then I think they're just it's been my experience

00:34:20.800 that they're just naturally going to want to be around you because you're giving

00:34:23.260 them a feeling that most people cannot because most people are not present enough to even

00:34:26.480 be there with them fully because of all the distractions.

00:34:28.820 Yeah, I guess.

00:34:30.340 See, what's separating that is I hear that all the time, like, you don't do the same thing.

00:34:33.900 And it's because of social media.

00:34:36.380 It's because of they see things online and start comparing to what they what are you doing

00:34:40.740 online?

00:34:41.960 Like if I bring a girl on stream, then another girl's watching it.

00:34:46.480 She starts.

00:34:47.040 She doesn't understand that it's content and that it's entertainment and that I'm doing this

00:34:51.160 for, you know, it doesn't have to be like it's blows my mind that they don't that even

00:34:57.480 a girl that I could be with for a long time won't understand that when I bring a girl in 0.99

00:35:01.740 front of the camera, like I'm and I'm like being cutesy and doing all this shit or eating 0.96

00:35:05.700 food that is purely for content. 0.98

00:35:07.960 And then she starts to compare.

00:35:08.900 Oh, you flew her out.

00:35:10.040 Oh, you did all this stuff like you paid for dinner.

00:35:12.860 Part of the I think the separation is I grew up with social media.

00:35:16.780 So, yeah, women have never been it's this is a new generation of women who see everything 0.98

00:35:21.560 your generation.

00:35:22.580 It wasn't all always in their face.

00:35:25.140 I don't think that they're they're able to say this is why I say that women can't handle 1.00

00:35:28.720 the truth, because I think we're offering women the same reality.

00:35:33.480 Like this is what I'm going to be doing.

00:35:35.140 Right.

00:35:35.600 But there's a level of delusion that they get to live in if they don't see it all the

00:35:39.100 time. 0.99

00:35:39.280 They like to be willfully ignorant. 0.98

00:35:40.400 So like a girl, she might know what you're doing. 1.00

00:35:43.600 But if she sees it, it's completely different reality.

00:35:46.100 Yeah, you're absolutely right about that.

00:35:47.720 So I like I don't I don't put those things do, bro.

00:35:50.360 You want to talk about a dude that could flex on the Internet with chicks? 0.99

00:35:53.200 I could do it.

00:35:54.560 It's not worth it.

00:35:56.060 No, it's not worth it, bro.

00:35:58.360 I got bro because I got businesses to run and that and that's going to take up a whole

00:36:02.700 hell of a lot of time dealing with all the emotions.

00:36:05.000 Oh, bro.

00:36:05.700 It'll be all day long.

00:36:06.920 Right.

00:36:07.340 Yeah.

00:36:08.040 So but it's great content.

00:36:11.580 Bro, it's great.

00:36:12.520 You're on Rumble.

00:36:13.520 You know, I mean, everyone else has YouTube and switch.

00:36:15.400 You got to work extra hard.

00:36:16.860 You know, you got to have a little bit.

00:36:18.360 Do you think the girl adds to the to the content for?

00:36:20.600 Of course, people have been that all these dudes, of course, they want to see a girl.

00:36:24.260 How are you treating this girl on camera?

00:36:26.740 Is it is it is it clear?

00:36:27.580 Is it clear that y'all have a relationship of some sort or is it more like a fresh and

00:36:31.760 fit where it's kind of transactional?

00:36:33.160 It's well, fresh and fit is.

00:36:36.960 Yeah, it looks it looks like a relationship, but that's that's the illusion.

00:36:41.500 OK.

00:36:42.080 Are you setting the frame up correctly?

00:36:44.220 How do you because so like I always say that the the formula for happiness is the gap between

00:36:49.840 expectation and reality.

00:36:51.800 So in negotiation, there's a guy named Chris Foss.

00:36:54.940 He wrote a book called Never Split the Difference.

00:36:57.660 And so he does something called an accusations audit.

00:37:03.340 And so let's say I go into a real estate deal.

00:37:06.000 Guy wants right now.

00:37:07.020 This guy wants three point five million for this property.

00:37:09.100 I'm not going to be able to pay him that because it just the math doesn't work out.

00:37:12.000 He's going to have to lower his number for the debt and everything to work.

00:37:15.100 I'm going to go to him and I'm going to say, listen, man, I know it feels like I'm trying

00:37:18.640 to retrade on you.

00:37:19.900 I know it feels like I'm trying to get this property cheap and you worked on it and you

00:37:24.040 did this and you did this.

00:37:26.240 By me saying that before I lower the price, it's getting any accusation that he could have

00:37:32.800 towards me out of the way because I said it, which dramatically reduces its impact.

00:37:40.320 Does that make sense?

00:37:41.320 I'll give you another example.

00:37:42.360 You ever seen eight mile?

00:37:43.720 Yeah.

00:37:43.840 You know that last scene where they're rapping and he starts rapping about everything the

00:37:47.880 guy could rap about?

00:37:49.040 Yeah.

00:37:49.420 That's an accusations audit.

00:37:51.980 So in a negotiation, like when you're sitting. 0.94

00:37:54.280 He's like, I'm trailing trash. 1.00

00:37:55.380 I'm white trash. 1.00

00:37:55.900 Yeah, you're sleeping with my girl. 1.00

00:37:57.020 Blah, blah, blah, blah.

00:37:57.900 You've taken all the energy away.

00:38:01.240 Okay.

00:38:01.460 So if you sit that young lady down that you're worried about getting upset with you about 1.00

00:38:04.380 and say, hey, listen, it's going to look like I flew her out.

00:38:08.840 It's going to look like I'm taking her to get dinner. 0.99

00:38:11.200 It's going to look like we have a connection on camera.

00:38:13.360 It's going to look like this, but it's because it makes a content and that content that is

00:38:18.700 created creates revenue.

00:38:20.280 And that's the money that I use to take you to the keys, baby.

00:38:24.300 That's beautiful, man.

00:38:25.920 I was debating about that so much before the street.

00:38:28.320 See, I had this debate with my friend Salim and I'm like, what's it?

00:38:31.720 By the way, that's not a lie.

00:38:33.400 It's not a lie, but it was like, should I, should I was wondering if she was just going

00:38:36.840 to see and understand and figure that out for herself.

00:38:38.680 But you need to, you have to give her that structure.

00:38:41.980 Yeah.

00:38:42.120 You set the frame because if you don't set the frame, she's going to create an allegation. 0.62

00:38:46.520 Right.

00:38:47.360 Right.

00:38:47.960 But if you frame it correctly, it can be a situation where she's on the other end kind 0.51

00:38:53.780 of making fun of that girl because she knows that you, that you love her.

00:38:57.920 Right.

00:38:58.640 Right. 1.00

00:38:59.300 She's like, huh, look at this bitch. 1.00

00:39:00.480 She thinks she's got Sneeko, but she doesn't because he already talked to me about this. 0.99

00:39:04.280 Okay.

00:39:05.460 All right.

00:39:06.380 I'm learning.

00:39:07.100 I'm learning.

00:39:07.340 GMC Hammer.

00:39:07.820 So shout out to Jay Waller, a war room member in Miami that has, that he mentors has convinced

00:39:11.980 me that joining the war room will undoubtedly change my life.

00:39:15.560 What can you give a, like, what did you learn in the war room?

00:39:18.620 You might want to not give away all the secrets, but like, what did you change when it came

00:39:23.440 to the guilt?

00:39:24.600 Because that's still, that's still gets me.

00:39:26.160 That's something that I'm working on is not being able to, to act how I actually want

00:39:31.020 to act.

00:39:31.420 We had a lot of conversation about this in Bucharest that you can't suppress that the

00:39:36.100 dragon inside of you, like what you actually are, your, your natural essence.

00:39:39.580 You can't let other people take that away.

00:39:41.800 What, what did you learn that, that changed that and allowed you to, to act how you want

00:39:46.340 to be?

00:39:47.840 It's really just an, okay.

00:39:49.060 So I, humans are, are, are creatures that like want to move in packs, right?

00:39:53.820 Like we're, we're very social.

00:39:56.160 And so what I think is super dangerous about not being in a group of guys that align with

00:40:01.620 you is that either you're going to be completely alone in a room full of people, i.e. your

00:40:07.400 family, everybody from your hometown.

00:40:09.660 And they're going to have all these rules that by the way, most men have bent to, they

00:40:13.940 don't actually want to live that way.

00:40:15.580 But now if they don't act like they want to live that way, then they get in trouble with

00:40:20.360 the mother-in-law and the wife, right?

00:40:22.560 What the war room did for me is give me a group of people that thought like me.

00:40:26.100 And I knew no matter what happened, I could walk into any room around anybody and live

00:40:33.160 my truth because I had an army of men that had my back no matter what.

00:40:36.660 And if you don't have that, then you have nothing backing you up.

00:40:39.640 It's just you against your mother-in-law and your girlfriend or whoever is there in front

00:40:43.460 of you, society telling you to live life on their terms and not yours.

00:40:47.240 But you have to have a group of people that are backing you.

00:40:49.880 So you still have the community.

00:40:51.780 And that's why I say groups like the war room, I genuinely believe it saves people's

00:40:57.340 lives in a lot of ways. 0.68

00:40:58.280 My life was fucking awesome.

00:40:59.440 I was just having to, I was just having to negotiate around how much conviction I lived 0.86

00:41:04.120 with.

00:41:04.800 You know, I was doing what I wanted to do.

00:41:06.740 It just wasn't near as fun and I didn't have near the support.

00:41:10.220 So for me, finding, finding a group of people that live and breathe their life the same way

00:41:17.300 that I do allows me to know that I'm loved no matter what.

00:41:20.660 Much like I talk about with Andrew and Tristan, when I asked Andrew, Hey, what allows you to

00:41:24.060 speak this way?

00:41:25.700 Tristan's going to be there and love me no matter what.

00:41:27.520 That's powerful, dude.

00:41:29.240 Cause you know, you have people in your corner.

00:41:31.140 So do you have a real brother?

00:41:34.940 Yeah, I have 12.

00:41:36.860 I have two half brothers, same mom.

00:41:38.680 Okay.

00:41:39.080 Yeah.

00:41:40.360 Yeah.

00:41:41.180 It's difficult.

00:41:41.980 I have a brother who's a year and a half younger, but we're not on the same page about a lot

00:41:46.960 of this stuff.

00:41:47.520 We have a very different worldview and we kind of, we grew up like best friends and

00:41:51.660 drifted apart.

00:41:52.440 What do you think would be the, like, I look at the relationship that Andrew and Tristan

00:41:55.880 have and I want my brotherhood to be as strong.

00:41:59.760 What do you, what do you think I can do to, to get it to that level with your brother,

00:42:04.720 particularly nothing, bro.

00:42:09.380 I'll never forget this.

00:42:10.440 I did a, I did this weekend workshop one time and they, they had us rate our relationship

00:42:16.420 with our, with our mothers.

00:42:19.940 And this is how you have to relate, rate your relationships.

00:42:22.920 It's the world says a 10 out of 10 relationship with your brother or your mom or your dad or

00:42:27.320 whatever.

00:42:27.600 It's like, you see them all the time, your best friends, you text every day, you hang out

00:42:30.880 on the weekends.

00:42:31.860 And obviously you spend all the holidays together, but that's not really what makes a 10 out of

00:42:36.120 10 relationship.

00:42:37.000 What is a 10 out of 10 relationship to you is important.

00:42:41.060 So for instance, like, well, my father, I don't hang out with him a whole lot, but when

00:42:44.780 I walk in his house, he respects the fuck out of me, you know, and, and we have really

00:42:51.000 good conversations and then I bounce and I might not see him for six or eight months,

00:42:54.240 you know, just depending on what's going on.

00:42:56.140 That relationship for me is a 10 out of 10, not because I don't want to see him.

00:43:00.920 It's just healthy for me.

00:43:02.360 And another thing I've learned in life is like, if your brother is not on the same tracks

00:43:07.900 as you're on, you're not going to change him.

00:43:09.940 All you're going to do is become the average.

00:43:12.380 You see what I'm saying?

00:43:13.440 So you're not going to change them.

00:43:14.900 So unless he, unless he starts beating your door down, trying to do pushups and live streams,

00:43:19.540 it's just, it's not there, bro.

00:43:21.660 Yeah.

00:43:21.940 And it doesn't mean you don't love him.

00:43:23.260 And also doesn't mean that he's wrong.

00:43:24.760 It just means that you're on a different path.

00:43:28.220 And I think that's, what's most important.

00:43:29.640 People think that when, when you're on a different path to someone else, that somebody has to

00:43:33.620 be wrong.

00:43:34.020 That's not true.

00:43:35.300 It's just a different path.

00:43:36.780 Hey, bro, I love you.

00:43:37.620 I'm going this way.

00:43:38.500 You're going that way.

00:43:39.580 It's not an issue.

00:43:41.200 It's just where we're at.

00:43:43.200 So, and you, you gotta be able to have grace to let people not be wrong just because you're

00:43:47.640 different.

00:43:49.240 Paroxi Mike's for the 10.

00:43:50.320 Thank you.

00:43:50.680 He said, Hey, Mr. Wall, I just wanted to thank you and say that I love what you're saying here

00:43:53.700 and what you do appreciate that.

00:43:55.560 Dougie free says I'm from London, England.

00:43:56.920 Is there anything used to got money wise?

00:43:59.140 I'm still trying to get the funds to join the war room.

00:44:01.080 And have you got Tristan Tate's address?

00:44:02.920 I'm a fellow Christian who wants to help.

00:44:04.800 He wants to send letters to Tristan in jail. 0.96

00:44:08.500 Thank you for the 50 big 50.

00:44:10.340 Is there such a thing as a happy man?

00:44:12.840 What does he look like?

00:44:13.700 And what is his character?

00:44:14.760 How does he get up and grind when the mind and the body aren't there?

00:44:17.940 Is it just sheer will day in and day out?

00:44:20.640 Some days I feel like, first of all, I'm a happy man.

00:44:27.300 Like, bro.

00:44:28.320 Can't have a bad day, bro.

00:44:29.600 I can't have a bad day.

00:44:31.060 Like there are multiple times over the course of a week. 0.97

00:44:33.700 I'm like, you've got to be fucking kidding me. 0.98

00:44:35.480 This is what my life is. 0.99

00:44:37.100 But like, no, seriously, I swear to God, bro.

00:44:40.240 I swear to God.

00:44:41.560 And the thing about it is, man, is like.

00:44:43.800 I never think that.

00:44:45.240 I, you're 24.

00:44:48.000 When I was your age, I would, it wasn't even hard to get out of bed, man.

00:44:53.520 It wasn't.

00:44:54.180 I was, I would wake up at four.

00:44:55.420 I'd go work out.

00:44:56.260 By the time six o'clock came around, I'd talk to five or six people.

00:44:59.360 I'd already worked out.

00:45:00.120 I'd plan my day.

00:45:01.160 My food was laid out.

00:45:02.240 Like it was just, it was just not a thing, dude.

00:45:05.900 I would even say that it's sometimes harder now because I wake up.

00:45:10.580 I got a bunch of M's in the bank account, a bunch of 10's in my inbox and, and houses

00:45:15.540 that were, you see what I'm saying?

00:45:16.580 Yeah. 0.99

00:45:16.840 Now, what do you do when you don't have to do shit and you get the result? 0.98

00:45:20.280 So you got, you got to find a bigger mountain, right? 0.99

00:45:23.000 Always.

00:45:23.320 But the first one is way more exciting.

00:45:25.440 I can tell you now you have to, now you have to get outrageous about the goals, you

00:45:30.840 know?

00:45:31.140 And so that's something even I navigate through.

00:45:33.260 If there's anything ever in my head is so it's always that whatever I've done is not

00:45:36.800 enough and I better get to doing something else.

00:45:39.120 And so I think the thing that's going to keep you pushing forward, my friend, is just

00:45:44.300 making sure that you never get to the top of a mountain without another one to climb

00:45:47.980 because that is very, very dangerous because then you self-sabotage back down because all

00:45:52.280 the happiness is on climbing.

00:45:54.660 So why do you think Andrew and Tristan are locked up?

00:45:58.640 I think it's political.

00:46:00.300 I don't think it's about right or wrong.

00:46:02.100 I think that they have the hearts of young men and I think that it's very dangerous.

00:46:08.300 So because that's the age of people that they want controlled and they started to wake

00:46:12.780 up a lot of people.

00:46:13.440 They definitely did.

00:46:14.260 Yeah.

00:46:14.600 For me in a lot of ways.

00:46:16.660 Do you have any, any predictions?

00:46:18.840 And you're going to, are you going to go to Dubai with us?

00:46:21.360 Yeah.

00:46:21.600 I'm leaving.

00:46:22.120 I think Friday.

00:46:23.080 Yeah.

00:46:23.300 I'm going to, I'm going a little later, but I'll be there.

00:46:26.020 Gregonia worldwide says question guys recently, girlfriend of 1.5 years broke up with me two

00:46:29.520 weeks ago.

00:46:29.900 Cause I was a little toxic and we argued she was toxic too, but the love was strong.

00:46:34.200 She was nurturing.

00:46:35.180 Should I work it out or let it go?

00:46:37.540 She broke up with you. 0.68

00:46:38.720 Yeah.

00:46:39.120 So regard, first of all, her calling you toxic is just her putting a label to her excuse.

00:46:45.160 More than likely the frame got out of hand there.

00:46:48.040 I would go hard, no contact straight to Jim.

00:46:50.700 And I, when I say no contact, let me be very clear.

00:46:53.060 Don't unfollow her, but make sure you can't see her stories.

00:46:56.020 You don't watch her stories.

00:46:56.900 You don't reach out to friends.

00:46:57.760 You don't watch your friend's stories go completely.

00:47:00.220 Why shouldn't you unfollow her? 0.97

00:47:01.260 You don't unfollow her because you're showing emotion.

00:47:04.160 You need to be able to stand in that fire and not look.

00:47:07.220 If you unfollow her, you're doing it out of anger.

00:47:09.840 So, and then you got to go through the process of following back.

00:47:12.240 And you're also taking the opportunity away from yourself to have her see you get better

00:47:17.180 every day.

00:47:18.480 So there's a little song I share with people called Cheyenne.

00:47:23.560 And it talks about when he left that phone dangling off the hook and he turned around

00:47:28.040 and gave it one last look and walked away.

00:47:29.680 You got to walk away, go work on you.

00:47:32.680 And I can guarantee you, my friend, if you can truly stay to no contact and you go get

00:47:38.560 better, she'll be back.

00:47:40.020 Don't watch your stories.

00:47:41.300 Don't reach out to friends. 1.00

00:47:42.800 Don't put up with any bullshit and don't get emotional. 0.99

00:47:45.820 Do not let her have you raise your emotion. 1.00

00:47:48.720 If you raise your emotion, it's over.

00:47:50.400 And every time you contact her, it's like starting over and it triples the chance of

00:47:54.900 her never coming back.

00:47:57.060 How long is it going to take, do you think, for the girl to come back?

00:48:00.900 Obviously, it varies.

00:48:02.180 As long as it takes, G.

00:48:03.800 One thing that the War Room has is a course called the Iron Mind.

00:48:08.040 Absolutely, yeah.

00:48:08.740 Yeah.

00:48:08.980 So if you could go, what I would advise you do is go to the War Room right now.

00:48:12.600 I don't even care if you do it through me, bro.

00:48:14.000 Go buy the Iron Mind course and work on the man it would take to have her begging you to 1.00

00:48:20.100 come back.

00:48:20.640 And the funny thing about it is, this has been my experience, by the time you become the

00:48:26.920 man that is going to have her come in and crawling back to you, you will no longer want 1.00

00:48:31.840 her, and you'll be glad you don't.

00:48:35.520 What if you do?

00:48:37.340 Then take her, but it's going to be drastically on your terms and highly lopsided in the negotiations.

00:48:44.460 How do you think that this guy in particular, I think you're the best example that I've seen

00:48:50.780 of how far frame can take you as a man.

00:48:54.420 Yeah.

00:48:54.920 How do you think, and obviously you just see this one super chat, well, how do most guys 0.94

00:48:59.340 lose their frame and lose their respect and they get the constant shit test and they get 0.94

00:49:02.860 the constant paragraphs? 0.89

00:49:05.700 And how, what's the, yeah, what's the most common way guys break frame?

00:49:10.500 There's a whole story in that message.

00:49:12.140 Pull that message back up, if you would.

00:49:14.640 Gorgonio, question guys, recently, girlfriend of 1.5 years broke up with me two weeks ago

00:49:18.380 because I was a little toxic and we argued she was toxic too, but the love was strong.

00:49:21.180 So right there, he's admitting he was a little toxic.

00:49:23.720 He's, he's, he's opened a frame up for her to be able to accuse him of something.

00:49:27.700 So he doesn't use the word toxic, right?

00:49:29.600 He doesn't use the word toxic and he's even accepted it.

00:49:33.080 So not only did he acknowledge it in his own heart, he must've acknowledged it to her.

00:49:37.480 And who did he get it from her?

00:49:39.980 So that tells me right there that she can put words in his mouth. 1.00

00:49:43.900 Do you think that you're not going to get shit tested or left by a woman that can put 1.00

00:49:48.360 words in your mouth? 1.00

00:49:49.140 You think a 22 year old girl can put words in my fucking mouth? 1.00

00:49:52.200 It's not possible. 1.00

00:49:53.660 You had, he goes back.

00:49:55.080 I heard you say it the other day, you have to be the mountain that her emotional ways

00:49:58.520 crash into.

00:49:59.160 That's you.

00:49:59.520 I took that.

00:50:00.040 Yeah, no, yeah, I know.

00:50:00.780 I know.

00:50:01.420 But, but I heard you say it and it's a great time to use it because if you show her that

00:50:08.140 she can put words in your mouth, label you, make you emotional, put you in a state where

00:50:14.620 you're hurting, then dude, she's got you.

00:50:16.720 And it's not, and you have to look at it not so much as women are bad. 1.00

00:50:21.620 She's testing you to make sure that you're strong enough to handle the situation because

00:50:25.420 she doesn't need a girlfriend. 1.00

00:50:26.580 She needs a man. 0.90

00:50:27.740 And I'm not saying you're not a man, but you could probably use some reframing around

00:50:32.300 how your mind and the strength around your mind works.

00:50:35.700 I really advise you go take Iron Mind.

00:50:37.380 It'll help you out a lot.

00:50:39.360 Why do you think that she accused him of being toxic?

00:50:42.300 You think he, he was engaging in arguments?

00:50:44.240 Absolutely nothing to do with anything.

00:50:46.300 She could have called him anything, right?

00:50:48.820 Right. 1.00

00:50:49.340 Like my girls don't call me shit. 0.99

00:50:52.060 You know, you know what I'm saying? 0.99

00:50:53.240 All they do is complain about not getting to see me enough.

00:50:56.100 Right.

00:50:56.960 And until you get to there, then, you know, I'm not, I don't argue with women at all. 1.00

00:51:03.220 I don't have arguments with women. 1.00

00:51:05.000 They don't, they don't know because they don't bring me there.

00:51:08.160 So either his frame is not right or, or she's monkey branching and she's trying to 0.75

00:51:13.960 justify it, which means that he needs to work on the fitness, the finance, like who

00:51:18.680 he is as a person, because she's just, that word is just an excuse.

00:51:23.080 It's a placeholder. 0.99

00:51:23.740 She could have called him a dickhead. 0.99

00:51:24.800 It'd have been the same thing. 0.99

00:51:26.840 You know, you understand what I'm saying?

00:51:28.520 Calling you toxic is the same.

00:51:29.980 Right.

00:51:30.220 It's the same thing.

00:51:31.020 Common guilt tactic.

00:51:32.020 Yeah.

00:51:32.560 She's just, she's just putting it there.

00:51:34.120 She doesn't even know the reason why she's leaving most of the time.

00:51:36.420 So she puts in, oh, he plays video games. 0.99

00:51:39.900 Dude, I can start playing video games every fucking day and I would not have a chick leave 1.00

00:51:44.420 me over video games. 0.99

00:51:46.480 It's just what they say.

00:51:47.580 You have to pay attention to what women do, not what they say. 1.00

00:51:51.160 And I'm not calling them stupid. 0.98

00:51:52.540 I'm just simply saying is a lot of times they'll leave a man and they don't even know why he's, 0.98

00:51:56.780 why they're leaving. 0.98

00:51:57.920 And I don't even blame the women because if the man had his shit together and the frame 0.99

00:52:01.300 was absolutely correct. 0.99

00:52:02.820 She wouldn't leave.

00:52:03.380 She wouldn't leave.

00:52:04.160 I'll put it to you like this.

00:52:07.900 There's a girl in my life.

00:52:10.180 People know that this girl is in my life, right?

00:52:13.540 Goes to Thanksgiving.

00:52:14.840 They try to give her beef. 1.00

00:52:16.440 Her mom jumps in and says, shut the fuck up. 1.00

00:52:19.580 Stay out of their business. 1.00

00:52:21.720 Instead of attacking me for the shit I say on the internet, by the way, you've seen some 0.99

00:52:25.140 of the stuff I've said online. 0.99

00:52:26.120 Yeah. 0.99

00:52:26.820 They tell them to shut the fuck up. 1.00

00:52:28.100 They could have easily called me toxic. 1.00

00:52:29.620 They could have easily came after me.

00:52:31.220 But what they did was ruthlessly defend me instead.

00:52:34.680 Frame.

00:52:35.280 I wasn't even there.

00:52:37.580 Wait, someone tried to start beef because.

00:52:39.200 Yeah.

00:52:39.420 Have you seen his YouTube videos?

00:52:40.980 Blah, blah, blah, blah.

00:52:41.780 Her mom. 1.00

00:52:42.940 Shut the fuck up. 1.00

00:52:44.000 Get the fuck out of their business. 1.00

00:52:45.520 And she's like, yeah. 0.99

00:52:46.900 So boom.

00:52:48.000 Checkmate, bro.

00:52:49.160 And look. 1.00

00:52:49.660 And look at the shit I say on Fresh and Fit. 1.00

00:52:51.440 Yeah. 1.00

00:52:52.040 I'm saying it right now.

00:52:53.400 Right. 0.97

00:52:53.700 You could attack me. 1.00

00:52:54.760 A piece of shit. 1.00

00:52:55.860 Are they? 1.00

00:52:56.980 Yeah.

00:52:57.720 Frame.

00:52:57.980 Frame.

00:52:59.040 I'm not hearing it.

00:53:00.160 So he's got to get to there and he's got to be that dude.

00:53:06.000 And so that's why, you know, you're working on your fitness.

00:53:08.580 You're working on, you know, who you are as a person.

00:53:11.220 All this stuff.

00:53:11.960 It's that energy again.

00:53:12.900 It's right back there.

00:53:14.480 So he's got some pain to go through and good.

00:53:16.460 I've gone through that pain, man. 0.99

00:53:17.920 Heartbreak's a bitch. 0.99

00:53:18.900 Stay strong, bro. 0.99

00:53:20.080 It's fine.

00:53:21.060 You're fine.

00:53:21.700 You got to go through it.

00:53:25.540 Okay.

00:53:27.160 Does that make sense or no?

00:53:28.120 Yeah.

00:53:28.380 It makes perfect sense.

00:53:30.100 One line.

00:53:30.820 I re-listened to this podcast recently because I think it was one of the best ones.

00:53:34.800 It was you, Andrew, Sterling, Rollo on Fresh and Fit.

00:53:40.020 Yeah.

00:53:40.200 The Avenger one.

00:53:41.000 Yeah.

00:53:41.220 The Avengers Assemble Podcast.

00:53:42.440 I highly recommend listening to that because it's like guys with a lot of experience talking

00:53:46.620 about spinning plates and about relationships.

00:53:49.500 One line that I've been thinking about a lot, which I think Andrew said, but you agreed with

00:53:54.440 was, uh, he says like to make a girl come like right before she's about to come, you

00:53:59.460 say, I'm going to cheat on you as soon as I leave the room. 1.00

00:54:02.280 And then she'll, she'll, she'll like, how can you explain the science behind that line?

00:54:08.400 Yeah.

00:54:08.800 So women want to be with men that other women want to be with Rolo says this all the time.

00:54:16.040 He says, women want to be with men that other women want to be with and other men want to 0.99

00:54:20.880 be or something, something of that nature.

00:54:22.540 Um, she just wants to know that you have that dominance over women. 1.00

00:54:28.780 I'll tell you one that I like a lot is talking about threesomes and the other girl coming so hard 1.00

00:54:37.720 while she's borrowing your dick. 1.00

00:54:41.020 They lose their fucking mind. 1.00

00:54:42.960 I don't understand how to, I don't, I try when you guys, no, I, I never tried it. 1.00

00:54:51.580 I don't fucking have the frame to, I just can't do it.

00:54:54.500 And still, I can't say it properly. 0.97

00:54:57.000 Yeah.

00:54:57.460 I haven't tried, but I just, I play it in my head.

00:54:59.180 I'm like, what?

00:55:00.120 Yeah.

00:55:00.380 I would be like, sorry.

00:55:01.440 Right after saying it, you got to own it.

00:55:03.500 And that's another thing about frame is that everything in your life you have to say with

00:55:07.240 complete conviction, but you want, like when you see a girl come to you telling her that

00:55:13.600 she's going to get excited about watching another girl coming while she borrows your 1.00

00:55:20.660 dick, you know what I'm saying? 1.00

00:55:22.380 Like it's your dick. 1.00

00:55:23.200 She's borrowing it. 1.00

00:55:24.300 She's losing her mind.

00:55:25.600 And then we're throwing her away, bro.

00:55:28.620 I've literally done this in the next day.

00:55:31.380 Watch.

00:55:31.860 I'll show you something.

00:55:32.620 I'll prove this.

00:55:33.500 I'll prove this right now.

00:55:36.620 I heard that.

00:55:37.820 And I believe him when he said, but I can't picture myself saying that with conviction.

00:55:41.840 And I want to get to that.

00:55:43.220 I'll listen to that podcast.

00:55:44.580 I'm like, bro, I got work to do, man.

00:55:45.860 Look, she's sending me the accounts right now.

00:55:48.960 This one's down.

00:55:50.080 Hold on.

00:55:52.560 Bro.

00:55:53.280 This one's down.

00:55:54.380 This one's down.

00:55:55.840 She's doing the work.

00:55:56.760 She's finding the girl.

00:55:57.420 She made the account.

00:55:58.140 She's doing the account.

00:55:58.760 She has a paid account now. 1.00

00:55:59.800 She's just finding chicks to fuck. 1.00

00:56:01.180 Not the only one. 1.00

00:56:06.700 I'll show you another one.

00:56:08.660 Yeah.

00:56:08.840 Easy.

00:56:11.220 Bro.

00:56:11.840 Big G.

00:56:13.840 I got work to do, Chad.

00:56:15.900 I'm going to try it.

00:56:16.840 El Fresco.

00:56:17.340 Bro, that's going to go so wrong.

00:56:18.540 If you don't say that with complete conviction, then it's going to go bad.

00:56:23.640 I picture myself saying that in like just the fight ensuing.

00:56:30.220 Let's see here.

00:56:33.300 Chad, relax about the mics.

00:56:34.240 It's too low.

00:56:34.780 It's too high. 1.00

00:56:35.260 Just fucking turn up. 0.99

00:56:36.460 Change your volume on your headphones. 0.99

00:56:38.140 Regonio has a follow-up to that.

00:56:39.500 I want to check it out.

00:56:41.080 Read that.

00:56:44.500 Read it.

00:56:45.000 I don't care.

00:56:45.340 Man, she's, yeah.

00:56:49.040 She's like, whoa.

00:56:50.860 Okay.

00:56:51.160 She sent a picture and then some squirt emojis and a heart.

00:56:55.120 And then good night, baby.

00:56:56.760 The restaurant girl gave me her number.

00:56:58.660 She said, when I come back to let her know, she'll take days off to spend time with us.

00:57:02.480 Wink. 1.00

00:57:03.120 She's sexy as fuck. 1.00

00:57:04.420 Her and I vibe so well, and I'm pretty sure she'd fuck us both. 1.00

00:57:08.300 Next time I'll text her beforehand so she could take days off. 1.00

00:57:11.380 The other girl too.

00:57:12.360 I want to have fun with them and you, heart.

00:57:16.040 Another pick.

00:57:17.200 Can I read the next one?

00:57:18.660 Yeah, whatever.

00:57:20.300 I got work to do, Chad. 1.00

00:57:22.100 I'll be dreaming of your dick inside of me. 1.00

00:57:24.900 I miss it already. 1.00

00:57:26.120 Sweet dreams, Z.

00:57:28.060 Bro, he didn't even reply.

00:57:30.400 Bro, he didn't even reply.

00:57:32.860 He just hearted the message.

00:57:34.840 And then she texted him the next day.

00:57:36.620 That's not unmatched perspicacity coupled with sheer indivindicability makes you a feared opponent in any realm of human endeavor.

00:57:45.680 Bro, he didn't even reply.

00:57:51.140 It's a game, bro.

00:57:52.580 10.

00:57:53.120 No, an actual dime.

00:57:56.560 Boom.

00:57:58.220 That's why Waller starts with a W, man.

00:58:02.040 I got work to do.

00:58:03.320 I got work to do. 1.00

00:58:04.020 Gorgonio says, damn, y'all. 0.99

00:58:05.200 This is the guy from before with the toxic. 1.00

00:58:06.760 Damn, lol. 0.99

00:58:07.680 Y'all are spot on. 0.99

00:58:08.380 I'm working hard, but not hard enough.

00:58:09.660 Been on my fitness and finance gains for a few months straight now, but my frame wasn't strong.

00:58:13.200 I'm 29.

00:58:13.720 She's 23.

00:58:14.360 Def looking into Iron Man.

00:58:15.440 Yeah, check it out.

00:58:16.560 Everyone's saying Big G in the chat. 0.99

00:58:17.800 Chat, this is no bullshit, bro. 0.99

00:58:20.380 This is another level. 0.99

00:58:23.240 But do you understand, though, what I'm saying?

00:58:29.300 Because I'm not trying to be over the top about this.

00:58:33.240 I'm trying to be real direct and precise about it.

00:58:36.560 When a woman tries to accuse you of something, it's not what she's accusing you of. 1.00

00:58:42.860 That's the biggest mistake a man can make.

00:58:44.400 Because the first thing he does is says, oh, she's accusing me of said thing.

00:58:48.020 Let me go defend said thing. 0.90

00:58:49.800 The mistake is defending it or even hearing it at all.

00:58:53.520 A compromise.

00:58:54.180 There has to be this hierarchy.

00:58:56.700 Hierarchy.

00:58:57.700 And she is happy in that hierarchy.

00:59:00.960 Your woman doesn't want a punk. 1.00

00:59:03.280 You know what I'm saying?

00:59:03.900 And what he's dealing with, he's not toxic, bro.

00:59:06.700 If he was toxic, he would not even be able to accept the fact that she was calling him as such.

00:59:12.300 You see what I'm saying?

00:59:14.320 He's softer than he's toxic. 1.00

00:59:15.800 And it doesn't mean he's a pussy. 1.00

00:59:17.080 He just, he doesn't have the consciousness yet of what's going on. 1.00

00:59:20.280 Right.

00:59:20.420 H-Ref says, hi, Justin.

00:59:23.360 Thank you for what you do.

00:59:24.380 Will the war room help me with the Tate brother situation if it gets worse?

00:59:27.300 Tate has made me a God-fearing man, and it's heartbreaking to see what's happening.

00:59:31.420 Yeah, the war room's not going to stop growing, man.

00:59:32.980 Let me be very, very clear.

00:59:34.260 The war room's not going anywhere.

00:59:36.160 It's getting bigger by the day.

00:59:37.380 It's getting stronger by the day.

00:59:38.900 We're all, there's a millionaire room in there right now.

00:59:41.780 We're all working really, really hard to make it better every day.

00:59:45.280 The leadership in the war room is absolutely incredible, and I can't even take credit for that, man.

00:59:51.660 There's guys that work tirelessly in the war room to make it better every day for every man that's in it, man.

00:59:58.380 So it's the best decision that I think that a young man could possibly make.

01:00:03.220 The amount of heartbreak, the amount of lost money, the amount of running through life confused and on the wrong path,

01:00:09.480 it can be completely avoided for a young guy that joins, in my opinion.

01:00:13.260 So, or even a guy that is in his 30s.

01:00:16.340 I joined in my 30s, man, and I still think it's one of the best things I ever did.

01:00:20.220 So.

01:00:21.000 Thanks for the 15, Canucks Kamara Austin.

01:00:24.140 Supporting off in Japan, Justin, can you share your non-symp country song playlist?

01:00:28.300 Yeah, man.

01:00:28.740 I got a playlist called G-Country.

01:00:30.240 He loves that country music, man.

01:00:31.500 Yeah, G-Country, man.

01:00:32.420 I can put it in the chat somehow, maybe.

01:00:35.420 G-Country. 0.99

01:00:36.480 Yeah.

01:00:36.920 Okay.

01:00:38.220 I'm still stuck on those text messages that I just saw.

01:00:41.560 You want some more, Cowboy?

01:00:42.540 I want some more.

01:00:43.480 I want to see more.

01:00:44.840 All right.

01:00:45.860 I need the secrets.

01:00:47.540 Do you want to see what I passed on?

01:00:51.680 Boom, Buka! 0.99

01:00:52.940 Yeah.

01:00:57.460 That's a 10.

01:01:09.620 Boom, Buka! 0.99

01:01:11.240 That's a legitimate 10.

01:01:12.720 Did you buy her that?

01:01:13.920 No.

01:01:15.640 What did she, um... 1.00

01:01:17.160 I'll tell you this.

01:01:19.040 Let me just...

01:01:19.720 I can't say this on air.

01:01:20.720 I'm sorry, Chad.

01:01:38.260 Hold on.

01:01:42.560 And then, how did you...

01:01:44.760 Owned it. 0.99

01:01:45.940 Fucking owned it. 0.99

01:01:46.820 Just owned it. 1.00

01:01:47.340 Yeah, that's right.

01:01:48.220 Yup.

01:01:49.360 What about it?

01:01:52.720 See you next week, yeah?

01:01:54.380 Boom, done.

01:01:55.220 She thought you were hot. 0.99

01:01:58.760 That's it, bro.

01:01:59.380 Yeah, L, me watching chat.

01:02:00.620 I'm not me watching.

01:02:01.600 I'm trying to figure out how to get past that.

01:02:05.340 It's conviction, but the conviction's got to come from all the work and the agagi and everything, right? 0.91

01:02:09.080 So, let's put it in order so it makes more sense, right?

01:02:12.100 So, you do all the work, right?

01:02:13.660 You go through the pain.

01:02:14.700 You're confident.

01:02:15.640 You've gone through all this stress.

01:02:17.160 You know that nothing...

01:02:18.080 Like, losing a girl?

01:02:19.980 Losing a girl?

01:02:20.700 How many do you lose?

01:02:22.640 Bro, no.

01:02:23.420 Not many.

01:02:24.440 Not many, bro.

01:02:26.340 Not many.

01:02:29.320 The only way I will lose a girl is if I can't see her enough.

01:02:33.620 The only way...

01:02:34.700 Sterling said the same thing.

01:02:35.660 The only way is if I can't give her my time.

01:02:39.020 That's it.

01:02:40.700 That's how they get cold out.

01:02:41.940 It's never because...

01:02:44.740 Did you see that tweet I made?

01:02:46.460 That girl that went on the internet and said that she paid $10,000 to get her virginity back, and I called her out. 1.00

01:02:52.900 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:02:53.340 Yeah.

01:02:53.960 That was so funny, man.

01:02:55.520 Okay.

01:02:55.920 So, you saw that.

01:02:56.540 I took it down.

01:02:57.040 Can you explain it for the chat?

01:02:58.540 Yeah.

01:02:58.760 So, this girl, she has a big OnlyFans account. 0.99

01:03:01.040 She went on the New York Post and said that she got her vagina fixed so she could... 1.00

01:03:05.620 She restored her virginity. 0.99

01:03:06.740 She restored her virginity. 0.56

01:03:07.580 She got a BBL for her hymen.

01:03:08.840 And I responded to the New York Post with screenshots saying, a surgeon can't fix a broken heart. 0.99

01:03:15.360 Now, you would think she would be fucking furious, right? 0.97

01:03:18.520 Is that fair? 0.99

01:03:19.360 Mm-hmm.

01:03:19.940 Furious.

01:03:20.440 Okay.

01:03:21.400 Let's see if she's furious. 0.51

01:03:22.960 This is what she texts me today.

01:03:25.140 Basically, he posted the screenshots like she's restored her virginity.

01:03:27.860 Yeah, I called her out. 0.74

01:03:28.860 But she was sending all these pictures of lingerie saying, I miss you.

01:03:32.360 I miss you.

01:03:32.800 Right.

01:03:33.440 This is what happened today.

01:03:35.120 She sent me this message.

01:03:36.360 Or was it yesterday?

01:03:37.180 Read this and then hit the video.

01:03:39.080 I'd never seen this.

01:03:39.900 Can I read it?

01:03:40.520 Go ahead.

01:03:42.400 Well, back in...

01:03:43.260 Can I read this one?

01:03:45.600 Yeah.

01:03:46.020 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:03:46.460 Justin goes, panties, question mark?

01:03:48.380 Well, she asked me that.

01:03:49.820 Oh, did you see about the panties?

01:03:51.300 And he goes, panties, question mark?

01:03:52.720 But you're leaving.

01:03:53.320 He's just texting one word, just hearting.

01:03:55.460 He's not wasting any time.

01:03:57.380 And then she says, well, back in September when you were in London, I had a surprise plan

01:04:00.240 for you.

01:04:00.700 I would tell you, but I prefer you see it for yourself.

01:04:04.300 Here's a video.

01:04:08.140 Okay, there's the panties. 0.85

01:04:08.780 Wait, wait, wait.

01:04:09.200 Let it play.

01:04:09.740 Okay.

01:04:10.080 It gets good.

01:04:15.460 The panties say, owned by Justin Waller.

01:04:17.980 Put it in the chat. 1.00

01:04:18.860 I don't give a fuck. 0.99

01:04:19.640 Bro, so here's the thing. 0.99

01:04:21.500 I just called.

01:04:22.220 He say, owned by Justin Waller.

01:04:23.620 I just called this girl out on social media.

01:04:26.500 Publicly.

01:04:27.220 Publicly.

01:04:27.640 I thought it was over after that.

01:04:28.940 You humiliated her.

01:04:30.960 And she said, I've never done this to anyone.

01:04:33.420 You were the first one I wanted to try, dot, dot, dot.

01:04:37.080 Yep.

01:04:38.200 You look so good in love.

01:04:42.020 You want him?

01:04:43.140 It's easy to see.

01:04:44.840 It's the game, G.

01:04:47.440 Look, love it.

01:04:50.020 Don't care, bro.

01:04:50.760 He's just saying, he just texts like, everyone in the chat is saying, WWD.

01:04:55.040 Bro, not me watching.

01:04:56.340 I'm game learning.

01:04:57.440 I'm trying to learn.

01:04:59.300 This is the power of frame.

01:05:00.960 This is how far.

01:05:01.600 It's frame, bro.

01:05:03.240 It's frame.

01:05:04.240 And here's another thing that comes from, I'll tell you another thing that's really important

01:05:06.960 about frame, is once you do all this internal work and it's coming off of you like that,

01:05:12.960 you start to get in this abundance of choice.

01:05:16.460 And so it's much easier to negotiate when I have a bunch of chips.

01:05:22.040 I can call so many bluffs and I can look them dead in the eyes and say, I don't care what

01:05:28.520 your hand is.

01:05:29.140 Like when you sign a business deal, you need equity.

01:05:31.400 Yeah.

01:05:31.620 Or when somebody, like, let's say this guy's like, no, I'm not going to sell it to you for

01:05:37.600 three million instead of three, five.

01:05:39.500 And I'll look him dead in the eye and say, that's fine, bro.

01:05:41.580 Because I can place this money somewhere else.

01:05:43.600 I have four more deals.

01:05:44.780 Right.

01:05:46.300 Here.

01:05:46.660 Same thing with women. 1.00

01:05:48.980 And that's a part of ethics is being in abundance.

01:05:53.440 Abundance mindset.

01:05:54.360 Let me, let me give you an example of why, of why not just mindset, but actually being

01:05:59.040 in abundance.

01:06:00.020 This happens almost every day, right?

01:06:02.360 Two guys are friends for 20 years.

01:06:04.260 One of those guys get married, right?

01:06:07.460 The marriage starts to kind of get off the rockers.

01:06:10.160 They've all been hanging out over time.

01:06:12.660 Friend B that didn't get married isn't in abundance.

01:06:16.760 Friend A's wife wants to piss off friend A, goes to try to sleep with friend B. 1.00

01:06:23.160 Instead of that man being in abundance, he's in a pussy desert. 0.99

01:06:27.340 He takes her up on it and loses a friend for the rest of his life. 0.96

01:06:30.800 The man wasn't in abundance.

01:06:32.580 It's a, it's your job to be in abundance before said thing happens.

01:06:37.680 Right.

01:06:38.240 Right.

01:06:38.380 You need insurance policy.

01:06:39.320 You have to, because it makes it very, very, now you take pride in being that man's

01:06:43.940 friend. 1.00

01:06:44.200 Like, fuck you, ho. 1.00

01:06:45.660 I got plenty of you. 1.00

01:06:46.640 There's no way I'm giving up my one friend.

01:06:48.700 Right.

01:06:49.160 And, but it happens every day because guys aren't creating abundance in their life and

01:06:53.000 they're desperate.

01:06:53.980 I always say, it's not a bad man that I'm worried about.

01:06:56.320 It is a desperate man that I'm worried about.

01:06:58.420 Because they'll snake you for what he doesn't have.

01:07:00.360 Yeah.

01:07:00.700 They'll snake you. 1.00

01:07:01.980 I don't, I don't want to be friends with a man that's not an abundance of money and 1.00

01:07:04.780 pussy because he'll try to steal my money and I'll try to hit my bitch behind my back. 1.00

01:07:08.940 Now, do I trust my girl? 1.00

01:07:11.960 Yeah, I absolutely do.

01:07:13.180 But why am I going to have somebody up front around you, trying, starving to death at my

01:07:16.900 buffet, bro?

01:07:17.860 Yeah.

01:07:19.560 Yeah.

01:07:19.840 Sterling has 10 girlfriends.

01:07:22.100 W.

01:07:22.620 I would never.

01:07:24.080 10?

01:07:24.720 At least, bro.

01:07:25.720 I'm just, I'm throwing out a random number.

01:07:27.640 Sterling's got girlfriends in every city in the world we go to.

01:07:30.180 Yeah.

01:07:30.340 If you want to see Sterling Cooper, we had him on the stream three days ago.

01:07:32.820 It's on locals.

01:07:33.280 So the point is this, Andrew too, I've met a bunch of Andrew's girls are texting me about

01:07:39.760 Andrew, but I can tell you with a shadow of a doubt, Andrew would have zero issue with

01:07:45.100 it.

01:07:45.280 I'm sitting here saying it on the internet. 0.99

01:07:46.420 I don't give a fuck. 0.99

01:07:47.420 He knows I would never, never. 0.99

01:07:49.580 I don't have to.

01:07:51.500 Well, they're texting you about Andrew.

01:07:52.860 They do.

01:07:53.040 Yeah, of course.

01:07:53.620 Of course.

01:07:54.480 But in general, they're coming through my Instagram.

01:07:57.240 Hey, can I get you a WhatsApp?

01:07:58.480 I'm trying to find out what's going on.

01:07:59.480 Of course, I'll talk to them.

01:08:00.620 Yeah.

01:08:00.780 You know, because I don't have to snake him.

01:08:05.120 I could leave any girl of mine with Andrew Tate or Tristan Tate or Sterling. 0.99

01:08:09.640 I could send them to fucking the Bahamas to a romantic resort and I would not have to 0.99

01:08:14.840 worry about them snaking me with one of my, with a girl. 1.00

01:08:19.180 I just don't have to worry about it.

01:08:21.380 And that's the kind of friends you want.

01:08:22.720 You want friends that are in abundance because getting yourself there is actually the ethical

01:08:29.040 thing to do.

01:08:30.820 That way, there's nothing more. 0.99

01:08:33.000 There's no amount of pussy in the world that I could get that would be worth trading my 1.00

01:08:37.840 friendship with my boys. 1.00

01:08:39.280 Right.

01:08:42.180 Thanks for the 10, Momasa.

01:08:43.740 I can't forget about my ex that broke up with me five years ago.

01:08:46.340 Been with other women since, but I still can't forget about her.

01:08:48.980 Is it too late to try to get it back?

01:08:50.260 Assuming I could.

01:08:51.360 This is part.

01:08:51.900 Um, I was telling you about this in Bucharest.

01:08:54.900 There was one girl I broke up with so many times and then it would move on other girls,

01:08:58.680 something like that.

01:08:59.080 But I had this problem too.

01:09:01.020 Like, I know that you're not supposed to be afraid to let girls go and you have to be 1.00

01:09:04.780 able to, you have priorities, but what do you do about this?

01:09:07.400 Have you ever been in this position?

01:09:09.080 Yeah, man.

01:09:09.360 I have been in that position.

01:09:10.380 You have to understand that the only thing you can ever do is change you.

01:09:15.820 Contacting that girl is the worst decision you can possibly make.

01:09:22.760 I always think of it.

01:09:23.820 You ever seen two batteries and if you try to put them together, they push each other

01:09:27.140 away.

01:09:27.560 Yeah.

01:09:28.440 It's literally that energy.

01:09:31.460 Getting women is a gravitational pull in general. 1.00

01:09:34.740 However, particularly around a breakup, if it's not her idea, it will not work.

01:09:41.260 It has to be her idea.

01:09:43.020 She has to send you that, Hey, stranger text.

01:09:46.840 You understand what I'm saying?

01:09:48.160 Yeah.

01:09:48.340 It's never going to be like, Oh, well, she doesn't want me.

01:09:50.940 Dude, the second she wants you, she will text you.

01:09:56.780 Guaranteed.

01:09:57.840 Literally, if I know anything without a shadow of a doubt in my life, when it comes to women,

01:10:01.480 you are not going to talk a girl into coming back to you.

01:10:05.160 It's not going to happen.

01:10:06.360 You have to go be, be, become the guy that she wants to be with and she feels like she's 0.99

01:10:11.400 missing out on, and then you have to make a decision whether you want to take her ass 0.99

01:10:14.820 back or not, or pump and dump her out of revenge or whatever. 1.00

01:10:18.380 And I'm not promoting any of that, but I'm just flat out telling you, I'll give you an

01:10:22.100 example.

01:10:23.960 I've said this on some podcasts.

01:10:25.280 I was dating Miss Louisiana in college and I broke up with her.

01:10:29.340 I broke up with her while she was getting ready for Miss America because my head was spinning 0.95

01:10:35.520 and I didn't have my shit all the way together yet where I could just say, Hey, listen, I'm 0.98

01:10:39.700 going to start running through the volleyball team. 0.99

01:10:42.300 Right?

01:10:42.660 So I broke up with her because I thought that was the God fearing thing to do. 1.00

01:10:46.800 It was stupid. 1.00

01:10:47.860 If I had that shit to do again, I wouldn't have, I'd have just kept pimping, but it broke 1.00

01:10:51.960 my heart, man. 0.99

01:10:52.540 Cause I loved her.

01:10:53.920 I didn't want to leave her.

01:10:55.060 I just, I just didn't want to be monogamous and I didn't know how to share that in South

01:10:58.900 Louisiana.

01:11:00.740 And so I tried to recover her and in my chasing her, it put me in a weak frame and it just

01:11:08.320 pushed her away.

01:11:10.180 And so she ended up getting married and it, ah, oh no, the W comes back.

01:11:17.140 Then I became Justin Waller.

01:11:20.140 She calls me up, lies to me, says she got a divorce. 1.00

01:11:24.440 Found out that she didn't.

01:11:25.500 I got lied to.

01:11:27.340 And just recently she called and she calls all the time, bro.

01:11:32.180 How's she looking?

01:11:33.540 She's straight, bro. 0.75

01:11:34.300 I mean, she wasn't, I mean, she got third place in Miss America. 0.97

01:11:36.280 She's fine, bro.

01:11:37.100 But I mean, I had already, dude, I like, I chose not to be with her.

01:11:40.860 I beat the brakes off of her for like a year and then just threw her back. 1.00

01:11:44.100 Go to the streets, bitch. 1.00

01:11:47.220 You know? 1.00

01:11:47.920 So, um, am I proud of hurting a girl's feelings? 1.00

01:11:51.580 No, but she was also a fucking liar. 1.00

01:11:53.080 And, uh, and it is what it is. 1.00

01:11:55.820 So it's, it's about going at what, what did I do in that five years though?

01:12:00.420 I went and built my business.

01:12:02.360 I was in top-knop shape.

01:12:05.040 Uh, I was growing as a person.

01:12:07.100 And by the time she realized that I had passed her husband up, which, which is all it was

01:12:11.840 about.

01:12:12.340 Yeah.

01:12:12.720 All you got to do is, is pass up the slowest guy, which is the guy that she's with. 0.64

01:12:16.220 Right.

01:12:16.600 Right.

01:12:16.760 Just pass that dude. 1.00

01:12:17.600 And she's going to monkey branch to you again. 1.00

01:12:19.480 Cause she's got a history with you.

01:12:21.060 And here's, and here's the opposite side of her calling that guy toxic, but we had this

01:12:26.120 thing yet.

01:12:27.320 You ever have a girl explain to you why y'all should be together? 1.00

01:12:29.820 I have it happen to me all the time, but we had this connection and the way you made 0.94

01:12:33.820 me feel and all this other bullshit. 0.99

01:12:35.360 Meanwhile, she's telling the other dude that he's toxic. 0.99

01:12:39.240 Understand they're going to create a story in both directions.

01:12:42.920 It's not about that at all. 0.91

01:12:44.400 It's about who you are as a man and the presence that you hold in the frame, she gets sucked

01:12:51.580 into it.

01:12:52.060 And then she makes a story about why she does so.

01:12:57.140 Do you believe in the alpha widowing? 0.99

01:12:59.760 When I had Sterling on, he was, uh, it's fucked up. 0.99

01:13:03.760 It's true. 0.99

01:13:04.780 Okay.

01:13:05.240 So I'll, I'll, I'll say what he said. 0.99

01:13:07.160 He was saying that like, basically if a girl is with Justin, like she, she's fucked. 0.99

01:13:12.860 Yeah. 0.99

01:13:13.260 Like, like, like, like it's that it's just a trap because like, how are you going to

01:13:18.200 find another six, three millionaire who can skin a bear, who can hunt, who who's competent,

01:13:24.460 who can run a business, who is well-liked, has a network.

01:13:27.560 Like what, how is she going?

01:13:29.120 Because there's this term alpha widow.

01:13:30.360 I heard that from Sterling actually that once a girl is with that top tier male and he's

01:13:36.420 competent in every single way to the point where she's texting, like, I miss you already

01:13:41.000 and you're not even replying and she's finding other girls. 1.00

01:13:43.720 When you get her to that level, she's not able to connect with another man again, because

01:13:47.900 she's always going to be thinking of that experience, that connection, what we had before.

01:13:53.560 Yeah. 1.00

01:13:54.380 It's fucked dude. 1.00

01:13:55.160 Cause they'll still get married and they'll text you while they're married. 1.00

01:13:57.260 It's completely fucked up. 1.00

01:13:58.740 It's fucked up. 1.00

01:13:59.520 So you got to keep your ethics, man. 1.00

01:14:00.640 I got three rules, bro.

01:14:01.880 So rule number one, if a man is all fighting for my country, yeah, go ahead. 0.99

01:14:09.100 If a man is all fighting for my country, I, I don't give a fuck. 0.99

01:14:18.100 I wouldn't, and I know about it. 0.99

01:14:19.700 I will not see that woman at all.

01:14:21.420 I won't even give her the time of day because he's out fighting for, you know, whether it's

01:14:25.540 our freedom or not, or it's the matrix or whatever.

01:14:27.560 If he's fighting for the country, I'm not talking to his girl. 1.00

01:14:30.660 Number two, you could be my biggest fucking enemy in the world. 1.00

01:14:34.420 If I know that a woman is married, I will not sleep with her. 1.00

01:14:39.300 Now I've been lied to and found out, but if I know there's no fucking way I'm going to 0.99

01:14:44.720 do it. 0.99

01:14:45.240 Number three, I don't give a fuck how mad you get. 1.00

01:14:48.260 You get as mad as you want. 1.00

01:14:49.400 I will absolutely fuck your sister in a second. 1.00

01:14:52.080 So, cause it's, it's not going to break your heart. 1.00

01:14:55.660 So that's my rules, man. 1.00

01:14:59.240 Wait, under what circumstance will you fuck a girl's sister? 1.00

01:15:02.340 I'll, I'll fuck, I'll fuck my friend's sister in a second. 1.00

01:15:04.880 Sorry, bro. 1.00

01:15:06.940 Why?

01:15:07.700 It's just a joke, dude.

01:15:08.920 Oh, okay.

01:15:09.840 I'm just kidding.

01:15:10.640 Okay.

01:15:11.660 Okay.

01:15:12.240 I thought you were a hundred percent here.

01:15:14.080 No, bro.

01:15:14.660 I'm completely kidding.

01:15:15.500 Okay.

01:15:15.700 Okay.

01:15:15.900 Okay.

01:15:16.120 Okay.

01:15:17.020 Okay.

01:15:17.640 Sonny says, Justin, the Tates recommend staying mysterious on your occupation with girls.

01:15:22.140 Would love your take slash advice on this.

01:15:23.920 I know.

01:15:24.400 I never know what to say.

01:15:25.140 LML.

01:15:26.220 Chad, did you think he was serious too?

01:15:27.480 I thought he was 100% serious.

01:15:28.980 He didn't change his tone of voice at all.

01:15:30.700 Okay.

01:15:33.320 I generally tell him, you know, everybody's game is a little bit different.

01:15:40.220 Andrew particularly has more of a mob boss look.

01:15:43.480 I think that plays to a character.

01:15:45.820 I think playing a character is good.

01:15:47.740 We all play a character in our own way.

01:15:49.180 We all paint this certain picture and it's generally in truth or some kind of mystique

01:15:54.980 that just, it's not that you're not being who you are.

01:15:58.980 You're just kind of putting a spin on it in a way.

01:16:00.940 And I think it's very person dependent, you know, whether you want to do that or not.

01:16:05.900 Luke Belmar's here.

01:16:07.120 Luke.

01:16:07.480 I was just texting Luke, man.

01:16:15.560 That's it.

01:16:16.000 Is this your job?

01:16:16.600 I find...

01:16:16.960 I find you the job.

01:16:17.280 I find you.

01:16:17.980 Until then, it's from me.

01:16:18.480 He turned around.

01:16:19.140 I'm done.

01:16:23.560 I'm ended.

01:16:26.500 I'm done.

01:16:29.760 I'm done.

01:16:42.760 I'm done.

SNEAKO - February 09, 2023

SNEAKO Interviews Justin Waller

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