SNEAKO - SNEAKO & Myron Educate 304's On The Male's Perspective

00:00:00.000 show emotion in front of a girl don't be vulnerable do you think there's a point in 0.94

00:00:06.860 time you can be vulnerable with a girl like if it's your wife or a long-term girlfriend like

00:00:11.160 do you think you can show emotion like eventually it's better if you don't ever at all it's better

00:00:16.020 if you don't as soon as you drop your guard down then you're gonna become slightly more

00:00:22.220 slightly unattractive every time you do that the more vulnerable you show yourself the more that

00:00:26.440 she's going to doubt you as the leader think about it like the way you view the president like the

00:00:30.780 more you see the president break down and be vulnerable you're like is this guy really going

00:00:34.100 to be able to go to war is this guy should we follow this guy should we vote for him for the

00:00:37.660 next election you should see your man as somebody that you that's going to lead you and if he shows

00:00:41.820 weakness then he's not capable of being the leader that he needs to be so the more of all the vulnerability

00:00:46.300 that he shows the less capable he is i agree but what do you mean by emotion crying like i mean

00:00:52.260 anything anything negative that a guy typically wouldn't want to show in front of a girl anything

00:00:57.680 negative like like bad day at work i lose my job yeah bad day at work money low anything that

00:01:06.660 a guy would be insecure about talking to a girl i mean they can't help either way so girls can't help 1.00

00:01:12.700 so why talk to girls at all i mean i don't know if it's your wife you might want to what would you 1.00

00:01:18.440 prefer you don't want to talk if you're a man you don't want to talk to girls look i went to work

00:01:22.540 today i might lose my job or babe i had a problem at work but i fixed it now let's go on vacation

00:01:27.660 what would you prefer but did they fix it they didn't fix it then i want to know about it why

00:01:30.980 no no but he's gonna say you know what i'll talk to my boys fix the issue go back to work resolve it

00:01:36.180 and it's you know babe i had issue at work but it's now solved what do you prefer i mean i guess i

00:01:41.700 don't know i'd want to be more involved and know and communicate about it then it'd be more of a

00:01:46.420 secret like i don't want it i don't want the guy to feel like he has to act a certain way say

00:01:51.180 certain things to keep me i want him to be able to talk about what's actually going on without

00:01:56.220 having to not say things to and worry about me leave you know what i mean because i feel like

00:02:00.860 guys don't say things to girls because they're worried they're gonna leave they will well to be

00:02:04.480 fair though chris said earlier if he told you the truth right do you really want to hear that or do

00:02:09.240 you want to hear a solution i want to hear the truth i always want to hear the truth no but he's

00:02:12.800 telling you truth but with a solution versus just oh i have problems at work maybe i don't want to figure it out

00:02:16.380 do you really help him not really yeah so why even tell you there's no solving it talking to you

00:02:21.700 about that problem there's no solution it's the same thing like yeah you want to be able ideally

00:02:25.760 be best to be completely honest but think about it this way is it better if i see you when you're at

00:02:31.080 your most beautiful when you're when you're dressed up properly you always want to be around your man

00:02:34.420 when you're you're prettiest when you have the ugly moments when you wake up and your hair is all

00:02:38.020 messed up you're like don't look at me it's because you want to put the best image possible for for

00:02:41.940 your partner and the same thing goes when we show vulnerabilities that's us dropping our guard down the

00:02:45.880 same way like when you get fat that's you dropping your your guard down so it's better to just put

00:02:49.880 your your best foot forward even though that's not your your real self it's better to show your best

00:02:54.800 self yeah so under no circumstance do you think a guy should show the girl emotion there's no benefit

00:03:00.620 there's no roi there's no return on interest there's nothing that's going to be accomplished by doing

00:03:04.280 that it might the level of comfortability in the relationship like maybe immediately but then it's

00:03:09.560 going to linger in her head and see girls don't have power physically your power is manipulation 1.00

00:03:14.420 you take information you take little things and you're going to remember like an elephant you mark

00:03:18.740 it down as that weak moment and so the next time we fight you're going to bring it up remember when

00:03:22.540 you cried about your work yeah yeah she never you can't even afford to pay for me anymore that's your

00:03:27.520 ammunition because you can't beat me in a fight you're never going to be able to win over me physically

00:03:32.120 you take down information as your ammunition so i don't want to give that anything you guys are

00:03:36.520 terrorists you're going to ruin my life the more you remember all those moments every single time

00:03:41.300 that you've seen your guys show a weak moment you mark it down in your head i guarantee you right now 0.91

00:03:46.720 as i'm talking that's why i see you smile because you all know those weak moments look how hard you're 0.99

00:03:51.060 laughing that's you laughing at a guy crying in front of you like a bitch so don't do it it's better 1.00

00:03:56.020 to not do it yes it brought you together the moment you hugged him and then you leaned on your 0.99

00:03:59.360 shoulder and cried and in that moment yes it might have been comfortable but then later on you use it to

00:04:04.320 abuse him so don't do it this if anyone here to talk about this issue is nico i can say one word 0.50

00:04:13.160 and all but i won't say the word continue i was cooking so much and you just killed the whole

00:04:18.220 moment but if that's your guy you're not just gonna leave anyway like if that's your guy that's

00:04:23.960 your guy he can talk about his weaknesses he shouldn't have to worry about you leaving i think

00:04:27.000 in my opinion it's not about leaving it's about the fact that you're going to use that to abuse him

00:04:30.240 on later on why should i give you more okay well maybe a guy shouldn't find a girl that would do 1.00

00:04:33.640 that because all girls do it all all women do it depends on the situation wait did earlier all the 1.00

00:04:41.300 girls left leave their guys first and guys don't leave girls so all your girls will leave their guys 0.95

00:04:46.920 you know so guys don't know yeah all girls you're all the same with that you're always going to use

00:04:52.060 that against you then it then i think when that situation happened that the girl would use against 1.00

00:04:56.240 they should communicate it and it should be fixed before anything else goes on so then they won't

00:05:01.360 be able to bring it up because it's already done that sounds that's that's the ideal way right now

00:05:05.660 in this conversation but relationships are two people trying to be together for the rest of their

00:05:11.520 lives it's two people putting everything on the line that's that ideal situation is not going to

00:05:16.260 happen that ideal relationship isn't doesn't work like that there's one leader and there's one

00:05:20.740 follower and so when the follower ever questions a leader it's the same thing when you think about the

00:05:24.220 president like i want to you see trump kiss the wall for example the fact that trump shield the

00:05:28.820 vaccine anytime that a politician drops his guard or a politician isn't perfect you remember it and

00:05:34.800 that's your reason why you're not going to vote for him again so yeah ideally like you look for

00:05:38.160 somebody's best moments and different traits but you don't want to see anybody mess up you don't want

00:05:42.060 to see your leader ever mess up because you're going to remember i'll make this uh i'll bring this

00:05:47.240 all home women are like the police whatever you say in the court of womanhood is going to be used 1.00

00:05:53.900 against you okay less is more and i'm going to explain why it's so important to not show emotion

00:05:58.780 and break down and cry in front of your girl whether you guys want to accept it or not on the

00:06:04.100 panel women are dependent creatures what do i mean by this women need a man for protection provisioning 1.00

00:06:08.940 security etc men typically are better than women at most things let's just be honest here they are 1.00

00:06:13.700 men who are superior to women in almost every which way when you look at the peak of excellence 1.00

00:06:17.180 whether it's through sport through philosophy through technology through any type of human endeavor

00:06:21.940 it's always men at the top okay women don't really contribute much to society sorry you guys 1.00

00:06:26.380 contribute children which is very important but at the end of the day when it comes to the pinnacle

00:06:29.500 of humanity it's always men okay because and and since men are the pinnacle women look at men

00:06:35.620 as a dependent that's why girls typically don't like being single they want the best guy that they 1.00

00:06:39.440 get every girl dreams of being married everything when it comes to the female process is contingent 1.00

00:06:44.720 upon a man in some degree women need men to be happy because a woman's value is determined 0.96

00:06:48.580 by her ability to secure a high value man right so we went over the two things number one whatever 0.56

00:06:53.620 you say can be used against you in the court of womanhood number two women are dependent creatures 1.00

00:06:57.100 now there's a third part okay women want honesty to reserve the right to use it against you in the 1.00

00:07:04.180 future women want transparency to make sure they're making the right mating selection what do i mean by 0.99

00:07:10.000 this you want to know if i lost my job or i'm broke or i don't have my shit together so that you can 0.77

00:07:15.080 get a real time and piece of information and make us a uh a decision that'll benefit you women initiate 1.00

00:07:21.840 most breakups women initiate most divorces and women want honesty not because they can help it's so that 0.95

00:07:27.280 they can get the fuck out if they need to that's the real reason why women want the truth for men 1.00

00:07:31.220 so they can make the best decision for their mating process there's something called brifold's law 0.97

00:07:35.780 right in all mammalian creatures whether it's humans primates lions whatever it may be to the victor

00:07:42.680 goes all the spoils women want the best guy that they can get and if you're not the best guy that 1.00

00:07:46.680 they can get they're gonna fucking go find another guy a man being transparent is going to help them 0.54

00:07:51.680 with figuring out if that's the best guy that he that she can get this is why guys that are lower 0.99

00:07:56.000 value or guys that are losers have to lie a lot of the times to women oh you're the only one now i'm

00:08:02.020 doing great oh no blah blah blah they can't tell you the truth because they know if they tell you the 0.88

00:08:05.880 truth they're not high value enough to be able to keep you with the truth so that's a lie the more

00:08:10.560 honest a man can be typically the more status of money he has that's just how it is so women say 1.00

00:08:15.380 they want transparency and honesty but it's not really for transparency it's honesty it's so that

00:08:19.380 they can go ahead and take that information in make a decision do i want to continue to bet on this guy

00:08:23.880 if the answer is no she's leaving that's the real reason why women want the truth you don't guys don't 1.00

00:08:28.580 want it to like help the guy you want it so that you can help yourself get the fuck out if he's a loser 0.92

00:08:32.100 perfect make sense how's a guy agreed to find in a relationship with you before i've never been 0.80

00:08:38.980 in a relationship okay no agree or disagree on the panel anybody you guys all agree that you guys

00:08:47.100 just want the truth so you can leave if needed well if that's my guy that's my guy i'm not leaving

00:08:51.020 even if it's like i don't know in society i guess i understand what you mean but personally i'm not

00:08:56.700 just gonna leave because there's a problem yeah when you get a guy and if that happens to you let

00:09:02.500 me know how it goes i will no i don't really care but but i feel like if there's a problem and then

00:09:07.960 if a solution comes up if there's like multiple options she's there not to help but to help you

00:09:14.360 decide on like what the best solution would be she won't you you don't know the answer though

00:09:19.260 like you're not really gonna have any information that i don't have well i guess then at that point

00:09:25.380 it's just opinion based like what your wife would think like it doesn't really matter which the only

00:09:30.900 point of me talking it out with you is not because you are going to be able to provide any solutions

00:09:35.080 because you're not going to be able to the only reason i would talk to you about it is to talk about

00:09:38.180 my feelings more and the more i get into that state the more i talk about my feelings more become

00:09:41.800 like you and then we're like two girls sitting on the couch with a bottle of wine it's just it's just

00:09:46.440 there's no solution it does make you feel better in the moment but men aren't supposed to act that way

00:09:50.840 we're supposed to be solution oriented but like an opinion you're not your opinion isn't going to

00:09:54.780 help like the only it's that's not going to help me at all all it's going to do is make me feel

00:09:59.260 better in the moment but you're not going to know what to do the only way i'll talk to you about it

00:10:02.900 for example i've already solved the issue i'm telling you what happened and i solved it as your

00:10:07.980 leader because once again i'm showing you at issue where it could have been bad for us but i solved it

00:10:13.300 quickly so we know we can move on and do something fun or exciting in that instance yeah women are 1.00

00:10:18.540 opportunistic lovers if they think that they're not having the best opportunity to get the best

00:10:23.200 guy they're going to leave that's just how women operate unfortunately there is no loyalty when it 1.00

00:10:27.420 comes to females it's about let me get the best guy that i can or a guy that has the potential to be 1.00

00:10:31.920 the best guy right so that's why i grow a date a bum because she thinks he'll change he'll eventually 0.78

00:10:36.180 become a somebody but the reality is women date opportunistically so since women date opportunistically 0.97

00:10:41.060 it's not in your best interest to be honest with them if you don't have your shit together a lot of 0.98

00:10:44.100 times because most women can't handle honesty and if you do tell them the truth 1.00

00:10:48.240 they're going to make a decision that isn't in your favor so that's why so many guys lied to

00:10:51.440 women because women can handle the truth in general yeah that's true and you say i know 0.89

00:10:55.200 ideally you're saying that you want to hear the truth but women don't even really want to know 1.00

00:10:59.300 what's going on in the world like do you really like look at what's happening in russia ukraine right

00:11:03.580 now no because you don't care about geopolitics you don't want to know stuff that's that's

00:11:07.980 uncomfortable women like to live in this comfortable la la land reality the same reason why you all 1.00

00:11:12.680 lied about what you respect in people because you like to think things that make you happy

00:11:16.920 that's the same reason you watch the shows that you watch and you consume the music and the culture

00:11:20.960 that you consume because women operate like children the same reason that like kids like to 1.00

00:11:25.620 be in the playground they don't want to know what's happening in russia ukraine it doesn't matter

00:11:28.260 you want to make the sandwich have fun fold the clothes and then hug your husband yeah

00:11:33.080 let me worry about ukraine let me worry about putin and zelensky what's going on what we should do

00:11:39.040 your your opinion isn't like maybe they should interfere it doesn't it doesn't help i feel like it's also

00:11:45.000 not completely but also about the communicating and being involved with your person too you know

00:11:51.960 do you know what i mean it's it's really the illusion of being involved okay like if i'm stressed

00:11:57.580 after work instead of like me talking about it it's better if like yeah it was a hard day you come

00:12:01.780 over shoulder massage that's your involvement and that's a better solution rather than me talking

00:12:05.960 about it there's different ways to involve you and the problems rather than me confessing all of

00:12:09.800 it and showing weakness okay i see i have one quote for you guys you have two options when it

00:12:16.060 comes to women as a man you can either understand women option a or b 0.64

00:12:23.000 respect them as an equal but you can't do both damn that's pretty deep one more time you can either

00:12:33.440 understand women or you can respect them as an equal but you cannot do both so in other words if 1.00

00:12:40.200 you understand women you can't respect them as an equal but if you respect them as an equal you don't 1.00

00:12:45.460 understand them and that's the honest truth and the reason why if you understand them you can't

00:12:51.360 respect them is because you don't hold them to the same masculine standard as a man that's why when

00:12:55.660 i go out with a woman i pay for the day i plan everything etc i don't look at women as equals at all 0.75

00:12:59.580 because they're not but we live in this crazy clown world where we think women are equals 1.00

00:13:03.620 and let's be honest here you guys are all attracted to a man that doesn't treat you like an equal

00:13:07.800 you want a man that's a breadwinner you want a man that's a boss you want a man that's ambitious

00:13:10.700 you want a man that's a leader so i cannot simultaneously be a leader and do all these

00:13:15.460 things while respecting you as an equal have you guys ever thought about that that strong dominant

00:13:22.920 man that you want does not respect you as an equal that's why he's dominant

00:13:26.080 i mean if we're equal let's split bills let's for example decide together where we want to eat

00:13:33.340 oh i want to go ahead babe uh what do you want to do it's just like that whole dynamic right there

00:13:38.940 won't work women don't want a democracy they want a dictator yeah if i'm going to be honest 0.98

00:13:42.300 and dick versus yeah literally and figuratively 0.99

00:13:44.620 and i know it sounds like fucked up and you guys might have been in the back of your heads like 0.99

00:13:50.520 this is so misogynistic no no no no no no if you think about it chivalry literally is 0.98

00:13:55.240 not treating women equal because you understand them they're not the same 0.99

00:14:00.140 if we're the same let's go half on everything but none of you guys want that shit do you 0.99

00:14:04.560 you want me to be the leader you want me to pick the day you wanted me to plan the day you want me 0.99

00:14:08.240 to treat you like a lady hold the door open for you none of that none of that is equality at all 0.82

00:14:11.860 we live in some crazy clown world where women think oh yeah i'm equal to a man but i still want 1.00

00:14:15.880 a man to give me chivalry that doesn't make sense chivalry in itself is misogynistic by modern terms

00:14:21.140 because you're treating a woman differently because she's a female and you're giving her preferential

00:14:24.680 treatment just that women don't like to admit when they're being treated like a lady that that 1.00

00:14:29.200 is in effect misogynistic by modern day standards but i don't think it's misogynistic i think it's

00:14:33.880 realistic and that's what women want women don't want a man that treats them as an equal 1.00

00:14:37.320 you want to know i know you're getting better at this because maybe two years ago there would

00:14:42.740 have been more anger in it i think a lot of the reason that the girls are saying that they want 1.00

00:14:45.660 to be girl bosses and that respect ambitious qualities is because they're interacting with a

00:14:49.040 lot of guys that don't know how to explain it properly or not at that level yet but you're getting

00:14:52.720 better at this point where all of them are listening to what you're saying which is naturally

00:14:55.360 heard from a lot of other people as misogynistic but when you explain it in a logical way when i

00:14:59.620 say that women are children and want to go just play with the little toys and make sandwiches and 1.00

00:15:03.920 stuff that used to be something that girls would get extremely triggered by i'm saying this now and

00:15:08.520 i'm so used to girls immediately arguing and no one's even challenging that point you're like yeah 0.96

00:15:12.300 true well to be frank i think they just gave up but no but all of them are listening intently like

00:15:18.000 yeah you're right this is how this is actually like leveling up to the point where they're not

00:15:23.020 even arguing they agree bro they don't care no we definitely do care it's just we have nothing to 0.95

00:15:28.100 argue with here no you guys are right that's what that's where i got to i mean it's it's fucked up but 0.94

00:15:34.180 i just i can't tell realization within the last like two years that you really have two choices you 0.66

00:15:38.940 can either respect them as an equal and like just get walked over walked on or you can understand

00:15:44.100 them and move accordingly and once you understand women there's no way that you can respect them as 1.00

00:15:47.860 equal if you want to be able to be attractive because the traits that make a man attractive

00:15:51.920 inherently are contingent upon you not treating her like an equal you actually have to treat her 1.00

00:15:56.320 like an inferior look at sex pulling her hair telling her she's a slut smacking her spitting in 1.00

00:16:00.740 her mouth you're degrading her women love that shit why because it's the animalistic tendencies 1.00

00:16:05.900 between the two genders of what they're actually aroused and attracted to women are aroused by men that 1.00

00:16:10.380 can dominate them in all aspects of life but then you want me to sit there and call you a girl boss 1.00

00:16:14.480 get the fuck out of here doesn't make sense and women aren't attracted to that that's why i always 1.00

00:16:17.960 laugh when girls say oh i want an equal partner hell no you want a man that you can obey 0.99

00:16:21.600 do you guys not care or are you guys all high or something i think it's the way you explain

00:16:26.420 are we in the same room did you guys put an edible on the drink or did you spike their drinks 0.99

00:16:31.440 what the fuck did you do does anyone disagree no no i can't we just convince the whole panel of girl 0.99

00:16:37.760 bosses because they all started off by saying that women should be ambitious we're all girl boss queens 0.99

00:16:42.080 you were the only the colombian was the only one who was the feminine one and all of them are quiet 1.00

00:16:46.060 and not in their head now like kids it's not that women should be ambitious is that like in reality 1.00

00:16:51.500 they have to be they can't rely on a man completely exactly like no girl actually wants to go to work 1.00

00:16:57.860 and be a girl boss and all that stuff but realistically that's what they have to do now

00:17:01.700 it's like the dating class got i mean idealistically that's not what we want to do but it's kind of

00:17:05.800 the only thing left you know what i mean but you also said that that's what you respect in a woman 1.00

00:17:09.620 well i do respect that to an extent but not for me but i do respect it what what walk it back now

00:17:17.980 i think i don't know i respect it but it's not like

00:17:22.840 i think about it i'll be honest only women get the privilege of not making sense 0.98

00:17:29.200 but i'm pretty sure i guarantee if us three weren't here and she was having this conversation

00:17:33.480 with the girls they'd be like oh my god yeah like i totally get that yeah

00:17:36.900 i feel the spirits

00:17:41.780 many women are the same 1.00

00:17:43.060 that's it

00:17:48.820 this is your job

SNEAKO - July 25, 2023

SNEAKO & Myron Educate 304's On The Male's Perspective

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