SNEAKO - July 25, 2023
SNEAKO & Myron Get Into Heated Marriage Debate On FNF!
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about why getting married is not a good measure of success for men and women, and the benefits of getting married vs. getting married as a measure of a man's success in the modern era.
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boy women stop being fucking stupid ah misogynistic can't you can't you can't
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criticize women anymore say it nicely myron yeah i gotta criticize them nicely
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hey you should probably lose some weight because your dress no longer fits you fat
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whore oh my god how dare you you're a misogynist you said please though okay but you you generally
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you don't see marriage as a as a measure of success for a man why not well it's not the
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main barometer of success for it's not about me but you said it's not a measure of success at all
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it's not because at all here's the thing if you're that guy women are going to get you've women are
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going to want you anyway and you can just pick who you want the woman's job is to get married up and
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take the last name it's not necessarily your job just like we're chasing sex they're chasing
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relationships but i think you're seeing it in a versus thing like men versus who does it matter
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to more it when it comes to the the game of life getting married is a big accomplishment
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for who for women for the man for the women more sure but that's my point you're completely
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disregarding it as a measure of success for men what benefit is it for for a man please tell me
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you have a girl that's loyal to you and that's you can have it without marriage
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you're not loyal to you yeah but that's what you can you're not gonna find a girl that's loyal just
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to you without a marriage or nothing that's not true that's what are you talking about i mean yes like
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boyfriend a girlfriend yes but you're not gonna no that's not gonna happen no you just said the
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most dumbest shit ever you just said a boyfriend girlfriend can have loyalty without marriage so
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what are you saying you're next to me too right come on man i'm Mexican and Colombian oh god that's
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even worse it's a sacred thing it's it's not just in terms of like yes you can get sexual loyalty from
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a girl without marriage but it's still something that's sacred that it's a union between two people
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under god you're not gonna find a girl that's just i agree marriage is sacred unity and it should be
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respected but at the same time modern day marriage who does it benefit yeah when you get married within
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the government boy if you get married within a religion that's a big measure of success for a
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man let's be honest here people get married in terms of the law for the most part so it's not
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going to benefit men well if you view marriage as a unity within religion within islam or within
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christianity or something like that that why are you not why are you disregarding that as a measure of
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success in a man's life i think it's lower because you can't even get to the marriage unless you
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become successful in first place to a degree that it's actually going to last but you need to
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reach a certain status before you even think about getting married and having that marriage
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actually lasts i think what 300k or a year or more uh significantly decreases the chances of divorce
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and i get what you're saying like right you could do it within the confinements of a religion whatever
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but we're talking about it conventionally within the confinements of uh the law and everything that
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women want because women don't want to get married a lot of times just for the ceremony they want the
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security that comes with it from a legal perspective too well you keep thinking of it in terms of
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comparison about who benefits more men or women i'm just saying as a man getting married islamically
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why are you not viewing that as a measure of success because not everyone's muslim well for you
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for you oh for me yeah no i wouldn't no i wouldn't i wouldn't look at it i think my success is way more
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like me being a successful man is way more important than getting married so how do you measure success
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just financially status finances respect from peers world impact all that i prioritize over getting
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married because that's going to heavily dictate the um the success of the marriage in the first place
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but having a successful marriage that's going to elevate your status and and remember i'm not just
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attribute i'm speaking generally i'm not just speaking for myself i'm saying like in general
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like most people aren't muslim most people are not necessarily going to look at marriage through
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that same islamic lens and they're not going to be able to get married in the masjid without all
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the um serious consequences that can hit them like getting married regularly so that you're only
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viewing your status based on the miami world but when it comes to the arabic world or the muslim world
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your status is elevated when you're married 100 but yeah that's in the muslim world but i'm
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speaking in general bro you're speaking about well you're in general it's just miami
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no in the world in the world muslim man there's two billion muslims in the world i get that but
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there's a lot more people that are not muslim that are not muslim so i'm speaking generally like
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outside okay within the confinements of islam cool getting married is a huge uh you know it's a huge
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thing but i'm speaking generally outside in all religions and all sex people that are atheists
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people that are religious whatever it may be like in general marriage is a woman's game that's
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her measurement of success for you it's not as high even for non-muslims don't you think if you're
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going to talk about status more people are going to respect you if you're married more people are
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going to respect a halal relationship where you're where you actually took that relationship seriously
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and you got married so you're saying that's the only benefit i'm not saying it's the only benefit
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but you're he's listing success as a measure as uh as a as your success he said status and
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i'm asking how you measure success okay look you being a successful man is way more important than
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being married period okay but that's all i'm saying that's you being a successful man is way more
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important than being married on the other hand a woman being married is way more important than her
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being successful but you're saying you're attributing status to success and i'm saying
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marriage elevates your status even outside of the islamic world so if you're going to use status as a
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measure of success marriage elevates that it's not just status it's financial uh financial literacy
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well financial success as well all that is built there's a bunch of components that go into success
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but what i'm saying is that marriage is not as high in the total pole for a man as it is for a woman
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that's what i'm saying i agree with you but so then what are we arguing well because you you're just
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i'm wondering what you think success is as a man because at a cap like after 10 maybe 30 million
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dollars there's only so far that your status can elevate it's not easy to achieve you got like
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you're saying that as if it's easy that's tough okay but so once you hit 30 million and then your
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status isn't really like 30 million to a billion dollars your status isn't that much different
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cool get go ahead and get married go crazy but what i'm saying is that it's better to achieve that
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success first before marriage but for women their job is to get married first because no one gives a
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fuck about their success okay so yes or no does marriage elevate your success in life and your
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status as a man to a degree but not to the same significance of a female because women take on
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that man's status when they get married versus the man does not take on her status when he gets
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married so therefore men do not stand to benefit to the same degree from marriage that women do which
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is why it's so high on a female total of being married but you kind of changed because at first
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you're like it doesn't matter at all now you're saying it does matter not to a significant to the same
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significance of being uh successful okay you have a lot to learn sneaker a lot to learn tell me one
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thing about what that i have to learn a lot okay he's trolling no i'm not serious last thoughts from