SNEAKO - July 25, 2023


SNEAKO & Myron Get Into Heated Marriage Debate On FNF!

Hosted by
Nicolas Kenn De Balinthazy
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Length

6 minutes

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224.5

Word count

1,498

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Harmful content

Misogyny

11

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Toxicity

12

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Hate speech

12

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about why getting married is not a good measure of success for men and women, and the benefits of getting married vs. getting married as a measure of a man's success in the modern era.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 boy women stop being fucking stupid ah misogynistic can't you can't you can't 1.00
00:00:09.240 criticize women anymore say it nicely myron yeah i gotta criticize them nicely 1.00
00:00:12.980 hey you should probably lose some weight because your dress no longer fits you fat 1.00
00:00:17.300 whore oh my god how dare you you're a misogynist you said please though okay but you you generally 1.00
00:00:24.860 you don't see marriage as a as a measure of success for a man why not well it's not the 0.99
00:00:31.000 main barometer of success for it's not about me but you said it's not a measure of success at all
00:00:35.260 it's not because at all here's the thing if you're that guy women are going to get you've women are 0.93
00:00:42.500 going to want you anyway and you can just pick who you want the woman's job is to get married up and 1.00
00:00:46.500 take the last name it's not necessarily your job just like we're chasing sex they're chasing
00:00:50.420 relationships but i think you're seeing it in a versus thing like men versus who does it matter
00:00:54.000 to more it when it comes to the the game of life getting married is a big accomplishment
00:00:58.160 for who for women for the man for the women more sure but that's my point you're completely
00:01:03.240 disregarding it as a measure of success for men what benefit is it for for a man please tell me
00:01:07.000 you have a girl that's loyal to you and that's you can have it without marriage 0.99
00:01:11.600 you're not loyal to you yeah but that's what you can you're not gonna find a girl that's loyal just
00:01:16.680 to you without a marriage or nothing that's not true that's what are you talking about i mean yes like
00:01:20.820 boyfriend a girlfriend yes but you're not gonna no that's not gonna happen no you just said the 0.99
00:01:25.460 most dumbest shit ever you just said a boyfriend girlfriend can have loyalty without marriage so 1.00
00:01:29.020 what are you saying you're next to me too right come on man i'm Mexican and Colombian oh god that's 1.00
00:01:34.800 even worse it's a sacred thing it's it's not just in terms of like yes you can get sexual loyalty from 0.58
00:01:39.700 a girl without marriage but it's still something that's sacred that it's a union between two people
00:01:44.560 under god you're not gonna find a girl that's just i agree marriage is sacred unity and it should be
00:01:49.480 respected but at the same time modern day marriage who does it benefit yeah when you get married within
00:01:55.620 the government boy if you get married within a religion that's a big measure of success for a
00:01:59.740 man let's be honest here people get married in terms of the law for the most part so it's not
00:02:04.020 going to benefit men well if you view marriage as a unity within religion within islam or within
00:02:09.060 christianity or something like that that why are you not why are you disregarding that as a measure of
00:02:12.600 success in a man's life i think it's lower because you can't even get to the marriage unless you
00:02:17.160 become successful in first place to a degree that it's actually going to last but you need to
00:02:21.300 reach a certain status before you even think about getting married and having that marriage
00:02:24.740 actually lasts i think what 300k or a year or more uh significantly decreases the chances of divorce
00:02:30.040 and i get what you're saying like right you could do it within the confinements of a religion whatever
00:02:33.700 but we're talking about it conventionally within the confinements of uh the law and everything that
00:02:37.580 women want because women don't want to get married a lot of times just for the ceremony they want the 1.00
00:02:41.700 security that comes with it from a legal perspective too well you keep thinking of it in terms of
00:02:45.480 comparison about who benefits more men or women i'm just saying as a man getting married islamically
00:02:49.780 why are you not viewing that as a measure of success because not everyone's muslim well for you
00:02:54.220 for you oh for me yeah no i wouldn't no i wouldn't i wouldn't look at it i think my success is way more
00:02:59.760 like me being a successful man is way more important than getting married so how do you measure success
00:03:03.920 just financially status finances respect from peers world impact all that i prioritize over getting
00:03:11.040 married because that's going to heavily dictate the um the success of the marriage in the first place 1.00
00:03:16.060 but having a successful marriage that's going to elevate your status and and remember i'm not just
00:03:20.720 attribute i'm speaking generally i'm not just speaking for myself i'm saying like in general
00:03:24.220 like most people aren't muslim most people are not necessarily going to look at marriage through
00:03:28.100 that same islamic lens and they're not going to be able to get married in the masjid without all 0.99
00:03:31.520 the um serious consequences that can hit them like getting married regularly so that you're only
00:03:35.820 viewing your status based on the miami world but when it comes to the arabic world or the muslim world
00:03:39.820 your status is elevated when you're married 100 but yeah that's in the muslim world but i'm
00:03:44.980 speaking in general bro you're speaking about well you're in general it's just miami
00:03:48.180 no in the world in the world muslim man there's two billion muslims in the world i get that but
00:03:53.800 there's a lot more people that are not muslim that are not muslim so i'm speaking generally like
00:03:58.660 outside okay within the confinements of islam cool getting married is a huge uh you know it's a huge
00:04:03.940 thing but i'm speaking generally outside in all religions and all sex people that are atheists
00:04:08.560 people that are religious whatever it may be like in general marriage is a woman's game that's 1.00
00:04:12.720 her measurement of success for you it's not as high even for non-muslims don't you think if you're 0.96
00:04:16.320 going to talk about status more people are going to respect you if you're married more people are
00:04:19.740 going to respect a halal relationship where you're where you actually took that relationship seriously
00:04:24.700 and you got married so you're saying that's the only benefit i'm not saying it's the only benefit
00:04:28.220 but you're he's listing success as a measure as uh as a as your success he said status and
00:04:34.760 i'm asking how you measure success okay look you being a successful man is way more important than
00:04:40.940 being married period okay but that's all i'm saying that's you being a successful man is way more
00:04:49.800 important than being married on the other hand a woman being married is way more important than her 1.00
00:04:53.600 being successful but you're saying you're attributing status to success and i'm saying
00:04:58.060 marriage elevates your status even outside of the islamic world so if you're going to use status as a
00:05:02.860 measure of success marriage elevates that it's not just status it's financial uh financial literacy
00:05:08.100 well financial success as well all that is built there's a bunch of components that go into success
00:05:13.140 but what i'm saying is that marriage is not as high in the total pole for a man as it is for a woman
00:05:18.200 that's what i'm saying i agree with you but so then what are we arguing well because you you're just
00:05:23.660 i'm wondering what you think success is as a man because at a cap like after 10 maybe 30 million
00:05:28.680 dollars there's only so far that your status can elevate it's not easy to achieve you got like
00:05:32.640 you're saying that as if it's easy that's tough okay but so once you hit 30 million and then your
00:05:37.160 status isn't really like 30 million to a billion dollars your status isn't that much different
00:05:40.540 cool get go ahead and get married go crazy but what i'm saying is that it's better to achieve that
00:05:44.960 success first before marriage but for women their job is to get married first because no one gives a 1.00
00:05:49.820 fuck about their success okay so yes or no does marriage elevate your success in life and your 0.97
00:05:53.560 status as a man to a degree but not to the same significance of a female because women take on 1.00
00:05:59.220 that man's status when they get married versus the man does not take on her status when he gets
00:06:02.380 married so therefore men do not stand to benefit to the same degree from marriage that women do which 1.00
00:06:06.840 is why it's so high on a female total of being married but you kind of changed because at first 0.99
00:06:09.960 you're like it doesn't matter at all now you're saying it does matter not to a significant to the same
00:06:13.680 significance of being uh successful okay you have a lot to learn sneaker a lot to learn tell me one
00:06:20.800 thing about what that i have to learn a lot okay he's trolling no i'm not serious last thoughts from
00:06:31.060 you miss her
00:06:40.180 you