SNEAKO - August 25, 2022


SNEAKO Reacts to Jordan Peterson On Pr0n!


Episode Stats

Length

22 minutes

Words per Minute

177.0886

Word Count

3,978

Sentence Count

398

Misogynist Sentences

20

Hate Speech Sentences

16


Summary

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In today's episode, Jordan Peterson talks about why porn is bad for you and how to quit it. He also gives practical advice on how to stop playing with yourself and focus on what you can do to have a better life.

Transcript

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Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 Jordan Peterson stop playing with yourself. What advice would you give to someone looking to quit
00:00:05.800 porn? I would say it is WL. How many of you have quit porn? W means you quit L means you still
00:00:12.800 isn't that you're trying to quit porn. It's not the right way to think about it. The right way
00:00:19.300 to think about it is that you're trying to figure out how to have a better life. In today's video
00:00:24.320 Jordan Peterson talks about why it is bad for you and how to quit it. Stick around to the end for
00:00:31.780 Jordan's non-mainstream practical advice to quit porn for good. This one's life-changing so pay
00:00:37.440 attention. There might be codicils to that freedom of expression some potential educational utility
00:00:44.900 the pleasure that's a consequence of there's a lot of L's in here everybody who's typing L you gotta
00:00:51.080 quit. That's the worst thing for your brain I think as a young man and my my audience is like
00:00:55.400 95% Gen Z millennial men. You need to quit. You really need to stop now and then you know what
00:01:01.140 the follow-up question is? You just stop doing it. What do you what do you want me to tell you to do?
00:01:07.500 Don't type in the website. Take it. Do you need me to explain to stop yanking your meat? Just stop
00:01:15.300 doing it. That simple. Stop it. It's so bad for you. You're feeding your energy away to companies
00:01:22.440 that want to take away all of your dopamine. All of your energy. Weaker. Weaker. Weaker. Every bust.
00:01:31.440 Stop it. Stop paying for OF girls. Stop looking at Instagram at all these thoughts.
00:01:38.280 Just separate it. Focus on yourself. Protect your energy. Bob and weave all the distractions and watch
00:01:44.140 what you're capable of. It worked for me. It worked for me. That's what I know. I'm not a
00:01:49.480 self-help guru. I'm not a self-improvement guru. I'm just telling you it worked for me and I know
00:01:54.080 that it's damaging for your brain. It's satisfying the simplest dopamine receptors in your mind. Just
00:01:59.640 stop doing it. Stop. That simple. Stop. You want me to yell at you? Stop. Fuck is wrong with you?
00:02:07.860 Stop doing that. Your life will be better. You know it's not making you happy. You know what most
00:02:13.080 YouTubers will tell you? Like KSI? LSI? Will say that I'm feeding my audience bullshit.
00:02:20.540 He just tweeted that at me saying I'm going to keep on telling my audience bullshit while
00:02:24.660 he has prawn stars in the Sidemen Tinder video so they can all advertise their websites and
00:02:30.480 their platform. They know their audience is a bunch of 12-year-olds who are very likely to
00:02:35.380 go pay for that and at the same time call my course the Creativity Kit, which is closed now,
00:02:41.600 call it a scam. Knowing that they're just making their audience dumber, weaker, and more tired.
00:02:51.120 Draining their audience of their energy and they still have the audacity. KSI has the audacity to say
00:02:56.820 that I'm feeding my audience bullshit while also saying I'm just an entertainer. Not everything has
00:03:04.040 to have a bigger message, mate. Okay. Then don't say that I'm feeding bullshit if you're feeding
00:03:09.820 nothing. I know that I said that I was just entertaining in the past. I had like 1-2,000
00:03:13.820 viewers in my life. Now this shit is 10x. I gotta have a message now. The Tates got banned. Tristan
00:03:19.400 Tate passed me the torch. I gotta keep the message alive. I cannot just be an entertainer. Someone
00:03:24.220 needs a role model now. Someone out there. It could be important. Most of you don't. Most of you just
00:03:28.660 want to laugh at these jokes. Bumbaka. Funny. But there's a lot of people watching this who
00:03:33.420 need to hear this. Stop watching porn now. Stop mindlessly scrolling on TikTok. It's making
00:03:41.320 you fucking stupid. Make some money on this shit. Don't let all the OF girls take all your
00:03:48.360 money. Get to it. Someone just heard that and their life should improve after hearing that.
00:03:55.060 You can't just hear this and get a dopamine release from me saying that. You need to apply
00:03:58.060 yourself and actually do it. There you go. There's the motivational bullshit ass speech for the day.
00:04:02.520 Or you can listen to your favorite YouTubers who are popping antidepressants. Man, cancel that.
00:04:08.020 Thank God Tate's banned. Yeah, amen. Praise God that Tate was banned. You can listen to other people
00:04:13.700 preying on other people's downfall or listen to me. I know I sound like an angry piece of shit,
00:04:18.920 but I have a positive message. Follow God. Make yourself better. Improve. That's my message.
00:04:24.240 Laugh at everything. Have freedom of speech. Have open dialogue and real conversation. Don't be afraid
00:04:31.780 of confrontation. That's my message. And I know I'm just here like some people just going to call me a
00:04:36.780 goofy clown or something. Yeah, this shit is supposed to be funny too. But at least I have a message.
00:04:41.500 I'm going to say, I have nothing to say. I'm just KSI. Go beat your meats, lads. Fuck off.
00:04:49.580 And unfollow me. I don't give a fuck. I'm not a clout demon. You know what he tweeted out? He's like,
00:04:54.280 oh, thank God I haven't got enough time to talk to you. I've been doing YouTube for way longer.
00:04:59.720 All right. Fine. I don't care. If you think you're too important to talk about this stuff,
00:05:04.180 then keep on encouraging your 12-year-old audience to go spend their money on OnlyFans. That's what you
00:05:08.980 want to do. Sexual utilization of pornographic material. But I would still say, seeing all
00:05:14.280 that, that it's not a net social good. It doesn't do the people who produce it or who consume it any
00:05:20.440 good. And I don't believe that anyone feels like a better human being after utilizing pornography for
00:05:27.860 sexual gratification. Now you might say, well, that's because they've been shamed about sex since
00:05:32.440 they're born. And, you know, and that's a consequence of our crooked culture. And, you know,
00:05:36.600 in a utopian world, we wouldn't have that shame. And it's way more complicated than that.
00:05:42.160 You know, I read something in one of the YouTube comments in my video the other day,
00:05:45.720 I was talking to Abigail Schreier about the apparent fact that today's teenagers are having
00:05:50.820 much less sex. One person commented that there's the shame that men feel when sex is a spectator
00:05:58.280 sport rather than a participatory act. And then you think, well, the mere fact that you're watching
00:06:03.540 two other people, one of whom isn't you having sex, instead of having sex, it implies something
00:06:10.600 about your desirability. You don't belong.
00:06:14.560 It's pretty hard to shake that, isn't it? Or your courage. Why is it that you're sitting there
00:06:19.320 alone at night with your laptop on your lap? What the hell's wrong with you? Well, nothing. It's just,
00:06:24.920 we should dispense with sexual shame. It's like, no, probably not. That's probably not the answer.
00:06:30.720 Well, it's like Treasure Island in Pinocchio. It's all pleasure with no responsibility. That's
00:06:37.060 deadening. It's parasitical in a sense. And I'm not making a value judgment. I mean, it's no wonder
00:06:42.520 the young guys are caught up in this because it's an unbelievably powerful technology. It drove the
00:06:47.240 development of the internet. Let's not forget, right? So it taps into one viciously primordial
00:06:52.180 motivation. And so these guys are being blasted by what biologists call super stimuli all the time.
00:06:58.080 So imagine that there's a biological stimulus that has an effect on you and then you can magnify it.
00:07:03.860 And the typical porn actress, not the amateurs, but the professionals have their sexually provocative
00:07:10.640 physical elements exaggerated. This is definitely going to get demonetized. I'm not going to be able
00:07:15.500 to get a clip out of this, but I'm going to post it anyway, because you can't talk about this stuff.
00:07:19.440 But I think it's important to see. I'm such an angel for playing this.
00:07:23.080 And so men are very visual in terms of their sexual processing. And so the guys are pulled
00:07:29.400 into it and they're pulled into it also by curiosity. But I think that ethically, it's a,
00:07:33.800 it's not good. It's not good.
00:07:35.720 I really, I'm jacking. This is the most, I'm not jacking, but I'm jacking that this is the worst
00:07:40.980 thing for young men possible. It tells them, here's a quick fix to something that's difficult.
00:07:46.060 Learning how to talk to girls, learning how to game them, learning how to close, learning how to
00:07:50.000 stroke it right. Instead of doing all that work, here's in 30 seconds, done. I'm jacking that jacking
00:07:56.320 off is the worst thing for you. It's, it's an easy out. That's the other thing. What you should be
00:08:00.600 doing is going out and finding someone to have a relationship with. But let's say you can't find
00:08:05.160 someone. Well, then you might say that's an indication you should change. It is in fact an
00:08:09.460 indication that you should change. Because what better indication are you going to get than that no one
00:08:14.420 wants to be intimate with you. It's the ultimate rejection. And that's partly why men are terrified of it.
00:08:18.880 And I understand that. And I understand the MGTOW guys, you know, who are recommending that men don't
00:08:25.500 enter into long-term permanent relationships with women. I understand where they're coming from.
00:08:29.540 Well, they're providing a lot of young guys who need a kick to go out there. Right. They're actually
00:08:33.900 giving them the back door. They're giving them a rationale. Yeah. And I've seen this have very
00:08:37.760 detrimental effects on a number of people already. And partly in my clinical practice, because the
00:08:42.520 young guys who... I don't understand why so many people hate on Jordan Peterson. Every time I listen to
00:08:46.900 him, he sounds like a very reasonable guy. He seems like a nice dude. But he gets the most amount of
00:08:51.560 hate I've ever seen from a white guy who hasn't said anything racist yet. He's just a nice guy who
00:08:56.680 cares about people clearly. But people will storm his protest. W.L. and Jordan Peterson. I don't get
00:09:02.640 it. I want to see a poll right now. How many of you hate him? I don't even get it. I really don't.
00:09:07.520 People who aren't successful, they're looking for a reason why women are terrible. Because otherwise,
00:09:12.180 they have to think, well, they're just not presentable. Which is what they do have to
00:09:15.380 think. Because that's almost the definition of presentable. And then the MGTOW guys give them
00:09:20.080 a rationale. You know, we are in a gynocentric world and females have got control and they'll
00:09:24.520 wipe you out if they have the opportunity. It's like some females will do that to some guys some of
00:09:30.040 the time. And sometimes it's brutal. I've had clients who've been dragged through the court
00:09:34.980 systems and just ruined. And I was unable to help them. I did everything I could to maneuver and
00:09:41.960 negotiate and plan and strategize so carefully to get them to do everything right. And it didn't help.
00:09:49.080 I mean, the court systems can be absolutely brutal to men. It's awful.
00:09:53.320 Yeah, that's really interesting. So the guys that are taking the easy out on that, so to speak,
00:09:56.800 and disconnecting from having those relationships, in a way, it's the same. It's just a different
00:10:00.780 out that porn is replacing for that human connection to it.
00:10:04.160 There's a novelty edge in pornography, like there is in so many quasi-addictive phenomena.
00:10:10.120 Because novelty is a sexual kick, it has to stay novel. And that means that over time,
00:10:14.240 it's going to become more extreme. So that's not good. Well, so how do you resensitize yourself
00:10:19.260 in some sense? Well, you stop. You stop. And then hopefully you recover. And then you deprive
00:10:26.200 yourself of that outlet, let's say. And you might say, well, you know, is that absolutely necessary?
00:10:31.660 And maybe there's nothing wrong with pornography. It's like, well, I don't know, man. Like,
00:10:35.960 have you ever really met a guy who is proud of that? Like, you know what I mean? That makes
00:10:40.260 them feel like, I'm the guy, man. You know, I'm watching pornography and getting off. What a man.
00:10:46.060 I don't believe anyone feels that. And to me, that's an indication that, yeah, we know.
00:10:50.360 No, it's pretty cheap. It's cheap. It's easy. You know, I say that knowing that I believe the
00:10:56.280 research evidence shows that if you introduce pornography into a community, that rates of
00:11:01.800 sexual crime committed by men upon women actually decline. So there is perhaps some utility in the
00:11:08.220 outlet. But, you know, that's a unidimensional analysis and doesn't take into account all the
00:11:12.560 other effects of pornography. So, including the ones you described. And I think that those are real.
00:11:18.500 It makes sense that they're real, you know, because it's super satiation.
00:11:22.400 It's a non-trivial technological problem. You know, it's now possible for young men to look
00:11:26.520 at more beautiful nude women in one day than any man has ever seen, you know, prior to 10 years ago,
00:11:32.500 20 years ago, than any man in history had ever seen. That's not nothing. That's something.
00:11:38.380 And to think that doesn't do anything to you, it's like, no, that likely does something to you.
00:11:43.160 So, don't substitute the false for the real. And don't underestimate the utility of deprivation.
00:11:49.800 What advice would you give to someone looking to quit porn?
00:11:53.720 Well, I gave some advice a little earlier about quitting alcohol, you know, and I would say,
00:11:59.060 it isn't that you're trying to quit porn. It's not the right way to think about it.
00:12:02.960 The right way to think about it is that you're...
00:12:04.620 Trying to figure out how to way to live a better life.
00:12:07.000 Trying to...
00:12:07.500 Yo, you're on my dick. My push-ups is perfect. I'm gonna do fucking...
00:12:11.000 What do you mean, bro?
00:12:14.640 I'm touching the fucking floor. I can't go lower.
00:12:19.400 Why are you on my dick?
00:12:22.040 Figure out how to have a better life. And so you have to figure out, well, I would say,
00:12:27.160 do the future authoring program and keep your porn addiction in mind and think.
00:12:31.960 So, in the first part of the future authoring program, it asks you a bunch of questions about
00:12:36.460 what your life could be like in three to five years if you took care of yourself like you were
00:12:40.640 someone that you cared for. Then it asks you questions about your friends and your family and
00:12:45.200 your career and your time outside of work and your health and, you know, the important dimensions of
00:12:50.520 life. And it asks you to spend 20 minutes writing about how good your life could be in three to five
00:12:55.900 years if you got your act together and did what was good for you. And then it asks you to write
00:12:59.540 about the hell you could be in if you didn't. And so I would say you really need to do that because
00:13:04.020 porn isn't the issue. The issue is that you're not living your life the way you want to. And so
00:13:08.980 you need a vision of life that's more compelling than the porn.
00:13:13.320 You see why you get so much hate? Every guy, they always boil it down to the worst opinion that they
00:13:18.800 can clip up in eight seconds. Jordan Peterson says there's two genders. Andrew Tate hates the women.
00:13:24.960 So that's what they focus on forever. But they ignore the long form content when they're trying to
00:13:29.120 make people have a better life. They're trying to help the mental health problem with men.
00:13:34.080 They're trying to encourage people to work and improve, but they'll just clip up the worst like
00:13:40.660 and that's what the rest of social media focuses on. Pay attention. These are good people.
00:13:48.080 The people that are silenced the most are good people.
00:13:50.960 And you need a counter vision too that frightens you, you know, because otherwise porn is obviously
00:13:57.480 extraordinarily gratifying in the short term. But look at Visa Visa Master. One last jerk,
00:14:03.020 then I'm done. We could shake on it. First off, I don't want to touch a stank ass fucking gooey hand.
00:14:07.340 No, stop now, bitch. You can't, you cannot, Visa Visa, you cannot come back to my stream if you fucking
00:14:14.200 never. No, leave. Go to fucking L3L3. That's where you can do that. Do that in last and obvious
00:14:21.680 stream. Get the fuck up out of my stream. But you seem to be suffering from the medium to long-term
00:14:26.000 consequences of its use. And so you need a story that you can tell yourself that's really deeply
00:14:32.220 thought through about why this is not appropriate for you. What's what it's how it's hurting you and
00:14:38.240 how it's minimizing you and perhaps making you embarrassed and ashamed and more socially isolated
00:14:43.220 and all of that. So I would say, think about it as cleaning up your psyche and your behavior rather
00:14:50.460 than merely stopping porn. You also might want to write down and you could do this in the negative
00:14:55.680 vision part of this. This really helps out my life too. Writing down specific goals that I could
00:15:00.760 actually achieve. And I say, you say goofy, you do fucking dirty pushups right now and then talk back
00:15:06.260 to me, dummy. You're going to write down everything bad that you think porn is doing to you because
00:15:11.960 obviously you have some suspicions that this is not good for you, right? That it's actually harming
00:15:17.320 you in some important way. And so you need to be fully cognizant of what those ways are and then
00:15:23.540 take them seriously and decide if that's the pathway through life on which you wish to travel.
00:15:29.260 And so then I would also say good luck to you. You know, it's a very good idea to identify one of
00:15:34.700 your weaknesses and work on it. You can, you can strengthen yourself substantially if I do.
00:15:41.440 If you think Jordan's a-
00:15:42.660 Woo! Let's go, Chad! Moosa, keep this in the clip. Chad, do 30 with me right now.
00:15:48.760 Do 30 with me right now.
00:15:52.280 I'm doing this!
00:15:56.240 Perfect for him, I swear to God. If you fucking owe my dick, bro, I'm never doing it. Actually,
00:15:59.900 just, I don't give a fuck. Fuck you.
00:16:01.180 Perfect for him, bro!
00:16:19.320 If you didn't do that with me, I need to do 10 more. If you didn't do that with me,
00:16:22.640 go to L3, L3, Ethan Declines podcast and never come back. You don't belong here. 10 more.
00:16:27.920 Go watch Rasanabe cancel someone else, pussy!
00:16:43.760 Easy! Easy!
00:16:45.520 And now they're going to say, why are you breathing so heavy? Why are you breathing so heavy?
00:16:57.640 Easy!
00:17:04.900 Yeah!
00:17:08.740 Alright.
00:17:11.140 Okay.
00:17:12.460 Before we watch Matt Walsh,
00:17:14.620 mid-form, bro, bro.
00:17:21.120 That was perfect for him. Shut up. I'm not even going to get triggered. I know that was perfect for him.
00:17:24.840 Jesus Christ is king, praise God. Faith in Christ helps fight against pran. Jesus helped me with my addiction and reading the word of God made me stronger.
00:17:32.600 W, Christianity.
00:17:33.980 W, Jesus.
00:17:34.860 W, Allah.
00:17:35.520 I know my God!
00:17:36.900 W, God.
00:17:38.640 Wad.
00:17:39.040 Why are you breathing so hard? I'm tired, bro. I'm not even tired. I just did push. I just did 50. I just did 50. Light work.
00:17:54.300 I'm one of the lucky members to have purchased the Creativity Kit in time. It's really amazing what you have put together. You should add a lesson in the kit to signify the importance of goal making.
00:18:00.900 Okay, I got you. Lucky that you got in the Creativity Kit before it closed. I really want to focus on the people that are in that hole. Sorry, all the people who are thinking about it. You missed out. You missed out.
00:18:14.060 And, yo, Trevor, we're going to do a conference call real soon. Look at the calendar.
00:18:18.620 Why are you breathing so heavy? Shut the fuck up, Sean!
00:18:21.440 I unsubscribed from L3 when he started attacking Jordan. He did! Of course he did! I didn't even know that!
00:18:32.140 It was so gross when I watched the way he demonized him. Of course he did. Predictable.
00:18:37.580 My family does not understand Andrew Tate's vids like yours, but they don't understand people like you and the Tate's people change lives like mine. Keep it up, brother. Keep it up!
00:18:44.740 Hey, did you do the push-ups? Did you do the push-ups in Northern Rides? I bet you didn't. I bet you fucking just did that super chat, but you didn't actually do the push-ups.
00:18:51.440 Okay. Okay. Can we stop breathing now? Take some water.
00:19:05.260 Go to therapy! You schizo! You mentally ill!
00:19:10.860 Hey, yeah.
00:19:11.320 I stopped consuming and started creating and blew up today. Can you react to my TikToks? What's your TikTok account?
00:19:27.300 Put it on Discord.
00:19:30.720 Discord.com slash Nico. That's a good community.
00:19:33.320 More motivation than the military has been able to give me in years?
00:19:41.100 Yo, W. Shiniko!
00:19:43.120 Military K!
00:19:44.300 What's up?
00:19:45.340 What's up?
00:19:46.560 Yeah, yeah, yeah!
00:19:48.140 Ha, ha, ha, ha!
00:19:49.940 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah!
00:19:52.200 What's up?
00:19:52.820 Eddie Tuck said, bro, I was going to buy the creativity kit when it was $2.50. Couldn't miss an opportunity like that.
00:20:03.020 The people who brought it at $2.50 have lifetime access, but right now it's $50 a month, but it's not like it matters because it's closed.
00:20:07.840 You can't even get in that hole.
00:20:09.780 I don't know. I'll probably re-release it soon.
00:20:16.820 Zach says, I had to hide at work to do my push-ups.
00:20:18.720 W. Yo, fuck your job!
00:20:21.640 Good, good on you, bro.
00:20:25.340 G Money said, join Creativity Kit in less than 24 hours ago, and I've already embarked on six business inventors.
00:20:30.500 Business inventors!
00:20:32.580 I'm talking like L3.
00:20:33.860 With like-minded folks, we're going to recommend it to everybody.
00:20:36.060 There we go!
00:20:36.900 Well, there you go. It's too late for a lot of people to join the Creativity Kit, but that's where I'm going to go when I get banned.
00:20:40.700 I'm probably going to stream on that, on the website, maybe.
00:20:42.980 I don't know.
00:20:43.520 Books that you recommend?
00:20:45.020 The Art of the Deal, Donald Trump.
00:20:48.720 Jay said, Fresh and Fit just violated KSI.
00:20:52.760 Yo, Muslim bros.
00:20:53.720 Shout out to Fresh and Fit.
00:20:55.920 LSI in the chat, bro!
00:20:58.100 I was just trolling.
00:21:00.060 Shut the fuck up.
00:21:05.480 But KSI would have won in a fight.
00:21:06.940 Like, let me be honest.
00:21:08.820 Rob Joe said, spread the word about Andrew and Tristan in all platforms such as Rumble and Getter.
00:21:12.560 W push-up form.
00:21:13.180 There we go!
00:21:14.260 Yo, why you on my dick, bro?
00:21:15.400 I can work on my form.
00:21:16.180 I can work on my form.
00:21:19.600 React to First Man's new video?
00:21:20.940 No.
00:21:24.440 Prone was an addiction in my life.
00:21:25.760 Thanks, Josh, for the 50.
00:21:27.240 Prone was an addiction in my life for a period of time, and I realized I wanted to have sexual
00:21:30.480 relationships with actual women, so I did, and I've never been happier.
00:21:33.940 Keep spreading the truth.
00:21:35.100 Much love, brother.
00:21:36.300 Shout out to you.
00:21:37.120 Stop giving away all your energy and money to...
00:21:40.420 OF!
00:21:41.800 Huh?
00:21:42.760 $4.99 to get sadder?
00:21:44.880 What are you doing?
00:21:46.740 What are you doing?
00:21:48.040 Oh, she messaged me back.
00:21:49.760 I think she likes me.
00:21:51.240 That's an agency, dummy!
00:21:53.600 That's a dude on the computer typing that to 10 other girls right now!
00:21:58.120 That ain't her!
00:21:59.160 Oh, she gave me some attention.
00:22:01.760 What are you...
00:22:02.680 Hot Tub Streamer, I love you!
00:22:05.400 She hates you!
00:22:07.520 She hates you!
00:22:09.900 There's no empathy!
00:22:11.380 She's there on the screen in front of 10,000 guys!
00:22:14.560 I love you!
00:22:15.840 What?
00:22:22.900 That's it.
00:22:23.680 Is it your job?
00:22:24.260 Anything?
00:22:25.100 What?
00:22:25.440 Oh, I, it!
00:22:25.900 Please, must be fair.
00:22:27.160 Thank you, sir.