SNEAKO - SNEAKO Reacts To Jubilee Debate： Trans VS Conservative Men!

00:00:00.000 Happy New Year, chat. Let's get into it.

00:00:01.960 High energy all year.

00:00:03.640 This is a great place to start.

00:00:04.560 Trans versus conservative men.

00:00:05.960 Is masculinity disappearing in America?

00:00:08.140 Actually, you know who looks like trans men?

00:00:10.680 I should just put up the collage.

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00:00:35.720 We're just redefining what being a man is. You have to understand you're redefining a fabric in society that has kept the human race and got it to where it is today.

00:00:43.800 But do you see the state of our world today? It's not perfect. And it's been led by men throughout all of history. And look where it's gone.

00:00:59.300 step forward if you agree with the prompt masculinity is disappearing in america and

00:01:09.880 shout out to the people making a documentary in the future chat can you say whittler and

00:01:13.560 wallaban right now just get them triggered before we even start this video

00:01:16.120 i think that masculinity is disappearing i think that it's a conservative effort to

00:01:25.200 to emasculate men. I think that some people feel threatened by masculinity and the typical way that

00:01:32.420 men carry themselves, leading families and different things like that. So I think that

00:01:37.220 there's an effort to mitigate strong men in America. There's a few different ways to think

00:01:42.660 about masculinity, but just looking at the definition of the term 50 years ago, you had

00:01:48.160 people like John Wayne, you had Martin Luther King, you had Sean Connery. You think of masculine

00:01:53.880 And now the role models are Tom Holland,

00:01:57.120 Lassenabi, Beards, Harry Trask.

00:01:59.440 Bro, you see Lassenabi kissing a dude

00:02:01.040 that he tweeted himself kissing Curtis Conner?

00:02:03.640 I should add him to the Soulboy list.

00:02:05.340 He looks exactly like one of these dudes on the list.

00:02:07.880 Big muscles, being stoic, being brave,

00:02:10.120 being rugged, being a provider.

00:02:13.000 Say you have, you know...

00:02:14.260 Bro, everybody should be sitting down for this question.

00:02:16.800 Masculinity is disappearing in America.

00:02:18.260 Of course it is.

00:02:19.120 Why would the trans people not sit down for this?

00:02:21.880 You are the...

00:02:22.460 If you're trans, it's just the opposite of masculinity.

00:02:25.080 People like Harry Styles and Timothee Chalamet,

00:02:27.380 you have people that are completely contrary to what we were looking at back then.

00:02:31.940 And those values of those masculine characteristics are completely devalued.

00:02:35.660 I do believe that masculinity is going downhill,

00:02:38.700 especially if you look at like testosterone levels.

00:02:41.700 Now the testosterone levels for guys is going down compared to generations before us.

00:02:46.060 So, yeah.

00:02:46.700 So, chat, no more vegan food in 2023.

00:02:49.500 Read in steaks, sparkling water.

00:02:52.460 Steaks every single day, eggs every day, we're working out every single day.

00:02:56.620 Don't, and semen retention, all of that, we need to raise our testosterone levels

00:03:00.400 because it gives you power and makes you feel better.

00:03:03.080 Happiness as a man is rooted in embracing your masculine nature.

00:03:08.500 I agree.

00:03:09.680 Hi, I'm Gilbert, I'm 24 years old and I'm a conservative man.

00:03:12.700 With my beliefs and having a trans man as my friend, we don't really talk about politics.

00:03:17.460 Someone being trans doesn't make me like them any less of a person.

00:03:21.200 As far as pronouns, when referring to my friend, I don't really use the pronouns that my friend would want.

00:03:27.780 I just say my friend or I say their name just because I feel like I'm giving into the narrative

00:03:31.620 that men can be women and women can be men if I use the pronouns.

00:03:34.620 And they force you. They shame you if you don't buy into their lie ideology.

00:03:39.400 That they want.

00:03:43.780 I do see that masculinity is under attack completely.

00:03:46.360 But my definition of masculinity, like you said, has a lot to do with the traits that are associated with it.

00:03:49.720 As a gay man, I mean, of all of us, you know, I mean, I'm not the most masculine.

00:03:53.100 What?

00:03:54.260 But I do think that the good aspects of masculinity are definitely under attack,

00:03:58.460 but I don't think that it's disappearing.

00:03:59.660 It's just being channeled in different ways.

00:04:01.620 It depends on how you look at it,

00:04:02.520 because a lot of the traits can also be embodied in women and femininity.

00:04:06.380 So when we look at masculinity, I think that we have to also look at

00:04:09.900 what is the actual definition of femininity and masculinity.

00:04:12.520 And if we're defining masculinity by being stoic or muscles or body parts,

00:04:17.780 then is it really masculinity?

00:04:19.720 A lot of times when you guys spoke about masculinity, you associate it with men being manly, but I think more women.

00:04:23.720 Whoa. Whoa, this GameStop employee is really convincing.

00:04:29.720 Are embracing their masculinity. Masculinity is still there. I mean, just other genders are using it.

00:04:33.720 Being courageous, being powerful, more women are standing in their power, which is again associated with masculine, but it's not specific to just men.

00:04:39.720 Women are no longer submissive, they're dominant. Women don't need men, and I think that most of America is realizing that anyone can be powerful on their own.

00:04:45.720 I believe that the masculine traits are inherently in men and men have to take a position.

00:04:50.100 You made a really good point by saying women are now becoming more masculine.

00:04:52.880 They feel as if they don't need men.

00:04:54.380 So then you should have sat down for the prompt.

00:04:56.580 If women are becoming men, then masculinity is disappearing.

00:05:00.180 Which I think is the problem here.

00:05:01.880 I think that the way we've been designed by God, in my opinion, is that men are to lead.

00:05:06.560 Men are to be strong.

00:05:07.420 Men are to be brave.

00:05:08.140 Men have to take their rightful position.

00:05:10.000 The way our country has been structured to this point have been because of strong men

00:05:14.080 who have taken a stand, who have fought wars.

00:05:16.020 Now I feel like it's getting so lopsided

00:05:17.620 that our families are degrading.

00:05:19.780 People don't know where they're at in this country.

00:05:21.280 Now in 2022, masculinity is being redefined.

00:05:24.200 And I think what happens is people get upset

00:05:26.000 when things start to change.

00:05:27.700 I think that nobody ever wants to take that away from men.

00:05:30.420 I think that what we want to do-

00:05:31.740 Bruh, seriously?

00:05:33.440 Bruh.

00:05:34.900 Really?

00:05:37.880 In the world now is start to understand what is masculinity

00:05:40.600 and it's always been really associated

00:05:41.900 with this very machismo space.

00:05:43.940 Hey, shout out to the dick rider in the chat that just gave me a dollar to say some old meme.

00:05:49.420 Man, it's the first day of the year and you chose to ride my dick.

00:05:52.380 Thank you for your money, pussy.

00:05:53.560 And now there's different kinds of men in the world.

00:05:55.160 There's not just biological men.

00:05:56.600 There's also trans men or people who want to be masculine.

00:05:59.340 Thanks for the 20, Blake.

00:06:00.460 I want a Nike contract with this.

00:06:02.620 Do you recommend I post all Nike on Insta and try to get myself a contract?

00:06:05.640 Oh, no, homo.

00:06:06.940 I'm 6'4".

00:06:07.520 But you're asking too many questions in the chat.

00:06:09.000 Talk to me in the creativity case.

00:06:09.940 So I think what's happening now is people are pushing against change.

00:06:12.880 because change is scary and people don't understand.

00:06:15.380 And so I think men, biological men, feel under attack

00:06:17.800 when I think that's not what's happening here.

00:06:19.580 The point that you made is 100% correct.

00:06:21.880 There are different phases and people are experiencing it in different ways.

00:06:24.520 The feminist movement is, I think they are attacking masculinity within men.

00:06:28.300 I don't want a man to open the door for me.

00:06:30.200 I don't need a man in my life.

00:06:31.280 I can do all these different things.

00:06:32.580 What they're doing is attacking men and that's what's causing the problem.

00:06:34.740 What part of the feminist group feels like it's attacking?

00:06:36.700 Because I know that most feminism is like wanting equal pay or...

00:06:39.540 Well, you just said that women not needing men is somehow empowering.

00:06:42.240 you know having a man is somehow less empowering or being an individual is somehow less that's how

00:06:46.680 women feel women actually are saying that because no women don't feel that way they've been

00:06:50.160 programmed to believe that they're all unhappy because they end up 35 with a cat they want to

00:06:55.180 be submissive to a man this is not how they feel this is what instagram is telling them to feel

00:06:59.220 that's how they feel it's like that's not how every woman feels but no i'm saying everyone

00:07:02.300 they're only women speak for themselves so all of you are going to have different opinions as

00:07:06.020 biological men absolutely women all have different opinions oh you see a very specific group of

00:07:09.840 women saying this let me just you just you did just say that's how women feels are you speaking

00:07:13.080 on behalf of all no no i know i'm not let me take that back i got you the women who are saying that

00:07:18.760 feel that way why do you feel what you see how do you see what the the actual the bigger conversation

00:07:25.580 is like we i can go back and forth with destiny i can go back and forth to live all uh forever

00:07:30.340 and ever and ever the debate is ultimately logic versus emotion the left the woke movement all of

00:07:37.820 their opinions their whole belief system is based in feeling and emotion where the conservative

00:07:43.340 idea natural believing in god family values all that that is just logical it's factual this is why

00:07:51.940 they are changing the definitions of these words that's why they're telling you you could be fat

00:07:56.920 and it's good that's why they justify or they say that we need more help and more taxes and we need

00:08:01.960 more benefits from the government is because they don't want to take personal responsibility for

00:08:04.940 themselves because it makes them feel bad so the woke movement is just prioritizing your feeling

00:08:10.800 that's what the debate always goes down to that's why the weaker people are always on the side of

00:08:16.500 of woke but you notice how actually beautiful submissive feminine women end up becoming

00:08:23.280 conservative or just start making sense because they realize that they want to be submissive to

00:08:27.680 a man it doesn't make them feel bad to set their ego aside and be like yeah i want to be with a

00:08:33.240 traditionally masculine man feel that women in general feel disempowered no i don't think in

00:08:39.000 general no no no that's a generalized statement i can't you can't say that i said you're the women

00:08:41.980 no i did not i said the women who say that you associated somehow women are now embracing

00:08:46.560 masculinity which means that they are now more empowered because they don't need a man or when

00:08:50.560 men feel empowered thanks it's so sad to see they are so brainwashed i mean it is but the only thing

00:08:57.360 we could do is is become better ourselves you know you're not going to change everybody's mind

00:09:02.200 like you see people get so upset that they end up in my chat donating money to fucking talk shit

00:09:06.700 it's just like it it is sad it's sad how brainwashed people are but what are you going to do

00:09:12.540 about it fix their brain when women but i don't think that women's empowerment comes from having

00:09:17.280 a man or not having a man so why is it always associated that uh you know a woman's now

00:09:21.060 empowered because she doesn't need a man a woman has always been empowered women have never been

00:09:24.180 but they never felt that's not true i mean if we go back to the 1920s if you're going to do that

00:09:28.000 but that's not what we're talking about we're talking about society right now right now you

00:09:30.720 actually think women are empowered right now? Absolutely. Women are empowered. Women are in

00:09:34.120 charge right now. As the vice president. And how long did it take for her to become a vice president?

00:09:38.160 There is a right and wrong way to be a man. Yes. All the conservatives are going to sit down

00:09:44.320 and then the trans people are going to stay standing. Take a second to think about it.

00:09:51.360 What? What? I think that when I originally heard the question being asked, I didn't agree with it,

00:10:00.240 but men are not abusive individuals men are not to be cowards men are to leave their families

00:10:07.220 and men who do not display that I don't believe that they are men in my opinion and all of the

00:10:11.940 qualities that I see in my father is what I believe a man should be all of those characteristics are

00:10:15.480 what make a man and when I see a man be a coward in the truth and just speaking the truth or

00:10:20.200 I'm sticking up for what's right especially today in America with everything going on I'm like

00:10:23.540 those are not men my name is Clarkson I'm 24 years old and I'm a conservative man my biggest

00:10:28.160 question for the other side really is are you happy anybody that wants to fundamentally change

00:10:32.720 society and change gender roles to me that that's not happiness and if if we want to fight for

00:10:36.720 acceptance we need to start with acceptance which is accepting society for what it is

00:10:43.520 at the end of the day we're all men and i don't believe there's any any wrong you're not though

00:10:48.320 like no no way to be a man we're just redefining what it means to be a man so redefining means

00:10:57.280 there are things that naturally come to men so when you say we're just redefining what being a

00:11:01.120 man is you have to understand you're redefining a fabric in society that has kept the human race

00:11:05.600 and got it to where it is today so just like aimlessly throwing out oh well we're just

00:11:08.880 redefining what it is to be a man that's not just like a light subject that we should be talking

00:11:12.240 about but why do you have to stay the same why do we need to have the same thing for hundreds of

00:11:15.280 years do you not see the same thing it's just keeping the same qualities but do you see the

00:11:19.280 state of our world today it's not perfect it's and it's been led by men like throughout all of

00:11:23.840 of history and look where it's gone so you're you know we're talking about redesigning what it means

00:11:28.160 to be a man so what do you want to bring to traditional men i think it's embracing that

00:11:31.840 you can be vulnerable i think that a lot of men want to portray strength strength strength but

00:11:35.760 men are people and i know that men have feelings being a man and masculinity those are two different

00:11:39.760 things and i believe that we can redefine whatever that means to anybody by including other types of

00:11:45.360 men or other types of masculinity i myself am a father i have a child some people would disagree

00:11:49.280 You're a father? That's a trans? I don't get it. What?

00:11:53.280 Being a father because I am transgender.

00:11:55.140 But that being said, I present to the world as male.

00:11:57.300 My child sees me as a man.

00:11:58.420 There's proper ways to be vulnerable, right?

00:11:59.940 You don't have to break down in front of your family and cry.

00:12:01.800 It's okay to suffer silence as well.

00:12:03.480 Strong men, I believe, exude the qualities that you guys are referring to.

00:12:06.760 I think the problem is overcorrection, right?

00:12:09.380 Some people believe that men need to cry and lay on the ground and be feminine.

00:12:13.180 No. Therapy is a giant scam.

00:12:15.760 Imagine the look on the face of a therapist.

00:12:17.860 I was thinking about this today

00:12:19.580 How happy you must be as a therapist

00:12:21.860 To see a blue haired girl walk in

00:12:24.600 Just

00:12:25.020 You just know

00:12:30.720 You're about to make 10 bands a month

00:12:33.020 Off of her

00:12:33.880 It's just

00:12:35.580 That must be the best feeling

00:12:37.680 Imagine being a therapist

00:12:39.960 And you see one of these people walk in

00:12:41.640 I'm like

00:12:42.020 I'm going to the strip club

00:12:43.860 I'm ordering steaks

00:12:46.500 i'm buying nikes for all my kids i'm taking out a lump bro seeing them walk in you might it must

00:12:54.920 put such a giant smile on your face because they're never going to be fixed they don't

00:12:59.140 actually want to get better they're going to constantly go back whereas if you're if you make

00:13:03.540 sense as a man you're going to know that there's nothing really that you're going to learn in

00:13:07.700 therapy that you can't figure out for yourself get over it thank you for your 20 uh i want to

00:13:12.820 podcast with you host um talk to me in my discord i want to know where actually message my my manager

00:13:18.040 on instagram islam with an x is lxm women my name is brandon i'm 34 years old and i'm a conservative

00:13:24.340 man i had a lot of curiosities about what it's like to be a person who believes that they're

00:13:29.020 a trans man you know i feel like god has created all of us very uniquely and although i have

00:13:33.500 beliefs and i follow the bible to the t i still want to know from other people what their experiences

00:13:38.300 are doesn't mean i have to agree but i really want to know what other people are feeling from

00:13:42.680 person who's experiencing it real time i have male privilege uh-oh are the trans gonna sit down

00:13:51.800 of course they are yeah

00:13:57.000 i've lived both lives and i can tell you firsthand that it does exist i am taken much more seriously

00:14:01.240 in my career since i transitioned as a man prior to transitioning i would work just as hard if not

00:14:05.640 harder for the same position and not be considered the minute that i transition i am immediately

00:14:09.240 taken more seriously well that's a privilege because what it's a privilege that you have to

00:14:12.940 work women don't have to work as hard as men because they are supposed to be at home nurturing

00:14:18.160 cooking cleaning making macaroni paintings for the kids it's not it's just different roles that

00:14:23.200 men and women play i'm not going to say imagine if i was a man to say women are privileged because

00:14:27.600 they can just cook all the time women are privileged because they can do my laundry like

00:14:33.580 Like, no, it's just different opportunities, different roles.

00:14:37.760 Seriously, I can give you an example.

00:14:39.280 Obviously, with COVID, there's like the mask mandate, right?

00:14:41.080 So I have to tell customers all the time,

00:14:42.440 I need to be above your nose, right?

00:14:43.400 I do that all day.

00:14:43.940 My manager who's above me, who is a woman,

00:14:45.560 will have to go to them, tell them they give her a fight.

00:14:47.120 But the minute I just look in their direction, it's up.

00:14:49.220 It doesn't seem like a privilege,

00:14:50.400 but it is because now my manager has to work three times harder

00:14:52.260 for something that's so simple.

00:14:53.940 I think the word privilege is the thing that turns a lot of people off

00:14:56.480 with this conversation.

00:14:57.760 But that being said, again, myself living my life as a female,

00:15:00.400 pretty much half of my life, and then now half of my life as a man,

00:15:02.820 there is no way i could not be honest about the fact that my life has changed drastically also

00:15:06.500 being a white man that's also as a white man they always got to bring this into race it's just all

00:15:10.780 the woke shit comes out someone chat said damn if i sold thank you third whip i sold hormone

00:15:14.880 medication i'd be calling you a broke you sneaker exactly this is there's an entire business around

00:15:21.240 profiting off of their retardation you can make so much money from therapy selling medication

00:15:28.140 putting fat people on billboards it's a whole business conversation a lot of people don't want

00:15:34.200 to have but i have privilege of being white and privilege also being a man now i can walk into

00:15:37.940 any room and command that room in a heartbeat because people just do that with men and i think

00:15:41.780 the thing is that biological men are born into that space so they'll never ever see it why do

00:15:46.120 we now as women who have become men get to have this thing it's 100 because we are men we look

00:15:51.400 like men nobody would ever know no one would ever know that i wouldn't know that i used to be women

00:15:55.540 So it's actually a real lived experience.

00:16:01.040 So I agree with a lot of what you all are saying as far as like transitioning.

00:16:06.220 But as a black man, privilege looks way different for me.

00:16:09.180 Because if I'm walking down the street, then I'm seen as a threat by police, by women, by anybody else.

00:16:13.060 Being seen as a man is where my privilege stops and where everything else begins.

00:16:17.020 So I don't see it as privilege.

00:16:18.260 Okay, I got a lot to say about this topic here.

00:16:21.120 First of all, I mean, we have to be transparent and honest with each other.

00:16:23.440 You know, I think that not everybody on this side presents 100% like a man.

00:16:29.180 Like, if I saw you in the streets, I wouldn't think you were a man.

00:16:31.280 You know, men have it really hard in this world, and they've always had it hard in this world.

00:16:33.960 The wars have been fought by men.

00:16:35.220 No, I think the two on the left, I wouldn't think.

00:16:37.260 I would just think that they work at GameStop.

00:16:39.820 They've died in the hundreds of thousands.

00:16:41.140 Men commit suicide more.

00:16:42.240 Men work more dangerous jobs.

00:16:43.820 You know, if somebody broke in this place right now, who they're going to expect to defend?

00:16:46.820 Everybody in here is going to be the men.

00:16:48.080 If your family fails, they're not looking at your wife.

00:16:50.380 They're not.

00:16:50.840 They're looking at the man.

00:16:51.480 you know i just want people to understand it there's there's there's there's some advantages

00:16:55.100 that men have and then also men do struggle and custody and all kinds of different things as soon

00:16:59.720 as the dangerous situation arises everybody reverts back to their gender roles thank you

00:17:05.500 for the 10 those are scary thoughts i don't know what you're talking about um as soon those are

00:17:10.860 what they're talking about the business of woke i mean it makes a lot of sense because we we're

00:17:15.360 in a world where we have so much time and we don't need to revert back to our generals because

00:17:21.780 we're so advanced right now and everything's becoming technology-based and so we get the

00:17:25.820 privilege to ignore the fact that we have gender that we're supposed to act on our normal gender

00:17:30.760 roles when the titanic crashes into the iceberg who gets on the lifeboat the soy boys the women

00:17:39.460 and children the men have to stay on and fight and try to save the boat from but all the weak

00:17:44.560 people the women get on the lifeboats and men have to go and save it as soon as something happens

00:17:49.440 we revert back the only reason that that trans people get to exist is because of the the tech

00:17:54.500 the social media age because you know we don't need to use our physicality anymore percent i

00:18:00.040 100 agree with you as a man now right but i think my perception of it is different than yours because

00:18:04.660 you were born male you were raised male you have a whole other space in that and i totally respect

00:18:08.820 your opinion on that and i believe that that is a true lived experience as a born man yeah and let

00:18:12.880 me add with the black man because we have a different a total different reality in that i

00:18:17.460 don't in no way form or fashion do i go into a room and i feel like i'm less than i think i command

00:18:20.920 presence when i go into a room because the way i'm dressed and i'm tall i go in the streets i've

00:18:23.600 never had a person cross the street i've never been attacked by a police officer i was a police

00:18:26.460 officer you know i've been pulled over probably three wow look a minority who doesn't victimize

00:18:30.800 himself constantly who's saying that racism is something that we mostly see on social media not

00:18:34.740 a reality that everybody experiences look if you walk around like the trans guy saying i

00:18:40.420 it's so much easier as a man. Now, of course, if you have that mindset, you're going to see it

00:18:44.620 everywhere. But if you don't believe that racism is as real as they make it out to be, or you don't

00:18:48.600 believe that there's male and female privilege, or that women are victimized, then you're not

00:18:52.500 going to see it. Three times in my entire life. I mean, my biggest question with this and why I

00:18:56.280 don't necessarily agree with it is because when it comes to privilege, there's not really a way

00:18:59.020 to quantify it. It's very subjective. So like your version of male privilege and your version

00:19:02.960 of male privilege are very different. So it's hard to see the other side because you've never

00:19:05.480 lived it. The difference between you and us is we see it because we've lived it. You have not.

00:19:09.320 No, because you want to see it, because you want to have a victim mindset, because you are, look, visually weaker than the conservative men here.

00:19:17.860 And same thing with the soy boys.

00:19:19.180 They know they're weaker.

00:19:20.740 They know they're weaker than myself, than Andrew Tate, than Fresh and Fit.

00:19:25.100 And so instead of just admitting that and accepting their place or trying to improve themselves and trying to not be a pasty looking pale bagel who games all day, they go and hate people like me.

00:19:36.680 Accept where you are.

00:19:38.640 Don't live in denial.

00:19:39.880 Stop coping.

00:19:41.740 Look at you.

00:19:43.620 So it's easy to speak and be like, well, it doesn't exist.

00:19:45.600 Well, how would you know?

00:19:46.280 Well, I'm not saying it doesn't exist.

00:19:47.560 I think everybody has certain privileges.

00:19:49.280 But I think the question here is what defines male privilege over women?

00:19:52.500 Because women have privileges too.

00:19:53.680 So is there a graph that you guys are calculating to make men have more than women or what?

00:19:57.220 The privilege is not acknowledging what you have that comes so easy.

00:20:00.120 So do you think that your fear, because you live both sides,

00:20:03.360 do you think your fear is something that you have in your mind or you think it's reality?

00:20:06.860 Because let me say this.

00:20:07.600 you never you never really changed as a person you're the same person right exactly so you have

00:20:11.480 the same physical capabilities that you did no you were one no no you don't my no my strength

00:20:15.620 is entirely different what percentage would you say more than 100 i weigh like 100 pounds but you

00:20:20.580 still you're still not probably as strong as me but it's not about strength it's that women are

00:20:25.200 he said i could beat the shit out of you like yeah we could debate all day same thing moist

00:20:29.460 critical penguin zero you can make hit pieces about me but i could beat the shit out of you

00:20:33.220 are targeted men are not targeted i mean maybe sometimes i'm not saying they're targeted by

00:20:36.940 other men right but women are targeted by other men i think women have less of a safe space

00:20:41.860 less of a safe space bro men die we are 90 of homicide victims women have less of a safe space

00:20:50.980 women live longer men delete themselves three times more than women

00:20:55.900 and what's the safe space what are you talking about if we are 90 of the homicide victims

00:21:04.940 then it's literally a dangerous space compared to women the fuck are you talking about men men

00:21:10.840 don't have a safe space if you go to certain but i'm talking about they get murdered but i'm not

00:21:14.000 talking about certain cities i'm talking about everyday life yeah every day have you ever been

00:21:17.280 have you been attacked as a woman i have i've been raped i've been attacked i've been i can go

00:21:21.440 on and on and on i was homeless living in the streets raped all the time it what

00:21:25.460 all the time happens it's a real thing i didn't see the guys on the street getting raped

00:21:32.320 but men do get raped 100 but we're not the experience you can't talk about everybody laughs

00:21:36.700 at you do you get kind of called down the street like i mean women women say things to me when i

00:21:40.680 was a police officer do you feel threatened you feel empowered though right no i don't feel

00:21:43.720 empowered but do you feel scared do you feel threatened when a woman catcalls you no i don't

00:21:47.520 i don't feel i don't feel threatened if a man can try to challenge you because you have that

00:21:50.020 male privilege right as a woman what if a man was whistling at you when you were walking down the

00:21:53.800 street i've had it happen to me i had gay men whistle to me how does that make you feel i don't

00:21:57.500 I don't care.

00:21:58.340 Okay, cool.

00:21:59.160 I mean, as long as you don't touch me, we cool.

00:22:00.000 You might think I'm attractive, it's fine, it's cool.

00:22:02.380 I get it.

00:22:03.220 I think women will say the same thing

00:22:04.060 as long as you're not like trying to be predatory.

00:22:05.460 And I've seen it because I go to clubs

00:22:07.040 with my friends who are girls

00:22:08.460 and I have to tell the men to literally leave them alone

00:22:10.100 because they keep going and they're predatory

00:22:11.820 and they're literally scouting out women

00:22:12.840 that are drunk or whatever, not even drunk.

00:22:13.960 She could say no a thousand times

00:22:15.220 and they're still gonna bother her.

00:22:16.060 But the minute that I say something, they stop.

00:22:17.500 Women are not as strong as men and they get targeted.

00:22:19.640 Sure, yes, that is a privilege that men have over women,

00:22:21.620 but that doesn't mean that men have privilege

00:22:23.460 because of that one situation.

00:22:24.840 Men commit suicide way more than women do.

00:22:26.780 Why is men not suicide?

00:22:27.480 Because if we're gonna go that route,

00:22:28.700 trans men commit suicide twice the rate.

00:22:31.140 No, right, but that's not-

00:22:32.220 I think what's important here is to distinguish the fact

00:22:34.060 that yes, no one is negating the fact

00:22:36.080 that women you get preyed on.

00:22:37.640 You know, there's situations where this happens, right?

00:22:39.540 Like no one's gonna deny that.

00:22:40.760 But we're also just trying to say that

00:22:42.020 it's not like a one-sided coin here

00:22:43.360 where there's no, like men are just, you know,

00:22:45.120 we just have it good and we can do whatever we want.

00:22:47.280 We can't even be the next Supreme Court justice.

00:22:49.700 You know, it's like-

00:22:50.800 But you know, again, I live as a man,

00:22:52.220 so I see the difference.

00:22:53.420 When I said I have privilege and I walk into the room, of course, but then there's other things that are expected of me now as a man that I would never were expected of.

00:22:59.160 So would you guys agree that women, that there's such thing as female privilege?

00:23:02.560 Oh, sure, 100%.

00:23:03.720 My wife has privilege because she has me.

00:23:06.040 That's right.

00:23:06.560 So she don't have to worry about her safety because I'm there.

00:23:08.480 I don't believe that, I mean, as a man, it's like, you know, there's marketing for women-owned brands.

00:23:13.080 I can't, like I said, I can't be the next person for justice.

00:23:14.640 Like, it's, women are very much more empowered today, which I think is, I don't have a problem with it.

00:23:18.340 I mean, like, good for you.

00:23:19.020 but um i think that the man i am i probably have purpose because i'm you know six foot 210 like i'm

00:23:23.980 no one's uh picking on me when i walk on the street you know i used to live in chicago and

00:23:27.100 uh i used to walk home all the time at night but like was that smart probably not but i felt a

00:23:30.620 little safe because you know i'm not five foot 100 pounds i'm max i'm 29 and i'm a conservative man

00:23:35.260 in today's society women and men can be whatever they want and be as successful or strong or as

00:23:40.860 big of a leader as they choose so i'm just wondering in a society that is so seemingly

00:23:45.420 more level than ever before, why are we transitioning

00:23:48.020 to different genders to find, and what are we looking for?

00:23:50.500 Biology determines gender.

00:23:52.580 Okay, the conservative people sit down,

00:23:54.240 the trannies stand up.

00:23:59.060 Why did the fucking train, why, yo,

00:24:01.180 what is this bearded lady doing?

00:24:03.140 So, sex and gender, people try to argue

00:24:05.980 that they're different.

00:24:06.820 It's the same shit, Chad.

00:24:07.920 Sex and gender actually go hand to hand,

00:24:09.320 and our biology, being a man, comes down to every fiber

00:24:12.140 within our body, so whether that be DNA, chromosomes,

00:24:15.220 testosterone levels, uh, bone density, um, there's a whole bunch of different factors

00:24:19.140 that go into it, and it all has to do with biology.

00:24:20.720 So biology, I, I 100% believe in biology.

00:24:22.940 Today we don't, we talk about biology being a social construct, I disagree with that as

00:24:26.240 a transgender person.

00:24:27.680 I was born biologically female, I always acknowledge that, and today I live as a male.

00:24:31.980 Now that being said, sex and gender, they-

00:24:34.100 John says they argue like women law, cause they are.

00:24:36.340 They are trying to separate those things.

00:24:37.860 Gender can be, I've chosen my gender, as you see, nobody would, I think, probably understand

00:24:42.040 that I used to be a female.

00:24:43.040 Now many people do, like you just said, but we-

00:24:44.400 So are you still a woman or not?

00:24:46.100 Like, if you're sitting down, if biology determines gender,

00:24:48.620 then you are, it's not just me insulting you, you're a bearded lady.

00:24:51.640 That sex and gender are one thing and you can never change those.

00:24:53.960 I'm not trying to change anything.

00:24:55.740 I'm trying to show the world that this is how I feel by presenting the outside.

00:24:59.140 But I think denying...

00:24:59.800 So it's how you feel.

00:25:00.780 This is a pretty base trans take.

00:25:03.040 You're not actually a dude, you just want to feel like one.

00:25:05.880 Biology is where we get into a lot of problems.

00:25:07.720 So if you want to be seen as a man, then who are you to...

00:25:11.180 I don't care, I mean, you do you, whatever makes you happy.

00:25:13.460 but I think like we get it becomes a slippery slope like how are we going to deny basic human

00:25:18.180 facts like there's I think that causes problems and it causes problems for me yeah because the

00:25:22.660 minute I start denying your biology now you feel attacked by me and I don't want you to feel

00:25:26.760 attacked by me I never want you to I want to be a part of if that makes sense you don't have to

00:25:30.180 agree with my choice of how I live my life but all I ask for is respect what do you have on your

00:25:33.540 driver license and your birth certificate right great great so so that being said I transitioned

00:25:37.080 to live as a man 29 years ago so that was way before you see any of this stuff and I had to

00:25:41.240 acknowledge my biology right that being said my license I travel the world it has to say male

00:25:45.220 can you imagine if I showed up at the airport they're like female dude there's something going

00:25:49.560 on here but I actually got my my birth certificate changed to male I was the first person to do that

00:25:54.160 here in Los Angeles but that being said I kind of think that might have been a mistake to do that

00:25:57.360 now looking forward today because I never thought we would be having this conversation I'm glad you

00:26:01.320 said that because I love that people can express themselves we live in America it doesn't matter

00:26:05.640 what I believe what my religion is I love that people can live their best life I'll never ever

00:26:09.220 in my life protests or try to go against a person who wants to identify. The problem is

00:26:13.180 it's when you begin to try to change language and you begin to try to change reality and then

00:26:16.540 therefore it changes on the children and all of that becomes problematic. If a person says,

00:26:21.260 okay, I acknowledge I'm problematic. I'm born as a man or a woman, but I want to identify as this.

00:26:25.040 Cool. I respect that. And even if I didn't want to see it that way and some people may be a little

00:26:29.020 more ambiguous, I wouldn't never disrespect you. I'll call you by your name. Whatever name that you

00:26:32.480 want to be associated with, I'll do that. And I think if everybody in the country can get on that

00:26:36.320 same page i think we'll see less division i've noticed in a lot of the trans individuals that

00:26:39.960 i've met the older generation who had it a lot harder in society to be accepted is a lot more

00:26:45.140 willing to have the conversation we didn't have social media i didn't have cell phones i didn't

00:26:48.160 have computers when i transitioned this is how you build bridges i'm buck i'm 59 years old and

00:26:53.100 buck bro he could have picked she could have picked any name and he chose buck buck

00:27:01.860 that's

00:27:04.480 my trans man because i'm an elder trans man now and there's a much newer generation

00:27:09.340 there's a definite space where i have a different way of being than the younger generation and why

00:27:13.640 i tend to call myself a transsexual man and i believe in biology i believe in binary so

00:27:17.720 it really does not necessarily align with a new thought process that is happening with the newer

00:27:21.840 generation

00:27:22.400 so damn these are these new trains gonna be pissed at the old train i love this question

00:27:29.120 With trans folks, biology does change.

00:27:32.320 Our bone density does change.

00:27:33.680 Our muscle structure does change.

00:27:35.220 Our testosterone levels do change.

00:27:37.080 So biologically, we do change.

00:27:38.640 Anatomically, now that's where surgeries come into play.

00:27:41.580 So when we're talking about biology and gender that can't be changed,

00:27:47.020 our biology absolutely and concretely changes.

00:27:50.140 Not the DNA.

00:27:50.940 But our biology.

00:27:51.700 DNA does not change.

00:27:52.220 Yeah, DNA is not going to change for anyone.

00:27:53.620 So you acknowledge there's a biological difference between males and females

00:27:55.620 because some people on the other side would say there's no difference like a female like i can

00:27:59.220 look like a girl not having testosterone but i'm still a male some people are male some people are

00:28:02.660 female chromosomally but when we start to take testosterone our bodies do biologically change

00:28:06.980 but what about trans men who don't take testosterone then their bodies don't

00:28:09.940 biologically still female right and gender in itself is something we get to choose

00:28:17.700 okay like you said well in your life you get to choose not you don't get to choose it for

00:28:21.940 the world but you know yeah i get to choose my gender because i've been on testosterone for 10

00:28:25.380 years okay going on okay so what about the trans people who don't take testosterone 11 years but

00:28:30.020 there's some some anatomy that will never change that's right right i mean you're gonna you you

00:28:34.100 still have ovaries you still have you know the female reproductive system you said that you had

00:28:38.420 a child yes i've given birth i no longer have female reproductive right right but you had that

00:28:42.180 you will never get male productive organs now when you think about it the male men can't get pregnant

00:28:47.780 and female productive organs are similar and they're nearly the same they're different

00:28:51.540 they're different in size even if okay biologically functionality too not necessarily

00:28:55.780 because the testes and ovaries are very much similar one is a one is a uh an egg one is a

00:29:00.660 fertilizer but i can but i but i never uh g kip says those women should not speak on what it's

00:29:06.160 like to be a man clown world shit yeah they they want to it's okay just let them just

00:29:10.640 believe in what god would say men can't become women it's simple let them go chat their shit

00:29:17.480 but we we absolutely live in a common world there's there's no point in getting upset about

00:29:22.940 it this is just the way it is ever can't produce you're absolutely right you're absolutely right

00:29:26.400 and they can never produce ova and you guys are saying that gender is like a social construct

00:29:30.120 is that what you're saying too that you could change it but also if you want to be technical

00:29:32.580 about it age is and you're right washington heights the next plan is to allow pedophilia

00:29:35.760 to be legal yesterday scotland made it legal made it um legal to minor attractive people

00:29:41.460 scotland really legalized pedophilia i noticed as they started changing the definition of

00:29:45.780 pedophilia to mean minor attracted people it this is it's all part of the the lgbt agenda and

00:29:51.820 you don't see them really start to talk about it because they all are kind of involved trans people

00:29:57.240 want to change the gender of your children they want to give uh puberty blockers and gender

00:30:03.060 reassignment surgery to kids it's genuinely extremely pedophilic social construct your

00:30:09.160 ethnicity and race is a social construct and i'm hispanic i can't say i'm chinese because i like

00:30:12.840 chinese food i could i could please my skin all i want i could wear china clothes no race is not

00:30:16.620 how is ethnicity going to be a construct it's all social constructs how exactly if you look up is

00:30:21.200 race a social construct ethnicity a social construct is time a social construct everything's

00:30:24.700 a social construct if you want to think about it that way but we have set truths and we can't

00:30:27.700 change those truths if you want to say you're trans man that means you're a biological female

00:30:30.580 that thinks that i am a i am a biological male i'm anatomically anatomically i'm still right

00:30:37.280 anatomically just shut up i think it's really important right and it's anatomic okay because

00:30:42.460 biologically i have shifted okay transmitting going from one to the next biologically and all

00:30:46.480 these things i know that there's importance for you guys but meeting me you're seeing me you would

00:30:49.920 never know so why is it important yeah at this stage these silly trans bitches have a tragic

00:30:53.760 argument it's just their whole worldview is so attached to other people's perception it's like

00:31:02.560 they want to force you to agree with their nonsense you have to agree with their clownery

00:31:08.440 because in a vacuum or say there was only two people left on earth if you if there's only two

00:31:13.560 people left on earth and you say i just changed my pronouns okay like you still need to go repopulate

00:31:20.640 you still need to go make food it doesn't this only exists in people's minds it has nothing to

00:31:27.400 do with reality reality is you're either born with the penis or vagina and you just are a manner you

00:31:31.660 are trans this new thing it only exists if we allow it to it only exists if we that's why uh

00:31:40.100 that old tranny the book um understands that it's uh that it's not that you're never going to

00:31:47.180 actually become a woman because he just wants to present that way he wants other people to think

00:31:51.560 that he's a man he's playing dress up constantly and he she knows it you're not changing anything

00:31:58.060 you're just in a disguise well no because i'm just curious i was a woman just say if i was a woman

00:32:02.840 and i wanted to date you what are you going to tell me i will tell you that i'm trans no no i'm

00:32:06.560 saying you can't tell me that you're a man i mean i'm still a man no no but you gotta tell me you

00:32:10.020 gotta tell me that you were born a woman you have i mean i don't have to because if i if i go down

00:32:13.880 if i if i if i see in your pants right i'm gonna see something different and that's that that will

00:32:18.560 be troubling to me if i had an expectation again this is like leading off the topic but i mean to

00:32:22.360 answer your question if you must know i do tell the person that i'm talking to or interested that

00:32:25.320 transgender I don't think that you need it to you know you need a penis to be a

00:32:28.500 man I know that what then what is a man someone please ask this question next if

00:32:34.080 you don't need a penis to be a man then what is a man looking look they're

00:32:38.100 playing themselves and trying to play us no good you may disagree which is fine

00:32:41.080 like I get it but I don't want one I think no I have a question for all of

00:32:44.280 you do your penises make you men yes is that what makes me a man's ingrained

00:32:51.280 within every part of your body so ourselves right right if you had to look at the difference between

00:32:56.360 us and between you now would that difference be the lack of a penis if you were naked okay so if

00:33:01.180 we're gonna if we're gonna miss exactly you're just in disguise you got the beard you're acting

00:33:06.060 like you're dressing like one but you're not actually one demise being a man to that particular

00:33:11.100 and i got we didn't minimize no no i'm i'm asking the question okay if we minimize it because this

00:33:16.380 is where we're going is anatomy right because that's that's where we've gotten okay so if we

00:33:20.540 get there so do your penises make you more men than us it's not making more or less it's we're

00:33:26.440 we're a biologically man you're not a biological it's not a spectrum so it's not it's not a gender

00:33:30.620 is not a spectrum exactly good a good way to dodge that question you see what he was trying to

00:33:34.520 do he was trying to be like oh you think you're better than me or you're more of him it's either

00:33:38.500 you are a man or you're not more or less it's we're we're a biologically man you're not a

00:33:43.040 biological it's not a spectrum so it's not it's not a question that we can answer because you're

00:33:46.080 saying on the spectrum would this make us more of a man than you but no it's because we are a man

00:33:49.360 and you guys aren't well we're different so we're not men is what you is exactly what you just in

00:33:54.080 in my view you guys are appropriating the gender and you are living as a man but biologically you

00:34:00.480 are not a man so to me it's not you can't say okay well what make does that make us more of a man

00:34:04.480 that's not even a question to ask because you're not a biological man when it comes down to asking

00:34:08.320 questions that make me start to change what the truth is and what the truth isn't putting it on

00:34:12.000 a spectrum when it's an objective truth that's where i draw the line what's the biggest problem

00:34:15.280 with what he said well it doesn't make you it doesn't make what you feel any different the

00:34:19.140 biological truth is the truth and why can't that be the truth and you also say but i feel like on

00:34:23.460 the inside that i'm a man and i'm going to present that way the argument is that people try to

00:34:27.160 invalidate who we are with that i'm not saying that you guys sorry like all right find other

00:34:32.780 ways to define yourself besides what fucking what you got in your pants or how much surgery you did

00:34:38.040 i'm not trying to validate who you are you're just not a man have something else about you if this is

00:34:44.660 the most the biggest part of your identity then you are a failure but a lot of society in the

00:34:51.300 world does that well biologically you're female what hurts trans people that people don't realize

00:34:55.520 what they're doing is sorry look at that it's feelings versus facts it's just it makes no sense

00:35:01.400 but it makes them feel bad so they created an entire new way of thinking in order to justify

00:35:07.060 not feeling bad about yourself it's very harmful you got to be aware of what you're saying what

00:35:10.920 you're putting out there you know what i mean like yeah no 100 i would and that's why i think

00:35:14.160 we all agree we would never try to offend you or anything like that to be honest if i saw any one

00:35:17.660 of you in the streets i don't care it's not gonna bother me that you want to i wouldn't know unless

00:35:21.640 i pulled your pants down or something why do you feel like you have to present the way you do you

00:35:25.400 know facial hair could you could you be a man without having facial hair i mean yeah because

00:35:29.680 you feel like you're a man um i'm in the early stages if you are just a man why did you need to

00:35:35.000 get the surgery why did you grow a beard why are you wearing man clothes if you are just a man it

00:35:40.420 has nothing to do with biology then just walk around and say you're a man but you see how they

00:35:45.000 it's just a disguise it only exists because of other people's perception it stops from having

00:35:51.440 hit one year yet but first thing for me you know i crave you know having a full-on beard like

00:35:56.340 like these fine gentlemen you guys are like i crave it you know like but um i do believe like

00:36:03.400 not having like this little small piece that i have going on it does make me feel more dysphoric

00:36:08.080 it makes me like feel like oh that's just how this is how i presented before transitioning do you feel

00:36:13.120 like it's something that has gone wrong at birth like you know you're born and you say well genetics

00:36:18.080 and evolution says this why do i feel like this yeah i mean i think questioning it was something

00:36:22.880 that i always wondered because sometimes people say like oh like it was a choice which i hear a

00:36:27.120 lot on the other side all the time like it was a choice i was legit born this way like i could

00:36:30.800 I could remember from, I think, four or five years old where, like, I didn't feel like a girl.

00:36:35.160 Feel.

00:36:37.200 Don't you, can't we just break it down?

00:36:41.560 Does that make sense?

00:36:43.060 I feel like I had an epiphany today.

00:36:45.160 That it's really just about prioritizing your feelings.

00:36:48.700 That's everything on the left.

00:36:50.420 All this woke brainwashing.

00:36:52.320 It's meant to keep us down.

00:36:53.780 It's meant to keep us, like, constantly upset.

00:36:55.720 I guarantee you all these trans people are in therapy.

00:36:58.160 They take antidepressants.

00:36:59.300 they're constantly like they're constantly unhappy because their their self-worth is just

00:37:05.860 it lives in the heads of other people you know what i mean and i i can't tell you why that happened

00:37:09.860 it was just my path in this life and it's something that i honored and you know it was

00:37:14.200 really hard for me to continue living especially when puberty hit you know like time of month

00:37:17.040 comes in obviously anatomy changes like and that was the biggest thing for me where i knew like

00:37:20.760 okay i can't do this it's like you're not in your own home children should be allowed to transition

00:37:25.860 well i was gonna say i find it very interesting that you and i are the only ones that said those

00:37:31.080 pedophiles this is this is the next step in 2023 predictions for this year this is what's

00:37:36.760 going to happen climate change is the next pandemic and they are going to start normalizing

00:37:41.940 pedophilia they are going to keep calling it minor attracted person they're going to try to say like

00:37:46.380 oh we can't demonize these people we need to accept them like the real talk pedophiles need

00:37:51.420 to be killed like bullets you need to stock up on ammo so that you can kill these people

00:37:56.660 naturally not i'm not actually trying to threaten them that was a joke anybody who

00:38:00.060 clipped it up i don't mean that i don't mean that but but if anybody deserves the death penalty it

00:38:09.520 should be a pedophile and look that this is that's the next step because that's the only

00:38:15.860 thing left that they've changed men into women they've normalized being gay uh gender fluidity

00:38:21.140 dancing in front of kids there's drag shows for children the next step is normalizing pedophilia

00:38:26.820 especially since we're younger and you should allow children to feel what they feel because

00:38:30.960 i felt the way that i felt for as long as i can remember and it's something that i cannot deny

00:38:34.660 yeah you know although my mother is supportive when i was younger i wasn't allowed to wear

00:38:38.760 boys clothes because that wasn't right now i know we're talking about transitioning it doesn't

00:38:42.340 always have to be hormones it's like transitioning in society so being able to dress more masculine

00:38:46.460 I did when I was younger, but as I got into middle school, kids change.

00:38:50.660 People are mean, so, you know, I dressed how I would in society, so I dressed like a girl, whatever.

00:38:54.620 But I think that children should be allowed to express themselves in whatever way makes them feel comfortable.

00:38:58.820 Kids are struggling to be who they are, and there's more rates of suicide for trans individuals

00:39:04.320 because there's literally being laws put in place to prevent them from being who they are, and that's not right.

00:39:10.840 That's not right.

00:39:15.780 Okay, so I work with children.

00:39:16.900 This is where I have, like, the biggest problem with the trans stuff is with the children.

00:39:19.340 This shit is disgusting.

00:39:20.080 Because they, people, like, I'm sure you guys would agree, you want to inject them with the hormones to stop their puberty, their normal puberty.

00:39:24.260 Disgusting.

00:39:24.520 They haven't even developed their prefrontal cortex yet, and you want to stop their natural puberty from occurring to affirm their gender.

00:39:29.200 No, like, he should be more upset about this.

00:39:31.040 That shit is literally demonic.

00:39:32.540 It ruins people.

00:39:34.640 You're killing people.

00:39:35.860 And then later on, they regret it.

00:39:36.960 I think that's, um, not a good thing.

00:39:38.560 See, that's why this is a loaded question, because transition can mean many things for children.

00:39:42.140 Now, I totally, as a transsexual person, disagree with giving children hormone blockers, medication, surgery.

00:39:47.920 But what I do agree with is socially transitioning, which means what?

00:39:50.700 Because I did that, okay?

00:39:51.560 And I did that in the 60s and 70s.

00:39:52.780 My parents dressed me like, fuck, I was a boy.

00:39:54.520 You know, I didn't have any problems because I just lived, we used to call it a tomboy, right?

00:39:57.580 So that was totally, and I went through puberty and I did all the things.

00:40:00.500 I do not believe children can make those choices, and I do not believe it's okay and ethical.

00:40:03.540 Bro, if you can't vote, how the fuck do you know if you want to take puberty blockers and cut your dick off? What the fuck?

00:40:10.300 For a parent to make those choices for a child. But I do believe gender dysphoria exists in children. I had it. 100% it's there.

00:40:15.760 But to give medication to a child is so unethical to me that you would actually, exactly what you said, you're stunting brain growth, you're stunting all of these things, they don't have enough research on it.

00:40:24.460 So I'm in agreement with transitioning medically for children is not okay for me, but I do believe in a social space.

00:40:30.040 When you say a social...

00:40:30.800 No, absolutely not. No social space.

00:40:32.760 john says a man is who does their task at hand even if they don't feel up to it women want to

00:40:37.240 feel happy exactly girls just want to have fun men you just have to do what you're supposed to do

00:40:42.600 transition it's interesting to me because we can't control what happens in a social situation

00:40:46.600 so to me and we talk about suicide rates among young trans people this whole ideology is telling

00:40:52.180 people to derive their value off of what somebody else is saying validation exact bro this gay guy

00:40:57.340 is doing great about that or what somebody else affirms to them so we we say that you know society

00:41:01.280 Is that, is that, is that Jideon?

00:41:06.040 Did Jideon cut his dick off?

00:41:07.360 Lady is the problem and we're not allowing people

00:41:09.660 to be who they are and that's why they're committing suicide

00:41:11.520 but maybe it has to do with the messaging

00:41:13.000 that we're sending to these kids that you derive your value

00:41:15.260 from if somebody uses your correct pronoun

00:41:16.860 or you derive your value if you can,

00:41:18.320 if this person accepts you for wearing a dress,

00:41:20.360 be who you are but tell them to be empowered about it

00:41:22.700 and not get that empowerment from somebody else.

00:41:24.720 I feel like that's really kind of inconsiderate to say

00:41:27.040 that someone would take their life

00:41:27.920 because of what someone else says.

00:41:29.300 To somebody that is important.

00:41:30.440 to somebody i know have friends who their family does not use the correct pronouns they transition

00:41:34.260 they live in the same household this person struggles with depression and anxiety could

00:41:37.200 you imagine living in an environment like that where you're no longer validated that's coming

00:41:40.120 from your own parents but if you base your validation off of other people this is a hard

00:41:43.680 truth but if your soul then you're never going to be happy another thing for 2023 if you base

00:41:49.400 your validation for if you get your validation from anybody else besides your besides you

00:41:55.620 then you're never going to be happy and social media programs this into us like it's a big

00:42:04.100 realization i've had from doing youtube for 10 years is that we are taught to find our validation

00:42:10.700 from other people instead of from ourselves and if you live that way you will never be happy

00:42:17.280 this year it's all everything you see on social media it's it's all noise it's all back and forth

00:42:24.420 and there's no point in trying to get approval or trying to compete with other people i'm i'm over

00:42:29.400 that i'm over i've had that problem but i want to continue just to entertain spread truth seek

00:42:34.480 truth through funny get better every single day i don't i don't i've had so many hit pieces about

00:42:39.400 me i've had so many people talk shit about me i've had so many articles trying to cancel me

00:42:43.600 they call me racist misogynistic blah blah all all these words bro and i genuinely don't care

00:42:50.160 anymore because i'm the only person that gives me the validation that i need if i'm not proud of

00:42:57.400 myself then then i'm not happy so i i in order to be proud of myself you just do the right thing

00:43:04.940 every single day and i want to do that this year stream every day at 8 p.m eastern go to the gym

00:43:10.120 every single day get stronger strengthen my mind seek out different information

00:43:15.700 entertain everybody in the chat make art make movies just do what makes me happy that's how

00:43:23.980 you avoid the trap of seeking validation from strangers online and that's what the woke people

00:43:29.820 want you to do that's why they're in therapy that's why they take antidepressants that's why

00:43:33.620 they change their gender that's why they need to present a certain way that's why they demand that

00:43:37.040 you need to use their pronouns it's because they live for the validation of others that's why as

00:43:43.460 soon as you transition, you get extremely happy. As soon as you declare, I'm coming out, coming out

00:43:50.120 is like, it's a huge dopamine hit because everyone is saying your new name. You go from Sneeko to

00:43:55.680 Sneakita. Everyone's clapping. You're so brave. You're so brave. And then you like, you come out

00:44:00.440 with your wig or whatever. You're like, look at me. Wow. Your tits look almost real. Your beard

00:44:05.960 looks like a real dude beard. And then after seven years, this is what happens after even,

00:44:11.020 i think it's less than that they end up on the d trans subreddit once that dopamine wears off and

00:44:16.180 once people don't care anymore that you're now sneakita instead of sneeko once people aren't

00:44:20.800 calling you brave and clapping every single day and handing you awards and saying you're the best

00:44:24.660 person ever because you cut your dick off then you're like shit i miss my dick i miss my dick

00:44:30.000 the high of the validation is gone and now you need to take personal responsibility and actually

00:44:35.480 accomplish something for yourself instead of getting approval points for cutting your dick

00:44:39.340 off thank you 10 washington heights a realization that i had that the trans want the normal people

00:44:43.400 to validate them it seems that the normal people are like god to these creatures yes they they

00:44:48.980 that exactly what i'm saying thanks for the five now i wonder if the parents in america will watch

00:44:52.960 their minors hook up with adults with everything going on it won't be surprised if they came true

00:44:56.540 this came true it's a complete clown world and i think i think this is an accurate prediction for

00:45:00.840 what will happen this year and listen i could give bull i do what i want but for everyone that's not

00:45:07.400 case because everybody has different personalities right but that doesn't make it any that doesn't

00:45:10.920 mean that but it's still but we're not going to get that you're not acknowledging though is that

00:45:13.640 in that environment is not supporting i'm acknowledging that i'm just saying that we're

00:45:16.600 saying that for some reason they should look for that validation from somebody else when you love

00:45:20.520 somebody and you have a family you want them to you're focusing not on the individual you're

00:45:23.560 focusing on the people outside of that yeah but you're focusing on empowering that but part of

00:45:26.840 being a person is needing to be validated you don't need to be validated ever in your life

00:45:29.480 or your family or your friends no no great argument right here thank you for the john

00:45:34.120 ha ha sneak eat the high you're so funny g fuck off you give me ten dollars to make fun of my

00:45:38.380 joke suck my dick get my validation from within and then the right if we're talking about children

00:45:42.800 okay if we're talking okay i was an eight-year-old when i found out that i wasn't i wasn't

00:45:45.980 biologically male right i was eight when i found out that i wasn't the same as my brothers okay

00:45:50.920 and so going through that process i attempted suicide four times because my mother see it

00:45:56.580 attempted attempted suicide four times because you you can't find happiness within yourself you need

00:46:02.320 other people to come on jadeon jadeon you don't need to cut your dick off in order to be happy

00:46:07.820 this is not going to solve your problems you are lost this is delusion kismo d thank you

00:46:14.060 technically they're creating their own species of human i think trans people should get their

00:46:16.900 own gender label bathrooms etc so we can get on with life and uh idk if we can win my guy well

00:46:21.820 know that they're never going to be happy like that they don't want their own gender they want

00:46:25.360 to be they're jealous of regular people like they they can't accept the fact that they are just their

00:46:31.560 own thing they need to be undercover as us as normal people was like well you you are a girl

00:46:38.140 when you're when you're eight and you're 12 and you don't have anyone else that is in your space

00:46:43.600 you don't have anyone else that lives in the same house as you to tell you you're okay

00:46:48.120 where are you supposed to go how are you supposed to garner your own self-validation if the people

00:46:54.640 that are raising you don't validate who you are as a father you know my duty is to raise my

00:46:59.520 children the way i believe is right and if my child somehow struggles with this which is fine

00:47:04.620 we'll have that conversation but i'm going to let it play out the way i believe it should be played

00:47:09.880 out and at 18 years old you can do whatever you want to do if you don't want to wear dresses that's

00:47:14.000 fine i mean just wearing if you you want to dress like a boy don't make you want to be a boy don't

00:47:17.560 mean you have to be a boy my mom was a tomboy and my mom had me and my brother and she's a woman and

00:47:20.920 as a parent you shouldn't validate your kids for how they dress you should validate them for

00:47:25.620 accomplishing something or just if they're happy in their life like you don't need to

00:47:32.100 you don't need to give them validation for for dressing up a certain way you know and she lives

00:47:37.460 like that but you know you may want to dress a little different maybe a boy want to do cheerleading

00:47:40.820 or something like that but that don't make they don't mean you need to transition to something

00:47:43.940 else so i want that to play out until my child is old enough to make that decision on their own

00:47:47.620 also you have to teach your children to have balance because if you just want mommy and daddy

00:47:51.780 to acquiesce to everything you want that's not reality you have to understand that mom and dad

00:47:56.500 mean i see me this way they love me i see myself this way and i disagree with how they speak to me

00:48:01.580 or how they're but i love them as well i love like my son if he said he was and i'm a christian and

00:48:06.360 i don't believe in homosexuality i don't i respect anybody that feel that way i never you know

00:48:10.460 protest you at all if my son came to me it would be a struggle for me to want to go to his wedding

00:48:13.980 i'm just going to be honest but i think that my son should understand this is the way my dad feel

00:48:17.560 i love him this is the way i feel and we have mutual love and they don't mean i hate you they

00:48:21.720 just mean we disagree and i wish that same sentiment would be and i think it's the same

00:48:25.240 on this panel like there's no hate in any of this i love every single person on this side

00:48:29.480 and we may think of things differently but we love each other it can't be one-sided i am lucky

00:48:33.640 college is a scam nathan i'm 41. college pushes all this woke agenda they look school just teaches

00:48:40.280 you to be a slave it teaches you to be woke to go cheer for this stuff it encourages you to leave

00:48:46.280 class in protest for some nonsense everybody in college is a product of that woke propaganda

00:48:52.360 and i'm a trans man one of my greatest fears as a trans man is my life being taken from me

00:48:56.360 because i'm a trans man transitioning in a black man this is what this is what's going to happen

00:49:00.120 if jadeon keeps apologizing to pokemon neighborhood with gang members as neighbors uh they weren't

00:49:05.080 having that so the more that that my body started to look a lot like theirs um i was challenged on

00:49:10.760 on a regular basis was beaten up because someone recognized me from prior to my transition

00:49:15.100 and approached me and confronted me and called me a liar and told me I was a bitch and I

00:49:19.600 out of safety was like I don't know what you're talking about Nicole cocked me and I lost the

00:49:23.440 front two I grew up with a positive father figure conservative men sit down except maybe the gay

00:49:29.000 one I think well we'll see I don't think the trannies are gonna sit down what the oh everybody

00:49:37.420 This is good.

00:49:39.540 How did those dads fail him?

00:49:41.220 I think for me it's surprising because I would believe that a woman or a person who's born as a woman who now identifies as a man didn't have a positive role model as a man.

00:49:53.540 And therefore they felt somewhat insecure as a woman, which makes them feel a certain way and want to be a certain different person.

00:49:58.260 I think if your kid transitions, you failed as a father.

00:50:02.180 Maybe they want to be the man that their father never was or whatever the case may be.

00:50:05.120 And so it was very interesting.

00:50:05.960 I mean, being honest, it was interesting to see pretty much a majority of you guys come forward.

00:50:10.780 That's so great. I think that's really important that you say that,

00:50:12.760 because I do think a lot of people probably feel that way about guys like me, right?

00:50:15.460 That our fathers, we didn't have the right upbringing.

00:50:17.500 My father was amazing. I grew up really like a little boy.

00:50:20.100 I always felt like a little boy, and my parents actually raised me.

00:50:22.160 What happened?

00:50:24.020 This guy, like, reminds me of every guy in California, like, at a yoga studio, you know, hiking.

00:50:31.200 And I'm 59 years old, so that was in the 60s and the 70s when we didn't even talk about this kind of stuff.

00:50:35.460 my parents actually always a product of the sexual revolution the hippie age where everybody was like

00:50:39.380 popping lsd and going to beatles concerts felt it from me so i think that that's a misconception

00:50:44.040 that people think about people like us any good father pushes their child to one be you know feel

00:50:49.960 self-love and to feel like they can be who they want do what they want and you know have life

00:50:54.860 liberty in the pursuit of happiness right like our founding fathers and um so you know it's

00:50:59.100 fatherlessness or you know having a missing dad is one a pandemic on its own and it's one that

00:51:03.380 Obviously, I'm sure Baranagan and Tessie, it's so critical to have a father in the house

00:51:06.880 because kids get lost when they don't have one.

00:51:08.960 And having a father that's loving and strong and someone you can rely on

00:51:12.040 is the reason why we're all comfortable with who we are.

00:51:14.940 I had several different father figures in my life.

00:51:17.220 So it wasn't, you know, I had a dad, but then I had my grandfather and I had my uncle.

00:51:20.420 You know, it takes a village to raise a child, right?

00:51:22.000 But all of those different perspectives raised me as a well-rounded human.

00:51:26.040 Like, you know, if we take the masculinity out of it,

00:51:28.080 just as a human, I got to see different perspectives.

00:51:30.220 Does it really take a village to raise a child?

00:51:32.340 I never really believed in that.

00:51:33.480 Now, as a father that has given birth to a child, and that child being a male, right,

00:51:37.380 I'm able to raise him with those same ideals that I'm able to identify because of the father

00:51:42.740 figures that I had.

00:51:43.460 I didn't have my father growing up.

00:51:45.020 He was not present in my life at all.

00:51:46.500 So it showed me that some men can step up, like my grandfather and my stepfather who

00:51:50.360 have taken me in and showed me how to take care of myself, how to be, you know, strong

00:51:57.460 and dependable.

00:51:58.400 And all I've been able to do is give more love to all people that I interact with.

00:52:01.260 Right.

00:52:01.440 So it was really important for me to have those figures.

00:52:03.180 I think this is a really important thing to show people that are watching this

00:52:05.960 because a lot of times I feel like we can blame any issues in society

00:52:08.840 or anything that arises on the generation that came before us.

00:52:11.280 So any issues that arise in our society, it's like,

00:52:13.680 there's not always a reason why it's happening.

00:52:15.760 We just need to address the issue and solve it.

00:52:17.220 I grew up with all women.

00:52:18.600 My parents were divorced and I lived with my mom.

00:52:20.340 I had my aunts, so I was raised by women, but my dad was there sometimes

00:52:23.620 and then my stepdad took me in as his own, so I had my stepdad as a father figure.

00:52:26.560 I grew up with all women as well.

00:52:27.740 My mom used to tell me, I have to be your mom and your dad.

00:52:29.460 So there'd be times where I got both.

00:52:30.680 like she was super sweet with me or really strict on me and like she taught me a lot as well like

00:52:34.060 growing up with women it taught me a lot of vulnerability and when you were talking to you

00:52:36.560 i was like i relate to you very well but yeah yeah it's proof to how important it is to have

00:52:41.440 a strong network of people around you and to answer this question here he's moving to philly

00:52:44.740 he doesn't want to because the community college people are left when retards you need to go and

00:52:48.240 find people like-minded online and i provide that in the creativity kit that's dropping february 1st

00:52:53.280 um the updated version with new professor and everything the the people that i've met in my

00:52:57.200 life who support me and that i have uh strong connections with them the same beliefs as i have

00:53:03.900 all met on the internet all of them and it's not that easy for everybody to find that because

00:53:08.960 you know not everybody is as a streamer right they don't have an audience where but the best

00:53:14.580 place is to find uh an online community now and this is not just an ad for the creativity kit it's

00:53:18.960 just a good advice in general if you can find like-minded people online that that would be the

00:53:23.040 place where you could stay sane in this clown world if you're going to a community college in

00:53:26.860 philadelphia east coast colleges are just woke indoctrination camps so stay strong don't don't

00:53:32.220 get brainwashed by the woke mob and find people online i'm jacob i'm 27 years old and i'm a trans

00:53:37.720 man so the relation with my dad and how unsupportive he is has been a challenge for me

00:53:42.240 but it's something that i've learned to grow past and i encourage everyone that even if you don't

00:53:46.380 have a parent who is supportive to still be authentically yourself because your life is

00:53:49.680 meant to be lived for you and i think that choosing my happiness above all else has made my life that

00:53:53.940 much better and i wouldn't change anything even though he wasn't supportive i still wouldn't have

00:53:57.680 him here listening to all your guys points i would definitely say yeah i did have a father figure he

00:54:03.340 was in the marines and he has this very like toxic masculinity mindset toxic a lot of anger built up

00:54:09.680 that i can definitely tell he suppressed you know in the marines because that's what he was taught

00:54:13.800 to do that's what the marines are about he always carried that with him and i think that's what he

00:54:16.880 tried instilled in me and my siblings at a very young age which made it hard for me to be vulnerable

00:54:20.700 with myself and i just saw a lot of anger issues that were you know very violent sometimes and

00:54:25.860 since coming out um as trans i feel like he's been more willing to understand me more and trying to

00:54:31.860 figure out who i am as a person and because of that i feel like our relationship has definitely

00:54:36.000 got a lot stronger since then i can't imagine if it was to come home and then try to be vulnerable

00:54:38.920 after suppressing so much pain and hurt for years so it's good to hear that you know he's

00:54:43.220 learning and kind of evolving and opening up that's something where you know you guys are

00:54:46.480 about vulnerability right and it's like there's it's there's times when it's good to be hard i

00:54:53.040 don't show emotion as much as i'd like the trans sit down hypothetically why even argue with these

00:55:01.680 people when we can just liquidate them well it's good to it's good for content it's good for videos

00:55:05.840 but i mean in real life there's no point in really arguing about this unless you're not making money

00:55:09.760 off it demon such as love you bro i made a video about you before so you know i'm not a hater but

00:55:13.600 but you could do some boxing training for someone who talks about beating people up so much.

00:55:16.580 I would work you at 5, 8, 140.

00:55:19.300 You just gave $15 to say that you could beat me up.

00:55:23.760 You really want the smoke?

00:55:25.260 You really want the smoke?

00:55:29.700 I definitely have sensed and noticed since transitioning that being onto testosterone has made me cry less,

00:55:35.300 which is very interesting because I believe that before I transitioned and started taking testosterone,

00:55:39.620 I feel like not being able to cry as much, it makes me feel like I'm like,

00:55:43.320 Damn, I wish I could cry right now, but it's not going to happen.

00:55:46.040 Hi, I'm Gibby, and I'm a trans man.

00:55:47.760 Before transitioning, I guess only presented as lesbian.

00:55:51.040 But since transitioning, I've been able to be more comfortable with my sexuality.

00:55:54.840 I've definitely seen on dating apps and stuff, a lot of conservative men fetishizing trans individuals.

00:56:00.580 And it's interesting because a lot of the time they say that they don't identify as gay or within the community,

00:56:09.660 and yet they're fetishizing my community.

00:56:13.320 so i don't know about you guys but i always speak my mind if i feel a certain way i'll tell somebody

00:56:20.560 and that probably cost me a lot of relationships but uh that's just how i am so i don't think

00:56:24.700 there's anything wrong i know we talked about vulnerability chat type of one if you have lost

00:56:28.460 friends because of what you believe you know a long time ago i don't think there's anything wrong

00:56:31.960 with being vulnerable i think like we said there's times and places for knowing when it's okay to be

00:56:36.200 vulnerable and being self-aware of that and then you know being strong when you need to and being

00:56:41.600 um sad you know when it's appropriate but i certainly am not as vulnerable or not as emotional

00:56:46.540 as probably i should because just because it's not something that i always did growing up but i

00:56:49.840 don't feel like i have any real issues like suppressing i just feel like i kind of get it

00:56:52.660 out in other ways yeah that's i mean that's great you look at it look at it like that because i

00:56:55.760 believe for me like my personal experiences like because and type of two if you use the gym as

00:57:00.640 therapy i was one you know to transition at a very young age and my dad being in the military

00:57:04.780 um being a veteran he would see me being vulnerable at times and he'd be like well don't you want to

00:57:09.480 be a man and that would make me feel like oh am I not supposed to be vulnerable anymore now that

00:57:13.400 I'm you know I'm gonna transition and it was just like very hard for me because like I said earlier

00:57:18.420 it was hard for me to have that father figure at that time of my life. You know my process of you

00:57:23.440 know digesting emotions is by myself and I use that time to self-reflect so if I'm feeling angry

00:57:28.820 or if I'm you know feeling really passionate about something or whatever the emotion is

00:57:31.820 sometimes I pull back and I don't show that emotion because I'm reflecting on it and trying

00:57:36.180 to understand why it's there so I think a lot of times people can think men aren't showing enough

00:57:39.540 emotion but in reality they're just self-assessing why that emotion is there in order to see what

00:57:43.600 it's what it's trying to teach us right I think for my when I was female I was much more angry

00:57:48.200 I was just reactive angry like and then as I became a man I so I cry more now as a man than

00:57:53.900 I ever did as a woman and I'm like I think it's because I'm at peace with myself and so before I

00:57:58.060 was just so angry about being a woman and everyone calling me she and seeing a girl and I just be

00:58:01.200 and I was a fashion model so that really just took it to a whole other level and then once I became

00:58:05.440 man it was like whoa I can actually relax and I think I do the same thing I

00:58:08.740 self-reflect on myself I don't I want to be this type of man that is more

00:58:12.280 vulnerable and that is more accessing my own emotions thank you everyone

00:58:16.200 alright chat Pearl is here Pearl is here

00:58:33.400 this is your job

00:58:35.440 Thank you.

SNEAKO - January 02, 2023

SNEAKO Reacts To Jubilee Debate： Trans VS Conservative Men!

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