SNEAKO - January 02, 2023


SNEAKO Reacts To Jubilee Debate: Trans VS Conservative Men!

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Is masculinity disappearing in America? What role models do we look to for male role models? Is femininity being devalued? Is there a growing trend away from masculinity in society? What does it mean to be a man these days? And what role models are there for trans men?

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00:00:00 Happy New Year, chat. Let's get into it.
00:00:01 High energy all year.
00:00:03 This is a great place to start.
00:00:04 Trans versus conservative men. 0.76
00:00:05 Is masculinity disappearing in America?
00:00:08 Actually, you know who looks like trans men?
00:00:10 I should just put up the collage.
00:00:12 Middle ground is a social experiment
00:00:13 that brings humans with opposing beliefs together.
00:00:16 These discussions may contain viewpoints
00:00:18 that are the result of misinformation.
00:00:20 Remember to seek out experts
00:00:21 and to be critical of your own biases
00:00:23 while forming an opinion.
00:00:24 Please see the humanity in each participant.
00:00:27 And as always, we encourage empathy.
00:00:29 Was this a trigger warning? That was just a long trigger warning.
00:00:34 Encouraged epitome.
00:00:35 We're just redefining what being a man is. You have to understand you're redefining a fabric in society that has kept the human race and got it to where it is today.
00:00:43 But do you see the state of our world today? It's not perfect. And it's been led by men throughout all of history. And look where it's gone.
00:00:59 step forward if you agree with the prompt masculinity is disappearing in america and
00:01:09 shout out to the people making a documentary in the future chat can you say whittler and
00:01:13 wallaban right now just get them triggered before we even start this video
00:01:16 i think that masculinity is disappearing i think that it's a conservative effort to
00:01:25 to emasculate men. I think that some people feel threatened by masculinity and the typical way that
00:01:32 men carry themselves, leading families and different things like that. So I think that
00:01:37 there's an effort to mitigate strong men in America. There's a few different ways to think
00:01:42 about masculinity, but just looking at the definition of the term 50 years ago, you had
00:01:48 people like John Wayne, you had Martin Luther King, you had Sean Connery. You think of masculine
00:01:53 And now the role models are Tom Holland,
00:01:57 Lassenabi, Beards, Harry Trask.
00:01:59 Bro, you see Lassenabi kissing a dude 0.85
00:02:01 that he tweeted himself kissing Curtis Conner?
00:02:03 I should add him to the Soulboy list.
00:02:05 He looks exactly like one of these dudes on the list.
00:02:07 Big muscles, being stoic, being brave,
00:02:10 being rugged, being a provider.
00:02:13 Say you have, you know...
00:02:14 Bro, everybody should be sitting down for this question.
00:02:16 Masculinity is disappearing in America.
00:02:18 Of course it is.
00:02:19 Why would the trans people not sit down for this? 0.97
00:02:21 You are the... 0.99
00:02:22 If you're trans, it's just the opposite of masculinity. 1.00
00:02:25 People like Harry Styles and Timothee Chalamet,
00:02:27 you have people that are completely contrary to what we were looking at back then.
00:02:31 And those values of those masculine characteristics are completely devalued.
00:02:35 I do believe that masculinity is going downhill,
00:02:38 especially if you look at like testosterone levels.
00:02:41 Now the testosterone levels for guys is going down compared to generations before us.
00:02:46 So, yeah.
00:02:46 So, chat, no more vegan food in 2023.
00:02:49 Read in steaks, sparkling water.
00:02:52 Steaks every single day, eggs every day, we're working out every single day.
00:02:56 Don't, and semen retention, all of that, we need to raise our testosterone levels 0.98
00:03:00 because it gives you power and makes you feel better.
00:03:03 Happiness as a man is rooted in embracing your masculine nature.
00:03:08 I agree.
00:03:09 Hi, I'm Gilbert, I'm 24 years old and I'm a conservative man.
00:03:12 With my beliefs and having a trans man as my friend, we don't really talk about politics.
00:03:17 Someone being trans doesn't make me like them any less of a person.
00:03:21 As far as pronouns, when referring to my friend, I don't really use the pronouns that my friend would want.
00:03:27 I just say my friend or I say their name just because I feel like I'm giving into the narrative
00:03:31 that men can be women and women can be men if I use the pronouns.
00:03:34 And they force you. They shame you if you don't buy into their lie ideology.
00:03:39 That they want.
00:03:43 I do see that masculinity is under attack completely.
00:03:46 But my definition of masculinity, like you said, has a lot to do with the traits that are associated with it.
00:03:49 As a gay man, I mean, of all of us, you know, I mean, I'm not the most masculine.
00:03:53 What?
00:03:54 But I do think that the good aspects of masculinity are definitely under attack,
00:03:58 but I don't think that it's disappearing.
00:03:59 It's just being channeled in different ways.
00:04:01 It depends on how you look at it,
00:04:02 because a lot of the traits can also be embodied in women and femininity. 1.00
00:04:06 So when we look at masculinity, I think that we have to also look at
00:04:09 what is the actual definition of femininity and masculinity.
00:04:12 And if we're defining masculinity by being stoic or muscles or body parts,
00:04:17 then is it really masculinity?
00:04:19 A lot of times when you guys spoke about masculinity, you associate it with men being manly, but I think more women.
00:04:23 Whoa. Whoa, this GameStop employee is really convincing.
00:04:29 Are embracing their masculinity. Masculinity is still there. I mean, just other genders are using it. 1.00
00:04:33 Being courageous, being powerful, more women are standing in their power, which is again associated with masculine, but it's not specific to just men.
00:04:39 Women are no longer submissive, they're dominant. Women don't need men, and I think that most of America is realizing that anyone can be powerful on their own.
00:04:45 I believe that the masculine traits are inherently in men and men have to take a position.
00:04:50 You made a really good point by saying women are now becoming more masculine. 1.00
00:04:52 They feel as if they don't need men.
00:04:54 So then you should have sat down for the prompt.
00:04:56 If women are becoming men, then masculinity is disappearing. 0.99
00:05:00 Which I think is the problem here.
00:05:01 I think that the way we've been designed by God, in my opinion, is that men are to lead.
00:05:06 Men are to be strong.
00:05:07 Men are to be brave.
00:05:08 Men have to take their rightful position. 0.81
00:05:10 The way our country has been structured to this point have been because of strong men
00:05:14 who have taken a stand, who have fought wars.
00:05:16 Now I feel like it's getting so lopsided
00:05:17 that our families are degrading.
00:05:19 People don't know where they're at in this country.
00:05:21 Now in 2022, masculinity is being redefined.
00:05:24 And I think what happens is people get upset
00:05:26 when things start to change.
00:05:27 I think that nobody ever wants to take that away from men.
00:05:30 I think that what we want to do-
00:05:31 Bruh, seriously?
00:05:33 Bruh.
00:05:34 Really?
00:05:37 In the world now is start to understand what is masculinity
00:05:40 and it's always been really associated
00:05:41 with this very machismo space.
00:05:43 Hey, shout out to the dick rider in the chat that just gave me a dollar to say some old meme. 1.00
00:05:49 Man, it's the first day of the year and you chose to ride my dick. 1.00
00:05:52 Thank you for your money, pussy. 1.00
00:05:53 And now there's different kinds of men in the world. 1.00
00:05:55 There's not just biological men.
00:05:56 There's also trans men or people who want to be masculine.
00:05:59 Thanks for the 20, Blake.
00:06:00 I want a Nike contract with this.
00:06:02 Do you recommend I post all Nike on Insta and try to get myself a contract? 0.97
00:06:05 Oh, no, homo. 1.00
00:06:06 I'm 6'4".
00:06:07 But you're asking too many questions in the chat.
00:06:09 Talk to me in the creativity case.
00:06:09 So I think what's happening now is people are pushing against change.
00:06:12 because change is scary and people don't understand.
00:06:15 And so I think men, biological men, feel under attack
00:06:17 when I think that's not what's happening here.
00:06:19 The point that you made is 100% correct.
00:06:21 There are different phases and people are experiencing it in different ways.
00:06:24 The feminist movement is, I think they are attacking masculinity within men.
00:06:28 I don't want a man to open the door for me.
00:06:30 I don't need a man in my life.
00:06:31 I can do all these different things.
00:06:32 What they're doing is attacking men and that's what's causing the problem.
00:06:34 What part of the feminist group feels like it's attacking? 1.00
00:06:36 Because I know that most feminism is like wanting equal pay or... 1.00
00:06:39 Well, you just said that women not needing men is somehow empowering.
00:06:42 you know having a man is somehow less empowering or being an individual is somehow less that's how
00:06:46 women feel women actually are saying that because no women don't feel that way they've been
00:06:50 programmed to believe that they're all unhappy because they end up 35 with a cat they want to
00:06:55 be submissive to a man this is not how they feel this is what instagram is telling them to feel
00:06:59 that's how they feel it's like that's not how every woman feels but no i'm saying everyone
00:07:02 they're only women speak for themselves so all of you are going to have different opinions as
00:07:06 biological men absolutely women all have different opinions oh you see a very specific group of
00:07:09 women saying this let me just you just you did just say that's how women feels are you speaking 0.73
00:07:13 on behalf of all no no i know i'm not let me take that back i got you the women who are saying that
00:07:18 feel that way why do you feel what you see how do you see what the the actual the bigger conversation
00:07:25 is like we i can go back and forth with destiny i can go back and forth to live all uh forever
00:07:30 and ever and ever the debate is ultimately logic versus emotion the left the woke movement all of
00:07:37 their opinions their whole belief system is based in feeling and emotion where the conservative
00:07:43 idea natural believing in god family values all that that is just logical it's factual this is why
00:07:51 they are changing the definitions of these words that's why they're telling you you could be fat
00:07:56 and it's good that's why they justify or they say that we need more help and more taxes and we need
00:08:01 more benefits from the government is because they don't want to take personal responsibility for
00:08:04 themselves because it makes them feel bad so the woke movement is just prioritizing your feeling
00:08:10 that's what the debate always goes down to that's why the weaker people are always on the side of 0.74
00:08:16 of woke but you notice how actually beautiful submissive feminine women end up becoming 1.00
00:08:23 conservative or just start making sense because they realize that they want to be submissive to
00:08:27 a man it doesn't make them feel bad to set their ego aside and be like yeah i want to be with a
00:08:33 traditionally masculine man feel that women in general feel disempowered no i don't think in
00:08:39 general no no no that's a generalized statement i can't you can't say that i said you're the women 1.00
00:08:41 no i did not i said the women who say that you associated somehow women are now embracing
00:08:46 masculinity which means that they are now more empowered because they don't need a man or when
00:08:50 men feel empowered thanks it's so sad to see they are so brainwashed i mean it is but the only thing
00:08:57 we could do is is become better ourselves you know you're not going to change everybody's mind 0.99
00:09:02 like you see people get so upset that they end up in my chat donating money to fucking talk shit 0.99
00:09:06 it's just like it it is sad it's sad how brainwashed people are but what are you going to do 0.99
00:09:12 about it fix their brain when women but i don't think that women's empowerment comes from having 1.00
00:09:17 a man or not having a man so why is it always associated that uh you know a woman's now
00:09:21 empowered because she doesn't need a man a woman has always been empowered women have never been 0.78
00:09:24 but they never felt that's not true i mean if we go back to the 1920s if you're going to do that
00:09:28 but that's not what we're talking about we're talking about society right now right now you
00:09:30 actually think women are empowered right now? Absolutely. Women are empowered. Women are in 1.00
00:09:34 charge right now. As the vice president. And how long did it take for her to become a vice president? 0.98
00:09:38 There is a right and wrong way to be a man. Yes. All the conservatives are going to sit down
00:09:44 and then the trans people are going to stay standing. Take a second to think about it. 0.95
00:09:51 What? What? I think that when I originally heard the question being asked, I didn't agree with it,
00:10:00 but men are not abusive individuals men are not to be cowards men are to leave their families
00:10:07 and men who do not display that I don't believe that they are men in my opinion and all of the
00:10:11 qualities that I see in my father is what I believe a man should be all of those characteristics are
00:10:15 what make a man and when I see a man be a coward in the truth and just speaking the truth or
00:10:20 I'm sticking up for what's right especially today in America with everything going on I'm like
00:10:23 those are not men my name is Clarkson I'm 24 years old and I'm a conservative man my biggest
00:10:28 question for the other side really is are you happy anybody that wants to fundamentally change
00:10:32 society and change gender roles to me that that's not happiness and if if we want to fight for
00:10:36 acceptance we need to start with acceptance which is accepting society for what it is
00:10:43 at the end of the day we're all men and i don't believe there's any any wrong you're not though
00:10:48 like no no way to be a man we're just redefining what it means to be a man so redefining means
00:10:57 there are things that naturally come to men so when you say we're just redefining what being a
00:11:01 man is you have to understand you're redefining a fabric in society that has kept the human race
00:11:05 and got it to where it is today so just like aimlessly throwing out oh well we're just
00:11:08 redefining what it is to be a man that's not just like a light subject that we should be talking
00:11:12 about but why do you have to stay the same why do we need to have the same thing for hundreds of
00:11:15 years do you not see the same thing it's just keeping the same qualities but do you see the
00:11:19 state of our world today it's not perfect it's and it's been led by men like throughout all of
00:11:23 of history and look where it's gone so you're you know we're talking about redesigning what it means
00:11:28 to be a man so what do you want to bring to traditional men i think it's embracing that
00:11:31 you can be vulnerable i think that a lot of men want to portray strength strength strength but
00:11:35 men are people and i know that men have feelings being a man and masculinity those are two different
00:11:39 things and i believe that we can redefine whatever that means to anybody by including other types of
00:11:45 men or other types of masculinity i myself am a father i have a child some people would disagree
00:11:49 You're a father? That's a trans? I don't get it. What? 1.00
00:11:53 Being a father because I am transgender.
00:11:55 But that being said, I present to the world as male.
00:11:57 My child sees me as a man.
00:11:58 There's proper ways to be vulnerable, right?
00:11:59 You don't have to break down in front of your family and cry.
00:12:01 It's okay to suffer silence as well.
00:12:03 Strong men, I believe, exude the qualities that you guys are referring to.
00:12:06 I think the problem is overcorrection, right?
00:12:09 Some people believe that men need to cry and lay on the ground and be feminine.
00:12:13 No. Therapy is a giant scam.
00:12:15 Imagine the look on the face of a therapist.
00:12:17 I was thinking about this today
00:12:19 How happy you must be as a therapist
00:12:21 To see a blue haired girl walk in 0.59
00:12:24 Just
00:12:25 You just know
00:12:30 You're about to make 10 bands a month
00:12:33 Off of her 0.55
00:12:33 It's just
00:12:35 That must be the best feeling
00:12:37 Imagine being a therapist
00:12:39 And you see one of these people walk in
00:12:41 I'm like
00:12:42 I'm going to the strip club
00:12:43 I'm ordering steaks
00:12:46 i'm buying nikes for all my kids i'm taking out a lump bro seeing them walk in you might it must
00:12:54 put such a giant smile on your face because they're never going to be fixed they don't
00:12:59 actually want to get better they're going to constantly go back whereas if you're if you make
00:13:03 sense as a man you're going to know that there's nothing really that you're going to learn in
00:13:07 therapy that you can't figure out for yourself get over it thank you for your 20 uh i want to
00:13:12 podcast with you host um talk to me in my discord i want to know where actually message my my manager
00:13:18 on instagram islam with an x is lxm women my name is brandon i'm 34 years old and i'm a conservative
00:13:24 man i had a lot of curiosities about what it's like to be a person who believes that they're
00:13:29 a trans man you know i feel like god has created all of us very uniquely and although i have
00:13:33 beliefs and i follow the bible to the t i still want to know from other people what their experiences
00:13:38 are doesn't mean i have to agree but i really want to know what other people are feeling from
00:13:42 person who's experiencing it real time i have male privilege uh-oh are the trans gonna sit down 0.98
00:13:51 of course they are yeah
00:13:57 i've lived both lives and i can tell you firsthand that it does exist i am taken much more seriously
00:14:01 in my career since i transitioned as a man prior to transitioning i would work just as hard if not
00:14:05 harder for the same position and not be considered the minute that i transition i am immediately
00:14:09 taken more seriously well that's a privilege because what it's a privilege that you have to
00:14:12 work women don't have to work as hard as men because they are supposed to be at home nurturing 1.00
00:14:18 cooking cleaning making macaroni paintings for the kids it's not it's just different roles that
00:14:23 men and women play i'm not going to say imagine if i was a man to say women are privileged because
00:14:27 they can just cook all the time women are privileged because they can do my laundry like 1.00
00:14:33 Like, no, it's just different opportunities, different roles.
00:14:37 Seriously, I can give you an example.
00:14:39 Obviously, with COVID, there's like the mask mandate, right?
00:14:41 So I have to tell customers all the time,
00:14:42 I need to be above your nose, right?
00:14:43 I do that all day.
00:14:43 My manager who's above me, who is a woman,
00:14:45 will have to go to them, tell them they give her a fight.
00:14:47 But the minute I just look in their direction, it's up.
00:14:49 It doesn't seem like a privilege,
00:14:50 but it is because now my manager has to work three times harder
00:14:52 for something that's so simple.
00:14:53 I think the word privilege is the thing that turns a lot of people off
00:14:56 with this conversation.
00:14:57 But that being said, again, myself living my life as a female,
00:15:00 pretty much half of my life, and then now half of my life as a man,
00:15:02 there is no way i could not be honest about the fact that my life has changed drastically also
00:15:06 being a white man that's also as a white man they always got to bring this into race it's just all 0.99
00:15:10 the woke shit comes out someone chat said damn if i sold thank you third whip i sold hormone 0.99
00:15:14 medication i'd be calling you a broke you sneaker exactly this is there's an entire business around 1.00
00:15:21 profiting off of their retardation you can make so much money from therapy selling medication 0.99
00:15:28 putting fat people on billboards it's a whole business conversation a lot of people don't want
00:15:34 to have but i have privilege of being white and privilege also being a man now i can walk into
00:15:37 any room and command that room in a heartbeat because people just do that with men and i think 1.00
00:15:41 the thing is that biological men are born into that space so they'll never ever see it why do 0.96
00:15:46 we now as women who have become men get to have this thing it's 100 because we are men we look
00:15:51 like men nobody would ever know no one would ever know that i wouldn't know that i used to be women
00:15:55 So it's actually a real lived experience.
00:16:01 So I agree with a lot of what you all are saying as far as like transitioning.
00:16:06 But as a black man, privilege looks way different for me.
00:16:09 Because if I'm walking down the street, then I'm seen as a threat by police, by women, by anybody else.
00:16:13 Being seen as a man is where my privilege stops and where everything else begins.
00:16:17 So I don't see it as privilege.
00:16:18 Okay, I got a lot to say about this topic here.
00:16:21 First of all, I mean, we have to be transparent and honest with each other.
00:16:23 You know, I think that not everybody on this side presents 100% like a man.
00:16:29 Like, if I saw you in the streets, I wouldn't think you were a man.
00:16:31 You know, men have it really hard in this world, and they've always had it hard in this world.
00:16:33 The wars have been fought by men.
00:16:35 No, I think the two on the left, I wouldn't think.
00:16:37 I would just think that they work at GameStop.
00:16:39 They've died in the hundreds of thousands.
00:16:41 Men commit suicide more. 0.95
00:16:42 Men work more dangerous jobs. 0.94
00:16:43 You know, if somebody broke in this place right now, who they're going to expect to defend?
00:16:46 Everybody in here is going to be the men.
00:16:48 If your family fails, they're not looking at your wife.
00:16:50 They're not.
00:16:50 They're looking at the man.
00:16:51 you know i just want people to understand it there's there's there's there's some advantages
00:16:55 that men have and then also men do struggle and custody and all kinds of different things as soon
00:16:59 as the dangerous situation arises everybody reverts back to their gender roles thank you 0.99
00:17:05 for the 10 those are scary thoughts i don't know what you're talking about um as soon those are
00:17:10 what they're talking about the business of woke i mean it makes a lot of sense because we we're
00:17:15 in a world where we have so much time and we don't need to revert back to our generals because
00:17:21 we're so advanced right now and everything's becoming technology-based and so we get the
00:17:25 privilege to ignore the fact that we have gender that we're supposed to act on our normal gender
00:17:30 roles when the titanic crashes into the iceberg who gets on the lifeboat the soy boys the women 0.99
00:17:39 and children the men have to stay on and fight and try to save the boat from but all the weak 0.93
00:17:44 people the women get on the lifeboats and men have to go and save it as soon as something happens
00:17:49 we revert back the only reason that that trans people get to exist is because of the the tech 1.00
00:17:54 the social media age because you know we don't need to use our physicality anymore percent i
00:18:00 100 agree with you as a man now right but i think my perception of it is different than yours because
00:18:04 you were born male you were raised male you have a whole other space in that and i totally respect
00:18:08 your opinion on that and i believe that that is a true lived experience as a born man yeah and let
00:18:12 me add with the black man because we have a different a total different reality in that i 1.00
00:18:17 don't in no way form or fashion do i go into a room and i feel like i'm less than i think i command
00:18:20 presence when i go into a room because the way i'm dressed and i'm tall i go in the streets i've
00:18:23 never had a person cross the street i've never been attacked by a police officer i was a police
00:18:26 officer you know i've been pulled over probably three wow look a minority who doesn't victimize 0.96
00:18:30 himself constantly who's saying that racism is something that we mostly see on social media not
00:18:34 a reality that everybody experiences look if you walk around like the trans guy saying i 0.84
00:18:40 it's so much easier as a man. Now, of course, if you have that mindset, you're going to see it
00:18:44 everywhere. But if you don't believe that racism is as real as they make it out to be, or you don't
00:18:48 believe that there's male and female privilege, or that women are victimized, then you're not
00:18:52 going to see it. Three times in my entire life. I mean, my biggest question with this and why I
00:18:56 don't necessarily agree with it is because when it comes to privilege, there's not really a way
00:18:59 to quantify it. It's very subjective. So like your version of male privilege and your version
00:19:02 of male privilege are very different. So it's hard to see the other side because you've never
00:19:05 lived it. The difference between you and us is we see it because we've lived it. You have not.
00:19:09 No, because you want to see it, because you want to have a victim mindset, because you are, look, visually weaker than the conservative men here.
00:19:17 And same thing with the soy boys.
00:19:19 They know they're weaker.
00:19:20 They know they're weaker than myself, than Andrew Tate, than Fresh and Fit.
00:19:25 And so instead of just admitting that and accepting their place or trying to improve themselves and trying to not be a pasty looking pale bagel who games all day, they go and hate people like me.
00:19:36 Accept where you are.
00:19:38 Don't live in denial.
00:19:39 Stop coping.
00:19:41 Look at you.
00:19:43 So it's easy to speak and be like, well, it doesn't exist.
00:19:45 Well, how would you know?
00:19:46 Well, I'm not saying it doesn't exist.
00:19:47 I think everybody has certain privileges.
00:19:49 But I think the question here is what defines male privilege over women?
00:19:52 Because women have privileges too. 1.00
00:19:53 So is there a graph that you guys are calculating to make men have more than women or what?
00:19:57 The privilege is not acknowledging what you have that comes so easy.
00:20:00 So do you think that your fear, because you live both sides,
00:20:03 do you think your fear is something that you have in your mind or you think it's reality?
00:20:06 Because let me say this.
00:20:07 you never you never really changed as a person you're the same person right exactly so you have
00:20:11 the same physical capabilities that you did no you were one no no you don't my no my strength
00:20:15 is entirely different what percentage would you say more than 100 i weigh like 100 pounds but you
00:20:20 still you're still not probably as strong as me but it's not about strength it's that women are 1.00
00:20:25 he said i could beat the shit out of you like yeah we could debate all day same thing moist 0.99
00:20:29 critical penguin zero you can make hit pieces about me but i could beat the shit out of you 0.99
00:20:33 are targeted men are not targeted i mean maybe sometimes i'm not saying they're targeted by 0.83
00:20:36 other men right but women are targeted by other men i think women have less of a safe space 0.99
00:20:41 less of a safe space bro men die we are 90 of homicide victims women have less of a safe space
00:20:50 women live longer men delete themselves three times more than women 0.99
00:20:55 and what's the safe space what are you talking about if we are 90 of the homicide victims 0.99
00:21:04 then it's literally a dangerous space compared to women the fuck are you talking about men men 0.99
00:21:10 don't have a safe space if you go to certain but i'm talking about they get murdered but i'm not 0.99
00:21:14 talking about certain cities i'm talking about everyday life yeah every day have you ever been
00:21:17 have you been attacked as a woman i have i've been raped i've been attacked i've been i can go 0.84
00:21:21 on and on and on i was homeless living in the streets raped all the time it what 0.98
00:21:25 all the time happens it's a real thing i didn't see the guys on the street getting raped
00:21:32 but men do get raped 100 but we're not the experience you can't talk about everybody laughs
00:21:36 at you do you get kind of called down the street like i mean women women say things to me when i 1.00
00:21:40 was a police officer do you feel threatened you feel empowered though right no i don't feel
00:21:43 empowered but do you feel scared do you feel threatened when a woman catcalls you no i don't
00:21:47 i don't feel i don't feel threatened if a man can try to challenge you because you have that
00:21:50 male privilege right as a woman what if a man was whistling at you when you were walking down the
00:21:53 street i've had it happen to me i had gay men whistle to me how does that make you feel i don't
00:21:57 I don't care.
00:21:58 Okay, cool.
00:21:59 I mean, as long as you don't touch me, we cool.
00:22:00 You might think I'm attractive, it's fine, it's cool.
00:22:02 I get it.
00:22:03 I think women will say the same thing 1.00
00:22:04 as long as you're not like trying to be predatory.
00:22:05 And I've seen it because I go to clubs
00:22:07 with my friends who are girls
00:22:08 and I have to tell the men to literally leave them alone
00:22:10 because they keep going and they're predatory
00:22:11 and they're literally scouting out women
00:22:12 that are drunk or whatever, not even drunk.
00:22:13 She could say no a thousand times
00:22:15 and they're still gonna bother her.
00:22:16 But the minute that I say something, they stop.
00:22:17 Women are not as strong as men and they get targeted. 0.85
00:22:19 Sure, yes, that is a privilege that men have over women, 1.00
00:22:21 but that doesn't mean that men have privilege
00:22:23 because of that one situation.
00:22:24 Men commit suicide way more than women do. 0.99
00:22:26 Why is men not suicide? 1.00
00:22:27 Because if we're gonna go that route, 0.98
00:22:28 trans men commit suicide twice the rate. 0.98
00:22:31 No, right, but that's not-
00:22:32 I think what's important here is to distinguish the fact
00:22:34 that yes, no one is negating the fact
00:22:36 that women you get preyed on.
00:22:37 You know, there's situations where this happens, right?
00:22:39 Like no one's gonna deny that.
00:22:40 But we're also just trying to say that
00:22:42 it's not like a one-sided coin here
00:22:43 where there's no, like men are just, you know,
00:22:45 we just have it good and we can do whatever we want.
00:22:47 We can't even be the next Supreme Court justice.
00:22:49 You know, it's like-
00:22:50 But you know, again, I live as a man,
00:22:52 so I see the difference.
00:22:53 When I said I have privilege and I walk into the room, of course, but then there's other things that are expected of me now as a man that I would never were expected of.
00:22:59 So would you guys agree that women, that there's such thing as female privilege?
00:23:02 Oh, sure, 100%.
00:23:03 My wife has privilege because she has me. 1.00
00:23:06 That's right.
00:23:06 So she don't have to worry about her safety because I'm there.
00:23:08 I don't believe that, I mean, as a man, it's like, you know, there's marketing for women-owned brands.
00:23:13 I can't, like I said, I can't be the next person for justice.
00:23:14 Like, it's, women are very much more empowered today, which I think is, I don't have a problem with it. 1.00
00:23:18 I mean, like, good for you.
00:23:19 but um i think that the man i am i probably have purpose because i'm you know six foot 210 like i'm
00:23:23 no one's uh picking on me when i walk on the street you know i used to live in chicago and
00:23:27 uh i used to walk home all the time at night but like was that smart probably not but i felt a
00:23:30 little safe because you know i'm not five foot 100 pounds i'm max i'm 29 and i'm a conservative man
00:23:35 in today's society women and men can be whatever they want and be as successful or strong or as
00:23:40 big of a leader as they choose so i'm just wondering in a society that is so seemingly
00:23:45 more level than ever before, why are we transitioning
00:23:48 to different genders to find, and what are we looking for? 1.00
00:23:50 Biology determines gender. 1.00
00:23:52 Okay, the conservative people sit down, 0.94
00:23:54 the trannies stand up. 1.00
00:23:59 Why did the fucking train, why, yo, 1.00
00:24:01 what is this bearded lady doing? 1.00
00:24:03 So, sex and gender, people try to argue
00:24:05 that they're different. 1.00
00:24:06 It's the same shit, Chad. 1.00
00:24:07 Sex and gender actually go hand to hand, 1.00
00:24:09 and our biology, being a man, comes down to every fiber
00:24:12 within our body, so whether that be DNA, chromosomes,
00:24:15 testosterone levels, uh, bone density, um, there's a whole bunch of different factors
00:24:19 that go into it, and it all has to do with biology.
00:24:20 So biology, I, I 100% believe in biology.
00:24:22 Today we don't, we talk about biology being a social construct, I disagree with that as
00:24:26 a transgender person.
00:24:27 I was born biologically female, I always acknowledge that, and today I live as a male.
00:24:31 Now that being said, sex and gender, they-
00:24:34 John says they argue like women law, cause they are. 1.00
00:24:36 They are trying to separate those things.
00:24:37 Gender can be, I've chosen my gender, as you see, nobody would, I think, probably understand
00:24:42 that I used to be a female.
00:24:43 Now many people do, like you just said, but we-
00:24:44 So are you still a woman or not?
00:24:46 Like, if you're sitting down, if biology determines gender,
00:24:48 then you are, it's not just me insulting you, you're a bearded lady. 1.00
00:24:51 That sex and gender are one thing and you can never change those. 1.00
00:24:53 I'm not trying to change anything.
00:24:55 I'm trying to show the world that this is how I feel by presenting the outside.
00:24:59 But I think denying...
00:24:59 So it's how you feel.
00:25:00 This is a pretty base trans take.
00:25:03 You're not actually a dude, you just want to feel like one.
00:25:05 Biology is where we get into a lot of problems.
00:25:07 So if you want to be seen as a man, then who are you to...
00:25:11 I don't care, I mean, you do you, whatever makes you happy.
00:25:13 but I think like we get it becomes a slippery slope like how are we going to deny basic human
00:25:18 facts like there's I think that causes problems and it causes problems for me yeah because the
00:25:22 minute I start denying your biology now you feel attacked by me and I don't want you to feel
00:25:26 attacked by me I never want you to I want to be a part of if that makes sense you don't have to
00:25:30 agree with my choice of how I live my life but all I ask for is respect what do you have on your
00:25:33 driver license and your birth certificate right great great so so that being said I transitioned
00:25:37 to live as a man 29 years ago so that was way before you see any of this stuff and I had to
00:25:41 acknowledge my biology right that being said my license I travel the world it has to say male
00:25:45 can you imagine if I showed up at the airport they're like female dude there's something going 0.99
00:25:49 on here but I actually got my my birth certificate changed to male I was the first person to do that
00:25:54 here in Los Angeles but that being said I kind of think that might have been a mistake to do that
00:25:57 now looking forward today because I never thought we would be having this conversation I'm glad you
00:26:01 said that because I love that people can express themselves we live in America it doesn't matter
00:26:05 what I believe what my religion is I love that people can live their best life I'll never ever
00:26:09 in my life protests or try to go against a person who wants to identify. The problem is
00:26:13 it's when you begin to try to change language and you begin to try to change reality and then
00:26:16 therefore it changes on the children and all of that becomes problematic. If a person says,
00:26:21 okay, I acknowledge I'm problematic. I'm born as a man or a woman, but I want to identify as this.
00:26:25 Cool. I respect that. And even if I didn't want to see it that way and some people may be a little
00:26:29 more ambiguous, I wouldn't never disrespect you. I'll call you by your name. Whatever name that you
00:26:32 want to be associated with, I'll do that. And I think if everybody in the country can get on that
00:26:36 same page i think we'll see less division i've noticed in a lot of the trans individuals that
00:26:39 i've met the older generation who had it a lot harder in society to be accepted is a lot more
00:26:45 willing to have the conversation we didn't have social media i didn't have cell phones i didn't
00:26:48 have computers when i transitioned this is how you build bridges i'm buck i'm 59 years old and
00:26:53 buck bro he could have picked she could have picked any name and he chose buck buck
00:27:01 that's
00:27:04 my trans man because i'm an elder trans man now and there's a much newer generation
00:27:09 there's a definite space where i have a different way of being than the younger generation and why
00:27:13 i tend to call myself a transsexual man and i believe in biology i believe in binary so
00:27:17 it really does not necessarily align with a new thought process that is happening with the newer
00:27:21 generation 0.92
00:27:22 so damn these are these new trains gonna be pissed at the old train i love this question 0.99
00:27:29 With trans folks, biology does change. 1.00
00:27:32 Our bone density does change.
00:27:33 Our muscle structure does change.
00:27:35 Our testosterone levels do change.
00:27:37 So biologically, we do change.
00:27:38 Anatomically, now that's where surgeries come into play. 0.99
00:27:41 So when we're talking about biology and gender that can't be changed, 0.92
00:27:47 our biology absolutely and concretely changes.
00:27:50 Not the DNA.
00:27:50 But our biology.
00:27:51 DNA does not change.
00:27:52 Yeah, DNA is not going to change for anyone.
00:27:53 So you acknowledge there's a biological difference between males and females
00:27:55 because some people on the other side would say there's no difference like a female like i can 1.00
00:27:59 look like a girl not having testosterone but i'm still a male some people are male some people are
00:28:02 female chromosomally but when we start to take testosterone our bodies do biologically change
00:28:06 but what about trans men who don't take testosterone then their bodies don't
00:28:09 biologically still female right and gender in itself is something we get to choose 1.00
00:28:17 okay like you said well in your life you get to choose not you don't get to choose it for
00:28:21 the world but you know yeah i get to choose my gender because i've been on testosterone for 10
00:28:25 years okay going on okay so what about the trans people who don't take testosterone 11 years but
00:28:30 there's some some anatomy that will never change that's right right i mean you're gonna you you
00:28:34 still have ovaries you still have you know the female reproductive system you said that you had
00:28:38 a child yes i've given birth i no longer have female reproductive right right but you had that 0.99
00:28:42 you will never get male productive organs now when you think about it the male men can't get pregnant 1.00
00:28:47 and female productive organs are similar and they're nearly the same they're different 1.00
00:28:51 they're different in size even if okay biologically functionality too not necessarily
00:28:55 because the testes and ovaries are very much similar one is a one is a uh an egg one is a
00:29:00 fertilizer but i can but i but i never uh g kip says those women should not speak on what it's 1.00
00:29:06 like to be a man clown world shit yeah they they want to it's okay just let them just 1.00
00:29:10 believe in what god would say men can't become women it's simple let them go chat their shit 1.00
00:29:17 but we we absolutely live in a common world there's there's no point in getting upset about 0.99
00:29:22 it this is just the way it is ever can't produce you're absolutely right you're absolutely right
00:29:26 and they can never produce ova and you guys are saying that gender is like a social construct
00:29:30 is that what you're saying too that you could change it but also if you want to be technical
00:29:32 about it age is and you're right washington heights the next plan is to allow pedophilia
00:29:35 to be legal yesterday scotland made it legal made it um legal to minor attractive people
00:29:41 scotland really legalized pedophilia i noticed as they started changing the definition of
00:29:45 pedophilia to mean minor attracted people it this is it's all part of the the lgbt agenda and 0.89
00:29:51 you don't see them really start to talk about it because they all are kind of involved trans people
00:29:57 want to change the gender of your children they want to give uh puberty blockers and gender 0.99
00:30:03 reassignment surgery to kids it's genuinely extremely pedophilic social construct your
00:30:09 ethnicity and race is a social construct and i'm hispanic i can't say i'm chinese because i like
00:30:12 chinese food i could i could please my skin all i want i could wear china clothes no race is not 0.50
00:30:16 how is ethnicity going to be a construct it's all social constructs how exactly if you look up is
00:30:21 race a social construct ethnicity a social construct is time a social construct everything's
00:30:24 a social construct if you want to think about it that way but we have set truths and we can't
00:30:27 change those truths if you want to say you're trans man that means you're a biological female
00:30:30 that thinks that i am a i am a biological male i'm anatomically anatomically i'm still right
00:30:37 anatomically just shut up i think it's really important right and it's anatomic okay because
00:30:42 biologically i have shifted okay transmitting going from one to the next biologically and all
00:30:46 these things i know that there's importance for you guys but meeting me you're seeing me you would 0.99
00:30:49 never know so why is it important yeah at this stage these silly trans bitches have a tragic 1.00
00:30:53 argument it's just their whole worldview is so attached to other people's perception it's like 1.00
00:31:02 they want to force you to agree with their nonsense you have to agree with their clownery
00:31:08 because in a vacuum or say there was only two people left on earth if you if there's only two 0.61
00:31:13 people left on earth and you say i just changed my pronouns okay like you still need to go repopulate
00:31:20 you still need to go make food it doesn't this only exists in people's minds it has nothing to 0.98
00:31:27 do with reality reality is you're either born with the penis or vagina and you just are a manner you 0.97
00:31:31 are trans this new thing it only exists if we allow it to it only exists if we that's why uh 0.97
00:31:40 that old tranny the book um understands that it's uh that it's not that you're never going to 1.00
00:31:47 actually become a woman because he just wants to present that way he wants other people to think
00:31:51 that he's a man he's playing dress up constantly and he she knows it you're not changing anything
00:31:58 you're just in a disguise well no because i'm just curious i was a woman just say if i was a woman
00:32:02 and i wanted to date you what are you going to tell me i will tell you that i'm trans no no i'm
00:32:06 saying you can't tell me that you're a man i mean i'm still a man no no but you gotta tell me you
00:32:10 gotta tell me that you were born a woman you have i mean i don't have to because if i if i go down 0.50
00:32:13 if i if i if i see in your pants right i'm gonna see something different and that's that that will
00:32:18 be troubling to me if i had an expectation again this is like leading off the topic but i mean to
00:32:22 answer your question if you must know i do tell the person that i'm talking to or interested that 0.98
00:32:25 transgender I don't think that you need it to you know you need a penis to be a 1.00
00:32:28 man I know that what then what is a man someone please ask this question next if 1.00
00:32:34 you don't need a penis to be a man then what is a man looking look they're 0.99
00:32:38 playing themselves and trying to play us no good you may disagree which is fine 0.99
00:32:41 like I get it but I don't want one I think no I have a question for all of 0.99
00:32:44 you do your penises make you men yes is that what makes me a man's ingrained 0.97
00:32:51 within every part of your body so ourselves right right if you had to look at the difference between 1.00
00:32:56 us and between you now would that difference be the lack of a penis if you were naked okay so if 0.97
00:33:01 we're gonna if we're gonna miss exactly you're just in disguise you got the beard you're acting 0.99
00:33:06 like you're dressing like one but you're not actually one demise being a man to that particular
00:33:11 and i got we didn't minimize no no i'm i'm asking the question okay if we minimize it because this
00:33:16 is where we're going is anatomy right because that's that's where we've gotten okay so if we 0.98
00:33:20 get there so do your penises make you more men than us it's not making more or less it's we're 0.98
00:33:26 we're a biologically man you're not a biological it's not a spectrum so it's not it's not a gender 0.99
00:33:30 is not a spectrum exactly good a good way to dodge that question you see what he was trying to
00:33:34 do he was trying to be like oh you think you're better than me or you're more of him it's either
00:33:38 you are a man or you're not more or less it's we're we're a biologically man you're not a
00:33:43 biological it's not a spectrum so it's not it's not a question that we can answer because you're
00:33:46 saying on the spectrum would this make us more of a man than you but no it's because we are a man
00:33:49 and you guys aren't well we're different so we're not men is what you is exactly what you just in
00:33:54 in my view you guys are appropriating the gender and you are living as a man but biologically you
00:34:00 are not a man so to me it's not you can't say okay well what make does that make us more of a man
00:34:04 that's not even a question to ask because you're not a biological man when it comes down to asking
00:34:08 questions that make me start to change what the truth is and what the truth isn't putting it on
00:34:12 a spectrum when it's an objective truth that's where i draw the line what's the biggest problem
00:34:15 with what he said well it doesn't make you it doesn't make what you feel any different the
00:34:19 biological truth is the truth and why can't that be the truth and you also say but i feel like on
00:34:23 the inside that i'm a man and i'm going to present that way the argument is that people try to
00:34:27 invalidate who we are with that i'm not saying that you guys sorry like all right find other 0.98
00:34:32 ways to define yourself besides what fucking what you got in your pants or how much surgery you did 0.97
00:34:38 i'm not trying to validate who you are you're just not a man have something else about you if this is 0.99
00:34:44 the most the biggest part of your identity then you are a failure but a lot of society in the 0.91
00:34:51 world does that well biologically you're female what hurts trans people that people don't realize 0.96
00:34:55 what they're doing is sorry look at that it's feelings versus facts it's just it makes no sense
00:35:01 but it makes them feel bad so they created an entire new way of thinking in order to justify
00:35:07 not feeling bad about yourself it's very harmful you got to be aware of what you're saying what
00:35:10 you're putting out there you know what i mean like yeah no 100 i would and that's why i think
00:35:14 we all agree we would never try to offend you or anything like that to be honest if i saw any one
00:35:17 of you in the streets i don't care it's not gonna bother me that you want to i wouldn't know unless
00:35:21 i pulled your pants down or something why do you feel like you have to present the way you do you
00:35:25 know facial hair could you could you be a man without having facial hair i mean yeah because
00:35:29 you feel like you're a man um i'm in the early stages if you are just a man why did you need to
00:35:35 get the surgery why did you grow a beard why are you wearing man clothes if you are just a man it
00:35:40 has nothing to do with biology then just walk around and say you're a man but you see how they
00:35:45 it's just a disguise it only exists because of other people's perception it stops from having
00:35:51 hit one year yet but first thing for me you know i crave you know having a full-on beard like
00:35:56 like these fine gentlemen you guys are like i crave it you know like but um i do believe like
00:36:03 not having like this little small piece that i have going on it does make me feel more dysphoric
00:36:08 it makes me like feel like oh that's just how this is how i presented before transitioning do you feel
00:36:13 like it's something that has gone wrong at birth like you know you're born and you say well genetics
00:36:18 and evolution says this why do i feel like this yeah i mean i think questioning it was something
00:36:22 that i always wondered because sometimes people say like oh like it was a choice which i hear a
00:36:27 lot on the other side all the time like it was a choice i was legit born this way like i could
00:36:30 I could remember from, I think, four or five years old where, like, I didn't feel like a girl.
00:36:35 Feel.
00:36:37 Don't you, can't we just break it down?
00:36:41 Does that make sense?
00:36:43 I feel like I had an epiphany today.
00:36:45 That it's really just about prioritizing your feelings.
00:36:48 That's everything on the left.
00:36:50 All this woke brainwashing.
00:36:52 It's meant to keep us down.
00:36:53 It's meant to keep us, like, constantly upset.
00:36:55 I guarantee you all these trans people are in therapy. 1.00
00:36:58 They take antidepressants.
00:36:59 they're constantly like they're constantly unhappy because their their self-worth is just
00:37:05 it lives in the heads of other people you know what i mean and i i can't tell you why that happened
00:37:09 it was just my path in this life and it's something that i honored and you know it was
00:37:14 really hard for me to continue living especially when puberty hit you know like time of month
00:37:17 comes in obviously anatomy changes like and that was the biggest thing for me where i knew like
00:37:20 okay i can't do this it's like you're not in your own home children should be allowed to transition
00:37:25 well i was gonna say i find it very interesting that you and i are the only ones that said those
00:37:31 pedophiles this is this is the next step in 2023 predictions for this year this is what's
00:37:36 going to happen climate change is the next pandemic and they are going to start normalizing
00:37:41 pedophilia they are going to keep calling it minor attracted person they're going to try to say like
00:37:46 oh we can't demonize these people we need to accept them like the real talk pedophiles need 1.00
00:37:51 to be killed like bullets you need to stock up on ammo so that you can kill these people 0.99
00:37:56 naturally not i'm not actually trying to threaten them that was a joke anybody who 0.99
00:38:00 clipped it up i don't mean that i don't mean that but but if anybody deserves the death penalty it 0.89
00:38:09 should be a pedophile and look that this is that's the next step because that's the only 0.98
00:38:15 thing left that they've changed men into women they've normalized being gay uh gender fluidity 1.00
00:38:21 dancing in front of kids there's drag shows for children the next step is normalizing pedophilia
00:38:26 especially since we're younger and you should allow children to feel what they feel because
00:38:30 i felt the way that i felt for as long as i can remember and it's something that i cannot deny
00:38:34 yeah you know although my mother is supportive when i was younger i wasn't allowed to wear
00:38:38 boys clothes because that wasn't right now i know we're talking about transitioning it doesn't
00:38:42 always have to be hormones it's like transitioning in society so being able to dress more masculine
00:38:46 I did when I was younger, but as I got into middle school, kids change.
00:38:50 People are mean, so, you know, I dressed how I would in society, so I dressed like a girl, whatever.
00:38:54 But I think that children should be allowed to express themselves in whatever way makes them feel comfortable.
00:38:58 Kids are struggling to be who they are, and there's more rates of suicide for trans individuals
00:39:04 because there's literally being laws put in place to prevent them from being who they are, and that's not right.
00:39:10 That's not right.
00:39:15 Okay, so I work with children.
00:39:16 This is where I have, like, the biggest problem with the trans stuff is with the children. 1.00
00:39:19 This shit is disgusting. 1.00
00:39:20 Because they, people, like, I'm sure you guys would agree, you want to inject them with the hormones to stop their puberty, their normal puberty. 1.00
00:39:24 Disgusting.
00:39:24 They haven't even developed their prefrontal cortex yet, and you want to stop their natural puberty from occurring to affirm their gender. 0.96
00:39:29 No, like, he should be more upset about this. 1.00
00:39:31 That shit is literally demonic. 1.00
00:39:32 It ruins people. 1.00
00:39:34 You're killing people.
00:39:35 And then later on, they regret it.
00:39:36 I think that's, um, not a good thing.
00:39:38 See, that's why this is a loaded question, because transition can mean many things for children.
00:39:42 Now, I totally, as a transsexual person, disagree with giving children hormone blockers, medication, surgery.
00:39:47 But what I do agree with is socially transitioning, which means what?
00:39:50 Because I did that, okay?
00:39:51 And I did that in the 60s and 70s. 0.99
00:39:52 My parents dressed me like, fuck, I was a boy. 0.99
00:39:54 You know, I didn't have any problems because I just lived, we used to call it a tomboy, right? 0.99
00:39:57 So that was totally, and I went through puberty and I did all the things.
00:40:00 I do not believe children can make those choices, and I do not believe it's okay and ethical. 1.00
00:40:03 Bro, if you can't vote, how the fuck do you know if you want to take puberty blockers and cut your dick off? What the fuck? 1.00
00:40:10 For a parent to make those choices for a child. But I do believe gender dysphoria exists in children. I had it. 100% it's there. 1.00
00:40:15 But to give medication to a child is so unethical to me that you would actually, exactly what you said, you're stunting brain growth, you're stunting all of these things, they don't have enough research on it.
00:40:24 So I'm in agreement with transitioning medically for children is not okay for me, but I do believe in a social space.
00:40:30 When you say a social...
00:40:30 No, absolutely not. No social space.
00:40:32 john says a man is who does their task at hand even if they don't feel up to it women want to 0.96
00:40:37 feel happy exactly girls just want to have fun men you just have to do what you're supposed to do 0.98
00:40:42 transition it's interesting to me because we can't control what happens in a social situation
00:40:46 so to me and we talk about suicide rates among young trans people this whole ideology is telling 0.68
00:40:52 people to derive their value off of what somebody else is saying validation exact bro this gay guy 0.73
00:40:57 is doing great about that or what somebody else affirms to them so we we say that you know society
00:41:01 Is that, is that, is that Jideon? 0.99
00:41:06 Did Jideon cut his dick off? 1.00
00:41:07 Lady is the problem and we're not allowing people 1.00
00:41:09 to be who they are and that's why they're committing suicide
00:41:11 but maybe it has to do with the messaging
00:41:13 that we're sending to these kids that you derive your value
00:41:15 from if somebody uses your correct pronoun
00:41:16 or you derive your value if you can,
00:41:18 if this person accepts you for wearing a dress,
00:41:20 be who you are but tell them to be empowered about it
00:41:22 and not get that empowerment from somebody else.
00:41:24 I feel like that's really kind of inconsiderate to say
00:41:27 that someone would take their life
00:41:27 because of what someone else says.
00:41:29 To somebody that is important.
00:41:30 to somebody i know have friends who their family does not use the correct pronouns they transition
00:41:34 they live in the same household this person struggles with depression and anxiety could
00:41:37 you imagine living in an environment like that where you're no longer validated that's coming
00:41:40 from your own parents but if you base your validation off of other people this is a hard
00:41:43 truth but if your soul then you're never going to be happy another thing for 2023 if you base
00:41:49 your validation for if you get your validation from anybody else besides your besides you
00:41:55 then you're never going to be happy and social media programs this into us like it's a big
00:42:04 realization i've had from doing youtube for 10 years is that we are taught to find our validation
00:42:10 from other people instead of from ourselves and if you live that way you will never be happy
00:42:17 this year it's all everything you see on social media it's it's all noise it's all back and forth
00:42:24 and there's no point in trying to get approval or trying to compete with other people i'm i'm over
00:42:29 that i'm over i've had that problem but i want to continue just to entertain spread truth seek
00:42:34 truth through funny get better every single day i don't i don't i've had so many hit pieces about 0.79
00:42:39 me i've had so many people talk shit about me i've had so many articles trying to cancel me 0.96
00:42:43 they call me racist misogynistic blah blah all all these words bro and i genuinely don't care 0.96
00:42:50 anymore because i'm the only person that gives me the validation that i need if i'm not proud of
00:42:57 myself then then i'm not happy so i i in order to be proud of myself you just do the right thing
00:43:04 every single day and i want to do that this year stream every day at 8 p.m eastern go to the gym
00:43:10 every single day get stronger strengthen my mind seek out different information
00:43:15 entertain everybody in the chat make art make movies just do what makes me happy that's how
00:43:23 you avoid the trap of seeking validation from strangers online and that's what the woke people
00:43:29 want you to do that's why they're in therapy that's why they take antidepressants that's why
00:43:33 they change their gender that's why they need to present a certain way that's why they demand that 1.00
00:43:37 you need to use their pronouns it's because they live for the validation of others that's why as
00:43:43 soon as you transition, you get extremely happy. As soon as you declare, I'm coming out, coming out
00:43:50 is like, it's a huge dopamine hit because everyone is saying your new name. You go from Sneeko to
00:43:55 Sneakita. Everyone's clapping. You're so brave. You're so brave. And then you like, you come out
00:44:00 with your wig or whatever. You're like, look at me. Wow. Your tits look almost real. Your beard
00:44:05 looks like a real dude beard. And then after seven years, this is what happens after even,
00:44:11 i think it's less than that they end up on the d trans subreddit once that dopamine wears off and
00:44:16 once people don't care anymore that you're now sneakita instead of sneeko once people aren't
00:44:20 calling you brave and clapping every single day and handing you awards and saying you're the best 1.00
00:44:24 person ever because you cut your dick off then you're like shit i miss my dick i miss my dick 1.00
00:44:30 the high of the validation is gone and now you need to take personal responsibility and actually 1.00
00:44:35 accomplish something for yourself instead of getting approval points for cutting your dick 1.00
00:44:39 off thank you 10 washington heights a realization that i had that the trans want the normal people 0.99
00:44:43 to validate them it seems that the normal people are like god to these creatures yes they they
00:44:48 that exactly what i'm saying thanks for the five now i wonder if the parents in america will watch
00:44:52 their minors hook up with adults with everything going on it won't be surprised if they came true 0.51
00:44:56 this came true it's a complete clown world and i think i think this is an accurate prediction for
00:45:00 what will happen this year and listen i could give bull i do what i want but for everyone that's not
00:45:07 case because everybody has different personalities right but that doesn't make it any that doesn't
00:45:10 mean that but it's still but we're not going to get that you're not acknowledging though is that
00:45:13 in that environment is not supporting i'm acknowledging that i'm just saying that we're
00:45:16 saying that for some reason they should look for that validation from somebody else when you love
00:45:20 somebody and you have a family you want them to you're focusing not on the individual you're
00:45:23 focusing on the people outside of that yeah but you're focusing on empowering that but part of
00:45:26 being a person is needing to be validated you don't need to be validated ever in your life
00:45:29 or your family or your friends no no great argument right here thank you for the john 1.00
00:45:34 ha ha sneak eat the high you're so funny g fuck off you give me ten dollars to make fun of my 1.00
00:45:38 joke suck my dick get my validation from within and then the right if we're talking about children 1.00
00:45:42 okay if we're talking okay i was an eight-year-old when i found out that i wasn't i wasn't 0.99
00:45:45 biologically male right i was eight when i found out that i wasn't the same as my brothers okay
00:45:50 and so going through that process i attempted suicide four times because my mother see it
00:45:56 attempted attempted suicide four times because you you can't find happiness within yourself you need 1.00
00:46:02 other people to come on jadeon jadeon you don't need to cut your dick off in order to be happy 1.00
00:46:07 this is not going to solve your problems you are lost this is delusion kismo d thank you 0.99
00:46:14 technically they're creating their own species of human i think trans people should get their 1.00
00:46:16 own gender label bathrooms etc so we can get on with life and uh idk if we can win my guy well
00:46:21 know that they're never going to be happy like that they don't want their own gender they want 1.00
00:46:25 to be they're jealous of regular people like they they can't accept the fact that they are just their
00:46:31 own thing they need to be undercover as us as normal people was like well you you are a girl
00:46:38 when you're when you're eight and you're 12 and you don't have anyone else that is in your space
00:46:43 you don't have anyone else that lives in the same house as you to tell you you're okay
00:46:48 where are you supposed to go how are you supposed to garner your own self-validation if the people
00:46:54 that are raising you don't validate who you are as a father you know my duty is to raise my
00:46:59 children the way i believe is right and if my child somehow struggles with this which is fine
00:47:04 we'll have that conversation but i'm going to let it play out the way i believe it should be played
00:47:09 out and at 18 years old you can do whatever you want to do if you don't want to wear dresses that's
00:47:14 fine i mean just wearing if you you want to dress like a boy don't make you want to be a boy don't
00:47:17 mean you have to be a boy my mom was a tomboy and my mom had me and my brother and she's a woman and 0.98
00:47:20 as a parent you shouldn't validate your kids for how they dress you should validate them for
00:47:25 accomplishing something or just if they're happy in their life like you don't need to
00:47:32 you don't need to give them validation for for dressing up a certain way you know and she lives
00:47:37 like that but you know you may want to dress a little different maybe a boy want to do cheerleading
00:47:40 or something like that but that don't make they don't mean you need to transition to something
00:47:43 else so i want that to play out until my child is old enough to make that decision on their own
00:47:47 also you have to teach your children to have balance because if you just want mommy and daddy
00:47:51 to acquiesce to everything you want that's not reality you have to understand that mom and dad
00:47:56 mean i see me this way they love me i see myself this way and i disagree with how they speak to me
00:48:01 or how they're but i love them as well i love like my son if he said he was and i'm a christian and
00:48:06 i don't believe in homosexuality i don't i respect anybody that feel that way i never you know 0.68
00:48:10 protest you at all if my son came to me it would be a struggle for me to want to go to his wedding
00:48:13 i'm just going to be honest but i think that my son should understand this is the way my dad feel
00:48:17 i love him this is the way i feel and we have mutual love and they don't mean i hate you they
00:48:21 just mean we disagree and i wish that same sentiment would be and i think it's the same
00:48:25 on this panel like there's no hate in any of this i love every single person on this side
00:48:29 and we may think of things differently but we love each other it can't be one-sided i am lucky
00:48:33 college is a scam nathan i'm 41. college pushes all this woke agenda they look school just teaches
00:48:40 you to be a slave it teaches you to be woke to go cheer for this stuff it encourages you to leave
00:48:46 class in protest for some nonsense everybody in college is a product of that woke propaganda
00:48:52 and i'm a trans man one of my greatest fears as a trans man is my life being taken from me 0.64
00:48:56 because i'm a trans man transitioning in a black man this is what this is what's going to happen
00:49:00 if jadeon keeps apologizing to pokemon neighborhood with gang members as neighbors uh they weren't
00:49:05 having that so the more that that my body started to look a lot like theirs um i was challenged on
00:49:10 on a regular basis was beaten up because someone recognized me from prior to my transition 0.98
00:49:15 and approached me and confronted me and called me a liar and told me I was a bitch and I 0.98
00:49:19 out of safety was like I don't know what you're talking about Nicole cocked me and I lost the 1.00
00:49:23 front two I grew up with a positive father figure conservative men sit down except maybe the gay 0.96
00:49:29 one I think well we'll see I don't think the trannies are gonna sit down what the oh everybody 1.00
00:49:37 This is good.
00:49:39 How did those dads fail him?
00:49:41 I think for me it's surprising because I would believe that a woman or a person who's born as a woman who now identifies as a man didn't have a positive role model as a man.
00:49:53 And therefore they felt somewhat insecure as a woman, which makes them feel a certain way and want to be a certain different person.
00:49:58 I think if your kid transitions, you failed as a father. 1.00
00:50:02 Maybe they want to be the man that their father never was or whatever the case may be.
00:50:05 And so it was very interesting.
00:50:05 I mean, being honest, it was interesting to see pretty much a majority of you guys come forward.
00:50:10 That's so great. I think that's really important that you say that,
00:50:12 because I do think a lot of people probably feel that way about guys like me, right?
00:50:15 That our fathers, we didn't have the right upbringing.
00:50:17 My father was amazing. I grew up really like a little boy.
00:50:20 I always felt like a little boy, and my parents actually raised me.
00:50:22 What happened?
00:50:24 This guy, like, reminds me of every guy in California, like, at a yoga studio, you know, hiking.
00:50:31 And I'm 59 years old, so that was in the 60s and the 70s when we didn't even talk about this kind of stuff.
00:50:35 my parents actually always a product of the sexual revolution the hippie age where everybody was like
00:50:39 popping lsd and going to beatles concerts felt it from me so i think that that's a misconception
00:50:44 that people think about people like us any good father pushes their child to one be you know feel
00:50:49 self-love and to feel like they can be who they want do what they want and you know have life
00:50:54 liberty in the pursuit of happiness right like our founding fathers and um so you know it's
00:50:59 fatherlessness or you know having a missing dad is one a pandemic on its own and it's one that
00:51:03 Obviously, I'm sure Baranagan and Tessie, it's so critical to have a father in the house
00:51:06 because kids get lost when they don't have one.
00:51:08 And having a father that's loving and strong and someone you can rely on
00:51:12 is the reason why we're all comfortable with who we are.
00:51:14 I had several different father figures in my life.
00:51:17 So it wasn't, you know, I had a dad, but then I had my grandfather and I had my uncle.
00:51:20 You know, it takes a village to raise a child, right?
00:51:22 But all of those different perspectives raised me as a well-rounded human.
00:51:26 Like, you know, if we take the masculinity out of it,
00:51:28 just as a human, I got to see different perspectives.
00:51:30 Does it really take a village to raise a child?
00:51:32 I never really believed in that.
00:51:33 Now, as a father that has given birth to a child, and that child being a male, right,
00:51:37 I'm able to raise him with those same ideals that I'm able to identify because of the father
00:51:42 figures that I had.
00:51:43 I didn't have my father growing up.
00:51:45 He was not present in my life at all.
00:51:46 So it showed me that some men can step up, like my grandfather and my stepfather who
00:51:50 have taken me in and showed me how to take care of myself, how to be, you know, strong
00:51:57 and dependable.
00:51:58 And all I've been able to do is give more love to all people that I interact with.
00:52:01 Right.
00:52:01 So it was really important for me to have those figures.
00:52:03 I think this is a really important thing to show people that are watching this
00:52:05 because a lot of times I feel like we can blame any issues in society
00:52:08 or anything that arises on the generation that came before us.
00:52:11 So any issues that arise in our society, it's like,
00:52:13 there's not always a reason why it's happening.
00:52:15 We just need to address the issue and solve it.
00:52:17 I grew up with all women.
00:52:18 My parents were divorced and I lived with my mom.
00:52:20 I had my aunts, so I was raised by women, but my dad was there sometimes
00:52:23 and then my stepdad took me in as his own, so I had my stepdad as a father figure.
00:52:26 I grew up with all women as well.
00:52:27 My mom used to tell me, I have to be your mom and your dad.
00:52:29 So there'd be times where I got both.
00:52:30 like she was super sweet with me or really strict on me and like she taught me a lot as well like
00:52:34 growing up with women it taught me a lot of vulnerability and when you were talking to you 1.00
00:52:36 i was like i relate to you very well but yeah yeah it's proof to how important it is to have
00:52:41 a strong network of people around you and to answer this question here he's moving to philly
00:52:44 he doesn't want to because the community college people are left when retards you need to go and 1.00
00:52:48 find people like-minded online and i provide that in the creativity kit that's dropping february 1st
00:52:53 um the updated version with new professor and everything the the people that i've met in my
00:52:57 life who support me and that i have uh strong connections with them the same beliefs as i have
00:53:03 all met on the internet all of them and it's not that easy for everybody to find that because
00:53:08 you know not everybody is as a streamer right they don't have an audience where but the best
00:53:14 place is to find uh an online community now and this is not just an ad for the creativity kit it's
00:53:18 just a good advice in general if you can find like-minded people online that that would be the
00:53:23 place where you could stay sane in this clown world if you're going to a community college in
00:53:26 philadelphia east coast colleges are just woke indoctrination camps so stay strong don't don't
00:53:32 get brainwashed by the woke mob and find people online i'm jacob i'm 27 years old and i'm a trans
00:53:37 man so the relation with my dad and how unsupportive he is has been a challenge for me
00:53:42 but it's something that i've learned to grow past and i encourage everyone that even if you don't
00:53:46 have a parent who is supportive to still be authentically yourself because your life is
00:53:49 meant to be lived for you and i think that choosing my happiness above all else has made my life that
00:53:53 much better and i wouldn't change anything even though he wasn't supportive i still wouldn't have
00:53:57 him here listening to all your guys points i would definitely say yeah i did have a father figure he
00:54:03 was in the marines and he has this very like toxic masculinity mindset toxic a lot of anger built up
00:54:09 that i can definitely tell he suppressed you know in the marines because that's what he was taught
00:54:13 to do that's what the marines are about he always carried that with him and i think that's what he
00:54:16 tried instilled in me and my siblings at a very young age which made it hard for me to be vulnerable
00:54:20 with myself and i just saw a lot of anger issues that were you know very violent sometimes and
00:54:25 since coming out um as trans i feel like he's been more willing to understand me more and trying to
00:54:31 figure out who i am as a person and because of that i feel like our relationship has definitely
00:54:36 got a lot stronger since then i can't imagine if it was to come home and then try to be vulnerable
00:54:38 after suppressing so much pain and hurt for years so it's good to hear that you know he's
00:54:43 learning and kind of evolving and opening up that's something where you know you guys are
00:54:46 about vulnerability right and it's like there's it's there's times when it's good to be hard i
00:54:53 don't show emotion as much as i'd like the trans sit down hypothetically why even argue with these 0.94
00:55:01 people when we can just liquidate them well it's good to it's good for content it's good for videos
00:55:05 but i mean in real life there's no point in really arguing about this unless you're not making money
00:55:09 off it demon such as love you bro i made a video about you before so you know i'm not a hater but
00:55:13 but you could do some boxing training for someone who talks about beating people up so much.
00:55:16 I would work you at 5, 8, 140.
00:55:19 You just gave $15 to say that you could beat me up.
00:55:23 You really want the smoke?
00:55:25 You really want the smoke?
00:55:29 I definitely have sensed and noticed since transitioning that being onto testosterone has made me cry less,
00:55:35 which is very interesting because I believe that before I transitioned and started taking testosterone,
00:55:39 I feel like not being able to cry as much, it makes me feel like I'm like,
00:55:43 Damn, I wish I could cry right now, but it's not going to happen.
00:55:46 Hi, I'm Gibby, and I'm a trans man. 0.99
00:55:47 Before transitioning, I guess only presented as lesbian. 0.97
00:55:51 But since transitioning, I've been able to be more comfortable with my sexuality.
00:55:54 I've definitely seen on dating apps and stuff, a lot of conservative men fetishizing trans individuals.
00:56:00 And it's interesting because a lot of the time they say that they don't identify as gay or within the community,
00:56:09 and yet they're fetishizing my community.
00:56:13 so i don't know about you guys but i always speak my mind if i feel a certain way i'll tell somebody
00:56:20 and that probably cost me a lot of relationships but uh that's just how i am so i don't think
00:56:24 there's anything wrong i know we talked about vulnerability chat type of one if you have lost
00:56:28 friends because of what you believe you know a long time ago i don't think there's anything wrong
00:56:31 with being vulnerable i think like we said there's times and places for knowing when it's okay to be
00:56:36 vulnerable and being self-aware of that and then you know being strong when you need to and being
00:56:41 um sad you know when it's appropriate but i certainly am not as vulnerable or not as emotional
00:56:46 as probably i should because just because it's not something that i always did growing up but i
00:56:49 don't feel like i have any real issues like suppressing i just feel like i kind of get it
00:56:52 out in other ways yeah that's i mean that's great you look at it look at it like that because i
00:56:55 believe for me like my personal experiences like because and type of two if you use the gym as
00:57:00 therapy i was one you know to transition at a very young age and my dad being in the military
00:57:04 um being a veteran he would see me being vulnerable at times and he'd be like well don't you want to
00:57:09 be a man and that would make me feel like oh am I not supposed to be vulnerable anymore now that
00:57:13 I'm you know I'm gonna transition and it was just like very hard for me because like I said earlier
00:57:18 it was hard for me to have that father figure at that time of my life. You know my process of you
00:57:23 know digesting emotions is by myself and I use that time to self-reflect so if I'm feeling angry
00:57:28 or if I'm you know feeling really passionate about something or whatever the emotion is
00:57:31 sometimes I pull back and I don't show that emotion because I'm reflecting on it and trying
00:57:36 to understand why it's there so I think a lot of times people can think men aren't showing enough
00:57:39 emotion but in reality they're just self-assessing why that emotion is there in order to see what
00:57:43 it's what it's trying to teach us right I think for my when I was female I was much more angry
00:57:48 I was just reactive angry like and then as I became a man I so I cry more now as a man than
00:57:53 I ever did as a woman and I'm like I think it's because I'm at peace with myself and so before I
00:57:58 was just so angry about being a woman and everyone calling me she and seeing a girl and I just be
00:58:01 and I was a fashion model so that really just took it to a whole other level and then once I became
00:58:05 man it was like whoa I can actually relax and I think I do the same thing I
00:58:08 self-reflect on myself I don't I want to be this type of man that is more
00:58:12 vulnerable and that is more accessing my own emotions thank you everyone
00:58:16 alright chat Pearl is here Pearl is here
00:58:33 this is your job
00:58:35 Thank you.