SNEAKO - SNEAKO Reacts To Male Feminists VS Anti-Feminists!

00:00:00.000 I want to watch this debate. It goes perfectly with what I'm talking about.

00:00:03.660 Do women really have it harder? Male feminists versus anti-feminists from Jubilee. 1.00

00:00:07.800 I can think that justifies being a feminist today is you must just want to get laid. 1.00

00:00:12.120 There's no reason to believe in all of these crazy things that seek to strip you of your masculinity,

00:00:19.360 perpetuate these terrible ideas that men are evil and all these things.

00:00:22.520 That has to be the reason.

00:00:30.000 Step forward if you agree with the prompt.

00:00:34.700 Women have it easier than they think they do. 1.00

00:00:40.000 This dude's ready.

00:00:41.520 Bro, this dude is about to spit this whole video.

00:00:44.720 He went, oh. 0.94

00:00:46.080 With feminism, it's kind of brainwashed women 1.00

00:00:48.080 to think that they are victims in 99% of cases

00:00:51.200 and all the disenfranchisement that they would claim

00:00:53.640 in colleges and careers.

00:00:55.460 A lot of these careers are way easier to get into for women 1.00

00:00:59.160 than they are for men because they're looking to hire women because of feminism yeah like in 1.00

00:01:03.160 divorce and stuff they get more property the kids rights all that yeah but more so i think that from

00:01:08.780 the jump actually have it easier like men need to be a provider they're taught to be tough oh why

00:01:13.340 are you crying don't be a girl but when a girl is crying or a girl is upset everybody jumps to come 0.69

00:01:18.660 and help her out the difference is women are never really lonely women don't experience loneliness 0.95

00:01:24.920 like men do women are expected to stay at home and they're not they don't have the same pressure 0.87

00:01:30.200 like I moved out of the house when I was like 14 I first got my own apartment when I was 19

00:01:36.660 and since then I've been a lot but the same pressure for women it's not women are expected 1.00

00:01:43.020 to rely on their parents longer to stay at home with the family longer and then they're handed

00:01:47.580 off to the guy that they end up spending time with for the most part and even when they're 0.88

00:01:52.660 upset there's always a friend to call there's always a dick to cry on there's always a shoulder 0.68

00:01:56.260 to lean on men experience loneliness real loneliness but you're not supposed to talk 0.52

00:02:04.400 about it you're not supposed to victimize yourself about it because people just no one can't no one

00:02:07.520 wants to hear shut up get over it no one cares it's funny it's funny like when a guy's crying 1.00

00:02:13.160 look at this stupid guy crying like everybody laughs goofy if a guy like gets his dick cut 1.00

00:02:18.540 off by his crazy ex-girlfriend they go haha dickless dave hey dickless dave oh she threw 1.00

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00:02:42.740 the dumpster yo dave show your dick hole put your dick hole out haha fucking dave i love you 1.00

00:02:48.640 you fucking idiot look at you no dick ah stupid no one cares haha thanks to the 20 yo i'm back i 1.00

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00:03:38.920 perfect boy and that's 10 what they're either decline do this one time on the podcast 1.00

00:03:48.400 let's go chat did you do it with me or were you fucking 0.98

00:03:58.620 How many of you were just laying on your side 1.00

00:04:01.620 Watching it in your bed like this

00:04:02.900 While I did push-ups on your screen

00:04:04.360 Gross

00:04:05.240 Imagine just watching me do that

00:04:09.660 And not doing it with me

00:04:11.000 Anything that happens usually they're a princess

00:04:13.620 And they're given the world

00:04:15.460 Well yeah because with women they're born with their value 1.00

00:04:18.280 They innately have value

00:04:19.860 They can create life and they're extremely valuable

00:04:21.720 From birth for men it's not really the same way 1.00

00:04:23.940 You have to make something of yourself to be respected

00:04:26.400 Like a pretty woman can go far 1.00

00:04:28.300 just using her face, a man can't do that.

00:04:30.660 A man can't go to a rich businessman or like a businesswoman 1.00

00:04:34.400 and be like, I'm good looking, let me come to your yacht.

00:04:37.200 A woman can. 1.00

00:04:38.420 Right.

00:04:39.240 Let's bring the disagreeers forward.

00:04:40.740 Uh-oh.

00:04:45.480 I have a quick question.

00:04:46.680 Just a second ago, you were saying that a pretty woman 1.00

00:04:49.380 could go on to a rich man's yacht

00:04:51.560 and that would be kind of her ticket on, right?

00:04:54.900 Okay, so did that help women vote at all, being pretty? 1.00

00:04:58.300 But what does that have to do with it?

00:05:00.400 I'm just asking.

00:05:01.420 Because, I mean, when we're talking about women's lives being... 0.97

00:05:04.360 Imagine equating voting to a yacht.

00:05:06.400 Chad, would you rather go on a yacht or vote?

00:05:10.720 Like, right now, right now.

00:05:12.960 Would you rather be on a yacht or be in a polling booth in line at a public school?

00:05:17.580 Better than they think they are.

00:05:18.820 Would you rather be pretty and be able to get on a yacht or have your liberties? 0.99

00:05:23.040 What are we living in, like, 1950s or 2022?

00:05:25.160 They already have the right to vote for a long time.

00:05:27.240 i think something you specifically what the was that argument well male feminists are so 1.00

00:05:31.160 retarded quickly said shows to me why women don't have it easier i think it was you who said women 0.99

00:05:37.560 already have their value their value is already obvious because they can have children i don't 0.98

00:05:41.800 want to put you into the box but there are large amounts of men look what this male feminist looks 1.00

00:05:45.480 like once again once again crack the code women are people that have children and then they raise 1.00

00:05:51.480 the child and they be quiet and i think that is a problem i think what was really evident and look

00:05:56.600 Look at this other male feminist. 1.00

00:05:57.800 What the fuck does he look like? 1.00

00:05:59.720 Just don't take him seriously, bro. 1.00

00:06:03.220 It just, all right.

00:06:05.360 I'll pray for you.

00:06:06.600 Good luck with your male feminism. 1.00

00:06:08.140 When both of y'all came up and talked was how indoctrinated into the patriarchy you are.

00:06:13.740 You both come up and say, as men, we have to prove something.

00:06:17.100 And those expectations that you put on yourself is a direct result of patriarchy and the systems that feminism is trying to dismantle. 1.00

00:06:26.600 So you don't want to have to do anything, bro.

00:06:29.440 This dude is saying wanting to prove yourself is a system of indoctrination.

00:06:34.160 Like, all right, bro.

00:06:35.980 That's what I'm telling you. 0.99

00:06:37.100 Being woke is just justifying extensively that you're a failure.

00:06:43.200 As are the values that women have that when they were born that you're talking about.

00:06:46.960 Women did not create those. 1.00

00:06:48.620 Right.

00:06:49.200 Those are God.

00:06:50.900 Men and women are both equal under God and in value as human beings.

00:06:54.760 In Genesis you have a creation of both men and women

00:06:57.040 We're not about to quote the Bible

00:06:58.940 No, no, quote the Bible

00:07:02.680 It makes way more sense

00:07:03.800 If we're operating in a country where there's a separation

00:07:07.160 Of church and state, you cannot use 0.63

00:07:08.880 Religion as a motivation 1.00

00:07:10.960 To make legislation

00:07:12.220 If I hear one

00:07:15.160 More person

00:07:16.600 Use religion as a reason 1.00

00:07:18.240 What's the correlation, that's why, another reason I started

00:07:20.860 Believing in God, because atheists 1.00

00:07:23.040 Look like this

00:07:23.800 and i don't want to be that genuinely i don't want to be like them

00:07:29.260 there must be a reason why they don't believe in god

00:07:33.200 to not give rights to people i'm probably going to explode people using their own personal

00:07:42.280 ideologies as an excuse to implement legislation over other people's lives are simply just not

00:07:49.140 okay with the fact that they can't control everything around them back to the prompt i

00:07:52.780 I mean, I don't think that women have it easier than they think they do. 1.00

00:07:55.920 And I think to just make blanket statements like women in society think they have it easy 1.00

00:07:59.740 or men in society have it harder or whatever you want to say, I just think it's kind of naive.

00:08:04.660 Sure, maybe some women think they have it easier, but that might not be because they're a woman. 1.00

00:08:07.820 It might just be because of their own set of life challenges and vice versa.

00:08:11.060 And I agree.

00:08:12.300 And one of the reasons that I am so passionately anti-feminist is because I believe that feminism pits men against women.

00:08:17.840 Men and women may be equal today, but they are not the same.

00:08:20.220 But also, too, women are under a pressing assault today in this country. 1.00

00:08:24.060 They're losing their ability to compete in sports, beauty pageants, also just basic things like that to people that identify as women. 1.00

00:08:32.460 And no one is talking about it.

00:08:33.420 Feminists aren't talking about it. 1.00

00:08:34.720 So now you have conservatives having to fight for women's equality in these spaces.

00:08:38.120 You're making some pretty blanket statements saying feminists don't care about it. 1.00

00:08:41.520 And you say, you think that all women just are against men.

00:08:45.360 Well, to answer your question, yeah.

00:08:46.400 You're talking about women. 0.87

00:08:47.360 Women are not all feminists. 1.00

00:08:48.360 There are plenty of feminists who are very anti-woman. 1.00

00:08:52.520 You know, you saw it in the political era

00:08:54.500 where you have people who will attack Kayleigh McEnany and Kellyanne Conway

00:08:57.180 because they aren't pro-women.

00:08:59.100 They're not for the girls.

00:09:00.400 So you...

00:09:01.040 Um, actually...

00:09:01.780 Notice how the old boy...

00:09:04.000 Old boy. 1.00

00:09:05.440 This male feminist is fat as fuck. 1.00

00:09:07.260 We have, like, just a little bit left. 1.00

00:09:08.700 I haven't heard Kevin yet.

00:09:11.440 Yeah, um...

00:09:12.660 Speak up, Kevin!

00:09:13.400 When you talked about the pressures of being a man

00:09:15.200 and having to provide and having to prove your value as a man,

00:09:19.020 I think those are real challenges that men face.

00:09:21.740 That's why women have it harder too, 1.00

00:09:23.700 because they are also being impacted

00:09:26.280 by how aggressive men feel like they need to be

00:09:30.100 to be able to secure the role that they have to play in society.

00:09:33.640 But the reality of today is that because of the systems that we're in,

00:09:37.500 the patriarchy is negatively impacting not only women, but also men.

00:09:42.400 There's no wrong reason to get an abortion. 1.00

00:09:49.580 All of them love abortion.

00:09:54.080 This dude, I vouched for you in the beginning.

00:09:57.720 So I'll just center the conversation around the very fact that, you know, we're a group of eight men.

00:10:03.780 The optics of eight men in a room talking about when women do and don't deserve.

00:10:09.620 the optics so you're not you're changing your actual opinion because of how you're going to 1.00

00:10:14.820 offend people what a fucking pussy to get an abortion is it's a bad look so like for me 1.00

00:10:20.820 say what the fuck you think stand on something don't just believe in shit because you don't 1.00

00:10:28.360 want to offend woke people what a fucking idiot i have a girlfriend there might be some reasons 1.00

00:10:32.960 on a personal level where her and i having that conversation together i might say oh i think we 1.00

00:10:37.820 should do this, I think we should do that. On a legislative level, I don't feel confident enough

00:10:42.900 to legislate when someone is and isn't allowed to get health care. Because that's what abortion 0.99

00:10:49.200 is, it's health care. One of the paramount ideologies of, I guess, being a quote-unquote

00:10:53.780 male feminist is just the ability to mind your own business. Just to be able to say that this 1.00

00:11:00.480 is the wrong reason to have an abortion, you're already headed down the wrong path.

00:11:03.460 yeah so being an anti-feminist i i look at this and i say chad wl abortion hey well i am more

00:11:09.660 religious as well as i'm so i want to say like i'm more like pro-life right but if a woman decides 0.90

00:11:14.960 that they want to not give birth it doesn't it doesn't matter the reason you know maybe that's

00:11:19.040 not the question the question is there's no wrong reason to get an abortion you know it's a wrong 0.99

00:11:22.440 reason to get an abortion i don't feel like raising my baby so i'm gonna kill it it's a wrong 0.99

00:11:27.800 reason to have an abortion simple simple you should be sitting down bro read more bible quotes 0.97

00:11:36.280 maybe she's not she's not wealthy enough maybe you know the father left her you know there's so

00:11:41.480 many reasons and then i also look at like just gun violence and how we're like birthing kids and we

00:11:45.760 raise them and send it to school knowing that it can get killed i don't know i would feel like

00:11:50.180 it's like not a safe it's not the best world to be exactly exactly you see how the woke people

00:11:54.920 got brainwashed to think that they shouldn't even have kids it's not the best world to raise a child

00:11:59.300 who made you believe that did you come to that conclusion or was it mainstream news there's a

00:12:04.920 reason that woke people say that nonsense i've heard that so much uh there's no reason to like

00:12:09.100 raise a kid in this climate of the no cnn you seeing syrian babies wash up on the shore from 1.00

00:12:16.540 cnn made you think that you shouldn't have kids that's the most beautiful thing that we can do

00:12:20.640 is start a family shut up only woke people believe this i think uh a patriarchal um element even in

00:12:27.520 your answer not to combat or what have you um the idea of trying to cycle cycle through the reasons

00:12:34.180 why and going yeah i guess those make sense is still in my opinion patriarchal even though i was

00:12:40.440 on the feminist side on that topic it feels like i was put in a position where i was framed as

00:12:45.100 wrong it felt like you are no he's speaking way zesty to be on our side yo jubilee can you get

00:12:51.560 someone like every time we do this video there's just an overwhelming fruity bias can you get

00:12:57.700 someone better i'm allowed to have this opinion on this topic because you're not a woman and i 1.00

00:13:01.980 think that's kind of bullshit to be honest off the top of my head i know that was mentioned earlier 0.91

00:13:08.220 that abortion is health care and i first want to push back on that abortion is not health care 0.97

00:13:12.980 healthcare preserves life it protects it uh it doesn't take it away it doesn't eliminate what

00:13:17.880 about the woman's life but when you exterminate a child that is doing oh but it's not always a

00:13:22.360 child right so it's it's a discussion when it becomes a child or not that's not a gray area

00:13:27.240 that's not a lot it is actually scientifically proven it is a it is a separate strain of DNA

00:13:32.060 at conception if you ask any doctor but if you took that clump of cells out would it survive

00:13:36.760 it's not a clump of cells that's why you call it a termination scientifically it is a life at birth

00:13:41.500 and scientifically it is at conception, it is a life, but it is not a human.

00:13:47.840 So look, though, the thing is, so when you say it's about protecting life,

00:13:52.300 abortions are protecting lives of thousands of women who maybe are not able to have... 1.00

00:13:57.200 At the expense of another life.

00:13:58.360 But you're already prioritizing that other life over the woman who's carrying that life. 0.98

00:14:04.300 Because of patriarchy, too. 0.77

00:14:05.480 Because of patriarchy, y'all are basically saying that this...

00:14:09.240 See, these cells are more important than the one.

00:14:12.920 I think it's absolutely shameful how flippantly our society has begun to treat the topic of abortion.

00:14:17.660 You are literally exterminating an unborn child.

00:14:20.160 To protect the life of another woman. 0.92

00:14:22.600 Then don't have sex without protection.

00:14:24.620 Oh, personal responsibility.

00:14:26.860 Just not a woke idea.

00:14:28.020 You don't have sex without protection.

00:14:29.820 You don't have sex without protection. 0.68

00:14:31.340 I don't have a baby.

00:14:32.400 Tell them what they can do.

00:14:32.820 I don't have a baby.

00:14:33.780 Tell them what they can do.

00:14:34.560 Stop absolving women and men of responsibility

00:14:38.000 and treating grown-ass people like they are children. 0.52

00:14:42.460 Facts!

00:14:43.240 We're not emphasizing any of those things.

00:14:45.580 We're going straight to women and making it their problem. 1.00

00:14:48.680 Well, it's a man's problem as well 0.99

00:14:50.460 because if a man gets a woman pregnant,

00:14:53.000 that is his child as well.

00:14:54.320 So one of the things that's really important

00:14:55.640 and what abortion does is it puts all of reproductive rights 0.94

00:14:58.880 in the hands of women when it takes both parties. 0.99

00:15:02.020 And the man has no right to choose.

00:15:04.060 There we go.

00:15:05.360 She cannot have a child without a man. 0.91

00:15:07.500 Abortion normalizes women making bad choices. 1.00

00:15:10.620 We've kind of given a free pass for people to be a lot more carefree about who they sleep with

00:15:15.960 and not really think twice about the ramifications that may come of it.

00:15:19.520 But again, we're also, once again, we're talking, we're zooming in on a high level on the end result.

00:15:25.400 We're not talking about the systemic issues that cause women to have abortions.

00:15:28.580 Hold on, hold on.

00:15:29.400 We're not talking about the lack of resources that make people feel like they cannot sustain a pregnancy or sustain a life.

00:15:35.660 And those are things that are caused by the way men have set up society.

00:15:39.680 So instead of talking about the actual issues from the top down and going the whole way,

00:15:45.620 we go to the most oppressed person involved and make it their fault.

00:15:50.360 Mansplaining is overly criticized.

00:15:53.880 Everybody should be sitting down.

00:15:55.520 What does mansplaining even mean?

00:15:57.440 being a man explaining something how is explaining part of the patriarchy

00:16:03.480 oh god all the sword boys this is a good one great question look at it i frequently come

00:16:10.900 across videos online where like a man will respond back to a broad generalization about women and

00:16:17.340 they'll be like oh you're just mansplaining it as if tell christine w single proud of you homie 0.66

00:16:20.920 l abortion w bible w jesus year shout out jesus men aren't allowed to have a voice in the

00:16:26.360 conversation um and i think that the term itself it's just not really defined and mansplaining is

00:16:32.300 just not real like it just it literally is a man explaining something and these people get angry

00:16:36.320 about it like that's the reality of the times in which we live and it also it hurts the ability of

00:16:41.180 men to have conversations with women because you think oh wow if i explain this issue to her and

00:16:46.240 i'm going to be accused of mansplaining or i'm going to be accused of being sexist because i 0.83

00:16:49.280 don't think she understands it it's toxic and it hurts women it hurts men and it's just it's just

00:16:54.020 not a way for us it's a way to encourage females to be delusional by not having a man be like no 1.00

00:16:59.480 you sound dumb and at its core it's completely hypocritical because the feminist plight is that 1.00

00:17:05.460 women need to have a voice and they're being told they can't have a voice and then they turn around 1.00

00:17:08.980 and do the exact same thing and say you're mansplaining me you shouldn't have a voice

00:17:12.400 about this topic because you're a man and we're targeted because of our identity and no one cares

00:17:16.440 about it because we're supposedly in positions of power so we don't get to be victims we don't get

00:17:20.840 to say, oh, you should feel bad for us because we're men. So we don't get to have the luxury

00:17:25.180 of having the benefit of the doubt of society or the media or any of those things. And it's

00:17:28.900 a shame. It's a shame.

00:17:34.280 I'm going to speak about mansplaining from a different perspective because you guys are

00:17:37.480 talking about controversial topics. I'm going to talk about it from just like a day-to-day

00:17:41.220 perspective. In my relationship with my partner, how I try to be really mindful of mansplaining

00:17:47.500 is when she's when she is sharing her struggle I think a tendency that can be conditioned in me

00:17:53.520 through just how men dominate and want to have to solve problems and all that is I want to jump in

00:17:59.100 and just solve it and try to explain what's happening here and try to question her experience

00:18:02.900 and be like hey like yeah when a woman is talking don't question her well did you think about this

00:18:08.360 did you think about that well don't don't ask women to think I I see this that don't tell women 0.97

00:18:14.120 what you see not inherently in itself comes off as mansplaining because what is the counter to

00:18:20.160 soy boys will prioritize optics over truth you see this the second time that it's come up that

00:18:26.980 they'll ignore reality in order to preserve people's feelings look at that right now the war

00:18:34.340 is feelings versus truth emotion versus logic and emotion is winning mansplaining is actually

00:18:42.260 getting consent from the other person how do you want to be supported do you want do you want me to

00:18:47.540 support you and listen to you or do you want me to help solve problems it's also mansplaining is

00:18:52.600 also not just having a man having an opinion that's not the situation the idea is when a man

00:18:57.860 interjects an opinion that he either is not fully educated on or does not have the appropriate

00:19:03.900 empathy to be able to talk about how are you coming up with your own definition mansplaining

00:19:11.060 is simple man explaining look at well how you bring in empathy and that has nothing to do with

00:19:17.380 the word he just made up his own def that's my that's my issue then feel free when a woman does 1.00

00:19:22.900 that to say you're woman explaining i don't think that there's a reason that term doesn't exist

00:19:28.040 and that's because you're not allowed to do that towards women in society if you did that

00:19:33.080 it would be just fine you just invented it would be just fine i think that i think the difference

00:19:37.440 is though when that had if that were to happen to men it wouldn't quiet our voices to to being

00:19:42.000 completely unheard my wife is a is a physics and math teacher if she has the answer to a question

00:19:47.440 this is lava right here and in a staff meeting she's gonna have to be louder than the men in 0.98

00:19:51.860 the room because that is the way society has conditioned people to operate especially hold on

00:19:57.960 especially in males no it hasn't you know it's a good example of somebody who was able to speak

00:20:02.400 up in a room without having to raise your voice to sound like a man when erudite type of one of

00:20:07.600 you know that is erudite is um she's kind of like a destiny type stream or something like that

00:20:12.200 she's feminine she's a married woman and she came on the fresh and fit panel as a girl not even as 0.93

00:20:16.580 a special guest and the whole time she was soft-spoken and she was being smart and she

00:20:20.400 was staying in her feminine frame and every time she spoke everybody listened not because she had 0.99

00:20:24.220 to raise her voice but because we respect feminine women stop telling women that they need to act 1.00

00:20:30.100 like men to get respect nobody respects a girl boss you look stupid it only looks good in a meg 1.00

00:20:34.820 the stallion song in real life everyone's gonna laugh when you turn your back away if you're a 1.00

00:20:40.260 woman be feminine and you'll get respect dominated spaces yeah that's what mansplaining is i have one 1.00

00:20:46.320 more question is it about the word yeah that's what i feel is it about the word i'm like words

00:20:50.680 when you say mansplaining you have to understand that subconsciously we're already creating a

00:20:57.940 divide when really a woman can mansplain by definition the way you guys are explaining it

00:21:02.520 and that's just as wrong as if a man does it so why is it called mansplaining why isn't it just

00:21:05.600 disrespectful so so when your life is not at stake when you're not being attacked i think you can

00:21:10.360 focus on language when you're not at risk you know you live in u.s dude that doesn't matter

00:21:14.560 attack every single day women are attacked more but i think from a societal standpoint you guys

00:21:19.860 talk a lot about social conditioning and how women feel uncomfortable but don't you think

00:21:24.140 this narrative that you're saying right now is contributing to that? Telling women that

00:21:27.800 they should be scared when they're in an environment full of men, telling women that 0.80

00:21:31.360 they are oppressed, they are this, they're that, by telling women they're less than men. 0.54

00:21:35.780 Let me respond to that. They're not telling them that. They're validating the fact that

00:21:39.080 that's the reality. Right. Women should be encouraged to be financially independent 1.00

00:21:45.160 of men. Absolutely not. Absolutely not. This is what's ruining the family from the inside out.

00:21:51.400 Shout out to, this is a good debate.

00:21:53.020 Good questions.

00:21:56.520 Oh, man. 1.00

00:21:57.260 All the fucking, why are all the anti-feminists sitting down? 1.00

00:22:03.120 I think this one's a no-brainer, right? 1.00

00:22:05.340 I believe that men and women are equal.

00:22:07.800 They're just not the same.

00:22:08.960 And I think with that equality comes equal responsibility to be able to provide for yourself.

00:22:13.340 And when I think about what could provide oppression, if that were to exist, would be

00:22:20.140 this idea that they were tethered to men to live their life what look at his face look at jay-z 0.76

00:22:25.980 look at fat fat z's face i think if you remove that tethering then obviously women are free to 0.79

00:22:31.420 do whatever they're more like gazy please and exit very bad situations you know one of the most

00:22:36.540 unfortunate stories that you hear so often is that so many women are forced to live in very 0.86

00:22:41.820 dangerous circumstances because they don't know who's going to provide for their child if they

00:22:44.980 leave they don't know who's going to provide for them if they leave and so i think financial

00:22:48.400 independence for anyone is always just a good idea yeah i want to speak about this through no

00:22:52.480 and you know how i want to raise my daughter i want to raise my daughter so that she

00:22:56.160 can be a wife for a man that will provide for her i don't want her to have to work i don't want my 1.00

00:23:04.840 daughter to have to become a girl boss i don't want her to like sit in you know you know it's 1.00

00:23:09.100 a tragedy have you ever walked into an office like a dentist's office or something like that

00:23:13.760 and then there's this beautiful girl there probably like 25 26 and she's there like answering the 0.71

00:23:19.900 phone at the front and you're like she's wasting her best years her peak years physically so that

00:23:29.080 she could be a girl boss and have a career and all she's doing is okay i'll call you up when you're

00:23:33.420 ready like you she thinks that she's like supposed to be career driven and then she finally realizes

00:23:40.260 that she wants to have a family when she becomes 36 37 and the attention starts drying out but

00:23:45.220 that's the sad part like i'll walk into like a doctor's office or the optometrist and then the

00:23:50.760 girl there's like you man you should be at home right now you should be at home

00:23:55.400 different lens i think it should be like women should be empowered to be financially independent 0.72

00:24:02.400 encourage versus empower takes a different like sense of support speaking to um how men feel the

00:24:09.900 need to provide. Sometimes when a woman makes more than a man, men can can feel like they're less of

00:24:15.280 a man because the woman is taking more of like the boss and like provision kind of like role in the 1.00

00:24:21.260 household. So I think that it's important to be able to equip women with being able to feel like

00:24:28.740 they are empowered. And that that is a feminist thing because it is breaking the gender norms of 1.00

00:24:35.180 what is masculine and what is feminine role. Yeah, I also think it is important, though,

00:24:39.920 in this conversation to recognize the women that don't want to be financially independent in a 1.00

00:24:45.200 marriage. You know, there's a lot of women in our country that enjoy being mothers. And I think being 0.94

00:24:50.760 a mother is one of the... Incredibly valuable. Yeah, exactly. And that doesn't necessarily mean

00:24:54.580 that they're, you know, stuck in their situation because they're doing something very valuable by

00:24:58.880 sacrificing that freedom in order to raise our next generation. It's just giving a choice, right?

00:25:02.620 And their love is their labor, right?

00:25:04.560 Their love is their labor in their home.

00:25:06.820 Okay, I have a few different thoughts.

00:25:09.260 One of them would be the importance of the family.

00:25:12.320 I think women should go out and be financially smart 1.00

00:25:16.200 and know how to make money

00:25:17.320 and be able to make money for themselves.

00:25:18.940 But being independent of men leaves this notion

00:25:21.820 of that you can never trust a man 0.99

00:25:24.140 or that men are unsafe.

00:25:25.700 And the problem that this brings is in the family.

00:25:30.300 Can I ask you why?

00:25:31.120 hold on i'm just gonna finish my thought i'll explain with the nuclear family yo bro how

00:25:36.640 unlikable like you have and this is for both men and women they're the most happiest when they are

00:25:42.860 in that kind of dynamic and to your point about marriages where women makes more than the man

00:25:48.240 that's one of the biggest indicators of divorce and i think there's a societal and honestly god

00:25:54.020 given responsibility for a man to provide so when men are told that women are going to be independent

00:25:59.040 of you, you're stripping away a lot of their purpose and responsibility to be caretakers

00:26:03.660 of women and to provide for women.

00:26:06.100 I would also say that the biggest group of people that are on antidepressants, and it's

00:26:10.600 one in four, are women that are 40, have a career, and have no family and no kids, which 0.71

00:26:15.520 is the real meaning of life is community, family, and relationships.

00:26:18.540 Can I respond to one specific thing you said, which is the demographic of women over 40

00:26:25.900 uh taking antidepressants and you're using that as proof that they're the most depressed group

00:26:30.300 um men just kill themselves so like all the men that have killed themselves if they didn't do 0.99

00:26:36.400 that and we're still here men would predominantly be more depressed the dumbest argument i've ever 0.99

00:26:43.420 heard whenever you argue with the feminists about this they equate it to well women are better than 1.00

00:26:48.360 men it's a problem on both sides idiot you fucking soy boy fucking dummy stupid the problem woke 1.00

00:26:59.280 ideology affects both of us it's not men versus women well actually men are so stupid that they 1.00

00:27:06.260 kill themselves you fucking idiot the reason that more women are on antidepressants and more men 1.00

00:27:12.180 are deleting themselves is because the downfall the destruction of the family from the inside out 1.00

00:27:20.020 it affects both of us it's not men versus women we're on the same team 1.00

00:27:24.960 stupid stupid stupid stupid stupid if they didn't do that and we're still here men would 1.00

00:27:32.980 predominantly be more depressed there's no basis yeah but also the men statistically kill 1.00

00:27:38.520 themselves more. But we're talking about two completely different points. I think he's just

00:27:42.720 saying that that statistic is a little bit difficult to process. I'm saying that it's out of context because the men that get. There's other factors. There's always going to be other factors, but that's a clear indicator that women at some point, whether they started wanting a career, will eventually want to fall into a role of being a mom, having children, because that is what women derive the most happiness from. You've got a lot of studies and stats over here, which is cool. But like when we're talking about financial literacy and financial freedom, there are a lot of women 0.74

00:28:08.380 that have the ability that decide to step back all those types of things none of that has to be

00:28:13.900 telling the chest as my husband of the best he steps up in so many ways i came up with a great

00:28:17.160 business idea that lets us both work from home and we are very happy i cook every meal and still

00:28:21.640 have the feminine role perfect perfect but i think you would still agree to let me know that women 1.00

00:28:26.880 there's no reason that women should not be encouraged to be financially independent

00:28:30.600 from men just because you came up with that business idea look you found something that

00:28:35.600 gets out of that loophole but congrats you and your family you seem very happy in a way or omitted

00:28:40.060 in order for them to be empowered people should be able to do in their households what they want

00:28:43.860 to do i don't think anybody's trying to take that option away from women i think y'all think people 0.86

00:28:48.820 are but i don't think that's really happening but they are they are we see that in society today

00:28:54.040 people demonizing women for choosing to stay at home female empowerment also means empowering 1.00

00:29:00.140 women again to make the choice that fits them their choices and what they want to do it is just 1.00

00:29:04.940 as powerful just as influential just as important as a choice to make to raise your kids at home if

00:29:09.820 that is what you want to do and also be the ceo of walmart if that's what you choose to do we can

00:29:14.500 empower women to be girl bosses whatever else you whatever you want to say would you empower a male

00:29:20.000 friend if he told you that he was going to quit his job to be a full-time stay-at-home father

00:29:23.660 so i so that no that's good i just want to make sure because like you're only defending women who 0.99

00:29:31.520 get demonized for

00:29:33.320 doing this and you're not

00:29:34.920 advocating for men

00:29:37.340 to want to step up and do that too.

00:29:39.260 Because most men don't want to.

00:29:41.020 Why don't you want men? Because they don't want to. 1.00

00:29:43.000 I don't want to.

00:29:44.440 Are you pro-choices or pro-less choices?

00:29:48.580 This is a trap.

00:29:49.840 This is a trap.

00:29:51.260 What do you mean about that? Are you pro-choices?

00:29:53.160 When I asked him why he doesn't encourage men,

00:29:56.000 he said because they don't want to do that.

00:29:58.040 So then why is it a problem if women 1.00

00:29:59.500 don't want to be stable?

00:30:00.180 I'm not encouraging women to stay at home. 0.97

00:30:02.180 I'm not encouraging women to stay at home. 0.97

00:30:04.180 I'm saying that they have a choice and I'm not for taking choices away from women.

00:30:07.180 You may be. I don't know.

00:30:09.180 Alright, reset.

00:30:16.180 Period pain is exaggerated.

00:30:23.180 Not period. They're all afraid to sit down. They don't want to upset.

00:30:27.180 nah nah nah bro nah i mean obviously you don't know how bad period pain is but they

00:30:33.480 you know what i would sit down here and i'd be like all right but you got to stop

00:30:37.200 justifying your freakish emotions on your period start making some sense just because 0.99

00:30:43.100 you're bleeding doesn't mean that you get to be a cunt okay i'm glad no one stepped forward for 0.99

00:30:48.420 I'm going to change my mind. 0.99

00:30:52.400 All right, next prompt.

00:30:56.820 Innocent men suffer because of feminism. 1.00

00:31:05.980 Good question.

00:31:08.480 So I think today in 2022, feminism has changed drastically. 1.00

00:31:13.640 and I think it's really turned into demonizing masculinity in men

00:31:18.560 while promoting masculinity in women. 1.00

00:31:20.940 And with that, the only thing that I can think that justifies these crazy things... 1.00

00:31:25.380 Oh, my God, I'm stupid. Where were we? Where were we? 0.99

00:31:27.140 Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.

00:31:29.560 That was right here.

00:31:31.120 Men.

00:31:32.560 Drastically.

00:31:33.700 And I think it's really turned into demonizing masculinity in men

00:31:37.940 while promoting masculinity in women. 1.00

00:31:40.080 and with that, good men are being pushed to the wayside

00:31:43.640 and pushing parts of themselves down

00:31:45.560 and not embracing their own masculinity

00:31:47.160 because society is telling them that it's wrong.

00:31:50.740 100%. I think, like, anything that is deemed masculine

00:31:53.900 is seen as now toxic, and I see it all over social media.

00:31:58.280 You can't really say anything or do anything,

00:32:00.480 especially even, like, against or even for yourself

00:32:03.460 without it being, like, weaponized in some way or shape or form.

00:32:07.460 Yeah. It's a shame that feminism has become less about actual equality and more about supremacy. 1.00

00:32:12.840 It's not about equal rights between men and women. It's about women being superior to men 1.00

00:32:17.340 and women don't even like it anymore. Right. I hear conversations with so many girls that are 1.00

00:32:22.400 that are friends of mine. They're like, I hate what feminism has become because it makes me feel 1.00

00:32:27.120 as if I'm a victim. And also, too, that men aren't supposed to be men anymore. It almost absolves us

00:32:32.920 of the responsibilities that we have as males in society

00:32:35.700 to be providers, to be protectors.

00:32:38.140 And innocent men suffer because we're made out to be toxic

00:32:41.080 because we're fulfilling our roles as men in this world.

00:32:43.960 It's absolutely insane.

00:32:44.980 Yeah, and I mean, I disagree a little bit

00:32:46.380 with saying that men have to be providers,

00:32:47.960 but I think, you know, demonizing those men

00:32:50.840 is part of the problem.

00:32:52.520 Yeah, you know, I would disagree a little bit,

00:32:54.180 but I think also too, though,

00:32:55.340 what we probably would agree on

00:32:56.700 is that in a society that makes women feel 1.00

00:32:59.000 as if they need to be more like men, all you get-

00:33:01.020 Okay, skip chat.

00:33:01.820 I'm getting bored too.

00:33:02.640 I'm not going to lie.

00:33:03.160 I see skips in the chat.

00:33:04.440 ...is really bad versions of men.

00:33:05.920 And when you have men who are increasingly more feminine, 0.91

00:33:08.040 you get men who aren't being men at all anymore.

00:33:10.220 And I think that's a huge societal problem,

00:33:11.780 and we see the ripple effects and the consequences of that every single day.

00:33:16.760 When I started hearing y'all talk, y'all have a huge misconception...

00:33:19.320 Autobots!

00:33:21.720 Autobots, roll out! 0.99

00:33:23.540 When I started hearing y'all talk,

00:33:24.920 y'all have a huge misconception of even what feminism is. 1.00

00:33:27.380 The goal of feminism isn't to demasculate men. 1.00

00:33:30.440 The goal of feminism is to fight for social, political, and economic equality for everyone to... 1.00

00:33:35.620 Regardless of your race, gender.

00:33:37.260 Equality of opportunity or equality of outcome.

00:33:38.140 Because it used to be equality of opportunity.

00:33:39.700 And that's when I would say I would be a feminist. 1.00

00:33:41.200 But now it's become equality of outcome.

00:33:42.560 But either way, what y'all are talking about is feelings.

00:33:45.420 Y'all are talking about, I don't like how women make me feel in society about crying. 1.00

00:33:50.380 How women make me... 1.00

00:33:51.000 Well, the question was about feelings.

00:33:51.980 Yeah.

00:33:52.400 No, hold on.

00:33:52.880 It was about our men affected.

00:33:53.540 That's feelings.

00:33:54.380 But yes, that's a conversation.

00:33:55.260 But feminism itself is not about feeling. 1.00

00:33:57.160 It's about, like you said, outcome.

00:33:58.220 It's about the wage gap.

00:33:59.220 it's about being having access which doesn't exist by the way right but anyways

00:34:02.360 hold on hold on hold on hold on hold on hold on hold on no you didn't let me talk though

00:34:06.220 no you didn't let me talk though it's about feelings right you don't want to talk about

00:34:08.600 how men feel let's talk about how women feel let's talk about feminists again it's not about 0.98

00:34:11.200 feelings period that's my point it's not other women it's not about feelings period other women

00:34:14.760 wait can we have the prompt again yeah let's cut back to the prompt because it didn't have

00:34:17.420 feelings exactly right innocent men suffer because of feminism and so can i can i pose

00:34:23.220 this question on a day like on a day-by-day basis do you think you're negatively affected

00:34:27.400 by feminism? 0.99

00:34:27.820 100%.

00:34:28.180 Can you explain to me

00:34:30.720 how on a day-by-day

00:34:31.360 it makes them feel

00:34:32.240 negatively?

00:34:32.880 Because again,

00:34:33.880 masculinity has this

00:34:35.180 mythical eligibility

00:34:37.360 of power.

00:34:38.040 When someone,

00:34:39.360 feminist,

00:34:39.840 what have you,

00:34:40.500 challenges that,

00:34:41.040 it feels like oppression

00:34:41.660 to them.

00:34:42.020 It feels like something

00:34:42.860 is being done.

00:34:43.380 It's not challenging.

00:34:43.780 That's my perception.

00:34:44.720 Feel free to disagree

00:34:45.240 because that's what

00:34:45.580 it looks like to me.

00:34:46.140 And I'm not oppressed

00:34:46.280 so I challenge that perception

00:34:47.640 but also too,

00:34:48.340 to go back to your point

00:34:49.060 about feminism,

00:34:49.660 that may have been true

00:34:50.240 with first-wave feminism

00:34:50.940 but with third-wave feminism 0.99

00:34:51.980 that is no longer

00:34:53.060 the case anymore.

00:34:53.720 Because first-wave feminism 0.98

00:34:54.720 and third-wave feminism 0.94

00:34:55.300 Guys, bring it back

00:34:55.400 to the prompt and then also just i love the ping-ponging but just make sure we don't have

00:34:59.140 five people talking on top of each other all right there's another side to this too it's the

00:35:02.460 patriarchy and so that is what you are talking about it is the pressure to be strong the pressure

00:35:07.740 to protect but in what we all talk about are fit to be president okay are women fit to be president

00:35:12.860 of course all the all the story boys autobots roll out uh what this guy's a sellout bro

00:35:19.260 i mean really this is a no-brainer yeah i think that this is um i expected this to be

00:35:25.380 unanimous but i think this will probably be the most biggest agreement amongst the group today i

00:35:28.700 think anyone who's born in america above the age of 35 that's not a felon you can be you can be

00:35:33.440 present right and i think a lot of times in these conversations of course you can be but the question

00:35:36.680 is if they're fit to be president right we focus on the differences between men and women but just

00:35:41.580 you know based off of studies men and women are very similar creatures i mean we're the same

00:35:44.800 species we think the same on most levels and to say that a woman can't do the same job as a man 0.99

00:35:49.820 to me is completely regressive um now i consider myself an anti-feminist today but this is the

00:35:54.500 of question that i would be a feminist for 50 years ago to me this it should be a unanimous uh 0.76

00:36:00.020 you know thing stepping forward but i look forward to hearing what what they have to say

00:36:05.620 i think eligibility and optimal option is the difference i think a woman can be eligible to be

00:36:10.340 president i think is it the optimal situation no i would kind of disagree with you where you say men

00:36:14.580 and women are generally the same i think we're completely different in the way that we process 1.00

00:36:17.620 information the way that we make choices the way that we build society men are very hierarchical in

00:36:21.460 in nature, so it's very merit-oriented.

00:36:23.840 I think women are a little bit more communitarianism, 1.00

00:36:25.880 or communism, that's what I'm looking for.

00:36:27.300 Communism.

00:36:28.140 Communistic, you mean community-based?

00:36:28.980 Community-based, right, thank you.

00:36:30.420 Where everybody gets one, so you get one, you get one,

00:36:32.520 it's not really based on output,

00:36:34.020 which I think is good in some cases,

00:36:35.220 but I think in a general scheme

00:36:36.580 of building a structure of government,

00:36:38.460 I would say having it more merit-based,

00:36:39.980 very capitalistic, where you go out,

00:36:41.220 you work for your living, you provide for your family,

00:36:43.180 I think that's the way that men typically build society.

00:36:45.220 So even a woman whose worldview aligns with yours,

00:36:48.240 you don't think that she would be fit to be president,

00:36:49.820 even if every single view she has.

00:36:51.340 Like I said, she could be fit,

00:36:52.500 but is it the optimal situation?

00:36:53.660 No, I don't think so.

00:36:55.180 Just because she has the right ideology, 0.97

00:36:56.540 if we can agree that women go insane 1.00

00:36:58.420 for a week of every month,

00:37:00.360 then I don't know if they're fit

00:37:01.240 to have the nuclear codes.

00:37:02.480 So is the only reason she's not optimal

00:37:03.660 because she's a woman? 1.00

00:37:04.140 I would say it's not optimal

00:37:04.940 because God called men

00:37:06.060 to be the leaders of society.

00:37:07.040 So again, you keep going back to-

00:37:07.980 And thank you, T. Boone Pickens.

00:37:09.080 Keep fighting the good fights, Nico.

00:37:10.060 Your message is beneficial

00:37:10.780 and you are helping men and women too.

00:37:12.020 You inspire people to keep up with the good work.

00:37:13.300 Proud to support you.

00:37:14.540 W. T. Boone in the chat.

00:37:15.640 God, and we keep trying to center Christianity as like the know-all, end-all. 0.96

00:37:19.360 What about all the religions that had female goddesses and matriarchal systems?

00:37:23.540 We also don't have to sidestep Christianity as if there were not any female leaders in the Bible either.

00:37:27.020 Absolutely.

00:37:27.720 I'm going to go to the, for my reason why, I think it was in London, and it's before their current prime minister.

00:37:32.420 I'm forgetting her name, but she was their mayor for about two months, and she ran away. 1.00

00:37:36.680 She pretty much resigned, was done with it.

00:37:38.440 And I do personally think that women are more emotional beings. 0.98

00:37:41.420 We are not similar.

00:37:42.240 That's actually not factually true.

00:37:43.300 There are big differences between us, and those differences are very vast on the spectrum,

00:37:46.660 but we are a lot more similar in the way we process information.

00:37:49.300 I was just trying to finish what I was saying.

00:37:51.220 I was pretty much trying to go to the point of feminism has created, 1.00

00:37:53.840 especially Western women, to be more emotional, more erratical on their decisions. 0.98

00:37:57.000 It encourages toxic behavior.

00:37:58.280 Making and more emotionally charged, and that's where I brought up the London thing,

00:38:01.920 where I feel like that's a good example of that happening, where the pressure got through them. 0.96

00:38:05.600 Resigning is a coward to me, being a coward.

00:38:08.140 Does a male president ever resign? 0.96

00:38:10.200 I'm not sure, but that's what I'm saying.

00:38:11.700 So, yeah, if I can interject.

00:38:12.720 Christian Nixon was because he was getting put into crime.

00:38:15.460 Yeah, so it's like double worse.

00:38:17.080 That's not better.

00:38:17.780 That's worse.

00:38:18.580 So if I can interject.

00:38:19.700 So you're kind of using this one anecdotal evidence of like,

00:38:22.200 oh, this one woman got in office. 1.00

00:38:24.440 Are you aware of all of history?

00:38:26.720 Because literally, men led pretty much every nation.

00:38:29.760 I'd say about 99% of nations.

00:38:31.460 So, yeah.

00:38:32.700 Men used to lead nations, 0.99

00:38:33.960 and now we waste harder money on OnlyFans

00:38:36.840 and just simp for girls that we're never going to see.

00:38:39.920 This is the nature of men nowadays.

00:38:41.800 we used to build railroads we fought in wars and now we're here saying mommy on only fans this is

00:38:49.800 this is

00:38:58.360 seen as the prize the man or the woman the woman

00:39:02.200 watches right after this is this video i'm so glad that he made this video and after dark about

00:39:06.120 the i talk about let's finish this first though this is not boring enough to skip i mean i'm all

00:39:11.160 All the good things that have happened from nations, sure, you can attribute that to men.

00:39:14.020 Every bad thing is also attributed to men.

00:39:15.540 I'm not using this as an argument to say men are bad and shouldn't be leaders.

00:39:18.620 What I'm saying is you can point to any person that did a bad job,

00:39:22.320 and then you can latch on to their gender and say that's the reason why that gender shouldn't do something. 1.00

00:39:25.160 It's not a good example.

00:39:26.000 It doesn't make any sense.

00:39:26.940 I do want to go back to you saying a woman as a leader and how some of those things might not be fit to be president. 0.86

00:39:31.000 I think that when we talk about a lot of the problems men are facing,

00:39:33.880 a woman being president could actually help some of those, 0.99

00:39:36.860 especially in facilitating a society we're talking about your feelings is is more accepted

00:39:41.180 um i do believe in a 100 merit-based society which is why i believe that anybody man or woman gay or

00:39:46.620 straight black or white can be president if they have the merit to be so but i think that to say 0.99

00:39:50.880 that just because a woman makes some decisions differently would somehow have a negative impact 1.00

00:39:55.020 on society is all just based off of assumption when it could actually have a very positive one

00:39:58.320 the gender vick and mine says hey cico i've been watching you fnf and tate uh pearl for a while now

00:40:03.020 all of you changed my mind it absolutely saved me from a depression now i'm doing i'm in the real

00:40:07.180 world gym doing push-ups thank you all keep going girl keep going bro your pay gap is real

00:40:11.960 no it's not i agree you know where it is real

00:40:17.140 that the pay gap is real um but i don't agree with the studies that when i went when i modeled

00:40:23.900 for nike the i think i don't have a fucking nda anymore when i modeled for nike the women who did 1.00

00:40:29.900 the exact same work the same amount of time frame doing the same shoots just putting on backpacks 0.97

00:40:33.760 and sweatpants they got paid twice the amount that the men got paid for the same job that's the wage

00:40:39.560 gap and they don't talk about that a lot of people used to say that it's solely based because of

00:40:44.300 being a woman rather than taking into account career preference time taking off the actual way

00:40:48.220 you do your job there's a lot of other variables that go into these studies and a lot of times i

00:40:52.040 see the feminist movement say oh if you're a woman you're going to make less than a man and it's just 1.00

00:40:55.040 a lot more complex than that so i i agree that it's a nuanced conversation so there's like two

00:40:59.040 things that i want to put on my dad right do you think my dad raised my brother and i and my sister

00:41:03.080 the same obviously not no i would hope not well yeah but like in the sense that my dad pushed me

00:41:08.080 into different things than he pushed my sister towards i think women are raised in a way where

00:41:12.520 they're not encouraged to pursue their interests and now we're starting to get to a generation

00:41:15.540 where i think that might happen but it's going to take some time but then this the second one is

00:41:19.280 going to be that you get what you negotiate and this is i can only give personal experience again

00:41:23.120 my dad has worked in hr company they offer men more at the start than they do women because men

00:41:28.800 are more likely

00:41:30.320 to negotiate anyways,

00:41:31.320 women are more likely 1.00

00:41:31.940 to take the first thing

00:41:32.620 that is offered.

00:41:33.120 That's true, yeah.

00:41:34.280 And that is the thing

00:41:35.100 where they take advantage

00:41:36.100 of the fact that

00:41:37.100 they know women 0.97

00:41:37.740 feel uncomfortable

00:41:39.020 in a male-dominated space, 0.97

00:41:40.100 so you're going to get

00:41:40.900 a job interview,

00:41:41.580 you're getting interviewed

00:41:42.040 by a man,

00:41:42.480 everyone you saw

00:41:42.860 when you walked in

00:41:43.280 for the most part

00:41:43.680 was a man,

00:41:44.100 and then they offer you a salary,

00:41:45.320 you're going to be

00:41:45.660 a little bit less likely

00:41:46.380 to push back,

00:41:47.200 and that's my personal experience.

00:41:48.260 But that's not on the company

00:41:48.980 in that example,

00:41:49.560 that's on the women, 1.00

00:41:50.480 unfortunately, right?

00:41:51.160 They have to be

00:41:51.600 their own best advocate,

00:41:52.240 they have to stand up

00:41:52.820 for themselves,

00:41:53.060 they have to negotiate better you look at this issue more when you look at but when you look at

00:41:57.320 this issue of the gender wage gap also too it's it's the narrative that surrounds is absolutely

00:42:01.460 factually untrue you're looking at the average income of or salaries of men and the average

00:42:05.520 incomes of women and obviously there's gonna be a difference men and women choose to do different

00:42:08.340 things like you said male feminists are in it to get laid male feminists aren't in it to get laid 1.00

00:42:15.360 a lot of them actually believe in the garbage and they they like getting the woke points they like 0.99

00:42:22.640 feeling good about themselves i'm excited for this one because i don't like women sexually 1.00

00:42:30.140 so this is going to be a very interesting conversation um i think that if you are a

00:42:35.480 straight male the way you view women women subconsciously is always going to be have

00:42:40.600 something to do with sex right on on just a fundamental level just in nature now that might

00:42:46.080 not be the whole premise but i do think that it has something to do with it yeah i think like

00:42:49.480 Again, the problem with these statements is like they're general.

00:42:51.920 I think there are men out there that are predatory and are posing as feminists. 0.88

00:42:55.660 Chad, what do you think? 0.66

00:42:56.220 You think the male feminists are just trying to get laid? 1.00

00:42:58.280 Into the pants of women. 1.00

00:42:59.620 Even on a more like micro level, like, so I was literally just watching a recent Jubilee video.

00:43:04.840 And it was one about a man.

00:43:05.700 He was a self-proclaimed pickup artist.

00:43:07.920 And this is almost a direct quote of what he says. 1.00

00:43:10.440 He goes, oh, hell yeah, I fuck with feminism. 1.00

00:43:12.320 You know, I like to think I'm a feminist. 1.00

00:43:13.560 I fuck with feminism. 1.00

00:43:15.400 And I think it's... 1.00

00:43:16.200 I fuck with feminism. 1.00

00:43:20.620 Kind of emblematic of like, 1.00

00:43:21.760 there are men that don't understand

00:43:23.780 the full gravity of how people

00:43:25.280 who are real feminists 0.99

00:43:26.280 feel about the situation. 1.00

00:43:27.360 Shut up. 0.99

00:43:27.680 And they kind of see it as like this, 1.00

00:43:29.120 like, oh, this cool, hot social issue.

00:43:30.640 And if I talk about it,

00:43:31.620 it puts me in the group

00:43:32.520 of the good people.

00:43:34.040 And I don't think it's always heinous

00:43:35.360 while there are people

00:43:36.220 that are doing that.

00:43:37.040 Some of it's just like 0.75

00:43:37.740 such blatant ignorance

00:43:39.340 that they lack the understanding.

00:43:40.700 Yeah, I think even the

00:43:41.600 posing of the question

00:43:43.320 is indicative of the truth

00:43:45.460 of the matter

00:43:45.860 that I think a lot of the time it is that

00:43:47.080 because if you align yourself

00:43:48.160 with a lot of the more traditionally toxic masculine traits

00:43:50.540 and you're not viewed as on team woman,

00:43:52.340 then you're not going to be in line

00:43:53.560 with a lot of Western women in today's society. 1.00

00:43:55.520 I have a few friends that go to these parties 1.00

00:43:57.260 and they're like, oh yeah, fuck Andrew Tate. 0.99

00:43:58.980 They all watch him, but they'll be like, 1.00

00:44:00.000 oh, fuck Andrew Tate, just so they can get laid 1.00

00:44:01.580 because they know that's how a woman will feel. 1.00

00:44:03.040 They try to like, fuck Andrew Tate, 1.00

00:44:05.320 then wait, it's just a pussy. 1.00

00:44:06.240 Oh wow, they listen to me or oh wow, they agree with me 1.00

00:44:08.180 and feel a little more connected.

00:44:09.680 And I think for me as someone who believes genuinely

00:44:11.780 in the fact that men and women are equal,

00:44:13.540 but I don't go around parading myself as a feminist 1.00

00:44:15.180 Because the only thing that I could think that justifies being a third-weight feminist, being a feminist today, is you must just want to get laid. 1.00

00:44:20.840 Because there's no reason to believe in all these crazy things that go after your identity as a man, that seek to strip you of your masculinity, that perpetuate these terrible ideas that men are bad and evil and all these things that you can't be a provider, you can't be a protector, all these things.

00:44:32.800 I think that has to be the reason.

00:44:34.960 It's funny, like, I'm going to address it once.

00:44:37.520 I've been having to scroll away from the donors the whole time. 1.00

00:44:40.180 This fucking dude. 1.00

00:44:40.900 Right when I said that 1.00

00:44:42.860 People tried to like 0.99

00:44:43.560 Fuck Andrew Tate 1.00

00:44:44.820 They're waiting to some pussy 1.00

00:44:45.780 This dodo just popped up 1.00

00:44:47.260 You're ducking 0.92

00:44:48.180 You brainwashed this OnlyFans girl 0.99

00:44:50.000 That all these simps are in here about 1.00

00:44:51.400 You're sick like Andrew 1.00

00:44:52.720 You're disgusting 1.00

00:44:53.720 She's not gonna fuck you bro 1.00

00:44:55.900 She's not gonna fuck you 1.00

00:44:58.660 You know who she's fucking 1.00

00:45:00.520 The misogynist 1.00

00:45:02.320 She's fucking the toxic 1.00

00:45:05.620 Problematic 1.00

00:45:06.520 Disgusting dude 1.00

00:45:07.900 That's who she's fucking 1.00

00:45:09.540 women don't respect people who fucking simp for them they don't why would you want to be with the 1.00

00:45:16.300 guy that's already giving you everything are you dumb everybody wants what they can't have 1.00

00:45:22.880 wake the fuck up stop thinking that like i love you so much oh simping is a fucking disease bro 1.00

00:45:30.340 worse than covid holy fuck these guys are sad bro 1.00

00:45:34.660 jesus christ giving me money in my chat you you see like if your sipping has gone so far 1.00

00:45:44.420 you ran out of money to give out to some bitches only fans and you're here in my chat giving me 1.00

00:45:49.560 money is that all you know how to do is simp you fucking losers not specifically you simps in 1.00

00:45:56.480 general like how far in it where the only thing that you know how to do is spend money on the 1.00

00:46:02.480 internet holy fuck bro all stream i gotta scroll scroll scroll bro the amount of simps coping right 0.93

00:46:11.220 now is just gee have you seen it and people in the chat are like what are you talking about 0.99

00:46:15.480 we're watching a video about feminism and people here are crying about an only fans girl get over

00:46:20.280 yourself i know like part of it and i've been i've been having to dodge it for like three streams

00:46:25.640 because it's like the amount of like simps crying in here these sad incels it's just and then people

00:46:31.080 like, who are you talking about? No one cares, bro. It doesn't matter. It's lonely fans. It's

00:46:37.260 designed to take away your energy and your soul. It's making you sad. You're not going to find

00:46:43.580 happiness on a porn site. You're not going to find a connection on an OnlyFans site. Get a life.

00:46:49.640 Dude.

00:46:56.380 Like, no, some people are saying that they're trolling, bro. I don't think there's been like

00:47:00.940 specific people three four days in a row not just one dude just a group of simps who are upset

00:47:06.220 because they think an only fans girl likes me and they're just coping it's not i know it's not

00:47:11.540 trolling because this is the mentality sheesh bro the amount of money i've made from these people

00:47:18.060 it's not trolling because that's all they know how to do is spend money to people online for a

00:47:22.140 glimpse of attention so i've been ignoring it for three days because you're just supposed to move on

00:47:25.900 and you know they're lonely

00:47:27.280 and they really want attention.

00:47:28.880 But bro,

00:47:31.700 man up.

00:47:35.360 Some of us don't identify with it.

00:47:36.960 Me personally,

00:47:37.680 I don't identify with masculinity.

00:47:38.980 I might show masculinity, 0.60

00:47:40.960 but I don't think feminism 1.00

00:47:42.040 is taking anything away from me.

00:47:43.220 But I think that's a societal problem.

00:47:44.420 The fact that masculinity itself

00:47:45.580 has become a dirty word

00:47:46.680 is a problem.

00:47:47.420 I didn't say it's a dirty word.

00:47:48.260 I'm saying it doesn't matter.

00:47:48.660 I just want you to choose

00:47:49.300 not to identify with it anymore.

00:47:50.140 Wait, wait.

00:47:50.500 Because when you say it...

00:47:51.800 Lonely fans in the chat.

00:47:53.180 Nothing in my heart feels anything.

00:47:54.400 It's just a word.

00:47:55.020 It's just a...

00:47:55.660 I don't think anything I do is because I'm a man.

00:47:58.040 I think that it's because of who I am.

00:47:59.760 Now, genuinely, and Chad, have you ever noticed that?

00:48:02.780 I've talked to a lot of people, like my friends from back at college and stuff like that,

00:48:06.920 and they've had conversations.

00:48:08.980 I've had people message me and say, there's even women in the chat laughing, Jennifer. 0.99

00:48:13.660 There have been conversations where people would be like, fuck Sneeko. 1.00

00:48:17.080 Sneeko's toxic. 1.00

00:48:19.360 Trying to get like woke points at a conversation.

00:48:21.460 Have you ever had those conversations?

00:48:23.440 It never happens when I'm around.

00:48:24.900 but afterwards my friends would call me up and like yo this guy I even had a cameraman who was

00:48:29.480 in a hostel in Europe and randomly I came up in conversation and they started shaming the

00:48:34.860 cameraman for working with me saying that I'm encouraging bad behavior but people really be 1.00

00:48:40.180 out here trying to say fuck sneeko into some pussy have you have does that ever happen 1.00

00:48:52.280 No? You don't know what I'm talking about? 1.00

00:48:59.280 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:49:03.280 Well, let's hear it.

00:49:05.280 I think, to your point, asking, like, why would any man be a feminist?

00:49:09.280 So I just think that we don't all view feminism the way you do.

00:49:12.280 Similar to the way the Black Lives Matter movement has been moved and changed 0.71

00:49:15.280 and developed in terms of the way that people identify it,

00:49:17.280 the things that you speak about when you talk about third wave feminism

00:49:19.280 is not what I mean when I say that I am a male feminist. 0.99

00:49:22.460 And so, yeah, no, if you can't understand that,

00:49:25.720 me wanting to make the world a more equal

00:49:27.380 and level playing field for my two daughters,

00:49:29.020 for my wife, for my mother, my mother-in-law,

00:49:31.200 and standing in front of people

00:49:33.100 who want to take liberties away from them,

00:49:35.020 that's the reason why I am a male feminist. 1.00

00:49:37.000 It's a perpetuation of oppression

00:49:38.400 that I'm trying to dismantle.

00:49:39.660 And for me, I think we're taking this

00:49:40.940 from a very heteronormative perspective, right?

00:49:43.140 All my friends aren't straight women, 1.00

00:49:44.540 so I'm not gonna look at my non-binary or LGBTQ friends 0.98

00:49:47.640 and be like, oh, just because I can't have sex with you, 0.98

00:49:49.200 I'm not going to fight for your rights.

00:49:50.500 There is no personal gain for just saying that we should be there.

00:49:53.280 Well, there are two things can be true.

00:49:54.080 I agree with you.

00:49:54.700 And I think a lot of us agree on what we're talking about.

00:49:56.960 It's just these labels are in the way of getting us to that.

00:49:58.620 It's also a blanket statement.

00:49:59.240 One thing to build on top of, too, is to an extent,

00:50:01.940 leading men to want to take advantage of women

00:50:04.080 is the very pressure put on by other men.

00:50:06.140 If you're not sleeping around, if you're not getting laid,

00:50:08.880 you aren't working.

00:50:09.840 And that doesn't come from women, at least from my experience. 0.97

00:50:12.080 That's patriarchal culture.

00:50:12.860 If men were a little bit like, so I'll say this now. 0.96

00:50:15.320 I didn't lose my virginity until I was 22.

00:50:16.920 Now I'm fine with that.

00:50:17.760 if men were a little bit like like so i'll say this now i didn't lose my virginity until i was

00:50:25.860 22. that's why you're a male feminist now i'm fine with that if you asked me at 21 how i felt about

00:50:34.240 that i would change the subject as quickly as i possibly could because i was ashamed

00:50:36.740 i mean i was ashamed of it but you know that's part of the patriarchy

00:50:41.220 this is gonna be the last prompt i want to hear everyone speak i want everyone to get their voice

00:50:46.640 Be mindful of folks that are trying to talk.

00:50:49.280 Step forward if you agree with the prompt.

00:50:52.300 I like living in a patriarchal society.

00:50:56.340 Yes.

00:50:59.260 Nobody?

00:51:03.080 What the?

00:51:11.840 I would say patriarchal society.

00:51:13.620 Again, I've mentioned the scriptural basis for this, but I think patriarchal society is the way that society functions best.

00:51:19.980 A patriarchy is just a man-led society.

00:51:21.920 So I think everybody else here hates, like...

00:51:25.420 We've kind of flipped the term on its head to mean something that it doesn't mean, to say that a patriarchy is a society...

00:51:29.760 This guy's been based the whole show, I think.

00:51:31.080 That's not what a patriarchy is.

00:51:32.580 So I think if you have a patriarchy operating properly, you have men that are responsible in taking care of their families, taking care of the women of society.

00:51:39.360 And in turn, the women have equal opportunities to pursue whatever career they want, to be a mom, to be a wife, and to do the things that they want to do as well. 1.00

00:51:47.400 Autobots, roll out! 0.99

00:51:48.720 So, I'll go first.

00:51:51.340 This is a little bit of a personal, emotional thing.

00:51:56.220 At the beginning of September, I lost my brother to cancer.

00:52:01.000 And I took about two or three weeks off work.

00:52:04.340 And then I really started feeling, you know, the financial impact.

00:52:07.480 and I have my girlfriend you know people in my life telling me that they want to help me out

00:52:13.540 financially but I have this thing internally within me that feels like a leech in some way

00:52:19.340 shape or form that is because of this thing that I this expectation that we put on men to be

00:52:23.740 providers. It's really fucking hard. I have an expectation to be a man. Let me play a sad song 0.98

00:52:43.220 for you on the world. And I can't explain why. I would have liked to have a little bit more time

00:52:47.140 than three weeks before I had to start worrying about fucking money again after my brother passed 0.99

00:52:51.480 away. And I do feel like that kind of is a direct result of the patriarchy. And I know that it is 0.99

00:52:56.720 myself. It's my personal feelings. But I think it stems from the society that I grew up in that I'm

00:53:01.240 even feeling these things to be. Yeah, to start, you know, I want to say I'm really sorry for your

00:53:08.160 loss because I can't even imagine what it's like to lose a loved one. So I want to thank you for

00:53:14.140 sharing your story. It's really important for people to hear. You better cry. But I don't think

00:53:17.680 that it's accurate to blame a horrific situation on one aspect of society or the patriarchy or

00:53:23.340 this without any solid basis. So I think that's a fair response. And to clarify my statement just

00:53:27.480 a little bit, that's more of a communal problem. I wish there was a little bit more of a stronger

00:53:31.300 community sense within our country. And correct me if I'm wrong, but I feel like a patriarchal

00:53:34.400 society is not one of support. It's one of merit. It's one of bootstraps. It's one of strength.

00:53:38.920 Competition. Yeah, it's competition. You said that a merit-based society is somehow correlated

00:53:42.760 with the patriarchy. And I don't see the correlation there because if you look anywhere

00:53:46.380 in nature everything is merit-based you know lions in the safari it's about strength it's about you

00:53:50.780 know competition that's just how our world works and my biggest flaw with feminism today or any 1.00

00:53:54.900 social movement really is that some things are just inherent to nature so to try to solve um

00:53:59.300 equal outcome and solve all these problems it's just naive and it takes away from actually solving

00:54:03.480 the issues that are in front of us because it's it's a delusion there'll always be winners and

00:54:06.720 losers yeah yeah yeah i just wanted to go back and you know i've been we've been asking what

00:54:10.480 does patriarchy mean right you know i don't think it just means male led what i'm trying to dismantle 0.92

00:54:15.880 is the institutions in our society reinforcing that males are superior.

00:54:20.900 A lot of societal institutions and staples of our society

00:54:23.980 are reinforcing that narrative that men alone have to take on that mantle.

00:54:28.160 So one of the chats said, bro, my brother died on my birthday and I kept moving on.

00:54:31.600 Look, I play that violin sound because it's just like, you know, three weeks.

00:54:38.240 The expectation is you keep going to get it.

00:54:40.400 What would your brother want you to do?

00:54:41.520 Would your brother want you to sit around and cry?

00:54:43.140 Or would your brother want you to go into work tomorrow?

00:54:44.680 i understand that for a day or two you could be upset you get to put three weeks someone's got

00:54:50.100 to pay the bills bro like the business is getting life life goes on life goes on whether you are

00:54:57.780 going to be part of it or not that's the truth of being the one to provide being the one to lead the

00:55:04.240 charge on fixing a problem right where like what tucker was saying we all experience emotions and

00:55:11.600 react independently and we look for community. Yeah, so I think a direct combat towards the

00:55:17.400 patriarchy is emotional intelligence that we haven't actually talked much about today. We keep

00:55:21.500 going back to business, money, and all these different things because those are things

00:55:24.080 associated with manhood. But if you really want to shift the dynamic, it's about how do we own

00:55:29.180 the emotional parts of ourselves as men? And that is not a conversation that is had in society

00:55:32.840 enough, nor is it supported. In a patriarchal society, it impacts men in a way where we feel

00:55:37.080 like we can't let the armor down that's that that's what the difference between third you know

00:55:41.380 you're saying like third wave feminism versus like first and second wave i feel like now it's 0.87

00:55:45.380 about superiority when you when you're saying like you're mansplaining or when you're like

00:55:48.560 playing that men do this or men you know take advantage and men do that it makes it as we're

00:55:52.280 your enemy when in reality it should be more about like working as a team right i have a clarifying

00:55:56.300 question so you were describing that it's shifting to matriarchy right yeah matriarchy just like more 1.00

00:56:00.900 like more like being against like when you're demonizing men like their actions in general

00:56:04.460 So, like, when we're moving towards a socially matriarchical society, it's mansplaining and it's men being canceled. 1.00

00:56:09.660 But when patriarchy is in place, we're dealing with issues of wealth.

00:56:13.860 We're dealing with issues of health care, whether you consider it health care or not.

00:56:16.600 We're dealing with issues of safety.

00:56:18.140 We're dealing with issues of liberty.

00:56:19.640 We're dealing with issues of choice.

00:56:21.340 It seems that matriarchy is less, I guess, oppressively heavy because all I have to deal with is you not liking what I have to say.

00:56:29.300 Whereas in a patriarchy, I can't make as much money.

00:56:32.520 That's worse.

00:56:33.300 Well, it's not just about disagreeing about whether or not it exists.

00:56:36.140 And the fact of the matter is, even in a patriarchal society which doesn't exist,

00:56:39.280 men and women can still go and make the same amount of money.

00:56:41.320 If women majored in higher paying fields of study, they would make more money. 1.00

00:56:44.440 When we talk about men's mental health, I separate it from patriarchy.

00:56:47.380 Because I think that to be expressive about what you're feeling and what you're going through...

00:56:51.380 Men talking about their feelings, it's just kind of... 0.98

00:56:53.940 You have to be strong.

00:56:55.160 And being strong, I associate that with being a man, being masculine.

00:56:58.740 Maybe society would like to beat you up for that. 0.97

00:57:00.980 Maybe that's why men are likelier to commit suicide.

00:57:03.300 but that is still an example of strength i think that as we get further and further along the

00:57:06.820 generations we need to start preaching to young men the type of strength that you were talking

00:57:11.220 about self-awareness discipline and honesty emotional honesty not being tough and not like

00:57:18.260 you know being able to go through a lot but being aware when you're going through something when

00:57:21.700 you're struggling being able to articulate that right and doing it to the right people at the

00:57:25.380 right time i think that is what strength is and i think that that's a positive message that we

00:57:28.660 could that we could communicate to the next generation about masculinity we ended on

00:57:32.020 on Consensus. Yes, that is a wrap

00:57:33.880 on... Oh, okay!

00:57:41.800 That's it.

00:57:42.300 Is this your job?

SNEAKO - January 09, 2023

SNEAKO Reacts To Male Feminists VS Anti-Feminists!

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