SNEAKO - SNEAKO Watches Satanist DEBATE Traditional Men

00:00:00.000 what a terrible documentary i was excited to watch this i mean watch lob and leech video no bro 0.99

00:00:05.360 they're the fucking snakes bro they're legitimately fucking snakes and i'm not gonna i would never i'm 0.99

00:00:10.920 not gonna watch another video or talk to them until they fucking apologize until preach apologizes 1.00

00:00:17.360 for believing that a pizza box is the reason that they went to prison you fucking idiot how old are 1.00

00:00:22.980 you you don't know that you scan your passport as soon as you enter an airport are you that dumb 1.00

00:00:27.260 a pizza box you need to make an apology video for saying that stupid shit moist critical apologize 1.00

00:00:33.620 for the pizza box all you idiots apologize for the pizza box you're dumb and your fans deserve better 1.00

00:00:40.540 dummies that was an hour long chat all right let's get into it now let's watch another thing from vice 1.00

00:00:48.220 listen to moist critical's new song bro i don't give a fuck about that dude um just these snakes 0.98

00:00:53.920 don't deserve uh bro whatever okay um be a man modernist and traditionalist debate masculinity 0.96

00:01:00.280 from lice check your hair for some lice chat i'm so tired of like paying 150 for a first date

00:01:06.860 and then you just ghost me i'm in the next week i'm like hurting for cash i'm like i could have 0.99

00:01:11.680 really used that 150 like yo this broke his bro your pockets are in it trying to get some pussy 1.00

00:01:16.960 that's crazy why did i have to also the trade-off of like going on a date and as the man being like 0.99

00:01:23.200 oh this sucks i have to pay or as why are you in this debate why are you here the woman being like 1.00

00:01:29.000 oh this sucks i might get murdered is like a pretty big imbalance 0.98

00:01:32.020 how you guys doing 0.98

00:01:36.640 my name's krishna thank you all for being here and talking through masculinity what it means to 0.70

00:01:46.340 be a man etc why is bro like how dumb is it they invite these people you're just gonna

00:01:53.460 obviously we couldn't fit every man in the country into this room uh we tried to get a diverse 0.86

00:02:00.180 perspective but of course that caveat we're not everyone i wanted to start by telling you why this

00:02:05.920 is something that i'm interested in i have an eight-year-old son and i'm seeing him absorb what

00:02:12.160 manliness might mean like i'm thinking to myself like what does it mean to be a man to start maybe

00:02:19.440 we could just introduce each other to each other and if you were to describe what it means to be a man

00:02:24.160 or to be masculine oh my name is tahoe i'm a black man from the hood when i was young being a man you

00:02:33.200 had to be tough you had to be hard and now to me being a man is a lot different now to me being a

00:02:40.940 man is is the man behind you knowing when to be soft knowing that you don't always have to run the

00:02:47.820 charge you can actually listen you know what i mean wait is this do you see so things have changed 0.98

00:02:54.000 a lot over the course of the year wait wait do you see this fucking you see how wokeness is literally 0.97

00:02:59.360 satanism becoming what you're the antichrist when i tweet wokeness is the new religion i don't mean 0.99

00:03:07.060 that the fucking walking around need to be literal antichrist what the fuck why is the correlation so 1.00

00:03:15.040 strong with lgbt they them woke gay pride nonsense and literally promoting sacrilegious the charge you 0.99

00:03:26.160 can actually listen you know what i mean so things have changed a lot over the course of the years for

00:03:30.720 me i'm griffin and i don't identify as a man abdul get the rocks joseph peter get the rocks get the

00:03:42.740 get the get the sticks that they call fag in england because because okay no don't clip that

00:03:48.480 don't don't clip that don't clip that don't clip that i'm just mad at the antichrist thing um i'm 0.89

00:03:53.780 non-binary i still have elements of you know my identity that are masculine elements that are

00:03:59.240 feminine elements that don't fall within that range and i i personally just don't feel tied to like the

00:04:07.000 the norms of the confines of gender at all so why are you here why are you here

00:04:13.260 you're welcome uh my name is dylan now back in the day for real for real for real for real people

00:04:18.100 get burned at the stake for wearing the cross upside down for saying anti-jesus i think that

00:04:22.860 the notion of masculinity is just something that can be possessed by man or woman man woman non-gender

00:04:27.700 conforming person what it means to be masculine is just like you know changing and like very fluid

00:04:32.240 um but i think that you know masculinity is something that just you know like you embody

00:04:36.660 based off of just like how you show up in this world as a man and just and just like you know

00:04:39.700 how you go about being your day-to-day how you show up interesting yes what's up guys my name is paul

00:04:45.540 i'm a fitness entrepreneur uh i'm an immigrant i came here when i was four years old with my family

00:04:51.080 it's kind of funny how we're talking about it my take on masculinity is is not about talking as much

00:04:56.960 as doing i think at its at its core a man has to be efficient competent and be willing to do what

00:05:03.200 it takes for for themselves and their and their loved ones i was not always a good man i was not

00:05:07.760 always what you would call a healthy masculine man and so as my life has changed i've identified five

00:05:13.340 points that i think make a truly masculine man masculine okay i think point number one is a man who

00:05:19.300 walks with god point number w yo what the antichrist gonna say two is a man who stands on principle

00:05:24.320 point number three which is a masculine man is self-sacrificing so someone who is willing to

00:05:29.120 sacrifice for point four the people that he leads a true man is a leader and number five a masculine

00:05:35.280 man is never a coward that's a lot there yeah um and let's get into that as we go on i think what

00:05:42.680 it means to be a man is responsibility as a man it can come with a lot of power and with great power

00:05:50.060 comes great responsibility spider-man in short words nice that's it that's from spider-man i think

00:05:56.380 yeah uncle ben um james well uh my name is james killen uh former united states marine turned air

00:06:04.260 force officer uh got a couple combat tours um but i'm also a father of three girls um who mellowed me

00:06:11.080 out the idea imagine getting your wife pregnant three times hoping for a boy and you get three 0.85

00:06:16.600 girl that's that's crazy like you know of of masculinity is something that i find interesting 0.98

00:06:22.720 because it is changing uh and i can actually see those changes in myself uh and i think that's one

00:06:28.020 of the reasons why uh why i wanted to do this panel thanks for your service andre hey what's up 0.52

00:06:33.680 yeah those weak ass dreads yeah men men look at those little dreads yeah bro those just look like 0.96

00:06:40.300 cheetos on his head bro you know spooker valley pointed that out do you see look at these weak 0.99

00:06:44.700 guys right man uh i think uh my idea of a real man is uh you know someone that gets the job done

00:06:54.020 you know and um provides and all that i don't even know what that means anymore but um

00:07:01.440 brokey yeah i don't know it's changing every day how do you think it's changing no it just seems like

00:07:06.920 the gender fluids are invaded everything is changing every day it's like a new world order 1.00

00:07:11.600 you know so i don't uh i have a hard time keeping up with stuff so i feel like tomorrow it's gonna

00:07:18.320 be something else and people are gonna comment be like you're wrong just it's this now it's hard to

00:07:23.320 talk about some of this stuff because you feel like you might say the wrong thing i'm not really

00:07:26.620 masculine myself so okay i feel like i'm like the wrong person to ask you know maybe the right person

00:07:33.340 is christian what it means to be a man is to be whoa that looks like ai a adult human male that's 0.53

00:07:41.460 sort of a very formal definition but i think that might be a what the fuck does that good place to 0.81

00:07:45.520 kick off because there's a lot of talk of writing of research these days that says there's a crisis

00:07:52.280 in masculinity is there a crisis in masculinity if so like what is that crisis the thing that i see

00:07:58.500 is is a lot of deconstructing generational trauma the be a man boys don't cry you know this that and

00:08:05.720 the other thing um and i i think that's actually one of the reasons why we see it as um as a crisis

00:08:12.420 because we're actually trying to redefine uh what it what it means to be a man and none of us have any

00:08:18.420 idea um because we're just out here so stop trying to redefine it bro the old definition was working

00:08:23.720 forever trying to be whoever we are that's right i think that historically being a man was rooted in

00:08:31.080 patriarchy and misogyny w patriarchy and now we realize this guy sold out how harmful that has been

00:08:39.560 over the years this guy got brainwashed um and so we don't really know how to define where we're

00:08:45.420 supposed to be and i think the reason as they're saying is a crisis is because the box has gotten so

00:08:50.860 small for just being say straight just being a hetero right because if you do anything women 1.00

00:08:57.500 judge you what do you mean anything if i dance a certain way or if i wear my hair a certain way if

00:09:03.120 i dress a certain way they go real men don't do that real men don't do that and so you get scared

00:09:08.920 to move a certain way because you don't want to get judged or outed out of the accepted part of your

00:09:13.140 community um and i think that that kind of has us in an uproar and we don't know where to be like

00:09:20.120 where's the safe place to be for men now you know what i mean it doesn't exist and it's kind of

00:09:26.820 disturbing you know i was what you would call a toxic masculine male girl w toxic masculinity going

00:09:32.180 up and uh i had good men that sewed into me you know bro they need to get me on one of these panels

00:09:36.720 bro i would dominate they gave me good advice but i never found manhood and i never understood my

00:09:41.640 place as a man until one day i humbled myself and i gave my life to the lord jesus christ and i'm

00:09:46.640 telling you right now walking with god changed my life forever can you define can you define

00:09:51.280 toxic mass can you define jesus i would say toxic masculinity is like what he was just saying where

00:09:58.180 you're using that that that leadership role or that aggressive nature in a harmful way to harm other

00:10:03.600 people to get your way so the biblical structure for manhood is very humble it's self-sacrifice it's

00:10:08.620 not self-motivated but it is motivated by principle and standing on what's right so there is a clear-cut

00:10:13.760 vision for manhood in the bible that i live by and i think our culture used to live by and i think

00:10:18.300 our culture has lost its way i think everybody sort of has a different definition of toxic masculinity

00:10:23.780 i don't find masculinity toxic in and of itself but i do believe why are you wearing lizard contact

00:10:31.720 contact lenses even bad men and bad men exist um but does that mean every man is toxically masculine

00:10:39.600 now period you're talking about a crisis on masculinity i think that there's a lack of 0.93

00:10:42.980 understanding there so it's yo what the fuck is preach doing in this video bro apologize for the 0.97

00:10:46.980 pizza box preach like masculinity being masculine isn't toxic it's just like their poor preach what 0.97

00:10:51.220 there's portions of it that you can dive into that make it toxic because i think a lot of what we think

00:10:55.180 of masculinity is tied into patriarchy right which is to say like for the longest period of human

00:11:00.360 history like men dominated women and got the lion's share of stuff i think a lot of times some people

00:11:07.920 make masculinity into a caricature like it has to be this alpha bro tough guy exactly and i find the

00:11:13.920 how much trust this guy right here low-key guy who you know is a really great father and a great

00:11:20.640 husband and maybe not like drinking raw eggs every day to be a lot more masculine than the alpha bro

00:11:27.580 who's going and like banging 20 women per weekend and not a responsible man i find it more masculine to

00:11:34.360 be a good guy i think the background of this is that we are saying that gender is this like real thing that

00:11:42.200 has real ideas and implications and griffin remember who here watched the feminism debate do you see

00:11:48.360 the actual start even with the bumbleclots in here you see the stark difference in the conversation

00:11:52.740 people actually like making points and the girl one they just argued about being minorities for the first

00:11:57.380 30 minutes i'm wondering as you someone who identifies as non-binary how does this conversation strike you

00:12:01.980 well i just get out of the room yo i think that it kind of becomes like irrelevant whether or not we 0.97

00:12:07.540 attribute like having like a good ethical compass to being like masculine oh shut up a redacted bine 0.91

00:12:12.520 says 10 these bots don't understand how necessary masculinity is that this keeps up there'll be no gas

00:12:16.040 to heat their homes and no truckers to bring their food exactly everybody's gonna end up looking like

00:12:19.200 the antichrist over here attributing that to like the gender constructs which we have made up which are

00:12:22.980 like somewhat pointless like kind of it's not pointless and we haven't made it up your whole identity is

00:12:28.080 based around rejecting it just feed into needless roles that uphold the patriarchy without even

00:12:33.280 knowing it a lot of those things but why why do they all why are is everyone in this panel assuming

00:12:38.460 that the patriarchy is bad can we get w patriarchy in the chat they're just things that people should

00:12:43.260 be doing because they're like morally right like if you're in a family you should probably support your

00:12:47.020 family and i really don't think that it has to do with like your manhood these characteristics that

00:12:52.140 we're talking about are baked into an old system of domestic life i think that's actually where we

00:12:58.840 get toxic masculinity like none of us can really describe what it is but we can see it when it

00:13:04.140 happens so we learn it right we yeah this is something we learned from the world it's something

00:13:08.900 we learned from like tv they don't even know what it is but they all believe in it that's brainwashing 0.99

00:13:12.800 preach why do you look like that bro the little ass cheetos in your head and shit and it's maybe something 0.99

00:13:16.620 we learned from our dads too tell me about your dad i'm um a first generation kid my dad is from 0.99

00:13:21.840 guyana um grew up in very humble beginnings poor family first time i remember my dad telling me he

00:13:27.260 loved me you know shipping back me was when i was 17 and he was like saying like he was proud of me

00:13:31.260 um because i was about to graduate high school and things like that you know i'm appreciative of all

00:13:34.920 the other things you know being present as a provider but in turn yo why why you look like why you 0.98

00:13:39.880 look like uh fucking bubble bass from spongebob you know the guy who hit the pickles under his tongue 0.99

00:13:45.800 bro no no no no no no no no no no no bro chat no no no no no 0.99

00:13:56.100 that's too much

00:14:01.760 in terms of like you know the

00:14:06.680 yo is that low from playback yo bro yo no no no no no usually like it's a little bit of a reach

00:14:18.920 but this one is that is spot on spot on man conversation piece and like oh i'm i want to

00:14:28.380 talk to my dad about you know sex or something or i want to talk to my dad about oh this um this

00:14:32.780 person broke up with me and i'm feeling pretty sad yo w bubble bass in the chat about it i didn't have

00:14:36.840 those conversations so it's like emotional language as part of like how you talk to your dad

00:14:41.360 yeah my definition of manhood came solely from my relationship with god it didn't come from

00:14:46.400 my father it didn't come from the good influences around me is god a man yeah and god is a man 0.99

00:14:50.980 yeah we're made in god's image bro why the fuck is this father's zesty ass interview asking these 0.99

00:14:55.580 questions yes and god is a father and he's a good father he's a perfect father and so i think there 0.99

00:15:00.160 is a clear definition of manhood where i guess that's where i diverge from everyone else in the

00:15:04.060 room i believe manhood is clearly defined by god it is the perfect example of what a man should be

00:15:09.620 christian i see you nodding your head i grew up in a divorced home

00:15:13.100 um when you do grow up in a broken home and you don't have a father in the home you recognize how

00:15:22.720 important sort of both males and females are in raising a child and being in the home

00:15:29.440 there's a balance between you know masculine energy and feminine energy 1.00

00:15:32.940 absolutely and i feel like there's um there's both within everybody okay and so there's a balance that

00:15:38.360 um with masculine energy in itself that i think a lot of people have trouble trying to 0.97

00:15:44.140 yeah this guy's like these fucking wagons 0.93

00:15:46.460 trying to like reconcile within themselves like yes being a man you work hard you take care of your 0.99

00:15:54.000 people but you got to be able to have that emotional side too which is where the feminine energy 1.00

00:15:57.380 comes in y'all y'all just like triggered something in my head when y'all speaking about having both

00:16:02.780 and i'm to me i didn't really have it there and it made me it made me feel a way but i think that i

00:16:11.640 always wanted one and so i wound up at a certain age going outside and trying to find what masculinity

00:16:18.100 was outside and so i went on the corner and there were 20 of us on the corner and none of us had dads

00:16:24.340 we were all messed up and so we all taught each other the wrong way to love to be loved and then

00:16:32.280 i think in society there's way more people like that and a lot of kids who don't have fathers in

00:16:38.380 the home excuse me um look for that father in the world or in a different way yeah yeah um well

00:16:47.600 first yo is that machine gun kelly i think that like attributing like proper family values to like

00:16:53.300 a heterosexual couple with children is like just not effective like i think that it's obviously like

00:16:58.920 a heteronormative take to be like man and woman and then a child and that's how you create like a

00:17:02.980 w heteronormative a good family and whether it's like a single mother single father or like a

00:17:07.660 queer couple like i don't think that it's necessary to like attribute men and women to like certain 0.98

00:17:12.120 roles in the household i think that it's only due to nurture those gender norms that we follow

00:17:16.980 male and female matters god gives you one of those identities you take on that role let's go cowboy 1.00

00:17:22.260 and now you're responsible for not or for fulfilling that role yeah i ain't gonna lie bro the white

00:17:27.960 shout out w white people because you you guys are carrying this conversation right now i i'm a little

00:17:32.480 bit disappointed in my people there's a masculine crisis because men are not taking responsibilities

00:17:36.380 for the god-given roles that they have in society and so when you take away the the need to say god

00:17:44.520 made you this or god made you this now you don't have to take responsibility for not fulfilling what

00:17:48.820 you were called to do when you do that you also take away other things that somebody else may do

00:17:53.840 if i have a woman or a partner that wants to take on certain roles and i say hey those are my roles

00:17:59.860 that god gave me in society now i'm suppressing that person like at the end of the day we're all human

00:18:05.140 beings yeah great point right i hate when people say something like this as if they made a great

00:18:10.300 point listen to what do you say in society now i'm suppressing that person like at the end of the 0.84

00:18:14.460 day we're all human beings oh shit really in society at the end of the day we're all human beings 0.70

00:18:23.340 yeah you define who you are and how you behave under god yo chat is this xqc in the back i ain't gonna lie 0.98

00:18:29.560 love it women drive better than men no no i play video games all day 0.98

00:18:37.140 i'm on bot twitch

00:18:40.880 yo

00:18:42.760 that's i can't believe you would be on this panel

00:18:51.540 yo good for you y'all that's what god gave us free will but also like i think that the religious

00:18:55.940 beliefs should not be used to like dictate how other people identify how the people live their

00:19:00.080 lives humans need predictability and when we put each other in these boxes it gives us the opportunity

00:19:06.400 to make decisions quickly and i think that's what we're fighting is as a civilization at the moment

00:19:13.300 is the desire to put seven and a half billion people in specific boxes so that we can have

00:19:19.740 some sort of predictability or or uh stability in in our lives i was an emotionally abusive

00:19:29.240 young man in in my 20s because i had an idea of what my wife should do and it caused a lot

00:19:36.940 why are you standing like that you look like you listen to npr of of stress why were you the way you

00:19:41.760 were is this therapy bro i don't like this this has got like a fruity undertone right you know i had a

00:19:45.980 lot of anger but why they stop talking about your feelings uh i had a lot of uh so someone fight

00:19:51.760 each other pent up rage uh i had you know some combat stress that i had to deal with also uh that

00:19:57.840 i wasn't dealing with because men don't show emotion there is a social construct that benefits men

00:20:04.560 and so the responsibility that i've learned as i've gotten older is learning how to not enforce

00:20:11.320 my power learning over women over people you're saying that that role gives men more privilege

00:20:17.280 like an advantage and privilege i'm saying that it is more self-sacrificing i do not have free time i

00:20:21.760 do not have hobbies i do not wake up during the day and do what i want to do ever i'm thinking about

00:20:26.520 my wife my kids my business yo w fake cowboy that's your decision and that's not like that's what you

00:20:31.760 should be doing like a mandatory thing of your masculinity well if you believe that god is true

00:20:37.260 i don't and you believe it yeah duh bro get the rocks i don't like god then you do have that

00:20:43.340 responsibility what privileges are you like do you are referring to yo cheeto like what privileges do

00:20:48.680 male do men have we've constructed this entire society to benefit us break it down like what

00:20:53.400 privileges exactly like we talk about the wage gap oh i told you i didn't trust him i told you

00:21:00.160 he sold out bro he bro grew up in the hood selling crack and then found feminism or if you look at 0.97

00:21:05.920 roe versus wade men controlling women's bodies even if there might be those why yo look at l vice 0.99

00:21:14.160 editing all this shit out that's making him look stupid privileges there's also more men who commit 0.98

00:21:18.200 suicide more men incarcerated i think when you talk about like more men incarcerated incarceration rates 0.99

00:21:25.880 and things like that like like things that men are a victim of i think that it's important to like

00:21:29.740 recognize like i don't think that men are oppressed solely on the grounds that they're men i think

00:21:33.760 that men like experience oppression based on like the intersections of their identities which is you

00:21:39.820 know why we see like different like lower class jobs being worked by men or like higher suicide rates

00:21:44.760 or like incarceration rates going up because like men like black men brown men indigenous men

00:21:49.560 queer men etc those people you see how white queers will always and that's what they like to be called 0.99

00:21:57.340 queer you see how they try to like jump in with the minority struggle bro you are choosing to be an 1.00

00:22:04.260 anti-christ fucking fruity xqc you not disenfranchised you're a privilege like you don't you're not 1.00

00:22:11.880 disadvantaged men like black men brown men indigenous men queer men did you see that little you see that 1.00

00:22:17.960 little and watch none of the minorities call that shit out trans men etc those people that like face 1.00

00:22:22.400 oppression they experience oppression but it's no you you don't have to just fucking take your 0.99

00:22:26.580 anti-christ cross off not solely due to their identity as a man i think i think dating look at 0.99

00:22:31.120 l vice edited that shit out sex is probably a very interesting place to think about this because it's 0.62

00:22:35.100 changing field as far as like what people expect of each other i date in new york city a lot 0.98

00:22:41.420 and dating wise there's a lot that's like asked of a man i think like first dates are like this guy's

00:22:49.600 a standard comedian nightmare dude it's like i'm like what do you want i used to do stand-up comedy

00:22:57.380 with this guy in new york city bro that's crazy seeing him in here he's actually funny

00:23:02.060 it's like i'm like what do you want i think i came up to him because he's the only other asian guy and he

00:23:09.740 kind of looked like me i think that's my cousin i'm like bro look another asian dude what's up

00:23:13.620 you got like a checkbox like are you gonna pick me up are you gonna hold are you gonna walk on the

00:23:17.620 outside of the sidewalk are you gonna open the door are you gonna pull out the seat are you gonna

00:23:21.020 pay for the meal are you gonna be interesting during the dinner are you gonna be funny during

00:23:25.500 the dinner and then when you walk home are you gonna drop me off are you gonna watch me walk inside

00:23:30.080 and then are you gonna text me after and it's like it's like trying to defuse a bomb like if you

00:23:35.740 think you'd like you're like red wire blue wire and you're like one little thing and you're just

00:23:41.520 done and it's like i'm i'm to the point where i'm like i'm so tired of like paying 150 for a first

00:23:47.740 date and then you just ghost me and the next week i'm like hurting for cash i'm like i could have

00:23:52.900 really used that 150 like why did i have to you know what i'm saying the trade-off of like going on 0.86

00:23:58.240 a date and as the man being like oh this sucks i have to pay or as the woman being like oh this sucks 0.85

00:24:02.900 i might get murdered is like a pretty big you know imbalance on a first date should the man or 0.99

00:24:09.660 whoever identifies as the man on the date shut the fuck up pick up the check shut up sanjay 0.99

00:24:15.080 show of hands who thinks yes yes yes look at the cowboy the only person i agree with here 0.99

00:24:19.180 yeah should is a weird yeah should hurts my triggering feelings bro this is why you gotta 0.98

00:24:25.140 get the fuck out of these liberal cities okay this has got to be in new york sorry how would you 0.92

00:24:29.220 put it i very much i could feel new york city i swear to god yo any new yorkers in the chat this 0.99

00:24:34.760 100 has to be filmed in mad at love gender roles i like masculine men and i want my masculine man to 0.99

00:24:41.980 pick the check up my so you're bro you're a fucking you're what is fresh doing right here think about 0.99

00:24:48.480 this next to me is a queer my friends seem to be the same my girlfriend seemed to want that as well 1.00

00:24:56.040 but i have a male friend who was naturally doing that and with the dates he was going on with women

00:25:02.780 they were offended that he like took the check so i think like hey if this woman doesn't want him to 1.00

00:25:10.320 pay and she wants to show she yo chat i get the taliban's calling me about this guy

00:25:15.420 can they go off i think it's a matter of preference

00:25:45.280 like you know if someone picked it up for you like you develop a kind of rapport respect with

00:25:51.120 that person like so be it if the other person yeah facts facts you mean you spend facts right now

00:25:56.400 i like your haircut and your and this guy's really good looking for real damn i wish i looked like that 0.66

00:26:04.020 you know the woman you're with doesn't want that then maybe it's not the match for that person so i

00:26:11.640 think it's dependent on the situation i think that there's such a thing as financial abuse and men

00:26:17.860 seem a lot of time because they spend that woman has to be under them or owes them something um i think

00:26:24.800 that's when you get talks me personally i love to take care of my partner i love that

00:26:30.480 yeah why do you say partner feeling that i give them that they're taking care of when they're with

00:26:34.760 me and that's when it's with friends they partner and anybody if you're with me i got you like i guess

00:26:41.500 what i'm hearing from you andre is that there's like a lot of pressure to uh inhabit 0.99

00:26:46.320 the masculine side of good the social expectation yeah why the fuck why the fuck this dude looking 0.99

00:26:54.260 like looking like 0.99

00:26:55.480 not really and yet you might not get the benefit that you would have expected generations ago

00:27:07.440 and that puts you in a weird position yeah well we live in a city where there's eight million people

00:27:12.800 and uh you know a lot of these girls especially if you're really attractive guys are hitting on 1.00

00:27:19.060 them all day so they feel like celebrities you got so many options i don't blame me i'd be the same

00:27:24.000 way becomes like somebody better i think technology has a big part to do with that now like modern

00:27:29.080 times like online dating instagram especially as a girl you're gonna have 30 dms a day think about

00:27:36.460 this ladies last thoughts so like for girth so how about this yeah i was gonna swipe it up i think

00:27:44.180 that's a so it's like okay cool so i'm gonna go okay cool that's a big reason why it can be tougher

00:27:50.000 for some men i'm not successful i think what he's saying is there's a toxicity to femininity as well

00:27:55.440 there is there is a toxic side to both genders toxic i think anybody can be narcissistic but i think 1.00

00:28:02.320 that it's like weird to randomly attribute that to like women in new york because they're being

00:28:05.780 complimented all day there's a term that's called absolute power corrupts absolutely so but that is 0.72

00:28:11.680 yo bad bitches in new york city walk around like celebrities they got the headphones in 1.00

00:28:15.720 they're i got the hat over their head oh no pictures no pictures when we're talking about 0.97

00:28:20.680 masculinity that's what we've had we've typically had that we can do whatever we want and we do it

00:28:26.760 because we squeeze we corrupt we take historically you take over things places that you don't like and 0.99

00:28:32.180 you rape the women and yo fresh your masculinity is literally dying bro i saw the black guy's eyes 0.98

00:28:39.080 that he was low iq look at it he has a different look in his eyes i've seen it many different times 1.00

00:28:42.720 low iq people yo zelchi bro that was an autistic ass don't take the gold and you and you know you do 0.99

00:28:48.100 what you want because you have that power now when we see women have that power we're like whoa 1.00

00:28:53.240 she's literally just getting a taste of the power that men have had for centuries but on the flip side

00:28:58.420 of this perspective of dating of like the poor guy who goes think about this so okay cool i have

00:29:05.740 cheetos in my hair on these dates and gets ghosted and and it's it's a struggle to date on the other

00:29:10.680 side of that is uh men have more sex men cheat more they have more affairs so if i'm a woman and i'm

00:29:16.540 looking for a guy um i would be really selective i would have a list of what i was looking for

00:29:21.640 and the guy would have to meet those standards then they would be high i think over the last

00:29:26.320 several years the me too movement has given a lot of insight into what women are feeling in the 0.98

00:29:32.580 workplace what they're experiencing how they're being abused and other i got a career for sucking 0.99

00:29:37.600 dick was silenced how institutions of power have kept them silent and we've heard some really awful 0.99

00:29:43.900 stories and some terrible shit i want to hear from you guys what you think about where we what the 0.97

00:29:49.620 me too movement did has it gone too far what does it mean for you i think it's good for women to 0.99

00:29:55.960 expose men who are doing evil things in the workplace i think it's been a good thing in exposing sexual

00:30:00.160 abuse there's also the opposite side of that coin where where women are allowed privileged to do 1.00

00:30:04.420 certain things that men are not so in the workplace i i was working at a place where a woman was 1.00

00:30:08.920 grabbing me inappropriately doing things that were inappropriate and when you bring that up to your

00:30:12.760 co-workers you know what they say they laugh and they say you should be excited right so if a man is

00:30:17.800 sexually abused the the stigma totally changes well i don't think me too necessarily like

00:30:22.500 is what prevented people from believing you in your story and like your story is valid like i'm not

00:30:27.560 here to suppress that but it kind of undermining it do you think that like it's worth noting women 1.00

00:30:32.240 are far more likely to be bro get out of this panel and go to the female one bro i'm sick of these 1.00

00:30:36.820 fucking i'm sick of these victims of sexual assault you just experienced a little bit of weakness that 1.00

00:30:45.060 women feel most of the time when we're talking about constructs you see how they're undermining it 1.00

00:30:49.100 right now you know you guys are saying we need to deconstruct masculinity i'm saying there's there

00:30:53.100 are unequal biases with both genders when it comes to it not necessarily being as um viewed as as valid

00:30:58.620 if that it happens to be the case because of other men though you know what i'm saying like other men are

00:31:03.240 people that downplay that and that's when we come back to the talk of you know patriarchy and things

00:31:07.080 like that was put in place by men and is enforced by men and i went for i went for a walk to get dinner

00:31:12.320 last night now i walked several blocks because i wanted to check out a a few things um and it was

00:31:16.980 dark uh not a single time did the idea that i would be physically or sexually assaulted cross my mind

00:31:22.420 not a single time i can imagine that that doesn't really work out for for women it comes down to 1.00

00:31:28.500 biological differences as a man you're more likely to be able to have more of a chance to fend off

00:31:33.940 someone attacking you that being said okay cool think about this so that's thoughts ladies and we'll

00:31:41.060 start here life for girth so that being said i put cheetos as a woman not really so that's why you know

00:31:49.500 we have things like mace and tasers or having a gun is it something about um it's hard to admit that

00:31:56.060 you're a victim yeah for sure for sure and to and to complain about it people look at you like 0.95

00:32:01.500 remember terry cruz you can get his nuts squeezed and shit right why don't you do something why'd you 1.00

00:32:07.960 look how the world ridiculed him you know oh you got you ain't do nothing like oh you a bitch 1.00

00:32:13.080 you know so we as men especially super guys that grew up in super masculine houses we don't really 1.00

00:32:19.280 like to admit weakness well and there's and it's in our language right like don't be a bitch like don't 1.00

00:32:23.820 be a pussy like it it's it's very we internalize that yeah that's all examples of like toxic 0.99

00:32:29.040 masculinity like it's never to invalidate somebody's experience but like like it must be obvious that 1.00

00:32:35.260 like these are rules and roles enforced by men and created by men well in toxic masculinity and power 0.80

00:32:42.100 kind of go hand in hand i mean we're talking about peanut butter and jelly you know what it is i think

00:32:45.940 sometimes we've got to go to work and like if we're caught complaining about it we're like admitting

00:32:50.600 weakness it's like you're not a man how does that feel it doesn't feel great but that doesn't stop

00:32:55.420 me from doing what i need to do um if you talk about a little bit of pressure that goes with it

00:33:01.340 yeah there's a little bit of pressure if you can withstand it you become a successful man but what

00:33:06.560 does that have to do with being a man like surely why are you speaking on being a man bro you're not 0.98

00:33:12.720 even a man you said yourself i'm gender whatever binary bullshit stop speaking on this bro and go 0.99

00:33:19.720 fucking do whatever you do like a woman can do all those things so why even attribute it to your 1.00

00:33:23.240 gender that's a good point but i think also um no it's not if you're talking in terms of biological 0.99

00:33:29.600 differences

00:33:30.180 generally men are more logical right more reasoning 0.61

00:33:35.740 um ses that was a little toxic uh more yeah why are you making that cringe face xqc that is true

00:33:45.020 bro i hate bro new york bro anyone in new york in the chat you can't even say that men are more 0.64

00:33:50.820 logical in new york city you can't even say that women are emotional without oh my god this is why i

00:33:56.920 left new york where you at nah that he moving he moving i disagree there is no scientific backing for

00:34:05.820 that whatsoever saying i just think it's a commonly used stereotype i mean i'm not maybe talking about

00:34:10.820 okay you guys can say that i think more about me like i'm more of like a logical you know factual

00:34:15.480 based guy like i have emotions um but you know i don't let that deter me from what i need to do

00:34:21.220 like my my reasoning do you talk with people about your emotions a lot please say no please say no

00:34:26.680 don't represent asians like that no i mean i have people i have friends i have close guy friends i can

00:34:32.540 talk to you do yeah okay good answer there's an interesting uh thing came out where like guys these

00:34:38.500 days have fewer than three friends like it's hard for men to make friends with each other i think

00:34:42.940 that's a big problem now in in modern times because you you hear about you know the suicide rates going

00:34:48.200 up i think that's a big reason for men aren't allowed to talk about it with safe people so if

00:34:53.980 you talk about masculinity crisis that's the crisis right there i think that men find friends very

00:34:57.400 easily in terms of like okay preach oh yo you lift um 240 i lift 242 let's like spot each other like

00:35:02.860 basketball whatever but i think that we've we have super no chad i'm going to the party i'm not i don't know

00:35:07.520 about the meeting superficial relationships in those friendships you know in which like it's

00:35:10.600 very like surface level like coming back to what you're talking about we don't talk about feelings

00:35:13.920 and and things like that that comes back to how you know you're brought up and how like wars are

00:35:18.100 taught in certain ways how we go about talking to each other and how we go about expressing ourselves

00:35:22.420 all right bubble bass you spin facts one of those agents who's talking like a black dude because

00:35:25.520 that's in new york everybody kind of sounds like that but yo bubble bass spitting facts right now he

00:35:29.780 got he he ain't got pickles under his tongue he got fried chicken hiding under there

00:35:32.980 how much of this is is men putting ourselves in a little box i can tell you uh i wouldn't have

00:35:40.940 shared my emotions with with people when when i was younger um but i have people in my life now who i

00:35:46.880 feel completely comfortable sharing my insecurities my vulnerabilities you know how i'm feeling that

00:35:52.900 ends up being one of the reasons why men end up with limited friends because i mean how many people

00:35:58.860 can you actually feel like you can be open and honest with but there's something holding there's

00:36:05.680 something holding people back yeah and i think it's us i think we're we're doing it because we're

00:36:09.980 putting ourselves uh in in this masculinity box if you will i think that vulnerability um for men

00:36:16.880 oftentimes of you to surrender and like that is a you know what i mean yo bro his nose gotta be

00:36:21.600 but why he looked like he about to laugh every second yo low yo why why do you look like he's mid

00:36:27.260 sneeze right now that's an example of weakness okay okay okay okay okay okay okay okay okay

00:36:30.920 which like someone can possibly take advantage of it or it used to be viewed as such you know where

00:36:35.260 it's all right cool like he cried oh that means he's soft so now i can challenge him and this is

00:36:39.240 something that i really struggle with um as a black man that grew up in the hood you couldn't be soft

00:36:45.600 you you couldn't come outside you know what i'm saying so you you had to take on this this

00:36:51.960 persona in order to be a quote unquote man as i got older i realized i still had to do that

00:36:58.060 with women i had to be a certain way for them to look at me as a man and if i didn't perform in that 0.97

00:37:05.260 manner they also called me a bitch yeah they want a real like right so it's like as progressive 0.95

00:37:12.460 the hood as i may want to be is the world accepting of that on as a whole nah we outside 0.94

00:37:19.960 because even if the guy even if the other men don't like it but the women like it i might be like

00:37:25.800 i don't care what the guys think as long as the women like it but there are spaces where the women 1.00

00:37:30.960 will be like look at him he wants a finger in his butt sorry what the 1.00

00:37:34.920 jesus where the women will be like look at him he wants a finger in his butt 1.00

00:37:44.480 sorry no let's talk about fingers like 0.99

00:37:51.420 you know what i'm saying like he that's not my type of guy he's not my type of guy and i can't be 0.87

00:38:14.020 open with sex or accepting having gay friends pardon you know that's what you like but i can't 0.82

00:38:19.800 right right you can't be open about certain things because then you become questionable and 0.99

00:38:25.900 you're pushed yo you acting mad questionable right now son nah word word am i dead when the 0.73

00:38:31.700 word is born yo on the act you're moving bro out of the safe space you know sex is a difficult 0.99

00:38:40.140 thing for for men to talk about even with each other especially if you do have some kind of kink 0.99

00:38:46.240 because you're not allowed to be vulnerable you're not allowed to be weak you're not 0.99

00:38:49.640 bro did this did he just say on vice that he takes fingers in the butt allowed to fail 0.50

00:38:54.040 and a lot of people that when you say the suicide waste you give up because you have nowhere to turn

00:38:58.480 i kind of disagree with you on the on the fact about that pressure is causing i think it's more

00:39:02.420 the lack of support and guidance for a lot of guys like they don't know where to turn like

00:39:07.560 they like a lot of guys you know suicide i think is like when you lose hope right so

00:39:11.340 they just don't have hope what about not wanting to go get it because there's there's places to be

00:39:16.340 there's people to go you can go to church i mean you go to therapy but i don't feel like you know

00:39:21.580 when when you say guys don't want to express weakness i think taking that step is a lot it's

00:39:26.080 hard for a lot of men because then that expresses weakness it's hard for a lot of guys you know

00:39:31.720 what's interesting that what i'm hearing is that as men you also are victimized by the sexist

00:39:38.300 expectations of masculinity it also makes it um hard for men to uh love themselves um and and love

00:39:46.860 themselves enough to understand that they're in trouble you know and um i i know that's something

00:39:52.760 that that happened in my life it was but before i did finally go to therapy and get the demons out

00:40:00.140 l therapy oh bro this god demons white that i needed to get out um you're right yo default 0.99

00:40:07.400 apocalypse said it right right before it happened these motherfuckers about to talk about therapy 1.00

00:40:11.300 now you were right it took me meeting and i took the finger in the butt out of context he was saying 1.00

00:40:17.780 if you're vulnerable with the bitch they think you're gay bro i i don't but i i don't know what 0.99

00:40:22.240 the hell you why was that his example uh a woman who actually made me want to love myself 1.00

00:40:28.300 you found a woman who gave you peace and and changed you a lot well great if if a man is dating 0.91

00:40:36.820 a woman and she doesn't like that he's not masculine enough it's kind of like to me i feel

00:40:41.240 like too bad for him he should go find someone else that's part of the dating scene everyone has

00:40:46.020 things that they like and things that chat type of one of therapy turns you gay they don't like 0.96

00:40:50.520 i feel like your preference is your preference but at like some point i think it's like noteworthy

00:40:54.500 and responsible to like understand where those preferences or like originate not necessarily i

00:40:59.700 think our life experiences uh form what we really want in our dating life and because i grew up in a

00:41:06.460 broken home and i didn't have a man in the house i want a man who gives me security and protection

00:41:12.340 i don't think me deconstructing masculine is gonna do that yo why are the bumbleclots fighting for me 0.80

00:41:18.000 i was missing that in my childhood and that's what i want in a man i tend to diverge from like the

00:41:23.020 freudian daddy issues stuff when it comes to like what congratulations i'm so happy why are

00:41:27.540 they jacking this whole interview for you i want a man who gives me security thank you i think what 0.95

00:41:31.740 what the hell is this fruity ass argument in the men panel what was this why are they catfighting 0.84

00:41:37.340 it's like keeping up with the kardashians i feel like what congratulations i'm so happy for you i want 0.99

00:41:42.060 a man who gives me security thank you i think i think right what if i'm with a woman and the bad

00:41:49.240 dates i've had is when i'm like talking about my problems i'm complaining about something i'm not

00:41:55.500 gonna see that woman if i'm projecting more strength and i'm more charismatic i'm positive

00:42:00.740 i'm probably gonna see that woman so i think as much as like guys you know you want guys to be

00:42:06.320 vulnerable that doesn't work a lot of times and i think it just comes down to that that's what i'm

00:42:09.680 saying that's what it is like that's what i'm saying it sounds like a lot of you are saying that's

00:42:12.280 wrong yeah and it's like it's like yeah i think it is what it is i just think that society teaches

00:42:17.960 you you have to be a certain way and that's really and that's my issue because if this is who you are

00:42:24.000 your character right it just blossoms into this person that loves to pay for dates loves to open

00:42:29.420 doors and loves to walk in the house then that's fine but when society tells you that from a young

00:42:34.220 boy that that's the only way to be as a man this is the only way to be and you think about things

00:42:39.140 like uh say people on the download that don't that don't want to come out till later because

00:42:44.100 they're scared bro it stops it but what the hell is he what is this dude is he gonna end people on 0.82

00:42:49.960 the download listen listen listen listen listen listen listen you guys said i took it out of 1.00

00:42:53.640 context what did you say he said you're vulnerable with a bitch they think you're gay one more time 1.00

00:42:57.960 what the fuck is he that don't that don't want to come out till later because they're scared of 1.00

00:43:02.300 societal pressures right you should be able to be whoever you want without society telling you 1.00

00:43:10.600 you have to be this way in order to fit in this box pressure is on like the body like

00:43:17.740 pressure is to be buff to like look good there is a certain pressure i guess you can call it for

00:43:26.700 guys to look a certain way especially if they're trying to attract women so i think it comes down to

00:43:32.160 just men who look a certain way tend to look more competent they can protect i was gonna add on to

00:43:38.720 what you were saying if a guy looks fit if a guy looks strong that being said okay as a girl she's

00:43:43.980 probably thinking if i'm on the street and somebody tries to do something to me i know that he can

00:43:48.260 handle it i also think generally like guys who don't have the body that they're looking for are

00:43:53.640 generally about to say it's okay to be fat generally they're not as healthy nice nice nice make fun of

00:43:58.320 bubble baths preach behind you um it's not just a look thing it's just a health thing yeah you know

00:44:04.140 the body and mind are connected um if someone is strong they're probably gonna look strong and they're

00:44:09.900 probably gonna feel strong so i think um when you say it's a pressure i think it's it can be construed

00:44:15.140 as a healthy pressure hey get strong be strong because you're gonna be a healthier and more mentally

00:44:19.800 fit individual for example i was a gymnast and i think you know the training that i did not only

00:44:26.500 trained my body but it winded up training my mind and making me a stronger human period as the period

00:44:32.700 skinniest person here um pretty skinny you're skinny all right as this second w sticko in the chat

00:44:41.080 no it's like i don't know it's like yeah you do i've i've had a bunch of girls like friends on me

00:44:50.980 and i'd be like why and they're like you're just too skinny and i'd be like damn i mean they kept it

00:44:58.460 so real i can't that's yeah kind of him to say that yeah is saying that there is a good and natural

00:45:03.880 connection between like feeling good healthy habits looking good and that there's a masculine ideal to

00:45:08.960 that of some sort does anyone disagree with that here i do body diversity exists across like

00:45:13.640 multiple spectrums and i think that it's unfair to like only attribute like mental fortitude like

00:45:18.020 mental strength to like physical strength not having like a perfectly in shape but it doesn't

00:45:21.780 necessarily mean you're unhealthy told you the woke movement is telling you that fat is okay by any

00:45:26.820 means and i also don't think it necessarily means that you like lack mental fortitude i don't think

00:45:33.200 i'm saying that um um to look strong as oh come on adi chinko do a better job of debating only way to 0.98

00:45:41.200 be mentally strong um i think as long as you feel like you have a competent physical body i think that's

00:45:48.340 going to benefit your mental health how do you define competent yeah i think in terms of what you're

00:45:52.440 trying to do so if you can't even say in shape in new york anymore look at wokeness bro what do you

00:45:57.600 are you a student like do you what are your endeavors in life me yes i'm a student athlete

00:46:03.140 okay what kind of what kind of sport i'm a springboard diver okay do you um train to do springboard

00:46:08.700 diving yeah okay and do you feel good when you train and you do well on the springboard yeah i think

00:46:14.220 that's what i mean that's what i'm talking about if you feel competent at the endeavors you're trying

00:46:19.200 to do i think that's but i think there's a lot of like non-athletic people who may not be in like

00:46:24.740 like the same physical shape as like an athlete would be who are competent in what they're trying

00:46:30.340 to do because that like action has nothing to do with like their like so that's where i disagree

00:46:34.660 with you that's why i disagree with you i think some people who don't what did you say i can't even

00:46:38.640 do it like they're like so they're competent in what they're trying to do because that like action

00:46:43.180 has nothing to do with like they're like so that's where you can't be a fat you can't be bubble

00:46:47.600 bass jumping off the springboard you go and break it before you get in the water i agree with you

00:46:51.100 That's why I disagree with you.

00:46:52.200 I think some people who don't realize the potential.

00:46:55.120 Yo, W, my brother.

00:46:56.160 For their physical to blend into your mental

00:46:58.880 is something that needs to be talked about.

00:47:00.980 I think it's undervalued.

00:47:02.480 It's not that you have to work out to have a competent mind.

00:47:05.860 It's that working out does help with competency.

00:47:09.080 We already know when you work out, endorphins are released.

00:47:11.540 People feel better.

00:47:12.440 There's so many times I wake up, I don't want to go to the gym.

00:47:14.920 It's going to be the worst day ever.

00:47:16.680 Yo, W, one more clock?

00:47:19.260 You're speaking facts.

00:47:20.140 I'm in a bad mood.

00:47:20.800 I go, my endorphins are released.

00:47:22.300 I'm great.

00:47:22.900 I'm woken up.

00:47:23.940 We have the science for that.

00:47:26.520 Especially about it.

00:47:27.680 I think it plays very little.

00:47:29.000 We've had presidents in wheelchairs.

00:47:30.780 They were very confident successful men who couldn't walk.

00:47:35.420 And so I'm going to say that it doesn't define you as a man.

00:47:38.580 I think there's always a...

00:47:39.360 But it's the societal pressure to be in shape for men.

00:47:43.580 I don't...

00:47:44.160 I just... 0.53

00:47:45.760 I don't like when my stomach, when I'm having sex,

00:47:48.060 and my stomach, like, is... 1.00

00:47:49.200 Over her butt or whatever? 1.00

00:47:52.700 Like, I want to eat less? 0.99

00:47:54.480 Me?

00:47:54.840 Paul can change that. 0.57

00:47:55.500 Nobody's like, yo, you're fat.

00:47:56.720 We've spent all this time, like, deconstructing masculinity

00:47:59.700 and all these things.

00:48:01.000 But then it seems as though if a woman or someone dating says,

00:48:04.520 hey, I want a swole guy, suddenly it's like, 1.00

00:48:06.380 sorry, I don't think that's a societal pressure.

00:48:08.900 That's what that woman wants, and she's entitled to have. 1.00

00:48:11.060 But I also, I also, you know, I have body type preferences.

00:48:16.200 Yeah, I agree with that.

00:48:17.180 Like, there's, I'm not going to say what it is,

00:48:19.240 but there's certain girls where I'll go on it,

00:48:21.280 and I'm like, you don't really have the, what I'm looking.

00:48:24.760 I don't... 1.00

00:48:24.920 He's afraid to say he doesn't like fat bitches. 1.00

00:48:26.740 Say that, because that's the dick. 1.00

00:48:28.520 But in my head, I'm just like, ah, this isn't going to work. 1.00

00:48:31.520 Yo, L being scared to say what your fucking preference is. 0.99

00:48:35.300 That's fair. 0.99

00:48:36.220 And another thing to make, like, a sweeping, like, conclusion

00:48:39.500 and then, like, broadcast it everywhere.

00:48:41.640 No, people are entitled to date their preference.

00:48:44.020 Because when you look at statistics, they say that, what is it,

00:48:46.420 like, 70% of CEOs are over the size 6'4", for example.

00:48:51.120 So there is, amongst men, a pressure to be bigger,

00:48:53.900 and bigger men tend to be in charge.

00:48:55.880 And that's proven, statistically proven.

00:48:58.400 And so there is a pressure for men who are naturally smaller

00:49:01.480 naturally overweight, naturally not as fit,

00:49:04.400 to become fit, or to become bigger.

00:49:07.100 Oh, and every one of us here have heard little man syndrome.

00:49:09.600 Oh, yeah.

00:49:09.860 We've all heard it.

00:49:10.640 Every one of us.

00:49:11.540 He's got Napoleon syndrome.

00:49:12.660 He's got little man syndrome.

00:49:13.740 That's the thing, though.

00:49:14.600 He's got moist critical syndrome.

00:49:17.240 There's nothing you can do about it.

00:49:18.740 Man lit critical.

00:49:19.780 That's where it becomes harmful.

00:49:21.320 Specifically, like, you know, short King spring or whatever.

00:49:23.680 Like, a person...

00:49:24.420 I mean, you can't, like...

00:49:25.180 I mean, there is, like, I guess, like, on Twitter,

00:49:26.620 I've seen, like, oh, people getting a surgical procedure

00:49:28.960 to break their legs and add 6 inches to their height

00:49:30.960 or something like that.

00:49:31.680 Yeah, it's stuff you can't...

00:49:32.440 You know what I mean?

00:49:33.120 It's like, you know, like...

00:49:34.320 But, like, besides that,

00:49:35.460 which is, like, a really expensive procedure,

00:49:37.340 it also, like, comes into socioeconomic background

00:49:39.700 and things like that as well, too.

00:49:41.000 It's like, you literally can't do anything. 0.98

00:49:43.280 Yeah, Chad, what are they fucking talking about right now? 0.94

00:49:45.040 Now it's just literally chatting. 0.99

00:49:47.540 This has turned into a therapy session.

00:49:49.120 This is proof.

00:49:49.940 This conversation is proof as to why therapy is a waste of time.

00:49:53.000 Just do some push-ups.

00:49:53.680 About that, I think that's where it becomes harmful,

00:49:55.220 which, like, all right, like, if there is the pressure

00:49:56.620 in which, like, I can't date a person

00:49:57.940 or I can't, like, get a position

00:49:59.500 or I can't do X, Y, and Z

00:50:01.180 because I'm not a certain height

00:50:02.360 or something I literally cannot change about myself,

00:50:05.560 what now? 0.99

00:50:07.500 What is big dick energy? 0.99

00:50:10.700 What the f... 1.00

00:50:12.060 Boom, Baka! 0.99

00:50:15.040 It's when confidence crosses the line of arrogance.

00:50:18.480 That's exactly...

00:50:19.180 What?!

00:50:19.940 People have told me I have BDE.

00:50:23.320 You have BDE?

00:50:24.400 Yeah, people told me I have BDE.

00:50:25.600 You did in that back...

00:50:26.520 Why is XQZ looking like that?

00:50:28.760 Not to show off.

00:50:31.040 Even he said that.

00:50:32.840 Look at that.

00:50:33.280 I think BDE is, like, just a confident man.

00:50:37.140 I don't think it's an arrogant man. 0.96

00:50:38.720 I don't find arrogance to be big dick energy. 0.96

00:50:41.880 I find it to be insecure if you're arrogant. 0.99

00:50:44.320 They got a group of men talking about big dick energy, bro. 0.99

00:50:47.680 What the hell is... 0.99

00:50:48.360 What is going on, bro? 0.54

00:50:50.860 Trying to, like...

00:50:51.480 I don't...

00:50:51.940 There's no political stage.

00:50:52.140 I find it so odd to equate somebody who's, like, the size of their...

00:50:55.040 What a woman question that... 1.00

00:50:56.660 Bro, what...

00:50:57.280 Why...

00:50:57.900 A group...

00:50:58.580 Can you...

00:50:59.220 They gathered ten men together in a room 0.99

00:51:02.760 to talk about big dick energy? 0.99

00:51:05.380 Who picked these... 1.00

00:51:06.220 This is some vice shit. 1.00

00:51:07.780 This is what I'm saying, bro. 0.99

00:51:09.280 I'd rather go to therapy to finish this with all love and respect.

00:51:12.440 Genitals to, like... 1.00

00:51:13.160 What the fuck is this? 0.99

00:51:15.520 Like, what... 1.00

00:51:16.160 That's nobody's business.

00:51:17.160 It's more of just, like, a metaphor...

00:51:19.840 I don't agree, though.

00:51:21.040 Yeah, for confidence.

00:51:21.860 See, but then it comes back...

00:51:23.540 Now we're getting into, like, you know, a deeper conversation,

00:51:25.660 which, like, some men see their value based off the size of what they're carrying between their legs, you know? 1.00

00:51:29.440 What the fuck? 0.99

00:51:31.180 You know what I mean? 1.00

00:51:31.660 Yeah.

00:51:31.840 So, like, that's why the conversation big dick energy comes into place, because people feel as though, like, you know, a man that's, like, you know, more...

00:51:38.220 You see the woke indoctrination, bro, ten dudes talking... 0.59

00:51:42.960 More down there, you know what I mean?

00:51:44.060 It's more, like, you know, one, they're better in bed.

00:51:46.060 They're, like, more confident people.

00:51:47.360 Tell Vice in the chat right now.

00:51:48.520 Resulting a certain energy.

00:51:49.800 So, like, the stereotypes. 1.00

00:51:51.560 You know, so the stereotypes associated with having a big dick. 0.99

00:51:53.860 It's a lack of a need to overcompensate to society because you know you're... 1.00

00:51:59.120 This is the stupidest conversation. 1.00

00:52:00.880 ...more confident. 1.00

00:52:01.600 And sometimes that kind of stuff bleeds into violence, and you see that in domestic violence situations.

00:52:06.720 Like, men are, like, the perpetrators of that, by and large.

00:52:10.680 There's something wrong with masculinity when it becomes violent.

00:52:14.340 100%.

00:52:14.620 I also think because of testosterone and a number of different things, men are inherently more violent.

00:52:21.040 Oh, God.

00:52:21.940 This is...

00:52:22.300 This is...

00:52:22.900 Bro, okay.

00:52:23.840 All right.

00:52:24.760 Enough chat.

00:52:25.620 Okay, ten push-ups right now.

00:52:27.380 I can't do this anymore.

00:52:28.260 I'll vice.

00:52:31.600 That's it.

00:52:34.400 Is it your job?

00:52:35.640 Thank you.

SNEAKO - January 14, 2023

SNEAKO Watches Satanist DEBATE Traditional Men

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