SNEAKO - October 10, 2024SNEAKO X MOHAMMED HIJAB - CONVERSATION WITH A THERAPIST AFTER!
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Summary
In this episode of the pod, we talk about the new mic, depression, and a lot more. We hope you enjoy this episode and stay tuned for the next one! XOXO,
Transcript
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I was in the spot yesterday when my pops, my grandma still played bingo
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News one problem with the game, but I don't know why, but we gon' dunk her
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Shaking my dress on her face, this bitch a little vibe, putting on my demo
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Forgotta talking, we poppin' this shit right now, huh?
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How about this time, before I can't feel myself, oh yeah
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He the one time, then I'm out, he the one time, then I...
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If I got these business and boxed, all of these hoes are hot
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I'm walking around a lot, how does it feel with them nuts?
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Bitch, trust these pictures, I don't give a fuck about much
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I think I need me an ice spice, yeah, I want me a munch
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In the middle of fear, throw me a bomb, throw me a bit like a quarterback
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Stay in the field, throw me a bomb, throw me a hole like a quarterback
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Stay in the field, throw me a bomb, throw me a hole like a quarterback
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I'm stumbling over my words, I've been sick for, I've been sick for a couple days
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I just got this new mic right here, does it sound good?
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What the fuck, uh, what is Bruce dropping off his mic?
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Are you, I don't, I feel like I don't believe you guys
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Okay, but I gotta call Mohamed a job in a second
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I just wanna make sure the mic and everything is good
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If someone like, even to be fair, even like Richard Dawkins, who I would love to debate one day, but if he says, look, I'm sorry, but, you know, go and build yourself up a little bit more and then come back to me, I'll say to him, yeah, fair enough. You can say things like that, but you might not be alive. You know, I might not be alive. You might not be alive. Nobody might be alive, but he's 18 something years old. You know, fine. If you're the A side, you can speak like that. But if you're not the A side, you can't speak like that.
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So by the end of the month, there's going to be some announcement that we're going to make about some things that's going to happen. But I'm definitely going to give debating a bit of a rest for now until something comes up.
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I figured you were going to. That's probably the smart decision. Are you good friends with Faraz Sahabi? Because I'm planning a stream with him to go out to Montreal. I'm headed to Canada tomorrow. Are you good friends with him?
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Very good friends with him. I think he's, I even watched, I've actually watched most of his videos as well.
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People don't know that he's got, he's actually got this kind of, he's got a website called jujuclub.com.
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And I've, and that website, he, he puts tutorials about Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, striking tutorials, a lot of like mixed martial arts stuff.
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And they're really good. He's a good teacher. Like he shows how to, he breaks things down analytically.
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Um, he's a grappling expert under John Danaha, who's like, you know, really and truly one of the greatest grapplers alive today.
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Um, and he's obviously an MMA expert. He's Joe Rogan described him as the best MMA coach in the world today, actually.
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And, uh, GSP, uh, was a student of his. So you can imagine GSP is considered really the best MMA fighter in the world today.
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Uh, of all time, actually, because of all time. So this is the level that we're, for us, the hobby is a, is a treasure in the community because he combines between like the philosophical understanding, the intelligence, but also the, the warrior spirit and also the, you know, the, the love for martial arts.
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So I think he's a great friend of mine and, uh, uh, someone I've learned a lot from, uh, and, uh, taken a lot from personally.
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Okay. That's a good recommendation. Uh, there's a lot, anything that I should ask him?
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Just in general, I probably just pick his brain.
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I think so. I mean, look, I mean, uh, you know, um, it depends on what you want to, what your objectives are.
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If your objectives are to get good at, uh, mixed martial arts, then, um, clearly you can ask him a good template, speak to him in a macro sense.
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What is, because if you go to, if you go to Montreal for a couple of weeks, you're not going to go and come back as, uh, you know, GSP, but what you might go and come back with is the way to become like the new GSP.
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In a sense that he'll give you the tools. He'll give you the routines. He'll give you the, like anything to do with routines.
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I think is always good. When you ask a person of that caliber, what are the routines that I must employ?
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I think these are the kinds of things you've got to ask yourself what your objectives are and then ask him, how, how do you meet those objectives?
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So that when you come back to Florida, that you, you're able to, are you in Florida now?
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Is there alligators? I saw some alligators on the, on the streets.
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No alligators. The hurricane is, you can probably see a little bit outside. It's just nice and sunny. I think it was overhyped by the media. It's okay here.
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Oh, really? I saw some alligators and stuff like that.
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Yeah. But yeah, I mean, that's what it is, bro. Like, you know, give a man a fish, feed him for a day, teach him how to fish, you know, feed him for a lifetime.
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So someone like Faraz Zahabi, you don't ask him for a fish. You ask him, you know, to, to know how to fish.
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That's, um, that's, yeah, that's the best thing to go with it. But I mean, I wasn't planning to go for a couple of weeks, but it seems like there might be the, it's going to be cold up there.
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It's good. It's, it's now, it's like autumn here. Um, weather's good. We're all waiting for you, bro. You need to come back. I think really you need to relocate here. I know you don't like the weather. You don't, we don't have the, the, the Florida weather, but actually, to be honest, I think our weather is probably better than your guys' at least this week.
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You know, it's alligators, but that's the first week in a long time. Yeah. I do miss London. I've been spending quite a bit of time there this year, but things have quieted down. And speaking of things in London, we tried to set up a debate. I don't know if you know Aiden Ross. We tried to set up a debate with, uh, Dan Bilzerian and, and Tel Aviv, Tommy Robinson. Tommy, uh, didn't, he refused. He didn't respond to it. He ran away from the debate. Unfortunately, Tommy, Tommy, Tommy, uh, Robinson has run away from multiple debates.
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Um, and Dan, from my understanding has a greater reach than Tommy Robinson. Yeah. And since, uh, yeah. And he's well, more, more well-known, more respected. He's come out and said some fantastic things about, uh, Palestine. He's shown to be open-minded.
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And, uh, you know, we have, uh, we have good opinions about this man and we hope that he continues with this principal stance because to be honest with you, he's shown quite a good level of courage and, uh, valor in the face of these, uh, ops and enemies that are on social media. Yes. He would, he wouldn't debate someone like, uh, Tommy wouldn't debate someone like him because he knows that the crowd will be against him.
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He'll know, he knows that, um, that Dan will put him in his place because he, he speaks sense and he doesn't, he doesn't want to debate another white man. He wants to go and debate. Tommy wants to debate brown people with low IQ.
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That's who, that's the, the usual target. He wants to debate somebody who's unknown quantity with a very low IQ so that he can say that. And Tommy's not a debater. Tommy's not an academic. Tommy's not anything.
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Tommy's a street agitator. That's fine. He can, he can agitate on the street. But in fact, what's worse is that he's a street agitator. That's not even an agitator on the streets of the UK because he agitates from Greece when other people with his, uh, lackeys and followers and whipping boys here in the UK will do his work for him because they, uh, feel disenfranchised and have no one else to go to.
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I mean, Dan's not a debater either. Dan Bozerian is a, is a business mogul as a poker player. He does not have a debate background whatsoever. So I thought it was pretty well matched. And also they had a back and forth on Twitter. There were, what's his name? Tommy Robinson was accusing myself of Dan Bozerian of being paid by Iran and Saudi. And I had this funny conversation with Dan. It's like, if someone was going to offer us money to don't pose and take picture with the Quran, we, I would, I would take the money.
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If somebody was offering up some giant sums of money in order to promote Islam, I would gladly take it. But there, there is none.
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Well, what Tommy Robinson is doing is project psychological projection because that he is, um, on the record of getting money through Zionist entities. So he thinks everyone deals with life the way he deals with it. You know, he's gets money, money over morals, all this kind of things. And then he does. So he's on the record of, you know, getting funds and stuff like that.
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And people have shown, Loki, for example, has shown, uh, the trail to the Zionist, uh, uh, causes.
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And so he's, he's projecting, he's saying, oh, you know, Sneeko is getting money from Saudi Arabia.
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But somehow now I didn't know that Saudi Arabia was offering money for people that are doing, uh, dawah.
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That's, that's the first time I've heard of it because if they were, I mean, I've been in the game for a very long time.
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I think I deserve, I'm the first one in the line.
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I should be getting some money from the Saudis, to be honest with you.
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But, um, you know, I mean, it's, it's a modest cause, honest, genuinely.
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I mean, the thing is that that was a very modest cause and you'll find that no one probably offered you anything in the time.
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And the only thing we offer in Islam is truth and brotherhood and, and that's all the things we need.
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He's saying that he's only lost money talking about this.
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The shareholders want to get rid of him as the CEO because he's speaking up about Palestine.
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It's, uh, it's a cause that you, you lose a lot for, but you, you gain a nobility and respect from the community.
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Yeah, because if you, I mean, someone, look, the people who have stood up for these causes are going to be etched in history as people who spoke the truth.
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People like Muhammad Ali, people like Malcolm X.
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There's no question, even at their time, if you read Malcolm X's, which I know that you have, you'll find that he found, um, you know, people in his time really opposing him, you know, for what he was saying.
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They considered him to be out of the ordinary and he was fighting against the tide.
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But at the end of the day, you know, this is actually what gives us meaning and power and strength because we can either decide to be sheep or shepherd.
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There's no third option in the age of social media.
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You can either decide to bring people to a noble cause and to the truth, or you can decide to follow everyone else in what they're doing and go, go with the modern ideology of the day, the fad of the day, whether it's LGBTQ ideology, whether it's trans ideology, whatever it is, you can decide to go with that.
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And you'll be forgotten and rendered irrelevant in the dustbins of history, the trash heap of history.
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Or you can decide to speak the truth, and then you can have a legacy, which is, inshallah, from our perspective as Muslims, sadaqatun jariya, or this idea of a continual charity.
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After you die, if you leave something good, then your good deeds continue, we believe.
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If you've left something good, like, for example, if you leave an orphanage, or, for example, if you leave a water well, or, for example, if you've left good knowledge or good dawah that brings people to Islam and that removes the doubts away from the people,
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this kind of thing, we believe, will continue after your death, in a spiritual sense, and in a material sense, what they have is not going to continue, even within their own lives, let alone after their death.
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I appreciate you for coming on. This was informative, a good precursor to watching this debate. So thanks a lot. I know that it's very late over there in London.
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Thank you so much, bro. I'll see you soon, bro.
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All right, chat, is the, um, tell me how the mic is. Tell me how the mic is. The therapist is about to show up right now.
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I guess we'll watch some of the debate afterwards.
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Um, Mohammed Ajaab, big shout-out to Mohammed Ajaab.
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It's good or no? Because you guys won't shut up about it.
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Who's QTD? You guys won't stop saying who that is.
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I have no idea. It's a female therapist, of course.
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Why do you look tired? Because I am. Because I'm sick.
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Did you, I, I know this is, like, Rumble-type content.
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Mic is good. It picks up noise cancellation perfectly.
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Maybe you guys are just hearing a mic congestion,
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Oh, it's cutting out like a motherfucker, bro.
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I know, I've tried to do the podcast mic a couple times,
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and then every time I end up just coming back to this one.
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I think the therapist should be here right now.
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They're saying I'm tap dancing for Twitch on Rumble.
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It was the only one in Miami that would come to do a stream publicly.
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And she asked me, please don't keep it political.
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So I took down the Palestine thing for her so that she wouldn't lose her Jewish clients.
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Because therapy is a very Jewish profession.
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You know, I'll post again that I'm live right now.
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So we need to get PR trained for Twitch with this woman.
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Make sure that she keeps us no more problematic.
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L women, L therapists, L women, L therapists.
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We'll hit every single demographic today in today's stream.
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Like I'm not participating in the most schizo panels on the internet right now regardless.
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I don't know what she looks like to be honest with you.
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Did you see Pokey main is now, is a love speech member?
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I think she's like wandering around looking for the room.
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Isn't he a socialist and he's against gun control?
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yeah I was live already yeah so it's a different it's a different world than
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what you're used to of course all right hi everybody nice to meet you name is
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Elsa like frozen like frozen so today after all the therapy I'm gonna let it
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no it's not that's that's the name that most people call me Hubie but just call
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me Sneeko and Sneeko's good Hubie where does that come from from Hubert it's like a but it is your
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real name yeah how are you doing good doing good all right well how are you you got here fine it's the
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hurricane's not too bad people are wondering about the hurricane was non-existent here I think you
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know we did a poor job of separating what happened in the area that we're affected with it was actually
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gonna happen to us okay I'm glad we're okay and I do feel for all the victims impacted by it but
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it didn't even rain here are you from Miami um no actually I'm from Venezuela originally but I've
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been here for a little bit I know some Venezuelan lingo but it's like vulgar so I won't yeah let's
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hear one let's see my friend would always say marico marico that's good which means it's a
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slur that's probably not great for twitch but speaking of twitch is a is it does everything can
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you guys see where do I look by the way there's so much stuff here um just you can look at me or
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wherever when I'm not looking at you I look at okay whatever doesn't matter it's just imagine that
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it's not there it's a little bright but it's because it's the middle of the day right now okay
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um but yeah so basically I just started streaming on this website called twitch okay um I've been
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streaming on rumble for two years okay and rumble is a place where a lot of band creators go if you
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get banned and so are you a musician no not like band like drumming band like canceled oh band okay
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okay okay I thought like band okay no I'm not similar no yeah it's the same word but I'm not
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much of a musician okay that's why I was yeah yeah trying to make sense of that so twitch is like the
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mainstream so rumble you go to when you're canceled or well I mean it's a free speech platform so okay
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I mean anybody can go there but it tends to be people that have gotten canceled oh wow that's such
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interesting branding well that's not the way that they would promote it but that's how would they
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promote it they would say it's a free speech platform okay but what's interesting is that
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we're equating free speech to being canceled yeah yeah that's unfortunate well because the
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mainstream platforms like twitch for example the one we're on does not have uh well there's no free
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speech on twitch I think it makes you wonder what free speech means in the first place it should you
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know can free speech be respectful and can it be truthful and not hurtful you know it's interesting to
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think about I don't think so I I think uh free speech is gonna hurt some people's feelings all
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the time do you like the setup here Halloween decoration yeah spiders yeah I just walked in
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straight I'm like getting my grounding yeah yeah I know I know it's a lot you're live and you're
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good it's good I'm happy to be here okay so then you went to rumble for two years did you feel
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comfortable there yeah I did okay at first it was a little bit uh weird I'm still on rumble right now
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so right now I'm streaming on rumble and twitch okay but twitch is the new platform but yeah I
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was rumble alone for two years rumble alone for two years okay and now I got unbanned on twitch
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and I'm starting to be reintroduced into society again okay it's like I went to jail for two years
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and to influence a jail for two years do you want some water or anything I'm okay for now okay um
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I have bottles of water if you need thank you it's like I went to influence a jail for two years and
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now I'm slowly being reintroduced into society okay so I like that for you yeah but it must feel a lot of
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you must feel a lot of pressure no yes yes yeah okay so now you're back on twitch and what does
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that mean for you it means I have a second chance oh wow at twitch and then tiktok started again I'm
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still banned on youtube and instagram but I think because diddy's still on youtube and instagram maybe
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I'll get unbanned okay so the rules are strange like why is diddy allowed on youtube and instagram
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but I'm banned on youtube and instagram okay crazy so you can't you can't make sense of what happened
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to you or you can you know how would you kind of describe you're getting cancelled or banned and
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then how did you earn being unbanned I would describe it I think it was unfair um a lot of
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the stuff I got banned for was misinformation policies that are no longer part of the program
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okay like covid misinformation and election misinformation that's stuff I got banned on
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youtube for so I don't think it was fair uh twitch they never gave me a reason instagram
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they didn't give me a reason and youtube was on just reason tiktok I didn't hear a reason either so
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they just just got rid of me because of who I am okay um and then now I have a second chance I have
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to like learn how to abide by the rules properly because I'm being watched under a microscope like
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right now there's a twitch staff member watching this um so yeah so hopefully this is good all right
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hopefully so um what did you want to talk about today well let me first start by saying this isn't
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an official therapy session it would be somewhat unethical to stream a therapy session like such
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but we'll take it as a conversation I am a licensed therapist and we're just chatting and
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brainstorming do you feel comfortable with that I do I do and it's funny even if I was in a therapy
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session without the stream I think I would act exactly the same way that's interesting that's
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one of the things I was thinking about um I do want you to tell me what you want to talk about
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today but I was thinking about how you separate your streaming from who you are if there is a
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separation at all not much okay not much because when you're live this much it's like it's hard to
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really yeah it's hard to hide it all so even if I was in a therapy session without the camera I would
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be thinking about what the chat would be saying and how they'd be reacting to everything they're in
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your head yeah like we're one of the same connected to each other very interesting so we'll get more
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into that but I wanted to sort of start with asking you what you were hoping to talk about
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what your objective was for our chat today um probably a bit of everything like about how to
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like dial back the rhetoric that got me banned um a little bit about mental health because that's a
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major disagreement like I wouldn't actually I don't really believe in therapy okay for the most
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part even though my mom's a therapist no way yeah she is your mom's a therapist she is that is so cool
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what's her title training um psychologist I'll mute for a second
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yeah so she does uh she's a therapist and we disagree all the time I don't really believe in
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mental health like I they said I had ADHD when I was a kid okay I don't think it's real okay I don't
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think it's a real disorder I don't think depression is something I think it's over prescribed to people
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I think autism all these like mental anxiety for example that's it's like a common theme for people
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where I'm from okay where are you from sorry I was born in New York but I grew up a lot of
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Connecticut so like northeast you know high IQ waspy area you know like really internal okay um
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people so you're talking about the part of mental health that focuses a lot on diagnosing people
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right and um and this idea that some people can be misdiagnosed or how often do you jump to
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diagnosing someone um and so I I too have my own opinions about that I focus less on diagnosing
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and I do a little bit more of like talk therapy no matter the diagnosis if you will not that it's not
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useful okay for um the other therapists so talk therapy like what Tony Soprano and Dr. Melfi did
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um not exactly but yes I mean I like to so basically I try and work with you to get closer to the
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fulfillment you're looking for so if you're noticing a pattern or you're noticing a problem
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something that's getting in the way of you feeling a certain way I try to make sense of the context why
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is this happening where does it come from how does it help you how does it not help you and then kind
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of with this insight what um efforts to adjust could you put into place so that you get closer
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to where you want to go in a nutshell okay so and you can be talking to me about that whether you have
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a dhd or not for example okay so you think I should give you a specific problem that needs addressing
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well not necessarily I think you did already tell me that you want to talk about changing the rhetoric
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that got you banned right or I don't even know if I want to because I kind of I think that's what
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makes me me you know okay and so why should I have to change who I am for this platform just to make
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some money so who are you how would you describe yourself and your brand if they're one in the same
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if they're separate one and the other that's a good question I mean they are the same okay it's it's
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I've started doing this knowing that as long as you tie your brand to who you are you're never
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going to run out of stuff to talk about or stuff to do okay so you do feel that your brand is very
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aligned with who you are it is it's not like you have to turn it on and off my off brand on brand
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you're just being you I just woke up like 30 minutes before the stream I brought and they're
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like why you look tired because I woke up I didn't eat I just woke up and came right here and started
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the day okay yeah do you need some food I'm hungry yeah okay I'm gonna get food later but yeah all right
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they get so needy when I like I woke up in the first thing when's he going live when's he going
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live where's the update oh my god like I didn't even get they feel entitled to all of my time
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I have three kids um so I'm familiar with that feeling um okay so you feel like your brand is one
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of the same with your personality yes and it's hard to separate sometimes hard to forget like when
01:10:35.500
I'll be uh candid I went back uh to see my family and when they say my real name I forget
01:10:41.220
that that's my real name okay I'm like whoa like Hubert like I forget that people still call me
01:10:46.440
that so I'm so used to being like uh performative that it's hard to really sometimes remember who
01:10:52.860
you are outside of your performance yes which is different than you different than your performance
01:10:58.480
being you but if I've been doing this for 12 years the performance is me isn't it that's interesting
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that's a philosophical question I don't know it's like the chicken or the egg that the did the
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performance become you or did you become the performance I don't know that we can answer
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that honestly but I think it is interesting about I think it's interesting to think about
01:11:20.380
separating or noticing what parts may be a little bit different from you know between you and and
01:11:27.080
your persona when you're streaming if any I forget what they are okay um so how would you describe
01:11:36.040
yourself aka your brand um my motto is seek truth through funny seek truth through funny yeah okay
01:11:46.220
okay tell me more so I like to get to the truth I like to have difficult conversations but you have
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to entertain or else people are not going to pay attention so I also think the funny thing is usually
01:11:56.720
the most truthful okay whatever makes the room laugh or like breaks that uncomfortable silence that
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tends to be based in truth okay humor I think it's a superpower yeah um I think it is monumental and
01:12:10.180
driving change and in allowing people to connect so I would agree with you there regarding truth I
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mean it's not that you're asking me to tell you what I think about your your motto but I'm you know
01:12:20.800
kind of taking it in I think truth is interesting do you think there is one universal truth I do okay
01:12:27.920
I think I'm used to seeing people's truth subject right my truth as a therapist I'm always like I'm
01:12:35.820
I work with couples and I'm listening to two people and I'm like oh this is your experience what's
01:12:40.620
yours and if I find myself like siding you know siding or leaning more towards like someone then I'm
01:12:46.180
like I'm missing half of the story I have to find the other half um and so uh yeah that's funny
01:12:53.360
do you do you side with the woman not at all really I have actually found that I end up having
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like a very male oriented clientele but I've always been like that I've had a lot of guy friends and
01:13:07.540
I feel really comfortable what do you think is the number one problem in the modern relationship
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such a great question I'll tell you what people say people say it's communication problems but I
01:13:17.380
think that's just an umbrella for a million things that happen underneath it I think one of the
01:13:22.420
problems is that we don't know how to effectively have uncomfortable conversations you were talking
01:13:26.880
about uncomfortable conversations and I think it's super important to have them I think people think
01:13:32.640
you either avoid them or you are having a fight and it doesn't have to be either of those extremes I
01:13:39.320
think we can have conversations about difficult things with the right tools and so I think a lot
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of people lack that so they'll either get really reactive and conflictual and yell or they'll avoid and
01:13:50.260
leave it's kind of like fight or flight instinct that's I haven't had a real relationship in a long
01:13:55.900
time I think it's impossible to do with this and I'm not trying to victimize myself by saying this
01:14:00.940
but this is just what it is if you like put everything into this there's no time to really
01:14:05.660
delve into social relationships outside of streaming like even all my friendships and everything are all
01:14:11.340
streaming relationships and is it all virtual or does it ever have like an in-person component it is but
01:14:16.900
it's usually whenever it's not uh on camera it's like just discussing what we're gonna be doing on
01:14:21.300
camera it's hard you're a workaholic and then even the girls that I'll like um hang around sometimes
01:14:27.060
I'm waiting until marriage personally but some of the girls are like I'll just be I'll think of
01:14:31.420
like see a girl like oh she'd be great for stream like I could play games with her I can do a cooking
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stream yeah there's there's not really any time because if I wouldn't having a relationship is like
01:14:40.900
having a part-time job you know it's a it's a commitment you know it's it takes effort it does
01:14:46.300
yes there's no time you want to put time into it yeah wow so I don't really have real relationships
01:14:51.400
and how do you feel about giving that part up to have this life I don't know I was like right now
01:14:58.900
you're giving that up yeah is that like a conscious choice that you make like I'm all in my career right
01:15:04.680
now I'm okay with giving that up or have you kind of just realized that that's what's happening
01:15:09.140
it's just that's what it is like if you want to succeed in this that you can't sacrifice at all
01:15:15.380
is it because you'd be lacking time or is it because if you had a steady fulfilling relationship
01:15:23.880
you probably your content wouldn't be as good that it's both both interesting huh well you know
01:15:31.760
you just got me thinking did you watch that series on Netflix nobody wants this or nobody like nobody
01:15:36.760
wants this no it's really interesting it's this girl and her sister they run a podcast and then
01:15:42.340
she starts dating um a rabbi and she's not Jewish and so she it's kind of like her sister tells her
01:15:51.240
that her stream content goes down once she starts having like a steady relationship and once once she
01:15:56.740
wants to keep part of her private life private and so it's interesting for me to think about that like
01:16:02.380
how content creation and what people are interested in hearing and seeing sometimes takes away takes
01:16:08.800
away from you having something that is more private right like Taylor Swift for example would she have
01:16:14.140
a good catalog of music if she was in a stable relationship or is all of her music based upon
01:16:19.360
breakups and having toxic boyfriends we'll see what comes next it seems like she's in a good one now
01:16:24.100
i don't know but it but but i do think i do think um heartbreak and loneliness and um a lot of these
01:16:31.840
things make for good content i can definitely see how there's like an inverse relationship so do you
01:16:36.700
think i'm sacrificing my mental health in order to succeed here i wouldn't feel capable of judging that
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because i haven't done what you do i do think it must be so difficult to be an open book how how long are
01:16:51.880
you live for um they're gonna say that i'm not live enough but i'm live almost every day let me see
01:16:59.420
they're gonna say that i i'm okay they're saying one hour a month it's see but they're saying you
01:17:05.360
see this is calling me lazy cap lazy one hour max never he's lazy they're saying this because they
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want all my life i'm live every day i've been live almost every single day but and whatever and they
01:17:18.180
want all my time if i'm not live 24 hours a day they call me lazy that's how it works isn't that
01:17:22.780
insanity that is that is a lot to ask of anyone he's lying oh wow so so what do you mean that you're
01:17:31.120
one in the same with those comments so so for example right now you kind of showed that you think
01:17:38.860
differently than your community in the sense that like you know you do think you're in the content
01:17:44.440
creation space they know what they're doing they're trolling me they know that i'm not lazy
01:17:49.040
they're just saying that to get me to work harder because they see me as a slave dancing monkey to
01:17:53.240
entertain so how do you separate their trolling the influence these comments have on you from what
01:17:58.740
you want to do that's the hard part yeah you know what i want to do i want to make documentaries
01:18:05.580
i made this documentary called letter from bazia and i had to take time away from streaming to do that
01:18:11.420
and i loved it and they loved it but the whole time i'm filming it when i wasn't streaming they're
01:18:15.760
like oh they started like getting really upset and angry so it's difficult and i feel the stress
01:18:20.560
and the burden of it when i'm like not streaming i'm like oh my like yeah you know i hear you um
01:18:26.340
so what do you do when people are upset with you and uncomfortable so say that they're disappointed
01:18:33.420
with the fact that you haven't streamed for a day or a month um you notice that it weighs on you
01:18:39.900
and then how do you react i get angry okay so it's hard to separate them from from your
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from the direction you're taking that's why me we're one and the same like my it's tied
01:18:52.920
okay it's a soul tie yeah you know it's interesting i always say that in relationships and this is like
01:19:00.820
a relationship you and your what would you you and your streaming people in your community the chat
01:19:07.020
you and the chat yeah have a relationship and in relationships one plus one equals three
01:19:12.500
there's you there's the chat and the relationship and the relationship it's a black ah right it looks
01:19:18.240
like your mother's a therapist yeah well i've heard that before like the marriage is separate from
01:19:22.020
the two people the marriage is a separate it's like something you work on it's the part that the
01:19:25.960
two people overlap in right and so at any given time i'm assessing how much self are you giving up
01:19:32.680
how much of your own thinking of your own essence of you know how much of what you're doing is for
01:19:38.740
the other and vice versa as opposed to like do i give part of me to the relationship but another part
01:19:45.080
i look out for myself and there can be some separation there just for sustainability because
01:19:51.060
if you give all yourself to the relationship how long will it go before one day you turn around
01:19:57.800
and you say like what am i exactly who am i who am i outside of this relationship exactly yeah
01:20:03.380
especially because you're saying well you said that you're you know you're sacrificing future
01:20:09.940
relationships for this but is that something you want a future relationship yeah yeah yeah way more
01:20:15.800
i would if i could have like five kids and a marriage and i all that for instead of these
01:20:21.560
guys i would take it in a second well i'm sure you could yeah it's just right now it seems like
01:20:27.060
you're choosing this yeah which is okay if it's your choice just want to make sure that you've been
01:20:32.720
thoughtful about it i like the the comparison like what am i outside of this relationship it's the
01:20:38.360
same thing with this like what am i without the stream and what's my identity like what i just have
01:20:43.540
an identity crisis without the streaming when you pour that much time and energy into it what do
01:20:48.260
you think would you it's hard to i've been doing it for so long it's hard to figure out here's my
01:20:54.980
guess okay i think you'd find yourself with space like with a blank slate and i think that that is both
01:21:03.880
an opportunity and a challenge sometimes it's easier to be busy and to know what we're going to do
01:21:09.340
every day even if we don't like it or even if it's challenging um routine calms us down but then
01:21:17.140
when you have blank space or you know just an opportunity to do something new you really
01:21:24.860
um can find yourself really lost i'm not saying this is what would happen to you but a lot of people
01:21:30.740
might find themselves just not knowing where to start or having to dig deep before they take a new
01:21:36.020
direction um so so it could be really uncomfortable for a while unless another thing i'm thinking about
01:21:43.900
because nothing has to be super extreme is that maybe you find some time even if it's a little time
01:21:48.680
to brainstorm and start creating a separation and it doesn't mean that anything huge would change but
01:21:54.560
just like how am i a little bit different or separate from my chat and just kind of like start
01:22:00.480
thinking about that so if and if one day this stops you're not starting from scratch with doing
01:22:06.120
all the um thinking so start to start now yeah start thinking start planning an exit strategy now
01:22:16.320
or just you know separating your identity slightly okay which doesn't mean you have to stop being
01:22:24.640
like truthful or anything someone said kick her before she retires sneaker what does that mean that
01:22:30.520
means like someone saying kick her out of the stream before she gets me to retire you get i get that now
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01:22:38.380
um no i don't think you're ready to retire i don't think you'd have me here if you wanted to retire
01:22:43.900
no but i think you want to be thoughtful about how you go on
01:22:47.300
do you think depression is real yes what is depression well i think there you know there's um
01:22:55.860
a book called the dsm-5 it's a diagnostics um book that has like all the specific criteria and
01:23:02.400
the time frames where a person needs to exhibit certain symptoms to be diagnosed as um having a
01:23:09.260
depression so there is like a clinical much in the same way that you'd go to a doctor and they tell
01:23:13.800
you if you have diabetes or not the same exists for depression um and there's like actual chemical
01:23:21.120
imbalances that can take place um but then i do also think that we use the term a little more loosely
01:23:27.440
um in in our culture uh to sort of describe people that are feeling a little down not motivated
01:23:35.360
just struggling to get through their days and um you know that's that's what i think there's like a
01:23:43.560
clinical medical sense to it a way of looking at it um for which i recommend seeing a psychiatrist
01:23:50.440
um but then there's also just how we use it to explain maybe not being motivated feeling a little
01:23:56.040
loss lacking energy so it's a feeling i think we use it we use that word to describe a feeling
01:24:04.260
sometimes so it's also a medical condition so two things do you believe that there's a chemical
01:24:09.320
imbalance it can happen yes what's the chemical about like a lack of dopamine a lack of serotonin
01:24:15.140
well i'm not a psychiatrist so i'd rather not get specifically into the um uh the diagnosis but
01:24:22.840
why were you asking i'm curious that's just a conversation a debate that i've had non-stop with
01:24:27.840
everybody what is i mean people on twitch believe that depression is real that it's a chemical
01:24:31.900
imbalance all this stuff i don't i personally don't think that there's evidence showing that
01:24:35.580
there's a chemical imbalance and all this stuff oh really yeah i don't think there's i've never
01:24:40.000
seen any studies that show that i i don't really believe in the idea of depression i think it's
01:24:44.940
just sadness which is a feeling and you shouldn't prescribe feelings it's like it's like saying like
01:24:50.000
oh you're prescribing someone as sad where you can just stop being sad i hear what you're saying
01:24:57.180
but i don't think it works that way like i think depression has more to it than just feeling
01:25:02.580
sadness have you looked at that movie inside out have you seen it that's a cartoon movie right yes
01:25:08.060
uh i don't know i think i saw it can you summarize it i'll summarize it i'm obsessed with it i think
01:25:13.560
it's like the best movie ever made um there's two at this point but the first one um the main
01:25:19.140
characters are the different emotions inside of us and so there's there's like joy sadness in that
01:25:24.980
one um fear and a couple more and it's really interesting to see how they interact and sadness has a
01:25:31.780
really important role i think that because of how you're describing your thoughts of depression
01:25:35.520
i think you might enjoy seeing that movie how important sadness can be to then um appreciate
01:25:42.800
happiness appreciate joy yeah happiness exactly but people that believe they're depressed they don't
01:25:47.840
they think that they can't be happy that they're in a state of constant sadness i don't think that
01:25:54.100
people that are really depressed feel like they have much of a choice it doesn't matter but you
01:25:59.640
shouldn't act on just how you feel all the time i i get what you're saying i'm up for i i like the idea
01:26:08.120
of acting with choice through our feelings we have free will right and and to sort of um
01:26:15.460
manage our actions thoughtfully knowing that you're feeling certain things because you can't
01:26:20.680
really make feelings go away that's my opinion you can acknowledge the feeling and you work
01:26:25.500
through it right um it's not like oh if i'm angry i'm free to just react however i want because i'm
01:26:31.860
angry right um i just think that again there are different degrees of depression and i think that
01:26:38.300
most people if they can choose otherwise they would most people not everyone but what's whole i think the
01:26:45.400
major thing holding the back is they think that there's a no choice that they're in this state like
01:26:50.180
i'm chemically imbalanced therefore i have no choice if they could understand that it's a choice for me to
01:26:54.740
work through this they would hopefully hopefully i mean i i to me at the center of the therapy i do
01:27:03.580
and how i think about change in life is that choice is the most important thing that we have you know
01:27:09.800
you can't control all your circumstances but you can control how you react to them so i i too really
01:27:15.980
treasure and value this idea of choice sounds like we agree yes on choice specifically about depression
01:27:24.280
it would depend on every case and everything i don't think people choose to be depressed
01:27:28.080
but generalizing is really difficult um when you're speaking of mental health of anything really
01:27:35.000
that's where that's where i come back to this idea of universal truths do i believe that either you or i
01:27:42.740
will have the truthful answer i don't i think there's just so much variety that um
01:27:50.640
we need to look specifically at each case so you believe in the concept of my truth that everybody
01:27:57.660
has a truth i'll tell you what i think i think there are few things in life and in relationships that
01:28:08.640
are absolutely factual things that we can say where like it's fact and most people will agree or all
01:28:15.760
people will agree because they're fact i think a lot of our human existence is dictated by feeling
01:28:22.860
so i don't know if that answer our human existence is determined by feeling and it's very subjective
01:28:31.220
like where do you come from and how do you perceive what's threatening what's not threatening
01:28:36.260
etc so what about a schizophrenic person is there is what they when they're talking to a stop sign
01:28:43.660
are they actually talking to a stop sign if they feel like they are
01:28:46.480
um they feel like they are that's their truth you would think otherwise but should we validate that
01:28:54.600
truth or should we say there's an objective truth you're not talking to the stop sign you're wrong
01:28:59.860
well where does it take you to get into an argument with a schizophrenic telling them that what
01:29:06.580
they're doing is not true like not true i mean if they're disrupting people they're scaring children
01:29:12.420
you can be like hey this is not a a living being stop doing this i get what you're saying um but
01:29:21.040
here's the thing say that you're really anxious right now okay and i tell you to calm down what do
01:29:26.120
you think will happen i immediately like my heart rate sped up when you do that yeah okay so if you
01:29:31.900
find a person having a schizophrenic episode and you're like dude then you know that's stops and
01:29:39.120
not a person like just stop what are the chances that that's actually going to be effective
01:29:43.480
in managing the episode so you're saying approach it with empathy and you think my approach is more
01:29:51.180
i i don't want to say that you're lacking empathy i think that you're trying to find fact and truth
01:30:00.740
and i think that that is an honest pursuit i think that there's something really cool about that i
01:30:05.840
just don't think it's that simple and so one one metric that i like to use in therapy is like how
01:30:11.620
useful is whatever we're doing right and so when somebody is having a really hard time and they're
01:30:17.980
talking to a stop sign or they're really anxious or angry and somebody comes to them and they're like
01:30:22.900
calm down or stop doing that is that useful and i think we can all create the worst thing you can do
01:30:27.820
with somebody that's not calm is to tell them to calm down so it's more about like how do i find
01:30:33.080
that thing that is useful that will make an actual positive difference to get to where we want to go
01:30:39.380
is it for this person to calm down so the people around them feel safe and the children aren't scared
01:30:44.380
then what do i do in that scenario right i think we agree it's just taking a different approach okay
01:30:50.980
i like that yeah i think it's just a different approach i just don't see it worthwhile to
01:30:54.980
validate everybody's truth because when some people there's a lot of truths that people believe
01:30:59.900
to be real and there's like people believe that they're not in their own body for example we got
01:31:04.080
to tell you so i come back to choice with that we can decide how much time and energy we want to
01:31:10.700
dedicate to validating everyone else's truth right okay you know do you want to take the time to
01:31:17.220
speak to every single person and be like yes i hear you you may not want to you may find that
01:31:23.380
futile or not a good use of your energy and i respect that don't you think that so many people
01:31:28.460
believing in their own individual truth is why therapy is so prevalent right now because of how
01:31:33.700
much delusion is allowed and so people need to figure out sense of if there was an objective truth
01:31:38.840
about what's right and what's wrong that everybody followed there'd be less of a need for people to go
01:31:42.940
you know hire professionals to talk about it i love that question i promise you i'm going to take
01:31:49.680
it with me and think about it a lot um but i'll tell you the first thing that comes to mind so i think
01:31:56.400
every single human navigates a balance between individuality and togetherness so all of us have a need
01:32:04.420
to belong like belonging to a community or to relationships or to a family some sense of belonging
01:32:10.560
is um crucial to human survival that's why like solitary confinement sometimes can be like the
01:32:17.060
worst type of punishment so we all have a need to belong um that's part of what drives you keeping
01:32:25.220
your chat all the time in your mind it's like if i give them what they want i belong and it's nice to
01:32:30.000
be wanted even if you want them to be less sorry i think i have this on now i can't like focus on you
01:32:35.780
no you're fine it was i just need to lean forward okay so everybody has a need for togetherness and
01:32:42.020
a sense of belonging but then we also have a need to feel like an individual and somewhat unique
01:32:48.200
and have some of our own thinking and some of us will be more towards the belonging side or towards
01:32:53.040
the individual side okay and i do think right now culturally speaking and in society we've gone
01:33:01.540
very individualistic we've gone very like this is my truth completely and i decide what i want and i
01:33:09.380
to a point where i think you know i think we go from extremes and then we self-regulate and i think
01:33:15.260
we will start self-regulating sometime in the near future because there we've come to a point where
01:33:20.200
everybody wants to make their own rules and uh think very very very independently and that some people
01:33:28.080
might say well like that's nice and it's a freedom we all deserve but i will say that with freedom
01:33:32.560
comes responsibility and it's like with parenting and kids like sometimes kids want to do whatever
01:33:38.800
they want but you kind of but they actually feel safe when there are boundaries and that's why this
01:33:45.000
like general truth and universal rules and stuff sometimes we don't like them but they do serve an
01:33:52.020
important role in like taking the thinking out of every single thing we do out of every single
01:33:58.080
thing we think so um it's just a reciprocal relationship it's about finding the balance i think
01:34:04.780
is that the product of social media why has it gone so extreme right now before it regulates
01:34:10.480
that's a good question i try not to think cause and effect i wouldn't just blame social media but
01:34:17.400
what do you think what role has social media played in either allowing people to think
01:34:24.200
too much about their personal truths versus creating like a universal truth is that your
01:34:31.820
question like yeah it's made everything more internal you know it's not normal for people to
01:34:37.440
exist in their reflection it used to be like you know the reason we like first person shooter games
01:34:42.720
because you exist here without seeing yourself the caveman reality is just like walking around the
01:34:48.260
club and beating the tiger and dragging it you're just here but now that we're looking at our reflection
01:34:54.080
we exist in in two dimensions at once so it's not just about the tiger it's how we look beating the
01:35:00.880
tiger you know is my hair good while i'm beating it is this ethical to be clubbing it this way how are
01:35:07.840
people going to perceive this treatment so you know this this it's this is mind-blowing i don't know
01:35:12.480
anything about gaming sorry everybody um so i didn't know that there was a difference between the
01:35:17.280
one where you're just looking at what's around you versus the one where you're looking at you
01:35:21.280
looking at what's around you um that's really neat to think about um yeah it's definitely a whole
01:35:27.460
second layer um and a very distracting one at that to think about our image and the perception that
01:35:34.080
others may have about who we are a lot of effort goes into defining ourselves because that's what
01:35:39.280
but then we come back to what we were talking about before sorry to interrupt you which is like
01:35:43.040
are you defining yourself based on your you know on your own internal values what drives you who you want
01:35:49.840
to be or are you defining yourself based on what you think the perception of the people around you is
01:35:56.080
of who you are right so it's like that's what i've built i think a lot of my personality on is how
01:36:01.920
people view me it's it's been less internal because i've grown up you know before i hit puberty i was
01:36:06.720
making these videos wow yeah wow whole life is online do you do you feel vulnerable at all doing this
01:36:15.440
what do you mean by vulnerable is there ever a time where
01:36:20.560
it just feels like you're putting too much on the line where you feel very exposed and
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unprotected yeah you just get used to it because if you feel vulnerable then it shows and then the
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context is going to get worse so you can't really feel you're not supposed to like you know dive into
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those feelings that's only going to hurt it more does that make sense so you're expected to not feel
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i mean it's not about expectations just not beneficial to feel that it's not going to help me so if i felt
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vulnerable like what there's no point in me sitting in those feelings is there any other streamer or
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online person that you feel does show up with their feelings and with the vulnerability and that
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they're somehow able to strike that um that cord and still be famous and successful yeah everyone has
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every every streamer and consecrated they have vulnerable moments but it always ends up biting them
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in the future anytime you you show like complete honesty like that there's always an equal amount
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of enemies that are watching and the vultures ready to use that against you so how specifically do you
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get punished people will just use that your weak moments against you you you think there's like how
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does it how does that exploitation of your weakness actually come to life you know i can i can imagine i
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uh relate to the feeling you're describing where it would be like um i'm being exploited for that
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right now but in what ways does it factually and actually punish you um so say if you show a
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vulnerable moment and you share an honest moment with your the people watching the core community
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people that really appreciate you they'll show appreciation but there's the evil eyes always there so
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everybody else is hearing it as well so what does the evil eye do because you're saying that the
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true people your core community they will value you yes so but that could be overshadowed by everybody
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that's important to separate from the other ones right but it can be overshadowed by everybody else
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okay by because of the comments they make yeah and the comments they make impact you how
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i mean it can undermine it like say like if the community wants to show support like all right we love
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sneaker who's doing this and immediately someone will reply like with that vulnerable woman
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fuck you he said this he said that he's and then they're like oh should i not and what about ignoring
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them because you know that you connected with your core community over something that is important
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and very real is can that be enough yeah you can ignore it you could ignore it but yeah i think
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ignoring is powerful but you have to ignore it and then everybody else who likes you has to ignore it as
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well and then it so it's just my point is better to not give any ammunition out there that's how you
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protect yourself yeah you kind of have to i i've seen it both ways because i've been a very vulnerable
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open person since i started everything in my life is out there so and everything can be used against you
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and i would say to anybody like just keep it don't it's not worth it wow it's better to shield yourself
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from those from the vultures yeah what are the vultures saying about us talking now oh these are no
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they're not here they're not here okay they're not in your chat no no no but they'll be on every other
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social media platform okay so so now you are on twitch how does that change what you do
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it's a it's a liberal dominated platform okay rumble for example i would say i'm going to be
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candid i would say like therapy sucks fuck therapy it's always twitch is like we love therapy this is
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good it's more empathetic liberal feelings you're doing this for twitch no not for twitch not for yes
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i like your candidness that's okay i'm not offended yeah i don't it's a liberal dominated platform you
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know feelings and rumbles like no pull yourself up by your bootstraps conservative values it's it's a
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different different arena completely okay okay so then do you feel you're choosing between one and the
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other yes which one are you gonna choose that's what i gotta figure out i gotta figure out what's more
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i think you know which one is more reflective of who you are
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from our conversation i get a feeling that you know that yeah
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for sure so anytime somebody likes to like wants to try and go completely against their essence
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i think that is tricky and i always wonder how sustainable is that but then that isn't to say
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that i don't think we're capable of some change or adjustments like i think there are questions like
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what can i do slightly different that allows me to exist in both of these platforms
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or what is one thing that i don't want to do maybe i refrain from this one thing
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so don't go full in or full out just kind of balance it yeah just get really thoughtful about like
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what did i do today would i adjust and do something a little bit different that allows me to if if your
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goal is to be on both platforms or on more balance it out okay sounds like for you it might be i mean i
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don't know all the details but it might be more about something you don't do rather than something you do
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what do you think is that accurate i think it's accurate
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when should i get a relationship and dial this back well when i don't know um
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i'm curious about how you would try and meet someone
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yeah i i don't know either there's been opportunities there's been some but
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i'm not sure what's getting in the way of finding one now apart from your work schedule
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is that you have to hide so much of that like i wouldn't want my wife to be exposed to the
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okay and it seems inevitable if you're if you're going full-time like that it seems like it's inevitable
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for them because you'd be you never told me how many hours a day do you do this for
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see you can't trust them they're they're gonna say they're gonna trust you i'm talking to you i
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can i i think i can barely track this i would go like probably four hours a day on average
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four four hours a day before i know they're saying one but two hours one hour a year
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half an hour you see the you see this is the issue right here like everything we're speaking about
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four hours well people have relationships and they work much longer than they're plugged into
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their jobs for much longer than four hours a day yeah so what do you do with the other 20.
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well i found it difficult like sometimes when i hang out with the girl i'm just thinking about
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the stream i'm like looking through the twitter looking through comments like i can't i'm not
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existing in the moment and you know how women are women like to be like the center of attention
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i can't give that i think every person wants to feel special especially if they're trying to find
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their future partner it's hard to feel special if you're scrolling through your chat even if i'm not
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scrolling through it i'm still thinking about like i'm like i'll be sitting at a dinner trying to
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like care about what she's talking about i genuinely just like don't care at all
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because what she's saying is and i don't even want to be funny or entertaining i don't want to like
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because i just want to save that energy for the stream it's really sick you're not ready
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unless you want to challenge yourself differently so so okay if you
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are noticing that you're really wanting to find a relationship a person to have a relationship with
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what is one thing you do differently going back to this useful effort and this idea of like what is
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one thing i would change i think you already have your answer just based on what we just talked
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about what's the answer you go on a date and you leave your phone to the side for 30 minutes and
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you give her your undivided attention could you survive through that that sounds brutal that sounds bad
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but i think that's the way you start having both of your worlds your personal one and this one
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your work one if we can call it that it seems like right now it's very personal and work
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the same time but i think it might be interesting for you to start making that distinction and um you
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know like i said it's not about you quitting this now but it's like get thoughtful and so maybe just
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dedicate half an hour once a week to having an interesting conversation with a girl
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but you probably want to find a girl that you find interesting who would that be
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i don't really find i'm not sure i don't find women to be interesting
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um i i don't like the stuff that they're never like you've never found a girl interesting
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maybe when i was younger when i was like a teenager before you were no yeah i was still
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doing it but i could be infatuated with the woman okay and kind of like give it like everything i used
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to be the type of guy like i become obsessed same way i'm obsessed with my work now i'd be obsessed
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with the woman and i give everything like this is and i would paint this idea in my head about her
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be full romantic and think about her non-stop and give her gifts and everything and then after a
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while i just get bored i'm like oh she's just a girl she's a human she's a girl yeah like she has
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flaws she's not a movie she's a girl i guarantee you any girl you you meet will have flaws we all do
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any human so maybe that's your challenge to be a little bit less did you say obsessed or intent
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what how did you self-destruct obsessed so a little bit less obsessive
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30 minutes at a time just like can i have a relatively interesting conversation with someone
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for 30 minutes have you dealt with adhd people before yes but again i don't focus on the diagnosis
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as much yeah how do you how would you fix that bored problem like sometimes i she will be like sort
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of interesting and then immediately it's just like it just goes down and then i get disgusted are you
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bored because she talks too much um like when does the switch kind of flip that you start feeling
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bored uh should i be candid yeah sometimes like after um after sex it's like the infatuation goes away
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completely okay so you said at some point during our conversation you said you were waiting for
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marriage yeah you said something like that what do you mean by that now i'm waiting i'm waiting i
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don't i'm not like dating at all i'm just waiting until i get married like i don't to have sex yeah
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okay but you do need to date before you get married um maybe in certain scenarios yeah okay
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huh when did you stop having sex um it's been like a year okay why did you stop how come what made
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you make that decision religious reasons okay i think that's legit you know it sounds to me like
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you notice that after having sex you would lose interest that's probably because of some core belief
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the moment that person shared that with you there is something that made maybe made you feel like
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there was nothing else to pursue i don't know yeah the chase is over i already called the tiger the
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tiger's dead i already ate it time to get to the next hunt so primitive um like uh okay so then
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um what comes after the chase so you talk about like dating and sex and then you talk about marriage
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what is marriage about for you well we spoke earlier i think marriage is a separate entity from
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the two people it's something you need to work and build upon yes it's uh it's a union all that all
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those words okay it's something yeah it's like building a house you need to build a house with
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your with the significant other what does it look like in practical day life like what do you share
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with that person what do you not share with that person um what's the basis of of that union
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i think earlier me when i was younger when i was a romantic i'd be like it needs to be a partnership
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yes now i'm like it just needs to be a balance she needs to provide certain things that i need
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to provide certain things and i don't want to share everything like i'm not going to give her my phone
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password for example this is like there's a lot of things i don't want to share okay and that's fair
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enough i don't i mean one thing is secrecy another thing is to keep some parts separate i'm up for
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keeping some things separate um secrecy i don't know um because i think that just creates this idea
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of like what are you hiding from me but um i'd have to think more about that but have everything
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in my phone like my business my passwords my banking but so when you shift it from a partnership
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to a balance and the way you described it it sounded very transactional
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yes tell me more about what informed that shift like what did a partnership mean when you
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were a romantic and then kind of what happened that made you turn it into more a transactional
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partnership type situation um when i was a romantic i would think that i believed in the concept of soul
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mates okay that people fall in love and that they're destined to be together and it doesn't
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matter what you provide and then you realize like women are only going to really appreciate you for
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what you bring to the table same thing with men then we're only going to like value women for what
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they bring so that i don't believe in soul mates it's more like what we love each other for what we do
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not who we are oh i don't know i'm a little bit of a romantic i'm a realist too i think that what we
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provide makes a big difference and i'm not talking just like material things but i think you know how
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we show up and um it does make a significant difference it's not like love is everything
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um at the same time i do think that we can fall in love with who someone else is
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like do you admire that person what they stand for how they see the world are you interested in their
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thinking even if it's i don't see it as possible really okay how come when did you decide it was
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impossible because people are flawed yeah and so i don't think i can fall in love with flaws
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that's accepting a flawed existence and a flawed relationship are you striving for perfection yeah
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and even though it's impossible yeah my the goal is to be as perfect as possible
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can you fall in love with another person who is also striving for perfection knowing that they're flawed
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like can you admire someone someone's pursuing the same thing as you okay that's a good point
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oh that's a good point yeah yeah someone's pursuit of perfection rather than their okay
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where did you learn that pursuing perfection was a worthy pursuit pursuit i don't see anything else
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what else is there to do that's a good question i don't know i don't like this new concept of accepting
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your flaws i think it's better to get rid of them what do you think of mistakes you make them where
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you want to make as little as possible you don't want to repeat your mistakes right i i like that not
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repeating them oh i don't like making mistakes either but i'm trying to figure out how to develop my own
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thinking to be a little bit more um welcoming of them not just to excuse them but to use them as
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as information and growth i think it's a little bit about like how we frame things going back to
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this idea of universal truth are mistakes good or bad bad i would say it depends you know i agree with
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you you want to avoid making like mistakes all the time and certainly repeating the same one over and over
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at the same time can we understand that mistakes may have value if you turn them into a learning
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experience and they become a growth opportunity well it's the same thing about being depressed like
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depression is good because you appreciate happy same thing a mistake is good until you find the
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positive from it but the mistake in a vacuum is bad correct i think that's what it meant about universal
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as useful or applicable in human day-to-day existence and relationships
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okay so human relationships are separate from what do you what do you consider to be universal
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you believe in god i do okay yeah so universal truth starts from god and then a relationship is
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separate from that we have to accept that it's going to be flawed and operate yeah i i get it now
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okay so it's not like you're you're accepting of flaws but you understand that they're inevitable
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right and i think you know i think one thing is to acknowledge and accept that they exist but then
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also make a plan for what you do with them so it's a it's a little bit of a process like first i i understand
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that they're gonna that they exist i recognize it i can do a deep dive and say like wow this is one
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way that i'm flawed understand it pay attention to it even like try and track where does this come from
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how how does this because i think most human behavior makes sense in context so if you look
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at previous generations in your family you may find information as to what you do certain things the
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way you do either because you do the same or because you do the opposite there's a lot of rich
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information in our previous generations so first i'm like how how can i explain this flaw how does it
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make sense that i'm kind of this way not as an excuse not to be like well i understand it so that's that
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but kind of to say like oh where does it come from how do i make sense of it and once you do
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um it's again what's a useful effort how do i want to tweak this so that it stops interfering which
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so i'm gonna be fine yeah everything's gonna be fine you're gonna be fine it's funny that that's
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the conclusion you came to usually when i have this conversation like oh my god that's a lot to do but
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you took it sort of as um it eased you or it gave you reassurance um
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or you just said that because you're bored at this point no no no no it's uh it's a lot to take
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yeah baby oh it's nico all right i respect that it is heavy material let me ask you something are
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you thinking about the chat right now yeah okay were you thinking about the chat three minutes
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ago yes the whole time the whole time how come you're not looking are you curious i am but do
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you already know what they're saying okay let's let's i'll give you a deep dive into my head i'm
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thinking about them non-stop but i want to keep you engaged and i know that if i keep looking that
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it's going to break your engagement and that it's going to be discombobulated in the chest it's
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going to dislike it you're thinking of them you're thinking of me and you're not thinking of yourself
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exactly ouch yeah yeah well no i am thinking about myself too because i'm going to be happier if
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they're happy and you're happy and everyone's happy i don't know i don't know
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so what do you think i should be doing think of you right now
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i can't because uh i can't i can't okay that's all right well okay think of me and do what
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just recognize maybe one thing you're feeling one thing you're thinking
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but not like oh if i say this out loud will the chat like it or not like it or what is she going to
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think about whether you know whether i'm brutally honest like no
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the only time i where i don't have those thoughts is when i'm praying that's it
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good for you that's it so then praying is really important yeah you want to find spaces where you
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can disconnect from this and me and from you know where you can connect with yourself or god yeah that's
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the only time spirituality and religion is really important
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do people find religion or do they leave religion when they when they speak to you
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find or leave yeah do you think they get a closer connection or oh that's interesting so let's see
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i'm catholic and i have clients with very different religions and we can have like really interesting
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conversations um as long as they want to like i'm not the one that determines what's relevant and what
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isn't in the therapy room um i myself the more i went into therapy i kind of disconnected somewhat
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from my religion because it's like sometimes people say oh whatever god's god's will and i'm like yes
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god's will and also how do i become the designer of my own life you know i i do think i'm blessed
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privilege all these things but also like choice in self right because then people would say well
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god made me this way and i'm like okay or god wants this for me or this direction okay but then
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do you have choice in your day-to-day life of how you get there where you go who you go with
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you know so it's um it's taken me a little while and it's still a work in progress to understand
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the balance how much i take on as my own decisions and how much um
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you know some people won't even talk about god or um religion but they'll talk about spirituality
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and just like is it fate you know my husband did god put him in my way or did you know was it fate or
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you know have we worked really hard to get to where we are probably a little bit of all of that
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i don't know that's again where universal truths are hard how would anybody factually answer that
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do you prefer confession or therapy therapy yeah yeah there's a funny episode of the sopranos
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where um have you seen the sopranos only a little bit um my father-in-law is always telling me to watch
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it and i um i have to add it to my to my watch list yeah tony soprano the relationship with the
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therapist yeah you have to watch that show i do i do i have to watch that show because tony ends up
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speaking to his therapist all the time and she's a woman so he's kind of getting that the femininity
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that is lacking in his life from his mom and his wife like from there okay and then he ends up like
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developing a crush on her okay and then carmella his wife she starts going to confession and then
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having a relationship not a relationship but like yes well a connection with the priest the priest is like
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connecting and they're drinking the wine and everything and they start uh he starts like
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confessing that he like has feelings for her and all this so it's a it's a funny balance between the
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difference between like spirituality and therapy therapy which is like um would you agree that it's
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like predominantly jewish like a lot of like there's a lot of jewish therapists i think there are yes i i
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think um there's a lot of fantastic um jewish doctors and therapists absolutely i did my masters with
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some great jewish friends um yeah but i think you know it's not exclusive and then confession which
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predominantly a catholic tradition for me confession comes um usually with a lot of uh like the the
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solution in confession is to go pray and god would forgive um and i'm not saying that's useful or not
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again i leave room for everyone to feel however they feel about that but then what i like about therapy is
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like how do i think about things what plan do i create for prevention for adjustment how do i take
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matters into my own hand um which i think is really useful because i'm a doer yeah so you think it's
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more than just like 10 hell marys right because i mean yeah if you do your 10 hell marys and then you
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leave and you do the same thing over and over like i pray that you give me serenity okay
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i'm not saying that's good or bad do that but then like what is your plan
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on how you're going to react when you don't have serenity you know when somebody takes that serenity
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away what are you going to do and that's what i think i would talk about with someone in therapy for
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example in this case what's your what's your diagnosis in this conversation i don't diagnose you
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no but in terms of what what's wrong with me are you kidding me i'm not i haven't thought of that
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for one minute in today's conversation that's not my lens at all okay i think we've had an incredibly
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interesting conversation i think so too i think you've kept me engaged so your your thing that you
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were doing of how to keep me engaged you did it that's the problem i almost forgot that how many
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people are watching this um a bunch yeah yeah i forgot that's good this was engaging and
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entertaining but that's the problem that i've had with therapy i've went like i went one time in
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college when i was going through um a breakup and then they made me go when i was a kid like when i
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had adhd well when someone told you that you had adhd yeah exactly when i was like which you don't
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feel was accurate i don't think it's real i mean i have hype i mean it's just a certain way of
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thinking anyway i'd always feel like i had to entertain the therapist oh so i'd be sitting in
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this conversation like a performer yeah even the one-on-one i'm like i don't want to make a board
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that i wouldn't i wouldn't be vulnerable and honest i'm like how do i keep you on here i don't want to
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waste your time because i always felt like my problems were like what the what is my why am i
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even here there's people that are going through real things in the world i'm sitting down on the couch
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like with the some magazines but there's all sorts of therapy and i think um i like therapy for like
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optimizing so you know how do i like i said at the beginning how do i get to where i want to go
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what's getting in the way and i love thinking so it's very insight driven so hopefully part of the
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time you weren't entertaining me and i got you to think about something differently maybe if i did
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that kudos to me i think the takeaways are find a balance okay and there's a difference between accepting
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flaws and accepting that people are flawed correct yes there was one more i think what was the last one
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they don't remember what do they think um oh my goodness inappropriate inappropriate okay
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okay that's all right yeah yeah this is why you don't we're not going to take those into
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consideration yeah don't yeah it's better to not read them to be honest that's fine
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see you can read it that you know that was another one like you can decide who you give energy to and
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who you don't so we were talking about people's truths and like you can decide not to pay attention to
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some of these losers sorry no but most of you yeah nice oh that you're bored i think that was a genuine
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laugh no no no it was i was not bored i was entertained yeah i can assess that for myself i think you weren't
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that bored um yeah so what did you think of this conversation since it wasn't therapy you don't i don't need to
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go against your belief that you don't believe in therapy um it was good it was good i think it
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confirmed my ideas that therapy is a very feminine occupation okay i think even if it was a male you
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know it's interesting at first it wasn't all the really were men right yes like freud and young yes
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bowen the one that's like the head of the theory that i practiced so many were um males but it's greatly
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shifted and now um there's a lot of women what do you think the shift was that's interesting i don't
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know i think um i think at first psychologists came from psychiatry which was more intense and hardcore
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and very um it was very medical and then the more the less medical it got and more into psychology which
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is separate from psychiatry um i don't know if men perceive it as softer or honestly i don't know
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have you read freud yeah a little bit but my background isn't mostly in psychology but rather
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marriage and family therapy okay yeah do you do your reading on your psychologists and psychiatrists
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i've read some young okay i like his audio books about the unconscious mind um that's stuff that i like
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to analyze that's because those are the times like in prayer when i'm sleeping that's when i get to
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disconnect from this and then i really figure out like that's when you start thinking for yourself
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what are my ideas about the world what are my principles my values that's what makes a person
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that's your essence that's what makes who you are who you are yes yeah so i like to i analyze that a lot
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thinking about thinking is really it's a fun pursuit and i think you could find a girl that can do that
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with you but thinking about thinking is also what drives people to you know if people who overthink
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too much they end up going crazy like i i think there's also a benefit like people who are like
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70 iq who just think like cavemen go around they get to go to festivals and drink bud light
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that exists like taylor swift people oh i'm a taylor swift person there you guys are happy i think
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not all the time you don't think so okay maybe i tell something like country
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using her like 21 savage listeners i don't think you can find like an artist that describes a whole
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population but um i hear what you're saying simpler minds that are less uh ignorance is bliss yeah i
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hear that so instead of thinking internally all the time like what's this problem this problem that's
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how you start finding problems that didn't exist this is another example where i take your thinking
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and i'd be like how does it serve me and how does it not serve me if i overthink can i find moments
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where i disconnect and maybe it's in prayer and so you try and do more of that but then also like
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how is your thinking beneficial to you and useful and um you take it to places where you want to go
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because there's a difference between ruminating which is like when your thoughts kind of take over and
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they take the wheel and drive you to places you don't want to go as opposed to like thinking with
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choice like am i asking the questions and am i asking the right questions now you're bored no
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no i'm not bored it's not boredom it's just like i'm thinking about thinking about how you she's
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thinking about me thinking and they think think and it's it's too much it's not boredom it's just
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like oh yeah i want to call the tiger that would have been a better existence for men i think that's
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why we love minecraft so much and why women love sims sims you you're it's third person you get to see
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the character and you get to dress her up and you get to go to the party and you can see what she looks
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like minecraft is first person you're here and you're just running around you're punching the dirt back to
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basics yeah i think women are supposed to be analytical how they look and that's why therapy
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is so feminine because it's thinking about thinking and it's thinking about how you're perceived where
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men were supposed to live without that and just act and just do and not exist in our mind it exists in
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the world probably there are some truths uh or generally speaking i can see part of that being true
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but i will say some men like therapy with the right therapist
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do you think some men like therapy just because they get to speak to a woman who's not nagging them
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all the time that's an interesting question maybe possibly that may be one of the reasons i think some
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men want to be able to connect to females and how they think without you know also feeling heard and
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that's not always possible in relationships um some people just like a good conversation and maybe
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they get it in therapy um some people maybe like results and they find them through the conversations
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i don't know do people cry yeah people cry a lot of the times they apologize for crying which i told them
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not to but yeah you seem like the type of person that i think you would cry if they cried oh my god
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it recently it happened that i had to hold back tears not all the time but recently it did happen
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to me but it's not about me right so i i held them back you're an empath i am so what's going on
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those are longer comments yeah they just hijacked it it's yeah but we need to mod this all right
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thank you so much thank you i appreciate it this was interesting so like elsa said just gotta let it go
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you knew that's what you were gonna end with i like the commitment do you remember everything
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you say throughout the stream no yeah but now it exists in the ether forever so
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all right everybody thank you for listening or not um thank you i appreciate you nice to meet you
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nice to meet you too all righty do you want a water to go um i'll go for granted thank you all
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nice to meet you all right guys all right y'all how was that how was that chat one through ten
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i'm not sniffing the chair i'm not sniffing the chair for the clip
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i didn't even think about doing that but now that you guys said that also look at the
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uh my bad to ways for getting so mad about the mic earlier too my bad
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my bad about complaining about mike yeah wait that was a good conversation right it was an eight
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i'm in the thick of here everybody knows they know me where it snows i skid in and they froze i don't know no
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nothing but no ice i'm just cold 40 something billy sucks or so i've been told i'm in my prime but this ain't even
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i went from living room straight up to sold out cause life's fire but trust i'm ready for the war
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i guess this is how the story goes i'm in the thick of here everybody knows they know me where it snows
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i skid in and they froze i don't know no nothing but no ice i'm just cold
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40 something billy sucks or so i've been told from the screen to the ring to the pen to the king
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where's my crown that's my bling always summer when i ring
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see i believe that if i see it in my heart smash through the ceiling cause i'm reaching for the stars
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i'm in the thick of here everybody knows they know me where it snows i skid in and they froze i don't
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know no no no nothing but no ice i'm just cold 40 something billy sucks or so i've been told
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i went ahead and i'm just cruising by my lawn they cast me out let me sit there them people
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home my faith in god mine in the sun i'm by the sun my life is hard i turn the wheel i crack
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damn that's great i gotta show off my city oh yeah you guys gotta wrap this mic
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quick tell me what you thought oh my god okay so have you ever like boxed before like for fun
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no but my older brother is a professional oh yeah your brother's a professional boxer my older brother
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a child what do you think what do you think what do you think i think she was good i want to bring
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talk to me did you learn anything from her what are the thoughts about her you should do more
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dawa neo thank you for the 10 gifted appreciate you bro thank you thank you thank you thank you
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thank you she was good i think she was good sometimes they come in i think i do too much debating
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more dawa no more dawa is how bro why look we could talk about race we could talk about perversion
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they're just talking about incest everything weird as soon as you bring up god people get like all
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closeted up and did you see that the charleston panel the other day i started talking about god
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immediately charleston started talking about like uh porn and just got all defensive and next like why
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he's speaking about god and can we not speak about god is this not the most important subject
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and then he ran away and then he ran and then he left the call right when it started to get cooking
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and good when i got past the ad homes him saying how old is you she how old is you and she okay i got
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past that now let's let's let's have a real combo let's talk about the propaganda let's talk about the lies
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and i got george bush elected let's talk about the lies that sent the united states to go kill
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millions of iraqis and get involved in wars that we need not need to get involved in as soon as
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address young philly yeah i need to get into that
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how are you doing i'm doing well i'm doing well
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irl date with elsa i like her a lot i'm actually i'm going to text her thank you i want to do more
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thank you elsa would love to do this again you think she would do it again
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she's married it's it's therapy bro it's therapy
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i know i want to do it with eden circus brother horny coach she's married shut up bro you guys
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were the horny ones every time she looked at chat chat was saying kiss kiss kiss touch your boobs
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dude like be normal i was locked in i treated it really well i'm actually impressed with myself
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i was like i'm taking this seriously i'm listening to her i'm having a good dialogue she looks like what
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you jq'd her well it's not jq like therapy is traditionally a jewish profession
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freud is jewish it's called called young is not
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but yeah the founders of psychotherapy all this stuff are all jewish and she knows it
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um because they're very introspective internal up here thinkers they're like
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they operate up up here like jewish people are not really doing physical labor in sports they're
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they're you know inventing atomic bombs and banking and lawyers and therapy it's true
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that's true that's true put the foul palestine flag back up yeah i know i should have kept it
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up from the muhammad ijab thing i'll put it up later how did you guys remember that
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what i don't like is that everyone who says that this is dope trashes on ksi song i think ksi song
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is better than this i like thick of it better i'm in the thick of it everybody knows and i have beef
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for like i have no reason to glaze ksi i actually have all the reasons not to
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from the king to the pen to the ring i'll play i'll put that on the hawks any day compared to this
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i feel about aiden ron's telling you he's not getting you a boat no more
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aiden's birthday's tomorrow i think chat it's funny but that became like a fucking holiday in the
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streaming world everybody else birthday oh you're fucking old you're 30 shut up aiden's birthday bro
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like they won't shut the up in the chat about it we're telling you to fly out there it's like
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twitchcon he came to me i never went to him he offered it to me i never asked for it so then he
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turned around and he started seeing about my history well you should have did that before you made the
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offer you know if you're worried about your image and who you have working for you you should have
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done your due diligence and looked me up before you made me an offer of a hundred thousand he just lost
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one mil on stream bro i told him to stop fucking gambling bro when was that that was
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today ain't no fucking way boy boy ain't no way boy really a million dollars bro right now
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bro gambling is an addiction let's be real like people like to make jokes that um
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well i don't gamble i've been at the casino before i played blackjack a couple times i'm not a gambler
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i probably gambled like ten thousand dollars tops in my life and i haven't i haven't gambled once it
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besides the point you know the the sickness about gambling is that like it makes you want like
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seeing other people do it makes you want to do it it sucks you win i was watching neon stream last
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night he was gambling and the two people around him were like whoa you just made five thousand we
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should do this to get rich like you can literally see the influence happen in real time like two guys
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who never gamble they're like whoa like looking at steak
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um yeah i would just i would recommend to get out bro just just just stop just stop
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don't don't do it it's it's tempting when you see people hit the max win
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i see the clips all the time now you it looks fun really
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but yeah neon stream is doing good chad should i pull up and do a neon stream in vegas
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what does it mean to you to be a youtuber because like we've been thinking about
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say for example ksi right he he like doesn't really always like the fact that he's a youtuber
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like my youtube career overshadows everything he does this am i grifting psg yeah he's the youtuber
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who sings he's the book who does youtube you know what whoever there's so many youtubers like that
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who are trying to rap now yeah uh there's this other guy ddg and he wants to he's in america you
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probably don't know who he is but he wants to quit youtube to just be a rapper full time uh ksi it's
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very obvious and they think that youtube is just boxing them in yeah truth is your music is just not that
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good yeah like if your music was good enough to to be played on the radio and like who's gonna be
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like hey yo pass the ox let me put on that ksi no one says that your music is just not good enough
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like i don't feel like i'm boxing as a youtuber i feel like people just relate to me as a person
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and no matter what medium i go in as long as people with you and like what you do
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you're gonna be fine youtube doesn't box you when that's a lie you're just not you're just not good
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enough sorry yeah because it's like his books and he'd never be you're not good you're not
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you're boxing other youtubers like what do you think people if you're boxing logan paul you're
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both youtubers like that's just i think if anything you should be proud bro saying the same stuff
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four years ago wait talk about my hairline my hairline's the same i have the same hairline what
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are you talking about look at the crispy hairline it's exactly the same
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bro hell no whatever bro all right let me i want to see this debate who here was uh watching
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the muhammad ajab thing earlier the little muhammad ajab collab did you guys get to see his debate yet me
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was that good i haven't spoken to him in a while man it was great to speak to him again and talk to
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him i miss him so he debated this is epstein's lawyer right here this is epic muhammad ajab asked does
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iran have a right to defend itself and see how piers morgan is speechless isn't this crazy that this
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guy still is like is still free epstein's lawyer look at him he looks like he did it he looks like
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he did it let's talk about iran let's talk about iran fantastic okay do you support iran okay well
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let me ask you a question iran was attacked on april the first right it was attacked the embassy of
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iran was attacked in syria by israel after that on the first occasion they then sent missiles and
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drones correct now my question to you is does iran have a right to defend itself and if so what is
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a proportionate response because you see i've been getting i've been having a moral quandary about
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the issue uh piers morgan what's a proportionate response for iran i'll tell you what i think about
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iran i think iran is an unbelievably nefarious his technique is good man he has like a theatrical
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technique to these public debates let's talk about the moral quandary leave it to the squire
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the jury will answer place which has been fueling hamas the hootis hezbollah for many years with a
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with a joint uh a joint ideology that they want to eradicate israel in any way they can
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so i think iran is one of the most despicable regimes in the world i also think that right
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now he's ducking the iranian regime is in serious danger you look completely discombobulated
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i'm telling you what i think of iran bro his vocabulary is so funny bro because people think
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that he looks like um like he looks like an arab guy but he speaks like a
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like a royal member of the fam like a royal king you've become completely discombobulated
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you've been disheveled in real you've been mentally executed
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you've been defeated intellectually physically disheveled can you do they have a right to defend
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themselves do you do you think they have a right to defend themselves both of you can answer the
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question do they have a right to they were attacked the sovereign nation was attacked
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my question is does it have a right to Iran has been fueling israel now for what 40 years
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i've been having a moral quandary about it i've been having a moral quandary about
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have you yeah moral quandary yes moral quandary i don't know do they have a right to defend
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themselves and if so what is the proportionate you're supporting iran to be clear i'm asking you
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i'm antithetical to many of these organizations for my own purposes but my question
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do you support the iranian regime not unconditionally but i can do i support their
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right conditions do you agree with them about their right to defend themselves do you believe
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they have a right to defend themselves uh no they're terrorists terrorists so they don't have
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a right to defend themselves iran does not have a right to defend itself they they do but they're
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not the one so what is the proportionate response they're not the ones what's the
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see you ask this question you're just gonna keep talking can i only see
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what's the proportionate response the proportionate response to iran
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is to stop them trying to destroy Israel through their proxies.
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What have they been trying to do for many years?
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after their embassy was smashed and destroyed in Syria
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What about the proportionate response to everything Iran's done?
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What about the response to everything Iran has been doing?
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is just using Piers Morgan's tactics against him.
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It does not feel so good to be on the other side of that.
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Which Israeli civilian have Iran successfully targeted?
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You don't think Iran's doing response to any Israeli civilian dying?
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He completely described it perfectly in the beginning of the stream.
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These debates are all about optics and it's all...
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None of us have got anything to do with Israel.
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On Epstein's island, getting the massage from the same kids that were trafficked.
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He's taken shorts off, but he's got his pants down now, hasn't he?
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He defended one of the most obnoxious people in the last hundred years.
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What I'd like this to be is a civilized debate between two people with very strong opinions about this.
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Wherever we see suffering, wherever we see death and destruction, assault, sexual assault,
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The former defense attorney of Jeffrey Epstein.
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Mohammed, attacking a lawyer for defending people is a stupid argument.
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Stop looking at me when I'm speaking to you.
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Well, if you didn't want to do a debate, don't agree to do it.
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The events of the past year have shatter stability in the Middle East.
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Israel's war on Hamas, provoked by the atrocities of October the 7th, have led to the deaths
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Prime Minister Netanyahu promised total victory and the complete destruction of Hamas.
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But one year on, Hamas is still firing rockets at Tel Aviv.
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One year on, 97 hostages remain in Hamas captivity.
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Very clearly, Israel has not fulfilled its stated aims in this war, and it continues to
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It's now a war in Lebanon and on the precipice of a direct conflict with Iran.
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It has no plausible exit strategy in Gaza, where millions live in grief and under-occupation.
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But it has, without question, decimated Iran's client militias.
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Dude, we got to get on the same page about this stuff.
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Suffering, wherever we see death and destruction, especially of young people.
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The former defense attorney of Jeffrey Epstein, a man himself accused.
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Listen, attacking a lawyer for defending people is a stupid argument.
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Piers Morgan has a picture with Ghislaine Maxwell.
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Are you saying that because he's got leverage on you?
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I met Ghislaine Maxwell for five minutes at a book launch.
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I never spent more than five minutes with Ghislaine Maxwell.
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None of this has got anything to do with Israel.
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He's taken shorts off, but he's got his pants down now, hasn't he?
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He defended one of the most obnoxious people in the last hundred years.
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Because actually what is going on right now in the Middle East is incredibly important.
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Well, if you didn't want to do a debate, don't agree to do it.
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I'm saying this person who's defending Israel...
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Bro, he actually looks like a Harry Potter goblin.
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I'm telling you, I never met her and she acknowledged...
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Gaza is an occupied territory because there is no...
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Okay, the facts are in 2005, I was there in Israel when the Israeli government...
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He said the 3,000 people he's talking about were all arrested without charge.
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And therefore, they've not been charged with crimes.
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Nobody should be arrested without charge if you're held for a security reason.
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And they can sometimes be on the right side of history.
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Most human beings do not do what Hamas did in October the 7th.
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Israel's never committed an atrocity on that scale.
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I'm crashing this plane with no survivors!
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...any Israelis that could get their hands on...
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Oh, you don't think that happened, do you?
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We just started to show with an admission that there's a problem in Israeli society...
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...israeli soldiers like Mir from Unit 100, and that's on The Guardian, it's on Sky News,
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it's on all these kinds of platforms, coming out, and there's videographic evidence
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I haven't heard condemnation from you, and I don't expect to hear it from him who defended
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I did condemn what you just talked about in a previous debate.
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We both condemned what you talked about earlier in relation to Israel.
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Then you just listed three or four things, and that was one of the things that you just
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I said Israel never perpetrated an atrocity on that scale.
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Okay, on the 23rd of September, Israel attacked Lebanon.
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How many civilians died, according to the Lebanese health, the Ministry of Health?
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I believe it's about 2,000 was the last recorded number I saw.
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Why don't we have a year commemorating the 23rd of September, since we're having a year
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commemorating the 7th of October, and about 600 people died, 650 people, civilians died
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They don't distinguish between civilians and combatants.
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We're not talking about attack, we're talking about dead.
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Because the viewers are seeing the three of us together.
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Once Jeffrey Epstein has mentioned the show, it turns into Piers Morgan censoring.
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Yeah, I know, he treated him exactly how he treats, how Piers treats the pro-Palestinians.
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Why does he introduce hijab as Muslim, but not the lawyer as Jewish?
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The question is whether that makes the Middle East and the world a safer or a more dangerous
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Can it really be said that Israel is winning this war?
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And how much collateral damage and suffering can the world tolerate before enough is enough?
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This debate will examine the legality, the morality, and the sustainability of the conflicts
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Joining me are two of our most passionate advocates for their course.
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The Muslim philosopher, scholar, and YouTuber, Muhammad Hijab, and the lawyer and author,
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Well, I guess lawyer is pretty self-explanatory.
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Lost it when Hijab stole Pierce's favorite catchphrase.
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Yeah, for somebody who was Epstein's lawyer, he didn't seem like he had a great defense
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You would have thought that a lawyer, especially one of the most renowned lawyers, would have
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Muhammad, you've been on twice before, Alan, many times.
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What I'd like this to be is a civilized debate between two people.
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When we try and reach, potentially, some points of agreement.
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Because so often with these debates, that seems almost impossible.
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Everyone digs ever deeper into their trench, their tribe.
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And we don't get anything constructive out of it.
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I think you guys are smart enough to potentially, through spirited and passionate debate, agree
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And that is surely the first basis for how any of this eventually gets resolved.
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Prepare for the worst and hope for the best, as they say.
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Israel, it seems to me, in the last three weeks, have massively ramped up their military
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offensive in a way that says to me that Prime Minister Netanyahu and his cabinet sent an
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opportunity to completely, in their eyes, sort out the Middle East problem once and for
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I see Iran as the head of the octopus, sending out its tentacles through the Houthis, through Hamas,
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The tragedy, as we celebrate, celebrates a bad word, commemorate October 7th, is that if
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Asinwa and Hamas had the opportunity to do it again, knowing everything that followed,
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knowing all the deaths and disasters in Gaza and in Lebanon, I think Hamas would do it again,
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would do October 7th again, because they think they've won.
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They've turned college and university students against Israel.
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They have solidified the United Nations' opposition to Israel.
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They've divided Americans, particularly the Republican administrations in the past,
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So Hamas cannot be allowed to have a victory on growing out of October 7th any more than
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ISIS should have been allowed to have a victory going out of 9-11.
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So I think the answer is, yes, a military defeat for Iran and its surrogates and a peace
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process between Israel and Saudi Arabia with steps taken toward the recognition of a two-state
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solution, which is the only reasonable solution that will solve the problem.
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But remember that October 7th was stimulated by the desire to prevent Israel and Saudi Arabia
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from creating a peace process following up from the Abraham Accords.
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And unless that peace process continues, and unless Hamas is told, no, you failed, the
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world will not reward you for this, we're just going to see a continuation of the bloodshed
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in the Middle East, which does not serve the interests of the Palestinians nor the Israeli
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Well, first of all, I would like to say that wherever we see suffering, wherever we see death
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and destruction, especially of young people, he's already winning just by the way he's
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We see Dershowitz to the rescue, the former defense attorney of Jeffrey Epstein, a man
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Are you saying that because he's got leverage on you?
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I make you lay Maxwell for five minutes at a book launch.
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Well, I didn't know anything about her at the time.
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We're talking about the biggest sexual scandal in the last hundred years.
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Who I never met Jeffrey Epstein or ever knew him.
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Alan Dershowitz was wrongly accused of various things in relation to...
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It's already a 2v1 before the intro is finished.
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Why are you not looking at me when I'm speaking to you?
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Well, I can turn to you, but there are three of us involved in this.
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Yeah, you're speaking to me, so I'm looking at this.
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Bro, we watched the highlights and I don't think it started off right away like that, bro.
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He did not wait a second to drop the Epstein card.
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He knew Epstein and for us, there's good influence.
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He will be sued now for defamation and we will be able to resolve this in a court of
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I guarantee you that he will be sued for calling me a pervert.
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In my understanding, you are a pervert because you are a queen.
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Here you see the Zion, the Christian, you see Judeo-Christian values.
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Has now withdrawn her accusation and acknowledged that she may have confused me with somebody
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else and calling me a pervert will result in a defamation lawsuit in an American court
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It's really, this is, is there any point considering this?
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I'm not doing the debate you were booked to do.
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The embassy of Iran was attacked in Syria by Israel.
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Now, my question to you is, does Iran have a right to defend itself?
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Because you see, I've been getting, I've been having a moral quandary about the issue.
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And he does bring up a good point about theatrics and stuff.
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Popular UK rapper and YouTuber Young Philly has been arrested on rape and assault charges
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The internet personality born Andres Felipe Valencia Barrientos, 29, appeared in Perth
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He's been on, yeah, people are saying friends with Chucks.
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I think I've seen him on Speedstream and Kistream.
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He appeared in Perth Magistrate's Court on Thursday, charged with three counts of assault,
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occasioning bodily harm, and four counts of sexual penetration without consent.
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If he was a Muslim guy, people would have automatically used that title against him.
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They would have used that title, Muslim, Muslim, Muslim, Muslim, Muslim.
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When it's a Christian who is caught like almost assassinating Trump or doing, you know, shooting
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up a school or something, they never call him a Christian.
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But when he's Muslim, they make sure, just like peers on that debate, he is Muslim apologist
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Muhammad Ijab and Epstein's lawyer and defendant and renowned intellectual who happens to be
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With one count of impeding another person's breathing or circulation by applying pressure
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Mr. Barrientos is currently on tour in Australia.
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The alleged assault of a woman in her 20s took place on the 28th of September in a Perth
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hotel room after a performance at the nightclub bar 120 on the 27th of September.
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He was arrested in Brisbane and extradited to Perth on Wednesday.
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I know it's like I do have this natural inclination to immediately defend like what's
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The world woke up in shock after yet another YouTuber.
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This time, young Philly is facing very serious allegations.
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How the fuck do these people still have channels and I don't?
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Fresh at a mall for protecting men with falsely queues, but this nigga right here?
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Anyone that knows how this nigga moves with gal can tell you he moves too thirsty, innit?
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Got a story about him in a UK club with a girl, but shit, I'm not surprised.
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Not only was he arrested today, but he was also charged with...
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Chad, did the therapist call me a grifter when I said that I was doing the therapy for Twitch?
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...a woman in her 20s in a hotel room in Perth.
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And honestly, the fallout from this could be insane because not only is he part of this...
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Yeah, but why would she sign up to do a therapy thing online on a stream if it wasn't going to be like...
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You know, that's the whole point of streaming it, is that it's entertainment too.
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Huge friendship group with some of the biggest creators in the world.
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But he also works with some of the biggest brands as well, like BBC, ITV, Meta.
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His victims were working with the BBC too, you are?
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The victims are working with BBC just like Young Philly.
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Are his friends going to defend him or abandon him?
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Now, similar to America, Australia is made up of different states with their different laws.
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And prosecutors allege that this incident happened at a hotel room after performing at a nightclub in Perth for his Australia tour.
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So, because of this, they actually had to extradite him back to the state that this happened.
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And as you can see, this is the video of him in an airport coming back from Queensland, Brisbane, where he was at, to...
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And as you can see, he's handcuffed there, being led by a couple of police officers and put into a car.
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Now, before we go into details of what was alleged in court that actually happened and warning, because they're pretty gruesome,
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I feel like for anyone who isn't as familiar with young Philly needs to understand the magnitude of this.
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Because him being arrested is not just going to affect his career deeply, but you have millions of his followers that look up to him.
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He's also part of this huge friendship group in the UK that are...
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...that are some of the biggest creators in the world, like the Sidemen, the Beta Squad.
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He's also doing a lot of work in traditional TV, like he's got his own show with the BBC called Hot Property.
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He's got another show with Channel 4 and Harry Pinero called The Philly and Harry Show.
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It's crazy, like, how disconnected I am, because I honestly, I did not know who this guy was, bro.
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...man videos, some of which have got over 80 million views, and his dedicated ones with them have over 40 million views.
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I just talked to Chris Pawlowski, and I got to say, welcome, Young Philly, to Rumble.
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You're not going to be judged for your past or all this stuff.
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He's got his own music, which hits millions of streams every month, and he goes on tours, as he was doing in Australia.
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He's worked with Meta, the British military, Adobe, Captain Morgan, and a bunch of others.
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And he even works with charities like Stand Up To Cancer and even The Prince's Trust to inspire young people to chase their dreams.
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So, point is, the fallout for someone like this that is working with and affiliated to so many different people and brands, all of them are probably going to try and desperately now try and protect their own public reputation.
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But, we'll get back to that side of things in a second.
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Because today, he appeared in court where he's been charged with four counts of sexual penetration without consent, three counts of assault occasioning bodily harm, and one charge of impeding a person's normal breathing or circulation by applying pressure to their neck.
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People have been falsely accused before, especially rich, famous guys.
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And the prosecutors even attempted to oppose young Philly's bail application, because they alleged that there was an extremely strong prosecution case supported by CCTV and photo evidence.
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And they basically are trying to make the case that he's not just some ordinary person being tried, and they don't want him to use his social media influence to impede the case.
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Prosecutors also showed pictures to the magistrate which were not shown in court, and in reference to what these photos depicted, they said,
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Across her body is a history of violent acts.
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We say those photos and what is alleged is beyond the pale, beyond what could be considered a consensual act.
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Now, on the other side, Philly's lawyers are questioning the strength of the prosecution's case, because they are claiming that the girl didn't even raise any concerns about sexual assault during a call with her friend at 5.31 a.m.
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Now, the case was adjourned for the day, and he was granted conditional bail.
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But in those conditions, are a ban on contacting his alleged victim.
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Multiple women came out about this before in London.
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Or posting anything about this whole case to his millions of followers on social media.
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Now, it goes without saying, but the charges don't suggest that the allegations are proven.
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Rather, he will now be tried in an Australian court, and he is innocent until proven guilty.
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When these sorts of allegations come out, it almost doesn't matter to the internet.
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This is the first time I ever heard about him was these accusations.
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Like, now everybody's jumping to go and tarnish his reputation that he's spent so long to build.
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Chad, if this happened to me, would you believe it?
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If I was you, and I saw the accusations towards me, I might believe it.
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If I wasn't me, and I saw that Sneeko was accused of this and that, and I'd be like, yeah, maybe.
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And you know how many people would be like, I always knew that would happen.
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If I'm thinking about my public reputation and how a lot of people see me, I'd be like, yeah, he might have done it.
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I'm, well, I didn't, I've never, yeah, shut up.
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And you go on Twitter and people are already bringing up old clips of Philly interacting with women.
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And it's like, before the allegations, hardly anyone bad to deny at some of these.
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But see, that's the thing, we don't even know who the girl is.
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We just know that he's been accused and that's it.
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I have no idea who the victims are or anything.
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You're arrested and then there's hindsight and, you know, people see this with a whole different view and it goes crazy viral.
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It wasn't like a choke, it was more like a, you know what I mean?
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Bro, Speed's audience is like 13 years old and he's choking.
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I mean, there's no point in like showing you the other things that are floating around on Twitter because that place,
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they are really just prepared to destroy lives, innocent or guilty.
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But the part that's going to be really crazy to watch is how other creators react or respond to these allegations.
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Are they just going to try and ignore everything and everyone until there is a verdict?
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Are they going to come out and try and defend him?
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Are they going to try and remove his videos where he made features?
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Because brands are notorious for being one of the first people to come out and publicly denounce anyone for anything.
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Man, because you think about people, even like Russell Brand and how everyone.
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You know, he was accused of sexual assault even from like 10 years ago.
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I mean, even YouTube removed him from the partner program.
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Allegations that I might add that have still not, you know, come to anything like him being charged or arrested
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So if that's how they treated Russell Brand of allegations alone,
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how the hell are they going to treat young Philly when he's being charged and arrested?
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And it's not like it's going to be easy for some of these big creators to just ignore
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because, you know, Philly is really a big part of their content.
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Like that podcast has just come up and it's, you know, started to do really well.
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I think it really comes down to how much pressure their fans and the internet puts on them to say something.
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I don't want to see the reputation be tarnished.
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As soon as the accusations come out, it ruins your reputation forever.
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And even if he is innocent, this is going to do irreversible damage to his legacy forever.
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Happened to Ronaldo, happened to Neymar, happened to every single major celebrity.
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Like Speed and Kai and like Chunks, they're all going to face like some backlight.
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And I hope that, you know, Kai Speed and Chunks don't have to face backlash for this.
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I'm going to assume that they did not know about this too.
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But this is what it's like watching a gambling stream.
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The fact that you even know what that music is at this point is bad.
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You know, he's projecting like a motherfucker, bro.
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Like, Cheezer wants to get away from that so bad.
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Because every time people come on Monkey, they're like,
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I like you, so I don't want to have to do this.
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Are you known for being Cheezer or Aiden Ross's friend?
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Oh, that's Cheezer, the Bosnian kick gambling streamer.
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That is the best example of projection that I've ever seen.
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And there's, legitimately, there's supposed to be a six-piece of mozzarella sticks.
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He calls and complains, and they drove two out.
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Bro, you know what creeps me out like a motherfucker?
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Every time I see them and their family, I don't know too much about them, but they have this dystopian, like, lunchly, thick-of-it face.
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Like, bro, like, this should not be – this kid is extremely overweight.
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And while we're acting like this is cool, it's funny, it's normal.
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But what is he, like, 12 years old and he weighs more than me?
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Yeah, that's, uh – there's a meat candy video on it?
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Like, no hate to them, but just stop – if being fat's not cool.
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Does it need to be gambling or fat or porn or drugs or grape?
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I would hate meat candy if they made fun of me.
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It seems like everybody needs to push one vice.
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Of course we go shopping while eating a chicken bake.
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Of course we have to try the new double-chunk chocolate cookie.
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Chad, if you were me, would you be pissed at Meat Canyon?
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And actually, I do have justification, I think.
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But is it the type of thing you just let go and be like, okay, it's a cartoonist and stuff?
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I was annoyed that Meat Canyon wasn't consistent.
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After I destroyed Moist Critical in that debate, he didn't make a video.
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Like, especially after the first encounter, he makes a whole cartoon and then pushes the gas pedal on that hate train.
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Yeah, this is pretty accurate to what they look like.
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Because not only did he make that cartoon, Meat Canyon, he made a reaction video with his own face in front of a McDonald's, too,
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responding to all the backlash he got from it for, like, taking sides with the liberal point of view.
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So I think if he was consistent, he should make one.
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But he's not going to, and I can't force his hand.
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I'm just wondering, if you or me, would you, like, hold a grudge towards that stuff or just laugh it off?
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All right, so you're giving away one child okay, if that upgrades your membership card for another 10% on cash rebates
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I don't speak Spanish. I don't know what you're saying. Everything will be okay
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Here's a Costco guys video someone is linked if you haven't seen
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His dad should not be okay with this dude, that's here. This is the father here
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It's flip the genders if that was a daughter, bro, like this guy could go to jail
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Reverse the roles and look at his dad. It's like boom here comes the bed oh
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Look at they're all like I groping this girl together like a family activity
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It's not the dad okay, then who then someone's parents is a they're okay with this kid. It's not that deep it is
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Damn this guy this guy don't don't don't don't do what
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He doesn't even say anything. He's just making a face
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Where's the joke, Mie Canyon? What's the funny part?
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Oh my god, my wife, please. I have to use the restroom.
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What would you call them? Hamas and hasbola?
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Just like any human being. They can sometimes be oppressive.
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Most human beings do not do what Hamas did in October the 7th.
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Israel's never committed an atrocity on that scale.
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On the 23rd of September, Israel attacked Lebanon.
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How many civilians died according to the Lebanese Ministry of Health?
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Civilians died on that day. That's quite close, isn't it?
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Popular musician and YouTuber from the UK known as Young Philly
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accused of serious sexual assault allegations following an incident in Perth.
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That's right, Lara, and it's serious. He's facing full cancer.
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Just do it, if you're gonna do that, do it at home, right?
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Oh, he went to Australia to get away from the charges.
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What did Zerka mean when he said it's about race and not religion?
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What I meant was the self is mostly unconscious, especially after waking.
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But their unconscious attitude is still the most peaceful
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because they had many generations and ancestral bloodlines
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Isn't Islam the fastest growing religion in Sweden?
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because unconsciously white people are Christian.
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The lowest crime rate when they're not religious in Sweden, right?
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And I didn't want to argue it because I'm like,
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but Sneeko is just the kind of guy who goes,
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because what do you mean by man is unconscious?
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And it's like, bro, I'm not going to explain terms to these Zoomers, right?
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I guess there's no debate to be had if you agree with me.
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So basically his argument is that white atheists are better people than black religious people.
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So then you're not even following Christian doctrine.
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Because Christian doctrine says it's about work.
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There's nothing biblical that says that at all.
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Every time I see this elevator in streams all the time, I'm gonna think about the Universal
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Every time I see this elevator, I see this elevator in streams all the time and I think
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I don't think Kai should face backlash for this stuff.
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Would you rather have a million dollars right now
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Texting, driving, being intentionally distracted
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And I'm never going to be found guilty of anything
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At moments of story you will be under pressure.
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Use the left stick to keep the capsule inside the boundary.
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I looked at the chat for one second, or is this part of the game?
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Geez Josh, once again brother you've outdone us all.
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Oh my god, I can't believe you actually did this.
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Oh my god, I can't believe you actually did this.
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Don't you guys think this is a little bit cruel?
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It's not her fault that she has a huge crush on me.
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Just because he's class Prez doesn't mean he belongs to everyone.
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White people get drunk and just sexually assault each other with Sharpies and Minecraft.
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Hon, it's been fun hanging out with you. No one gets me like you do.
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What did our naive sister get herself into now?
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I feel, I'm doing it for a thrill, I'm hoping you'll understand, you're going to go with my head.
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04:11:43.800
I feel, I'm doing it for a thrill, I'm hoping you'll understand, you're going to go with my head.
04:12:00.800
You're like, oh boy, you're like, oh boy, and you're like, oh boy, and you're like, oh boy.
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04:12:08.100
Can you chill with the swinger party joke for five fucking seconds, bro?
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04:12:32.040
Maybe we should start with a little, you know, making out and see where it goes from there.
04:14:23.580
You know, I kind of think you're the last person she wants to see right now, Mike.
04:15:32.640
What the fuck? What the fuck was that? It looks like she went here though, right?
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04:16:02.640
Are you guys getting scared? I'm like, Wallahi, this is not scary at all.
04:17:21.640
That looked like the right call. I don't know what that.
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04:19:27.640
Oh, why did I do that? I should have dropped Hannah.
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04:19:57.640
Before we begin, there are a few things I need to make sure you understand.
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You have to accept this in order to move forward.
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Everything you do, every decision you make from now on will open doors to the future.
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I want you to remember this as you play your game.
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Every single choice will affect your fate and the fate of those around you.
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So, you have committed to commence with this game.
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But I'm here to make sure that no matter how upsetting things may get...
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And I want you to look at the picture on the other side.