SNEAKO - THE FINAL SOLUTION TO RED PILL w⧸ Sartorial Shooter

00:00:00.040 What do you think the beef that Rolo has with Tate?

00:00:04.320 Earlier on, before Tate was huge, Rolo and Tate were doing some podcasts together.

00:00:09.020 And once Tate didn't rock up, he's a busy guy, Rolo was so upset and so emotional.

00:00:15.500 What I saw in Rolo was the geeky kid who was allowed to hang out with the cool kids,

00:00:19.800 but then the cool kids snubbed him.

00:00:21.500 Rolo was so upset.

00:00:22.400 And that's what you see right there.

00:00:23.240 You see a geeky kid who's cool now, but of course Tate's cooler.

00:00:27.080 so Rolo was always a fan but also a closet hater and Rolo was very much wanting to ride the Tate

00:00:33.740 wave and you know be supportive of Tate but as soon as things started to look rocky for Tate

00:00:38.260 you saw the true hater come out and now that Tate is you know constrained and there's a lot of

00:00:42.580 negative media all of a sudden Rolo is coming out saying openly negative things where's the loyalty

00:00:48.020 where's the sense of hey I worked with this guy to make some content let's at least be respectful

00:00:52.760 to each other he's a snake he's a hater snake very much feminine frame and all these people 1.00

00:00:57.460 who are looking at him as the godfather of red pill if that is your role model someone who's

00:01:02.260 acting in a feminine frame who's basically a geeky nobody who's written a book and talks a lot 0.61

00:01:08.240 and he wants to openly snake somebody who we previously worked for just because oh that's the

00:01:13.340 cool thing to do now because there's a lot of negative media out there that's that that's an

00:01:17.540 an individual without any sort of stoicism without any masculine values i've really lost a lot of

00:01:23.080 respect for him as a result it's it's quite disgusting to see this is one of the best

00:01:26.920 podcasts that i've ever done it was supposed to be a live stream but it lagged out but luckily it

00:01:30.600 recorded it was with sartorial shooter about an hour and 47 minutes his real name is jewel

00:01:35.580 he's a man from australia who has a long history of security detail and this video i would say is

00:01:41.700 the solution to the red pill there's been a lot of discourse about the red pill and about what it

00:01:45.860 promotes but i think this podcast from front to back establishes the problem and then offers a

00:01:50.520 solution to what everybody has been talking about for the past year when it comes to this space i

00:01:55.500 hope you enjoy i really enjoy this one see you in the next one what's our total shooter did you say

00:01:59.620 fourth stream fourth stream i streamed three times yesterday man you've been hustling yeah i haven't

00:02:03.940 and a vlog yesterday but i'm really excited for this interview today i haven't got the chance to

00:02:07.820 interview yet true we've been around each other a lot but we haven't sat down and talked i've

00:02:11.420 produced some of your interviews but i haven't got the chance to sit down and talk to you very

00:02:14.900 Just want to make sure everything's good check if we can type some ones if audio is good everything's good

00:02:18.760 I have my on-the-go set up right now

00:02:21.140 Think it should be good. We plugged the computer into the backpack the tripods on a little table got the mic in my laptop

00:02:28.560 Think it should be good

00:02:31.260 If everyone is here, okay, everything sounds good. So

00:02:35.480 Jewel aka the Sartorial Shooter 0.91

00:02:38.460 Can we have a quick background on you what you do and your purpose of doing content creation?

00:02:44.900 you don't really do content you're not a clout person but you you do have a message that she

00:02:48.820 spread yeah indeed thanks brother so in terms of why i've gone public it's pretty recent to be

00:02:52.900 honest i went loud on twitter spaces defending uh the tape brothers when they're in prison and

00:02:57.620 they couldn't and all these experts were coming out giving analysis on the tates and trying to

00:03:01.380 say look i understand what's happening none of them had even met the tates so i felt compelled

00:03:05.620 to come forward and speak uh based on that i got doxxed based on that i said you know what

00:03:09.780 all these people are clamoring to understand Tate's and trying to give their opinions on what

00:03:15.800 the Tate brothers are and what they've done I've been around them as I often say I've been more

00:03:19.720 than anyone else outside their direct family I've been on the Jets I've been there you know they've

00:03:23.580 lived in my house I've lived in theirs so with that duty really to speak up for my brothers I've

00:03:28.940 come forward and yeah been doxxed and I'm public and I'm fine with that now but yeah I don't need

00:03:33.960 or want clout my line of work out of a security professional it doesn't really help I've got my

00:03:39.100 I got my money right. So I'm not looking for views or for attention. I do have a bit of fun

00:03:43.920 on Instagram. I'll show off the lifestyle. And now, you know, that wish I've learned from Tate

00:03:48.200 essentially how to go out and reject what society wants from you and go and create that optimal

00:03:52.660 reality. I call it the custom made reality. I don't claim to be an expert on dating or an expert

00:03:57.920 on finances. I know how to live well. I've created my own custom made reality. And I believe I got

00:04:03.080 some value to share with other men looking to do the same. And of course, I've learned a lot from

00:04:07.780 the Tape Brothers. And so I enjoy spreading that message as well, both within the war room and

00:04:13.040 right now. You helped me revert to Islam. I think you were the first person to bring me into a mosque

00:04:19.300 the first time I ever stepped aside a mosque. There was one right outside your house. So once 1.00

00:04:23.240 again, thank you. I think that was a good step in the right direction and becoming better. And

00:04:28.200 I think Islam is just the truth. We can argue about that. We have mostly Christians in the

00:04:33.420 chat. They're always arguing nonstop, but I don't think it's extremely important. What I do think

00:04:37.740 it's important and why i think your message should be heard by more young men we were talking about

00:04:42.600 this before a lot of men are disenfranchised a lot of men are looking for answers right now and

00:04:48.000 looking for some sort of guidance and a lot of people they gravitate towards the red pill

00:04:51.600 i had happened to me and i still think that the red pill teaches a lot of good things

00:04:55.760 but these people don't live what they talk about the red pill if you could see now a lot of it is

00:05:03.940 people living in the doom and living in the the black pill they kind of get their satisfaction 0.61

00:05:09.220 and dopamine from the fact that they think that the world is messed up and so they just like

00:05:13.120 everything is messed up and then there's no actual solution what i like about the way you live your

00:05:17.280 life and the way we are now like for example you're in an expensive villa in phuket like you

00:05:20.940 have your your family here you have your children here uh your relationships in real life match

00:05:27.040 exactly what you talk about so what do you think are some problems with the red pill philosophy

00:05:31.960 Yeah, nice. So just to speak to the fact that you said there's Christians in the chat, let's all agree, no matter what faith you have, faith is needed in today's day and age, right? And any people of the book can agree that to offset the wokeism, the mind virus, the slave programming that's being pushed, faith is the answer. So I think that's one thing there.

00:05:48.440 and tying into what you said i think part of the reason why red pill is so popular is people need

00:05:52.480 dogma they need guidance they need to believe in a code they need to believe in a religion of some

00:05:56.100 sort we see a lot of people where wokeism is their religion we see a lot of people where the

00:06:00.200 red pill is their religion my belief is and that's why i really like going on islamic podcasts

00:06:04.680 islam has been around a lot longer than wokeism it's been around a lot longer than red pill 0.95

00:06:09.340 geekiness which we'll talk about uh anyone who really wants to find that code that path to live

00:06:14.280 by would do well especially masculine men in today's day and age will do well to look into

00:06:17.960 islam it's a lot to read a lot of research to do but i think it's very worthwhile so in terms of

00:06:22.400 the red pill dorks i like the title by the way that's pretty cool the red pill dorks right i 0.84

00:06:26.620 mean the one thing that i always say whether it's to a liberal leftist or to a red pill dork 0.83

00:06:31.020 how are your belief systems working out for your friend this code that you live by how is it making

00:06:35.280 you a better man and where i think red pill is useful is if you're a married guy who's getting

00:06:40.180 exploited and is what's known as a plow horse where you're you know working to sit you know

00:06:44.460 satisfy the job satisfy the women you're not working for yourself i understand that red pill 0.55

00:06:48.900 can wake men up and indeed it did that to me i got divorced five years ago thanks to you know

00:06:53.280 red pill content both rollo's book the first book and rich cooper's videos they really helped me

00:06:58.700 through a messy divorce but after that i love your opinion on this i don't see the red pill giving

00:07:03.760 any credible answers any solutions i see them saying this is wrong that's wrong this is wrong

00:07:08.640 but why would you identify with what's wrong why would you not identify with solutions why would

00:07:12.620 not listen to people who are living the sort of life you'd want to live based on a mindset and

00:07:17.620 approach and a philosophy that actually results in positive outcomes i don't see red pill being

00:07:21.480 that at all so what did you learn from the red pill and what did you learn about the red pill

00:07:26.440 teachers after creating your custom-made reality and getting out of that anger that red pill rage

00:07:33.140 because it is a yeah it is a rage thing so what i'd say again is if you're going to take advice

00:07:37.400 as a young man or as a man at any stage in your life look at the credibility of the source would

00:07:41.840 you exchange your life for the individual who's giving you advice or can you at least see elements

00:07:46.140 of that person's life that make you go wow that person's really got it dialed in now at least our

00:07:50.340 man rich cooper's got nice cars and you know he's got a good life in that sense but i'd say people

00:07:55.600 like roller people like these other sort of negative red pill experts where are their receipts 0.83

00:08:00.660 where is the proof that their mindset and what they preach results in improving your life right

00:08:06.580 definitely learn the way that society wants you to be that blue pill plow horse and avoid it be 0.87

00:08:12.940 aware of the fact that a lot of women especially in the west the worst parts of female nature or 1.00

00:08:17.820 psychology have been empowered by western culture and so a lot of western women are not wife material 1.00

00:08:22.420 learn to screen very particularly be aware of your value and know what you will and won't tolerate

00:08:28.080 in relationship all these sorts of things but i would say to every young man do not think that

00:08:32.600 red pill is any sort of solution for life because look at the people who are pushing it look at

00:08:36.800 rollo do we really want to pretend he's some sort of expert on relationships i mean he's married in

00:08:43.320 a monogamous relationship has children and active and advocates for vasectomies and i don't know i

00:08:48.640 mean i don't want to investigate and i don't really think it's worth analyzing well i think

00:08:53.420 if you do present yourself as a godfather or as a as a relationship expert you have to look at the

00:08:59.180 person's relationship and i personally don't see his marriage as something that he's actively

00:09:04.420 happy in because he's why is he whinging about relationships all the time if he's if he wouldn't

00:09:09.440 have time to be doing that you wouldn't have time to be constantly talking about relationships you

00:09:13.320 were happy in your own you'd just be enjoying your life you'd be in phuket right now with your

00:09:16.560 your wife and children and i think it's good to let's talk about the academic and the practitioner

00:09:19.580 roller is a great academic that first book is useful the following books i don't think anyone's

00:09:23.400 read but the first book is quite useful or if they have read i haven't heard of anyone enjoying it

00:09:26.940 but the first book I know a lot of people have got value from.

00:09:29.820 But just because you know how to write a book and be a thinker

00:09:32.820 doesn't mean you know how to be a doer.

00:09:34.280 And in today's day and age, I mean, Tate talks to this.

00:09:36.860 It's about action. It's about doing. It's not about thinking.

00:09:39.480 So again, to the young men that are out there,

00:09:42.080 look at the role models, if you will, or the experts who are out there

00:09:45.380 and how are their belief systems working out for them.

00:09:47.760 Look at how they're able to create wealth,

00:09:50.240 to create that custom-made reality.

00:09:52.420 And don't listen to people who are just sitting there

00:09:54.300 pretending they're experts because they've decided they're experts. 0.97

00:09:56.940 that's feminine frame nonsense i've decided i'm a 10 well you're a five shut up put the work in 0.82

00:10:02.120 oh but i've decided i'm a 10 i see a lot of that in the red pill space 0.97

00:10:05.740 what what makes you think that they are dorks i think anyone who sits behind a computer and

00:10:13.780 lacks the social intelligence or self-awareness to know that you're talking too much no one cares 0.85

00:10:18.300 like these two three hour streams no one cares anyone who's got any values busy creating that

00:10:23.460 custom-made reality right we've got work to do so there's one thing just sitting there talking

00:10:26.980 endlessly and writing endlessly um that that lack of self-awareness okay enough you know people have

00:10:32.240 got real things to do right but also it's it's where are the receipts where's the where's the

00:10:37.200 incredible reality where are the other high value people that they have around them where where are

00:10:40.980 their high value brothers that are rolling with them having amazing adventures create building

00:10:44.040 businesses you know winning at life i don't see these red pill creators winning at life at all 0.97

00:10:48.560 and and i've had a look i've looked into a few of them it's like yeah really you're in a position

00:10:52.680 to give advice i just i don't see it as credible what i like about your view of this is you don't

00:10:58.460 even think that this should be your main source of income especially when you're giving advice

00:11:01.900 advice should not be your number one source you should that should be secondary the network and

00:11:08.180 the advice and trying to uplift people that's that's part of it but you need to have your own

00:11:13.220 thing going on you need to have your own life i really believe you if you're those who can't do

00:11:19.020 teach right if all you're doing if you're making money from just teaching and you don't have the

00:11:23.660 receipts and the credibility and the clear evidence that what you're teaching results in

00:11:29.020 you know 0.001 of the population's delivery or lifestyle or quality relationships why is your

00:11:37.280 main shtick teaching especially in a world where teachers can decide i'm an expert everyone talks

00:11:41.640 against that university professor who teaches business but has no money right a lot of those

00:11:45.440 red pill geeks that's what they are i look i've decided that i'm special and i'm going to charge

00:11:50.120 this and talk about this where are your receipts friends just deciding that you are an expert is

00:11:55.020 not enough in today's day and age it's it's identical to the girl who thinks that i'm a 10 0.59

00:12:00.780 because i believe it it's pretty much those horrible creatures that fresh and fit somehow

00:12:04.980 managed to talk to i couldn't do that man if you paid me all the money in the world it's too bad i

00:12:08.280 really want to see you on there but what i do like about your mindset is in dubai you kept saying

00:12:12.720 like western women aren't real they're not even they're not allowed in my house yep i'm not going 1.00

00:12:17.980 to talk to them i don't interact with them they're just i call them npcs and bots you don't even see

00:12:22.900 them as human i mean i gotta be careful what i say there certain types of people are not in my

00:12:30.720 reality by choice i do not allow them in my reality and i see a lot of western women because 1.00

00:12:35.260 of the culture that they're in as being in a position where they're not held accountable for

00:12:40.280 anything they're openly rude they're entitled they're delusional in terms of the value that

00:12:44.220 they bring why would i let man or woman don't even need to gender it why would i let an unhinged 1.00

00:12:49.120 ungrateful uncouth individual into my home so yeah there are no western women in my home and 1.00

00:12:53.920 there never will be um look i'm sure there are exceptions to the rule and i'm sure there are

00:12:57.720 western women out there who are respectful who do have traditional values who do know how to 1.00

00:13:02.080 conduct themselves in an appropriate you know polite manner in front of other men but the vast

00:13:06.780 majority of western women i've seen they've been trained by western culture to low-key 1.00

00:13:11.380 patronize men to hate men and i'm not letting that in my reality because

00:13:16.220 why would i remember the last time i had a western woman in my in my home was thanks to 1.00

00:13:21.580 sterling and jw who are living in my home for a bit and this lady was in my home but being rude 1.00

00:13:26.420 to people and actually i stopped the music and said it's time for you to leave and there's like

00:13:30.200 20 30 people how was she being rude uh oh she was um first of all she was making like bad comments 1.00

00:13:36.280 about the art that i have in my house i'm like well all right you don't have to like it but you

00:13:41.360 don't need to stand here drinking my drink and criticizing my choice in art but then she was 1.00

00:13:44.940 talking to the women about all this feminist nonsense the women in in my orbit do not buy 1.00

00:13:49.920 into that and they are happy as a result don't try and bring your mind virus in and infect my

00:13:54.160 my family members so it is so i turned off the music said you have to go she's haha that's funny

00:13:58.160 i said i'm not joking you need to leave otherwise i'll call my friends at the police and you'll be

00:14:03.040 taken away for trespassing she went i've got the music going again and continue with the party so

00:14:08.900 to speak it's back when i partied i've got no dramas being as rude as i need to be in terms

00:14:13.200 of someone else's perception to maintain the standards that i have for people who are in my

00:14:18.160 orbit was the vibe of the party ruined at all everyone thought it was at first it was super

00:14:21.960 awkward everyone's like what's happening but afterwards everyone thought it was the funniest

00:14:24.280 thing ever like the party probably was better afterwards just getting rid of that virus man

00:14:28.540 if there if there is a virus or a cancer in your life cut it out and move on with your life people

00:14:32.380 need to feel or know they have the right to do that we need to give chemotherapy to feminists 1.00

00:14:36.360 the funny part is i noticed that exact mindset between uh with these western women exactly 1.00

00:14:43.480 identical to that they'll show up to your house was this in dubai yeah it was so you you have

00:14:47.380 great artwork not to be honest i like the skulls and everything i'm visualizing all the paintings

00:14:51.480 you have in your house you spent a lot of time curating that but for some reason western women 1.00

00:14:55.200 they'll walk into your home without providing anything without paying for anything and they

00:14:59.220 think that just because they're there their presence is better than where they're at so

00:15:03.620 they feel the right i'll bring girls into my apartment and they won't even like admire the 0.98

00:15:08.180 balcony or the amazing setup or just being in a in a nice apartment in miami it's like why are the

00:15:13.600 dishes not done or like this is like it's a little dirt like they'll only pinpoint at the things that

00:15:19.140 are not perfect because things should be perfect she's a 10 out of 10 boss queen and again you 1.00

00:15:24.280 don't have to gender it why would you let any person into your life who was out of touch with

00:15:27.460 reality delusional about their own ability or their own value and just low-key rude i don't

00:15:32.920 have people like that in my world and the thing is look if you or i were in each other's house

00:15:37.060 and we said something inappropriate and you or i checked each other we go okay my bad sorry i

00:15:41.000 didn't mean any disrespect you check these creatures they're like then they get they get

00:15:45.820 they become even more intolerable right i'm not gonna that's not real in my reality that does not

00:15:50.300 exist here that does not exist in my home does not exist in in any room that i mean i just won't

00:15:55.820 interact with unhinged out of touch with reality rude people i have no time for that i will not i

00:16:00.960 will not allow that i will not permit that in my reality and that's what i've noticed about the

00:16:04.800 red pill gurus is they'll immediately latch on to anything that they see as negative then that 0.99

00:16:08.720 fits their philosophy when they see a dumb feminist being a dumb feminist they're like 0.99

00:16:12.580 look i told you yeah there's a lot of that we know like we get it you don't need it constantly 0.99

00:16:17.580 pointed out for us to understand that they're brainwashed we get it so what's the solution

00:16:21.620 and what i think uh your solution is and what i think the the i don't want to say final solution

00:16:26.940 because that but the action the solution i think it's a different conversation right the only

00:16:32.360 halal solution i see is islam when it comes to having a a positive outlook on life when it comes 0.96

00:16:39.940 to relationships about the gender differences about having something to to listen to having

00:16:45.940 the strong community uh and also i just see the the quran as the truth do you see that as the as

00:16:51.840 the final pill the green pill the green pill i really do and i think if you're going to look

00:16:57.240 for guidance of course again you can try and come up with philosophy yourself and maybe you'll get

00:17:03.020 there but you know but it's going to take a while why not looking at something that was written

00:17:06.420 hundreds of years ago and to this day has two billion people viewing it as the truth obviously

00:17:10.760 there's value there right so again if you're arrogant enough to think that you've got this

00:17:14.300 human experience sorted you know how to perceive the world you know how to carry yourself

00:17:17.900 you know in terms of interactions with others better than something that was written hundreds

00:17:21.840 of years ago keep going my fault better than something that's written hundreds of years ago

00:17:28.440 and continues to be viewed as very worthy by so many people all right cool you go do you but

00:17:34.300 i have enough humility to understand that to live the life i live and create what i've created i've

00:17:39.480 learned a lot from the tates i've learned a lot from i mean even the way you're setting up the

00:17:42.960 way you're hustling i'm learning from now i learned from everyone who's around me why would

00:17:46.460 you not view something that's hundreds and hundreds of years old and viewed as important

00:17:49.660 by so many people and has so much truth so much value in it as worth looking into so i really

00:17:54.360 think looking at the at the body of knowledge of this islam and talking to uh brothers who are very

00:18:00.220 devout in their practice taking the green pill so to speak i believe that is the answers to a lot

00:18:06.160 of the negativity a lot of confusion basically when you look at and i don't you know i don't

00:18:10.740 pretend to be an islamic scholar i've been in the middle east for 15 years and i've studied islam

00:18:14.140 pretty actively for five years you know reverted towards the start of the year it's very pro

00:18:19.100 traditional values it gives the man this is how you should act the woman this is how you should 1.00

00:18:23.180 act the children this is how you should act it is a very clear guidance and code with which to live

00:18:28.000 by in a world that's completely confused you know we have people identifying as lampposts we have

00:18:32.300 you know relationships which are completely backwards in terms of you know who's who's doing

00:18:36.720 what and how the man and the woman are supporting each other working together one of the biggest

00:18:40.540 beefs of the red pill and rightly so is the way women are trying to compete with men in the modern 1.00

00:18:45.160 era instead of working as a cohesive harmonious unit islam gives you the guidance for both parties

00:18:50.520 to be that cohesive bringing your best effort best foot forward partner in life it's it's super

00:18:56.040 positive so i completely agree what i don't like about uh i like just pearly things but she's

00:19:00.960 she said some negative things about islam but yeah i won't work with her again based on that 1.00

00:19:05.220 you can criticize islam in a respectful way you don't need to come the way she came i i wasn't 0.86

00:19:09.960 right man i think she did it accidentally to be honest i don't buy that if i stomp on your foot

00:19:15.780 accidentally i still stomp on your foot right it shouldn't these certain things shouldn't happen

00:19:20.720 my my problem with their current philosophy and it matches the manosphere and much of what they 0.98

00:19:25.800 talk about is that they keep saying like women are useless like we don't need women she'll say 1.00

00:19:30.140 like the world could operate with just men it's like to speak to that it doesn't make any like 0.98

00:19:34.280 we wouldn't do most of what we do if it wasn't for the balance that women provide we it's not 1.00

00:19:38.640 like when you get red pill to someone you don't need to become a misogynist you don't need to

00:19:41.620 hate women you need to realize that you love women and we have an equal role but they're just 1.00

00:19:46.620 different but one is respected more by by modern culture when it comes to to working hard but it

00:19:51.620 doesn't mean that that women are unnecessary by any metric that we need to be that we balance 0.99

00:19:56.740 each other out and also i think there is life without women which which is good but when you 1.00

00:20:02.340 have quality respectful of ideally well-raised religious women in your life supporting you

00:20:09.180 giving you that feminine energy brothers can't give each other that feminine healing energy 0.93

00:20:12.700 a brother can't remind you to stop working and enjoy life and take in the sunset the way you

00:20:17.480 know a good woman can they add so much value to life yes there is always challenge with women 1.00

00:20:22.280 because you know emotional based emotions will go up and down as a man you need to be the rock you

00:20:26.320 need to guide them you need to be that family leader but if you have a good respectable caring

00:20:31.800 feminine woman by your side or in the islamic context multiple if you do have multiple wives 0.93

00:20:37.020 that's an absolute superpower that that energy that support that that feminine care that you get 1.00

00:20:43.080 you can't get from brothers it's a very valuable thing and and there's that song you know it's a

00:20:47.500 man's world but ain't nothing but with you know without a woman or a girl look i mean i've rolled

00:20:52.200 without women and in a lot of situations it's great it's great being with the brothers you know 0.93

00:20:55.800 back in the day we'd be out you know past the wire conquering fighting you know hunting that's a

00:21:01.040 great place to be at some point you need to rest you need to have that feminine care if you've had 1.00

00:21:05.840 any major injuries doing that with a woman next to you going through you know surgeries and

00:21:09.940 recoveries with a woman who's caring for you a lot better than trying to do it by yourself

00:21:13.040 there's there's real value that a woman adds and per our faith we are designed to be equal but

00:21:20.480 opposite you know component parts of the same team i think the ultimate way to view relationships and

00:21:27.700 marriages is that you are part of the same entity and you're winning at life together tell me that

00:21:32.420 you're not going to be more effective as a man if you if you don't have a wife you can trust next 0.99

00:21:36.440 you can say all the admin for my business is here all the managing the house is here you're doing

00:21:40.480 this part of the kids here you're reminding me to eat because i work so hard you're reminding me to

00:21:44.500 get enough sleep because i work so hard you'll become a more effective man over the long term

00:21:48.020 if you have a good caring woman supporting you next you part of your team the whole way arguing

00:21:53.220 against that it's ridiculous so miss pelly things has got no idea you cannot say society wouldn't 0.73

00:21:58.180 you know you cannot all this criticism of women and society be fine without women

00:22:01.560 the value a good woman brings to her man is immense and anyone who doesn't know that as a

00:22:07.600 truth hasn't experienced a good woman supporting him as simple as that it's really that simple

00:22:12.640 what do you think the beef that rollo has with tate which surprised me because i've seen them

00:22:18.680 on a lot of some podcasts together they did a good podcast on fresh and fit together it seems

00:22:22.880 like a lot of the message should be the same why do you think that there's some sort of uh animosity

00:22:28.480 there it's pretty simple uh to analyze and i i'm confident that i've analyzed it correctly so

00:22:34.860 earlier on before tate was huge rollo and tate were doing some podcasts together and once tate

00:22:41.700 didn't rock up uh he's a busy guy rollo was so upset and so emotional what i saw in rollo was

00:22:48.740 the geeky kid who was allowed to hang out with the cool kids but then the cool kids snubbed him

00:22:52.960 rollo was so upset and that's what you see right there you see a geeky kid who's cool now but of

00:22:58.180 course tate's cooler so rollo was always a fan but also a closet hater and rollo was very much

00:23:04.300 wanting to ride the tape wave and you know be supportive of tate but as soon as things started

00:23:08.900 to look rocky for tate you saw the true hater come out and now that tate is you know constrained

00:23:14.680 and there's a lot of negative media all of a sudden rollo is coming out saying openly negative

00:23:19.320 things where's the loyalty where's the sense of hey i work with this guy to make some content

00:23:24.200 let's at least be respectful to each other he's a snake he's a hater snake very much feminine frame 0.92

00:23:29.300 and all these people who are looking at him as the godfather of red pill if that is your role

00:23:33.920 model someone who's acting in a feminine frame who's basically a geeky nobody who's written a

00:23:40.020 book and talks a lot and he wants to openly snake somebody who he previously worked for just because

00:23:45.640 oh that's the cool thing to do now because there's a lot of negative media out there

00:23:48.620 that's that that's an individual without any sort of stoicism without any masculine values

00:23:54.760 i've really lost a lot of respect for him as a result it's it's quite disgusting to see

00:23:58.440 what's your read on mld he recently got into some hot water and a lot of internet drama for

00:24:05.640 showing up on a podcast and then they said he walked out uh for he was calling a girl fat and

00:24:11.360 then all this stuff blew up and but what's your what's your read on him i didn't see that um

00:24:16.700 though i mean look what i'd say about mold any man who is working hard to improve the lives of

00:24:22.080 other men doing good that has my respect now i don't i don't know the details of the controversy

00:24:26.260 um there's been some things he's said that i've seen cut up which i disagree with but again i

00:24:32.420 haven't seen the long form so one of the things i've learned from tate is don't judge someone

00:24:36.460 based on soundbites so yeah i haven't looked into that but i do know that he is passionate about

00:24:41.260 improving the lives of men and that's something i think the world needs more of so something i

00:24:44.780 respect yeah he is personally he helped me with some personal relationship problems like that he

00:24:49.080 didn't have to do or you didn't talk about so i do respect him i think a lot of you i think we

00:24:53.380 should be on the same team which kind of it i would say is frustrating about some of the red 1.00

00:24:58.840 pill guys is that they will prioritize their their platform over the message like we're all on the

00:25:04.620 same side though the woke virus is trying to get all of us and a lot of us we have so much so many

00:25:09.460 more similarities and differences we should be on the same team instead of wasting energy saying

00:25:13.800 like going back and forth and again what is this back in the day like let's talk about school in

00:25:18.040 in a boys school if boys have issues they'll fight then they'll be mates afterwards in a girl's 0.85

00:25:23.680 school girls will hate each other 20 years later they'll hate women they went to school in 20 years 0.64

00:25:27.720 it's feminine frame stuff this drama this backstabbing it's all feminine frame stuff so

00:25:32.780 just so to see people like rollo come excuse me coming after tate knowing that tate has done more

00:25:38.860 for you know waking men up and and you know improving men's outlook on life more than anyone

00:25:45.000 else and you're going to try and snake him that's just girl school drama really and it shouldn't be

00:25:49.600 happening to your point i think are we not aware enough of the struggle and all of the forces on

00:25:55.040 men's minds to make them into the sheep to make them some survey into the feminine prerogative 1.00

00:25:59.120 that we can't put aside the drama and support each other and that's why when you see someone

00:26:03.340 like rollo going after tate to me all right that's a nothing man that's just just another

00:26:07.140 drama queen chasing his clicks chasing his clout another self-appointed expert because he said so

00:26:13.140 not nonsense these sorts of people are not leaders of men they are not men of character they're not

00:26:18.640 men to be looked up to and i think if it's a real pity that people can't put aside the drama and all

00:26:23.320 be on the same team because man the the wokies they they unite together you know that the virtual

00:26:29.240 gestapo will come after you together and try and cancel you yeah it's the funny thing about woke 0.86

00:26:33.040 people is they'll see uh gay people walk around in a park and say we're here we're queer we're

00:26:37.200 coming for your children and they are so bonded together that none of them will speak out and

00:26:41.020 call that disgusting and you have to admire that type of brotherhood because they know that that's

00:26:45.660 gross but they're just like we need to get this done we need to this is for our cause and so they

00:26:51.300 won't stake each other brotherhood amongst the wokies it's really it's really admirable when

00:26:55.180 you think about it i guess it ties into the whole um if you're a commie if you're a communist then

00:27:00.000 you believe in the party message and you know you shouldn't speak against the party message or

00:27:03.580 yeah the way they can unite and the men who like yourself are doing a lot of good work to wake up

00:27:10.240 men and to try and essentially save traditional values and and you know as a result fight for the

00:27:15.900 health of humanity surely we can put our drama and hating aside and just just work with each

00:27:21.480 other it's disappointing to see what's your read on on rich cooper i saw you did a podcast with

00:27:26.480 him recently he seems pretty similar to roll on what he talks about um but i did see some

00:27:31.040 criticism because when a guy's only talking about women for years and years and years i think you

00:27:36.140 should when it comes to male self-improvement there's so many other aspects which i like

00:27:39.400 you talk about shooting about brotherhood about how to make money about a customary it's every

00:27:44.220 aspect not if you only focus on girls that's a very minute detail when it comes to becoming a 0.97

00:27:49.340 well-rounded man yeah but i see him only talking about women for years and years and years it's

00:27:52.920 like you don't even show what your relationships are like if you're going to be an expert on just

00:27:56.640 relationships i have to see just like as a viewer i have to know what's going on because i can't

00:28:01.760 take that seriously i'm wondering what your take on that i hear that i mean look i talk about

00:28:04.720 relationships occasionally and i keep my relationships private so i mean i can understand

00:28:08.780 not wanting to put certain parts of your personal life out there what i see with with rich cooper is

00:28:13.880 his subject matter is is those things um so he speaks to that but he also he's built successful

00:28:19.720 businesses outside from you know coaching he he has you know a good lifestyle involving supercar

00:28:25.800 rallies he's living well so i would view him as someone who's a lot more credible than someone

00:28:30.120 who's written books and speaks a lot on the internet you know i mean so it's yeah from what

00:28:33.920 i've seen of rich he's he's also living a good life now i think the magic for rich and i told

00:28:38.340 him this would be to get out of the west you can find good women there are good women out there my 1.00

00:28:42.540 life is proof obviously people are in my orbit like oh yeah wow that's a thing you can find

00:28:46.760 respectful attractive uh grounded and beautiful feminine women and have them in your life in a 1.00

00:28:53.060 halal manner that's possible but i don't think you can do in the west so i think someone like 1.00

00:28:57.980 rich cooper would do well to just to adopt my policy western women aren't real i'm going to 1.00

00:29:02.560 go to a country or you don't even need to go to a country i'm going to find women in my country 1.00

00:29:06.700 who have the same values as me who have the same relationship expectations as me they do exist

00:29:10.740 out there there are women who want you to be a man and they want to be a woman you know they're 1.00

00:29:15.020 not infected by the feminist mind virus i think that's the thing that that our man rich needs to 1.00

00:29:20.160 do in order to find very fulfilling relationships that adhere to his traditional values what do you

00:29:25.940 think that the tates messed up on i see that we both agree that they're innocent and that this is

00:29:32.700 false imprisonment uh but as somebody who's you're very analytical and i would like to see what your

00:29:39.080 take is what do you think that they could have done better for a lot of people watching i think

00:29:43.860 that they're what's happening to them is a warning sign for men i think anybody who doesn't buy into

00:29:48.120 that woke agenda they're going to be a target i think that they're trying to get to take away a

00:29:51.800 lot of other people so how can we prepare how could we see the tates and see some of the mistakes

00:29:57.700 they possibly made and avoid those oh no they definitely made mistakes but you see i i have a

00:30:03.900 master's degree in risk management my my career you know pathway has been always risk-based so

00:30:10.560 i'm a lot more paranoid and a lot more cautious than people like the tates and indeed they'll

00:30:14.780 build a global brand being the guys who don't care just get it done i'm the guy who does care

00:30:19.640 and it's like whoa whoa slow down um so my world view is very different to theirs and that for

00:30:24.380 example they'll host big parties with a bunch of people it's good footage it's good lifestyle

00:30:28.420 footage for branding that makes sense whereas for me i'm like each one of these people is a

00:30:33.060 potential liability so it's a different mindset um i don't know if they could have built what they

00:30:37.680 built without being that guy who's like not invite you know a bunch of people to the yacht or the jet

00:30:41.460 or whatever and then build that brand but i think young men of today should just be aware that does

00:30:46.900 bring risk now they were aware of the risk they accepted the risk um i was always the guy in the

00:30:52.440 background saying man all these women you know any one of these could be you know five years later 0.92

00:30:56.300 ticking time bomb they can make it they can make lies that can then end in imprisonment which is

00:31:00.580 exactly what we've seen so it's a tricky one if you want to be that big bowler with your big parties

00:31:05.140 and living well and you know having a lot of interactions with women how do you do that in a

00:31:09.440 safe way i'm not sure i don't know i don't think you can anyway i think i think the tate case study

00:31:14.600 shows that any woman you bring in your life could whether it's a year later or five years later or

00:31:20.300 20 years later come up with a story which then damages your reputation could could lead to

00:31:25.620 financial issues you know legal legal consequences both in terms of time money stress and can have

00:31:30.560 you put in jail if you look into the credibility of the two main complainants in the take case

00:31:35.180 and that that's they're the only two real complainants both of these women have a history 1.00

00:31:40.320 of making up lies about men that's documented yet the tates are still effectively imprisoned

00:31:44.960 it's mind-bending you can be a known liar a known grifter a known known you know squeeze men for

00:31:51.640 their money and attention and so on make up stories about men and still have those men put in jail

00:31:56.500 right that's the world we live in it's not even my new the serious examples of these women 1.00

00:32:02.280 ruining men's lives completely so it's terrifying man for me if you if you want to be the sort of

00:32:08.240 guy who has multiple women in your life i think the only safe way to do it is you know through

00:32:14.580 islam and through the hallway that's really the only solution now going forward i don't see any 1.00

00:32:18.800 other safe way because even if you're an absolute gentleman to a woman even if you take care of her

00:32:23.460 even if you have cameras, all these sorts of things in your homes,

00:32:26.860 five years later, she can say, you know what?

00:32:28.820 That guy's gone and got a bunch of money now.

00:32:30.360 I want some of that.

00:32:31.480 Ah, that time where he was a bit rough with me in bed, 0.98

00:32:34.500 actually, that was rape. 1.00

00:32:35.520 That's what we're seeing with the UK thing.

00:32:37.300 This woman kept going back to Tate for months. 1.00

00:32:40.000 She obviously, if something's terrible,

00:32:43.440 but you keep going back to someone for months

00:32:45.040 and taking part in that same thing,

00:32:47.200 you're giving consent.

00:32:49.160 But she decided six years later,

00:32:51.180 based on a conversation with a friend,

00:32:53.220 it wasn't consent and now there's a case against tate in the uk it's it man it's terrifying stuff

00:32:57.720 it really is do you recommend guys even get into relationships like age 18 to 23 when i think some

00:33:05.260 of the most crucial years for a man when it comes to building i i've been shifting my mindset about

00:33:10.460 a lot of this stuff and this is where i disagree with myron and fresh and fit of course i respect

00:33:14.680 all the work they do but his philosophy is that you should have a 50 notch body count and you

00:33:20.300 should date constantly my philosophy now is and it doesn't mean that i followed it correctly i mean

00:33:24.680 i dated a lot i think that it's better to just avoid that and i i know a lot of successful young

00:33:31.120 muslims for example they're still virgins and they're and it's not like i think that we think

00:33:35.260 that like you shame men will shame each other oh you're still a virgin you're still a virgin so

00:33:39.500 you kind of have this pressure to be with a lot of girls for the image and also to not to because

00:33:45.180 it's it describes your masculinity but when i see young muslims who are virgins and who are waiting 1.00

00:33:49.860 for marriage it's like it's not like they're any less masculine just because if you look for your

00:33:54.460 masculinity in women pretty feminine thing to not have a sense of security enough to where you could 1.00

00:34:00.540 be masculine without you know going on dates and having girls around i think that the best

00:34:05.620 way for men to to avoid this problem is first you have to convert to islam uh christianity you can 0.97

00:34:12.620 get married younger but there's a different there's difference in the gender dynamics in islam 0.82

00:34:18.000 i think the best thing would be to to work as hard as you can 18 to 23 and then try to get

00:34:22.260 married younger and just have a couple stable relationships don't drink don't party avoid all

00:34:26.580 that because the risk is not worth the reward the reward is like a couple fun nights i understand

00:34:31.540 that men need to go through it in order to understand it's bad so most men are going to

00:34:34.840 do it anyway but it's not really that valuable or that much of a great time you you've been

00:34:39.020 done degenerate parties and stuff like that too i have i've done them well you've done them well

00:34:43.380 do you really miss not doing it that much it's like quitting drinking do you mean i quit drinking

00:34:48.500 too it sounds like it's that bad certain things in life are great certain things are overrated

00:34:52.040 threesomes are overrated hedonism is overrated like it's true let's be honest okay occasionally

00:34:57.100 you'll have something like yeah that was interesting but i'm happy to shelve all of

00:35:00.180 that and i have done and my life is not lacking in in any way i love that point that you said if

00:35:04.700 a man gets his value from women isn't that feminine frame is that really a masculine man 0.60

00:35:10.240 winning in life and one thing i think everyone needs to conceptualize this idea that if a muslim

00:35:15.700 man is a virgin until marriage that's somehow not masculine that's fantastic i have nothing but

00:35:19.940 respect for that because if you take that sexual energy that both the mental and physical sort of

00:35:24.960 that you have you apply it to your training you apply it to fight training you apply it to work

00:35:29.200 you apply it to learning you are going to be a more effective human or you can take that sexual

00:35:33.980 energy if you will that desire and you can just channel it into the endless insatiable pit of

00:35:38.040 hedonism you will not get any fulfillment or any lasting okay finally i've achieved what i wanted

00:35:43.520 to achieve through pursuing sexual desire with random sexual interactions with women there's

00:35:48.420 there's no yeah wow i've made it because you you do it you will all right a few days later you want

00:35:54.180 to do it again all right whereas if you take that sexual energy and you challenge towards your work

00:35:58.180 towards becoming the best man you can be you are going to have real achievements you are going to

00:36:02.400 become better as a man i know a few guys who are really high performing young men in their early

00:36:08.140 20s who were still virgins who are muslims who practice their faith seriously man their days

00:36:12.540 are impressive as an early 20s guy there's not a minute wasted on chasing women on tinder on all

00:36:19.520 this nonsense alcohol alcohol all this nonsense all this stuff that we know doesn't improve our

00:36:23.340 lives much respect to the the muslim men out there who've decided to be virgins until marriage 0.82

00:36:28.060 and are channeling all of that energy into something real and productive and making

00:36:31.460 themselves the best men they can be the one thing i would say though is anyone who's getting married

00:36:35.980 early in the west watch out for the effect that all that societal programming can have both on

00:36:42.100 you as a man and on your personal potential partner that you're going to get married with

00:36:46.380 because even if you are a muslim if you're living in the west be aware of the blue pill conditioning

00:36:50.640 as it's known have a look at where relationships are in the west versus where you'd like them to

00:36:57.120 be in your own home and very consciously set expectations going into a relationship with look

00:37:01.560 i know this is normal out there you know whether it's women going on girls trips or whether it's

00:37:06.940 you know women putting themselves all over social media or whether it's a relationship dynamic where 1.00

00:37:10.960 the woman's the girl boss and the man just says okay say to your potential future partner i reject

00:37:15.920 all of that here are my expectations in relationship but also here's what i'm going to bring in

00:37:20.160 relationship is that something you agree with i think having that practical discussion between

00:37:24.160 both partners to say this is what we're looking for in a relationship making sure those expectations

00:37:28.360 match i think it's something that needs to be done more it's not done much in the west people

00:37:31.860 like oh i have feelings you have feelings let's get married a life together over many years not

00:37:36.400 based on feelings it's a practical thing so to the muslim men out there who are saving themselves

00:37:40.740 for marriage good on you you are optimizing your time and energy into making yourself a better man

00:37:44.900 if you are going to get married early be very conscious of the way western society in particular

00:37:49.560 has ruined relationship dynamics and i suggest you write down what you're looking for the value

00:37:54.140 you bring get your potential partner your wife to write down what she's looking for in terms of

00:37:58.380 expectations and relationships and and go about it in a very open communication mutually beneficial

00:38:03.840 no mystery practical manner to offset all of this blue pill conditioning that we see in the west

00:38:08.940 today yeah you definitely have to set the frame right away i told you about this i was i met a

00:38:14.500 girl and then immediately she's muslim and she said that she was gonna if if we if she got married 1.00

00:38:21.140 that she would want to write in the contract that it couldn't take on more wives and that was 1.00

00:38:24.640 something that if she's trying to establish rules from the beginning that's that's an immediate red 1.00

00:38:29.180 flag and you shouldn't you shouldn't invest like be like well maybe i you know i like her

00:38:33.720 shouldn't prioritize the feelings over the practicality of it relationships over 20 30 40

00:38:38.500 years yes feelings are a part of it but first and foremost you need to want the same things

00:38:45.100 if you're all about traditional values if you believe that look if i work hard enough to the

00:38:49.600 point where i can look after multiple families both in terms of not just finances but my leadership

00:38:53.760 my emotional control my ability to be a true patriarch to be that village elder and look after

00:39:00.840 your tribe then i believe that i should be in the context of religion in a halal manner

00:39:05.180 able to go and create that right now if a woman truly cares for you she'll be able to resist all 1.00

00:39:10.640 the western programming and say look that'll be difficult for me and i want certain reassurances

00:39:14.860 that i'll always be loved and always looked after but i can understand that as a man even though i

00:39:19.080 don't have that urge you have that urge and if you can fulfill it in a healthy halal way i can

00:39:23.360 respect that that to me is partnership any woman can say no no i want i want you to be the man

00:39:28.440 but just for me i want you to be tall and good looking and wealthy and and famous and able to

00:39:33.740 have any woman you want but turn that off and only be with me is that that's that's an unrealistic

00:39:38.600 ask of a high value man and i think the women who understand that they're the sort of people that

00:39:43.480 you can truly partner with over time because again a man has a need for variety and all these men

00:39:49.900 who are like no no i don't need multiple women they're still consuming pornography they're 1.00

00:39:53.920 getting their they're fulfilling their need for variety in a disgusting non-halal manner so 0.93

00:39:57.940 to me it's pretty clear what do you think about the criticisms from christians i see this a lot

00:40:01.760 of time i think that there's you're seeing a big rise in islam in the internet community

00:40:06.300 and people are starting to wake up and trying to reject wokeism and they're finding us they're

00:40:10.540 finding a safe place in islam what do you think about the christians for example that say that

00:40:15.600 men who resonate with islam they are they're victims to their sexual urges because islam 1.00

00:40:21.500 allows these types of relationships well let's say first of all look converting to islam and

00:40:26.680 having multiple wives are two very different things that's not the reason that you convert

00:40:29.960 to not at all and and also having multiple wives is exceptionally difficult you need to really have

00:40:34.580 it together as a man and put in that extra work that's got nothing to do with converting to islam

00:40:39.440 if you ask me the the amount of effort involved in leading multiple families again the finances

00:40:44.180 part is easy in terms of your leadership of family units can you imagine most people can't

00:40:49.080 even have a healthy relationship with one woman let alone multiple so i don't even view them as

00:40:53.120 as similar i chose islam and many men do because it it protects traditional values it brings 0.96

00:40:59.440 brotherhood it brings guidance it brings a clear way to view the human experience and live your

00:41:03.540 life in a clean way in a healthy way and you can feel it you can when you're living in a halal 0.99

00:41:08.060 manner you can feel your energies are picked up to a higher level because you've rejected all the

00:41:11.820 nonsense and your days are more optimized your interactions with your fellow muslims have a 0.93

00:41:17.040 shared understanding it's a very positive thing the multiple wives thing to me is i don't think

00:41:22.260 it's even a component of becoming muslim for the most muslim men because it's just so much work and

00:41:28.060 most men don't choose that most men either don't want to put in the extra work to do that or they

00:41:32.120 just they're not at that level and it's it's not an option they choose the comfort zone or they

00:41:35.880 you notice that with every single guy i think anybody any guy who's saying that that most of

00:41:40.500 men are victims of their sexual urges if you look at their computer if you look at their hard drive

00:41:44.100 you're going to find something you're always going to see that that that urge is manifested in some

00:41:47.820 way uh and you know you see some things um in christianity i don't want to bring it up now to

00:41:53.260 be disrespectful to them but you can see in the way that they exercise uh like for example priests

00:41:58.180 and nuns they can't have sex for their whole lives and everything like which is you know it's in my 0.97

00:42:02.200 opinion is completely unrealistic to expect of anybody it's the most natural at this why god 0.99

00:42:06.360 created us uh is to reproduce to expect that if anybody is is asinine i want to see did you grow

00:42:12.380 up christian i did but i wasn't practicing i had 13 or 12 13 years of catholic schooling yes and

00:42:17.820 and that really it made religion into a chore for me because it was pushed on us so much but i'd

00:42:23.520 just love to say one thing in terms of people viewing islam as as something that men go to

00:42:30.520 because it's sexual or i actually think it's quite the opposite as a young man today there is so much

00:42:35.960 temptation you have endless porn on your phone you have endless hookup culture with tinder

00:42:39.760 access to drugs alcohol it's just become socially acceptable whereas 20 30 years ago it wasn't right

00:42:46.660 hedonism is is more available and more okay for a young man today that's ever been islam to me is

00:42:52.560 the solution against that as a young man if you don't have the guidance and the clear no don't

00:42:58.420 do that that's haram do this instead that islam brings you how are you going to resist temptation 0.87

00:43:03.140 so to those trying to say that pursuing islam is somehow involves being a victim to your sexual

00:43:08.640 needs because you can have multiple women i'm sorry islam is the answer to offset the the 1.00

00:43:13.660 massive availability of hedonism that we see right and i don't think young men can realistically

00:43:17.940 resist hedonism without some sort of guidance and and positive restrictions that comes from islam 1.00

00:43:23.700 it's shoved down your throat so much as a man like every time i go on instagram i go to my

00:43:28.840 explore page it's just porn i don't look i do not look at pretty women on my instagram i have zero

00:43:34.000 interest my explore page is full of women and i'm like well i never i didn't tell the algorithm to

00:43:39.080 do that look at this i go to search to dm somebody and the explore page comes up first and all of it

00:43:44.480 is just it's just porn so it's all thirst trap nonsense it's thrown at you so much that you need 0.66

00:43:50.580 something and some criticism i see from atheists like oh you you need something to you can't control 0.85

00:43:54.840 your urges you can't bro it's it's we've never seen this much programming to this level so it's

00:44:01.280 extremely necessary and to atheists i'll say look maybe i could control my urges and and resist

00:44:06.780 hedonism and all these things all the temptations of life without religion i can do it better with

00:44:11.060 religion so why wouldn't i choose religion it's pretty simple yeah it comes from a sense of

00:44:16.100 arrogance like i'm better than religion and i could do it by myself i don't need to believe

00:44:20.040 in anything i if you if you if you as a human living one human lifespan think that you've got

00:44:24.860 a better way to live life better understanding of the human experience better better you know

00:44:29.200 paths to follow in terms of life guidance than something that's written hundreds of years ago

00:44:32.860 and it's practiced by two billion people that's pretty clear arrogance and a lack of self-awareness

00:44:36.660 if you ask me i don't have much time for atheists man do you know that the top five countries with

00:44:40.700 the least amount of crime are all in the middle east qatar is number one i don't remember what

00:44:44.760 the other two are but uae would be in there yeah uae it's three of the top five least amount of

00:44:49.120 crime and then you look at the suicide rates you see atheists i mean no disrespect but it's just 1.00

00:44:53.480 the truth i'll disrespect atheists i think they're idiots i think they're arrogant idiots who think 1.00

00:44:57.220 they know better than than texts that have very solid truth that we've seen and felt firsthand 1.00

00:45:03.080 that are respected by two billion people that are written hundreds of years ago and to this day are

00:45:08.000 still respected and followed by two billion people you think you know better than that all right good

00:45:12.900 for you enjoy your life how's it working out for you how many atheists can really say you know what

00:45:16.920 my faith if you will or lack of faith has made me a better person made me more fulfilled

00:45:21.100 brought me together with other people helped me set up fantastic family uh home life relationships

00:45:26.480 show me one atheist who can really say that their belief systems has given them an edge in life i

00:45:31.480 don't see it can you imagine what an atheist meetup would look like it's like a hajj for

00:45:36.360 atheists what what would that it just visualize any atheist watching what would that look like

00:45:40.380 full of atheists what what are the type of people that are going to show up there they're going to 0.97

00:45:44.980 immediately you're thinking like anime nerds extremely fat people pimply unhappy terrible 0.89

00:45:51.140 clothes like that's the group of it there's no group of atheists that are that look like people 0.90

00:45:55.180 that you want to be yeah whereas you know especially devout muslim men seeing how responsible 0.99

00:46:00.140 they are seeing how self-aware they are seeing how just a man you can rely on and respect and

00:46:05.480 know that he's going to be a good man because he feels accountable to a higher force he feels that

00:46:08.980 he'll be judged on on you know the final day that's the sort of man you want around some of

00:46:14.280 the men i respect most in this world are very devout muslim men and these guys are warriors

00:46:18.440 they're serious disciplined capable principled men show me a bunch of atheists that you can say

00:46:24.360 the same about it's not real no there's never been an army that was led by atheism by the belief

00:46:29.960 that it doesn't it's impossible it sounds so ridiculous but i'm curious i don't know if you

00:46:35.980 want to answer this i'm curious about what's the difference that you feel in islam uh based on

00:46:40.520 catholicism because yesterday uh we prayed and i even got got pressing to pray as well

00:46:45.020 oh fantastic hopefully he takes his shahada very soon inshallah there's a certain i asked him

00:46:50.260 afterwards because there's something that i felt and no disrespect to the christians like they get

00:46:53.780 very upset when you talk about this but there's a certain feeling i get when i pray especially when

00:46:57.180 i stepped into the module for the first time with you that like this was right for me and i felt a

00:47:02.200 connection to god that i never felt and it's something that you can't extremely you can't

00:47:06.040 really describe until you actually do it so i'd recommend a lot of people especially the people

00:47:10.360 that are debating about this not stop i recommend you try i recommend you try doing a prayer in

00:47:14.080 islam you don't need to take your shahada you don't need to accept the religion and believe it 0.94

00:47:16.940 but just step into a majid and follow the or try try living per islam for a week pray regularly 0.95

00:47:22.420 don't engage in any hedonism and avoid avoid alcohol avoid pornography avoid superficial sex

00:47:31.340 music yeah i mean i mean yeah especially music of a certain nature yeah definitely

00:47:35.740 and see see tell me you're not feeling better and being more productive as a human tell me that if

00:47:41.400 you if you live per the islamic way of living for a week you're not going to be a more effective 1.00

00:47:45.880 more fulfilled human being of course you are it's very clear um so within islam they talk about

00:47:50.680 and i'm probably going to butcher this but i'll try the idea that going to the masjid or praying

00:47:55.520 is like like washing yourself in an ocean uh no sorry in a river like purifying yourself cleansing

00:48:01.100 yourself energetically physically and then you come back out into the world and also they say

00:48:05.840 that prayer is a time where your heart can be at rest which i think is a really nice way of looking

00:48:10.080 at it in this world with all this distraction all you know everyone's half addicted to dopamine if

00:48:13.980 not fully addicted there's temptation everywhere when you go into the masjid you put aside all

00:48:18.720 the donya the world all the fitra all the problems of the human experience and you focus on reminding

00:48:24.060 yourself there is something bigger than me it's not just about my ego i am accountable to that

00:48:29.060 bigger something Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and I need to make sure I live on the straight path

00:48:33.840 sirat al-mastakim it's it's a very positive reinforcement of that which is right and that

00:48:39.920 which is going to keep you living in a healthy way that you do multiple times a day show me

00:48:44.520 downside to that show me a downside to that it's incredibly positive and again in a world where to

00:48:49.460 your point there's more distraction than ever there's more programming than ever a ritual like

00:48:53.320 salah like prayer is incredibly important to reset your perspective on life get your ego out of the

00:48:58.780 way and focus on what's real and keep yourself as the most optimized person yes you get good

00:49:03.200 feelings out of salah and i love it i feel absolutely borderline and sometimes actual

00:49:08.340 bliss during you know especially after prayer when i'm sitting there and you know praying for

00:49:11.800 my family and so on at the end of prayer but put aside the nice feelings on a practical level that

00:49:18.040 is making you in terms of your mental health more stable that's making you in terms of your life

00:49:23.160 perspective more grounded more grateful and it's putting aside your ego and the stress and the

00:49:28.400 constant churn that the modern world brings it's an incredibly positive thing i really do appreciate

00:49:32.280 five times a day every other atheists have to respect that christians have to respect that any

00:49:36.360 other religion you have to respect that five times and devoting that to prayer and to god and to

00:49:41.620 ignoring all distractions you have to admit that that will make you mentally stronger and discipline

00:49:46.640 it's discipline that discipline will give you a different edge in life i like the way that you

00:49:51.620 describe it in a very practical way i talk to a lot of scholars and everything it's a lot about

00:49:54.700 belief and faith but you see it from kind of like a business perspective like i want to live

00:49:58.900 i want to be the most optimized human i can be and again i understand there's a sacred element

00:50:03.460 to islam and you don't use a faith just to be a better man but that's a real benefit that comes

00:50:08.960 with it and and one of the reasons why i chose islam obviously um it was from years of study

00:50:14.180 and seeing that there's truth there and seeing that that that is the truth as far as i'm concerned

00:50:20.260 because it is and then the more you look into it the more you'll see that but also

00:50:24.220 a massive and and significant side benefit is you become a more effective human well who doesn't

00:50:29.800 want that who doesn't want to be more disciplined who doesn't want to be more driven who doesn't

00:50:33.780 want to be more able to resist temptation and all that waste of time nonsense time is the most

00:50:38.320 precious resource we have i will take any approach that helps me get the most out of my time and and

00:50:45.240 and i'll consider that and to me islam is the ultimate it really does make you a more effective

00:50:48.940 human i did three live streams yesterday and a vlog and we trained all that in a day like before

00:50:54.600 islam i would do maybe one thing a day and then that was it and then i would pick up a drink or

00:50:59.660 i would pick up a joint and i would just relax and i would reset that would be my reward systems

00:51:03.500 like i got something done i need to reward myself my reward system my brain was completely messed up

00:51:07.840 now i don't need to go and get high or you know go to the club afterwards or go on tinder and like

00:51:14.060 message a girl over to be like okay i worked now i need i get my dopamine reward i don't think that

00:51:18.600 way anymore i've restructured that whole mindset so now prayer has kept me focused where that the

00:51:24.900 work that you do and becoming better is the reward like i i feel good after winning winning is the

00:51:29.500 reward winning is a reward not you know getting cheap dopamine like okay i did work and now i can

00:51:33.240 go and be fine i actually i take more pleasure in everything i do and doing the right thing

00:51:37.980 and that's the best you're what you're on the other side of the world a couple days ago like

00:51:42.280 that energy over time is going to bring incredible rewards and incredible positive impact on

00:51:48.000 humanity you're now putting out your message three four times more in terms of output wise

00:51:52.180 than you were before the the ramifications of practicing islam in a in an earnest manner

00:51:58.400 are wide-reaching and they really are significant and props to you as a young guy who's got status

00:52:03.920 and you could you could do hedonism it's there it's available right you could chew through

00:52:08.600 endless amounts of women and all the other nonsense is there you've chosen consciously 1.00

00:52:12.940 to reject that and to focus on being the best man you can be and having the most positive impact on

00:52:17.560 humanity that you can be that's huge man that that's actual role model stuff you were what's

00:52:22.240 what i refer to as like a high risk high return guy you could have ran like you're a former model

00:52:27.460 right yeah you could have ran through women for decades and just focused on that nonsense and most 0.99

00:52:33.200 men would if they were tall and handsome and had status you've chosen to reject all of that and

00:52:38.060 think how can i become the best man i can be and you've chosen a very disciplined lifestyle that's

00:52:42.080 actual role modeling that that's that's why i've invited you here that's why we're gonna you know

00:52:46.520 we'll have a good week together we'll produce some good content i've just booked an incredible yacht

00:52:50.140 inshallah because you are now you as again you are high risk but now you've rejected that and

00:52:55.080 you've become high return as a man massive respect for that bro i don't see that much in today's

00:52:58.860 day and age i see men choosing dopamine choosing hedonism choosing clout and nonsense snaking

00:53:05.080 people they've worked with before just to get more clout and more clicks you're actually living in a

00:53:09.080 way that young men can look at and say you know what that's a disciplined guy who's living his

00:53:12.980 best life that's someone i want to be like i don't see many influences like people like aiden ross

00:53:17.120 how is he influencing people to be better you know he tried for a couple weeks i really but

00:53:21.720 it's hard though right yeah it's hard and this is what i mean most men in the position of status

00:53:25.840 and money will choose hedonism and debauchery and nonsense they'll waste their lives you've chosen 0.63

00:53:30.120 the straight path and i respect that greatly i think it's a very rare thing and that's real

00:53:33.500 role modeling to the to the men of today it's fantastic yeah i think the the case of aiden

00:53:38.360 ross for example he wanted to or he wants to be the best version of himself and everything he has

00:53:42.560 that desire everyone wants everyone wants i i want to be a multi-millionaire sitting in a big

00:53:47.460 villa or i've gone and created like anyone wants to do these things it means nothing i know a lot 0.96

00:53:51.760 of for example western women who want to be a ceo boss bitch they're not going to work for 12 hours 1.00

00:53:56.980 a day for 40 years to do it though are they everyone wants intention means nothing if you 0.99

00:54:00.620 don't bring action so with people like aiden i'm sorry pathetic you've you've had access to people 0.84

00:54:05.420 like tate you've had access to people like yourself and you still choose drugs and debauchery and

00:54:10.020 working for some gambling website pushing kids to gambling it's no i'm sorry it's it's it's

00:54:14.660 disgusting and he will be judged in his final day he will have to answer for the negative impact

00:54:19.460 he's having on humanity it's disgusting that's why i do like rumble quite a bit because it is 0.80

00:54:24.500 about free speech the website was created with the message of free speech and that's the philosophy

00:54:28.580 kick was created with the philosophy of gambling like that's who owns that website i do i do wish

00:54:34.100 the best for aiden and we did have a lot of like gym stream plan we were texting back and forth i'm

00:54:38.020 like let's go to the gym we can really motivate your audience because i saw he was doing the

00:54:40.820 gambling thing like there's so many people that watch it that'll go up to you and that emulate

00:54:43.540 you you see like there was a couple years where all these 12 year old kids were i don't want to 0.85

00:54:47.600 do the thing right now but they were like imitating doing blowjobs because like aiden like that was 0.85

00:54:51.920 his thing was like that was his thing yeah how can that be your thing the funny thing is he was 0.98

00:54:57.060 never canceled when he was being gay like nobody ever canceled him as soon as he started saying

00:55:00.460 like being positive and trying to for like a couple weeks then they started going after him

00:55:04.080 but yeah i mean a lot of it is just being like being retarded this thing yeah no genuinely man 0.90

00:55:09.300 i had no respect for the guy before i mean unbelievable what do you what's your predictions

00:55:14.640 with the guy like it because i think he reflects a lot of the social media addicted gen z he is 0.98

00:55:19.080 pretty that's why people resonate with him is because they like to look at him like ah dumb 0.95

00:55:22.660 retard he's like a reflection of your phone in human form what where do you think his what do 1.00

00:55:30.440 think his direction is look if you're going to have access to powerful motivators and and powerful

00:55:37.400 clear feedback from someone like tate and you're still going to choose drugs gambling hedonism

00:55:42.820 then i really couldn't care as far as i'm concerned he's a nothing person as far as i'm

00:55:47.380 concerned people like that don't exist they're not worth my time i don't consume their their

00:55:51.080 content if you can even call it that they just those sorts of people don't even exist in my

00:55:54.840 reality and I would encourage young men to do the same watch who you consume watch whose words you

00:56:00.740 allow into your brain because at the end of the day that's programming you as well you let someone

00:56:04.360 like Tate who talks about discipline self-accountability continue endless hard work to

00:56:08.760 improve your life getting angry and channeling that I was an angry young man I grew up rough

00:56:12.960 I didn't grow up like this right I was angry I channeled that I worked for decades to improve

00:56:18.380 my life these are the sorts of people you should consume content from and I think any young young

00:56:24.540 man out there who consistently consumes aiden's content is doing himself a disservice ignore

00:56:29.660 people like that they're not real let them live their unethical pointless lives so they've got 0.99

00:56:34.940 they've got clout they've got followers who cares their lives are shit their relationships are 1.00

00:56:38.860 rubbish they have no self-discipline they don't have any health and i'm sorry they're probably 0.99

00:56:43.720 going to end up with drug habits and gambling habits and these sorts of things if he hasn't 0.99

00:56:47.620 got them already he does oh really it's very popular all right there you go this that's the

00:56:51.860 end state why would you let someone like that influence you in any way don't don't consume

00:56:56.540 people like that's content they're not real as far as i'm concerned we've had some disagreements

00:57:01.820 in the in the past couple months because we come from different backgrounds i'm wondering what you

00:57:06.440 have realized about the social media space after stepping in so you come from private security

00:57:10.980 you come from you were you fought in the military for for which army australian australian army but

00:57:16.940 you were deployed in the Middle East?

00:57:18.620 Yeah, I built my career in Middle East and Africa over the last 15 years.

00:57:23.120 The majority of that's private sector.

00:57:24.700 I was a soldier, then I went into the intelligence world,

00:57:27.300 learned a few languages, a lot of time in the Middle East,

00:57:29.240 and then private sector, Middle East and Africa.

00:57:32.120 So what have you picked up on that you think you could give as advice

00:57:35.740 for the generation that I would say the most people that are watching this,

00:57:39.720 a lot of people watching this are similar to me or Aidan Ross

00:57:42.140 or social media people.

00:57:44.240 What have you noticed stepping into this world

00:57:45.740 after coming from a completely different it's like another planet it really is i i'm confused

00:57:51.400 why certain people are famous like i can't why why would someone like aiden be famous i it's hard

00:57:57.700 you've explained it but i still it's hard for me to understand um i i'm confused why certain people

00:58:04.360 are valued like there are certain celebrities who are just dancing clowns like like the paul

00:58:08.860 brothers i'm sorry look i understand that jake is a disciplined guy you know and tate respects him

00:58:14.780 somewhat but someone like logan is a dancing clown why is he famous i can't understand this

00:58:19.520 why as a young man looking to improve your life would you give your valuable time to watching a

00:58:25.260 dancing clown like aiden or logan because they're entertaining aren't there more entertaining people

00:58:30.800 out there for example like tate who also have a positive message who will also inspire you to be

00:58:34.640 a better person i just i don't understand why some of these people are famous man that's

00:58:38.020 but you know i'm 40 years old maybe i'm too old to understand but i see these people with these

00:58:43.700 big followings i'm like what value do you have as a man you can't be relied upon by your brother

00:58:47.840 you most certainly cannot be relied upon to resist temptation you know the the bros before

00:58:53.400 comment obviously they're going to choose the latter you know i mean they're just they're

00:58:57.640 nothing men i don't understand why they'd be famous uh what i'd say to people who are

00:59:01.520 overly sort of caught up in in the social media world fame comes and goes and and money can be

00:59:08.360 spent quick as well you know what matters in life is is value character as a man mental resilience

00:59:14.260 having the right men around you that because that is lasting so all these people who are looking up

00:59:19.020 to the social media types oh look how famous he is look how rich he is he's amazing that probably

00:59:23.100 isn't going to end well you know the aidans of the world are not on a positive life path 1.00

00:59:27.280 look at men who've created as i call it custom-made realities who have solid brothers

00:59:31.400 around them who have supporting loyal loving female partners throughout their lives who have

00:59:36.940 value have specialist skills who can be relied on under pressure they are men of value that's

00:59:41.660 who you should be seeking to emulate not some dancing clown on the internet it's pretty funny

00:59:47.200 i don't know if you saw that video but recently those two guys you were talking about they were

00:59:52.620 their fans were throwing all their drinks at them because you know i'm talking about logan

00:59:57.040 paul and ksi we have like a little bit of what besides the point like you would never see that

01:00:02.200 happened to to andrew tristan just their fans show up and just throw their products directly

01:00:07.520 at them it's a reflection of what they put out there yeah exactly they don't in any way improve

01:00:12.540 the lives of their fans you know people the dancing clown influencer types so their fans

01:00:16.900 might consume their their content but they kind of hate them a bit too it's all it's all a bit

01:00:21.820 strange whereas take fans passionately love them the amount of times i hate them too that's a funny

01:00:26.760 way to put it yeah the amount of times in in public countless times young men have ran up

01:00:31.460 and said tate you've changed my life hey tate i was just watching your video hey tate thanks to

01:00:35.340 hustlers university i've made enough money to buy my mama car it's endless the tate fans fans are so

01:00:40.600 passionate about supporting the tates because their lives have been improved can you say that

01:00:46.260 about the other influences of the world and i put you in that space too the way you are putting

01:00:49.880 forward such a message of discipline of being a man of of character of respect of ignoring hedonism

01:00:56.180 and choosing that straight path through life this is a man people can respect and so as a result your

01:01:01.060 fans will have a real respect base based admiration as opposed to oh that guy's famous i want a photo

01:01:07.780 with him for instagram yeah that would never happen where people just throw their drinks i do

01:01:11.180 meetups all over the world and even then i do have haters online and people go back and forth i've

01:01:16.080 never once in my entire life on on everything have ever seen a hater come up to me it's only

01:01:21.160 been positive things people like shaking my hand and i think that's a reflection of what i am trying

01:01:26.000 to do and trying to put out there which is a good thing i think but the next step though and i'm 24

01:01:30.600 about to turn 25 and another thing that i like about you that is not talked about in the right

01:01:35.000 space is fatherhood and it is how to how to become a good father uh i i've met your your children and

01:01:41.160 they have a respect for you that i think is i'm trying to like pick up tips and like right i'm

01:01:46.360 planning for the future and trying to see like what way with the right ways to discipline and

01:01:49.960 how to because i plan to make a lot of money too so i'm wondering like if my son's going to be

01:01:53.880 spoiled stuff like that what have you learned in in your years as a father well big big open-ended

01:02:00.280 question there that's a big question props to your interviewing skills brother so the first thing i'd

01:02:03.980 say as a man and you know haters are going to hate it's not your job to be a mom that's key i see so

01:02:09.440 many men including masculine men as soon as a kid comes they drop everything that they do in terms

01:02:13.600 of masculine activities and keeping themselves in the masculine frame and they become a mom now 0.98

01:02:17.380 you can be a very attentive father and you can still contribute and be caring without becoming

01:02:22.600 a second mom your job as a man is to role model it's to coach how can you teach your son the sort

01:02:28.380 of man that he should become and the sort of man that your daughter should look for in a husband 0.59

01:02:33.700 if you're letting go of your physicality for example dads today even young dads you know when

01:02:40.000 the kids because when the kids are little it's a lot of work especially if you're there and helping

01:02:43.240 keep yourself fit you must keep your relationships with your brothers maintain your masculine skill

01:02:47.960 sets whether it's shooting or driving or fighting live it you know go on adventures with your lads

01:02:52.520 still continue to be a man who's living on your terms while being an attentive dad that's the

01:02:56.640 first thing don't drop everything that makes you a man because oh there's a baby here and now i need

01:03:00.840 to be a second mom society wants you to do that resist the slave mind still be a good strong

01:03:06.580 masculine man be an attentive dad but stay living in the masculine frame that's key 0.97

01:03:10.060 secondly i think a lot of dads could do with being more attentive with their kids now i don't mean

01:03:17.020 you know changing diapers and sitting on netflix and watching i mean you'll see i'm not sure if

01:03:21.860 you've seen with my kids i'll interact with them very much in a respect base like kids got a lot

01:03:27.340 of energy they will do silly stuff they will break things they will fight i'll say to my kids look

01:03:31.680 i want to have days where we enjoy ourselves if you don't listen to your dad or if you fight or

01:03:37.180 if you you know disrespect the nice villa that we're in there are going to be consequences just

01:03:41.200 last night they continued fighting with each other i said out of the pool you know it's time to go to

01:03:45.400 bed no but no but no i'm sorry there are clear lines that if you cross them there will be

01:03:49.440 consequences not that dissimilar to the way you can set up a healthy marriage right it's if there

01:03:53.520 is leadership of of women and of children in the traditional dynamics again haters are going to hate

01:03:58.800 that's what's needed in today's day and age so have very clear frame with your kids and explain

01:04:03.600 to them why you've just crossed a certain line so there are going to be consequences you need to do

01:04:07.820 that all the time to have polite respectful children you need to have that frame control

01:04:12.340 all the time as a final thought i'd say you need to teach your kids that there are a lot of

01:04:17.940 influencers out there that want to program the way they think and the way they form beliefs that

01:04:22.320 is not in their best interest you can't be watching what your kids consume all the time

01:04:26.740 but you can teach your kids for example my son at a very early age going through netflix he said

01:04:31.320 not that they don't watch netflix anymore because the way it's gone dad there's a girl power section

01:04:35.800 on netflix but there's no boy power section why is that i said all right great question i'm not

01:04:40.160 going to put my beliefs on him i'm going to say you tell me what do you think he said well i see

01:04:43.760 in all the movies dad that the women are beating up the men and the girls are smart but the boys 0.99

01:04:47.620 are stupid it's almost like everyone's trying to push women up i said yeah i see that and why do 0.99

01:04:53.340 you think that's you know not not an ideal thing he says well dad they're pushing men down they're 1.00

01:04:57.380 pushing boys down said yeah do you agree with that no i don't and even at an early age he said

01:05:02.080 you can push women up without pushing men down you know if you if you have those informed full

01:05:07.580 attentive discussions about these things with your kids they can come to their own beliefs which is

01:05:11.720 a lot more powerful than you're trying to push them so my son now when he's sitting watching a

01:05:15.480 movie he'll say oh look dad there's some girl power coming i bet you this this girl's really 0.97

01:05:18.820 smart this boy's really stupid i bet you this girl saves this boy just the other day we watched 0.96

01:05:23.200 watched um one of these marvel movies and he was right he said hey look dad i bet you this girl 0.99

01:05:28.460 saves this boy and of course this superhero messed up and a you know a woman came to save him and my

01:05:33.120 son can pick the programming before he even sees it on the screen i've given him now a mental

01:05:37.560 shield if you will to resist a slave mind you must instill that in your kids otherwise they're

01:05:42.180 going to get programmed you cannot be around them all the time it's pretty funny how even as uh he's

01:05:46.880 probably like seven eight years old when he picked up on that it's really obvious stuff that we all

01:05:50.960 know but we let our guilt and we let different agendas restrict us from saying what we really

01:05:57.960 believe we can all see right through that and see what they're doing but we've been programmed so

01:06:01.920 he's more honest as a child because he hasn't believed in all the propaganda there's no there's

01:06:06.340 less of a filter so he can be honest it's not like it's that complicated to figure that stuff

01:06:09.740 out it's just the fact that he was able to approach that without somebody because if you

01:06:13.760 had said like no don't say that girls need to be uplifted he'd immediately like put up a that's

01:06:18.420 when the filters are established and then that's when you start to become and that's when they

01:06:21.560 start to live against truth like a young boy knows he's physically stronger than his sister

01:06:27.440 whereas in all these movies how many i would love some sort of metric where you count how many times

01:06:32.440 a woman beats up a bunch of men in films versus a man hitting a woman it'd be 10 000 to one it's

01:06:38.220 Every movie I watch nowadays, there's these superhero women beating up dozens of men. 1.00

01:06:42.460 I've never once seen a male superhero beat up a woman.

01:06:46.980 And our kids, they have pretty fresh, malleable minds.

01:06:51.920 If all they see is women beating up 10 men, they're going to start thinking, hang on.

01:06:56.860 But when I wrestle with my sister, I beat her up easily. 1.00

01:06:59.200 But on the screen, it messes with their truth perception.

01:07:02.420 And so I think you need to empower them to, hey, there are certain entities, certain forces out there

01:07:07.720 that want to program you in a certain way to believe things which you know are untrue that

01:07:12.040 are true be mindful as a young man and a young woman that you have the right to choose your own

01:07:16.940 belief systems don't listen to what the tv says don't necessarily blindly listen to even what

01:07:21.380 your teacher says or even what i say choose your own belief systems in life you're smart enough to

01:07:26.540 do it and you have the right to do it that's a very important lesson to impart into your children

01:07:30.240 what do you

01:07:33.300 i want to ask more about about fatherhood i mean i'm pretty passionate about i can talk for hours

01:07:41.140 man yeah i was on grilling this show with uh that that british girl and she we had this back and 0.95

01:07:48.020 forth and i kind of repeated some of your target points on the show she was saying like i want you

01:07:52.040 to be home changing the diaper seven days a week with me and i'm like well it could be like two

01:07:56.020 three days a week but it's not necessary for me to change the diaper like you need to change the

01:07:58.940 like no there's no point in me doing that i don't need to be the mom just like how

01:08:02.220 first of all your accent is spectacular well done sir i yeah she's it's not that hard to do

01:08:07.140 but what do you think is uh the ideal time that a father should be at home with the kids first of

01:08:13.780 all i think this is a talking point you should have with a potential future wife and you should

01:08:16.880 say look i believe in traditional values i know that if i'm around children my testosterone lowers

01:08:20.760 i know that i'm if i'm around a baby who's not sleeping i'm going to be impacted i'm not going

01:08:25.440 to be as capable at generating wealth and protecting our family unit i would like you to bear

01:08:31.080 the brunt of the effort in terms of mothering and i'll bear all the effort in terms of making money 1.00

01:08:36.320 and and providing for this this house where i can i will give input into you know child duties but

01:08:43.320 do we agree that that's predominantly your role if a woman says no then don't have kids with her 0.99

01:08:48.700 that's what i mean the practical stuff at the start of a relationship define who does what

01:08:53.080 and get full agreement because there are women out there who love the idea of yep you go deal 1.00

01:08:56.700 with all the nonsense outside i'm going to raise kids in a home not worrying about money not

01:09:00.400 worrying about food you're going to provide all of that there are women who want that find a woman 1.00

01:09:04.440 who wants that if that's what you want if you want that 50 50 where the man does 50 of everything

01:09:09.580 woman does 50 of everything which let's be honest is a little bit skewed all these women like what 1.00

01:09:14.460 was the name cheyenne yeah who were saying no no no i want you to be around and change your diapers 0.57

01:09:18.580 to do 50% she's not going to bring 50% of the money absolutely she's going to stop her job 1.00

01:09:23.440 so you're going to have to do 50% of her stuff and 100% of your stuff it's not real it's a fantasy

01:09:28.100 it's a modern day myth that in many cultures today is viewed as ridiculous why would you sign

01:09:33.520 up to that nonsense that that modern degenerate programming which leads to divorce rates and 0.99

01:09:38.420 broken households anyway you need to make sure that as a man you've found a woman who wants the 0.98

01:09:42.880 same thing as you and if she is a grounded traditional values feminine healthy woman 0.99

01:09:47.840 she won't want you to do all that stuff anyway because she'll understand no no that's my job

01:09:51.240 you've got your job to do i've got my job to do together we work as a team like a team doesn't

01:09:55.980 try to do everything that the other person is doing 50 50 that's not real that's modern day

01:09:59.440 invention nonsense that throughout human history hasn't worked and won't work ever so it's a

01:10:04.900 modern day societal experiment this whole 50 50 stuff yes women and men have equal rights we don't 0.95

01:10:10.040 do we're not the same we don't do the same thing anyone who believes that is on a path in life

01:10:14.520 where she will be unfulfilled and this Cheyenne individual as I understand it she's it she's

01:10:18.960 she's not having much luck in relationships she's not very fulfilled in relationships so again the

01:10:24.040 question is how are your belief systems working out for you if you want a high value man who's

01:10:28.180 tall and good looking and rich and can get any woman he wants but he's only forever going to be

01:10:32.820 with you and you want him to be masculine and capable and high testosterone but when a kid

01:10:37.080 comes around you want him to drop all of that and become a second mom these things aren't real they

01:10:40.500 don't work so again how are your belief systems working out for you Miss Cheyenne they're not

01:10:44.100 so don't engage with a woman like that because she's on a path where she's been programmed 1.00

01:10:47.760 in such a way that's not in her best interests and she's not going to end up in a happy relationship

01:10:51.860 there is no scenario where she finds a man she can respect and submit to who then is that man

01:10:58.520 and is high testosterone and successful but also is a mom and then follows her desires and is the 1.00

01:11:03.680 man who is able to go out in the world and create an incredible reality but will submit to her

01:11:07.980 dominant you know instructions it's not real it's never gonna exist it doesn't work so so that sort

01:11:12.360 person is a broken person i didn't want to be that root to her i mean there was times where i

01:11:17.200 was taking that i'm like well this is it's never gonna work it's not real and her life is proof

01:11:22.280 how is it working out for her how are her beliefs i bet you she's the sort of woman i haven't

01:11:26.120 consumed her content but i i watched tate on with her and a little bit of you with her i bet you

01:11:31.660 she's a woman who's saying where have all the good men gone yeah i wish men to grow up yeah i wish

01:11:35.700 well guess what your expectations of what a man should be is self-serving and not real you do not

01:11:41.860 find a high testosterone warrior of a man who's wealthy and can take care of you but then will

01:11:46.420 submit to what you tell him to do it's not real i want this high testosterone guy who can deal with

01:11:51.420 all the issues of the world but then i want him to be a mom and change diapers because i told him to 0.98

01:11:54.840 it's not real again her life path is going to show that her belief systems don't work she just

01:11:59.480 hasn't figured that out and she when she does figure that out it'll be too late to secure a 0.96

01:12:03.300 high value man it's unfortunate but a woman like that is too stubborn to see the truth until it's 1.00

01:12:07.200 too late i think everybody watching it knows too i don't really think that she understands that

01:12:11.540 people watch the show to see her get destroyed in arguments they they see that she doesn't really 0.99

01:12:16.120 make a lot of sense and the appeal of the show is let me prove you wrong i don't think she she

01:12:20.600 really understands that she's getting punked and her own viewers are laughing at her not with her

01:12:24.640 and she doesn't realize that and unfortunately i feel sorry for her she's gonna realize when it's

01:12:28.180 too late she's already like 30 something oh well then if we're gonna be rude it's already way too

01:12:33.420 late well she's a nice lady i don't want to be rude to her but she is a perfect example of like 1.00

01:12:37.620 a western feminist that you should only engage with for entertainment and content purposes because 1.00

01:12:41.060 there's no point you're ever going to have a relation there's no way you're going to have a

01:12:43.600 happy relationship with her and the way that works is when she's getting towards the window where you

01:12:47.140 know she knows she has hardly any value left because in your 30s a woman realizes oh i was

01:12:52.160 more attractive i got more interest from men when i was in my 20s it's just something they realize

01:12:56.060 so she'll get to the point where she feels her value is running out and she'll go and find a man 0.99

01:12:59.780 who she doesn't respect and she'll have an unfulfilling relationship and it'll be that typical

01:13:04.420 beta dynamic where she's always criticizing him and he's resentful at her and he's using pornography 0.61

01:13:09.920 in the bathroom at 9 p.m or cheating with you know skanks out in the street or on business trips

01:13:14.160 or prostitutes or whatever that that is a very unfulfilling basis for a relationship unfortunately

01:13:19.320 that's the path she's on and history will show that that that's what happens when you have those

01:13:23.580 sorts of beliefs what do you think is the ideal amount of time to spend with your kids like one

01:13:29.440 thing that came up in discussion too is having they seem happy they're awesome they're fulfilled

01:13:35.660 they're grounded they're respectful they really are they're learning and i have happy healthy

01:13:40.940 children hamdulillah a gift from god healthy happy grounded respectful children are the biggest gift

01:13:48.280 you could ask for because so many things can go wrong in that process sorry the amount of time

01:13:51.760 around kids it's a tricky one man i believe it's hard work man when kids are little when that you

01:13:57.720 know when they're born up until two years three years it's a lot of work it's labor ideally you're

01:14:03.820 in a position where it takes a village to raise a child is true. You can have a mother or a

01:14:09.000 grandmother or an auntie who can help with that stuff. I do not think as a man you should be

01:14:12.880 around that, but I acknowledge that it's a lot of work. I think you should look to provide

01:14:17.780 guidance, assistance, manual labor, help. I don't think a woman by herself can handle that load. It's 1.00

01:14:24.640 a lot of load. People don't realize, man, being around kids when they're little is work. And also

01:14:28.920 the other thing, don't expect your wife to be sexual for the first couple of years of kids 1.00

01:14:33.040 being around you think about it physically you have a screaming toddler that you need to put on

01:14:37.220 your body to feed you know a screaming baby every few hours that doesn't sleep much that you need

01:14:43.660 to carry around how are you also going to be sexual how are you going to want to be touched 0.97

01:14:48.400 if you have a little human on you that is constantly climbing on you vomiting on you 0.90

01:14:52.440 feeding off you you're gonna be anything but the last thing you want at the end of the day is 1.00

01:14:55.880 another human suck in your body a man coming in trying to be hey baby let's be sexy it's not real 0.99

01:14:59.840 I do not believe a woman especially in the early ages can be a mother and a lover at the same time 1.00

01:15:03.320 I think that's an unfair expectation that again society is put on women you should be a mother

01:15:07.840 and be an attentive caring mother you should be a lover as well you know who fulfills your man's 0.99

01:15:12.780 sexual needs and that's all he needs you should also have a career and manage a job what a 0.84

01:15:18.560 ridiculous set of expectations that we're putting on women it's just not realistic and you'll see 0.99

01:15:22.400 I don't know many women who can hand on heart say yes I am a good mother and a good lover and a good 0.63

01:15:27.920 career woman it's an unfair expectation we're putting on women i think it's i think it's 1.00

01:15:31.500 terrible and that's why you see so many western women who are mothers who are unhappy and all 1.00

01:15:35.760 they do is complain on social media and whinge at their man and you know be resentful towards

01:15:40.260 their kids we're putting them in a situation that's just not realistic so ideally as a man 1.00

01:15:44.240 you can facilitate support whether it's you know again a grandmother an auntie living with you in

01:15:50.060 a big home whether it's getting a nurse having or a maid having help not not for the mothering but

01:15:56.240 for all the cleaning all the peripheral stuff i think you need to support your woman in in those

01:16:01.020 early mothering years but ideally it's not you doing it because you're busy out there conquering

01:16:05.220 running businesses maintaining you know physical fitness so you can work hard having brothers who

01:16:10.120 you're running businesses and winning with in life i think your time is best spent elsewhere

01:16:13.800 but you owe it to your woman to your wife who you love to provide her support in the form of other

01:16:18.860 women because it does it does take a village to raise a child it's not a one person or even a 0.99

01:16:22.860 two-person thing the nuclear family is not the optimal model with which to raise children 0.77

01:16:27.120 especially when they're young so ideally you provide that support check in obviously you

01:16:31.420 still have a role to play in terms of helping your woman to stay emotionally stable you should

01:16:35.800 be listening to her you should be supporting her you should be reassuring her but i don't think a

01:16:39.880 woman who is a mother should expect be expected to be a lover at the early ages i don't think a 0.96

01:16:45.960 place like a house with young children is anywhere for a man to be i don't think you should live in 1.00

01:16:50.960 that space i think that's that's a female frame and if you want to be that man who's conquering

01:16:55.060 business who's really providing in the masculine frame to the best of his ability being in a house

01:17:00.280 with young children is going to detract from your ability to do so i was living with my kids when

01:17:04.120 they were in those early ages man you don't sleep much it's a lot of work you don't train much you

01:17:08.660 don't typically get much did you get out of shape oh 100 you'll see your dad bod yeah which you don't

01:17:13.180 have now you're i mean look i i put in the i have a very strict daily routine that i follow to keep

01:17:17.640 myself you know healthy and mobile out of necessity i have various spinal injuries i need to keep

01:17:22.180 mobile but yeah during those years it's very hard to live in the masculine frame and be

01:17:26.680 be living in that that feminine you know mothering frame as well so to answer the question clearly

01:17:32.740 i think as a man you should have your life together such that you can give all the support

01:17:36.800 that's needed you can come in and give support when it's needed but then get out as a man you're

01:17:40.900 not going to get a proper night's sleep in a house that has babies in it you're just not going to

01:17:44.740 And a hormonal wife. 1.00

01:17:46.180 You're not going to.

01:17:46.800 So again, you should come in, support,

01:17:48.540 make sure that all the support network's there.

01:17:50.600 But ideally, in an optimal life sort of setup,

01:17:53.800 you're not living in a house that has young babies in it.

01:17:56.280 That'll ruin your ability to be a high output man.

01:17:59.120 So what's the solution?

01:18:00.100 Do you live in an apartment with some of your business partners?

01:18:02.740 Ideally, yes.

01:18:03.820 Or at least you have that option.

01:18:05.880 Maybe spend half the week in the house with the babies,

01:18:08.560 half the week in the house with the lads focusing on business.

01:18:11.140 Because again, if you're a man who's built multiple businesses,

01:18:13.480 has a lot of people relying on him,

01:18:14.740 you're doing every one of your people a disservice including you're doing your wife a disservice

01:18:19.320 by coming being a second wife because a lot of things in your business life are going to be

01:18:22.980 impacted which then impacts your ability to provide in the masculine ways a man should provide 0.99

01:18:27.140 as per traditional values and that's what's the that's the argument is that if you compromise

01:18:33.220 what made you attractive to your wife in the first place then she's going to end up resenting you 1.00

01:18:37.040 so you're doing it for both people it's not being in the house 24 7 obviously i don't have

01:18:42.500 experience with this but if if i if you're around diapers and crying babies and hormonal wives and 0.57

01:18:48.020 all that place for a masculine man you're gonna become more feminine you're gonna become out of 0.86

01:18:52.760 shape more resentful but also out of necessity if you're a high testosterone man and their baby's

01:18:56.800 screaming it's gonna mess you up you need to because i remember for for a while i was doing

01:19:01.660 the um a single parent thing where i didn't have a may didn't have any hope i had to calm myself

01:19:06.640 down before my kids came in because kids are constant noise constant push if you're a high

01:19:11.380 testosterone man you're going to lose it you actually need to sort of slow yourself down and

01:19:14.860 become a bit more feminine to be around young kids out of necessity because the frequency they're at 0.99

01:19:19.960 doesn't gel with a masculine man it doesn't work you need to become more calm more feminine more

01:19:26.100 okay i'm okay with this constant noise and having to say things 50 times it's real work like the

01:19:31.460 effort that a woman puts into raising a kid it's challenging man you have to say the same thing 50 0.84

01:19:36.040 times in a given day you just you know like it's it's you need real tolerance real patience real

01:19:40.940 calm to get through parenting that masculine man who's dominant who's crushing life who's

01:19:46.620 hitting the gym who's winning in terms of business who's providing the best way he can

01:19:49.900 the two don't gel energetically the idea that you're going to have the kid's energy

01:19:53.980 and the needed mum energy and the needed masculine man who's winning in his business life and staying

01:19:59.320 fit and providing in terms of finance and everything that energy in the same house

01:20:02.920 bruv it's not real the nuclear family model is a modern day invention that isn't real genuinely

01:20:09.240 it takes a village to raise children try and emulate the old school ways of raising kids 0.99

01:20:13.080 because this modern approach just doesn't work and you see the divorce rates those countries

01:20:17.120 that push the nuclear family as the optimal model for a woman to be fulfilled a man to be fulfilled 0.99

01:20:21.720 for kids to be raised in a healthy manner they have incredibly high divorce rates those countries

01:20:25.860 where you see and i'm not saying there's causation but there's definitely correlation

01:20:29.100 you see you have multiple families together you have multiple mums and multiple grandmas

01:20:34.520 multiple aunties helping with the load that is raising a child you'll see them have much stronger 0.99

01:20:40.340 lasting marriages because they don't think that the man should be doing all that sort of woman 1.00

01:20:44.480 stuff it's pretty simple but in the west we've completely put forward our own model which is

01:20:48.900 economically driven think about it if you have one house that has three four families in it

01:20:52.700 that's going to be less economically beneficial than if every single couple needs their own house 1.00

01:20:57.940 and their own their own rooms and their own infrastructure their own cars it's all economics

01:21:01.940 man the nuclear family is based on how can we make these economic worker bees more profitable 0.99

01:21:08.240 essentially taxing the husband and the wife it's all it's all profit based so you need to reject

01:21:13.140 all of that and live if you want to be a man who lives by traditional values you need to look into

01:21:17.520 those cultures that are still adhering to the traditional ways of doing things you need to

01:21:21.760 reject the western approach to setting up families into parenting completely because it doesn't work

01:21:26.160 the nuclear family the western model does not produce fulfilling relationships between a husband

01:21:30.960 and wife does not produce disciplined respectful kids who are getting a lot of input from mentoring

01:21:35.900 from the grandfather mentoring from the older brothers mentoring from the cousins the old

01:21:39.400 school way of doing things is a lot more natural a lot more healthy the modern nuclear family

01:21:43.880 i think the thesis has been proven does not work

01:21:47.240 so

01:21:50.200 where's the what's the best model what country has the best reflection of uh i think bro i think it's

01:21:58.820 the islamic countries i really do i think it's always it's always it comes back to i mean because

01:22:03.160 islam is the only frame with which or guidance that that really protects traditional values

01:22:11.100 that really speaks up for and says no a man shouldn't be doing what a woman does and a 1.00

01:22:15.960 woman shouldn't be doing what a man does and that's okay what other religion says that and 1.00

01:22:20.580 sticks to that with with enough clarity and conviction for the traditional ways of life to

01:22:26.240 be maintained i really do believe that a good islamic style community is the best way or is

01:22:33.040 islamic based community is the best way to raise children because you have a village raising a 0.88

01:22:37.580 child you have men are doing this women are doing this and everyone's okay with that now whether 0.95

01:22:42.520 whether whether we're um overly criticizing the west i mean time will tell but as far as i can

01:22:49.120 see western societies are becoming increasingly polarized you know divorce rates are increasing

01:22:53.840 uh the the use of antidepressants is increasing rocketing there's all the metrics show that the

01:22:59.360 west is failing yeah it's pretty obvious stuff what do you think is the most important role

01:23:04.200 as a father because the the feminist model is obviously as we established is being in the house 0.74

01:23:09.880 as much as a woman and everything is the most important role as a father being the correct

01:23:14.680 role model that you could say a couple things like have a couple small conversations i noticed

01:23:19.700 the way you're interacting with your son and daughter a couple sentences can be extremely

01:23:24.460 impactful and program them the right way whereas talking to them all the time and saying oh you

01:23:28.900 need to go wipe your face or like clean your book or stuff like that a lot of that can be done by

01:23:32.720 the mother but a couple correct sentences and a couple framing of the way they see the world

01:23:38.380 seems to be the most impactful.

01:23:39.800 Do you agree?

01:23:40.400 You know, it's super interesting.

01:23:41.320 I'm going to answer that question with a story.

01:23:42.720 I fully agree.

01:23:43.740 When my boy was about eight,

01:23:45.740 now when he came to Dubai,

01:23:46.980 because he lives elsewhere,

01:23:47.960 I have him for one week every two months,

01:23:49.940 which I think is pretty good at this age.

01:23:52.000 He'd cry every time I was putting him to bed.

01:23:54.500 I'd say, what's wrong?

01:23:55.200 I'd listen to him.

01:23:55.760 I'd be there for him.

01:23:56.980 One of the things he said was,

01:23:58.560 Dad, I wish I'd listened to you more

01:24:00.820 when I live with you.

01:24:02.420 I didn't realize how valuable our time was together.

01:24:05.580 Now that I don't see you much,

01:24:07.060 i see how important your words are these are words coming from an eight-year-old at that early age

01:24:12.280 he was acknowledging that if dad's around all the time he's not as impactful right the and now that

01:24:18.100 he only sees his dad occasionally he really takes on what i say and he views it as more important

01:24:23.220 because dad's out in the world dad's doing impressive things dad is the man i'm going to

01:24:27.360 listen to the man if dad's around me all the time and he's making the lunch boxes and he's

01:24:31.380 driving me to school you don't appreciate he's not really the man so it's it's your role again

01:24:36.300 if we go back to you know the olden days where men were out there whether it's working in the

01:24:40.560 field or hunting or going out to combat then coming back wow that that's a masculine man

01:24:45.520 doing impressive things i'm going to listen to what he says now i'm going to be guided and cared

01:24:49.560 for and and by by the mother and the women of the house or the village but when dad comes back

01:24:55.700 here's what i want to be he's living in that masculine frame he is that capable warrior who's

01:25:00.520 doing cool things and doing it has impressive stories i'm going to listen to what he says i'm

01:25:04.280 to shape my beliefs in my mind based on how impressive he is if you were around all the

01:25:09.420 time and you're being the mom you you lose that element so do you think he views you as a superhero

01:25:13.420 100 the stories he has he hears he's always asking for more he's always asking what we call

01:25:19.040 intelligent questions i always ask him when we have our zoom calls because i'll talk to them

01:25:22.280 every few days they have the papa ipad that they can write something even we were to buy in the

01:25:25.840 yacht we're on the little floaty boat you're on face on 100 oh that's a good point i was at a on

01:25:29.780 a yacht running an event with you know 50 guys yourself there my my son called i will leave all

01:25:35.420 of that all right papa papa is available i'm still available in the ocean you could have dropped your

01:25:39.420 phone exactly exactly i was zoom calling my kids on some inflatable thing in the back of a yacht

01:25:43.020 because anytime my kids call unless you know some work emergency i'll put all of that aside and i'll

01:25:48.020 be available it's very important as well for my daughter my daughter needs to know the masculine 0.53

01:25:52.320 me is available gives her care gives her attention is emotionally present loves her so that then she

01:25:57.840 goes and manifests that sort of man if i'm if i'm if if dad's never around because dad's busy

01:26:02.800 she's going to feel that she's not worthy on a deep level of that that masculine focus and

01:26:07.160 attention she's going to go and find a man who doesn't give it to her she's going to the the 1.00

01:26:12.480 beliefs she forms in terms of how available and caring and engaged her father is will inform

01:26:17.640 what she views to be normal in terms of her relationship with the masculine will unconsciously

01:26:23.040 manifests in the type of husband she chooses it's very important anytime my my daughter messages me

01:26:28.540 even if it's three in the morning i'll wake up and i'll have an exchange with her so i'm still

01:26:32.280 a very caring father i'm still very attentive i'm still very present but i'm not around all the time

01:26:36.280 because dad has to do man stuff and they get that so i am emotionally very engaged very caring very

01:26:41.480 committed very present but i'm not a mom because i'm doing dad stuff so it's a tricky balance uh

01:26:46.940 and i think i think the the key is whenever they are looking for guidance or looking for reassurance

01:26:52.420 from dad dad is there but dad's still out in the world doing dad stuff i think that's the balance

01:26:56.680 you have to find does that answer the question so being a role model for your children is more

01:27:01.620 important than the the day-to-day small activities that that's the most crucial role again if the

01:27:07.980 god if the goal is to to to role model and to show your son the sort of man he should seek to become

01:27:14.820 that that patriarch who takes care of all of his people takes care of his his his life partners his

01:27:21.120 women takes care of his children takes care of his employees takes care of you know his brothers 0.98

01:27:26.540 the people in his circle then you need to role model that and not just be a mom how many men do 0.84

01:27:31.780 you know as soon as kids come along they don't really have time for you know building new

01:27:36.040 businesses they don't have time for their fitness they don't have time for skills maintenance they

01:27:39.080 don't have time for their brothers they don't have time for any of that they just drop their life to

01:27:42.860 to be there all the time with the kid are you really showing your son the sort of man that

01:27:48.120 you want him to become no are you really role modeling to give up happiness exactly are you

01:27:52.200 role modeling a leader who's living life on his terms don't get me wrong i'm still a very loving

01:27:55.980 dad i'm incredibly attentive i'm incredibly aware i have very deep discussions with my kids all the

01:28:01.660 time i ain't gonna be a mom i got dad stuff to do i got i got real stuff i got grown up masculine

01:28:06.560 things to do not sit around with you all the time so this idea that dad should be present all the

01:28:10.880 time and should just be the mom is nonsense you do need to role model while still being very 0.99

01:28:15.580 attentive and very available for your kids and it is possible thanks to technology and zoom and

01:28:19.600 these things it's possible to do that anytime my kids want to chat to me even though they're living

01:28:23.820 in another country i'm there i'm available and they understand dad is doing dad stuff dad is a

01:28:28.940 man who has businesses to run who has adventures to go on my kids understand that dad has to go

01:28:33.680 out in the world and do do masculine things not sit around the house all the time and they're okay

01:28:36.840 with that one thing i've seen a lot in this space is people saying that they just want to have sons

01:28:41.580 all the time they just want to have sons on sons and people just see fatherhood as a way that they

01:28:46.920 can create another version of themselves and have and have sons but having a daughter is equally as

01:28:52.080 important and i'd love to speak to that i want to see the way because i think everybody in this

01:28:57.580 space to think about how they want to raise their son of course make them fight stuff like that make 0.92

01:29:00.840 sure they create business they are independent strong but when it comes to raising a daughter

01:29:04.360 i've been thinking about this a lot and how important it is to have a strong masculine

01:29:09.100 bloodline in her life so that she has an example about the husband that she's going to be with 0.98

01:29:14.520 about who could take care of her but also so her mind is right you see a lot of girls that did not 1.00

01:29:18.860 have a strong father figure they end up developing masculine qualities they end up um becoming

01:29:23.160 overly promiscuous they don't or the daddy issues they're craving that attention for the masculine 0.98

01:29:27.220 they never got from their dad or they turn to feminism because they have resentment for men 1.00

01:29:30.600 it reprograms them to to have something missing and so especially in the red pool we talk a lot

01:29:36.080 about like all right people said that there's no such thing as a high value woman which absolute 1.00

01:29:42.120 nonsense bro absolute nonsense i'd love to talk to that yeah i would like to get your opinion okay

01:29:46.220 so first of all my daughter said at an early age she's about five she said dad you're not allowed 0.72

01:29:50.200 to die until you found me a good husband and i said all right darling there's some there's some

01:29:54.980 kids truth fantastic i will help you find a good husband and she said thank you dad i said afterwards

01:29:59.800 should i die and she goes the way kids are programmed with those traditions but now she's 1.00

01:30:07.360 like of course i don't want you to die dad i love you but as a as a you know the young person truth

01:30:11.600 coming out my duty is to find her a good husband and then my job is done which i think is kind of

01:30:16.560 cute and kind of ties into the traditional values i will give her away at some point it'll be a very

01:30:20.640 emotional moment for me but i will give my daughter away to a man and it'll be his job to look after 0.90

01:30:24.860 her and guess what throughout human history that's been the norm and in many cultures today that's 0.98

01:30:28.780 the norm i'm okay with that at some point the responsibility for looking after my daughter will

01:30:33.500 become another man's duty you better believe i'm going to make an informed choice there 0.97

01:30:37.180 and she understands that which i think is beautiful so again that's the islamic way to do 0.96

01:30:41.220 it indeed indeed what girls i need supposed to date yeah the dad chooses a guy who's worthy and

01:30:46.440 then exactly so the idea that guys just want sons look there's a lot of people in the red

01:30:51.680 spills red pill space some of them who are you know men i respect as well they want to have kids

01:30:56.340 because of ego because of legacy i want i want you know a bunch of kids to you know continue the

01:31:00.600 name fair enough i get that i choose to have kids because i want to not so much you know it's not

01:31:07.460 it's not for extending my name or legacy i want to raise healthy productive fulfilled humans who

01:31:13.280 can go out and live a good life and have a positive impact on society so i'm driven for

01:31:17.440 different reasons i don't want to have 10 kids from 10 women i know how much work is involved 0.99

01:31:22.560 with having two you know that's a lot i'm not not pushed to have a bunch more children i think

01:31:27.200 anyone who wants to go and have you know 10 sons try one first so you understand the effort involved

01:31:32.200 i'm serious all these these experts who haven't actually had kids before who were talking about

01:31:36.040 how many kids are going to have um i i've seen one guy said it's um he said it recently i'm gonna

01:31:41.480 have 10 kids with 10 different women and he hasn't had any kids there's real effort involved you know

01:31:46.400 try one first it's a lot of effort um i i like the way that tates are showing which they haven't

01:31:51.980 shown before how caring they are they're very attentive with their kids that you know their

01:31:55.940 baby mamas want for nothing they provide they protect in a masculine way i think that's the 1.00

01:32:00.160 way to do it but man it's a lot of effort the idea of just having sons and not having daughters

01:32:04.360 look i understand that a son is highly likely to make a bunch more money and you know be less of a

01:32:10.600 sort of an effort than a daughter you know effort daughter daughters you need to protect you need 0.99

01:32:15.520 take care of them but man the love from a daughter is a beautiful thing with my son i'm there to

01:32:21.060 push him and to make him a capable man which involves instilling some hard lessons instilling

01:32:25.440 resilience my daughter it's pure care it's it's pure love it's i'm looking after her i'm protecting

01:32:31.560 her it's a lot more of a gentle love so i i'd say ideally every man should seek to to experience

01:32:38.340 and to contribute both that of raising a son and raising a daughter it's a very different flavor

01:32:42.520 of parenting it's a very different type of love uh i think anyone who doesn't want a daughter is

01:32:46.800 is missing out on a truly beautiful experience it's a very sacred love between a father and a

01:32:50.960 daughter it's a very gentle thing so yeah anyone who says i just want sons they haven't experienced

01:32:55.060 what it is to have a daughter because it's a beautiful thing um does that answer your question

01:32:58.800 completely yeah and and the way a bunch of people think there's no such thing as a high value woman 1.00

01:33:02.740 i'm sorry you haven't you haven't met them or built them so to speak a good a good wife who 1.00

01:33:08.360 has been first of all signed up yes i want you to be the leader yes i believe in traditional values

01:33:12.520 yes i want you to help coach and sculpt me to be the best woman i can be these women do exist 0.99

01:33:17.920 these kept women who are mentally stable and fulfilled who are feminine and comfortable

01:33:24.820 being feminine and have that feminine energy shining through who are physically absolute

01:33:29.160 absolutely optimal they train hard they eat right all these different things who work hard to

01:33:33.540 support them the man in his businesses whether it's parenting his kids these women do exist 1.00

01:33:38.560 just because they're not put out on the internet trust me they do exist there is such thing as a

01:33:41.980 high value woman i put it to those who are listening she a woman who's most fulfilled

01:33:47.560 will have found a high value man submitted to him and allowed him to build her up in every area of 0.95

01:33:52.760 her life allowed him to regulate her emotions to take care of in such a fashion that she can relax

01:33:57.880 into the feminine she doesn't have to worry about paying bills or stress from working for some you 1.00

01:34:02.500 know job that's you know tearing up her inside she can she can work for the man and who she loves 1.00

01:34:08.540 and support him these sorts of women exist these kept women and they are deeply fulfilled and you

01:34:12.820 can see they shine with a fulfilled feminine energy that that shows they are high value and

01:34:17.480 supportive and caring and loving and and content in life they 100 exist they're not the norm in

01:34:22.220 the west there aren't many fulfilled high value women in the west but i promise you they exist 0.97

01:34:26.720 and you've seen them how much do you think that they're defined by their masculine bloodline

01:34:30.920 i think i i think for a woman to be completely fulfilled she needs to find a high value man 1.00

01:34:36.120 who adheres to traditional values

01:34:37.560 and can support her

01:34:38.920 in doing all the masculine things in her life

01:34:40.580 so she can relax into being

01:34:42.200 in the feminine frame.

01:34:44.640 And I see a woman,

01:34:46.220 a man's key fulfillment

01:34:48.060 sort of criteria in life is mission,

01:34:51.340 is conquest, is achieving.

01:34:53.880 A woman, if we're talking about fulfillment 1.00

01:34:55.680 from what I've seen through my human experience,

01:34:57.280 who's going to be most fulfilled

01:34:58.660 and content in life,

01:34:59.820 is through relationships.

01:35:01.380 Finding a man she respects

01:35:02.680 and submitting to him.

01:35:04.080 Yes, she'll still have work. 0.99

01:35:05.080 she'll still have hobbies she'll still have interests but her key indicator the key success 0.96

01:35:10.860 factor in her being truly fulfilled is submitting to a high value man who takes care of her in every

01:35:15.580 way she could imagine that's where i see women being most fulfilled both in terms of my reality 1.00

01:35:20.180 and in other realities that i've seen with high value men taking care of and helping build and

01:35:25.080 coach and lead high value women and both of them win together as a team the idea of that traditional

01:35:31.060 man who's somehow being oppressive no he is leading a woman and she loves it and she is

01:35:35.420 fulfilled by it and she doesn't have to worry about that you know the dominant submissive 1.00

01:35:38.820 dynamic she can relax into femininity and enjoy being a woman in the traditional sense because 1.00

01:35:43.360 a man is a man in the traditional sense that is where i see real fulfillment uh in in what i would

01:35:48.320 call a high value woman uh and these examples do exist even if they're not the norm in the west

01:35:53.260 and indeed in societies where they exist the men aren't really putting them out on on social media

01:35:57.540 i really like your philosophy on life because it it transcends the red pill space and i think that

01:36:04.380 this podcast did a good job of showing that there's a solution that you don't even have a doom

01:36:08.880 type mindset i like the the custom-made reality that even in the world where there's so much

01:36:14.400 programming it's there's always opportunity in crisis so there's there's ways to get it out of

01:36:19.680 there if most people are programmed that has never become easier to surpass most people if most people

01:36:24.860 are the competition is weak man it is it really is and you don't realize that until you start

01:36:29.560 working hard every day for six months and then you're going to look back and see all the people

01:36:32.440 that are in the same exact spot 100 so thank you for everything thank you brother appreciate it

01:36:36.260 learned a lot from you i really have i think a lot about the about what you talk about and i would

01:36:40.900 like to see more of your podcast and more information like this i think this is a this

01:36:44.540 is a really good conversation i'm probably gonna watch this back is there anything that you want

01:36:48.200 to plug where can we find you uh in terms of plugging i mean look i'm on instagram it's mostly

01:36:52.560 just lifestyle stuff i enjoy talking with people like yourself especially those who are grounded

01:36:57.680 in the islamic faith i want to do more and more muslim podcasts because i think they're the

01:37:01.260 meaningful ones i don't have much interest in in talking to someone just because they're famous

01:37:05.340 so yeah i'll continue to have discussions with people whose values reflect mine i just as a

01:37:11.600 final message if i could there's a lot of people out there who are claiming to be experts and

01:37:16.580 claiming to push advice and coaching and all these sorts of things just have a look at their lives

01:37:20.740 if someone is going to teach you and be a resource on relationships have they got fulfilling beautiful

01:37:26.960 loyal women around them and families do they have happy healthy children are they living a life that

01:37:33.120 you would like to live if not don't listen to them it's that simple there are so many self-appointed

01:37:38.980 experts out there and young men who are seeking that edge seeking that guidance to become better

01:37:43.820 in life to win at life i get that i was that man for many years i would take any advice i could

01:37:49.020 check the credibility of the source of advice before you implement someone else's belief

01:37:54.680 systems into your life because a lot of the the insights and the knowledge the guidance that's

01:37:59.140 given out there it's given by people who don't have receipts who don't have credibility and it

01:38:03.580 can be quite damaging young men seeking guidance in life that is a good thing just be hyper careful 1.00

01:38:09.080 of the credibility of the source of that guidance i see it as a real risk in today's day and age for

01:38:13.860 those young men looking to level up that's that's my final thought if you will brother and yeah

01:38:18.020 much respect to you and what you're doing man genuinely when i met you well a year ago i didn't

01:38:22.900 know the path you choose you could have chosen hedonism you could have chosen endless women and

01:38:26.780 you could access the hottest women in the planet right with your status you know with your with 1.00

01:38:31.180 your looks with your money you've chosen the straight path i i i give so much respect to that

01:38:35.860 brother and anything i can do to support you on your on your path that is now you know a very

01:38:40.720 much respectable one i'd love to do that or we can go to the mosque in an hour it's juma today

01:38:43.960 I think 115

01:38:45.560 100%

01:38:46.340 Much respect to you brother

01:38:48.320 And what you're doing

01:38:48.880 You're having a positive impact

01:38:50.200 On humanity man

01:38:50.800 It's real stuff

01:38:51.260 Trying to

01:38:52.100 I'll see you guys in the next one

01:38:54.000 This is a great podcast

01:38:55.260 It did cut out with lag

01:38:56.260 But I was able to record

01:38:56.980 The whole thing

01:38:57.420 And a lot more stuff

01:38:58.800 Coming from Thailand

01:38:59.620 I'll see you guys soon

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