SNEAKO - August 08, 2022
These Girls Live in Absolute DELUSION
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Summary
In this episode of What's Complicated, the guys talk about how to get a woman's phone number, how to protect your image, and how to be the best person you can possibly be. They also talk about the difference between a trophy wife and a trophy girlfriend.
Transcript
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Getting a girl's phone number, how long is too long to wait and how soon is too soon to call?
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Um, I'd say just a couple hours after, probably.
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Okay, why do some women give out and even offer up their phone numbers but then ghost you when you contact them?
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Because they don't want to be mean and hurt their feelings.
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But why would some women even offer their phone number?
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They'll like, yeah, yeah, but they're just professional time wasters.
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Asked me for my phone number and I wasn't really into it.
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I would feel bad and still give it to them anyways.
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I feel bad, so I'm just going to waste your time.
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Oopsie, but I don't want to hurt your feelings.
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And then when they started texting me, I would just kind of be short with them.
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But wouldn't that almost be more mean to do that?
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You know, like, I am not good with, like, confrontation.
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So, I would just give it to them because I would feel bad.
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Isn't that like, isn't that leading somebody on?
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Have you ever loved somebody more than you loved yourself?
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If it's a bad thing, why would you ever expect anyone to take risks for you?
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I'll go back and I'll say that it's definitely, definitely worth it.
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You see how easy it is to just break down the logic with just like three simple questions.
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If men typically have to have looks, money, and status in order to attract lots of beautiful women.
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If they have a beautiful ass woman right next to you.
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They don't need to do anything but stand there with a dress on and put on eyelashes.
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Be the exact opposite of how I'm being on stream right now.
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Women often choose to make lists of what they want in a relationship rather than what they
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Because they're demanding and they think that they're the shit.
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Don't say they like you're not part of the problem.
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I think the guys should be the ones showing what they bring to the table.
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The women should be demanding what they want in a relationship.
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Cheating on takes 30 minutes or five, depending on how much you drank.
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Have you ever led a guy on because you enjoyed it?
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Can you picture a guy smiling this fucking hard and nothing?
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I ask guys also, have you ever lied to a woman in order to get with her?
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Do you think that people who lead others on have the right to complain if they get cheated on?
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It's just wasting your time for fun because I don't want to hurt your feelings.
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But she's capping and smiling and you know you lead them on.
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And lastly, who do you think is more likely to forgive cheaters?
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Bro, Chad, they called me Cheeto for like two years, bro.
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Because I was just being honest about like what it was.
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Even fucking D'Angelo Wallace said, I mean, you belong to the streets.
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Baby, you can't believe what I learned from this other bitch today.
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And now because of the practice, I can do it right.
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Because when women cheat, they typically cheat with feelings.
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But they also will yell and just terrorize your brain and mind until they just feel better
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But like, did you really need to put me through all that nonsense?
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Can you have just been like, okay, you cheated.
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Did I really need to go put up with that terrorism of emotion?
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Would you agree it's typically because when men cheat, they typically just want sex.
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More privileged or disadvantaged by their looks?
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Why do you think there's so much talk about things like male privilege, white privilege,
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I mean, it definitely is a thing, and it's just as relevant, honestly.
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What does it mean to be out of somebody's league?
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Most of the time, that definitely means physically.
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So, on a physical level, um, it means that I would never date that person because they're
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Do you believe that less attractive people tend...
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It's just girls that are hotter than other girls.
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The same logic that applies to get a six applies to get a ten.
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I don't know if that's an awful thing to say, but I definitely think yes.
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Do you believe that beauty is in the eye of the beholder?
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Do you believe that less attractive people tend to have more meaningful relationships?
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Because girls like her will just never stop chasing.
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What could she have been that dissatisfied with?
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She's been fucked so much by so many celebrities.
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So if you want to have more meaningful relationships, why would you want to be attractive?
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Why are you going out with and like your titties out and crop top and the purse?
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Like if you just want to settle down, find a guy, attract him and settle down.
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But even when they're in a relationship, girls like who are over six or seven, they'll just
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continue being the object of beauty for random guys on the street.
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All of them stay on Instagram, advertising their body, posting bikini photos even when
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they're in a relationship because it's just like, ah, I just want to look good.
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When it's less about attraction and more about personality and like the way you like connect
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with the person, that's when it becomes more of a connection.
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If it's just physical, then it's easy to be like, it's easy to be, you know, lustful.
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It's easy to be attracted to them for different things.
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So then if you want to have more meaningful relationships, why would you want to be attractive?
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I've never thought about how stupid my double standards are.
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I've never realized how faulty my stupid logic is.
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I've never thought about how the fact I'm unnecessarily happy while guys are getting sadder.
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I think the biggest reason why I want to feel attractive is I know the answer is because
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It makes you want to go after that person you want to go after.
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That's the face of a woman who thinks, I just want to feel good.
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When you like a guy, do you make any effort to.
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Have you ever made this face for longer than two seconds?
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I mean, obviously if I like someone I know I'm going to be seeing them.
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Then I'll like put my makeup on and do my hair.
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But isn't the man also expected to look and act his best?
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So why do so many women think that looking your best is going above and beyond when it's actually
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I've never thought about how stupid my logic is.
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Western women are taught that they don't have to do shit to make you happy.
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Okay, but isn't the man also expected to look his best?
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I think that he should try just as much as we do.
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Why do so many women think looking your best is...
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Going above and beyond when it's really just the bare minimum.
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Because if it was the bare minimum, I would be walking out.
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You know how girls go all out, but guys are just...
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Without, like, male guidance, just the two girls together will just continue to be in La La
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The guy, do you make any effort to impress him, or do you just show up?
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Just depends on the guy and how much I like him.
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Well, if you really like a guy, what kind of effort do you make to impress him?
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If you like a guy, you're not gonna be obnoxious and loud?
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Um, but isn't the man also kind of expected to be respectful?
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As a man, you have to be respectful all the time.
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They're only respectful if they're attracted to you.
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Okay, so is that really making an effort to impress somebody?
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Or is that kind of just the basic expectation of what you should expect from somebody when
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Okay, so what would be going above and beyond then?
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Western women are the multi-level marketing scheme.
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That's the face of somebody who just scammed you!
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We're spending just as much, but we're spending that so that you can get the same experience
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You're getting the experience that you pay for our drinks, you pay for our food, but
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you're getting the experience that, like, we paid for our nails, we paid for our hair,
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we paid for our outfit, so that you can look good with us.
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She paid for her nails and her hair, so you have to pay for everything else?
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I don't give a fuck what color nails you have, stupid!
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Maybe I want to cuddle up and watch The Notebook!
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So if you're dressing for yourself, then you don't bring anything!
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You just said all you do is get your hair done and your nails done!
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Like, we do dress up to look good for other people, but at the same time, like, it's not the real, it's not, like, the priority.
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Like, I dress up so that I can, like, feel good.
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So you dress up to feel good and take pictures for yourself!
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Like, I won't talk to anyone but, I won't, I will talk to everyone but him.
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Like, I'll make it seem like I'm super social, well, I am.
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Focus your energy on your work and on yourself!
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If she likes you, she's gonna talk to everybody but you?
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Pretend like you're not looking good dressing up for him when you are.
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Pretend like you like the same things to an extent.
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Literally, they're just telling you they live in La La Land.
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Girls in the chat, try to defend this nonsense.
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Why do you think women would rather send subtle hints than be direct?
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But they can't even be direct cause it's scary.
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Now, if a woman chooses to be direct and shoot her shot,
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do you think she's more or less likely to be rejected than if a man approaches a woman?
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Oh, I think that people want women to be direct and a guy would find that so attractive and not reject them just for that simple fact, but it's too scary for like in a girl's perspective.
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So what advice would you give to men who fear rejection?
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Well, then why don't women just follow that same advice?
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Because again, like we said, because of that stereotype where the guy is supposed to make the first move, the guy is supposed to ask.
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I would like to consider myself one of those girls where you're pretty direct.
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The one on the left is like, okay, they're on a-
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The one on the right looks like a six because she's with a four, but she's really a five.
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Like I said, have either of you guys ever been rejected?
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I feel like for women, it's more of like, not a straightforward rejection, you know?
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It's not like I went up to the guy, I'm like, hi, like, do you want to go out?
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Like, me making it obvious that I like that guy and him making it obvious.
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You want to know the real truth, how we react to it?
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We sit in our bed for weeks and wonder why we're so fucking ugly.
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I've talked to a lot of women who say they want to be treated like a queen.
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What would you think if guys went around saying they wanted to be treated like a king?
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If I said, I want to be treated like a king, I'm the king.
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But when a girl goes, I'm a queen, everyone's like, yes queen, yes queen.
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It shouldn't be weird because that wouldn't be fair because I hear women say that they
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I'm just curious though, like, like, what, what makes you think that it could be weird?
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I don't, if I heard a guy say, oh, I want to be treated like a king, like, I would be
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She's going to leave this with the same big ass grin that she came in with.
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Because honestly, in a relationship, like, it should be mutual.
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Okay, I wouldn't go around saying I need to be treated like a queen.
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I feel like if I would say I need to be treated as a queen, it's between me and myself and
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Like, I have standards and I don't want someone to treat me like a piece of shit, you know?
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It's between you and yourself, but men have to earn that.
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We can't just believe I should be treated like a king.
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That's why I'm saying ignore these stupid ass pyramid scheme western women, focus on yourself,
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get your money up, and get a girl from another country.
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That guy wants to be treated like a king for nothing!
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They inflate their own self-esteem in their head.
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If he treats me like a queen, I'm gonna treat him like a king, you know?
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It's gross if you say, I want to be treated like a king.
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Like a queen, I'm gonna treat him like a king, you know?
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Why do so many women admit to being complicated, emotional, even crazy, and think that-
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Like, the only time that she's not obnoxious and loud is when she likes a guy.
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Everybody acts like they can be simple, but everybody's complex,
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because everybody's different and everybody feels differently.
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How likely are women willing to accept men for just the way they are?
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They don't go to jail for fucking terrorizing your life.
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Guys in the chat are like, this is a good breakdown.
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She's gonna leave you and take half your money.
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So then why should men accept women for just the way they are?
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I've never thought about my stupid delusional double standards before!
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When it comes to dating, why do people prefer to focus on the rare exceptions rather than the general truth?
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There's so many distractions and so many ways to live in La La Land now.
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Most people spend their whole lives on their phone.
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And if they're all inflated by that, if they're all getting DMs by that, if they're all taking all your money from OnlyFans,
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So they find anything possible that is considered rare to hide-
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Why do you think so many people prefer to talk about the way things ought to be
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Because if they say the way that things are and they say it, then they're going to have to change.
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If they want to say, oh, you know, I really should work out.
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If they say, well, in actuality, what things are right now, I am overweight and, you know, whatever, all this stuff.
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Then now they have to do something to change it.
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And I think that most of us, we shy away from change.
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And related to that, what is the difference between having goals and being delusional?
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I'm a firm believer that your dreams should scare you.
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If anyone tells you you are dreaming too big, don't ever listen to them.
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I think that anything is honestly really possible for people if they put their mind to it in a certain way, in certain things.
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She just went on like a life coach motivational speech.
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And they make so little sense that they forget what they're talking about within 10 seconds.
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This is what happens when you ask them questions.
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Because when they go on dates, they just sit there and look pretty.
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It's really possible for people if they put their mind to it in a certain way, in certain things.
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And it's so funny that the question was about how delusional you are and you just proved it.
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I want to be signed somewhere and be the face of something and show exactly what a celebrity or famous person should really be.
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All these girls get to pretend that they're celebrities now.
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They all act like they're Kim Kardashian without doing shit.
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Look, we put a woman as the most famous woman in the world for taking dick.
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She took dick and put on makeup and goes, hmm, and has never said a coherent sentence in like 18 seasons of television.
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We put a dumb woman in charge of all these women and they've all turned dumb.
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And now they all want to be celebrities without doing shit just like Kim Kardashian.
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Like asking for autographs or do you not know that I was here and here and here?
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I think a lot of people are so like caught up in like their future and like what they need to be doing to get this in the future, whatever.
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Like so many people like are in denial of like the moment, whether it's good or bad.
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Plan like to think about what you want in the future rather than to like focus on what's happening right now and dealing with what's happening right now, if you know what I mean.
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What's the difference between having goals and being delusional?
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Well, your goals have to be like realistic to your like needs and you know timelines and what you're capable and not capable of doing.
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Like you can't just say like I'm going to be a millionaire and then sit on your ass all day.
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You can't say that you want to be rich and not do nothing about it.
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Doing all our normal lives and we go to bed and we think to ourselves, OK, this is what should happen.
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But you don't sit there and focus on I have a great relationship or I have a great life.
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You all you want is want, want, want, want, want.
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And of course, the lesbian is the only woman who's made sense here because she has to navigate women.
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You don't take the time to really progress yourself.
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You don't take the time to really progress yourself.
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That's what these bitches should say instead of any of that and...
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that's what these bitches should say instead of any of that and yeah so when you just think for
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it and you just go for yourself and when you really believe just just say that dummy put
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on your nails and do that hold on i got my tacos are here let me go get my food let me go my food
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all right chat you you you're talking crazy i've been gone for like one second why you