SNEAKO - May 24, 2022This Girl Doesn't Have Pretty Privilege ：(
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the concept of Pretty Privilege and how it affects Black women in the modern era. We discuss how women use their looks as currency in order to get better mates, better jobs, and better social circles.
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like it's not popular to address it honestly. The subject that I'm talking
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about if you saw the title of this video is pretty privilege and for anybody who
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doesn't know the concept of pretty privilege is that you basically get
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treated better in life the more attractive you are. I think I've I've
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always been aware that it's out there I've always been aware that you know
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people specifically women can use their looks as currency as they move through
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a patriarchal society they can use it to get better mates they can use it to get
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better jobs they can use it to get I hate why even say patriarchal society
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every society is patriarchal every society has always been patriarchal
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it's like women because of feminism and everything women realize like oh I am
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viewed as an object and it's because of it no it's because that's just evolution
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I'm sorry chat we're not gonna be mean I love all women women are queens I am not
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gonna yell la dee da and yeah today I just went on my depop and I went shopping
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and I went in the weather and I would do nice things and please donate to me
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because I am wearing a cleavage me be be be I'm sorry I'm sorry I don't know who
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that was that was not me that irony was just that was my father I'm sorry I don't
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know what came over me it's just it jobs that regular looking females regular
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looking women I hate that I said females who I think I am regular looking women
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could never get like being a hostess at a upscale club or you know things things
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of that nature it didn't really bother me until I got a little older and I started
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to take stock of different things that I didn't have in my life which I think we
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do all the time you know people compare themselves to other people it happens
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and I started to just think about all the things in my life that probably would
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have been a little bit easier if I had some pretty privilege so I want to make
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something clear before I go forward I am NOT at all saying in this video that I
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find myself unattractive I actually think of myself as a okay looking person and I
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can really dial it up you know when necessary here by the way is a picture of me
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celebrating my most recent birthday nice makeup to a 10 that makeup took an hour
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she did her hair she did her nails and that's her best outfit she needed to show
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that just to make sure I'm not that ugly everyone look at this proof here but it's
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good no you look good you're right you're like a solid when she starts working I
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don't know but yeah chill out bro we respect all women stop stop we're listening to her
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story we're hearing her truth but pretty privilege is not something that you yourself can decide
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that you have if that makes sense like a lot of privileges it's something that society just
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gives you based on what the systems of society already are like before you even got there so
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no matter how confident I might be no matter how much I might spend on a certain type of wig or a
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certain makeup application style I'm never gonna have pretty privilege and it does bother me and
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damn man chat I feel like she realized this like pretty late in her life she this sounds like this
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seems like a new realization and she must be at least 26 27 maybe you could have figured that out 10
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years earlier I wanted to be honest about it I think so often especially with black women
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we're told to just you know keep your hand chat what are you rating her do you think she deserves
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pretty what are you giving her on a scale of 1 to 10 because we're talking about her attractiveness
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I'm not saying that she's an object I'm saying all women are better than their looks
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but what do you what would you rate her chat if you um were interested in her sexually which
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you're not I mean I'm maybe you are I'm just saying if you had to rate this woman what would you give
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her a lot of sub fives I would say yeah yeah we're averaging on a three four three four five but
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she's a black queen so chat you're all racist all of you are you're all pieces of shit you know that
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right here is racism just looking at racism right above me right you could say sneeko fell off all
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the time everything but you just look at all these bigots all you incels you misogynists how dare you
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rate her and disregard her experience you don't know what she went through she's not just some number on
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your scale hmm oh I'm just a number you could just rate me rate me oh rate me right incels
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you're really all incels chat you're really all garbage for that I would give her an 8
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get up sis actually I'd give her a queen out of 10 don't drop your crown sis I'm sorry oh no not
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I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm okay we're done let's we're gonna focus in I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry
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sis you're strong you're beautiful you but because of that there's really no space sometimes just to
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say ouch like that hurts my feelings it hurts that I'll never dot dot dot and especially for something
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as superficial as just the way that I look so I wanted to take a moment in this video and talk about
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my experience in life um not having pretty privilege and um I really made this video for
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anybody that feels the same way I know I'm not the only person I've read articles online and I've seen
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comment sections where I know I'm not the only person however um I know right now a lot of the videos
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on YouTube about pretty privilege are just people breaking down what it is get to the point man get to
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the point three and a half three minutes and 40 seconds in I'm not gonna yell we're not yelling
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I love women I'm not yelling but it's just like why do you need to talk about if you saw the subject
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of this video we know the subject of the video we clicked on it we searched it it's pretty privilege
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get to the point man you're chatting right now you're chatting I'm not yet I'm not yelling
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I want to hear her story her experience chill people saying hey you may not feel like you have
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pretty privilege but you do I'm not gonna do that here I'm just gonna be honest about my experiences
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and um yeah okay so the first thing I want to talk about when it comes to pretty privilege
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is I want to talk about just the different things I noticed someone in the chat said how do you talk
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about not how do you talk about being ugly for 30 minutes I mean if you break it down and we're not
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yelling today but if you break it down I don't have pretty privilege and that sucks you could
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have reworded that and just said I'm ugly you could have left it at that you don't have pretty
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privilege because you're not pretty why did you need to put privilege you could have just said I'm
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not pretty I'm sad about it you know what I'm saying like we're breaking it down to like everything's
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a socialization and everything it's not pretty privilege it's like you don't just get favors because
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you're not as attractive as other girls I don't know why you got to make it this whole
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Instagram you know what I want to hear her story chill
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that really started to bother me that I'd never experienced just as a woman because I don't have
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as a woman as a woman as a woman sorry so I um showed you guys that picture earlier of me on
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my birthday you're showing it again just like I'm calling myself ugly but here's one more example of
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me not being ugly in case you forgot because I put it a minute ago but just one more time so you see
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and that picture is important to me because that picture kind of set off this whole idea of wanting
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to make this video um I never before really participated in any of these stereotypical
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rituals of going out and dressing up a certain way and that's because I discovered at a really young age
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that when I'm at the club I'm gonna be paying for my own drinks um I was not that's tough bro that's
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tough that's tough she's kind of saying it sucks that I don't get female privilege
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it sucks that I gotta act like a man you gotta pay for your own shit so does everyone else in
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this chat yo chat how many times has a girl paid for your drink at a club how many times has a girl
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paid for anything well let's let's keep it at a drink at a club how many drinks have been paid for
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by women chat because you're like we got like fucking 99% men in here I know what it is there's
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three women and they all hate me they're just watching to tweet something when I say it wrong
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but zero zero you don't drink zero zero zero zero zero zero one time zero zero zero zero same zero zero
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zero zero zero chat okay it's all zero chat have you ever made a video called I don't have pretty
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privilege and that sucks have you ever made a video saying I've never been my have you ever made a video
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saying no woman has ever bought me a drink and that sucks you haven't I'm not I'm not yelling
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chat but you've never made that video you've never made a video saying no woman's ever bought me a
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drink okay she's not saying I'm relaxed I want to hear her as a woman my pretty privilege not the type
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of woman that men would fight over that men would really even approach um so early in my life I was
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like 22 23 and for sure at 25 I decided I wasn't gonna go out anymore so all of my outings um all of
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my fun like let's get together all of all of those things happened at bars and pubs um a lot of the
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times places where I knew that nobody who I would be attracted to would be there and I did that as a
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defense mechanism right I knew if I dress up and I go out to a certain place and I'm ignored it's gonna
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hurt my feelings so I didn't want to do that however for this birthday I decided you know what
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I've been watching YouTube tutorials for years I'm gonna lay a lace front wig I'm gonna do my brows I'm
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gonna do I'm gonna get a dress off of Fashion Nova whatever you feel about Fashion Nova trust me I feel
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it Fashion Nova is you showing out bro the bars low you know what Cass did Cass just made 40 bands he's
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been doing well at his job right now he's in Vegas living it up partying but then a fucking big ass
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Fashion Nova satchel came in and I'm like what Cass is buying like is that where people go to ball out
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now Fashion Nova I didn't know I didn't know I thought that was a meme too I have thoughts but uh
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chat I'm not yelling relax bro we just getting started bro and that's fast fashion someone just
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pointed it out yo it's bad for the environment Chinese kids are jumping off roofs bro outside of
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the clothing that they make um that is meant to accentuate unrealistic body types they
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have some beautiful and very well priced things as well so I'll just say I'm not a huge fashion person
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I don't have a lot of um disposable income I know there's places out there that I can shop in it but
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for me um I went to them and I got this gorgeous dress I'm gonna show here um loved it it fit the
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theme of my party which was mermaid because I'm a Pisces and oh okay one time here um loved it it fit
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the theme of my party which was mermaid because I'm a Pisces and yeah I felt really pretty that night
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and I remember walked was mermaid because I'm a Pisces real quick someone just donated um
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anything will hold you fan I'm becoming more and more of a misogynist lately what would you recommend
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um you know what I I see when you hear shit like this when you hear shit like one more time one more
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time one more time one more time one more time loved it it fit the theme of my party which was mermaid
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because I'm a Pisces I understand I get it but you can't act on that like you can't act on it you
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got to get past the red pill rage phase and just approach it with love because the reason you hate
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them is because you love them so just show more show more love than hate because it's like you realize
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the fact that hate doesn't get you far you know you're just wasting people's time no one wants to hear
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it so accept how they are it's the best the best way to get out of that is just acceptance I'm a
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Pisces and I'm a mermaid Pisces and I'm a woman as a woman who's a Pisces mermaid just let them let
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them do their bro just let them be them we're how we are you know I'm saying they make fun of us too
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and we're not like right now we're here like that sounds silly she's a mermaid Pisces princess
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whatever but they make fun of us I'm here drinking a beer while hey give me a chicken wing
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woo sports yeah wrestle titties you know I'm saying like we could be annoyed too chat they
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you know I'm saying but misogyny hurts more than misandry when women say men are trash and
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everything it's like it's not really hurting no one just hurts your feelings when we like start
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hating women they actually they're you know they're not as strong it's it's gonna they're
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more emotional it's it's hurtful so you gotta boil it just fucking push it down keep it pushing
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and yeah I felt really pretty that night and I remember walking into the restaurant just feeling
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chat am I am I yelling right now am I yelling right now I'm not yelling I'm relaxed come on man
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like and my friend even got me like a little crown and I remember walking into the restaurant
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a crown I just like I was making that princess joke and she literally I'm a mermaid Pisces princess
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with my tiara I'm 29 just feeling like okay like if anybody is gonna notice me it's gonna be
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tonight wearing this I walked in and there was a group of guys sitting down at a table um all guys
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look like they were single guys um you can never tell and none of them gave me any attention
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none of them even looked at me and I had my tiara but uh they were around my age so mid 30s early 30s
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and I walked in and not a single person turned around nobody even nobody budged um I was looking
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kind of around the restaurant you know like you feel really pretty so you're kind of looking just
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to see if anybody's you know all eyes on me you know that kind of thing man she had her tiara she
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was ready to be star of the show and ain't nobody turn around bro that's tough
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let's say what's her birthday what's her birthday if you just hopped in but
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and uh nobody's eyes were on me nobody cared and so I just I immediately humbled myself and I was like
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okay well maybe people are just trying to eat you know maybe these guys I think that they're single
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guys and they're around my age but maybe actually they're dads who get this one night out a week and
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they have wives at home and they're just not worried about me like that okay cool I will take all of my
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expectations and push them down right my friend walks in a little bit later she's definitely lighter
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skinned um she is and all the 30s got it light skin I'm sorry it it is what it is it is what it's
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not I'm not saying it's good or bad I'm saying it is what it is she got all the attention she was
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wearing the tiara and she's fat so I mean she's not she's she's she's a queen she's not fat bro chat
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she's not she's brave she's brave wear that queen but her friend got all the attention and now she's
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jealous half creole haitian why are you so angry at the world I'm not angry bro chat I'm not even
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yelling I'm not even yelling I'm so relaxed right now relax bro bro and half white and I actually when
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I first saw her I didn't even know she identified in any way as black like there was I no way for
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me to tell I didn't see it at all but she was like oh yeah I'm black um you know she's of mixed race
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and um she dyes her hair blonde or either it's naturally blonde so it's it's it's it's tough to kind
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be able to phenotypically say oh that's a black girl like she definitely is somebody who
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I actually thought she was Hispanic I that's what I thought and I know she's married to a Mexican man
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but I thought she was Hispanic um she also has a decent size chest yeah and she walked in and she
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had the girls out and you know just her natural face and she had her hair in this beautiful ponytail
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all those men that I like five minutes before had been like oh they're busy that's
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yo ma let me talk to you where you going hey Rambo come here let me talk to you real quick
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but you and your tiara I'm sorry you were I'm sorry
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is that pretty privileged or is that just being less attractive than your friend
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that's why they didn't look at me they were like
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all eyes were on her not even the dudes there were people in boots or people like everybody turned to
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look at this girl and I said there it is there's pretty privilege the ability to walk into a room and
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no you didn't waste one bit of makeup that's not pretty privilege that's just being pretty
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right is that privilege chat is that just being that's just the simple facts of life
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one you know hair roller one you didn't waste it you're gonna go out and people are gonna notice
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and she actually met her husband you know um I have a lot of friends who aren't married
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and so and they unlike me they still think they're gonna get married
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no no shade at all to them but I just I know like the likelihood of me getting married is so low
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that I don't even I don't even ask I used to ask people damn bro that's sad
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that's sad the likelihood of me getting married is very low
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well someone keeps donating money this dude is saying uh please react to no matter how bad a woman
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looks a Nigerian will smash but she wants a husband
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chat anyone in here would you white would you wife her up can you let hey if we get a match
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making on this stream bro then you no one could cancel me anymore if we find if we find her a
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husband right now chat anyone I bet you right now we can get her on the phone if one of you want
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to wife her up ah any hubbies in the chat ah what
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chat but she's so brave look how brave she is
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she's a queen not wanting all of you are incels all of you are racist all of you are misogy
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chat chat she's brave are you kidding me all of you I mean I don't want to but one of you has to
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she deserves a real man she deserves to be married chat marry her one of you do it
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un-fucking-believable but honestly so predictable that you would be oh her looks is everything that
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matters huh a woman's just a number she's a piece of meat hmm what about her heart
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what about her voice what about up here hmm what about you only rated her huh look at her looks and
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everything right did you ever think about what's up here chat did you ever think what's up here what
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really matters the connection no I don't think you did I think you were just thinking about this
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how old is she I don't I don't know I don't know I'm sorry I you know what I did yell chat I'm sorry
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I don't even ask anymore I'm just like oh good for you but they all asked her they were like how'd
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you meet your husband how'd you meet your husband and I think she was confused because she was like
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like it's hard you know um and honestly she met the dude just at a bar he came up to talk to her
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you know of course he did right so when I experienced that um event I was like wow you
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I'm still not good enough even all dressed up like this then I went out to a lounge a little
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bit later walked in nobody made eye contact with me nobody men have always sort of regarded me as
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oh she's there and kept it moving well why are you mad at us for that for real like I what do you
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want us do you want us to like why are you mad at us for not being attracted to you like there's a
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little bit of resentment like men have men have never looked at me huh what's wrong with you like
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all right I'm dragging it I'm dragging it I'm dragging it but still like she's acting like
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it's not her fault I mean it's not your you don't get to choose how you look but you can also go to
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the treadmill you could get some little plastic I don't know I don't know you know what I don't
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know Chad I don't I don't know I don't know but I don't think you should be making a video
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complaining about it well let's see what her point is and it didn't change just because I had
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dressed myself up I'd finally done everything a girl is supposed to do right yeah that's what a
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girl thinks just that doesn't make you attractive you know I'm saying like chat most I don't know me
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personally I prefer no makeup if I see a bitch with a woman with a tiara on I immediately I'm like
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you just want my attention I don't want to look at you if you're wearing a fucking prince you're what
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you're 34 dressing up as a princess like all right birthday girl you're 35 like you're you got the
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balloon still you're the three four but like really I don't know I'm just personally not into the whole
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like when a girl puts on too much makeup and like she's got the the the weird color eyeshadow and it's
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like it's really clear that she was like doing the watching a get ready with me tutorial for like
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fucking an hour before and you see it and she's looking around like they're gonna look at me are you
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gonna look at me are you gonna look at me are you gonna look at me I'm a queen look at me give
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me attention I don't have any conversation points but give me like it's just man I'd rather get like
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a naturally beautiful I'm I'm more into it when a girl just has you know that fucking college study
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bun in you know a tank top with shorts but all she's got to be bad as fuck like you getting dressed
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up and putting on your nice dress and your tiara I'm sorry it doesn't make you attractive you just
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look like a fat ugly bitch who got dressed up I'm sorry a brave queen who put on her princess outfit
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sorry sorry chat I'm sorry and I still wasn't good enough so I came home and I had a great
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night out with friends but my heart was also I was hurting because I was like I'm always going to be
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invisible even if I try you know so I actually got on YouTube and started looking for a pretty
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privilege and that's how I found out that there are videos out there there are videos out there
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with people that have a much different perspective and then there was a video of a TikTok trend
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um this girl was like oh I'll just show it to you tell me you have pretty privilege without actually
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telling me that you have pretty privilege I'll start this off I don't get ID'd so yeah so after
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sharing her story about not getting ID'd which by the way I've gotten kicked out of the Apple store
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before because someone thought that my driver's license was not my actual driver's license they
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were right you know I've I've been removed from clubs when I was under age like once I was at a
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club in DC with these two girls and they found out we were under age or I was under age and they kicked
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us all out and it was me I was the one black girl and I was with two white girls and the white girl
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turned around to me and she goes I thought we'd be let uh I thought they'd let us stay in there
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because we were with you and I just looked at her and I said that's how it goes for me like I don't
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get special treatment and when I saw the video that this kid now for real though for a little chat
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like on some real shit I don't be mean but like that's tough like that the dark-skinned black woman
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experience in America is way different and a lot of times they get treated like men because I think
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dark-skinned black women and Asian men can relate on a lot of points where you see like girls lighter
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light-skinned girls and white girls get treated like like princesses all the time and then you don't
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even get considered as a sexual being Asian men it's the same thing Asian men in the chat there's like
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probably three of you in here you grow up and you realize oh I'm not even on the roster for sexual
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candidates for these girls I'm not even like it's not that I'm ugly I'm just not in consideration
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I'm not even in contention you know I'm saying I get that that that's that sucks that really sucks
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and also you know it'd be easier if you if you had pretty privilege I'm just saying I mean you're
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made it made me I swear to god I had like secondary uh trauma just from watching it and just thinking
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back at all the times that I've had terrible times in nightclubs because people are very very clear
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with me you are not special and then people started adding on to her tiktok trend right they started
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telling their stories you know oh um when I go out you know uh I never have to pay for drinks or guys
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always buy my drinks and my friends drink so my friends know when they go out with me they're
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drinking for free sicko I feel as if she's mad black I am too and there's nothing wrong with that
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believe me but you can't be salty that your friend got chosen because she was born with good genes it is
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what it is she doesn't seem that salt she's making a pretty respectful video about it so far and she's
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addressing it and I feel like a lot of people can relate I'm trashing her right now but she's
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honestly making like a pretty valid video about a topic that a lot of people think about
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there were girls who were talking about oh well when I go out um or no oh when I'm on social
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media I constantly wake up with money in my venmo and in my cash app because dudes are just sending
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me money chat are any girls in here does that happen you just get venmoed when you go out
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really was bothered by that because every guy I've ever met
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I always feel like he's the bottom of the barrel when it comes to money let me tell you something
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I grew up being very well taken care of so I'm always I talked about it in my Saweetie and Quavo
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video and if you haven't seen it it's on my channel but I'm always um gonna be suspicious of
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transactional relationships where you know um I never expect a man to just take me on a shopping spree I
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never expect I'm actually very giving I'm very you know um I always make sure I'm employed I have
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you know when I was young I would refuse to even get in a relationship with a dude unless I was
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working a full-time job like that's how hard I am on myself about bringing something to the table but
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to know that there are women that just wake up in the morning and go check their social media
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accounts and there's thousands of dollars in there just because they're pretty that it's like okay it's
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not like girls wake up I mean they do but only fans girls most bitches don't just wake up and just
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have thousands of dollars from men they met the night before that's not okay that's that's not what
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happens I understand why she's upset she's like I'm she's out here working like getting treated like
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a man working a job and she just wants to be a submissive girl once in a while like putting on
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her tiara for her birthday and she's still not getting treated like an object like at the end of
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the day all this girl boss thing all this this but girls want to be treated like an object by someone
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and when you don't get she's like look how mad she is bro and she's not even getting noticed
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it's like the same women who say that catcalling is bad will also like start acting differently when
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they don't get catcalled they like rejecting the cat calls it uh it it really messed with me so I
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saw all of that stuff and I was like I want to talk about my life just not having pretty privilege and
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like I want to be honest about some of the things that I've experienced because I want to so I mentioned
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um my dating uh a little bit um how I always kind of find dudes that are not they're not willing to uh to
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to spend the money or they don't have the money and well I do think part of that is you gotta settle
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I'm sorry like you look the way you look you're admitting it you're making a video saying you don't
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got pretty you gotta get the man who's like not willing to spend money on you or is broke that's
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the guys who want you it is what it is that's your market value social media's got everyone warped
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thinking they deserve the top but bro you kind of are what you attract accept it or don't man I know
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that you want to demand I mean it's just it's tough settle because I'm uncomfortable I'm sorry
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for yelling I'm gonna relax she's brave well the transactional relationships I think another part
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of that is because um men who consider themselves to be high earners they consider themselves to be
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high value men they are looking for high value women this is why someone like a Lori Harvey or
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a Sierra or even a Cassie they're not role models to me and they never were um I know like when Sierra
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got with Russell there was all this talk about oh girl what what prayer did you pray what prayer I could
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sit up here all day I could I could live 24 hours a day in a convent just praying to Jesus please please
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I honestly believe that there are certain levels in society and certain men at certain levels are
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looking for a certain type of woman Sierra was not just your regular degular shmegular girl okay
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she's not a seventh grade English teacher from you know nowhere city the United States I'm just being
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honest you see how social media is is affecting all these women's brains why are you even comparing
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yourself to Sierra in the first place you're not gonna get the man that she gets because you don't
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look like her not everyone is gonna get the man you bro settle why like women are like so deluded by
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by these by social media by seeing these celebrities getting the man that they want and like they think
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that they're gonna pray she probably did pray for Russell for whoever the fuck just because you see it on
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social media doesn't mean that it's for you to know your worth you're not her bro you're not
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don't get all fucking mad about it just know what you want
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Sierra is gorgeous she's 5'10 she's a model she is a Grammy winning or Grammy dominated recording star
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I'm not sure if she has a Grammy but she's a recording star her husband even said Russell even
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said I found her and I knew I wanted her when I saw that ride video that she made so he connected
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with her because she was starring in her own music video you know what I'm saying like um so Sierra's
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not a regular person so whenever anybody says oh what prayer did you pray I'm like there are women
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living on that Sierra level like there are women who are able to get that kind of man it's not me
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because I don't have that kind of privilege yeah but it's happening same thing with Lori Harvey like I
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don't believe in um I will admit when a woman is beautiful I'm not a jealous person but I am a
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self-preservation all right chat we're skipping it fuck I was into this video and I gotta skip because
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you guys are ADHD now chat stop L chat because you call me ADHD every day and now everyone's like
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skip skip skip and I'm like legitimately invested in this video for once we usually spend an hour
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clicking through fucking five things at once can I watch something for a second damn don't you want
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to get some information well I gotta be do you want me to scream or not chat because when I'm
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screaming the whole chat going crazy when I'm screaming the whole chat don't stop oh I sit down and
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watch something for a second now I'm being respectful and talking about women now you fucking now you want to
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I'm not skipping I'm gonna watch one more minute spitefully we're gonna spitefully sit here and be
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bored and listen to her story and her experience chat you ADHD incels huh if you don't want to smash
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her we're gonna listen to her story all right okay if you don't want to wipe her up we're gonna let
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we're gonna hear her out we're gonna she's so for example um I won't hang out with a certain type
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of person or when I was younger I wouldn't hang out with someone if I knew that when she goes out
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guys are all over her yeah because I had a friend who that was the case and when I tell you I used to
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get like one time a dude stepped on my foot and hit me with his elbow what to get to her not on purpose
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he was just moving so felt like knocked me out of the way I was nothing I've been in situations
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where uh you know I've had to just go sit by myself while my friend is oh my god being entertained or
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entertaining wow um you know and nobody talks to me the whole night so I don't like being left out
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I don't like being very very clear that they're only talking to me because I'm with the hot one so I
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would never hang out with a Lori Harvey you know what let me back up they wouldn't hang out with you
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her to like get a coffee but she wouldn't hang out with you she wouldn't hang out absolutely I would
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go shopping in the mall but she wouldn't she doesn't like you I would even go have an early
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dinner but things that are low pressure socially um where it's not going to be just so clear why
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would she waste her time with you that one of us is uh really really you know hot and the other one
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isn't because I've been in those situations right where you just if you don't have pretty
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privilege it just feels like you're completely invisible cry about it and I hate that just
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talking about my dating life I do definitely feel like um as a woman who doesn't have pretty
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privilege because when I go out men aren't like their red flags aren't aren't up for me they're
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not looking for me I often um am invisible I'm ignored and I feel like it's a lot of the reason
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why I have such a small amount of relationship experience at my old age I'm just it's like I'm
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not there I'm the invisible woman and I also think it's why I developed such a loud mouth
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um I have people all the time tell me oh my god you're so you're so loud you're so animated
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masculine masculine so that I matter um one of the things that women can do when they have pretty
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privilege is just be there and they matter they can just be standing there they can do um a little
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laugh and all but and you know and they're the greatest thing in the world whereas me I gotta
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come with the jokes I gotta come with stories you know that's what it's like to be a man jokes and
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stories right pretty girls just show up and they should and they add value bro but this is what
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you are mad that you get treated like a man that you gotta make a joke and add a conversation point
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to get the same attention as a pretty bitch that's what it is that's what we deal with you probably
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have a good personality that's why you're making a video being honest because you gotta be
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most most pretty girls don't even have to be honest
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look at my chat spamming minecraft all you are fucking nine bro who is she trying to blame like
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again she's been through tough times but who hasn't simply look in the mirror and say we move
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or why are you crying about how ugly you are on a youtube video you're being problematic hubert
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she is telling us her lived experiences and you're mocking her stop being a 5-2 incel I'm sorry
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I'm gonna listen to her your life is hard I gotta come with support I gotta do so much more
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just to matter oh for example the other week I was on a plane that's right a plane time but I've
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seen both my vaccination shots and vaccination shots so you know whatever I'm on a plane and I was flying
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back to LA for something and this guy got on the plane with me and we had connected and by connected
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I just mean we'd be we'd been standing in the same spot um in the airport a couple different times
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and every time we'd been standing in the same spot he didn't really look at me didn't smile at me oh
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by the way uh I 100 percent feel um I'll talk about my relationship like with men but Steve Harvey said
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a couple weeks ago he's not really friendly with women unless he wants to date them and everybody
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gave him such a hard time he didn't lie that's a lot of men but anyway so me and this is that a
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problem chat do you think you should be friendly to bitches you don't want to fuck
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I mean you could be nice like you could be kind am I gonna hold the door
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am I gonna call the uber I ain't gonna call the uber what do we say chat no top no uber
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and like but why should I give you why do you deserve my friendliness are you being friendly if
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you're being friendly to me first I'll be friendly back am I gonna be friendly for no reason if I
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don't want to man no is that a dub is that a l take chat am I yelling right now am I being an
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insult I'm sorry let me listen to her story guy we had been standing in the same place a lot of
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of the time and he didn't really look at me didn't smile at me um didn't give me any kind of special
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treatment right he gets on the plane and I'm sitting here he's sitting here he's and he oh he gets
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you know what you are chat for saying w take you know what I'm saying now that you agree with me
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you're all incels how you like that you're raging you're probably just insecure you're probably toxic
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you're probably gay you know what chat you've probably been hurt yeah yeah that's what you get
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you like it don't feel don't feel too good huh I'm sorry but you're toxic you're insecure and
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you're gay this one after me and he sits down next to this girl and she had her mask on but she was um
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he was oh he's a black man I was I was black I was black I'm black he's black this girl was not black
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um and I'm only saying that because I think darker skinned black women that aren't pretty
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we pay like double the tax right um and again I'm not saying I personally feel that way about myself
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I think I look fine but fine fine not pretty not beautiful fine good based on the way I'm treated in
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society I know I don't have pretty privilege so I think darker skinned black women that don't have
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pretty privilege we pay double the tax but anyway and by oh stephanie I've been tweaking lately
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stephanie how I've been tweaking I'm trying I'm not yelling today we're going we're calm we're
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listening we're only fuck only halfway through this fucking thing holy shit okay we're not skipping
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though chat stick with me I swear to god we're playing minecraft dude all the adhd shit you want
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we'll yell in discord and we'll be misogynist but just let's watch and let's do her story relax
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the tax I just mean people are already going to write you off for so many things and I consider
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those write off as taxes so you know you go into a situation for the first time and you're a woman
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people might write you off you know they might underestimate you you go into the situation you're
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a black woman oh gosh they might write you off you're a dark-skinned black woman now you're not even
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aesthetically pleasing and then especially if you don't have pretty privilege you know so I feel like
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I call those taxes and I feel like the more things you have against you in a situation the more tax you
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have to pay anyway so he sits here and so I sit here he walks down a little bit further he sits
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here next to this girl who is not african-american I think she was like latina she might have been
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indian something she was like a lighter skinned um woman and she had like this curly hair and she
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had a mask on but you could tell from her eyes like it's a point it's a point right it's at a point
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she's hot so the guy still had to he said nothing to me the whole day right he immediately turns to
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her and starts making conversation w within two minutes she had his job that he does his name
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they connected on social media and I'm mad because I'm uglier and I didn't get invited
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and I'm mad because I'm ugly one most requested item in homeless shelters we get it we knew the
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ending of that story before she said it like chat we're not skipping we're hearing her story stop being
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racist LA for three and a half years I went to also why were you listening to that whole conversation
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she's being there salty as hell like he's not even talking to me wow he works here oh my god he has a
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job oh my god he's probably gonna wife her up and I'm not gonna bro move bro just settle settle get a
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nice man who like leaves bobs and vagine comments on facebook who'll wife you up that's what you deserve
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I'm not saying I mean no you deserve the world queen but that's who wants you
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Stephanie finally read my super chats giving you like 50 bucks is how you treat it you have not
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given I have read all the super chats L for Stephanie chat let's give her a bunch of L's I know she's a
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queen but L for her for saying that to hurt my feelings because not like there's all shit out here
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bro come on man suck my say my boo lay all that so I walk it out yo my CC you say I say my CC yo
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my creole sucks but yeah L for her a party in the Culver City Hills because I had a friend who lived
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there I was never invited and I just I thought about this and I said this is the kind of thing that can
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happen to you in Los Angeles if you have this kind of pretty privilege it can I used to have a friend
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I did improv classes with her and she was like oh my gosh yeah guys stop me on the street when I'm
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driving and they'll pull me over and they want to talk to me and they're like CEOs or this when I
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tell you sorry are you saying you're jealous of girls getting cat called I don't want to say that
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cat calling is good but you would kind of be happy if you got cat called right I feel like she would
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enjoy a couple cat calls most of the traumatic dating experiences I had in LA were because I was only
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matching with people who were like pizza delivery drivers and no shame on those careers if you but
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normally a guy that's in his 30s that's a pizza delivery driver he is what the internet would call
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he's low value man ah ah you're a low value woman and you don't want a low value man
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queen so what you gonna do about it like you know bro pizza delivery drivers want you
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take what you could get I know you want to get married you're gonna still be fighting your ego
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till you're 48 have some nice mid kids with the pizza delivery driver and stop trying to find
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fucking Steve Harvey all right you're not gonna be hanging out with Lori Harvey they don't fucking
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like you come on you're gassing yourself up I'm sorry I'm hearing her story and I'm just a
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misogynist bad as the internet would say um and also it's a person that doesn't really have a lot
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of ambition I note I noticed that a lot of men with real ambition like they wanted to go out and
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become directors and creators and they had just like powerful minds and hearts they're also really
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chasing after a thing of beauty and so if you're not that as a woman I feel like you get men who
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don't have the ambition they don't have those minds they don't have those hearts they're really
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just taking whatever um take I also feel like that take what you get take take what like just
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settle bro that's the moral of the story moral of the story settle chat can we skip this or do you
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wl can we skip this or not skip this moosa clip this I think this is a reaction video did I get
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enough for like can I clip this I can clip this right that was kind of funny was I able to too much
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red pill rage I'm gonna spam it too much I'm gonna clip this I'm gonna clip this we can move on
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you know what everyone who put w you don't want to hear her story and she's being brave and telling
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her experience so we're gonna listen to it okay period period when a woman shares her experience
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it's your job as a man as a man to listen because as a man you don't I ran into a lot of people who
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just wanted to keep it casual I feel like I wasn't good enough you know they're still looking for that
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bright star that woman that's gonna make them open up on a random flight you know and so I definitely
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feel that when you're dating and you don't have pretty privilege um it just takes away from the magic of it
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I have a friend who met her husband I've talked about this before but she literally said he looked
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across the room and was like what is that who is that and they're married to this day expecting their
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second child it was love at first sight look how look how much men objectify you know like when they don't
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like it they'll complain about objectification but she's talking about a marriage that started with
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what is that what is that yeah I want to marry that fucking thing I want to marry that object
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what the heck is that thing women want to be objectified a little bit I don't know women are
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queens and bosses and see but they still want to be looked at like objects too a little bit or else
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you get she's saying she hates having to be a man she hates having to tell jokes and stories and
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she's loud and people think it's not attractive and she gets cute and people don't notice her
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they want to be objectified a little bit I'm sorry that her experience isn't aligned with yours
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but you need to hear her out you're right let me play it you don't have pretty privilege you don't
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get love at first sight you know I'm saying pretty privilege and I'm using it in the sense of you're
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not a person that people are going to treat differently because of the way that you look and I'm not
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another way that sequel how to become a high value woman you're born like one and just so you know
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l stream l queen no you l kid kovach l kick I can't and you're gonna make fun of the the nails
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emojis huh l to her l to you kid kovach huh how you don't like that kid kovach you take this l loser
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loser loser I'm not gonna fuck you loser whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa what whoa what's going on why
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what shut up it affects you it's obviously like your work right I know that in workplaces a lot
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of times I'm not able to get away with certain behavior that other women are able to get away
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with because people look at me and they're like oh wow she's just got a strong personality you know
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I don't have a strong personality and a beautiful face um I also noticed that women who are beautiful
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um uh I noticed that um people are just naturally nicer to them uh they get yeah hey no you know
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what chat you're right put it put it you gotta ayo that I know when I do some ayo shit that was ayo
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I get it I'm gonna take accountability and I'm gonna read the super chat they say they feel ignored but
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they the guys they need to settle for are completely invisible to that that's what it is you exactly thank you
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for saying it okay I'm yelling but look you're here bitching over that you're invisible and you're
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also treating those pizza delivery guys as pizza you're not you're not even you're like yeah look
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at how you view most of the men you see you only want the top ones and you disregard the pizza
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delivery drivers and you're crying when they ignore you that's hypocrisy right yo bro w the fucking what's
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your name wj guys you really suck bro you you should be making these videos on me uh watch 100 black pill
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beliefs for all the people and said to remember me when I donate all right cool it fine chat you want
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to watch this black pill shit or like I'm gonna finish hearing her story and then we'll watch your
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little man video talking about man pills or whatever I'm not yelling I'm sorry chat I did a pawn with all
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these positive characteristics where someone like me I have to work to get people to think about me
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positively I have to come up with all new plans for doing something I have to create it's a good and
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bad thing the first thing is that it forces me to constantly be innovating and pushing forward
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the bad thing is that I never feel like just in my own skin I'm enough to be accepted um because
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that's how men feel men are not accepted in their own skin men need to bring some shit to the table
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look look how you described the men you didn't just you didn't rate them based on attractiveness you said
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pizza delivery driver and director what do you do if you're ugly what you do because you don't look
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good enough to get by by your looks that's what it's like being a man but we don't make videos
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crying about it chat do we huh I'm sorry that you shut up people I'm not you know so yeah and I also
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note that when you work in a workplace um with men you know co-ed workplace and you are a woman
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you get treated a lot differently if you're considered beautiful um no matter how much I did at the job I
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used to have it's the same thing every time we get I was never the person that they wanted to run to
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help I was never a damsel in distress the people that helped me were the kids that I worked with
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hey can we help you do you need anything um we see that you're doing this by yourself can we help
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the guys that I worked with would never come to my rescue and I'm I pull out the guys because
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the other people I worked with would be like oh I just asked Mr. So-and-so oh yeah he came and helped
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me oh yeah they were all but I never got that kind of treatment and so those types of things hurt
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it does hurt um I'm gonna finish this up talking about the Steve Harvey thing so yeah so Steve Harvey
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came out and said um I don't have any female friends and I'm not friends with females because
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then I'll think about wanting to date them and so much uproar happened especially yeah Steve Harvey
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bro clap the shit up chat W Steve Harvey man why would you waste time being friends with women that
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you're not because like your time is important I'm just gonna chit chat with these female friends
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who are who want to date me but I don't want to date them we're just wasting each other's time
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like W Steve Harvey bro let me fucking daughter and I was kind of like why are people pretending
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that this isn't a thing like that it's not a very real personality type and not necessarily that
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it's right but it happens all the time I don't have any male friends I don't there was a time in my
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life where I only had gay male friends because it was like safe okay so let me clarify this the
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friendships weren't just born out of my need for safety shut up shut the fuck up
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experience a hold on this night I have relations on a male and some types of
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myself and explain unless you shut up these are not how did this get a million views bro
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this Steve and yeah trust me I'm not the only one literally look it up it's all over the
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internet it happens all the time I think it's just because if you're someone who's
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attracted to his audio fucked up chat is audio fucked up his audio clip in please don't tell
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me the audio clip in come on don't tell me all right we good men and you find someone who is
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masculine who is artistic who is caring who is compassionate who's handsome who knows how to
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dress um and then at the same time he's talking to you and speaking to you in ways that you're not
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used to because a woman like me with a woman I'm not used to men a woman like me um so he's being nice
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to you uh I think you know it's just natural for your mind and heart to bend in certain ways and
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that's what happened to me but I realized like I'm hiding out in these friendships only because I
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don't want to get my feelings hurt and woof we get it we get it we get it um and also just with
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changes in life and jobs okay now now now now now let the man talk okay sis because you've been
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talking for a while and there's other people that want to talk okay
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sis I need to get I need you to get on my head because you're saying everything that I've been
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saying for years okay she's ugly too let's not forget the light skin privilege and the curly curvy girl
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privilege too that's the same thing that's the same privilege that's the same shit one of the
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most annoying things is having the pretty friend and having your guy friends random man talk to you
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about how pretty your friend is like this is not the conversation I'd be further but if they started
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talking about how hot you were it's like oh my god am I an object are you just gonna objectify me
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they're just gonna complain regardless you know they're just gonna complain regardless sorry that
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your friend's prettier than you like what you want me to talk about your fucking vampire diaries
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what the murder documentary you watched what else you want to talk about pretty privilege doesn't
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mean the individual isn't pretty it just means society doesn't deem you as having the preferred
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phenotype features or textured hair in some cases bro that's what why are you breaking down pretty
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every girl nowadays like it's just the socialization of society and how the images that they portray
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are portraying an unrealistic society beauty they're just better looking than you stop right what
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the desired phenotype yeah the desired phenotype is what's pretty the what pretty is is what's
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majority attract is that a word is what's attractive most of the time to most people the desired phenotype
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being a slim dick bitch got the fucking nice hair got the features that match that's pretty to most
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people stop saying it's society society what you're ugly I mean you're brave uh huh what I've been an ugly
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betty all my life and yes it's painful in order to deal with it I became my own swan unique and
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unreputable self you became a swan word bro look how ugly bitches got to be swans bro chat I'm sorry
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no I'm not yelling but bro you're ugly so you become a swan what the fuck are you talking about
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no her experience might not be I'm sorry what really unique and unreputable you're a unique swan
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chat chat she's a unique swan I'm sorry I'm not yeah okay
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this video made me tear up I know this experience I'm Tony Yuan and when I go to the club with my
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sisters they almost always leave with phone numbers and good conversation I always feel ignored even with
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putting my makeup on my face it hurts but it's a sad reality
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but then they'll complain when they get too much attention they'll complain like oh like the same
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the pretty bitches will also say oh my god I can't even go to a bar and like they everyone just tries
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to buy me drinks everyone just tries to talk okay excuse me man don't talk to me I'm here with my
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friends but when they don't get attention it's this oh my god they don't even want to talk to me
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okay baby you just made me realize I do not have pretty privilege I'm not the girl that guys run
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after I completely understand what you're saying your experience is my experience the only problem
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for me is I'm very the only problem for me is I'm very obsessed with myself now and I don't
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understand why others don't accommodate the pretty I see in myself I'm pretty in my head why don't other
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people read my mind and see that I think I'm pretty and they should also think I'm pretty what the fuck
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are you talking 140 people I'm sorry bro I am just joking it's just it's just a meme hey whoa whoa get
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sturdy get sturdy I'm just joking bro I don't care I'm not a misogynist bro the chat's in cells I'm not
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an in cell I don't care what the comments are saying this conversation's very necessary okay sorry
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sorry sorry sorry sorry sorry I'm not black I'm a light-skinned Indian girl but I've never dated some
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I've never related to something so much I'm sitting in my car crying my I'm sitting in my car
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crying my eyes out I'm 5'9 fat shaped like a man and curly ass hair
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it's like watching all my friends get married and just being a bridesmaid but I'm slowly learning to do things
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for myself once it's safe to travel I'm going on a trip by myself I'm sick of waiting for men
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if I do I'm never gonna find anyone it's time for me to live for me
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man I can't believe they're admitting all this shit on the internet
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Hubert stop taking our money you privileged privileged man
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and get the fuck off your fucking pedestal bro
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